How To Choose A Man To Marry | Qualities of a GODLY Man!

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    How to choose a man to marry? If you're a single woman, you need to know what to look for. If you're a single man, you need to know what single women are looking for. If you're a married man, here are some qualities that the Bible says we should strive to possess. In this video I look at Boaz from the book of Ruth and share what I believe are 4 essential qualities of a godly man.
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  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +826

    I think a big one is can he lead you.....I would not advise a woman to marry someone they feel like can't lead them spiritually.

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Wish I'd knew this 23 years ago.. Ugh!😣

    • @livingunashamed4869
      @livingunashamed4869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Don't worry about the past you know now. 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

    • @MzSoulll
      @MzSoulll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Kevin B ain’t that the truth! That’s what I’ve tried to tell so many women but they unfortunately need to learn the hard way.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Torri Howard hindsight is always 20/20 isn’t it? God bless you Torri,

  • @jacobbj
    @jacobbj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I'm not praying for a perfect woman, I'm praying that I'll be a perfect man for her someday.

    • @Poop-sr9sn
      @Poop-sr9sn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Simp

    • @azaleyalikedaflowr7975
      @azaleyalikedaflowr7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Amen 🙏🏽 you are not a “simp” for wanting to be a good husband for your future wife👍🏽

    • @renualluzara2620
      @renualluzara2620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same bro

    • @azaleyalikedaflowr7975
      @azaleyalikedaflowr7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Emanuel Teklu Yes it is obvious. That’s how healthy relationships work. With both putting in the work and effort not just one person.

    • @sheiladavis6523
      @sheiladavis6523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      J A C You'll be waiting a long time because there's no such person as a Perfect man & I notice you said man not Husband December 21,2020

  • @thecakeladytm9962
    @thecakeladytm9962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    Married men: we really DO need you to continue these 4 things after marriage. It is heart-breaking to be pursued, protected, provided for, & prioritized....and forgotten once "won." We want you. We really do. Just as God told Eve, that her desire would be for her husband. Ever wonder why that was part of the punishment of leaving Eden? It physically hurts to be forgotten by the man who sleeps next to you every night. Do those 4 until you or she dies, seriously. Thank you, Allen for the video. I hope it helps men to hear from a man. It's much harder to hear these things from a woman.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      wendy d praise God for the great reminder. I know I need to improve as well. Although I taught this message, I am well aware of areas where I need to improve as a husband. God bless you,

    • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
      @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You better preach that!

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wendy the Cake Lady but a woman can’t be desperate for a mans attention

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Petes F
      Exactly. Most western women are today. And you know why ? Because it is all about the woman in this day and age . Men are NOT in control anymore .
      Especially in bed. They are such wimps afraid of their sexual desires , little boys afraid to offend mommy .
      What a turn off !

    • @DionLYA
      @DionLYA 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@framboise595 You really can't blame men for being afraid of their sexual desires because some women are just not in the mood when their husbands ask for sex, and if their husbands keep asking for it and gets turned down, it can seem like the husband is bothering her.

  • @pashahillyard8763
    @pashahillyard8763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    1. He Pursues her
    2. He Protects her (physically, emotionally and sexually)
    3. He Provides for her
    4. He Prioritizes her

    • @papitatz6632
      @papitatz6632 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He leads her to God

    • @papitatz6632
      @papitatz6632 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lacking sir.

    • @pashahillyard8763
      @pashahillyard8763 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@papitatz6632 I would challenge that...if he exhibits these characteristics of God, he most absolutely is leading her spiritually. Just my thoughts.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adam prioritised his dear Eve.
      You know what happened ?
      Go on making it all about the woman , first in sin and in transgression .
      Satan is jubilating.
      The husband is called by God to provide and protect. That's it.
      In no way to pursue because once you've conquerred , you OWN .
      You don't pursue what is yours !!

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pashahillyard8763
      A husband does not have authority in the spiritual era only but in everyway because the wife is called to submit to him in everything.

