Miscarriage at 6 Weeks 💔 My Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 มิ.ย. 2022
- Opening up about a very personal story today. I had a missed miscarriage at 6 weeks 2 days. Here is my story.
About 6 weeks ago, just two days before we moved out of NYC, I found out I was pregnant. I was only 3.5 weeks when I found out, but I was so happy! This was a moment I had dreamed about for a while and after 6 months of trying, it was happening for us. We were having a baby!
We moved out of the city, settled into our place in VT and all was feeling great. I wasn’t experiencing many symptoms, but as the weeks progressed, I was getting more and more excited and optimistic.
It was at my first ultrasound - at 7 weeks and 4 days - that I found out. Our embryo was a week behind where they expected it to be and there was no heartbeat 💔
At the time, I was a little in shock, but the doctor (who is also a close family friend), said it was very likely this pregnancy would result in a miscarriage but they weren’t 100% sure yet. So they wanted me to come back in a week and confirm.
That appointment confirmed what I already knew in my heart: I was going to have a miscarriage.
I’m sharing this story because so many women go through this and I’ve personally found it helpful hearing others’ stories during this sad time. 1 in 4 pregnancies aren’t successful. And I find comfort in knowing that this is fairly common AND there was nothing that I personally did to cause this.
So if you’ve gone through this or are going through this…YOU ARE NOT ALONE 💕
I’m not sure where this journey will lead over the next few weeks and months, but I plan to be as open and transparent as I feel comfortable with. I appreciate all your love and support, and I’m happy to chat with you in the DMs if you have a story or advice you want to share.
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Alyssa
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This is so difficult Alyssa. I know how you feel. It took me years to get pregnant and then I had two miscarriages. I was devastated. I did however get pregnant eventually and had a perfectly healthy baby. It will happen for you too!
I’m so sorry. I also miscarried at around 7 weeks, realizing the embryo stopped developing earlier on. It’s so difficult to lose something you love but have never held. My heart goes out to you ❤
Alyssa I have faith that you and Matt will have a beautiful baby soon enough. This will always hurt but you 2 are going to be amazing parents when the time comes.. Thank you for sharing your story it was very brave
I'm so sorry 😞 I'm 5 weeks and 3 days and I don't really have any symptoms which makes me a little nervous. Still over a week away from my first appointment. I can't imagine how you felt getting that news. May God bless you and give you a healthy pregnancy in your future. All things are in his hands and everything happens for his reasons. You're perfect time will come!
Thank you for sharing, I'm misscarrying whilst watching this and hearing that I'm not alone is so comforting
Thank u so much for sharing this. I just had a miscarriage as well. Same thing, no heartbeat, 2 sonograms. Ended up doing the pills at home. Women go through so much, we are so amazing. Sending lots of love your way. It’s ok to be sad. Thank u again for sharing this. It really helped me with processing my guilt and sadness
I never get notifications and now this is what I get :( 😞 I'm so sorry Alyssa. I find it difficult to watch as I'm hoping to get pregnant but I want to appreciate your strength and vulnerability to share this. This makes me realize I wouldn't know if I miscarried early as I didn't track pregnancy this time around with test. Lots of love and wish you a beautiful rainbow baby.
One of my daughters has had 2 miscarriages 8 years apart. My heart broke for her each time. In between she did have her daughter, and she is so grateful for her. Another close relative had numerous miscarriages and was very depressed for a couple years. She had a tubal pregnancy and lost a fallopian tube. Also did IVF twice, got pregnant but had further miscarriages. She could not emotionally handle the losses anymore. They eventually became foster parents and have adopted 2 children. She quit her high paying job last year and has a home daycare where she is surrounded by little ones every day. They are still fostering and looking to adopt 2 more babies in their care. She is doing fantastic now. It was a long exhausting journey to motherhood but so fulfilling for her and her husband. I am so sorry you had to go thru a miscarriage. Glad you are keeping your chin up. You are a strong young woman .
