Wife Divorced Me Thinking She Gonna Be Part Of My Parent's Million $$ Trust Fund Now She's In Debt
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My second wife, Elior, entered my life during a lonely phase, and we quickly fell for each other. However, our marriage took a turn for the worse when she became increasingly demanding and extravagant. I reduced the money I deposited into our joint account as I felt she was misusing it for her own pleasure, leading to conflicts. This didn’t go well for her and she filed for a divorce asking me for half a million from my parent’s trust fund.
During our divorce proceedings, she aimed to secure alimony, but she was unaware that my family's trust fund was intended for my daughter, not me. Eventually, the court dismissed her demands, and I remained resolute in not letting her have any of my assets. She later requested financial help for her son's education, but my lawyer advised against it due to potential future exploitation. I've since focused on self-improvement and have moved on from this tumultuous chapter in my life.
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She played herself! When someone comes in and elevate your life!? YOUR job is to make sure he/she is GOOD! She was using his money to entertain a raggedy baby daddy. He shouldn't have to take care of 2 losers. Let them get off of their lazy ass and take care of THEIR OWN KID.
Amen
Truth be told
Would that also apply to the welfare state that is taken advantage of across the country?
@@chrish7336 It should. People marrying the government instead of the SO should be banned.
People looking for a free ride. Lazy, narcissistic and delusional.
My Ex found out the hard way that my house (that I owned prior to our relationship) was in my mother's name. You could hear her sphincter slam shut when the judge told her she had no claim.
That move alone saved me $400K.
Awesome
In my state any property owned prior to marriage is hands off when it comes to divorce. So if you owned the house prior to marriage, as long as you didn’t refi into both names she can’t get it.
My dad advised me to establish a trust and put my home and businesses under that trust before getting married. My ex wife didn't realize it until the divorce, so she tried to reconcile🤣🤣 Nope!
@@srcastic8764 dang where u at ? sounds good to own a home there
I hope you learned your lesson to never sign a contract again (marriage) leave the government out of your relationships.
She’s why men don’t want to commit anymore! Prenup, prenup, prenup.
Trust funds are not marital assets and cannot be included in divorce settlements unless both parties added to it.
Just go to Asia, much better girls there, but even there, no single moms. Keep it simple, if possible, don't bring her permanently to western country, stay with her in Asia, just BF and GF, that will keep her straight, if she start some games, you are instantly free to go.
@@petertraveller6421 east europeans are also good those women will love u but yeah i will suggest to be careful from any women in genral
Most attorneys can get around Prenups these days. Just live with them and make sure to let people know you are NOT married and correct ANYONE who makes that assumption. Most states will not approve common law marriage with this move, but check with each state to prevent that trap.
Why get married when you are getting the milk for free
@@paulharvey1947 you either accept the STATE's prenup or you get a contractual one with a lawyer......the latter is MUCH better for you on the asset split
Moral of the story: Don’t marry bartenders that suddenly find interest in you.
Single mothers
@@mosessottin All of the above. Do not immediately marriage up your much younger bartender/ waitress with kids who is all of a sudden interested in you. Have her meet your parents and grown daughter to check her credientials and put safeguards in place. Always seek the counsel of an attorney in your state or jurisdiction before proceeding. Love is great but money pays the bills.
@timmcm9538 That's free game!
Especially if you lead with money..
@@timmcm9538true story: got hit on hard by a younger, very hot waitress, immediately figured she was looking for a sugar daddy, point blank asked her about her kids (she hadn't mentioned any kids), she said she had three small children. I didn't take the bait. Fast forward a couple of weeks, I see her at the local super market parking lot getting out of a $100k Audi. I figured she must have a whole harem of sugar daddies.
women scream equal rights, until a divorce
Like Mr.Crabs they scream, 'Take him for everything that he's worth.' Then later, they ask, 'Where have all the good men gone." Simple answer, the jigs up. They couldn't hide the con forever. Men are walking away. MGTOW keeps growing, and women become lonelier and more and more bitter. We aren't the ones in the wrong anymore. Slowly, women are becoming the very thing they accused us of.