  • @songsforthesoul4448
    @songsforthesoul4448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Basically described the perfect guy. Boaz where you at 😂

    • @jericlamb2676
      @jericlamb2676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Im here lol

    • @mallayadiggs5181
      @mallayadiggs5181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes lol but we got to be patient and serve the Lord while in the waiting season don’t go looking for him he will come to us ! 😊

    • @Samuel-qc7kg
      @Samuel-qc7kg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mallaya Diggs nah, if you find someone who is valuable then try to go after him. I've seen many women lose good men to another woman for waiting for him. And remember, not all of men are perfect. Try to help em. ;)

    • @gilbertcuevas9944
      @gilbertcuevas9944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right here

    • @perpetuant5452
      @perpetuant5452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boaz wasn't perfect by any stretch of the imagination. Study your bible and letting your emotional itching ear desires fool you.

  • @cookiebaby27
    @cookiebaby27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    A man that finds a wife, Finds a good thing.( man) (finds)!

    • @ashleyseay2871
      @ashleyseay2871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Women was made for man not the other way around and a women might have plans for a date with someone they are already with but it's the man's job to begin the relationship

    • @isabellahigueras5347
      @isabellahigueras5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyseay2871 haha random

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashleyseay2871
      Woman was made for man , but in this day and age it is not about the man anymore because now it is women who are in control.
      That is why everything is screwed to the core , from dating to marriage ( or what we call marriage today !) .

    • @ashleyseay2871
      @ashleyseay2871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@framboise595 well regardless of this sad day and age God rules and expectations never change the husband is the authority over the wife but He must know that God is ultimate authority so the woman can submit to a man who is submitted to God and she is submitted to God 1st of course.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ashleyseay2871
      God's rules never change but WE have changed them .
      It is now all about the woman because so called Christians pander to women like never before .

  • @momalisa503
    @momalisa503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Ladies please don't let the word submit scare you. If you marry a man that truly loves God , submitting to him is a piece of cake. I have been married to my Boaz for 23 years (together 33) and I am as happy today as I was the day I meet him. I am more than happy to submit to him because he is a provider, protecter, he definitely chased me and made me a priority. Get to know the man not the fantasy.

    • @beingroxy
      @beingroxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "Get to know the man not the fantasy!"🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Moma Lisa
      IF the man is like this or like that ..not like this and not like that
      Except that wives submit not if but EVEN IF.
      See the difference ?
      Submitting comes naturally to us women . But not to husbands . To lovers , to males in the workplace etc...
      Because Satan has taken plethoras of women outside the home (the protection ) in order to let them be "free" and taste the world , sleep around and have their ways .

    • @hudsonbartley2493
      @hudsonbartley2493 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All of thi5 goes against their femini5t Je5ebel 5pirit.

  • @joyven8591
    @joyven8591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    My mom actually made a list of what she wanted in a man and she prayed to God for him all the time. She almost got married to a man she did not pray for. Then one day, my dad saw my mom’s picture. Then, it was like the Holy Spirit guided my dad to my mom. My dad pursued my mom then. I’m really thankful for their story because our living God answers prayers and He will prepare a spouse for you. May God bless you ❤️☺️

    • @nadinegomez8858
      @nadinegomez8858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did he have all the qualities your mom prayed for though?

    • @joyven8591
      @joyven8591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@nadinegomez8858 He actually did. He is a God-fearing man, tall, handsome, kind, loyal, trustworthy, and more. It's crazy how God works because my mom already had a fiance at the time, but her and her fiance made an agreement that if he (he is a seaman) did not come back within a month, then it's not meant to be and that's exactly when my dad started pursuing my mom. Make sure your future spouse is kind to your family. God bless :)

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joyven8591 how have things been for you?

  • @Blue_Spirit7
    @Blue_Spirit7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Guess who failed at *all* these, and then lost the girl that God told me i would marry. But God told me that he will give me another chance, so thanks for making a clear video that helped me open my eyes to the things i did wrong, and how to fix them.

    • @BeybladeDbzFan
      @BeybladeDbzFan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      emma cruz how do you know god wanted you to marry your ex ? I’m extremely curious

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      emma cruz we serve the God of another chance! I’d love has missed you then let’s pray it comes back around even stronger!

