Miscarriage and Stillbirth at 18 Weeks | Emotional Story

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  • @7Aheadfamily
    @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +14

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  • @mrsr003
    @mrsr003 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I’m so sorry for your loss! Losing a child is the hardest thing anyone could ever imagine! You are attached to them from the moment you find out your are pregnant!

  • @khadijaconteh6984
    @khadijaconteh6984 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I lost my baby boy at 19weeks pregnant August 18th 2023 😢 alhamdulillah he's in heaven

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He is in Heaven. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

    • @khadijaconteh6984
      @khadijaconteh6984 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I could not see him i was scared to look at him i was scared to hold him..i regret that but i think it was best for me i really miss him

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for sharing. 💜❤️💜

    • @abimohan5890
      @abimohan5890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@khadijaconteh6984what happen to baby

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She passed away. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kathryn2826
    @kathryn2826 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I have had six healthy new borns and two miscarriages . They were early, but it is still a hard experience to go through! You will be glad you shared this with your children! She will be so loved in heaven!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you so much, for sharing ❤️. Agreed. 😊

    • @anitakinnear6735
      @anitakinnear6735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are so right. I’ve given birth to eight healthy babies and suffered one miscarriage, and that child I did not get to raise here on this side of eternity means just the same as my other living children. People would make the most callous remarks, one of the most common being, “Well, at least you have these other kids.” As if my living children make up for the one I lost, like offsetting penalties in the NFL! smh.

  • @Donna_Nola
    @Donna_Nola 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My mom had three miscarriages and had two girls born full term (1965 and 1970), but the first girl died at three days and the second died at eighteen days old. My parents couldn’t have girls due to a chromosome issue. They were able to have two healthy boys though. This was the reason I was adopted. My parents firmly believed that all of that happened because God wanted them to be my parents. I am grateful.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story❤❤

    • @anexaram1393
      @anexaram1393 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t think is because god wanted you to be with them. It’s just thinks that happen. Not because god wants them to happen.

    • @anexaram1393
      @anexaram1393 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So there just things that happen.

    • @islandgirl5762
      @islandgirl5762 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That would have been so hard for your Mom. My twin sister was stillborn in 1972. Mama never got to see her, let alone bury her. I miss her even though I never really knew her, but my heart aches for Mama.

    • @Donna_Nola
      @Donna_Nola 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you! My mom is heaven with all of her babies now. ❤️

  • @KailieWick
    @KailieWick ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The first thing I did when I was told I was having a miscarriage was call a friend who I knew went through one herself. So much healing in talking to other mommas who get it. Sorry for your lost.😢

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is so true. I did the same! Being able to share and be vulnerable really connects people

    • @MJ-pw1eq
      @MJ-pw1eq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is true when your surrounded by those that don't they can be cruel expecting you to just be ok because you didn't have the baby outside daily.😢

  • @littlejonathorn6860
    @littlejonathorn6860 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is really sad 😞 and news that no parent or family wants to hear.
    Sending prayers 🙏 to entire 7-Ahead family and please let us know how we can support you at this time with this new transition.
    Holly, I am blessed that you have Adam, he is your Rock 🪨!!!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for your support. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @andreamc4159
    @andreamc4159 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ehhhh I'm crying with this beautiful story. Mother you are the definition of the strongest woman. Thank you so much from sharing you and your baby's story.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alexandraanomaly9991
    @alexandraanomaly9991 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Aww your children brought such an amazing beautiful light to the room. When your oldest boy looked and said to his little brother "that's your baby sister" I cried. You are so blessed to be surrounded by love like this. Adorable little Ezra.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!💜💜 You are so kind!❤️❤️

  • @humbleadoration
    @humbleadoration ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m sorry for your loss mama. I found out at 17 weeks on Tuesday we had no heartbeat. Having a D&E tomorrow. Praying for you guys.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so kind ❤️. Thank you for sharing and connecting. We will pray for you. 🙏 that all will go well. ❤️ God bless you and keep in touch.

