Was in bed with a girl I started seeing the other day, she says she thinks I’m a player and that she doesn’t think she should be hooking up with me. I ask her if thats what she thinks then why is she in bed with me and then she says with a serious tone I’m right and that shes gonna leave at that moment and stop seeing me. I stayed calm, called her bluff, and told her that she’s welcome to leave and that its totally fine. Then she said shes joking and that she doesn’t want to leave. Girls will constantly shit test you, just stay calm, laid back, and take it in moderation, thats the most masculine and attractive way to handle it
I had a woman admit to me that she dates down because those guys are easier to control. Always remember its possible that you are too awesome for her. 🤔
@@jeromebrown5744 only the manly and modern women, if you find a feminine girl she will enjoy being submissive, but only if the guy is man enough to take control
I had a girl telling me she thinks im not attractive, i knew she was bluffing cause i felt the chemistry her actions were telling a different story, she was perusing me, so I spotted the bluff, I stayed confidence, acted like it didn’t matter what she thinks, a week later she told me she wants to kiss me, i told her that cant be..you’re not attracted to me right? She said “things change”🤣 i love women
Currently working on reading your book 15 times. I don't date that often to be honest. I've come to the realization that it doesn't matter how well you play your cards. You can do everything perfectly and some women just aren't interested. Or they were hoping to get something out of you but couldn't because you showed her you are not weak. Each time I mess up I just try to look at it as a learning opportunity and not being hard on myself. The key is just to be your genuine self. Always be true to yourself before her or anyone. That's where nice guys mess up. Putting others needs before others. I'm a recovering nice guy lol.
4:47 here is where Corey says something important, women don’t tell you in your face that they are not that attracted or interested in you. That’s something we need to keep in mind. I already had this with 2 hot girls i dated with, took me a lot of energy and effort to date them. In the end you want a girl that is easy going and nice to date with, if not I move on and never look back! You’re right about everything, keep it going!
This! When you have an abundance mindset- the game changes from one of desperation and needing women to like you, to one of choosing whether someone is a good match or not. Always be ready to walk away because you are a high value guy, and deserve to be treated that way.
My girlfriend broke up with me because she “wanted to focus on school..” so instead of being stressed and chasing I let her do exactly what she wanted. I didn’t contact her for a day and she says “you not talking to me is bothering me..” so I told her I’m not here to be here best girlfriend. She responded with “I’ll happily not talk to you...” when obviously she is contradicting her previous statement. My no contact will start now and regardless of the outcome I will be happy because I learned a lot and became a better me. I’m quite positive she will come back within a month if she is obviously thinking life is worse without me.. lesson of the story to everyone... be your own man and don’t ever give in to a women. If they truly care about you and love you they will always come back. Never chase the cat.
Believe the Lighthouse we ended up talking the following weekend. I let her go. If she leaves it’s in your best interest to just find someone else. Someone who’s willing to work with you. Not against you.
*Bluffing can be a subtle test to see if you’re easily swayed or reactive. Responding with humor or assertiveness rather than defensiveness keeps the interaction playful yet firm.*
some women are great loving and don't feel the need to test their partner and if you wish to meet such women you should definitely read fairy tales you wont be disappointed.
I was tested last night on taking more than 2 days to text back. She said it bothered her. I said hey we agreed no relationship here just having fun. She and I meet every saturday so I'm def not calling/textings the whole week but she has been reaching out more. I keep my distance and reminded her that I don't like to text alot i'll see ya when I see ya and I don't want to get any crap for not replying to texts. After this we had sex and she continued to test me and rag on me for things until she left this morning. And after a few hours i received this text: "My mind has wandered a little since I have been home to this morning!!! You do a good job at making me want you so badly that it kinda makes it seem like I need it lol, if that makes sense...whatever the sex was good!" Thanks Corey!
Notes - 1. Women always test. To check how you react. 2. All women are attracted to most dominant man. 3. Don't use techniques and logics. Just be in moment. So that you look authentic and flirt (Treat her like bratty little sister) because love is playful and fun. 4. Alpha man banter with women and know when women are testing them. 5. Practice interaction with women. Summary - You must know who you are and be comfortable in your own skin and stand with your beliefs. "That's just who I am. Take it or leave it." Don't compromise
I was with a two friends of mine. They are married, a topic of discussion came up. Now my buddy, has always been good with women. He tried to present his argument with logic and reason. I was sitting back just observing saying.. hmm. I know the secret of his wife's action. Everyday, I get closer to being that 3% man. Cheers!
Great video coach. This one really hit home for me. Like you said, even if we practice what you teach, it can all go wrong if you’re not confident in your own beliefs and stand your ground. Love when I watch your videos and have those “ahh yes!” moments.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test: 1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER. 2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all. 3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood. 4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away. 5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away. 6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you. REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST: Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD.
@@DanfromDallas Maybe useful for the first date but behaving like that ina long term relationship from either partner I cant see working for very long as you pretend to be someone you arent and not caring for the relationship problems that will happen xD
Regardless a woman is going to test you especially at the beginning of the relationship. If the testing doesn't slow down when the relationship does get serious then that's a red flag. That means she has serious trust issues. A woman will always periodically test you though. The healthy ones just won't be testing you left and right after she's built some trust with you and knows you can hold your frame. Just set boundaries and learn to say no. That's how you pass these tests. A woman wants a man that she can't have her way with.
I dump women easily and I hold them to a high standard of behavior. I tell them directly that if they disappoint me I will end it. I am not willing to sink months into a relationship that doesn't have a future. If she is a woman who doesn't behave herself properly, she isn't worthy of anyone's time.
Corey - I ordered your 3% book & began reading a few days ago. Compared to your videos, your prose adds humility & high regard for genuine connection aimed at healthy long-term relationships. I was pleasantly surprised. It is a valuable collection to my library & I look forward to quietly contemplating your work.
I really like the idea of being in the moment and not in your head. Something to really think about. I also really like being yourself and understanding the bluff. Thanks for this video.
I'm on the 4th read of your book and everything is really making sense. Obviously I have the ignorance of NOT reading up to 15 times yet the layers of the onion and being peeled. Thank you Corey!
Im amazed that people need to study a book 15 times to understand or be able to talk to the other gender in todays society, hell most studies are easier to pass than trying to know what to say and how to date women today, must been way easier 50 years ago as no one studied or read books about it. How complciated things have gotten today xD
The way I see it most people have been brainwashed so much by shitty dating advice from parents, relatives, religion, movies, songs, peers...etc that it would take this much study and practice to reverse the bullshit in most peoples heads. If there were an easier way that works I'd love to see that. @@judgedeath3
@@judgedeath3 Blame it on TV programs making men weak minded. Not having parents or let alone fathers to teach us this stuff. I recently just had to learn all of this on my own cause my dad is Beta sadly and is in a position in marriage where he's letting my mom take the lead. I don't want that for my future so this helps to select the right kind of women we need rather than be desperate
I'm not into the bullshit games, so if a woman feels the need to bluff or test me instead of being direct with me, then to hell with her. Relationships are so unnecessarily complicated nowadays. So much of the bullshit can be eliminated by being direct and honest, but for some reason, women have this sadistic need to play head games, and that aggravates the living shit out of me. At the first sign of them pulling a stunt like that, I'm out! Fuck it!
