Just watched your SWU interview and had to look for you because you seem like such a genuine and intelligent person. I'm on the autism spectrum, but I would say that I'm the other side of the coin compared to you; I feel too much instead. I've had to learn to separate empathy (feeling what others are feeling) and compassion (understanding what others are going through). Compassion doesn't involve feeling, empathy does. I was suffering from too much empathy, now I try to lean into being compassionate instead.
You are such a wonderful human being. I really cannot understand why someone would not want to be friends with you. But I’m the same way. I’m a loner. I suffer from anxiety. I’ve been diagnosed bipolar, and PTSD. I’m also socially awkward and it’s hard for me to communicate with others. I know I’m not perfect, but I’m still human and every day I try to be a better me.
I am soo happy I was recommended your video on my feed out of the blue. I watched it from beginning to end and I love the way you speak. You educated me on things I always wondered about but never knew where to start looking so I can not only understand myself better, but family members I have noticed are different than me. I would consider myself a empath through and through but at the same time, I have such difficulties understanding my needs, wants, emotions and who I am as a person 99% of the time lol. How I am inside and how I am with others are 2 different people. I've never seen a mental health professional or have been diagnosed so I don't know all the complexities that make me who I am. But I'm so grateful I came across your video and found your channel. And also, family is just a title. I've had so called family treat me worse than people who have no relations to me lol. Family should stand for something but sometimes it doesn't and anyone who feels bad for valuing their peace more than family that doesn't treat them with respect, make them feel wanted or make them feel safe should know that their feelings are valid and they shouldn't feel pressured to put up with them if THEY do not want to and it is completely fine. Anyways, so so sorry for the rant, and thank you so much for this video, sending you lots of love from where I am 💞💗💓
GIRL, what you are doing is sooo valuable! Eff those stupid office jobs that don't make any change in society. What you are doing is so precious. I hope you know that. I hope a lot of people will see this video because it's so real. I love it! Cos you're out there saying something like "This is probably too much truth", saying things like "My ADHD is adhding" and much more. Just being so authentic. And honestly, referring to the first one, I think there can't be enough truth out there, especially around these days. Greetings as always from Berlin, Germany ;)
Dang girl! You are spot on with this video!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 I truly am amazed by you! I can’t even imagine having to mask all day. your mental capacity is top tier!! We all can learn a lot from you!
Cassy, you are a very intelligent woman. I'm not neurodivergent (I've never been tested for it) but I can relate to what you are saying, it explains a lot for me. I did internalized people's dislike for me, now I understand some of their reactions. However I feel safe around family members, the issue is that I struggle to connect with extended family members and other people in general. Thank you for this video.
Ur so beautiful and well spoken! Thank u for this video, I’m also estranged from my family and I’m neurodivergent, perfect affirmation for this holiday season when I feel like I’m missing out on family stuff- im actually not missing out on anything!!❤️🔥❤️🔥
I'm not autistic or neurodivergent. I don't think your a psychopath. You seem like an intellectual and highly intelligent. You speak so well and aware of yourself.
Rejection sensitivity dysphoria = adhd/austim. and hyper vigilance is a trauma response. feeling distant and cut off from other people is one of the criteria for PTSD
Amazing video, thank you for putting these things into words! These are hard-won lessons for sure. The part about you being uncomfortable causing other people to lash out because it's making them uncomfortable helped me realize how these social interactions go wrong for me. It's been really sad for me that I am being so nice and feel like I'm following all the social rules and my intentions are completely pure, and yet people will say that I'm fake or manipulative or whatever when I was only trying to be friendly and normal, so it makes me feel like people are just going to hate me for no reason. I wish neurotypical's response to seeing a scared traumatized person wasn't to go "let's make them more scared and traumatized" but yeah I believe you're right that it's just instinctive to people who aren't trauma informed or know about neurodiversity. I didn't spend Thanksgiving with my family either, but I'm lucky enough to have found family to spend it with. You're so right that making the effort to get out and heal your trauma can open so many doors for you. Love your energy and confidence in this video. :D Love from the Netherlands! xx
I really appreciate your videos. It feels like a break from everyday interactions. Talking to someone who doesn't just know surface level stuff about neurodivergence especially vis-à-vis of autism, masking and empathy. I'm working on myself but having the hardest time finding a therapist that's not a complete waste of time. (The ADHD tangent was funny. Unscripted videos are often a treat)
I haven't watched the whole video yet, but I just discovered you through your interview on the SBbSK channel. As someone who has dealt with lifelong issues due to being neurodivergent and at times mentally ill, I was deeply saddened to hear how you had been treated by family, peers, and even therapists- I've been fortunate enough to have good experiences with my psychiatrists & therapist, but I know how often people have awful experiences. Finding your video here, I'm relieved to see how you still speak out about these things and how far it feels like you've come in expressing yourself & your feelings without masking so heavily. I hope in the past year that that interview has helped you connect with others who understand and relate to you, and that it has helped you in some way. I know what it's like feeling so alone and broken and wrong and misunderstood, and at least for me personally it feels comforting to finally find others who just get it. You seem like a beautiful human being and I wish you the best.