Good thing that the guys parents recognized him as being a simp and taking measures to protect him.
Now he just has to hope is daughter (another woman) does not screw him over.
@@tikihutdweller5944if the story is even real then the trust almost certainly granted him what’s called a “life estate” in the home so that he can live there until he dies. The daughter couldn’t take that away. But I doubt that would be a danger anyway.
@@JohnFlynnAttorney Hahaha yeah and I doubted that my wife would ever try to take me to the cleaners (she just wasn't like that) but she did.
It's actually common for the wealthy to put money into a trust.
Simp 🤣. It's hilarious 😂 but that's the truth.
OP was too generous! He raised her standard of living & she could have lived like that for years, but since she only married him to use his money, it's hard to maintain that kind of life. Sooner or later, the greed comes out & lucky for him, she showed her true colors early. His parents helped him before he met her to set up protection for his properties & money. She got what she deserved!!
OP is STUPID
No, no, no.
1. She didn't "show her true colors" they were always there. He just ignored them because he thought she was the answer to his loneliness. He idolized her and made her into his god. He allowed her to control him, most likely through sex.
2. He spoiled her, when you spoil someone it's just evidence that you don't love them.
3. Human nature is evil and his parents protected him from it.
4. Loneliness should be embraced it's a teaching tool that you should use to truly see yourself for who you are and what you're doing. It's not an invitation to a pity party.
She was a bartender who thought it was appropriate to date customers. Not just any customer - the worst alcoholic in the bar. She displayed a bad history of relationship choices with the boyfriend that left when he heard she was pregnant (explains why he had such an easy time getting her to do whatever he wanted). Meanwhile, the child was likely left at home alone all night while she worked.
Nothing about this woman says that she was ever a good choice for any level of human relationship.
@@yasminecoleman3790for falling in love? Agreed
@@Live-Life-Freely 2. If you spoil someone you are showing them love in your love language - you may be overdoing it, but you still love them.
3. Most people are kind not evil.
So glad OP didn't give that woman a dime! Her son can go to public school and do just fine. He is not OPs responsibility.
The real loser will be the stepson. Weather he realizes the stepdad was the victim, or his mom is the victim. That lifestyle was handed to him for a short time.
um....
Plus if you start paying she can go back to court to argue that just shows he has taken responsibility for the child and should pay child support proper. No good deed goes unpunished.
There was no way to help the boy without being victimized by his ex wife. It's sad but unavoidable.
He could have maybe tried to get full custody of the boy - the biological parents are clearly not mentally capable of raising a child.
AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS
@@Condoctuc Damn Straight
@@dissect123 He trying to block the woman out of his life, not add another dependent which would give her an excuse to meddle in his life.
Your parents are so wise! I'd be thanking them for the rest of my life.
They knew he was a pathetic simp, so it's kind of a mixed bag
One of the biggest lessons of being in the military was hearing the absolute horror stories from joint accounts
Mad facts!! That's why I never got married while serving!! Thank You for your service!!
Jody Accounts
If you can’t trust your spouse with a joint account, it probably isn’t much of a marriage in the first place.
@@randyharris710amen to that. I watched so many just get destroyed while deployed. Sad but also kinda funny to watch. Jody in every household.
@@joshhoward1289not necessarily true. Wife and I always had separate accounts, it was comfortable for both.
As a word of caution to those who contemplates on providing for a step child or for any child not your own, be very careful. Some jurisdiction would construe that providing for a child for some time would make you liable for child support as if that child is your own. Get a legal advice before doing so.
💯 good advice
Not in a Red state.
Heck yeah. That is part of the plan, snag anyone and everyone into the system... Like paying rent to your local county communist organization.... While they live like Fani Willis on our dime.
I live near a big mudhole called a Lake. Those are the ones building multimillion dollar homes in my area.... County and city government officials. Black SUV's and 2 Tesla, jet skis, 2 boats, with 4 heat pumps with a pool in the back shaped like a palm tree......
