Jenny's reaction was on the abusive side. Not good at all. She should have a little more emotional intelligence and had been a support and comfort for the hardship her husband was going though. 😔
No one is really in the right here but I feel really awful for Sumit. Jenny should have taken the opportunity to discuss what had just happened. She's angry and lashing out without full knowledge on the situation. Yes, She's been treated unfairly and yes she deserves support. However, this is not a 1-sided thing. Sumit is also hurting and needs support as well. He just gave up his whole family for her.
I understand why she felt left out. Sumit should have stood up for Jenny when his parents were talking shit, but it's also not really fair of her to get the recap of what just happened. She's not wrong that she's been expected to just take the abuse or even to maybe think it's happened again, but ask him what happened first.
Its not that easy to learn. I've been with my Indian husband for 15 years and I still dont know what he is saying to his family. There are many languages in India. Also, english is their 2nd language. English is taught in their schools.
@@Lucas_Antar just lived there for six months. Unfortunately it's not true that they all speak English. That's why I started to learn Hindi. I don't understand why she never did. She's not even working....
Seriously, Jenny wonders if things are ever gonna change?!?! They haven't changed in TEN YEARS!!?! Hlw in the world does she expect it to be different now
The heart wants what the heart wants ,Jenny should of rented an Airbnb instead of staying at his parents house...,, I don't think his family will ever forgive her for her past actions,if you have been following their journey you know what I'm talking about, The mom completely feels betrayed,Jenny has shamed their whole family,& Sumit played along with all the lies, He's a big fat lier, it's a unholy union It's true ...
@@katmcdaniel6840 And if you have been following their journey you would know that Jenny did want to rent an Airbnb but Sumit insisted she be present for the big news. You're wrong about one thing else ... she's no liar but he is. Yes, a big fat liar (with an "a").
Sumit's mother is a case study on maternal narcissism. She's dramatic and emotionally manipulative towards her grown up son because she's afraid of her illusion of the perfect family will collapse in society since Sumit married an older lady (which is looked down upon in Indian society) and she's lost the man (her son) from whom she can gain the emotional fulfillment that her cardboard cutout-like husband can't provide her.
I've on-hand counselled older women who will literally keep their sons from fulfilling their dreams, including migrating or getting a better job because the sons shower their mother with attention which they feel will dry up once their son is gone and they openly bitch about their husbands as being only those who want to lay with them and be served hand and foot and don't fulfill their emotional needs. India is a terrifying place for familial issues and generational curses.
I'm sorry but Jenny was out of control. What does she expect? She's almost 70 yrs old!!! In Sumits culture, marriage/ kids/ family is EVERYTHING! So in a way, she is incredibly selfish to even keep herself in that position. let the man go for Pete's sake! They can still love each other. I mean how much longer does she think she's got left on this planet? Let the man go. Let him have a life.
Jenny who usually behaves quite well has gone insane at the worst possible time. Sumit is hurting and stunned after being disowned by his family. He needs support from Jenny most but she lashed out like a crazy woman and said she needed to ve comforted. He has just lost his entire family because of her. My heart goes out to Sumit.
I DONT MEAN TO SOUND MEAN BUT WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION TO HER? CAN SOMEONE PLEASE PLEASE TEL ME SHE HAS AN ANGER MANAGEMENT PROBLEM. OLD, NOT FROM HIS CULTURE, CANT HAVE KIDS, HAS NO MONEY AND IS NOT ATTRACTIVE. THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY. WHAT DOES HE SEE IN HER. OH MY LORD.
@@dianajames4717 I agree. I'm older than she is and I find her very unattractive. Not all of us are blessed with good genes but do something with that nasty hair.
@@dianajames4717 you wouldn’t ask these questions if she was a mxn. This makes more sense than old mxn with girls. You really don’t understand the need most mxn have to feel close to someone. No Indian woman that he’s going to meet is going make him feel as comfortable as Jenny does.
@@TikiTorcher i would still ask the question if the roles were reversed. Yes i would. He must be hexed or something like that. What is the attraction? I just don't get it. A thirty year difference is ridiculous. Remember the one episode when they went out to dinner and the people at the next table were staring and laughing. Hun that's what happens when you date someone thirty years older. That will happen no matter what country they live in. They will always be made to feel uncomfortable. Is it really worth it and to lose your family on top of that? NOPE NOT WORTH IT TO ME.
Poor Summit. Yeah it wouldn't hurt her to learn his language. If she knew the context this would have been totally different. Summit is the one who needs support
Unpopular opinion (don’t come at me): i haven’t really followed their story but I think it’s selfish of Jenny to only think about her and her emotions especially after Summit literally just lost his entire family BECAUSE OF HER.
Not coming for you… he is a grown man. He knew this was coming and he made his choice.The mother should have never had kids if this is the way she behaves with her kids.
@@sepohope9369 There must be some type of algorithm that pointed toward young or naive people! Sumit has done all he can… and the way she was talking to him irritated me so much! And ALMOST made me want to side with the family. Jenny is SO ungrateful! She hasn’t learned the culture, she hasn’t learned the language, she hasn’t learned how to cook like them! I doubt she has ever made a dish for his family! I felt sorry for her before but not anymore
@@armelleantoine30 You obviously have no respect for other cultures, and I assume you are American. Ok.. so understand, I TOO, am American! But I understand that people have a different way of life! I have friends and other ex husbands whom are from different countries and you don’t go to another person’s Country and act like you own the customs there! Jenny is a GUEST in their community, their culture, and their Country! She ruined his life by being a mistress for a decade AND then doesn’t have enough respect to learn the language, the cuisine nor the ideals! If she REALLY loved him, she would try to make the best of the situation but all she does is complain and this man is in the middle! She should have comforted him instead of yelling.
There’s something wrong with Jenni. Those physical outbursts she has should have really been dealt with a long time ago. I remember many seasons back where her daughter was talking about how Jenni disowned her and stopped talking to her once she revealed her sexuality to Jenni. Can y’all just imagine how those convos went down?
It’s so hard to go against your family, especially parents, in cultures like those. He already married her against their wishes and was literally disowned- he should have been the one being comforted. I understand it’s hard for her with not being able to know what they are saying but she had a pretty good idea of what could happen and could have chosen to set aside her insecurities for later and check up on her husbands mental state first. I see her side too but in this particular situation I think she was wrong.
Why Tf does she come up ragging like that and pushes Sumit like that? So atrocious to look at . It’s so weird to look at the way a 60 year old grandma be so aggressive physically lol . People tend to get cooler as they age but she just seems to be getting only angrier lol . That’s a lot of stress Jenny. If it was meant to be your marriage wouldn’t be so difficult with so much stress . Love is blind they say but doesn’t mean you will even marry an animal . (Not saying Jenny’s an animal ). And also it’s never a good idea to marry someone 30 years older than you lol especially when you have a child almost as the same age . Just bizarre over all .
I've seen in many scenarios, foreign girls demand love from their husbands, Indian girls are way better than foreign girls, not all indian girls but most are.
Jenny told him multiple times to leave her alone and he refused. He grabbed her that’s why she pushed him. Idc if it looks abusive or not, she gave him multiple warnings and he didn't listen, she's well within her right to get him out of her personal space by any means.
This is a common theme in Indian households. My husband and I had to elope because we had different castes. We both are highly educated, owned a home a car and held high positions in a bank and still his parents refused to accept me. Later they came around and now all of us live in harmony. But with Indian parents, they would rather disown their own child and hurt them than let them be with the person they disapprove of. Indian parents think they own their kids because they gave birth to them. My husband and I have experienced it all our lives.
Sad story and I really feel it cuz I'm almost in a similar situation as a foreigner being in love with an Indian girl. I have a question to you though: parents were young as well before right? Your parents also must have loved someone and their parents maybe disapproved. Don't they understand your situation based on their feelings from their own, old experiences? And more importantly, will you act differently when you have children or will you also be some angry auntie disowning your children? I have the feeling like every Indian is complaining but in the end, this bad cultural behavior gets passed on from generation to generation and nothing ever changes.
I dealt with this too but with Vietnamese in-laws. They didn’t accept me because of many reason because I’m not Vietnamese. They owned a nail salon and I worked for them as a nail tech and the first year was hard because she would make remarks like “a daughter in law needs to learn to cook and clean” etc and they barely accepted me about 3 years ago when she saw my work ethic and how clients loved me. We’ve been together for 11 years and I’ve never felt accepted even now, because they have high expectations
@@NeePscambaiting both sets of our parents had arranged marriages. But still my side of the family is more liberal (i mean not liberal in its real sense but they can at least be reasones with) but my mother inlaw had not even see my father in law before her wedding night. So you get the point. It is all about keeping up appearances for them. Although I feel its is also because they were afraid of being excommunicated from their own community (and its not uncommon here) . I have a daughter and honestly, i am raising her to be her own woman and more importantly giving her control over her own life which I never had growing up. She can date/marry whomever she chooses when she comes of age. As long as she is happy and is an adult capable of making sound decisions, I will always support her and the man/woman she chooses
@@evelyngrace9954 that is quite sad. Can’t imagine the toll it must be taking on your mental health and self esteem. How is your husband ? I mean I hope he is quite supportive of you.
