Yoga & You: How to deal with Extra Marital Affairs? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ค. 2024
- An extra marital affair is the biggest trust breaker in any relationship. It affects the couple, parents, kids and the family. Introspection and correcting yourself is the key to handle extra martial affairs. Watch Hansaji’s interesting and helpful take on relationships today and how one can lead a more peaceful life.
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I cant forgive a cheating husband. I love me and live for me now...self respect is the key. If he goes with someone he will go that way, my door will be closed.
My aunty use to tell exactly same words and after 28 years of separation one day she got sick and no one to help her. Then her second daughter called the father and he came to help for hospitalisation etc. Now she feel very remorseful for wasting 28yers and splitting the family. Life is like that and you never know where ego can take us.
@@sinis7092 may b but once u find that ur hubby is chaeting on you u cant love him anymore his face will remind u his deed to u everytime n ur life will become hell😭😭
@@sadhanarai5997 Like a garden, if a marriage is regularly attended to and spruced up, there will be no room for weeds of infidelity to sprout and cause a threat to the lovely and fertile flora.
@@sinis7092 are you justifying the need of dependency to betrayal?
@@sinis7092 just shut up
Unconditional Love can heal and concur any broken hearts. Mother is great role model, she did the right responsibility for the kids and family.
You mean to be a doormat
@@briechilli4496 Ignoring the partners emotional or physical need is the root cause of extra marital affairs, that is why more women cheat than men because women need emotional support. Nobody is perfect so find the good in partner and unconditional love is the best choice to make than negative emotions.
Just shut up
E sent me
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This is a patriarchial response to a mans repulsive choices.
How can you stay with a person who cheats you, then there is no love in the 1st place..... It's better to leave than to be in pain everyday, just coz the wife accepted her husband's lover, it's the same as living separate, so what is wrong in leaving & moving on. Everyone is different & a very very unusual situation...for the wife to accept...then what's the point of marriage when you can be with anyone. It's better to be clear by leaving 🙄
VERY VERY TRUE
True. Every body is not the same.
समाधान अच्छा है। बस सोच सही और दृढ़ होना चाहिए तो पत्नी, दूसरी औरत को प्रेमपूर्वक रख भी सकती है और पति को वैवाहिक नियंत्रण से बाहर जानकर कठोरता पूर्वक छोड़कर जा भी सकती है।
If a person who betrays has a remorse, things may change, otherwise once a cheater always a cheater
@@amanm9170 if the person would have cheated & betrayed the person whom he married then it’s difficult to stay coz the incident in inevitable, if he had love towards his family he would have never done that & many things can be sorted out before the situation itself if both off them can talk freely like a friend. In most cases the female is not even allowed to express their feelings they are subpressed
Her videos are always inspirational and reality based.I always learn from her videos.Thank u so much ma'am.
Difficult to do the suggestion of inviting the 3rd person to meet the family. Good that it ended that way. What if it was misunderstood as the wife’s acceptance of the situation and the affair continued? How long will the wife endure this situation?
Soo wonderful way of accepting a person who is wrong nd maintain calm nd peaceful life. 🙏🙏
It's superb what a nice guidance. Love and pranam to hansaji
Nice solution. Rare lady. Patience pays.
I just can't express in words how great yet humble you are 😘 May God bless you and more power to you😍
Very well explained.touched this session very much to me
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🙏amazing tips. God bless you with more wisdom n be a blessing to many
She is a strong woman she grow well very wise woman .. I love your channel
Love and care of self translate to love and care for others. Namaskar Hansaji
Hansaji ur magical and wonder women
I like ur video I m new but I really get positive
Good say, many cansave from the speech👍🙏
Thanks for the valuable information its so helpful
Let's do a role reversal please....now the wife has an affair ....will the husband do the same tolerating and getting disrespected act and go with the other guy to picnics😂??
U spoke my mind, this is a stupid example she gave
man and women are different mentaly
Man has more ego
Women have more love
@@animationsquare5680 disagree completely
Correct Grandma who is podcasting is also a lady... How can you forgive. The most wearied answer is the wife mentioning that she will love whatever he loves...how stupid that sounds so tom he will love to date many people so will they wife go out with all..🧐🙄
@@animationsquare5680 just shut up
Thank you Great information
Amazing solution!
