@Nadja Profit No it's not laughable. Traditionally Men are supposed to provide and protect when Women are supposed to cook and clean. I think it glaringly obvious which tasks are easier and which are more difficult. Risk your life and earn millions of dollars over a lifetime (which is what Women are asking for nowadays) or prepare a meal and put clothes in the laundry. Yes it's laughable, but not how you meant it.
Also the fact that (at least in my area) some of the biggest police actions are around mens sports (football to be more exact). The police have to section of pathways for the opposing teams fans to make sure they don't attack each other or destroy property around the arena if their team loose. Some teams need to play with empty galleries when they play agents certain team because the fans have become so violent in the past. Not to mention the hate players who mess up get... to the point where they need police protection.. from their own teams fans... And women are supposed to be the only one who let our emotions get the better of us😂
As the granddaughter of a man who stormed the beaches at Normandy, I don't know if he did so with tears streaming down his face. All I know is that I'd be just as proud of him whether he did or didn't release stress chemicals through his eyes. I'll tell you something else--he'd think a man who cheated on his lady was a weak-willed sad sack with no integrity or control over himself. My grandfather refused to even propose before he left for the war because he didn't think it would be fair to my grandmother. He wrote her letters as a "friend," but still stayed faithful out of his overpowering love for her. Devoted, he returned a hero, and married his high school sweetheart just like he'd dreamed of. Now *that* is a real man.
@@SylvaHodracyrda the same things Lili described for a strong woman are what OP described as a strong man. I think you might have missed that VERY important point.
Did anyone else have a smile/smirk on their face when Spidey was getting triggered and had to take some deep breaths to calm himself back down??? No, just me??? Lol
@@TheBehavioralArts oh, my friend, having worked with you both in front of the camera and behind the scenes, I know there was some good material left on the cutting room floor...and quite a few cursey words as well...
@@LawLumber Rob and Spidey #CuttingRoomFloorSwitchChallenge haha. Thatd be a fun video collaboration! Rob picks Spideys edits on the floor and does an analysis on it and Spidey vice versa on Rob. Lol!
I have a quick comment about the smile of disagreement…as young girls we were taught to be pleasing and positive, soft and not abrasive. As grown women it can sometimes be difficult to overcome that early childhood training. It’s my opinion that the smile of disagreement is a mixture of disagreement, a bit of incredulous humor, a bit of disdain, and an attempt to keep silent rather than be impolitic or impolite in the face of clear aggression and stupidity. Thanks for the assessment, Spidey. I learn from every video you post.
Not to mention as a way of avoiding being target of his agression and belittling if they had shown open disagreement !! I know I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be a focus of it!!!
I could relate to that smile of disagreement too. I tried it out in the mirror and it felt natural. When thinking 'wow this is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard and this guy sure loves the sound of his own voice' kind of things. Also a bit of dark humor, if you don't laugh you'll cry kind of thing.
Yep. Well said. Somebody over there speaking, saying things I do not buy into but for the sake of not starting WW 3, I just keep my mouth shut and let them roll. Take the high road best you can.
35 years ago I was like Tate. The only emotion I could connect with was anger. I remember going to a therapist and them asking me to name some emotions and I couldnt. I dont remember what my responses were but I remember being quite confused. I have done a 180 since then.
I think our society is hard on men. Andrew Tate is accurate about the problem - he just has the totally wrong answer. A strong, flexible adult has access to his/her full range of emotions and knows how to deploy them appropriately. I'm sure there were many soldiers at D-day from every army who was in tears. It is an appropriate and useful way from some people to manage terror. I'm glad you've unlocked the power of your emotions. Best of luck to you.
@@k33k32 I agree. If you address afronts and traumas instantly you can let them wash over your body and mind and they disappear. If you push them down, later you have to wrestle with them and re experience them, sort them out and let them and you move on. Andrew Tate is Andrew Tate. In his mind he is the caricature of a warlord...brutal decisive and uber alpha. He is going to attract the worst of women, what I call tigers, you can never let your guard down around them. And you see the political and civil problems that causes him. His ego craves that attention. I believe his attraction to men is he is the Rambo hero that everyone wants to know is on our side but doesn't want to be in his place. Most of his public appearances are photo shoots for him. Like the one where he is relaxing in an expensive house coat smoking what can be assumed to be an expensive cigar and having a pizza thrown down in front of him. That is his persona not his reality. And he got arrested after being geol ocated by the pizza box. Do you really want to live that drama filled lifestyle? I know I dont. When I was in my early twenties I was like him but on a much smaller scale. I was super fit from being a roofer, made a ton of money, always had at least a grand in my pocket while my friends were making $1.50 an hour at Micky D's'. I was inherently angry, that was my persona and I was a good bar pool player so I was constantly on the edge of excitement and trouble. For me that shit grew old. Pump and dumping one chick after another and not having someone I could connect with on a personal level. And I didnt learn any interpersonal communication skill living that lifestyle. I ended up marrying one of the pump and dumpers and had my life wrecked. Yeah Andrew is fun to watch and laugh with and at but I know I dont want to live like that anymore.
Andrew Tate’s probably gonna die of cancer some holding all that anger or anything else inside his body. We have too much research the show it’s unhealthy. I don’t know why Lynn would want to do that.??
This guy has no idea what he's talking about! My great uncle was one of those teenagers that stormed the beach of Normandy, in fact he was the first one to step on the beach. He told me that all of the soldiers were terrified! And many of them were so terrified they were crying, shaking and praying and saying "I love you. Goodbye Mama". Some were so scared and crying so hard that they were vomiting. My great Uncle said, "If you weren't already crying, you would be after hearing the prayers and Goodbyes of my fellow soldiers. I was so scared that I got on the boat and went to the very back of the boat. When the boat started moving, I realized I made a real dumb mistake, and I was actually in the very front of that damn boat. I was in the first boat to reach the beach and the first soldier to step onto the beach but it was not because I was brave, like some people said I was, it was because I was so scared that I really tried to be the last guy out of that boat but I was so green, I didn't know which end of the boat was the front." He survived to tell his family about it. He was a good man. He was a "real" man and he cried whenever he talked about that day and how he watched his best friend die right in front of him on the beach and all of the incredible kids and men that died on that beach and what a tremendous loss it was. My great uncle would have been very disgusted and offended by what this guy said about the teenagers that stormed Normandy beach and I know him, he would have said something like, "Who is this loud mouth? Where the hell does he get off talking about me and my fellow soldiers like that? What?? What the hell?? I was there you dumbass! You are a real arrogant idiot! You are not a "real" man! You don't have a clue what a real man is! A real man doesn't have to act and pretend to be all tough and macho like he's got to prove something. Real men don't need to talk about how macho and tough they are and a real man would have enough integrity and respect for the soldiers who stormed Normandy Beach, that he wouldn't make up lies about them like you did. All that nonsense talk talk talk outta your mouth, and you didn't say a damn thing that's true or that's worth saying. Real men got something true and real to say when they talk."
Tate never said anything bad about the teens that stormed the beach or tried to hide, anyone in that situation would try to get away from what’s happening. He said that those men were brave and charged at the gunfire even they didn’t want to and them even willing to get on the boats are brave. He used The Invasion of Omaha beach and the men that wanted to cry and did cry, but still fought as a example of a man’s sense of duty. Please explain to me why that is so wrong.
i think Andrew Tate meant before they stormed the beaches they put on a poker-face and acted like they wern't scared and instead of pussying out they still stormed the beaches
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 He says (after talking about the importance of controlling emotions): "Do you think that the teenagers storming the beaches of Normandy felt like crying? Of course they did. But they also knew that that wasn't the correct thing for them to do"... So, it sounds to me like he's not saying that they 'cried but still fought', but rather that they didn't cry because they were 'good' men who were able to control themselves and their emotions. That directly contradicts the real-life story above
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 No, he said that even if they wanted to cry, they didn't because they knew "it was the right thing to do" (not crying). Listen again.
He didn't say men & boys shouldn't be emotional, he said society (both males and females) expects men & boys not to be emotional. By saying he needs to learn to control his emotions, you proved his point.
from 6 years ago, when he was a professional fighter? lmao tf you on about hes chnaged now. if he didnt have any anger then he wouldnt have became a 4 time kick boxing world champion. 🤣
As someone who has studied WW2 most of my life, we have accounts of these "teens" on Juno, Sword, Utah and Omaha beaches crying, calling for God, calling for their mothers and fathers etc, but by all means we should just go by what someone who wasn't there and hasn't experienced anything similar says.
I have a great uncle who died at Gallipoli in World War one when he was only 17. There's just no way, and no expectation, that that boy didn't cry at the horror of his circumstances before he died.
The most concerning thing about his content isn’t the fallacies and stupid stuff he says. It’s the influence he has on young men. He promotes control and violence against women. There is enough of that happening without encouraging millions more to act and think that way. I would be devastated if my boys started following anyone like him.
I absolutely have heard that too. My partner is very very interested in WW2 and I've watched many many programmes/documentaries with him. I have seen documentaries from years ago where interviews with old soldiers have been recorded and the old man cries himself while remembering friends and young soldiers crying and calling out for their mothers. So sad. 😔 This guy is dangerous. Can you imagine a young male teenager watching his ridiculous video, telling these teenage boys that it's pathetic to cry, that you are NOT real men and never will be if you cry!!!! Oh my god! How dangerous is that!! Personally I think he's got some deep seated issues. Someone at some point in his life told him these ridiculously dangerous views, directed it towards him. He needs help. I don't mean that in a cruel manner, I genuinely think he has demons in his head and could do with some good psychological help.
You also don’t compare what’s necessary for the horrors of war to daily life. They’re completely different. In war you’re supposed to be cold, hard, and detached so that you don’t break down from the insanity of it all. That’s so different from impressing some chick
Spidey!! You were visibly a little upset by this man. I couldn't help but smile and be thankful for your integrity. Thank you as always for your knowledge.
Oh. My god. I LOVE this version of Spidey. So raw and outspoken. The filter almost gone, tension in the air, fuse ALMOST lit. Brilliant. This guy grinds your gears UNDERSTANDABLY so. I really enjoyed this upload.
I hope he watches the story of how this guys rose to infamy and lives in a pool of depravity and scamming. It explains soooo much about his views. He is actually a pimp and views women and money from that lens. th-cam.com/video/HJ4xoxYAya4/w-d-xo.html
The soldiers who stormed Normandy most definitely cried! Almost every soldier does. At the end of WWII, soldiers were stationed at my grandparents' house. Germans, at first, as young as thirteen and ALL of them cried every day, while my grandmother listened to the horrific things they had endured. After the South was freed, English soldiers came to live with them. And these young men also cried. It's normal behaviour, especially for people who have such traumatic experiences. Of course they cried.
It makes ME want to cry knowing that 13-year-old's were there, taking part. It's bad enough for 18/19 (or any age, to be totally honest). I hope your grandparents were thanked for their accommodations and especially your grandmother, for being a shoulder to cry on.
@@naynay3710 They were very kind and welcoming people. I don't think they ever got much recognition for what they did, it just was natural to them. They took my mother into their home when her father died and she became an orphan at 21 (her mom had died 9 years prior). She was dating my father at the time. She just became part of the family before marriage. Other families would have told her she was on her own as she was legally an adult at the time, but they let her live with them through college until she and my dad got married and bought their own house. I agree about how sad it is 13 year old boys were sent to war. This was at the end of WWII and the German forces had been decimated. They kept sending younger boys. It's heartbreaking. We don't see that in the war movies, as they tend to show the German army as an evil enemy, not as lost young boys crying for their mother. They served as cannon fodder, nothing more. 😭
They probably did but the one who controlled their emotions and use it as drive were the one who managed to overcome all the odds . You think breaking down at the battle would lead to anything but even more suffering
Wow. Although you got understandably more emotional on this topic than usual, the elegance with which you destroyed each of his arguments was spectacular. I loved learning about critical thinking here too. It goes so beyond behavior analysis. 👏🏻
It’s so refreshing to see a man get as offended and upset as we women do with the crap that comes out of the mouth of this sorry excuse of a human being.
doesnt have to do much with gender as it does with being a decent and respectful human being. I feel lots of guys listen to this guy as they have also been hurt because theres bad people in both genders. too bad a personal situation pushes us to measure the rest with the same stick.. (i mean tate not you hehe)
"I hope" (not really) that he isn't as ignorant, as he apears. Facade facade facade - it works against some, and others look right through him.. I would probably break down laughing, if he pulled that at me. It's like watching MMA fighters meeting at weigh in showing off - just like that little irish Conner dude.. But it has made him "famous", and might have earned him more money, that not acting out would have - just like Ali acted out to sell the product.. Still - an idjut in my book.
This Andrew guy thinks he's being tough and masculine but he actually comes across as very insecure and angry. If you look at someone like Dwayne Johnson, that's actually someone who is an example of positive masculine. He is actually kind and confident and he uses his strength and leadership to lift others up. That's the way you do it!
I like the Rock but to pretend that he doesn't push consumerism on people and wants to get rich is crazy. That's all he does. He also takes a bunch of steroids and tries very hard to be hypermasculine. So he's actually much more like Tate than you understand. He just feeds it to people in a palatable way. You must recognize this?
People have only paid attention to all the negative deeds of Tate, they never talk about about the good cause that doesn’t get views, he is very respectful, patient, and has done many great things for the world, but does’t share it because he thinks boasting about the good to get positive attention is cheap. Those skits are him exaggerating his character to get views and not the real him, people need understand that and dig deeper before they make conclusions and people that actually think he’s being serious is kind of foolish.
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 If this is true, why did you not include specific examples? Do you have any evidence of charity donations or other good actions? Also, you mention these are skits. Can you explain the jokes to me? What was funny about waving the machete and pretending to choke a woman out? What was funny about tearing down that young woman’s dream? Why wasn’t that young woman laughing if it was a funny joke? Can you explain to me what the joke was?
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 whether this is what he’s really like or not doesn’t matter, this is what he’s portraying to others and there is a least a portion (probably a large one) that will take him at his word and behave like he does on social media in real life. I for one don’t want to see men behaving like this it’s ignorant, arrogant, aggressive and demeaning to women. I won’t bother going through what this attitude towards women can lead to as I’m sure you’re smart enough to figure that out on your own.
And that's where I think the whole banning issue came into play. He would never apologize for the knife incident, and who knows how many other things like that he has done. He'd never apologize and because it was "conscious," he would feel justified to continue these actions. Whether intentional or not, his actions have driven young people to harass and threaten prominent women. Even if he is not a dangerous person himself, his ideas are dangerous and other people act on them.
