Becca just to share. I had a miscarriage at 7.5 weeks. Bleeding and passing of the baby vaginally. Hubby and I saw it. Our Dr told us no intimacy for three, or more, months. Of course we would follow our Drs suggestions. 12 days later I found myself at my Drs office and I told our nurse I thought I was still pregnant. I remember the nurse patting me on the back that I would be fine. She appeased me, did the blood test, and sent me to the waiting area. A few minutes later she came to waiting area, she was beat red. Her words " you are very pregnant"! I lost a twin. He is a Deputy Sheriff now, 23 years old. He is our adrenaline junkie kid. God Bless you, Matt, and Hayden always. Hugs
brownycake83 browny Faith is a beautiful thing. Hold on to that always, it’s truly great and seeing your strength through faith put a smile on my face 🙏 Prayers coming your way :)
So sorry for your loss. I miscarried twice after my first baby and didn’t think she’d ever have a sibling. God had big plans because she now has 3 more siblings. So thankful for the hope we have in Jesus and that we will reunite with those sweet babies one day.
@@leoniedavies5214 don’t give up. My daughter in law had 7 miscarriages, some were IVF, and she was heartbroken. She was 45 and her age was very much against her, so she decided to give up, and they moved house. Then she became pregnant again, but couldn’t relax and enjoy it for worrying. Then on her due date a sweet little boy arrived in perfect health. He’s six now and a real little monkey. Take heart.
@@harriethopper9981 so nice to hear some positive stories like this. I had a miscarriage last night and feel i will never be able to do it again just from the fear alone. Hopefully i won’t need a D&C
@@rosyapplekitchen635 Aw I’m so sorry to hear that Rosy, I know exactly how you feel, as I had three miscarriages myself. Don’t give up though, things have a habit of working out, and a D&C is nothing to worry about. I had three, that’s what they automatically did in those days. Wish you the very best of luck, and keep positive. X
I got pregnant with twins almost 11 years ago. I was so happy! My pregnancy was going great until I went to my 20 week ultrasound and found out I had lost one baby at about 18 weeks. I was devastated and the worse thing for me was that almost EVERYONE around me kept telling me “well at least you have one”! It doesn’t matter it was still a big loss! Anyways I’m sorry for your loss. I’m so thankful for my healthy child now.
😩❤️That must have been so hard! My mom was pregnant with my twin sisters at age 42 and was at very high risk and we are so thankful they were both born healthy. The doctor advised her to abort one to make sure one would be safe but she said "No way, these babies are in God's hands." They're 22 now.
So sorry for your loss. It’s a heartbreak like no other. My husband and I experienced three consecutive miscarriages at 6 weeks, 9 weeks and 11 weeks. I am now expecting a sweet miracle in less than 4 weeks. You never truly heal from your loss/losses, but time helps to learn to live with the hurt. I know they are watching over us 💗
I am so sorry for your loss. I truly hope you have found peace. Did you take any medication to protect your sweet miracle? I would really appreciate any help you can offer.
As a paramedic, I just want to apologize on behalf of all medical professionals for how rude the tech and OB were to you. No one deserves that treatment. I’m so sorry.
As a tech I know that she knew right for the start of the exam but we can't say anything to the patient. It is the doctor that have the authority to confirm a diagnostic. It must be a difficult station to be in.
I’m so sorry. I’ve had 2 missed miscarriages where the baby stopped growing at 7 weeks and I didn’t find out till around 12 weeks. I do now have a 2 week old perfect rainbow baby! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! 💙
This exact thing happened to my daughter today. She has 3 other children with no problems so this was devistating to her. She cannot comprehend how this happens with no problems before. I have no answer for her my heart just breaks for her
I started to have a miscarriage today at 5weeks. 😔 my little baby meant so much to me already. This is my first pregnancy & praying to God for a blessing. 🙏🏼
I'm currently going through a miscarriage at 5 weeks and your comment spoke to me. It is so disappointing to lose someone who means so much. I'm comforted by knowing we will meet them one day in heaven. I pray you have been blessed with a baby since writing this. xx
I’m so heartbroken for you. I found out I was pregnant in June ‘19, I was bleeding throughout the entire first trimester, always thinking omg am I having a miscarriage. I went to the ER 3 times and every time they confirmed the baby was fine. I know that devastating feeling of thinking you are having a miscarriage. I got through the first trimester, and the second, and made it to the third trimester. Everything was smooth sailing after the first trimester and at 35 weeks I went to the dr for a routine follow up and the dr. wasn’t able to hear the baby’s heartbeat on the Doppler. So they sent me to ultrasound and they confirmed that the baby had no heartbeat. I couldn’t comprehend what that meant... I feel like I am reliving a nightmare anytime I think about that moment in time when I asked the dr if everything was ok and he replied no... there’s no heartbeat. My baby was gone. At 35 weeks, on January 21st I gave birth to my sweet angel baby. He was still. He had no life in him. God I miss him. But I have peace knowing he’s in heaven with God. He won’t have to live knowing a sin. Angel babies go straight to Jesus. All they know is how perfect the lord is and what heaven is like and that alone gives me so much peace. I want to be a mommy and I am too very scared to try again. But we have to trust in Gods plan. I know it’s going to be hard for me. But I know that’s what we have to do. I pray you and your husband find peace and that you will be a mommy to another child someday. Ps. I love you and your channel. 💙
It’s the scariest most crazy thing .. feeling like your pregnant and know the baby is not there 😭I am sorry for your loss ! I’ve had two missed miscarriages many years ago and it was traumatizing ! .. sending you lots of love 💕
I had a missed miscarriage. Found that the baby stopped growing at 10 weeks. It was very hard. It was kinda spooky. I felt like a walking coffin. 😩 It was tuff. 🥺 Thank you for sharing.
I’m currently 25 weeks with a baby girl and I’m due in June but my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I documented what happened by writing everything down but I haven’t been able to sit down and talk about it. But you’re right, when it all happened, what really helped me was hearing other people’s stories. I found you during your pregnancy with your daughter and you were vlogging. I felt such a connection with you!
Going through this exact situation right now. I was suppose to be almost 11 weeks just 2 days ago. We were just about to tell our brother & sister in law the good news when I started spotting until it got worse. Found out at the ER the baby had stopped living at 8 weeks. Just passed the baby yesterday at home. Still in so much pain. You are right about it putting things into perspective. It does make you so grateful for what you do have, and we are so thankful to have our two year old son in our life. Thank you for sharing your story. It really does help relating to others while your trying to cope. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼
I hated to “like” this video because I hate this happened to you, but you handled it so well. Thank you for bringing grace and peace to this place where so often people come to find it. Our God is so good and will bring joy to your family when you need it the most. Keep looking toward Him and your life will be abundantly blessed ❤️ Good luck on future baby making!
Becca, this meant the absolute world to me to hear this. I experienced a miscarriage during my first pregnancy, and it was absolutely crushing. But, the joy and gratitude it brought when my baby girl was born made me understand that it was just a part of my story! Thank you for sharing yours.
Thank you for sharing this. I have PCOS and have had a couple miscarriages since getting married. I have them very early on in the pregnancy. I don't even get my hopes up anymore just in case. But hearing stories from other moms helps me so much. It's so taboo to talk about it with people and it's off-putting for so many people. So thank you for having this conversation with us! Sending love and prayers your way!
as a young person who has yet to be pregnant or miscarry, I just want to say thank you for sharing your story! It's definitely a fear of mine, but hearing your story helps to normalize what happens to so many women! It definitely gives me some peace. This video is such a good learning resource, so thank you for sharing!!
I went thru a very similar situation. But I ended up with a DNC because my body was not releasing the baby not even after 2 doses. But I want you to know that I now have a little girl that came after that miscarriage. So sorry you went thru that. Praying for you and your family .
a year later and our stories are similar, my son is currently 15 months and i miscarried at 11 weeks. Stuck on the TH-cam binge of finding comfort in knowing I’m not alone ❤️. I can’t believe how much this sounds like my exact experience. Thank nyp for publicly sharing your story
I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks last October (first pregnancy) and also felt that hearing other peoples stories helped me the most. There is still such stigma and people who haven't been through it or ever heard about it don't know how to react. Sometimes they just don't react at all or say things that hurt. As a result, it can be quite an isolating experience on top of the emotional and physical trauma. Thank you for sharing! Us women have to support each other! So sorry that this happened to you and I'm praying for you!