One town in our area, the mayor was investing town funds into the lake area he had purchased and was making a country club. There is still only 15 houses there after 35 years, and the country club vanished after 10 years. Tore it down and someone built another house. Most people in the town was oblivious to it all, and never even knew the properties existed right under their nose. Takes thousands of dollars to develop wilderness on a lake shoreline that has been overgrown for centuries. The mayor got it done for free through the town folk. Then sold the property.
One house place though has a 40' wide rock that goes 20' deep into the lake. Ultimate picnic area right on the lake and in the shade of the forest surrounding it.... All the big fish are right under your "peer" everyday of the year, cause it's that deep. But always too clean to see any snakes in the water there ever.
@@BrandonGavin_EDCblue states do it because f-inism. Red states do it because they are cucked. Check your state laws. Often red states are still bad. Sometimes community property blue states are ok in some ways (house was yours before marriage/still yours, not married 10+ years.. no alimony).
That guy is a stand up guy, especially towards how he tried to treat his step-son. He unfortunately got disrespected by his ex-wife's unacceptable behavior. She is a Gold Digger who didn't totally succeed.
It’s probably not a good way to find a quality woman dating bartenders.
The guy is a total clown and a simp. Found his wife in the bed with another guy and asked if she's cheating on him lmao. No mate, they're just planting corn there.
ALL single & divorced guys should heed this lesson!
Her kid,her responsibility, not my problem.
💯👏👍
So long as you don't adopt the child, exactly not your problem
@Ham68229 Yep. That's why it's imperative to teach people what adoption means. It's more than a symbolic gesture. You adopt them , they're yours, period.
Legally, he dodged a bullet. Many courts would not have thought twice about making him financially responsible for that kid. It probably helped a lot that the new boyfriend is the actual father.
That's not a moral delimna, but a legal one.
there just was no way to support that boy, without going back to being his Ex's cash machine. And no way in hell could he let that happen. His Ex is the one depriving her son of a quality education - by being a gold digging hustler/grifter who absolutely could not be trusted.
Exactly. That poor kid will be bounced from one foster home, to the next, at 17, hang out with friends who are negative influences, have a baby with a girl who had everything going for her, marry her, because she's pregnant, and drop out of high school, move into public housing, work minimum wage jobs, live on government assistance, Medicaid, and food stamps, have another baby, at 18 and not only will he have to have the courts force his egg donor to give up all that child support, in order, to pay for baby supplies/necessities/expenses, he'll also have to make her sell all her expensive trinkets, in order, to pay for his girlfriend's maternity/pregnancy expenses.⚠️
Well there is a thing called GETTING A REAL JOB.
As soon as I heard the “I met E at a Bar”, this was going to be bad. Then the part where she was a Single Mom having a child out of Wedlock was icing on the Cake. Bars are the worst places to find a Spouse. Men, do not take care of someone else’s responsibility!
Date, don't marry. The cream sours quickly.
My ex tried this with me until I gave judge a picture of her interracial black baby girl. She got nothing but jail, the father was 16 she was 40!
OP screwed up whenever her treated his second wife like a princess and got a joint bank account. If you put someone on a pedestal, eventually, they’ll look down on you.
What’s with ur bad grammar
Yup. Women end up believing that they are owed something because they are your wife. Just that. Your wife.
@@codysmith5888 "ur" enough said, clown
Not his kid, not his problem. What don't people understand about this??
Actually not the case. There's 100s of thousands of guys paying child support for kids that aren't theres.
@@glengarbera7367That’s wrong too.
@glengarbera7367 yes because they're on the birth certificate
Its women who pretend not to understand lol
Regular people understand that, but the courts frequently do not. They want someone to financially provide for the kid and often don't care whether that person is actually their parent. Strangely, even though they award child support without taking into account parentage, parentage is critical when deciding on visitation.
For what it’s worth this is my opinion. They were only together for two years and it’s not his child. He’s not his responsibility. At some point he would have reassessed continuing to support the child’s education. And his parents must’ve known. He was a pushover for them to will the trust fund to his daughter. I hope he finds happiness.
This is BETTER than television !!!
As a mother, if I wanted my new husband, who loved me and was able to provide that for my child, to provide those things for my child I would treat him right and not screw him over. Having a happy, loving marriage with the man providing those things for you and your child is the easiest way to ensure they continue to be provided.
