5 SURPRISING Things The Bible Teaches About SEX!

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  • In this video, I discuss 5 surprising things that the Bible teaches about sex. Sex is a beautiful gift from God to married couples, but the enemy is seeking to pervert sex for his own agenda. This video will discuss some key things that the Bible teaches about sex. This is the first video in our series on Biblical sexuality for the month of August.
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  • @randallorr3730
    @randallorr3730 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +296

    I have been married to my wife for 36 year and I can tell you I am still intoxicated. She is so wonderful, so beautiful. I cannot get enough. I am thankful I had the brains to listen when God put her in my life. Marriage is awesome!

    • @godsbabeborn-again5945
      @godsbabeborn-again5945 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Thank you so much for your comment because we see a lot of people demonizing marriage and calling it names like "prison". From a single lady waiting for a husband, your comment is very much appreciated. May God continue to bless your marriage and grant you and your wife many more blissful years together. ❤️

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Praise God! I'm just so happy for you too and that you're still Intoxicated by her that's amazing! God bless you and continue to bless your marriage🙌👏🎊🙇🏼‍♀️💜

    • @cristhianflores674
      @cristhianflores674 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Lord bless your marriage. I'm waiting for mine.

    • @geralinethomas6729
      @geralinethomas6729 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Long as this your first wife if this your second or third wife and your first wife still living you're living in adultery hope this your first wife can't remarry unless first wife dead

    • @cristhianflores674
      @cristhianflores674 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@geralinethomas6729 Yeah or unless The 1st wife committed adultery against then he can remarry but with another believer.

  • @Christian_Girl120
    @Christian_Girl120 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +363

    I struggled with sexual immorality for years. But now I understand and have told God that I don't want sex unless it's within a Christian marriage. If I can't have that, then I don't want it, because I realize it's immoral outside of a marriage. Please pray for me that a good man will be given to me from God. Thank you.

    • @deerivers6957
      @deerivers6957 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      The answer which you seek is found at the cross

    • @fideleamani4750
      @fideleamani4750 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      May God grant your prayer.

    • @rachele6727
      @rachele6727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I said a prayer for you, sister! It's in His time and not our own!

    • @kinggeorge111
      @kinggeorge111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Prayers up!!! May God bless you with the perfect one!!!❤🙏🏾

    • @godsbabeborn-again5945
      @godsbabeborn-again5945 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same, sis. I'm praying for a husband every other day. And not just anyone, but a man who loves God more than life itself. If he loves God, obeying God is a given and we'll both not have infidelity issues and the like. Cheating is one thing I'm not dealing with. I don't do it, I expect my partner to be on the same page.

  • @rainbo1030
    @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +356

    I'm single, and I abstain. Waiting for the man God has for me who is doing the same.

    • @hpinc101
      @hpinc101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Same… at 38… with God, its not too late!

    • @lashontemason9339
      @lashontemason9339 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Same here been waiting for 20 years, even if it doesn't happen God is still good

    • @crazyibel
      @crazyibel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      same, I'm 33 and even if I abstain till my 90th birthday that's okay.

    • @michelleadebiyi2341
      @michelleadebiyi2341 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dirt_reborn 😊 God hasn't sent me the right man.

  • @godsbabeborn-again5945
    @godsbabeborn-again5945 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Praying for a God-loving husband over here in South Africa. I'm 34 and not getting any younger. Your additional prayers will be highly appreciated, fellow Christians.

    • @Misteddreams
      @Misteddreams 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      26 year old fellow South African waiting on the same - I will be praying for you, sister in Christ! 🙏 Remember that the timeline we comprehend in our minds is not the same as the Lord's - His will supercedes our understanding and does not forsake us, but rather builds us up into vessels of honour through which every good work He planned out for us in advance is brought to completion, through your full and utter submission to Him. 🤍
      You are neither too "old" nor too spent, so hold on to the trust and willing obedience -the faith - that you have for the Lord, and His fruit will be multiplied from the Vine that is Our Lord and Saviour.
      HE is restoring and healing areas in you that need to be surrendered to Him in order for the process of sanctification, perfection in Christ, to take place. So do not be disheartened, and gladly rejoice in all the trials and difficulties you face now in your singleness.
      It will strengthen your personal relationship with your Saviour, Jesus Christ, and allow you to stand upon solid foundations in a world that is slowly crumbling to the seductive ways of Satan.
      God Almighty is with you, so take one step at a time knowing that He understands your desires and hears your prayers.
      It is in His hands.

