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Hey friends - in today's video I'm opening up about my recent miscarriage which happened at 11 weeks 4 days. This sweet baby was due in September, but unfortunately we will never get to meet him/her here on earth. It's the most difficult thing I've ever gone through..but I wanted to share it because hearing other women's stories really helped me when I was going through it. If you are currently having a miscarriage - I am so sorry. I am sending you strength and love mama xx Becca
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I miscarried 4 times , my last one i was on week 21 but I still have faith that one day I will be a mother of beautiful healthy babies 🙏🙏
brownycake83 browny Faith is a beautiful thing. Hold on to that always, it’s truly great and seeing your strength through faith put a smile on my face 🙏 Prayers coming your way :)
sorry to hear that. was it with the same father? How old are you?
i'm sorry for your loss
Please look up Rosanna Davidson , Ireland if you want hope after miscarriage . Miracles are real.I wish you the best.I'm so sorry for your losses
Read the book Supernatural Childbirth.
Becca just to share. I had a miscarriage at 7.5 weeks. Bleeding and passing of the baby vaginally. Hubby and I saw it. Our Dr told us no intimacy for three, or more, months. Of course we would follow our Drs suggestions. 12 days later I found myself at my Drs office and I told our nurse I thought I was still pregnant. I remember the nurse patting me on the back that I would be fine. She appeased me, did the blood test, and sent me to the waiting area. A few minutes later she came to waiting area, she was beat red. Her words " you are very pregnant"! I lost a twin. He is a Deputy Sheriff now, 23 years old. He is our adrenaline junkie kid. God Bless you, Matt, and Hayden always. Hugs
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As a paramedic, I just want to apologize on behalf of all medical professionals for how rude the tech and OB were to you. No one deserves that treatment. I’m so sorry.
ThT was very sweet.
As a tech I know that she knew right for the start of the exam but we can't say anything to the patient. It is the doctor that have the authority to confirm a diagnostic. It must be a difficult station to be in.
Medical professionals are about to be held accountable for a lot !
So sorry for your loss. I miscarried twice after my first baby and didn’t think she’d ever have a sibling. God had big plans because she now has 3 more siblings. So thankful for the hope we have in Jesus and that we will reunite with those sweet babies one day.
This is so lovely to read. I have just had 2 miscarriages in 3 months been so hard and just feel like giving up. X x
This gives me hope.
@@leoniedavies5214 don’t give up. My daughter in law had 7 miscarriages, some were IVF, and she was heartbroken. She was 45 and her age was very much against her, so she decided to give up, and they moved house. Then she became pregnant again, but couldn’t relax and enjoy it for worrying. Then on her due date a sweet little boy arrived in perfect health. He’s six now and a real little monkey. Take heart.
@@harriethopper9981 so nice to hear some positive stories like this. I had a miscarriage last night and feel i will never be able to do it again just from the fear alone. Hopefully i won’t need a D&C
@@rosyapplekitchen635 Aw I’m so sorry to hear that Rosy, I know exactly how you feel, as I had three miscarriages myself. Don’t give up though, things have a habit of working out, and a D&C is nothing to worry about. I had three, that’s what they automatically did in those days. Wish you the very best of luck, and keep positive. X
I started to have a miscarriage today at 5weeks. 😔 my little baby meant so much to me already. This is my first pregnancy & praying to God for a blessing. 🙏🏼
Sending lots of love
I'm currently going through a miscarriage at 5 weeks and your comment spoke to me. It is so disappointing to lose someone who means so much. I'm comforted by knowing we will meet them one day in heaven. I pray you have been blessed with a baby since writing this. xx
I’m so heartbroken for you. I found out I was pregnant in June ‘19, I was bleeding throughout the entire first trimester, always thinking omg am I having a miscarriage. I went to the ER 3 times and every time they confirmed the baby was fine. I know that devastating feeling of thinking you are having a miscarriage. I got through the first trimester, and the second, and made it to the third trimester. Everything was smooth sailing after the first trimester and at 35 weeks I went to the dr for a routine follow up and the dr. wasn’t able to hear the baby’s heartbeat on the Doppler. So they sent me to ultrasound and they confirmed that the baby had no heartbeat. I couldn’t comprehend what that meant... I feel like I am reliving a nightmare anytime I think about that moment in time when I asked the dr if everything was ok and he replied no... there’s no heartbeat. My baby was gone. At 35 weeks, on January 21st I gave birth to my sweet angel baby. He was still. He had no life in him. God I miss him. But I have peace knowing he’s in heaven with God. He won’t have to live knowing a sin. Angel babies go straight to Jesus. All they know is how perfect the lord is and what heaven is like and that alone gives me so much peace. I want to be a mommy and I am too very scared to try again. But we have to trust in Gods plan. I know it’s going to be hard for me. But I know that’s what we have to do. I pray you and your husband find peace and that you will be a mommy to another child someday.
