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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- Awkward but necessary #christiandating #engagement #preparation
Delphine shares the essential questions to ask your partner about sex BEFORE you get engaged. In this series she'll talk about all of the topics you should talk about with a person you're in a serious relationship with. Maybe it might seem awkward or too intense... but it's definitely worth it and will set the stage for a lifetime of great communication.
Comment with the questions you would ask.
For Delphine's handy list of pre-engagement questions click here: drive.google.com/file/d/1WEA-...
Delphine reverted to her Catholic faith after a powerful interior conversion when she hit 30 (praise God!) She is now interested in living out real Christianity in the real world, digging into theological topics, running her own befriending charity and constantly striving to be a Godly woman in the modern age.
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Thank you for this topic... we never discuss it enough.
lord help me deliver me from the spiritual spouses IN JESUS NAME
I just want to find someone I can pray with,fast with, someone who can just love me and I love them back...I just need LOVE
Will be praying you find the right person
Great talk but we will have to disagree on who is in control of the number of children you have. Generally speaking we are 100% responsible for bringing a life into this world, we chose to have sex without protection so we risk bringing a life into this world, so it is us who decides to bring a life into this world. If we do not have unprotected sex, there is no way a child can be conceived apart from Mary's case.
This is where couples should discuss family planning, contraception etc. because people will differ on stances
Very important questions indeed.
Thank you for this
For sexual expectations, read 1 Corinthians 6 and 7. The scriptures provide how that should be done/handled so both parties should have that knowledge.
Always great to read the bible together
Thank God I am planning on remaining single. That's one conversation I would not ever want to have!
Maybe I need to stop being so afraid. I can't allow fear to overcome my life.
Good topic to talk about! 😀 Thanks for sharing! 👌
Personal I can recommend the book "Money, Sex, Beer, God" from John Crowder.
The "Sex-Part" from this book is an eye opener. 😉 (other parts too, but that's not the topic.)
Thanks for the recommendation
Thank you
Why is the app named SALT?
Based on being the salt of the earth, set apart
Good to get down to brass tacks, next maybe talk about some hyper faith women who expect a brad Pitt looking youth pastor who’s also a millionaire
Masturbation in sin and a gateway for the enemy to get in
The most important things in marriage is to be “forgiving, accommodating, long suffering. Basically the fruit of the Holy Spirit.
To understand that marriage has good and challenging times and be willing to embrace what life throws and fight endlessly to victory.
Amen
Very large assumption that for all sexual encounters both parties were willing. Given the high percentage of women that have experienced sexual assault surprised this not considered or allowed space for.
Great point
1. Anger and violence is something that should be talked about wayyyyy before topics like sex. 2 I don't think pornography and masturbation should be put in the same category. Porn often includes underage people and goes against human rights as well as spiritually not being healthy. Masturbation is something very different. Even children can find themselves discovering their own bodies without any outside influences of TV etc. It is a natural urge. I understand if you want to discourage influencing it or having a habit but shaming it I believe to be very wrong and it is not a crime and most people masturbate currently or have so there doesn't need to be an immediate connection with addiction. Urges can be healthy.. completely understand if people want to discourage the actual mastrabting. I just think most people do and arent honest about it.
That's true that there's a distinction
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I find it strange that a single woman is giving advice to other single women about how to ask their soon to be husband of he engages in masturbation or pornography? Am I the only one that finds this strange?🤨
I don't think she specified either way, to be fair. She did mention reverting, though, so she might have been in relationships in the past. Your concern is valid, though.
When should you start talking about sex, masturbation, porn in a relationship? Pretty sure Delphine is talking about committed relationships that are on the cusp of engagement
It never crossed my mind. I don't understand why you think it's strange.
😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 no
And there were 2 in a bed ....but only one will be taken ....ups ..that means the other ..was eyther watching pork or mistreating and he will go to hell.
I hope your unvaccinated is a big one too! 🙏
Haha
As someone who is unvaccinated you must know what it feels like to be discriminated against by family, friends and society in general..so why do it to others? Why discrimate against people who are vaxxed?
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@@joolspools777when did he say he was discriminating?
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3:12 I don't struggle with this question at all, because I simply don't consider non-virgin women as wife-material. Plain and simple.
Are you a virgin? And do you think you greater than prophet Hosea?
Would love to know why. Is the blood of Jesus not able to handle that sin?
@@be_salt of course the blood of Jesus is enough. But we still have to suffer our sins' consequences, while on this earth.
Of course one *can* take one as a wife, I just think it would be extremely misguided of him.
I believe non-virgin women have a different role as non-wives.
100% agree. Yes the blood of Jesus forgives the sin, but the consequences of such behavior remain. For example; unfair comparisons, inability to fully engage with your spouse because of previous negative/positive experiences, unhealthy soul ties, sexually transmitted infections, unplanned pregnancies/abortions, having to deal with past lovers trying to reconnect with your spouse, and so on…
It’s just not worth it 🙅♂️
As a virgin woman, I would never ever marry a man that consider that non virgin women are not "wife-material" because it shows that this man has'not understand God's grace toward sexual sins and that he might minimize his own sexual'sins : for Jesus it starts with thoughts, the mind...Are you pure at that level? Rahab the prostitute has been chosen to be part of Israël and was choosen by a strong man and brave man as a wife ... She is the great great great.(etc)..mother of Christ himself: restoration and forgiveness in her life.