I am currently waiting for my miscarriage to pass and I want you to know that your story was so helpful and comforting. Thank you so much for making this and sharing your experience. I know sharing a story like this is never an easy thing to talk about and I admire that so much about you. I feel like this is definitely something that, despite how common it is, is so indescribably hard to go through. Each stage is difficult for its own reasons. It's nice to not feel alone and I am sending you all love and positive vibes for a healthy and beautiful rainbow baby
Am 10 weeks on 25th of October, I really wanna come back here to tell everyone and give everyone hope that everything went amazing! Wishing myself massive luck 🍀
Thank you for posting this video. Like so many of the commenters before me, I too am in the throws of miscarriage. I was exactly 11 weeks and 4 days today when, after some spotting that gradually increased enough for me to go to ER, I found out my baby girl had no heartbeat. I am still waiting for the actual miscarriage and this video was exactly what I needed to prepare myself for the inevitable. I am so, so sorry for your loss but am very grateful you had the courage to post so that others may heal from your experience. God bless you and yours.
Thank you for sharing your story. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks in December 2019. It's truly heartbreaking. And it does change you- I believe our angel babies give us more strength than we could have ever imagined. There are beautiful days ahead.
Becca: Thank you for sharing. I just had a miscarriage end of May. It was so sad. This Covid isolation is hard and add a taboo loss doubles the isolation. I'm grateful you shared your unique experience.
I just found out (through a drastically lower HCG read from 2 days ago) that lost my baby at 7 weeks and I’m supposed to be 10.5, it’s a Saturday night so now I wait for the doctor’s call on Monday. I knew when she said “you’re not as far along as you think you are”, and no heartbeat during my ultrasound. All my math added up. This video was comforting, thank you for sharing your story.
I am so sorry! My second miscarriage was a missed miscarriage. I also wanted to avoid a DNC. I dealt with very insensitive staff. I waited more than five weeks with no symptoms of a miscarriage, took the medication and then hemorrhaged and passed out at the hospital and they had to preform an emergency DNC. It was so traumatizing but, you are so right! It puts things into perspective and makes me so grateful for my daughter. Also, essential oils helped me through my loss SO much!!! Thank you for sharing your story. It took me a while to share mine and I was so glad to let other women know they are not alone. You’re my favorite!! ❤️❤️
Thank you for making this video. You have no idea how many women (and the men too!) you are helping. I went through a miscarriage with my first baby and it was the hardest thing not only I had to go through, but my hubby as well. I looked to videos like this to know I was not alone and to essentially have someone to grieve with me. It is brave, it shows strength and it shows hope that their is a light at the end of this storm. We conceived our rainbow baby just 2 weeks after the last day of my miscarriage and let me tell you, there is nothing like a love for your baby that comes after a loss. Just know, when that time comes, he/she will have a PERFECT guardian angel looking out for them and there for them every second of their life. Sending nothing but love, warmth and healing to you and your beautiful family. Xoxox
Thank you so much for this video Becca 💕 I am currently going through a miscarriage at 9 weeks with twins and this has helped me tremendously. I am so so sorry for your loss, this is something I wish no one had to go through 💔
Going through this now, so sorry for your loss.. Thanks so much for sharing, I was so disappointed that there is so few information out about this still to this day.. I had no idea what to expect and it was traumatic. Thanks for sharing your story because it really does help
Thank you for sharing this. I am currently miscarrying. I just found out the day before Mother’s Day at my 12 week appointment that my baby no longer had a heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow. Just like you said, hearing other women’s stories really does help.
The exact same thing happened to me a few months ago. Now I’m pregnant again, 9 weeks tomorrow. I’m so worried but I hope I get a healthy baby this time ❤️
I'm so so sorry for your loss. And I can't imagine going through that when healthcare providers are not compassionate either. Makes me so sad! Praying for you and your family and that Hayden will have another sibling soon ♥️
I had 3 missed miscarriages in a row and today I am 11 weeks today. Praying I go full term. I have a subchorionic bleed which started around 8 weeks. My missed miscarriages were all 8-9 weeks along. This is the furthest I made it. 🥹 I have a Doppler and every time I’m able to hear the heart beat is such a blessing. ❤🙏🏼Thanks for sharing your story. I had 4 d&c’s for the 3 miscarriages so I’m surprised I was able to get pregnant or make it this far. I saw that you had a healthy baby boy! Congrats! ❤❤🎉
Thank you for posting this. We just had a miscarriage at 12 weeks a few days ago. It was our first pregnancy and is and was devastating. Hearing your story and others has helped immensely.
My first baby passed at 6weeks and then I miscarried at 9, didn't know until I was bleeding and rushed to er to find no heartbeat. The hospital and techs were cold and unfeeling but my nurse prayed over me and really expressed her feelings. Now I'm pregnant again at 4 weeks and just fervently praying and hoping I get my rainbow baby. I am so sorry you had to go through this, the pain still hits me to this day a little over a year later. We are 1in4 and we are strong❤
Praying for you! I hope everything is going well for you and baby so far. I have 4 or 5 miscarriages. I’m six weeks pregnant now and I just started bleeding a little bit, this is probably another one for me. 😢😢
I experienced a missed miscarriage with my very first pregnancy as well. I went on the following month to conceive my daughter and a son a year later. Looking back I am grateful for that experience, if I had had my first, I may not have had the amazing babies I have now ❤️ Thank you for sharing!
M’y baby passed away at 6weeks but I didn’t find out until 10 weeks. Thank you for making this video. I am still miscarrying so it’s very comforting to hear others.
Thank you sis ❤️ for sharing your experience Sorry about your lost. I just had my miscarriage yesterday 29 march 2023 And I'm going through so much pain, from cramping and griping and diarrhea and nausea and cold sweating, I thought I was dying last night. Today 31st I'm still going through griping and cramping. It's terrible.😢 I was a month and a few days pregnant this would have been my first child. I had about 12 miscarriages over the years. Plus I use to suffer with PCOS. Life sucks. I'm praying 🙏 for a miracle. God bless you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this, I’m home alone as just had my body finally try to naturally process (it was a missed loss) I know this was posted 3 years ago, but thank you. Genuinely thank you.
My heart is breaking for you! Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm not a mom and cannot even imagine what you're going through but I admire your strength, positivity, and honesty so much!! I have no doubt that this video will be a light to someone in your same situation.
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the good and the bad feedback of the staff, I’m going to be a doctor in a years time and your experience will help me better care for women going through pregnancy loss here in Australia 💕
I miscarried my first today at 11 weeks, and your video was everything my husband and I needed to hear. It was a complete shock to my system. Thank you for your bravery in sharing. My body fully believed I was pregnant for a good 3 weeks post baby passing.
Thank you for sharing! I found out that I had a missed miscarriage on my first ultrasound at 9 weeks and 4 days. The baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and 5 days. My 7 years old was super devastated and cried so hard. I could totally relate to your description about the technicians reaction. It was exactly the same as yours. Thank you for adding the waiting message, I am waiting for it to come naturally. I hope to go through it soon
I’m sorry for your loss. You’re really brave for sharing this story. My first pregnancy, I experienced almost exactly the same what you did except I didn’t have to take medication. (Spotting, Bleeding, pain, contractions, blood clothes and finally big chunk of tissue) It’s totally suck what I have been through but like many women said miscarriage is common but people just don’t talk about it. Now I’m (thinking ✌️✌️ waiting for confirmation) 5 week pregnant again, I’m so exited, hopeful and scared at the same time. Pray for healthy pregnancy and beautiful and healthy baby every day. But if it happens again I’ll never give up.
Omg, Becca! I am so sorry! I recently had one at 6 weeks. We found out at our 8 week appointment that I was no longer pregnant and it literally broke me. I feel your pain and I am sending prayers to you and your husband and baby girl.
Thank you for posting this. I found out yesterday I will be going through the same process. My baby also does not have a heart beat at 11 weeks. Thank you. It is hard and I appreciate it.
For anyone reading this comment who has gone through a miscarriage or is currently suffering one, there is an excellent podcast called Life After Miscarriage where women come on and share their whole stories. Just a tip for any of my fellow loss mommas
Thank u ill check it out. I needed something like this. I had a Missed Miscarriage at 14 weeks after having great betas, saw a healthy baby n heartbeat at 8 weeks on ultrasound. I go in for my monthly appt around 14 weeks and they couldn't find a heartbeat on the doppler so i was sent for an emergency scan. I saw my baby lying still on screen and his whole spine facing us, not moving and curled up in fetal position. I knew he was gone. Thats when i was told the dreadful words "Im sorry there's no heartbeat". It killed me. I had symptoms of pregnancy, no cramping or bleeding and was showing by this time. It was our first boy after 2 girls n we had already named him before he passed. I had to get a d&e a week later. Devastation isn't even describable. Found out post mortem that my son had a rare chromosome abnormality called triploidy and was mot compatible with life. It wasn't passed down as my husband n i were genetically tested n dr determined it was just a fluke of a bad egg or sperm. Unfortunately its so rare even the nipt test didnt test for it so we were blindsided by the loss. This was in feb 22 of 2021. I got pregnant first cycle after my MMC and am now 13 weeks with a healthy baby so far. However, the PTSD and anxiety is crippling wondering if it will happen again. Pregnancy after loss is terrifying but I still feel blessed to be pregnant with my rainbow. I am so sorry fir all who have experienced loss of pregnancy it is a pain no one should have to endure.
