4:55 - Input, process, output, feedback 7:30 - ENTP + INTJ 10:12 - Interaction styles - Season 2 & 15 15:45 - Relationships from the Cognitive Functions standpoint 18:50 - Ni Hero Willpower 22:07 - INTJ is incapable of giving the ENTP a bad experience 24:25 - INTJ helps ENTP think straight, thoughts organized 27:42 - ENTP's lack morality, but INTJ can help with Fi Child 34:16 - ENTP's growth would be stunted with xNFJ/xSFJ but INTJ... 37:02 - The Internet? Season 17 40:55 - Who watches the Watcher? 44:38 - Another story of an ENTP 46:13 - I guess it won't be me either... I too am a Starter Type 47:35 - From the INTJ's point of view 50:10 - Lucifer was an ENTP, Jesus was an INFJ...interesting 🤔 51:20 - Truth or Dare 53:00 - INTJ's are insecure about... 54:58 - You hit the nail on the head my brother. I have the biggest crush on an INFJ at my church. We "talked" for a few months. I caught feelings, got scared of being called a Simp because she has a child, ghosted her, she cried, I apologized, she forgave me, we remained friends, I've been trying to get her back for the last 3 years but Idk if she'll ever give in, I have my eye on an INTJ sister... 57:00 - Fear gets in the way of this relationship-ENTP/INTJ 1:00:40 - LOVE 💗
I was so looking forward to this one! Female INTJ here and gosh I love ENTPs. You guys light me up. For how many INTJ and INTP friends I have, I cannot for the life of me find many ENTPs. Please mail them to the Seattle area, thanks.
My sibling is an INTJ. Pretty dope relationship. Never met an INTJ woman though, or aware of it. But I can already tell I'd be head over heels for a sassy smartass with hard logic. But I know they are softies deep down. It appeals to me on way too many levels. I get that people wanna pair INFJs with ENTPs, and ENFPs with INTJs. It makes sense. But this pairing is just playing on 'easy mode'. NTs can just go fucking wild on eachother. No filter. No fluff. And the other NT is just like, "okay, dope" It's always relaxing when you're not afraid of stepping on someone's toes.
@zile8869 Do you understand how source functions work? All Ti users are thinkers. All Fi users are feelers. If you stereotype by letters, you're going to have a bad time. Even Fe doms show that they're thinkers if you spend enough time around them (how well they think, is variable, lol) And I've personally known a few ENTJs that are shockingly sensitive.
@@chriskozak7356 of course I understand how source functions work. I'm a mf genius! I am not "stereotyping by letters". I am stating facts. Yes INFJs are thinkers. But they still prioritize Fe over Ti, so they care more about what's considered "good", than what's true. Even if they "think" for themselves, their thinking isn't their main priority! Other people's feelings are. Also, you miss the whole point of "source function". The point is, the source functions are really the only actual functions. The extraverted "functions", aren't really "functions" at all, rather they represent our ability to make use of functions external to ourselves.
of course I understand how source functions work. I'm a mf genius! I am not "stereotyping by letters". I am stating facts. Yes INFJs are thinkers. But they still prioritize Fe over Ti, so they care more about what's considered "good", than what's true. Even if they "think" for themselves, their thinking isn't their main priority! Other people's feelings are. Also, you miss the whole point of "source function". The point is, the source functions are really the only actual functions. The extraverted "functions", aren't really "functions" at all, rather they represent our ability to make use of functions external to ourselves.
INTJ male here. I dated an ENTP 5 years ago and it was the best match I’ve ever had. We worked everything out and there was so much passion and trust. Unfortunately she betrayed me when her family attacked me and it broke our bond. We tried to work through this but I understood the grip her family had on her and accepted she wouldn’t leave them for me. I would never expect that nor would it be right for me to ask. It was by far the best relationship I’ve ever had and nothing has even come close. Sadly we went out seperate ways although I’ve never stopped thinking about how good we were. Right girl at the wrong time. If only I knew where the ENTP females are hiding…
INTJ ladies, you're never going to get what you want from people if you worry about being abandoned. You have to accept that it has already happened. let loyalty pleasantly surprise you. Atleast you know you won't abandon yourself so work on your attachment issues and develop a more secure attachment. If people leave you, you damn well have the right to say that they were not FOR YOU. and that means that they are nothing to you so forget about them and keep giving people a chance to be special to you. Our odds are 1/1000 atleast so yeah you need to be abandoned by 1000 people before you can get that 1 person who will stick by you through thick and thin!! Keep going okay, don't shut the world out. Be brave!
I, as an INTJ woman, have an anxious-avoidant attachment style, and my ENTP crush has a dismissive-avoidant attachment style, which is incredibly difficult to navigate and everything moves at a snail's pace. I'm usually not afraid of losing people I'm not into, but when I'm really into someone (especially in a romantic way, which only happens once every few years), the fear of losing them is unbearable.
@@LenaKelly-u6e This sounds like me when I was in the early stages of relationship with my ENTP. You should prioritize working on your attachment issue, self regulation.. try to develop some more "avoidant" tendencies. I also understand the fear of losing them, it was unbearably painful for me. Somehow things worked out when I gave up focusing on wanting him. I don't really know how it worked it, kind a miracle tbf. Try hanging out with him more often and also try wanting him less if that's even possible. Best of luck to you
Do you happen to have other social media in order to communicate? You seem to have a wealth of knowledge about INTJs and I would love to find a way to discuss more if you are open to it.
I'm a rare female INTJ and I haven't been this excited to watch a video well since last night but it was a different type of video 😊 Happy to hear that there are male ENTPs that are out there wanting a female like me. Hopefully I will come across a single male ENTP soon because I do some of my best negotiations in the bedroom
Since you're an INTJ female, may I ask your opinion on something? Do you consider yourself romantic? If so, what would could a guy do to really get your attention? I'm currently trying to get the attention of an INTJ girl that I like and could use some ideas.
Great Video CS Joseph! Your content is tremendously awesome. The video is talking is more in the context of ENTP males and INTJ females. INTJ males like me seem left behind😅. Like " Those people (intj male) are just there " you know what I mean. Apart from Enoch any other INTJ Man character in the Bible? Someone worth to follow and imitate. I heard 50cent is a good example as well. We appreciate your work man! First pile of followers right here❤
The definitions behind each personality type are not only nuanced, complicated and long winded, they are up to effectively infinite interpretations, and on top of that, "everyone is everything;" how tf am I supposed to understand my type or anyones or even begin to decide what type they are?
