While I Was Away On Trip,My Entitled StepSon Sends Me Text " I Found Your BMW & Destroyed It, B*tch"

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    OP is a stepmother who has been facing a challenging relationship with her stepson, Daniel, ever since she married his father, David. Daniel has held a deep resentment towards the narrator, blaming her for the breakup of his family, even though his mother left him and his father when he was just nine years old.
    The story highlights the stepmother's attempts to bond with Daniel and be empathetic to his difficult situation. However, he remains hostile and uncooperative, displaying aggressive behavior. The narrator is initially understanding but gradually becomes frustrated with Daniel's relentless hostility and disruptive actions, particularly when he intentionally disturbs her guests and plays loud music in the living room.
    A significant turning point occurs when the stepmother falls ill and lies in the living room for a rest. Daniel's disruptive behavior continues, prompting David, his father, to intervene. This leads to a physical confrontation between David and Daniel, ultimately resulting in Daniel moving out and going to college dorms with David's support.
    In subsequent updates, it's revealed that Daniel's behavior has been linked to drug use and his mother's manipulation, as she had fed him lies about his father's alleged abuse. Therapy is initiated to address Daniel's deep-seated issues, with the hope of healing and reconciliation. The stepmother shares her emotional journey and expresses gratitude for the support and understanding of the Reddit community.
    The most recent update reveals that Daniel's therapy has unveiled further disturbing truths about his mother's manipulative actions and her role in turning him against his father. The family is working towards healing and recovery, and there is a heartwarming note about the stepmother and David planning to have a baby, bringing a glimmer of joy to their lives amid the challenges they've faced.
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  • @stevenbateman5573
    @stevenbateman5573 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    i'd send the little bastard to jail for wrecking the car--he's 19 and knows better and should be severely punished--

  • @cathyg8702
    @cathyg8702 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Is no one else a little concerned that the biological mother hasn’t been seen or heard from for what sounds like many years. I may watch too many true crime stories but losing control and beating someone up isn’t usually a one time thing. The fact that the mechanic has also never been seen again is concerning.

    • @dvonart
      @dvonart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Meh too many keyboard detectives, so I try not to let my mind run wild

    • @largol33t1
      @largol33t1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Doesn't mean a thing. They probably ran off and are living together.

    • @scarter8137
      @scarter8137 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Apparently she contacts her parents 🤷🏼‍♀️ Guess she is alive just NOT interested in her son!

    • @FordManiac76
      @FordManiac76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The subtle red flags🚩 in this story are starting to add up!

    • @magoncox6163
      @magoncox6163 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      People run off and leave with no word . Happens all the time .

  • @stephanietaylor142
    @stephanietaylor142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    For stepmothers everywhere...my stepmother was a wonderful person. She was the best mother I could've ever wished for. I know she can't be the only one and you all deserve love and respect

    • @kathrynbillinghurst188
      @kathrynbillinghurst188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Bless your sweet heart 💖
      I’d love to add that for Mothers in Law too. My mother in law has been great 💯😘💋thanx Carole! ❤

    • @indianheadjerry2622
      @indianheadjerry2622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fk stepmothers!!!

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I had a step grandfather (dads side) he passed a few months after my grandpa (moms side) I was 2 when dads dad passed away so I remember my step more so I really couldn't tell you what a step is like having 30 years back April of 93 exactly since dads dad passed away that was a bad year for us since parents were married till moms death back in 2020 dads dating again but neither are sure if they want to get married again or not might just be companions she lost her husband just a few years back

    • @GoodVybzzz
      @GoodVybzzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank You 🤗 Exactly what I needed to hear right now. As a good stepmom the “evil stepmother“ stigma sucks, even more so when you’re completely the opposite. I couldn’t imagine being any other way to my “Lovebugs” Still It can sometimes be a thankless position especially as a good one Its rarely ever because of the kid more often has to do with the adults in the kids circle. When I first became a Stepmom it was a little scary to put my heart out there especially when giving it to ppl who didn’t have to love you back. They do not need to be committed to you, they didn’t sign up for you. That’s why it’s awesome when they’re like that to you❤
      So Thank You

    • @stephanietaylor142
      @stephanietaylor142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@GoodVybzzz ❤️

  • @staceyearle2817
    @staceyearle2817 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    She really thinks bringing a baby into this mess right now is a good idea 👀👀🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿

    • @eowyneadig7879
      @eowyneadig7879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The asshole grown son doesn’t even need to stay there at the house. If he’s going to cause problems for his new half-sibling he can leave forever.