I had my 3rd miscarriage a few days ago. It was a missed miscarriage. My first was a chemical pregnancy, the 2nd happened like 2 days after my positive pregnancy test. Those first 2, I never saw the babies or heartbeats or anything. This time, we saw our baby around 7w and he/she had a heartbeat. I started spotting around 10w2d. We had a huge medical procedure for our 2 year old so I waited but knew something was wrong. At 11w I went to the ER and they confirmed baby died. I ended up taking Cytotec at 11w4d and gave birth to our baby. It was/is one of the hardest things I've been through. Thanks for sharing your story. It's helpful.
I am so sorry for your loss❤️ I am 9 weeks 4 days and very scared too go through this. The pain that mothers feel seems so indescribable. I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Thank you for sharing your story❤️ God bless you and your family
I had a miscarriage with my first baby at 7 weeks. It’s hard when you find out and are really excited but never get to see or hear your baby. It took me awhile to completely come to terms with it and in a way move on. I was super lucky that I got pregnant with my little rainbow baby girl 2 months later and I’m so grateful for her but it’s still hard when I see here to know that I never got to meet my first baby. But also knowing I wouldn’t have my Kaylee without the miscarriage is hard. I didn’t realize how common this was until I went through it myself. I just want you to know I’m thinking of you and I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss, this is heartbreaking 💔 I have 3 boys and have never experienced a miscarriage, but remember worrying when I was pregnant! I wish you all the best for the future xx
My heart is hurting so much as I search TH-cam to find out what I’ll be going through. I’m terrified but I really appreciate you sharing your story with us.
I had a stillborn back in 2010. At the young age of 21, I was sad, mad, felt guilty and everything in between. I’m so sorry you had to endure this loss.. XX 😞
I had two MCs in 2018, the first one identical to what you described. One bit of advice I'll give, is don't be surprised if you realize your grief isn't fully processed even months down the line. Once the physical symptoms of the induced MC passed, I was so eager to just move forward, only to be surprised that I still had some trauma and anxiety around the experience almost a year later. But, it gets easier. Thank you for sharing -you're right, videos like these are exactly what help women to get through it. Happily, I'm now 17 weeks pregnant with my first little one. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. :)
I am so sorry for your loss Becca. I just had a miscarriage myself with my identical twin baby girls. I had a lot of complications throughout my pregnancy. Lost my first baby girl at 20 weeks 3 days, and my second baby at 23 weeks 6 days. I had to be induced and went through labor to deliver both my girls as still born. This has been the most traumatizing thing I’ve ever gone through…it has been extremely devastating and just trying to go through the healing process to get through this time. It has been hard to watch these videos but helpful to know I’m not alone.
Becca your strength in explaining your entire experience is commending! You are so eloquent and formal but raw and real at the same time in your description of events that unfolded. I could listen to you for hours on literally any subject. This is so informative for anyone going through the same experience but also for those who have never or will never have this experience just to be more empathic to someone that they know who might be going through it. I wish you all the best for you and your family!
Thank you for sharing ❤😢 this helps a lot !sending love and blessings ❤❤and best of luck to all families trying to conceive or going through loss may we all have rainbow 🌈 babies 🙏🏻
I hope my comment doesn't open up old wounds for you, I'm going through a miscarriage now and I just found it and I really appreciate that you shared your own experience. I feel much less alone now. Thank you. ♥ I also 1,000% feel where you're coming from when you mention "mother's intuition." My doctor and my husband told me not to worry and keep hoping but I just knew my pregnancy was over. It's a blessing and a curse. I hope you're doing well. ✨
It gave me chills when you said when you saw the “pregnant” on the pregnancy test you were overcome with the feeling you would never meet this baby. I just miscarried yesterday at 8+4, one day after seeing our baby with a healthy heartbeat in the 170s on a routine ultrasound. I remember holding my positive test and being overcome with the feeling it would be a loss, it was like a dark cloud came over me. At the “normal” ultrasound at 8+3 I cried uncontrollably after to the concern of my OB and husband, who tried to reassure me that everything looked great. I just couldn’t shake the feeling I had just seen my baby for the last time. I miscarried less than 24 hours later.
I know... felt the same from the time I did the test. ... and true to feeling.... here I am... going through a miscarriage... started this morning Am sooo sad 😥😢😢...just when I decided and accepted and started feeling excited about this pregnancy this happens 😥😥😢😢
I m going thru a miscarriage and I somehow knew that I would not meet him I waited 12 years to try for a girl I have 4 boys and this was a really wanted baby
So sorry for your loss. I think the body knows when it is happening because unfortunately it is our own body that is discarding this embryo since for some reason it is not qualified to continue but it still hurts. 💔
We went through almost the same experience, after 9 weeks. From the cold ultrasound tech, to weighing the options, to the miscarriage experience. Its nice to hear this story. It was our first pregnancy, so there is a lot unknown, un promised, but my husband and I feel hopeful for the future.
Thank you so much for this video. The beginning of your story really struck with me. I too took five months to get pregnant and like you.. I also had a bad feeling about the pregnancy…. Mother’s intuition is really real…now i am experiencing my first miscarriage
This has me tearing up. It’s ok to cry girl. I’m so sorry you dealt with this. This will help many people though. You’re brave for sharing this. May God bless your family 🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing Becca. I’m a faithful subscriber and I love your channel. I too recently went through a miscarriage. 5w4d... it was awful... first pregnancy, wasn’t trying, married 13 years and have adopted since we were told we couldn’t have kiddos and boom miscarriage.... I agree there isn’t a lot of information out there, which is disheartening because this is a traumatic event. I joined a FB support group and found a lot of great help there. I agree with what you said, this does make you stronger and better because of it, but also I’m still processing... 💔 I also look at things more positively and as terrible as this was, I found great joy in that I was able to get pregnant and am hopeful for the future. I wouldn’t wish anyone to have to experience that. And I’m thankful people like you are sharing their stories. It’s helpful and it doesn’t feel so lonely. ❤️🙏🏼
I had a horrible fear at 9 and 10 weeks with our pregnancy that when we came in for our 11 week scan. I tried to shake it off, but we were so close to being in the 2nd trimester it felt too good to be true. At our 11 week scan this week, the ultrasound showed our baby laying upside down and not moving. I turned to the tech and said "please tell me he's sleeping" the tech took measurements, then turned on the heart beat sensor. I will never forget seeing the static on the screen, followed by her turning to me and saying "I'm sorry, I don't see a heartbeat". My baby had passed 2 weeks ago at 9 weeks, when my fears had started. I do not wish this on anyone
(Commenting from my hubby’s account) I’m a mama of a 19 mo experiencing a threatened miscarriage right now at 7 weeks. Thank you so incredibly much for this video! You are so brave, so open, candid and absolutely lovely. This has helped me dramatically. Listening to other mama’s stories has been genuinely healing. I can’t thank you enough for helping me feel connected and not alone on this journey. I wish you and your family well, and healthy, happy babies to come 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you so much 🥺❤️ sending you love back and a huge hug! I miss carried December 25, 2020 at 7 weeks and I’m still feeling really sad about it. I have been watching TH-cam videos of other woman’s experience and it’s helped me get better 🤍🤍
Thank you for this video. I'm 11 weeks and just found out I have a missed miscarriage. I'm mentally preparing for the passing process and this is super helpful. I really appreciate this video.
I was pregnant for 5 weeks , and from yesterday morning I started bleeding, it’s very less , and I send messages to doctor asked about this. She said “don’t worry, sometimes happen implementations bleeding “. So I didn’t go to the hospital, but from 4 o’clock I start pain in my belly and the blood is coming frequently. I was panicked. I went to the doctor at 6 o’clock, I just entered doctor’s office, after 5 minutes I lost my baby, it came out with a lot of blood. I cried so hard , just few hours ago everything is fine, and I suddenly lost my baby. It’s like a dream. After I came back to home and still believe this happened, I still feel my baby is inside me, hope god help us get through this, it’s truly heart breaking 💔
Hi I just wanted to say that this video has really helped me. I recently suffered a miscarriage and it was so traumatic. You have given me hope that I will have my baby.
