How did Jenny ever survive on her own??? She seems like a 10 yr old that doesn't know how to be an adult. She doesn't know how to clean or cook and after all her time in India she says she can't even go to the market by herself??? He is gonna be gone!!
@@deelaljee9176 very true and you would think she would enjoy some space too. I would be happy and expect him to work and have social life. More power to them I guess for not letting other peoples riducule get to them.
Jenny is finally being forced to face that her husband is half her age! She cannot expect him to retire and live like he's her age! She's so using this "injury" to keep him at home
Jenny knew the situation with Sumit parents from the beginning. Really everything is coming to what his parents said. No kids, her health issues, age difference.
Absolutely! My question to Jenny is why did it take you 10 yrs to realize you’ll never be accepted to his parents?? The whole getting married and that debacle was literally for nothing but more heartache for everyone
I can’t believe how needy Jenny is - so she fell off a chair, banged her shoulder, and you’d think she broke her back. I haven’t yet figured out exactly what Jenny does with her time. She doesn’t prepare meals, she doesn’t clean her (filthy house) and I’ve yet to see her crack a book open.
Maybe the daughter could talk to Jenny about independence, tell her a 60 year old woman is still capable of doing things alone. And the daughter, if anyone, should understand Sumit - he shouldn't be living like a pensioner.
@@binasarmah1486 Exactly! My mom is 74 and she's doing something all the time and in and out of the door... No excuse for Jenny! Learnt helplessness...
@@SuperBanjo007 She built the prison. She has so much to do. Learn new things in new country and culture. learn to cook . Learn Hindi language. 63 is not even old for retire. Her excuse is old, but her ogre is not old.
I didn't really care for Jenny's daughter but I find it funny that he saying she needs to stay out of their business when all his family is is up in their business
I found it quite naive of Christina. Just googling traditional Indian culture, the wife needs to be of child bearing years, move in w/ the man's family; then cook & clean for the entire family.
So if they stay together, he will not have his parents, never have children, and be stuck at home looking after an elderly woman. Hope she's worth it, Catfish-Boy.
He sure heaped some karma onto himself continuing his relationship for over 9 years with Jenni and then marrying her! He was way too passive and should have told her to move back home as he is now realising the amount of sacrificing, he will have to make in the future as well.....only going to get worse not better as she ages and as she gets more demanding!
Unfortunately I see trouble ahead as Jenny becomes an old lady. She’s so crazy about him and much to clingy and needy now,what will it be like in the coming years?
If Christina wants to confront someone, confront Sumit’s mom!!! He has tried standing up for Jenny to no avail. Family is extremely important in the India culture and while she would turn her back on her mom if she hadn’t accepted her wife, that doesn’t work for Sumit. Jenny needs to go back to San Diego and live out her retirement days with her family and let her much much younger than her husband stay in India.
Family is important in any culture. If people in general would quit trying to control others and be more mindful of their happiness, the world would be a happier place.
Christine should stay out of it, how would she like someone to tell her what to do within her own marriage? Jenny's daughter needs to remember that her American mom chose to live in India and has been going back & forth to India for 10-11 years already. Just take your mom back to America so Sumit can live his life like a normal young guy.
@@bitsangabi9785 I doubt she will. Jenny loves attention in my opinion. Plus America is crazy expensive right now and Jenny probably would end up back to sleeping on her daughter's couch again.
I think when these older American women marry younger men from other countries & cultures, they largely do so because they think they can control them, 100%.
@@judyweeks1480 she literally does expect him to be her caregiver, look at her attitude when he talks about him working! Instead of being happy for her husband she’s being a miserable unsupportive hag. She’s lazy as hell and she is more than capable of being active and doing things around the house and outside, she just wants to be glued to Sumit 24/7, unfortunately for her this is how he’ll get bored and leave her.
I was told years ago, as you age, you will be happier with someone that was raised like you. Someone that has your values and outlook on life. For me, that is true.
Orphans need a stable environment and two parents who actually want kids Jenny and summit have clearly stated they don't and summit has turned and only want to have a child to please his parents but doesn't really want kids so a child would just for show summit would be working 6-7 days a week and Jenny can't even take care of her self let alone a child which she is not in agreement over as summit hasn't discussed it with her yet
There's orphans all over the world who need love stability and a good home with good parents as to home any orphan with the wrong people in the wrong home it's a recipe for disaster
I think you have to understand the whole reason as to why his parents are not accepting of Jenny. She’s literally younger than BOTH of his parents which is wrong and how they was doing stuff under the parents roof when she was only their as a ‘guest’.
Didn't Christina say somewhere that Jenny was not very accepting when she came out and it took time to build up a relationship again? Sounds like she has been in quite a similar situation.
This relationship is beginning to turn toxic because niether of them can accept the others needs things will only get worse as they can't agree to disagree
It’s amazing to me how he’s saying that she needs to stay out of his business, yet his family has done nothing but control Jenny’s and his business. To the point that he wants to give his family a child that he doesn’t even want , crazy !