    • @beeniecat9411
      @beeniecat9411 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sometimes it is big news that overshadows everything else. How old are you?

  • @lucillepfundt6757
    @lucillepfundt6757 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    David needs to go to anger management and Daniel needs to see a psychologist and Op and David needs to see a marriage counselor to try to mend all these fences. Daniel needs to be told the truth about why his father divorced his mother and got custody of Daniel. Apparently Daniel's mother wasn't deemed fit to have Daniel and he needs to know why! Op was not the cause for the divorce so Daniel needs to grow up!

    • @JaakJacobus
      @JaakJacobus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      According to the story: the mother just left her son. No need for a judge to give custody to the father, the mother dumped her son.

    • @groofromtheup5719
      @groofromtheup5719 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beating the crap out of an asshole that maliciously destroyed your car is not worthy of requiring anger management

  • @amandaclayton9913
    @amandaclayton9913 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Just because he hadn't been violent to you, doesn't mean he wasn't to his ex. My ex husband pinned me to a chair with a knife held at my throat and repeatedly punched me in the stomach. Since I got away he's been in 2 relationships and as far as I know he's not been violent with either of them

  • @markkoops2611
    @markkoops2611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He's an adult, kick him out and let him support himself

  • @FordManiac76
    @FordManiac76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The subtle red flags🚩 in this story are starting to add up!

  • @lisadelgado228
    @lisadelgado228 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    My daughters have a stepmom and we are cool. She’s been in their life like 15 plus years. My older daughter didn’t go to the wedding, she had a tough time with the divorce and he was married in 3 months time. But after we became grandparents, I told my daughters that she had nothing to do with our divorce. They can be nice to her & call her mom too. It wouldn’t hurt my feelings. They have siblings too so I have raised our daughters that they have a lot more ppl who love them. Their Stepmom is not evil like mines was

  • @marktwain2053
    @marktwain2053 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If the kid is 18, and in college, it's not his house anymore, and since you became the lady of the house, it's yours.
    If his mother was so wonderful, why didn't she take him with her, instead of abandoning him to her "Abusive" husband?
    Chances are, she now has another family, and doesn't give him a second thought, while he is her ignorant "White Knight".
    The way she manipulated her own son to hurt her ex was pure evil, and it's horrible that she ruined both their lives just to appease her delusional vengeance.

  • @millicentspears
    @millicentspears 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    David should have already put Daniel in therapy when wife left.

    • @lisadelgado228
      @lisadelgado228 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And took anger management classes

  • @auntievenom9619
    @auntievenom9619 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’m very concerned about OP bringing a baby into that blender of an environment. Run, girl. You in danger.

  • @suzannecooke2055
    @suzannecooke2055 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good gawd lady! Be careful - Daniel may very well take out his anger on the baby,

  • @dorothylloyd1804
    @dorothylloyd1804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Daniel should have been in therapy from when his mom left

    • @michaelplunkett8059
      @michaelplunkett8059 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Daniel - no visit, no check for college.
      If he hasn't mastered basic civility, he is not ready for college. Or 5th grade for that matter.

  • @susankearney2501
    @susankearney2501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Daniel should have been in therapy from the time his mother left, and David should be In jail for abusing both the ex,and Daniel

    • @cathyg8702
      @cathyg8702 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If his mother left….

  • @theplaintech
    @theplaintech 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    A few of us are concerned for the child about to be born. There is a distinct possibility that Daniel could come and injure or even kill the baby. Things like that do happen. OP and David should get a restraining order, possibly. I know it doesn't help therapy, but it still might be a course of wise action.

    • @JaakJacobus
      @JaakJacobus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@fullfyr You do realize Daniel committed grand theft auto, uses drugs and is on his way to become a career criminal. It wouldn't surprise me after the destructive upbringing as a child by his mother, he'll end up as a serial killer and end up on the FBI most wanted list.

    • @susanfarley1332
      @susanfarley1332 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I not only worry about the baby but also the stepmom. Teen age kids have killed family members when they are so full of rage. It has been in the news and I would hate for that to happen. The boy should have been to a therapist long ago.

