Is This Relationship Worth Fighting For?

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    My name is Fenna van den Berg, I am a certified coach and counselor. I have worked in the mental health field for over 25 years.
    Having been through episodes of Limerence, I have "earned my stripes" to help others with their recovery. I understand the obsession and suffering of Limerence. My passion is being able to share with you, and all limerents, a guided-way forward on your journey of healing. We do this through discovering and practicing self-love and compassion. As someone who has suffered through limerence, I have developed effective coaching for people with limerence. My Coaching has helped countless have a more purposeful life, and I want to help you. We will work together, so that you may have a life more in line with your values and integrity.
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ความคิดเห็น • 17

  • @andrewmass1414
    @andrewmass1414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks. Mismatches. Rest up

  • @franziskani
    @franziskani 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks also for this video - I find your vids on the issue especially helpful, and I appreciate that you make them short (but with a lot of food for thought). Greetings from Austria

    • @followingfenna
      @followingfenna  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the compliment!

  • @andrewmass1414
    @andrewmass1414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You look fabulous. Thanks. I will listen to this.

  • @DominicOkinawa
    @DominicOkinawa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Fenna, thank you so much. There is a lot of good information you shared here. I will re-watch this one again later. I feel sad your voice is not 100% but it's still clear and very easy to understand. I hope you feel better. Even you are like this, you still help us. You are amazing. :) See you next time.

    • @followingfenna
      @followingfenna  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for all your support

    • @DominicOkinawa
      @DominicOkinawa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got it my friend. Re-watching it today/now :) @@followingfenna

    • @DominicOkinawa
      @DominicOkinawa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just noticed the cat. How cute.

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If its meant to be it will but not gonna fight should click if not no go

  • @Jessa32
    @Jessa32 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    oh goodness. there was no reciprocity for me EVER until I found the man who was to be my husband, where there was no limerence there. I must admit, life without limerence has been a bit more boring, but that is A REALLY GOOD THING. I realize that limerence was for me mostly psychosis. It took years for me to stop the dreams about other men, so even while consciously I was now with a dear husband, the subconscious programming still was doing its limerent thing while I was asleep.

  • @fy4540
    @fy4540 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you again Fenna.

  • @MsChimerical
    @MsChimerical 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really good points to consider for whenever I get back into the dating game. Makes me think a little bit about my last relationship, how maybe I should have fought harder against my Fearful Avoidant attachment style. He was the one fighting for me... I ended the relationship abruptly. But that's solidly in the past now.
    You look fabulous despite being sick. Hope you feel better soon, Fenna.

    • @followingfenna
      @followingfenna  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hear you, planning to stick it out despite my doubt and fears when someone comes along who ticks all the boxes!

    • @7Earthsky
      @7Earthsky 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@followingfenna How do you know you're not just projecting your doubts and fears and all you know about red flags onto someone new? That's what i'm concerned about....That i'll lose my objectivity.

    • @franziskani
      @franziskani 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@followingfenna Hi Fenna, another user (under another vid) suggested you should use the term *_soul mate or twin flame_* in your title and key words and post a video (on that subject of course). He / she had been led astray by that concept (which is often used to glorify limerence). The poster thought this would get you a lot of views & subscriptions and help a lot of people - I agree.

  • @franziskani
    @franziskani 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Fenna, another user (under another vid) suggested you should use the term soul mate or twin flame in your title and key words and post a video (on that subject of course). He / she had been led astray by that concept (which is often used to glorify limerence). The poster thought this would get you a lot of views & subscriptions and help a lot of people - I agree.

    • @followingfenna
      @followingfenna  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the tip :) will pay attention to it.