  • @labelledojima
    @labelledojima 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    The struggle against sexual immorality is real. May the holy spirit help us and our firm resolve to obey God's word by His grace. Amen!!

    • @user-vm5yk2js6w
      @user-vm5yk2js6w 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its a complete unnecessary struggle.

    • @flap7024
      @flap7024 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@user-vm5yk2js6w?

    • @antoniovrgoc3291
      @antoniovrgoc3291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@user-vm5yk2js6wmaybe for you 😂
      Listen, we're born sinners according to the Bible so... This is sin which most of people have strongly manifested... Sin of the flash, body! Only way you can minimise it is through the teachings of the Bible...
      Less and less... that is the point! Never perfect but still saved!

    • @J_Hayward
      @J_Hayward 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @antonio, better to marry than to burn 🙏

    • @user-vm5yk2js6w
      @user-vm5yk2js6w 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@antoniovrgoc3291 Well its not sex that kills you , its declaring sex as a sin that kills you ;)
      Your bible is only 3000 years old, humans like us (homo sapiens) exist since 300,000 years. In none of the millions of artefacts, cave paintings, scriptures or any other testimony in the 297,000 years before the bible, your “one and only” god with with a narrow minded sexual morality was ever mentioned.
      Your version of a “one and only” god with a narrow minded sexual morality is an invention only 3000 years old.
      One day your religion will disappear like all other religions, humans then will still go on existing as they did before : )
      Have a great day : )

  • @LaEsoterica
    @LaEsoterica 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    I'm single and abstaining. What people rarely discuss is the struggle to avoid immorality. The struggle is real! 😅 However, I believe that abstaining will bring me and my future spouse closer together.
    One other benefit is that it weeds out the people who are only looking for... Physical pleasure. They, for the most part, won't stick around.

    • @NovusIgnis
      @NovusIgnis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's my thought exactly. God gave us this command for a reason. On a practical level, it helps to eliminate sexual urges from the equation. There are so many people that get married simply because the sex is good, but that is nothing to build a life or a future on.
      It also helps to discover liars, not just people that won't stick around. I'm a man and the two girls Tha tive previously dated were obviously looking for me to save them from their bad situations and move them into a nice house where they could be away from their family. We had established from the beginning that there wasn't going to be any sex until marriage, and then after they pressed the issue and saw I wouldn't budge, I caught them cheating.
      Tursn out if people want something other than sex from you, abstaining from sex just means they'll go elsewhere and make it easier to catch their infidelity.

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NovusIgnis amen 🙏🏼 🙌 👏

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly! It does weed out the people who are only looking for physical pleasure. There are so many "Christians " out there who don't have a problem with sex before marriage. Well, the Bible says that people who say they are Christians and still believe sexual sin is OK are Christians by name only. When you truly give your life to Christ you TURN from your sins. You forsake the old man. You walk in Christ as a new creation.

    • @SK-le4lj
      @SK-le4lj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I got hit with the "it's okay, what we have is deeper than sex" just to find out he's getting it elsewhere lol you have to be so so careful

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @SK-le4lj been there done that! It's very hard. I'm sure there are girls that may do that with they guys who are trying to abstain too. I think there are churches that are not fully preaching the word of God. So the singles don't really get all the facts about how God wants us to wait until we're married to have sex. That's the problem! They're not being taught what the Bible says. The pastor is just gloss over the bad stuff and preaching the Good fluffy God loves you stuff which is good but people need to hear the whole Bible the whole truth! Then they would not be getting into sexual sin

  • @sebastianandvince
    @sebastianandvince 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    I’ve been married to my wife for almost 7 years and love her so much! God is good and blessed me with her and our son.

  • @JesusIsKing_JesusIsLord
    @JesusIsKing_JesusIsLord 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Thank you, brother Allen. Before I married my husband, my mother told me, "Never deprive your husband from his needs, because the devil never sleeps and there's always another woman just waiting for him." I took those words to heart and as I learn more and more about God, I can clearly see how His word is a beautiful guide for life and marriage.

