Married Couples Share What Keeps Them Together | Can Ask Meh?
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- Is your marriage what you imagined it to be? Are you guilty of forgetting your anniversary? Do you often disagree with each other?
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Over the past 2 days, we collated questions you had for our profiles on Instagram. Here are four most popular questions. Read this thread for their replies! 😇
1. How do you know your partner is the one?
2. How to have good conversations?
3. How to keep your passion/ love alive after many years?
4. Currently seeing someone but unable to progress due to lockdown... any advice?
Hi I'm Jean, sharing my opinion.
1. Is the feeling given by my partner, I will not get sick of facing him 24/7, I will not feel bored with him, I will feel like doing everything with him. I will also travel with him, travelling will have different opinions and tendency of argument will be high. If we are able to accommodate to each other and everything goes smoothly, I'm pretty sure all will go well. 1 last idea is Me and my husband actually stayed together before we get married, this is to make sure that we are able to stay together and able to accept each other's lifestyle habit.
2. We should listen to each other patiently and able to share and accept each other's comment. Most importantly, by the end of the conversation, problem is to be solved, else it will only prolonged the issue or problem might occured again.
3. Always maintain your relationship the same as the beginning of your love to him/her, as that will be the sweetest moment. I can ensure you that your love will last forever, because this is what I did.
4. This will be the best period to know how much you miss or love him/her if you are having doubts on your relationship. If you miss him/her that much, you may use video call to communicate. It might create some romantic moments between you both.
@@jeanlingchingyee Can you share more about how to maintain relationship? Do you guys still go dating?
Yangyi Tan myself and my husband will always go dating(enjoying food and go to places that we love, just like normal dating couples), arrange surprises for all special occasions, plan for travel once a year, always say “I love you” to each other all the time and of course with lots of kisses and hugs daily together with attracting moves/acts such as winks 😉 which my hubby loves.
Hi,I am the Old Uncle who wore 2 Watches.I agree with Roszita.
You know he or she is the one when absence makes the heart goes fonder. i remembered driving all the way after tough military training in the night from Pasir Laba Camp in Jurong to her place in Opera Estate just to hold her hand and to drive all the way back to Camp before midnight. I have to sing loudly in my car so that I will not fall asleep!
1. Best way to know is how you feel when you're with him. Feel comfortable can be yourself?
Feel respected? if he/she quickly want to go into physical intimate relationship then you have to be careful. It's also important to introduce he/she to your family and friends. 旁观者清当局者迷. Your family will give good feedback okay not everyone. For my case my mum was the a very good observer. Those bf that she disliked all did not make it in the end.
Lastly attend Marriage Preparation Course bcos many topics that we never thought of was discussed during the session.
“Excuse me... I’m not your soldier”
“Ah! Right... sorry ma’am.”
😂 relationship goals
i dun thinks so man.....hes a captain only kind to his wife maybe....rmb its asian parents lol
🤣🤣🤣
I swear
😹😹😹
at work he’s the captain at home the wife is the captain 🤣
Only an elderly Asian couple would make jokes like “I married you because you’re not handsome” and have a successful and happy marriage. GOALS.
Yes! So much respect and safe relationship between them.
💯❤️
Love this!!!
doesn't sound like a joke lol
It is not a joke. We girls do that to avoid conflicts and drama.
"the most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother"
I disagree. The most important thing is to love his children.
The most important a father (and mother) can do is be loving to their family
@@whirlwindmgtow5534to both mother and kids
Truth
As someone who had only had my mother to raise me, I agree on that. He walked out on us when I was very young, I never actually had a father. Of course he tried to be there, but due to some difficulties I don't want to adress further, I can feel that very much.
If he had loved my mother, there wouldn't had been that many problems my mother had faced. I'm 34 and at that time, being a single parent was so hard. Of course it's good to love your children, but if you don't love the person you have a child with, for me it's the base to everything that makes it work and, in my opinion, it's harder to love your own child altogether.
The wheelchair couple is underrated. The amount of effort on the marriage must been very high. So young yet so down to earth and understanding. They are my goal.
They really impressed me; they are wise beyond their years.
Takes a lot of effort
So true ❤❤❤❤
I love them!
By whom?