I was with my ex-husband for 11 years. He had two emotions, angry and happy. The man I have been in a relationship with for the past 7 years is not afraid to talk about his feelings. To me that is a REAL man. To me Andrew Tate is an insecure little boy in a grownups body.
@@Mario-gg5wx It's just my opinion. I look at someone like Andrew Tate and all I see is an insecure little boy. I feel very bad for those women who look at Tate and think that is what a real man is.
@@karabadasski2521 and an insecure little man conquered so much of modern media that u can't escape him and built a network and network of millions eh?
He says he doesn't make mistakes cuz he is trying to convince himself that he's perfect. He's such a narcissist that he is extremely insecure. His dad really hurt him.
yes, he does show up as a very insecure man when he can’t show emotions that’s such a turn off. The comment about not crying when you’re going to war well, I know a lot of men that didn’t cry when they went to war but they cried afterwards maybe because of what they seen where does that make them bad?? we have men killing themselves, literally taking their lives and women because of PTSD. He’s not helping this by telling people not to show their emotions they need to process the!!!!
I like alpha males, and he is nothing like an alpha male!! People have the definition of an alpha male all screwed up in my opinion!!! And Alpha does not destroy a female that’s not what good leaders do!!!
Love your comment. Because I think exactly the same. He seems like he was seriously hurt. Maybe bullied. Now he's over compensating. Men like that make men's life harder
Even after you overcome everything there’s always going to be another hurdle maybe he thinks his hurdling days are over but talking out your ass won’t help shit.
Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped. Could be when he started hating women and references chess so much.
As much as he puts on a tough exterior, he comes across as someone who's fearful of rejection, he has to keep proving his masculinity as if someone's going to take it away from him.
In every video I have ever watched of Spidey , he always so so respectfully refrains from sharing judgement and opinion of the persons character , even Amber heard . It is so so impressive and humble. But this was so beautiful and refreshing him sharing with us his feeling about Andrew's words , felt kind of comforting that he chose to share his perspective , vulnerably sharing frustration and emotion , but truly in the name of respecting women , and humanity and basic kindness. He is just so lovely , such fantastic character
This was actually a great breakdown of someone's behavior/words/feelings to watch and I thought you did an excellent and FAIR job with it. You were careful to point out what was personal feeling vs analysis and gave credit where (surprisingly) credit was due. Quite well done. MUCH RESPECT! Thank you.
I do want to say, regardless of his ridiculousness and ignorance, Let's not underestimate the power of CTE (Chronic traumatic encephalopathy), esp in increasing aggression in people... he was a kickboxer. I personally know how multiple concussions can change a person's personality. It's real. Either way he needs help... he's not making too much sense and seems quite angry. Love the analysis, Spidey, you're amazing !
Some frontal lobe dysfunction certinly comes to mind. Repeated concussions, childhood severe encephalitis, covid infection in adulthood are just a few possible causes. Interwiewing his mum about her pregnancy, the birth and early years would be so interesting.
So, I’d never heard of this guy, but what he says sounds like a little boy who grew up being abused for having an emotion until he adopted his abuser’s views. I could be wrong and hope I am, because that’s a horrific way to have to grow up. But when he speaks, I just keep hearing an older man shouting “boys don’t cry.”
Well, guess what, if you look up videos on the internet where he talks about his father, this is exactly how he raised him. He would make him play chess until early in the morning even if he was extremely tired. He was a tough man, but he praises him, I guess in an attempt to negate the damage he did. As children develop coping mechanisms that try to keep them safe from what is being done to them. So denial is one of them
His father wasn't abusive to him but he wasn't a great example either. He taught him that when someone's hurting you you don't go to a teacher or parent, you deal with it yourself as a man. He was raised this way, to think that men are superior and because they're "superior" they can't show "negative" emotion, aka crying.
You pretty much defined the creation of a narcissist in your first sentence👍That's what toxic/narc parents do, give you hell to pay if you have an emotion or opinion that opposes or triggers them. So some of their kids will adapt to this by taking on this behaviour and becoming a narc just like them.
@@sarutucigash Narc children of narc parents die appeasing them, forever in denial of the abuse. It's only the non-narc children who recognise the abuse and can go on a healing journey which by the way gets hindered by the narc siblings who act as flying monkeys of the narc parent/s.
Fascinating stuff, thanks so much. Tate's energy is so disturbing. He spits so much hate when he talks, I need to get up and take a walk to brush it off whenever I catch a clip of him. His nervous system must be working very hard - he seems to be constantly in the 'fight' state.
i just noticed that around 29min in, when he said the women without kids would be depressed... KEYWORD DEPRESSED.... but he said depression isnt real, so by HIS logic, as long as they didnt believe in depression, they'd be fine!
i love what a humanistic approach you take with your analyses, spidey. you dont just try to shut people down and write them off entirely because you disagree wtih them. you try to understand what they're saying and why they might be saying it, even if they themselves dont. the world needs more people with your approach.
@@TheBehavioralArts I still disagree with you on that he should not be banned denying him a platform is not equal to freedom of speech. To let him use platforms he gets revenue from platforms if he is violating the rules of the platform then they have all the rights to get banned. If he was someone racist saying there would be more outrage
@@Kudeshka Well right, of course the platforms have the right to do so, legally, and I don't think anybody is against that or disagrees with that, however, what people do disagree with is the morality of it, the morality of banning people for their opinions and censoring peoples' voices/influence. It's not whether they should *be able* to do it, it's whether they should do it. Morally speaking
@@Mac10943 The thing is, his opinion includes hateful retoric that promotes violent behaviour, so allowing him to keep using their platform to spread that kind of violent approach is an indirect statement that the platform is ok with that moral value he is expressing and sharing, so the morality point is not that simple and straightforward (what I mean by that is that you could argue there is a morality issue if the platform decides to go for both options, banning him from their platform or not).
I’m 63, have never had any childern, been retired for a while, have a portfolio this baboon could only dream about, live on a barrier island only 400 yds from the beach and have had as many as 7 cats at once - i only have 3 now -one of which is sitting in my lap as i type this. It’s so sad we live in a world where people actually listen and take this “person” seriously. How messed up does your life have to be to take advise from this guy?
Me too, retired, 68yrs, 5 cats and loads of semi tame wildlife that I feed. Oh yes, happy too but I must say this guy made me laugh all day. II always find the wrong things funny.
@@stephaniemoon8913 i find a lot of this stuff “funny” as I’m laughing at him but I find it mostly pathetic and the really sad part is all of his “followers”
When people ask what I aspire to I tell them "I'm an aspiring cat lady" I dont want kids. None of my friends have any and most don't want any. But we all have cats lol and we are all in our 30s already. Pretty sure we are fairly happy with our choices.
Like attracts like. This toxic narcissist attracts the attention and sympathies of other toxic narcissists. Anyone who isn't like that can easily see through this guy's veneer and see the toxic personality disorders underneath.
I thought it was interesting that he said, "I have always wanted people to SEE me as successful and intelligent." Not "I want to BE successful and intelligent," but "I want to be SEEN as successful and intelligent." It shows that he prioritizes having an audience that sees him as this smart, strong, no-nonsense alpha-male kind of guy, which certainly lines up with everything else he's done.
Great catch! It sounds like an unintentional slip to me; whatever he believes about himself (and maybe he does believe he's everything he says he is, all contradictions aside), the point is that he's still looking for /eyebrow flash/ validation.
It's all about appearances and image for a narcissist. He basically admitted his insecurities, that he thinks he's not successful or intelligent, but wants to give the impression that he is.
I love that quiet "says who?" when Tate is like "the happiest women are the ones that had children" bc I was mentally screaming the same "says who? What do you know?" Also, about the "smile of disagreement," that's when we're basically thinking that someone else is being a total idiot or incredibly ignorant and trying to hold back saying so (or even laughing at what they're saying/doing) and raising tension further. I know my most common thought when that expression hits is a sarcastic "sure, honey. Keep telling yourself that as if you know something."
It's so crazy how this psycho talks so similarly to Amber lol they both speak out of the side of their mouths, not looking at who they're talking to, blank stares, putting on an accent, word salad, bragging through faux humility, etc.
I don’t know who that guy is, but even if he was what you say he is, angry, toxic,….!!!! Even if that’s true! He has become that way because of the things he went through. He wasn’t born that way. As I said I don’t know him but I saw small clips from him on TH-cam a few times and he was talking about this h.oo.k..up culture and he was right about everything. He is completely right that’s why what he says angers these third wave of femenism so easily. He exposes them easily. At the end of the day, believe it or not, what ever you do to people. It will be done to you/for you.
This guy is so afraid of anyone calling him a beta male, that he has turned himself into the most toxic example of both misogyny, and ironically, misandry. He perpetuates stereotypes that are harmful to men and women both, and he's preying on insecure men's emotions to enrich himself. This is not a guy who is invested in empowering men, but in proving himself superior and the ultimate authority on what makes a 'real' man. My own armchair diagnosis is toxic narcissism 😏
...and how about gay? I think he may be homosexual but, is doing everything he can to deny this part of himself, and beat it out of himself with ultra toxic alpha male behavior. I think he's trying to convince himself, and the world..."I'm not gay, I'm not gay, I'm not gay!" He just won't accept it. He probably had a very toxic father who would probably beat the sh!te out of him if he came out of the closet. I think he needs serious therapy.
I'm 57, Iive alone, I have a cat. I chose not to have children. I'm a stereotype according to this infantile person, Andrew Tate. Truth is I am more happy now than ever. I could never of known of known the choices I made would bring me to peace and love. Freedom from societal norms is what has set me free.
Absolutely true words spoken there. Freedom from societal norms has set you free ! We should each choose to live how we wish to and not feel we have to go with the conditioned norm and expectations of what we “should” do. So glad you are happy. Much love to you and your little kitty. ❤️
You are a wonderful person in charge of her life without complying to societies expectations and pressures to live your life the way they feel everyone must live. I applaud you!
I am a mom/wife in my 30s, I very much wanted children and I think I would have been very sad not to have. At the same time, it is HARD WORK, especially the emotional labor of being a wife and mother. I can imagine the ease and peace of taking a different life path, like yours, I think many women are indeed very happy with this choice. Not having your own children doesn’t mean you don’t have a life filled with friends and family.
It is so damaging to put out there that if you can just change your thinking, depression will go away, as a mother that has suffered with depression and a daughter that has been admitted 3 times for suicidal ideology....This is so reckless!
@@Sauczibe mindful of what you state as a “hard truth” … depression is complex and how it impacts people (and identity) may vary outside of your “hard truth”
@@Saucziyou clearly don’t know what you’re talking about and using absolutes weakens what you’re saying. Glad you don’t have that experience of navigating depression. Stay blessed.
@@keivahummelyou chooses to be depressed, good for you, there are people like us who don’t believe in that bvllsh!t, I can never be depressed no matter what I go through in life.
I had to watch this 3 times in order to hear what you said because I was laughing so much, I have never heard of this man and if I was a more charitable person I would feel sorry for him but I'm not. He is hilarious, I'm going to show my friends so we can all roll around on the floor laughing. Watching you with your beautiful, pristine, clear intellect trying to make sense of this fool was surreal, it's hard to believe you are the same species. I"m going to make a wild assumption here; I think this guy had an overindulgent mother who failed to protect him from a brutal father, now every woman on the planet is being held accountable for that. You are such a kind and brilliant man, a credit to your sex unlike this pathetic parody of manhood.Wonderful insightful work as always.
Great analysis again! Couldn’t help analyse your body language and behavior while doing this - you’ve been a great teacher 😀 And please tell me your watch tracks your heart rate. I’d love to know what rate it got up to 😂
Spidey is bothered a lot by this guy like I am. Tate is disgusting, I don’t blame him. This is one of the most emotionally invested analysis videos I’ve seen on here. I’m not made at it at all. It felt real and I truly related to the observations and interpretation.
Haha me too! First time I ever observed the teacher display anger and contempt. 😂 Well deserved in this case - another cracking video Spidey (even if it was one of the hardest to watch so far) thank you so much for all you teach us… at least you know we are learning 😉 🙏
That young woman talking about her passions and goals was so beautiful. She had the most amazing smile and bright eyes as she talked about something she loved. It just genuinely disgusts me that Tate just straight up started to shit all over it. Incredibly dehumanizing and gross. Imagine someone sharing something harmless and good with you that is close to their heart, and you’re just an asshole about it. He does not respect women to any extent at all. Also, side note: my grandmother told the story of how, while fleeing to a bunker, her sister was hit by some kind of shard of a bomb/genade in her neck (idk how that stuf works, maybe it made some glass explode or maybe there are bomb type things that create sharp edges upon impact?) Her sister bled out in her arms and died. She told me this story without crying. I guess Tate would think she’s a real man for not crying. Glad to know that my grandmother is a real man 😂
Her having the most amazing smile and bright eyes is because she is an elite female. So what? Don't be fooled by that shallow charisma. I'm sure she's going to go off and make virtual reality systems for the army in between her successful acting career. Give me a break. I'm sure she's just around the corner from achieving that dream. Tate wasn't having any of her bs, and then he expressed his view on what makes women happy when they are older in life, saying that women who have families are happier than women who didn't and were married to their corporate jobs. Is he wrong? He's entitled to his opinion, and he expressed it. It's not dehumanising, it's a conversation. Whether you find it gross or not is on you. He respected those women enough to look them in the face and disagree with them. Being a yes man and just telling women what they want to hear isn't respect, it's treating them like they are children. And your response to a person having an opinion you don't like invites that behaviour.
@@iamthe80s49 Facts: He did NOT "look her in the face" and actually sat there expressionless while she spoke about her career goals. He didn't care. The only reason he asked the question is to set the stage for his own egotistical BS. It's a show, it's all about him no matter how ridiculous. He's a total narcissist who craves attention whether positive or negative. *Don't be fooled by his shallow (& ignorant) "charisma."
