Brother Stole My Credit Card, Beat His Wife & Went Missing,, So Me & His In-Law Teamed Up And Oh Boy
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I am a recent college graduate who works as a self-employed artisan creating hand-crafted beads. I have been supporting my parents, especially my father who has a heart condition and has had several hospitalizations. Despite having a well-paying job, my older brother refuses to contribute to the family's finances or help out in any way. Recently, my father suffered a cardiac arrest and I was the one who had to save his life. My mother reached out to my older brother for help with the hospital bill, but he refused and claimed to be broke. Two weeks later, my brother announced that he was getting married without prior notice or preparations. My parents and I were disappointed and confronted him about his irresponsible behavior, lack of commitment to the family, and insensitivity towards our father's recent health crisis. My brother did not show any remorse or acknowledgement of his actions.
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A doctor refusing to perform a lifesaving procedure unless at least half the cost was paid for up front is ridiculous and criminal as well.
You have to wonder if any of this story is true!
@@kayburnett9492 Or, what country this is in?
Yes either this didn't happen in the US or its complete and total fiction
I'd like to know where this story happened too. Given op not being heavy on extra details I wonder if she thinks it's normal everywhere.
Then other turn of phrases suggest op was translating expressions from her own language into English like her Dad could "proudly beat his chest over" op doing so well.
The breakneck speed of meeting, "courting" and marriage, people being "of marriageable age" all suggest an old school country.
Just where are they
@@kayburnett9492 Of course none of its true. Its a STORY.
Damn....with brothers like that u don't need a enemy
How dumb is op brother to steal from his sister and then leave town and doesn’t take his stuff with him 🤦 story1
She should have cancelled the credit card
Slightly less dumb than the OP for giving her credit card to him in the first place instead of paying the bill directly.
@@bryanstoudenmire if she had while he had it, he would've been harder to track down.
Not as dumb as OP herself who is the real loser idiot in the story. The brother Nathan is a scumbag and what does OP do?
She gives him a credit card to get out of jail free after murdering his own unborn child from spousal abuse.
OP is the one who should know better but she just empowered a hideous monster by giving him what he wanted.
Screw. Her.
And this craziness is what the dad deserves for raising the incompetent boobs and the baby killing brother Nathan.
I am so angry that the mother coddled her son even though he beat his wife. The inlaws shouldn't have agreed to let him out of jail. The son is a walking timebomb and danger to society. I guess when the son eventually murders someone, she'll rely on her tears to keep him out of prison or death row.
The mother is just as bad as the son n the in laws are spineless pathetic cowards to let him slide after he beat up their daughter in front of them.
Yes. This. I want to believe this is na unusual culture thing and I'm honestly worried that it's not.
How?
Entitled parents raise entitled children who harm others. They always want consequences for others but not them.
@cjenkins6587 op is no better tbh she took things from her brother without thinking Consequences it was her fault that the wife took the blame that got ex sister in law beat. There sentence pissed me off as well whenever the brothers wife was leaving she tried to convince her to stay and she could help helped from the beginning tell her how bad her borther is out "respect".
The father in the story should have told his wife if she wants to live w that POS then she is moving the hell out and SHE is on the hook financially for him. Mother or not you can’t stand that stupidity.
That's not stupidity something else that's favoritism
OP’s big mistake was giving her brother her credit card. She could have paid the hospital directly. I also question that the hospital would refuse a life saving surgery. I also wonder why the hospital staff didn’t report Nathan for abuse when they saw the bruises on his wife’s body which surely led to the miscarriage. For that matter, why didn’t his wife press charges? The person I’m most disgusted with in this story is OP’s mother for bailing her son out of jail. She knew how dangerous he was and should have left him to serve his time. I’m glad OP found a nice man to marry. Hopefully, she has learned her lesson about the foolishness of giving her credit card over to someone else.
I am a survivor of domestic abuse, and it can take a while for them to beat the love out of you. In the meantime you cover for them.
@@marianhoblyn2552people like you are crazy. Always thinking you can fix somebody, it never works. Why do people like getting beat, because they always stay like idiots. There’s zero excuse for putting up with it. There’s zero justification except some people just like being treated horribly
How stupid was OP to leave his brother with his card???🤣🤣🤣
She's an idiot I don't feel sorry for her she's a dummy she should have paid it herself n not give him the card.
Umm … I’m pretty sure OP is a female. If not, the context is dramatically altered.
Well, you can see how brother became a narcissist. His mom spoiled him completely.