Sorry the 63 year old should have known better marring a younger man, once dated a younger man not to big of an age gap, I knew when it was for me to let him go, I wanted him to have a family like I already had mine,...it was the right thing to do ...send them free...regardless how much it hurt. BLESSINGS.
My lord, Jenny looks much older than sixty three… and how can she be trusted to care for a kid when she neither likes cooking nor cleaning? Honestly, I’ve never seen such strange dynamics…..
@@Ami-rb2hu I was thinking the exact same thing. Jenny is sapping the life out of him every day because the reality is she's much too old for him. It forces him to be her caregiver. He should absolutely be able to work and go out without some old lady demanding he be home in case she falls or something equally stupid. Not to mention she's loud, obnoxious and truthfully very nasty to him often. Add to that her age and appearance and what does Sumit really gain by being with her? The screechy yell she lets loose sometimes is akin to the mating call of the wild mongoose in heat. In actuality, she's not good to or for him but she's too selfish to let him go live a normal life with a girl his age and start a family, without being saddled with a senior citizen he has to care for all the time.
I don't thing he really wants children. She is really old with health issues any pregnancy may be high risk and has a high chance of not making it the full term. I think he is pretending to want kids for his family, that way when she doesn't get pregnant he can blame it on her age and health.
Sumit is servant for Jenny. She choose him with purpose to serve her. She use him for sex, cleaning house, make food, buy and carry food to her, company for excurtions in different parts of India. He is black sevent and she is white boss. She merry him to get a servant. Whom she can treat as she will. Bitch women.
@@danasandoval624 true, she gave him that “told you so” look as if young Sumit is going to give up his young days to be her carer. She honestly irks me so much.
Yes, Christina needs to mind her own business. Her mother Jenny married Sumit and finding out they're generations apart. Jenny needs to stand up for herself and go back to Palm Springs.
Summit this is what your parents told you. Now you are starting to feel the heat my son, but I tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg. Tell Christina on her face what you are going through daily and ask her to take the old woman back home so that you can marry a woman your age and have children. Jenny is old even if you try to adopt with her she will still tell you to stay home and take care of the children
Jenny is ONLY 63, she's not an invalid in a hospice!! She can't cook, clean, she can't keep the house clean, GROW UP JENNY!! She acts like a preteen!!! Sumit if this keeps up, just annul the marriage and send her home!!!!
Sumit went into this eyes wide open. I remember when his friend, way before he and Jenny got married, that Jenny moving here is going to be like him having to take care of a newborn baby bc she is, understandably, going to be solely dependent upon him. But, in Sumit's defense, I feel like Jenny is trying to control him through this fact. At the very least, she could be trying to learn the language and learn her way around town so that she cld potentially make a friend or 2, and hopefully that friend cld also help her become more acclimated to their country and culture. I dont think it's fair for Jenny to allow herself to be stifled instead of taking control of the things that she is able to take control of. Perhaps, his parent might have a little more respect for a woman who looks and seems older than his own mother not be so helpless and adding so much more pressure onto their son.
Jenny, Sumit, is your life partner NOT your carer. He and you entered the relationship as equal partners. You haven't had a major medical event or been diagnosed with some terrible degenerative illness (eg MND). He is not your primary carer. Rather he needs to fulfill his life goals and you also need to be supported to build your capacity to undertake daily activity tasks. It is only until you start to challenge and address your fears, such as shopping, that you will build your confidence. Sumit has supported you over the last few years to do that. Jenny needs to continue to work on that herself. To ask Sumit not to work is unfair, most of us want to work - we want to contribute. To emotionally manipulate Sumit and say he needs to look after you is not right. He is not your aide, he is not your carer, you are actually young - only 63 (I think). Most people are still working at that stage of our lives. If you were 78 or 82 years of age I'd get it. Jenny - stop emotionally manipulating your husband because you are fearful.
I find it interesting that Summit wants Jenny to tolerate having HIS family in HER business but he doesn't like it when the tables are turned....and Christina is being quite KIND about it all while Summits family are RUDE, TOXIC, & INSULTING to Jenny!!! I think he needs to see how it feels.
Jenny is acting like she is one step away from living in a retirement community. If she wants to live her age, find a man her age. The daughter said Summit has his family around. They abandoned him. He has sacrificed a lot, Jenny still has her family in her life.
Jenny needs not be so dependent on Sumit. She is only 63 and should not be acting like a grandma in a rocking chair. Why doesn't she learn Hindi so she can communicate better. She does have friends who she can go to lunch. Organize get together to meet more people and to work on her Hindi. Do volunteer work. Retirement is not sitting at home and doing nothing. You have a lot if life so go live it.
I think Summit is starting to realize what his parents and friends where trying to explain to him about there age gap, but if summit thinks having a child just for his parents is the answer its not, kinda gets me upset to me summit don't get that a child is a gift not an object to make ppl happy. Jenny needs to understand that summit is still young and has a business he opened with his friend who put all his money into it. Jenny needs to learn how to be alone I dint think that Jenny has ever cooked or cleaned I'm trying to figure out if her first husband did it all or if there was a maid cuz Jenny can't cook or clean and she is how old. In beginning I was rooting for these 2 but now it's just ok there finally married she wants to go bk to America and take summit but she knew before they married he wouldn't leave and I have feeling while her daughter is there something big is gonna happen
Oh sweetheart 🤦♀️Your mother is MARRIED! You should've asked questions BEFORE they married, it was 10 freaking years to do it. If she's not happy, keep it open she can come to you. They deserve respect for their decision, it was THEIR'S.