  • @samanthabenjamin3256
    @samanthabenjamin3256 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m heartbroken for your loss. I love the closeness of your family, I hope it gives you comfort, and I hope you give yourself grace and time to overcome this tragedy.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @lady_h9659
    @lady_h9659 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. I think you sharing your story is not only courageous, but giving back to someone else who may be searching for healing with their loss. I think the deepest pain we feel as humans can only be relieved by giving to others and helping them suffer less than we may have. Blessings 💕

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much, and agreed. ❤️

    • @lady_h9659
      @lady_h9659 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@7Aheadfamily you’re most welcome. And I agree with you, your baby girl Shirley will be an angel up there waiting for you. 👼 👧 👦 👦 👦 👦

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Juicawins83
    @Juicawins83 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm so sorry Holly. It's So Very, very hard.
    I've had 3 miscarriages, but my 4th was December 21, 2021. I tried to be happy for my kids at Christmas.
    My other miscarriages were 11 weeks and under.
    With this one at 16 weeks I didn't expect my milk to come in which made it harder.
    I elected to miscarry at home which was a much better experience and less painful than the hospital.
    I'm so thankful for your bravery in making this video to help others.
    While i was watching this video I thought of the many videos you so beautifully signed help others as well. I wish I could give you a big hug .💗
    I desire you to find the peace and healing you & your family need.💕

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your story and your kind words. It means a lot ❤️.

  • @AutismFamilyChannel
    @AutismFamilyChannel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We are with you guys ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Looking forward to Easter ❤️

  • @Safwanashibili
    @Safwanashibili 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I delivered my baby boy at 17 weeks of pregnancy due to cervical incompetence on October 11 2024. I saw my babys face and i can’t forget him.. he is in heaven now Alhamdulillahh

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing. ❤❤❤

    • @Safwanashibili
      @Safwanashibili 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@7Aheadfamily it’s really hard to go through this pain.. i cant get over it.. i was so excited so happy when i got to know that i was pregnant🥺🥺

    • @Safwanashibili
      @Safwanashibili 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@7Aheadfamily ☺️

  • @Gamer-bs7lt
    @Gamer-bs7lt ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am so sorry about your loss. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you. You are such an amazing mom, with a loving heart.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @colinroley162
      @colinroley162 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@7Aheadfamily This is an Absolute Heartbreak

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not an easy thing to go through ❤️

  • @lyannclemente
    @lyannclemente 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry for your loss I’m sending prayers 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!❤️❤️❤️

  • @danibutler3465
    @danibutler3465 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Anderson family, I am so sorry for your loss and at the same time grateful for you being brave enough to share this experience. Thank you and our prayers are with your family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your prayers, watching, and commenting ❤️

  • @Gamer-bs7lt
    @Gamer-bs7lt ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’m so sorry about your loss. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you. You are a great mom with so much love in your heart. I give you so many wishes.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @F4ITHg4m3s
    @F4ITHg4m3s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    it is hard, the face of horror in you and your kids face had me in tears. also with autistic kids it’s even harder. a miscarriage isn’t the best with mental health. I’ve just watched the headstone one u uploaded it shows if it’s been a year, it can still hurt. she’s in a better place, she’s ready to meet u up there. she will introduce you and love you. ❤ she’s in heaven living her best life.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing. ❤❤❤ She is.

  • @lacybingham4940
    @lacybingham4940 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This video is a beautiful tribute. So so sorry you had to experience this heartache. We're praying for your sweet family. Love you guys ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, thank you so much, and right back at you. ❤️

  • @lordhad699
    @lordhad699 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Aww I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. I can’t imagine going through anything like this but you are very brave for sharing something so personal and hard with us❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @lordhad699
      @lordhad699 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’d like to believe now she’ll be a guardian always watching over Marie❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She certainly will be ❤️