What a terrible burden to carry! Marriage is difficult enough, let alone having such lack of support from your own family!! Better to move far away from family then!!😅
Jenny, you still do NOT understand Sumit's language? How many years were you there? Come on Jenny, I picked up Japanese in eight months and I am living in NYC. I was not immersed in the culture.
Right?! Im in Florida and picked up 800 words of French using Duolingo for 10 mins a day for about a month. She could use an app and has nothing but time on her hands as shes old and "retired"(shes broke yall)
Sumit Mother said looked at Jenny's hands ✋️ how it big lol Moti Moti I am learning anybody language as I go 🚶♂️ along? Jenny's not making an effort to try and learn? But she knows the language to sex hehe
The problem is here, he chooses a wife with the same characteristics like his mother has. He's father on the other side, seems to be much more soft hearted and nice, like his son. This agressiv behavior from his wife, when she is upset about something, its not normal. Even she seems to go physicall when she jelling on her husband. In this situation she had to comfort her husband, not to jell at him and being Jealous . He even lost his mother, family for her, because her! So she has to be by her husband now, try to make him feel better. No, she is jelling at him because of her jealousnes. Like a child, but not like a adult grown woman. Poor husband. Im feel for him.
I think Jenny is completely missing the whole picture. Sometimes you have to see things through your partner's eyes. Summit loves Jenny. He has proven it time and time again. He also loves his family and though I personally would have stopped trying to convince them, Summit is not ready to. Jenny needs to understand that. They are very important to him as well. Summit's mom is so out of line in the way he talks about Jenny however and there I do think Summit should stand up for Jenny more. She understands nothing and that can not be easy for her.
Well, now it's time to be a big boy. Married in his 30's and cleaving to your wife. Supporting each other and forgetting about everyone else. Jenny is just boiling over from the decade of anxiety around this rediculous relationship. Nothing blew up. He knew exactly what was going to happen. No surprises here. Jenny finally has her husband to herself. Stop carrying on and start unselfishly loving him through this. This is NOT actually about you honey
Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, is this an acting gig so you can stay on tv and get paid? She’s been there for several years and still doesn’t know the language? Very suspicious to me. They both don’t work so TLC is their only income. If by chance it’s all true she deserves anything she’s subject to, she should have stayed in the US when she went back the last time.
Jenny brought this all on herself, 10 years ago she stayed with his parents pretending to be his moms friend while sneaking behind her back and sleeping with her son. Jenny lied to his family. She knew from the beginning she would not be accepted but kept pursuing him even after learning he was married. Jenny is a manipulator we saw that in this episode, Sumitt needed consoling but Jenny throws a big fit and gets the attention for herself. He will regret his choice one day, she is too old his family will not accept her nor will his culture. I don’t feel sorry for her she made this bed, she keeps saying she wants to be more of a priority but this man has turned his back on his parents and culture for her what the hel_ does she want? Oh wait I can answer that: she wants Sumitt to have no contact with his family, friends or anyone but her she wants him to agree with her about everything she says, she wants him to baby her constantly. Many times people said she needed a guy closer to her age, that wouldn’t work with her she couldn’t control someone that had more life experiences and a will of their own, she herself smugly told she took Sumitt’s virginity to the world. I hope he doesn’t give up and still keeps in contact with his parents one day they may need him and he may also need them. Jenny is very selfish, if you love someone and saw the pain you were causing them and their family years ago before this went any further she would have left him alone. She is also taking away his chance at children, she certainly can’t give them to him.
I agree with everything you said. But wait,sumitt was a virgin? Wasn't he married for a few years? This whole thing is weird and creepy. I mean if you could of changed their diapers,don't sleep with them. Ewww🤮🤮🤮
@@kathybittle7385 yes he was married for a few years, but Jenny went to India 10 or 11 years ago under the pretense of a friend. Jenny stayed with Sumitt in his parents house. Jenny and Sumitt’s mother became friends, behind her back Jenny was sneaking off in the night and sleeping with Sumitt, at this time he was a virgin, he wasn’t married. Sumitt’s mom found out and that is where the bad blood between them began. I don’t blame his mom she was staying in their home acting like she was there as a friend that Sumitt met on line and came to see the country. Jenny knew from the beginning this would not be an acceptable relationship in his culture. She left and came back to the US, some point after this Sumitt got married but didn’t tell Jenny. She knew his parents would not accept her nor his culture but still pursued him. He knew his parents feelings and his culture and knew he had a wife so he is scum too. Jenny went back to India and Sumitt stayed with her sometimes and didn’t at other times. I think it was Sumitt’s father in law that showed up at the place Jenny was staying and Sumitt was there at the time that is when she found out about him being married. Sumitt left with his father in law. Jenny returned to the US but still kept in contact with him, he got a divorce. Both are to blame but Jenny I think more so she is older and knew she had lied to his parents and how they felt she knew he was married on her second trip. Sumitt is no prize and I wouldn’t trust him any further than I could throw an elephant, but Jenny knew he had lied and hidden his marriage. From what we saw last week she also manipulates him with her crying and throwing fits. At this point they also want TLC’s check because I doubt Jenny draws much from Social Security, in fact probably very little because she would be penalized for drawing early due to her age. She is 63 in order for her to draw her full SS amount she would have needed to wait until she was 66. Sorry for the book but maybe this explains it better.
@@danasandoval624 Yuk! That's even more creepy. I don't think that age gap should be accepted any where. Not just bad for Sumit, also bad for Jenny. What is she thinking????? They look ridiculous together. I don't care what your culture is, I wouldn't want my son or mother in a relationship with that big of an age gap. What could you possibly have in common? The stress for an older woman with a much younger man would be awful. I wish them all the best,but I can't imagine how it could end well.
@@kathybittle7385 I agree in the end it won’t end well. Jenny wants him in her sights 24/7 (probably doesn’t trust him) and not trying to be mean but Jenny has aged fast over the last few seasons. Her life is constantly in an uproar and she worries all the time he is going to leave her, I can’t imagine living like that. 10 years ago when this started Jenny could have found a decent man here and had a happy life but instead she thought a very good looking guy 30 years her junior was interested in her, I am talking about the pictures Sumitt used to catfish her with. 99.9% of the time if someone that is very much out of your league pays attention to you it’s for their personal gain and this is a big red flag. But lucky Jenny ended up with the catch of Sumitt and 10 years later her life is still a mess and has been since day one talking to him. Really it’s a sad situation.
Jenny is two old for him!! Tbis is a different culture things are different . She is old enough to know this. She is childish screaming at summit like a mad women. Go back to America let him find a woman his age . Let her go sumit!!!!
Sumit is a great example of why we should sometimes ghost someone. From the very beginning he said he was someone else, with a different life and a different pic. Nothing but chaos and dishonesty and frustration for Jenny from the very beginning.
It's cultural, it's normal when a child disobey the parents wishes, sure Jenny is a nice person, was once in a Jenny's shoes, his family and friends gave me a headache, not Worth the drama, loving someone is to set them Free, Jenny should do the same simply walk away, waste of Time and life. Blessings have a wonderful evening. 🇨🇦.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 she'Acts like a baby regardless of her age... communication is everything in a relationship, something they don't have. Better her than I no partner is worthy of a headache 😂.. blessings 🙏 have a good evening.
Jenny lived with his family as a “friend” when they met, she went behind his mothers back all the while acting like Sumitt’s moms friend, she lied she slept sneakily behind her back with her son. Their culture, even ours when it’s 30 years is an awfully big age difference but in India a big no no. Then she preceded to manipulate Sumitt by yelling and throwing a fit.
@@danasandoval624, thank you for the reminder and I agree.👍As an American, I could never accept her either, after behaving in a disgusting manner. She plotted, schemed and lie to his mother. Summit is a con artist, he’s with Jenny for her social security checks and TLC, he doesn’t want to work. He knew about his culture before catfishing Jenny, he’s also a liar.
They were both wrong at this moment. She should have asked him what had been said when he walked in and/ or he should have explained to her what just happened on entering the house. Then all the shouting could have been avoided.
@@wendyann3333 He could have told her he was going to say goodbye to his family. I guess in her mind he was saying goodbye to her just leaving like that without a word.
Summit is bad for leading Jenny on, but she is even worse… Desperate granny forced all of this when she knew Summit’s family will never accept her 100%!!
Not all asian moms behave like they own their kidd. I am in my 60's and love my son in- Law as my son. He is French. Its about a high EQ. They are adults let they be
Jenny acts like a child. If you're not comfortable get a translator like everyone else. Just sitting there thinking the worse is on her. This isn't the first time this has happened. Fed up
There has to be some deep rooted psychological issues for a man in his early 30s to want to marry a 67 year old woman. You’d think he has mommy issues but he’s lived with and been with his mom forever. This is very creepy and disturbing
Jenny was not good to her own daughter when her daughter had told her she was gay. I can not stand Jenny's selfish attitude - in my opinion, Jenny cares only about how she wants to be treated yet does not care how she treats others.