@@iamthe80s49 he wasn't looking in their faces, as the behavioral analyst said , watch the video again please. He can express what he thinks, but the problem is that he can't respect or acknowledge that inspite of his truth, that others truths can exist, I'm childless because of the trauma I lived as a child, and that didn't allow me to develop as an adult should, I mean I like men but I don't know if I want a partner, I don't know if want all that trouble, I know what I would like to find in one, because I'm willing to try to give the same , but I'm trying to heal ,that right now I don't even think in getting involved in a relationship, I'm in my 40 so no children for me my biological clock is out of time, except that somehow I start to earn loads of money to get me through fertility treatments, and I far away of that position,money wise, maybe if I met a man that I want to have a family with, and had the money ,maybe I would go through it or maybe adopt a child,but that is not easy task and is not easy to do in my country, but in this time of my life I don't see anything of that happening, and I'm not depressed, sad if I end up not having children,I have nieces I love them like they were my own ,but I don't know if I could have them 24/7 . Yes when I'll be older I would be alone but that isn't something new in my life
I am so sorry your grandmother had to go through that. I will tell you that as someone who as also who as gone through trauma. The more time has gone by as well as the more times you tell the story the easier it is to say without so much emotion. It’s like a type of exposure therapy. Do I still get teary eye once in a while telling my story, of course I do. But I also use “dark humor” as defense mechanism to cover emotions. But I have also said my story with my normal happy voice. Trauma is weird like that and everyone deals with it in different ways. I agree. I loved the way the women shared what pulled on her heart strings and her hopes and dreams. Who says she can’t have this world and a family. It was heartbreaking to someone crush the dreams of someone else. AT said its my way or the highway. I had someone do this to me with Religion shooting down my belief and saying her interpretation of a bible verse was the right way. For me I listen to everyone’s beliefs as long as you will listen to my beliefs, who knows I may be able to take some of your beliefs and adapted them to mine. But when this person told me I had the devil inside me because I had a medical problem, I shut down and stoped listening to her.
I have to applaud you for your valiant effort in trying to find some shred of humanity in Tate. I can't though. And that's because he really is a dangerous man. His message is soaked in pure hatred of women. He provides justification for all of these broken, resentful, entitled men who harbor deep violent fantasies towards women and would love to act upon their hatred.
i agree! there are a few things he's said which, to me, make sense (the ones in this video which Spidey also agrees with - and i have to make clear, ONLY them) but i cannot look past the vile person he is as a whole
@@mosesg5223 His has extreme contempt for women. He views them as subhuman, an enemy to be conquered and he promotes the idea that women are by nature supposed to be subservient to men. And women who aren't submissive to men are sluts and whores. He says any woman who goes out for a girl's night out is cheating on you because the only reason a woman would go out in public, without her boyfriend, is to cheat. He says your girlfriend should delete her social media accounts to demonstrate her loyalty to her boyfriend. Because the only reason a woman has a social media account is to pursue men. He promotes using violence against women who are noncompliant. He's basically a date rape/toxic masculinity cliche in human form. And INCELS listen to him. That makes him dangerous.
I recently witnessed a clearly socially anxious guy trying to talk tough by yelling aggressively in a crowded street. Like a nerdy guy auditioning for the role of a hardened criminal. Looked really weird. Everyone just walked past. Days later, I hear about Andrew Tate’s philosophy on Australian TV, and just know that guy on the street was trying his act. I imagine his followers aren’t too intelligent. This will backfire greatly for many.
How does he know what life is like as a woman?!? He really doesn’t deserve my attention whatsoever but I love your channel so I’ll watch. Love you Spidey!🕸💕 Edit - after watching nearly the entire video, I just can’t with this guy. He’s what’s wrong with men, people in general. The idea women are incomplete without kids is infuriating!
When the loser said “life as a man is harder than life as a woman” I rolled my eyes SO hard I somehow felt it in my head. I have never consumed any content with this and I’m just forwarding past the parts where he’s speaking and only watching when Spidey’s talking. I probably won’t be able to stomach the next video.
@@AnnelisR I was thinking something similar.. I know what it is like to be a man, I have NO idea what it is like to be a woman.. Some things in my life are hard, some things in other people's lives are hard, some things in my life are easy, some things in other people's lives are easy.. I have no context from anyone else's life to compare difficulties, life is tough for everyone in very different ways... The guy comes off as an idiot, and makes me wonder how many people judge me as a man based on people like this guy...
This was a hard one for me. As a daughter of a highly decorated WWII POW Veteran - I listened to Dad's stories of the horrors of war, landing his plane filled with shrapnel after every mission, to the final mission ending in a bail-out in enemy territory after his plane was shot down, the death march through the snow he survived but witnessed numerous allies and members of his squadron fall to their deaths, the severe daily beatings over a 2-week period that ensued once they reached the prison camp, contined injuries he sustained during his time of imprisonment, me reading his actual POW wartime log, viewing pictures of him in his POW camp, reading through his lengthy handwritten, finely detailed chronicle of his experiences from day one of his military life to post military life and on through his mid 70's (he passed at 78), his many speeches and presentations of his experiences of war and then the disgusting racism once he returned home - although the a big war hero, he was given less than treatment for being of Mexican-American decent. The exposure to it all throughout my entire life up until his death. It was painful, heartbreaking and still is as those memories still linger 25 yrs later. Based on what I was second hand exposed to, it is my firm personal opinion that Mr. Tate has absolutely NO right to comment about any man (or woman or child) that has/had lived or died by or even that is currently in the throes of war - just as much as I DO NOT have any or right to do so myself as I have not (by the grace of God) had any of those experiences myself. My father's generation is know as the greatest generation and we should honor and respect them for what they experienced and accomplished. We also MUST always respect the sacrifices of our ALL our Armed Forces - for it is by them we are free and have the freedom of speech. Though, that freedom of speech in my opinion should never include any interpretation of THEIR experiences, THEIR thoughts or THEIR feelings. Especially to be used so fleetingly by any person showboating their own personal opinion of what it was like to be in their boots. That is disrespectful and painful to our WWII Military that served though horrors we cannot begin to even imagine. As my father put it, "pure hell". Additionally, the same goes for ANY Vet or civillian who has/had experienced or is currently personally experiencing war. We non-war exposed civilians have no right to ever speak upon any of their experiences but to only show our eternal respect and eternal deep gratitude for THEIR selfless sacrifices. I'm disgusted he even uttered those words. He will NEVER even remotely come close to the heroic actions and resilience of others in the positions that unfortunately were there.. My heart goes out to all war exposed individuals who have been exposed to Mr. Tate's clumsiness & carelessness with his words & example. His commentary on what it is like to be a woman vs a man in life, holy cow. I, as a born female, have absolutely 100% no ability to state what it is like to be a man just as much as I do not have the ability to claim or state what is is like to be an alien from some far off planet. I haven't a clue what it would be like to be a man. Or an alien for that matter. (As for saying I'm female born - this is absolutely not used with any intent of ill will to my LGBTQ+ community. I am a full, loving, supportive ally of your beautiful community. I simply say female born as that has been my own personal, singular experience - the upbringing, grooming of, etc., since day one of my life. That is the only experience I can undoubtedly rely on and draw from to state my honest opinion here.) As for the rest of his commentary it appears as he truly has experienced some real significant trauma in his life that has severely affected him - leaving with some deep rooted pain and scarring memories. I wish him peace. I wish him to find some real honest joy. Most of all I wish him some reconciliation to what appears as internal chaos & fury. I will put a good will intention of energy out to him for those wishes of mine to him. It is my own opinion that there is no greater strength than a sense of peacefulness within oneself. It doesn't come easy to some of us, I know that for a fact. I have C-PTSD, chronic depression/anxiety & have fought hard to forgive & forget and I continue to fight daily for my right to that strength of internal (and external too) peace. If it was just as easy to flip a switch to turn it all off I would run to be first in line. Unfortunately, that not how it works. Now that's is a my own personal battle that I can honestly comment. Spidey - you are brilliant. Your vast experience and detailed narrative presentations truly help us understand this subject matter so much more easily that it would be otherwise. Your rare unbiased nature and human kindness of those less desirable is worthy of sainthood.
Why is it that people who say "Men aren't emotional", "Facts don't care about your feelings", "Showing feelings is weak", etc always forget ANGER IS AN EMOTION!!
I think you completely nailed it at the 42:00 min mark where you mention that he is possibly over-correcting and trying to prove himself to **someone** in his life whom may or may not be around anymore, but the impact of whatever he has gone through lives on.
As someone with years of depression I couldn't help but laugh at his take on depression. As is rightfully said in the video, depression is a (or causes a) physiological change in the brain. My depression stems not from sadness or emotional experiences as much as from the fact that I got medicine over a long time that crippled my brain. My neurons have literally shrunk which affects the brain function in certain areas. Which means that you also can't break your arm if you don't believe in broken bones? Since that is also caused by a physiological traumatic event.
Hi Spidey! I love the channel, and I think you do an amazing job of staying impartial about subjects that are generally very emotional, but I have to disagree with your analysis of Tate's underlying message. I know you already acknowledged that he has an underlying misogyny, but saying that it's 'the way he says things' and not his core message that is the main problem is to me a little off. His statements are driven by misogyny and narcissism. His point isn't that "people should maintain their composure", it's that women are physiologically incapable of being as emotionally mature as men, and that men who aren't always emotionally blank are basically women. Looking at how often he repeats this kind of rhetoric in his other videos has me convinced his underlying message has nothing to do with people bettering themselves, and everything to do with helping insecure men making themselves feel better at the expense of women and other men, but especially women. I think I understand why you've given him the benefit of the doubt, you're looking at this from the perspective of a good man. But Tate is not a good man. He's a man who beat a crying half-naked woman with a belt on video. He is a bad man who thinks he is a good one. And I think that making his messages into something more decent only gives his supporters the ability to argue that it's his "delivery" that people hate, and not the fact that his rhetoric itself is dangerous and cruel. Sorry for the spiel, my kid brother got really into this guy a few months back and started saying some very derogatory things to me and my mother while I was home on summer break, and I eventually found out that he was parroting Andrew Tate. Having seen how Tate's words can affect young people has made me very passionate about the guy and how damaging his content really is. I was very excited to see that you'd made a video on him, and overall I think you did a great job, criticism aside!
I’m with you 100% and my biggest problem is the effect he has on young men. I just try to see the silver lining in everything and I’m preemptively addressing the comments who say “but he’s teaching strength of character.” I’m basically saying whatever he wants to say there are a million better ways to say it. BY THE WAY! I think the story of your brother is EXTREMELY important to share. Because anyone who says Andrew is playing a character is missing the fact that wether he is or not it has a bad effect on impressionable kids. I urge you to share that story with people in the comments making the “he’s just a character” argument
Thank you! And thank you for this video, I really appreciate you taking the time to show people why Tate’s ‘intelligent, macho’ persona is riddled with holes. Can’t wait to see what you put out next!
10000% agree! I was scrolling the comments for ages looking for this type of comment! It honestly made me quite uncomfortable that Spidey was almost minimising the harm he’s causing down to just the way he presents his arguments rather than the points themselves. I understand wanting to get ahead of those kind of comments, but I think pointing out how all those things were NOT his underlying messages would’ve been far more helpful and true to the material. He wasn’t teaching strength of character, he was spouting sexist nonsense, and the two cannot be separated as Spidey tried to do.
Everything about Tate points to deep-seated insecurities that he tries to mask by appearing intimidating all the time. He is the little dog who barks all the time because he is afraid of everything.
@@realg7849 There is no correlation between a physical skill and emotional security. Maybe it was his insecurities that propelled him to become a fighter, because deep down he feels like a weak, stupid, powerless little boy (Probably how his father made him feel). He needs therapy to heal, no amount of sport trophies will fix a broken mind.
@Talki2themoon I never understood why people use these conversation stoppers when their opinions are challenged or when someone has different opinion from their own. Most leftists, feminists and democrats use shaming, insulting and dismissive tactics such as "you're insecure", "you're misogynist", etc. You just called me dumb to invalidate my argument.
Thank you for your willingness to apply real logic to this. I appreciate your willingness to see some possible logic of his that is underneath his emotional dysfunction. You truly try to be as objective and unbiased as possible. This is a rare trait and creates a credibility, which means more to me than anything. I love your integrity.
Spidey, I LOVE that you address some of the logical fallacies here. It's one of my pet peeves when dealing with difficult people (like inmates, or administrators). And I think it's so pervasive in MANY aspects of our external environments -- like politics and marketing. Some people, like Tate, are simply unaware of their flawed logic ... but others take advantage of the collective blinds spots. One of the most common logical fallacies I see people fall prey to is "if it makes sense, it must be true." All you have to do is show a seemingly loose connection between two points, get that first agreement, and then move them over to your side of the board. Grrrrrrr!!
As a nurse my head goes immediately to the long term effects from medication, diet, lifestyle as well as the nurture effects of upbringing and young adulthood, and genetics and physiology. I see someone who speaks rapidly, might have some underlying aggression that he’s trying to suppress, and possibly the latent effects of steroids (not necessarily illegal steroid use) possibly steroids needed to treat illness or growth hormones given to correct or treat growth and development that is behind the expected growth curve.
If I ever talk to someone who truly genuinely believes and follows what Tate says and his point, I’ll simply just have to point and laugh at them. I cannot fathom how someone would be fooled by this grown up toddler ranting about stupid shit with awful points. Thank you spidey for doing the internet a service and explaining why he’s a dingus
My brother is turning into this guy-not completely there yet, but yeah. I don’t know if he’s been specifically watching this guy, but he’s definitely been watching the FreshnFit videos. I just want you to know they’re exactly as ridiculous as they seem, and 10000% as frustrating in person.
The scary thing about this guy is the amount of young boys following him! My 14 year old daughter tells me many of the boys in her grade became obsessed with him over the summer. So sad and all the more reason parents need to stay on top of what their kids are looking at on social media!
@@sarthakmishra2825 Ok Sarthak, I'll bite. Why should more boys and men listen to him? Be real now; I'm a mom with kids so I'm down to have a serious conversation.
@@pixiedust548 So the thing is, How many masculine role models you can see these days for boys? (and the matter of fact a girl should have a masculine role model in her life too) Testosterone level has been decreased over past few years now, People talking about Andrew being aggressive (which is an emotion) Fyi, aggression is a masculine trait, you cannot push the boundary without aggression. A man should be aggressive in these competitive world in order to grow and achieve success and then to maintain a successful life. Andrew wants todays men to be accountable, be responsible, be powerful, Then what is wrong with a successful Man encouraging other men to be MEN?
The funny thing about the moms regretting having children is that they won't tell their children but they will tell others - especially young women without children. I met a lot of women in their 50s and 60s when I was in my 20s who told me they loved their children and wouldn't give them up but that they don't recommend it. Two women I met actually said they regret it. Yes, they love their kids and would die for them now, but they wish they had taken a different path.
Well done Spidey, a brilliant analysis! I love the passion you brought to this discussion, i feel the same way and glad someone can say it in such an elegant way. 🤩
Great analysis Spidey! I learn such a lot from you and it is eye opening 👀 I have a lot of aha moments! I feel that the ban is warranted. The things he said are so offensive! He can voice his opinions on his own media platform. I suppose one can say that those of us who are against his viewpoints, can switch off or not follow him but giving him a platform on social media is giving him an opportunity to offend and insult. His views can lead to abuse across-the-board! All the best! Great content as always!