You are right, betrayal is a back stabbing murder of marriage. It is also true that for children’s sake, a suffering party will live quietly.
She says- 'This all leads to chaos in society'.
The other perspective is that it is the society at times that forces a person to bring this chaos bcoz society is so rigid that happiness is the last thing they care for esp in a country like India. It's ruled by pratistha, anusaashan and whatever Amitabh has actually said in a movie.
Pratishta, Parampara and Anushasan
The point is people are selfish!! They marry for a selfish reason. They want a family in times of crisis and they want please from others on the side so they don't suffer at any cost!! When things go wrong instead of fixing it they want to find a solace!! And loyality is a responsibility and not a choice or something that you do when it's favourable to you!!
Spot on! Even wanting of the family is selfish - it's like going to a university and getting all these certificates to get a job - you are ticking the boxes that society wants you to tick - to be accepted into their clan... coz the person has the perception the clan will take care of them no matter what and so they outsource everything in life to the clan... rather than be genuine, do the hard work on oneself to soul search and create an authentic life for themselves - a life of truth, respect and dignity.
Mother India with an ideal ideology.
Wow. This woman was amazing in how she handled her unfaithful husband.
Mam pls share more videos nd understanding on this topic.
Yes live your life
Thank you so much.. 😊😊🙏
Beautiful thought Mam
Thank you🙏
Thanks a lot ma'am... thanks to the lady in blue saree.. she looks amazing...
good topic
She’s right ladies. The harder you fight against your husband’s affair, the more he digs in and resists.
A Hispanic grandma told me in Spanish (and her daughter translated) said whenever a man leaves you, don’t ever chase him.
My husband became involved with strippers aka prostitutes and drugs and the only good thing I did was get a gps tracker to find out where he was disappearing to.
After that I pursued him too much.
I don’t think I could tolerate the other woman coming into my house but what finally happened was he died while he was with two of them who did not call an ambulance for hours when he collapsed. Some men have to rebel against something and after their parents die, it becomes the wife and family.
The psychiatrist said that my husband’s midlife crisis became an end of life crisis. I think they’re like a plant that goes to seed right before it dies, trying to reproduce, even though my husband had no intention of having more children.
Like that comedian said when your spouse cheats, it’s your lucky day; you get to get rid of them.
Congratulations - good bloody riddance to a dumb idiot - sorry to hear you married the loser
Thanks Guruji for show me the path 🙏
What a wrong message she has given!! 😑😑
Amazing
Thank you mam
Mam after17 years lov marriage my husband in lov with a women who is married.He told me she her frend l did allowed the lady to come t to my house she coming to house I did not had any problem it's ok only freind but when I came to know about they had physical relationships mam I stop that women to come to my house
But here my husband is showing lov to me and telling me that he loves me a lot.but mam after knowing about their physical relationships I am not able accpect my husband an nor can I separate because my daughter is 15 years old I don't want her to get affected. Mam from last 6 months I am taking sleeping pill so that I can sleep. Pls help me what should I do.
Accept the fact the he never truly loved you and begin loving yourself. Take care of your looks, get new dresses, go to trip with genuine friends, build a life for yourself. Respect and love yourself first👍All the best ❤️🙏
You need to be an example and role model to your daughter and show her that you are not a doormat to a man. And she shouldn't be one either in her life. This is a test from the Universe for you to stand up for your life, your dignity and your health - to love yourself first and be strong. Your daughter will remember that and will love you for it forever. Staying with a cheater is putting your life and health at risk. You are not doing any favours to your daughter by living a lie. No man or woman would cheat on their partner/spouse if they truly loved them. Because if he loved you he would not have put you through this. He would have been honest and upfront and let you go first (ended the relationship) before getting involved sexually or emotionally with anyone else. Men want to enjoy the family life, societal favours that come with it - but also indulge in multiple partners. With impunity (meaning without remorse, without negative consequence to them). Do not allow this to happen in your case. Even if it feels hard, stand up for yourself. And your daughter. Do not indulge in fear in this hour of test. You are at a crossroad. Choose wisely. Your daughter, the Universe, God and your Higher Soul is watching....