Jennie has been with Sumit long enough now for her to have at least a basic understanding of his language. For crying out loud she lives in his country, it is only right she learn the language.
This is so stupid. Sumit should either break up with Jenny and move back into his mother's womb or ditch his selfish mother who only thinks about what others will say. That "cultural" insanity is draining for everybody and has no place in the world 2022.
Indians are loyal to a fault, some Indians, to their culture. Sumit said it, being disowned by his mother means that he is also being disowned by India, his culture. Jenny believes that she should have Sumits total loyalty because they are married. Then both require an excellent counselor to explain their preconceived believes ARN'T REALITY, BUT A TRAP.
Who could have possibly guessed that an older woman who pushed to marry a younger man would lack emotional intelligence? That's not to say that jenny forced sumit to marry her, because he led her on for so long while trying to choose between her and his family, but I feel as though a lot of older people who pursue younger people are often either predatory or immature themselves. Even if jenny couldn't understand what was being said I feel as though the context clues of tone and actions could have been enough to clue her in that things had gone wrong, and it isn't always about her. Edit: meant to say "people"
As a mom myself, I understand the mother's dilemma. She graciously allowed Jenny to stay in her home and how does she repay her? By seducing her son. They have said in other interviews that she's the dominant one in bed. (Which is nausea inducing) for us to hear, I imagine his mom is very hurt by all this nonsense.
Exactly. I saw a clip last night when Jenny talked about being on the 3rd floor of Sumit's parents house and how he would come up and they would "do their thing" and the parents were none the wiser. The visual on that was gross. She's just nasty in every way.
Summit is very emotionally intelligent i really admire his composure whenever shit hits the fan and still trying to calm Jenny down after what his mom said to him.
Jenny and Sumit first met online 10 years ago. Since then a few things about Sumit have been consistent. First of all he loves Jenny. Secondly he loves his mother more. Thirdly he constantly lies. On Jenny’s side, she loves Sumit (in spite of the above issues) and she will be with him whenever possible. It’s a very unusual relationship however I think this is how they’ll continue until Jenny gets too old to travel between the US and India.
@@irene_f. That seems to be how it has been working for 10 years. Jenny shows up in India. Then Sumit's mother disowns him. Sumit promises that he will break up with Jenny. Jenny returns to the US. Sumit's mother forgives him. After a year or two Jenny comes back. The cycle repeats itself.
What a selfish manipulating mother.The couple was happy before this visit.He needs to realize it is not the end of the world because his mother does not approve.
It's his family regardless. He doesn't prioritize his family above her, in the end, he married her. He just wants the thing most of us want, the family accepting our happiness, regardless of the choices we made.
Poor Summit never even had a chance! Jenny is being selfish and jumping to conclusions. It's not always just about you, Jenny. There's others involved here with more important devastating things that are happening. I mean, his parents just disowned him, good grief!!!
Jenny should have just left India the moment she found out Sumit was married. Just look at all the problems this relationship caused. There isn't enough love in the world to stay with a man that scammed you and got married to someone else.
Last season summit parents said that you can get married but we won't attend I believe summits parents agreed because his Mom thought summit won't do it because without the parents blessing especially the Mom he will be disowned. And he knows that and especially the Mom never expected summit would marry Jenny.
Jenny's reaction is not an overreaction, it's hysteria, and she needs therapy for anger management. No situation in life merits such an outburst, it's outright dangerous and it puts into jeopardy both of these two people, I was afraid Jenny will get a stroke.
I think her reaction was human and unless you have been in her situation you cant judge her. She's alone and the one person she has doesn't listen to her. There was no way this was going to go any way but badly. I can't imagine how she felt at that moment. I've seen people lose their s**t over way less. You should look up the origins of the word hysterical. Not the best word to use to describe a woman in distress.
@@staceywalker8699 I am a seventy year old woman who has quite a long life experience. How do you know that I was not in Jenny's shoes once or twice in my life, and, as many women of my age, hundreds and hundreds of encounters with people in various kinds of situations. Behaviour such as Jenny's, in direct face to face confrontation with Sumit, is not normal, is outright putting in physical peril both of them, and as such should not be given a credit on account of Jenny's marital problem.
@@staceywalker8699 Because you are teaching me the meaning of the word hysteria that I used to describe Jenny's outburst toward Sumit, I will send you to type the words hysteria meaning and you will find the first description of it : "exaggerated or uncontrollable emotion or excitement". So, before you send someone to the dictionary, it's better that you make sure about the meanings of words.
@@blackpearl8574 when someone asks you what being 70 has to do with it you know automatically they are much younger, your age and mine (65) gives us experience and knowledge that you don’t have until you are older.
Wow she is one abusive woman wen she's mad. Submit shud run. When anyone male or female react like this, it's time to run. She didn't even wait to find out what was said, jus flew off the handle. What a horrible person
Agree. She is very aggressive, unpredictabel and meen old women when she did not get the things in her own way. Parents have not forget that she was having sex with there son in there home. She stay many months at there home for free and they treat her vel. she tok he advantage of there love and hospitality. She deceived dem in the worst way. They don't like her at all because her cheating.
What sane woman acts like this. Clearly Summit has real mommy issues. He also seems to have low self esteem. The fact that this woman has lied and manipulated him for ten years is nauseating. We often hear of older men grooming much younger females but what about older women grooming much younger men. I have two sons and I wonder how I would feel if they came under the gripes of a lustful older woman, especially if this was someone who posed as a friend. Remember when a Summit turns 50 she will be 80. Believe me there is only one way this will end and it won’t be pretty. She will be screaming at him to bring her cane and change her diapers. I really feel for Summit. He really needs to get away from she and his family and go somewhere and get help.
@@jacquelinehumber6430 yeah she kept bugging him to marry her. If she truly loved him, (love knows no boundaries) she wud enjoy her time wif him n then let him get on with his life. She oredi had children, he hasn't she is depriving him of that part of living by insisting he marry her. I empathise with his mother's feeling. You only have 1 mother, wives can be many. Well she is wife #2, lol
They both shouldn't have to go through this. When it comes right down to it, they were happy before his parents came back into the picture. His mom needs to put herself aside and put her son first. Would I be upset if I were summit's mom? Yes. Would I approve? No. Would I disown my child? Never. I would bite my tongue, and be happy because this is what my son wants. The mother is selfish. That is so wrong. She has a grandchild from the other son. So that shouldn't be an issue. Jenny is also very nice to his family. With everything the parents have done and said, that's a charity. Jenny is good natured. I feel bad for Jenny and Summit. Mom and dad should accept Jenny. I would.
Jenny was sleeping with Sumit while staying in his mother's home. She was sneaking around with him while Sumits mom thought they were good friends. Jenny is the opposite of good natured. She knew he was married to.
He should have a worried about his wife first then his mother. He just left Jen sitting alone and as usual chased his mom. He will never understand what Jenny needs. I don’t see them working out.
Sumit is a nice person, a good son, and good husband. His mother is crazy and manipulator, his father has no pants and no say. Jenny should wait until everything is translated and she overreacts. Bring him to America and the problems is solved.
You don't know the previous part. He was catfishing Jenny sending a male model photo. Summit parents kept Jenny in their house for months. Summit parents paid for divorce settlement for Summit. Summit was sleeping with Jenny while he was married. If Summit mothers is mad at this, she has right to do so. No pants father paid lots of money for his various occasions. Anything else you need to know?
Watch out old lady, stop screaming like that, at that age you might get a heart attack. That’s what happened when you married a young man and a different culture.
These people are so afraid of this controlling, narcissist mom. It makes we wonder why. Her fits must be really awful. Summit is better off without his mother. She is a very cruel person. She is full of hate and meanness. This mother doesn’t care for her children’s happiness. She only cares about her own.
Sumit is a gutless wonder. I can't imagine how he ever got the nerve to marry Jenny in the first place. His sick/PSYCHO attachment to his mother is nauseating to see, and I can't, for the life of me, see what Jenny ever saw in this man-baby.
She reacted that way for the show. It was unreasonable with the fact that she did not even know he had just been disowned. She should be comforting Summit. He gave up his whole life for her. She was just acting for the cameras and it was frustrating.
Jenny needs to get anger management classes because she just blow up for no reason. If she doesn't understand what they are talking about learn the language then you had time for it. Sumit just ruin this family by marrying jenny and his whole family disown him and he needs to stick up for jenny to when it comes to his family.
His parents paid a lot of money to get him out of his marriage. Did Jenny forget that. Disown your daughter cuz she gay is okay but not your son for being with a woman 30 years older under your roof and being married too. His parents have been through a lot for their culture. What jennyhas done is a lot worse than being gay, maybe she should think of that
Jenny is always selfish. He made so many sacrifices for her and she keeps on thinking about her, her and her only. He needs to leave. His mother is emotionally abusive and so is Jenny. Jenny has issue. She's giving bpd.
She has put up with so much for so long. I could never have her patience. She has just gotten to her breaking point, and she is utterly fed up. If you were constantly under the microscope being criticized and scrutinized without being able to really defend yourself and the one person who should be defending you isn't. You'd be pretty damb angry, too. I feel bad for sumit also, but i think he needs to have a little more empathy.