Ps. I love you and your channel. 💙
Anne-alex Reynolds I’m so sorry you had to go through that, sending you love xx
im so sorry you had to go through this im currently 10 weeks with a due date on Jan.21.2021, im so nervous
It’s the scariest most crazy thing .. feeling like your pregnant and know the baby is not there 😭I am sorry for your loss ! I’ve had two missed miscarriages many years ago and it was traumatizing ! .. sending you lots of love 💕
Laura Emmerson thank you so much ❤️
Alayjah Gonzalez don’t be nervous. Enjoy this incredible time being pregnant. Have faith and pray for your little baby every day.
I got pregnant with twins almost 11 years ago. I was so happy! My pregnancy was going great until I went to my 20 week ultrasound and found out I had lost one baby at about 18 weeks. I was devastated and the worse thing for me was that almost EVERYONE around me kept telling me “well at least you have one”! It doesn’t matter it was still a big loss! Anyways I’m sorry for your loss. I’m so thankful for my healthy child now.
😩❤️That must have been so hard! My mom was pregnant with my twin sisters at age 42 and was at very high risk and we are so thankful they were both born healthy. The doctor advised her to abort one to make sure one would be safe but she said "No way, these babies are in God's hands." They're 22 now.
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@@ashleyemma4954 your twin? Or your moms twin?
I can’t believe peoples insensitivity
"sorry if I'm a little emotional" as if I'm not right here crying with you right now. I miscarried in 2017 and my heart breaks for you.
My heart is breaking for you! Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm not a mom and cannot even imagine what you're going through but I admire your strength, positivity, and honesty so much!! I have no doubt that this video will be a light to someone in your same situation.
I'm so so sorry for your loss. And I can't imagine going through that when healthcare providers are not compassionate either. Makes me so sad! Praying for you and your family and that Hayden will have another sibling soon ♥️
I had a horrible fear at 9 and 10 weeks with our pregnancy that when we came in for our 11 week scan. I tried to shake it off, but we were so close to being in the 2nd trimester it felt too good to be true. At our 11 week scan this week, the ultrasound showed our baby laying upside down and not moving. I turned to the tech and said "please tell me he's sleeping" the tech took measurements, then turned on the heart beat sensor. I will never forget seeing the static on the screen, followed by her turning to me and saying "I'm sorry, I don't see a heartbeat". My baby had passed 2 weeks ago at 9 weeks, when my fears had started. I do not wish this on anyone
I’m so sorry. I’ve had 2 missed miscarriages where the baby stopped growing at 7 weeks and I didn’t find out till around 12 weeks. I do now have a 2 week old perfect rainbow baby! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! 💙
This exact thing happened to my daughter today. She has
3 other children with no problems so this was devistating to her. She cannot comprehend how this happens with no problems before. I have no answer for her my heart just breaks for her
Becca, this meant the absolute world to me to hear this. I experienced a miscarriage during my first pregnancy, and it was absolutely crushing. But, the joy and gratitude it brought when my baby girl was born made me understand that it was just a part of my story! Thank you for sharing yours.
I had a similar experience of a missed miscarriage just in January of this year. Thank you for sharing, it comforts me hearing about others going through similar things.
This is so so heartbreaking... Thank you for sharing your story. Many of my friends have been through this and you sharing your story help us help and support each other. We’re not alone and we’ll be stronger together. I send you and your family so much kindness and love. I find it can be hard to process this as a couple as well, as we don’t grieve necessarily the same way. Lots of love to the Bristows.
i'm so so sorry this happened to you. when you said you had a gut feeling that you would never meet your baby, as awful as that feeling must've been, it really shows the connection mothers have with their babies. i've always been scared of losing a baby and i wouldn't wish that upon anyone. thank you so much for sharing your story ♡
I love how raw and real you are. Your openness helps so many people and makes things less scary and confusing. Thank you!
