Who would’ve thought that a guy in his mid twenties who lied about everything to win over the elderly love of his life wouldn’t be open with everything about himself 😂😂
Jenny can’t understand that her and Sumit are in such different stages in life. First they fought cause he wanted to have a job, now it’s the topic of children, 2 impactful parts of life that she’s already experienced. But she expects him to toss both away in favor of living a retired lifestyle in his 30s. Also Jenny can try any tactic for the parents to “accept” her but it will never work. They will only ever see her as a home wrecker.
But he doesn't want kids! He wants a kid to USE and butter up his family so they'll accept Jenny. Summit clearly wants Jenny but he wants the support of his family too.
I feel like summit is wasting the best years of his life. He could be building his career and find a woman his age he can have kids with and build a proper life with. I like Jenny but I feel like they’re in completely different stages in life, she wants to enjoy retirement and not do anything (cook/clean).
He had that and rejected it because his mother was too involved. Jenny is his rebellion. Unless he marries completely out of his cast, no woman and her family would arrange for a marriage with Summit. Summit appears to have mental problems to them and Summit already damaged another respectable young bride before. Who would risk their daughter and their future generations to Summit?
She doesn't do anything, he does it all. I watched the Tell All last night and she admitted that he does EVERYTHING for her. She will very quickly become a burden to him after the shine is off.
I'm glad because I like watching him nearly die of heartburn and reflux more and more each episode as he realizes he maayyyyybe shouldn't have catfished and hooked a retiree from america 😆 Let him twist in the wind.
@@44LillPuffin Sumit started off as a phone scamming catfish. He didn't expect Jenny to want anything to do with him when she busted him for it. To his misfortune, she decided she likes Oompa Loompas. He's spent 10 years with no spine to tell her he doesn't want her. Spineless to the point he married her rather than have a confrontation.
@@alongfellow4147 having a real discussion is not hampered by a difference in age. You can be honest with each other about what you want and don't want, regardless of how old you are.
This whole relationship is like when you date someone cause you're bored and then it goes on too long without you really realizing it, both of you know neither of you were good for each other and it won't work out in the long run, but then you develop like 2 memories and can't let go. Ya'll are barely husband and wife. You had your fun messing around with something different and the novelty wore off. Sumit is a kid and Jenny is taking care of one (and married to it). But sumit also is realizing he went too far with this one lol. It's weird. It's not going to work. Just break up.
@@pooh_berrybear 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. He tell others " Jenny is old and fragile. I am worried about her🤣. Life insurance will be good for him to start his takeaway business in India. Perhaps he is waiting for her death.
Jenny is nearing 70!!!! She's so old and he's so young. Sumit is in his early 30s, which is a time in his life that he's building his career. She has no place to go in America. Jenny was sleeping on her daughters couch before she moved. She lives on social security from America. So they'd be homeless if she comes back to America.
Hes a catfish..hes been with her 10ys no matter what tje ages are ..he knew what he was doing..his parents are nasty.. hes a total wuss..Jenny dump.him hes worth Jack 💩
Age IS way more than just a number. This is a good example. Jenny and Summit were both delusional thinking this would work out. Then she says, “I never thought we wouldn’t be on the same path.” Duh!
My hubby and I are 9 years apart, but were at the same point in life. Jenny wants to live a quiet, peaceful retirement, but Sumit is still at a VERY different phase. Dragging it out just makes it worse.
But according to her very immature, unrealistic, childish way of thinking, "We're in Love!!" as if that's Everything. They both need lots of therapy. We can plainly see that he no longer wants to be with her, but she hangs on, like a sad baby puppy refusing to let go.
SO SHE FOUND HIM WHEN HE WAS 23 YEARS OLD AND SHE WAS AT THAT TIME 53. COMPLEATLY INSANE....NOW WE HAVE A RESULT OF THAT INSANE RELATIONSHIP. DESPERATE WOMAN!
Sadly, it’s only a matter of time. I feel in each episode it becomes more apparent to him the age difference. He shouldn’t have kids though if he truly doesn’t want kids.
Honestly I wouldn't be ok with my son or daughter marrying a woman almost 30 years his senior. I'm sorry but that is a HUGE pilll to swallow. In Western societies it's seen as questionable so imagine how it comes across to the rest of the world where the welfare of the overall family unit is put above the individual need.
Even if they come to America, I agree with his parents the age. difference is too big. She is at the end of her life, already experienced all of the life obstacles and successes. He on the other hand is just beginning, worried about a career and how he can make his impact on life. It’s sad, but that’s the reality.
@@azazello1784 like you said most people. we are a whole diffrent culture then them. who are you to say a diffrent culture is supposed to be set already? you dont know the speed they go by lol
My dear, here’s my advice… after 18 years of marriage my husband had me chasing him… everything had to be about him and his need… he threatened with divorce etc…. The turning point was when I showed him I wasn’t having it anymore… I put my foot down and as a Christian the Holy Spirit gave me strength. When he realised I had enough and I wasn’t running after him, he started chasing me, and the ball is in my court I treat him well but I stand my ground…show sumit you leaving and he will come running
Sumit is tired of waiting on Jenny...he has decided he wants a life of his own. Jenny thought she had a man to sit at home with her and do her bidding. Sumit has finally realized the differences between them..not just age.