  • @deborahkizer4664
    @deborahkizer4664 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    And to be honest how can you even assume what might be done or happened. We can't depends on the situations. Some have led to suicide I'm just saying. When do know about.😢🙏

  • @frankd5426
    @frankd5426 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    19 is not just a teenager (certainly not a "kid")
    its a young adult
    in many countries you can vote, enlist etc
    time daniel grew up.
    it may be daneils home (for now) but its not his house. it is however his fathers.
    at 19, the time may fast approach, when it is no longer daniels home
    at a guess. thanks to the divorce
    the family has always coddled daniel. hence he has never grown up or been held accountable for anything!
    so he is a 19 yr old spoiled brat of a manchild!

  • @Danarchy3
    @Danarchy3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My step mom was a horrible person. She openly treated me worse than her kids and my father knew it. He told me that he saw how she treated me but didn't do anything about it because he didn't want to make waves in the house. Thankfully i didn't live with him and only had to deal with her on occasion.
    Dad told me for years about family heirlooms that would be mine one day. When he passed i got none of them and she sold every thing that was worth more than a nickel. Months later she said "ive got a box of your dads stuff for you if you want to come pick it up." Sje left it on the porch and didn't even talk to me. When i opened the box it was all small sentimental stuff that she couldnt sell. Jokes on her, that stuff meant more to me then what she sold off

  • @notovny
    @notovny 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Eh, if David has to lock himself up to deal with his anger issues, he probably needs to get help on a better coping method before things blow up someplace where he can't lock himself up.

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bratty Daniel should join him as it sounds like the kid is headed in that direction get it under control before gets out of hand

  • @lisadelgado228
    @lisadelgado228 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    So sorry you are going through that! But no teenager needs to disrespect any type of adult. You too. Not all stepmothers are evil. My stepmom is evil to me, but I still never disrespected her. Even up to my dad’s death bed. My evil stepmom actually told me I wasn’t “his real daughter “
    I was the first baby he met and he and my mom married and had my sister and brother. At 13, I was told he did NOT “make “ me I came from another “man” I never met In my whole life. So from age 9-13 my stepmom was the one telling me the truth. And I have anger issues, I’m not disrespectful of her ever. Still. So no excuse for that behavior 😊

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was cursed growing up looked like my cousin seriously strangers who saw us together would think we were mother and daughter even my uncle wondered whos baby I was when he first saw me was living in another state at the time and cousin was holding me and when I started wearing glasses I looked even more like her I finally had enough with short hair and told mom I wanted to grow it out at 11 years old I finally looked less like her when I hit teenage years which i'm more happy about

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil5718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To step-son Daniel :
    Play Stupid Games. WIN STUPID PRIZES !!!

  • @mikediehl868
    @mikediehl868 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Everybody should have been in therapy

  • @stephanietaylor142
    @stephanietaylor142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Punk is so bad his own mother ditched him

  • @InvasionAnimation
    @InvasionAnimation 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I feel like the father iz abuzive.

  • @stellaluuk2713
    @stellaluuk2713 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd go straight to the police with texts about the threat to the car and a smashed up car.

  • @25scigirl
    @25scigirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good story. I understand completely what OP is going through because I was a little bit like Daniel where I played try to get rid of the step-parent. Unfortunately, that did not work because my parents still got remarried and I had to deal with it.
    Sounds like Daniel needs to be put into military school or something of that nature, but of course having a dorm room at the nearby college is good too because it will give Daniel some independence and teach him how to be a man and live on his own.
    Therapy is a great way for people to get help, especially if they have issues with another person and/or a lot of problems. I hope that you, David, and Daniel will all get therapy to help each other out with whatever situations you have to deal with.
    I knew there was going to be something like this, but I never imagined how severe Daniel's case was until he finally came out about his mother. His mother does not have bruises, scars, or injuries to prove that Daniel was abusing her. I feel bad that Daniel's mom put him through with what she did and I hope that he will know that his father and step-mother love him. Sad that we have to deal with things like this. None of this is your fault, please remember that OP and try to reconcile with Daniel if you can, but try not to over-mother him because he is an adult and can do things for himself. You can buy Daniel and David a few gifts like a gift card to Home Depot, a new video game, or you can just watch the men play video games and have dinner together or go out to eat. Good luck to all of you and I hope that you will enjoy each other's company.