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I had the exact same experience as you in July - August 2022 . The weeks, the reactions, the telling my close ones early and I even handled it in the same exact way as you. This is so interesting. The only difference is that I was under full anesthesia for the D&C and I didn’t feel a thing (I was so grateful about that) . I found out about this video from your new pregnancy announcement and I’m also pregnant now! Thank you for sharing your story! Wishing you all the best! ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. My pregnancy stopped progressing after 6 weeks. I didn't find out until week 10. We had already had a healthy baby previously. I know it's hard to keep hearing but it truly is God's timing. I'm praying for your rainbow baby! Blessings on your journey🙏🏾
I just had the exact same experience with my miscarriage this week and had my D and C today, and I came on here to try and find a story like mine so I could find comfort and you did just that for me. Thank you so much for sharing ❤ you truly helped me, and I will share my story as well so nobody feels alone. Wishing you all the best on your Journey ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharing your story. I too was expecting our 1st baby and had a miscarriage at 5.5 weeks, 3 months ago. I still cry about it even though I went into the pregnancy knowing the odds. I thought I would be able to 'shake it off' but it's been really hard to move on and try again. Best of luck to you and your husband! You are not alone
I found your channel because of this video. I miscarried a week ago and it’s been the saddest and most confusing thing my husband and I have been through. Thank you for sharing your story. I love your channel and am trying some of your recipes.
Prayers to you and your family. I too had the same experience my very first it was definitely painful emotionally and physically took a few days to recover. Emotionally years of recovery even after 20 yrs I still think of my first pregnancy same here I was given 3 exact optio. Opt-in #3 due to health reasons... You’ll recover but never forget and stay strong! In a good note I am blessed a year after I had my miscarriage… 19 yrs ago I had my healthy beautiful daughter so there’s hope! God bless and take care!
Alyssa, I am just viewing your video. I am so sorry that you went throught this experience. This did bring back memories I have put away. I had a miscarriage about 40 years ago. That was my one and only pregrancy. I have made my peace with God about this. Fast forward, I adopted a young woman I worked with as my daughter and she adopted as her Mom. She lost her Mom to cancer. This relationship has been a blessing. I have a daughter, son-in-law and four grandchildren. Life has different twist and turns. I am happy that many of those twists and turns are positive. I pray the very best for your and your husband. Take care.
I just stumbled on your channel for the first time and this is the 2nd video I watched- I have been through this 4 times and so glad you are sharing your story. I’m my experience no one talked about it and later I found out it is super common in women. Stay in faith and it will worked out. I tried for a long time and when I gave in and stopped stressing- boom it happened. 😊
I am so sorry for your loss, sending hugs and prayers for a healthy baby coming next 🙏🏼❤️
I'm going thru a miscarriage currently. Saw a heartbeat at 6wks 3 days. At 8 wks two different scans 2 days apart, both show no heart. I'm so distraught!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was just in your shoes 2 weeks ago. I was so confused and devastated to have gotten that news. I pray that you heal from the loss and that your rainbow baby is on his/her way. ❤❤❤
I can't thank you enough for sharing this, it came at the very good moment, i had myself a miscarriage 5 days ago after a whole year of trying to conceive, i am in a middle of the mix, my emotions are in the lowest but hearing your story kinda brought some confort to me, i hope getting through this asap, thank you again ❤️
Sorry hun😭❤🙏
I know this is an older video but I really appreciate you sharing your story. I just found at 12 weeks that our first baby stopped developing at 6 weeks. I have been finding it reassuring and somewhat comforting to hear others, but been struggling to find relatable stories and know what to expect.
Thank you for sharing! I went in for an ultrasound for my second pregancy yesterday and found out the embryo stopped growing as well. It was a very shocking and I was super devastated. I am currently having cramps and hopefully it will come out naturally. My doctor told me to wait for about a week before going to the hospital. Your story shows me that I am not alone! =)
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So sorry for you lost. Thank you so much for sharing this has helped more people than you know…
Prayers and healthy energy sent your way! 💜
Oh Alyssa I so very sorry for yours and Matt's lost, a beautiful healthy baby will join your little family soon enough.
I can't wait to watch the continuing development into yours and Matt's journey into parenthood.