I'm struggling to feel sympathy for op. She knew what kind of man her older brother was. The first move I would have done was to cancel the credit card. It's also really messed up they didn't warn Isabelle about what kind of life she should expect if she married a man like Nathan. It might have saved her this heart break and trauma. I only wish the story could have ended without Isabelle getting beaten up. I would have let that idiot rot in jail. I don't know what op's mother was thinking.
Thinking only about her son. I tells mother remember those are someone else's sons or daughters. When your child is wrong they have to be accountable for their actions.
Yeah agreed. "I lost my credit card, but I am not gonna phone my bank to cancel it"
@@stoopingfalcon891 not cancelling can give u a clue in the transcript where he could be... bit it's a huge risk
@@trixmania Agreed. In the meantime though, they could destroy OPs credit rating?
@Stooping Falcon pros and cons. Op was foolish not to cancel it. That way he would come crawling back. They can figure out when it gets used after cancellation. Yes she gave it to him to us, but he did not give it back.
OP's mother is the AH in this story, and before long, she will co.e to regret letting her son back in her life.
One of the things i have learned since I was "privileged" to have a credit card is to never ever hand over your credit card to anyone. Especially family members. If you want to help, be there for the transaction and be done with it.
I have listened to too many stories on this channel, and I am dumb founded as to the "entitlement" and "free loading" of people out there.
if you want to get back at someone who is a jerk what do you set, the karma trap
Or a bear trap.
Im actually worried for op cause she is moving pretty fast into that marriage and getting married should be a slow process.
Seems like she's from a country where marriage is an indicator of success
Love the saga stories, thanks for the entertainment
I was so angry with brother hitting his wife bad enough to kill the baby. I would have ended any man who would dare to raise a hand to me.
Any man who hits a woman deserves to be locked up to rot.
Although I don't talk to or have any contact with my sister, I would defend her and help her in any way I could.
No man has any right to hit any woman, at any time or for any reason.
So sad for the wife. Hope she gets better.
The only time a man has rights is when he is being Assaulted. Op is no better she robbed her brother which caused her former sister to get beaten she didn't think about her. She laughed about someone else getting beat and almost for a second tried to convince her former sister-in-law to stay
("No man has any right to hit any woman, at any time or for any reason.")
("I would have ended any man who would dare to raise a hand to me.")
What a self-deluded hypocrite. The right to self-defense is universal for both men and women.
Wow, but yes, my brother did the same thing to me, but not this bad. I'm glad that OP got her money back and that his wife is now safe. I hope he ends up doing prison time.
my brother is much worse than him.
My older brother had gotten married to a lady in our church and lo and behold the marriage was in trouble from the beginning, my mother, my father and I all 3 knew it. She was a control freak and didn’t let my brother stay on the fire department and would not let him stay in the Army National Guard.
Why did the OP not cancel her credit cards? He could be charged with theft.
$5k after being battered like that!?!? It wouldn't even cover the hitters to pull it apart with hand and power tools over the course of several days, but it could cover having pros put it in a chair or acid treat its face, but you'd have to rely on desperate drug addicts for the task so you can still have some money afterwards.
Really? Some things deserve to be done personally; if this isn't one of those times, I don't know what is.
Not sure about the power tools though. Simpler to make him dig his own grave, then bury him alive in it.
Had I been amongst the neighbours, OP's brother would have needed an ambulance and 24 hour care.
I needed two more updates. I was hoping he would have rotted in jail
It makes me so mad when OP’s know how their family is but give your CC to them!!!!🤬🤬
What third world country do you live in that wouldn’t preform a life saving procedure on a woman who needed a procedure like a D&C or whatever it’s called.
You were very stupid to give him your credit card instead of paying with it yourself. Your u should have canceled the card the first day he didn’t return it.
And how could you sell all your brother’s things & not give anything to his wife & put his wife’s life in danger. You are essentially no better than your brother in this respect.
Nope nope nope her mother would have to suffer I would move my dad into my house and my mother would have to live with her son
I love the complete saga stories. They are my favorite!
I really like the saga stories you've been presenting.
The flies buzzing round the toilet! 😂😂😂
The hospital should had reported it to the police !!!
Report the credit card stolen !!!
my first experience of abuse was in my youth, and then had 2 toxic relationships, then 8 years of heavy therapy, and now finally in a settling phase, and a phase of self-acceptance
I love thé saga stories and if my brother beat his wife i would let him rot in jail.
When the father died ,I only hope mother does not want .
His sister to help her brother ever again
I wouldn't have gone to the wedding - and I would have spoken frankly to the GF/ Future wife!