  • @thiskindofgirl
    @thiskindofgirl ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sending you so much love. I am so sorry that you and your family are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story and vulnerability and for talking about this with your kids, sharing that with the world. You are incredible parents. The little one you lost did come into your life, exists as your child and a part of your story. They will always be with you as a part of your story of motherhood, parenthood, sisterhood, brotherhood. I recognize and honor the life that your child lived with you and will continue to live through your memories and thoughts into the future. Sending you love.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your kind and wise words. ❤️ very much appreciated. ❤️

  • @jennp7
    @jennp7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So sorry for your loss. Very courageous of you to share your story. Shirley Grace is a beautiful name. Bless you and I’m praying for your family ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @judithrose4603
    @judithrose4603 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oh my dear friend Holly I am crying watching this video!! 😭😭😭 I know that feeling! I've been there... 5 years ago I lost my baby boy...😭😭😭 Prescious spirits waiting for us in heaven and be together with us again for eternity ❤❤❤
    sending hugs and love 💕💕💕💕

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Salamat po ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @landracriswell437
    @landracriswell437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I lost a baby 8-8-1988 8:38p it was very emotional and physically painful 😖. I have a beautiful 21 yrs old daughter now. God knows more than we do about what’s going on.. God will heal you and your family 🙏🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are so sorry that happened to you❤ We are here for you❤ Lots of love from us here at 7-Ahead❤

  • @erinpincock10
    @erinpincock10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    HUGS. You are in our thoughts and prayers. What a beautiful name and such a special little girls. She has an amazing family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @hernandezlouisaa
    @hernandezlouisaa ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for sharing your guys story with us. Also taking us along with her service. I send prayers to all of you and a hug❤️‍🩹 she is with the lord and watching over all of you ❤️ thank you.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @chilllzoneee
    @chilllzoneee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so sorry for you and your family. I pray that you all will find some peace during this tragedy.

  • @theupsidedowngame9194
    @theupsidedowngame9194 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so unbelievably sad. I'm so sorry for you loss. Thoughts and prayers in your direction, much love!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @brandimourning2356
    @brandimourning2356 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a blessing to so many people going through this by sharing❤ bless Marie for being so brave. I’m so sorry for your loss 😢

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your support. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bellaluci9844
    @bellaluci9844 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl Shirley Grace. I now...as you, she is with Jesus. I too went through this and in time the pain will not be as bad. Knowing that she is in heaven and you will see her will bring comfort in time. We your TH-cam friends have you/family in our prayers. If you all need anything just reach out to us and we will be there for you all! We love and support you all. May God continue to give you comfort, love and understanding.🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing, watching and commenting. We appreciate your prayers and concern for us. You’re the best ❤️

  • @sonjasitzman8526
    @sonjasitzman8526 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost my son at 18 weeks too!! That was 24 years ago and there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about him. Stay strong mom!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing. 😊 God bless you. ❤️

  • @quitetidy
    @quitetidy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im so sorry 😢 This made me cry. You are so strong. God bless your family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your kind words and support. It means a lot during such a difficult time. Sharing this story was hard, but we hope it helps others going through similar experiences feel less alone. God bless you and your loved ones as well. ❤️

  • @storytime9915
    @storytime9915 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am so sorry hunny i know what that feels like. I lost mine last year at 30 plus week no heartbeat. But it will get better with time and support. Good luck.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for sharing ❤️. Appreciate your support, and many blessings for you as well ❤️

  • @cassiekat4055
    @cassiekat4055 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m 18 weeks right now and this hit so hard. I’m so sorry for you loss mama. I feel the pain 😢 prayers your way

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for reaching out ❤️. Many blessings and much love for you and your little one ❤️

  • @kimcunningham2932
    @kimcunningham2932 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers hugs to your family 🙏🏻.