+6672rock Ya I'm like that too. Playing games = waste of my time and a general lack of respect therefore my reaction is to call them on it immediately and let them know that there will be no games. If it happens again, I end it. No time for crap.
+Guy 007 Huzar doesn't have any balls and is probably kept on a very short leash by his woman, who probably dominates and verbally emasculates him at every opportunity. You want to take your marching orders from a spineless dishrag like that? I should think not!
Bottom line is that not all women play mind games or waste time so best dump the ones that do and find one that doesn't have bullshit attached. In fact, the women that are strong and confident are ones least likely to play mind games. The ones that are weak and lack confidence are the ones that try to manipulate and play games. Its all they got. Choose the type of woman you want around. BTW once a woman realizes that you cant be manipulated, she will respect you more and the games usually are minimized. You may have to call her on her bluffs and you may need to even drop her and tell her to take a walk. If she comes back, then you will run the show. The thing is, do you really want or need someone like that around. Not likely.
Your mentality is fucked up bro If you are a true alpha like James Bond, you have no trouble about women's test. In fact you cannot fail the test because you own your masculinity. In this way you are impeccable to all tests, its sustainable, regardless of how many time, what type of test you facing. As a result, you have no need to worry about tests, because it aint going to change who you are Been direct, honest/decisive is masculine quality, if you want your woman to naturally possess these quality, all the time, you turn your woman into a man. And why the hell would you want them to be this way anyway, if you are impeccable to their bullshits? You saying that you dont want to deal with this so called bullshits, I can tell you its just your ego cant hold the challenge of owning your masculinity, because it takes too much work and you are not willing to do it, you'd rather all women in the world to change for the sake of you been in your comfort zone
This man is a GENIUS!! I'm currently interested in an ten type woman and he's spot on about how the interaction is between her and say the "fours or fives" I've interacted with before!! Spot on bro!
ahahahahahahh "Oh oh oh wait pls, I'm sry I didn't mean to offend you" hahhaahahh. Even funnier when I realize I once did the exact same thing....it's quite obvious that this guy knows what he is talking about. Thanks Corey I won't be making that mistake again.
Thanks to you and your book I was able to call a girls bluff last night at a bar! It felt so awesome I felt so in control! When I called her bluff she just gave those eyes like "wow he called actually knew I was testing him" lol it was the funniest/awesome thing feeling ever! Thanks Corey I'm goin to continue reading your book. Oh and I got the digits 😎😎😎 just waiting awhile until I call her to set a date to build anticipation 😏
Lord Dorsey got this girl who is clearly interested in me...we chatted for a while and I invited her to come to my apartment. But she said: "From where I come from, guys come to girls"...so I guess she's not willing to come to me! Or...she's only testing me to see if I'm just like the others before me! What should I text her?
and actually i want to say something, we talk about betrayal and how it hurts when others do it across you, but the worst kind is when you betray yourself and you comprimise and go back on your beliefs. Your beliefs do matter, shes not going to care much when shes pissed on a night out let alone remember much in the morning if you do text her. If you want a relationship with someone men or women night outs are never the best way, you'll get a quick bunk up and that will be it - you want to court a woman take her out do it when shes not hammered and has more chance of remembering you in the morning
This is gold! The internal constitution is so vital. Just using techniques without believing in yourself never works. I remember being a young inside sales rep handed a phone script. Right away I noticed guys that read without conviction didn’t have success. The script only works if you believe in yourself. I see how this applies in dating. Thank you Corey!
It wasn't all the time, but I remember as a kid doing certain things purposely to test my parents and other adults reaction while also knowing at the time, that what I was doing was exaggerating, or blowing up a small situation into a big one (like not getting what I wanted), even though I know it wasn't the proper way to express myself and also with the knowledge that being a child meant I had more leniency since adults around me treated me with the utmost care. I was also aware that this care from adults would eventually diminish the older I get from observing news media on how devastating it is for a child to suffer or die than it was for a 40 year old nobody adult. I was eight years old when I came to this realization and I took advantage of it. No doubt children, humans in general are in constant battle with each other in shit testing to oblivion for worthiness and that was a bitter pill to take, makes everyone seem superficial/programed/shallow.
So true. I constantly tested my teachers in middle school to see how often I could put bullshit answers on my assignments and get away with it. Worked very well most of the time lol.
Pssttt... I know this was 8 yrs ago Corey But please for the love of God edit this comment and talk Bill Cosby out of this list. And probably Brad pit too. He got away with cheating on Jennifer Anniston because he is very handsome narcassitic men use that to their advantage. But his true colors came out when he abused Jolie’s kids on an airplane drunk. Yes raging alcoholics definitely don’t belong on the list of smooth men. He did Jennifer a favor by taking advantage of Jolie at a vulnerable point in her life. But even she eventually woke up. He didn’t have skills he had money and looks he hide behind. And Cosby drugging women these two are not Casanova’s for sure they aren’t even real. Just Abusers hiding behind an avatars and money that fools the ones who want to be blind! I have met a few myself so I know. Being smooth and being a manipulative exploitive abuser is not the same thing! But in the beginning it all looks the same. Becareful out there
and you can feel it in guys when they have the swagger. i remember some guy saying he couldnt tell me where he worked because it was top secret and i was like okay 😀 it probably wasnt real but i enjoyed his stories. Id play along 😛
This is why more than one girl is necessary. When bs comes, politely call it. Then ghost over to the other ones. Always be in control. Until there is exclusion…always have options. And keep your game freakn tight. Especially when you feel you’re on top or when you’re sure you are in. Bro…if you let your game tilt it’s on you. Be the man and do man stufff with man decisions. Options will always be around.
The person I been dealing with been testing me she would break things off with me and stay stuff to make it feel like there’s no chance of us being a thing but stayed otp with me to see how I would react. Finally after doing it a lot of times after we split up and got together but still being otp all the time she told me she been testing me to see how strong I am as a man because she’s had a lot of bad outcome in past relationships so now she’s atp we’re she wants to be more wise with who she spends her life with
This gent really gives a practical breakdown (he knows the game .. because he owns the game .. it's a lifestyle for him .. ). The oooooonly thing in this video I see things differently on is that while '10 rated' women get hit on here and there it isnt quite as much in smaller cities / towns as in the big city. The odd 9-10 in smaller towns or areas does not get hit on much due to somany dudes being intimidated. By one simply making the move it sets them apart from so many. Now.. the woman have BETTER quality men hitting on them when they do get hit on (men with stature .. alpha males .. men with plenty of dough or in high professions / positions in life). Now .. once you approach you MUST have that confidence, energy, charisma .. and charm .. and know how to talk to women ... w/o it being phony. Annnnnd if you LIVE it .. you just ARE that guy (James Bond) like the gent in the video ..women easily pick up on it .. and you are golden regardless of how much dough one has or what they do (it doesn't matter at that point). This guy Corey Wayne has 'become' it .. it's who he is. That is the goal .. It's not even a skill / skills ya have at some point .. you are so used to doing it .. its simply jus who ya are when interacting with women. IF one can do that .. it is the ultimate level .. as this gent has achieved that .. he's gotten there over the years (and that's what he is trying to get folks to understand / trying to teach). Great stuff -
Quite frankly dude, I don't understand your question or what you are talking about. Take some time to write out your questions and spell check it. Proof read it so it makes sense to you when you read it back. I do when I write. If you know that what you wrote does not make sense to you, how do you expect me to make any sense of what you were thinking in order to answer your questions effectively?