Jenny is selfish. She never wants to compromise. If she wants something, she expects Sumit to have no choice and maneuver his life around hers and what makes her happy and what's convenient for her. It's not right for her to expect that
He said he didn't want kids when he was 22. Jenny's dizzy azz couldn't emagine him changing his mind one day? That's her fault. You can't expect a 33 year old to live the retirement lifestyle. What is wrong with Jenny? She shouldn't have married him, just have fun until it's not fun anymore. That's what a mature woman would do.
I think that Jenny (as the older and wiser) should have NEVER got involved w/a man so much younger than herself. It isn't fair to the younger person that wants to start a FAMILY. In REALITY, Sumit WILL be Jenny's CARETAKER.
Jenny left Sumit before but he begged her to come back. He wants to win his parents by proving them wrong. But he doesn't want to lose his parents either.
Sumit never wanted children. Even his friend said he had never wanted children before now. He only wants children because he thinks it will bring his parents back into his life. That's not a reason to have a child or adopt child. That's terribly unfair to the child.
Jenny needs to just go back to America on her own and live with her daughter so she’s not alone. Summit seems like more of a companion in her retirement lifestyle.
Yup, or when she found out he was married, or when he said he didn't want to get married if his parents were against it... she's had so many chances to gracefully back out. She took that "stand by your man" song too seriously lol
How are you upset that Jenny contacted an immigration lawyer behind your back when you started planning a family and told your family about it behind hers? He knew she didn’t want kids and she knew he didn’t want to come to America. They both started making arrangements with these well established deal breakers. You should never bring a whole life into the world for the potential of acceptance. What happens if they get a kid and the parents still don’t approve? They’re probably going to break up. Are they gonna try to return the child? Are either of them willing to be a single parent?
They do not have to have children nor can they. It’s just what his parents want but he needs to make his own path in life. Sumit lied to his parents and to Jenny, he is a fool and coward who basically disappointed everyone.
Summit was young and foolish. Jenny is old with experience. She should never have gone there. He is now maturing. Jenny was the aggressor. Jenny moved to India because she cannot afford to live in US. Don't forget she was sleeping on her daughter's sofa. She needs someone under her all day, and don't even want Summit to work. Have you seen the kitchen , she is filthy. Time for this joke to end.
She says she doesn’t want to continue to hurt his parents, but yet she’s willing to take him to the United States and hurt them even more. Sumit does not want to go to United States and leave his folks.
I feel like with Sumits family as well as Usmans family everyone is quick to judge them over emphasizing kids without realizing that in most cultures outside of the western world, the sole purpose of being in a relationship is to produce children and raise a family so there kids can have kids and so on.. I don’t understand why people are finding this so hard to comprehend
It's not that people are offended they want their adult children to become parents. It's that they don't really care what their adult children want for themselves & selfishly impose an ultimatum upon their children. They care more ab how they are viewed on their communities then they do about their own children's wants & happiness.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing I do understand & by law & God Jenny is family. We don't disregard family here in the U.S. I'm not sure where you live or what type of family you have or ppl you know 🤔. Don't believe what you see on reality TV it's scripted & not in any way an accurate depiction of normal Americans with normal lives.
Sumit's family will never accept Jenny, and it's all her fault! Jenny had the nerve to stay in their home, and she was lieing to them the whole time! Every time she doesn't get her way, she starts jumping up and screaming at him like if a camera wasn't there she would do more. Jenny also doesn't want Sumit to work, because she wants him to take care of her. She should just go back to the US and save her money for a retirement home and a desperately needed face-lift! Can you honestly blame his parents for not being able to stand her?
Sumit knew from the start that Jenny is way pass the child bearing stage, so for him to now turn the table must be very heart breaking for Jenny. Also the parents need to cut the apron strings, they already got Sumit married before and he had to run away from her.
I can understand sumits parents not happy about him with an older woman but he is 34 years and his parents are selfish thinking of what makes them happy sumit needs to figure what he really wants snd stop stringing Jenny along
Why summit don't tell her how she feels she to.old and his culture is different from her he not going to America his family will never talk to him at all his mom is hurt and his dad still don't approve of that relationship
Holy shit! I find it particularly astounding that Sumit's father states the obvious about how having children is the basis of all relationships and he directs that statement to Christina and Butch! 😮💨
They are Jenny's parents, to all intents and purposes. He was discussing the matter with his son's parents-in-law. The children are too immature to understand.
@@extemporaneous4545 That's a good point actually BUT my point is that Christina and Butch can have no children so his statement was also a dig at homosexuality.
@@BackSeatHump Our voices are being silenced. Here's the synopsis : Yes, I agree with you that they can never have children, as their baby making parts are the same. And Sumit's dad probably disapproves of their lifestyle as well. Maybe that's the reason Sumit's mom didn't show up. And now that you say it, it does seem that he is politely putting them in their place.
Sumit was never truthful to himself right from the very word go. When a person decides about the future of his/her life, they should be truthful and put the realities of the unforeseeable life into consideration. I think Sumit was delusional when he took his decisions because his choices do not need rocket science nor do they need anything beyond logical reasoning, such as true consideration of what is in store for the future life.
She’s mad because they both agreed they didn’t want kids. At her age she’s done with kids, Sumit knew this. But now he’s changing his mind for his family, she has a right to be mad.
Stupid question... Sure she is mad, she is over 60 years old and he is together with her for 10 years now... by his own free will!!!!! You think she wants to raise another kid in this age? I would not... that is for sure! For him it is all to crawl back into the ass of his mean mother!