  • @lynnbessant4255
    @lynnbessant4255 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry for your beautiful loss sending love an prayers from England thankyou for sharing your precious video im sure im not alone when i say i wish i could ease your pain 😢 ❤

  • @alexandraanomaly9991
    @alexandraanomaly9991 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm really sorry for your loss. We found out today at 21 weeks that my placenta is placenta acretta. I really pray you and your children and husband are able to heal from this. I will lose my uterus for sure And hemorrhage in c section and a hysterectomy 😢 I pray I can get far enough along without her being at risk 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being so kind! So sorry that you are going through such a hard time, we wish you and your family the best!💕💕💕

  • @VikramS-l4g
    @VikramS-l4g ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My wife had a miscarriage when she first got pregnant and we both were heartbroken. I still remember we were under depression for months. You guys are so inspiring for other parents. May god bless your family❤.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing a bit of your story. ❤️

  • @aldersonkevin1894
    @aldersonkevin1894 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel your pain can't stop crying I pray for all of you she will be close and be born again much love and prayers from our little family from Belgium 🇧🇪

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. ❤️, Your prayers are felt. Thanks for watching and much love 💕 🙏

  • @BasicBerry_
    @BasicBerry_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Im so sorry for your loss! You are so strong Holly and Adam. I feel so bad for Marie, but the two sisters will be reunited someday. Sending lots of love ❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @BODUKE3201
    @BODUKE3201 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry for your loss. I along with y’all was looking forward to meeting the baby.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tamerasyniec6621
    @tamerasyniec6621 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a beautiful name for your precious daughter. She will never be forgotten.

  • @michelleosmond7631
    @michelleosmond7631 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry you and your family are going through this. I've had 4 miscarriages and 1 ectopic preg, then had to get everything out. But i knew my journey wasn't over. So after I went into remission from Hodgkins Lymphoma, we decided to adopt. She is 11 now, and as much as it hurt to lose my babies, I realize that this was the path God had for me. Sending love to you all..

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! You have an incredible story ❤️. Thank you for sharing. Many prayers and blessings for you ❤️

    • @michelleosmond7631
      @michelleosmond7631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @7Aheadfamily awe Ty. Mine story is far from finished. I'm on my 5th Cancer now. All I want to do is to see my little girl grow up and spend more time with my hubby. That's it. Ty for your kind words.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Five times! Sounds like you need to write a book as well, many people ourselves included, would learn so much from someone who has gone through so much ❤️. Hugs 🤗 and prayers🙏 for you ❤️

    • @michelleosmond7631
      @michelleosmond7631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@7Aheadfamily lol, I probably should..

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will buy it. 😊

  • @terryjohnson3814
    @terryjohnson3814 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heartbreaking! So very sorry. Sending healing prayers.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tamaraanderson7260
    @tamaraanderson7260 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry for all you’ve been through. We love you❤

  • @luke_Boston-MA
    @luke_Boston-MA ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My heart goes out to you as you grieve for the baby you were so looking forward to meeting. You have a wonderful and supportive family and I hope y’all find peace at this difficult time 💙

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Luke ❤️

  • @danhobson24
    @danhobson24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m sorry to hear that. I’m praying for your family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. The prayers are appreciated.

  • @darkchipz3016
    @darkchipz3016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm sorry for your family's loss, this is really sad and heartbreaking, may she rest in peace, I hope god will always be on your side❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @sharipotter6137
    @sharipotter6137 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so sorry - you are brave for sharing

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, yeah, we share the good, sharing the bad is not easy or fun, but that is life. ❤️

  • @mariannejennisch9293
    @mariannejennisch9293 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of my nephews and his wife went thru it last year. We are here for you sending virtual hugs.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @sandracrumpler54
    @sandracrumpler54 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspirational, you have a blessed family. Shirley Grace was God's beautiful gift. She will be waiting for all of you 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your heartwarming comment!❤️❤️❤️

  • @SnailWhales
    @SnailWhales 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My mom lost one around 20 weeks when we were on vacation in CA. They didn’t let her see the baby back then or even know the gender! They just threw it away. 😢 I am so glad you got to see and love your baby. I always mourned the sibling I lost. They were a couple of years younger than me.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So sorry to here that. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤

  • @SageStrawberries
    @SageStrawberries ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi, I don’t know if you remember me, but we met in the Provo City Center temple and we had a good chat together and you caught me right when we were about to leave and gave me your card for your TH-cam channel. I wanted to say I’m so sorry this happened. I remember you smelling key lime pie chapstick so you wouldn’t throw up during the service. You were so sweet and a joy to be with. I will pray for you and your family in these hard times.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I do! Thank you so much for watching and caring enough to comment. So glad we can keep in touch. ❤️

  • @brookeritson8205
    @brookeritson8205 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so so so sorry for your loss you did not deserve this 😢❤ big hugs

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️ thank you

  • @shaunastingley8107
    @shaunastingley8107 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so sorry you're having to go thru this Holly and Adam. Much love to you.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      We appreciate that ❤️ thank you so much

  • @KerriRivera-is8gj
    @KerriRivera-is8gj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so so sorry. You are such amazing parents.

  • @nyght-n-gale4639
    @nyght-n-gale4639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 10w3d and I just learned today that I've lost my baby. They had no heartbeat and I'm devastated. I'm so grateful for you sharing your story, as this is giving me comfort. I feel so empty and that this is my fault. I can't imagine what its like to have to give birth. I'm still so anxious about passing the pregnancy and I'm not looking forward to this.
    Thank you again for sharing your story and im so sorry

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Know that it is not your fault. Let yourself grieve. I still grieve over my little one. Now she is an angel watching out for us. So is yours. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chelseareed7326
    @chelseareed7326 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just ran across your video, my sister lost her baby as well just couple months after you (based on the time this video was released). She found out at her 20 week anatomy scan. Her little one passed around 18 weeks they guessed. I am so sorry you have had to experience this. Just being the sister/aunt has been heartbreaking and I know it has been very hard for my sister and her family. I hope your family is finding healing with time as she is. Thanks for your example of faith and for letting others to know they are not alone.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your own experience too. We are healing. It has been 5 months now and though I still get emotional when I talk about our daughter, it is getting better. I like the quote, when a loved one dies, it's like there is a hole in your heart. the hole is always there, it never goes away, it just gets small enough that you don't fall in.

  • @destinieschultz1584
    @destinieschultz1584 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We've been trying for a baby since twenty thirteen with no luck. In 2019 I found out I had a tumor inside my left ovary. I had to have surgery to haven't taken out, Four months later they removed my overy. I've done twelve rounds and fertility treatments. We've had five miscarriages before six weeks, We lost our son, Ezra Nikolai July 2022, at 14 and a1/2 weeks. We had another miscarriage in November, 2022 at 8w /5days. The day I went in for my d&c, My husband and I decided we were going to give up after ten years of trying.
    Today I am fourteen weeks pregnant, First day of my second trimester. We just found out we were having a boy. I'm so nervous, But so excited. This is the first time we've gotten pregnant without medication. ❤
    I chose to give birth to my son. I hated that I was giving birth, but I couldn't take my baby home. The pain never goes away, but it's does get easier to handle. I think of him every day. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for sharing. I do understand that the pain never goes away. Just yesterday I was overcome with emotion and had to leave a family party and go into a room and cry because I was sad again about my miscarriage of my daughter. I am so excited though, about your pregnancy. Congratulations! I hope everything goes well and that you give birth to a healthy baby! ❤️

  • @emmacoombes757
    @emmacoombes757 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry for your loss. I miscarriaged my child 14 years ago. Broken hearted still but life goes on. Now I'm looking after my lovely mum. Who had a stroke 12 years ago has parkinsons disease and dementia. I know my baby is waiting for me too. God bless you and your lovely family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much ❤️ and same to you! Much ❤️..

  • @03debrah
    @03debrah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had been through a miscarriage when I was 16 and it was so hard I was around 5 months and was so devastated that a friend had taken care of the burial for me. And then I had 9 miscarriages in 8 yrs with my current husband before we had our son with autism. God bless your whole family

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my goodness, bless you for your faith and determination to have a child. I don’t think there’s any way I could do this nine times. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ you are truly an inspiration. Much love. 💕💕

    • @03debrah
      @03debrah ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have 3 older kids with my first husband. My current one had no kids of his own and after seeing him with my kids and loving them as his own I knew I had to try an give him one. After my last one I found I had a clotting disorder so with the help of shots and the grace of god we had been blessed with our baby

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so wonderful ❤️ How old is your little guy now?