A big part of his audience is children and a lot of teachers saw students who mimicked him and banning him is making him less accessible to children. If you say things that go against the rules of the platform then there is no reason to grant him the platform you get revenue from this platforms so they are your employer
Great analysis as always Spidey. What I think remains to be said is this: because of people like this kid, men continue to isolate themselves instead of looking for help, people with depression that listen to messages like this continue to isolate themselves. This is toxic at its highest level. My sister recently asked help for her depression and her general physician told her she didn't have depression, to go home and sleep. She tried to take her own life a couple days after that. Invalidating others feelings has reprecussions that people like Tate don't even take into consideration because content at the expanse of others is worthy to them. Despicable. To think we fight so hard for awareness, for mental health... Anyway, thank you for your analysis Spidey.
Thank you for sharing that sad story. I hope your sister is feeling much better in herself. I completely agree with you. Tate's messages are not just making these young men behave toxically, it's severely endangering their mental health as well.
"men continue to isolate themselves istead of looking for help" - Let me stop you there. First - How do you KNOW? Are you a man? Are you talking from a man's perspective? If ur not man, please don't speak for YOUNG MEN, because you DON'T KNOW. You are barking at the wrong tree here. Question is.... WHY ARE MEN LOOKING UP FOR HIM? Can you guess? Maybe it's a lack of male role model in ther lives, huh? One in four children in USA live without a biological, step, or adoptive father in the home. Now, what is the risk factors of abscent father? Poverty, behavioral problems, problems with law, infant mortality, more likely to commit crime, obesity, more likely to drop out of school, more likely to face abuse and neglect, depression and mental problems, alcohol and drug abuse, suicide. Now, people like Andrew Tate is still a problem, or the problem is actually more important issues?
I hate to break it to you but quite often men reach out for help and there isn't any available to them. I work with male victims of domestic violence, in many places there is nothing available to them because it's a "Women's issue". If they call the police to report abuse, they get arrested because police department policy is to remove the man from the situation. If they leave their spouse they are abandoning their children. If they take the children, they are kidnappers. While I think Andrew Tate is a dick, he does occasionally make some good points. You can't react with emotion when dealing with a system that actively hates you.
@@YabbaDabbaDoTime although I was talking from a mental health perspective, like professional help, I understand your point of view. And I'm so sorry that that continues to happen to male victims. I've witnessed first hand the laughter that a man faced because he was being abused by a woman. No one should have to live in fear and shame, also no one should feel that they need to pretend that they don't have feelings or depression. My response is from watching these clips that Spidey presented and I still think that from what I saw, the message is not good.
Spidey, i love what you shared here! I was just reading about depression this morning, so it’s funny you discussed it in this video! Interestingly, the latest research actually shows that depression is NOT caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. 🤯 There’s a lot of contributing factors, and they don’t fully understand a lot about it. I recommend the book Lost Connections by Johann Hari is you want to learn more about it! It’s a great read!
Damn lol. Seems Things have changed since I got my degree 12 years ago haha. But the fact remains there are physiological considerations there… … right? 🤔 😆
@@TheBehavioralArts yes! The main contributors seem to be childhood trauma, loneliness/isolation, and a lack purpose, but there does seem to be a genetic component as well. Regardless, the impact of brain chemistry on depression doesn’t negate the rest of your video, which was so educational and entertaining (as always)!
@@aleece4 thank you for bringing this up. This has been well known in the natural health world for many years. Emotional and physical health both play a part. A huge contributing factor is gut microbiome dysbiosis. There's plenty of research, it just hasn't made it into the mainstream (there's also a financial incentive there).
@@TamarDart As the brain develops with trauma as a child it creates new pathways which lead to these imbalances. Learning new ways can make changes though like anything.
I laughed so hard at -10:35. Loved the raw emotion and the swear. I think (opinion) you are a stand-up person. Videos are well done, and your spoken thoughts just make me want to stop every now and then when I scroll through youtube. The reason why is becuase your stance on these views are well controlled. You have a sympathy that I personally love seeing. Side note, I have no ill will towards Tate. He's as human as it gets, I do think he did better at kickboxing then he did being an "Influencer". He has definitely hit a ceiling. One day his memory will fade and what will be left is the controversial topic of his name. On the other hand, is creators like yourself who inspire. To you, I wish the best in your climb. May you never have a ceiling. To the bluest sky's and beyond. Thanks for the content.
@@realg7849 I think you're right. He made money on cam girls. I'd recommend to see him talking about it. Not sure if those interviews are still available but it's even more shocking that what he said in those examples
In regards to the cherry picking argument and the soldiers of Normandy, Tate was also picking a very specific moment in their lives. Just because they weren’t crying at that time (which, by the way, he can’t prove) doesn’t mean that they didn’t cry when all the fighting was done.
You want to see a true, honorable man, Spidey? LOOK IN THE MIRROR! I have followed you long enough to see how upset he made you. He made me just as upset, but I never could have discussed or analyzed him as calmly and intelligently as you did. It wasn’t easy for you, but you rocked it, man! I am so proud of you!
I just came across your channel, and I am so hooked!!!! I love the way you explain everything so clearly. Thank you very much for sharing this valuable knowledge!
In my opinion a lot of his beliefs come from his relationship with his father. He always looked up to his father who was a chess grand master and uses the same steeple gesture with his hands. His father only gave him attention when he was performing well at things. Chess (Andrew was a champion chess player at 5) and he became the world champion at kick boxing. His father was happy with these achievements. His father was away weeks at a time and left them at home for his mother to raise. He only came home for a short time and then left again. His father was misogynistic too. If his mother annoyed the father then his father would walk out and only come back 2 weeks later. His father didn't have money and I think that's why he is so driven to make money. Everything he does is to fill the hole in his soul to be the man his father wanted him to be... Show no weakness and be successful in all areas of your life.
His father was NOT a Grandmaster. He only made it to International master and sonny boy never won ANY chess tournaments and his belts came from second tier fight organizations. Your mistake was in believing all Tate's lies about how great he is.
25:30 I used to work as a salesman, and with certain clients you gotta act like that to close the deal faster. You know why they open the mouth? It's because they're so focused on how theylook and behave that they forget how to breathe. In other words, it's evidence they're just faking being above everyone else. Deep down, they KNOW it's just a facade.
4:00 as a wolf 🐺 lover and advocate I'm glad he's not wearing a wolf on his shirt because wolves are intelligent and beautiful and very social and take care of each other and respect each other, with a hierarchy that they all respect, and the most successful alphas, male and female, of packs are kind and considerate and look out for everyone, they're not bullies or hypermasculine or anything Tate is desperate to be. It's unfortunate and in my opinion kind of dangerous that he has such a large following of young males because the main thing he would inspire them to do is be angry and possibly violent.
Okay 1: I think this is the first time I've heard you "beep yourself". And I totally understand - and agree with - why you did it!! 2: his "I don't make mistakes". There's a very simple answer to why he thinks that he doesn't: he's a narcissist. (And mysogenist and possibly also psychopath). To him, making a mistake equals knowing what you do and deliberately do it wrong. That doesn't make it a mistake - that just makes it lack of moral/ethics and/or lack of respect. 3: when he shoots down the woman in red's dream ... Almost all the women in the left side of the screen looks down - shame. Shame for wanting more for themselves than "just" man, family and financial security. Shame for having dreams. 3b: the woman with the "weird" smile ... It's an "anger & contempt but I have to smile"-smile. 4: the way he talks about people, especially women, ... To me, those are signs, that he has been faulted for being emotional, maybe crying, not having dreams for the future. Most likely by a woman. He might also have been cheated on, told that he hasn't got big enough b*lls and/or knows someone depressed - or has battled depression himself. (And been told that he just have to "pick himself up by the roots" and/or "just see the positive in life" [which I personally find disrespectful and proves some degree of stupidity: you don't CHOOSE to be depressed!!). Overall impression? * I love your analysis, find you knowledge and eye for details amazing and love the way you share it with us. Thank you ❤ * I really cannot stand that guy. Won't be choosing to watch any of his stuff willingly
This guy was hilarious. If I was young and dumb, I could see how I would fall for all of this. I'm glad we have people like you that actually have some logic.
I’ve never heard of Andrew Tate before, but my first impression is that he had something happen to him, that made him feel emasculated, and never healthily dealt with the weight he carried inside of him, due to it. Maybe he also didn’t have very strong role models around him, at that time, to help him develop past the traumatic event, so he developed his post-event mentality/lifestyle from cherry-picked, Hollywood shows. Just an opinion, though. What I also picked-up, is that he speaks very cultish, and that was confirmed, in my mind, when you said he speaks to a very specific type of people. By the way, I also believe that not everyone that comes across as “cultish”, is malignant. There is A LOT of benign, cultish mentality/activity, that will never end up destroying people. It’s a sliding scale. BUT his demeanor still comes across as cultish, imo. Essentially, he’s just an angry man, with unresolved issues.
Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped Maybe that's where it began but he is involved with Romanian gangs, fraud etc. This video shows very little of how horrible he is.
@@barrymaxwell3487 Yeah, you may be on to something there (chess/parents divorcing/gangs). If a timeline were written out of his life, I would put a circle around that time period, as being something to look at further.
lol I definitely loved when Spidey got a little triggered, but at the same time I completely agree! This Andrew Tate guy seems like an aggressive person person who needs some serious bootcamp-like counseling. Spidey I love everything you share with us and all the work you do! You make me laugh and confirm all of tge things I'm thinking to be true 😂 I love it! Thank you for your time, always!
@26:30 I think the "disagreement smile" is considered a smile because of the dimples. I also think it propagates to the eyes. I was having a similar reaction through this video, literally laughing at the absurdity at some points. Not because it made me happy, but because I found it absurd. Although I'm not sure why we react in such a manner to absurdity.
Wow 😯 as both a woman who has given birth and a soldier who has gone to war (4 mos after giving birth), that first clip is laughable 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Legend! 🎖
@@TheBehavioralArts 💗🫡
Maybe he was kicked in the head one time too many. Obviously there are no women in his life
Thank you for all you have sacrificed and have had to endure.
@Nadja Profit No it's not laughable. Traditionally Men are supposed to provide and protect when Women are supposed to cook and clean. I think it glaringly obvious which tasks are easier and which are more difficult.
Risk your life and earn millions of dollars over a lifetime (which is what Women are asking for nowadays) or prepare a meal and put clothes in the laundry. Yes it's laughable, but not how you meant it.
It's quite fascinating to me how people like this say "woman are so much more emotional than men" but my guy, anger and annoyance is ALSO an emotion.
Yes, very that!
Also the fact that (at least in my area) some of the biggest police actions are around mens sports (football to be more exact). The police have to section of pathways for the opposing teams fans to make sure they don't attack each other or destroy property around the arena if their team loose. Some teams need to play with empty galleries when they play agents certain team because the fans have become so violent in the past. Not to mention the hate players who mess up get... to the point where they need police protection.. from their own teams fans...
And women are supposed to be the only one who let our emotions get the better of us😂
Yeah, gotta love the projection!
I was coming here to say exactly this.
Yes, anger and annoyance are emotions.
As the granddaughter of a man who stormed the beaches at Normandy, I don't know if he did so with tears streaming down his face. All I know is that I'd be just as proud of him whether he did or didn't release stress chemicals through his eyes. I'll tell you something else--he'd think a man who cheated on his lady was a weak-willed sad sack with no integrity or control over himself. My grandfather refused to even propose before he left for the war because he didn't think it would be fair to my grandmother. He wrote her letters as a "friend," but still stayed faithful out of his overpowering love for her. Devoted, he returned a hero, and married his high school sweetheart just like he'd dreamed of. Now *that* is a real man.
Yep, that's a real man.
Beautifully said 🤩
I'm sure your grandfather is very proud of you😎👍❤🖖
@@SylvaHodracyrda a strong woman who acts with integrity, respect and compassion for others and herself.
@@SylvaHodracyrda the same things Lili described for a strong woman are what OP described as a strong man. I think you might have missed that VERY important point.
Did anyone else have a smile/smirk on their face when Spidey was getting triggered and had to take some deep breaths to calm himself back down??? No, just me??? Lol
LOOOOLLLLLLLL YOU HAVE YOUR REVENGE!!!! 😂 😂 😂
Lol
@@TheBehavioralArts oh, my friend, having worked with you both in front of the camera and behind the scenes, I know there was some good material left on the cutting room floor...and quite a few cursey words as well...
@@LawLumber Rob and Spidey #CuttingRoomFloorSwitchChallenge haha. Thatd be a fun video collaboration! Rob picks Spideys edits on the floor and does an analysis on it and Spidey vice versa on Rob. Lol!
You mean Spidey pulled a Rob?! lol
I have a quick comment about the smile of disagreement…as young girls we were taught to be pleasing and positive, soft and not abrasive. As grown women it can sometimes be difficult to overcome that early childhood training. It’s my opinion that the smile of disagreement is a mixture of disagreement, a bit of incredulous humor, a bit of disdain, and an attempt to keep silent rather than be impolitic or impolite in the face of clear aggression and stupidity. Thanks for the assessment, Spidey. I learn from every video you post.
Not to mention as a way of avoiding being target of his agression and belittling if they had shown open disagreement !! I know I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be a focus of it!!!
I could relate to that smile of disagreement too. I tried it out in the mirror and it felt natural. When thinking 'wow this is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard and this guy sure loves the sound of his own voice' kind of things. Also a bit of dark humor, if you don't laugh you'll cry kind of thing.
Yep. Well said. Somebody over there speaking, saying things I do not buy into but for the sake of not starting WW 3, I just keep my mouth shut and let them roll. Take the high road best you can.
Spot on.
Ditto!!! No need to engage stupidity and an intransigent bully.
35 years ago I was like Tate. The only emotion I could connect with was anger. I remember going to a therapist and them asking me to name some emotions and I couldnt. I dont remember what my responses were but I remember being quite confused. I have done a 180 since then.
@Lo
Horrible parents. And a lot of hard work including hypnotherapy, reading and introspection.
I think our society is hard on men. Andrew Tate is accurate about the problem - he just has the totally wrong answer. A strong, flexible adult has access to his/her full range of emotions and knows how to deploy them appropriately. I'm sure there were many soldiers at D-day from every army who was in tears. It is an appropriate and useful way from some people to manage terror. I'm glad you've unlocked the power of your emotions. Best of luck to you.