U can't decide to date a old ass woman for 10 years then suddenly say u want kids, that's ridiculous. Like she said, he never spoke about wanting kids b4, or else they wouldn't be tgt smh
There is something to be said about making sure a couple is evenly yoked before getting into marriage. I am Disappointed that as senior as Jenny is in age and life experiences, she does not realize that she has nothing or very little in common with her husband. She doesn't understand that she should not stifle and control his growth during his life's journey. She has already been where he needs to explore. Their differences of where they are in life will probably shorten their married life and as the father predicted, will have Sumit walk away due to his unhappiness.
It's sad as they should break up and let's face it she's far too old for him it's actually ridiculous seeing these needy old people latching onto younger partners.
I’m so confused why he’s with her if he dosent want a green card. I haven’t watched them from the start, but it seems like he could just marry a local girl and get rid of all this stress lol
I think Sumit is trying to hurt his parents, for whatever reason/reasons, like pay back. His immature self doesn’t realize, he is only hurting himself more.
I believe they love each other but the realization of his decision to marry Jenny has come to him. The real sacrifices he has to deal with. He knew his culture, it was unfair to deceive her. He ignored what was going to happen. Sad for both of them. This relationship should never have happened.
Jenny needs to take charge of this situation and divorce Sumit. He is too wishy-washy to do it himself. So what if he changed his mind about having children. He was in his early 20s when this started. People change as they grow older and start seeing things differently. Don't guilt him into staying. Pack your bags, wish him well and come home and enjoy your kids and grandkids.
Sumit only married Jenny to keep the cash flowing with another sequel. What they get paid per episode is 3 months pay in India. This new baby issue is all made up,hoping she goes back to America without him. Unless they get another sequel.
People change and evolve and so do their needs and wants. Summit wants kids now, Jenny does not want to stay in India seems like they both have a change of heart. They are going to have to make a decision.
If Jenny has any sense left she should pack and leave and go home. I am sure she can find someone her age and can have a good life. As for Sumit he is realizing that this relaitonship is not he wants as he is he young and he wants kids and a family etc.
First of all Sumit doesn’t actually have to discuss why he doesn’t want to move to America. Jenny was the one who was willing to move to India. Sumit has never hinted that there could be a possible move to America. He has always said he wants to live in India and that he doesn’t see him moving anywhere. Jenny thinks the love they have is enough but for someone like Sumit it isn’t. He loves his family and he is not going to lose them for her.
Sumit is ready to adopt when he realises thats his family wish. In Indian culture marriage is to have children but when a couple struggle to conceive, the woman is usually thought to be lacking with fertility but it may be from Sumit in this case. He may have kept to himself which is totally understandable. Indian couples kids arrive within the first few years but him and his wife did not have any.
Where do they go from here? Nowhere. What a doomed relationship this is. They just wasted 10 years of their lives they'll never get back. Ten years of nothing but struggle, disharmony, stress and worry for all of them. SMH. Does Summit think adopting a kid will satisfy his parents? Given their strict values, I'd say they wouldn't accept any children that didn't come straight from his loins. And what made him think she would want to be raise and be chasing after a kid at her age when all she wants to do is relax. He's not accepted in India under the circumstances, but he doesn't want to leave his country. He never wanted to come to America. She'd rather go back home than to continue living there being seen and treated like a pariah. They have been two naive hopeless fools trying to fit a round circle into a square. Time to call it a day and stop this insanity.
I wish Jenny hadn't gotten Sumit into marriage. I also don't understand why Sumit would go to this extreme. I do understand May/December relationships but not to this extreme.
Look at the difference between the two brothers,one is tall and handsome,one is short and ugly.there is a reason for that.handsome people are nice,and you know the rest
Usually if a foreigner from a lower social class marries a foreigner it’s for the sake of “coming up” weather it be a visa to the States or just that person makes their live easier…better. What exactly does Jenny bring to the table? She doesn’t clean or cook, she doesn’t go shopping or out and about without him. Then she doesn’t want him to work? Because she’ll be bored?! She wants to live a retired life and he just left his 20’s, he’s ready to do things.
she just said what the mother's issue is she's a 60 year old grandmother that is the mother's concern she's using it as a weapon her age the same thing she doesn't want anybody else to use but she can When his mother said she's so old she's too old for him it was an issue with her bringing up the age but when she wants to use it as her being 60 and a grandmother it's OK it's not you can't pick and choose when you want to use your age
Jenny doesn’t want kids because she was planning on Sumit being her nurse-caregiver. This is a woman who has to be pushed to clean her own home properly and throws a hissy that she has to go shopping by herself after 3 years. I hope he divorces her and reconciles with his family.
Summit will never be accepted back into his family unless Jenny is out! Summit will give Jenny up because his parents are stronger than ever. Why does Jenny have to give up everything all the time! Summit is a whiny, spineless, and selfish child. His parents mean more than Jenny! Grow up Summit!
Spoiler alert. I googled that they’re still together, and are traveling all over India; and enjoying each other’s company. His mom is still not accepting Jenny, since she’s very old school on tradition. As for Sumit. He has no interest in moving to America. Sumit finds it hard to adapt there right away, and get a job as soon as possible. Also I think he prefers to be closer to his parents
I really believe Summit is secretly attracted to men, Just look at the joy and happiness beaming off him when he is with his "business partner" . He isn't even that excited around Jenny.