Sumit married someone older than his own mother what did he expect? I don't care how many people will say age is just a number Bull! Age matters a lot for many reasons and here is a very fine example of why age matters in this video.
Jenny's daughter is day late and a dollar short. They are married already, so what are her reservations for? Summit's culture is different than us, Americans. They don't have nursing homes?!? That alone should indicate the differences in our cultures. Also, Sumits parents warned him about this day. Jenny and him are in totally different stages of their lives. I mean honestly, I'm 50, and even my mature age, I still wouldn't want to have to stay home so I can tend to someone. Jenny should have learned some of the language by now. She should have some sort of independence by now. JMO
Christina needs to talk to her mom not Sumit. The marriage is on the brink of ending and Christine needs to read the handwriting on the wall to her mom who refuses to even look at it. Sumit is a young vital guy and should not be robbed of his youth to be a caregiver to Jenny till she dies.
Jenny chose to go there she needs to understand his much younger and there will be differences he wants to work and why shouldn't he at least his not using her for green card she needs to find things she can enjoy volunteering etc maybe work part-time
This marriage is a joke! Her daughter needs to take her home and care give her. If she wants to be in their business then stop blaming Sumit and take your old mother home.
If Sumit leaves Jenny, she only has herself to blame. She doesn't want him to work or have friends, because that will take time away from her. Jenny needs a nursing home, not a husband. If Jenny can't even cook and clean for the two of them, how is she expected to raise a child at her age? Jenny needs to learn the language and get a job. I don't blame Sumit's family for wanting nothing to do with Jenny.
I need Christina to take her mom home and let Sumit move on and make a life. I feel so bad for him. He’s young still, he needs to marry someone else who’s closer to his age and that he can make a family with. Now I DO feel like Jenny and Sumit do love each other, but they’re on different ends of the spectrum of life. Jenny needs to find herself a man her age that maybe alrdy has a nice little nest egg, that’s retired and can spend unlimited time together. And Sumit needs to find a younger girl who appreciates the fact he has a job and a home of his own and wants a family.
Jenny is embarrassing herself, her family and Sumit. She is old enough she should see this for what it is, a late life crisis. She can't live like a retiree and force Sumit to do the same in his prime of lyfe. She needs a wakeup call.
I know right !!! I don't care about age and that she's older so what!!! There's a lot of people that are together that are far apart in age that's no the problem him and his family are the problem!!! Grow a backbone summit! Or jenny go home to sunny California instead of that dump and find you a new man it's never to late!!!! I used to like summit no more ! And the nerve he doesn't like her daughter in his business it's about time someone defends poor jenny!
First: Simit says Jenny is an old woman, and I think ANYONE, also he, can fall off a chair! Secundly: I think he gas change his mindset all together, after the wedding. He do not seem to be so patient. And now also talking about the age difference. He did not do that earlier. Now he wants a not retired life! He tells; wanting a child. All of things that makes me see red flags. I think Jenny has more troubling times ahead, I’m afraid 😢
What are you watching? Jenny is the one always talking about her age and it’s not his job to be her career. There’s no red flags except Jenny’s screaming at him and manipulating him into marrying her. He had his family, the option of marrying a woman who he’s more compatible with and ago he can have children with. Jenny has absolutely nothing to offer to the relationship in any way and now she expects him to not work and stay at home caring for her all day. She’s ridiculous and their relationship isn’t going to last.
The person Christina needs to talk to is her mom. Jenny's expectations are unrealistic and she needed to have more respect for the culture and have some interest in learning the language. And even if his family doesn't accept her she needed to have some interest in building a life in India wider than just having a husband and expecting him to be her whole world.
Its not unreasonable for him to ask her to be more independant. I agree with Sumit. Different culture different ways of dealing with family. It cant always be the "American way". Its complicated for people who are very traditional.
Jenny doesn't want sumit to work but she hasn't got enough money to have a cleaner or a cook. She is unsecured and is scared in case sumit falls in love with a beautiful young indian girl.
Jenny needs to go to an old age facility if she is that damn frail like wth! Why must Sumit be available to take care of her full time???? She acts like she is dang near 80. His her husband not a carer! She is mad annoying. At this stage she should just go home with her daughter because she is doing to much. Sumit will regret marrying her in the end, already resenting her for certain things. I don’t know why she could not follow Debbie’s league and find an old man like her! Seriously 🙄🙄🙄😳
I am enjoying the comments! I agree! Jenny is pushing the boundaries. He is her husband, her partner, and soulmate. Yet she while she is retired, he is not! It is embarrassing to hear the words coming from her mouth! Sorry to say this but she sounds very selfish! I can say this, I am an older woman, older then Jenny! He isn’t her slave, or her babysitter, they do have daycare or elderly people. Perhaps that would be the better choice!