The older couple is such a GOALLL, must be nice to be their children
빅스는_심장이니까 ikr ! 🥺🥺 they are adorable
42 years married, 50 years dating, That's the new goal
Yeah, it would be nice to have parents that have a healthy relationship
👍
Righttt
0:40 “42 years married, 50 years dating.” #respect
When did they start dating? wtf
@@jordanlevitt1638 they dated eight years. And got married. When you're married you're dating...
@@jordanlevitt1638 maybe when they're in high school or college 😂
the dating part is not stopping just beause they are married, keep the fire on 🔥🔥
Lol As a married person, yes we always like to still add the dating years to the total. It's an accomplishment 👏
I think what the interracial couple said about texting in arguments is really wise actually.. Most people feel like texting arguments is immature, but it also lets you take time to think everything through in a more comprehensive way instead of just shouting
I love doing that too.
It’s no different from writing down your feelings and giving it to someone, they use to do that back then. It’s a letter.
Would agree 100% 🙏🏽 When i am really sad, stressed, or angry, I think its easier to text where i can slowly think about what i want to say, and also read it before I send anything XD My bf and I sometimes go to text when we feel that speaking out loud is too hard, and its helped us calm down and understand each other. 3 years in and we have never fought (yes ofc we have discussions if we disagree, but nothing has ever escalated to yelling, name calling, accusations, etc).
My husband and I ,doing like this when we are arguing,still going strong
I also found this to be very insightful ❤️
It's OK for him to forget the anniversary as long as he remembers that I am his wife - I just love that sentiment! The wedding was just one single day. The marriage is the daily relationship of love, honesty, connection and communication.
wow the (elderly) chinese couple is so ...practical, down to earth and cool. and how the wife cares for the children and asks the husband nicely to speak to her in a loving manner to set a good role model for the children... 🥺❤️✨ i really want my future marriage to be so stable, grounded and open to communication. 🤞🏻
I agree
So loving couple...
Her husband knows how to lighten the mood that makes a difference
The vows in the end broke me man, especially the Malay couple when the guy apologised. There's more to life than material goods.
SAME. TEARS.
same.
OMG SAME
Dem tears *sniff sniff*
😭😭
As a person who’s losing interest in love, watching this video made me cry. It really feels good to see people inlove
Welcome on board 😂
A thousand times, yes. It helps me believe there is still true love out there. 🥹
True love is a necessity. We all know it because we all seek it.
I resonate with this so much. True love is so hard to find that it honestly feels not worth to pursue. I say just live the way you want to live and let the love come to you. I think fate has its ways
the Hindu-Catholic couple is amazing, they love each other and respect each other so much to adapt for the sake of their future.
Vic GR woah the woman was catholic? Nice to know :)
But most of the time the Hindu side ends up compromising if you observe multiple such couples. They are very adamant about following their religion.
@@monishag8974oh calm down. The guy knows what he's doing. He's in the marriage, not you. Stop analysing couples over a TH-cam video.
@@tanie3543 I made an overall observation about a trend. But you commented on this specific couple.
@@monishag8974 cool. But i really feel like it's necessary to view individuals seperately, without the religion.
Yes there are shitty Catholics, but so are there shitty Hindus.
And in this particular situation, they seem to work really well.
What I'm saying is, by having these presumptions about individuals because of a larger stereotype about their religion, you're taking away the ability to interact with the person (who might actually be really awesome)
why i cry sia it's not even my marriage😭😭😭
hahahahaha
same lmao
saame crying
Wtf this was sweeter than I expect 😭😭
@@audreybaudin4896 me too
i feel like the chinese uncle has a lot to share with the producer. He is cute haha
Haha you are right! He is a solemniser who has officiated more than 200 weddings! Has a lot to share!!
I love what he shared also!!
@@OGS.Official So.Much.Wisdom
J P - I’m the original JP
Soul mates
" we need to celebrate milestones in our lives and to tell our children that marriage is good" 🥺🥺
this is REAL relationships right here. these are relationships that have been built on trust, communication, and respect. sometimes it means conflict, but it means working through conflict because they're your best friend and you wouldn't push away your best friend.
The cute chinese couple
Hubby: I'm an ex-captain. I had a tendency to talk down to her. She has to remind me
Wifey: "Excuse me, I'm not you soldier."
Hubby: "Okay, sorry ma'am."
THIS IS TOO CUTE
Really reminds me of my colleague. She and her husband literally have regularly heart to heart talks to talk abt what they like and dun like abt each other, and the other party is always open to listen and change, it's amazing, wow.
Pretty sure they’re all from Singapore ?