    • @cardcounter21
      @cardcounter21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      _"I can clearly see how His word is a beautiful guide for life and marriage"_
      Unfortunately, Jesus disagreed when he brought a sword to turn families against each other while commanding a man to hate his wife along with all of his family!

    • @aebrae4896
      @aebrae4896 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ​@@cardcounter21taken out of context

    • @cardcounter21
      @cardcounter21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aebrae4896 I would appreciate you giving me the correct context.

    • @aebrae4896
      @aebrae4896 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@cardcounter21 The main point of it is to prioritize God before everything else.

    • @cardcounter21
      @cardcounter21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aebrae4896 So why did Jesus specifically talk about 'hate' rather than 'prioritizing'? He mentioned nothing whatsoever about priority (it was desperate apologists who came up with that idea)!

  • @enigmathegrayman2953
    @enigmathegrayman2953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I’m a single man and I abstain.

  • @thecumminsfamily2035
    @thecumminsfamily2035 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    As a married woman I have read these scriptures & thank God it has given me so much clarity in my marriage & has made it so much more enjoyable knowing God is the author 🙌🏽 You always come through Allen! I appreciate your work & time.

  • @TheGospelGuy
    @TheGospelGuy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    This might sound weird, but I really love this topic of biblical sex.
    Its something that needs to be spoken about but it's shyed away from and few people talk about it.
    Thank you Brother Allen 🙏

    • @delawarecop
      @delawarecop 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, Ray Comfort always asks his interviewees if they have had sex before marriage....
      It's a rhetorical question, because the Bible clearly teaches that Consensual Sex is marriage, so that there can never ever be a case of sex before marriage.

    • @TheGospelGuy
      @TheGospelGuy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@delawarecop Just because two people consent doesn't make it okay, if it's not within the walls of marriage, it's fornication. That's a sin, but marriage itself is not a sin.
      You can't have sex before marriage, and the Bible clearly teaches that.

    • @TheGospelGuy
      @TheGospelGuy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@delawarecop Marriage is a legal contract, not an act of sexual relations.

    • @delawarecop
      @delawarecop 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheGospelGuy "Marriage is a legal contract, not an act of sexual relations."
      LOL, so says you, which is why you cannot provide a Bible verse to support your delusion. So now I will provide a Bible verse that proves that you are a DELUSIONAL LIAR!
      1Cor 6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? For two, saith He, shall be one flesh.

    • @delawarecop
      @delawarecop 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheGospelGuy - "You can't have sex before marriage, and the Bible clearly teaches that."
      LOL, somebody forgot to tell Isaac and Rebekah your interpretation of Gods Law, huh? They never got Married by a Pastor in a Church, nor before a prophet, nor did they get a license from any Government. Nope, they went into Isaac's tent and made love and Rebekah became Isaac's wife.
      You are a delusional fool who is teaching unbiblical lies - aka traditions of men.

  • @YTC06
    @YTC06 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    This is so good brother Allen... as a man I have struggled with sexual immortality before I was married, in my first marriage, and now in my current marriage.. I've truly had to repent and turn from sexual immortality because its truly a disastrous sin.. Thank GOD for his mercy... Peace to everyone trying to live righteous like our Lord & Savior

    • @MichaelVoize
      @MichaelVoize 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You mean immorality?

    • @YTC06
      @YTC06 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MichaelVoize yea brother crazy spell check lol

    • @MichaelVoize
      @MichaelVoize 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@YTC06 nothing bro, I was just confused lol

  • @gladyshicks6539
    @gladyshicks6539 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Great message Allen. One other and most important regarding "sex" outside of marriage is the damage it does to children conceived. Many are foster and adopted. Not orphans but foster and adoption. It protects the entire persons!

    • @jayrooh
      @jayrooh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well said!

    • @bonnyblue9399
      @bonnyblue9399 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not to mention that one getting diseased will most likely ruin any opportunity of marriage.

    • @madewhole-ev4uy
      @madewhole-ev4uy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Orr killed in the womb cause apparently wantedness dictates value

  • @pollymcherry
    @pollymcherry 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Thank you brother Allen for talking about this subject. I struggled with sexual immorality for a long time. My life is different now. I didn't realize that I was binding myself to different men every time I was in a dating relationship. I was not following what the Bible instructed and I believed the lies that was mentioned to me men and the devil. I am single and I made the decision 6 years ago to no longer have any sexual relations with a man until I get married. The devil is trying to break me but I am standing my ground by reading the Bible, prayer, and talking to mature Bible believing sisters. Please pray for me.