Focus on the components on the type grid and focus on tendencies. 80/20 each behavior and see which traits have a majority. Once you do it often (Build up your internal roledex), you’ll start to effortlessly see the difference in each type and understand people better.
alot of great points, also alot of inconclusive ones, intjs like entps are great but not without their faults. my growth as a person was stunted due to the intj that was in my life for so long. i find my needs being met significantly better by istjs, intjs are way too self involved to provide needs for anyone else and i know how that sounds. it all sounds great on paper but life has other plans for us all.
I met an INTJ, she loved me so much but she was such a loser (due to implosion). It would litterally take me years to make her start improving her life and she would leave the country with me, I didnt like that idea. I knew we had the synergy, i just didnt want to keep helping her. She kept making me uncomfortable and accused me of lying all the time, I never did, I actually tried being as precise as possible, so I left her, I gave up on her. Then she went ballistic and sent litteral death threats to me through 3rd parties. Thank god she dont know where I live. I wouldnt be dead, but my apartment would definitely be trashed. Oh yeah, she gave me a fake name
I've reached out to you before and watched old content. I could be wrong but I feel like your personality, as in emotional maturity and positivity, evolved a lot, so kudos to that! (found you a little sexist and judgmental before, but the content is so good I kept watching lol). I really like the video, I relate so hard to the dynamic of wanting to be desired vs unconditional loyalty, but I'm an ENTP woman interested in an INTJ guy she works with / against as professional poker players. Unfortunately, some of your references don't really work in that constellation. Can you share some pro tips you'd give an ENTP woman trying to seduce and hook an INTJ guy? ;) I have no clue where I'm at with this man.
I'm an INTJ woman and I have a huge crush on an ENTP who is my friend for a few months. I feel like there's a lot of flirting going on, but I'm too afraid to lose what I already have with that person to suggest a date 😮💨
@@LonerWolf1224 From what I've read ENTPs flirt with everyone, so I have no reason to believe that this is a sign of romantic interest. On the other hand, if I express romantic interest, I could lose what I have, which is the friendship with my favorite person...
@@LenaKelly-u6e idk you have thought about that this way but, if you say they flirt with everyone and u're keeping him as your friend at the sametime, chances are, you can be the next target of his (I'm not here to trash talk about ur friend) but there's a possibility, you know the virtue and vice yea, they can put their masks really well for the long game, cuz I've been there and they remember every mask they wear for each person. Soo.. if you're trying to keep a person that you said he keeps flirting with everyone, it's best to not to have relationships with those types of people unless they show signs of interest in u exclusively. I love you people and once I have attracted 2 of yous actually, very fun to have around and one of those girls asked me to be her boyfriend in the last minute be4 I leave the school for my higher education, (we've been in the same school for 2 years) My advice is to find another safer option unless if go ask him straight up and you see him stop flirting with others for a considerable amount of time. I don't have to explain how to loyalty check right? Make sure he check your boxes be4 you open ur legs for him. Cuz I know how painful it's gonna be for you. I have my empathy for u. But my primary advice will be look for someone else who's an ENTP who isn't like that. I mean you can go with INTPs too. Just have that radar on just in case with what I've told u. Plus he's being your favorite person doesn't mean that you have to let him take advantage of you. If he does those types of stuff. UD | SF INFJ :)
Loved this video !!! I have Same energy 😂 when i rant / talk in person , too bad finding a NT female is nearly impossible yet alone a intj No other types like us Entp men unless we play the game & be fake
The original Conan Doyle's Sherlock Holmes is a great example of INTJ (the movie/show adaptations not so much). There's some good MBTI content creators that have ranked fictional INTJ's, most are quite good.
Had a lot of trouble with probably esfp driving instructor as Isfp didnt felt understood and felt put down my self esteem and I even cried as a male. Which driving instructor would be the best for an Isfp that likes quiet environments :) He also had tourette.
Probably some ISTJ, ISFJ, INFP or ESFJ. All of them have high Si patience and affiliative friendliness to teach you. ISTJ are naturally patient, like quiet environments and are good at teaching things with Te parent. ISFJ as well for the same reasons except instead of Te parent they have Ti child to teach you. It could also do a good job but I tend to prefer Te people as my teachers than Ti people since they explain a broad range of data in an understandable way. Although INFP can be good teachers they do have a weak Te though which usually makes them not good teachers. Also ESFP driving instructor giving you a hard time doesn’t surprise me since they’re super impulsive, lack patience and are mid teachers cuz of Te child.
why do yall gotta insert yourself in every mbti video...the ones that don't even involve you? And you want people to think you aren't brain dead and are these great "empaths" who can read the room and what people think etc etc. It's so pathetic.
@@BF-non many Ne-Doms are unstable, i think we need to look for the ones that are not enneagram 7 (it's pute chaos) I believe my best fit can be ENXP enneagram 9 or 4. Avoid chaotic sevens
Really appreciated your interview with MongolianMindset and your mentor Robert Bryant. And yeah..I think I may have to agree with you on him being an ESTP. He's heavily focused more with connection and intimacy rather than validation; as well as him putting on a show. Luv the guy and you
To the female INTJs out there...when an man is interested in you how important is confidence and persistence in your eyes? I'm an ENTP who likes this INTJ girl, but it has been difficult to "crack her shell."
OMG lol... I'm an ENTP woman but I feel the exact same in my dating life haha... I guess we like INTJs BECAUSE they're so hard to crack and we kinda got it covered for everyone else except them.