IMO, Sumit and Jenny are doing a disservice to each other. The age difference and how they both are personality wise is totally opposite. I really don’t think they should be together, both of them are at a different stage in their lives.
Why can't they hire a househelp though? Jenny doesn't wants to work ... Sumit is not having time. I am much worried about their house at the moment than their marriage Lol !! 😂
There is nothing about Jenny’s injury that requires Sumit to stay home and provide care for her. She is just ridiculously dependant on him.
Exactly, i mean wasn't she mopping with the same side she hurt herself. So. She could not have been that hurt
I've had everything from gallbladder, hysterectomy, two foot surgeries with pins and screws etc. My Mom or I was fine my byself.
Yeah. True that
Yes, or ..... she just wants to keep him away from his friends and parents.
How did Jenny ever survive on her own??? She seems like a 10 yr old that doesn't know how to be an adult. She doesn't know how to clean or cook and after all her time in India she says she can't even go to the market by herself??? He is gonna be gone!!
Jenny wants a caregiver, not a husband.
That is surely how it ended up!! You are so right
And constant companship. She is stifling Sumit and preventing him from getting his business going.
@@deelaljee9176 very true and you would think she would enjoy some space too. I would be happy and expect him to work and have social life. More power to them I guess for not letting other peoples riducule get to them.
@@deelaljee9176 You are right…unreal expectations.
I hope sumit ex wife is watching this shit show
Jenny, let this young man have the life that you have already lived. Go home!
I don’t think she forced Sumit to marry her…he’s getting something out of this…maybe it’s the money and “fame.”
he doesn't want a child. he's trying to please his parents, or it's fake.
@@caribee4me833 You may be right, but I think she is a very needy, selfish person. Sumit obviously has issues too.
I do agree with you.
I was about to type the same thing!!!
He is beginning to realize this marriage was not a good idea.
It is so written all over his face hey
He knew that before he married her. Sumit got himself into this hole and now he's trying his best to get out.
I think he knew. It's unmissable.
I think he was just holding on for that stupid green card 😂
He spoiled someone's life, now it's time to pay..
Jenny is finally being forced to face that her husband is half her age! She cannot expect him to retire and live like he's her age! She's so using this "injury" to keep him at home
Daughters need to go home and take Jenny with them. J/S
Daughter. The second (more masculine) woman is the daughter’s wife.
Agree summitt is never going to give up on his family. They will always come first 😢
Agree
@@chocolatebunny3221 so daughter in law. so theyre both daughters
@Lusey Resident - why?
Jenny knew the situation with Sumit parents from the beginning. Really everything is coming to what his parents said. No kids, her health issues, age difference.
You are so right
I think sumit said he doesn’t want kids
@@ellamartinez3442 he is changing his mind
Summit is young, definitely he wanteed to have his own kids.
Absolutely! My question to Jenny is why did it take you 10 yrs to realize you’ll never be accepted to his parents?? The whole getting married and that debacle was literally for nothing but more heartache for everyone
I can’t believe how needy Jenny is - so she fell off a chair, banged her shoulder, and you’d think she broke her back. I haven’t yet figured out exactly what Jenny does with her time. She doesn’t prepare meals, she doesn’t clean her (filthy house) and I’ve yet to see her crack a book open.
Hehehe! Crack a book open. 📖
And she doesn't bother to learn Sumit's language. She could at least try to learn a few words. Jenny if very lazy.
She doesn’t cook she doesn’t clean she only lets Sumit hit that dingly thing at the back of her throat 😂😂😂
She clings to Sumitt!!
Probably watches tv and goes on the internet all day.
Maybe the daughter could talk to Jenny about independence, tell her a 60 year old woman is still capable of doing things alone. And the daughter, if anyone, should understand Sumit - he shouldn't be living like a pensioner.
My mother is 84 year old, she still does lots of work. Keep herself busy.
@@binasarmah1486 Exactly! My mom is 74 and she's doing something all the time and in and out of the door... No excuse for Jenny! Learnt helplessness...
Living like a pensioner. 😆
@@SuperBanjo007 She built the prison. She has so much to do. Learn new things in new country and culture. learn to cook . Learn Hindi language. 63 is not even old for retire. Her excuse is old, but her ogre is not old.
Not good what a horrible mistake for him to marry jenny
I didn't really care for Jenny's daughter but I find it funny that he saying she needs to stay out of their business when all his family is is up in their business
I found it quite naive of Christina. Just googling traditional Indian culture, the wife needs to be of child bearing years, move in w/ the man's family; then cook & clean for the entire family.
So if they stay together, he will not have his parents, never have children, and be stuck at home looking after an elderly woman. Hope she's worth it, Catfish-Boy.
He sure heaped some karma onto himself continuing his relationship for over 9 years with Jenni and then marrying her! He was way too passive and should have told her to move back home as he is now realising the amount of sacrificing, he will have to make in the future as well.....only going to get worse not better as she ages and as she gets more demanding!
Seems like karma to me
Unfortunately I see trouble ahead as Jenny becomes an old lady. She’s so crazy about him and much to clingy and needy now,what will it be like in the coming years?