Golddiggers don't think that way. It's all about his money and what she can buy for herself. 99% of the time, they could care less about their kid
And, most gold diggers believe they can get the court to continue the income stream by forcing alimony and child support payments onto their victim. My narcissist ex-wife literally cashed in her marriage in saying she didn’t need my cooperation because she would go through the court to get the money from me.
Plenty of sloot bags have kids just for a paycheck be it via child support welfare tax breaks or things like this.
You are uncommon.
You aren’t a modern woman
At least this one said No More, as in no more relationships, marriage etc.! I am at that point myself, I am happy being single and I prefer staying that way.
🤓…clever! 👍🏻
Enjoy your life buddy! 🇦🇺☕️
Me too 🎉🥳🎊🙌🥂🪅🎈😁😉!!!
That sucks 😂😂
You have to at least tell yourself you're better off with no one than the wrong one. I went almost 4 years without a serious relationship, only scratching itches from time to time. Eventually I met someone when I wasn't even looking and things fell into place. It was nice letting things naturally happen instead of being desperate and getting into an even worse situation.
OP has smart parents. They knew he'd be an idiot, doormat! But he still got used for 2yrs. Why he didn't kick her @$$ out when he saw another man in his bed is beyond me. Then spending his $$ on the kids dad!? WTH!! He dodged a cannon blast in the end!
Huh? He did kick her out after seeing the other man come out of the bedroom. She wanted to be caught because she thought she was in line for half a million.
“Why he didn't kick her @$$ out when he saw another man in his bed is beyond me.”
He played the long game. And he won. Sometimes you gotta spend a little money to protect yourself. Worked out well. It was the right move.
Just look at this as a business transaction. Getting laid costs money. A girlfriend provides emotional support and love and sex. A hooker provides sex with no strings attacted. A girlfriend and then wife costs a pile when she leaves and a lot of heartache and maybe child support. A hooker costs nothing to stop visiting' you get no grief and you never hear from her again. A hooker will cost money up front and a girlfriend wife way more down the road but you will feel loved once (hopefully), Choose wisely and slowly.😉
@@baseballsux2 Exactly. She wanted him to fly off the handle and be desperate to get rid of her. Then depending on how he reacted use that against him.
Amazing how many fools jump in to protect their fellow suckers. Thank God the man’s Father had a backbone.
I worked years ago with a co-worker who married a woman with two kids, she talked him into adopting her children, the marriage fell apart in two years, he now pays child support to her for two children that are not even his, the youngest was 3 years old at time.
I am sad for him. I can say that I would never adopt someone else's kids. If the relationship flourishes, then adopt them after they are 18 years of age if you should so desire. For me, I avoid responsibility as if it is the plague.
😭
Entrapment plain and simple.
I don’t see him getting 50% custody 😂 she would argue the kids aren’t his.
Happened almost exactly like that to a friend of mine. So sad.
A fool and his money are soon to part.
Only 11 years younger? Dude, my wife is 23 years younger than me, and she cooks and iron my clothes for me. I waited 25 years after my previous divorce before marrying a new girl. Don't let that loneliness control your emotions.
I got ya beat by a year, mine is 24 years younger. lol
So you want a servant? What a weird thing to brag about.
@Syntax-Savvy nope. We've got two maids to do house chores. My wife loves to cook, and she knows I love her cooking. She cooks better than any 5 stars chef in all those expensive restaurants. And she doesn't trust the maids to do a good job in ironing my clothes, so she does it herself.
Household chores ---> the maids. But when it comes to anything to do with me, my wife will handle it.
Looks like you have a woman with more morals than most these days.
You wife is beta af.
This is why boys need fathers...his father saved him years in advance.
It wouldn’t have been fair to the boy to go to a school where everyone was richer than him. And I agree with the lawyer that it would be a never ending fight.
For heaven's sake, she was with the father of the child... it should be his responsibiiity! Op gave her everything she had when she entered the marrage and more so she has no room to complain and definitely not to feel entitiled to!