@@ritaghosh7516
True
Nice solution and practical
Extra matiral and pre-pmarital sexual relationships definitely gets registered in your Subconscious mind (Soul level). It will continue to haunt you and even pass on to your Children all through Life.
Tq so much mam
That5 nt possible to live like this as she said
Introspect
Please do a video on polygamy as well.
Sagira world is most imperfect. But u try to make it perfect for yourself.
Only sentence was best which was not to get married if you could not live with on person.
Right mam
Grace of God.
Thank you so much
Hansa ji I have been your admirer since my childhood, when you used to appear on Doordarshan. Thank you for all your videos.
Plz speak hindi❤️
You look very pretty in Saree...
What if you have a husband who is a compulsive liar and cheats on you even after being forgiven several times and boasts that he only loves u and the rest that he did was just a mistake.... What to do when u have grown up children and inside u become hollow.... How to deal with such situations
Stop sleeping with him... and consult a good astrologer... there are several mantras which can help u
What would you imagine your would tell the little girl inside you about this intolerable abuse? What would you think will change in a year, 5 months, five years from now? If nothing, can you still stay knowing it will not change five years from now?
Leave
@@KP-om9fj More like throw him out ;-) Never leave....hold your own ground and your fort - fling the enemy out to the street - because they have chosen to be a street dog - make sense that they live there ;-)
Life changing advice
nope here if a man got attracted to another women trust me he never loved her first one also I m also a boy but completely perishing the man 👍🏻.... if you have this kinda nature multilovers plzz go for live in instead of marriage 🙏🏻
If same thing wife does then...
Thank u amma
Not satisfied with the answer.
If wife has does the same husband would have done it? Particharay 🙄
I hv the same question....
Doubtful and heaps of scorn would be laid upon here head for doing the cheating. Many men would not stop cheating. You teach people how to treat you by what you tolerate. If he truly stopped cheating it would be rare. More likely case would be man finds new love interest and assumes wife will just accept all of his behavior. If she is ok with it, no harm in his mind. No consequences.
I always agree to u but this time not in a relation where ur suffocating why to wait rather go for oxygen where u can live ur life n let other also live ,life is precious n if ur getting another chance go for it
No value...only dialogues... Bolna bahut easy hota ha ye sab...ma'am... Isi ka Chanda ha
Wife says - Bring her also, if you love her i will love her also. Are you joking madam? This is not Malaysia :)
Absolutely 💯💯💯
Yeh kya bakwaas hai.....
Talk about male chauvinism! Reversing these roles...if a lady had come home with a new young man.....no husband would invite him for dinner and send them off on a holiday! Please........
Totally agree. It's quite amusing and disgusting at the same time. Women continue to be treated as second class citizen. This world needs to rehabilitate men - for the complete fuck up that they are with total impunity. Women are being asked to carry the shit of imbeciles for the "sake of the family, society and children" as if they are the sole creator of these things and therefore carry the sole responsibility to preserve it. No mention about how dangerous it is for a woman or a man to continue a physical relationship with their spouse who has cheated on them/carrying out an extramarital affair against them. Everything has to be tidied up, with a bow and ribbon around it for the sake of society...what a bunch of rubbish. In this day and age, with this kind of talk, the world can wait for the next million years before women will be treated the same as men - with equal respect and equal responsibility and accountability. The reproductive organs are the only difference between those souls who are incarnating in a male body or a female body. Nothing else is different. But the brainwashing of "society" has created women to be a second class degenerate citizen who will always be required to be the sacrificial goat or cow for everyone else's nonsense.
@@ritaghosh7516 how very true.
There are people of one religion who are destroying people of other religions . That story which you told is a fairy tale I think. What if this infidel husband does this again? Your view is unilateral. You are blaming husband. You have not explained the other way round where wife is engaged in infidelity. Balance is shoot the infidel. You are calm in your views but incomplete.
Very few women does that
What a stupid advice . I am like what kind of advice is this.
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Hahahahaha nice solution
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