Jenny is extremely selfish and immature for her age. She also just doesn’t do anything, not even cook. This is why the whole age gap thing is weird. Jenny is an old lady who wants to stay home and eat boiled potatoes. Summit is still young and wants a bit more adventure and has real career goals. This is what Summits family was trying to tell him.
I for one I am shame as an African woman. I will “never” ever go after a young man who can be my son. It’s shameful in my culture this Jenny and Kimberly should go back to America and find them selfs men over there instead of going to India and Africa to find this young men. Who should marry a young women’s so that can have children of there own. This selfishness Disgraceful I have never ever seen anything like this in my life.
@@JT-ye5iu I so understand you not wanting a husband young enough to be your son. But can you explain why Africa young men want old white women? Sumit and Jenny, Michael and Angela, Usman and Zara, Usman and Lisa, Usman and Kimberly.
It seem she just want stay home with him and have sex with him the straight way lol don't cook or anything seem like she want a sugar daddy in a young man she's to old for that
They were so busy fighting his family that they never focused on what each one wanted out of a married life. Now that his parents aren’t speaking to him, they’re having to face the huge differences between them.
Without Sumit's family these 2 would not have any story at all - all they ever did was blame his family. They are doing it to make money from a tv show - allowing themselves to treat one another like disrespectful fools all for money.
There’s nothing wrong with him wanting to work! That’s a great man! All the things he is wanting he will not get from a 60 year old woman. There’s nothing wrong with Jenny either, she’s a vibrant woman in her 60’s, not her 30’s. They are at VERY DIFFERENT stages in life, Jenny is old enough to no better! She should have left and went home to her children and let summit have a normal life!
Ridiculous comment. They are in love. She’s sacrificed so much!! Her children are grown!! Would you leave your husband that you’ve waited for and given up so much. Just because of age doesn’t mean they can’t make it work!!
No is a negative response. Know is to have knowledge of something. Sumit was a scammer and was also married to another woman whilst pursuing Jenny. Jenny accidentally paid 500 rupees instead of the 300 rupees the man had charged for the produce. Conclusion: Sumit isn’t a great man. Jenny isn’t smart. Lastly, you don’t know the difference between “no” and “know” so your IQ is probably about the same as Jenny’s. 😂
I totally see how Sumit feels like he's being smothered. I can't imagine spending every second of every day with my spouse. At some point, one of us would explode !
I don't mind something like that for a few weeks, but this has been two years plus of her up his rear. I love my man but I give him time to himself, socialize, work... Spending all day for a while is great and a testament to how real their affection is, but for two years ... with no hobbies, no work, no anything and the woman does nothing... can't even light a stove or boil potatoes??? Summit's parents were probably right about the other woman, she probably was a far superior as a house wife...
She is like a parasite.very clingy. She cant cook and she doesn't know how to keep a clean house. I wonder what was the attraction. Summit is now tired of her.
Yeah can't cook, can't clean, shopping she's lived there so long she shud be familiar with the environment, but THAT too cant do. She's useless as a person. Leave her summit
I'm kinda lost here. She doesn't cook or clean. She doesn't want to go anywhere by herself. She doesn't want her husband to work or have a separate life from her own existence. She just wants a person to be with her all the time. 👀 Why was this conversation not had before they married? There are expectations that have not been addressed. Yikes!!!
I mean...the relationship started off with him not telling her he was married and her not knowing the culture..so this is definitely not a surprise. I'm just glad Sumit is getting a backbone with her now
Yes she even said her pension is enough for them both, so he doesn't need to work. lol She should have found herself a man who's the same age than her! Then they could have enjoyed retirement life together..
you shouldn't be lost, th age gap is too much and they have different wants and needs, she's 60 and wants a partner to be with most of the time, not someone working a full time job and he's onlyh 30 and wants more from life so they're not compatiable, its not horrible she wants a partner to be with a lot, its the age gap and they obviously didn't adress these issues beforhand, she's retired, they're not compatible.
HA! Mother was concerned about no kids and appearances. Such a vile selfish controlling character she has shown herself to be. Jenny needs to take the reins, say goodbye to all the negativity and criticism, get OUT of that culture and be HAPPY, with a fun while it lasted attitude. One CAN control one's thoughts AND we can think only one thing at a time. When current thoughts aren't working, CHANGE THEM. Jenny's had two years of exotic life in India, found out it's not all it's cracked up to be. She has the option to leave with wonderful memories and call it a win.
I am a married foreigner living in India and I would never go out shopping without my husband! I am very fair and I understand the gawking and starring, it is unnerving!
I actually really like Sumit.. he might be the only nice guy in this whole franchise… he didn’t marry Jenny for a greencard, since he obviously doesn’t want to go to America, and he’s very patient and polite with her, even when she’s being controlling.. he should speak up more though..
@@LilySaintSin yeah if he was a bad looking guy and the one that was older I would get on that wagon .. she leveled all the way up 😊 I like him but not so much her…
@@LilySaintSin she also lied. When she went there the first time she stayed with his parents and told them they were just friends and she just came to see India. That is one reason they dislike her along with the age difference.
Not true. She’s been supporting him so far from her pension, which won’t last forever. Sumit needs to work and be a MAN by contributing to the household. Jenny is the issue here because she won’t permit him to do that. One can be “retired” at ANY age so long as income supports it…has NOTHING to do with age or the age gap. It’s Jenny’s clingy mentality that is the REAL issue here.
@@rebeccalavoy6655 i don't have to sacrifice every waking moment with my child it's ok for parents to have breaks and their own hobbies etc. That mentality is what pushes people to mental breakdowns but okay..
I'm married to a surgeon who works almost everyday of the month. IMHO, the secret to our happy 2 decade union is not just love and similar interests but also the fact that he comes back home every day to a clean home and a warm home cooked dinner.
I notice Sumit has had changes in his life. For one, he’s looking better. He is a bit more careful how he does his hair, more stylish and he’s dressing much better than in the beginning of the show. He has spent time with friends and probably enjoys it a lot. I strongly believe he is looking to move on and yes! HE IS PROBABLY LOOKING TO FIND A YOUNG GIRL. THIS WILL NOT LASTI SAY!
Yes, there is something different about him... Maybe he has already found someone? Maybe nothing physical has happened, but maybe he's been talking with someone? We shall see...
Learned helplessness is more "everything I try to improve this situation doesn't work or makes it worse, so why bother" ie Seligman's experiment with trapped dogs and is linked to depression whereas I think Jenny must have been so dependant on other people all her life, and now feels out of her depth, hasn't expected things to be the way they are, is expected to fill a role and perform tasks etc by people who don't understand her and her experience as an outsider. I'd hope she'd find US and UK expats to hang around with so she'd have that social contact and moral support outside of Sumit.
@@ivanovskameow999 Perhaps she is co-dependant and can't function w/o constant attention. My point was clearly she is at retirement age and her "husband" is much younger. Too many issues to make it work..I'd be devastated if my in-laws hated me
@@ambermclaughlin3852 Completely agree with you (my comment was replying to Kelly). The whole situation is full of resentment, and Jenny must feel so isolated.
How could a woman at that age can't cook, Sumit is getting tired of her clinginess. Jenny is older and more laid back, and Sumit is young and still wants to explore life. This relationship will not last he is going to turn on her and cheat.
IM 41 AND CAN MAKE BETTER THINGS FOR DINNER THAN JENNY I DON´T UNDERSTAND MASHED POTATOES IS A SIDE DISH COULD BE EATEN WITH VEGETABLES AND GRAVY OR WITH A STEAK BUT NOT ALONE, IT IS AWFUL AT HER AGE DON´T KNOW HOW TO COOK. MY MOM IS ELDER AND IS BEST THAN HER. SHE WANT STARVE SUMMIT I DON´T DOUBT HE WILL BE DOUBTING HIS MARRIAGE AND SEARCHING A LADY ON HIS 30´S MORE NEAR HIS AGE, BUT I DON´T LIKE HIM HAVING KIDS ONLY FOR PARENTS INTEREST AND ACCEPTANCE OF HIM AS A SON AND NOT FOR HIS OWN WILL AND DESIRE OF BECOMING A FATHER, I WOULDN´T LIKE THE KID USED AS A PAWN.