My prayers are for them both...Sumit and Jenny are going through so much. I hope the love that have for each other is strong enough to pull them through all the drama that they are both facing...especially Sumit.
I do not understand how he claims he CANNOT exist without his mother??? SHEESH! He is married and as the Bible states must cleave to his wife. (Yes, I know it is India).
You've answered your statement Sumit is not Christian and Indians/Hindus have their costumes and traditions. Jenny refuses to understand that and has stuck on like a leech. She should've left after knowing all that it took to maintain their relationship. Love doesn't always win. You marry a family as much as you marry your spouse.
@@sbello361 yes, in Indian cultur you merry with the family. Ofen sons lives with there parents with wife and childeren, grand parents. Can si combined families with combinned household. Very opposite in comparison to westren countrys. In the case of Jenny and Sumit are culture and language conflict. This marriage is doomed to be fail.
Tbh to sit somewhere, have fingers pointed at you and obv angry talk/argument mentioning your name, then the problem walki g out and your man running after them would make me so so so frustrated. Jenny isn't in the right to have a go at him, but I cannot imagine thinking clearly after such experience, those confrontations are maddening 😅😅😅
If Sumit cant get his parents approval even after 10 years it seems he is fighting a loosing battle and causing more stress and pain and ruining whatever little is left in the relationship on both sides
I think we also need to remember the context that happened before this scene. She didn’t want to even be in this situation because of how critical the mother insults her. Yet she agreed to go after Sumit pleaded for her to be with him to support him. Yet he also requests for her to not talk during the encounter so that the parents won’t attack her (which the mother does regardless). But before they met up with the parents, Jenny requested that Sumit doesn’t console the mother after everything goes crazy and leave Jenny all alone to process a conversation that she has yet to decipher. Jenny was present to support Sumit, yet Sumit wasn’t there to comfort Jenny when she is confused and out of the loop. He even said in the confessional that he needed to both do damage control with his mom and to comfort his wife who didn’t want to even be in that situation to begin with and was only there because he begged her to.
I think Jenny needs to get away from him she used to be so sweet and care free and now she's turning mean, their relationship has definitely done a number on her kind heart, and his as well, yes not a bad person either just to many issues will keep them separated
They knew how big their issues were to his parents before they got married they knew exactly what was gonna happen and got married anyway, he made a choice and knew the consequences of his actions he knew he a parents would never accept jenny but he chose to marry her anyway at that moment he should have chosen to not care what mommy thinks
Sumeet is a really nice guy. He’s being pulled from both ends and keeping his cool trying to appease both sides. He IS giving Jenny high priority. Also, Sumeet is the only guy I’ve seen on this show who doesn’t want a green card from an American woman. Whatever happens to them all, I wish them all well. ❤️
I felt extremely bad for him in this episode. He did make the ultimate sacrifice and was disowned by his family and she didn’t understand a lick of what was going on and she’s lived there for how many years? If she tried to learn any bit of the language in that time she probably could’ve understood a little bit of what was going on.
I am an Asian, and I have watched this show forever~I notice in Western culture, at least in the U.S. culture your spouse always comes first. "you need to stand up for your wife/husband against your other family members". Like what Libby does for Andrei. But in Asian culture, it's really not the case. I think it's a fundamental difference in our core values. And it's not fair just ask one side to go with your cultural 100%. You need to meet in between, where you can BOTH feel comfortable.
@Cate LEE is there ever something like a compromise where BOTH feel comfortable from an Asian parent's perspective? As you could see in the video, the Indian mum wasn't even ready to talk sense or get to some agreement where both feel comfortable. I think that's the issue with Asian culture, it's very absolute, either 100% or nothing. Either you take the family or your take your wife. No middle ground.
@@NeePscambaiting Personally, I don't feel it's either 100% or nothing in Taiwan. It does take more time and energy to communicate with your parents. However, Jenny's case is quite extreme. She is 30 years older than Sumit, not 5 or 10. She does not speak the language. India really is much more conservative compared to other Asian countries. Feels like Jenny went directly to face an Lv. 200 BOSS. I can only say good luck. It would be much easier for both of them if they just move to the U.S.
Jenny should get information first before going off! Not kind, loving or compassionate. That kind of fighting never brings two people closer. Honest conversation builds understanding.
OMG @ 6:54 it looks like she did a face plant! She should know some of their language by now. Bad situation.... They both knew before hand that their relationship had been forbidden by the parents although I think they tried to see thing's differently but I guess could not get past their ideology and loyalty with their cultural beliefs.
Sumit wants his cake and eat it too. He chose Jenny now he needs to accept the consequences period. If he will ignore nis mother's threats, maybe she will get over it. If not, that was his choice.
She’s the kind of mother who would Amish shun him on Tuesday, and by Thursday call him demanding to know why he hasn’t talked to her. He needs to stop running after her and validating her tantrums, and call her bluff. When you raise a kid using guilt, you get Sumit. A whimp who will still do whatever tf they want. And just be a total cowardly weenie about it.
Absolutely mean,controlling and manipulative. Right from the start the mother was trashing Jenny's arms. She complained about the birth of Sumit and that he was a problem his whole life. Who does that? That can't be an Indie culture
It was an intense conversation Sumit had with his Mother. No time for interpretation for Jenny. She has flown off in rages before. She should apologize for screaming at him while not comprehending how he chose her, first.
This guy is very patient and has a strong control on his emotions..
Jenny's reaction was on the abusive side. Not good at all. She should have a little more emotional intelligence and had been a support and comfort for the hardship her husband was going though. 😔
I honestly just don't like Jenny one bit
No one is really in the right here but I feel really awful for Sumit. Jenny should have taken the opportunity to discuss what had just happened. She's angry and lashing out without full knowledge on the situation. Yes, She's been treated unfairly and yes she deserves support. However, this is not a 1-sided thing. Sumit is also hurting and needs support as well. He just gave up his whole family for her.
Right?!!! It's like "read the room lady" clearly you can see what happened
I understand why she felt left out. Sumit should have stood up for Jenny when his parents were talking shit, but it's also not really fair of her to get the recap of what just happened. She's not wrong that she's been expected to just take the abuse or even to maybe think it's happened again, but ask him what happened first.
and she,her money and her nation,daughter etc..which is worse!!anyways that is her problem,,old cheeky lady that had to mess with snakes!!,cobras!
he is not in a foreigner country dude!!!! get more ##king intelligent! and sensible
odd that you did not say that with coltee moms!! racist pardo man!
After 10 years and deciding to live in India she should have taken time to at least learn some indie, then she wouldn’t feel left out all the time
There are thousands of languages in India and Indie or Indian isn’t one of them. She could shoot for Hindi but even then most Indians speak English.
Its not that easy to learn. I've been with my Indian husband for 15 years and I still dont know what he is saying to his family. There are many languages in India. Also, english is their 2nd language. English is taught in their schools.
💯 agree
Indie???? You mean Hindi? It's a rough language to learn. I learned only a few words in the 3 weeks I was there
@@Lucas_Antar just lived there for six months. Unfortunately it's not true that they all speak English. That's why I started to learn Hindi. I don't understand why she never did. She's not even working....
Seriously, Jenny wonders if things are ever gonna change?!?! They haven't changed in TEN YEARS!!?! Hlw in the world does she expect it to be different now
Jenny should just go back to the states. Nothing gone change.
There isn't a human being on this planet who could put up with as much as she already has ... with no end in sight?
It's been ten years!?
The heart wants what the heart wants ,Jenny should of rented an Airbnb instead of staying at his parents house...,,
I don't think his family will ever forgive her for her past actions,if you have been following their journey you know what I'm talking about,
The mom completely feels betrayed,Jenny has shamed their whole family,& Sumit played along with all the lies,
He's a big fat lier,
it's a unholy union
It's true ...
@@katmcdaniel6840 And if you have been following their journey you would know that Jenny did want to rent an Airbnb but Sumit insisted she be present for the big news. You're wrong about one thing else ... she's no liar but he is. Yes, a big fat liar (with an "a").
Sumit's mother is a case study on maternal narcissism. She's dramatic and emotionally manipulative towards her grown up son because she's afraid of her illusion of the perfect family will collapse in society since Sumit married an older lady (which is looked down upon in Indian society) and she's lost the man (her son) from whom she can gain the emotional fulfillment that her cardboard cutout-like husband can't provide her.
I don’t think 30 year age gap where the woman is older ,is acceptable in any culture!!!
@@irenetsomidis2167 You use the word "acceptable" as an emotional cul-de-sac. Life doesn't work that way.
@@irenetsomidis2167 That's a ridiculous thing to say.
“…that her *cardboard cutout-like husband* can’t provide her.” Ouch! 😓
I've on-hand counselled older women who will literally keep their sons from fulfilling their dreams, including migrating or getting a better job because the sons shower their mother with attention which they feel will dry up once their son is gone and they openly bitch about their husbands as being only those who want to lay with them and be served hand and foot and don't fulfill their emotional needs. India is a terrifying place for familial issues and generational curses.