    • @Blue_Spirit7
      @Blue_Spirit7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@BeybladeDbzFan mark 11: 22-26
      I was single. And i never had a girlfriend in my life. So one day i prayed. "God, Ive never had a girlfriend, and i font want to deal with the bs of brake up and pain and braking hearts or getting heart broken so please, let all my feelings go to the person i will marry, and never divorce, that i will have a family" .I had 5 "candidates" that were my crushes, but suddenly all my crushes *disappeared* completly and all my feelings went to a friend of mine, and i was scared and tried to get my feelings go to anyone else but i couldn't, and i started to say: "God NO pls no, not her, shes ugly and... (Then suddenly i started to see the good side) shes genuine, kind, fun, pretty... Cute... Beautiful..." after that, 3 days later she confessed her feelings for me. And i was so glad and everything started to go perfect, but then i loved her more than i loved God. Then i distanced myself from God. Then i excluded God from the relationship, then (since God told me i would marry her) i took her for granted, and she tolerated me like that for 2 months, without me doing anything for the relationship, after that she broke up with me and went for someone else, i was heartbroken, confused, then God told me through his word to not give up. And each time i felt like moving on verses like: "keep does feelings in your heart", "i will fulfill my promises" and "i can do all things, have faith on whats happening" pop up in my notifications, then TH-cam notifications about how God does things through prayer and faith started to pop up. Then about how to have a closer relationship with HIM, and now out of nowhere this channel and other called "ApplyGod'sWord.com/Mark Ballenger" on how to have a good christian relationship started to give me notifications. And ive been here since like two weeks ago. Still having faith that God will bring her back to me, this time prepared to achieve marriage.

    • @Blue_Spirit7
      @Blue_Spirit7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BeybladeDbzFan its been like 6 months since the brake up, and 10 since his promise. And the relatinship lasted 4 months and 15 days

    • @Blue_Spirit7
      @Blue_Spirit7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@thebeatagp yeah. Thanks. The worst part is when I say i failed at all four... Im not kidding, specially on the 2nd point in the 3rd part. Im a virgin btw, and i plan to stay that way until marriage, but yeah i took sexual advantage of her. Along with failing at all the other 2 of the 2nd point, and point 1, 3 and 4... I feel really bad about it. But now my faith is stronger, and i read God's word to educate myself. Im reborn, I even stoped pornography addiction completly, i stopped masturbation completly and i also started working out and being more healthy by not drinking coke and eating better, because my body is a gift from God. And you have been a huge blessing, so thanks for allowing yourself to be use by God. All the glory for the things in my life, that is a miracle itself, belongs to God. I love God. And i can say it because the meaning of love is: "the genuine wish of someone's well-being" so i love everybody. Specially God.

  • @JoseHernandez-cf3ff
    @JoseHernandez-cf3ff 5 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Great video I've realized not many males know how to be men nowadays and that's not our fault most of the times but the word of God is the best teacher and what could be more important for a male than to become not only a man but a man of God aswell

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Jose Hernandez so true! Many of us did not have the best role models for this and so we had no idea of what to do and how to do it and what it looked like to be a godly man until we came in contact with Christ.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats so true.

    • @spoilthabitz5467
      @spoilthabitz5467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen sir.

    • @lynettej.6591
      @lynettej.6591 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jose Hernandez - That’s so true the word of God is the best teacher.

    • @MsLee-oh7hy
      @MsLee-oh7hy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jose Hernandez boys can’t be taught how to be a man from a women.

  • @smks8er
    @smks8er 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I'm 24 and I see everyone in my church and around me getting married and I tend to feel anxious like I'm not experiencing a phase in my life that I should but thankfully videos like these help to remind me that I need to trust in God and not let what I see dictate how I feel.