Well I think you can get her interested by contributing to her goals and interests in some way. Usually she will choose to want you for whatever reason but usually it's a practical one. Hmm INTJs that are in their ego and sub alot can be very naive about life and their values can cause them to miss opportunities like the ENTP. Find out what she is interested in and engage her on that. Respect her values and if you want to challenge her make sure you do so respectfully. DOn't let her walk over you. She will respect you if she feels like she can't have you at the click of a button but also don't neglect her because she WILL doorslam you if she feels disrespected/unimportant to you. You need to find a balance between being available and being unavailable. Most importantly just engage her interests. I know this sounds harsh but if you guys don't have interests in common I would advise you to perhaps consider letting go of her. DOn't force things. ANother thing you could do is be a steady force in her life. Don't do anything too controversial. One day in a few years she might suddently realise what you are to her . We need loyalty and consistency so let time do its thing. Support her... that kind of thing. Validate her values and make her feel safe (we are very paranoid and insecure about not being good enough - Se inf), but dont do anything that is superficial. You have to be real... we smell lies from a mile away and we will hate you for it if you lie. We would rather have the ugly truth with a tiny bit of sugar to ease the pain.
I don't know how I would get with an ENTP if they lack morality. Just hearing it I am repelled by that. 😂 . Probably why I like ENFPs better. And it depends on the ENFP. Some are super moral and some are not.
You Intjs literally have Fe blindspot. Off the bat Intjs ethics are shady and they are often quite ignorant about it. They are acting morally according to their own code while often hurting people around them and if they have power, they can hurt society in general without a check and balance. Ntps are ethical concerned for the overall well being of others but are not moralistic. They think about the human zeitgeist as opposed to their own individual feeling. This is why ntps and ntjs match because they keep each other’s 💩 in check, can maximize each other’s potential, and give each other what the other one lacks. Ntps help ntjs with ethics. NTJs help ntps with morals. On the flip side, If an nfp matches with an ntj (like an enfp) they are both being sounding boards if they have the same moral code. Keep that in mind. It can be a good thing but it can also be terrible because it’s basically doubled up and neither will keep the other in check when they might be terribly wrong about something.
Idk about others, but im very empathic, so not really sure on the lacking morals, i mean i guess i go, but like im willing to do whatever it takes to make the World better, kind of lack of morals...
I don’t even pay attention to the types that I’m most compatible with since some of them are too masculine. I just stay away from the masculine types cuz I want a gentle, reserved and nurturing feminine woman and it doesn’t matter how compatible I am with them in my functions, I want to be compatible with them in my masculine energy above all. So I just look for them to either have Se or Fe which I’m compatible with and choose the feminine ones from there like INFJ or ISFJ.
He had made a video about intj and enfj relationship and that video can apply to intj infj relationship too. These two human beings don't work out well together though.
Hey, female ENTP here. I need to get rid of some comments here. First of all I have never met an ENTP male but damn you have energy😂 this video is maybe one of the funniest i have seen in youtube and i am 27. So that means something 😂 maybe because it was just so unexpected on a serious topic. I think your comedy sketches and jokes were quite distracting from the main topic :D so i couldn't fully understand the analysis, the 'maths' what you wrote behind you but i had en entertaining time hahaha
I always found Naruto had some Ni-Fe tendencies and kinda looked more like an INFJ sometimes more than an ENFP. I don't know if I would go as far as saying he was in his shadows almost his entire life tho. What if he was an ENFP who got into his INFJ shadow instead? Overall he majorly seemed like an ENFP to me. Also makes more sense to why he had this particular rivalry and complementarity with Sasuke who is INTJ I believe while being an INFJ would have made them closer and similar right away. You can clearly see how Itachi and Sasuke kinda think alike, very reflexive and collected. But when Itachi and Naruto talk to each other, they also seem to share a different kind of connection on wisdom and the importance of the links. Itachi really falls into the INFJ archetype but Naruto not so much. Maybe he just learned to use his shadow Ni and Fe over time but I'm still convinced he's ENFP.
@@kyurei4478 bruh itachi and naruto have no shadow like connection...its one type of Fe parent suggesting to the other one that its wrong. They have nothing else in common besides that Fe wanting to take all the pain on their shoulders...then the isfj tells the infj naruto how it wont solve anything. Naruto has like no Te whatsoever it's all Fe idealistic bullshit philosophies. Sakura is the only Fi user in the group. Enfp men don't have the cheesy-idealistic aura at all... they come across more philosophical/poet-like. Unless they're like connor McGregor who would have then just started pissing and shitting all over the place. Oh and another thing, Fi can be selfless...never as selfless as Fe. No amount of cope will change that. Fi is self serving first. The same way just cuz Infjs have Ti doesnt make them thinkers and Intjs having Fi doesnt make them feelers.
@aladdout9454 Lol. Elaborating now? Naruto and Itachi completely do share a shadow connection. Naruto doesn't have Fe parent though, it's a reunion of a Fe and Fi perspective on the same INTJ they care about. They do have a lot in common, they're just the other side of the spectrum of each other, just like any shadow type. There is no Fe by default on Naruto's side precisely because he egotistically wants to help Sasuke. Gaara even warns Naruto of the danger Sasuke now represents for the 5 hidden villages after the 5 kages summit whereas Naruto purposefully tries to ignore it to pursue his objective and save Sasuke. Naruto makes it his mission to stop Sasuke because he knows only him could stop Sasuke because he once was very close to him. Itachi on the other hand takes the responsibility on his shoulders because of the mistakes he did: emotional vs logical motivation -> Fi vs Ti. Naruto has Te, it's just weak. He has no Ti whatsoever and only towards the end he matures and learns right Fe wisdom to have the balls to do what's necessary no matter what he feels if that could put others in danger to protect the tribe as a hokage/Fe leader. ENFP men are some of the cheesiest types with their joyful all over the place Ne servicing their idealistic sensitive self-centered Fi compared to INFJs. INFJs are the most philosophical types with INTJs because of Ni and this is clerly visible in Itachi compared to Naruto who usually acts goofy. Fi is self-centered by definition btw. Even when it cares about others, it's because others are important to the Fi user, it's never really selfless like Fe is and no lie, no matter how elaborate could change this truth... Naruto becomes more selfless only because he develops some shadow Fe down the line, just like Fe users can be self-centered like Fi by developing shadow Fi. Self-serving first is the opposite of selfless. Itachi in comparison has always been full Fe parent, not even blinking an eye to sacrifice himself for his duty. Naruto isn't like that until the second part of war arc. He goes against the tactic of the kages by ignoring their opinion because he thinks he's right. Pure Fi defiant and evaluation of his strength so Te, despite the general strategy to keep him away. The nature of Fi is a totally different topic from being identified as a thinker or feeler and in no way comparable. Having Ti means you're internally logical by nature and Fi internally emotional by nature though, no matter you're classified as a feeler or thinker. Naruto is clearly an ENFP during almost the entirety of the show. He just matured a lot to develop Fe and protect the world, period.