    • @vestavesta687
      @vestavesta687 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Please hang in there my sister. God’s grace is sufficient to keep you. I too went down that road but the Lord cleaned me up. I will be praying for you

    • @rachele6727
      @rachele6727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Praying for you!! 💖🙏

    • @delawarecop
      @delawarecop 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Bible very clearly teaches that Consensual Sex is Marriage - aka you are already married to the fist man that you consented to have sex with. Once you repent, then you get baptised and then are a new creature in Christ, where you can then wait for a man who consents to spending the rest of his life with you, then you have sex, then you are married in the eyes of God. What the church or Pastor or Government says is irrelevant, because the Bible says consensual sex = marriage!

    • @deniselandmesser9966
      @deniselandmesser9966 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May the strength of Jesus be on you.🙏

    • @reginaldjackson4176
      @reginaldjackson4176 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good Evening. The more sex that you have, you will start to become a better person.

  • @eion-ch3pn
    @eion-ch3pn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I have been struggling with sexual immortality all my life. I need prayers to be free from this sin

  • @4knewt505
    @4knewt505 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is why I'm glad your channel is here! Great teaching and very convicting! I think I'll save it to my great sermon playlist like I have so many of your videos.

  • @Lollipop.er42
    @Lollipop.er42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I remember when I was a teenager thinking that any and all sex is sinful, but God can use to create families. Thank you for sharing this teaching

    • @josephbrandenburg4373
      @josephbrandenburg4373 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Augustine thought something along those lines. It makes sense given his own personal story, but he was wrong.

    • @rainbo1030
      @rainbo1030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sex is only a sin if it is outside of marriage. God uses sexual pleasure between a married man and woman to create families.

  • @antonego7950
    @antonego7950 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Allen, this made me appreciate your previous video about your own personal struggle with sex even after getting saved and how you overcame. I think that will help a lot of people :D

  • @RealBenAnderson
    @RealBenAnderson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I LOVE the tastebuds analogy! My wife and I both thank God for giving us the ability to taste our food, and others we know act like we are crazy! But He didn’t have to give us this gift. He gave it to us because He loves us and loves when we are happy!

  • @jeffreyjohnson7784
    @jeffreyjohnson7784 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen brother Allen. Keep the word coming

  • @seanyonthemic
    @seanyonthemic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I remember waiting for patiently for years in college (a Bible college) and seeing all my friends get married and so on…and then several years after college passed by and I gave in and failed in many ways…
    The Lord is still working on me now as a minister of the gospel….

  • @Sunbeachpalmtrees1
    @Sunbeachpalmtrees1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great teaching Alan!!!!! ✝️♥️♥️♥️✝️🕊 needed this!!

  • @TheKevinWelch
    @TheKevinWelch 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Oh Allen. If only the Christian /church community had been more like you down the ages, it wouldn't be in the mess it so often is.
    This is a priceless gem of a video. Looking forward to the rest in the series.
    God bless you.

  • @EmpressNatiLocs
    @EmpressNatiLocs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a blessing this video was! Much needed, thank you! Your videos are always right on time!

  • @majorphenom1
    @majorphenom1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
    His grace and mercy be upon you and your loved ones 🕊️🥛🍯

  • @rachelhayhurst-mason7846
    @rachelhayhurst-mason7846 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My life's experience has been incredibly sexually damaging. Damage in this area can never be fully overcome.
    This current culture is heinously damaging, especially to children. They need the voice of God's ways to protect them from situations that can completely wreck their lives.
    I beg everyone reading this! Protect those around you with fierce courage. Ask for God's wisdom and boldness.
    Thank you, Alan, for doing exactly that 📖

  • @briandziewa3843
    @briandziewa3843 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this series brother 🙏

  • @mg137b
    @mg137b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I am struggling with purity and also fighting sexual fantasy! I deal with trauma so it triggered me sometimes but i keep fighting and abstaining it until the Lord give me a spouse!