If Christina wants to confront someone, confront Sumit’s mom!!! He has tried standing up for Jenny to no avail. Family is extremely important in the India culture and while she would turn her back on her mom if she hadn’t accepted her wife, that doesn’t work for Sumit. Jenny needs to go back to San Diego and live out her retirement days with her family and let her much much younger than her husband stay in India.
Jenny is 62/63, not 90. At that age do you really need somebody to be there, take care of you 24/24?
Family is important in any culture. If people in general would quit trying to control others and be more mindful of their happiness, the world would be a happier place.
Christine should stay out of it, how would she like someone to tell her what to do within her own marriage? Jenny's daughter needs to remember that her American mom chose to live in India and has been going back & forth to India for 10-11 years already. Just take your mom back to America so Sumit can live his life like a normal young guy.
I agree!
I just wish she could do that so that summit can have life
@@bitsangabi9785 I doubt she will. Jenny loves attention in my opinion. Plus America is crazy expensive right now and Jenny probably would end up back to sleeping on her daughter's couch again.
nd she's been there that long and refuse to learn the language for herself
@@KTSE2997 yes, not even a few words. Jenny is disrespectful of the culture and has been from day one.
She needs to realize that it's far more attractive for your partner if you are independent, not being a big needy baby
I think when these older American women marry younger men from other countries & cultures, they largely do so because they think they can control them, 100%.
Does she not realize that now she's Already acting like Real Senior that needs to be watched 24/7
She’s acting like a child, she can’t shop, speak the language or clean. This is not fair to Sumit. The “I need now” attitude needs to go Jenny.
She seriously can’t expect this man to be her caregiver all the time… it’s wild to me.
They can live on her social security. He's barely working.
This broad is 🤪
@@SuperBanjo007 that social security is not enough it was mentioned in some of the clips she doesn't have that much money
Helping her out after she had one injury isn't being her caregiver. He would expect her to look after him if he got sick.
@@judyweeks1480 she literally does expect him to be her caregiver, look at her attitude when he talks about him working! Instead of being happy for her husband she’s being a miserable unsupportive hag. She’s lazy as hell and she is more than capable of being active and doing things around the house and outside, she just wants to be glued to Sumit 24/7, unfortunately for her this is how he’ll get bored and leave her.
I was told years ago, as you age, you will be happier with someone that was raised like you. Someone that has your values and outlook on life. For me, that is true.
Bringing a child into this hot mess is CRAZEY
I don't think children are a possibility, I mean Jenny is over 60!
Especially considering that there are a few million orphans in India alone😢
Orphans need a stable environment and two parents who actually want kids Jenny and summit have clearly stated they don't and summit has turned and only want to have a child to please his parents but doesn't really want kids so a child would just for show summit would be working 6-7 days a week and Jenny can't even take care of her self let alone a child which she is not in agreement over as summit hasn't discussed it with her yet
There's orphans all over the world who need love stability and a good home with good parents as to home any orphan with the wrong people in the wrong home it's a recipe for disaster
@@justjulie2826 those eggs been fried 20 year's ago
I bet she fell so Sumitt could take care of her.
Her daughter is very abrasive and rude. Summit…you made a mistake marrying this clingy older woman. This will not end well.
Well now Summit knows how it feels to have people in yo business 💅🏻
You got that right!
Facts!!!!
I think you have to understand the whole reason as to why his parents are not accepting of Jenny. She’s literally younger than BOTH of his parents which is wrong and how they was doing stuff under the parents roof when she was only their as a ‘guest’.
While Christina is annoying, Sumit knew all of this before marrying her. I have no pity towards any of them lmao.
Didn't Christina say somewhere that Jenny was not very accepting when she came out and it took time to build up a relationship again? Sounds like she has been in quite a similar situation.
Exactly, it's called poetic justice
This relationship is beginning to turn toxic because niether of them can accept the others needs things will only get worse as they can't agree to disagree
What a piece of work this woman is!!!!!! She got to India on her own. .
Helpless like a fox.
No dear, never compare animal Jenny with fox. Fox is very hardworking animal❤ He can surviv in very harsh climate❄ But Jenny animal not.
It’s amazing to me how he’s saying that she needs to stay out of his business, yet his family has done nothing but control Jenny’s and his business. To the point that he wants to give his family a child that he doesn’t even want , crazy !
Lol he obviously wants the child, otherwise he would have defied them like he has already done in marrying Jenny...
@@MaiMachiya he was married to a much younger woman while he was entertaining Jenny so why didn’t he have kids then?
Right💯💯💯💯💯💯💯that made me soooo made the nerve of summit!!!! What that poor woman has dealt with!!!!
@@fluffytail6355 What if she was barren?
@@MaiMachiya lmao
Sorry the 63 year old should have known better marring a younger man, once dated a younger man not to big of an age gap, I knew when it was for me to let him go, I wanted him to have a family like I already had mine,...it was the right thing to do ...send them free...regardless how much it hurt. BLESSINGS.
Not her acting like she can’t live cause she hurt her elbow😭
My lord, Jenny looks much older than sixty three… and how can she be trusted to care for a kid when she neither likes cooking nor cleaning? Honestly, I’ve never seen such strange dynamics…..