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I agree. If you address afronts and traumas instantly you can let them wash over your body and mind and they disappear. If you push them down, later you have to wrestle with them and re experience them, sort them out and let them and you move on.
Andrew Tate is Andrew Tate. In his mind he is the caricature of a warlord...brutal decisive and uber alpha. He is going to attract the worst of women, what I call tigers, you can never let your guard down around them. And you see the political and civil problems that causes him. His ego craves that attention.
I believe his attraction to men is he is the Rambo hero that everyone wants to know is on our side but doesn't want to be in his place. Most of his public appearances are photo shoots for him. Like the one where he is relaxing in an expensive house coat smoking what can be assumed to be an expensive cigar and having a pizza thrown down in front of him. That is his persona not his reality. And he got arrested after being geol ocated by the pizza box. Do you really want to live that drama filled lifestyle? I know I dont.
When I was in my early twenties I was like him but on a much smaller scale. I was super fit from being a roofer, made a ton of money, always had at least a grand in my pocket while my friends were making $1.50 an hour at Micky D's'. I was inherently angry, that was my persona and I was a good bar pool player so I was constantly on the edge of excitement and trouble. For me that shit grew old. Pump and dumping one chick after another and not having someone I could connect with on a personal level. And I didnt learn any interpersonal communication skill living that lifestyle. I ended up marrying one of the pump and dumpers and had my life wrecked.
Yeah Andrew is fun to watch and laugh with and at but I know I dont want to live like that anymore.
Andrew Tate’s probably gonna die of cancer some holding all that anger or anything else inside his body. We have too much research the show it’s unhealthy. I don’t know why Lynn would want to do that.??
i still believe one day Andrew Tate will change too. I give everone a chance to be a better person regardless of what they'd done
This guy has no idea what he's talking about! My great uncle was one of those teenagers that stormed the beach of Normandy, in fact he was the first one to step on the beach. He told me that all of the soldiers were terrified! And many of them were so terrified they were crying, shaking and praying and saying "I love you. Goodbye Mama". Some were so scared and crying so hard that they were vomiting. My great Uncle said, "If you weren't already crying, you would be after hearing the prayers and Goodbyes of my fellow soldiers. I was so scared that I got on the boat and went to the very back of the boat. When the boat started moving, I realized I made a real dumb mistake, and I was actually in the very front of that damn boat. I was in the first boat to reach the beach and the first soldier to step onto the beach but it was not because I was brave, like some people said I was, it was because I was so scared that I really tried to be the last guy out of that boat but I was so green, I didn't know which end of the boat was the front."
He survived to tell his family about it. He was a good man. He was a "real" man and he cried whenever he talked about that day and how he watched his best friend die right in front of him on the beach and all of the incredible kids and men that died on that beach and what a tremendous loss it was. My great uncle would have been very disgusted and offended by what this guy said about the teenagers that stormed Normandy beach and I know him, he would have said something like, "Who is this loud mouth? Where the hell does he get off talking about me and my fellow soldiers like that? What?? What the hell?? I was there you dumbass! You are a real arrogant idiot! You are not a "real" man! You don't have a clue what a real man is! A real man doesn't have to act and pretend to be all tough and macho like he's got to prove something. Real men don't need to talk about how macho and tough they are and a real man would have enough integrity and respect for the soldiers who stormed Normandy Beach, that he wouldn't make up lies about them like you did. All that nonsense talk talk talk outta your mouth, and you didn't say a damn thing that's true or that's worth saying. Real men got something true and real to say when they talk."
Thank you for sharing the story of your great uncle. Amazing story! ❤️
Tate never said anything bad about the teens that stormed the beach or tried to hide, anyone in that situation would try to get away from what’s happening. He said that those men were brave and charged at the gunfire even they didn’t want to and them even willing to get on the boats are brave. He used The Invasion of Omaha beach and the men that wanted to cry and did cry, but still fought as a example of a man’s sense of duty. Please explain to me why that is so wrong.
i think Andrew Tate meant before they stormed the beaches they put on a poker-face and acted like they wern't scared and instead of pussying out they still stormed the beaches
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 He says (after talking about the importance of controlling emotions): "Do you think that the teenagers storming the beaches of Normandy felt like crying? Of course they did. But they also knew that that wasn't the correct thing for them to do"... So, it sounds to me like he's not saying that they 'cried but still fought', but rather that they didn't cry because they were 'good' men who were able to control themselves and their emotions. That directly contradicts the real-life story above
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 No, he said that even if they wanted to cry, they didn't because they knew "it was the right thing to do" (not crying). Listen again.
He says that men shouldn't be emotional, yet he lives in a state of anger...he needs to learn to control his emotions.
He needs to learn how to process his emotions.
He didn't say men & boys shouldn't be emotional, he said society (both males and females) expects men & boys not to be emotional. By saying he needs to learn to control his emotions, you proved his point.
from 6 years ago, when he was a professional fighter? lmao tf you on about hes chnaged now. if he didnt have any anger then he wouldnt have became a 4 time kick boxing world champion. 🤣
Anger and aggression are forms of emotions
Some old lady needs to tell him "Chill out knucklehead."
As someone who has studied WW2 most of my life, we have accounts of these "teens" on Juno, Sword, Utah and Omaha beaches crying, calling for God, calling for their mothers and fathers etc, but by all means we should just go by what someone who wasn't there and hasn't experienced anything similar says.
I have a great uncle who died at Gallipoli in World War one when he was only 17. There's just no way, and no expectation, that that boy didn't cry at the horror of his circumstances before he died.
The most concerning thing about his content isn’t the fallacies and stupid stuff he says. It’s the influence he has on young men. He promotes control and violence against women. There is enough of that happening without encouraging millions more to act and think that way. I would be devastated if my boys started following anyone like him.
I absolutely have heard that too. My partner is very very interested in WW2 and I've watched many many programmes/documentaries with him. I have seen documentaries from years ago where interviews with old soldiers have been recorded and the old man cries himself while remembering friends and young soldiers crying and calling out for their mothers. So sad. 😔
This guy is dangerous. Can you imagine a young male teenager watching his ridiculous video, telling these teenage boys that it's pathetic to cry, that you are NOT real men and never will be if you cry!!!! Oh my god! How dangerous is that!!
Personally I think he's got some deep seated issues. Someone at some point in his life told him these ridiculously dangerous views, directed it towards him.
He needs help. I don't mean that in a cruel manner, I genuinely think he has demons in his head and could do with some good psychological help.
@@catherineflores7106 Absolutely agree. My point exactly. This won't affect grown adult men, it will affect young impressionable men.
You also don’t compare what’s necessary for the horrors of war to daily life. They’re completely different. In war you’re supposed to be cold, hard, and detached so that you don’t break down from the insanity of it all. That’s so different from impressing some chick
Spidey!! You were visibly a little upset by this man. I couldn't help but smile and be thankful for your integrity. Thank you as always for your knowledge.
Tate: Men shouldn't be emotional.
Spidey: Anger is an emotion.
Oh. My god. I LOVE this version of Spidey. So raw and outspoken. The filter almost gone, tension in the air, fuse ALMOST lit. Brilliant. This guy grinds your gears UNDERSTANDABLY so. I really enjoyed this upload.
yeah it felt to me like Spidey cranked it up to a new gear here. It's great stuff.
I hope he watches the story of how this guys rose to infamy and lives in a pool of depravity and scamming. It explains soooo much about his views. He is actually a pimp and views women and money from that lens.
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The soldiers who stormed Normandy most definitely cried!
Almost every soldier does.
At the end of WWII, soldiers were stationed at my grandparents' house. Germans, at first, as young as thirteen and ALL of them cried every day, while my grandmother listened to the horrific things they had endured. After the South was freed, English soldiers came to live with them. And these young men also cried.
It's normal behaviour, especially for people who have such traumatic experiences. Of course they cried.
It makes ME want to cry knowing that 13-year-old's were there, taking part. It's bad enough for 18/19 (or any age, to be totally honest). I hope your grandparents were thanked for their accommodations and especially your grandmother, for being a shoulder to cry on.
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They were very kind and welcoming people. I don't think they ever got much recognition for what they did, it just was natural to them.
They took my mother into their home when her father died and she became an orphan at 21 (her mom had died 9 years prior). She was dating my father at the time. She just became part of the family before marriage. Other families would have told her she was on her own as she was legally an adult at the time, but they let her live with them through college until she and my dad got married and bought their own house.
I agree about how sad it is 13 year old boys were sent to war. This was at the end of WWII and the German forces had been decimated. They kept sending younger boys. It's heartbreaking. We don't see that in the war movies, as they tend to show the German army as an evil enemy, not as lost young boys crying for their mother. They served as cannon fodder, nothing more. 😭
woah 13!?! Sie waren kinder, nicht wahr? That's awful, I just think of my nephew at 13.
@@naynay3710 thats bs youngest yeas 17 years old
They probably did but the one who controlled their emotions and use it as drive were the one who managed to overcome all the odds . You think breaking down at the battle would lead to anything but even more suffering
Wow. Although you got understandably more emotional on this topic than usual, the elegance with which you destroyed each of his arguments was spectacular. I loved learning about critical thinking here too. It goes so beyond behavior analysis. 👏🏻
He strikes me as very emotional. He's got issues, it's a good thing he's doing this out in the open so people can watch him.
yeah so everyone can see him. everyone
The problem is he has followers that think he is some alpha when they is not an Alfa! I have seen alphas and they protect children and women!
It’s so refreshing to see a man get as offended and upset as we women do with the crap that comes out of the mouth of this sorry excuse of a human being.
doesnt have to do much with gender as it does with being a decent and respectful human being. I feel lots of guys listen to this guy as they have also been hurt because theres bad people in both genders. too bad a personal situation pushes us to measure the rest with the same stick.. (i mean tate not you hehe)
Somebody got triggered
This reminds me of an emotionally and physically traumatic child in a man’s body throwing a tantrum. This is disturbing.
"I hope" (not really) that he isn't as ignorant, as he apears. Facade facade facade - it works against some, and others look right through him.. I would probably break down laughing, if he pulled that at me. It's like watching MMA fighters meeting at weigh in showing off - just like that little irish Conner dude.. But it has made him "famous", and might have earned him more money, that not acting out would have - just like Ali acted out to sell the product.. Still - an idjut in my book.
Ah yes another worm who concluded about Andrew tate by seeing talking in some yt shorts which were cut and edited out of context
What’s worse is young men idolizing him.
I think your totally right
@@ChasingKillersMusic all of them were raised by strong single moms, they know no better and taking him as father's figure
This Andrew guy thinks he's being tough and masculine but he actually comes across as very insecure and angry. If you look at someone like Dwayne Johnson, that's actually someone who is an example of positive masculine. He is actually kind and confident and he uses his strength and leadership to lift others up. That's the way you do it!
The Rock? He’s a sellout
I like the Rock but to pretend that he doesn't push consumerism on people and wants to get rich is crazy. That's all he does. He also takes a bunch of steroids and tries very hard to be hypermasculine. So he's actually much more like Tate than you understand. He just feeds it to people in a palatable way. You must recognize this?
People have only paid attention to all the negative deeds of Tate, they never talk about about the good cause that doesn’t get views, he is very respectful, patient, and has done many great things for the world, but does’t share it because he thinks boasting about the good to get positive attention is cheap. Those skits are him exaggerating his character to get views and not the real him, people need understand that and dig deeper before they make conclusions and people that actually think he’s being serious is kind of foolish.
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 If this is true, why did you not include specific examples? Do you have any evidence of charity donations or other good actions?
Also, you mention these are skits. Can you explain the jokes to me? What was funny about waving the machete and pretending to choke a woman out? What was funny about tearing down that young woman’s dream? Why wasn’t that young woman laughing if it was a funny joke? Can you explain to me what the joke was?
@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 whether this is what he’s really like or not doesn’t matter, this is what he’s portraying to others and there is a least a portion (probably a large one) that will take him at his word and behave like he does on social media in real life.
I for one don’t want to see men behaving like this it’s ignorant, arrogant, aggressive and demeaning to women.
I won’t bother going through what this attitude towards women can lead to as I’m sure you’re smart enough to figure that out on your own.
So, he may not make mistakes, but he certainly make bad decisions... consciously... and often.
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And that's where I think the whole banning issue came into play. He would never apologize for the knife incident, and who knows how many other things like that he has done. He'd never apologize and because it was "conscious," he would feel justified to continue these actions. Whether intentional or not, his actions have driven young people to harass and threaten prominent women. Even if he is not a dangerous person himself, his ideas are dangerous and other people act on them.
that panther t-shirt is one of them. 🤣
If he classes himself as a human being, then yes, he does make mistakes. We all so. The narcissist in him stops him owning the mistakes.
I was with my ex-husband for 11 years. He had two emotions, angry and happy. The man I have been in a relationship with for the past 7 years is not afraid to talk about his feelings. To me that is a REAL man. To me Andrew Tate is an insecure little boy in a grownups body.
Is that an insult for others saying this Is a real man?
@@Mario-gg5wx It's just my opinion. I look at someone like Andrew Tate and all I see is an insecure little boy. I feel very bad for those women who look at Tate and think that is what a real man is.
@@karabadasski2521 and an insecure little man conquered so much of modern media that u can't escape him and built a network and network of millions eh?
@@pavansampath1605 Just giving my opinion of what I see.
Yep! Were you married to my narcissistic ex? Happy or mad with a side of humor?
He says he doesn't make mistakes cuz he is trying to convince himself that he's perfect. He's such a narcissist that he is extremely insecure. His dad really hurt him.
He has such strong narcissistic tendencies...he's like a toddler. I find it unbearable to listen to his prattle.
yes, he does show up as a very insecure man when he can’t show emotions that’s such a turn off. The comment about not crying when you’re going to war well, I know a lot of men that didn’t cry when they went to war but they cried afterwards maybe because of what they seen where does that make them bad?? we have men killing themselves, literally taking their lives and women because of PTSD. He’s not helping this by telling people not to show their emotions they need to process the!!!!
I like alpha males, and he is nothing like an alpha male!! People have the definition of an alpha male all screwed up in my opinion!!! And Alpha does not destroy a female that’s not what good leaders do!!!
100%
Pfft I don't need to listen to this. I'm tired and going to work, because money never sleeps baby! zzzzzz
Never heard of this guy. Seems to be overflowing with internal pain, insecurities and anger.
I hope he finds peace & healing.
I agree. All I could think about is what happened to him in his childhood.
Anger = pain, hurt, and frustration.