So sorry for your loss. We’re trying again after a miscarriage- it’s scary. Sending you love
I am so sorry you and your family went through this ❤️ I’m very proud that you shared your story, I’m not a mom yet but to hear these stories are very important. So many women go through this and never talk about it (which is also completely ok) but for women to hear these stories if they are going through it or were to go through it in the future, would help a lot I’m sure.
Thank you so much for this video. Going through my miscarriage was absolute hell. I also had no warning signs before. We can get through this together 💕
You are an angel! Thank you for being so brave in sharing your experience- your story will definitely shed light on someone going through this. Everything happens for a reason! We love you!
Omg, Becca! I am so sorry! I recently had one at 6 weeks. We found out at our 8 week appointment that I was no longer pregnant and it literally broke me. I feel your pain and I am sending prayers to you and your husband and baby girl.
(Commenting from my hubby’s account) I’m a mama of a 19 mo experiencing a threatened miscarriage right now at 7 weeks. Thank you so incredibly much for this video! You are so brave, so open, candid and absolutely lovely. This has helped me dramatically. Listening to other mama’s stories has been genuinely healing. I can’t thank you enough for helping me feel connected and not alone on this journey.
I wish you and your family well, and healthy, happy babies to come 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing. Like you said, people need to hear these stories so they know they aren’t alone. So thank you! Sending you positive vibes 💕
Thank you Becca for sharing your stories. When I found out I was pregnant I listened to your podcast The Bristows Made a Baby and it got me so excited. Today when I found out I miscarried this video helped me get through it. So sorry for your loss, your story lives on.
Thank you so much for this video Becca 💕 I am currently going through a miscarriage at 9 weeks with twins and this has helped me tremendously. I am so so sorry for your loss, this is something I wish no one had to go through 💔
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy, and hearing others stories is helping me feel not so alone. There are so many of us! I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for your words.
Aww Becca I'm so incredibly sorry! I had a miscarriage last year at 9 weeks and it was so hard. Praying for you!! 💜
I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks last October (first pregnancy) and also felt that hearing other peoples stories helped me the most. There is still such stigma and people who haven't been through it or ever heard about it don't know how to react. Sometimes they just don't react at all or say things that hurt. As a result, it can be quite an isolating experience on top of the emotional and physical trauma. Thank you for sharing! Us women have to support each other! So sorry that this happened to you and I'm praying for you!
Thank you for sharing your story. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks in December 2019. It's truly heartbreaking. And it does change you- I believe our angel babies give us more strength than we could have ever imagined. There are beautiful days ahead.
a year later and our stories are similar, my son is currently 15 months and i miscarried at 11 weeks. Stuck on the TH-cam binge of finding comfort in knowing I’m not alone ❤️. I can’t believe how much this sounds like my exact experience. Thank nyp for publicly sharing your story
I went thru a very similar situation. But I ended up with a DNC because my body was not releasing the baby not even after 2 doses.
But I want you to know that I now have a little girl that came after that miscarriage.
So sorry you went thru that. Praying for you and your family .
My heart is hurting so much as I search TH-cam to find out what I’ll be going through. I’m terrified but I really appreciate you sharing your story with us.
Sending you virtual hugs. I just went through a miscarriage last month so I can relate. I was crying right along with you. It's such a painful loss, both physically and emotionally. Hoping you get your rainbow baby soon.