Shes far to old to be a mother..grandmother...not mother
Time for Sumit to go and enjoy his life. He’s wasted enough time on Jenny. The daughter and friend should take mama home. They can take care of her.
And the saying she dépends on him is the biggest turn off of all. Omg.
If he can't handle Jenny's dependency, how does he think raising a child will work out? 🤔
I think there’s a difference lol
@@Ami-rb2hu I was thinking the exact same thing. Jenny is sapping the life out of him every day because the reality is she's much too old for him. It forces him to be her caregiver. He should absolutely be able to work and go out without some old lady demanding he be home in case she falls or something equally stupid. Not to mention she's loud, obnoxious and truthfully very nasty to him often. Add to that her age and appearance and what does Sumit really gain by being with her? The screechy yell she lets loose sometimes is akin to the mating call of the wild mongoose in heat. In actuality, she's not good to or for him but she's too selfish to let him go live a normal life with a girl his age and start a family, without being saddled with a senior citizen he has to care for all the time.
I don't thing he really wants children. She is really old with health issues any pregnancy may be high risk and has a high chance of not making it the full term. I think he is pretending to want kids for his family, that way when she doesn't get pregnant he can blame it on her age and health.
@@famouslastwords0791HR I completely agree!!
@@candikingdom Do you not know she is 63? She is past getting pregnant or carrying a child. They would have to use a segregate or adopt.
Erm, didn’t she hurt her shoulder? She literally looks perfectly fine 😂😂 also, I wonder who cooked that meal LMAO
sumit did.
I think she only acted like she is hurt because she wants Sumitt not to work and stay with her. Sumitt does all the cooking. Jenny does nothing.
Sumit is servant for Jenny. She choose him with purpose to serve her. She use him for sex, cleaning house, make food, buy and carry food to her, company for excurtions in different parts of India. He is black sevent and she is white boss. She merry him to get a servant. Whom she can treat as she will. Bitch women.
@@danasandoval624 true, she gave him that “told you so” look as if young Sumit is going to give up his young days to be her carer. She honestly irks me so much.
@@Ami-rb2hu yes!
I never realized how much Jenny daughter looks just like Jenny 😂
It's crazy
Yes, Christina needs to mind her own business. Her mother Jenny married Sumit and finding out they're generations apart. Jenny needs to stand up for herself and go back to Palm Springs.
Summit this is what your parents told you. Now you are starting to feel the heat my son, but I tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg. Tell Christina on her face what you are going through daily and ask her to take the old woman back home so that you can marry a woman your age and have children. Jenny is old even if you try to adopt with her she will still tell you to stay home and take care of the children
Jenny is ONLY 63, she's not an invalid in a hospice!! She can't cook, clean, she can't keep the house clean, GROW UP JENNY!! She acts like a preteen!!! Sumit if this keeps up, just annul the marriage and send her home!!!!
Exactly. Jenny is a lazy bum
How can Jenny be home all day and the house looks so dirty grimly ? She seems on the lazy side
If he wants children than he needs to marry a younger woman like usman 😂
Oh but Sumit's family can get all up in their business whenever they want to??
Ha! Good point.
Yes,. Agree!!!!
Sumit went into this eyes wide open. I remember when his friend, way before he and Jenny got married, that Jenny moving here is going to be like him having to take care of a newborn baby bc she is, understandably, going to be solely dependent upon him. But, in Sumit's defense, I feel like Jenny is trying to control him through this fact. At the very least, she could be trying to learn the language and learn her way around town so that she cld potentially make a friend or 2, and hopefully that friend cld also help her become more acclimated to their country and culture. I dont think it's fair for Jenny to allow herself to be stifled instead of taking control of the things that she is able to take control of. Perhaps, his parent might have a little more respect for a woman who looks and seems older than his own mother not be so helpless and adding so much more pressure onto their son.
Jenny, Sumit, is your life partner NOT your carer.
He and you entered the relationship as equal partners.
You haven't had a major medical event or been diagnosed with some terrible degenerative illness (eg MND).
He is not your primary carer. Rather he needs to fulfill his life goals and you also need to be supported to build your capacity to undertake daily activity tasks.
It is only until you start to challenge and address your fears, such as shopping, that you will build your confidence.
Sumit has supported you over the last few years to do that. Jenny needs to continue to work on that herself. To ask Sumit not to work is unfair, most of us want to work - we want to contribute. To emotionally manipulate Sumit and say he needs to look after you is not right. He is not your aide, he is not your carer, you are actually young - only 63 (I think). Most people are still working at that stage of our lives.
If you were 78 or 82 years of age I'd get it.
Jenny - stop emotionally manipulating your husband because you are fearful.
These people knew who they married?! You knew you married a young man and he knew he married someone double his age omg what?!?!?!
10 years older than the mother of Sumit. Mother if Sumit is 54.
Noon no not 0MGEsta loca 🤣🤣
I find it interesting that Summit wants Jenny to tolerate having HIS family in HER business but he doesn't like it when the tables are turned....and Christina is being quite KIND about it all while Summits family are RUDE, TOXIC, & INSULTING to Jenny!!! I think he needs to see how it feels.