Thank you so much for this video. Going through my miscarriage was absolute hell. I also had no warning signs before. We can get through this together 💕
I am so sorry you and your family went through this ❤️ I’m very proud that you shared your story, I’m not a mom yet but to hear these stories are very important. So many women go through this and never talk about it (which is also completely ok) but for women to hear these stories if they are going through it or were to go through it in the future, would help a lot I’m sure.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and It was the hardest thing I ever had to go through. I'm 24 and from the UK. Over here the first ultrasound is done at 12weeks. I had spotting an cramping when I was 11 weeks and 6 days, went to the hospital and they confirmed I was miscarrying. My baby stopped growing at 8 and a half weeks. Watching videos like yours has helped me so much. Thank you for sharing!!
Becca I’m so sorry. I found your channel while I was pregnant this year. I was so so sick with morning sickness (hypermesis gravidarum) and could relate to your what I ate videos you did with your daughter. I was hoping and praying to feel better every day. I went to my 16 week appointment on January 16th this year and found out my baby had no heartbeat anymore and it looked to happen around 13/14 weeks. I delivered my son in the hospital the next day. It’s an absolutely devastating experience and new reality. I also relate to how cruel it is to be so sick and suffer so much for this kind of outcome...
I’m so sorry Becca. You and Matt are in my thoughts 💕I had almost the exact same experience during my first pregnancy although I ended up getting a D&C. I know first hand that there’s nothing anyone can say or do to make it any easier, but if it’s any comfort at all, I promise that the second you meet your rainbow baby, this will all make sense ❤️❤️
To be honest, I’m not ready to watch this fully. However, I watched your IG stories and posts and have prayed for you and your family for peace and comfort from The Lord right now. However, it still is hard for me to watch after going through a loss, so even though I won’t watch now I’m still supporting you with prayer ❤️
Savanna Conrad I feel the same way you do. I had a miscarriage in November. I haven’t cried about it for a few weeks now. However, I’m watching Becca’s video and my eyes are starting to be watery. I may have to watch this video in segments.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just found out tonight in the ER at 11.5weeks that they couldn’t find my baby, just a sac. I have to wait till I can get into the OB to confirm, but I’m bleeding and cramping and my HCG levels have dropped A LOT. We had just seen our baby at 8 weeks with a HB, so the bleeding was shocking to me. I really needed to hear the raw details because like you said it’s so hard to find the information. I’m hoping so much that this will all pass tonight, but I’m so afraid it won’t. I’m so sorry for your loss, I appreciate your story so much.
I’m sorry for what you went through. Thank you for being brave to share it. Things happen for a reason I always see things like this. I also had a miscarriage before I had my daughter. Things will get better. God gives us strength in storms.
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage Oct 2019. I also found out I have fibroids, I plan to get rid of them naturally so I am on the path of eating better and working out.
@@ashleyemma4954 I was 8 weeks pregnant. So sorry you experienced it as well. I had no idea how painful it would be. No idea of what would happen. My partner was there with me through it all, i don't think I would have made it without him.
Yes, no one told me what to expect. It was traumatic, even though I wasn't far along. I have friends who were closer to 3 months, like Becca. I can't even imagine.
Thank you for this. I found your video while searching for information on missed miscarriage. I found out today that our second baby stopped growing at 8 weeks, no heartbeat. I am currently in the stage of hard grief and have periodic breakdowns of sadness. I have chosen to do the misoprostol medication to induce baby to come out. We will see how it goes, so far 16 hrs later and not much has happened. Thank you for your video, as not much is out there about this. I found your video very comforting. God bless you!
I am so sorry you had to go through this Becca, but I can’t explain how thankful I am that you had the courage to share your experience. Having a miscarriage is one of my biggest fears and to hear your testimony brought me so much clarity and peace. What a hard many weeks it’s been for you guys. Praying for continued comfort for you right now. Thank you for being so open. Totally blessed me more than you know. 🙏🏽✨
So thankful for you opening up. I lost my baby around the same time with a missed miscarriage. We were due Sept 4th 2020. We had just seen the baby via ultrasound at 11 weeks and 3 days and everything was normal and healthy. Then at 13 weeks we found out at my normal appointment there was no heartbeat and the baby passed away sometime the week before. I waited until 15 weeks and my body still wouldn’t process the miscarriage so I had to have a D&C. A few weeks later my sister found out at 26 weeks she had a missed miscarriage as well. It’s been an awful year for our family. I’m so thankful your healthcare provider was caring. My obgyn was the most awful person I’ve ever met. Dr. Ciliberti literally complained about having to find time to do my D&C in front of me, muttering under his breath “this f***ing day”. I ended up walking out. That’s why I tried to wait for my body to do it on its own. But I ended up having to go to the ER and have my D&C. No one who hasn’t experienced it will ever understand the pain of dealing with a miscarriage. Worst pain and sadness I’ve ever experienced.
Thank you for making this video. I am currently 11 weeks & going through the very sick part. This is my 2nd and I feel so bad, but always wonder what a miscarriage was like. I know it’s very common & I feel like many women aren’t educated on this topic until they go through it. My mom had a couple miscarriages & I always asked about it, because I knew it was a possibility. She wasn’t ever comfortable to share, so this video really helps those who have gone through it, but also for us who want to be more educated on the topic just in case it ever happens. ♥️ so, sorry you went through this.
Hi thank you for sharing I lost my baby yesterday saw everything in to toilet but didn't know what it was now I know I saw my baby or at least knew when it came out cant stop crying but I know it will get better.
hi. I just had a horrible miscarriage. I know how it feels to go through this its like a nightmare. It's so important to normalize it so women know what to expect. I had no idea what it would be like because no one had ever told me and also if you search for it on the internet its very limited what information is shared. I have been feeling overwhelmed with sadness afterwards, my emotions seem so overwhelming and I am praying to feel like myself again. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video. It means everything to me to not feel so alone!!! Sending love to your family!!!!!
This is very validating for me. When I miscarried I was having contractions that caused sweating, diarrhoea and moaning. I thought I was being a wuss for thinking it was 8/10 pain, but it’s good to hear that it’s actually similar to birth.
Yes, and anyone who thinks miscarriages are comparable to a period is flat out wrong. Not only is it emotionally taxing, the pain is off the Richter scale. 🥺
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy, and hearing others stories is helping me feel not so alone. There are so many of us! I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for your words.
Thank you for sharing your story! I recently went through a missed miscarriage with baby # 3 at 9 weeks. Hearing your story reminds me that I’m not alone. Praying for you and your family!
I hope you are ok, I’m sorry to hear about your baby. I also had a missed miscarriage. The baby passed away at 7 weeks but my body didn’t lose it until 14 weeks. It was such a tough, weird time. It does get better 💔
Thank you for sharing this. I had a missed miscarriage 5 years ago after a healthy first pregnancy, and my experience was very similar to yours. At the time I had never even heard of it happening that way. It’s cruel and so hard however I learned a lot from the experience and when I went on to get pregnant following the miscarriage, it made having my healthy baby girl in my arms that much sweeter.
Thank you for being so open with what you went through and the gory details no one talks about. I know this was hard for you but it really is helpful for other women going through this.
Becca just to share. I had a miscarriage at 7.5 weeks. Bleeding and passing of the baby vaginally. Hubby and I saw it. Our Dr told us no intimacy for three, or more, months. Of course we would follow our Drs suggestions. 12 days later I found myself at my Drs office and I told our nurse I thought I was still pregnant. I remember the nurse patting me on the back that I would be fine. She appeased me, did the blood test, and sent me to the waiting area. A few minutes later she came to waiting area, she was beat red. Her words " you are very pregnant"! I lost a twin. He is a Deputy Sheriff now, 23 years old. He is our adrenaline junkie kid. God Bless you, Matt, and Hayden always. Hugs
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I miscarried 4 times , my last one i was on week 21 but I still have faith that one day I will be a mother of beautiful healthy babies 🙏🙏
brownycake83 browny Faith is a beautiful thing. Hold on to that always, it’s truly great and seeing your strength through faith put a smile on my face 🙏 Prayers coming your way :)
sorry to hear that. was it with the same father? How old are you?
i'm sorry for your loss
Please look up Rosanna Davidson , Ireland if you want hope after miscarriage . Miracles are real.I wish you the best.I'm so sorry for your losses
Read the book Supernatural Childbirth.
So sorry for your loss. I miscarried twice after my first baby and didn’t think she’d ever have a sibling. God had big plans because she now has 3 more siblings. So thankful for the hope we have in Jesus and that we will reunite with those sweet babies one day.
This is so lovely to read. I have just had 2 miscarriages in 3 months been so hard and just feel like giving up. X x
This gives me hope.