"Dignity" covers all aspects of masculinity. By pursuing and developing dignity, you will be congruent in your thoughts words and actions (think what you feel, say what you think, and do what you say). With dignity you will be stable, sustainable, centered, objective, efficient, effective, simplistic, calm, assertive, humble, grounded, deep rooted, balanced, healthy/balanced psychological state of mind (healthy/balanced relationship between your emotions, thoughts, and physical states), healthy/balanced physical body, healthy/balanced sexual vitality, healthy/balanced masculinity to femininity, you will develop fortitude, forbearance, accountability, right your wrongs, face your fears, acknowledge your flaws, etc. The more that you develop dignity, the more you will be truly grounded and congruent in your thoughts words and actions, n thus, the more you will pass her "shit tests". This is win-win. This is ultimately what women are looking for when they test.. that a man is safe, dependable n stable, and where she can trust him to feel safe n secure in his masculine (dignified) presence, so that she can move out of "her" masculine and ease into the fragility of her soft, submissive, beautiful femininity
Coach .. Thanks a ton dude.. Learnin a lot n gettin results.. I could have used this a long time ago, but hey... better late than never..!! Im findin once you learn some of this stuff dealin with women in general is so much easier . Just makes life easier..!! Thanks again..!!
i think the reason shes told you when a guy calls her constantly and thats how hes letting her know its because she feels in control, and depending on her the more she ignores you its boosting her confidence but at some point shes gunna change her number.
Yeah but after a million tests guys just get tired of it and walk away. The problem is all the cosmos they read written by salty woman who were hurt and didn't want other woman to be happy
I wish I would have seen this video a month ago. The woman I've been interested in seriously dating for awhile bluffed to test my strength saying I was too over weight to be physically attractive. I got upset cussed her out for waisting my time & money and we have not talked since. In the meantime she's been watching my social media post and liking them. I did not know that was a test at the time but I did tell her, since she doesn't want to set up another date, call me when she changes her mind.. I understand jokes and test but this seemed to go too far and I don't appreciate disrespectful test. We'll see what happens but after that I don't think I'll ever want anything more then to be f*** buddies. So just like you say coach, I'll treat her like the other 4 women who I sleep with
Ok, it's been awhile . . Did anything ever progress from your scenario ? Do you have a different outlook on that situation now? Thoughts, reflections . .
You're giving way more value to women than they deserve. At the end of the day women are humen like us and they are in no position to "test" us. No woman has ever tested me, but if they do i think my reaction would to let her know her place in a non-insulting and funny way so that she knows that she has in no place to test me, i have already passed my test in life. And since we guys are the ones who choose their partner and not the other way around i suggest guys to look for girls who are attractive enough but more importantly have a good character. If u see a girl who considers herself above u just prove to her that she is not that good and that you are doing her a favour by showing her attention or just straight up walk away. I had a girl in my life who thought she was higher than me, i just walked away from her. A month later she is back cooking me food and constantly trying to get my approval but i still show no real affection to her,just enough to keep her chasing me and not feel rejected.
Guys don't choose shit. Women do. It's like that in the entire animal kingdom as well. You are getting things confused. When we men see a woman that we are interested in and we approach (This is not choosing.) We are just casting a fishing rod out to see if she bites. She's the one choosing because she can "choose" whether or not she wants to deal with us or not. And if she doesn't? Oh well, we just cast that fishing rod back out there.
First date - First half of the date: Girl kept testing me, criticizing my responses, called me a nerd, looking for things to argue about, she even said "What would you do if I went to the bathroom and didnt come back?" I kept cool, shrugged and said "Oh well". I can handle it. {Don't blame women for acting like this, blame weak men} Mid date I test her back - I walked a bit in front of her, and told her I had to do something across town - she invited herself and asked if we could get food after. Told her jokingly if she behaved, we'll see. To get to where we needed to go we walked down a steep hill and her shoes were hurting, I told her to take off her heels and she said no, give me your socks. Told her I'm not taking off my socks - Instead, I carried her down these steep steps about 200 ft, she loved it. The rest of our date she got friendlier, even started talking about how she likes massages, held my hand. Our second date she didn't even care what we did or where we went, was just happy to be there and she was nice, no guard up like the first time. For the third date I'm being patient - letting her feelings develop a bit more, give her some time to miss me before I text her to meet up. Currently trying to prove Corey's point that after sex which usually comes on date 2-3, women will start initiating contact when they want to make plans. This girl is an introvert with no social media so excited if it works!
@@spencerwilliams461 Sure, it took her 3 weeks to reach out for third date, smashed and been seeing her casually about 3 months. She does 80% of the reaching out, jokes I'm busy with other girls and I don't deny it, as long as I treat her right. After the first time having sex , let her reach out 80% and she should self-qualify herself more and more to why she deserves to be in a relationship. Pull back a little, see if she starts putting in more effort and gauge her interest.
Went to a bar one day. I was bored and decided to speak to two young ladies. I asked them about females and what they see in their boyfriends. I could tell they were bullshitting me a little. I asked one of them, on a scale from 1-10 how do I look. They said 2, obviously they were joking with me. So I insulted one back in a funny way. Then they said your actually a 8 but your personality puts you at a 9. They said I was just like their boyfriends. One even tried to pull my man card because I had a drink that didn't have straight alcohol. So I said name any drink and I'll out drink you and your boyfriends with it. So both of them brought me a drink. At this point I destroyed the drinks in no time. Both were amazed. One even ask for my number. She even tried to set me up with one of her other friends.
7:26 reminds me of an ex of mine. She always contradicted herself. I wouldn't say anything to reveal she was. I loved hearing her say one thing and then within a few sentences or later down the road she would say something that was the opposite of what she said before. it happens alot.
I remember a girl was over, and she criticized a shelf in the house being uneven. It was so random, and I didn't understand why she was giving me crap for it, but now I know she just wanted to see my reaction.
I went on a date with a girl a week or two ago, she travelled to come see me but was very quiet and hard to converse with. I asked her out again in case it was just that she was nervous or whatever but she said it was more like we were friends and something like she doesn’t want to lead me on, I’m yet to reply to her, I wasn’t sure if she was shit testing me or not
Great content, Thanks for posting these videos. Because of these I found your book. It will be here Saturday. With that being said I will read it more than 15 or 20 times plus take notes from it and write the stuff down so that it sticks. I just don't want to be one of those guys that read it one time and think they know it, then get in a situation and start cherry picking from it. Lol Also I am going to get the audible version aswell so that I can listen while I read it. I think that helps in Learning and internalizing things.
Thanks Coach, great video. Just went through an experience like this on Thanksgiving Day. I'd give myself a 6.5/10... Still a work in progress but I'm getting there. By the way, looking sharp in the new profile pic! You da man!!