I am currently waiting for my miscarriage to pass and I want you to know that your story was so helpful and comforting. Thank you so much for making this and sharing your experience. I know sharing a story like this is never an easy thing to talk about and I admire that so much about you. I feel like this is definitely something that, despite how common it is, is so indescribably hard to go through. Each stage is difficult for its own reasons. It's nice to not feel alone and I am sending you all love and positive vibes for a healthy and beautiful rainbow baby
Going through this exact situation right now. I was suppose to be almost 11 weeks just 2 days ago. We were just about to tell our brother & sister in law the good news when I started spotting until it got worse. Found out at the ER the baby had stopped living at 8 weeks. Just passed the baby yesterday at home. Still in so much pain. You are right about it putting things into perspective. It does make you so grateful for what you do have, and we are so thankful to have our two year old son in our life. Thank you for sharing your story. It really does help relating to others while your trying to cope. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼
I’m sorry for your loss. It happened to me too. I’m glad you’re talking about this because this topic is really taboo. I felt alone when it happened to me and what got me through this was watching videos like this. It made me feel that I wasn’t alone. You will be blessed again girly. Stay positive and remember you’re not alone.
Becca your strength in explaining your entire experience is commending! You are so eloquent and formal but raw and real at the same time in your description of events that unfolded. I could listen to you for hours on literally any subject. This is so informative for anyone going through the same experience but also for those who have never or will never have this experience just to be more empathic to someone that they know who might be going through it. I wish you all the best for you and your family!
This was the most real, raw (even a bit scary) and super informative video! I’m so sorry to hear about your loss mama :(
This has me tearing up. It’s ok to cry girl. I’m so sorry you dealt with this. This will help many people though. You’re brave for sharing this. May God bless your family 🙏🏻
I’m so sorry you had to go through this! Motherhood is a blessing and I’m glad you can see the positive even through the negative ❤️
I am so so sorry for your loss. I’ve had two of these before many years ago and it’s traumatizing to say the least. I can say it def helps to talk to other women who are going through the same journey because you know they get it. I feel like it’s the best support ever ! I wish I would have known back when this happened to me. I am currently trying to get pregnant for almost a year now! Wishing you the best of luck. Take your time healing.. your human ! Sending so much love your way💜
Becca: Thank you for sharing. I just had a miscarriage end of May. It was so sad. This Covid isolation is hard and add a taboo loss doubles the isolation.
I'm grateful you shared your unique experience.
So sorry for this loss ❤️ I appreciate you sharing your story with all of us. Giving you a virtual hug!
Oh my heart goes out for you. I have been through 2 miscarriages and it just sucks. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family for clarity and peace. Don’t ever be afraid to reach out for help. God bless ❤️
i’m so sorry yall had to go through this. nobody deserves that pain & you seem like a very loving mother
I’m so sorry for your loss and everything you went through. I’m sure that you will be blessed with more healthy and beautiful babies in the near future.
So so sorry for your loss and pain. I’m thankful for your candor and honesty this video will help a lot of some. If you’re feeling alone there is a huge community out here that has been in your shoes and has offered me a lot of comfort during my loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss, thank you for being brave and sharing your story. Sending you positive vibes 💜
Currently going thru my first miscarriage and I want to thank you for posting this video! It truly has helped me get thru this awful experience.
So sorry for your loss. It’s a heartbreak like no other. My husband and I experienced three consecutive miscarriages at 6 weeks, 9 weeks and 11 weeks. I am now expecting a sweet miracle in less than 4 weeks. You never truly heal from your loss/losses, but time helps to learn to live with the hurt. I know they are watching over us 💗
Lexi Cook is there any medication you took please?? It’s my third miscarriage at 10 weeks. Am broken😢
I am so sorry for your loss. I truly hope you have found peace. Did you take any medication to protect your sweet miracle? I would really appreciate any help you can offer.
Congratulations! Did you take any medication?
Thank you for posting this. I found out yesterday I will be going through the same process. My baby also does not have a heart beat at 11 weeks. Thank you. It is hard and I appreciate it.
Hey Becca, thank you for talking about this. You are so grounded and respectable.
So sorry for your loss ❤️. For me, talking with others who have been through the same thing helped me so much and to feel less alone ❤️
I am so sorry, Becca and family. Thank you for being so honest and open. ❤️
So sorry for your loss, Becca. Thank you so much for creating such a moving an informative story for other women out there going through the same thing. ❤️
I hated to “like” this video because I hate this happened to you, but you handled it so well. Thank you for bringing grace and peace to this place where so often people come to find it. Our God is so good and will bring joy to your family when you need it the most. Keep looking toward Him and your life will be abundantly blessed ❤️ Good luck on future baby making!