@@leoniedavies5214 don’t give up. My daughter in law had 7 miscarriages, some were IVF, and she was heartbroken. She was 45 and her age was very much against her, so she decided to give up, and they moved house. Then she became pregnant again, but couldn’t relax and enjoy it for worrying. Then on her due date a sweet little boy arrived in perfect health. He’s six now and a real little monkey. Take heart.
@@harriethopper9981 so nice to hear some positive stories like this. I had a miscarriage last night and feel i will never be able to do it again just from the fear alone. Hopefully i won’t need a D&C
@@rosyapplekitchen635 Aw I’m so sorry to hear that Rosy, I know exactly how you feel, as I had three miscarriages myself. Don’t give up though, things have a habit of working out, and a D&C is nothing to worry about. I had three, that’s what they automatically did in those days. Wish you the very best of luck, and keep positive. X
I got pregnant with twins almost 11 years ago. I was so happy! My pregnancy was going great until I went to my 20 week ultrasound and found out I had lost one baby at about 18 weeks. I was devastated and the worse thing for me was that almost EVERYONE around me kept telling me “well at least you have one”! It doesn’t matter it was still a big loss! Anyways I’m sorry for your loss. I’m so thankful for my healthy child now.
😩❤️That must have been so hard! My mom was pregnant with my twin sisters at age 42 and was at very high risk and we are so thankful they were both born healthy. The doctor advised her to abort one to make sure one would be safe but she said "No way, these babies are in God's hands." They're 22 now.
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@@ashleyemma4954 your twin? Or your moms twin?
I can’t believe peoples insensitivity
So sorry for your loss. It’s a heartbreak like no other. My husband and I experienced three consecutive miscarriages at 6 weeks, 9 weeks and 11 weeks. I am now expecting a sweet miracle in less than 4 weeks. You never truly heal from your loss/losses, but time helps to learn to live with the hurt. I know they are watching over us 💗
Lexi Cook is there any medication you took please?? It’s my third miscarriage at 10 weeks. Am broken😢
I am so sorry for your loss. I truly hope you have found peace. Did you take any medication to protect your sweet miracle? I would really appreciate any help you can offer.
Congratulations! Did you take any medication?
As a paramedic, I just want to apologize on behalf of all medical professionals for how rude the tech and OB were to you. No one deserves that treatment. I’m so sorry.
ThT was very sweet.
As a tech I know that she knew right for the start of the exam but we can't say anything to the patient. It is the doctor that have the authority to confirm a diagnostic. It must be a difficult station to be in.
Medical professionals are about to be held accountable for a lot !
I’m so sorry. I’ve had 2 missed miscarriages where the baby stopped growing at 7 weeks and I didn’t find out till around 12 weeks. I do now have a 2 week old perfect rainbow baby! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! 💙
This exact thing happened to my daughter today. She has
3 other children with no problems so this was devistating to her. She cannot comprehend how this happens with no problems before. I have no answer for her my heart just breaks for her
I started to have a miscarriage today at 5weeks. 😔 my little baby meant so much to me already. This is my first pregnancy & praying to God for a blessing. 🙏🏼
Sending lots of love
I'm currently going through a miscarriage at 5 weeks and your comment spoke to me. It is so disappointing to lose someone who means so much. I'm comforted by knowing we will meet them one day in heaven. I pray you have been blessed with a baby since writing this. xx
I’m so heartbroken for you. I found out I was pregnant in June ‘19, I was bleeding throughout the entire first trimester, always thinking omg am I having a miscarriage. I went to the ER 3 times and every time they confirmed the baby was fine. I know that devastating feeling of thinking you are having a miscarriage. I got through the first trimester, and the second, and made it to the third trimester. Everything was smooth sailing after the first trimester and at 35 weeks I went to the dr for a routine follow up and the dr. wasn’t able to hear the baby’s heartbeat on the Doppler. So they sent me to ultrasound and they confirmed that the baby had no heartbeat. I couldn’t comprehend what that meant... I feel like I am reliving a nightmare anytime I think about that moment in time when I asked the dr if everything was ok and he replied no... there’s no heartbeat. My baby was gone. At 35 weeks, on January 21st I gave birth to my sweet angel baby. He was still. He had no life in him. God I miss him. But I have peace knowing he’s in heaven with God. He won’t have to live knowing a sin. Angel babies go straight to Jesus. All they know is how perfect the lord is and what heaven is like and that alone gives me so much peace. I want to be a mommy and I am too very scared to try again. But we have to trust in Gods plan. I know it’s going to be hard for me. But I know that’s what we have to do. I pray you and your husband find peace and that you will be a mommy to another child someday.
Ps. I love you and your channel. 💙
Anne-alex Reynolds I’m so sorry you had to go through that, sending you love xx
im so sorry you had to go through this im currently 10 weeks with a due date on Jan.21.2021, im so nervous
It’s the scariest most crazy thing .. feeling like your pregnant and know the baby is not there 😭I am sorry for your loss ! I’ve had two missed miscarriages many years ago and it was traumatizing ! .. sending you lots of love 💕
Laura Emmerson thank you so much ❤️
Alayjah Gonzalez don’t be nervous. Enjoy this incredible time being pregnant. Have faith and pray for your little baby every day.
I had a missed miscarriage. Found that the baby stopped growing at 10 weeks. It was very hard. It was kinda spooky. I felt like a walking coffin. 😩 It was tuff. 🥺 Thank you for sharing.
I’m currently 25 weeks with a baby girl and I’m due in June but my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I documented what happened by writing everything down but I haven’t been able to sit down and talk about it. But you’re right, when it all happened, what really helped me was hearing other people’s stories. I found you during your pregnancy with your daughter and you were vlogging. I felt such a connection with you!
@William Thomson it did, she’ll be 2 in June. I haven’t filmed in a while but my birth story is on my channel
"sorry if I'm a little emotional" as if I'm not right here crying with you right now. I miscarried in 2017 and my heart breaks for you.
Going through this exact situation right now. I was suppose to be almost 11 weeks just 2 days ago. We were just about to tell our brother & sister in law the good news when I started spotting until it got worse. Found out at the ER the baby had stopped living at 8 weeks. Just passed the baby yesterday at home. Still in so much pain. You are right about it putting things into perspective. It does make you so grateful for what you do have, and we are so thankful to have our two year old son in our life. Thank you for sharing your story. It really does help relating to others while your trying to cope. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼
I hated to “like” this video because I hate this happened to you, but you handled it so well. Thank you for bringing grace and peace to this place where so often people come to find it. Our God is so good and will bring joy to your family when you need it the most. Keep looking toward Him and your life will be abundantly blessed ❤️ Good luck on future baby making!
Becca, this meant the absolute world to me to hear this. I experienced a miscarriage during my first pregnancy, and it was absolutely crushing. But, the joy and gratitude it brought when my baby girl was born made me understand that it was just a part of my story! Thank you for sharing yours.
Thank you for sharing this. I have PCOS and have had a couple miscarriages since getting married. I have them very early on in the pregnancy. I don't even get my hopes up anymore just in case. But hearing stories from other moms helps me so much. It's so taboo to talk about it with people and it's off-putting for so many people. So thank you for having this conversation with us! Sending love and prayers your way!
as a young person who has yet to be pregnant or miscarry, I just want to say thank you for sharing your story! It's definitely a fear of mine, but hearing your story helps to normalize what happens to so many women! It definitely gives me some peace. This video is such a good learning resource, so thank you for sharing!!
I went thru a very similar situation. But I ended up with a DNC because my body was not releasing the baby not even after 2 doses.
But I want you to know that I now have a little girl that came after that miscarriage.
So sorry you went thru that. Praying for you and your family .
a year later and our stories are similar, my son is currently 15 months and i miscarried at 11 weeks. Stuck on the TH-cam binge of finding comfort in knowing I’m not alone ❤️. I can’t believe how much this sounds like my exact experience. Thank nyp for publicly sharing your story
I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks last October (first pregnancy) and also felt that hearing other peoples stories helped me the most. There is still such stigma and people who haven't been through it or ever heard about it don't know how to react. Sometimes they just don't react at all or say things that hurt. As a result, it can be quite an isolating experience on top of the emotional and physical trauma. Thank you for sharing! Us women have to support each other! So sorry that this happened to you and I'm praying for you!
I am currently waiting for my miscarriage to pass and I want you to know that your story was so helpful and comforting. Thank you so much for making this and sharing your experience. I know sharing a story like this is never an easy thing to talk about and I admire that so much about you. I feel like this is definitely something that, despite how common it is, is so indescribably hard to go through. Each stage is difficult for its own reasons. It's nice to not feel alone and I am sending you all love and positive vibes for a healthy and beautiful rainbow baby
Am 10 weeks on 25th of October, I really wanna come back here to tell everyone and give everyone hope that everything went amazing! Wishing myself massive luck 🍀
So sorry for your loss. We’re trying again after a miscarriage- it’s scary. Sending you love
Thank you for posting this video. Like so many of the commenters before me, I too am in the throws of miscarriage. I was exactly 11 weeks and 4 days today when, after some spotting that gradually increased enough for me to go to ER, I found out my baby girl had no heartbeat. I am still waiting for the actual miscarriage and this video was exactly what I needed to prepare myself for the inevitable. I am so, so sorry for your loss but am very grateful you had the courage to post so that others may heal from your experience. God bless you and yours.