@@alliekattlopez5535 lol, some couple do everything together and some don't, people like different types of relationships, its not whether you like it or not, neither of them want the same type of lifestyle, they're not compatible, some couple love doing most things together, everyone isn't like you.
Well it'll be her karma considering she got with sumit when he was married to his 1st wife.. I never will feel bad for Jenny.. she can't even cook or clean.. she could learn the language spoken.. she's an overgrown child ffs
Jenny was complaining about how she wants a better place to live. Sumit wants to be the husband and provide for them but she doesn't want him to do anything. Sumit is tired of the leash around his neck.
She is worthless a nuisance and nasty. There is absolutely nothing about her that is attractive. Summit needs a woman who have the same goals and ideals in life. Jenny is a noose around his neck.He is too much of a handsome man to be stuck with a slob.
I don’t understand how these two thought they were gonna work. They are in 2 absolutely different periods of life; she’s on that retirement home frequency and just wants to chill and have a laid back life till she passes away while his life is essentially just starting.
They’re whole relationship was built on sneaking around in the beginning. He was having an affair with Jenny and now he’s divorcing his wife that excitement isn’t there.
Let me tell you ignorant butts this my husband is 70 and I am 43 My husband beats any man sex wise and beyond shame on anyone making fun of Jenny stupidity is only in the stupid funny sumit wanted hard sex and different positions she gave it to him hard and he had to call a Dr because she rode him hard and he was a baby. . Don't ask us American women to do different positions and then cry because I know you don't know but 1 position in India
They didn't think, that's the problem. They never really considered all the variables. I don't know what they did during all the times they were together but actually thinking wasn't it.
She really expected man in his prime to sit home with her all day? She's a clueless clown. I mean, I don't even know a single old person who wants to sit around with their spouse. At any age people want to do things, have friends.... The fact that she can't even speak bare minimum of the language while living there for years is ridiculous. Seems on purpose to tie him with her.
Living in a country for over 10 years, even if you never actively tried to learn the language, you’d think that Jenny would at least *accidentally* pick up some basic words by now…
I absolutely hate how white people never learn the languages of the places they move to! It's so damn entitled, basically FORCING EVERYONE ELSE TO SPEAK ENGLISH! INSTEAD OF THEM BOTHERING TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE!
Indian women will not be friend with Jenny. She is too old than the wives of the friends of Sumit. Friends of Sumit will never take Jenny in there home because of bad impect on there children and familys.
Muricans expect everyone else to speak English, regardless of where they travel. Facts. Jenny is a typical Murican who doesn’t want to learn the local language or culture where she’s now residing and that’s the real issue. I agree that she should have made effort to learn to speak Hindi, Punjab or whatever the local dialect is where she’s residing during the time she’s been there.
@@vimlarajput7881 That must be pretty hard for Summit. Because he realizes it would be different with a young woman. He's fighting on many places... He is really a good guy. I hope he will have the strength to change his life and find a young woman with whom he can live a "normal" life in India.
Good for you Sumit. I'm so happy you're finding some breathing space from Jenny. You are a respectable young man with your whole life ahead of you. Jenny already lived her life when she was your age. It's selfish of Jenny to want you to live a retired life and isolated you from your friends and family. Life is short, make the best of it now.
not one person alone can replace the whole social need of another human being. We think like that ( only you and i and nothing and no one else) when we are in love in our teens and only for a few months tops. You are not enough, no one is. A human being needs extended family, friends close and not so close, people and other couples of same values and lifestyles. one cannot live in isolation. And what does Jenny give Sumit in return? name one thing?
@@marikajamacochian8754 well said and all facts. Sumit has finaly realized everything you just said. Jenny is selfish and she hasn't giving Sumit anything in return for all the sacrifice he's been making for her. Sumit sticks with Jenny out of respect for his elder because his parents raised him right. Deep down inside Sumit feels trapped and he's not happy with her. He's in denial.
Wait, Jenny has been going to India for 10+ years and she still cannot speak the language? Jenny does NOT want to do any housework. She has Sumit as her care taker. Face it!
Jenny cannot possibly be as helpless as she portrays herself to be. If anything, Jenny needs to meet up with other expats living in her area. They can provide her with support and friendship separate from Sumit. It's not healthy to dump all of your emotional amd physical needs on one person. It's overwhelming and will only drive sumit away from her
Summit is as good as out so ship is sinking, she only needs to get out and get a life she can really get involved in and enjoy, whatever that takes and stay OFF of on-line CRAP.
Yes, Jenny can't expect Sumit not to work, and to just stay with her all the time! She needs to find some friends, maybe some other Amerians living in India, some women friends she can hang out with. Also, if she made friends with some Indian women, they could teach her how to cook Indian food.
I moved to the European country of my husband after we got married. A non english speaking country..a language I didn't know. I jumped right into doing things on my own because since it was nearly impossible for me to have a job there at the beginning what else was I gona do?! I decided to put myself completely into being a wife that spoiled her husband since I had the time to do it. I shopped alone in markets that I had to just walk through and look at pictures on boxes to know what it was. It took time but I caught on quickly. She will end up getting into a deep depression if she doesn't make the effort to have some type of life while he works. Ha..I even went out with girl cousins of my husband for lunch or to shop. We couldn't understand a word we were speaking to each other but it was okay..we just laughed it off and became good friends/family. You have to make the effort when put into a situation like this. I now live in my home country with my European husband. I'm SO happy I lived in his country for several yrs because I understand his stupid jokes when others don't 😂 I understand his culture and the hardest is I understand why his family does things differently then my family. It's taught me to be a more open/accepting person.
This is what I would’ve done ✅ Jenny would’ve enjoyed their life together more and so would Sumit if she’d started their marriage off like that. He would’ve realized how much she loves him too. You sound like a very smart lady in love with her husband!
I did the same. I moved to pakistan where my husband is from and became a housewife and helped out with my mother-in-law since I didn't speak the language. After a few weeks I started to become more comfortable going outside and picking up my sister in law from school and doing errands
I actually like Sumit ALOT... also, my husband is Haitian... he's the head of our family.. like Sumit wants Jenny to do, but I was very happy to do it, I learned as much about Haitian culture as I could, I embrace it, and I am very happy to be a very good housewife... it's a privilage to me to get to stay home every day. . The least I can do is clean, cook, and take care of our home...
@Carmen Miranda I always wonder what will happen when Jenny's old and frail or dies in India, it's actually scary, I have a feeling Sumit will call her kids
So they’re the complete opposites of all the other couples! He from India doesn’t want to come to the USA, she from the USA, wants to live with someone and have everything made easy for her. Jenny cannot really believe this guy shouldn’t work and should be with her 24/7? That’s not natural. This is why we stay in our own age groups and leagues,
Let's take a look at Jenny's assets. Refuses to be alone for 5 minutes. Don't know how to cook. Don't know how to clean. Don't know how to shower herself. Refusing to learn basic language. Choosing to not make friends. Won't allow Sumit to see his friends. Won't allow Sumit to go to work. Fights with Sumit about his parents. Acts like a helpless old woman. Yes I can see why Sumit loves her
@@justjulie2826 When Sumit's parents came to visit Jenny was still in bed and she crawled over the bed in order to get out. The bottom of her feet were filthy black with dirt. Another scene showed rings of dirt in the creases of her neck.
Oh gosh, Jenny wants to be treated like a typical senior who has lived her life longer on this earth and now be served food with helpers around her. I mean that can work but the basic duties of learning how to cook? Maybe Jenny realizes it's too much work for a 60 year old to get back to the typical wifey duties. Learn it, Jenny, you're no millionaire in the US, are you?