Women wait at the finish line for the winner
This story really hits home for me as well. I have been divorced from my ex for quite sometime now, but i still think about how I was used just to help raise a child that wasn't mine only to be shamed by her for not spoiling him the way she wanted me too. I unfortunately had to pay her a substantial final payout as well as 1 year of alimony. I see so many sights relating to men not wanting marriages or walking away from women who feel they are entitled and still wanting equality. I'm trying not to be tainted but i have learned a lesson
Way to know a real from a fake? Prenup
@@beverlyarcher546 what is 'real' or 'fake' anyway? In either case they come after your money when they divorce you, so, whats the difference? Well, Prenup covers both, so, all good.
I feel this. I've been married twice, and both turned out to be malignant narcissists. (I'm autistic, and have trouble seeing red flags.) I will never go that path again. I won't get into what my exes did, but it's so much worse than you can probably imagine.
@@beverlyarcher546prenups don't work anymore. Females know all about the 7 years 3 months and 14 days that will render a prenup useless. They will play their games for 7 years 6 months, file for divorce and demand everything since most hours will throw out a prenup because of time. The infamous seven year statute of limitations, making it null and void.
@@mystikmind2005no they dont
People like OP are easy TARGETS for con-women like Elior. I have personally seen and witnessed such women in bars, scouting for an easy prey. They don't make immediate moves, they study and do a lot of research about you and your financial background, before hitting on you. They prefer rich widows, single old men, or emotionally struggling men as their victims. These men are vulnerable, especially when they are intoxicated. Not all men are lucky like the OP in this story. Remarraiges are made in HELL, and the majority of them don't succeed at all. Most of these remarriages don't even last 2 to 4 years. Doesn't matter you are a man or woman, you have to be very careful when you want to marry a individual with children. You should and must do a little research about your partner's background before you move forward. Confide with someone you trust, especially your children, siblings, or friends. Don't reveal any personal information about yourself to these women, you will simply be making yourself even more vulnerable than you already are.
Everything about this woman is a red flag. She has the market cornered on red flags. 😈
He should have smelled that taint a mile away.
Even when they have nothing, when someone wrongs you and plots against you always sue them as well as other reprisals so they never end up having anything and you can take from them for rhe rest of their lives. Can't let sludge flow free just because it's worthless and has nothing now.
Absolutely shut the door and lock it.
Thank you Mr Reddito for another day of great stories 😊
The OP is a good guy. Not providing for the child of the slattern is the right choice. It's not his kid, legally or biologically, and thus not his responsibility. It's also worth noting that she wasn't providing for her own damned kid in the first place. Let CPS put him in a better home.
Meeting her at a bar is….A RED FLAG
That's where I met my wife of 45 years!
@@billbrugh9308 that was 45 years ago I'm talking about now
Na dude. That's literally how you meet normal people
Even if the trust fund was his, he wouldn't be able to pull out anything from it. That's the whole point of it.
The one sign of fakeness I got from the story. Might have been others, but that one I noticed.
Depends on who the person in charge of the trust is and the terms in it. And a judgement from a court can do it as well.
@@callak_9974 No...that isn't how a Trust works. The court can't order anything about it, she wouldn't be able to touch it... That's the entire point of it being held in "Trust"...
No he cant be responsible for another man child when he has divorced the mother
Here’s a legal point of view,if he started paying for school for a period of time she could go back to court and demand child support on the pretense that he’s taking responsibility of the child because of paying for his school. He could get tricked into paying the child’s expenses till he turns 18.
good luck selling that to the court, considering the circumstances surrounding the fraud she committed with the monies already embezzled from their joint account, that was supposed to be going toward the boys education. That would take one extra tricky, extra-legal trick. But, maybe this guy lives in the third world? Or maybe a Portland OR, or Seattle WA anarchist leftist court? You know, places whose Jurisprudence contain neither legitimate Juris, and very little prudence.
This very true. And happens often.
If she did that who wants to bet she would have squandered that money on herself and not her kid?
Also, the child’s biological father was back, doesn’t that make him responsible for the welfare of the child?
