It's unrealistic for Sumit to never work again. Using her social security is okay for a while, I guess, but the chances are very high that he will outlive her. Then what?
Does Jenny care about that? If she truly loves Sumit the she should be thinking about his future and happiness. Marriage is not a one way street. She seems un willing to try. Jenny make Sumit happy and learn the "Kama Sutra". Enjoy each other. He is thinking of you!
No most if you all r wrong? If Sumit wants he could said to Jenny I cannot be with u. Your age is one. I am still young I can marry a young person and have kids.
I agree he's too young and he should have a home for when he is too old to work it should be paid for if he had a home. They don't and she's gonna die bf him probably.
It's good he wants to work. I think he is realizing that when the time comes when Jenny passes, he will have to have something to keep him going and to help him take care of his parents
Yeah but its obvious he wants to get away from her, hes young and wants excitement and adventure while she just wanna rest with him all the time, look at his facial expressions and he even said that him self
I don't think either of them have accepted that this won't end well. They're a whole lifetime apart. She would have to work and be productive to get on his level and he would have to retire and slow down to be on hers. I know opposites attract but I think they're so different that they're too different this will eventually fall apart.
as an indian guy, you are supposed to work till you retire. Maybe he is bored of Jenny too but every indian guy is supposed to work or do something rather than sitting at home with your wife.
LISTEN HOTEL OR MOTEL WORKER OR RECEPTION PLEASE CAN'T YO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS DON'T LOOK WHO IS OLD OR WHO YOUNG IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS MABY YOUR PARENTS IS STILL LOOKING FOR A WIFE FOR YOU TO MARRY BECAUSE THAT ARE INDIAN TRADITION IAM HAPPY THAT IAM NOT ONE OF THEM
I didn't realize Sumit was only 33 years old! My son is that age and I'm a liberal person but if he married a woman in her 60's I would have a nervous breakdown! At least Sumit will have a whole life ahead of him when Jenny dies
@@candicandler2512 yep. I only put the pieces together I think after their second season on the show. Him using a very western name like Michael Jones is what scammers at call centers do.
@@maryfeehan7896 yep. Their entire relationship was started on a lie and the lies continued throughout. That’s why I’m shocked Jenny actually stuck around because he’s lied about so much
@@briandelaney9710No, his mother is doing what is RIGHT AND PROPER for her culture. Jennie has no business there. Thousans upon thousands of years have made the people of India who they are and they do NOT share our view that what the INDIVIDUAL wants is more important than the duties and obligations to family first and the society. She will alienate Sumit from his family, make him a laughing stockand destroy his chances for success in his country.
His eyes are darker too, almost black! And so serious in his face all the time. Jenny, you should run while you can! I'm not kidding. People get killed this way all the time! And in a big way you are killing him too, by ruining his life, basically! This can end really bad stay aware and take care!
Wouldn’t you want to get away from Jenny if you were stuck with her 24/7 ? And considering that not working seemed to be Sumit’s main priority, this is pretty significant.
@@missjazz4430 but he wants to work? Lol. She’s not happy that the man who’s been by her side for a whole decade wants to get out there and work to provide for himself and her. She’s retired and just wants to sit there and knit and say he doesn’t have to work because she has her retirement money like she won’t die in the next few years and what’s Sumit going to have for himself when he eventually retires? She’s extremely close minded and boring as fuck. He’s lost so much for her yet she can’t do one thing to make him happy because she’s a lazy old hag.
@@Ami-rb2hu dayumm gurll just cuz she's old you ain't gotta call her a lazy old hag. He doesn't really want to work if he did he already would have. That's why he went for an older woman when most guys go for younger girls naturally. Hopefully you dont get called that when you get older.
@@Ami-rb2hu 100% You nailed it! Jenny is always throwing it in Sumit's face that she gave up everything. Jenny CHOSE to give up her family and couch surfing on their couches. IMO, Jenny is thinking like she owns that boy toy! 😹
I have met a lot of older women, many even married who have fallen for younger foreign men. This is a very good example of what happens. Lots of fun and sweetness for awhile then when it goes downhill, it immediately crashes and burns. People, run! Just Run!
Wow... She is old enough to be his grandmother! He's just starting to live life and she's lived most of hers! I wish them well, but I don't foresee a happily ever after for these two!
This is exactly what everyone said would happen too. I feel like the age gap is messing with them both. Sumit is realizing Jenny can't keep up with him and Jenny wants someone to do what she wants to do. Just relax all the time. She's older and shes worked alot in her life and sumit is still young and he's just getting started.
A large part of me feels like when he looks back at his 20s and 30s he’s going to resent her for holding him back. As someone who dated older in my early 20s- I can’t help but regret all of the things I missed out on
Don’t worry I dated younger, my own age and older in my 20 s and 30 s and they all held me back lol. It’s rly got very little do with the age but your own growth and ability to have the focus and time to build your passions. I wasted many years crying and fretting over toxic relationships irrespective of the age. My current partner is rly stable and it’s so refreshing to be able to enjoy him and build my life simultaneously. A lot of ppl don’t have great relationships in their 20 s, in a multitude of ways.
I'm the older person whom has dated men younger than me. I was married to my husband for 27 years he was 14 years younger than me. I feel like I missed out ,finally in 2019 I got divorced now I'm living my life even moved out the state's. I was also involved with another man 10 years younger than in 2019 but in 2020 I had enough that's when I decided to leave Texas and move to Oregon. Now I'm very happy flying solo.
@@aurorasoto5985 I think a lot of people don’t acknowledge is the most relationships break up. We all generally date more than one person and 99.9% of other relationships don’t work apart from the one that does. People like to blame age but in most situations if the age is a problem it would come up relatively early or down the line and most of the time it’s just incompatibility and people make the excuse that its age to make out that age gap relationships don’t work
He was also married. He’s the shady one in this. She thought she was talking to some English dude. I think they both are delusional in this relationship
@@vathsalavt8050 that's bs. He could get a fair skinned younger American or even Indian. He didn't have to get a grandmother. There are many desperate, single Americans who are ready to be catfished by Nigerians and Sumit
She’s more like his grandmother! It sickens me. I don’t blame his mother for being so hurt, furious and plain disgusted. A scam that went wrong and turned into a nightmare! What’s wrong with this guy?