@@kyurei4478 hardcore disagree on all of that omg. Theres nothing deep about naruto and itachi's supposed connection, again, two perspectives on Fe, one the more matured one tells the other one how the self-sacrificing would lead to bigger problems. Again, overcomplicating it doesn't help anyone or anyone could be any type. NFPs are the ones who are characterized as the artists/poets/professory vibes...Nfjs get stereotyped as flipflopping between diplomats/revolutionaries have u been living under a rock? And no the only enfp male popular ig in that series is obito. Now him and naruto had a lil something deeper not itachi at all. Fe is notorious (especially Ni-Fe) for justifying or giving chances to bad people cuz that's the thing with forgiveness and mercy. Mostly it turns out bad (that's when Fi users claim the person is a fe user cuz convenience). Had naruto had a Te not Ti he would be a little more grounded in his thinking but he wants to believe thinks according to his own logic he doesn't care about verifying them to others. Others have to force it on him. Again, you are overcomplicating the functions.
Brilliant mind!! Why then have you not applied what you know and teach? ISFP. Look what happened to Kim & Kanye. Wait for your INTJ to find you. Have faith. 2pac was an ENTP who was best friends w/ Jada Pinkett who is supposedly an INTJ. Pac is my fave rapper of all time. Another brilliant mind.
I think its a good match if the other person is also good looking or at least basic looking, and for intjs , if they aren't nerds or totally weird. Unfortunately all that i know are such nerds who are so bad in social contexts and are weird as fuck, hide themselves in their worlds, think the world is evil or being addicted to anime and gaming ....😢
The thing about INTJ women is they usually act super narcissistic and are aggressively disagreeable. Those are not traits most guys want to deal with. And they posses 0 nurturing instincts for bringing up kids and being home carers. I tend to avoid NTJ women in general. Too masculine for me.
WRONG. You know, once you get past all their bitchiness they are like the biggest nurturers EVER. They are on top of all the housework, bills, giving you food and nice experiences. MAYBE the reason they are DISAGREEABLE is that they are in their SHADOW because NOBODY IN SOCIETY PROTECTS INTJ women or helps them come out of their masculine OKAY. They are stuck in this critical place because EVERYONE IS GOING TO ABANDON ME and I AM ONLY AS GOOD AS MY LOOKS/performance. Maybe you can learn how to submit these bitches Like why are you even considering INTJs unless you are an INTP or an ENTP. We want someone to make us feel like our goals and aspirations matter. If you spoil us we will get into our feminine. Let us complain. eventually we will run out of steam. Try to hear our issues without being overly pleasing. WOmen just want to vent and it releases estrogen when we vent. Check out John Gray (marsvenus.com) (author of men are from mars and women are from venus)
By the way michelle obama is an intj and a female friend of mine. They are super lady like and elegant but smart. Doesn't has to do something with masculinity i guess
4:55 - Input, process, output, feedback
7:30 - ENTP + INTJ
10:12 - Interaction styles - Season 2 & 15
15:45 - Relationships from the Cognitive Functions standpoint
18:50 - Ni Hero Willpower
22:07 - INTJ is incapable of giving the ENTP a bad experience
24:25 - INTJ helps ENTP think straight, thoughts organized
27:42 - ENTP's lack morality, but INTJ can help with Fi Child
34:16 - ENTP's growth would be stunted with xNFJ/xSFJ but INTJ...
37:02 - The Internet? Season 17
40:55 - Who watches the Watcher?
44:38 - Another story of an ENTP
46:13 - I guess it won't be me either... I too am a Starter Type
47:35 - From the INTJ's point of view
50:10 - Lucifer was an ENTP, Jesus was an INFJ...interesting 🤔
51:20 - Truth or Dare
53:00 - INTJ's are insecure about...
54:58 - You hit the nail on the head my brother. I have the biggest crush on an INFJ at my church. We "talked" for a few months. I caught feelings, got scared of being called a Simp because she has a child, ghosted her, she cried, I apologized, she forgave me, we remained friends, I've been trying to get her back for the last 3 years but Idk if she'll ever give in, I have my eye on an INTJ sister...
57:00 - Fear gets in the way of this relationship-ENTP/INTJ
1:00:40 - LOVE 💗
I guess for my future loves own safety I wont steal ENTPs from INTJs
@Lu-ot8hs You're certainly welcome
@@DeliveryGuy88 you hero lol
@@frederickaugustusdouglass9713 What can I say lol 🤷🏾♂😏😎
Yeah an ISFJ stunted my growth, fuck that relationship, don’t involve yourselves with this passive aggressive idiots
I was so looking forward to this one! Female INTJ here and gosh I love ENTPs. You guys light me up. For how many INTJ and INTP friends I have, I cannot for the life of me find many ENTPs. Please mail them to the Seattle area, thanks.
I've never seen Chase this performative. Feels so authentic and so joyful and so good!
Just trying to reply to this comment because, like you, I keep trying to comment on your other reply and it keeps disappearing for some reason.
INTJ woman here -
This video was interesting and entertaining, i laughed, i cried and i learned new things
Where do ya all hide
@@giftzwerg7345 i dont know about the others but i stay home avoiding humans
@@giftzwerg7345 im not sure about other INTJs, but i like being at home away from people
My sibling is an INTJ. Pretty dope relationship. Never met an INTJ woman though, or aware of it. But I can already tell I'd be head over heels for a sassy smartass with hard logic. But I know they are softies deep down. It appeals to me on way too many levels. I get that people wanna pair INFJs with ENTPs, and ENFPs with INTJs. It makes sense. But this pairing is just playing on 'easy mode'. NTs can just go fucking wild on eachother. No filter. No fluff. And the other NT is just like, "okay, dope" It's always relaxing when you're not afraid of stepping on someone's toes.
To be fair, mature INFJs can take it too. We're thinkers, after all.
@@chriskozak7356 yeah... thinkers that care more about other people's feelings than actually thinking... but sure. You are.