Wow! That was quite a story. Thanks for getting all the stuff you had to get I mean all the info I can't imagine how hard that is. You were right though it was definitely a rollercoaster ride. Enjoyed the story so much thank you thank you thank you
Yeah it's messed up that the brother beat his wife (stbx)resulting her to have miscarriage. But if there any silver lining,the miscarriage is blessing in disguise so Isabelle doesn't have to deal with OP brother and have to coparent or pretend to amicable for the sake of the baby.
I only wish that OP had stayed in touch with her former sister-in-law. I would love to think that she healed and had a wonderful life.
I did not think doctors could refuse to help anyone in life threatening issues
2/3/23
Hi Mr. Riddito. I enjoyed this story and saga stories in general. I look forward to more of these. Thanks and until next time, take care.
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OP is very selfish. She could have killed her SIL with her actions. Ya she paid for the surgery, but then set her up to get beaten again. Yes, the brother is a monster, but his sister also horrid. IP doesn't know where his abusive streak came from, but it their mother seems to have inabled his shitty behavior and her father didn't step in a put his foot down. Honestly the whole family is a mess. I really feel for the SIL and her family.
OP is horrible.
And op tried to convince sil *not to leave* after the beating-induced miscarriage.
I know a lot of things can spontaneously end a pregnancy early on up to and including a mom saying "I can't pay the 17k hospital bill to give birth" and ending it early.
But this specific pregnancy ended because she was beaten so savagely that brother kicked/punched through 7 layers of muscle in the abdominal wall to crush the womb that is nested not in the stomach like kids think, but in the cradle of the hip.
The brother beat an actual life out of the sil and OP tried to convince her not to leave him. Despite having been fully abandoned after exhausting all of her savings to support her abuser.
Let's not mention that sil, as wife had rights to half of that property unless there was a prenup.
So to sum up Op:
A Tried to convince a recently hospitalized, still recovering abuse victim not to leave her abuser because "family shame".
B. Robbed the couple.
C. Did not warn sil before abuser returned.
D. Sent abuser a picture of her profits while he was in the middle of an attack on the recovering victim.
E. Moved out of the house to protect herself when brother was coming back. (Because she was warned and knew he was dangerous)
F. Did not share the profits with the sil after doubling all of her money including from the hospital (if memory serves) with the sale of marital assets.
G. Now enjoys poking an extremely violent man because she's following her cultural traditions when he didn't.
When dad passes there will be no one left to protect mom. Since hospitals apparently do not report abuse, he will profit.
@@GrifoStelle OMG, your statement was very well though out! 👏
@GrifoStelle I thought I was only one that noticed that the comments here seem vas of them gloss over those facts
I'm not happy that OP let the sister in law get beat because SHE took her brothers stuff that makes her just as shitty as the brother for that alone
great Story once again !
Men that beat there wives are cowards, been married 20 years have never laid a hand on my wife
OMG that brother sounded just like mine minus the drugs.
I have a brother that is a year younger than me at 65. Married 3 times. One kid several grands and lives in his grandmother's house that was built in 1949. 2 bedrooms, one bath, no central heat, in Alabama. He got it after my grandmother died. Since I was married, I got zilch from grandmothers estate. But to this day, his health sucks, he's broke, and has no job. I am NC because he was an abuser.
This is how my brothers are
I don't understand the fact that people think they need to support there parents you do not need to do this it is there responsibility to make sure they have enough for emergency and retirement
Thank you for all the effort you put into bringing us these great saga stories….I definitely appreciate it truly 💜
Glad you like them!
OP should never have given him that credit card. She knew how he was. That's what you call shooting yourself in the foot.
I don't know how many times people have to be told don't set yourself on fire to keep somebody else warm. You should have paid the bill at the hospital yourself. Never trust your brother he's already shown you clearly that he is untrustworthy and bad with money.
I know how OP feels. My older brother guilted me into paying $500 of my college money to bail him out and promised on our nieces life he would pay me back in 6 months. That was 6 years ago. I ended up confessing to my father who, bless his heart, gave me enough money until my 2nd wave of financial support came in. I still feel shame for allowing myself to be manipulated like that.
Frankly, you should have given him a choice; left or right. His answer would decide which of his arms you were going to break.
Don't be too hard on yourself over that. I did the same thing when I was 17. I gave my savings account to a relative who promised to pay me back but never did. You were trying to help someone.
Laminated? What word are you trying to use?
Laminted. He meant to say that they were thinking about it for a while.
Lamented actually.
I would love to see the machine, that could do that to a person.