I'm sorry but Jenny was out of control. What does she expect? She's almost 70 yrs old!!! In Sumits culture, marriage/ kids/ family is EVERYTHING! So in a way, she is incredibly selfish to even keep herself in that position. let the man go for Pete's sake! They can still love each other. I mean how much longer does she think she's got left on this planet? Let the man go. Let him have a life.
AGREEEEEEEDDDDDDDD 😂 She’s so ungrateful and she needs to date someone from a retirement home not the playground … Jenny is disgusting
Had jenny accepted her son or daughter marrying someone 30 years elder to them??
Agree!
Well that granny genny just needs a di*k to survive on this planet that's why she's ruining his life😂
Jenny who usually behaves quite well has gone insane at the worst possible time. Sumit is hurting and stunned after being disowned by his family. He needs support from Jenny most but she lashed out like a crazy woman and said she needed to ve comforted. He has just lost his entire family because of her. My heart goes out to Sumit.
I DONT MEAN TO SOUND MEAN BUT WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION TO HER? CAN SOMEONE PLEASE PLEASE TEL ME SHE HAS AN ANGER MANAGEMENT PROBLEM. OLD, NOT FROM HIS CULTURE, CANT HAVE KIDS, HAS NO MONEY AND IS NOT ATTRACTIVE. THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY. WHAT DOES HE SEE IN HER. OH MY LORD.
She makes it all about her.
@@dianajames4717 I agree. I'm older than she is and I find her very unattractive. Not all of us are blessed with good genes but do something with that nasty hair.
@@dianajames4717 you wouldn’t ask these questions if she was a mxn. This makes more sense than old mxn with girls. You really don’t understand the need most mxn have to feel close to someone. No Indian woman that he’s going to meet is going make him feel as comfortable as Jenny does.
@@TikiTorcher i would still ask the question if the roles were reversed. Yes i would. He must be hexed or something like that. What is the attraction? I just don't get it. A thirty year difference is ridiculous. Remember the one episode when they went out to dinner and the people at the next table were staring and laughing. Hun that's what happens when you date someone thirty years older. That will happen no matter what country they live in. They will always be made to feel uncomfortable. Is it really worth it and to lose your family on top of that? NOPE
NOT WORTH IT TO ME.
Poor Summit. Yeah it wouldn't hurt her to learn his language. If she knew the context this would have been totally different. Summit is the one who needs support
needs support? go to the usa!! follows his wife,or F o!! to his family! this old lady ,need make a stand and tell him that!
Unpopular opinion (don’t come at me): i haven’t really followed their story but I think it’s selfish of Jenny to only think about her and her emotions especially after Summit literally just lost his entire family BECAUSE OF HER.
I don’t think it’s an unpopular opinion, I think a lot of people agree with what you said. The way she was yelling at him was completely uncalled for
@@MamiTT237 I watched another video before this one were most people in the comments were on her side I guess it had a different pov from this one
Not coming for you… he is a grown man. He knew this was coming and he made his choice.The mother should have never had kids if this is the way she behaves with her kids.
@@sepohope9369 There must be some type of algorithm that pointed toward young or naive people! Sumit has done all he can… and the way she was talking to him irritated me so much! And ALMOST made me want to side with the family. Jenny is SO ungrateful! She hasn’t learned the culture, she hasn’t learned the language, she hasn’t learned how to cook like them! I doubt she has ever made a dish for his family! I felt sorry for her before but not anymore
@@armelleantoine30 You obviously have no respect for other cultures, and I assume you are American. Ok.. so understand, I TOO, am American! But I understand that people have a different way of life! I have friends and other ex husbands whom are from different countries and you don’t go to another person’s Country and act like you own the customs there! Jenny is a GUEST in their community, their culture, and their Country! She ruined his life by being a mistress for a decade AND then doesn’t have enough respect to learn the language, the cuisine nor the ideals! If she REALLY loved him, she would try to make the best of the situation but all she does is complain and this man is in the middle! She should have comforted him instead of yelling.
There’s something wrong with Jenni. Those physical outbursts she has should have really been dealt with a long time ago. I remember many seasons back where her daughter was talking about how Jenni disowned her and stopped talking to her once she revealed her sexuality to Jenni. Can y’all just imagine how those convos went down?
Jenny is a cow
It’s so hard to go against your family, especially parents, in cultures like those. He already married her against their wishes and was literally disowned- he should have been the one being comforted. I understand it’s hard for her with not being able to know what they are saying but she had a pretty good idea of what could happen and could have chosen to set aside her insecurities for later and check up on her husbands mental state first. I see her side too but in this particular situation I think she was wrong.
Absolutely agree with you Luna
Totally 👍 agree
This grown woman was way out of line...
Yessssssssss I'm not Indian but this isn't uncommon. He pissed lots of ppl off. Not good if he has a business in India
💯 agree
💯 agree
Why Tf does she come up ragging like that and pushes Sumit like that? So atrocious to look at . It’s so weird to look at the way a 60 year old grandma be so aggressive physically lol . People tend to get cooler as they age but she just seems to be getting only angrier lol . That’s a lot of stress Jenny. If it was meant to be your marriage wouldn’t be so difficult with so much stress . Love is blind they say but doesn’t mean you will even marry an animal . (Not saying Jenny’s an animal ). And also it’s never a good idea to marry someone 30 years older than you lol especially when you have a child almost as the same age . Just bizarre over all .
I've seen in many scenarios, foreign girls demand love from their husbands, Indian girls are way better than foreign girls, not all indian girls but most are.
Jenny told him multiple times to leave her alone and he refused. He grabbed her that’s why she pushed him. Idc if it looks abusive or not, she gave him multiple warnings and he didn't listen, she's well within her right to get him out of her personal space by any means.
Ofcourse Jenny is an animal. She's a b***h🤣
This is a common theme in Indian households. My husband and I had to elope because we had different castes. We both are highly educated, owned a home a car and held high positions in a bank and still his parents refused to accept me. Later they came around and now all of us live in harmony. But with Indian parents, they would rather disown their own child and hurt them than let them be with the person they disapprove of. Indian parents think they own their kids because they gave birth to them. My husband and I have experienced it all our lives.
Sad story and I really feel it cuz I'm almost in a similar situation as a foreigner being in love with an Indian girl. I have a question to you though: parents were young as well before right? Your parents also must have loved someone and their parents maybe disapproved. Don't they understand your situation based on their feelings from their own, old experiences? And more importantly, will you act differently when you have children or will you also be some angry auntie disowning your children? I have the feeling like every Indian is complaining but in the end, this bad cultural behavior gets passed on from generation to generation and nothing ever changes.
I dealt with this too but with Vietnamese in-laws. They didn’t accept me because of many reason because I’m not Vietnamese. They owned a nail salon and I worked for them as a nail tech and the first year was hard because she would make remarks like “a daughter in law needs to learn to cook and clean” etc and they barely accepted me about 3 years ago when she saw my work ethic and how clients loved me. We’ve been together for 11 years and I’ve never felt accepted even now, because they have high expectations
@@NeePscambaiting both sets of our parents had arranged marriages. But still my side of the family is more liberal (i mean not liberal in its real sense but they can at least be reasones with) but my mother inlaw had not even see my father in law before her wedding night. So you get the point. It is all about keeping up appearances for them. Although I feel its is also because they were afraid of being excommunicated from their own community (and its not uncommon here) . I have a daughter and honestly, i am raising her to be her own woman and more importantly giving her control over her own life which I never had growing up. She can date/marry whomever she chooses when she comes of age. As long as she is happy and is an adult capable of making sound decisions, I will always support her and the man/woman she chooses
@@evelyngrace9954 that is quite sad. Can’t imagine the toll it must be taking on your mental health and self esteem. How is your husband ? I mean I hope he is quite supportive of you.
What a terrible burden to carry! Marriage is difficult enough, let alone having such lack of support from your own family!! Better to move far away from family then!!😅
Jenny, you still do NOT understand Sumit's language? How many years were you there? Come on Jenny, I picked up Japanese in eight months and I am living in NYC. I was not immersed in the culture.
Right?! Im in Florida and picked up 800 words of French using Duolingo for 10 mins a day for about a month. She could use an app and has nothing but time on her hands as shes old and "retired"(shes broke yall)
Sumit Mother said looked at Jenny's hands ✋️ how it big lol
Moti Moti
I am learning anybody language as I go 🚶♂️ along?
Jenny's not making an effort to try and learn?
But she knows the language to sex hehe
I think Summit needs to be more straight forward and clear with Jenny and she doesn't need to behave that way
The problem is here, he chooses a wife with the same characteristics like his mother has. He's father on the other side, seems to be much more soft hearted and nice, like his son. This agressiv behavior from his wife, when she is upset about something, its not normal. Even she seems to go physicall when she jelling on her husband. In this situation she had to comfort her husband, not to jell at him and being Jealous . He even lost his mother, family for her, because her! So she has to be by her husband now, try to make him feel better. No, she is jelling at him because of her jealousnes. Like a child, but not like a adult grown woman. Poor husband. Im feel for him.
