Should I Just Go and Get Married If I Can't Control My Sex Drive?

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ความคิดเห็น • 196

  • @thebeatagp
    @thebeatagp  6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So family! What are your thoughts? Do YOU think that marriage will satisfy your sex drive and cure your lust problem? Let me know below and let's talk about it!

  • @kkuczak0001
    @kkuczak0001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I've always wanted to get married, but I did plead with God to send me my husband immediately because of promiscuous struggles. I used that exact scripture- it is better to marry than to burn with lust. I asked God for my husband immediately before, but this time I was desperate for His help. I met my husband 2 days later, and God confirmed multiple times that he is the one. I just want you all to know that God is there when you need Him. He listens to prayer and answers the ones you are truly sincere about wanting the answers to. God bless you all and shalom. Jesus is coming soon. Repent and trust Him with everything in your life. Do not settle for less, for He has what is best for you in store. And every good thing is from above, even your dreams. :)

  • @jarxcistkris8499
    @jarxcistkris8499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I believe that people have too much expectations from marriage; they view marriage as a problem fixer. One person can't continuously be responsible to make another person happy or fulfilled. Only a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ can satisfy our deepest need......Jesus said it at the well that he is the living water and we will not thirst. Our focus need to be on God first and living our life for his glory.

  • @sumitxess9371
    @sumitxess9371 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Get close to God and you will win any temptation..

  • @byron3176
    @byron3176 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Like pretty much everything in life, there has to be some balance. The Bible says "better to marry than to burn", however this does not mean to treat your spouse like sex toy and act as if that's the main purpose for getting married. The Bible also says to "love your wife as Christ loves the church". Haveing a sex drive is natural. It's how God created us. And so is hunger, but we don't just go overboard and eat in excess. The things we do in excess become the god in our lives. Food, partying, money, drinking, etc. Are ok at a certain level, but excess leads to idolatry.

  • @jilforever7476
    @jilforever7476 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom!!!!!

  • @locheadlingo
    @locheadlingo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    GREAT advice brother

  • @Carishio
    @Carishio 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    knock, knock

  • @nissi5422
    @nissi5422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Any problems that was not dealt with before marriage will be carried into the marriage. In fact, married life will bring to light any bad baggage you had when still single.

  • @andrewortiz9226
    @andrewortiz9226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just woke up one day and had this overwhelming desire to find a wife, idk where that came from, but I believe God has a mate for every man!!

  • @KevinPerez-fd9xq
    @KevinPerez-fd9xq ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was helpful 😅

  • @mschurchgurl
    @mschurchgurl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I grew up in a Pentecostal church and as soon the ministers found out an unmarried couple was having sex, the couple was pressured into getting married. I’m so glad that you and other leaders are now clarifying the true reasons why couples should marry. Sex is wonderful, but it is best experienced within a Godly marriage. This protects us physically, spiritually , and emotionally. Good Word, as usual!

  • @soulstrafer
    @soulstrafer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The only thing worse than waiting is later on wishing that you had.

  • @derekmcadams7518
    @derekmcadams7518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I think sometimes people wait way to long to get married. Yea you should date for awhile and get to know each other but a year to two years is enough. But I see a lot of grown people who are old enough to marry who will date for 5 or 10 or 20 years then get married. Usually by this time you have all ready been together so long you are gonna long for intimacy and burn sexual desire so I think a year or two is good enough usually 2 years is along time and if your are still together by that time then you usually have something there and I think it would be silly to keep going for more years putting that temptation to sin before you all the time.

  • @Christian_Girl120
    @Christian_Girl120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is very true. Getting married just for sex is something I don't want. I ask God to help me fight it and wait for the one God has for me. I am 53 and never have been married. I made mistakes I am not proud of. It isn't worth it. Meet the right one first. Hopefully God will find me the right man.

  • @sirventagod
    @sirventagod 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the bullet points. It makes something that may otherwise some complex simple. Keep making these videos!

  • @RyArmani
    @RyArmani 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was excellent! Not prolonging was a really good point if both parties are ready just for "deadline" sake. I'll also say this when the Word says you will know them by their fruits, one of which is long-suffering (patience). As I mature, I'm realizing how important this is in relationships. Being celibate, if a man (or woman) needs sex & is unwilling to wait (including having partners on the side while "waiting" on you)...lack of long-suffering. In the event during marriage, one spouse may travel for work, have an opportunity that takes them out of state for awhile, or a medical condition; both spouses must have the long-suffering fruit within them. It's always better to confirm before marriage as although people do grow over time, marriage itself doesn't change people overnight.

  • @plantingivy
    @plantingivy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Glad this video was posted today. My boyfriend and I have been together less than 6 months and we talk about this a lot. Our relationship is long distance so they're some constraints already however we're believing in God to make a way for us to be together and hopefully get married soon. So thank you for this video!

  • @Emptiness9148
    @Emptiness9148 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years. Got engaged on 1/14/17 but was in a relationship with with my fiancée beforehand. I struggle with pornography and my fiancée and I have fornicated one several occasions. I feel like it's hopeless sometimes becuz we do love each other very much and so many times I've either wanted to break it off or just commit suicide and end it all but the Lord's grace, mercy, and love keeps us going. We're simply working on being financially and spiritually stable. I believe we're spiritually mature but struggle with certain bad habits. Pls, keep us in prayer to whoever reads this.

  • @checkthemikecrophone9050
    @checkthemikecrophone9050 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Good stuff bro god truly is using you keep doing his work man you got huge reward in heaven. Also you look like Denzel lol 😂