Well, the thing to was Jenny was living with Sumit’s parents when, she first moved to India! She lived upstairs above them, her mom thought they were friends. Well, Jenny and Sumit played hankie-pankie in the hay! Her mom and dad said, she would just scream and carry on. Then, Jenny said, so, cause, I was living above them, I had to stay silent and be and, can’t do nothing because, I live above them. Jenny doesn’t get the idea that she has to be a bit on the respectful side when, your a guest in someone’s home!
thank you Billie for being honest. Honest to God if she was gorgeous looking like some older models are then perhaps I could understand it but for Gods sake an unattractive woman who is thirty years older then him. I have to say i understand where the mother is coming from. Honestly i cant imagine them having sex.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 you can say the scammer got scamed. Jenny said got ya. Now she's living her best life with her boy toy. That would teatch Sumit to stop playing on the phone.
I don't think anybody is talking about the huge age gap between Sumit and Jenny. He is 33 years old, and Jenny is 63 years old. Now let's take a moment to think here, Jenny probably doesn't wanna do so much stuff that Sumit wants to do because of her age, 63 is a big number, she just probably wants to relax and take it easy. Very commonly, at the age of 63 people have problems due to age, Sumit wants to do lots and lots of stuff that normally old people wouldn't really do because they aren't young anymore. I'm not trying to hate on Sumit, I believe Sumit is very open-minded and wants to live his life to the fullest and I respect that, though he honestly should've married a woman around his age.
Bungee jumping, white water rafting - I wonder could Sumit be an adrenalin junkie, and he actually wants drama in his life - like telling his parents he has married a 30 year older American woman....
Sumit truly loves Jenny. She's not rich so it's not about her money. He chose her knowing he'd lose his family. They're both adults so why do so many people still have a problem with their relationship??? So what if she's older? What the Hell is "normal" anyway?? So many of yall marry someone your own age and are completely miserable, getting cheated on or worse. They have their own issues but they're not lacking in love or loyalty. Leave them alone already.
Yeah, pretty soon she’s going to not have any money at all! Something is funny, because, she’s been a resident now for over 3 yrs now, she revealed that she’s still collecting her Retirement / Social Security from the US because, you can about grantee she’s not collecting Social Security from India! There’s only a Social Security Administration in US, there isn’t no such thing as a International Social Security Administration. That attorney told her she would eventually lose her Social Security if she becomes a permanent resident of India! She can’t get nothing over there because, she didn’t pay into the system over there because, she hasn’t been a citizen of India for her whole life!
They don’t have his family support and that will end up splitting them apart and, so, will the huge gap in age. You don’t get it, he again is going to want to do things she is unable to do physically and, if it’s brought up a lot in their conversation between the 2 of them, it will cause, contention in the marriage eventually!
Poor Sumit is stuck with the doldrums of a much older retired woman. He needs to be aware that it will only get worse; there are no FUN times ahead a she ages!
Let alone pretty soon and I am surprised Jenny hasn’t ended up penny - less, yet! That same attorney told her, if she became a permanent resident of India, she would lose her Social Security! Social Security Benefits are only something that’s in the US, it isn’t a International! That’s why she’s trying to get Sumit to go back to the US with her!
well I guess you have experience with that cuz I'm 15 years older than my husband and I'm retired and he still wants to just give it all up so that he can retire with me and do things as a couple but hey, you talk to talk but I walk the walk, have fun with that!
He won't have children to care for him in his old age, he's alienated from his family, he can't have the self respect of working because Jenny can't be alone, and she can't have fun with him when they go on vacation because she's too old. What else could go wrong with this relationship because she's so selfish?
I feel so bad for him. Jenny is a older women with severe issues. One she certainly is a lazy women, her house is beyond nasty. Twice I have seen abd his mother cleaning and cooking and his mother being shocked at how nasty it is, I wouldn’t want to eat anything in that place, the first time the counter tops and under stuff was nasty nasty and so was the floor and the dishes did t even look clean this last time the floors looked they had never seen a broom nor was anything dusted , just gross and the majority of the time, her hair is dang greasy one could fry a egg on her head. She always gets so angry over their culture and Custom’s and Jenny being to old. She is way to old. She is older than his family , she can’t have kids , yet he is fighting his parents for her then this foggy women jumps all over him and she was mean to him. She should have had enough sense to learn about his religion and his beliefs. He needs to go to work, and old girl needs to get her big girl panties on and shut up, it doesn’t matter how long she worked , he is to young not be working. She needs to grow up and not be up his butt all the time. She has really no money , according to this man so she is stupid enough to think they can live off love. He will dump her in due time. She is so nagging, so needy , so whining , can’t do anything including taking care of her house. We see why she had to go over there to grab a man, but he is young, he is going to need more than this older women can give. Like kids, fun, a clean house , washed hair etc
Jenny needs to act her age when it comes to reality. He's 30 years younger then you... Your kids age... Stop playing victim and poor poor pitiful me. You gave up so much, blah blah blah, SO HAS HE! Your NOT his mother! Let the man work. Just because you've lived your life and want to relax doesn't mean you should stop him from living his life. Damn. Some time apart will make you appreciate each other more. Damn shouldn't you know this at your age?
"I didn't marry him so he could go work blah blah" Bruh I am in my 30s and not having a job or retiring feels terrifying. That's how you stagnate, get bored, go crazy and have a shorter lifespan. It's bad for you to sit around all day. He's 33. He's the new 20s. When you do something you enjoy, working is good for you. The thought of only having free time is awful, let alone being up your partners ass 24/7.