Thank you for sharing Becca. I’m a faithful subscriber and I love your channel. I too recently went through a miscarriage. 5w4d... it was awful... first pregnancy, wasn’t trying, married 13 years and have adopted since we were told we couldn’t have kiddos and boom miscarriage.... I agree there isn’t a lot of information out there, which is disheartening because this is a traumatic event. I joined a FB support group and found a lot of great help there. I agree with what you said, this does make you stronger and better because of it, but also I’m still processing... 💔 I also look at things more positively and as terrible as this was, I found great joy in that I was able to get pregnant and am hopeful for the future. I wouldn’t wish anyone to have to experience that. And I’m thankful people like you are sharing their stories. It’s helpful and it doesn’t feel so lonely. ❤️🙏🏼
I am so sorry! My second miscarriage was a missed miscarriage. I also wanted to avoid a DNC. I dealt with very insensitive staff. I waited more than five weeks with no symptoms of a miscarriage, took the medication and then hemorrhaged and passed out at the hospital and they had to preform an emergency DNC. It was so traumatizing but, you are so right! It puts things into perspective and makes me so grateful for my daughter. Also, essential oils helped me through my loss SO much!!! Thank you for sharing your story. It took me a while to share mine and I was so glad to let other women know they are not alone. You’re my favorite!! ❤️❤️
Oh Becca I’m so so sorry to hear this 😭🙏🏻❤️ Much love and grace and peace to you as you continue to process and grieve.
Hi Becca, I'm in my second year of nursing school and I feel an awful pit I'm my stomach that you did not receive the upmost compassion from your nurses. I know many individuals go through their fair share of daily trauma, but to take it out on a patient who is in a vulnerable state breaks my heart. Not that we can change that situation now for the better, I just hope you know this story of yours has made me put aside my differences on the floor while in practice to ensure I am giving my patients the respect and empathy they each deserve. Stories like yours reassures me that i came into the program for the right reasons to express compassion, empty and autonomy to each individual I have the grace to be in contact with. Thank you for sharing such a difficult trauma in your life with everyone, expressing my sincere condolences to yourself and Matt.
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the good and the bad feedback of the staff, I’m going to be a doctor in a years time and your experience will help me better care for women going through pregnancy loss here in Australia 💕
No words to make up for the loss you and your family have occurred. Your strength to get through this loss and then to share your story is admirable. 💕🖤
I'm so so sorry Becca :( just know time heals all wounds. Your an amazing person and I wish you all the happiness in the world !!!
My heart breaks for you and I am so sorry for your loss.
From an informational and scientific perspective, thank you so much for sharing your story. I think it’s very important to be able to share this kind of information. Thank you for being so brave.
I am so sorry you had to go through this Becca, but I can’t explain how thankful I am that you had the courage to share your experience. Having a miscarriage is one of my biggest fears and to hear your testimony brought me so much clarity and peace. What a hard many weeks it’s been for you guys. Praying for continued comfort for you right now. Thank you for being so open. Totally blessed me more than you know. 🙏🏽✨
Oh my gosh than you so much for sharing this and all of your pregnancy experiences. First let me say, I’m so sorry for your loss. You are absolutely right that hearing other people’s stories is incredibly helpful. I essentially just went through the same thing - missed miscarriage, intense nausea and worse illness after finding out about it. I scoured the internet for other stories of missed miscarriages because I wanted to let it resolve naturally and I just couldn’t understand why I was still so sick. I ended up getting a D&C simply because I couldn’t handle being sick anymore. This was my first pregnancy and without any other stories to compare my experience to I just felt like something was wrong with me. The baby had actually stopped growing about 5-6 weeks before I got the D&C. Anyhoo, hearing your story makes me feel a lot more normal, so thank you!
I am so so sorry Becca! The strength it must have taken to share your story is so admirable. You’re a wonderful mother and I will pray for you and your family!