Yeah she isn’t gonna be happy when she realizes, while parents are respected in India, they always keep working. They don’t stop until their last breath because, unless they’re very lucky, they aren’t able to save up for anything resembling retirement. Jenny is so incredibly selfish for not adapting to the situation she is in.
There's no way you could get to that age and NOT know how to cook? She married an Indian man, so she should be happy to learn how to cook his favorite dishes.
I total get both side of the story. When I was young I had all the energy and drive to work and then come home snd play with my kids. I can see Summet going stir crazy. Now I'm middle aged, my kids are older and I enjoy my quiet life while still working. I imagine when I'm close to retired or retired I will like a slower pace and being with the people I care about like Jenny.
That's my conclusion too. Don't get me wrong, both of them have their flaws but a lot of their issues seem to be age related. That doesn't make one wrong or the other right. It just means they're at different stages of their lives.
Ok so knowing what u know, and with your experience would you hook up with a 30 something year old when u are in your 60s? If u have any sense you would not. Jenny is way unreasonable. She could have had an experience if that is what she wanted but to cripple that young man is SILLY! At her age. She is a bully. Know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know when to run. That is wisdom
I can understand what he's saying.. I use to work with my husband so we were together 24/7 and it drove me nuts.. If Summit did work, like everyone else in the world does, it gives them 40 hrs a week to see what's going on in the world.. Being together 24/7 is great at first but after that, it's time to get back into the real world..
there's nothing wrong with wanting to be with your partner all the time, some people like it some don't, its not a good or bad thing its just a matter each person's preferences, sumit is only 30 so for him he wants more freedom and adventure, jenny is 60 and wants a partner to be with her, they're prob not the best match.
Thats why she don't like he work 7 days week, enjoy with friends, drink some beer. She will have totally control over him. Under her supervision whole day. She will take away his freedom.
@denisepittman1228 You are so right! I had a boyfriend years ago, and we worked together (at the same company, and even the same department!). At first, it was fun, but after a while I got tired of seeing him 24/7. Sometimes I would pretend to be sick, just so I could stay home from work and have some time to myself! Then, he would even call in sick just so we could "be together". Ughh! 😡 Being together so much eventually killed our love for each other (at least for me it did).
Now that the novelty of being with an old white woman has worn off, he realizes that his relationship is more like a patient/caretaker job. They're not even sexually compatible. 🤣
Does Jenny really expect a 30 year old to act like a 60 year old? If she wanted someone on the same page as her to act retired than she should have married someone her OWN AGE!!!
This are some of the reasons his mother doesn't want him to marry an old woman old enough to be his mother.i think she's even older than sumits mum ..They have a 30 years age difference between them.she is retired and wants him to waist his youthful age all to satisfy her. This is ridiculous.This woman should be advised to go back to America and be around her family.
I think every relationship, whether married or not, gets suffocated and dies if one partner is lazy, has no life/interests of their own, and only wants you to be with them all day everyday. That level of clingyness/neediness is exhausting! It may be fun and all in the beginning, but it eventually becomes draining and unbearable.
You are right! I was in a relationship like that many years ago, and it did become unbearable and exhausting! We eventually broke up, and not on good terms, unfortunately. I blame it on being together constantly, and having no outside friends or interests.
I'm feeling so sad for Summit. He put so much time in her happiness. Her age & 3yrs yet she "STUBBORNLY" REFUSES TO LEARN THE BASIC MINIMUM IN THE KITCHEN she sure got off her rear to seek work. Her laziness is telling on her. Most couples starting out for success have to put blood sweat & tears into it to gain the peace, ease & comfort of life's rewards❗🥀
If his parents didn't create a conflict for them to battle together and intensify their bond and they were left to try to navigate a life together they would be done by now.
If my husband made enough money that I could stay home all day I would gladly take care if the house. Also he had to know at her age she wants to "live a retirement lifestyle "
Exactly. It only takes the morning let’s say to clean up the house. Afterwards she can relax and drink her “cai” as that’s the only thing she knows how to boil 😂 then go get some grocers and make a nice meal for them both until he gets back from work and THEN they can chill together and relax. She’s way to lazy even for her age.
Exactly! If you have the luxury of staying home, at least keep the place clean and cook some nice meals for your husband. If you're both working, it's different. But if you're home all the time, your home should be your "job".
OMG It is not like she is loaded and could support the both of them! He wanting to work and not asking her to do the same is actually very rare, she is lucky!
Jenny is a scaredy-cat. She won’t go out to the marketplace because she doesn’t like being looked at. Big deal. I went to Chinese market and all the Chinese turned around to stare at me in every aisle in shock that I would be there, because I wasn’t Chinese and I stood out like a sore thumb. 0:02 I didn’t care. I kept coming back they got used to me. Nobody stares at me anymore. Jenny needs to do the same. She needs to just get out there and quit being so scared.
I am close to 60 and I don't care how good a 30, 40 or 50 year old says I look; I'm like nah. Hell maybe even a 60 year old. Let's be honest, I can't be bothered🙂 But seriously, he's too young for her and should know better.
Jenny is the definition of extreme codependency. Jenny needs to to take language and cooking lessons. Sumit wants and needs to work. I love my husband but I cannot be with him 24/7 365 days a year. That is not living. That is just slowly dying day after day. Let that man (who also gave up everything) work and hang out with his friends. Jenny needs to make friends there and not make Sumit everything.
@@jacquelinelorrain2344 I think the end of the day his parents are going to win. They're staying away in hopes he'll realize what he done and finally leave Jenny and go back home. Something's going to happen. Sumit clearly can't be without his parents and the only way he's going to see them again is if he lets jenny go. I do believe he loves her but he's eventually going to realize how temporary this marriage is going to be. Jenny's age is finally starting to catch up with her and Sumits realizing all the the things Jenny can't and won't do. She doesn't want to have fun, she doesn't cook or clean. She's kinda just there.
I've lived in Morocco for my Moroccon husband (I'm Western European). I've learned the language, I did half of the shopping, I've learned how to cook Morrocon dishes, I met and talked to my neighbours, I made friends. Jenny, if you ever want to be able to live there, you'll have to take steps! I absolutely love Morocco and Moroccons, even though I sometimes fullheartedly disagree with some cultural habbits (and other habbits are better than my own). Find a balance, don't stay stuck on details, enjoy what's good. You'll never do that when you don't want to get out of your narrow bubble.
Jenny has worked, raised kids, so she is ready for a partner to share a retirement lifestyle. Sumit is young and at the age to put everything on hold to build up a business first. After hard work all week, he only wants to relax with friends, go home and crash. That's why he is trying to restore his relationship with his parents. They will provide the meals, do laundry, take out the trash and keep the home clean. Only when he is bored will he spend time with Jenny. So all she has to do is keep herself busy doing interesting activities to share with him. That would mean learning his language to be totally independent. There's no way he'll go to the United States where he won't have the life he wants. Jenny, think long and hard about a life without Sumit because that's what it will be, regardless of the country . All the best to stay happy!
The two of them need to get on the same page as to where they are going to live. Jenny needs to make friends to have someone to hang with during the day. Both of them need to establish some independence.
Well, they are in two different life stages but you can't just change what you want all of a sudden after marriage. and she can't expect this young man to only be with her.
She must expect sumit wants out with his frends what the hell she wants him 24/7 babysitting her she jealous and she knows if she go to usa 🇺🇸 is done hi will find some one for sex hi has experienced know hi will make baby
Oh please. There are thousands of expats in Delhi. Over 4000 french, 6000 spanish and Italians. The american embassy has almost 500 families. The British school and American school in Delhi has thousands of kids of expats. What bs storyline.
I don't understand why he tried so hard to marry Jenny when the second after they come back from their honeymoon he wants nothing to do with her, AND he doesn't want to go to America...like if it's not for the green card, what was it all for?