I love your videos and it sort of helped me with my realisation. I have come to the realisation that everyone is right and wrong at the same time and it isn't my job to fix everything. Because I'm autistic I have spent so much of my time reading about the world so I can understand. I don't think I have to understand anymore. I don't care how people see me anymore and I don't think I have anxiety anymore. I don't care what my mother thinks because all she has done for many years is cause me pain. I'm okay. I let go.
Hey Choco Azzie? What are your thoughts on Peter Krefts Socratic logic. In my experience it's easy and clear especially with autism and idk something that makes me mean and dissociative, doesn't matter, take care gal. Just a taste of his logic method Words be clear or unclear Unclear words are unlogical Words are used truthfully or with a false content Then arguments are valid or invalid. If you like pirate it and hopefully it gets you what you want. I like your thinking I'll try to stay active here.
True i feel sooo unsafe around my mom! My dad is sick....People do not seems to understand that i have to protect my dad against her...Can you dm me or leave your email adress cause i didn't found it.
Just watched your SWU interview and had to look for you because you seem like such a genuine and intelligent person. I'm on the autism spectrum, but I would say that I'm the other side of the coin compared to you; I feel too much instead. I've had to learn to separate empathy (feeling what others are feeling) and compassion (understanding what others are going through). Compassion doesn't involve feeling, empathy does. I was suffering from too much empathy, now I try to lean into being compassionate instead.
You are such a wonderful human being. I really cannot understand why someone would not want to be friends with you. But I’m the same way. I’m a loner. I suffer from anxiety. I’ve been diagnosed bipolar, and PTSD. I’m also socially awkward and it’s hard for me to communicate with others. I know I’m not perfect, but I’m still human and every day I try to be a better me.
I am soo happy I was recommended your video on my feed out of the blue. I watched it from beginning to end and I love the way you speak. You educated me on things I always wondered about but never knew where to start looking so I can not only understand myself better, but family members I have noticed are different than me. I would consider myself a empath through and through but at the same time, I have such difficulties understanding my needs, wants, emotions and who I am as a person 99% of the time lol. How I am inside and how I am with others are 2 different people. I've never seen a mental health professional or have been diagnosed so I don't know all the complexities that make me who I am. But I'm so grateful I came across your video and found your channel. And also, family is just a title. I've had so called family treat me worse than people who have no relations to me lol. Family should stand for something but sometimes it doesn't and anyone who feels bad for valuing their peace more than family that doesn't treat them with respect, make them feel wanted or make them feel safe should know that their feelings are valid and they shouldn't feel pressured to put up with them if THEY do not want to and it is completely fine. Anyways, so so sorry for the rant, and thank you so much for this video, sending you lots of love from where I am 💞💗💓
GIRL, what you are doing is sooo valuable! Eff those stupid office jobs that don't make any change in society. What you are doing is so precious. I hope you know that.
I hope a lot of people will see this video because it's so real. I love it! Cos you're out there saying something like "This is probably too much truth", saying things like "My ADHD is adhding" and much more. Just being so authentic. And honestly, referring to the first one, I think there can't be enough truth out there, especially around these days.
Greetings as always from Berlin, Germany ;)
Dang girl! You are spot on with this video!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 I truly am amazed by you! I can’t even imagine having to mask all day. your mental capacity is top tier!! We all can learn a lot from you!
Cassy, you are a very intelligent woman. I'm not neurodivergent (I've never been tested for it) but I can relate to what you are saying, it explains a lot for me. I did internalized people's dislike for me, now I understand some of their reactions. However I feel safe around family members, the issue is that I struggle to connect with extended family members and other people in general. Thank you for this video.