  • @xxcrump3575
    @xxcrump3575 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This story wasn't worth listening to. The end should have left Daniel fending for himself from now on, and him paying for the damages he done to his father's car.

  • @sherrischweigl6860
    @sherrischweigl6860 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congratulations on your pregnancy! Thank goodness Daniel is in therapy, his mother sure did a number on him and she should be ashamed of herself.

  • @nickeyharris
    @nickeyharris 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So he keeps beating his son and she keeps denying he was ever abusive. I'm confused.

  • @nimisilverbird1239
    @nimisilverbird1239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nta. Daniel is old enough to be sued for defamation and slander. Also he can be arrested for criminal damage to property. Daniel isn't very bright is he. Let him rot in jail

  • @sherlocksteve9109
    @sherlocksteve9109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope the ex-wife gets found and gets charged with felony child abuse. So after this post had outed her, she better run farther away. But I hope she gets caught and gets dragged to court and faces some PRISON TIME!!

  • @jefferypowell9885
    @jefferypowell9885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Call that lier out

  • @CattReed
    @CattReed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Listen there are wonderful step parents and awful step parents. Unfortunately we don't get to hear about the amazing ones that sometimes take better care of the children than their bio parents do. I have much respect for all step parents who are just great parents and love the kids all the same ❤❤❤

  • @robingibson6561
    @robingibson6561 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a little afraid that OP is considering bringing a baby into this situation with Daniel just entering therapy. He took his frustration out on her car, he CANNOT be trusted around a baby. He might think OP and David are trying to replace him. Too soon...

  • @marktwain2053
    @marktwain2053 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kids always hope that their parents will get back together, and they will all live happily ever after.
    They don't remember, or just ignored the reasons for, the split, but somehow all the toxicity will miraculously be gone.
    My ex cheated on me so much, that I doubt even she knows how many times.
    I stuck out the abuse and disrespect until the youngest was old enough to understand, then I left.
    She was such a wonderful mother, that she had already kicked the two oldest, still underage, out of the house because they were disrespectful of her.
    Talk about double standards.
    She didn't even show up for the oldest daughter's graduation, because that was her weekend to go to her lover's place (she actually had to make appointments, because he had other married women on the hook).
    All four were still upset after the divorce, because I started seeing other women, and they told me I should have stayed single in case their mother ever came to her senses, and wanted us to get back together.
    Like that would ever happen.
    I told them I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than ever touch her again.
    I remarried to a woman that was 180° from her, and eventually two of the four thought more highly of her than their own mother.
    The other two I don't even speak to now, because she has convinced them, regardless of proof to the contrary, that I was the one cheating, and she was the "Innocent Victim".

  • @Einny807
    @Einny807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Daniel can get lots of free therapy when he's in prison or a nut house.

  • @sheilaclemett4353
    @sheilaclemett4353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not a good idea for the OP and her husband to have a baby. That could set the stepson back.

  • @kenarddaley4728
    @kenarddaley4728 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The son said “it’s my house and I’ll do what I want.” You let that type of $&@ go and your kids become serial killers. Guide, discipline, and raise your kids or society will step up and guide, discipline, and raise them for you. Hence, you won’t like the result.

  • @xoskeleto
    @xoskeleto 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a stepmum and thankfully get on really well with my 2 plus my own son they have all grown up into wonderful adults now I’m so thankful to them now have 6 grandkids who I love very much ❤ it’s so sad when theirs hatred in a relationship I’ve always said communication is the best way all round xxx Anita uk ps mr Reddito love your cool to be kind and gentle see yah xx

  • @beeniecat9411
    @beeniecat9411 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Daniel is a big man till his daddy shows up.

  • @abelovedsonofGodinwhomHeis35-6
    @abelovedsonofGodinwhomHeis35-6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So you are sharing a story in a lovely way of a step father constantly beating up his step son

  • @carrieowen5895
    @carrieowen5895 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not cool to lay hands in anger even if he's a brat. Its obvious the kid is hurting way hard.

  • @WardenSpectreCommander
    @WardenSpectreCommander 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Daniel is a psycho and I wouldnt have any problems with David kicking the crap out of him.

  • @westernbody
    @westernbody 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally a good stepmother story

  • @Danarchy3
    @Danarchy3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    11:20 we all have anger issues... uh NO.