I honestly think summit truly loves Jenny n not to mention Jenny was basically begging him to marry her so he did. Summit never brought up going to America. It seems like summit has wanted to stay in India n build their life there, they are jus in 2 very diff times in life. Jenny is more in retirement mode n summit is still young n exploring life, gaining a self worth.
@@leeleentony yeah, she was the one that wanted marriage. At her age she shud KNOW this can't work she shud have enjoyed their time together n then left him to get on with his life.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 yes exactly, I'm 34 n would know better like at the age of 60 u should have better sense then to think someone around my age would just drop their entire life to become a house hermit n not ever go anywhere alone of never see friend n family. U can totally see lately he's trying... Trying to look n dress better, trying to work again n trying to build his relationships back with friends n his family. Plus, if I was living in a diff country for this many yrs I would have tried to start learning the language n how to be independent in that country.
Yes, unfortunately love is not enough for a successful marriage or relationship. There has to be give and take, compromise, and having some separate interests. Being apart sometimes makes it more fun when you finally have time together.
I honestly think they should have a separation trial and she should go visit America be 28th her family a while and figure out if this is right for her
I dated an older guy. In fact we’ve tried over and over for 7 years. When you’re older you have expectations and standards that a young person may not be able to provide immediately as we are still learning and growing. Older people can sometimes forget this or not understand this fact. It caused so many issues. I was expected to be a housewife while I wanted to travel, study, and do more. We’re separated now. The breakup was terrible. The older person always ends it from what I’ve heard from friends. Due to the age gap and misunderstandings it usually ends in a nasty argument or getting ghosted. Like his friend said: You gotta put your foot down. It’s also cultural differences we dealt with too. My friends and family also didn’t have good feelings due to the expectations. Jenny & Sumit are a classic age gap case just with distance lol
Learning a totally different language is not easy - the older you get. It is amazing that they have not thought about this stuff. The relationship is a huge blunder.
I am from northeast part of India. Its been 3 years i am here in Kolkata, i can speak to vendors etc they get shocked when i speak bengali but i am not fluent when i have to express myself or make someone understand or debate about something etc
I absolutely hate how white people never learn the languages of the places they move to! It's so damn entitled, basically FORCING EVERYONE ELSE TO SPEAK ENGLISH! INSTEAD OF THEM BOTHERING TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE!
It can be difficult at any age but you have to try and learn at least basic like money and regular things. Jenny just doesn’t want to even try, she wants him stuck to her and if she can do anything for herself he won’t be.
Jenny is kind delusional that he wouldn’t want those things. To have fun but also work . But Sumit is also delusional that he didn’t think about a family
The problem with almost all of the couples on this show is that they want different things. They all think they can change the other person. They go into it knowing what it is but choose to ignore all of the common sense they have.
I've heard it said that a MAJOR MISTAKE in a marriage is believing YOU CAN CHANGE THE OTHER PERSON. It doesn't work!!!! They are what they are, period.
This is typical Indian mentality of husband expecting from his wife to go to cook. Real men do help in cooking and household chores. And It is really immature of Jenny to get married with Sumit without discussing any future plans.
Shes not fair with Sumit. She has lived through her 30s-50s and Sumit wants to feel independent and work to provide for his family. She is the one who is retired.. not him. Too controlling.
Due to his culture she is not for him, she isn’t sacrificing anything she already live her life, he is the one that is sacrificing things and she can’t even cook or clean, come on 🙄
Jenny is extremely selfish and immature for her age. She also just doesn’t do anything, not even cook. This is why the whole age gap thing is weird. Jenny is an old lady who wants to stay home and eat boiled potatoes. Summit is still young and wants a bit more adventure and has real career goals. This is what Summits family was trying to tell him.
That what he's parents was trying to tell him
Nooo he wouldn't listen.
I for one I am shame as an African woman. I will “never” ever go after a young man who can be my son. It’s shameful in my culture this Jenny and Kimberly should go back to America and find them selfs men over there instead of going to India and Africa to find this young men. Who should marry a young women’s so that can have children of there own. This selfishness Disgraceful I have never ever seen anything like this in my life.
boiled potatoes 💀
@@JT-ye5iu I so understand you not wanting a husband young enough to be your son. But can you explain why Africa young men want old white women? Sumit and Jenny, Michael and Angela, Usman and Zara, Usman and Lisa, Usman and Kimberly.
It seem she just want stay home with him and have sex with him the straight way lol don't cook or anything seem like she want a sugar daddy in a young man she's to old for that
They were so busy fighting his family that they never focused on what each one wanted out of a married life. Now that his parents aren’t speaking to him, they’re having to face the huge differences between them.
Very good points, actually.
Without Sumit's family these 2 would not have any story at all - all they ever did was blame his family. They are doing it to make money from a tv show - allowing themselves to treat one another like disrespectful fools all for money.
I never thought of that! You are so right, they are now discovering the TRUE issues in their relationship
@@arihopkins2756 I don't thibk they even have a storyline without being able to blame his parents.
I came here to say this. 💯
There’s nothing wrong with him wanting to work! That’s a great man! All the things he is wanting he will not get from a 60 year old woman. There’s nothing wrong with Jenny either, she’s a vibrant woman in her 60’s, not her 30’s. They are at VERY DIFFERENT stages in life, Jenny is old enough to no better! She should have left and went home to her children and let summit have a normal life!
No fr
👍agree
Ridiculous comment. They are in love. She’s sacrificed so much!! Her children are grown!! Would you leave your husband that you’ve waited for and given up so much. Just because of age doesn’t mean they can’t make it work!!
No is a negative response. Know is to have knowledge of something. Sumit was a scammer and was also married to another woman whilst pursuing Jenny. Jenny accidentally paid 500 rupees instead of the 300 rupees the man had charged for the produce. Conclusion: Sumit isn’t a great man. Jenny isn’t smart. Lastly, you don’t know the difference between “no” and “know” so your IQ is probably about the same as Jenny’s. 😂
Clearly, Jenny isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. Nice lady. Just dumb.
Won't cook . Won't clean. Doesn't do errands Won't learn the language. No wonder his moms crying.
what does he see in her? I just dont get it. She is not attractive at all.
I totally see how Sumit feels like he's being smothered. I can't imagine spending every second of every day with my spouse. At some point, one of us would explode !
I don't mind something like that for a few weeks, but this has been two years plus of her up his rear. I love my man but I give him time to himself, socialize, work... Spending all day for a while is great and a testament to how real their affection is, but for two years ... with no hobbies, no work, no anything and the woman does nothing... can't even light a stove or boil potatoes??? Summit's parents were probably right about the other woman, she probably was a far superior as a house wife...
Yet alone a needy 60 something!! That woman was selfish
Ikr 🤣🤣
How did Jenny ever manage to raise full grown kids? She seems so helpless, not just in the culture, but in general.
She is like a parasite.very clingy. She cant cook and she doesn't know how to keep a clean house. I wonder what was the attraction. Summit is now tired of her.
Yeah can't cook, can't clean, shopping she's lived there so long she shud be familiar with the environment, but THAT too cant do. She's useless as a person. Leave her summit
She needs to get a life
My thoughts exactly
True
I'm kinda lost here. She doesn't cook or clean. She doesn't want to go anywhere by herself. She doesn't want her husband to work or have a separate life from her own existence. She just wants a person to be with her all the time. 👀 Why was this conversation not had before they married? There are expectations that have not been addressed. Yikes!!!
I mean...the relationship started off with him not telling her he was married and her not knowing the culture..so this is definitely not a surprise. I'm just glad Sumit is getting a backbone with her now
Yes she even said her pension is enough for them both, so he doesn't need to work. lol
She should have found herself a man who's the same age than her! Then they could have enjoyed retirement life together..
you shouldn't be lost, th age gap is too much and they have different wants and needs, she's 60 and wants a partner to be with most of the time, not someone working a full time job and he's onlyh 30 and wants more from life so they're not compatiable, its not horrible she wants a partner to be with a lot, its the age gap and they obviously didn't adress these issues beforhand, she's retired, they're not compatible.