When I had my miscarriage 20 year's ago now they didn't have the medical knowledge or support systems in place like there do now, so I'm sending you all my love and support your way to get though this time 💞💕
So sorry for your loss, Alyssa! Thank you for sharing your story. You are a huge inspiration. Sending lots of love to you and yours 🤍
I am so sorry!! to hear this, sending prayers & hugs.
thank you so much for sharing, I hope you'll find your happiness soon. The strength you have is so inspiring. Honestly, this is one of my fears, just not being able to conceive (my friends so far were so lucky and got pregnant in the first month) as both me and my husband are sure we want to have kids and especially my husband would not feel happy in our relationship without kids as it is so integral to his future view....This is inspiring to see you battle through this all...
Praying for you during this journey. Thank you for being so brave.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Thank you for normalizing miscarriage. Thank you for being a voice for those of us who suffered silently.
So sorry for your loss, and I pray that when the time is right your blessing will come in abundance.
Oh so,sorry to hear this…I’m sending you big hugs and wishing you the best for the future❤️
So very sorry for your loss. I’m sending love and prayers. ❤️
I’m so sorry. I miscarried yesterday and was also at 6 weeks. We will get through this ❤
I am 7-8 weeks along but I feel I am miscarrying right now since my pregnancy symptoms stopped a couple days ago and tonight I have familiar period cramping and little bit of dark mucus blood discharge. I'm sad for me and for you too.
@@DDtona93 Good. Another child spared from being born. You people are sex crazy. Forcing another person to be born in a trash world like this is horrible. Thank Zagan your child is being spared from this trash world. Your all nuts for wanting to bring another person into this world. Life is not a blessing at all. The real blessing is when we are miscarried in the womb.
Im so sorry to hear that ladies. God bless!
I just miscarried yesterday 😢 ❤ at 5 weeks
@@asiabradley6502 With the way this trash world is going. The child is better off. Stop trying to selfishly force another child into this trash world.
I’m so sorry you experienced a miscarriage. We are currently on month 7 of ttc baby #2. It’s hard waiting when you want a baby so much. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! 🌈❤️
My first pregnancy just ended in loss at the beginning of May. At my 8 week ultrasound, I found out my pregnancy had stopped progressing at least two weeks prior. I had another ultrasound at nearly 10 weeks and it was confirmed, so the next day I took medication to induce the miscarriage. I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your story.
I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage as well. Sounds like we were in a similar situation and it's heartbreaking. Sending you so much love ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry for you Alyssa, I also had miscarriage on a early stage, so know exactly how you feel. Sending you rays of sunshine and best wishes for future. Please don't loose trust in your body. Hugs and kisses 🤗
I’m experiencing the miscarriage at the moment 😢 and I’m just so up and down. Watching your video helps me handle my emotion a lot. I still don’t have the courage to share my story with my whole family. But gratefully I have my husband with me and he’s so supportive. Hope we could get through this together, best wishes to all the mommas ❤️
I'm so sorry 🥺😞 sending you so much love and light 💖
Thank you for sharing Alyssa. My doctors just confirmed this morning that my first pregnancy has ended in complete miscarriage at 6 weeks. The tissue, discharge, and pain was traumatic and unbearable. I had the feeling you did, 2 days after I took the pregnancy test and it was positive. I knew something was wrong and was upset that myself or my doctor couldn’t do anything about it. I’ve been grieving the loss for the past week so It wasn’t as much of a shock, once confirmed. I’m still going through the motions, currently at work. But listening to your story and seeing how vulnerable you were able to be with the world, has given me much strength and comfort. I know there’s a strong healthy baby in my future ❤️ Thank you 🙏🏽
How many months taken for next pregnancy
I'm sending hugs and positive vibes for you and Matt.
Thankyou, I needed to hear this- Im sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing your story. I was miscarriage 3 days ago. It was my first pregnancy after trying for months 😢 after hearing you story make me realize I’m not only one been through this experience.
Sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for you sweetheart🙏
It sucks so hard that you can get pregnant in a window of, like, 3 minutes per month, and then you have to wait two weeks to even know if it worked....and then you can experience a loss like this. The emotional roller coaster is very real. 💔
Aww babygirl I’m so sorry 😔. I hope you aren’t too hard on yourself. Thank you so much for sharing. We love you!