Love your comment. Because I think exactly the same. He seems like he was seriously hurt. Maybe bullied. Now he's over compensating. Men like that make men's life harder
Even after you overcome everything there’s always going to be another hurdle maybe he thinks his hurdling days are over but talking out your ass won’t help shit.
he won in life, thats what happened to him. keep wondering
Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped. Could be when he started hating women and references chess so much.
As much as he puts on a tough exterior, he comes across as someone who's fearful of rejection, he has to keep proving his masculinity as if someone's going to take it away from him.
Clearly shows his mom is the only woman who has been able to tolerate his bullshit😂
That probably makes him dangerous to women and other people he thinks he can bully.
I got the same feeling. Like he questions his own masculinity because he knows his own truth but doesn’t think it’s right and is overcompensating.
Exactly!
This is so true
In every video I have ever watched of Spidey , he always so so respectfully refrains from sharing judgement and opinion of the persons character , even Amber heard . It is so so impressive and humble. But this was so beautiful and refreshing him sharing with us his feeling about Andrew's words , felt kind of comforting that he chose to share his perspective , vulnerably sharing frustration and emotion , but truly in the name of respecting women , and humanity and basic kindness. He is just so lovely , such fantastic character
I concur ❤
This was actually a great breakdown of someone's behavior/words/feelings to watch and I thought you did an excellent and FAIR job with it. You were careful to point out what was personal feeling vs analysis and gave credit where (surprisingly) credit was due. Quite well done. MUCH RESPECT! Thank you.
I do want to say, regardless of his ridiculousness and ignorance, Let's not underestimate the power of CTE (Chronic traumatic encephalopathy), esp in increasing aggression in people... he was a kickboxer. I personally know how multiple concussions can change a person's personality. It's real. Either way he needs help... he's not making too much sense and seems quite angry. Love the analysis, Spidey, you're amazing !
Some frontal lobe dysfunction certinly comes to mind. Repeated concussions, childhood severe encephalitis, covid infection in adulthood are just a few possible causes. Interwiewing his mum about her pregnancy, the birth and early years would be so interesting.
So, I’d never heard of this guy, but what he says sounds like a little boy who grew up being abused for having an emotion until he adopted his abuser’s views. I could be wrong and hope I am, because that’s a horrific way to have to grow up. But when he speaks, I just keep hearing an older man shouting “boys don’t cry.”
I absolutely agree. I look at him and all I see is a very insecure damaged person. I feel empathy for him but hes vile.
Well, guess what, if you look up videos on the internet where he talks about his father, this is exactly how he raised him. He would make him play chess until early in the morning even if he was extremely tired. He was a tough man, but he praises him, I guess in an attempt to negate the damage he did. As children develop coping mechanisms that try to keep them safe from what is being done to them. So denial is one of them
His father wasn't abusive to him but he wasn't a great example either. He taught him that when someone's hurting you you don't go to a teacher or parent, you deal with it yourself as a man. He was raised this way, to think that men are superior and because they're "superior" they can't show "negative" emotion, aka crying.
You pretty much defined the creation of a narcissist in your first sentence👍That's what toxic/narc parents do, give you hell to pay if you have an emotion or opinion that opposes or triggers them. So some of their kids will adapt to this by taking on this behaviour and becoming a narc just like them.
@@sarutucigash Narc children of narc parents die appeasing them, forever in denial of the abuse. It's only the non-narc children who recognise the abuse and can go on a healing journey which by the way gets hindered by the narc siblings who act as flying monkeys of the narc parent/s.
He's such an extreme example of toxicity that he's practically a caricature.
What is tates toxicity. He is so7ch polite compared to soldier trainer surgeon.
@@Tanvir9810 have you ever met one?
The guy has been played chess since he was four. Everything he does has a purpose.
I think he deliberately plays a caricature at times.
Fascinating stuff, thanks so much. Tate's energy is so disturbing. He spits so much hate when he talks, I need to get up and take a walk to brush it off whenever I catch a clip of him. His nervous system must be working very hard - he seems to be constantly in the 'fight' state.
Hope he's had his fuxinations...
i just noticed that around 29min in, when he said the women without kids would be depressed... KEYWORD DEPRESSED.... but he said depression isnt real, so by HIS logic, as long as they didnt believe in depression, they'd be fine!
i love what a humanistic approach you take with your analyses, spidey. you dont just try to shut people down and write them off entirely because you disagree wtih them. you try to understand what they're saying and why they might be saying it, even if they themselves dont. the world needs more people with your approach.
🤗 ❤️ this one was a tough one. Glad you enjoyed it
@@TheBehavioralArts I still disagree with you on that he should not be banned denying him a platform is not equal to freedom of speech. To let him use platforms he gets revenue from platforms if he is violating the rules of the platform then they have all the rights to get banned. If he was someone racist saying there would be more outrage
@@Kudeshka Well right, of course the platforms have the right to do so, legally, and I don't think anybody is against that or disagrees with that, however, what people do disagree with is the morality of it, the morality of banning people for their opinions and censoring peoples' voices/influence. It's not whether they should *be able* to do it, it's whether they should do it. Morally speaking
@@Mac10943 The thing is, his opinion includes hateful retoric that promotes violent behaviour, so allowing him to keep using their platform to spread that kind of violent approach is an indirect statement that the platform is ok with that moral value he is expressing and sharing, so the morality point is not that simple and straightforward (what I mean by that is that you could argue there is a morality issue if the platform decides to go for both options, banning him from their platform or not).
I’m 63, have never had any childern, been retired for a while, have a portfolio this baboon could only dream about, live on a barrier island only 400 yds from the beach and have had as many as 7 cats at once - i only have 3 now -one of which is sitting in my lap as i type this. It’s so sad we live in a world where people actually listen and take this “person” seriously. How messed up does your life have to be to take advise from this guy?
I'm hoping that will be me in a couple of decades.
Me too, retired, 68yrs, 5 cats and loads of semi tame wildlife that I feed. Oh yes, happy too but I must say this guy made me laugh all day. II always find the wrong things funny.
@@stephaniemoon8913 i find a lot of this stuff “funny” as I’m laughing at him but I find it mostly pathetic and the really sad part is all of his “followers”
When people ask what I aspire to I tell them "I'm an aspiring cat lady"
I dont want kids. None of my friends have any and most don't want any. But we all have cats lol and we are all in our 30s already. Pretty sure we are fairly happy with our choices.
Like attracts like. This toxic narcissist attracts the attention and sympathies of other toxic narcissists. Anyone who isn't like that can easily see through this guy's veneer and see the toxic personality disorders underneath.
I thought it was interesting that he said, "I have always wanted people to SEE me as successful and intelligent." Not "I want to BE successful and intelligent," but "I want to be SEEN as successful and intelligent." It shows that he prioritizes having an audience that sees him as this smart, strong, no-nonsense alpha-male kind of guy, which certainly lines up with everything else he's done.
Great catch! It sounds like an unintentional slip to me; whatever he believes about himself (and maybe he does believe he's everything he says he is, all contradictions aside), the point is that he's still looking for /eyebrow flash/ validation.
@@danielmclellan7762 It does! Give it another try! There’s an important difference between the faculty, and the aspiration.
He won't get that unless he completely changes his attitude.
Does this mean that he is unsuccessful and unintelligent, because that's how I see him?
It's all about appearances and image for a narcissist. He basically admitted his insecurities, that he thinks he's not successful or intelligent, but wants to give the impression that he is.
I love that quiet "says who?" when Tate is like "the happiest women are the ones that had children" bc I was mentally screaming the same "says who? What do you know?"
Also, about the "smile of disagreement," that's when we're basically thinking that someone else is being a total idiot or incredibly ignorant and trying to hold back saying so (or even laughing at what they're saying/doing) and raising tension further.
I know my most common thought when that expression hits is a sarcastic "sure, honey. Keep telling yourself that as if you know something."
Hugs to you Spidey! I could see how shaken you were by this. Sometimes there are people in this world who are not worth wasting any energy on.
This man is toxic on so many levels. Angry, insecure, and irrational. You nailed this Spidey. Thank you for the applied logic and analysis.
I agree...insecure....over-correcting. He was bullied in high school. In my opinion.
It's so crazy how this psycho talks so similarly to Amber lol they both speak out of the side of their mouths, not looking at who they're talking to, blank stares, putting on an accent, word salad, bragging through faux humility, etc.
Absolutely and this was very mild on how he really is. Tates going to jail I imagine for quite a while
@@jenn8179 he talked about being picked on as a kid in his final message video he released on GETTR last night.
I don’t know who that guy is, but even if he was what you say he is, angry, toxic,….!!!! Even if that’s true! He has become that way because of the things he went through. He wasn’t born that way. As I said I don’t know him but I saw small clips from him on TH-cam a few times and he was talking about this h.oo.k..up culture and he was right about everything. He is completely right that’s why what he says angers these third wave of femenism so easily. He exposes them easily. At the end of the day, believe it or not, what ever you do to people. It will be done to you/for you.
This guy is so afraid of anyone calling him a beta male, that he has turned himself into the most toxic example of both misogyny, and ironically, misandry. He perpetuates stereotypes that are harmful to men and women both, and he's preying on insecure men's emotions to enrich himself.
This is not a guy who is invested in empowering men, but in proving himself superior and the ultimate authority on what makes a 'real' man. My own armchair diagnosis is toxic narcissism 😏
Well said 👏 👌
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What is a woman?
...and how about gay? I think he may be homosexual but, is doing everything he can to deny this part of himself, and beat it out of himself with ultra toxic alpha male behavior. I think he's trying to convince himself, and the world..."I'm not gay, I'm not gay, I'm not gay!" He just won't accept it. He probably had a very toxic father who would probably beat the sh!te out of him if he came out of the closet. I think he needs serious therapy.
@@1NerdMa triggered much?
I'm 57, Iive alone, I have a cat. I chose not to have children. I'm a stereotype according to this infantile person, Andrew Tate. Truth is I am more happy now than ever. I could never of known of known the choices I made would bring me to peace and love. Freedom from societal norms is what has set me free.
Absolutely true words spoken there. Freedom from societal norms has set you free ! We should each choose to live how we wish to and not feel we have to go with the conditioned norm and expectations of what we “should” do. So glad you are happy. Much love to you and your little kitty. ❤️
You are a wonderful person in charge of her life without complying to societies expectations and pressures to live your life the way they feel everyone must live. I applaud you!
I am a mom/wife in my 30s, I very much wanted children and I think I would have been very sad not to have. At the same time, it is HARD WORK, especially the emotional labor of being a wife and mother. I can imagine the ease and peace of taking a different life path, like yours, I think many women are indeed very happy with this choice. Not having your own children doesn’t mean you don’t have a life filled with friends and family.
It is so damaging to put out there that if you can just change your thinking, depression will go away, as a mother that has suffered with depression and a daughter that has been admitted 3 times for suicidal ideology....This is so reckless!
It's the hard truth. If you identifiy as a depressed person that will just make it worse
@@Sauczibe mindful of what you state as a “hard truth” … depression is complex and how it impacts people (and identity) may vary outside of your “hard truth”
@@keivahummel People will always defend their excuses in life. Depression is one of them
@@Saucziyou clearly don’t know what you’re talking about and using absolutes weakens what you’re saying. Glad you don’t have that experience of navigating depression. Stay blessed.
@@keivahummelyou chooses to be depressed, good for you, there are people like us who don’t believe in that bvllsh!t, I can never be depressed no matter what I go through in life.
I had to watch this 3 times in order to hear what you said because I was laughing so much, I have never heard of this man and if I was a more charitable person I would feel sorry for him but I'm not. He is hilarious, I'm going to show my friends so we can all roll around on the floor laughing. Watching you with your beautiful, pristine, clear intellect trying to make sense of this fool was surreal, it's hard to believe you are the same species. I"m going to make a wild assumption here; I think this guy had an overindulgent mother who failed to protect him from a brutal father, now every woman on the planet is being held accountable for that. You are such a kind and brilliant man, a credit to your sex unlike this pathetic parody of manhood.Wonderful insightful work as always.
Great analysis again! Couldn’t help analyse your body language and behavior while doing this - you’ve been a great teacher 😀 And please tell me your watch tracks your heart rate. I’d love to know what rate it got up to 😂
Hahahahaha. It does not. But yeah… well observed.
Spidey is bothered a lot by this guy like I am. Tate is disgusting, I don’t blame him. This is one of the most emotionally invested analysis videos I’ve seen on here. I’m not made at it at all. It felt real and I truly related to the observations and interpretation.
Haha me too! First time I ever observed the teacher display anger and contempt. 😂 Well deserved in this case - another cracking video Spidey (even if it was one of the hardest to watch so far) thank you so much for all you teach us… at least you know we are learning 😉 🙏
That young woman talking about her passions and goals was so beautiful. She had the most amazing smile and bright eyes as she talked about something she loved. It just genuinely disgusts me that Tate just straight up started to shit all over it. Incredibly dehumanizing and gross. Imagine someone sharing something harmless and good with you that is close to their heart, and you’re just an asshole about it. He does not respect women to any extent at all.
Also, side note: my grandmother told the story of how, while fleeing to a bunker, her sister was hit by some kind of shard of a bomb/genade in her neck (idk how that stuf works, maybe it made some glass explode or maybe there are bomb type things that create sharp edges upon impact?) Her sister bled out in her arms and died. She told me this story without crying. I guess Tate would think she’s a real man for not crying. Glad to know that my grandmother is a real man 😂
Her having the most amazing smile and bright eyes is because she is an elite female. So what? Don't be fooled by that shallow charisma. I'm sure she's going to go off and make virtual reality systems for the army in between her successful acting career. Give me a break. I'm sure she's just around the corner from achieving that dream. Tate wasn't having any of her bs, and then he expressed his view on what makes women happy when they are older in life, saying that women who have families are happier than women who didn't and were married to their corporate jobs. Is he wrong? He's entitled to his opinion, and he expressed it. It's not dehumanising, it's a conversation. Whether you find it gross or not is on you. He respected those women enough to look them in the face and disagree with them. Being a yes man and just telling women what they want to hear isn't respect, it's treating them like they are children. And your response to a person having an opinion you don't like invites that behaviour.
@@iamthe80s49 Facts: He did NOT "look her in the face" and actually sat there expressionless while she spoke about her career goals. He didn't care. The only reason he asked the question is to set the stage for his own egotistical BS. It's a show, it's all about him no matter how ridiculous. He's a total narcissist who craves attention whether positive or negative. *Don't be fooled by his shallow (& ignorant) "charisma."
@@iamthe80s49 he wasn't looking in their faces, as the behavioral analyst said , watch the video again please.