Took the words out my mouth....spot on, these folks are dumb as hell 😂
He is her emotional support dog… these shows are making white women look stupid as hell
This is what his mother was concerned about..two people at different stages of life
Mom is right. Always.
HA! Mother was concerned about no kids and appearances. Such a vile selfish controlling character she has shown herself to be. Jenny needs to take the reins, say goodbye to all the negativity and criticism, get OUT of that culture and be HAPPY, with a fun while it lasted attitude.
One CAN control one's thoughts AND we can think only one thing at a time. When current thoughts aren't working, CHANGE THEM. Jenny's had two years of exotic life in India, found out it's not all it's cracked up to be. She has the option to leave with wonderful memories and call it a win.
but she choses to be dumb and act like a little girl all the time
I am a married foreigner living in India and I would never go out shopping without my husband! I am very fair and I understand the gawking and starring, it is unnerving!
Well , that is a lame excuse.
I remember Jenny going out before on her own and trying to get a job. Sumit was so mad that she dared to go out on her own without him
@@Mari443Garrett1because she just got there and knew nothing.
Our empathy to your husband!!
@@Mari443Garrett1I think she lied about that
So Summit is now realizing everything his parents told him was true haha
I actually really like Sumit.. he might be the only nice guy in this whole franchise… he didn’t marry Jenny for a greencard, since he obviously doesn’t want to go to America, and he’s very patient and polite with her, even when she’s being controlling.. he should speak up more though..
So true !! Absolutely agree !!
yeah, but he catfished her in the beginning.
@@LilySaintSin yeah if he was a bad looking guy and the one that was older I would get on that wagon .. she leveled all the way up 😊 I like him but not so much her…
@@LilySaintSin so what, she chose to be with him after that
@@LilySaintSin she also lied. When she went there the first time she stayed with his parents and told them they were just friends and she just came to see India. That is one reason they dislike her along with the age difference.
This is why love isn’t always enough. 30 years difference is just too much.
Exactly!
Exactly!
yeah, she wants to be retired, he wants to be a normal working man
true!
Not true. She’s been supporting him so far from her pension, which won’t last forever. Sumit needs to work and be a MAN by contributing to the household. Jenny is the issue here because she won’t permit him to do that. One can be “retired” at ANY age so long as income supports it…has NOTHING to do with age or the age gap. It’s Jenny’s clingy mentality that is the REAL issue here.
We all need space. Whether it's a spouse, husband, wife, child, etc.
@@thapoppyman understood
Sorry folks, it doesn't pertain to children, space, that is. You have them, now sacrifice begins 😉
@@rebeccalavoy6655 i don't have to sacrifice every waking moment with my child it's ok for parents to have breaks and their own hobbies etc. That mentality is what pushes people to mental breakdowns but okay..
@@user-nf9xm7is3m I agree with you. No shame in a parent taking care of themselves makes them better parents.
That's why I kicked my ex to the curve immediately!! Only two years down the drain what a shame 😂😂🤣🤣
I'm married to a surgeon who works almost everyday of the month.
IMHO, the secret to our happy 2 decade union is not just love and similar interests but also the fact that he comes back home every day to a clean home and a warm home cooked dinner.
Jenny is too immature for her age and acts like she's 17 years old. She needs to grow up and be a responsible adult.
Jenny wants a carer, not a husband. 🙄
Well she is like 80 it’s time right lol
I agree
I agree she's too old for summit and she's lazy.
Nope..she wants a nanny not a husband. A very immature old , insecure, lazy lady.
@@freakyisha68210 100% I agree!
I notice Sumit has had changes in his life. For one, he’s looking better. He is a bit more careful how he does his hair, more stylish and he’s dressing much better than in the beginning of the show. He has spent time with friends and probably enjoys it a lot. I strongly believe he is looking to move on and yes! HE IS PROBABLY LOOKING TO FIND A YOUNG GIRL. THIS WILL NOT LASTI SAY!
Yes, my guess is either that, or this is being "scripted" just to create more drama for the show!
I've noticed those changes in him too. He's young and has an energy that Jenny doesn't. Yea this may be ending soon
Yes, there is something different about him... Maybe he has already found someone? Maybe nothing physical has happened, but maybe he's been talking with someone? We shall see...
Who knows what is real and what is fake? TLC is over the top now.
Sumit is getting older and smarter - and probably tired of Jenny telling him what to do - which is every thing that Jenny wants.
Jenny is blowing it. I can't believe she's behaving this way.
Seem like she needs a maid/cook and nursing assistant!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I said I would not get addicted to reality TV, but I must admit I can’t get enough of 90 day fiancé😂
Jenny is 60+ and can't cook or clean 😳 JUST HOW??
That's why she ain't have a man
@@Brandon-qr2or 🤣🤣 spot on
@@Brandon-qr2or Plenty of women who don't cook or clean have a man. :)
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 I'm sure they have other ASSets that she doesn't appear to have.
Indian food is more complicated, but it’s not impossible. She just doesn’t want to do it
This is what we call "learned helplessness"
Yes! Yaaaasssssss! Cheers Kelly! Exactly! She can't even bother to do the most basic things.
They are in two different stages in their lives. I think Sumet needs a wife his own age.
Learned helplessness is more "everything I try to improve this situation doesn't work or makes it worse, so why bother" ie Seligman's experiment with trapped dogs and is linked to depression whereas I think Jenny must have been so dependant on other people all her life, and now feels out of her depth, hasn't expected things to be the way they are, is expected to fill a role and perform tasks etc by people who don't understand her and her experience as an outsider. I'd hope she'd find US and UK expats to hang around with so she'd have that social contact and moral support outside of Sumit.
@@ivanovskameow999 Perhaps she is co-dependant and can't function w/o constant attention. My point was clearly she is at retirement age and her "husband" is much younger. Too many issues to make it work..I'd be devastated if my in-laws hated me
@@ambermclaughlin3852 Completely agree with you (my comment was replying to Kelly). The whole situation is full of resentment, and Jenny must feel so isolated.
How could a woman at that age can't cook, Sumit is getting tired of her clinginess. Jenny is older and more laid back, and Sumit is young and still wants to explore life. This relationship will not last he is going to turn on her and cheat.
IM 41 AND CAN MAKE BETTER THINGS FOR DINNER THAN JENNY I DON´T UNDERSTAND MASHED POTATOES IS A SIDE DISH COULD BE EATEN WITH VEGETABLES AND GRAVY OR WITH A STEAK BUT NOT ALONE, IT IS AWFUL AT HER AGE DON´T KNOW HOW TO COOK. MY MOM IS ELDER AND IS BEST THAN HER. SHE WANT STARVE SUMMIT I DON´T DOUBT HE WILL BE DOUBTING HIS MARRIAGE AND SEARCHING A LADY ON HIS 30´S MORE NEAR HIS AGE, BUT I DON´T LIKE HIM HAVING KIDS ONLY FOR PARENTS INTEREST AND ACCEPTANCE OF HIM AS A SON AND NOT FOR HIS OWN WILL AND DESIRE OF BECOMING A FATHER, I WOULDN´T LIKE THE KID USED AS A PAWN.
Exactly!❤
I'm getting tired of her clinginess.
@@alliekattlopez5535 lol, some couple do everything together and some don't, people like different types of relationships, its not whether you like it or not, neither of them want the same type of lifestyle, they're not compatible, some couple love doing most things together, everyone isn't like you.