@zile8869 Do you understand how source functions work? All Ti users are thinkers. All Fi users are feelers. If you stereotype by letters, you're going to have a bad time. Even Fe doms show that they're thinkers if you spend enough time around them (how well they think, is variable, lol) And I've personally known a few ENTJs that are shockingly sensitive.
@@chriskozak7356 of course I understand how source functions work. I'm a mf genius!
I am not "stereotyping by letters". I am stating facts.
Yes INFJs are thinkers. But they still prioritize Fe over Ti, so they care more about what's considered "good", than what's true. Even if they "think" for themselves, their thinking isn't their main priority!
Other people's feelings are.
Also, you miss the whole point of "source function".
The point is, the source functions are really the only actual functions. The extraverted "functions", aren't really "functions" at all, rather they represent our ability to make use of functions external to ourselves.
of course I understand how source functions work. I'm a mf genius!
I am not "stereotyping by letters". I am stating facts.
Yes INFJs are thinkers. But they still prioritize Fe over Ti, so they care more about what's considered "good", than what's true. Even if they "think" for themselves, their thinking isn't their main priority!
Other people's feelings are.
Also, you miss the whole point of "source function".
The point is, the source functions are really the only actual functions. The extraverted "functions", aren't really "functions" at all, rather they represent our ability to make use of functions external to ourselves.
INTJ male here. I dated an ENTP 5 years ago and it was the best match I’ve ever had. We worked everything out and there was so much passion and trust. Unfortunately she betrayed me when her family attacked me and it broke our bond. We tried to work through this but I understood the grip her family had on her and accepted she wouldn’t leave them for me. I would never expect that nor would it be right for me to ask. It was by far the best relationship I’ve ever had and nothing has even come close. Sadly we went out seperate ways although I’ve never stopped thinking about how good we were.
Right girl at the wrong time.
If only I knew where the ENTP females are hiding…
This gives me hope
Where and how did you two lovebirds meet?
I am here 😂❤ where you from?
Idk bro you tell me.
Thank God for ENTPs ! I will always be watching the watchers in my life . Love it
ENTP - INTJ duo is the GOAT
I like the way he mixes explanation with his comedy.
Absolutely love how your ENTP manifests on the whiteboard behind you IRL. Bravo, sir!!!
INTJ ladies, you're never going to get what you want from people if you worry about being abandoned. You have to accept that it has already happened. let loyalty pleasantly surprise you. Atleast you know you won't abandon yourself so work on your attachment issues and develop a more secure attachment. If people leave you, you damn well have the right to say that they were not FOR YOU. and that means that they are nothing to you so forget about them and keep giving people a chance to be special to you. Our odds are 1/1000 atleast so yeah you need to be abandoned by 1000 people before you can get that 1 person who will stick by you through thick and thin!! Keep going okay, don't shut the world out. Be brave!
Well said
I, as an INTJ woman, have an anxious-avoidant attachment style, and my ENTP crush has a dismissive-avoidant attachment style, which is incredibly difficult to navigate and everything moves at a snail's pace. I'm usually not afraid of losing people I'm not into, but when I'm really into someone (especially in a romantic way, which only happens once every few years), the fear of losing them is unbearable.
@@LenaKelly-u6e This sounds like me when I was in the early stages of relationship with my ENTP. You should prioritize working on your attachment issue, self regulation.. try to develop some more "avoidant" tendencies. I also understand the fear of losing them, it was unbearably painful for me. Somehow things worked out when I gave up focusing on wanting him. I don't really know how it worked it, kind a miracle tbf. Try hanging out with him more often and also try wanting him less if that's even possible. Best of luck to you
@@asheekitty9488 thank you, I'm trying my best to fix my attachment style and not to appear clingy. Maybe there is still hope for this relationship 🤞
Do you happen to have other social media in order to communicate? You seem to have a wealth of knowledge about INTJs and I would love to find a way to discuss more if you are open to it.
Maybe if I watched this when I was younger I wouldn't have given up. Speaking as a nihilistic INTJ, I wish all the other INTJs and ENTPs good luck.
Anyway we all miss this kind of manic energy from your old videos. It is so fun to watch your body moving all around
It’s so dope how the Si Demon and Se Demon works, Si Demon is desiring the Se demon to burn the world for her
Your different accents are hilarious 😂 thanks for the video!
I'm a rare female INTJ and I haven't been this excited to watch a video well since last night but it was a different type of video 😊 Happy to hear that there are male ENTPs that are out there wanting a female like me. Hopefully I will come across a single male ENTP soon because I do some of my best negotiations in the bedroom
Hi twin
Twinnnn 😊
Finding entps should be rather easy xD but where do you find intjs?
Single ENTP male here🫡
Since you're an INTJ female, may I ask your opinion on something? Do you consider yourself romantic? If so, what would could a guy do to really get your attention? I'm currently trying to get the attention of an INTJ girl that I like and could use some ideas.
I'm an Intj and I know I'm going to die alone but watching this is interesting.
Me too = entp
I'm INTJ female and my husband is ENTP and yes we are extremely compatible ❤
What is is about your ENTP husband that really draws you to him? What advice could you give to an ENTP guy in order to win an INTJ girl?
Tell us
Chase was regreting So much🤣🤣🤣 for not being in relationship with intj
Great Video CS Joseph! Your content is tremendously awesome. The video is talking is more in the context of ENTP males and INTJ females. INTJ males like me seem left behind😅. Like " Those people (intj male) are just there " you know what I mean. Apart from Enoch any other INTJ Man character in the Bible? Someone worth to follow and imitate. I heard 50cent is a good example as well.
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I waited so long for this,
The definitions behind each personality type are not only nuanced, complicated and long winded, they are up to effectively infinite interpretations, and on top of that, "everyone is everything;" how tf am I supposed to understand my type or anyones or even begin to decide what type they are?
Honestly I would just stick to stereotypes if your struggling to identify types.
Same here tbh.
Just gotta know their type, really actually isn’t that hard
Focus on the components on the type grid and focus on tendencies. 80/20 each behavior and see which traits have a majority. Once you do it often (Build up your internal roledex), you’ll start to effortlessly see the difference in each type and understand people better.
alot of great points, also alot of inconclusive ones, intjs like entps are great but not without their faults. my growth as a person was stunted due to the intj that was in my life for so long. i find my needs being met significantly better by istjs, intjs are way too self involved to provide needs for anyone else and i know how that sounds. it all sounds great on paper but life has other plans for us all.