  • @kathrynbillinghurst188
    @kathrynbillinghurst188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear OP…you are so c👀l because you’re KIND 🥰
    I hope everything goes well with the baby plans!
    I hope Daniel can be helped. He should still be held accountable for vandalism.
    Watch out for drug use, it can destroy him completely! 😣
    Please keep us updated in this SAGA and be healthy and safe. Oh yes, please keep us posted?
    ✨💕✨💖✨💕✨💖

  • @trishallain6503
    @trishallain6503 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think op's mother and sister are toxic and will never learn.
    I LOVE how OP and her cop boyfriend came up with a fantastic plan. They stole money several times, lied, cheated with 1st husband, took her for granted. They got many chances and still treated her like 💩

  • @masterbond9
    @masterbond9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i had a stepdad, it was a complicated relationship, but after covid he went from someone who has a few beers after work to someone who insists on getting drunk every day. me and my mom left him almost a year ago. we're doing fine. him? not so much...

  • @drmikesmith6262
    @drmikesmith6262 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:14 this was a root cause of most this story. Father should’ve sought therapy for himself and son after this and moms absence

  • @davidsmith-ry6ps
    @davidsmith-ry6ps 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That kid needs military school

  • @eowyneadig7879
    @eowyneadig7879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    On Flight 93 that was crashed before it could hit the Capitol on 9/11, there was a college-aged young woman who called her stepmother to say goodbye instead of calling her biological mother.

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💔❤😩

    • @cybercat29
      @cybercat29 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😭💔

  • @nimisilverbird1239
    @nimisilverbird1239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nta. Daniel needs to learn manners and control. Community space needs to be respected. Otherwise take his stuff away

  • @addybishop308
    @addybishop308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Why the heck does OP not blame her husband or believe any of the abuse when she has at least twice mentioned he beat the snot out of his son? The kid learned his behavior from his dad. He’s even angrier nobody believes him. I don’t care if he was swearing or even destroyed a car. You don’t go punching and beating them. Yet OP swears all over he’s not abusive?
    Am I crazy here?

  • @kla631
    @kla631 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Danny's problem was not his stepmother, it was his mother abandoning him. He was too afraid to become attached in case the step also left. So he pushed her away and wouldn't give her the chance.

  • @joannewoodward3480
    @joannewoodward3480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, he's aggressive and violent and physically violent but no one thought to intervene and maybe get him some help?

  • @Bdear1
    @Bdear1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would worry about a baby in that home. Violence at all isn't ok, & for him to go into such a rage is a huge danger towards others. Violence against a woman, & witnessed toward his child is a huge issue no matter what the other person does. He needs help too, to ever be safe enough for a child.

  • @fredvelasco9187
    @fredvelasco9187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OP is NTAH. When mental issues are at play hard to decide what are right or wrong decisions.

  • @jessikarrer2274
    @jessikarrer2274 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think someone is in a smidge of denial on the hubby being violent

  • @Peril_Eyes
    @Peril_Eyes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't imagine being done raising a child to adulthood then starting over especially after such a dumpster fire failure at parenting the first time.

  • @nancymcclain2533
    @nancymcclain2533 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When your children damage your property1. you have to include the police to be charged with malicious damage or theft or 2. Sue your son for damages. 3. Might be a little out there but find the mom and make her pay for the counseling for the emotional damage by abandoning son. It won't fix the car but fix the son.

  • @ytubesuxshite4497
    @ytubesuxshite4497 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Disavow the kid, have your own and move on.

  • @viewer777100
    @viewer777100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Counseling 911

  • @kevinmulkey9774
    @kevinmulkey9774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hope Daniel can get his mind in the right head space. He did some bad things that made me lean toward not liking him. But in the end he is just suffering, and collateral damage from having a crap bio mom.

  • @jamescline4307
    @jamescline4307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    David probably off'd his wife and her lover... Hints they've never heard from her again!!!!

    • @reginafetty6374
      @reginafetty6374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was my first thought when they said they both disappeared.

  • @chuyvaldesfloresvaldes9671
    @chuyvaldesfloresvaldes9671 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you think that environment is healthy for you child?