Well it'll be her karma considering she got with sumit when he was married to his 1st wife.. I never will feel bad for Jenny.. she can't even cook or clean.. she could learn the language spoken.. she's an overgrown child ffs
Jenny was complaining about how she wants a better place to live. Sumit wants to be the husband and provide for them but she doesn't want him to do anything. Sumit is tired of the leash around his neck.
I literally burst out laughing when she said they would just have mashed potatoes for dinner, then the look on his face, she's worthless!
She is worthless a nuisance and nasty. There is absolutely nothing about her that is attractive. Summit needs a woman who have the same goals and ideals in life. Jenny is a noose around his neck.He is too much of a handsome man to be stuck with a slob.
I don’t understand how these two thought they were gonna work. They are in 2 absolutely different periods of life; she’s on that retirement home frequency and just wants to chill and have a laid back life till she passes away while his life is essentially just starting.
They’re whole relationship was built on sneaking around in the beginning. He was having an affair with Jenny and now he’s divorcing his wife that excitement isn’t there.
Let me tell you ignorant butts this my husband is 70 and I am 43 My husband beats any man sex wise and beyond shame on anyone making fun of Jenny stupidity is only in the stupid funny sumit wanted hard sex and different positions she gave it to him hard and he had to call a Dr because she rode him hard and he was a baby.
. Don't ask us American women to do different positions and then cry because I know you don't know but 1 position in India
They didn't think, that's the problem. They never really considered all the variables. I don't know what they did during all the times they were together but actually thinking wasn't it.
Facts
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She really expected man in his prime to sit home with her all day? She's a clueless clown. I mean, I don't even know a single old person who wants to sit around with their spouse. At any age people want to do things, have friends.... The fact that she can't even speak bare minimum of the language while living there for years is ridiculous. Seems on purpose to tie him with her.
A clueless clown 😂😂💀
Jenny does not even try to entertain herself or learn things. Jenny is even too lazy to get a hobby to do on her own.
Sad sad grow ass woman
Living in a country for over 10 years, even if you never actively tried to learn the language, you’d think that Jenny would at least *accidentally* pick up some basic words by now…
I absolutely hate how white people never learn the languages of the places they move to! It's so damn entitled, basically FORCING EVERYONE ELSE TO SPEAK ENGLISH! INSTEAD OF THEM BOTHERING TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE!
It's such a shame. It could never be me. I would've went to language classes. I hate being out of the loop. She's insane not to learn it.
Indian women will not be friend with Jenny. She is too old than the wives of the friends of Sumit. Friends of Sumit will never take Jenny in there home because of bad impect on there children and familys.
Muricans expect everyone else to speak English, regardless of where they travel. Facts. Jenny is a typical Murican who doesn’t want to learn the local language or culture where she’s now residing and that’s the real issue. I agree that she should have made effort to learn to speak Hindi, Punjab or whatever the local dialect is where she’s residing during the time she’s been there.
@@vimlarajput7881 That must be pretty hard for Summit. Because he realizes it would be different with a young woman. He's fighting on many places... He is really a good guy. I hope he will have the strength to change his life and find a young woman with whom he can live a "normal" life in India.
As soon as they got acceptance I knew they would have trouble. Nothing to fight for now
Good for you Sumit. I'm so happy you're finding some breathing space from Jenny. You are a respectable young man with your whole life ahead of you. Jenny already lived her life when she was your age. It's selfish of Jenny to want you to live a retired life and isolated you from your friends and family. Life is short, make the best of it now.
not one person alone can replace the whole social need of another human being.
We think like that ( only you and i and nothing and no one else) when we are in love in our teens and only for a few months tops.
You are not enough, no one is.
A human being needs extended family, friends close and not so close, people and other couples of same values and lifestyles. one cannot live in isolation. And what does Jenny give Sumit in return? name one thing?
@@marikajamacochian8754 well said and all facts. Sumit has finaly realized everything you just said. Jenny is selfish and she hasn't giving Sumit anything in return for all the sacrifice he's been making for her. Sumit sticks with Jenny out of respect for his elder because his parents raised him right. Deep down inside Sumit feels trapped and he's not happy with her. He's in denial.
This episode showed us that Jenny never even cooked at home all this while, Sumit does everything
Lazy as Hell!!
Or cleaned!
Why does she need to cook? Sexist.
Wait, Jenny has been going to India for 10+ years and she still cannot speak the language? Jenny does NOT want to do any housework. She has Sumit as her care taker. Face it!
Jenny cannot possibly be as helpless as she portrays herself to be. If anything, Jenny needs to meet up with other expats living in her area. They can provide her with support and friendship separate from Sumit. It's not healthy to dump all of your emotional amd physical needs on one person. It's overwhelming and will only drive sumit away from her
I think the director is yelling her what to do
Immigrant* not expat*
Summit is as good as out so ship is sinking, she only needs to get out and get a life she can really get involved in and enjoy, whatever that takes and stay OFF of on-line CRAP.
Yes, Jenny can't expect Sumit not to work, and to just stay with her all the time! She needs to find some friends, maybe some other Amerians living in India, some women friends she can hang out with. Also, if she made friends with some Indian women, they could teach her how to cook Indian food.
7:51 is the most whitest thing ever 😂😂😂😂
Jenny is always thinking about herself 🙄
This is too much for me. Did she expect him to be with her all the time? So strange!! Misery
I moved to the European country of my husband after we got married. A non english speaking country..a language I didn't know.
I jumped right into doing things on my own because since it was nearly impossible for me to have a job there at the beginning what else was I gona do?! I decided to put myself completely into being a wife that spoiled her husband since I had the time to do it. I shopped alone in markets that I had to just walk through and look at pictures on boxes to know what it was. It took time but I caught on quickly.
She will end up getting into a deep depression if she doesn't make the effort to have some type of life while he works.
Ha..I even went out with girl cousins of my husband for lunch or to shop. We couldn't understand a word we were speaking to each other but it was okay..we just laughed it off and became good friends/family. You have to make the effort when put into a situation like this.
I now live in my home country with my European husband. I'm SO happy I lived in his country for several yrs because I understand his stupid jokes when others don't 😂 I understand his culture and the hardest is I understand why his family does things differently then my family. It's taught me to be a more open/accepting person.
This is what I would’ve done ✅ Jenny would’ve enjoyed their life together more and so would Sumit if she’d started their marriage off like that. He would’ve realized how much she loves him too. You sound like a very smart lady in love with her husband!
I did the same. I moved to pakistan where my husband is from and became a housewife and helped out with my mother-in-law since I didn't speak the language. After a few weeks I started to become more comfortable going outside and picking up my sister in law from school and doing errands
I actually like Sumit ALOT... also, my husband is Haitian... he's the head of our family.. like Sumit wants Jenny to do, but I was very happy to do it, I learned as much about Haitian culture as I could, I embrace it, and I am very happy to be a very good housewife... it's a privilage to me to get to stay home every day. . The least I can do is clean, cook, and take care of our home...
I THINK A THIRTY YEAR DIFFERENCE IN AGE FOR A MARRIED COUPLE IS DISGUSTING. THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL THAT THIS MARRAIGE IS GOING TO WORK.
This was to be expected. summit was tooooo young to marry jenny and Jenny is not helping at all. She's like a child, she needs babysitting. Girl bie.
She just needs a proper hairpulling to lighten her up...
Weird couple
@Carmen Miranda I always wonder what will happen when Jenny's old and frail or dies in India, it's actually scary, I have a feeling Sumit will call her kids
My husband is 70 and I am 43 really your speaking stupid
So they’re the complete opposites of all the other couples! He from India doesn’t want to come to the USA, she from the USA, wants to live with someone and have everything made easy for her. Jenny cannot really believe this guy shouldn’t work and should be with her 24/7? That’s not natural. This is why we stay in our own age groups and leagues,
Let's take a look at Jenny's assets. Refuses to be alone for 5 minutes. Don't know how to cook. Don't know how to clean. Don't know how to shower herself. Refusing to learn basic language. Choosing to not make friends. Won't allow Sumit to see his friends. Won't allow Sumit to go to work. Fights with Sumit about his parents. Acts like a helpless old woman. Yes I can see why Sumit loves her
This is exactly why his parents didn’t want him marrying her.