Sibling is ENTP (I’m INTJ), she seems to get along better with ESFJ. I think it goes down to attachment style in whatever relationships than you think
I love the old whiteboard videos.
great video! how about some points on why an intj would wanna be around an entp?
“Youknowwhatimsaying” - C.S Joseph
I love it, but I would love the enfp - infj more!! ;)
I met an INTJ, she loved me so much but she was such a loser (due to implosion). It would litterally take me years to make her start improving her life and she would leave the country with me, I didnt like that idea. I knew we had the synergy, i just didnt want to keep helping her. She kept making me uncomfortable and accused me of lying all the time, I never did, I actually tried being as precise as possible, so I left her, I gave up on her. Then she went ballistic and sent litteral death threats to me through 3rd parties. Thank god she dont know where I live. I wouldnt be dead, but my apartment would definitely be trashed. Oh yeah, she gave me a fake name
I've reached out to you before and watched old content. I could be wrong but I feel like your personality, as in emotional maturity and positivity, evolved a lot, so kudos to that! (found you a little sexist and judgmental before, but the content is so good I kept watching lol). I really like the video, I relate so hard to the dynamic of wanting to be desired vs unconditional loyalty, but I'm an ENTP woman interested in an INTJ guy she works with / against as professional poker players. Unfortunately, some of your references don't really work in that constellation. Can you share some pro tips you'd give an ENTP woman trying to seduce and hook an INTJ guy? ;) I have no clue where I'm at with this man.
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@@CSJoseph thank you! How much does it cost? Anyways, entp enneagram 8w7, so I forced a response lol. I know where I'm at now 😅😓💔
I'm an INTJ woman and I have a huge crush on an ENTP who is my friend for a few months. I feel like there's a lot of flirting going on, but I'm too afraid to lose what I already have with that person to suggest a date 😮💨
What do you mean lose? You're upgrading the thing u have with him to a next level.
@@LonerWolf1224 From what I've read ENTPs flirt with everyone, so I have no reason to believe that this is a sign of romantic interest. On the other hand, if I express romantic interest, I could lose what I have, which is the friendship with my favorite person...
@@LenaKelly-u6e idk you have thought about that this way but, if you say they flirt with everyone and u're keeping him as your friend at the sametime, chances are, you can be the next target of his (I'm not here to trash talk about ur friend) but there's a possibility, you know the virtue and vice yea, they can put their masks really well for the long game, cuz I've been there and they remember every mask they wear for each person. Soo.. if you're trying to keep a person that you said he keeps flirting with everyone, it's best to not to have relationships with those types of people unless they show signs of interest in u exclusively. I love you people and once I have attracted 2 of yous actually, very fun to have around and one of those girls asked me to be her boyfriend in the last minute be4 I leave the school for my higher education, (we've been in the same school for 2 years) My advice is to find another safer option unless if go ask him straight up and you see him stop flirting with others for a considerable amount of time. I don't have to explain how to loyalty check right? Make sure he check your boxes be4 you open ur legs for him. Cuz I know how painful it's gonna be for you. I have my empathy for u. But my primary advice will be look for someone else who's an ENTP who isn't like that. I mean you can go with INTPs too. Just have that radar on just in case with what I've told u. Plus he's being your favorite person doesn't mean that you have to let him take advantage of you. If he does those types of stuff. UD | SF INFJ :)
@@LenaKelly-u6eAs an ENTP I think you should just say it because he's probably thinking the same I bet.😂
Loved this video !!! I have Same energy 😂 when i rant / talk in person , too bad finding a NT female is nearly impossible yet alone a intj No other types like us Entp men unless we play the game & be fake
Could the community answer this question? He listed a number of fictional ENTPs and that was interesting. What are some examples of fictional INTJs?
17:00 should answer your question 🙂
@@DeliveryGuy88yeah he mentioned female INTJs but not any males.
The original Conan Doyle's Sherlock Holmes is a great example of INTJ (the movie/show adaptations not so much). There's some good MBTI content creators that have ranked fictional INTJ's, most are quite good.
@@Scarecrow1410 Gotcha. I'll keep an eye out for you 💪🏾
@@DeliveryGuy88 Thank you.
YESSS FINALLY!
Did I just witness a manic episode 😂
Correct sir.
yeah hahah
😂
Yes LMAO
*facepalm
The tortoise can outlast and wins the race but the rabbit (INTJ) is the finisher? Man i'm confuse 😵💫
Had a lot of trouble with probably esfp driving instructor as Isfp didnt felt understood and felt put down my self esteem and I even cried as a male.
Which driving instructor would be the best for an Isfp that likes quiet environments :)
He also had tourette.
Probably some ISTJ, ISFJ, INFP or ESFJ.
All of them have high Si patience and affiliative friendliness to teach you.
ISTJ are naturally patient, like quiet environments and are good at teaching things with Te parent.
ISFJ as well for the same reasons except instead of Te parent they have Ti child to teach you.
It could also do a good job but I tend to prefer Te people as my teachers than Ti people since they explain a broad range of data in an understandable way.
Although INFP can be good teachers they do have a weak Te though which usually makes them not good teachers.
Also ESFP driving instructor giving you a hard time doesn’t surprise me since they’re super impulsive, lack patience and are mid teachers cuz of Te child.
The series of archetypes of men and women disappeared, King, warrior..
Wow, i was just thinking to myself like 5-10 min before C.S. said it. The devil must be an ENTP
And God an INTJ.
Anyone know a good way an infj can apply themselves to something and actually put in the work? Is it simply a matter of willpower?
why do yall gotta insert yourself in every mbti video...the ones that don't even involve you? And you want people to think you aren't brain dead and are these great "empaths" who can read the room and what people think etc etc. It's so pathetic.
But actually, what is about the ENTJ as male for the ENTP female? isnt it also an awesome match?
Okay now i just need to find an ENTP girl without mental issues 🙏
26:30 oh okayy
What's your experience here? all the ones I find have BPD.