    • @letuwa
      @letuwa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you considered a therapist or phycologist? Marriage will not help that lust to go away. I would consider getting serious help first.

    • @jncon8013
      @jncon8013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@letuwait baffles me when people say marriage doesn’t make lust go away. If a person is lusting because they are unmarried and have no sexual outlet, then of course getting married and having that sexual outlet is going to help!!

    • @mg137b
      @mg137b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@letuwa even with therapist it still doesn't go away. And yes i go to christian therapist/counseling. This is a battle because dealing with trauma is never ending and exhausting so even going to therapist it will not go with a snap of a finger and life doesn't make it easier too it can cause trigger which i am aware of it.
      Sorry but i am insulted with the question.
      Of course i go to therapist. I am dealing with trauma after all not general life problems or sins.

    • @godsbabeborn-again5945
      @godsbabeborn-again5945 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May the Lord bless you with a Jesus-loving husband. ❤️

    • @andyjoseph4198
      @andyjoseph4198 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jncon8013if the desire for sex is natural and not influenced by outside factors such as trauma (e.g. rape) or pornography, then yes, marriage will cure the lusting. But if the source of the lust is not the natural desire for sex, but something else, something outside of that, then even marriage alone will not be enough to cure the lust, since the underlying factors will need to be addressed.

  • @BADDMIXX
    @BADDMIXX 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HalleluJah! Awesome Teaching Brother Allen!

    • @BADDMIXX
      @BADDMIXX 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      KJV - Genesis 18 : 12 “Therefore Sarah laughed within herself, saying,
      After I am waxed old shall I have PLEASURE, my lord being old also?”

  • @udohbukky557
    @udohbukky557 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow...I so much loved your teachings all the time .God bless and strengthen you

  • @jayo9142
    @jayo9142 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother Allen, thank you. I’m using this as a tool for my children. ❤

  • @ryandwayneneely
    @ryandwayneneely 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Needed to hear this message like over 20 years ago. This is awesome! 👊🏾💯

  • @2411Mal
    @2411Mal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for clearing things up.

  • @Theospeak1
    @Theospeak1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome word! And practical.

  • @ua3584
    @ua3584 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This presentaion is dtruly divine. bro, you are saving and restoring marriages as well as winning souls for Christ. To God be all the glory

  • @LesegoMokokoe
    @LesegoMokokoe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Not for Sundays only. Amen
    The Lord will forever reign.

  • @joebarniak
    @joebarniak 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a terrific video. This covers the points correctly as mentioned in the Bible.

  • @jerrys1
    @jerrys1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the honest talk we didn’t get from our parents

  • @stainedglassministry1360
    @stainedglassministry1360 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a great teaching and I want to thank you for affirming this for me. People don't understand the danger of soul ties. Thank you sir

  • @MrConocucho84
    @MrConocucho84 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is a great teaching
    Thanks brother
    This is something that need to be taught

  • @TheBravedave87
    @TheBravedave87 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    very helpful - looking 4wrd to the rest of the series

  • @Jay_N_D_Truck
    @Jay_N_D_Truck 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great breakdown of Relations. I’m going to share this with my wife so we won’t be tempted

  • @taylore22
    @taylore22 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Another great video appreciate your channel it’s truly a blessing! Praise God!

  • @larsmarkusmakabayan6735
    @larsmarkusmakabayan6735 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    nice msg brother allen, a perfect msg for me. big amen

  • @Bannerkim1
    @Bannerkim1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful message of truths.

  • @ash_posh_omg
    @ash_posh_omg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another excellent video per usual 🤩💯🛐

  • @alfredthomas4990
    @alfredthomas4990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Praise God I gave up having sex before marriage. Thank you Holy Spirit for giving me the power to overcome temptations

  • @damientaylor513
    @damientaylor513 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I lost it when you said…”I’m just gon close up shop”! 😂😂😂 Awesome video, Allen!

  • @PatriciaStephens-ou9hf
    @PatriciaStephens-ou9hf 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video. It is very helpful. I wish I had stuck as closely as possible to this DESIGN.

  • @Maanopohamba
    @Maanopohamba 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Allen.

  • @helentekeste6811
    @helentekeste6811 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are blessed, brother Allan. This video is a beautiful massage 👍❤️🙏

  • @trevorcourtney5415
    @trevorcourtney5415 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looking lean and fit AP! Keep it up!