Don't know how to shower?
Of course she "DOES" know how to shower herself, don't be ridiculous
@@justjulie2826 When Sumit's parents came to visit Jenny was still in bed and she crawled over the bed in order to get out. The bottom of her feet were filthy black with dirt. Another scene showed rings of dirt in the creases of her neck.
@@justjulie2826 In the first season he was washing her hair and clipping her toenails for her.
I just think that it’s shameful that a 63 year old woman can’t cook and can’t do housework or go out on her own shopping
She can do it, everyone can. She just doesn't want to.
I cannot believe a woman her age cannot cook or even have a clue how to make simple meals. Come on!!!
Oh gosh, Jenny wants to be treated like a typical senior who has lived her life longer on this earth and now be served food with helpers around her. I mean that can work but the basic duties of learning how to cook? Maybe Jenny realizes it's too much work for a 60 year old to get back to the typical wifey duties. Learn it, Jenny, you're no millionaire in the US, are you?
Even when she was young she was lazy. She has no excuse. Its sad that this 60 year old lady still acts like a 15 year old girl
Yeah she isn’t gonna be happy when she realizes, while parents are respected in India, they always keep working. They don’t stop until their last breath because, unless they’re very lucky, they aren’t able to save up for anything resembling retirement. Jenny is so incredibly selfish for not adapting to the situation she is in.
somehow looking at her i think she was like this all her life.
he will age so quickly living with her like that. Should have listened to his parents
There's no way you could get to that age and NOT know how to cook? She married an Indian man, so she should be happy to learn how to cook his favorite dishes.
He's young and wants to feel like he's doing something important. He needs to be in the work field and Jenny being selfish is a bit not fair.
Also, Jenny needs to remember, while she's retired, Summit is not at that age to retire..
That’s what she gets for being a desperate person ! I’m 63 years old , but I’m not going to settle for just anyone , despite how lonely I feel .
6:06 that's a real friend, if you have one like this person , keep them at all costs
I total get both side of the story. When I was young I had all the energy and drive to work and then come home snd play with my kids. I can see Summet going stir crazy. Now I'm middle aged, my kids are older and I enjoy my quiet life while still working. I imagine when I'm close to retired or retired I will like a slower pace and being with the people I care about like Jenny.
That's my conclusion too. Don't get me wrong, both of them have their flaws but a lot of their issues seem to be age related. That doesn't make one wrong or the other right. It just means they're at different stages of their lives.
Ok so knowing what u know, and with your experience would you hook up with a 30 something year old when u are in your 60s?
If u have any sense you would not. Jenny is way unreasonable.
She could have had an experience if that is what she wanted but to cripple that young man is SILLY! At her age. She is a bully. Know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know when to run. That is wisdom
I can understand what he's saying.. I use to work with my husband so we were together 24/7 and it drove me nuts.. If Summit did work, like everyone else in the world does, it gives them 40 hrs a week to see what's going on in the world.. Being together 24/7 is great at first but after that, it's time to get back into the real world..
That is why I had questioned that they needed a Honeymoon???
there's nothing wrong with wanting to be with your partner all the time, some people like it some don't, its not a good or bad thing its just a matter each person's preferences, sumit is only 30 so for him he wants more freedom and adventure, jenny is 60 and wants a partner to be with her, they're prob not the best match.
@@westoftherockies It gets pretty bad after a while ngl
Thats why she don't like he work 7 days week, enjoy with friends, drink some beer. She will have totally control over him. Under her supervision whole day. She will take away his freedom.
@denisepittman1228 You are so right! I had a boyfriend years ago, and we worked together (at the same company, and even the same department!). At first, it was fun, but after a while I got tired of seeing him 24/7. Sometimes I would pretend to be sick, just so I could stay home from work and have some time to myself! Then, he would even call in sick just so we could "be together". Ughh! 😡
Being together so much eventually killed our love for each other (at least for me it did).
Ha ha He’s sick and tired of being around her! Looks like the honeymoon is over! 😆😂
Now that the novelty of being with an old white woman has worn off, he realizes that his relationship is more like a patient/caretaker job. They're not even sexually compatible. 🤣
Jenny is being very selfish
Does Jenny really expect a 30 year old to act like a 60 year old? If she wanted someone on the same page as her to act retired than she should have married someone her OWN AGE!!!
it’s the fact that jenny isn’t even putting in the effort to learn the language.
This are some of the reasons his mother doesn't want him to marry an old woman old enough to be his mother.i think she's even older than sumits mum ..They have a 30 years age difference between them.she is retired and wants him to waist his youthful age all to satisfy her. This is ridiculous.This woman should be advised to go back to America and be around her family.
I think every relationship, whether married or not, gets suffocated and dies if one partner is lazy, has no life/interests of their own, and only wants you to be with them all day everyday. That level of clingyness/neediness is exhausting! It may be fun and all in the beginning, but it eventually becomes draining and unbearable.
You are right! I was in a relationship like that many years ago, and it did become unbearable and exhausting! We eventually broke up, and not on good terms, unfortunately. I blame it on being together constantly, and having no outside friends or interests.
I'm feeling so sad for Summit. He put so much time in her happiness. Her age & 3yrs yet she "STUBBORNLY" REFUSES TO LEARN THE BASIC MINIMUM IN THE KITCHEN she sure got off her rear to seek work. Her laziness is telling on her. Most couples starting out for success have to put blood sweat & tears into it to gain the peace, ease & comfort of life's rewards❗🥀
Love is not the only important aspect in a marriage. It’s a union of families and both partners should have the same goals and morals.
Summit’s mother foretold of this and he’s now just realizing it and still don’t know the solution. Jenny is beyond your age Summit. Let her go!
If his parents didn't create a conflict for them to battle together and intensify their bond and they were left to try to navigate a life together they would be done by now.
Jenny is expecting Summit to take care of her like she is in some times sort of home health aide program
If my husband made enough money that I could stay home all day I would gladly take care if the house. Also he had to know at her age she wants to "live a retirement lifestyle "
Exactly. It only takes the morning let’s say to clean up the house. Afterwards she can relax and drink her “cai” as that’s the only thing she knows how to boil 😂 then go get some grocers and make a nice meal for them both until he gets back from work and THEN they can chill together and relax. She’s way to lazy even for her age.
Exactly! If you have the luxury of staying home, at least keep the place clean and cook some nice meals for your husband. If you're both working, it's different. But if you're home all the time, your home should be your "job".
Did she not expect him to Work or hang out with his friends 😂
If i was married to her, I would want to find other pastimes to get me out of the house for as long as i could too!!
OMG It is not like she is loaded and could support the both of them! He wanting to work and not asking her to do the same is actually very rare, she is lucky!
Jenny is a scaredy-cat. She won’t go out to the marketplace because she doesn’t like being looked at. Big deal. I went to Chinese market and all the Chinese turned around to stare at me in every aisle in shock that I would be there, because I wasn’t Chinese and I stood out like a sore thumb. 0:02 I didn’t care. I kept coming back they got used to me. Nobody stares at me anymore. Jenny needs to do the same. She needs to just get out there and quit being so scared.
I am close to 60 and I don't care how good a 30, 40 or 50 year old says I look; I'm like nah. Hell maybe even a 60 year old. Let's be honest, I can't be bothered🙂 But seriously, he's too young for her and should know better.
Jenny is the definition of extreme codependency. Jenny needs to to take language and cooking lessons. Sumit wants and needs to work. I love my husband but I cannot be with him 24/7 365 days a year. That is not living. That is just slowly dying day after day. Let that man (who also gave up everything) work and hang out with his friends. Jenny needs to make friends there and not make Sumit everything.
