i'm so fucking glad to have found your channel. and yeah, goggins saved my life back in 2018. his ethics and philosophy instilled a deep sense of work ethic and drive that i had never ever felt in my life.
Do hard things but I won’t suggest intentionally pursuing suffering. Life will bring it to you and many times in quick succession. When the shit hits the fan it’s a a lot at once. Just be prepared when it happens and accept that it is an unavoidable part of life. Meditation and exercise has helped me. I’ve built the habit of doing that consistently and simplifying my life which brings a greater sense of peace.
Not complaining is a terrible way of processing emotions. (These people obsessed with positivity get a nervous breakdown when you blink slightly asymmetrically.) And yeah, as we say in the Netherlands: "Pijn is fijn." (Pain is nice.) ^^
Letting go of stuff was one of those things that was hard for me to learn. I still get attached and upset at certain things here and there but once I realize I'm doing it I take a step back, evaluate, and let it go. Way easier said than done but when one figures that out life gets much better.
In hindsight, you are always happy when you have done difficult things or dared to do something. I'm currently on a trip to Germany for a few days and didn't feel so good before and on the way. I've got used to it now and think it was a good thing that I went.
What do you want? You have to know what you want before doing anything, or else it's just a waste of time running around in circle leading to nowhere no matter suffering or not.
Don't forget; the key is to make complicated and hard things easy and simple, not the other way around. Otherwise, we can find the suffering we desire in the simplest things, and get nowhere. God bless!❤
I think believing in a savior is essential to enter the eye of the storm ie believing there is someone outside the self that wants the best for you and forgives your incompetence if you genuinely are doing your best. as for working out it takes 2 weeks for muscle loss to occur so working out for a week followed by 8 possibly 9 days of rest is optimal you will feel the growth pain at around day 6 and if you push yourself enough could last up to the 2 weeks mark
Oh and viktor frankl is one of my favourite people. I've read two of his books: psychotherapy and religion the unconscious God and his most famous one man's search for meaning. both are amazing, and short too, really recommend :)
What embodied impressions of memory are expressions of habit for you in the sense where alleviation functions as a suppressant, where stress is managed in a manner that is reductive rather than in a manner that is productive (Short-term gratification is a common example, even though there are many). Productivity not in the sense of desperation, but of actively undergoing a dismantling of yourself where you are actually suffering, then taking this suffering as a means of transforming it. Essentially utilizing suffering as a raw material not for the act of suppression but as a literal potential for growth and development. It makes me wonder, so I pose: is alleviation, in any form, even necessary? If I am to suffer, with this being the precise condition in which everything else will be shaped by, is it not that which one endures where alleviation itself is constituted? If suffering is to be constituted by the very fact of experience itself, where experience constructs the coordinates of that which suffers, then would this suffering not constitute the very alleviation that transforms suffering? Suffering then becomes a raw material, no longer constituted by the experience of that which suffers, but in the case of alleviation, suffering becomes the condition in which alleviation will be allowed to unfold. This I will call, that which transforms the condition of suffering, rendering it as the condition of alleviation, in which experience constructs the coordinates of not that which suffers, but alleviates.
@@svenheuseveldt7188 Basically, use suffering as a raw material; think of it as literal moments of potential. Take for example, one who has undergone stressful events. To cope with these stressful events, they utilize some method that doesn't deal with the core reasons as to why they are stressed. It could be sex, it could be drugs, it could be working out, it could be alcohol, it could be self-talk that is positive, it could be self-talk that is negative. It could be a number of things where they do not confront that which causes them stress or suffering, rather, they end up avoiding it by suppressing the stress they feel, and in turn, amplifying their suffering. Confrontation with that which makes one suffer or stressed is necessary. It may seem like a battle, and often times it feels that way, but understanding that memories themselves present to us an underdeveloped capacity of potential, meaning, there is always room to construct a different line of action that doesn't reconstruct or avoid past failures and mistakes is important. If you were genuine in your response, may this have helped.