The sneakiest test is when they flirt or show sexual interest just to see how excited you get. To see if you'll forget what you're even talking about. The more excited, the more clingy or thirsty you are. The less, the bigger the indicator that your tested all the time and her erotica means nothing, thus you encounter female interaction all day and are comfortable around their nature; thus a high quality or alpha male. Stay cool out there. Listen to what she's saying, address it kindly and seriously, and ignore how she's making your manliness feel.
Politicians also stumble on their words bcuz they have to choose their words very carefully. One wrong word could cost their campaign; and everybody that's been working so hard on their campaign for them will be let down. One wrong word could be misconstrued and unintenionally offend millions of people, and cost the politician their entire career in politics.
2:40 All dominant alpha males know how to interact, play, and banter with women. They understand women, and they can also tell when a woman is about to test them - or is the process of testing them. *They’re doing it to see how you react; how you handle yourself - to test your strength and see if you get it and know how to play.* How would you treat a bratty little sister? 4:58 Women can’t help but always be testing the strength of the guys they’re talking to. And if they’re friends with a guy, they’re going to want to mess with them. If you want to get a woman who’s a total 10, you’ve got to get really good interacting with the 4’s and 5’s. because the alpha female, very successful and is in good shape - she gets approached constantly, so she has to become quicker and better than your average woman at sizing a guy up, trying to determine if he gets it or not, and then rejecting him quickly if he doesn’t. Otherwise, she’d never get anything done in her life. So you’ve got to be on your toes, and there’s very few things before she’s testing and sizing you up, then she’s already onto looking for the next guy - and you’re done; you’ve lost. 8:54 They want to know through one or two questions, bantering back and forth - do you get it? Do you know how to play? Do you know that love is playful and fun? Do you know not to be so serious, but just to be in the moment? That’s what they’re trying to get to, because if you don’t get it, they want to reject you - and then get on down the road. Most guys have absolutely NO IDEA when it comes to checking this out - so this is a super important thing with women, is that they’ll bluff to test you - *so the key is that you need to know who you are, you have to know what you believe and you’ve got to be comfortable in being yourself. YOU HAVE TO HAVE A STRONG INTERNAL CONSTITUTION AND BELIEF IN YOURSELF & WHO YOU ARE. And you have to be willing to stand your ground* even if your friends or a woman you really like says, “Well that’s not exceptable, I’m going to reject you.” “Id never go out with you because X.” Well that’s just YOUR loss! ;) You have to be willing to lose women you like, because they say they don’t like you. (CW using profanity, as an example) Because if you not you’ll just keep getting rejected.
I'm listening to these videos and I like them and I'm learning alot but I tell you one thing if this doesn't work out with the lady I'm with now I'm done I'll stay single for the rest of my life because I just don't have the time to add to a woman's happiness and I really don't care for these test these women give.
I feel like you're getting it wrong. The more I watch this guy's videos, the more I gain a deeper understanding of how to handle these tests. In summary: you have to be strong from within, so that your response to these tests is natural and effortless. If, on the other hand, you are weak from the inside, then no amount of technique or game can help you pass these tests (Women can tell the difference between strong and weak men, like Corey says). You have to get to the point where you actually love, appreciate yourself, and feel whole by yourself. Once you get to that point, a woman's disapproval of you will not shake you whatsoever, and it will FEEL NATURAL TO YOU. Why? Because you're a fucking catch, and you need to appreciate yourself more. If you can't love and appreciate yourself, people won't do that for you! Hope this helps.
I watch your videos all the time and a lot of it you make a lot of sense with your videos and I am the type of man that if you don't accept me for who I am or what I tell you then it's your loss because I'm not changing my mind on anything that I say or do I do with what I want when I want how I want and if you don't like it oh well I see you and I'll tell any female today tell her that to her face it doesn't matter with me yeah I'm a desire you but I don't need you and I will tell any woman on the planet that I'm My Own man I don't need you.
The problem: Unless she's madly in love with you, if she doesn't find you worthy of her tests, then she doesn't find you worthy of her time. The solution: A woman with low to no interest isn't worthy of your time. Walk away and meet a new lady who is highly interested.
Was in bed with a girl I started seeing the other day, she says she thinks I’m a player and that she doesn’t think she should be hooking up with me. I ask her if thats what she thinks then why is she in bed with me and then she says with a serious tone I’m right and that shes gonna leave at that moment and stop seeing me. I stayed calm, called her bluff, and told her that she’s welcome to leave and that its totally fine. Then she said shes joking and that she doesn’t want to leave. Girls will constantly shit test you, just stay calm, laid back, and take it in moderation, thats the most masculine and attractive way to handle it
King shit
Bravo!
Wow!
That's a very poor bluff IMO. 🍻🍻
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STOP reading comments!
Listen to Corey
Man right on point you are. Thanks
19 of us cant resist.
gorila6565 You made me cry from laughs my dude!
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Holy shit you’re right, hahahaha didnt pay attention to corey, read all the comments instead
I had a woman admit to me that she dates down because those guys are easier to control. Always remember its possible that you are too awesome for her. 🤔
That is the end game for them, control and manipulation.
@@jeromebrown5744 only the manly and modern women, if you find a feminine girl she will enjoy being submissive, but only if the guy is man enough to take control
She was testing you.
Never thought of the awesome part... Thanks...
That is bullshit son! The women that do date down are eventually miserable. Women don't want to win, they want a winner.
I had a girl telling me she thinks im not attractive, i knew she was bluffing cause i felt the chemistry her actions were telling a different story, she was perusing me, so I spotted the bluff, I stayed confidence, acted like it didn’t matter what she thinks, a week later she told me she wants to kiss me, i told her that cant be..you’re not attracted to me right?
She said “things change”🤣 i love women
She's a lez? You said, she loves women.
Always a quality exchange
This was a content text to read haha
Currently working on reading your book 15 times. I don't date that often to be honest. I've come to the realization that it doesn't matter how well you play your cards. You can do everything perfectly and some women just aren't interested. Or they were hoping to get something out of you but couldn't because you showed her you are not weak. Each time I mess up I just try to look at it as a learning opportunity and not being hard on myself. The key is just to be your genuine self. Always be true to yourself before her or anyone. That's where nice guys mess up. Putting others needs before others. I'm a recovering nice guy lol.
4:47 here is where Corey says something important, women don’t tell you in your face that they are not that attracted or interested in you. That’s something we need to keep in mind. I already had this with 2 hot girls i dated with, took me a lot of energy and effort to date them. In the end you want a girl that is easy going and nice to date with, if not I move on and never look back! You’re right about everything, keep it going!
Be willing to leave.
I'm ur 69th like.. good luck
This!
When you have an abundance mindset- the game changes from one of desperation and needing women to like you, to one of choosing whether someone is a good match or not. Always be ready to walk away because you are a high value guy, and deserve to be treated that way.