I was wondering if anyone else picked up on how Sumit is in a romantic relationship with a woman that shares the same characteristics as his mother.
I think Jenny is completely missing the whole picture. Sometimes you have to see things through your partner's eyes. Summit loves Jenny. He has proven it time and time again. He also loves his family and though I personally would have stopped trying to convince them, Summit is not ready to. Jenny needs to understand that. They are very important to him as well. Summit's mom is so out of line in the way he talks about Jenny however and there I do think Summit should stand up for Jenny more. She understands nothing and that can not be easy for her.
I feel for Sumit mother 😂😂 I be angry to if my son marry Jenny 😂😂
Me too. And I think Jenny too would be angry if her kids would marry someone 30 years elder to them
Well, now it's time to be a big boy. Married in his 30's and cleaving to your wife. Supporting each other and forgetting about everyone else. Jenny is just boiling over from the decade of anxiety around this rediculous relationship. Nothing blew up. He knew exactly what was going to happen. No surprises here. Jenny finally has her husband to herself. Stop carrying on and start unselfishly loving him through this. This is NOT actually about you honey
Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, is this an acting gig so you can stay on tv and get paid? She’s been there for several years and still doesn’t know the language? Very suspicious to me. They both don’t work so TLC is their only income. If by chance it’s all true she deserves anything she’s subject to, she should have stayed in the US when she went back the last time.
AGREED.
Absolutely agree
Little bit staged
Amen!!!
Amen.
Jenny brought this all on herself, 10 years ago she stayed with his parents pretending to be his moms friend while sneaking behind her back and sleeping with her son. Jenny lied to his family. She knew from the beginning she would not be accepted but kept pursuing him even after learning he was married. Jenny is a manipulator we saw that in this episode, Sumitt needed consoling but Jenny throws a big fit and gets the attention for herself. He will regret his choice one day, she is too old his family will not accept her nor will his culture. I don’t feel sorry for her she made this bed, she keeps saying she wants to be more of a priority
but this man has turned his back on his parents and culture for her what the hel_ does she want? Oh wait I can answer that: she wants Sumitt to have no contact with his family, friends or anyone but her she wants him to agree with her about everything she says, she wants him to baby her constantly. Many times people said she needed a guy closer to her age, that wouldn’t work with her she couldn’t control someone that had more life experiences and a will of their own, she herself smugly told she took Sumitt’s virginity to the world. I hope he doesn’t give up and still keeps in contact with his parents one day they may need him and he may also need them. Jenny is very selfish, if you love someone and saw the pain you were causing them and their family years ago before this went any further she would have left him alone. She is also taking away his chance at children, she certainly can’t give them to him.
I agree with everything you said. But wait,sumitt was a virgin?
Wasn't he married for a few years?
This whole thing is weird and creepy.
I mean if you could of changed their diapers,don't sleep with them. Ewww🤮🤮🤮
@@kathybittle7385 yes he was married for a few years, but Jenny went to India 10 or 11 years ago under the pretense of a friend. Jenny stayed with Sumitt in his parents house. Jenny and Sumitt’s mother became friends, behind her back Jenny was sneaking off in the night and sleeping with Sumitt, at this time he was a virgin, he wasn’t married. Sumitt’s mom found out and that is where the bad blood between them began. I don’t blame his mom she was staying in their home acting like she was there as a friend that Sumitt met on line and came to see the country. Jenny knew from the beginning this would not be an acceptable relationship in his culture. She left and came back to the US, some point after this Sumitt got married but didn’t tell Jenny. She knew his parents would not accept her nor his culture but still pursued him. He knew his parents feelings and his culture and knew he had a wife so he is scum too. Jenny went back to India and Sumitt stayed with her sometimes and didn’t at other times. I think it was Sumitt’s father in law that showed up at the place Jenny was staying and Sumitt was there at the time that is when she found out about him being married. Sumitt left with his father in law. Jenny returned to the US but still kept in contact with him, he got a divorce. Both are to blame but Jenny I think more so she is older and knew she had lied to his parents and how they felt she knew he was married on her second trip. Sumitt is no prize and I wouldn’t trust him any further than I could throw an elephant, but Jenny knew he had lied and hidden his marriage. From what we saw last week she also manipulates him with her crying and throwing fits. At this point they also want TLC’s check because I doubt Jenny draws much from Social Security, in fact probably very little because she would be penalized for drawing early due to her age. She is 63 in order for her to draw her full SS amount she would have needed to wait until she was 66.
Sorry for the book but maybe this explains it better.
@@danasandoval624 Yuk! That's even more creepy.
I don't think that age gap should be accepted any where. Not just bad for Sumit, also bad for Jenny.
What is she thinking?????
They look ridiculous together.
I don't care what your culture is, I wouldn't want my son or mother in a relationship with that big of an age gap.
What could you possibly have in common? The stress for an older woman with a much younger man would be awful.
I wish them all the best,but I can't imagine how it could end well.
@@kathybittle7385 I agree in the end it won’t end well. Jenny wants him in her sights 24/7 (probably doesn’t trust him) and not trying to be mean but Jenny has aged fast over the last few seasons. Her life is constantly in an uproar and she worries all the time he is going to leave her, I can’t imagine living like that. 10 years ago when this started Jenny could have found a decent man here and had a happy life but instead she thought a very good looking guy 30 years her junior was interested in her, I am talking about the pictures Sumitt used to catfish her with. 99.9% of the time if someone that is very much out of your league pays attention to you it’s for their personal gain and this is a big red flag. But lucky Jenny ended up with the catch of Sumitt and 10 years later her life is still a mess and has been since day one talking to him. Really it’s a sad situation.
Amen. When one person, place, or thing becomes PART OF DA PROBLEM, instead of da Solution, it's time to make some serious changes.
Jenny was being manipulative, Summit was being told to not attend his parents funeral, that moment was not about her. She was completely overreacting.
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I would have left Jenny if I was Sumit. I have to put up with this from my parents/family and now my wife? I would just alienate myself from everyone.
She was never right for him
Jenny is two old for him!! Tbis is a different culture things are different . She is old enough to know this. She is childish screaming at summit like a mad women. Go back to America let him find a woman his age . Let her go sumit!!!!
Sumit is a great example of why we should sometimes ghost someone. From the very beginning he said he was someone else, with a different life and a different pic. Nothing but chaos and dishonesty and frustration for Jenny from the very beginning.
Jenny chose to stay with him. Maybe not a good choice.
But seriously? Did you SEE the picture of the guy he said he was? Did she honestly think a guy like that would be interested in her? Come on...
@@deniselange7363 But she should still have ghosted Sumit.
Right, he shouldn't have Catfished her, now he's stuck with her.
I was thinking that too..he's been lying from the beginning
I hate how Sumit allows his whole family to pick on Jenny. She doesn't deserve that! I wish dhe would just come back to the US
It's cultural, it's normal when a child disobey the parents wishes, sure Jenny is a nice person, was once in a Jenny's shoes, his family and friends gave me a headache, not Worth the drama, loving someone is to set them Free, Jenny should do the same simply walk away, waste of Time and life. Blessings have a wonderful evening. 🇨🇦.
@@s.avelar.7979 how is flying off the handle without first knowing what was said, is nice. She seems like a very unreasonable person.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 she'Acts like a baby regardless of her age... communication is everything in a relationship, something they don't have. Better her than I no partner is worthy of a headache 😂.. blessings 🙏 have a good evening.
Jenny lived with his family as a “friend” when they met, she went behind his mothers back all the while acting like Sumitt’s moms friend, she lied she slept sneakily behind her back with her son. Their culture, even ours when it’s 30 years is an awfully big age difference but in India a big no no. Then she preceded to manipulate Sumitt by yelling and throwing a fit.
@@danasandoval624, thank you for the reminder and I agree.👍As an American, I could never accept her either, after behaving in a disgusting manner. She plotted, schemed and lie to his mother. Summit is a con artist, he’s with Jenny for her social security checks and TLC, he doesn’t want to work. He knew about his culture before catfishing Jenny, he’s also a liar.
He just got abandoned by his family and she’s the one screaming instead of trying to understand what just happened
If she really loved him, she would leave him and give him back his life and future.
They were both wrong at this moment. She should have asked him what had been said when he walked in and/ or he should have explained to her what just happened on entering the house. Then all the shouting could have been avoided.
She should learn the language since she is there 10 years and planning stay there.
He was going to but she said to leave it alone
Then went off like an insane woman
Totally wrong
@@wendyann3333 agree 💯
He tried to tell her as soon as he walked in from saying goodbye to his family she basically told him to shut up.
@@wendyann3333 He could have told her he was going to say goodbye to his family. I guess in her mind he was saying goodbye to her just leaving like that without a word.
Summit is bad for leading Jenny on, but she is even worse…
Desperate granny forced all of this when she knew Summit’s family will never accept her 100%!!
His mom's emotional manipulation is standard for all Asian moms. My mom has been dying for 40 years.
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She is Indian not asian
@@dawnmiller6899 Indians are considered asian too they mark the same box. India is on the Asian continent
Mexico is on the same continent as USA and Canada but they are Mexican. Indian culture is different than Asian.