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I’m so sorry. Sending you healing. I have been there 4 times. It’s so hard. I still cry. Years years later. And that’s ok.
Thank you so much for sharing this, it has bought me so much comfort. You are so strong and I’m sorry this happened to you❤
Going through a miscarriage now and this video has helped me so much. I saw you got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby soon after and it gives me so much hope ❤
I recently just had a miscarriage myself at 18. It was really hard. On the 9th of December I found out I was pregnant but on the 11th everything turned upside down. I had heavy bleeding and really bad cramping. I wasn’t taking any prenatals nor have I seen a doctor yet, it all just happened so quickly. You’re story inspires me to not give up and to keep trying and I want to say Thankyou. Thankyou for being so comfortable with sharing your experience.❤️
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I am so so grateful for you posting this video. I believe i may be miscarrying amd its soxextremely emotional. Hard to explain to those who have not been through it. Im so grateful for my community, my family annd friends who are just so supportive. Looking forward to watching your other videos of your success story and your beautiful family!!!❤❤
I'm so sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing xx
I'm so sorry you had this happen. This sounds like my exact story that happened to me recently!! I was exactly 7 weeks and 4 days when I found out the embryo stopped growing.
I just found your video. My ultrasound today showed my pregnancy stopped at 6 weeks 1 day while I was supposed to be at 8 weeks today. So devastated. I don’t know what to expect at this point. They told the same thing you were told, sometimes miracles happen and heartbeat starts at the next couple weeks. I don’t know how to get over this.
Im so sorry 😓
I'm so sorry to hear this Alyssa. Sending love and cyber huggs. Stay strong xoxo
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I’m so sorry… I had been trying for a while and I finally got pregnant. I was so excited and then I miscarried at 8 weeks going into 9wks. in Sept 2022 I was devastated, I think of my angel baby a lot 😞💔 sending you a big hug, sending postive vibes/prayers your way. We’ll get our rainbow babies
Thank you for this i went through this just recently it was so hard for me !!! and i am still grieving
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. My daughter’s story sounds like yours. I will keep you in my prayers.
Your video is helping me as i am going through this right now. Went to the hospital for light bleeding and they did a vaginal ultrasound. Doctor came and said she had the results and that it wasnt good news. She told me there was no heartbeat i saw the pictures and for some reason i didnt cry or i expected this to happen. Idk i cant explain the feeling. It was just overwhelming. I did ended up crying a little after she left the room. I ended up choosing the medication. Praying that you will get your rainbow baby.
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this today. ❤
Oh my gosh it's so similar to mine and so many others. The hardest part was telling my 10 year old who really prayed for a sibling for the last 4 years💔 Thank you, I totally agree it's better to share and hear others stories 🥺💔❤️
I knew deep in my heart too🙄🙏
I have great respect and sympathy for those who have suffered miscarriages and stillbirths. I know how traumatic and devestating it is on both the physical and emotional level.
My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. Was 9 years ago but I remember everything as if it was yesterday. I instinctually knew something was wrong too. I had no pregnancy symptoms and my belly was very sensitive, the slightest pressure would hurt but I didn't know what to compare to, what was normal and what wasn't. Still my gut instinct told me something was wrong. I did not have any implantation bleeding or any changes I just started bleeding suddenly around the 10 week mark.
I went to the ER, they did an ultrasound and it showed the little baby floating lifelessly like a dead fish in a bowl. I knew my baby was dead before the doctors said anything. It was really hard for me to see and is a mental picture I will never forget. They determined that my baby had died or stopped growing around the 7 week mark and that my body just didn't decide to start the process until a couple weeks later. I had severe and increased cramping AFTER the ER visit which they had already warned me could happen at any time so I wasn't shocked or concerned. On the way home we stopped at a store for the pain med prescription the ER had just prescribed to me and I had to pee so I went to the restroom real quick. The cramps were similar to labor. I unexpectedly passed the baby in the toilet and scooped him/her out with my hands, wrapped up in a paper towel and took him/her home. I cried all the way home and all we could do is look at this precious baby and cry. Even though the baby wasn't much bigger than a kidney bean he/she was pretty much completely developed. I remember what amazed me the most was that the tiny eyes had pupils.