  • @greatfilmmaker
    @greatfilmmaker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BEST TEACHING EVER!!!!

  • @B-Transformed.21
    @B-Transformed.21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this. ❤️ God is Sooooooo good!

  • @eladinfloresiii5827
    @eladinfloresiii5827 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man!!! This guy nailed it!!!!

  • @berniebrown8709
    @berniebrown8709 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is educational and spirituality beautiful

  • @seanavery6460
    @seanavery6460 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant message

  • @PascualAndres
    @PascualAndres 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good info thanks

  • @rosannapreudhommerobinson2753
    @rosannapreudhommerobinson2753 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this.

  • @josephmccray480
    @josephmccray480 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much Allen parr

  • @susanodell4538
    @susanodell4538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Could you remind me which version of the Bible you use? Always enjoy your teachings. Sometimes there's things you don't want to hear but need to. Thank you for putting yourself out there. God Bless you and your family!

  • @NiyaRison
    @NiyaRison 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video!!

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Love, compassion, and prayers are all we truly need. As a single mom, things have been tough on me. My husband passed years ago. I still miss him dearly. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m overwhelmed. Father God hear my prayers. Since covid I’ve been struggling to support my children and myself but my faith in GOD is strong! I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I’ve been struggling since. I declined because of my health conditions lupus, and heart disease. I tried to get my job back at Forsyth hospital but they are still wanting vaccinated people over the unvaccinated. I’m now waitressing Im thankful to be working but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. BUT! Even as I constantly struggle to pay my rent. And I constantly struggle to provide groceries for my children! I’m choosing to keep faith. Walking with faith is the most important thing us christian’s must do. So as I struggle I Thank you Heavenly Father and I thank you Yeshua I will keep faith! Amen! ❤

    • @dangleramosYT
      @dangleramosYT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Oh my gosh. That sounds like a lot, I will be praying for you! Hope everything gets better!

    • @flap7024
      @flap7024 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So strong!! God bless you!! I'll be praying!!

    • @NovusIgnis
      @NovusIgnis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is there any legal recourse you can take to retaliate against your previous job for refusing to take the vaccine? I think I saw that many people were suing their old workplaces for being fired after that was deemed unconstitutional.

    • @trenton9
      @trenton9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Praying for you!

    • @janettebonifacio935
      @janettebonifacio935 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes praying 🙏 for you.

  • @Vivalabridge
    @Vivalabridge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I see that he’s saying that solution to sexual temptation is marriage because we can express our desires in marriage. However, what about the fruits of the spirit such as self control? Does marriage solve lust issues? I don’t think it does. Im speaking in terms of singleness. Perhaps he speaks about in marriage.

    • @jalisazari9387
      @jalisazari9387 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is valid point. Marriage don't solve lust as many married ppl cheat and watch porn as he stated in the video. I think he was saying for the single ppl the only way to not give into fornication is marriage as scripture states. But yes it complicated because ppl still lust in marriage. I think another video on that topic would be good as well.

  • @sophiaekuban675
    @sophiaekuban675 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm 61 years old and I have never been married. I feel that I have been cheated out of a sex life. I am angry with God about my situation. It is so unfair.

    • @carolinatech
      @carolinatech 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t be upset or mad with God. Just keep praying for that man to come your way. I believe everyone deserves to be happy with their soulmate.

    • @lisacox3750
      @lisacox3750 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's fair and I understand how you feel.

    • @kwheaton122
      @kwheaton122 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely understandable. In my ignorance the best advice I can give is tell Him. When you're angry with God don't hold back. Tell Him, maybe shake your fist but be honest. He knows everything anyway, but opening that communication may help you understand. Love and caring to you brother.

    • @markaustin5269
      @markaustin5269 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm in my late 50's and never married. It's a struggle that doesn't relent. There's times I'm quite bitter about it. These videos rarely help.

  • @VenomandPoisonAdventures
    @VenomandPoisonAdventures 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is hardcore truth but thank God it heals

  • @tonihemby3876
    @tonihemby3876 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yassss we said some scriptures from Songs of Solomon as part of our unity words at our wedding ceremony instead of an unity sand demonstration. Overall, love this teaching and all the other teachings by Allen Parr!