My girlfriend broke up with me because she “wanted to focus on school..” so instead of being stressed and chasing I let her do exactly what she wanted. I didn’t contact her for a day and she says “you not talking to me is bothering me..” so I told her I’m not here to be here best girlfriend. She responded with “I’ll happily not talk to you...” when obviously she is contradicting her previous statement. My no contact will start now and regardless of the outcome I will be happy because I learned a lot and became a better me. I’m quite positive she will come back within a month if she is obviously thinking life is worse without me.. lesson of the story to everyone... be your own man and don’t ever give in to a women. If they truly care about you and love you they will always come back. Never chase the cat.
What happened?
Believe the Lighthouse we ended up talking the following weekend. I let her go. If she leaves it’s in your best interest to just find someone else. Someone who’s willing to work with you. Not against you.
Logicalicious. Good move.
All the best.
👍🏼 you got my respect bro!
currently happening w me good advice
*Bluffing can be a subtle test to see if you’re easily swayed or reactive. Responding with humor or assertiveness rather than defensiveness keeps the interaction playful yet firm.*
some women are great loving and don't feel the need to test their partner and if you wish to meet such women you should definitely read fairy tales you wont be disappointed.
Haha
Not a Bandwagon awesome come back! Bro
ROTFLMAO 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Well I did meet one who looked like an elf... I just dressed up in Lucky Charms... she was magically delicious.
Yep. I teach guys strategies on how to get to that place.
I've had women tell me Girls are worse than men with lockeroom talk. So I guess go for it. Ya got nothing to lose 👍
That's how you get better... practice. Good job!
I was tested last night on taking more than 2 days to text back. She said it bothered her. I said hey we agreed no relationship here just having fun. She and I meet every saturday so I'm def not calling/textings the whole week but she has been reaching out more. I keep my distance and reminded her that I don't like to text alot i'll see ya when I see ya and I don't want to get any crap for not replying to texts. After this we had sex and she continued to test me and rag on me for things until she left this morning. And after a few hours i received this text: "My mind has wandered a little since I have been home to this morning!!! You do a good job at making me want you so badly that it kinda makes it seem like I need it lol, if that makes sense...whatever the sex was good!"
Thanks Corey!
Notes -
1. Women always test. To check how you react.
2. All women are attracted to most dominant man.
3. Don't use techniques and logics. Just be in moment. So that you look authentic and flirt (Treat her like bratty little sister) because love is playful and fun.
4. Alpha man banter with women and know when women are testing them.
5. Practice interaction with women.
Summary - You must know who you are and be comfortable in your own skin and stand with your beliefs.
"That's just who I am. Take it or leave it." Don't compromise
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I was with a two friends of mine. They are married, a topic of discussion came up. Now my buddy, has always been good with women. He tried to present his argument with logic and reason. I was sitting back just observing saying.. hmm. I know the secret of his wife's action. Everyday, I get closer to being that 3% man. Cheers!
I used to watch this channel all the time. Served me well. Had to revisit it recently. And usually refer my friends to it.
Great video coach. This one really hit home for me. Like you said, even if we practice what you teach, it can all go wrong if you’re not confident in your own beliefs and stand your ground. Love when I watch your videos and have those “ahh yes!” moments.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test:
1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER.
2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all.
3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood.
4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away.
5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away.
6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you.
REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST:
Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD.
@@DanfromDallas Maybe useful for the first date but behaving like that ina long term relationship from either partner I cant see working for very long as you pretend to be someone you arent and not caring for the relationship problems that will happen xD
Shit test.
Regardless a woman is going to test you especially at the beginning of the relationship. If the testing doesn't slow down when the relationship does get serious then that's a red flag. That means she has serious trust issues. A woman will always periodically test you though. The healthy ones just won't be testing you left and right after she's built some trust with you and knows you can hold your frame. Just set boundaries and learn to say no. That's how you pass these tests. A woman wants a man that she can't have her way with.
I dump women easily and I hold them to a high standard of behavior. I tell them directly that if they disappoint me I will end it. I am not willing to sink months into a relationship that doesn't have a future. If she is a woman who doesn't behave herself properly, she isn't worthy of anyone's time.
Always maintain composure
Corey - I ordered your 3% book & began reading a few days ago. Compared to your videos, your prose adds humility & high regard for genuine connection aimed at healthy long-term relationships. I was pleasantly surprised. It is a valuable collection to my library & I look forward to quietly contemplating your work.
I really like the idea of being in the moment and not in your head. Something to really think about. I also really like being yourself and understanding the bluff. Thanks for this video.
True. U have to find out who u r, what u want, and defeat ur shyness, totally align with urself
I'm on the 4th read of your book and everything is really making sense. Obviously I have the ignorance of NOT reading up to 15 times yet the layers of the onion and being peeled. Thank you Corey!
Im amazed that people need to study a book 15 times to understand or be able to talk to the other gender in todays society, hell most studies are easier to pass than trying to know what to say and how to date women today, must been way easier 50 years ago as no one studied or read books about it. How complciated things have gotten today xD
The way I see it most people have been brainwashed so much by shitty dating advice from parents, relatives, religion, movies, songs, peers...etc that it would take this much study and practice to reverse the bullshit in most peoples heads. If there were an easier way that works I'd love to see that. @@judgedeath3
@@judgedeath3 Blame it on TV programs making men weak minded. Not having parents or let alone fathers to teach us this stuff. I recently just had to learn all of this on my own cause my dad is Beta sadly and is in a position in marriage where he's letting my mom take the lead. I don't want that for my future so this helps to select the right kind of women we need rather than be desperate
I'm not into the bullshit games, so if a woman feels the need to bluff or test me instead of being direct with me, then to hell with her. Relationships are so unnecessarily complicated nowadays. So much of the bullshit can be eliminated by being direct and honest, but for some reason, women have this sadistic need to play head games, and that aggravates the living shit out of me. At the first sign of them pulling a stunt like that, I'm out! Fuck it!
+6672rock Ya I'm like that too. Playing games = waste of my time and a general lack of respect therefore my reaction is to call them on it immediately and let them know that there will be no games. If it happens again, I end it. No time for crap.
+Guy 007 Huzar doesn't have any balls and is probably kept on a very short leash by his woman, who probably dominates and verbally emasculates him at every opportunity. You want to take your marching orders from a spineless dishrag like that? I should think not!
Bottom line is that not all women play mind games or waste time so best dump the ones that do and find one that doesn't have bullshit attached. In fact, the women that are strong and confident are ones least likely to play mind games. The ones that are weak and lack confidence are the ones that try to manipulate and play games. Its all they got. Choose the type of woman you want around.
BTW once a woman realizes that you cant be manipulated, she will respect you more and the games usually are minimized. You may have to call her on her bluffs and you may need to even drop her and tell her to take a walk. If she comes back, then you will run the show. The thing is, do you really want or need someone like that around. Not likely.
+Asif Rashid reason y I don't think twice about dating single moms, Afterall she chose to get knocked up by the guy who can flirt with her
Your mentality is fucked up bro
If you are a true alpha like James Bond, you have no trouble about women's test. In fact you cannot fail the test because you own your masculinity. In this way you are impeccable to all tests, its sustainable, regardless of how many time, what type of test you facing. As a result, you have no need to worry about tests, because it aint going to change who you are
Been direct, honest/decisive is masculine quality, if you want your woman to naturally possess these quality, all the time, you turn your woman into a man. And why the hell would you want them to be this way anyway, if you are impeccable to their bullshits?