    • @christianwoman1346
      @christianwoman1346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You still young dont get married

    • @bethany3885
      @bethany3885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Read 1 Corinthians 7. It is a blessing to be single in the Lord at least for a season. :)

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be patient and focus on your relationship with God and self love

  • @essennagerry
    @essennagerry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I really want my husband to be my best friend. To understand certain things, to be on the same wavelength, to have the same vision for our lives and our futures and after all of this to really treat me well - with kindness, forgiveness, patience, generally not making a big drama of things. I really want that.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      essennagerry well, it starts with not settling for just anyone just because you desire to be married. I waited until I was 40 to marry. But I’m so glad I waited.

    • @essennagerry
      @essennagerry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@thebeatagp Thank you! I wanted to marry young but I've come to see the timing itself is not that important.

    • @socallawrence
      @socallawrence 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      #1- A man who puts god first 👍🏽

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ essennagerry
      I want a wimp , a Mr Nice Guy Guy who will never resist my childish whims and will have sex only when I WANT it. Not when HE wants it.
      Because women must be in control. Satan wants it and everyone must do his will.
      Husbands must be YES MEN who never confront our potential rebellion.
      Isaiah 3:12 WOMEN are running the show . It is a CURSE .
      Take a deeper look at the Bible and you will notice that it is the WOMAN made fort he man , not the man for the woman.
      Marriage in the Bible is about the man first . Proverbs 31 cannot be clearer.
      You have NO PROVERBS 31 equivalent for us women .

    • @child_of_weakness7600
      @child_of_weakness7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isabelle M I don’t think that’s what the person meant at all, both the husband and wife should have good qualities. A woman shouldn’t settle for a man who isn’t Godly just because the woman is “less”. We are less than God but God treats us with great care, so anyone who has authority should be using it well as Jesus does with us.

  • @thegenerals8437
    @thegenerals8437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    A godly man pursue purpose. He knows who he is, where he came from, the reason he exist, what he can do and where he is going.

    • @thegenerals8437
      @thegenerals8437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ladies, Genesis chapter two, state the qualities of a Godly man. It's discover it together

    • @jessemontgomery491
      @jessemontgomery491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I def agree every time I’m on my purpose it’s always a pretty girl trying to thro me off the one who keeps u on track is the one it’s just most dudes cry babies want a girl so bad and don’t know what they want in life

  • @susuabc
    @susuabc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Where was this lesson when I was 14?! Teach it brother! Guys you better listen! . . and teach your sons!! Yes, Boaz was the MAN!
    1. Pursue, 2. Protect, 3. Provides, 4. Priortizes his woman

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boaz did not pursue Ruth ! He did not prioritise her !

  • @celiwemalindi
    @celiwemalindi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    A God fearing man who will lead me spiritually. Amen🙌🏾

  • @_heyimbritt
    @_heyimbritt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I look through comments on post like this and I ask myself why are so many Believers not married. Why is it taking us just as long to get into marriage like those of the world who’s values do not reflect that which we believe. In my opinion more Christians who desire marriage should be married. The Bible does not call for the extra long engagements, fancy weddings, expensive rings. Paul says it’s better to marry than to burn. While I do believe it is very important to use wisdom and seek God while searching for a spouse. I often wonder more of us are not married. If you scroll through comments on videos like this you constantly see men an women saying they desire a spouse. Anyway I think that’s something to ponder and an observation I’ve been having lately. Great video!

    • @beingroxy
      @beingroxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can attest that it could be because God wants relationships/marriages to last and work for His Glory. He doesnt want to produce microwaveable marriages or relationships these things must be "cooked and baked" for some time that way it will have a Lasting effect in comparison to what the world is pushing out. The worlds way is microwaveable and tend to not last or hold. God is INTENTIONAL and he wants things done in a specifc way. Could be the reason it seems many in the church are single. God is trying to raise up Kingdom Marriages not fickle things. Grant it some folks are stubborn, have high and unreasonable expectations, and harbor worldly mindset on love and marriages, so it may take longer so God allows them to remain single to teach them . Nancy leigh demoss was single up until 58 i believe and recently got married maybe about couple yrs now and i dont think she thought she would have been married but God still had that for her! So we mustn't lose hope! But i agree with what you're saying too!🙏🏾💜

    • @socallawrence
      @socallawrence 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In the right season and TIMING, God will bring that special person

    • @eugeniedean8458
      @eugeniedean8458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree!! There are so many single women/men in the church which I find disturbing as well.