Not all asian moms behave like they own their kidd. I am in my 60's and love my son in- Law as my son.
He is French.
Its about a high EQ. They are adults let they be
Jenny acts like a child. If you're not comfortable get a translator like everyone else. Just sitting there thinking the worse is on her. This isn't the first time this has happened. Fed up
There has to be some deep rooted psychological issues for a man in his early 30s to want to marry a 67 year old woman.
You’d think he has mommy issues but he’s lived with and been with his mom forever.
This is very creepy and disturbing
I think Jenny is WAAAAAY too aggressive
They both have the emotional maturity of teenagers.
Well spoken.
I feel sorry for him!! Jenny is insane and his mother is selfish.
Jenny was not good to her own daughter when her daughter had told her she was gay. I can not stand Jenny's selfish attitude - in my opinion, Jenny cares only about how she wants to be treated yet does not care how she treats others.
They all dress so regal, have beautiful gestures of respect, then have the emotional intelligence of a ferrral cat 😆🙀🧶
Jennie has been with Sumit long enough now for her to have at least a basic understanding of his language. For crying out loud she lives in his country, it is only right she learn the language.
This is so stupid. Sumit should either break up with Jenny and move back into his mother's womb or ditch his selfish mother who only thinks about what others will say. That "cultural" insanity is draining for everybody and has no place in the world 2022.
Indians are loyal to a fault, some Indians, to their culture. Sumit said it, being disowned by his mother means that he is also being disowned by India, his culture. Jenny believes that she should have Sumits total loyalty because they are married. Then both require an excellent counselor to explain their preconceived believes ARN'T REALITY, BUT A TRAP.
Who could have possibly guessed that an older woman who pushed to marry a younger man would lack emotional intelligence? That's not to say that jenny forced sumit to marry her, because he led her on for so long while trying to choose between her and his family, but I feel as though a lot of older people who pursue younger people are often either predatory or immature themselves. Even if jenny couldn't understand what was being said I feel as though the context clues of tone and actions could have been enough to clue her in that things had gone wrong, and it isn't always about her.
Edit: meant to say "people"
When it comes to women that is 100% true... men could have good and or bad reasons. Her emotional intelligence matches a 30yr old manchild.
I agree, Jenny is very predatory.
As a mom myself, I understand the mother's dilemma. She graciously allowed Jenny to stay in her home and how does she repay her? By seducing her son. They have said in other interviews that she's the dominant one in bed. (Which is nausea inducing) for us to hear, I imagine his mom is very hurt by all this nonsense.
Exactly. I saw a clip last night when Jenny talked about being on the 3rd floor of Sumit's parents house and how he would come up and they would "do their thing" and the parents were none the wiser. The visual on that was gross. She's just nasty in every way.
She doesn't know what the mom is saying right now? Well she's saying how fat your arms are.
Summit is very emotionally intelligent i really admire his composure whenever shit hits the fan and still trying to calm Jenny down after what his mom said to him.
Sumit is one of the calmest most humble men and peacemaker I’ve ever seen! Holy cow!
Jenny and Sumit first met online 10 years ago. Since then a few things about Sumit have been consistent. First of all he loves Jenny. Secondly he loves his mother more. Thirdly he constantly lies. On Jenny’s side, she loves Sumit (in spite of the above issues) and she will be with him whenever possible. It’s a very unusual relationship however I think this is how they’ll continue until Jenny gets too old to travel between the US and India.
Why would Jenny have to travel when she is married to Sumit?
@@irene_f. That seems to be how it has been working for 10 years. Jenny shows up in India. Then Sumit's mother disowns him. Sumit promises that he will break up with Jenny. Jenny returns to the US. Sumit's mother forgives him. After a year or two Jenny comes back. The cycle repeats itself.
What a selfish manipulating mother.The couple was happy before this visit.He needs to realize it is not the end of the world because his mother does not approve.
Even if you leave mom out of the equation, she is too old for him. They will never have children. That’s probably what makes his mom so angry.
It's his family regardless. He doesn't prioritize his family above her, in the end, he married her. He just wants the thing most of us want, the family accepting our happiness, regardless of the choices we made.
Poor Summit never even had a chance! Jenny is being selfish and jumping to conclusions. It's not always just about you, Jenny. There's others involved here with more important devastating things that are happening. I mean, his parents just disowned him, good grief!!!
Jenny should have just left India the moment she found out Sumit was married. Just look at all the problems this relationship caused. There isn't enough love in the world to stay with a man that scammed you and got married to someone else.
Last season summit parents said that you can get married but we won't attend
I believe summits parents agreed because his Mom thought summit won't do it because without the parents blessing especially the Mom he will be disowned.
And he knows that and especially the Mom never expected summit would marry Jenny.
Yes the mother did say that. Last night she denied it all. Poor Jenny his mother says terrible things to Jenny.
Jenny's reaction is not an overreaction, it's hysteria, and she needs therapy for anger management. No situation in life merits such an outburst, it's outright dangerous and it puts into jeopardy both of these two people, I was afraid Jenny will get a stroke.
I think her reaction was human and unless you have been in her situation you cant judge her. She's alone and the one person she has doesn't listen to her. There was no way this was going to go any way but badly. I can't imagine how she felt at that moment. I've seen people lose their s**t over way less. You should look up the origins of the word hysterical. Not the best word to use to describe a woman in distress.
@@staceywalker8699 I am a seventy year old woman who has quite a long life experience. How do you know that I was not in Jenny's shoes once or twice in my life, and, as many women of my age, hundreds and hundreds of encounters with people in various kinds of situations. Behaviour such as Jenny's, in direct face to face confrontation with Sumit, is not normal, is outright putting in physical peril both of them, and as such should not be given a credit on account of Jenny's marital problem.
@@staceywalker8699 Because you are teaching me the meaning of the word hysteria that I used to describe Jenny's outburst toward Sumit, I will send you to type the words hysteria meaning and you will find the first description of it : "exaggerated or uncontrollable emotion or excitement". So, before you send someone to the dictionary, it's better that you make sure about the meanings of words.
@@blackpearl8574 I asked if you knew the origins of the word hysteria not its dictionary meaning. What has being 70 got to do with anything?
@@blackpearl8574 when someone asks you what being 70 has to do with it you know automatically they are much younger, your age and mine (65) gives us experience and knowledge that you don’t have until you are older.
Wow she is one abusive woman wen she's mad. Submit shud run. When anyone male or female react like this, it's time to run. She didn't even wait to find out what was said, jus flew off the handle. What a horrible person
Agree. She is very aggressive, unpredictabel and meen old women when she did not get the things in her own way. Parents have not forget that she was having sex with there son in there home. She stay many months at there home for free and they treat her vel. she tok he advantage of there love and hospitality. She deceived dem in the worst way. They don't like her at all because her cheating.
Agree
Agree
What sane woman acts like this.
Clearly Summit has real mommy
issues. He also seems to have low self esteem. The fact that this woman has lied and manipulated
him for ten years is nauseating. We often hear of older men grooming much younger females but what about older women
grooming much younger men.
I have two sons and I wonder how I would feel if they came under
the gripes of a lustful older woman, especially if this was someone who posed as a friend.
Remember when a Summit turns
50 she will be 80. Believe me there is only one way this will end and it
won’t be pretty. She will be screaming
at him to bring her cane and change her diapers. I really feel for Summit. He really needs to get away from she and his family and go somewhere and get help.
@@jacquelinehumber6430 yeah she kept bugging him to marry her.
If she truly loved him, (love knows no boundaries) she wud enjoy her time wif him n then let him get on with his life. She oredi had children, he hasn't she is depriving him of that part of living by insisting he marry her.
I empathise with his mother's feeling.
You only have 1 mother, wives can be many. Well she is wife #2, lol
They both shouldn't have to go through this. When it comes right down to it, they were happy before his parents came back into the picture. His mom needs to put herself aside and put her son first. Would I be upset if I were summit's mom? Yes. Would I approve? No. Would I disown my child? Never. I would bite my tongue, and be happy because this is what my son wants. The mother is selfish. That is so wrong. She has a grandchild from the other son. So that shouldn't be an issue. Jenny is also very nice to his family. With everything the parents have done and said, that's a charity. Jenny is good natured. I feel bad for Jenny and Summit. Mom and dad should accept Jenny. I would.
Indian culture is different.
Jenny was sleeping with Sumit while staying in his mother's home. She was sneaking around with him while Sumits mom thought they were good friends. Jenny is the opposite of good natured. She knew he was married to.
Someone showed Jenny kabhi khushi kabhie gham and she took it a little too seriously 😂
He should have a worried about his wife first then his mother. He just left Jen sitting alone and as usual chased his mom. He will never understand what Jenny needs. I don’t see them working out.
This man is such a soft hearted man😘very ,very rare.
Sumit is a nice person, a good son, and good husband. His mother is crazy and manipulator, his father has no pants and no say. Jenny should wait until everything is translated and she overreacts. Bring him to America and the problems is solved.