  • @jamesloll4601
    @jamesloll4601 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes... life just hands you a losing hand where all involved are human, imperfect but well meaning and every lie told to cover your own butt sometimes? Have serious ripples to all those whom you care about. An unfaithful wife that gets off cheating on her husband but lies to her son to cover it. A Son that believes it and makes dad number one Enemy while step-mom is obvious public enemy number two. All lines of communication ARE shut down by the son while his mom? Runs to live her life as she sees fit. Man this was a cluster bomb and I can easily see how it happens. I SHOULD know as my mom told me about my dad... and he DIDN'T want anything to do with me... PAINFUL BUT? I actually made an effort to connect with him anyways. Save? He told me once too many times how proud he was of his step-son without even acknowledging ME as his son... I KNOW I was definitely a self-centered son when he had me but? I turned a new leaf once I actually matured and I actually simply wanted him to acknowledge me as his son. Not a good one, not a bad one... just simply his son. Well joke is on my dad... his step-son only two years later after he told me how proud he was of HIM? Got busted running a meth lab. I actually don't take comfort from this as my step-brother? WAS a good kid and had both my father (his step-father) and his mother's support. Guess he got caught taking short-cuts in life and meth was a easy, profitable business. I'm not a saint either but? I did clean up my act as a teenager then? I lived for video games. Still do but that's MY destructive vice and it's not like it effects others. My time is MY TIME when down time comes around as long as the bills are paid. I actually can't believe what I used to spend on games growing up and now? A LOT smarter about it. But I'm still annoyed with dad as I at least tried to connect and what I got from him? Not interested. We all live in our own little world but at least I made an effort to connect with him... and as funny as it sounds? I still wish my step-brother the best even if he is proving himself to be a short sighted IDIOT cause? He really was a good younger step-brother. I just wasn't around to see what caused his flip. Wasn't me... I was too busy playing the Super Nintendo! LOL, and he already had his parents support which annoyingly WAS MY DAD'S too. Don't get me wrong, I NEVER bullied my younger step-brother but like my DAD? I simply ignored the fact he existed. Sucks me and my dad SHARE that family trait. I am his son after all.
    But I did learn a basic fact, no matter how much I wished my father to simply acknowledge me? Not going to happen if he refuses to. I think he was simply what rhymes with wussy dipped by my MIL. Sorry as this starts to make MIL's sound evil again but on the same note? I've been there too! LOL. Single mother with her own kids... got along great with her kids but she? Was a different beast all together and from that point? I truly understood just how controlling and manipulative some women CAN be.

  • @rollothecat2010
    @rollothecat2010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Probably, most children need some counseling/therapy after their parents break up. But I know that it is hard to find a psychologist or a psychiatrist (they are usually fully booked) and they are both expensive and may not be covered by one's health plan. And people are reluctant to seek that option until the situation gets really bad.

  • @vinnie6604
    @vinnie6604 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ok, husband should not have hit his ex wife and she should have pressed charges on him. Of course she didn't because she was bringing men home, also how could she tell Daniel David was beating on her if he was in jail. Because I was raised in another era, I have another perception on physical punishment. If any of us had disrespected our mother, she would have knocked the shit out of us and when our dad got home he would have knocked the rest of the shit out of us. We wouldn't have even thought of vandalizing the family car, the consequences would have been dire. We weren't stupid or delusional. Mom totally screwed up Daniel and he needs dual-diagnosis (substance abuse and psychiatric) long term hospitalization. David needs anger management therapy. OP, now that she is pregnant (congrats!) needs an exit plan in case David goes ballistic or Daniel gets more delusional.
    Because I like twisted drama, ex-wife didn't runaway with the mechanic, David murdered them and buried them in the backyard. Daniel witnessed the murders and the repressed memories are serfacing, meanwhile OP discovers the bodies when she digs up the yard to make a sandbox for the baby. Yeah I know, twisted.

  • @carollykins9475
    @carollykins9475 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sounds like the father needs therapy for sure. Beating a kid up is not a good thing.

  • @jimh4167
    @jimh4167 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    JFYI
    There was no normal

  • @marlene1708
    @marlene1708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He needed theraphy alot earlier. Like right after his mom left

  • @deborahkizer4664
    @deborahkizer4664 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢

  • @larryp2495
    @larryp2495 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stepdads go thru same thing not just moms!!