Thank you for sharing your story. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks in December 2019. It's truly heartbreaking. And it does change you- I believe our angel babies give us more strength than we could have ever imagined. There are beautiful days ahead.
Becca: Thank you for sharing. I just had a miscarriage end of May. It was so sad. This Covid isolation is hard and add a taboo loss doubles the isolation.
I'm grateful you shared your unique experience.
I just found out (through a drastically lower HCG read from 2 days ago) that lost my baby at 7 weeks and I’m supposed to be 10.5, it’s a Saturday night so now I wait for the doctor’s call on Monday. I knew when she said “you’re not as far along as you think you are”, and no heartbeat during my ultrasound. All my math added up. This video was comforting, thank you for sharing your story.
I am so sorry! My second miscarriage was a missed miscarriage. I also wanted to avoid a DNC. I dealt with very insensitive staff. I waited more than five weeks with no symptoms of a miscarriage, took the medication and then hemorrhaged and passed out at the hospital and they had to preform an emergency DNC. It was so traumatizing but, you are so right! It puts things into perspective and makes me so grateful for my daughter. Also, essential oils helped me through my loss SO much!!! Thank you for sharing your story. It took me a while to share mine and I was so glad to let other women know they are not alone. You’re my favorite!! ❤️❤️
Thank you for making this video. You have no idea how many women (and the men too!) you are helping. I went through a miscarriage with my first baby and it was the hardest thing not only I had to go through, but my hubby as well. I looked to videos like this to know I was not alone and to essentially have someone to grieve with me. It is brave, it shows strength and it shows hope that their is a light at the end of this storm. We conceived our rainbow baby just 2 weeks after the last day of my miscarriage and let me tell you, there is nothing like a love for your baby that comes after a loss. Just know, when that time comes, he/she will have a PERFECT guardian angel looking out for them and there for them every second of their life. Sending nothing but love, warmth and healing to you and your beautiful family. Xoxox
Thank you so much for this video Becca 💕 I am currently going through a miscarriage at 9 weeks with twins and this has helped me tremendously. I am so so sorry for your loss, this is something I wish no one had to go through 💔
I’m in tears right now. My baby girl was born sleeping 3 weeks ago today at 17-18 weeks.
Going through this now, so sorry for your loss.. Thanks so much for sharing, I was so disappointed that there is so few information out about this still to this day.. I had no idea what to expect and it was traumatic. Thanks for sharing your story because it really does help
Thank you for sharing this. I am currently miscarrying. I just found out the day before Mother’s Day at my 12 week appointment that my baby no longer had a heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow. Just like you said, hearing other women’s stories really does help.
The exact same thing happened to me a few months ago. Now I’m pregnant again, 9 weeks tomorrow. I’m so worried but I hope I get a healthy baby this time ❤️
Praying for you, love
@@simonenichols4861 thank you, 31 weeks now ❤️
@@elinwberg94 that’s incredible ♥️ praying you have a smooth delivery!
So happy for you! I'm 7 weeks and so stressed. I have my first ultrasound in 1 week. 🤞
@@eugenieg.8486 congratulations 😊❤️
I'm so so sorry for your loss. And I can't imagine going through that when healthcare providers are not compassionate either. Makes me so sad! Praying for you and your family and that Hayden will have another sibling soon ♥️
I had 3 missed miscarriages in a row and today I am 11 weeks today. Praying I go full term. I have a subchorionic bleed which started around 8 weeks. My missed miscarriages were all 8-9 weeks along. This is the furthest I made it. 🥹 I have a Doppler and every time I’m able to hear the heart beat is such a blessing. ❤🙏🏼Thanks for sharing your story. I had 4 d&c’s for the 3 miscarriages so I’m surprised I was able to get pregnant or make it this far. I saw that you had a healthy baby boy! Congrats! ❤❤🎉
It wasn't all for nothing, you have a baby in heaven. My heart goes out to you!
Thank you for posting this. We just had a miscarriage at 12 weeks a few days ago. It was our first pregnancy and is and was devastating. Hearing your story and others has helped immensely.
Also, I’m so sorry for your loss. Truly.
My first baby passed at 6weeks and then I miscarried at 9, didn't know until I was bleeding and rushed to er to find no heartbeat. The hospital and techs were cold and unfeeling but my nurse prayed over me and really expressed her feelings.
Now I'm pregnant again at 4 weeks and just fervently praying and hoping I get my rainbow baby. I am so sorry you had to go through this, the pain still hits me to this day a little over a year later.
We are 1in4 and we are strong❤
Praying for you! I hope everything is going well for you and baby so far. I have 4 or 5 miscarriages. I’m six weeks pregnant now and I just started bleeding a little bit, this is probably another one for me. 😢😢
I experienced a missed miscarriage with my very first pregnancy as well. I went on the following month to conceive my daughter and a son a year later. Looking back I am grateful for that experience, if I had had my first, I may not have had the amazing babies I have now ❤️ Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for giving those who feel hopeless hope. ❤️
M’y baby passed away at 6weeks but I didn’t find out until 10 weeks. Thank you for making this video. I am still miscarrying so it’s very comforting to hear others.
Thank you sis ❤️ for sharing your experience
Sorry about your lost.
I just had my miscarriage yesterday 29 march 2023
And I'm going through so much pain, from cramping and griping and diarrhea and nausea and cold sweating, I thought I was dying last night.
Today 31st I'm still going through griping and cramping.
It's terrible.😢
I was a month and a few days pregnant this would have been my first child.
I had about 12 miscarriages over the years.
Plus I use to suffer with PCOS.
Life sucks.
I'm praying 🙏 for a miracle.
God bless you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this, I’m home alone as just had my body finally try to naturally process (it was a missed loss) I know this was posted 3 years ago, but thank you. Genuinely thank you.
My heart is breaking for you! Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm not a mom and cannot even imagine what you're going through but I admire your strength, positivity, and honesty so much!! I have no doubt that this video will be a light to someone in your same situation.
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the good and the bad feedback of the staff, I’m going to be a doctor in a years time and your experience will help me better care for women going through pregnancy loss here in Australia 💕
I miscarried my first today at 11 weeks, and your video was everything my husband and I needed to hear. It was a complete shock to my system. Thank you for your bravery in sharing. My body fully believed I was pregnant for a good 3 weeks post baby passing.
Thank you for sharing! I found out that I had a missed miscarriage on my first ultrasound at 9 weeks and 4 days. The baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and 5 days. My 7 years old was super devastated and cried so hard. I could totally relate to your description about the technicians reaction. It was exactly the same as yours. Thank you for adding the waiting message, I am waiting for it to come naturally. I hope to go through it soon
I’m sorry for your loss. You’re really brave for sharing this story. My first pregnancy, I experienced almost exactly the same what you did except I didn’t have to take medication. (Spotting, Bleeding, pain, contractions, blood clothes and finally big chunk of tissue) It’s totally suck what I have been through but like many women said miscarriage is common but people just don’t talk about it.
Now I’m (thinking ✌️✌️ waiting for confirmation) 5 week pregnant again, I’m so exited, hopeful and scared at the same time. Pray for healthy pregnancy and beautiful and healthy baby every day.
But if it happens again I’ll never give up.
Going through this right now. Ugh! I’m heartbroken. Thank you for posting!
Sending lots of love ❤️
Hugs to you mama 💔
Omg, Becca! I am so sorry! I recently had one at 6 weeks. We found out at our 8 week appointment that I was no longer pregnant and it literally broke me. I feel your pain and I am sending prayers to you and your husband and baby girl.
Thank you for posting this. I found out yesterday I will be going through the same process. My baby also does not have a heart beat at 11 weeks. Thank you. It is hard and I appreciate it.
For anyone reading this comment who has gone through a miscarriage or is currently suffering one, there is an excellent podcast called Life After Miscarriage where women come on and share their whole stories. Just a tip for any of my fellow loss mommas
Thank you. I just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks its hurts so bad
Thank u ill check it out. I needed something like this.