Thank you for making this video. You have no idea how many women (and the men too!) you are helping. I went through a miscarriage with my first baby and it was the hardest thing not only I had to go through, but my hubby as well. I looked to videos like this to know I was not alone and to essentially have someone to grieve with me. It is brave, it shows strength and it shows hope that their is a light at the end of this storm. We conceived our rainbow baby just 2 weeks after the last day of my miscarriage and let me tell you, there is nothing like a love for your baby that comes after a loss. Just know, when that time comes, he/she will have a PERFECT guardian angel looking out for them and there for them every second of their life. Sending nothing but love, warmth and healing to you and your beautiful family. Xoxox
We went through almost the same experience, after 9 weeks. From the cold ultrasound tech, to weighing the options, to the miscarriage experience. Its nice to hear this story. It was our first pregnancy, so there is a lot unknown, un promised, but my husband and I feel hopeful for the future.
Thank you so much 🥺❤️ sending you love back and a huge hug! I miss carried December 25, 2020 at 7 weeks and I’m still feeling really sad about it. I have been watching TH-cam videos of other woman’s experience and it’s helped me get better 🤍🤍
You are so brave to share your story! You’re also beautiful. I’m 8 1/2 weeks with our second and I’ve been looking up peoples stories because that “feeling” I have it too. I fully believe in mother’s intuition and hearing real stories helps ease anxieties.
My heart is with you. I had a missed miscarriage as well. Found out at 16 weeks and it had stopped growing at around 13. Leading up to my d and c, the crying would completely come in huge waves.
Sending you well wishes on your journey🌟💐💜
I’m so sorry to hear this. I had a miscarriage too many years ago. Hugs to you. ❤️
Bless your heart and your family! It is truly amazing to share this for women and families who need to know this and hear it! You are strong, beautiful and everything happens for a reason!! 💕💕
My heart goes out to you Becca. I just experienced my first miscarriage today. It’s heartbreaking. Thank you for telling your story!
I’m so sorry for your loss, this is heartbreaking 💔 I have 3 boys and have never experienced a miscarriage, but remember worrying when I was pregnant! I wish you all the best for the future xx
I’m currently 25 weeks with a baby girl and I’m due in June but my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I documented what happened by writing everything down but I haven’t been able to sit down and talk about it. But you’re right, when it all happened, what really helped me was hearing other people’s stories. I found you during your pregnancy with your daughter and you were vlogging. I felt such a connection with you!
@William Thomson it did, she’ll be 2 in June. I haven’t filmed in a while but my birth story is on my channel
Becca this breaks my heart. Praying for you❤️
I am so sorry for your loss❤️ I am 9 weeks 4 days and very scared too go through this. The pain that mothers feel seems so indescribable. I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Thank you for sharing your story❤️
God bless you and your family
I’m so sorry Becca. You and Matt are in my thoughts 💕I had almost the exact same experience during my first pregnancy although I ended up getting a D&C. I know first hand that there’s nothing anyone can say or do to make it any easier, but if it’s any comfort at all, I promise that the second you meet your rainbow baby, this will all make sense ❤️❤️
I had a miscarriage with my first baby at 7 weeks. It’s hard when you find out and are really excited but never get to see or hear your baby. It took me awhile to completely come to terms with it and in a way move on. I was super lucky that I got pregnant with my little rainbow baby girl 2 months later and I’m so grateful for her but it’s still hard when I see here to know that I never got to meet my first baby. But also knowing I wouldn’t have my Kaylee without the miscarriage is hard. I didn’t realize how common this was until I went through it myself. I just want you to know I’m thinking of you and I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
I’m so grateful for you sharing your experience. I’ve never been pregnant but my husband and I want to start trying in a year or so. It’s so helpful to know what happens to so many women. We should really learn about this in health class in school!
Becca-you are so strong. Thank you for sharing your story. May your family continue to grow and thrive ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss and I appreciate your bravery in sharing. 💗💗 I had this same scenario back in May at 8 weeks down to the morning sickness picking up the week before my appt. I had never heard of a missed miscarriage until that day. I am now expecting again at 6 weeks and I am so worried. Thank you for sharing and wishing your family blessings to come.
I’m sorry for what you went through. Thank you for being brave to share it. Things happen for a reason I always see things like this. I also had a miscarriage before I had my daughter. Things will get better. God gives us strength in storms.
Thank you for sharing this. I have PCOS and have had a couple miscarriages since getting married. I have them very early on in the pregnancy. I don't even get my hopes up anymore just in case. But hearing stories from other moms helps me so much. It's so taboo to talk about it with people and it's off-putting for so many people. So thank you for having this conversation with us! Sending love and prayers your way!