    • @MsAliciaVictoria
      @MsAliciaVictoria 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      do you mind sharing what Scriptures You all chose to use from Songs of Solomon pls.? Shalom! Blessings!

    • @tonihemby3876
      @tonihemby3876 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MsAliciaVictoria I don't mind!! I read to him Songs of Solomon 5 :10-16
      He read to me Songs of Solomon 4:1-7 and 6:8-9

    • @MsAliciaVictoria
      @MsAliciaVictoria 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tonihemby3876 🤗Thank You kindly!! Blessings to You both! 🙂

  • @leecee9528
    @leecee9528 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I respect and appreciate A.Parr and The Beat but wish you elaborate more on the polygamy and concubines and the Rahabs in the Bible because people can view this from a hindsight approach and compare then and now. Glad you still producing A Parr continue success

  • @StrappingYoungLadam
    @StrappingYoungLadam 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This reminds me heavily of the premarital counseling my now wife and i went through a couple years ago. Our pastor actually emphasized the importance of sex within marriage obviously without delving too deep into the specifics as that would be a little odd.

  • @ilovegodandjesusjohn316
    @ilovegodandjesusjohn316 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Psalms 118:5
    I called upon the LORD in distress: the LORD answered me, and set me in a large place.

  • @LETTO2366
    @LETTO2366 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice God bless you.

  • @David_Jr
    @David_Jr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It kills me when believers forbid certain sexual acts that God doesn't. God doesn't need your help! If God hasn't forbidden it and it involves ONLY a husband and wife and isn't degrading or painful, GO FOR IT! The Songs of Solomon goes into detail about things I've heard preached against! Read your Bibles, AND TASTE THE FRUITS!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jollygoodgordon5580
    @jollygoodgordon5580 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    single brothers and sisters, stay strong💪🏾💪🏾

  • @MollyHuffle
    @MollyHuffle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    If a woman shuts the shop down and the man decides to sin- I’m sorry but that’s on him. He’s the one that chose to sin. Perhaps the woman has a good reason to take or need a break.

  • @Pamledger478
    @Pamledger478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sex in marriage is more than a just a physical union between a husband and wife. It's a spiritual union between God and the church. So sex is spiritual

  • @madi_beee
    @madi_beee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Allen, can you perhaps do a video on soul ties and the biblical view on it?

  • @rochelleb9843
    @rochelleb9843 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful Bro Allan!! Isn't our GOD AWESOME!!

  • @michaelmcqueen6808
    @michaelmcqueen6808 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I used to be quite awful in all aspects of this I found God again and have a happy marriage now. I am thankful for his mercy because I would have never stood a chance. When I was sexually immoral I was truly unhappy . When sex is treated as God intended it is much more gratifying.

  • @FineWineFletch
    @FineWineFletch 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The STRUGGLE!!!!! PRAY FOR ME YALL! Seriously.

  • @TerryGriffith-nn9uj
    @TerryGriffith-nn9uj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a very good video! Thank you! Would you consider doing a video on what PRACTICALLY husbands should do to lead wives spiritually. As our spiritual leader what does that PRACTICALLY look like. Thank you!

  • @carolynmcintyre5645
    @carolynmcintyre5645 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was previously a drug addict I have over 20 years clean. During that time I prostituted and I had to abortions. The guilt of it all still stays with me even though I prayed so many times for forgiveness. I want a nice man. A faithful man and they seem to be harder to find these days to be honest.

  • @letsprayandfasttogether9618
    @letsprayandfasttogether9618 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Join me in this prayer. The more that pray it the stronger it gets. Pray God’s will be done on this earth as it is in heaven. Pray God protects and blesses the children. Pray for the truth to be revealed. Pray God lifts the scales from the lukewarm and lost eyes, opens their ears and soften their hearts. Pray God strengthens His children, gives them more discernment, pours more Fire on them and wakes them up. Pray the end times harvest will increase. Pray God exposes the evil people and brings them to justice 🙏🏻

  • @elie2422
    @elie2422 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen god help me

  • @jenniferlitanda3416
    @jenniferlitanda3416 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was good. Very informative. There needs to be a video on contraception. Are Christian’s allowed to have these things on

  • @thomaslindsey7685
    @thomaslindsey7685 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely True. Want God's Blessing. Stop being god and make GOD, Lord, or in charge of what you do and think. STOP following what is pervited.