It wouldnt surprise me if Sumit and Jenny split up. I dont think Sumit realized just how much marrying Jenny would affect his parents and i think the weight of that is way too much for him. He wont come to the USA, he wants to make things right with his parents. I think they are pretty much over with. Jenny needs to come home. Sumit needs to divorce her and live his life right.
I know that Sumit's parents will be happy if he leaves her. Sumit will more than likely resume his life as a Cook, get married again, have children with a woman his age or younger, and forget Jenny soon after, but won't be able to hold his head high in his community because of his past. Family/Food/Religion and Traditional Culture are paramount in Indian Culture, no two ways about it!
This is crazy! Jenny is too old for him. She wants to retire and relax but Simit is still young and wants children and wants to work. Jenny should have known their relationship would have a lot of up and downs.
I think Sumit thought his parents would eventually accept Jenny, and now he's realizing they never will, so he wants out.
@Pennsylvania Patti I think you about the closest to the real answer
Cus Indians are horrible culture
Bingo 🎯
I watched the clip he says he wants a child because he feels like his parents will then accept him back into the family
@@thelifeofjustme4572 that's pathetic 😒
Sumit’s father was right, this relationship between Jenny and Sumit will not last
Tell Jenny to go home
Who would’ve thought that a guy in his mid twenties who lied about everything to win over the elderly love of his life wouldn’t be open with everything about himself 😂😂
EVERYTHING. He started out by catfishing Jenny, using a pic of a professional model. Did that turn Jenny off? Noooooooooo
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Their entire relationship seems to have been built on secrets
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@@jazzyjaz9108 he was in his mid twenties when they started talking:) they've been together like 10-11 yrs
Jenny can’t understand that her and Sumit are in such different stages in life. First they fought cause he wanted to have a job, now it’s the topic of children, 2 impactful parts of life that she’s already experienced. But she expects him to toss both away in favor of living a retired lifestyle in his 30s.
Also Jenny can try any tactic for the parents to “accept” her but it will never work. They will only ever see her as a home wrecker.
How have they known each other ten years but never talked about what kind of futures they wanted?
But Sumit clearly said in earlier season that he doesn’t even want kids
But he doesn't want kids! He wants a kid to USE and butter up his family so they'll accept Jenny.
Summit clearly wants Jenny but he wants the support of his family too.
Exactly
Summit is a liar & his family is gross. Period.
I feel like summit is wasting the best years of his life. He could be building his career and find a woman his age he can have kids with and build a proper life with. I like Jenny but I feel like they’re in completely different stages in life, she wants to enjoy retirement and not do anything (cook/clean).
He had that and rejected it because his mother was too involved. Jenny is his rebellion. Unless he marries completely out of his cast, no woman and her family would arrange for a marriage with Summit. Summit appears to have mental problems to them and Summit already damaged another respectable young bride before. Who would risk their daughter and their future generations to Summit?
Then he shouldnt have catfished her 10yrs ago..has it taken him so long to cotton on...he and his family are worth jack 💩
Agree Jenny just need summit under her all the time
@@PurposelyObtuse oops I misspelled his name I got the hint thank you my guy 🤙🏻
She doesn't do anything, he does it all. I watched the Tell All last night and she admitted that he does EVERYTHING for her. She will very quickly become a burden to him after the shine is off.
"On next episode: Sumit wants to adopt his brother's baby?!?" 😂
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It will never happen because of Jenny. They will never tolrate Jenny near there baby.
😂😂😂😂😂I don’t think he’s going to pull a Usman 😅😅😅😅
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😂😂😂😂 he’s extremely desperate to get rid of her!!! She’s so clueless 🙄
I'm glad because I like watching him nearly die of heartburn and reflux more and more each episode as he realizes he maayyyyybe shouldn't have catfished and hooked a retiree from america 😆 Let him twist in the wind.
I agree!
I don't understand it because it's usually for a green card with these type of relationships but that's not the case here.
It's not that hard. He really could just go to his family house and it'd be fine.
@@44LillPuffin Sumit started off as a phone scamming catfish. He didn't expect Jenny to want anything to do with him when she busted him for it. To his misfortune, she decided she likes Oompa Loompas. He's spent 10 years with no spine to tell her he doesn't want her. Spineless to the point he married her rather than have a confrontation.
Out of 10 years, did they ever have real discussions?
How real can a discussion be with a 30 yr age gap? They're at different stages in life
apparently not lol
My thoughts exactly
@@alongfellow4147 having a real discussion is not hampered by a difference in age. You can be honest with each other about what you want and don't want, regardless of how old you are.
Yea it's crazy when people don't have serious discussions, or really any at all. It's bizarre lol
This whole relationship is like when you date someone cause you're bored and then it goes on too long without you really realizing it, both of you know neither of you were good for each other and it won't work out in the long run, but then you develop like 2 memories and can't let go. Ya'll are barely husband and wife. You had your fun messing around with something different and the novelty wore off. Sumit is a kid and Jenny is taking care of one (and married to it). But sumit also is realizing he went too far with this one lol. It's weird. It's not going to work. Just break up.
maybe she has life insurance he's waiting for
This comment hit the nail right on the head; they need to cut their losses and move on
@@pooh_berrybear 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. He tell others " Jenny is old and fragile. I am worried about her🤣. Life insurance will be good for him to start his takeaway business in India. Perhaps he is waiting for her death.