I'm her age. No you don't. Many of us live alone.
Sumit has the best hair
Jenny is acting like she is one step away from living in a retirement community. If she wants to live her age, find a man her age.
The daughter said Summit has his family around. They abandoned him. He has sacrificed a lot, Jenny still has her family in her life.
Jenny needs not be so dependent on Sumit. She is only 63 and should not be acting like a grandma in a rocking chair. Why doesn't she learn Hindi so she can communicate better. She does have friends who she can go to lunch. Organize get together to meet more people and to work on her Hindi. Do volunteer work. Retirement is not sitting at home and doing nothing. You have a lot if life so go live it.
Hilarious, Sumit saying Jenny's daughter needs to stay out of their business, when his own family literally dictates their entire life together.!!
it is none of their business, it is between Jenny and Sumit. They have NO SAY !!!
You can tell he really over it! I think he wants her to go home
But jenny you’re a liar.. you lied in the beginning of the entire relationship!
0:56 Wow, Christina and her wife looks more suspicious than Sumit's parents.
He lied to them at a meeting a few series ago
😅😅😅😅
That's Christina's husband not wife
I think Summit is starting to realize what his parents and friends where trying to explain to him about there age gap, but if summit thinks having a child just for his parents is the answer its not, kinda gets me upset to me summit don't get that a child is a gift not an object to make ppl happy. Jenny needs to understand that summit is still young and has a business he opened with his friend who put all his money into it. Jenny needs to learn how to be alone I dint think that Jenny has ever cooked or cleaned I'm trying to figure out if her first husband did it all or if there was a maid cuz Jenny can't cook or clean and she is how old. In beginning I was rooting for these 2 but now it's just ok there finally married she wants to go bk to America and take summit but she knew before they married he wouldn't leave and I have feeling while her daughter is there something big is gonna happen
Oh sweetheart 🤦♀️Your mother is MARRIED! You should've asked questions BEFORE they married, it was 10 freaking years to do it. If she's not happy, keep it open she can come to you.
They deserve respect for their decision, it was THEIR'S.
Imagine whn she's 70 lol
Summit is so nice to Jenny and the daughter should notice that!!
Sumit married someone older than his own mother what did he expect? I don't care how many people will say age is just a number Bull! Age matters a lot for many reasons and here is a very fine example of why age matters in this video.
Summit doesn't even want to have a wife (just a mom) why does he try to convince us he wants a child?
I used to not want to have a child but here i am, about to give birth in few days
@@annedin896 Your child will be healthy and beautiful.
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Jenny's daughter is day late and a dollar short. They are married already, so what are her reservations for? Summit's culture is different than us, Americans. They don't have nursing homes?!? That alone should indicate the differences in our cultures. Also, Sumits parents warned him about this day. Jenny and him are in totally different stages of their lives. I mean honestly, I'm 50, and even my mature age, I still wouldn't want to have to stay home so I can tend to someone. Jenny should have learned some of the language by now. She should have some sort of independence by now. JMO
I guess she want to take Sumit as her caretaker. It's kinda boring for a young age man 24/7 with her
Daughter needs to take mummy home to America where she belongs. Jenny needs her family to look after her, because she's very needy.
I agree 💯
Christina needs to talk to her mom not Sumit. The marriage is on the brink of ending and Christine needs to read the handwriting on the wall to her mom who refuses to even look at it. Sumit is a young vital guy and should not be robbed of his youth to be a caregiver to Jenny till she dies.
Jenny is scared to let Sumit out of her eye sight. He will end up resenting her.
I know summit is not talking about people being in his business the way his family all up in Jenny’s business
She faked an injury to get him to stay home. Girl grow up and be self sufficient. That man is young. Nobody wants to sit up under you all day
Shes 63!?!? I thought she was 73!!
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck… it’s probably 73
I know! She's the same age as my mother who looks as if she could be 20 years younger.
@@Sunset553 How respectful. Hope you remember this comment when you get to this age.
@@ttephi3667 I’m almost there!
@@Sunset553 That is interesting in light of your comment.
This guy needs to see the light. Being involved with an older person will not last long. Needs to allow her to leave and get on with his life.
I don't really think Summit wants to have children himself. IMO he feels as though he has a have to have children for his parents approval.
That's what he said
Sumit is a selfish person
Jenny chose to go there she needs to understand his much younger and there will be differences he wants to work and why shouldn't he at least his not using her for green card she needs to find things she can enjoy volunteering etc maybe work part-time
Old people will suck the young life of u if u decide to have a relationship with them !!!! They live their life already so selfish
Sumit mother tell him the same words.
@@vimlarajpat385 Wow I didn’t even know she said it .
*Sumit never wanted a child when he had a young wife but now that she has Jenny , now out of no where he wants a child*
The truth is Thier on two different pages all together . He wants to work he doesn't want to be jenny's carer
This marriage is a joke! Her daughter needs to take her home and care give her. If she wants to be in their business then stop blaming Sumit and take your old mother home.