suffering is part of life. at this point i see it as such atleast. its nothing wierd, nothing abnormal, what you're going through is just part of life and an intregral part of the experience. coming from someone who's been neglected and alone for about 9 years now since i was 14, i can't see how it can be any other way. part of suffering, deppresion, anxiety is the shame that comes with it. like oh damn, you're depressed, guess thats your fault, oh damn you have anxiety, guess its your fault for not having fixed it already. though at some point i am going to have to draw that conclusion, i just don't think it true and it works that way. yet we feel ashamed of who we are, about things we had no control over...
The mad tirelessly seek reason within absurdity, then pass the burden of ignorance onto their offspring without questioning if their pursuits will be any more meaningful than their own, or just perpetual suffering.
true. if i ever get out of this rut and get my life together etc. if i ever have to option to have children, i don't know if it want too. who says the child will have a good life? and it wont turn out like mine? people think about themselfs and what a child brings to their life, not the other way around sadly. thats why i ended up where i am,.....
be like water. water flows where it can go. if one road ends, it piles up and opens another. when a wall is in your way, sometimes you have to wait to fill up, and then you''ll breach. but its ever flowing
Bailey out here sounding like Jordan Peterson giving a TED Talk to lobsters about voluntarily cleaning their tanks to find deeper meaning in the algae of life. 🦞 'Clean your room' just leveled up to 'embrace your suffering'!
im beginning to think this might be an illusion. i think for a large part we don't understand the world and how it works at all. there are things we can control for sure. but i don't think we know what we can and cannot control. and until you know that difference and integrated it in your heart, what you just said is hard to confirm. but it likely is, but exatcly how and why is hard to tell.
@@svenheuseveldt7188 no matter what you can or cannot control, you are the only one who can hurt yourself, with how you react to things, how you think, that is one thing that cannot be taken away from a person, his mind. others can only hurt you physically, and even then, some would argue that it is down to a person to react the way they react. when yo usay we cannot understand the world, i agree, i dont think anyone fully does and i think we never will, but some of us are closer, others are farther away from that point. lastly, i do think i am improving myself every day, i try to reflect on that as often as possible, every day i am more at ease with myself and my thoughts, i try to speak to myself as i would to a friend. peace :)
bad things happen and must happen... many times you deserve it.... pain will come and go But to suffer.... that's a choice. You decide when the bad times come whether you will suffer.... or in spite of the pain give grace to God. give thanks and praise to God. Trust in God... I promise the "suffering" is only in your mind. Maximize your quality of life.... get fit, sleep better, better yourself physically and mentally. fix your diet. remove every negative or toxic d*ckhead and don't even waste a single breath.... do these things, grow in faith and trust in God.... then try and tell me your life didn't improve.
though you're right. there was i time i did all those things, i did everything right according to the "rules" and i felt absoluetly hopeless, alone and depressed. im much better of now. but sometimes you just don't know the awnser yet and it just has to come to you. so you just wait in suffering while doing the "right" things, and its absolutely horrible. atleast this is my experience. and my awnser was martial arts and getting an education. the two pilars of my life. and all the things tou mentioned above to be able to do these things properly ofcourse.
wooooow. dude i was just walking home and thinking about all my previous stages of life like primary school and secondary school and how that was actually me, but it feels like i was someone totally different. like a different life. cool to see your comment depicting the same
@@svenheuseveldt7188 It's from a Hindu text. I'm not sure which one. A Hare Krishna was selling books in the local farmers market. I flicked through one and found this quote. It's stayed with me since. Glad you liked. Bhagavad Gita was most likely the book.
the safe thing is to not actually understand philosophy. grasping it puts you in a socially uncomfortable position. if you become well read don't bother talking shop with anyone about literally any of it. this will have you outed as a "know it all" and potentially even narcissist. you can get meditations, read the preface, recite the wiki about, call it good, observe everyone now thinks you are wizard if you actually become well read what happens is thus: 1. everyone will dislike you and is both intimidated and "suspicious" of you, the way you talk, what you understand about the world, mostly because they cannot pin it down nor control it and thus you. 2. you will become so annoyed, disgusted, perplexed by peoples misunderstanding of basic philosophy and logic and that not correcting them will feel like nails on a chalkboard. when you correct them most of the time you realize they wanted you to endorse their intelligence, rather than operate a discourse.