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Just described my friend’s relationship
Jenny is nearing 70!!!! She's so old and he's so young. Sumit is in his early 30s, which is a time in his life that he's building his career. She has no place to go in America. Jenny was sleeping on her daughters couch before she moved. She lives on social security from America. So they'd be homeless if she comes back to America.
You would think as adults...especially Jenny should know this lol!!
Yea he would HAVE to work if they move to America, which Jenny is already not happy with.
Hes a catfish..hes been with her 10ys no matter what tje ages are ..he knew what he was doing..his parents are nasty.. hes a total wuss..Jenny dump.him hes worth Jack 💩
Well said.
Age IS way more than just a number. This is a good example. Jenny and Summit were both delusional thinking this would work out. Then she says, “I never thought we wouldn’t be on the same path.” Duh!
Shes wasted 10yrs on this catfish..with his nasty ignorant parents
My hubby and I are 9 years apart, but were at the same point in life. Jenny wants to live a quiet, peaceful retirement, but Sumit is still at a VERY different phase. Dragging it out just makes it worse.
@@angelacarlisle1708 She wasted 12 years because she just had to get her way by ignoring all the red flags. 😹
It's bizarre that the daughter and her partner act like they are the mom and dad and Jenny and him are the kids lol
She needs to walk away and let summit have the peace and happiness he deserves
But according to her very immature, unrealistic, childish way of thinking, "We're in Love!!" as if that's Everything. They both need lots of therapy. We can plainly see that he no longer wants to be with her, but she hangs on, like a sad baby puppy refusing to let go.
SO SHE FOUND HIM WHEN HE WAS 23 YEARS OLD AND SHE WAS AT THAT TIME 53. COMPLEATLY INSANE....NOW WE HAVE A RESULT OF THAT INSANE RELATIONSHIP. DESPERATE WOMAN!
Sadly, it’s only a matter of time. I feel in each episode it becomes more apparent to him the age difference. He shouldn’t have kids though if he truly doesn’t want kids.
I can't even see him as a boyfriend, much less a dad.
Sumit is a people pleaser. He's trying to get back his parents' approval.
Hes a creep
He needs to grow some ***** and grow up! Man child in a parent child relationship 😂
Honestly I wouldn't be ok with my son or daughter marrying a woman almost 30 years his senior. I'm sorry but that is a HUGE pilll to swallow. In Western societies it's seen as questionable so imagine how it comes across to the rest of the world where the welfare of the overall family unit is put above the individual need.
One is for sure, sumit don’t use Jenny for a green card!
He only wanted to be famous... And don't be fooled, the show is also scripted... That is not how a real relationship works
Even if they come to America, I agree with his parents the age. difference is too big. She is at the end of her life, already experienced all of the life obstacles and successes. He on the other hand is just beginning, worried about a career and how he can make his impact on life. It’s sad, but that’s the reality.
33 is not the beginning.
@@azazello1784 definitely is
@@amuniquelee736 Most people have family and career at that age... How is that a beginning?
@@azazello1784 like you said most people. we are a whole diffrent culture then them. who are you to say a diffrent culture is supposed to be set already? you dont know the speed they go by lol
You don't have kids just to please your mother
Have you watched Usmans mom lol
Exactly!
Here in India atleast, sometimes people literally have kids to please their family or society which is the most dumbest thing a person can do.
Sumit himself is here just to please hís parents...
My dear, here’s my advice… after 18 years of marriage my husband had me chasing him… everything had to be about him and his need… he threatened with divorce etc…. The turning point was when I showed him I wasn’t having it anymore… I put my foot down and as a Christian the Holy Spirit gave me strength. When he realised I had enough and I wasn’t running after him, he started chasing me, and the ball is in my court I treat him well but I stand my ground…show sumit you leaving and he will come running
Amen
Unfortunately Christianity plays no part in their lives.
@marilynwillett804 I know. But I still share how Jesus can restore. If not for Jesus I wouldn't be married today.
That poor child that might be adopted just to please his parents.
Sounds like Use-Man and Kimbaaaaly
Impossible for adoption agencies to give to an elderly parent
@@kaede1_346 Not in India. There are so many unwanted street kids.
@Suzanne Denmark No it won't because they would want a grandchild of their own blood. That's important in India.
Like Sumit is here to just please his parents?! Strange culture...
If he wanted to stay in mommy and daddy's good graces why did he divorce his 1st wife?
Sumit is tired of waiting on Jenny...he has decided he wants a life of his own. Jenny thought she had a man to sit at home with her and do her bidding. Sumit has finally realized the differences between them..not just age.
Jenny is selfish. She never wants to compromise. If she wants something, she expects Sumit to have no choice and maneuver his life around hers and what makes her happy and what's convenient for her. It's not right for her to expect that
He said he didn't want kids when he was 22. Jenny's dizzy azz couldn't emagine him changing his mind one day? That's her fault. You can't expect a 33 year old to live the retirement lifestyle. What is wrong with Jenny? She shouldn't have married him, just have fun until it's not fun anymore. That's what a mature woman would do.
Well said she is very selfish and now his brother has one or two children he sees what he is missing out on
A mature woman would meet a man who is suitable and marry him not play around.
She is lazy and nasty.