You saying that you dont want to deal with this so called bullshits, I can tell you its just your ego cant hold the challenge of owning your masculinity, because it takes too much work and you are not willing to do it, you'd rather all women in the world to change for the sake of you been in your comfort zone
Men should also test women. If you don't, then your putting yourself in a precarious predicament.
This man is a GENIUS!! I'm currently interested in an ten type woman and he's spot on about how the interaction is between her and say the "fours or fives" I've interacted with before!! Spot on bro!
ahahahahahahh "Oh oh oh wait pls, I'm sry I didn't mean to offend you" hahhaahahh. Even funnier when I realize I once did the exact same thing....it's quite obvious that this guy knows what he is talking about. Thanks Corey I won't be making that mistake again.
Thanks to you and your book I was able to call a girls bluff last night at a bar! It felt so awesome I felt so in control! When I called her bluff she just gave those eyes like "wow he called actually knew I was testing him" lol it was the funniest/awesome thing feeling ever! Thanks Corey I'm goin to continue reading your book. Oh and I got the digits 😎😎😎 just waiting awhile until I call her to set a date to build anticipation 😏
Lord Dorsey got this girl who is clearly interested in me...we chatted for a while and I invited her to come to my apartment. But she said: "From where I come from, guys come to girls"...so I guess she's not willing to come to me! Or...she's only testing me to see if I'm just like the others before me! What should I text her?
Matteo Quintavalle remember phone is just for setting date bro. Don't chat her up through the phone just call her and set a date.
Joel Villarreal you probably didn't have fun then cause I don't remember anything from when I had my first beer so that means I had a great time
Joel Villarreal I know dude that's why I replied back with a silly/rude comment no hard feelings friend 😀
Lord Dorsey that was a great Alpha Male joke. Bitches love hearing that kind of shit that's the kind of humor we need to be showing women, gentlemen.
and actually i want to say something, we talk about betrayal and how it hurts when others do it across you, but the worst kind is when you betray yourself and you comprimise and go back on your beliefs. Your beliefs do matter, shes not going to care much when shes pissed on a night out let alone remember much in the morning if you do text her. If you want a relationship with someone men or women night outs are never the best way, you'll get a quick bunk up and that will be it - you want to court a woman take her out do it when shes not hammered and has more chance of remembering you in the morning
I want to say something to you too
I.e when are you free toget together?
Don't compromise.
This is gold! The internal constitution is so vital. Just using techniques without believing in yourself never works. I remember being a young inside sales rep handed a phone script. Right away I noticed guys that read without conviction didn’t have success. The script only works if you believe in yourself. I see how this applies in dating. Thank you Corey!
all people test you,even kids test you out,to see what they can get away with.(this was very "insightful"
yes, and the emotional behavior of kids and women really isn't all that unsimilar, if you think about it.
It wasn't all the time, but I remember as a kid doing certain things purposely to test my parents and other adults reaction while also knowing at the time, that what I was doing was exaggerating, or blowing up a small situation into a big one (like not getting what I wanted), even though I know it wasn't the proper way to express myself and also with the knowledge that being a child meant I had more leniency since adults around me treated me with the utmost care. I was also aware that this care from adults would eventually diminish the older I get from observing news media on how devastating it is for a child to suffer or die than it was for a 40 year old nobody adult. I was eight years old when I came to this realization and I took advantage of it. No doubt children, humans in general are in constant battle with each other in shit testing to oblivion for worthiness and that was a bitter pill to take, makes everyone seem superficial/programed/shallow.
@Mr. R I believe you did.
Totally agree with children testing you. I worked with children for 3 years and they always try to see what they cam get away with
So true. I constantly tested my teachers in middle school to see how often I could put bullshit answers on my assignments and get away with it. Worked very well most of the time lol.
I mean like James Bond, Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, Clint Eastwood, Carey Grant, Sam Elliott, Pierce Brosnan, Bill Cosby, Han Solo, etc.
Hey Coach this comment is from 2013, now that's its 2018 I think you should take Bill Cosby off the list
turns out cosby wasn't an alpha, just slipping the pill in the drinks
Pssttt... I know this was 8 yrs ago Corey But please for the love of God edit this comment and talk Bill Cosby out of this list. And probably Brad pit too. He got away with cheating on Jennifer Anniston because he is very handsome narcassitic men use that to their advantage. But his true colors came out when he abused Jolie’s kids on an airplane drunk. Yes raging alcoholics definitely don’t belong on the list of smooth men. He did Jennifer a favor by taking advantage of Jolie at a vulnerable point in her life. But even she eventually woke up. He didn’t have skills he had money and looks he hide behind. And Cosby drugging women these two are not Casanova’s for sure they aren’t even real. Just Abusers hiding behind an avatars and money that fools the ones who want to be blind! I have met a few myself so I know. Being smooth and being a manipulative exploitive abuser is not the same thing! But in the beginning it all looks the same. Becareful out there
and you can feel it in guys when they have the swagger. i remember some guy saying he couldnt tell me where he worked because it was top secret and i was like okay 😀 it probably wasnt real but i enjoyed his stories. Id play along 😛
He’s probably still unemployed 🤔
Hey...glad 2 hear from you when are you free this weekend I would like to meet you 🤠😜
This is why more than one girl is necessary. When bs comes, politely call it. Then ghost over to the other ones. Always be in control. Until there is exclusion…always have options.
And keep your game freakn tight. Especially when you feel you’re on top or when you’re sure you are in. Bro…if you let your game tilt it’s on you. Be the man and do man stufff with man decisions. Options will always be around.
Playing games shows that one person does not take the other seriously.
In other words, even though I try to be nice and accommodating to people, it's better to be a stubborn douche with women.
The person I been dealing with been testing me she would break things off with me and stay stuff to make it feel like there’s no chance of us being a thing but stayed otp with me to see how I would react. Finally after doing it a lot of times after we split up and got together but still being otp all the time she told me she been testing me to see how strong I am as a man because she’s had a lot of bad outcome in past relationships so now she’s atp we’re she wants to be more wise with who she spends her life with
Have you ever done a video on dating Psychopaths, Sociopaths, and Narcissist? Identifying them and learning how to deal with them or get over them?
+John Yarbrough google i dated a narcissist coach corey wayne
+Maneesh sharma thx bruh.
+John Yarbrough
read the art of seduction by robert greene.
Lol..how about just dont date those types?
Be myself unapollagetacally!!!
gotta be willing to risk it all and not give a shit. Stand your ground with women. They will respect you for it.
Always , it creates lots of sexual tension.
True, the interaction with my female colleagues has changed since reading the book and watching my videos
priceless. thank you for sharing that success.
another great video.thanks for posting.