What 53 yr old woman would date a 23 yr old?! I could see if you’re just trying to get you’re groove back but trying to be in a committed relationship with such a big age difference is crazy to me.
@@malcriadamedina5358 Dimplez83 is 100% right: when they started to date 10 years ago he was 23 yr old and the old ugly disgusting freak was 53=difference of 30 years! Now they are 10 years older=the same difference of 30 years=she is 63,he is 33. Can you count or does it make you troubles to understand such an extremely simple thing?
@@malcriadamedina5358 Get your facts straight. Jenny was turning 63 at least 2 - 3 years ago. Did you forget that interview with just them and Sumits parents? Sumit had said he knew she was 55 years old (in 2011) but he didn't expect her to look so old??
ITS NOT JENNYS AGE THATS THE PROBLEM ITS HER SELFISHNESS & SHOUTING & ABUSING HIMA TOTAL CONTROL FREAK - SHES DRIVING HIM AWAY WITH HER JEALOUSY & UNFAIR POSSESSIVENESS.
I think the age difference will be their demise... eventually. She needs to let him be more active, she is kind of a slug. I am going to be 60 in November and I could do all of the things Summit is suggesting so Jenny needs to get herself in better shape. She has a young husband so she needs to pick up the pace.
Again just like that Attorney told her the first time she got ready to go to India, and, if she became a permanent resident over there, she will eventually lose it. The US Government isn’t going to keep handing her out a pay day if she’s living in the US! The Social Security Administration isn’t a International Agency, it ran by the US Federal Government Only. That’s why she all of a sudden now wants Sumit to go back to the US with her! Jenny and Sumit got together over 3 yrs. Jenny went to that lawyer before she ever went over there …….The first time Jenny and Sumit made their appearance on 90 Day Fiancée! Go, back and watch the first time there season aired, you’ll see, I know what, I am talking about!
@@461Jacque yes, back when she went to a lawyer or whatever he was he said she had very little savings. She took her social security early because I am 65 and to draw my whole amount I cannot start until I am 66 and 6 months, so she took a big cut in her monthly ss payment. I doubt she was going to draw all that much anyway because she never had a really high paying job that I have ever heard. I know it’s probably less expensive in India for some things but it still takes money and without Sumitt working that is two living on very little a month. They do get TLC check but they are not that big either and neither Jenny or Sumitt act or look like they are great investors or money handlers. He needs to work he has many years before he retires but Jenny is so selfish she doesn’t want him out of her sight.
Jenny is clearly not open minded, controlling and constantly threatening to go back to America. Sumit is clearly wishing - please go. I’ll have a new woman before the plane lands. He deserves a young wife with traditional values and wants to enjoy life with him. Jenny is a BORE!
I think Sumit 's so bored. He needs to work, have fun and experience Life. Jenny already did all of that and doesn't care about Sumit's wants and needs.
Jenny needs to find something to do like work for a charity or something while she’s in India. This way she won’t have a need to have Sumit in her space 24/7.
Sumite sounds like he wants to have exciting events for him and Jenny and Jenny just wants to relax and do nothing, I don't think that this marriage is going to last Jenny is holding her husband back to want to be the family man and enjoy the special things in life I wish Sumit and Jenny good luck .
I honestly had my doubts about this relationship working right from the get go. The way they met was super sketchy; Jenny is so much older than him, I think he would cheat. Yeah, I really don't think this had much of a chance; it's just been dragging on, maybe for the TLC pay check, who knows....
She worked most of her life, but Sumit is just starting his life. She was 30 years old when he was born! I feel bad for her, but needs to admit this life they have right now is not reality. He will eventually realize that their age difference is just too much.
He needs to work and feel like à man and supporting himself and his wife not to mention balance out his happiness especially right now losing his parents. Its not all about jenny. Shes going to have a problem cause he just lost alot and she doesnt understand he needs another part of his life that has to take place which is living life.
I truly believe he loves her ❤️ .I just wish she'd cool her temper. I don't like it when she gets angry and starts moving her arms everywhere like she could hithim.
Jenny might have savings and Social Security (SS isn't much) plus TLC pay, and it might be enough for India? However, Sumit needs his own income for his future, Jenny won't be around forever. Plus doesn't he owe his Dad money for his divorce? They are in different stages of life, I don't see this marriage lasting.
That's the point Jenny! He hasn't had a whole life! Hes only in his 30s. Hes old enough to be your son. Let him experience his life. You cant smother him cuz you are in your golden years!
I feel like it’s normal that he wants to work. Jenny, that’s what happens when you marry a man in his 30’s. He’s not ready to live retired life. She can’t complain about it when she made that decision to marry a man that much younger.
She needs to let Sumit go to work, it's good for his mental well-being. Keeps him happy and free from depression. Everybody needs to escape from their spouse for couple hours to keep their sanity.
OMG.... this lady is really out of reality, and him is not in good mind either. 10 yrs! Together seems like a torture for him. Don't understand why he married her. I believe he doesn't want to work or come to US. Just live from her money. Smart guy.
Jennys way to dependent on Summit everybody needs there own personal space.Sounds like Summits regretting his marriage.I personally cant see this marriage working out,There are way to many obstacles involved and Summit wont relocate to the States where are his priorities.