  • @Nasir_selfmade
    @Nasir_selfmade 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Op Nta about the situation but i don’t having a baby will solve any problems it might make the stepson problems even worse like he’s being replaced now that’s seriously going to backfire

  • @azuuria
    @azuuria 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👍

  • @patpaiz5693
    @patpaiz5693 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Honey, Danel is a mess, but I think that you better be watchful of David. For a man who is not aggressive and abusive it seems that he hit his ex-wife, at least one time in front of his son, and he has punched his son at least twice that you know of. Yes dear, I know you feel like he was justified, but then again, I think that you better be cautious and also be ready to flee if David ever gets physical with you. Your marriage has problems beyond your Stepson and I suspect that there was more physical aggression toward the wife than you are aware of.

  • @glendawhite4477
    @glendawhite4477 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😮😮

  • @jefferypowell9885
    @jefferypowell9885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Theres a point were you can't be kind

  • @kirsty1231000
    @kirsty1231000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The dad should have took the son to therapy sooner

  • @cheekysaver
    @cheekysaver 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am still concerned for the stepmom. She knows of 3 times of physical violence with her husband... 2 on his child and 1 on his ex wife. I really hope the therapy continues and that it helps. I am not sure where they are at now... but it is not normal to ever have to walk on eggshells so you don't upset your partner. I see how he is... only doing it in extreme cases where he is deemed done wrong... so WHEN you make any sort of mistake... you could be the target. Keep up with the therapy... get cameras now. They are something you get BEFORE you need them. The baby is a great reason. They are cheap and record well at night... and you can have them in multiple rooms to keep a eye on the baby for when you need a bathroom break ect.

  • @Justin-A-Carter
    @Justin-A-Carter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The boy should be in therapy. The father should be in therapy. Because violence I don't care how upset you are does not solve anything.....
    Dragging your kid out into the street and kicking his ass? Instead of calling the police and giving them all your information and having the light scared out of him with the police arresting him and booking him. Would have been a better lesson. Beating the hell out of your boy doesn't do anything. It makes them resent you more.
    How quick this guy is to lay hands on people I actually believe his son. I think his mother got her ass whooped.....

  • @BladeStar-uq6xe
    @BladeStar-uq6xe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved my late Step-Mother. I never had any problems with my In-laws. But, I am a Guy.

  • @jefferypowell9885
    @jefferypowell9885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im taking over a thousand dollars worth of tools

  • @antoinettebates244
    @antoinettebates244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    That boy should have been put out years ago. NTA..His son is the epitome of an angry young man. Not your issue!!

    • @fullfyr
      @fullfyr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Put that jughead of a father out of his misory! You all must be american, cause beating your kid to a pulp several times would land you in prison in all civilized countries.

  • @tgwynn93
    @tgwynn93 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    David killed his wife and her lover in my opinion

  • @scottiefutch6073
    @scottiefutch6073 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know if OP could have done much else differently. She did not try to seem like a perfect existence, and was more just frustrated.
    As for the other stuff. I'm sure people are going to claim David is abusive because he actually punched his son, but... given the stuff Daniel was doing, he was lucky he wasn't thrown out a lot sooner. If he really was an abusive father, there would be a lot more to show for it than a surly teenager hellbent on being as obnoxious and hateful as possible.
    The biggest tell for me that it was not a long term history of abuse was that the mother flat out abandoned her child and never seemed to give two shits about him ever again. I guarantee she has new kids with her new partner and she does not admit he exists.
    That is all guesswork, but that's the impression I get. The parents argued a lot because he worked all the time and she probably felt slighted and ignored. She got tired of it all, started sleeping around while her son knowingly kept quiet about it, and manipulated her son into a mildly psychotic mess then abandoned him to just be an ass to her abandoned husband.
    Of course, there is the possibility that David might have been physical with the ex-wife as well other that the instance of his reaction when he literally found another man with her in the house, since he does have anger issues. However, the only times he's been shown to lash out physically are, in this story, times when anyone might lash out were it not a family member.
    Put aside the fact that Daniel is his son, had he been a neighbor who vandalized his car would anyone think differently of him beating the shit out of that neighbor? At this point Daniel was adult enough to be living in a college dorm. Frankly, rather than a short asswhooping, a lot of people would have thrown him in jail to sober up. Their child or not. I wonder if the insurance paid for it in the end, because I don't think the OP managed to give that answer and left it up in the air.
    The other instance of physical violence was when Daniel was basically attacking his sick stepmother. That one was a little untoward, as 'beating the crap out of him' might have been too much, though a quick hard slap across the face to a grown man who still sat under their father's dinner table and acted like a brat while treating the only mother he actually had like garbage could be seen as warranted. Not legal, but hard not to see why David would throw a few punches at him.
    OP seemed to not have seen that sort of thing really happen between them before and she'd been there five years so... It to me seems more like David had anger problems, Daniel was a poisoned well, and the OP should have run off like the last mother and never looked back. Would not have helped either David or Daniel, but at least she would have had better options away from that mess.
    As things stand, the situation seems to be working out for the best.Daniel's getting therapy. David's working on his anger issues. The OP... Well, I'll congratulate her for the baby but... I mean, a break from that finally for a few months might have been a much better deal. We were missing details for me to come up with more opinions.