She's not going to leave him they got to have something for the show
Agree they have to keep the checks coming
I think Sumit is just trying to get Jenny to leave him.
I think that Jenny (as the older and wiser) should have NEVER got involved w/a man so much younger than herself. It isn't fair to the younger person that wants to start a FAMILY. In REALITY, Sumit WILL be Jenny's CARETAKER.
Jenny left Sumit before but he begged her to come back. He wants to win his parents by proving them wrong. But he doesn't want to lose his parents either.
And much sooner than later bc she's already nearing 70
Jenny definitely isn't wiser she seems so delusional
Sumit never wanted children. Even his friend said he had never wanted children before now. He only wants children because he thinks it will bring his parents back into his life. That's not a reason to have a child or adopt child. That's terribly unfair to the child.
Wiser???!??🤣🤣
Sumit and Jenny loves drama.
Never a dull moment between sugar mama and her sugar baby 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sumit would never leave his parents and go to America! Jenny is going to lose this battle.
In this instance a loss is a win she'll be losing nothing at all.
She’s not pretty ew yuck gross
Well as a compromise they can adopt Sumit's brothers kid.
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Jenny needs to just go back to America on her own and live with her daughter so she’s not alone. Summit seems like more of a companion in her retirement lifestyle.
I don't think that Jenny would have left Sumit if he had told her he wanted kids sooner in their relationship.
Jenny should have bailed the instant she found out Sumit catfished her. Everything since is on her.
She's desperate
Oh I didn't know he c.f'd her....
@@SonjaElizabethTeal oh yes, he originally used somebody else's pic to1st lure her in.
Yup, or when she found out he was married, or when he said he didn't want to get married if his parents were against it... she's had so many chances to gracefully back out. She took that "stand by your man" song too seriously lol
@@AdventuresWithV and alternatively Sumit's taking that "honor thy parents" stuff to the cosmos.
How are you upset that Jenny contacted an immigration lawyer behind your back when you started planning a family and told your family about it behind hers? He knew she didn’t want kids and she knew he didn’t want to come to America. They both started making arrangements with these well established deal breakers. You should never bring a whole life into the world for the potential of acceptance. What happens if they get a kid and the parents still don’t approve? They’re probably going to break up. Are they gonna try to return the child? Are either of them willing to be a single parent?
Amen! This whole thing is so messed up!!!
They do not have to have children nor can they. It’s just what his parents want but he needs to make his own path in life. Sumit lied to his parents and to Jenny, he is a fool and coward who basically disappointed everyone.
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Summit was young and foolish. Jenny is old with experience. She should never have gone there. He is now maturing. Jenny was the aggressor. Jenny moved to India because she cannot afford to live in US. Don't forget she was sleeping on her daughter's sofa. She needs someone under her all day, and don't even want Summit to work. Have you seen the kitchen , she is filthy. Time for this joke to end.
She says she doesn’t want to continue to hurt his parents, but yet she’s willing to take him to the United States and hurt them even more. Sumit does not want to go to United States and leave his folks.
This is what no self-esteem and desperation will get you...
I feel like with Sumits family as well as Usmans family everyone is quick to judge them over emphasizing kids without realizing that in most cultures outside of the western world, the sole purpose of being in a relationship is to produce children and raise a family so there kids can have kids and so on.. I don’t understand why people are finding this so hard to comprehend
It's not that people are offended they want their adult children to become parents. It's that they don't really care what their adult children want for themselves & selfishly impose an ultimatum upon their children. They care more ab how they are viewed on their communities then they do about their own children's wants & happiness.
@@shannon222ishagain, you don't really understand. It's not the us. They don't disregard family like that
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing I do understand & by law & God Jenny is family. We don't disregard family here in the U.S. I'm not sure where you live or what type of family you have or ppl you know 🤔. Don't believe what you see on reality TV it's scripted & not in any way an accurate depiction of normal Americans with normal lives.
Sumit's family will never accept Jenny, and it's all her fault! Jenny had the nerve to stay in their home, and she was lieing to them the whole time! Every time she doesn't get her way, she starts jumping up and screaming at him like if a camera wasn't there she would do more. Jenny also doesn't want Sumit to work, because she wants him to take care of her. She should just go back to the US and save her money for a retirement home and a desperately needed face-lift! Can you honestly blame his parents for not being able to stand her?
Exactly.
Can't believe they've been together this long!!
Confusing because this was one of the most promising relationships on the show.
When?
@@daniellehudson6825 could've skipped my comment 🙄
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it is but the society and cultural differences are wining
@@ruchashinde9735 I agree because the chemistry was there for sure, it wasn't forced at all
I think her greatest fear is Sumit gonna leave her eventually
Sumit wants his momma more then Jenny. He is now looking for a way out to have Jenny leave him.
He needs to leave her.
They have so many polar opposite wants
Sumit knew from the start that Jenny is way pass the child bearing stage, so for him to now turn the table must be very heart breaking for Jenny.
Also the parents need to cut the apron strings, they already got Sumit married before and he had to run away from her.
Jenny has a daughter but can't possibly fathom Sumit wanting a child, regardless of the reason. She is supremely selfish
I can understand sumits parents not happy about him with an older woman but he is 34 years and his parents are selfish thinking of what makes them happy sumit needs to figure what he really wants snd stop stringing Jenny along
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Why summit don't tell her how she feels she to.old and his culture is different from her he not going to America his family will never talk to him at all his mom is hurt and his dad still don't approve of that relationship
Holy shit! I find it particularly astounding that Sumit's father states the obvious about how having children is the basis of all relationships and he directs that statement to Christina and Butch! 😮💨
They are Jenny's parents, to all intents and purposes. He was discussing the matter with his son's parents-in-law. The children are too immature to understand.