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      @olusegunmokuolu1409 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @michaelalbertson7457
      @michaelalbertson7457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As the gospel preached in churches goes more and more toward what we can get in this life, we're not learning it's us who need to change, so we're always looking for someone who is what we want them to be. But we don't change. As God is love and His ways are love, if we leave the true gospel by the way we live our lives, we can't expect to see love of God from others, because we're living according to feelings. If we live according to the Spirit, God will bless us.

  • @Afronadian
    @Afronadian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This just moves me to tears. I love a kind good hearted man that got his love from God.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      More emotional insanity that leaves behind the real reason why God made marriage.

  • @palmtreealley
    @palmtreealley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Growing from boys to men is a lot and a lot of us men don’t know how to grow. Great video. Share with a friend.

  • @reynabinny2945
    @reynabinny2945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is Perfect! Thanks 💕
    Pursue
    Protect
    Provide
    Prioritize

  • @cocomac5232
    @cocomac5232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good info and I totally agree with it!! Ladies, don’t settle, please!

  • @janet9712
    @janet9712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this. You are speaking the truth. A true Godly man. May God bless you for spreading this message. I hope more men will abide by what the Bible says and help implement a foundation for a strong marriage.

  • @winsomelorainepeter6773
    @winsomelorainepeter6773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you brother Allen! This video is very helpful. And I agree that these are important things to look for in a man, when considering marriage. So wonderful that you used Boaz as an example. Well, one of the reasons I am still single, is because I did not meet a Christian male like this, yet. But I remain hopeful that even at 54, I will be connected to such a male soon. Thank you and God bless!

  • @zurienvandermerwe8294
    @zurienvandermerwe8294 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man knows what he is talking about! Great video!

  • @destinixshakur
    @destinixshakur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I believe i found my godly man 🥺🥺😭🙏🏾 hes rough around the edges but he meets a lot of these traits

  • @anissaandrews8103
    @anissaandrews8103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a really great video. I have always loved the story of Boaz and Ruth.

  • @toniamccrimon350
    @toniamccrimon350 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are preaching to me!! Thank you for this teaching!! I needed it.

  • @Christian_Girl120
    @Christian_Girl120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Good luck. I'm 53 and can't seem to find him. Maybe God is keeping me single. At the same time I am not giving in to the wrong men anymore all in the name of trying to find the right man. I want to honor God this time and respect for myself.

    • @grumpysquid
      @grumpysquid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amy P being single isn’t sinful unless we cannot control our passions, as Paul writes in 1 Cor.7. What can we say? Married folks crave single life and singles long to find “the one”. The heart and eyes of a human are never full but always coveting when there may be other paths God is trying to lead us onto. That is, of course, not applicable for all situations. God bless

    • @Christian_Girl120
      @Christian_Girl120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@grumpysquid Yes that's true. Right now God is having me do other things to honor him.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@grumpysquid
      In this day and age we could not care less about God's will for young women at all.
      Nothing is more scorned and debased than Sound doctrine and so called chrsitian women just do what they feel and want.
      They are not married anymore , they sleep around , they kep saying like proud fools that they have ownership of their bodies . EVEN WITHIN MARRIAGE.
      And those wimps called husbands today are told that it is ABUSE to let them know that they have no control of their bodies anymore .If you see what I mean.
      Is it any wonder that Satan wins today ? Marriages are a joke today , controlled by women's emotions , will and whims
      MEN's will does not exist anymore .
      And Satan is happier than ever.

    • @EdMcCornhole
      @EdMcCornhole 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@framboise595 speak for yourself and your own experience. No need to paint the whole town red.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EdMcCornhole
      I don't speak for myself but for what I notice.

  • @missweenieboys2
    @missweenieboys2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Great video and message! I would like to see the other side of the story with women.