@@charlesstevenson535 you would think so
Sounds to me that he played the bad situation just perfectly. Once her true colors came though, I think he reacted perfectly. Bravo
Someone tries to destroy you like that, grind them into the dirt. Sue, defame, and devalue them so they can't be a parasite upon others. He should have sued her into oblivion.
Yes, he really was too generous to her. Not only was he not financially responsible for her son; for his own protection as the wronged party, he really should have sued her and her baby daddy for breach of the marriage contract/adultery and let it be won in the legal system. He could have petitioned the court to show mercy and not execute it. The judge most likely have honored his request, but it would’ve caused her to more fully recognize that he didn’t owe her anything while SHE could’ve ended up in jail for not paying HIM? As it stands, she’s still trying to plot some way to extort money from him. She thought he was completely stupid. She played herself and ended up worse off. Poor kid deserves better. How much you want to bet that deadbeat baby daddy disappeared again after he realized there’d be no more money?
Hope OP isn’t scarred for life now.
@@antoinettejohnson6251 Too right. The baby daddy has no honor or loyalty. Same for the mother. Neither of them have empathy and I doubt they've learned anything from this. They'll continue to repeat their cyclically toxic behavior.
No mercy....
Prenup
Prenatal agreements are bullshit courts throwaway and nullify them every day
Marriage is a contract where the other person benefits from breaking it. Never sign such a contract. It's not worth it.
Well the gold digger dug her own grave
☠️ Well Said
What’s crazy is this man is 50 and his daughter still had to be the one to caution his spending smh like a simp he’s giving her everything because he’s so desperate to have her around
You hear his voice? Dead giveaway lol
Daughter knows because she's a woman herself and knows the game lol
@@Law19157 that’s true but imagine being 50 with millions of dollars and not knowing this smh.. he’s just a liability with no backbone.
@@trantorthetroll8768 yeah and I still listened to it, I guess i brought this on myself lol
@@jamesrobinson2138 Yup. These guys do it to themselves, in the age of knowledge its people's own fault for being ignorant.
Its simple. He tried giving money for kid but she spent it all.
It's called bait and switch. The woman finds out what you're looking for in a woman, and then tries to show you that she fulfills your every dream. That is till you marry her. Then she could be herself. You're not going to like what you find. 😈
Gotta say it goes both ways without tactic. Plenty of guys pull this stunt too
Not all women are like that, nor men.
@@cathybaldry7822Not exactly.. guys do as they are told by everyone to behave..
A young man assumes he is the one NOT knowing how to proceed with women so they take cues from everywhere..
The issue is those ideas are lies since women hardly every say what they really want.
All I have to say is kudos to OPs very smart parents
I had a prenup /cohabitation agreement prepared before I allowed my husband to move in. Everything I own is in a trust. His kids were also included in the prenup. Nope. I worked hard, saved, and it's for my children and grandchildrens future. Not theirs.
so you have live in sex partner, not a husband.
@@Gopherzooka I married a man, not a dependent.
Good for you 👍!!!
I have done the same. Single moms need to do what we need to do.
@@GoddessDivThey need to stay the f alone.
They played They lost. Step aside instead of destroying the dating pool for everyone.
He’s not responsible for the child, because the mother chose the biological dad twice! First time she made the bad choice by having a baby from him, and the second time was cheating on her kind husband. When the boy is old enough to understand, I would take him under my wing and start supporting him by helping him find a good job or pay for the education. It is hard for the child to suffer for the mothers mistakes though.
A joint account with a woman you married and hardly know
They were together for 3 yrs.
I am so glad OP had great family members, that protected him right from the beginning of a tragedy that befell him (his wife's death).
Two years marriage! And even if the trust was in his name, how could she feel entitled to that much money? Very odd to me. But, who knows, maybe the rich travel on a different plane than me.
The sad thing is she would have spent it all and CC tried to find another victim, instead of investing and growing it.
Marrying a single mother is the dumbest thing a man can do
This guys parents are the real winner here. 👏🏽
Not his son, not his responsibility. Good for him for moving on in the right direction.