I suffered prolonged feelings of guilt after the miscarriage even though I knew these things just happen. Many thoughts ran through my head. Could-a and should-a, and what ifs. My womb was supposed to be a place of life, not death. To know that death occured inside of me, in a place that should have been the most ideal, safe and secure just really bothered me a long time. That was the 2nd biggest mental impact after losing my baby. Took me a long time to move on even with positive support from everyone.
Fast forward 9 years later I had 3 daughters and no more miscarriages (thank goodness) but I will never forget about the 1st baby I lost. Had the baby been a boy his name would have been Troy and had the baby been a girl her name would have been Elizabeth.
I named my 3rd daughter Elizabeth in memory/honor of my miscarried baby.
I firmly believe my baby and all miscarried babies are in heaven waiting for us 💕
Amen 😭❤🙏
So I know this is perhaps crazy to say. But I also didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms. Even tho this is my first! My mom always immediately started vomiting when she was pregnant with me and my brother. The only time she didn’t is when she missed her period after we both were born. She didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms either but was tested positive for pregnancy. She went in and it was a blood clot but her body mistook it for pregnancy. I’ve told the doctors this. They say it’s an healthy pregnancy. I can’t help but feel something is awfully wrong. I keep telling them these period like cramps, but more intense on my left, isn’t normal! But I feel like the doctors don’t take me seriously. I also told them I much rather abort before the baby has a soul or a heartbeat if it will have any complications. I call it my gut instinct but I genuinely feel I miscarried. I have no idea what to do since I already went for scans twice. Today will be my third but at this point I’m over the vague answers. I’m at 6 weeks myself now so I definitely want to abort now and not any later since I know it will be harder and I just can’t see the embryo. It will break me. Even after knowing exactly what I want and need I just don’t feel like the doctors are taking me seriously and hearing me out. All they said is I have a normal cyst and my hcg level went up…. One week ago it was 811 and now almost 2368 or something….
PS: I’m not vomiting. No morning sickness. Used to have extremely sensitive breasts but even that’s normal now. Only have intense belly cramps and nipples hurting from time to time. Other than that I have ZERO pregnancy symptoms.
PPS: So glad to hear your story. It put things more into perspective for me and gave me hope. The health system here is getting worse and I genuinely don’t understand the doctors. I’m tired of vague answers and I’ll continue to listen to my intuition and whatever is best. Rn I’m the person in charge and it’s my pregnancy. No one else’s. I’m done playing this waiting game for the doctors. Enough is enough and I need to put my mental and physical health first. ❤
I can’t wait to hug my baby in heaven 🥹😭
Hello! We almost had thesame experience. How many months did you get pregnant again after the miscarriage?? Im hoping the soonest my baby would be given back. Its my 2 months now from miscarriage
I’m sorry to hear that.