Great story as you usually, do, lol, missed this one, a year ago. Nice hair look! nice to see your look without the cap, it's all good....
"level of Bondage she was getting into" Is OP's brother into S&M?
Mr Reddito says Nathan was an absolute disaster.
Most of this story was an absolute disaster.
OP was so angry, that in getting her revenge on her brother, she never even considered the brothers' wife. A woman nearly died, because of OP taking all of his expensive belongings. It sounds like she has no regrets about this woman being harmed, because OP took Nathans belongings.
The mother fought to get her monster of a son out of jail and free of charges, after he thrashed a woman. And, this after he made sure to terminate his unborn child (OPs' moms' grandchild). And, then brought him back into their home, with a frail husband?
The parents' of OPs' SIL? They thought Nathan would repay all of his wifes' medical bills? They let this monster off of the charges, for a pipe-dream.
And, OPs' dad? If Nathan was giving 1/2 his (small/limited) salary to the family, how would Nathan be able to pay back his ex-inlaws? Did the dad even consider adding into his terms, that Nathan also had to honor his promise to the ex-inlaws, as well?
And, did anyone set out stipulations that Nathan needed to go for Anger Management Counselling?
I really hope that Nathan smartened up, keeping his temper in check; that the parents remained safe; that the ex-wife healed well and is safe/happy again; and, that OP smartened up and learned a lesson here, too.
What kind of backwards country was this in, where women were so badly harmed and treated with so little respect/consideration?
Can we add that op doubled the money spent on her credit card and offered nothing to the woman who would have had rights to half of that in most divorce courts? Even sent pictures of the profits her stolen profits was actively generating.
Op got hers and ran only to return to enjoy some humiliation once in a while. No concern for the woman mutilated because she didn't bother to warn sil that she'd robbed the couple's house after sil's escape.
Thank you for your well written, commentary that is thoughtful and informative. My opinions are similar to yours, while differing somewhat, especially regarding the stipulations Nathan agreed to in order to move back home. The 50% of his salary that he agreed to give to his father is Nathan’s financial contribution towards household expenses. It is not for restitution.
Repayment of any money Nathan borrowed from his in-laws, needs to be negotiated between Nathan and his in-laws. It is nobody else’s responsibility to ensure that Nathan pays off all of his debts. If he’s only able to secure employment paying meager wages, Nathan can join the millions of Americans working two or three jobs at a time to make ends meet. But I digress.
The hospital in the story really disgust me. They had a dying woman right I'm front of them and they weren't going to do anything until they had some money. So OP knows he's an abuser and allowed his wife to be abused again knowing he would've assumed the wife stole his stuff
That's part people seem to gloss over and she was happy that someone else gotten beaten she almost tried to convince the sister to say
How dumb can OP be? She hands her abusive, irresponsible, and self absorbed brother her CC? Why not just ask for the bills and pay them directly yourself?
it would have been far better to let nathan stay in jail until his court hearing than letting him out. He must have been in a revenge mood. I hope OP got married safely!!
BUT BEST STORYEVER!
Anyone giving someone their credit card is an AH.
More of a dumb ass, but an AH to themselves.
Not an AH, just naive.
OP’s brother is exactly like my brother except for the domestic violence and OP’s mother is exactly like my mother. A mother who will never give up on her son, no matter how horrible he is to her and everyone else around him. His greed and selfishness has no limits but whenever he needs help, he comes running and expecting help. I really hate the fact that because I help my mom, I indirectly help him. I just want him to understand the basic concept that if you want help, you also have to help others.
The only one in my family that I ever trusted was my late great aunt!!!!
Could not listen anymore after OP gave her credit card to brother knowing what a jerk he is!! Definitely would have claimed lost card after he used card for
2 days. Never give anyone your credit card to use. Your limit on your card is not their concern or problem!!
Stay wise with your money
and credit!! It's on you!!
Half the fun of these stories is the mountain of spelling mistakes and mistakes in the narration. He was leached instead of lynched?
Story one he's 30 years old lives at home and doesn't pay rent. I'm thinking Golden child. Personally I would have handed him eviction notice around his 22nd birthday. or many years before you'll pay rent or move out.
I cry BS, life saving surgery is never refused. Now a lung transplant or heart transplant might not be done if there is no insurance. However in the state I live, the patient would be helped to apply for Medicaid or Medicare depending on age and health. Care is given in concert with the health coverage in that state.
Why would you give a ne're do well a credit card? Why wouldn't you just pay the bill and keep your card? This is a sad story, a woman who did not leave an abusive husband, and a sister who did not turn her brother in for theft.