Good afternoon everyone and Mr. Reddito 😊
What is with these people that are so concerned about a brat that is not theirs?
reason why you should never marry a single mom you might become attached to the kid and then find out what your rights are as a step parent in a word NONE.
the main red flag is to ask "why she is a single mom?" did the last guy bail for a reason?
Thanx to your parents ...such a wisdom...
True story. My brother and i are trust fund kids. He married his college gf and within a few months the mask slipped and she became abusive physically and verbally and would openly cheat and brag about it to him. It was clear what she was trying to do. He was just starting his residency and didnt want to deal with it anymore and divorced her. She gleefully exclaimed how she is going to take all of our money and properties from the trust. So court comes and goes. Reverse uno card. Trust funds are NOT marital assets as long as it wasnt set up and contributed to jointly. It was created by my dad. We both put all of our expensive posession back into the trust so technically both of us are dirt poor and my brother was a broke college kid in the eyes of the law. She got held in contempt of court and jailed for 7 days because she was using every obscenity in the world at everyone in the court room. Then exclaimed how she deserves it for having to deal with the struggle of being a woman. She then spit at the bailiff who tried to calm her down. Thats real, that actually happened. Shes been trespassed on both our properties, and my brother jas a restraining order against her.
Please protect yourselves guys.
Yes I feel sorry for the kid but he wasn't OPs kid and his dad was now back in the picture so let him give financial help to the bike and his son. Hate women who only go after men for their money, I admit I can't see the point in spending money on designer things or expensive restaurants etc unless it's a really really special occasion (I'm more than happy to go to the local carvery or the local Chinese buffet where I get two good meals and drinks for about £30 and that's on a weekend 🤣)
I would never pay for kids that is not mine, I need to put that money in to mine!!!
I think he should wait for the kid to become 18 before helping him out.
Not his monkey, not his circus.
It's just wasting time and resources.
If your partner is much younger and better looking than you and you’re financially well off… you should take double precaution just to make sure. Not being mean, just being real. Ask yourself: would they still be with me if I didn’t have what I have and couldn’t provide what I provide?
any man who passed his 20's and meets a woman in a night club she's only there for the money you can give her. not saying go to church and such to find a wife, but a bar or night club isn't bad when your both in the 20's but a 10 plus year gap. she's in prime time and your the last night movie. so it's on you guy your parents know you well.
Single mom bartenders are not the best catch nor good at bringing assets to the table for a long term relationship.
*Am English/Australian, i was in USA five months, was surprised how monetarily minded American women are, first few mins meeting asking salary and assets as if setting up to divorce me, VERY RUDE* 🤬🤬🤬
I’m soooo glad I saw this video. It actually made me think, that just because you’re lonely because of being divorced or something else. It’s not the best idea to jump into any relationship on those reasons!
These days, you really need to be careful of who you date and give your heart to!!!!!
Money always seems to bring out the worst in people. Not everyone, but I would guess a solid percentage of them.
And always will
If a kid is already school age, then quitting work completely to spend more time with them makes no sense. You just get a different job that coincides with school hours.
Exactly that should’ve been red flag central.
Was standing in line to pay for some food at a convenient store. There was a long line. The older man behind me asked if they were all there to play the lottery. It was way up there at the time. I said no and he said. I went to the bank and asked how much they would give me on my house. I think it was like $50,000. He said I put it all on the lottery. I said Damn what are you going to do if you lose? He said he didn’t care the wife got it in the divorce. He is a Legend.
Could OP have gone for full custody? If the child is old enough to make his own decisions, he might just choose to live a better life with OP.
You can't get full custody of a step child. You have to adopt the son first. Which means the mother still have parental rights. So only shared custody only.
The mother will have to give up her son for adoption and give up parental rights to the child. In order for the adoptive father to get full custody.
You forgot to mention that the kid's biological father would have to do the same since apparently he's still alive. @@iMadrid11
The kid was like 5-6 years old, that was said at some point in the video. So not anywhere close to being old enough to make his own decisions. @jozf8163
He could have gotten full custody step parent or no she & th father are unfit
Tip from Thailand: never fall in love with the bar girls.