Sending prayers to you both! I’ve had 4 miscarriages but I also have three children God is great, when the time is right you’ll both become parents. God bless you both! Your miracle will happen. Xxx
Thank you so much for this video. I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 5 years, 4 years ago I had 2 miscarriages and found out I have a rare blood clotting disorder that causes miscarriages. After finding that out we did everything the doctors told us to do then got busy with life and just kind of moved on. We were certainly still trying but it just hadn’t happened. About 8 months ago, we decided we wanted to really try everything we could do so we quit all of our bad habits and lifestyles like drinking and vaping, we got gym memberships and started eating healthy. We even went to start IVF treatments. Before we actually started any treatments, we had to do some testing that my obgyn hadn’t done yet including testing my husband’s sperm. The results came back that my right tube was blocked and my husband had a large vein that caused his sperm to mutate. After finding all that out, we accepted that it would be quite some time before we would be able to conceive. He was getting ready to schedule his surgery when my ovulation app was telling me to take a test, that I was 2 days late. I had felt pms symptoms so I was hesitant but decided to just rule that out. To our surprise, it came back positive! So we went and bought more tests and after the third one coming back positive I immediately called my obgyn to schedule an appointment because we’ve been seeing the fertility specialist and she said I’d be considered high risk and to go in immediately after a positive test. Our first appointment went great, they did bloodwork and everything came back great. Next appointment a week later was an ultrasound and we were able to see the heart beating. It was super exciting! We were keeping it in the back of our mind that a miscarriage could happen but I think our excitement was clouding that. Everything was moving along great, I was feeling super pregnant and even started to show a little. We even ordered and took an early gender reveal test that came back a girl! Which is what we wanted. A few days after we got our gender results back was my next appointment and routine ultrasound to hear the heartbeat. We were even speculating it might be twins since I was showing a little early. We didn’t catch it at the time, but everything was wrong with the ultrasound. The tech just did a great job at not letting us know. They moved us into a room after where my midwife came in and went over the results and said the baby had actually stopped growing 2 weeks prior and there was no heart beat. It was confirmed I am having a missed miscarriage. I also chose to go the D&C route and I am writing this the night before my D&C. This has been devastating. I plan to share my story maybe in a few weeks when I’ve had a little more time to recover. Again, thank you for sharing your story. I have found other’s stories to be helping me get by. I hope you had another pregnancy and hopefully a healthy baby ❤
Thank you so much. Everything you have said has given me comfort .
Watching this today has made me humble I’m currently going through a miscarriage at 6’weeks 4 days and baby did not have a heart beat as well. This has been the hardest thing in life but you handled this so gracefully and I hope I can go through this like you did ❤
My heart is breaking for you my friend ❤️ sending you so much love and strength through this insanely difficult time. Here to help and support however I can! xox
I am sorry for your loss..Was it natural miscarriage..?
@@hazeenamohamedali757 thank you and yes it was. I have lupus so it’s hard for me to hold children. I did do genetic testing and nothing was wrong I just didn’t carry. I’m actually pregnant now though 17 weeks today
@@rosababy4238Good luck, I hope this baby makes it healthy.
@@rosababy4238wishing you a healthy pregnancy 🤰
So sorry Alyssa for your loss!! Miscarriages are hard..,just keep believing and praying!!
After 5 weeks of being diagnosed, my 6 week old sac came out today. 1 ectopic pregnancy & now 1 miscarriage.
Thanks for sharing this 💝
I am sorry for you. I had exactly the same experience and still trying to get the baby. But you are young, I am sure everything will be ok and you will get your little baby
We had to lose the baby in the beginning of the fourth month. The pain was and is so big. My heart is with you.
By sharing your story you are giving other women the space to also share theirs. 💓
I’m sorry for your loss, Alyssa. I also had a loss last year. Praying for healing and strength and a beautiful rainbow baby. Holding my beautiful 2 month old rainbow baby now.
How Many months gap for miscarry and next pregnancy
@@nagendrababu6685 3 months
Oh my dear young woman. I am so sorry for your loss. A very close friend of mine tried for years to have a baby, but after 4 miscarriages she finally just handed her hopes to the universe. After not being able to get pregnant, she finally adopted a little girl from her state. It was the best decision of her life. Like a lot of women in this situation she felt empty and obsessed with having a biological child. After she adopted, her world transformed completely and she finally allowed herself the pure joys of motherhood. She, her partner and daughter welcomed another older child into their amazing family. You never know what blessings await until you open up your horizons. Many blessings to you dear. You have your health and so much love to give. Use those blessings to carry you forward.
I miscarried a week & a half ago. 😢 I got to 11 weeks 4 days but my baby measured 9 weeks 6 days. I was devastated! I knew the statistics, heard or read all the stories but somehow I didn't imagine that this would happen to me. I'm 38 yrs old in 3 mnths & have been trying for about a yr with my husband. I found out I was pregnant the day before my fertility consultation! We were overjoyed! Like you, I shared with my family & friends immediately because everyone knew I was worried I wasn't able to get pregnant plus this just felt like such a huge miracle! Anyway, I cried a whole bunch & still do every now & again, but I think I've accepted the loss now. So super sad & disappointed, but I have faith it will happen for us again. My body also obviously didn't recognize the miscarriage so I did the D&C. Also a little traumatic but glad I took that route. My husband has been amazing & supportive. I know he's also hurting, but he has tried to be so strong for me. Prayers, light & love for anyone also experiencing this. I hope as we heal we will have faith that our babies will come & be healthy.