  • @user-il3kj6ru9b
    @user-il3kj6ru9b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the video Bro. Allen. Please could you shed some light on biblical encouragement for brethren who are rape victims. Thanks

  • @AmyAndThePup
    @AmyAndThePup 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this. I was sharing some of what you said with my husband, and he said he's glad to know someone is talking about this. I completely agree.
    I've heard of far too many people who have used sex as a weapon against their spouse. It's awful, and makes me so sad for the one being deprived.
    One thing I wish we would talk about more is the affects of being taught so much to abstain until marriage, while having very few, if any, conversations about how to initiate with your husband or wife once you are married.
    I'll go out on a limb and say that purity culture, or perhaps my misunderstanding of it as an early twentysomething, really hurt me in this way. I didn't marry until my early forties, and even now, after almost a year, it's still surreal that these things aren't sinful between us.
    More pastors, and pastors' wives, need to be talking about this with married couples.

  • @gladyshicks6539
    @gladyshicks6539 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We must keep in my what Genesis 1:28 said. I totally agree of the sensation of sex in a marriage, it's what it produces - precious children many of which are conceived via lust and infatuation and are not wanted, loved and care for. This many times causes a generation of the same and the goal of the enemy (Satan) is just what he wants to undermine the power of what builds a strong society.

  • @unveiledbeliever7705
    @unveiledbeliever7705 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a TOUGH ONE😞.... I'm in a committed relationship but not married. Engaged yet not married. I pray God has mercy on me and my future wife 🙏

    • @NovusIgnis
      @NovusIgnis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's hard to ask for mercy when you continue doing the thing that you're asking for mercy from. At that point you're not asking for mercy, you're just asking to not suffer the consequences. Mercy means you recognize the error of your ways and are asking for leniency in exchange for the promise of refraining from that course of action.

    • @BiglariProductions
      @BiglariProductions 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hurry and get married

    • @jncon8013
      @jncon8013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Get married!! 🎉

    • @gabbytarlue1561
      @gabbytarlue1561 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@NovusIgnisthat’s not necessarily true. The Bible tells us that the grace of God is sufficient for us. It’s through the grace of God one can truly repent. If one confess their sin and is sincere, in due time, the Lord will give us the grace to overcome the weaknesses of our flesh. It’s not something you can overcome in your own strength or will. We should all pray that God should give us the grace to overcome whatever we are finding it difficult to let go of.

    • @NovusIgnis
      @NovusIgnis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gabbytarlue1561 It's very much true. That's literally how mercy goes. You can't say you're sorry and then deliberately keep doing the very thing that you apologized for. That doesn't show repentence, it just shows that you don't want to suffer the consequences but want to keep doing that thing

  • @philiptaram
    @philiptaram 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Now I'm gonna let you use your imagination to what you think she's talking about" 😂
    Allen, seriously, thank you so much for this video ❤️

  • @sonjai3600
    @sonjai3600 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice.

  • @mtguitar5150
    @mtguitar5150 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I had a penitentiary pastor say sex manifests spiritual power, that is why it is so powerful and so abused in the world. For the same reason you need to respect it and not abuse it yourself

  • @BigbubbaNeSmith
    @BigbubbaNeSmith 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I messed up with my ex fiancee. I didn't think of it at the time, I was absolutely going to marry her until she decided not to. I regret it and it hurts.

  • @naomiTHErocker
    @naomiTHErocker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allen be cracking me up “now ima let you figure out what they mean” 😂😂😂

  • @dewoynesmith
    @dewoynesmith 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes Allen, I've been telling people this. God gave sex to us as a gift. If you can afford to buy your spouse a gift, wrap yourself up and be the gift.

  • @esthermcgough3995
    @esthermcgough3995 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Widowed and not looking. But agree with you.

  • @Yeshuahamashiach300
    @Yeshuahamashiach300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Matthew 5-6

  • @Yeshuahamashiach300
    @Yeshuahamashiach300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proverbs - fruit as gal 5 v16-24

  • @Yeshuahamashiach300
    @Yeshuahamashiach300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Genesis 30-28-38:15-18

  • @vestavesta687
    @vestavesta687 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen!!