John 3:16. For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have Everlasting Life.
There are a zillion young girls on youtube trying to find their niche by creating things that don't exist trying to generate clicks and revenue there are so many of you young women out there that are totally lost and it's not completely your fault but you've grown up in the electronic age and you think that real life is talking into a camera lens and you know it isn't and that's why so many people out there are lonely
Read the Quran, solution of every problem and will make you stronger than ever and put challenges after challenges in front of you along with peace till last Breath 🎉
I just opened the Quran and started reading. This book is garbage. It starts out threatening non-believers and it is obviously meant to brainwash gullible, fearful, ignorant people.
i'm so fucking glad to have found your channel. and yeah, goggins saved my life back in 2018. his ethics and philosophy instilled a deep sense of work ethic and drive that i had never ever felt in my life.
Do hard things but I won’t suggest intentionally pursuing suffering. Life will bring it to you and many times in quick succession. When the shit hits the fan it’s a a lot at once. Just be prepared when it happens and accept that it is an unavoidable part of life. Meditation and exercise has helped me. I’ve built the habit of doing that consistently and simplifying my life which brings a greater sense of peace.
Not complaining is a terrible way of processing emotions.
(These people obsessed with positivity get a nervous breakdown when you blink slightly asymmetrically.)
And yeah, as we say in the Netherlands: "Pijn is fijn." (Pain is nice.) ^^
Letting go of stuff was one of those things that was hard for me to learn. I still get attached and upset at certain things here and there but once I realize I'm doing it I take a step back, evaluate, and let it go. Way easier said than done but when one figures that out life gets much better.
In hindsight, you are always happy when you have done difficult things or dared to do something. I'm currently on a trip to Germany for a few days and didn't feel so good before and on the way. I've got used to it now and think it was a good thing that I went.
We truly live in a society
What do you want?
You have to know what you want before doing anything, or else it's just a waste of time running around in circle leading to nowhere no matter suffering or not.
Don't forget; the key is to make complicated and hard things easy and simple, not the other way around. Otherwise, we can find the suffering we desire in the simplest things, and get nowhere.
God bless!❤
Suffering makes you stronger.
Or you can have a heart failure from it
life doesn't deal in absolutes.
this comment is kinda ironic though
Your content is so good and interesting!
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. 😉
I think believing in a savior is essential to enter the eye of the storm ie believing there is someone outside the self that wants the best for you and forgives your incompetence if you genuinely are doing your best. as for working out it takes 2 weeks for muscle loss to occur so working out for a week followed by 8 possibly 9 days of rest is optimal you will feel the growth pain at around day 6 and if you push yourself enough could last up to the 2 weeks mark
I love stoicism too, I've read meditations by marcus a. and letters of a stoic from seneca and I really recommend them, powerful stuff
Oh and viktor frankl is one of my favourite people. I've read two of his books: psychotherapy and religion the unconscious God and his most famous one man's search for meaning. both are amazing, and short too, really recommend :)
What embodied impressions of memory are expressions of habit for you in the sense where alleviation functions as a suppressant, where stress is managed in a manner that is reductive rather than in a manner that is productive (Short-term gratification is a common example, even though there are many). Productivity not in the sense of desperation, but of actively undergoing a dismantling of yourself where you are actually suffering, then taking this suffering as a means of transforming it. Essentially utilizing suffering as a raw material not for the act of suppression but as a literal potential for growth and development.