Thank you for sharing your story. I just went through a miscarriage at 6vweeks and 2 days. And it's been extremely hard for me. Me and my fiance tried for 7 months to get pregnant and we finally found out I was pregnant may 5th and the pregnancy was progressing very nicely but I was able to get in for my first ultrasound with a pregnancy center and the ultrasound tech seen the gestational sac with the baby and the heart rate was 116 bpm and then she seen another what she thought was a gestational sac and come to find out it wasn't it was a subchronic hematoma and it can mimic a twin gestational sac and I started spotting on Friday May 26th and the doctor told me the baby was fine and that I had the subchronic hematoma and the only thing the doctor told me was to go home and be on pelvic rest, the bleeding got worst on that Saturday so I went back to the hospital as I panicked the doctor came in and said the baby was fine the heart rate was 110 bpm and then Sunday morning I passed a big sized blood clot and my heart sank because I knew but my fiance told me to go back to the hospital to just check and we did and the doctor came in and told me I indeed had a miscarriage because they were not able to see the baby on the ultrasound and my hgc dropped from 1544 on Saturday night to Sunday morning being 773 and I've been having such a hard time and watching your story has helped a lot so thank you for sharing
I found out I was pregnant on Dec 8th. I was so happy, like you I told my close friends and family immediately. Unfortunately, I had a miscarriage at home today. Our nugget was 6 weeks today. Thank you for sharing your experience, this is very encouraging ❤️ my husband and I are feeling the loss. We are living in the moment, but we know that this dark time will pass eventually. Wishing you the best on your journey darling.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t know you but I’m sending you and your husband love
Oh so sorry to hear this. 😥💜
I am so sorry for your loss, Alyssa. I randomly thought of you this morning before I saw you posted a video. I will be praying for you and your husband. 💛
Currently going through this.. would of been my second baby, i was supposed to be 10 weeks 2 days but was only measuring 8. no heart beat. thank you for sharing your story😢❤ i hope one day i get my rainbow baby..
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks last year (my first pregnancy) and it was terrible. We have a very similar story. Sending you love! 💜
Me too my 1st pregnancy i miscarriage a month ago very painful
@@queeniequilona7603how many months after u get pregnancy
So sorry to hear,, prayers for you🙏🙏😞
Sorry to hear that...sending prayers for you and your husband.May God give you strength to bear this loss.Dont worry God is with you, soon you shall be blessed with a beautiful baby. Amen 🙏🙏
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so sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing your story. best wishes on your journey!
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I'm so sorry :( praying for you ❤️
Thank you. I have been trying for 4 months, got pregnant, so very excited. Told all of our families. Christmas day I had my miscarriage while @ the family dinner. I was almost 10 weeks. Very sorry.
I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi, Alyssa--First of all, lots of gentle hugs. This is hard. I had two miscarriages, one when I was quite young and wasn't thinking about pregnancy, and one with my husband when we had decided to start getting pregnant. The miscarriage was really hard, but we got pregnant again two months later, and my beautiful, lovely son is now nearly 32. He's the one I was waiting for--and I don't tend to think that way.
Three thoughts, which I'm sure you know, but I'll repeat them anyway: first of all, you knew you were pregnant long, LONG before all women until very recently, and most women still. So most women who experienced miscarriages like yours never knew it.
Second, I'm not at all sure I believe this, but when I had my miscarriage, I was in graduate school, and both a fellow student and my supervisor had miscarriages at the same time, and there was some idea circulating about using computers many hours a day and miscarriages. I didn't believe it then, and the technologies have changed a lot since then, but I thought I'd mention it in case you want to look into it.
Third, you were under a LOT of stress right around then--the move, your brother's wedding, and the pregnancy itself. That kind of stress isn't easy for full grown adults, much less very tiny embryos. The whole scene will be quite different next time, which is great.