Summit has to work because Jenny has children and if she owns anything her children will inherit a big apart of it. Summit has to look after his future and if he is healthy he will have to take care of himself after she dies . And working makes a person happy
Summit should work if he wants to. Let him work Jenny! Smothering him all day long will make any man go crazy. He needs to get out the house, he's not elderly like you are. 😒
JENNY COULD DI ALL OF THOSE ACTIVITIES WITH HIM BUT SHES TOO SELFISH & ABUSIVE TO CARE- SHE WANTS TO ALIENATE HIM FROM HIS FAMILY INSTEAD OF TRY TO HELP FIX IT ( WETHER IT WORKS OR NOT IS IRRELEVANT ITS THE SUPPORTI G HIM FOR WHAT HE GAVE UP FOR HER & SO IS IN TERRIBLE PAIN INSIDE FOR) JENNY IS ALWAYS PUTTING HIM AGAINST HIS FAMILY SHE NEVER STOPS. SHES THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT SHE SHOULD BE TO MAKE A HAPPY MARRIAGE. GIVE HIM SPACE WOMAN INSTEAD OF MOULDING HIM INTO WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO BE & INSTEAD ACCEPT & LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS OR YOULL LOSE HIM TO SOMEONE WHO DOES. 😢
This is going to be a big issue...my Husband and I were far apart in age..but we didn't have this issue ...we were able to find things that both of us liked to do and had a great vacation times that left wonderful memories.
I Don’t know what’s going on BUTI think there’s more to Him wanting to work hummmm. I’m IMO THAT This has something to do with getting His family Mom n Dad Back. Just have to wait n See. Hummmmmmm.
Jenny talking to summit is like a mother or grandmother talking to a teenager 😅
You are right
..its a fucking grandmother
yes so true.
I know it freaks Me Out also. Xo ☮️
Well she is old
Wrong husband, wrong country
I actually really admire Sumit and his want for work! I hate how she’s keeping him back…
She's worried he'll find a younger Indian woman at work.
@@jaggirl ohh 😮 that makes sense!
agree
Jenny already led her "young life" - she's not thinking of Sumit at all.
That’s why she should marry someone her own age
It's unrealistic for Sumit to never work again. Using her social security is okay for a while, I guess, but the chances are very high that he will outlive her. Then what?
Does Jenny care about that? If she truly loves Sumit the she should be thinking about his future and happiness. Marriage is not a one way street. She seems un willing to try.
Jenny make Sumit happy and learn the "Kama Sutra". Enjoy each other. He is thinking of you!
No most if you all r wrong?
If Sumit wants he could said to Jenny I cannot be with u.
Your age is one.
I am still young I can marry a young person and have kids.
Jenny seems to only care about what she wants - it won't effect her.
Seem like she want him at home to watch him
I agree he's too young and he should have a home for when he is too old to work it should be paid for if he had a home. They don't and she's gonna die bf him probably.
It's good he wants to work. I think he is realizing that when the time comes when Jenny passes, he will have to have something to keep him going and to help him take care of his parents
I don't really think he wants to get away? He just wants to work and have his own money.
Yeah but its obvious he wants to get away from her, hes young and wants excitement and adventure while she just wanna rest with him all the time, look at his facial expressions and he even said that him self
I don't think either of them have accepted that this won't end well. They're a whole lifetime apart. She would have to work and be productive to get on his level and he would have to retire and slow down to be on hers. I know opposites attract but I think they're so different that they're too different this will eventually fall apart.
as an indian guy, you are supposed to work till you retire. Maybe he is bored of Jenny too but every indian guy is supposed to work or do something rather than sitting at home with your wife.
I agree. They want to start a rumor to get likes.
He just wants to feel as if he is contributing. He is a good chap.
She’s back home in Palm Springs without Sumit. People were on the same plane as she and said she was very quiet and looked very sad.
LISTEN HOTEL OR MOTEL WORKER OR RECEPTION PLEASE CAN'T YO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS DON'T LOOK WHO IS OLD OR WHO YOUNG IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS MABY YOUR PARENTS IS STILL LOOKING FOR A WIFE FOR YOU TO MARRY BECAUSE THAT ARE INDIAN TRADITION IAM HAPPY THAT IAM NOT ONE OF THEM
Oh really... that's news...I didn't know that...
Oh no!
That's 😢.
Didn't see that coming 🙄
I didn't realize Sumit was only 33 years old! My son is that age and I'm a liberal person but if he married a woman in her 60's I would have a nervous breakdown! At least Sumit will have a whole life ahead of him when Jenny dies
I haven't been really following these 2 but why can't they spend the afternoon apart? They can each do what they want and then meet in the afternoon.
My son is 30 I feel the same way it would kill me fortunetly my son is very particular about who he will date
@Nancy Jones
Not if she lives into her 90s.
My son is 33, I am 47. Yep I had him young. I couldn’t imagine my child being with someone that much older!! His wife is 36, that’s old enough 😂😂😂
Exactly
I’m never getting over the fact that he was a scammer at a call center
No way
Really?oh that’s not nice.
I didn't know that!😶
@@candicandler2512 yep. I only put the pieces together I think after their second season on the show. Him using a very western name like Michael Jones is what scammers at call centers do.
@@maryfeehan7896 yep. Their entire relationship was started on a lie and the lies continued throughout. That’s why I’m shocked Jenny actually stuck around because he’s lied about so much
His mother was really right. Jenny is too controlling. What woman doesn't want her husband to work and provide
His mother is awful Overly critical and judgemental
@@briandelaney9710 his mother is moral and sensible!!
Wouldn't you try to get away from Jenny?
@@briandelaney9710No, his mother is doing what is RIGHT AND PROPER for her culture. Jennie has no business there. Thousans upon thousands of years have made the people of India who they are and they do NOT share our view that what the INDIVIDUAL wants is more important than the duties and obligations to family first and the society. She will alienate Sumit from his family, make him a laughing stockand destroy his chances for success in his country.
people who date younger has an issue and even him, mommy issues he has
Summit is looking more mature and older and seems to know what he wants out of life now.
His eyes are darker too, almost black! And so serious in his face all the time. Jenny, you should run while you can! I'm not kidding. People get killed this way all the time! And in a big way you are killing him too, by ruining his life, basically! This can end really bad stay aware and take care!
It's funny that they interviewed the hotel concierge about the age difference. It's none of his business 😵😂
I know right! That was random. Even TLC os making a mockery out of their marriage.