Great advice. I strayed from your advice but now I'm back
This gent really gives a practical breakdown (he knows the game .. because he owns the game .. it's a lifestyle for him .. ). The oooooonly thing in this video I see things differently on is that while '10 rated' women get hit on here and there it isnt quite as much in smaller cities / towns as in the big city. The odd 9-10 in smaller towns or areas does not get hit on much due to somany dudes being intimidated. By one simply making the move it sets them apart from so many. Now.. the woman have BETTER quality men hitting on them when they do get hit on (men with stature .. alpha males .. men with plenty of dough or in high professions / positions in life). Now .. once you approach you MUST have that confidence, energy, charisma .. and charm .. and know how to talk to women ... w/o it being phony. Annnnnd if you LIVE it .. you just ARE that guy (James Bond) like the gent in the video ..women easily pick up on it .. and you are golden regardless of how much dough one has or what they do (it doesn't matter at that point). This guy Corey Wayne has 'become' it .. it's who he is. That is the goal .. It's not even a skill / skills ya have at some point .. you are so used to doing it .. its simply jus who ya are when interacting with women. IF one can do that .. it is the ultimate level .. as this gent has achieved that .. he's gotten there over the years (and that's what he is trying to get folks to understand / trying to teach). Great stuff -
In other words, don't be Mr. Agreeable
Quite frankly dude, I don't understand your question or what you are talking about. Take some time to write out your questions and spell check it. Proof read it so it makes sense to you when you read it back. I do when I write. If you know that what you wrote does not make sense to you, how do you expect me to make any sense of what you were thinking in order to answer your questions effectively?
😂 😂 😂 OMG 😆!
"Dignity" covers all aspects of masculinity. By pursuing and developing dignity, you will be congruent in your thoughts words and actions (think what you feel, say what you think, and do what you say). With dignity you will be stable, sustainable, centered, objective, efficient, effective, simplistic, calm, assertive, humble, grounded, deep rooted, balanced, healthy/balanced psychological state of mind (healthy/balanced relationship between your emotions, thoughts, and physical states), healthy/balanced physical body, healthy/balanced sexual vitality, healthy/balanced masculinity to femininity, you will develop fortitude, forbearance, accountability, right your wrongs, face your fears, acknowledge your flaws, etc.
The more that you develop dignity, the more you will be truly grounded and congruent in your thoughts words and actions, n thus, the more you will pass her "shit tests". This is win-win. This is ultimately what women are looking for when they test.. that a man is safe, dependable n stable, and where she can trust him to feel safe n secure in his masculine (dignified) presence, so that she can move out of "her" masculine and ease into the fragility of her soft, submissive, beautiful femininity
Coach .. Thanks a ton dude.. Learnin a lot n gettin results.. I could have used this a long time ago, but hey... better late than never..!! Im findin once you learn some of this stuff dealin with women in general is so much easier . Just makes life easier..!! Thanks again..!!
i feel like your saying all the pressure is on men while dating but i feel women share the pressure just as much
i think the reason shes told you when a guy calls her constantly and thats how hes letting her know its because she feels in control, and depending on her the more she ignores you its boosting her confidence but at some point shes gunna change her number.
Love your content Corey! You crack me up!!
Yeah but after a million tests guys just get tired of it and walk away. The problem is all the cosmos they read written by salty woman who were hurt and didn't want other woman to be happy
I wish I would have seen this video a month ago. The woman I've been interested in seriously dating for awhile bluffed to test my strength saying I was too over weight to be physically attractive. I got upset cussed her out for waisting my time & money and we have not talked since. In the meantime she's been watching my social media post and liking them. I did not know that was a test at the time but I did tell her, since she doesn't want to set up another date, call me when she changes her mind.. I understand jokes and test but this seemed to go too far and I don't appreciate disrespectful test. We'll see what happens but after that I don't think I'll ever want anything more then to be f*** buddies. So just like you say coach, I'll treat her like the other 4 women who I sleep with
Ok, it's been awhile . .
Did anything ever progress from your scenario ?
Do you have a different outlook on that situation now?
Thoughts, reflections . .
You're giving way more value to women than they deserve. At the end of the day women are humen like us and they are in no position to "test" us.
No woman has ever tested me, but if they do i think my reaction would to let her know her place in a non-insulting and funny way so that she knows that she has in no place to test me, i have already passed my test in life. And since we guys are the ones who choose their partner and not the other way around i suggest guys to look for girls who are attractive enough but more importantly have a good character. If u see a girl who considers herself above u just prove to her that she is not that good and that you are doing her a favour by showing her attention or just straight up walk away. I had a girl in my life who thought she was higher than me, i just walked away from her. A month later she is back cooking me food and constantly trying to get my approval but i still show no real affection to her,just enough to keep her chasing me and not feel rejected.
Guys don't choose shit. Women do. It's like that in the entire animal kingdom as well. You are getting things confused. When we men see a woman that we are interested in and we approach (This is not choosing.) We are just casting a fishing rod out to see if she bites. She's the one choosing because she can "choose" whether or not she wants to deal with us or not. And if she doesn't? Oh well, we just cast that fishing rod back out there.
He nailed it
You are the man coach ❤️
First date - First half of the date: Girl kept testing me, criticizing my responses, called me a nerd, looking for things to argue about, she even said "What would you do if I went to the bathroom and didnt come back?" I kept cool, shrugged and said "Oh well". I can handle it. {Don't blame women for acting like this, blame weak men}
Mid date I test her back - I walked a bit in front of her, and told her I had to do something across town - she invited herself and asked if we could get food after. Told her jokingly if she behaved, we'll see. To get to where we needed to go we walked down a steep hill and her shoes were hurting, I told her to take off her heels and she said no, give me your socks. Told her I'm not taking off my socks - Instead, I carried her down these steep steps about 200 ft, she loved it. The rest of our date she got friendlier, even started talking about how she likes massages, held my hand.
Our second date she didn't even care what we did or where we went, was just happy to be there and she was nice, no guard up like the first time.
For the third date I'm being patient - letting her feelings develop a bit more, give her some time to miss me before I text her to meet up.
Currently trying to prove Corey's point that after sex which usually comes on date 2-3, women will start initiating contact when they want to make plans. This girl is an introvert with no social media so excited if it works!
@@spencerwilliams461 Sure, it took her 3 weeks to reach out for third date, smashed and been seeing her casually about 3 months. She does 80% of the reaching out, jokes I'm busy with other girls and I don't deny it, as long as I treat her right.
After the first time having sex , let her reach out 80% and she should self-qualify herself more and more to why she deserves to be in a relationship. Pull back a little, see if she starts putting in more effort and gauge her interest.
This guys a genius lol!
Patricia S I agree ! (:
chris anderson you're*
Cris , read the book
Patricia Maree he's a sensei show more respect women jklol
A woman confirming this is true. She must be a keeper
Went to a bar one day. I was bored and decided to speak to two young ladies. I asked them about females and what they see in their boyfriends. I could tell they were bullshitting me a little. I asked one of them, on a scale from 1-10 how do I look. They said 2, obviously they were joking with me. So I insulted one back in a funny way. Then they said your actually a 8 but your personality puts you at a 9. They said I was just like their boyfriends. One even tried to pull my man card because I had a drink that didn't have straight alcohol. So I said name any drink and I'll out drink you and your boyfriends with it. So both of them brought me a drink. At this point I destroyed the drinks in no time. Both were amazed. One even ask for my number. She even tried to set me up with one of her other friends.