  • @asiareshontae
    @asiareshontae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can totally understand the sadness that the older children are feeling even though they’re trying to be strong. I remember when the doctor told my mom that she lost my brother and I cried with her. That excitement that I felt was no longer there and I felt so bad for my mom and dad in that moment.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ Yes, not an easy thing to go through for anyone in the family.

  • @jamieandrews9527
    @jamieandrews9527 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so sorry Holly. I pray that you and your family will continue to be strengthened and blessed with peace.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your prayers and support ❤️

  • @ayeshaexecutive
    @ayeshaexecutive 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Iam so sorry about your loss.i lost my baby boy at 17w4d .i had my miscarriage 3 days ago.please pray for me .its the worst ever feeling i have in my life

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so sorry you had to go through that, it is a terrible experience and you're not alone in facing this storm. The main thing that got us through is our Faith and knowledge about what happens after this life. Happy to share more about that any time. You can hit us up here... support@7-ahead.com ❤❤❤

  • @mnmfactory5210
    @mnmfactory5210 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Having lost a son at 21 wks many years ago, watching this beautiful video brought back so many memories. I know the pain is overwhelming and I'm so sorry 🥺💔
    After I lost my baby, I remember talking with an older woman who had been through this many years before and I was amazed that the pain had lessened for her because for me it seemed like it would never end. But sure enough she was right. Time does heal but you never forget. Love and prayers for you and your sweet family's healing❤️🙏❤️ Btw we are family, your mom is my cousin and Joyce is my aunt ❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing your story. I look forward to the time when it doesn't hurt so much. -Holly (small world - Grandma Joyce is the best!)

  • @sammypearch4005
    @sammypearch4005 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My deepest condolences to your family. I am pregnant right now with my 4th and I am so heartbroken for you guys.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      We are excited for you and your little one, and thank you. ❤️

  • @RedRoseSeptember22
    @RedRoseSeptember22 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss :( may Shirley Grace rest in peace and continue to watch over you all as an angel ♥

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @PaulaTrimnal
    @PaulaTrimnal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was 6 months pregnant and went in to the hospital and had to deliver my baby boy and I got to hold him and 15 minutes later he passed away in my arms. I also lost another son when he was 11 months old he died in a car accident and I was able to donate his organs. I will miss both of my boys so much. That’s a wonderful story that you shared with us and I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. ❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing with us❤Life has a way of throwing the toughest challenges at us. Remember, you're not alone in facing this storm. The main thing that got us through is our Faith and knowledge about what happens after this life. Happy to share more about that any time. You can hit us up here... support@7-ahead.com

  • @sherimcmullin1385
    @sherimcmullin1385 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time. You have a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing such a painful experience. We love you all so much. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @stephaniebucci3987
    @stephaniebucci3987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just went through this experience a few weeks ago. I miscarried at 16weeks for my first pregnancy and my husband and I chose to do labor and delivery for our daughter. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life. Finding videos like this helps me see I am not alone. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you❤ Life has a way of throwing the toughest challenges at us. Remember, you're not alone in facing this storm. The main thing that got us through is our Faith and knowledge about what happens after this life. Happy to share more about that any time. You can hit us up here... support@7-ahead.com

  • @erinwallace1922
    @erinwallace1922 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super sad. Sorry for your loss.😢

  • @Meeko4eve39
    @Meeko4eve39 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That must be so hard to deal with. I'm sorry you had to go through this. May Shirly Grace rest in peace.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your support. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nazeeahsameera8
    @nazeeahsameera8 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry Holly. No mother should ever have to feel this pain. I lost triplets in 2006 so I know exactly how you feel. I hope you and your family are at peace now knowing your little angel is in heaven. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for being so kind!🩷🩷🩷