Wouldn’t you want to get away from Jenny if you were stuck with her 24/7 ? And considering that not working seemed to be Sumit’s main priority, this is pretty significant.
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That's why Sumit married her so he doesn't have to work. Now he has to deal with the consequences and be with her all the time.
@@missjazz4430 but he wants to work? Lol. She’s not happy that the man who’s been by her side for a whole decade wants to get out there and work to provide for himself and her. She’s retired and just wants to sit there and knit and say he doesn’t have to work because she has her retirement money like she won’t die in the next few years and what’s Sumit going to have for himself when he eventually retires? She’s extremely close minded and boring as fuck. He’s lost so much for her yet she can’t do one thing to make him happy because she’s a lazy old hag.
@@Ami-rb2hu dayumm gurll just cuz she's old you ain't gotta call her a lazy old hag. He doesn't really want to work if he did he already would have. That's why he went for an older woman when most guys go for younger girls naturally. Hopefully you dont get called that when you get older.
@@Ami-rb2hu 100% You nailed it! Jenny is always throwing it in Sumit's face that she gave up everything. Jenny CHOSE to give up her family and couch surfing on their couches. IMO, Jenny is thinking like she owns that boy toy! 😹
I have met a lot of older women, many even married who have fallen for younger foreign men. This is a very good example of what happens. Lots of fun and sweetness for awhile then when it goes downhill, it immediately crashes and burns. People, run! Just Run!
Wow... She is old enough to be his grandmother! He's just starting to live life and she's lived most of hers! I wish them well, but I don't foresee a happily ever after for these two!
I don't see how Jenny ignores what Sumit wants out of their relationship. He's finally realizing Jenny is not his speed.
She’s too old, needy, selfish, and boring. BAD idea all these vast age differences!
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I never seen him wanting to get away from Jenny
I don't their marriage is gonna last , look at her
This is exactly what everyone said would happen too. I feel like the age gap is messing with them both. Sumit is realizing Jenny can't keep up with him and Jenny wants someone to do what she wants to do. Just relax all the time. She's older and shes worked alot in her life and sumit is still young and he's just getting started.
Sumit low key trying to kill Jenny river rafting and collect life insurance 😂
I think so too. Just like he took her roller bladding hoping she'll fall and break her hip so he can put her in a home and get away from her
That is in your head not on his.
@Elisa A I won't be surprised after being together for a hundred years I'd like to think Sumit needs a break🤣
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I think Sumit mimicking Jenny was very sweet 😂it surprised me
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Thanks "all things reality" for these brief and well put together 90 day updates for busy moms!
You're very welcome!
My mom is Jenny’s age and Jenny looks ten years older. She acts like a teenager in her decision making tho. I worry for her.
Jenny's been 63 for 3 years already. 😹I'm sure she's at least 70 by looking at the complete lack of skin tone and discoloration.
@@irene_f. you’re probably right
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I agree she looks older
I think she looks older too yet acts very helpless and immature
Jenny is very clingy, sumit feels like he's suffocating...they're at different stages of life
I just heard Sumit say ' Jenny is like a retired old lady .. " lol
Jajajajjaa 😂ahora empieza a darse cuenta
Only 2 months and Sumit is ready to bail.
Sumit and Jenny are done. The reality of their age difference can no longer be denied.
A large part of me feels like when he looks back at his 20s and 30s he’s going to resent her for holding him back. As someone who dated older in my early 20s- I can’t help but regret all of the things I missed out on
Don’t worry I dated younger, my own age and older in my 20 s and 30 s and they all held me back lol. It’s rly got very little do with the age but your own growth and ability to have the focus and time to build your passions. I wasted many years crying and fretting over toxic relationships irrespective of the age. My current partner is rly stable and it’s so refreshing to be able to enjoy him and build my life simultaneously. A lot of ppl don’t have great relationships in their 20 s, in a multitude of ways.
I'm the older person whom has dated men younger than me. I was married to my husband for 27 years he was 14 years younger than me. I feel like I missed out ,finally in 2019 I got divorced now I'm living my life even moved out the state's. I was also involved with another man 10 years younger than in 2019 but in 2020 I had enough that's when I decided to leave Texas and move to Oregon. Now I'm very happy flying solo.
@@aurorasoto5985 I think a lot of people don’t acknowledge is the most relationships break up. We all generally date more than one person and 99.9% of other relationships don’t work apart from the one that does. People like to blame age but in most situations if the age is a problem it would come up relatively early or down the line and most of the time it’s just incompatibility and people make the excuse that its age to make out that age gap relationships don’t work
My fiancée is 26, and I’m 52!
@@lunity1111 No, most do not. You have a 50/50 chance of your marriage lasting. That’s not most.
He was 23 when he started date with her. He need help. It is disgusted. I feel and understand his mother
He was also married. He’s the shady one in this. She thought she was talking to some English dude. I think they both are delusional in this relationship
You mean she needs help.. tf
Disgusting, not the pasted tense!
As an Indian I know Indians are obsessed with fair skin, he may have fallen for her as she s a 'foreigner ' fair skinned whatever
@@vathsalavt8050 that's bs. He could get a fair skinned younger American or even Indian. He didn't have to get a grandmother. There are many desperate, single Americans who are ready to be catfished by Nigerians and Sumit
She’s more like his grandmother! It sickens me. I don’t blame his mother for being so hurt, furious and plain disgusted. A scam that went wrong and turned into a nightmare! What’s wrong with this guy?
I don’t know what’s wrong with her for falling for it
Well, the thing to was Jenny was living with Sumit’s parents when, she first moved to India! She lived upstairs above them, her mom thought they were friends. Well, Jenny and Sumit played hankie-pankie in the hay! Her mom and dad said, she would just scream and carry on. Then, Jenny said, so, cause, I was living above them, I had to stay silent and be and, can’t do nothing because, I live above them. Jenny doesn’t get the idea that she has to be a bit on the respectful side when, your a guest in someone’s home!
thank you Billie for being honest. Honest to God if she was gorgeous looking like some older models are then perhaps I could understand it but for Gods sake an unattractive woman who is thirty years older then him. I have to say i understand where the mother is coming from. Honestly i cant imagine them having sex.