I had a Missed Miscarriage at 14 weeks after having great betas, saw a healthy baby n heartbeat at 8 weeks on ultrasound. I go in for my monthly appt around 14 weeks and they couldn't find a heartbeat on the doppler so i was sent for an emergency scan. I saw my baby lying still on screen and his whole spine facing us, not moving and curled up in fetal position. I knew he was gone. Thats when i was told the dreadful words "Im sorry there's no heartbeat". It killed me. I had symptoms of pregnancy, no cramping or bleeding and was showing by this time. It was our first boy after 2 girls n we had already named him before he passed. I had to get a d&e a week later. Devastation isn't even describable. Found out post mortem that my son had a rare chromosome abnormality called triploidy and was mot compatible with life. It wasn't passed down as my husband n i were genetically tested n dr determined it was just a fluke of a bad egg or sperm. Unfortunately its so rare even the nipt test didnt test for it so we were blindsided by the loss.
This was in feb 22 of 2021. I got pregnant first cycle after my MMC and am now 13 weeks with a healthy baby so far. However, the PTSD and anxiety is crippling wondering if it will happen again.
Pregnancy after loss is terrifying but I still feel blessed to be pregnant with my rainbow. I am so sorry fir all who have experienced loss of pregnancy it is a pain no one should have to endure.
I had my 3rd miscarriage a few days ago. It was a missed miscarriage. My first was a chemical pregnancy, the 2nd happened like 2 days after my positive pregnancy test. Those first 2, I never saw the babies or heartbeats or anything. This time, we saw our baby around 7w and he/she had a heartbeat. I started spotting around 10w2d. We had a huge medical procedure for our 2 year old so I waited but knew something was wrong. At 11w I went to the ER and they confirmed baby died. I ended up taking Cytotec at 11w4d and gave birth to our baby. It was/is one of the hardest things I've been through. Thanks for sharing your story. It's helpful.
I am so sorry for your loss❤️ I am 9 weeks 4 days and very scared too go through this. The pain that mothers feel seems so indescribable. I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Thank you for sharing your story❤️
God bless you and your family
I had a miscarriage with my first baby at 7 weeks. It’s hard when you find out and are really excited but never get to see or hear your baby. It took me awhile to completely come to terms with it and in a way move on. I was super lucky that I got pregnant with my little rainbow baby girl 2 months later and I’m so grateful for her but it’s still hard when I see here to know that I never got to meet my first baby. But also knowing I wouldn’t have my Kaylee without the miscarriage is hard. I didn’t realize how common this was until I went through it myself. I just want you to know I’m thinking of you and I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss, this is heartbreaking 💔 I have 3 boys and have never experienced a miscarriage, but remember worrying when I was pregnant! I wish you all the best for the future xx
My heart is hurting so much as I search TH-cam to find out what I’ll be going through. I’m terrified but I really appreciate you sharing your story with us.
This was the most real, raw (even a bit scary) and super informative video! I’m so sorry to hear about your loss mama :(
I had a stillborn back in 2010. At the young age of 21, I was sad, mad, felt guilty and everything in between. I’m so sorry you had to endure this loss.. XX 😞
I’m so sorry mama
Holly Edwards thank you 😊
I had two MCs in 2018, the first one identical to what you described. One bit of advice I'll give, is don't be surprised if you realize your grief isn't fully processed even months down the line. Once the physical symptoms of the induced MC passed, I was so eager to just move forward, only to be surprised that I still had some trauma and anxiety around the experience almost a year later. But, it gets easier. Thank you for sharing -you're right, videos like these are exactly what help women to get through it. Happily, I'm now 17 weeks pregnant with my first little one. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. :)
I am so sorry for your loss Becca.
I just had a miscarriage myself with my identical twin baby girls. I had a lot of complications throughout my pregnancy. Lost my first baby girl at 20 weeks 3 days, and my second baby at 23 weeks 6 days. I had to be induced and went through labor to deliver both my girls as still born. This has been the most traumatizing thing I’ve ever gone through…it has been extremely devastating and just trying to go through the healing process to get through this time. It has been hard to watch these videos but helpful to know I’m not alone.
Becca your strength in explaining your entire experience is commending! You are so eloquent and formal but raw and real at the same time in your description of events that unfolded. I could listen to you for hours on literally any subject. This is so informative for anyone going through the same experience but also for those who have never or will never have this experience just to be more empathic to someone that they know who might be going through it. I wish you all the best for you and your family!
Thank you for sharing ❤😢 this helps a lot !sending love and blessings ❤❤and best of luck to all families trying to conceive or going through loss may we all have rainbow 🌈 babies 🙏🏻
I hope my comment doesn't open up old wounds for you, I'm going through a miscarriage now and I just found it and I really appreciate that you shared your own experience. I feel much less alone now. Thank you. ♥ I also 1,000% feel where you're coming from when you mention "mother's intuition." My doctor and my husband told me not to worry and keep hoping but I just knew my pregnancy was over. It's a blessing and a curse. I hope you're doing well. ✨
I love how raw and real you are. Your openness helps so many people and makes things less scary and confusing. Thank you!
It gave me chills when you said when you saw the “pregnant” on the pregnancy test you were overcome with the feeling you would never meet this baby. I just miscarried yesterday at 8+4, one day after seeing our baby with a healthy heartbeat in the 170s on a routine ultrasound. I remember holding my positive test and being overcome with the feeling it would be a loss, it was like a dark cloud came over me. At the “normal” ultrasound at 8+3 I cried uncontrollably after to the concern of my OB and husband, who tried to reassure me that everything looked great. I just couldn’t shake the feeling I had just seen my baby for the last time. I miscarried less than 24 hours later.
I know... felt the same from the time I did the test. ... and true to feeling.... here I am... going through a miscarriage... started this morning
Am sooo sad 😥😢😢...just when I decided and accepted and started feeling excited about this pregnancy this happens 😥😥😢😢
I m going thru a miscarriage and I somehow knew that I would not meet him I waited 12 years to try for a girl I have 4 boys and this was a really wanted baby
So sorry for your loss. I think the body knows when it is happening because unfortunately it is our own body that is discarding this embryo since for some reason it is not qualified to continue but it still hurts. 💔
We went through almost the same experience, after 9 weeks. From the cold ultrasound tech, to weighing the options, to the miscarriage experience. Its nice to hear this story. It was our first pregnancy, so there is a lot unknown, un promised, but my husband and I feel hopeful for the future.
Thank you so much for this video. The beginning of your story really struck with me. I too took five months to get pregnant and like you.. I also had a bad feeling about the pregnancy…. Mother’s intuition is really real…now i am experiencing my first miscarriage
This has me tearing up. It’s ok to cry girl. I’m so sorry you dealt with this. This will help many people though. You’re brave for sharing this. May God bless your family 🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing Becca. I’m a faithful subscriber and I love your channel. I too recently went through a miscarriage. 5w4d... it was awful... first pregnancy, wasn’t trying, married 13 years and have adopted since we were told we couldn’t have kiddos and boom miscarriage.... I agree there isn’t a lot of information out there, which is disheartening because this is a traumatic event. I joined a FB support group and found a lot of great help there. I agree with what you said, this does make you stronger and better because of it, but also I’m still processing... 💔 I also look at things more positively and as terrible as this was, I found great joy in that I was able to get pregnant and am hopeful for the future. I wouldn’t wish anyone to have to experience that. And I’m thankful people like you are sharing their stories. It’s helpful and it doesn’t feel so lonely. ❤️🙏🏼
I had a horrible fear at 9 and 10 weeks with our pregnancy that when we came in for our 11 week scan. I tried to shake it off, but we were so close to being in the 2nd trimester it felt too good to be true. At our 11 week scan this week, the ultrasound showed our baby laying upside down and not moving. I turned to the tech and said "please tell me he's sleeping" the tech took measurements, then turned on the heart beat sensor. I will never forget seeing the static on the screen, followed by her turning to me and saying "I'm sorry, I don't see a heartbeat". My baby had passed 2 weeks ago at 9 weeks, when my fears had started. I do not wish this on anyone
I'm going through the same thing. Trying to pass with medication. This is grueling. May I ask how you passed? I'm worried.
Aww Becca I'm so incredibly sorry! I had a miscarriage last year at 9 weeks and it was so hard. Praying for you!! 💜
(Commenting from my hubby’s account) I’m a mama of a 19 mo experiencing a threatened miscarriage right now at 7 weeks. Thank you so incredibly much for this video! You are so brave, so open, candid and absolutely lovely. This has helped me dramatically. Listening to other mama’s stories has been genuinely healing. I can’t thank you enough for helping me feel connected and not alone on this journey.
I wish you and your family well, and healthy, happy babies to come 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you so much 🥺❤️ sending you love back and a huge hug! I miss carried December 25, 2020 at 7 weeks and I’m still feeling really sad about it. I have been watching TH-cam videos of other woman’s experience and it’s helped me get better 🤍🤍
Thank you for this video. I'm 11 weeks and just found out I have a missed miscarriage. I'm mentally preparing for the passing process and this is super helpful. I really appreciate this video.