You can take the Thai girl out of the bar but not the bar out of the Thai girl
I have a friend who entered into a relationship with a single mother with one child. She told my friend the father of her child deserted them. He paid for everything she and the child needed. Ten years later he found out the woman had a secret bank account where the father of her child paid $2000 a month into that account. Lucky he never married her. There was a property settlement but she failed mention the secret bank account and monies she had. She was exposed in court and the Judge punished her with nothing from the relationship.
Never, ever, ever open a joint account with a spouse or significant other. All ways keep your moneys from your jobs separate. If one partner quits their jobs, then when their money runs out, oh well.
Wait...even if it was in his name, she wouldn't be able to get it since it's inherited and it was before
the marriage
There is practically zero difference between a woman who is genuine and a woman who is a gold digger. In either case they will come after your money when they divorce you, so what's the difference really? The difference is the gold diggers motivation for divorce was per-meditated, but beyond that the divorce and cash grab are equally as inevitable.
So, men being afraid of gold diggers is kind of moot in my opinion..... marriage in general is the thing to be feared!
I'm just glad that things worked out for him and the harpy didn't manage to steal his money.
His parents didn't miss on this , 👏🏽👏🏽💯💯
Once you set a precedent of paying for things you aren’t obligated to pay, the court will convert your generosity into an obligation. In family court, never offer to pay anything, and never agree to pay anything you aren’t required to pay.
My man, if you are going to pick up a woman in the bar then keep around for sex but do not have a relationship or marry her. Wifes are not found in bars.
He met her at a bar..... da dum dum..
It’s always the man who ditched the woman and abandoned the child, yet it’s the same women that tend to have it happen over and over again. When there’s a singular common denominator the actual problem seems to be obvious.
I lost my first spouse to a heart attack 16 years ago. I was 55 years old at the time. After extensive searches, I went to the Philippines and found a very nice Filipina who was not after my money. We have been married for 14 years. Best decision I have made in the last 14 years.
Of course there are plenty of women in the Philippines that are also after your money. If you want a spouse that is not after your money, you have to learn to ask revealing questions and do a little research into that person before allowing them into your life. I found the Filipina women to be more about family than the money. This was refreshing to find.
Her career as a bartender? Fasionista😂
If getting Married And have money get a prunup
It's very common to extort from people who are genuine and want to provide. My dad provided a lot for his brother and he stung my dad badly towards the end. Now we have taught him a lesson or two about finances and taken control of the situation so that he cannot extort any more money from us. My dad though felt betrayed and has sadly passed away recently. Just feel bad about it all.
I wound up paying my ex's bills in lieu of child support. She couldn't be trusted with the money. I had almost nothing to my name after divorce and was still leery of gold diggers.
This is what happens when you marry a trophy wife. Maybe don't do that next time
She can get a job to provide for her son and the fact that the child has a living father who can also be responsible for his upbringing.10:48
GOOD FOR YOU! Good for your family! You stay strong you wonderful man!
Thanks for shairing, great lessons to be taken. The man was lucky and his parents in hindsight, clearly foresaw this happening. Good lawyer too.
The wife was silliy and delusional 😂
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Fantastic story. Thanks for sharing!
Lmaooooo 😂😂😂😂😂 pops knew his son was simp level super saiyan 😂😂😂😂
Op Nta the ex wife ruined it for herself and the son just by being a gold digger he doesn’t owe the mom or son anything he tried to help out but got taken advantage of for real never let someone get to comfortable around you cause it’s always a situation and wait at least 5-6 years to marry someone especially if you don’t know their mindset
Yes I agree her name is probably Elinor they just forgot the "n".
His divorce ending is better than that of a lot of men. given the way the law works he effeminately made the right choice in not helping the child, witch is the fault of the law not the child or his. The point women should take from this is that this is one more responsible caring man who has abandoned the idea of marriage. The story and many much worse also scare men away from marriage. Congrats ladies and lawyers. As for her she got far more than she deserved from him and far less than she deserved in punishment.
Thst definitely a red flag toxicity spending so much and demand even more.great work being rid of this vile character 😑
Reach the the neck.. if missed, then reach to the feet.. but get the job done