@@dianajames4717 that mental image🤢🤢🤢
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 you can say the scammer got scamed. Jenny said got ya. Now she's living her best life with her boy toy. That would teatch Sumit to stop playing on the phone.
I LOVE this channel, so glad to have found it; this guy is hilarious
I don't think anybody is talking about the huge age gap between Sumit and Jenny. He is 33 years old, and Jenny is 63 years old. Now let's take a moment to think here, Jenny probably doesn't wanna do so much stuff that Sumit wants to do because of her age, 63 is a big number, she just probably wants to relax and take it easy. Very commonly, at the age of 63 people have problems due to age, Sumit wants to do lots and lots of stuff that normally old people wouldn't really do because they aren't young anymore. I'm not trying to hate on Sumit, I believe Sumit is very open-minded and wants to live his life to the fullest and I respect that, though he honestly should've married a woman around his age.
It’s obvious that she is insecure and needy and doesn’t trust him but she should be more understanding of him wanting to work
Bungee jumping, white water rafting - I wonder could Sumit be an adrenalin junkie, and he actually wants drama in his life - like telling his parents he has married a 30 year older American woman....
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If submit gets his own money he can leave her.
She's panicking
I think so
Submit? Was that shade? 😂
He has his own money - he gets paid from the show!! 😆😂
@@chicagogyrl4846 no. I hear the Americans get paid, though I don't see what's in it for the overseas cast.
maybe she's mad, he will see nicer young Indian women. Who knows?
Sumit truly loves Jenny. She's not rich so it's not about her money. He chose her knowing he'd lose his family. They're both adults so why do so many people still have a problem with their relationship??? So what if she's older? What the Hell is "normal" anyway?? So many of yall marry someone your own age and are completely miserable, getting cheated on or worse. They have their own issues but they're not lacking in love or loyalty. Leave them alone already.
its not about age its about compatibility...
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Yeah, pretty soon she’s going to not have any money at all! Something is funny, because, she’s been a resident now for over 3 yrs now, she revealed that she’s still collecting her Retirement / Social Security from the US because, you can about grantee she’s not collecting Social Security from India! There’s only a Social Security Administration in US, there isn’t no such thing as a International Social Security Administration. That attorney told her she would eventually lose her Social Security if she becomes a permanent resident of India! She can’t get nothing over there because, she didn’t pay into the system over there because, she hasn’t been a citizen of India for her whole life!
They don’t have his family support and that will end up splitting them apart and, so, will the huge gap in age. You don’t get it, he again is going to want to do things she is unable to do physically and, if it’s brought up a lot in their conversation between the 2 of them, it will cause, contention in the marriage eventually!
They can’t even have kids together for Christ sake. Why should we sit back and watch a young man waste the best years of his life with a grandma?
Poor Sumit is stuck with the doldrums of a much older retired woman. He needs to be aware that it will only get worse; there are no FUN times ahead a she ages!
EXACTLY !! Totally agree !!
Idk dude. Im 31 and i plan to do a lot in my 60s and 70s. My Dad does and hes 60. Getting old doesnt mean you becope immobile and watch tv all day
Let alone pretty soon and I am surprised Jenny hasn’t ended up penny - less, yet! That same attorney told her, if she became a permanent resident of India, she would lose her Social Security! Social Security Benefits are only something that’s in the US, it isn’t a International! That’s why she’s trying to get Sumit to go back to the US with her!
He went cat fishing to scam American gramas. He caught him one. He's ok.
well I guess you have experience with that cuz I'm 15 years older than my husband and I'm retired and he still wants to just give it all up so that he can retire with me and do things as a couple but hey, you talk to talk but I walk the walk, have fun with that!
Jenny doesn't want to just lounge in a chair - Jenny wants to BE the chair. 😹
She's afraid if he starts work he will meet new people new friends and she won't be able to keep an eye on him
New girls! Edit : I should have thought before I spoke. New older ladies. That's his type. Mom figures.
Send her packing back to US
I can't even imagine Jenny in another 10 years what her life will be like.
He won't have children to care for him in his old age, he's alienated from his family, he can't have the self respect of working because Jenny can't be alone, and she can't have fun with him when they go on vacation because she's too old. What else could go wrong with this relationship because she's so selfish?
I feel so bad for him. Jenny is a older women with severe issues. One she certainly is a lazy women, her house is beyond nasty. Twice I have seen abd his mother cleaning and cooking and his mother being shocked at how nasty it is, I wouldn’t want to eat anything in that place, the first time the counter tops and under stuff was nasty nasty and so was the floor and the dishes did t even look clean this last time the floors looked they had never seen a broom nor was anything dusted , just gross and the majority of the time, her hair is dang greasy one could fry a egg on her head.
She always gets so angry over their culture and Custom’s and Jenny being to old. She is way to old. She is older than his family , she can’t have kids , yet he is fighting his parents for her then this foggy women jumps all over him and she was mean to him. She should have had enough sense to learn about his religion and his beliefs. He needs to go to work, and old girl needs to get her big girl panties on and shut up, it doesn’t matter how long she worked , he is to young not be working. She needs to grow up and not be up his butt all the time. She has really no money , according to this man so she is stupid enough to think they can live off love. He will dump her in due time. She is so nagging, so needy , so whining , can’t do anything including taking care of her house. We see why she had to go over there to grab a man, but he is young, he is going to need more than this older women can give. Like kids, fun, a clean house , washed hair etc
I couldn't agree more. He hair is really gross. Come on, clean your house and wash your hair
Jenny needs to act her age when it comes to reality. He's 30 years younger then you... Your kids age... Stop playing victim and poor poor pitiful me. You gave up so much, blah blah blah, SO HAS HE! Your NOT his mother! Let the man work. Just because you've lived your life and want to relax doesn't mean you should stop him from living his life. Damn. Some time apart will make you appreciate each other more. Damn shouldn't you know this at your age?