@@BF-non many Ne-Doms are unstable, i think we need to look for the ones that are not enneagram 7 (it's pute chaos)
I believe my best fit can be ENXP enneagram 9 or 4. Avoid chaotic sevens
@@BF-nonas a male I have bpd aswell surprising
@@BF-non I disagree on bpd
Where is season 4 and 6?
Really appreciated your interview with MongolianMindset and your mentor Robert Bryant. And yeah..I think I may have to agree with you on him being an ESTP. He's heavily focused more with connection and intimacy rather than validation; as well as him putting on a show. Luv the guy and you
To the female INTJs out there...when an man is interested in you how important is confidence and persistence in your eyes? I'm an ENTP who likes this INTJ girl, but it has been difficult to "crack her shell."
OMG lol... I'm an ENTP woman but I feel the exact same in my dating life haha... I guess we like INTJs BECAUSE they're so hard to crack and we kinda got it covered for everyone else except them.
Well I think you can get her interested by contributing to her goals and interests in some way. Usually she will choose to want you for whatever reason but usually it's a practical one. Hmm INTJs that are in their ego and sub alot can be very naive about life and their values can cause them to miss opportunities like the ENTP. Find out what she is interested in and engage her on that. Respect her values and if you want to challenge her make sure you do so respectfully. DOn't let her walk over you. She will respect you if she feels like she can't have you at the click of a button but also don't neglect her because she WILL doorslam you if she feels disrespected/unimportant to you. You need to find a balance between being available and being unavailable. Most importantly just engage her interests. I know this sounds harsh but if you guys don't have interests in common I would advise you to perhaps consider letting go of her. DOn't force things. ANother thing you could do is be a steady force in her life. Don't do anything too controversial. One day in a few years she might suddently realise what you are to her . We need loyalty and consistency so let time do its thing. Support her... that kind of thing. Validate her values and make her feel safe (we are very paranoid and insecure about not being good enough - Se inf), but dont do anything that is superficial. You have to be real... we smell lies from a mile away and we will hate you for it if you lie. We would rather have the ugly truth with a tiny bit of sugar to ease the pain.
@@JessicaVie Have you had any luck with your INTJ pursuit so far?
@@asheekitty9488 Thank you for this great advice! It's very insightful! Are you a female INTJ?
@@RockofOTown nope haha... He gave me the "no promises" response. I mean, I come on STRONG, so I'm not surprised. 😂 Hbu?
I don't know how I would get with an ENTP if they lack morality. Just hearing it I am repelled by that. 😂 . Probably why I like ENFPs better. And it depends on the ENFP. Some are super moral and some are not.
You Intjs literally have Fe blindspot. Off the bat Intjs ethics are shady and they are often quite ignorant about it. They are acting morally according to their own code while often hurting people around them and if they have power, they can hurt society in general without a check and balance. Ntps are ethical concerned for the overall well being of others but are not moralistic. They think about the human zeitgeist as opposed to their own individual feeling. This is why ntps and ntjs match because they keep each other’s 💩 in check, can maximize each other’s potential, and give each other what the other one lacks. Ntps help ntjs with ethics. NTJs help ntps with morals.
On the flip side, If an nfp matches with an ntj (like an enfp) they are both being sounding boards if they have the same moral code. Keep that in mind. It can be a good thing but it can also be terrible because it’s basically doubled up and neither will keep the other in check when they might be terribly wrong about something.
Same
Lol not literally immoral but kinda like we mirror the moral values of the person We're with.
But when left alone then it becomes kinda tricky
Also Fe trickster in INTJs sounds downright rude sometimes .
Besides that I think they're pretty cool.
Idk about others, but im very empathic, so not really sure on the lacking morals, i mean i guess i go, but like im willing to do whatever it takes to make the World better, kind of lack of morals...
My impression or you skipped the ESTP - ISTJ video?
Yeah I fucked up
Great thing the internet allows us to correct such things easily.
Can you make a video for giving INFP advice on dating ENTP?
Commenting for the algorithm.
Oh Mr. Chase, you used to be such a master of cringe haha.
Used to be?? 😂
The ENTP way
I don’t even pay attention to the types that I’m most compatible with since some of them are too masculine.
I just stay away from the masculine types cuz I want a gentle, reserved and nurturing feminine woman and it doesn’t matter how compatible I am with them in my functions, I want to be compatible with them in my masculine energy above all.
So I just look for them to either have Se or Fe which I’m compatible with and choose the feminine ones from there like INFJ or ISFJ.
The supreme one has spoken.
The pfp really drives the point home.
@@Saavys😭
23:16 great, staple, vital, essential, imperative point (the loyalty test) which most entps cannot pass whatsoever.
How about intj and infj? Are they good romantic partners?
He had made a video about intj and enfj relationship and that video can apply to intj infj relationship too. These two human beings don't work out well together though.
@@square4678i'm an INTJ with an ENFJ bf...
Goodness no! My mother and I clash!
Hey, female ENTP here. I need to get rid of some comments here.
First of all I have never met an ENTP male but damn you have energy😂 this video is maybe one of the funniest i have seen in youtube and i am 27. So that means something 😂 maybe because it was just so unexpected on a serious topic. I think your comedy sketches and jokes were quite distracting from the main topic :D so i couldn't fully understand the analysis, the 'maths' what you wrote behind you but i had en entertaining time hahaha
I always found Naruto had some Ni-Fe tendencies and kinda looked more like an INFJ sometimes more than an ENFP. I don't know if I would go as far as saying he was in his shadows almost his entire life tho. What if he was an ENFP who got into his INFJ shadow instead? Overall he majorly seemed like an ENFP to me. Also makes more sense to why he had this particular rivalry and complementarity with Sasuke who is INTJ I believe while being an INFJ would have made them closer and similar right away.
You can clearly see how Itachi and Sasuke kinda think alike, very reflexive and collected. But when Itachi and Naruto talk to each other, they also seem to share a different kind of connection on wisdom and the importance of the links. Itachi really falls into the INFJ archetype but Naruto not so much. Maybe he just learned to use his shadow Ni and Fe over time but I'm still convinced he's ENFP.
Nah
Yep.
@@kyurei4478 bruh itachi and naruto have no shadow like connection...its one type of Fe parent suggesting to the other one that its wrong. They have nothing else in common besides that Fe wanting to take all the pain on their shoulders...then the isfj tells the infj naruto how it wont solve anything.