Becca, thank you so much for making this video and I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. my husband and I experienced a missed miscarriage (we found out at our 10 week ultrasound as well). You making this video will help so many women in the future. I did expectant management as well and unfortunately, my bleeding got so out of control that I did not have an option but to get a d and c. I think everyone's experience is different and very personal and I just want people to know that deep down in your heart, you will know what's best for you. Praying for your rainbow baby in the future.
Praying for you and your family ♥️ So sorry for your loss! Thank you for being strong and helping other women.
I just went through a missed miscarriage as well at 9 weeks and was looking for more answers on the medication to induce things. I so appreciate how open you were. Your video helped me so much and made me feel not so alone. Thank you so much, I hope you guys are all doing well ❤️❤️❤️
Becca, I found you because I was terribly sick during my first trimester and felt so connected to you after watching your videos about feeling the same. I happened to watch this video right before my first sonogram. I knew I “shouldn’t” but something was just telling me I needed to. If I wouldn’t have, I would have been completely unprepared for the news that my baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks. I am so grateful that you shared your story. Thank you.
Thank you for posting this video. Like so many of the commenters before me, I too am in the throws of miscarriage. I was exactly 11 weeks and 4 days today when, after some spotting that gradually increased enough for me to go to ER, I found out my baby girl had no heartbeat. I am still waiting for the actual miscarriage and this video was exactly what I needed to prepare myself for the inevitable. I am so, so sorry for your loss but am very grateful you had the courage to post so that others may heal from your experience. God bless you and yours.
I am so sorry for this loss. Thank you for sharing. I know so many will find comfort in your transparency.
hi. I just had a horrible miscarriage. I know how it feels to go through this its like a nightmare. It's so important to normalize it so women know what to expect. I had no idea what it would be like because no one had ever told me and also if you search for it on the internet its very limited what information is shared. I have been feeling overwhelmed with sadness afterwards, my emotions seem so overwhelming and I am praying to feel like myself again. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video. It means everything to me to not feel so alone!!! Sending love to your family!!!!!
So thankful for you opening up. I lost my baby around the same time with a missed miscarriage. We were due Sept 4th 2020.
We had just seen the baby via ultrasound at 11 weeks and 3 days and everything was normal and healthy. Then at 13 weeks we found out at my normal appointment there was no heartbeat and the baby passed away sometime the week before.
I waited until 15 weeks and my body still wouldn’t process the miscarriage so I had to have a D&C.
A few weeks later my sister found out at 26 weeks she had a missed miscarriage as well. It’s been an awful year for our family.
I’m so thankful your healthcare provider was caring. My obgyn was the most awful person I’ve ever met. Dr. Ciliberti literally complained about having to find time to do my D&C in front of me, muttering under his breath “this f***ing day”. I ended up walking out. That’s why I tried to wait for my body to do it on its own. But I ended up having to go to the ER and have my D&C.
No one who hasn’t experienced it will ever understand the pain of dealing with a miscarriage. Worst pain and sadness I’ve ever experienced.
I’m in tears right now. My baby girl was born sleeping 3 weeks ago today at 17-18 weeks.
Becca-It was very brave of you to share your story of the miscarriage that u had it could help a lot of women out who have gone through it to know that they aren’t alone.
Thank you for sharing this. I am currently miscarrying. I just found out the day before Mother’s Day at my 12 week appointment that my baby no longer had a heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow. Just like you said, hearing other women’s stories really does help.
I can’t even stress how much I admire how well you accepted and are healing from your second babies story. My heart absolutely shatters for you but wish everyone had this strength. I know someone personally who has never recovered from a miscarriage,mentally and emotionally. They turned to extreme drug use and even with ending up with healthy children was never a good mother and ended up having all of her children taken from her. And let me say before the miscarriage you would have never ever thought she’d be this kind of mother or person. I guess that’s what a broken heart can do, but I pray even now for them to find the light like you have and to heal.
Thank you for sharing, I'm so sorry this happened to you. You are very well spoken and shared your story beautifully! I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and can only imagine how I'd feel if I were to miscarry. This is my first video I've seen on your channel, and now you have a new sub! Best wishes to you!