It makes me wonder, so I pose: is alleviation, in any form, even necessary? If I am to suffer, with this being the precise condition in which everything else will be shaped by, is it not that which one endures where alleviation itself is constituted? If suffering is to be constituted by the very fact of experience itself, where experience constructs the coordinates of that which suffers, then would this suffering not constitute the very alleviation that transforms suffering? Suffering then becomes a raw material, no longer constituted by the experience of that which suffers, but in the case of alleviation, suffering becomes the condition in which alleviation will be allowed to unfold. This I will call, that which transforms the condition of suffering, rendering it as the condition of alleviation, in which experience constructs the coordinates of not that which suffers, but alleviates.
as someone who has english as their second language i just have to say. what the fuck does this mean
@@svenheuseveldt7188 Basically, use suffering as a raw material; think of it as literal moments of potential. Take for example, one who has undergone stressful events. To cope with these stressful events, they utilize some method that doesn't deal with the core reasons as to why they are stressed. It could be sex, it could be drugs, it could be working out, it could be alcohol, it could be self-talk that is positive, it could be self-talk that is negative. It could be a number of things where they do not confront that which causes them stress or suffering, rather, they end up avoiding it by suppressing the stress they feel, and in turn, amplifying their suffering. Confrontation with that which makes one suffer or stressed is necessary. It may seem like a battle, and often times it feels that way, but understanding that memories themselves present to us an underdeveloped capacity of potential, meaning, there is always room to construct a different line of action that doesn't reconstruct or avoid past failures and mistakes is important.
If you were genuine in your response, may this have helped.
So my whole life is the sometimes
The snack food and wisdom very cool! Albert.
suffering is part of life. at this point i see it as such atleast. its nothing wierd, nothing abnormal, what you're going through is just part of life and an intregral part of the experience. coming from someone who's been neglected and alone for about 9 years now since i was 14, i can't see how it can be any other way.
part of suffering, deppresion, anxiety is the shame that comes with it. like oh damn, you're depressed, guess thats your fault, oh damn you have anxiety, guess its your fault for not having fixed it already.
though at some point i am going to have to draw that conclusion, i just don't think it true and it works that way. yet we feel ashamed of who we are, about things we had no control over...
For sure!
It was a good philosophy for its time, but definatly not one for today.
The mad tirelessly seek reason within absurdity, then pass the burden of ignorance onto their offspring without questioning if their pursuits will be any more meaningful than their own, or just perpetual suffering.
true. if i ever get out of this rut and get my life together etc. if i ever have to option to have children, i don't know if it want too. who says the child will have a good life? and it wont turn out like mine? people think about themselfs and what a child brings to their life, not the other way around sadly. thats why i ended up where i am,.....
so it's basically get in the car, ran over the wall, wipe the blood then get a new car to drive on different route to same destination.
be like water. water flows where it can go. if one road ends, it piles up and opens another. when a wall is in your way, sometimes you have to wait to fill up, and then you''ll breach. but its ever flowing
@@svenheuseveldt7188 i'm traveling in raft, in flood with tornado
Bailey out here sounding like Jordan Peterson giving a TED Talk to lobsters about voluntarily cleaning their tanks to find deeper meaning in the algae of life. 🦞 'Clean your room' just leveled up to 'embrace your suffering'!
Majority of suffering i inflict onto myself though xddd
im beginning to think this might be an illusion. i think for a large part we don't understand the world and how it works at all. there are things we can control for sure. but i don't think we know what we can and cannot control. and until you know that difference and integrated it in your heart, what you just said is hard to confirm.
but it likely is, but exatcly how and why is hard to tell.