This reminds me of when Michael Scott dated Pam's mom. He broke up with her because he realized she didn't wanna do fun stuff. 😂😂😂😂
"I didn't marry him so he could go work blah blah" Bruh I am in my 30s and not having a job or retiring feels terrifying. That's how you stagnate, get bored, go crazy and have a shorter lifespan. It's bad for you to sit around all day. He's 33. He's the new 20s. When you do something you enjoy, working is good for you. The thought of only having free time is awful, let alone being up your partners ass 24/7.
I think Jenny does not trust Sumit.
"River rafting, bungy jumping, skydiving...see if you survive" Jenny "Yeeeeyyy"
production is so petty since when are they interviewing hotel staff 😂 not the concierge with 2 cents 💀
Idk why Sumit is cure to me, not like I'm attracted to him, but next to Jenny he seems like a clueless lil kid
This whole dynamic is just mind-boggling. There is something genuinely wrong with this woman. Maybe he'll put her in a home.
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HIS MUMS RIGHT. JENNY NEVER DOES ANYTHING. NOT ONE THING. CANT EVEN DO ANYTHING ON A NICE HOLIDAY.
He definitely needs to be working!!!He is young and needs to live that life a man in his 30’s …working
Además ella dejó bien claro que si patrimonio es para sus hijas y sus nietas, debe dejarlo trabajar el necesita crear su futuro.
They are at such different stages of life. He wants to explore, have fun, and work. She wants to lay around. They aren’t a good match in my opinion.
What 53 yr old woman would date a 23 yr old?! I could see if you’re just trying to get you’re groove back but trying to be in a committed relationship with such a big age difference is crazy to me.
33! and 63! Please get the ages right
HE'S 33 NOT 23
@@malcriadamedina5358 Dimplez83 is 100% right: when they started to date 10 years ago he was 23 yr old and the old ugly disgusting freak was 53=difference of 30 years! Now they are 10 years older=the same difference of 30 years=she is 63,he is 33. Can you count or does it make you troubles to understand such an extremely simple thing?
@@malcriadamedina5358 He was 23 when they first started their romance. They are together for 10 years now.
@@malcriadamedina5358 Get your facts straight. Jenny was turning 63 at least 2 - 3 years ago. Did you forget that interview with just them and Sumits parents? Sumit had said he knew she was 55 years old (in 2011) but he didn't expect her to look so old??
So Jenny has lived her life and wants Sumit to not live his life and just relax with her. Cool
I can’t help but love Sumit. He’s adorable. 😹
He is cute!
Poor little grifter, he’s regretting his lazy lifestyle. Finally noticing how old jenny is.
nope. Can't stand him. He's a liar and his karma is jenny, the old lady
ITS NOT JENNYS AGE THATS THE PROBLEM ITS HER SELFISHNESS & SHOUTING & ABUSING HIMA TOTAL CONTROL FREAK - SHES DRIVING HIM AWAY WITH HER JEALOUSY & UNFAIR POSSESSIVENESS.
She is so needy. She wants him to be 65.
STOP TELLING HIM WHAT TO DO JENNY. IF HE WANTS TO WORK 6 DAYS A WEEK LET HIM - HE NEEDS SPACE TO BREATHE & YOU NEED THE MONEY.
I think the age difference will be their demise... eventually. She needs to let him be more active, she is kind of a slug. I am going to be 60 in November and I could do all of the things Summit is suggesting so Jenny needs to get herself in better shape. She has a young husband so she needs to pick up the pace.
She needs a old & boring guy like her.
nope. there is no way you can do all those adrenaline sports. Unless you were an athlete. Your heart could never take it.
I don't know why but always when I see Jenny she somehow looks like she has blur filter on 🤔
Sumit is getting handsome by day
Eyes need testing. Book an appointment quickly.
I haven't been getting your notifications for a while.. grrr. Glad I found you again
30 year difference is crazzzzy. She gave up her life in Palm Springs with a nice house, daughter, grandchildren, very bizarre.
Jenny lived with her daughters and slept on their couch. Research it, it is true.
He’s not trying to get away he’s just trying to work
I’m confused. Is Sumit not allowed to work as per Jenny? And they’re living off TLC’s paychecks?
I missed some of the last season
Covid prevented it last year.
She took her social security early it can’t be that much but probably goes farther in India.
Jenny said they have her social security and retirement savings and she thinks that's enough but we shall see.
Again just like that Attorney told her the first time she got ready to go to India, and, if she became a permanent resident over there, she will eventually lose it. The US Government isn’t going to keep handing her out a pay day if she’s living in the US! The Social Security Administration isn’t a International Agency, it ran by the US Federal Government Only. That’s why she all of a sudden now wants Sumit to go back to the US with her! Jenny and Sumit got together over 3 yrs. Jenny went to that lawyer before she ever went over there …….The first time Jenny and Sumit made their appearance on 90 Day Fiancée! Go, back and watch the first time there season aired, you’ll see, I know what, I am talking about!
@@461Jacque yes, back when she went to a lawyer or whatever he was he said she had very little savings. She took her social security early because I am 65 and to draw my whole amount I cannot start until I am 66 and 6 months, so she took a big cut in her monthly ss payment. I doubt she was going to draw all that much anyway because she never had a really high paying job that I have ever heard. I know it’s probably less expensive in India for some things but it still takes money and without Sumitt working that is two living on very little a month. They do get TLC check but they are not that big either and neither Jenny or Sumitt act or look like they are great investors or money handlers. He needs to work he has many years before he retires but Jenny is so selfish she doesn’t want him out of her sight.
His Ass Is Thinking Damn You Again,Go Away 😂
Jenny owns Sumit now. He wanted a sugar momma & he got one.