He can express what he thinks, but the problem is that he can't respect or acknowledge that inspite of his truth, that others truths can exist, I'm childless because of the trauma I lived as a child, and that didn't allow me to develop as an adult should, I mean I like men but I don't know if I want a partner, I don't know if want all that trouble, I know what I would like to find in one, because I'm willing to try to give the same , but I'm trying to heal ,that right now I don't even think in getting involved in a relationship, I'm in my 40 so no children for me my biological clock is out of time, except that somehow I start to earn loads of money to get me through fertility treatments, and I far away of that position,money wise, maybe if I met a man that I want to have a family with, and had the money ,maybe I would go through it or maybe adopt a child,but that is not easy task and is not easy to do in my country, but in this time of my life I don't see anything of that happening, and I'm not depressed, sad if I end up not having children,I have nieces I love them like they were my own ,but I don't know if I could have them 24/7 . Yes when I'll be older I would be alone but that isn't something new in my life
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I am so sorry your grandmother had to go through that. I will tell you that as someone who as also who as gone through trauma. The more time has gone by as well as the more times you tell the story the easier it is to say without so much emotion. It’s like a type of exposure therapy. Do I still get teary eye once in a while telling my story, of course I do. But I also use “dark humor” as defense mechanism to cover emotions. But I have also said my story with my normal happy voice. Trauma is weird like that and everyone deals with it in different ways.
I agree. I loved the way the women shared what pulled on her heart strings and her hopes and dreams. Who says she can’t have this world and a family. It was heartbreaking to someone crush the dreams of someone else. AT said its my way or the highway. I had someone do this to me with Religion shooting down my belief and saying her interpretation of a bible verse was the right way. For me I listen to everyone’s beliefs as long as you will listen to my beliefs, who knows I may be able to take some of your beliefs and adapted them to mine. But when this person told me I had the devil inside me because I had a medical problem, I shut down and stoped listening to her.
I have to applaud you for your valiant effort in trying to find some shred of humanity in Tate. I can't though. And that's because he really is a dangerous man. His message is soaked in pure hatred of women. He provides justification for all of these broken, resentful, entitled men who harbor deep violent fantasies towards women and would love to act upon their hatred.
i agree! there are a few things he's said which, to me, make sense (the ones in this video which Spidey also agrees with - and i have to make clear, ONLY them) but i cannot look past the vile person he is as a whole
@@meghan2353 Right? I mean Stalin said a few things that made sense too.
What makes him dangerous?
Spreading ignorance to malleable minds@@mosesg5223... Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
@@mosesg5223 His has extreme contempt for women. He views them as subhuman, an enemy to be conquered and he promotes the idea that women are by nature supposed to be subservient to men. And women who aren't submissive to men are sluts and whores. He says any woman who goes out for a girl's night out is cheating on you because the only reason a woman would go out in public, without her boyfriend, is to cheat. He says your girlfriend should delete her social media accounts to demonstrate her loyalty to her boyfriend. Because the only reason a woman has a social media account is to pursue men. He promotes using violence against women who are noncompliant.
He's basically a date rape/toxic masculinity cliche in human form. And INCELS listen to him. That makes him dangerous.
To me the smile of disagreement is 1) heavily disagreeing 2) finding the position/attitude so ridiculous it's actually comical.
Love your shock over the "maybe I will shock her into compliance" and the " why is that the goal?????" 🤣🤣🤣
I recently witnessed a clearly socially anxious guy trying to talk tough by yelling aggressively in a crowded street. Like a nerdy guy auditioning for the role of a hardened criminal. Looked really weird. Everyone just walked past.
Days later, I hear about Andrew Tate’s philosophy on Australian TV, and just know that guy on the street was trying his act. I imagine his followers aren’t too intelligent. This will backfire greatly for many.
Sounds like neighbor.
How does he know what life is like as a woman?!? He really doesn’t deserve my attention whatsoever but I love your channel so I’ll watch. Love you Spidey!🕸💕
Edit - after watching nearly the entire video, I just can’t with this guy. He’s what’s wrong with men, people in general. The idea women are incomplete without kids is infuriating!
He wouldn't last a day - or certainly not one cycle!!
Also I am 51 and have two daughters, I won't be a grandma for quite a few years!! Who is knitting on the front porch at 54 as he implied?
When the loser said “life as a man is harder than life as a woman” I rolled my eyes SO hard I somehow felt it in my head. I have never consumed any content with this and I’m just forwarding past the parts where he’s speaking and only watching when Spidey’s talking. I probably won’t be able to stomach the next video.
@@AnnelisR I suppose that the idea that the electricity that powers your computer was brought to you by a man has never occurred to you.
@@AnnelisR I was thinking something similar.. I know what it is like to be a man, I have NO idea what it is like to be a woman.. Some things in my life are hard, some things in other people's lives are hard, some things in my life are easy, some things in other people's lives are easy.. I have no context from anyone else's life to compare difficulties, life is tough for everyone in very different ways... The guy comes off as an idiot, and makes me wonder how many people judge me as a man based on people like this guy...
This was a hard one for me. As a daughter of a highly decorated WWII POW Veteran - I listened to Dad's stories of the horrors of war, landing his plane filled with shrapnel after every mission, to the final mission ending in a bail-out in enemy territory after his plane was shot down, the death march through the snow he survived but witnessed numerous allies and members of his squadron fall to their deaths, the severe daily beatings over a 2-week period that ensued once they reached the prison camp, contined injuries he sustained during his time of imprisonment, me reading his actual POW wartime log, viewing pictures of him in his POW camp, reading through his lengthy handwritten, finely detailed chronicle of his experiences from day one of his military life to post military life and on through his mid 70's (he passed at 78), his many speeches and presentations of his experiences of war and then the disgusting racism once he returned home - although the a big war hero, he was given less than treatment for being of Mexican-American decent. The exposure to it all throughout my entire life up until his death. It was painful, heartbreaking and still is as those memories still linger 25 yrs later.
Based on what I was second hand exposed to, it is my firm personal opinion that Mr. Tate has absolutely NO right to comment about any man (or woman or child) that has/had lived or died by or even that is currently in the throes of war - just as much as I DO NOT have any or right to do so myself as I have not (by the grace of God) had any of those experiences myself.
My father's generation is know as the greatest generation and we should honor and respect them for what they experienced and accomplished.
We also MUST always respect the sacrifices of our ALL our Armed Forces - for it is by them we are free and have the freedom of speech. Though, that freedom of speech in my opinion should never include any interpretation of THEIR experiences, THEIR thoughts or THEIR feelings. Especially to be used so fleetingly by any person showboating their own personal opinion of what it was like to be in their boots. That is disrespectful and painful to our WWII Military that served though horrors we cannot begin to even imagine. As my father put it, "pure hell".
Additionally, the same goes for ANY Vet or civillian who has/had experienced or is currently personally experiencing war. We non-war exposed civilians have no right to ever speak upon any of their experiences but to only show our eternal respect and eternal deep gratitude for THEIR selfless sacrifices.
I'm disgusted he even uttered those words.
He will NEVER even remotely come close to the heroic actions and resilience of others in the positions that unfortunately were there.. My heart goes out to all war exposed individuals who have been exposed to Mr. Tate's clumsiness & carelessness with his words & example.
His commentary on what it is like to be a woman vs a man in life, holy cow. I, as a born female, have absolutely 100% no ability to state what it is like to be a man just as much as I do not have the ability to claim or state what is is like to be an alien from some far off planet. I haven't a clue what it would be like to be a man. Or an alien for that matter.
(As for saying I'm female born - this is absolutely not used with any intent of ill will to my LGBTQ+ community. I am a full, loving, supportive ally of your beautiful community. I simply say female born as that has been my own personal, singular experience - the upbringing, grooming of, etc., since day one of my life. That is the only experience I can undoubtedly rely on and draw from to state my honest opinion here.)
As for the rest of his commentary it appears as he truly has experienced some real significant trauma in his life that has severely affected him - leaving with some deep rooted pain and scarring memories.
I wish him peace. I wish him to find some real honest joy. Most of all I wish him some reconciliation to what appears as internal chaos & fury. I will put a good will intention of energy out to him for those wishes of mine to him. It is my own opinion that there is no greater strength than a sense of peacefulness within oneself. It doesn't come easy to some of us, I know that for a fact. I have C-PTSD, chronic depression/anxiety & have fought hard to forgive & forget and I continue to fight daily for my right to that strength of internal (and external too) peace. If it was just as easy to flip a switch to turn it all off I would run to be first in line. Unfortunately, that not how it works. Now that's is a my own personal battle that I can honestly comment.
Spidey - you are brilliant. Your vast experience and detailed narrative presentations truly help us understand this subject matter so much more easily that it would be otherwise. Your rare unbiased nature and human kindness of those less desirable is worthy of sainthood.
Shut up
So well said, thank you Kathleen. Every word you say here resonates for me.
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Fantastic post, and thank you for sharing! 😃
Now THAT is a response worth applauding. 👏
Why is it that people who say "Men aren't emotional", "Facts don't care about your feelings", "Showing feelings is weak", etc always forget ANGER IS AN EMOTION!!
I think you completely nailed it at the 42:00 min mark where you mention that he is possibly over-correcting and trying to prove himself to **someone** in his life whom may or may not be around anymore, but the impact of whatever he has gone through lives on.
As someone with years of depression I couldn't help but laugh at his take on depression. As is rightfully said in the video, depression is a (or causes a) physiological change in the brain. My depression stems not from sadness or emotional experiences as much as from the fact that I got medicine over a long time that crippled my brain. My neurons have literally shrunk which affects the brain function in certain areas. Which means that you also can't break your arm if you don't believe in broken bones? Since that is also caused by a physiological traumatic event.
The most delusional thing is him thinking he is intelligent😆
He is incredibly intelligent man, what are you on about?
IQ of 146. Not intelligent??
Very Well Said 😉
@@yawns2170 it depends on how you are measuring intelligence. He’s street smart but his speech doesn’t show higher order thinking.
He’s a world class chess player when he was just 6 year old
Hi Spidey! I love the channel, and I think you do an amazing job of staying impartial about subjects that are generally very emotional, but I have to disagree with your analysis of Tate's underlying message. I know you already acknowledged that he has an underlying misogyny, but saying that it's 'the way he says things' and not his core message that is the main problem is to me a little off. His statements are driven by misogyny and narcissism. His point isn't that "people should maintain their composure", it's that women are physiologically incapable of being as emotionally mature as men, and that men who aren't always emotionally blank are basically women. Looking at how often he repeats this kind of rhetoric in his other videos has me convinced his underlying message has nothing to do with people bettering themselves, and everything to do with helping insecure men making themselves feel better at the expense of women and other men, but especially women. I think I understand why you've given him the benefit of the doubt, you're looking at this from the perspective of a good man. But Tate is not a good man. He's a man who beat a crying half-naked woman with a belt on video. He is a bad man who thinks he is a good one. And I think that making his messages into something more decent only gives his supporters the ability to argue that it's his "delivery" that people hate, and not the fact that his rhetoric itself is dangerous and cruel.
Sorry for the spiel, my kid brother got really into this guy a few months back and started saying some very derogatory things to me and my mother while I was home on summer break, and I eventually found out that he was parroting Andrew Tate. Having seen how Tate's words can affect young people has made me very passionate about the guy and how damaging his content really is. I was very excited to see that you'd made a video on him, and overall I think you did a great job, criticism aside!
I’m with you 100% and my biggest problem is the effect he has on young men. I just try to see the silver lining in everything and I’m preemptively addressing the comments who say “but he’s teaching strength of character.” I’m basically saying whatever he wants to say there are a million better ways to say it.
BY THE WAY! I think the story of your brother is EXTREMELY important to share. Because anyone who says Andrew is playing a character is missing the fact that wether he is or not it has a bad effect on impressionable kids. I urge you to share that story with people in the comments making the “he’s just a character” argument
Thank you! And thank you for this video, I really appreciate you taking the time to show people why Tate’s ‘intelligent, macho’ persona is riddled with holes. Can’t wait to see what you put out next!
@@TheBehavioralArts Absolutely right on Spidey. Perfect analysis...
Exactly
Spidey showed some mild clips. This guy is a monster...
10000% agree! I was scrolling the comments for ages looking for this type of comment!
It honestly made me quite uncomfortable that Spidey was almost minimising the harm he’s causing down to just the way he presents his arguments rather than the points themselves.
I understand wanting to get ahead of those kind of comments, but I think pointing out how all those things were NOT his underlying messages would’ve been far more helpful and true to the material. He wasn’t teaching strength of character, he was spouting sexist nonsense, and the two cannot be separated as Spidey tried to do.
This is so well done. You unpacked it perfectly. Honestly, you also had me laughing A LOT. 🤣
You actually defeated this dudes and exposed his entire fake persona. You opened my eyes
Everything about Tate points to deep-seated insecurities that he tries to mask by appearing intimidating all the time. He is the little dog who barks all the time because he is afraid of everything.
Absolutely agree
How can a former fighter who won 4 championships be insecure? This never make any sense to me
@@realg7849 There is no correlation between a physical skill and emotional security. Maybe it was his insecurities that propelled him to become a fighter, because deep down he feels like a weak, stupid, powerless little boy (Probably how his father made him feel). He needs therapy to heal, no amount of sport trophies will fix a broken mind.
@Talki2themoon I never understood why people use these conversation stoppers when their opinions are challenged or when someone has different opinion from their own. Most leftists, feminists and democrats use shaming, insulting and dismissive tactics such as "you're insecure", "you're misogynist", etc. You just called me dumb to invalidate my argument.
Thank you for your willingness to apply real logic to this. I appreciate your willingness to see some possible logic of his that is underneath his emotional dysfunction. You truly try to be as objective and unbiased as possible. This is a rare trait and creates a credibility, which means more to me than anything. I love your integrity.
Dude!!! That was an awesome breakdown.
Excellent points made.
Glad I found ur channel thru Behavior Panel.
Thanks brother.
Thanks so much ❤️ glad you found the channel too
Spidey, I LOVE that you address some of the logical fallacies here. It's one of my pet peeves when dealing with difficult people (like inmates, or administrators). And I think it's so pervasive in MANY aspects of our external environments -- like politics and marketing. Some people, like Tate, are simply unaware of their flawed logic ... but others take advantage of the collective blinds spots. One of the most common logical fallacies I see people fall prey to is "if it makes sense, it must be true." All you have to do is show a seemingly loose connection between two points, get that first agreement, and then move them over to your side of the board. Grrrrrrr!!