I’m so glad you reloaded ! Thank you!
Ur so beautiful and well spoken! Thank u for this video, I’m also estranged from my family and I’m neurodivergent, perfect affirmation for this holiday season when I feel like I’m missing out on family stuff- im actually not missing out on anything!!❤️🔥❤️🔥
I'm not autistic or neurodivergent. I don't think your a psychopath. You seem like an intellectual and highly intelligent. You speak so well and aware of yourself.
Rejection sensitivity dysphoria = adhd/austim. and hyper vigilance is a trauma response. feeling distant and cut off from other people is one of the criteria for PTSD
Amazing video, thank you for putting these things into words! These are hard-won lessons for sure. The part about you being uncomfortable causing other people to lash out because it's making them uncomfortable helped me realize how these social interactions go wrong for me. It's been really sad for me that I am being so nice and feel like I'm following all the social rules and my intentions are completely pure, and yet people will say that I'm fake or manipulative or whatever when I was only trying to be friendly and normal, so it makes me feel like people are just going to hate me for no reason. I wish neurotypical's response to seeing a scared traumatized person wasn't to go "let's make them more scared and traumatized" but yeah I believe you're right that it's just instinctive to people who aren't trauma informed or know about neurodiversity. I didn't spend Thanksgiving with my family either, but I'm lucky enough to have found family to spend it with. You're so right that making the effort to get out and heal your trauma can open so many doors for you. Love your energy and confidence in this video. :D Love from the Netherlands! xx
I really appreciate your videos. It feels like a break from everyday interactions. Talking to someone who doesn't just know surface level stuff about neurodivergence especially vis-à-vis of autism, masking and empathy. I'm working on myself but having the hardest time finding a therapist that's not a complete waste of time.
(The ADHD tangent was funny. Unscripted videos are often a treat)
I haven't watched the whole video yet, but I just discovered you through your interview on the SBbSK channel.
As someone who has dealt with lifelong issues due to being neurodivergent and at times mentally ill, I was deeply saddened to hear how you had been treated by family, peers, and even therapists- I've been fortunate enough to have good experiences with my psychiatrists & therapist, but I know how often people have awful experiences. Finding your video here, I'm relieved to see how you still speak out about these things and how far it feels like you've come in expressing yourself & your feelings without masking so heavily. I hope in the past year that that interview has helped you connect with others who understand and relate to you, and that it has helped you in some way. I know what it's like feeling so alone and broken and wrong and misunderstood, and at least for me personally it feels comforting to finally find others who just get it. You seem like a beautiful human being and I wish you the best.
I love your videos and it sort of helped me with my realisation. I have come to the realisation that everyone is right and wrong at the same time and it isn't my job to fix everything. Because I'm autistic I have spent so much of my time reading about the world so I can understand. I don't think I have to understand anymore. I don't care how people see me anymore and I don't think I have anxiety anymore. I don't care what my mother thinks because all she has done for many years is cause me pain. I'm okay. I let go.
You’re so real😂
The best way to learn is through life experiences
Yes, to all of this! Completely agreed, thanks for sharing!😊
Watching this I feel your frustration,
In a world that celebrates organisation.
This was 🔥🙏🙏🙏
Vey helpful n relatabke thanks .more people should be talking about this
Appreciate you!
You're so gorgeous fam😭😭😭
I agree.
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I WAS YOUR 10K SUBSCRIBER!!!!!!!! I HAVE SCREENSHOT PROOF!!!!!!
Hey Choco Azzie? What are your thoughts on Peter Krefts Socratic logic.
In my experience it's easy and clear especially with autism and idk something that makes me mean and dissociative, doesn't matter, take care gal.
Just a taste of his logic method
Words be clear or unclear
Unclear words are unlogical
Words are used truthfully or with a false content
Then arguments are valid or invalid.
If you like pirate it and hopefully it gets you what you want.
I like your thinking I'll try to stay active here.
What are we doing today?
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Really enjoy your channel, I find you fascinating ,sexy, intelligent and attractive. Keep up the good work, I don’t believe you can’t get laid😂.
Why is the talking so fast?
True i feel sooo unsafe around my mom! My dad is sick....People do not seems to understand that i have to protect my dad against her...Can you dm me or leave your email adress cause i didn't found it.