I was pregnant for 5 weeks , and from yesterday morning I started bleeding, it’s very less , and I send messages to doctor asked about this. She said “don’t worry, sometimes happen implementations bleeding “. So I didn’t go to the hospital, but from 4 o’clock I start pain in my belly and the blood is coming frequently. I was panicked. I went to the doctor at 6 o’clock, I just entered doctor’s office, after 5 minutes I lost my baby, it came out with a lot of blood. I cried so hard , just few hours ago everything is fine, and I suddenly lost my baby. It’s like a dream. After I came back to home and still believe this happened, I still feel my baby is inside me, hope god help us get through this, it’s truly heart breaking 💔
Hi I just wanted to say that this video has really helped me. I recently suffered a miscarriage and it was so traumatic. You have given me hope that I will have my baby.
Thank you so much for this video. Going through my miscarriage was absolute hell. I also had no warning signs before. We can get through this together 💕
I am so sorry you and your family went through this ❤️ I’m very proud that you shared your story, I’m not a mom yet but to hear these stories are very important. So many women go through this and never talk about it (which is also completely ok) but for women to hear these stories if they are going through it or were to go through it in the future, would help a lot I’m sure.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and It was the hardest thing I ever had to go through. I'm 24 and from the UK. Over here the first ultrasound is done at 12weeks. I had spotting an cramping when I was 11 weeks and 6 days, went to the hospital and they confirmed I was miscarrying. My baby stopped growing at 8 and a half weeks. Watching videos like yours has helped me so much. Thank you for sharing!!
Becca I’m so sorry. I found your channel while I was pregnant this year. I was so so sick with morning sickness (hypermesis gravidarum) and could relate to your what I ate videos you did with your daughter. I was hoping and praying to feel better every day. I went to my 16 week appointment on January 16th this year and found out my baby had no heartbeat anymore and it looked to happen around 13/14 weeks. I delivered my son in the hospital the next day. It’s an absolutely devastating experience and new reality. I also relate to how cruel it is to be so sick and suffer so much for this kind of outcome...
I admire your corague for doing a video like this. Blessings to you and your family.
I’m so sorry Becca. You and Matt are in my thoughts 💕I had almost the exact same experience during my first pregnancy although I ended up getting a D&C. I know first hand that there’s nothing anyone can say or do to make it any easier, but if it’s any comfort at all, I promise that the second you meet your rainbow baby, this will all make sense ❤️❤️
To be honest, I’m not ready to watch this fully. However, I watched your IG stories and posts and have prayed for you and your family for peace and comfort from The Lord right now. However, it still is hard for me to watch after going through a loss, so even though I won’t watch now I’m still supporting you with prayer ❤️
Savanna Conrad I feel the same way you do. I had a miscarriage in November. I haven’t cried about it for a few weeks now. However, I’m watching Becca’s video and my eyes are starting to be watery. I may have to watch this video in segments.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just found out tonight in the ER at 11.5weeks that they couldn’t find my baby, just a sac. I have to wait till I can get into the OB to confirm, but I’m bleeding and cramping and my HCG levels have dropped A LOT. We had just seen our baby at 8 weeks with a HB, so the bleeding was shocking to me. I really needed to hear the raw details because like you said it’s so hard to find the information. I’m hoping so much that this will all pass tonight, but I’m so afraid it won’t. I’m so sorry for your loss, I appreciate your story so much.
I'm so so sorry. We found out at our 12 week scan yesterday that our baby had passed at 8 weeks, two days. I'm devastated. Xx
I’m sorry for what you went through. Thank you for being brave to share it. Things happen for a reason I always see things like this. I also had a miscarriage before I had my daughter. Things will get better. God gives us strength in storms.
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage Oct 2019. I also found out I have fibroids, I plan to get rid of them naturally so I am on the path of eating better and working out.
I also had a miscarriage in October 2019, I was about 6 weeks ❤️🙁
@@ashleyemma4954 I was 8 weeks pregnant. So sorry you experienced it as well. I had no idea how painful it would be. No idea of what would happen. My partner was there with me through it all, i don't think I would have made it without him.
Yes, no one told me what to expect. It was traumatic, even though I wasn't far along. I have friends who were closer to 3 months, like Becca. I can't even imagine.
I miscarried in October as well. I was 12/13 weeks
I had a miscarriage in Nov 2019. The D&C and aftermath of it was AWFUL!!! Just dreadful!!!!
Thank you for this. I found your video while searching for information on missed miscarriage. I found out today that our second baby stopped growing at 8 weeks, no heartbeat. I am currently in the stage of hard grief and have periodic breakdowns of sadness. I have chosen to do the misoprostol medication to induce baby to come out. We will see how it goes, so far 16 hrs later and not much has happened. Thank you for your video, as not much is out there about this. I found your video very comforting. God bless you!
I am so sorry you had to go through this Becca, but I can’t explain how thankful I am that you had the courage to share your experience. Having a miscarriage is one of my biggest fears and to hear your testimony brought me so much clarity and peace. What a hard many weeks it’s been for you guys. Praying for continued comfort for you right now. Thank you for being so open. Totally blessed me more than you know. 🙏🏽✨
So thankful for you opening up. I lost my baby around the same time with a missed miscarriage. We were due Sept 4th 2020.
We had just seen the baby via ultrasound at 11 weeks and 3 days and everything was normal and healthy. Then at 13 weeks we found out at my normal appointment there was no heartbeat and the baby passed away sometime the week before.
I waited until 15 weeks and my body still wouldn’t process the miscarriage so I had to have a D&C.
A few weeks later my sister found out at 26 weeks she had a missed miscarriage as well. It’s been an awful year for our family.
I’m so thankful your healthcare provider was caring. My obgyn was the most awful person I’ve ever met. Dr. Ciliberti literally complained about having to find time to do my D&C in front of me, muttering under his breath “this f***ing day”. I ended up walking out. That’s why I tried to wait for my body to do it on its own. But I ended up having to go to the ER and have my D&C.
No one who hasn’t experienced it will ever understand the pain of dealing with a miscarriage. Worst pain and sadness I’ve ever experienced.
Thank you for making this video. I am currently 11 weeks & going through the very sick part. This is my 2nd and I feel so bad, but always wonder what a miscarriage was like. I know it’s very common & I feel like many women aren’t educated on this topic until they go through it. My mom had a couple miscarriages & I always asked about it, because I knew it was a possibility. She wasn’t ever comfortable to share, so this video really helps those who have gone through it, but also for us who want to be more educated on the topic just in case it ever happens. ♥️ so, sorry you went through this.
My heart is breaking for you I'm crying so hard
Hi thank you for sharing I lost my baby yesterday saw everything in to toilet but didn't know what it was now I know I saw my baby or at least knew when it came out cant stop crying but I know it will get better.
hi. I just had a horrible miscarriage. I know how it feels to go through this its like a nightmare. It's so important to normalize it so women know what to expect. I had no idea what it would be like because no one had ever told me and also if you search for it on the internet its very limited what information is shared. I have been feeling overwhelmed with sadness afterwards, my emotions seem so overwhelming and I am praying to feel like myself again. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video. It means everything to me to not feel so alone!!! Sending love to your family!!!!!
This is very validating for me. When I miscarried I was having contractions that caused sweating, diarrhoea and moaning. I thought I was being a wuss for thinking it was 8/10 pain, but it’s good to hear that it’s actually similar to birth.
Yes, and anyone who thinks miscarriages are comparable to a period is flat out wrong. Not only is it emotionally taxing, the pain is off the Richter scale. 🥺
How far along were you? I miscarried at 6.5 weeks and it literally felt like labor. It was insane.
Same!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy, and hearing others stories is helping me feel not so alone. There are so many of us! I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for your words.
Thank you for sharing your story! I recently went through a missed miscarriage with baby # 3 at 9 weeks. Hearing your story reminds me that I’m not alone. Praying for you and your family!
I hope you are ok, I’m sorry to hear about your baby. I also had a missed miscarriage. The baby passed away at 7 weeks but my body didn’t lose it until 14 weeks. It was such a tough, weird time. It does get better 💔
Thank you for sharing this. I had a missed miscarriage 5 years ago after a healthy first pregnancy, and my experience was very similar to yours. At the time I had never even heard of it happening that way. It’s cruel and so hard however I learned a lot from the experience and when I went on to get pregnant following the miscarriage, it made having my healthy baby girl in my arms that much sweeter.
Thank you for being so open with what you went through and the gory details no one talks about. I know this was hard for you but it really is helpful for other women going through this.