I hit the like button before I saw the video. And if I could I would like it again! This was hilarious! 😂 As always. 👏👏👏
As a nurse my head goes immediately to the long term effects from medication, diet, lifestyle as well as the nurture effects of upbringing and young adulthood, and genetics and physiology. I see someone who speaks rapidly, might have some underlying aggression that he’s trying to suppress, and possibly the latent effects of steroids (not necessarily illegal steroid use) possibly steroids needed to treat illness or growth hormones given to correct or treat growth and development that is behind the expected growth curve.
If I ever talk to someone who truly genuinely believes and follows what Tate says and his point, I’ll simply just have to point and laugh at them. I cannot fathom how someone would be fooled by this grown up toddler ranting about stupid shit with awful points. Thank you spidey for doing the internet a service and explaining why he’s a dingus
My brother is turning into this guy-not completely there yet, but yeah. I don’t know if he’s been specifically watching this guy, but he’s definitely been watching the FreshnFit videos. I just want you to know they’re exactly as ridiculous as they seem, and 10000% as frustrating in person.
Grown up toddler. Yup
Stupid points when they are infact logical
I'm 40 and very happy to pay my own bills and live with cats. That was actually always my dream since I was little.
This “man” needs therapy so bad.
I’ve disgusted and in completely shocked.
Thank you for your work! 🙏
He is so insecure he's boxing himself into his own little world. I love this discussion great job.
His insecurities and deep rooted mummy and daddy issues speak loud
I'd never heard of Andrew tate before this and I kinda wish I could go back to that. He seems like an absolute monster
You have no idea! Scary rich monster!
Fucjin neeks
The scary thing about this guy is the amount of young boys following him! My 14 year old daughter tells me many of the boys in her grade became obsessed with him over the summer. So sad and all the more reason parents need to stay on top of what their kids are looking at on social media!
More boys and men need to listen to what Andrew has to say.
@@sarthakmishra2825 Ok Sarthak, I'll bite. Why should more boys and men listen to him? Be real now; I'm a mom with kids so I'm down to have a serious conversation.
@@pixiedust548 So the thing is,
How many masculine role models you can see these days for boys? (and the matter of fact a girl should have a masculine role model in her life too)
Testosterone level has been decreased over past few years now,
People talking about Andrew being aggressive (which is an emotion)
Fyi, aggression is a masculine trait, you cannot push the boundary without aggression.
A man should be aggressive in these competitive world in order to grow and achieve success and then to maintain a successful life.
Andrew wants todays men to be accountable, be responsible, be powerful,
Then what is wrong with a successful Man encouraging other men to be MEN?
your so right
I agree with literally everything you've said in this one.
And Spidey I love how you went through both your videos. You truly are a master at this.
The funny thing about the moms regretting having children is that they won't tell their children but they will tell others - especially young women without children. I met a lot of women in their 50s and 60s when I was in my 20s who told me they loved their children and wouldn't give them up but that they don't recommend it. Two women I met actually said they regret it. Yes, they love their kids and would die for them now, but they wish they had taken a different path.
Well done Spidey, a brilliant analysis!
I love the passion you brought to this discussion, i feel the same way and glad someone can say it in such an elegant way. 🤩
Great analysis Spidey! I learn such a lot from you and it is eye opening 👀 I have a lot of aha moments! I feel that the ban is warranted. The things he said are so offensive! He can voice his opinions on his own media platform. I suppose one can say that those of us who are against his viewpoints, can switch off or not follow him but giving him a platform on social media is giving him an opportunity to offend and insult. His views can lead to abuse across-the-board! All the best! Great content as always!
A big part of his audience is children and a lot of teachers saw students who mimicked him and banning him is making him less accessible to children. If you say things that go against the rules of the platform then there is no reason to grant him the platform you get revenue from this platforms so they are your employer
Great analysis as always Spidey. What I think remains to be said is this: because of people like this kid, men continue to isolate themselves instead of looking for help, people with depression that listen to messages like this continue to isolate themselves. This is toxic at its highest level.
My sister recently asked help for her depression and her general physician told her she didn't have depression, to go home and sleep. She tried to take her own life a couple days after that.
Invalidating others feelings has reprecussions that people like Tate don't even take into consideration because content at the expanse of others is worthy to them. Despicable.
To think we fight so hard for awareness, for mental health... Anyway, thank you for your analysis Spidey.
Thank you for sharing that sad story. I hope your sister is feeling much better in herself. I completely agree with you. Tate's messages are not just making these young men behave toxically, it's severely endangering their mental health as well.
"men continue to isolate themselves istead of looking for help" - Let me stop you there. First - How do you KNOW? Are you a man? Are you talking from a man's perspective? If ur not man, please don't speak for YOUNG MEN, because you DON'T KNOW. You are barking at the wrong tree here. Question is.... WHY ARE MEN LOOKING UP FOR HIM? Can you guess? Maybe it's a lack of male role model in ther lives, huh? One in four children in USA live without a biological, step, or adoptive father in the home. Now, what is the risk factors of abscent father? Poverty, behavioral problems, problems with law, infant mortality, more likely to commit crime, obesity, more likely to drop out of school, more likely to face abuse and neglect, depression and mental problems, alcohol and drug abuse, suicide. Now, people like Andrew Tate is still a problem, or the problem is actually more important issues?
I hate to break it to you but quite often men reach out for help and there isn't any available to them. I work with male victims of domestic violence, in many places there is nothing available to them because it's a "Women's issue". If they call the police to report abuse, they get arrested because police department policy is to remove the man from the situation. If they leave their spouse they are abandoning their children. If they take the children, they are kidnappers. While I think Andrew Tate is a dick, he does occasionally make some good points. You can't react with emotion when dealing with a system that actively hates you.
@@YabbaDabbaDoTime although I was talking from a mental health perspective, like professional help, I understand your point of view. And I'm so sorry that that continues to happen to male victims. I've witnessed first hand the laughter that a man faced because he was being abused by a woman. No one should have to live in fear and shame, also no one should feel that they need to pretend that they don't have feelings or depression. My response is from watching these clips that Spidey presented and I still think that from what I saw, the message is not good.
How is it toxic? Most of what he does is attempt to help men its by no means toxic
Great video spidey, you seem to be a really kind and generous person.
Spidey, you are great at teaching me! I even noticed several signs of contempt while you were talking about this man.
Spidey, i love what you shared here! I was just reading about depression this morning, so it’s funny you discussed it in this video! Interestingly, the latest research actually shows that depression is NOT caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. 🤯 There’s a lot of contributing factors, and they don’t fully understand a lot about it. I recommend the book Lost Connections by Johann Hari is you want to learn more about it! It’s a great read!
Damn lol. Seems Things have changed since I got my degree 12 years ago haha. But the fact remains there are physiological considerations there… … right? 🤔 😆
@@TheBehavioralArts you're right🤜
@@TheBehavioralArts yes! The main contributors seem to be childhood trauma, loneliness/isolation, and a lack purpose, but there does seem to be a genetic component as well. Regardless, the impact of brain chemistry on depression doesn’t negate the rest of your video, which was so educational and entertaining (as always)!
@@aleece4 thank you for bringing this up. This has been well known in the natural health world for many years. Emotional and physical health both play a part. A huge contributing factor is gut microbiome dysbiosis. There's plenty of research, it just hasn't made it into the mainstream (there's also a financial incentive there).
@@TamarDart As the brain develops with trauma as a child it creates new pathways which lead to these imbalances. Learning new ways can make changes though like anything.
I laughed so hard at -10:35. Loved the raw emotion and the swear. I think (opinion) you are a stand-up person. Videos are well done, and your spoken thoughts just make me want to stop every now and then when I scroll through youtube. The reason why is becuase your stance on these views are well controlled. You have a sympathy that I personally love seeing. Side note, I have no ill will towards Tate. He's as human as it gets, I do think he did better at kickboxing then he did being an "Influencer". He has definitely hit a ceiling. One day his memory will fade and what will be left is the controversial topic of his name. On the other hand, is creators like yourself who inspire. To you, I wish the best in your climb. May you never have a ceiling. To the bluest sky's and beyond. Thanks for the content.
Cheers to that
He didn't make millions from kickboxing
@@realg7849 I think you're right. He made money on cam girls. I'd recommend to see him talking about it. Not sure if those interviews are still available but it's even more shocking that what he said in those examples
For me it looks like he simply never got out of puberty.
Tate could be suffering from Arrested Development.
Personal conclusions and objective truths 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 thank you, Spidey.
I absolutely love your content! Please never stop making great videos
In regards to the cherry picking argument and the soldiers of Normandy, Tate was also picking a very specific moment in their lives. Just because they weren’t crying at that time (which, by the way, he can’t prove) doesn’t mean that they didn’t cry when all the fighting was done.
You're fascinating. Not many people can keep me listening for hours. I appreciate your thoughts and your experience. I think you'll be a good father
You want to see a true, honorable man, Spidey? LOOK IN THE MIRROR!
I have followed you long enough to see how upset he made you. He made me just as upset, but I never could have discussed or analyzed him as calmly and intelligently as you did.
It wasn’t easy for you, but you rocked it, man!
I am so proud of you!
🥹🥹🥹. That’s so kind of you. Thanks.
I just came across your channel, and I am so hooked!!!! I love the way you explain everything so clearly. Thank you very much for sharing this valuable knowledge!
In my opinion a lot of his beliefs come from his relationship with his father. He always looked up to his father who was a chess grand master and uses the same steeple gesture with his hands. His father only gave him attention when he was performing well at things. Chess (Andrew was a champion chess player at 5) and he became the world champion at kick boxing. His father was happy with these achievements.
His father was away weeks at a time and left them at home for his mother to raise. He only came home for a short time and then left again. His father was misogynistic too. If his mother annoyed the father then his father would walk out and only come back 2 weeks later.
His father didn't have money and I think that's why he is so driven to make money.
Everything he does is to fill the hole in his soul to be the man his father wanted him to be... Show no weakness and be successful in all areas of your life.
His father was NOT a Grandmaster. He only made it to International master and sonny boy never won ANY chess tournaments and his belts came from second tier fight organizations. Your mistake was in believing all Tate's lies about how great he is.
25:30 I used to work as a salesman, and with certain clients you gotta act like that to close the deal faster. You know why they open the mouth? It's because they're so focused on how theylook and behave that they forget how to breathe. In other words, it's evidence they're just faking being above everyone else. Deep down, they KNOW it's just a facade.
4:00 as a wolf 🐺 lover and advocate I'm glad he's not wearing a wolf on his shirt because wolves are intelligent and beautiful and very social and take care of each other and respect each other, with a hierarchy that they all respect, and the most successful alphas, male and female, of packs are kind and considerate and look out for everyone, they're not bullies or hypermasculine or anything Tate is desperate to be.
It's unfortunate and in my opinion kind of dangerous that he has such a large following of young males because the main thing he would inspire them to do is be angry and possibly violent.
Okay 1: I think this is the first time I've heard you "beep yourself". And I totally understand - and agree with - why you did it!!
2: his "I don't make mistakes". There's a very simple answer to why he thinks that he doesn't: he's a narcissist. (And mysogenist and possibly also psychopath). To him, making a mistake equals knowing what you do and deliberately do it wrong. That doesn't make it a mistake - that just makes it lack of moral/ethics and/or lack of respect.
3: when he shoots down the woman in red's dream ... Almost all the women in the left side of the screen looks down - shame. Shame for wanting more for themselves than "just" man, family and financial security. Shame for having dreams.
3b: the woman with the "weird" smile ... It's an "anger & contempt but I have to smile"-smile.
4: the way he talks about people, especially women, ... To me, those are signs, that he has been faulted for being emotional, maybe crying, not having dreams for the future. Most likely by a woman. He might also have been cheated on, told that he hasn't got big enough b*lls and/or knows someone depressed - or has battled depression himself. (And been told that he just have to "pick himself up by the roots" and/or "just see the positive in life" [which I personally find disrespectful and proves some degree of stupidity: you don't CHOOSE to be depressed!!).
Overall impression?
* I love your analysis, find you knowledge and eye for details amazing and love the way you share it with us. Thank you ❤
* I really cannot stand that guy. Won't be choosing to watch any of his stuff willingly
Loved the video, love your observations, as usual. I'm always so fascinated and have learned a lot from you. Thanks, keep up the great work.
Love watching your videos! Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
It's ironic that he's ragging on men for being emotional while being angry and crass about everything he says
Good call. Denies all other emotions, accesses the one remaining emotion super hard because he doesn't realize it's an emotion.
This guy was hilarious. If I was young and dumb, I could see how I would fall for all of this. I'm glad we have people like you that actually have some logic.
I’ve never heard of Andrew Tate before, but my first impression is that he had something happen to him, that made him feel emasculated, and never healthily dealt with the weight he carried inside of him, due to it. Maybe he also didn’t have very strong role models around him, at that time, to help him develop past the traumatic event, so he developed his post-event mentality/lifestyle from cherry-picked, Hollywood shows. Just an opinion, though.
What I also picked-up, is that he speaks very cultish, and that was confirmed, in my mind, when you said he speaks to a very specific type of people. By the way, I also believe that not everyone that comes across as “cultish”, is malignant. There is A LOT of benign, cultish mentality/activity, that will never end up destroying people. It’s a sliding scale. BUT his demeanor still comes across as cultish, imo.
Essentially, he’s just an angry man, with unresolved issues.
Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped
Maybe that's where it began but he is involved with Romanian gangs, fraud etc. This video shows very little of how horrible he is.
@@barrymaxwell3487 Yeah, you may be on to something there (chess/parents divorcing/gangs). If a timeline were written out of his life, I would put a circle around that time period, as being something to look at further.
Study just came out that the happiest women are single and childless.
lol I definitely loved when Spidey got a little triggered, but at the same time I completely agree! This Andrew Tate guy seems like an aggressive person person who needs some serious bootcamp-like counseling. Spidey I love everything you share with us and all the work you do! You make me laugh and confirm all of tge things I'm thinking to be true 😂 I love it! Thank you for your time, always!
Thanks Spidey, he clearly has issues and seems to be appealing to people experiencing similar issues with self esteem and feelings of worth.
I wish he debated with Jordon Paterson. That would be a good show. Hahaha
@26:30 I think the "disagreement smile" is considered a smile because of the dimples. I also think it propagates to the eyes. I was having a similar reaction through this video, literally laughing at the absurdity at some points. Not because it made me happy, but because I found it absurd. Although I'm not sure why we react in such a manner to absurdity.
P.S. Thank you by the way for the amazing analises you do on your channel - very much appreciated!
Well structured breakdown of the actual communication and message behind the "noise". Thank you. Insightful.