  • @sergiogonzalez736
    @sergiogonzalez736 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm so sorry for your loss. We just lost our baby girl at 20 weeks. We feel so lost and empty

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your loss, it’s not the end. You will be with her again. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤️

    • @shamimabegum5980
      @shamimabegum5980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've just miscarried at 13 weeks and I miss my baby so much. No words can describe the pain I am feeling 😢😢

    • @sergiogonzalez736
      @sergiogonzalez736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @shamimabegum5980 I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost our baby 3 months ago. We would've been ready to welcome her in just a couple of weeks, but instead, I'm broken and lost only thinking of what could have been.

    • @shamimabegum5980
      @shamimabegum5980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sergiogonzalez736 I am so sorry for your loss. I truly know the feelings you are feeling right now because I am feeling the sadness and grief right now. Plus you were so close to meeting your child. I pray God gives you strength to get thru everyday. Remember you will meet your baby in heaven oneday.
      I know my loss is God's plan but honestly I would do anything to have my baby back. All I do is think about my child everyday.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Many hugs, prayers, and love sending your way ❤️.

  • @matulich77
    @matulich77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't believe how well you're handling this. I'd be completely inconsolable. I lost a babu at 8 weeks, and it messed me up. I always wonder if I'm just ultra sensitive. That or we just all handle things completely differently. I'm sorry for your loss. Big sister was so sad.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤️. Sorry to hear about your loss. Yeah, it is definitely not easy. Thank you for watching and commenting. I’m glad to have you on the channel ❤️

  • @countrymom2023
    @countrymom2023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby I will say a lot of prayers for you and your family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @christinabristol9979
    @christinabristol9979 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Holly for sending me this story (link) I'm so very sorry for your loss, but like you said Shirley Grace is your families guardian Angel, that had to be so hard for all of you, I know the loss of my youngest son was very tragic and hard for me and our family,but hes my light when its dark my shinning 🌟 when I look in the sky , and he's my guardian Angel and someday we'll see each other again!❤️💕😇🙏🏼🌟GodBless you and yours....

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your kind message. The world needs more like it. God bless your family! ❤️😊❤️

    • @christinabristol9979
      @christinabristol9979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Thank you Holly, Adam and kids ❤️🙏

    • @christinabristol9979
      @christinabristol9979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Thank you Holly, Adam and kids ❤️🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      You bet! Thank you ❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TiffBenediktsdottir4
    @TiffBenediktsdottir4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm sooo sorry for your loss!! This breaks my heart entirely to see this.... I am now going to be 18 weeks pregnant in 2 days... and this is one of my biggest fear.... I'm soo sorry!! You're soo strong!!! I'm proud of how strong you are and your baby for sure loves you and will forever be in your heart ❤️ Many warm hugs andblove to you and your family during this very hard time ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much. And congrats on your pregnancy.

  • @e.b.5892
    @e.b.5892 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im so sorry for your loss! 😢

  • @zakbrand7354
    @zakbrand7354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry for your loss

  • @beatricebodre7963
    @beatricebodre7963 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I know only God can give you the strength you need.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aijab5129
    @aijab5129 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am very,very sorry for Your loss! Thank you for sharing Your story and letting us to know about your beautiful angel 👼. My little princess passed away three years ago at 23 weeks-recently was her birthday - it brings back so many precious memories... Once again-so sorry, may God bless Your family! ❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My thoughts & prayers are with you all at this time..

  • @jeanmorgan5410
    @jeanmorgan5410 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is hard to loose a baby been there. Thank you. You help so much. May God be with you. Lord be with this family bad they go through this. This I ask in your name amen.