At home she is the captain.
my dad cheated on my mom so i didn’t believe in romantic relationships anymore but the older couple made me smile
I hope that never stays in you. There will be a few people in your life that would sweep you off your feet but you need to let that go in time to come hopefully and trust again, we all deserve to be loved.
Don’t let anyone take away your chance at happiness.
We go through the same thing, let's not live the same life. We can do this!
I feel you
i feel you.
"42 years married, 50 years dating." How sweet is that??
I have to say this video really changed me for the better. I honestly didn't expect to watch the whole thing but I did. I'm currently in a rough patch with my wife of 5 years in which I have two children with. I've gotten to the point several times in my head that it's over and that I'm just doing this for the kids at this point and weighing my options if i should stay or not. There are some solid pieces of advice in this video I think all married couples should hear. I didn't realize how jealous and detached from my marriage I was, always comparing my wife to other wives and wondering how much better could it be if I found someone else. While watching this video though, it really did remind me of all the reasons I love my wife and that we really can make this work. Very powerful video, I appreciate everyone involved!
I hope the best for you both
I’m sure your marriage and kids are worth fighting for
Like God said in the 10 commandments, you cheat once you start to think about other women or fantasize or flirt about them. That cheating ends up in sex. So no, sex isn’t the only step in cheating. Better focus on your wife and children, or else you destroy the family. Focus on your wife, everyone is unique. You chose her as wife, you chose her children. You better be a good father. It’s good you realized your mistakes and admitted to them. That will save your marriage
watch the video again with your wife 😊
How is it going now? I am also having a difficult time with my wife of almost 6 years, with a one-year-old son. I don't believe in divorce, especially after having children, but that makes it even more difficult, knowing that I can never get out of this situation. There's no choice but to work it out somehow.
his advice is absolutely right, do not compare your marriage or significant other to anyone else's marriage or spouse
This advice is true for all aspects of life. Don't compare your kids or parents to other people's kids and parents. Don't compare your education and career to other people's education and career. In all things, just take the learning points, and discard all the jealousy and what ifs.
"We need to celebrate milestones in our lives. And to tell our children that marriage is good. You know, ya, it's good. Look at mum and dad" 7:52 made me cry
especially when you know your dad is cheating on your mom lmao
@@coffeejimin9220 lmao yess
same
My favorite line in the video. People who say I am not romantic needs this,reasoning
@@coffeejimin9220 when that happens it makes you feel like you'll eventually be cheated on or divorced, even though you're not your dad or your mom
the old couple are shining with wisdom of life. They simply work things out and figure out how to make marriage better. GOLD!!
14:28 is my favorite part, "It can be washed off, don't worry". That just melted my heart
Yup. This smol detail ❤
He didn't even miss a beat.
Lovely!
Mine too!!! I came to the comments for this
That was the moment I bursted into tears.
Yessss, that was the part I rewind the most. You know that was the part that actually confirmed all he has been saying and all we have been watching. It was not part of the act
"You can win the argument but you will lose the relationship with one another" 😍😍 so deep
" whenever i go work , i come back , she's the first thing i want to see"
THIS is all we ever strive for
The sweetest thing I heard here this blog from guy said to his long time partner, “If God will take one of us to go home I hope HE will take me first, cause I can’t live without you”…AWWW melts my ❤️!!!
The older couple is brimming with such wisdom, happiness, and hope. I hope one day when I do have a wife, my marriage is close to what they have.
I like how the older couple incorporated the Love Languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, gifts, and physical touch. These show that there's more than one way to say "I love you." People often think that someone doesn't love them just because they don't say it often, but they can say it through actions ❤
My boyfriend needs to read this.
He's crazy about the words he doesn't care about anything else.
It makes me sad
also the “so i choose you because i know nobody wants, only i am silly enough to take you” HAHA so cuteeee
That wasn't cute at all. I would hate to be that woman's husband! What a witch
@@toplobster1040 lol I pity your partner if you have no sense of humour
@@toplobster1040 It’s fine if you don’t like that, it is a harsh thing to say after all. But obviously, this kind of thing works for them so there’s no need to condemn the wife and call her a “witch”, nor get angry at her in her actual husband’s place. Relationships (and people) are different and they obviously love each other very much to last as long as they have.
@@toplobster1040you are so sad! I pitty you actually...