This is what his parents was talking about she is too old for him period
Exactly !! His parents knew it !! They were so right !!
@@jacquelinelorrain2344 I think the end of the day his parents are going to win. They're staying away in hopes he'll realize what he done and finally leave Jenny and go back home. Something's going to happen. Sumit clearly can't be without his parents and the only way he's going to see them again is if he lets jenny go. I do believe he loves her but he's eventually going to realize how temporary this marriage is going to be. Jenny's age is finally starting to catch up with her and Sumits realizing all the the things Jenny can't and won't do. She doesn't want to have fun, she doesn't cook or clean. She's kinda just there.
@@Bella-Mae0422 ABSOLUTELY agree !!
I've lived in Morocco for my Moroccon husband (I'm Western European). I've learned the language, I did half of the shopping, I've learned how to cook Morrocon dishes, I met and talked to my neighbours, I made friends.
Jenny, if you ever want to be able to live there, you'll have to take steps!
I absolutely love Morocco and Moroccons, even though I sometimes fullheartedly disagree with some cultural habbits (and other habbits are better than my own).
Find a balance, don't stay stuck on details, enjoy what's good. You'll never do that when you don't want to get out of your narrow bubble.
Jenny has worked, raised kids, so she is ready for a partner to share a retirement lifestyle. Sumit is young and at the age to put everything on hold to build up a business first. After hard work all week, he only wants to relax with friends, go home and crash. That's why he is trying to restore his relationship with his parents. They will provide the meals, do laundry, take out the trash and keep the home clean. Only when he is bored will he spend time with Jenny. So all she has to do is keep herself busy doing interesting activities to share with him. That would mean learning his language to be totally independent. There's no way he'll go to the United States where he won't have the life he wants. Jenny, think long and hard about a life without Sumit because that's what it will be, regardless of the country . All the best to stay happy!
The two of them need to get on the same page as to where they are going to live. Jenny needs to make friends to have someone to hang with during the day. Both of them need to establish some independence.
Well, they are in two different life stages but you can't just change what you want all of a sudden after marriage. and she can't expect this young man to only be with her.
Did Jenny expect Sumit to be with her 24/7?
She must expect sumit wants out with his frends what the hell she wants him 24/7 babysitting her she jealous and she knows if she go to usa 🇺🇸 is done hi will find some one for sex hi has experienced know hi will make baby
Oh please. There are thousands of expats in Delhi. Over 4000 french, 6000 spanish and Italians. The american embassy has almost 500 families. The British school and American school in Delhi has thousands of kids of expats. What bs storyline.
I’m dead she’s pulling instead of twisting 🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭
He is still young, he is 33, and wants to work. That’s good
Jenny is one of the oldest housewives in history, lol.
I don't understand why he tried so hard to marry Jenny when the second after they come back from their honeymoon he wants nothing to do with her, AND he doesn't want to go to America...like if it's not for the green card, what was it all for?
I honestly think summit truly loves Jenny n not to mention Jenny was basically begging him to marry her so he did.
Summit never brought up going to America.
It seems like summit has wanted to stay in India n build their life there, they are jus in 2 very diff times in life.
Jenny is more in retirement mode n summit is still young n exploring life, gaining a self worth.
I know, its weird. he did a complete switch right after the honeymoon
@@leeleentony yeah, she was the one that wanted marriage. At her age she shud KNOW this can't work she shud have enjoyed their time together n then left him to get on with his life.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 yes exactly, I'm 34 n would know better like at the age of 60 u should have better sense then to think someone around my age would just drop their entire life to become a house hermit n not ever go anywhere alone of never see friend n family.
U can totally see lately he's trying...
Trying to look n dress better, trying to work again n trying to build his relationships back with friends n his family.
Plus, if I was living in a diff country for this many yrs I would have tried to start learning the language n how to be independent in that country.
He merry her so she can stay in India and not seek visum every 6 month. She push him to merry her.
From good ole Jurassic Park, Jenny and Sumit “were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should.”
If you marry a foreigner, you’ll always be looked at so live with it my beautiful soul. Sending you golden light and love ❤️
I like Sumit very much. He’s super considerate and patient with Jenny. Jenny is LAZY!!!!
I honestly wonder how long will they last in marriage . They are example that you need more than love to make marriage successful.
Yes, unfortunately love is not enough for a successful marriage or relationship. There has to be give and take, compromise, and having some separate interests. Being apart sometimes makes it more fun when you finally have time together.
I honestly think they should have a separation trial and she should go visit America be 28th her family a while and figure out if this is right for her
Jenny lived in the USA for some time during this relationship (when he was married??) and she still never figured anything out
I dated an older guy. In fact we’ve tried over and over for 7 years. When you’re older you have expectations and standards that a young person may not be able to provide immediately as we are still learning and growing. Older people can sometimes forget this or not understand this fact. It caused so many issues. I was expected to be a housewife while I wanted to travel, study, and do more. We’re separated now. The breakup was terrible. The older person always ends it from what I’ve heard from friends. Due to the age gap and misunderstandings it usually ends in a nasty argument or getting ghosted. Like his friend said: You gotta put your foot down. It’s also cultural differences we dealt with too. My friends and family also didn’t have good feelings due to the expectations. Jenny & Sumit are a classic age gap case just with distance lol
How does Jenny assume that they can live without doing any work? Everyone has to work to support their spouses. I don’t get this
How did she raise her children if she doesn’t know how to cook and clean?!?! HOW SWAY!?!?🤔🤔🤔🤔
Learning a totally different language is not easy - the older you get.
It is amazing that they have not thought about this stuff.
The relationship is a huge blunder.
I am from northeast part of India. Its been 3 years i am here in Kolkata, i can speak to vendors etc they get shocked when i speak bengali but i am not fluent when i have to express myself or make someone understand or debate about something etc
I started to study Japanese in my 50s. It was not a big deal for me. Some people have a knack for languages.
I absolutely hate how white people never learn the languages of the places they move to! It's so damn entitled, basically FORCING EVERYONE ELSE TO SPEAK ENGLISH! INSTEAD OF THEM BOTHERING TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE!
It can be difficult at any age but you have to try and learn at least basic like money and regular things. Jenny just doesn’t want to even try, she wants him stuck to her and if she can do anything for herself he won’t be.
@@historylover2 I agree. Clearly, Jenny is not one of those people who can pick up a language. She’s stubborn and full of excuses!
Jenny is kind delusional that he wouldn’t want those things. To have fun but also work . But Sumit is also delusional that he didn’t think about a family
SURELY SHE DOESN'T EXPECT HIM TO RETIRE AND DO NOTHING ALL DAY? JENNIE IS EXTREMELY SELFISH .
How do you live 60 years on this planet without basic cooking or cleaning skills? Especially as a mother!
The problem with almost all of the couples on this show is that they want different things. They all think they can change the other person. They go into it knowing what it is but choose to ignore all of the common sense they have.
I've heard it said that a MAJOR MISTAKE in a marriage is believing YOU CAN CHANGE THE OTHER PERSON. It doesn't work!!!! They are what they are, period.
4:33 What a crook that vendor is. He sold her vegetables for 500 rupees which cost 80 rupees at max!
He will have 300 Rs. But Jenny tell him keep the rest.
She should feel lucky he didn’t married her for a visa and wants to work and have a normal marriage life where he provides for the family too
This is typical Indian mentality of husband expecting from his wife to go to cook. Real men do help in cooking and household chores. And It is really immature of Jenny to get married with Sumit without discussing any future plans.
Shes not fair with Sumit. She has lived through her 30s-50s and Sumit wants to feel independent and work to provide for his family. She is the one who is retired.. not him. Too controlling.
Exactly
Due to his culture she is not for him, she isn’t sacrificing anything she already live her life, he is the one that is sacrificing things and she can’t even cook or clean, come on 🙄
She hasn't learned a word, nothing in how many yrs?
10 years