@@extemporaneous4545 That's a good point actually BUT my point is that Christina and Butch can have no children so his statement was also a dig at homosexuality.
@@BackSeatHump Don't know if you can see my reply to you. It didn't post.
@@extemporaneous4545 I'm not sure. I saw a flash about them living in fantasy land but it disappeared before I could fully read it.
@@BackSeatHump Our voices are being silenced. Here's the synopsis : Yes, I agree with you that they can never have children, as their baby making parts are the same. And Sumit's dad probably disapproves of their lifestyle as well. Maybe that's the reason Sumit's mom didn't show up. And now that you say it, it does seem that he is politely putting them in their place.
Sumit was never truthful to himself right from the very word go. When a person decides about the future of his/her life, they should be truthful and put the realities of the unforeseeable life into consideration. I think Sumit was delusional when he took his decisions because his choices do not need rocket science nor do they need anything beyond logical reasoning, such as true consideration of what is in store for the future life.
Sumit's motto: Worry about it later. Lol.
Well , Jenny in 10 yrs, your 73 and he will be 44 and realizing he is missing out on a family
I cant imagine Sumit having the courage to move away from his parents. The apron strings still haven't been cut. 🙄
And why is she mad.. it's his right as a younger man to want kids...but we know he is using it to get away from her
She’s mad because they both agreed they didn’t want kids. At her age she’s done with kids, Sumit knew this. But now he’s changing his mind for his family, she has a right to be mad.
he's using it to please his mother lol
Stupid question... Sure she is mad, she is over 60 years old and he is together with her for 10 years now... by his own free will!!!!! You think she wants to raise another kid in this age? I would not... that is for sure! For him it is all to crawl back into the ass of his mean mother!
U can't decide to date a old ass woman for 10 years then suddenly say u want kids, that's ridiculous. Like she said, he never spoke about wanting kids b4, or else they wouldn't be tgt smh
He is only bringing up kids now so he can get his family back in his life
He will never turn his back on his family. He will never leave India to move to America. Jenny wake up already
There is something to be said about making sure a couple is evenly yoked before getting into marriage. I am Disappointed that as senior as Jenny is in age and life experiences, she does not realize that she has nothing or very little in common with her husband. She doesn't understand that she should not stifle and control his growth during his life's journey. She has already been where he needs to explore. Their differences of where they are in life will probably shorten their married life and as the father predicted, will have Sumit walk away due to his unhappiness.
It's sad as they should break up and let's face it she's far too old for him it's actually ridiculous seeing these needy old people latching onto younger partners.
I’m so confused why he’s with her if he dosent want a green card. I haven’t watched them from the start, but it seems like he could just marry a local girl and get rid of all this stress lol
I think Sumit is trying to hurt his parents, for whatever reason/reasons, like pay back. His immature self doesn’t realize, he is only hurting himself more.
@@1Loveneverends Probably because he hated his previous marriage to a different woman. I can tell Sumit's mom blackmailed him into marrying her.
@@slime1592 That’s possible.
I believe they love each other but the realization of his decision to marry Jenny has come to him. The real sacrifices he has to deal with. He knew his culture, it was unfair to deceive her. He ignored what was going to happen. Sad for both of them. This relationship should never have happened.
Jenny needs to take charge of this situation and divorce Sumit. He is too wishy-washy to do it himself. So what if he changed his mind about having children. He was in his early 20s when this started. People change as they grow older and start seeing things differently. Don't guilt him into staying. Pack your bags, wish him well and come home and enjoy your kids and grandkids.
Sumit only married Jenny to keep the cash flowing with another sequel. What they get paid per episode is 3 months pay in India. This new baby issue is all made up,hoping she goes back to America without him. Unless they get another sequel.
People change and evolve and so do their needs and wants. Summit wants kids now, Jenny does not want to stay in India seems like they both have a change of heart. They are going to have to make a decision.
Dad said, LET HIM GO its NOT GOING TO WORK 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂⚠️
If Jenny has any sense left she should pack and leave and go home. I am sure she can find someone her age and can have a good life. As for Sumit he is realizing that this relaitonship is not he wants as he is he young and he wants kids and a family etc.
This woman is VERY VERY VERY VERRRRRRY SELFISH!!! Leave this young man so he can go start his own family. Reality is catching up on sumit.
First of all Sumit doesn’t actually have to discuss why he doesn’t want to move to America. Jenny was the one who was willing to move to India. Sumit has never hinted that there could be a possible move to America. He has always said he wants to live in India and that he doesn’t see him moving anywhere. Jenny thinks the love they have is enough but for someone like Sumit it isn’t. He loves his family and he is not going to lose them for her.
Smart man Sumits, father... he is right ...
Sumit is ready to adopt when he realises thats his family wish. In Indian culture marriage is to have children but when a couple struggle to conceive, the woman is usually thought to be lacking with fertility but it may be from Sumit in this case. He may have kept to himself which is totally understandable. Indian couples kids arrive within the first few years but him and his wife did not have any.