@@svenheuseveldt7188 no matter what you can or cannot control, you are the only one who can hurt yourself, with how you react to things, how you think, that is one thing that cannot be taken away from a person, his mind.
others can only hurt you physically, and even then, some would argue that it is down to a person to react the way they react.
when yo usay we cannot understand the world, i agree, i dont think anyone fully does and i think we never will, but some of us are closer, others are farther away from that point.
lastly, i do think i am improving myself every day, i try to reflect on that as often as possible, every day i am more at ease with myself and my thoughts, i try to speak to myself as i would to a friend.
peace :)
Yes you do
to live is to suffer :D
You grow from it if you learn from it....also u are in total control "HOW" much you suffer.
bad things happen and must happen... many times you deserve it.... pain will come and go
But to suffer.... that's a choice. You decide when the bad times come whether you will suffer.... or in spite of the pain give grace to God. give thanks and praise to God.
Trust in God... I promise the "suffering" is only in your mind.
Maximize your quality of life.... get fit, sleep better, better yourself physically and mentally. fix your diet. remove every negative or toxic d*ckhead and don't even waste a single breath....
do these things, grow in faith and trust in God.... then try and tell me your life didn't improve.
though you're right. there was i time i did all those things, i did everything right according to the "rules" and i felt absoluetly hopeless, alone and depressed. im much better of now. but sometimes you just don't know the awnser yet and it just has to come to you. so you just wait in suffering while doing the "right" things, and its absolutely horrible.
atleast this is my experience. and my awnser was martial arts and getting an education. the two pilars of my life. and all the things tou mentioned above to be able to do these things properly ofcourse.
"We live many lives within one life."
wooooow. dude i was just walking home and thinking about all my previous stages of life like primary school and secondary school and how that was actually me, but it feels like i was someone totally different. like a different life.
cool to see your comment depicting the same
@@svenheuseveldt7188 It's from a Hindu text. I'm not sure which one. A Hare Krishna was selling books in the local farmers market. I flicked through one and found this quote. It's stayed with me since. Glad you liked. Bhagavad Gita was most likely the book.
thanks for the video hope the burrito was good
Thank u
Try brazilian jiu-jitsu, it changes lives
Why brazilian?
just eat the chip omg my ocd is triggered
Start jiu-jitsu.
Read Séneca
Your hair is beautiful. You are always interesting
the safe thing is to not actually understand philosophy. grasping it puts you in a socially uncomfortable position.
if you become well read don't bother talking shop with anyone about literally any of it. this will have you outed as a "know it all" and potentially even narcissist. you can
get meditations, read the preface, recite the wiki about, call it good, observe everyone now thinks you are wizard
if you actually become well read what happens is thus: 1. everyone will dislike you and is both intimidated and "suspicious" of you, the way you talk, what you understand about the world, mostly because they cannot pin it down nor control it and thus you. 2. you will become so annoyed, disgusted, perplexed by peoples misunderstanding of basic philosophy and logic and that not correcting them will feel like nails on a chalkboard. when you correct them most of the time you realize they wanted you to endorse their intelligence, rather than operate a discourse.
I'm sure you don't suffer as much as you think you do.
If you want to suffer but also grow - perhaps you may want to look into the Wim Hoff Method.
I question wim hoff.
John 3:16. For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have Everlasting Life.
There are a zillion young girls on youtube trying to find their niche by creating things that don't exist trying to generate clicks and revenue there are so many of you young women out there that are totally lost and it's not completely your fault but you've grown up in the electronic age and you think that real life is talking into a camera lens and you know it isn't and that's why so many people out there are lonely
Marry me
Try to deal with things more stoicly.
Bro, you're what 23? How are kids in their 20s channeling Marcus Aurelius because of how bad life has gotten. Our cultural is so cooked.
Is it bad that I payed more attention when she said “I have a burrito”?
Yes, she's thoughtful.
Its not a mindset. its trauma. Why are you playing psychologist?
Read the Quran, solution of every problem and will make you stronger than ever and put challenges after challenges in front of you along with peace till last Breath 🎉
I just opened the Quran and started reading. This book is garbage. It starts out threatening non-believers and it is obviously meant to brainwash gullible, fearful, ignorant people.