  • @jimh4167
    @jimh4167 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Simple turn every thing over to the police...
    Second..
    Dad should tell son he's done paying for college..
    Since he has to buy a new car...
    Good luck on your own...
    You're a man now..

  • @tiaa668
    @tiaa668 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think OP and her husband need to wait a little while before they have a baby let his son get into his therapy start helping the young man before they bring another child into the mix and set the boy back on any progress he may have made

  • @jefferypowell9885
    @jefferypowell9885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's what he did for a living steel n sell

  • @252stardust
    @252stardust 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I fear for the safety of baby that's on the way. This could make him worse but i hope the baby brings them together, fingers crossed.

  • @Sun_Wukong666
    @Sun_Wukong666 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CARma!

  • @_hunnybe
    @_hunnybe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why no link to og story?

  • @williamwallace5545
    @williamwallace5545 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Okay, so it was said that Daniel's mother did this to him out of revenge. I didn't hear about anything that was done to her to be vengeful for. She did this to Daniel just to cause chaos after she left. Pure evil. To manipulate her own child like that. Pure evil.

    • @JaakJacobus
      @JaakJacobus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She (wife #1) claimed to be a victim. If so, why did she leave her son behind? It sounds more like a woman who wants to enjoy her boyfriends, which are NOT interested in a mother with child. So she just dumps the luggage. But not before poisoning her son mentally. He's on his way to become a career criminal.
      Also the son is not the sharpest knife in the drawer! Once he grew up, he should have put 2 and 2 together. His mother was taking men into the bedroom to "talk".

  • @larryp2495
    @larryp2495 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I adopted my ex wife son both his parents have since left him for me to raise it bad both parents abandoned there child but he my boy now!

  • @jefferypowell9885
    @jefferypowell9885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about a low life steeling all year tools when im in the hospital after a stroke

  • @jeanninelockridge5235
    @jeanninelockridge5235 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Daniel should have brought charges agents his father for beating him up. There is absolutely no excuse for that behavior. These two are planning on having a child when there is another who is in such an unstable mental state? That's just so foolish. This is exactly why I have never and will never date anyone with kids. For me that's a deal breaker.

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why I don't hang around with kids I can't stand alot of them the calm ones yes but the loud ones no more likely why I will never fly in a plane have nothing against them they just get on my nerve easily and I'm afraid I would get abusive if they pushed to much and yes Ik it's hard to avoid kids as their an everyday thing but that I can handle as long as I don't have to stay more than an 10-30 minutes near them

    • @jeanninelockridge5235
      @jeanninelockridge5235 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beverlyarcher546 I feel the same way. I'm child free for a reason.

  • @deborahkizer4664
    @deborahkizer4664 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations glad everything is straightening out but yes there are a lot of women that will turn their children against the father or the vice versa to keep them in their. And turn against the other. 🙏💪😇 Sending prayers

  • @ochoulik481
    @ochoulik481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kid sounds like he needs a shrink. Should have seen one when the mother ditched the family. Obviously her lover was more important to her than her son. But the son can’t see that.

    • @fullfyr
      @fullfyr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      father should be in jail!

  • @daishawilliams8301
    @daishawilliams8301 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    His father should have told his son the truth about his mother sooner.

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You think the little shit would've listened or cared beforehand? He already made it up in his head that OP is trash and that he had to take out his frustration out on everyone. David should've took him to therapy as soon as his ex ran off and go to anger management for himself. Then again, David's ex wife (Daniel's mom) may have poisoned that kid before the break up.

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LunaP1 I wonder if that witch caused David to have problems with his anger?