Naruto has like no Te whatsoever it's all Fe idealistic bullshit philosophies. Sakura is the only Fi user in the group. Enfp men don't have the cheesy-idealistic aura at all... they come across more philosophical/poet-like. Unless they're like connor McGregor who would have then just started pissing and shitting all over the place.
Oh and another thing, Fi can be selfless...never as selfless as Fe. No amount of cope will change that. Fi is self serving first. The same way just cuz Infjs have Ti doesnt make them thinkers and Intjs having Fi doesnt make them feelers.
@aladdout9454 Lol. Elaborating now? Naruto and Itachi completely do share a shadow connection. Naruto doesn't have Fe parent though, it's a reunion of a Fe and Fi perspective on the same INTJ they care about. They do have a lot in common, they're just the other side of the spectrum of each other, just like any shadow type. There is no Fe by default on Naruto's side precisely because he egotistically wants to help Sasuke. Gaara even warns Naruto of the danger Sasuke now represents for the 5 hidden villages after the 5 kages summit whereas Naruto purposefully tries to ignore it to pursue his objective and save Sasuke. Naruto makes it his mission to stop Sasuke because he knows only him could stop Sasuke because he once was very close to him. Itachi on the other hand takes the responsibility on his shoulders because of the mistakes he did: emotional vs logical motivation -> Fi vs Ti.
Naruto has Te, it's just weak. He has no Ti whatsoever and only towards the end he matures and learns right Fe wisdom to have the balls to do what's necessary no matter what he feels if that could put others in danger to protect the tribe as a hokage/Fe leader.
ENFP men are some of the cheesiest types with their joyful all over the place Ne servicing their idealistic sensitive self-centered Fi compared to INFJs. INFJs are the most philosophical types with INTJs because of Ni and this is clerly visible in Itachi compared to Naruto who usually acts goofy. Fi is self-centered by definition btw. Even when it cares about others, it's because others are important to the Fi user, it's never really selfless like Fe is and no lie, no matter how elaborate could change this truth... Naruto becomes more selfless only because he develops some shadow Fe down the line, just like Fe users can be self-centered like Fi by developing shadow Fi. Self-serving first is the opposite of selfless. Itachi in comparison has always been full Fe parent, not even blinking an eye to sacrifice himself for his duty. Naruto isn't like that until the second part of war arc. He goes against the tactic of the kages by ignoring their opinion because he thinks he's right. Pure Fi defiant and evaluation of his strength so Te, despite the general strategy to keep him away. The nature of Fi is a totally different topic from being identified as a thinker or feeler and in no way comparable. Having Ti means you're internally logical by nature and Fi internally emotional by nature though, no matter you're classified as a feeler or thinker. Naruto is clearly an ENFP during almost the entirety of the show. He just matured a lot to develop Fe and protect the world, period.
@@kyurei4478 hardcore disagree on all of that omg. Theres nothing deep about naruto and itachi's supposed connection, again, two perspectives on Fe, one the more matured one tells the other one how the self-sacrificing would lead to bigger problems. Again, overcomplicating it doesn't help anyone or anyone could be any type. NFPs are the ones who are characterized as the artists/poets/professory vibes...Nfjs get stereotyped as flipflopping between diplomats/revolutionaries have u been living under a rock?
And no the only enfp male popular ig in that series is obito. Now him and naruto had a lil something deeper not itachi at all. Fe is notorious (especially Ni-Fe) for justifying or giving chances to bad people cuz that's the thing with forgiveness and mercy. Mostly it turns out bad (that's when Fi users claim the person is a fe user cuz convenience). Had naruto had a Te not Ti he would be a little more grounded in his thinking but he wants to believe thinks according to his own logic he doesn't care about verifying them to others. Others have to force it on him. Again, you are overcomplicating the functions.
altered carbon is sick
Brilliant mind!! Why then have you not applied what you know and teach? ISFP. Look what happened to Kim & Kanye.
Wait for your INTJ to find you. Have faith.
2pac was an ENTP who was best friends w/ Jada Pinkett who is supposedly an INTJ. Pac is my fave rapper of all time. Another brilliant mind.
I think its a good match if the other person is also good looking or at least basic looking, and for intjs , if they aren't nerds or totally weird. Unfortunately all that i know are such nerds who are so bad in social contexts and are weird as fuck, hide themselves in their worlds, think the world is evil or being addicted to anime and gaming ....😢
Now if only I could find ENTP girls IRL....
society.. love intjs
This could have been great, but you made so weird 😂
I'm an INTJ. Marry me.
No INTJ woman has the guts to be forward with me lol, this is fake news
@@CSJoseph behind the screen, perhaps. lol
Love the information. Cuts need to be better.
It’s just old
I wont give the ultimate sacrifice because they dont deserve it.
Cool
First!
Finally!!!
The thing about INTJ women is they usually act super narcissistic and are aggressively disagreeable. Those are not traits most guys want to deal with.
And they posses 0 nurturing instincts for bringing up kids and being home carers.
I tend to avoid NTJ women in general. Too masculine for me.
WRONG. You know, once you get past all their bitchiness they are like the biggest nurturers EVER. They are on top of all the housework, bills, giving you food and nice experiences. MAYBE the reason they are DISAGREEABLE is that they are in their SHADOW because NOBODY IN SOCIETY PROTECTS INTJ women or helps them come out of their masculine OKAY. They are stuck in this critical place because EVERYONE IS GOING TO ABANDON ME and I AM ONLY AS GOOD AS MY LOOKS/performance. Maybe you can learn how to submit these bitches
Like why are you even considering INTJs unless you are an INTP or an ENTP. We want someone to make us feel like our goals and aspirations matter. If you spoil us we will get into our feminine. Let us complain. eventually we will run out of steam. Try to hear our issues without being overly pleasing. WOmen just want to vent and it releases estrogen when we vent. Check out John Gray (marsvenus.com) (author of men are from mars and women are from venus)
An immature one...
By the way michelle obama is an intj and a female friend of mine. They are super lady like and elegant but smart. Doesn't has to do something with masculinity i guess
what a narrow sighted comment👍
This guy is kind of weird.
And I quiet like it