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Jenny is clearly not open minded, controlling and constantly threatening to go back to America.
Sumit is clearly wishing - please go. I’ll have a new woman before the plane lands.
He deserves a young wife with traditional values and wants to enjoy life with him.
Jenny is a BORE!
Just for the record, MANY 60 plus year olds are super active sports wise. That is a very unfair statement to act like older people aren't very active.
She’s babysitting him 😂
might be the other way around with him changing her diapers
I think Sumit is feeling smothered
I think Sumit 's so bored. He needs to work, have fun and experience Life. Jenny already did all of that and doesn't care about Sumit's wants and needs.
Jenny needs to find something to do like work for a charity or something while she’s in India. This way she won’t have a need to have Sumit in her space 24/7.
Missed opportunity to say "Sumit has given itsum thought"
Sumite sounds like he wants to have exciting events for him and Jenny and Jenny just wants to relax and do nothing, I don't think that this marriage is going to last Jenny is holding her husband back to want to be the family man and enjoy the special things in life I wish Sumit and Jenny good luck .
I honestly had my doubts about this relationship working right from the get go. The way they met was super sketchy; Jenny is so much older than him, I think he would cheat. Yeah, I really don't think this had much of a chance; it's just been dragging on, maybe for the TLC pay check, who knows....
of course, he will cheat. he is a cheater. He cheated on his wife and Jenny is cool with that.
"We are going for our mental pieces"Yikes Sumit!!!
She worked most of her life, but Sumit is just starting his life. She was 30 years old when he was born! I feel bad for her, but needs to admit this life they have right now is not reality. He will eventually realize that their age difference is just too much.
There are 30 years difference! What were you thinking Summit?
He needs to work and feel like à man and supporting himself and his wife not to mention balance out his happiness especially right now losing his parents. Its not all about jenny. Shes going to have a problem cause he just lost alot and she doesnt understand he needs another part of his life that has to take place which is living life.
I myself and baffled about this relationship.....
I truly believe he loves her ❤️ .I just wish she'd cool her temper. I don't like it when she gets angry and starts moving her arms everywhere like she could hithim.
Jenny might have savings and Social Security (SS isn't much) plus TLC pay, and it might be enough for India? However, Sumit needs his own income for his future, Jenny won't be around forever. Plus doesn't he owe his Dad money for his divorce? They are in different stages of life, I don't see this marriage lasting.
If she wants someone to be at home with her in her golden years as we say then she should have married someone her own age.
That's the point Jenny! He hasn't had a whole life! Hes only in his 30s. Hes old enough to be your son. Let him experience his life. You cant smother him cuz you are in your golden years!
I feel like it’s normal that he wants to work. Jenny, that’s what happens when you marry a man in his 30’s. He’s not ready to live retired life. She can’t complain about it when she made that decision to marry a man that much younger.
She needs to let Sumit go to work, it's good for his mental well-being. Keeps him happy and free from depression.
Everybody needs to escape from their spouse for couple hours to keep their sanity.
OMG.... this lady is really out of reality, and him is not in good mind either. 10 yrs! Together seems like a torture for him. Don't understand why he married her. I believe he doesn't want to work or come to US. Just live from her money. Smart guy.
Sumit needs to have projects, ambition... Jenny is holding him back. I think she is egoist.
Thats why you don't marry someone significantly older or younger
She is a dependent granny. Unable to exist without Sumit
okay who edited Jenny’s arms at 1:28 y’all did her dirty 😂
that was her henna paint from when she got married 😂
Jennys way to dependent on Summit everybody needs there own personal space.Sounds like Summits regretting his marriage.I personally cant see this marriage working out,There are way to many obstacles involved and Summit wont relocate to the States where are his priorities.
Summit has to work because Jenny has children and if she owns anything her children will inherit a big apart of it. Summit has to look after his future and if he is healthy he will have to take care of himself after she dies . And working makes a person happy
She’s suffocating him give the man some room
Summit should work if he wants to. Let him work Jenny! Smothering him all day long will make any man go crazy. He needs to get out the house, he's not elderly like you are. 😒
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JENNY COULD DI ALL OF THOSE ACTIVITIES WITH HIM BUT SHES TOO SELFISH & ABUSIVE TO CARE- SHE WANTS TO ALIENATE HIM FROM HIS FAMILY INSTEAD OF TRY TO HELP FIX IT ( WETHER IT WORKS OR NOT IS IRRELEVANT ITS THE SUPPORTI G HIM FOR WHAT HE GAVE UP FOR HER & SO IS IN TERRIBLE PAIN INSIDE FOR) JENNY IS ALWAYS PUTTING HIM AGAINST HIS FAMILY SHE NEVER STOPS. SHES THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT SHE SHOULD BE TO MAKE A HAPPY MARRIAGE. GIVE HIM SPACE WOMAN INSTEAD OF MOULDING HIM INTO WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO BE & INSTEAD ACCEPT & LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS OR YOULL LOSE HIM TO SOMEONE WHO DOES. 😢
Then marry someone in the same life stage as you. Sumit is a young man who wants to make his mark in the world
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Poor Sumit, He's granny sitting and she better pay.
I think he enjoys sharing adventures with Jenny. They laugh together wish Jenny could just relax stop arguing.
Could she please just shut up and mellow out for a while?
Nag, nag, nag!!!
Gramma Jenny and Sumit?? Big mistake that marriage!!
This is going to be a big issue...my Husband and I were far apart in age..but we didn't have this issue ...we were able to find things that both of us liked to do and had a great vacation times that left wonderful memories.
I Don’t know what’s going on BUTI think there’s more to Him wanting to work hummmm. I’m IMO THAT This has something to do with getting His family Mom n Dad Back. Just have to wait n See. Hummmmmmm.
Tell me a marriage that is 24 hours together? They need to have "vacations" from each other.
I love watching these two! Where can I find this episode? thank you:)