You're a god!
Kardell Jones how did the set up go?
7:26 reminds me of an ex of mine. She always contradicted herself. I wouldn't say anything to reveal she was. I loved hearing her say one thing and then within a few sentences or later down the road she would say something that was the opposite of what she said before. it happens alot.
i just smile alot. someone pointed out a few years back i playfully wink and i was like oh my gosh i do, do that.
I'm on page 9 of Corey's book 3% man
Love to go back in there small videos and reread your book. Love is playful 😇
Great Video!!! Thanks Corey!
after studying this for a while. i'm alwas playful, teasing, and throw a little flirt in there and they always respond well.
I remember a girl was over, and she criticized a shelf in the house being uneven. It was so random, and I didn't understand why she was giving me crap for it, but now I know she just wanted to see my reaction.
Nah, she's not crazy.
Great video Corey! This video is so true.
Wow. Absolutely radical, but it works
Corey, you look so much cooler with the close shave than with the hairdo! Love your vids!
I went on a date with a girl a week or two ago, she travelled to come see me but was very quiet and hard to converse with. I asked her out again in case it was just that she was nervous or whatever but she said it was more like we were friends and something like she doesn’t want to lead me on, I’m yet to reply to her, I wasn’t sure if she was shit testing me or not
'...a little mischievous ...' he he!
thank you mr Corey
Great content, Thanks for posting these videos. Because of these I found your book. It will be here Saturday. With that being said I will read it more than 15 or 20 times plus take notes from it and write the stuff down so that it sticks. I just don't want to be one of those guys that read it one time and think they know it, then get in a situation and start cherry picking from it. Lol Also I am going to get the audible version aswell so that I can listen while I read it. I think that helps in Learning and internalizing things.
Thoughtful and Insightful as always! Believe in who you are and treat them like a bratty sister....it's simple yet makes perfect fucking sense!
Thanks Coach, great video. Just went through an experience like this on Thanksgiving Day. I'd give myself a 6.5/10... Still a work in progress but I'm getting there. By the way, looking sharp in the new profile pic! You da man!!
As directed from the book!
Why would you want someone in your life that intentionally torments you?
I have had a coworker of mine telling me her husband doest trust me and i made distance to her. Foolish me. She was testing.
The sneakiest test is when they flirt or show sexual interest just to see how excited you get. To see if you'll forget what you're even talking about. The more excited, the more clingy or thirsty you are. The less, the bigger the indicator that your tested all the time and her erotica means nothing, thus you encounter female interaction all day and are comfortable around their nature; thus a high quality or alpha male. Stay cool out there. Listen to what she's saying, address it kindly and seriously, and ignore how she's making your manliness feel.
Superb presentation !
Hear to bookmark my progress first listen
I am natually low in agreeableness and always state my opinion - maybe that's why my partner almost never tests me :D
Pursuing ain’t chasing Corey
Feel like hard work.
I fucking love you Corey!
You are the man!
Politicians also stumble on their words bcuz they have to choose their words very carefully. One wrong word could cost their campaign; and everybody that's been working so hard on their campaign for them will be let down. One wrong word could be misconstrued and unintenionally offend millions of people, and cost the politician their entire career in politics.
I got into an argument with the girl I like and her irritating friend, what should I do now. give the girl I like some space?
Yes beautiful woman love it when then call them constantly but is that what they want of course not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2:40 All dominant alpha males know how to interact, play, and banter with women. They understand women, and they can also tell when a woman is about to test them - or is the process of testing them. *They’re doing it to see how you react; how you handle yourself - to test your strength and see if you get it and know how to play.* How would you treat a bratty little sister?
4:58 Women can’t help but always be testing the strength of the guys they’re talking to. And if they’re friends with a guy, they’re going to want to mess with them. If you want to get a woman who’s a total 10, you’ve got to get really good interacting with the 4’s and 5’s. because the alpha female, very successful and is in good shape - she gets approached constantly, so she has to become quicker and better than your average woman at sizing a guy up, trying to determine if he gets it or not, and then rejecting him quickly if he doesn’t. Otherwise, she’d never get anything done in her life. So you’ve got to be on your toes, and there’s very few things before she’s testing and sizing you up, then she’s already onto looking for the next guy - and you’re done; you’ve lost.
8:54 They want to know through one or two questions, bantering back and forth - do you get it? Do you know how to play? Do you know that love is playful and fun? Do you know not to be so serious, but just to be in the moment? That’s what they’re trying to get to, because if you don’t get it, they want to reject you - and then get on down the road. Most guys have absolutely NO IDEA when it comes to checking this out - so this is a super important thing with women, is that they’ll bluff to test you - *so the key is that you need to know who you are, you have to know what you believe and you’ve got to be comfortable in being yourself. YOU HAVE TO HAVE A STRONG INTERNAL CONSTITUTION AND BELIEF IN YOURSELF & WHO YOU ARE. And you have to be willing to stand your ground* even if your friends or a woman you really like says, “Well that’s not exceptable, I’m going to reject you.” “Id never go out with you because X.” Well that’s just YOUR loss! ;) You have to be willing to lose women you like, because they say they don’t like you. (CW using profanity, as an example) Because if you not you’ll just keep getting rejected.
I'm listening to these videos and I like them and I'm learning alot but I tell you one thing if this doesn't work out with the lady I'm with now I'm done I'll stay single for the rest of my life because I just don't have the time to add to a woman's happiness and I really don't care for these test these women give.
I feel like you're getting it wrong. The more I watch this guy's videos, the more I gain a deeper understanding of how to handle these tests. In summary: you have to be strong from within, so that your response to these tests is natural and effortless. If, on the other hand, you are weak from the inside, then no amount of technique or game can help you pass these tests (Women can tell the difference between strong and weak men, like Corey says). You have to get to the point where you actually love, appreciate yourself, and feel whole by yourself. Once you get to that point, a woman's disapproval of you will not shake you whatsoever, and it will FEEL NATURAL TO YOU. Why? Because you're a fucking catch, and you need to appreciate yourself more. If you can't love and appreciate yourself, people won't do that for you!
Hope this helps.
that's right man. you just said the fucking truth😉😉
I watch your videos all the time and a lot of it you make a lot of sense with your videos and I am the type of man that if you don't accept me for who I am or what I tell you then it's your loss because I'm not changing my mind on anything that I say or do I do with what I want when I want how I want and if you don't like it oh well I see you and I'll tell any female today tell her that to her face it doesn't matter with me yeah I'm a desire you but I don't need you and I will tell any woman on the planet that I'm My Own man I don't need you.
The mistake in your analysis is that you are assuming women are actually worth pursuing.
David Lowe only if a man wants sex and relationship .. other than not .. and there are always hookers and call girls for cheap sex
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@@rahatzaman4158 Outlawed in most countries and would get jail for it, unless you travel to a different continent where its allowed then yes.
The problem: Unless she's madly in love with you, if she doesn't find you worthy of her tests, then she doesn't find you worthy of her time.
The solution: A woman with low to no interest isn't worthy of your time. Walk away and meet a new lady who is highly interested.
I love this advice,,I agree
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