That's why we need to hear the first wife's story.
@@extemporaneous4545 he may not have told the first wife he may be the one struggling with fertility
Where do they go from here? Nowhere. What a doomed relationship this is. They just wasted 10 years of their lives they'll never get back. Ten years of nothing but struggle, disharmony, stress and worry for all of them. SMH. Does Summit think adopting a kid will satisfy his parents? Given their strict values, I'd say they wouldn't accept any children that didn't come straight from his loins. And what made him think she would want to be raise and be chasing after a kid at her age when all she wants to do is relax. He's not accepted in India under the circumstances, but he doesn't want to leave his country. He never wanted to come to America. She'd rather go back home than to continue living there being seen and treated like a pariah. They have been two naive hopeless fools trying to fit a round circle into a square. Time to call it a day and stop this insanity.
I wish Jenny hadn't gotten Sumit into marriage. I also don't understand why Sumit would go to this extreme. I do understand May/December relationships but not to this extreme.
Man, they're both small minded. Submit was scamming from the get go...
It wasnt just her..she didnt force him 🙄
Look at the difference between the two brothers,one is tall and handsome,one is short and ugly.there is a reason for that.handsome people are nice,and you know the rest
I understand the parents because Jenny was 30 when summit was born, kinda weird
He catfished her..he knew what he was doing
She already had her child years ago . He is young and may want to have his own. Its not his fault she is an old cougar!
Its his fault he catfished her at the start..its his fault he said he didnt want kids...so couger or not hes the liar
Usually if a foreigner from a lower social class marries a foreigner it’s for the sake of “coming up” weather it be a visa to the States or just that person makes their live easier…better. What exactly does Jenny bring to the table? She doesn’t clean or cook, she doesn’t go shopping or out and about without him. Then she doesn’t want him to work? Because she’ll be bored?! She wants to live a retired life and he just left his 20’s, he’s ready to do things.
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They didn't think clearly before they start their relationship
They had always been on the same page… they started out as a lie he had always lied to her and it isn’t surprising
she just said what the mother's issue is she's a 60 year old grandmother that is the mother's concern she's using it as a weapon her age the same thing she doesn't want anybody else to use but she can
When his mother said she's so old she's too old for him it was an issue with her bringing up the age but when she wants to use it as her being 60 and a grandmother it's OK it's not you can't pick and choose when you want to use your age
Jenny doesn’t want kids because she was planning on Sumit being her nurse-caregiver. This is a woman who has to be pushed to clean her own home properly and throws a hissy that she has to go shopping by herself after 3 years. I hope he divorces her and reconciles with his family.
Sumit pack your bags and let's go. Jenny has tried for over 10 years in India.
I Knew this day would come, too bad Jenny didn't wake up long ago
Summit will never be accepted back into his family unless Jenny is out! Summit will give Jenny up because his parents are stronger than ever. Why does Jenny have to give up everything all the time! Summit is a whiny, spineless, and selfish child. His parents mean more than Jenny! Grow up Summit!
She needs to contact a divorce lawyer.
I don't feel bad for jenny after hearing how she treated her daughter
It's probably karma at this point
Jenny you need to back home .let Sumit lead his life
Yes under his controlling nasty parents
Spoiler alert. I googled that they’re still together, and are traveling all over India; and enjoying each other’s company. His mom is still not accepting Jenny, since she’s very old school on tradition. As for Sumit. He has no interest in moving to America. Sumit finds it hard to adapt there right away, and get a job as soon as possible. Also I think he prefers to be closer to his parents
Sumit is a mummy’s boy, as in many others. “They” may protest initially but will give in to family pressure sooner or later.
@@Gglow-bm8lzMommy's boy and proud, that's our culture.
I really believe Summit is secretly attracted to men, Just look at the joy and happiness beaming off him when he is with his "business partner" . He isn't even that excited around Jenny.
Uyaganga uJenny how possible did she think this young man would definitely don't want kids in future ?
He knew Jenny didn’t/couldn’t have kids anymore, what was he thinking
He wants a mother not a wife , there is no other reason for the miss match !!
Diese Verbindung war von Anfang an zum scheitern verurteilt.
It wouldnt surprise me if Sumit and Jenny split up. I dont think Sumit realized just how much marrying Jenny would affect his parents and i think the weight of that is way too much for him. He wont come to the USA, he wants to make things right with his parents. I think they are pretty much over with. Jenny needs to come home. Sumit needs to divorce her and live his life right.
They should've talked these main decisions before they got married
Normally i don't like name tattoos but i really like Jens tattoo of Christina. They are a really sweet couple ❤
Isant that her daughter?
Turn on the captions and take a shot every-time the captions misread Sumit’s name lol. After submit, summit and cement I’m about to pass out lol
I really feel for her that's so unfair to her ,if he does this I would leave him ,an let him see how he's life is after she's gone for good.
I know that Sumit's parents will be happy if he leaves her. Sumit will more than likely resume his life as a Cook, get married again, have children with a woman his age or younger, and forget Jenny soon after, but won't be able to hold his head high in his community because of his past.
Family/Food/Religion and Traditional Culture are paramount in Indian Culture, no two ways about it!
This is crazy! Jenny is too old for him. She wants to retire and relax but Simit is still young and wants children and wants to work. Jenny should have known their relationship would have a lot of up and downs.
How do 2 grown adults get married without talking about what they expect life together to be like?