Christian Dating RED FLAGS

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  • The reasons you should turn and run
    Delphine gives us her red flags to look out for when discerning whether a partner is a keeper.
    Comment with your red flags
    Delphine is a faithful Catholic revert who went from being a lukewarm cradle Catholic to having a happy heart on fire for Jesus. She is now dating (God willing) for marriage, prayer journaling every day and constantly striving to be a Godly woman in the modern age.
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ความคิดเห็น • 68

  • @jpg6113
    @jpg6113 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video deserves far more views tbh

  • @Julius1784
    @Julius1784 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing, May need to rewatch and take some notes! Nice one Delphine!

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get the fancy stationery out!

    • @Julius1784
      @Julius1784 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@be_salt hahaha love it.

    • @jaybartgis5148
      @jaybartgis5148 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Julius1784 sad

    • @Julius1784
      @Julius1784 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaybartgis5148 why sad?

    • @jaybartgis5148
      @jaybartgis5148 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Julius1784 she calls it a red flag and judges men for watching porn, but says it's a red flag when we judge her how many guys she's slept with? And you seriously want to take notes on this heretic?

  • @andrewlim9345
    @andrewlim9345 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks, interested in exploring a relationship. Made me reflect on my motives and thoughts.

  • @LuDel95
    @LuDel95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Delphine for your great videos. I've found them helpful and insightful. Your advice is wise and emotionally intelligent. Fair play. May God continue to bless you. Luke

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @hg3895
    @hg3895 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rushing is definitely one for me. Wants to be in a relationship when you barely know them.

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, it adds a kind of pressure you just don't need

  • @africanmastersofstone1643
    @africanmastersofstone1643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best clip I've seen yet.

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!!

  • @benofbens6446
    @benofbens6446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always great info and insight from Delphine! God bless!

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      She's amazing

  • @emilyrebecca2970
    @emilyrebecca2970 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for opening my eyes to god our highest

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so welcome

  • @AD-qt2lo
    @AD-qt2lo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done Delphine, and thank you, perfectly and well said x🥰

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      She's awesome

  • @pelumiadewumi3879
    @pelumiadewumi3879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Delphine, your contents are always deep and a delight. This is why I watch out for them. Kudos 👍

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you like them!

  • @TJZiel
    @TJZiel ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi, can you do this also from the males perspective?? Some things are applicable to both sexes, but hopefully it’s just me just but I heard things coming from the female perspective. Thanks for sharing!

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah that would be interesting, you might want to check out other videos on our channel: What gives guys/girls the ick and top 5 turn-offs for guys

  • @oliveribanez
    @oliveribanez ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The one about their friends is a big one. I’ve met girls who claim they are “believers” but go out with atheist friends and party and all that.

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      It is a big one

    • @strachancoutinho1184
      @strachancoutinho1184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's wrong with having atheist friends and partying?

    • @agees924
      @agees924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@strachancoutinho1184 Having atheist friends isn’t inherently wrong but there’s so reason a Christian should party. It leaves you vulnerable to sin and bad influences plus puts too much emphasis on pleasures of the flesh.

    • @strachancoutinho1184
      @strachancoutinho1184 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@agees924 So Christians should be lifeless shrinking violets that do nothing but go to church, read the Bible and stay at home praying?

    • @tonyatthebeach
      @tonyatthebeach ปีที่แล้ว

      Partying's fine by me, I matched with a young one who started full on sexting from the 3rd message and was clearly after validation as she was attractive but a bit chubby. She was definitely just 'experimenting' with morality. Noobs, eh?!

  • @zippyblessed839
    @zippyblessed839 ปีที่แล้ว

    I once spoke to a guy through text
    And i was kinda joky with him
    I said the way you say my name is funny 😊 with a cute emoji
    He didnt laugh
    I did reach out to him and apologise if he was offended
    But he didnt respond
    It got me stressed for days and i kept beating myself up about it.
    Now im careful not to joke anybody.
    People are just different

  • @Takeiteasy11
    @Takeiteasy11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tattoos for me are a deal breaker. Also, daily alcoholic drinkers

    • @strachancoutinho1184
      @strachancoutinho1184 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Point number 6 applies to you, my friend.

    • @jamie9926
      @jamie9926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What if their tattoo was a sign of their faith?
      I recently went through something tough and was considering getting a tattoo of the cross to remind me that only Jesus was able to get me through that tough time.

    • @lionedheart
      @lionedheart 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamie9926no tattoos

  • @patrickjohnson959
    @patrickjohnson959 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree with your green flags but not completely with your red flags….

  • @heavensaintsapparel8202
    @heavensaintsapparel8202 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sirach isn't Holy Spirit led which is why it isn't in the Protestant Bible.
    Very good points and do agree but simply look at Proverbs 1 and Psalms 1.
    Aim to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit and you can't go wrong.
    To God be the glory in Jesus Christ.

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, all about following the Holy Spirit's leading

  • @emilyrebecca2970
    @emilyrebecca2970 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m praying rn for my perfect person

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

  • @kayz5428
    @kayz5428 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice one 😊

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks 😄

  • @hamilton9651
    @hamilton9651 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't want to date! I like being by myself. That's it...

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's fair enough

  • @tell-it-like-it-is8305
    @tell-it-like-it-is8305 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey babe, how would you like to join my Purpose Driven Life? 😂😂😂

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      Where do you sign up?!

    • @tell-it-like-it-is8305
      @tell-it-like-it-is8305 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@be_salt Sign up at my heart. Entrance is free, just pay with love.

  • @emilyrebecca2970
    @emilyrebecca2970 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh this was a lot

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว

      She packs a lot into one video!

  • @erospalombini7103
    @erospalombini7103 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The app is a big scam

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Would love to know why you think that

  • @lionedheart
    @lionedheart 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your definition of hypocrite is off.
    A hypocrite is someone who professes beliefs or virtues that they do not actually hold or practice themselves, often pretending to have moral principles they do not follow.
    Another red flag is when a woman claims to be a believer but does not want to submit and let the man be the leader “head of the house hold”
    I run 🏃