  • @TheAutisticWorldAwesome-2023
    @TheAutisticWorldAwesome-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you guys. I’m sure Shirley’s in heaven smiling down at her sweet family🙂.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much, that means a lot ❤️. We feel your prayers and thoughts, and know that Shirley is not far away. 😊

  • @jeanvogler9131
    @jeanvogler9131 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. I'm so sorry little Shirley Grace died, but like you said, she is waiting for you ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Balentine4
    @Balentine4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was 19 weeks when an ultrasound was done and the doctor said “oh there is no heartbeat” and then he sent me home with a cup and told me when I passed the fetus to put it in there and bring to him. I spent 2 days grieving, knowing my baby was dead and just waiting for labor to start. I started bleeding heavy and went to emergency room and they decided to do a DNC. I was never offered to labor and deliver, not offered to see gender, just given a dnc. I will never forgive myself for not advocating for myself and my needs. I wanted to know if I had a boy or girl and I wanted to see my baby. It was so traumatic!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s awful. Thank you for sharing. God bless you. ❤️😊❤️

    • @KrissyTheIntrovert
      @KrissyTheIntrovert 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏾👣🕊

  • @tyrelledavis828
    @tyrelledavis828 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heyy y’all stay strong I went through a lot as well June 23 I lost my son Qwun Jr and I still can’t believe he’s going

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! It's been difficult. But thank you for sharing

  • @sheilaspeigle3858
    @sheilaspeigle3858 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video may help someone else going through this. God bless your family.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. I hope it does. ❤️

  • @carmenHernandez-jg1kk
    @carmenHernandez-jg1kk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so sorry for ypur loss!! My prayers for baby girl and you all!!! 💔🙏🙏

  • @merrymhernazario5056
    @merrymhernazario5056 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hello im here to find out too , i got miscarriage at 23weeks i dont know what to do since its my firstime got pregnant its almost 3 weeks baby not yet comeout though im i have medication taking doctor advice to wait to labor but i got pressure

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so very sorry for what you are dealing with. Good luck with everything. I suggest doing what your doctor says. Are you in the USA?

    • @merrymhernazario5056
      @merrymhernazario5056 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @7Aheadfamily hello im glad u reply maam , U know its difficult to moveon anyway but once Ive seen people like u it help me my self stronger , Im from Phillipines anyaway😊 Have a goodday

  • @suz1017
    @suz1017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this difficult time. One day you will all be together but until then your precious and much loved angel watches over you 💕🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed ❤️ Thank you so much for your kind words and watching.

  • @Marja-w8k
    @Marja-w8k ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heel veel sterkte ook voor jullie 5 kinderen hou je sterk

  • @lynnscruggs8105
    @lynnscruggs8105 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter 😢 Prayers for you and your family 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurenf2260
    @laurenf2260 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh I’m so so sorry 🥺💔 sending so much love your way.

  • @Sharon-marie
    @Sharon-marie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My baby died inside me at 18 weeks also in the year 2000 and was also a girl, but my experience was nothing like yours. I never got foot and hand prints because the midwife said the baby's skin would pull off with the ink and be stuck to the paper. I also never got to bathe or dress her or have a basket and bedding to make her presentable. She was brought to me in a silver kidney dish with a paper towel covering it. I picked her up she fit in my hand her head on my fingertips and her feet at the bottom of my hand. I was heartbroken. I remember wrapping her up in the paper towel like it was a shawl or blanket and placing her back in the kidney dish for the midwife to put back in the fridge on the ward. 23 years later and I'm still trying to get over the trauma it has left me a changed person as I have suffered from deep depression everyday since and tried to take my own life a few times because of what I went through and now live with.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for your loss. That is so heartbreaking. Your girls is is still yours. She is your daughter and I believe you will see her again and meet her and get to know her. I believe that everything in this life that is unfair will turn out fair in the next life. Hold on to Hope and know that there is a reason to live, always. do you have help available to you? Someone who you can talk to about your grief?

  • @DeDeSmith32
    @DeDeSmith32 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m just so sorry. ❤ 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for all your support and ❤️ I appreciate you!

  • @lyndsayasia7939
    @lyndsayasia7939 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur handling it much better than I ever cold. Sorry for ur loss 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being so kind💕