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YES

    • @akuaaddo4809
      @akuaaddo4809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He has one

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ weenieboys 2
      You can wait until the end of the world because fake Christianity is all about woman today as if it was the man who was made for the woman .
      Women are NOT taught their duties anymore and are portrayed as little victims .
      The tyranny of the weaker is at work .
      Satan is behind all those watered down teachings that do NOT teach wives to submit FIRST .
      Men are emasculated in the name of " love" .
      If they get married , it is in order to avoid sexual immorality but they are denied sex in marriage and do nothing against it !!!!!!
      How can it be so ?
      They are unable to reassert their authority anymore .
      Totally unable .
      They are not men anymore .

    • @Poop-sr9sn
      @Poop-sr9sn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@framboise595 I’m surprised it’s coming from a woman. I never thought a woman would be this open minded to the truth

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Poop-sr9sn
      Well , Christians are supposed to love the truth and be truth seekers.

  • @jacquelinependleton8584
    @jacquelinependleton8584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was awesome! I got my Boaz!

  • @lylianramirez5557
    @lylianramirez5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A genuine godly man.. What a blessing from the Lord

  • @a7dv7en7t
    @a7dv7en7t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this. This is really good energy. There are a lot of things I need to work on, but doing my best to be this type of man.
    Also, subscribed!

  • @JpFerrier
    @JpFerrier 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video my guy! Great work and this is much appreciated in time of need and perseverance.

  • @ble22eda86
    @ble22eda86 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're on point with this message my brother!

  • @christinabennett8669
    @christinabennett8669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your a blessing thank you God for this word from a Godly man Amen stay blessed u and family ❤️🙏

  • @VlogCity
    @VlogCity 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the most solid video on what men of God should look like in a dating/potential marriage scenario

  • @ryanspencerlauderdale687
    @ryanspencerlauderdale687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff. I would like to see a video on finding a woman to marry, now that we have covered the men.

  • @leapyearchild7251
    @leapyearchild7251 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Just sent this to my 21 year old daughter.

  • @libbyboykin4735
    @libbyboykin4735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow confirmation is real! I'm so glad I found this video. Thank you Jesus! My son's father has been trying so hard for us to be back together, to the point he is now willing to jump into marriage. We have been going back and forth as to why I just won't marry him for months now. I would love for my son to have me and his father in the same household, but we are not on the same level spiritually and it's so evident that he can not lead me. He says he "believes" in Christ but it's so obvious that Christ is not head of his life. Thanks for the great video!

  • @nicklasbrady4726
    @nicklasbrady4726 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The pattern is good. Great message

  • @kekeyaflorence5637
    @kekeyaflorence5637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr Allan I have no idea how I found yo page but now I believe God did it for me,not only this video but others too and trust me iam blessed,thanks so much for the time and effort you put into it,blessings * Iam a Ruth waiting for a Boaz*,much love🙏

  • @madisonh6860
    @madisonh6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.I hope 1 day I find a god fearing man like that..you are speaking facts bro

  • @AlmasiDodson
    @AlmasiDodson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was phenomenal !!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

  • @yvettejones6573
    @yvettejones6573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, right on time for me too see. I just had that talk with my Heavenly Father. Thank you 😊

  • @csimpsonjtd
    @csimpsonjtd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right on time message!

  • @merdadl55
    @merdadl55 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great message thanks for the advice God bless

  • @nancycordero-severance7661
    @nancycordero-severance7661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen brother. Thank you for the teaching.

  • @LadyPizzaCrust
    @LadyPizzaCrust 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some major context was missing. Bias actually didn’t make the first move. Ruth did. Ruth was the one who knew who’s field to work in. She knew that boaz would have a duty to marry her since he was related to her husband. She pursued him first. Then, eventually her came to respect her and her situation enough that he pursued her.

  • @ecarolyne5287
    @ecarolyne5287 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.. This is just super... Thanks for sharing🙂

  • @ingridapollon645
    @ingridapollon645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are great tips! Amen!!!

  • @MyLifeGNWhyte
    @MyLifeGNWhyte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This vid has the scriptures quoted on the screen. I like that

  • @ruthanjalina1487
    @ruthanjalina1487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well explained💐👍, so spritual 🙏😊

  • @kyhozzie753
    @kyhozzie753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man of God thank you for this. I celebrate the God in you

  • @bernielajoie4887
    @bernielajoie4887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the wonderful message.