Disinherit him take him out of the will Oh wait, leave them a dollar what disgusting behavior his father is on his deathbed, and his son gets uses the money for a wedding they didn’t even know about.
A great example of why you do NOT rush into marriage with someone you don't really know.
Too many secrets? NO FN WAY
Why didnt she cancel the cc and report it to the police? Stupid or fake story.
Where is the insurance on both cases. I’d never have given him my card. I’d went to take care of it myself. Now his in laws r not the sisters n laws.
I had a brother that was similar in childish intelligent as OP's brother was.
Absolutely non sense especially credit card part.
Do you mean she lamented?
She was dumb for giving him her card. She should have just paid what she needed directly to the hospital herself. If I were a judge, I wouldn't give her a cent back.
Minute bro obsconded with the credit card op should have canceled it.
OP if the wedding happened 2 weeks later that stuff was already paid for. He wouldnt have gotten the money back had he even wanted too
Lynched him?! Leave him in jail.
I would have sent a picture to the brother of his stuff he would have got the message loud and clear then lol
Oh, now you know he was broke because weddings costs a lot of money, early on.
I assume this is set in a country where extended family is important. That would explain why Nathan had to obey the conditions set at the end. OP was crazy to let Nathan have her credit card at all. She could have paid the hospital bill herself. All the doctor wanted was the cash. I do like her revenge, however.
Dated 3 weeks, got engaged, parents were happy and op was married in under a month.
Where is this?
Why in all the stories with credit card they never call the bank to cancel it when someone doesn't return it. They can declare fraud if you haven't authorized some transactions. It was my job as fraud investigator for years.
It never ceases to amaze me how stupid people can be dealing with an abusive acquaintance/"friend"/family member. I found this story to be utterly frustrating. I have a low tolerance level for idiots and this story was full of them... including OP.
You want to know what's wrong with Nathan ? Mommy babies him
I never come to comment on these ones but this was maddening and I just hope it’s not real because so much doesn’t add up but if it is real these people are ALL off their rockers.
* If in the US why didn’t they transfer her to a hospital that could do the procedure?
*Why did she not have Medicaid or whatever state they were in in’s.
* Why did she not give the hospital her card info directly
* Why did she not cancel the card and file what he wasn’t supposed to spend as theft.
* why did she keep all the money from what she got since it was double?
*Why did she not give the SIL half?
* The mother is the reason he is like this
*OP tried to talk the SIL in to staying
*Its not up to the parents whether charges are pressed
*With all the witnesses and physical proof they may not have even needed the ex wife to press charges.
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If the brother stole the credit card, why didn't you just freeze the account/card?
I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex
Oh yeah, bro screwed you with your credit card. Silly you. Right?
A boyfriend called Epic, interesting. Captions are hilarious.
Anyone who believes the doctor was demanding half up front needs to realize the brother is a scam artist and was after the money
Cater, not carter
op is no better tbh she took things from her brother without thinking about Consequences it was her fault that the wife took the blame that got ex sister in law beat. There sentence that pissed me off as well when the brother wife was leaving she tried to convince her to stay and she could help from the beginning telling her how bad her brother is out of "respect" she was happy that someone else gotten beaten in place of her
"Did not value the counsel of ANYONE." My ex BIL. Ex because he didn't make forty.
What's with those balconies?
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So even though he did you wrong, you stole his stuff. Yes taking stuff that’s not yours is stealing. Doesn’t matter that he owes you. Instead of going the legal route you steal. I’m surprised you aren’t in jail
You can't fix stupid and OP must have it tattooed on her forehead to let her brother use her credit card.
Your bro is too immature to marry. His poor wife.
I don't understand how he can beat his wife so many times and even cause a miscarriage. Yet the ex-wife doesn't press charges for that physical abuse.
sadly that is common, for a myriad of reasons. fear being the main factor.
Okay she’s engaged after a month of dating? And married in two months?!?? Is she okay ???
I think op wasn't clear how long they where together
I had a relative who was like OP's brother (though not quite THAT awful). When I was a naive seventeen-year-old, I loaned him the contents of my savings account, which was a lot of money to me. Of course I never saw a penny of it again as it went down his throat in the form of booze, and he couldn't be bothered to work. However, I'm proud to say that's the last time I gave that good-for-nothing man a penny.
Sadly, he could pretend to be very charming, and a lot of other people funded his lifestyle for far too long. He wore out his wife, who had to support them working menial jobs for many years, until she died. Then alcoholism took his life.
Still, Nathan surpasses my distant relative in dastardliness.