You don't know the previous part. He was catfishing Jenny sending a male model photo. Summit parents kept Jenny in their house for months. Summit parents paid for divorce settlement for Summit. Summit was sleeping with Jenny while he was married. If Summit mothers is mad at this, she has right to do so. No pants father paid lots of money for his various occasions. Anything else you need to know?
Watch out old lady, stop screaming like that, at that age you might get a heart attack. That’s what happened when you married a young man and a different culture.
These people are so afraid of this controlling, narcissist mom. It makes we wonder why. Her fits must be really awful. Summit is better off without his mother. She is a very cruel person. She is full of hate and meanness. This mother doesn’t care for her children’s happiness. She only cares about her own.
Sumit is a gutless wonder. I can't imagine how he ever got the nerve to marry Jenny in the first place. His sick/PSYCHO attachment to his mother is nauseating to see, and I can't, for the life of me, see what Jenny ever saw in this man-baby.
I'm still trying to understand if summit and Jenny are a real story
They are, she knew the dude for like 10 years, there's a lot of evidence to their relationship being legit, that or they're all decent actors lol
Me too.
She reacted that way for the show. It was unreasonable with the fact that she did not even know he had just been disowned. She should be comforting Summit. He gave up his whole life for her. She was just acting for the cameras and it was frustrating.
When you try to make everyone happy, you usually end up pissing everyone off so no one is happy.
Jenny has finally cracked 😂
Jenny needs to get anger management classes because she just blow up for no reason. If she doesn't understand what they are talking about learn the language then you had time for it. Sumit just ruin this family by marrying jenny and his whole family disown him and he needs to stick up for jenny to when it comes to his family.
His parents paid a lot of money to get him out of his marriage. Did Jenny forget that. Disown your daughter cuz she gay is okay but not your son for being with a woman 30 years older under your roof and being married too. His parents have been through a lot for their culture. What jennyhas done is a lot worse than being gay, maybe she should think of that
Jenny is always selfish. He made so many sacrifices for her and she keeps on thinking about her, her and her only. He needs to leave. His mother is emotionally abusive and so is Jenny. Jenny has issue. She's giving bpd.
Jenny has gone through a lot . The sister in law laughing at Jenny is just vile
They all act like 3rd graders. It's mystifying to watch lol.. oy.
She has put up with so much for so long. I could never have her patience. She has just gotten to her breaking point, and she is utterly fed up. If you were constantly under the microscope being criticized and scrutinized without being able to really defend yourself and the one person who should be defending you isn't. You'd be pretty damb angry, too. I feel bad for sumit also, but i think he needs to have a little more empathy.
My prayers are for them both...Sumit and Jenny are going through so much. I hope the love that have for each other is strong enough to pull them through all the drama that they are both facing...especially Sumit.
I do not understand how he claims he CANNOT exist without his mother??? SHEESH! He is married and as the Bible states must cleave to his wife. (Yes, I know it is India).
You've answered your statement Sumit is not Christian and Indians/Hindus have their costumes and traditions. Jenny refuses to understand that and has stuck on like a leech. She should've left after knowing all that it took to maintain their relationship. Love doesn't always win. You marry a family as much as you marry your spouse.
@@sbello361 yes, in Indian cultur you merry with the family. Ofen sons lives with there parents with wife and childeren, grand parents. Can si combined families with combinned household. Very opposite in comparison to westren countrys. In the case of Jenny and Sumit are culture and language conflict. This marriage is doomed to be fail.
@@sbello361 It is usually like that around the world. You marry into the family.
That young man created this whole situation . He must have know how his family would feel. He s the ine who made all that happen
Is it just me that Sumit looks like the Indian version of Tobey Maguire with the longer hair.
sumit fell for a nightmare!
Serves him right. I bet he just wanted a white lady in his life. Indian men are obsessed with white women lol.
She's made zero attempt to learn her husbands language and has made it all about her.
I feel bad for Summit here BUT that man SAT THERE while his mother insulted Jenny (in a language that Jenny doesn’t understand) and he said NOTHING!
30 years is a huuuuuge age gap, on either end
Tbh to sit somewhere, have fingers pointed at you and obv angry talk/argument mentioning your name, then the problem walki g out and your man running after them would make me so so so frustrated. Jenny isn't in the right to have a go at him, but I cannot imagine thinking clearly after such experience, those confrontations are maddening 😅😅😅
If Sumit cant get his parents approval even after 10 years it seems he is fighting a loosing battle and causing more stress and pain and ruining whatever little is left in the relationship on both sides
They have fought really hard for this relationship. I hope they make it through.
I think we also need to remember the context that happened before this scene. She didn’t want to even be in this situation because of how critical the mother insults her. Yet she agreed to go after Sumit pleaded for her to be with him to support him. Yet he also requests for her to not talk during the encounter so that the parents won’t attack her (which the mother does regardless). But before they met up with the parents, Jenny requested that Sumit doesn’t console the mother after everything goes crazy and leave Jenny all alone to process a conversation that she has yet to decipher. Jenny was present to support Sumit, yet Sumit wasn’t there to comfort Jenny when she is confused and out of the loop. He even said in the confessional that he needed to both do damage control with his mom and to comfort his wife who didn’t want to even be in that situation to begin with and was only there because he begged her to.
I think Jenny needs to get away from him she used to be so sweet and care free and now she's turning mean, their relationship has definitely done a number on her kind heart, and his as well, yes not a bad person either just to many issues will keep them separated
They knew how big their issues were to his parents before they got married they knew exactly what was gonna happen and got married anyway, he made a choice and knew the consequences of his actions he knew he a parents would never accept jenny but he chose to marry her anyway at that moment he should have chosen to not care what mommy thinks
She was never sweet- she has a dark side!
@@irenetsomidis2167 True! In my opinion, Jenny is nasty and manipulative.
Sumeet is a really nice guy. He’s being pulled from both ends and keeping his cool trying to appease both sides. He IS giving Jenny high priority. Also, Sumeet is the only guy I’ve seen on this show who doesn’t want a green card from an American woman. Whatever happens to them all, I wish them all well. ❤️
I felt extremely bad for him in this episode. He did make the ultimate sacrifice and was disowned by his family and she didn’t understand a lick of what was going on and she’s lived there for how many years? If she tried to learn any bit of the language in that time she probably could’ve understood a little bit of what was going on.
Wow wow wow! Why so much drama Summit? I am speechless
why Jennie always have to look like she go to loc up on summit?!?! not cool jenny! "I need to be comforted too'" narcissistic much? 🧐
Jenny need to stop with all the yelling she's too old and might have a stroke
I am an Asian, and I have watched this show forever~I notice in Western culture, at least in the U.S. culture your spouse always comes first. "you need to stand up for your wife/husband against your other family members". Like what Libby does for Andrei. But in Asian culture, it's really not the case. I think it's a fundamental difference in our core values. And it's not fair just ask one side to go with your cultural 100%. You need to meet in between, where you can BOTH feel comfortable.
@Cate LEE is there ever something like a compromise where BOTH feel comfortable from an Asian parent's perspective? As you could see in the video, the Indian mum wasn't even ready to talk sense or get to some agreement where both feel comfortable. I think that's the issue with Asian culture, it's very absolute, either 100% or nothing. Either you take the family or your take your wife. No middle ground.
@@NeePscambaiting Personally, I don't feel it's either 100% or nothing in Taiwan. It does take more time and energy to communicate with your parents. However, Jenny's case is quite extreme. She is 30 years older than Sumit, not 5 or 10. She does not speak the language. India really is much more conservative compared to other Asian countries. Feels like Jenny went directly to face an Lv. 200 BOSS. I can only say good luck. It would be much easier for both of them if they just move to the U.S.
Jenny should get information first before going off! Not kind, loving or compassionate. That kind of fighting never brings two people closer. Honest conversation builds understanding.
Jenny has anger issues. Summit has been disowned. Jenny is a manipulator.
OMG @ 6:54 it looks like she did a face plant! She should know some of their language by now. Bad situation.... They both knew before hand that their relationship had been forbidden by the parents although I think they tried to see thing's differently but I guess could not get past their ideology and loyalty with their cultural beliefs.
Sumit wants his cake and eat it too. He chose Jenny now he needs to accept the consequences period. If he will ignore nis mother's threats, maybe she will get over it. If not, that was his choice.
She’s the kind of mother who would Amish shun him on Tuesday, and by Thursday call him demanding to know why he hasn’t talked to her. He needs to stop running after her and validating her tantrums, and call her bluff.
When you raise a kid using guilt, you get Sumit. A whimp who will still do whatever tf they want. And just be a total cowardly weenie about it.
Poor Sumit my butt.🤣
That mother is a nasty piece of work! Poor Jenny
Absolutely mean,controlling and manipulative. Right from the start the mother was trashing Jenny's arms. She complained about the birth of Sumit and that he was a problem his whole life. Who does that? That can't be an Indie culture
Ah thats shameful jenny...its embarrassing
Should have learned his culture before starting a relationship with him.
It was an intense conversation Sumit had with his Mother. No time for interpretation for Jenny. She has flown off in rages before. She should apologize for screaming at him while not comprehending how he chose her, first.
I don’t know what he sees in this woman Jenny🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
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A white pusi!😂