  • @sandrasmyleojums7956
    @sandrasmyleojums7956 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very profound! Thank you

  • @williesmoothcattscott1667
    @williesmoothcattscott1667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach doc!! Good video!....

  • @beekind6267
    @beekind6267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful....💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙂
    God is awesome!!!! 🤗💕

  • @stevenenciso5023
    @stevenenciso5023 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you brother, I have some things I have failed to keep up doing.

  • @praisegloria6769
    @praisegloria6769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice 👍🏻 was really blessed. It’s very much true.

  • @yolandastrickling882
    @yolandastrickling882 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol Boaz really smooth, he finally laid down with Ruth really slick

  • @tannertesseneer621
    @tannertesseneer621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is a video that I need to follow thank you and have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tanner tesseneer merry Christmas to you as well friend.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christmas is not more godly than what the rant of the man in this video .
      Christmas and the video sounds godly on the surface but in fact it is devilish.

  • @llewis4227
    @llewis4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your videos, we need help , marriages and families are in big trouble! We need a marriage crusade! A Rent out stadiums crusade!

    • @carlamarie8776
      @carlamarie8776 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      D. Lewis Amen

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      D. Lewis amen to that! We definitely need help.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ L Lewis
      Marriages and families are in big troubles because of WOMEN .
      But of course , the truth must be silenced ...

  • @riahtunes2125
    @riahtunes2125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First time watching your videos. As a christian women all I can say is SPOT ON!

  • @moisesestarlintaveras6848
    @moisesestarlintaveras6848 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice man God bless you.

  • @ourforeverfamily2259
    @ourforeverfamily2259 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Teaching!

  • @janethemerling6378
    @janethemerling6378 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    O my God thank you so much God bless you for all your video I love all your video ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽

  • @jessicagiles2941
    @jessicagiles2941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this!! I am waiting on A Godly man to walk into my life and i know what look for!

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice!

  • @jackiejennings7374
    @jackiejennings7374 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video!

  • @Graceforlivingyoutube
    @Graceforlivingyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽this word is sooo much needed, YES, man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body, even in marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻, our man should provide, protect and love is unconditionally the same way that we obey them. And patient is a key 🔑 .💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽God richly bless you for this powerful word.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Grace For Living
      Marriage is about sex first and foremost.
      We get married in order to be free to have sex without indulging in immorality.
      But who cares today ?
      SATAN wins .

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Grace For Living
      "man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body , even in marriage "
      Well , wll dear. If he was only interested in her body , why would he marry her ? There are so many women who sleep around now you see what I mean ?
      Sorry but your words make no sense.

  • @robinrobertson8690
    @robinrobertson8690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great teaching :-) Triple AMEN Boaz is needed glory

  • @wpmarie
    @wpmarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praying for this kind of man 🙏

  • @toridhoward
    @toridhoward 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Why is this so hard for some men to figure this out?? This is the perfect man!!! YASS!!!

  • @zelovereigns7449
    @zelovereigns7449 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this awesome information🥰

  • @danidijkshoorn487
    @danidijkshoorn487 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach it brother!

  • @eboniarmstrong4401
    @eboniarmstrong4401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, Allen!

  • @marilynjoe5620
    @marilynjoe5620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very, very informative!!

  • @Acts-hw1zs
    @Acts-hw1zs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you , because honestly as a single woman walking on in the Lord I need to stop entertaining attention from worldly men and need to guard my heart. And know I what godly characteristics to look for in a man.

  • @kerensagrigson5410
    @kerensagrigson5410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is gold :)

  • @fayecollins3001
    @fayecollins3001 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU HAVE GOT A LOT OF WISDOM FROM GOD.. GREAT TEACHING. GOD BLESS 🙏

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much +Faye Collins, I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thanks again for taking the time to watch. God bless +Faye Collins,

  • @jikalope230
    @jikalope230 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you man love the videos

  • @marksmall8881
    @marksmall8881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice- thank you. I have been losing sleep over a lady lately.