I love when this guy uploads, I wish he'd do a podcast already
If Sumit leaves Jenny, she only has herself to blame. She doesn't want him to work or have friends, because that will take time away from her. Jenny needs a nursing home, not a husband. If Jenny can't even cook and clean for the two of them, how is she expected to raise a child at her age? Jenny needs to learn the language and get a job. I don't blame Sumit's family for wanting nothing to do with Jenny.
I need Christina to take her mom home and let Sumit move on and make a life. I feel so bad for him. He’s young still, he needs to marry someone else who’s closer to his age and that he can make a family with. Now I DO feel like Jenny and Sumit do love each other, but they’re on different ends of the spectrum of life. Jenny needs to find herself a man her age that maybe alrdy has a nice little nest egg, that’s retired and can spend unlimited time together. And Sumit needs to find a younger girl who appreciates the fact he has a job and a home of his own and wants a family.
She looks like her a mixed race version of her Mom and her Wife looks like she was released from Jail
Jenny is embarrassing herself, her family and Sumit. She is old enough she should see this for what it is, a late life crisis. She can't live like a retiree and force Sumit to do the same in his prime of lyfe. She needs a wakeup call.
She flew 1000s of miles to BE IN THAT situation
I know right !!! I don't care about age and that she's older so what!!! There's a lot of people that are together that are far apart in age that's no the problem him and his family are the problem!!! Grow a backbone summit! Or jenny go home to sunny California instead of that dump and find you a new man it's never to late!!!! I used to like summit no more ! And the nerve he doesn't like her daughter in his business it's about time someone defends poor jenny!
The patience of this man
First: Simit says Jenny is an old woman, and I think ANYONE, also he, can fall off a chair!
Secundly: I think he gas change his mindset all together, after the wedding.
He do not seem to be so patient. And now also talking about the age difference. He did not do that earlier. Now he wants a not retired life! He tells; wanting a child. All of things that makes me see red flags.
I think Jenny has more troubling times ahead, I’m afraid 😢
What are you watching? Jenny is the one always talking about her age and it’s not his job to be her career. There’s no red flags except Jenny’s screaming at him and manipulating him into marrying her. He had his family, the option of marrying a woman who he’s more compatible with and ago he can have children with. Jenny has absolutely nothing to offer to the relationship in any way and now she expects him to not work and stay at home caring for her all day. She’s ridiculous and their relationship isn’t going to last.
Tell his parents to stay out of your business, works both ways.
I think sumit wants to work to get time away from Jenny, he looks like he’s always bothered by her.
She wants a nurse not a husband
Sumits eyes 😂 they looked like e_e lmao
The person Christina needs to talk to is her mom. Jenny's expectations are unrealistic and she needed to have more respect for the culture and have some interest in learning the language. And even if his family doesn't accept her she needed to have some interest in building a life in India wider than just having a husband and expecting him to be her whole world.
Its not unreasonable for him to ask her to be more independant.
I agree with Sumit. Different culture different ways of dealing with family. It cant always be the "American way". Its complicated for people who are very traditional.
Sumit is correct..Christina needs to mind her own business. Jenny is far to dependent on Sumit.
Just take your mama back home with you. Y’all just go on- git.
Jenny doesn't want sumit to work but she hasn't got enough money to have a cleaner or a cook. She is unsecured and is scared in case sumit falls in love with a beautiful young indian girl.
Jenny needs to go to an old age facility if she is that damn frail like wth! Why must Sumit be available to take care of her full time???? She acts like she is dang near 80. His her husband not a carer! She is mad annoying. At this stage she should just go home with her daughter because she is doing to much. Sumit will regret marrying her in the end, already resenting her for certain things. I don’t know why she could not follow Debbie’s league and find an old man like her! Seriously 🙄🙄🙄😳
I am enjoying the comments! I agree! Jenny is pushing the boundaries. He is her husband, her partner, and soulmate. Yet she while she is retired, he is not! It is embarrassing to hear the words coming from her mouth! Sorry to say this but she sounds very selfish! I can say this, I am an older woman, older then Jenny! He isn’t her slave, or her babysitter, they do have daycare or elderly people. Perhaps that would be the better choice!
Christine - Get out! Stay out!
Absolutely Jenny!! Enough of this foolishness, go home. Jenny will never be accepted, Submit is a Flaming Hot Mess!!! Leave that Mamas boy.
He wants Jenny's daughter to stay out of it but his family has been doing for years..he is such a hypocrite
They all need to visit psychotherapist 😅
IMO, Sumit and Jenny are doing a disservice to each other. The age difference and how they both are personality wise is totally opposite. I really don’t think they should be together, both of them are at a different stage in their lives.
In this age Jenny got a good maid. Not husband. She's Very Lucky. 😂
Sumit's family all up in their business for YEARS but Jenny's daughter has something to say and he loses it??
typical macho
Probably because Sumit tried to get them to accept Jenny many times, her daughter however is just meddling atp. There’s a slight difference
Why can't they hire a househelp though? Jenny doesn't wants to work ... Sumit is not having time. I am much worried about their house at the moment than their marriage Lol !! 😂