Sending you lots of support and warmth and peaceful thoughts, xxx
Oh girl I'm so sorry....🌈✨️💖I hope you can conceive a healthy kiddo soon. :( it'll happen for you 💗
Thanks for sharing. I feel like I’m going through miscarriage right now. Only my husband knows and we haven’t told anyone about it. I definitely don’t have a great support network like you. If I told my mum, she would blame me and tell me it’s because of what I’m eating and say she’s never had a miscarriage so I should be careful with what I eat like her. My husband kind of didn’t want another baby and suspected I intentionally planned this pregnancy, which I didn’t. So I’m kind of having to deal with this grief myself. I’ve kind of kept it together until you talked about your amazing support network. I’m glad for you and thanks for sharing.
I am so sorry! I understand How you feel. I didn't tell my family, they wouldn't blame me but they would minimize my pain ( as in it's not a big deal, you can't get attached at 7 weeks..). My husband doesn't care if we can't any baby, he is happy regardless however he supports me fully. I did tell some colleagues and it helped me a little bit.
Thank you for the content I’m going thru this 6 week 1 day
Currently going through miscarriage right now. This is my 2nd miscarriage this year. My first miscarriage I was 6 weeks pregnant(February 2022) this time I am 13 weeks (October 2022). We didn't expect to get pregnant that fast. The emotional and physical pain are so much worst. Me and Husband decided to not try getting pregnant anymore. We have an 8 y/o daughter, and these losses made us realized how fortunate we are to have a healthy and beautiful kid that we already have.
So sorry to hear…
But don't lose hope ✨
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We miscarried last week. We were 10 weeks but the ultrasound showed baby had stopped growing at 8 + 4. Had some very light spotting and a bit of back pain so we also got an ultrasound earlier than we were meant to. Absolutely devastating to be told there is no heartbeat. Im so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. It has certainly helped me.
the same thing happened to me. I understand what your going through. it hurts and it's really hard. if your ready to try again you are super fertile after. in case no one told you. I'll be praying for you
Thank you for this comment for Alyssa and all of us who have lost a pregnancy. To hear this hope is heaven sent. Indeed studies indicate increased fertility after a loss. I cant wait to try again but i pray to be able to manage this trauma then.
Doctors usually recommends to wait at least one period before trying to conceive. The risks are higher to miscarriage again.
Take Care Alyssa and Matt 🙏❤️
I just experienced miscarriage. but I love how natural you are. best of luck.
Worst pain in the world. So sorry for the loss of your baby. I lost my son at 4 months into the pregnancy
That mommy intuition knows subconsciously before we ever truly realize 💔 I lost my baby at 8 weeks gestation very recently and i know exactly what you mean when you say 'I just knew something was wrong'.. I'm praying for you and your husband
I knew too :’(. Lost mine yesterday at almost 6 weeks.
9 weeks pregnant, u/s revealed 6+2 and I just knew that would be the case. For the last couple of weeks or so I just felt like it was over. My husband would say goodnight to my belly and I just had this gut feeling that he wasn't talking to anything. Currently waiting to miscarry now
Sending love and light to you!! 💚💜💚
I’m sorry for your loss 😢 I’m experimenting a miscarriage right now and like you said I just know almost since the beginning there was something wrong, but because of I was feeling good and without my period we had hope. Nevertheless I started bleeding two days ago, and we had an ultrasound and they told me I hadn’t got a sac. It is painful but stories like yours give me strength and help me cope this difficult moment. We will have our babies, you’ll see ❤
I experienced a miscarriage on Sunday and it was my first pregnancy. I’m so sorry about ur experience:/😢
So sorry for your loss 💔 I miscarried few days ago, at 6weeks. I know what you mean. Miscarriage is such painful and lonely experience. I would never wish it to anybody but at the same time I feel strength with sharing.
@@michaelathejackal5439 So sorry for your lose too 😢
Sorry for ur loss hun..😭❤🙏
I just found out today at 7 weeks 5 days that my embryo stopped growing at 5 weeks. I started passing everything shortly after my transvaginal ultrasound. Thank you for sharing your story.
I just found out the same i am 7 weeks and 1 day