  • @valerietaylor71
    @valerietaylor71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice

  • @SirMwangiMunyiri
    @SirMwangiMunyiri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, I'm actually working on myself to be the best husband for my soulmate, we've been together for a year and I really want us to get married. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I thank God for blessing me with her. I just want to be the best man for my sweetheart and these videos are helping. Thank you

  • @traquilasmith2275
    @traquilasmith2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God will bless me with a godly man Boaz will find me when im ready and at the right place and time. Thank you God and allen this great message helps me you answer my questions to clearly i like how you refer to the bible scriptures all the answers are in the bible thats why im studying the bible. 👏🙏😊

  • @keciadejear8670
    @keciadejear8670 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yassss!!! So difficult to fun into a leading Godly man! I know my husband is being worked on just like im an by God thru Jesus Christ! I cant wait! Naw..yes i can..lol because I know he will come in Gods divine timing!

  • @niecybaby1960
    @niecybaby1960 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good stuff!

  • @db4419
    @db4419 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really. Good. Video. I have alot to work on....

  • @lornaswasey4687
    @lornaswasey4687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad you feel comfortable with me,I feel safe and comfortable with you

  • @nikkinyokabi6111
    @nikkinyokabi6111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boaazzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!! Where you at?? 😹🙌

  • @brandonthompson6389
    @brandonthompson6389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good stuff, Amen!!!

  • @nay9nay
    @nay9nay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where are you Boaz? Lol, patiently waiting (maybe...lol) Lord, give us patience even when we've felt we've been. Our standards are not high.

  • @RyanArgueRealestate
    @RyanArgueRealestate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good!

  • @Shannon0470
    @Shannon0470 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I had heard this BEFORE I got married.
    But I didn't, so... Love the one your with. 🙏🏼

    • @christianwoman1346
      @christianwoman1346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you didnt marry you will then complain about being single still smh

  • @Tuhdy
    @Tuhdy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes Lord!!!! I'm praying for God to continue to work on me so that I'll be ready for my husband when he arrives! I pray for a God fearing man, a Kingdom minded man, a provider, a protector, a leader and a man that puts God above all things, in Jesus' name I pray!!!! 💜🙏🏽💜

  • @specialkaye3059
    @specialkaye3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely Good Qualities
    1. Pursue
    2. Protect (create a safe environment)
    3. One who provides
    4. Prioritize

  • @mrsmaealtema5562
    @mrsmaealtema5562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Please pray for me to connect to my husband soon. Thank you brother Allen P.

    • @Roshtema
      @Roshtema 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sorry if im wrong but is that him in your picture!?

  • @carolyngundimi
    @carolyngundimi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying for the right man

  • @sarahdeleon6171
    @sarahdeleon6171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I randomly saw this video. There some points in my life that I felt desperate to find a Godly man. Rushing myself sometimes lead me to wrong relationship and I really thank God for this video that enlightened me to continue to seek the Lord and wait for that right moment if it's God will to give me a Godly man who genuinely loves God first, and a man who pursues the woman that he loves and knows his purpose why he wants to be in a relationship in the first place.
    So ladies don't be in a rushed and wait for God's perfect timing, seek God first it is so nice to be loved by
    King, because we are God's princesses and knows our worth. God always wants the best for us.
    thank you Brother Allen that you'd been used by God to remind single ladies and mens to pursue a Godly relationship. Godbless you!
    greetings from Philippines 🙂🙂🙂

  • @AlltheWorldsAStage444
    @AlltheWorldsAStage444 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Thank you Alan

  • @Myliu903
    @Myliu903 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful video tackling this topic. Many marriages end in divorce due to these such attributes listed not being utilized properly. It's just as you mentioned with women and men not evaluating these aspects before a marriage that ends it in crumbles. Also, it's tough to find a Godly man out in the world as so many are more covered in earthliness. However, there are still many Godly men in the world, so don't give up ladies, and of course, have patience. The Lord has a plan for everyone