Having this kind of relationship is a gift. Not everyone can have this. It takes more than love to get through marriage. It's so nice to witness these couples sharing their lives which makes me believe that love can still exist even without saying it. This is truly a blessing.
Somehow my faith in marriage kinda restored
We didn't asked for it but certainly we need it
My friends, everybody wants love. That's the prize! But both sexes, male and female, are scared to work for it. In the end, it comes down to working with the opposite sex and choosing who's work ethic you enjoy the most working with.
In the current world where divorces are common and people don't want to get married because they don't want to be "tied down", it's great to see this. People always mention a statistic saying that 50% of marriages end in divorce, but another way to view it is that 50% of marriages are everlasting. Half empty, half full guys.
OGS definitely need more subs. Thank you so much for posting this video!
amiroarrr tbh the reason I don’t want to get married is not because I don’t want to be “tied down”. In short: it’s because the love will never last, what made you fall in love will make you fall out of love, and men, in my opinion, will always eventually start looking at other women. I don’t mean they’d cheat. I just mean the perfect fairytale love we’d grown up to believe is nonexistent. And just like you said, there’s a 50% chance of failure, and I don’t want to risk any heartache. I’m already insecure and troubled enough.
Sukan please don’t come at me with that. Marriage should be every girl’s goal??? Why not a man’s?? Why can’t men aim to be engineers, singers, and doctors and still be married? Is it not the same for girls?? They can be doctors and engineers while being married too. Why is marriage the ultimate goal? Also who cares if people look down on you? If you achieved your goal and are happy with what you’re doing in life, you shouldn’t care.
The 50% divorce rate is being pushed upwards by the boomer generation, whereas the younger generation of millenials is actually reversing the trend, possibly due to avoiding the pitfalls and naiveties of their parents with regards to choosing a partner or to making sure that they are financially stable before committing to marriage.
www.businessinsider.com/millennials-declining-divorce-rate-hooking-up-delaying-marriage-2019-5?r=US&IR=T
@@idontevenknow8646 yeah that's what I feel however I always thought marriage is such a sacred journey
only that I don't want to experience that
Sukan I- you sounds like you’re reaching your 50s.
"Marriage is good. Look at Mom and dad".... Yep goals right there :)
same.
All of the couples are so sweet and really passionate but my tears come out when the Malay couple husband apologized because he can't give a luxurious life to his family. I can relate.
0:55 - "I chose you because you're not handsome " 😅
2:14 - She's something I do not want to lose
3:50 - Talking down. In learning
4:30 - Security for women
6:05 - Women wanting to help
7:08 - BAAAAARRRSSSS
8:50 - Disagreements. Wife is strict.
9:55 - Walking out of the house to calm down. Texting helping.
11:00 - Raising the voice. Learning to say sorry.
13:20 - I can't live without you. ❤️
14:40 - I love you
15:20 - LOVE IS ACTION!
"I wish when the Lord calls me home, he calls me home first. I can say it to her right now. I cant live without you, seriously."
"Can I live without her? Cannot. She plays a very important role in my heart.
In my daily routines, whenever I go to work and come back the first thing I want to see is her. "
I started crying at this point.
Me too😢
I haven't even reached that part and I'm crying already reading this.
and couldn't stop, literally cried until the end of the video
Ron a lot of people do lol
Ron If it ends up being boring its cause you chose a person who doesnt match you well. Life also gets boring real quick when you're just jumping from person to person and have no relationships to grow into..
Damn the Malay couple really reminded me of my parents. The husband causing financial problems and the wife being left in the shadow and the feeling of disappointment and anger when she found out about it and how he didn’t tell her. Reminded me of all the times my mom cried and how I blamed my dad for it. Really hit home. Just like the husband my dad has gotten better but we still have a lot of financial difficulties due to his past actions thats been causing a lot of stress for the entire family especially my parents. Now that I’m older I’ll do all I can to help fix our problems. Please pray for a happier future for my family 💪🏻😊
Nur Dianah im praying for you today!
I really can relate with you. Now I'm studying hard. I hope I can get a good job so I can help my family. I want to give them whatever we couldn't have before. I'm praying for you, sis :)
Same here. But in my case, my mother divorced my father because he never improved :( This makes me very careful about money management with my own husband. We all have to learn from experience and be better than the generation before us.
Nathalie Fernandez thank you! ❤️
Laila I’ll pray for you too sis ❤️
I have no idea why I'm only seeing this in 2023! This was so sweet to watch. I felt so moved even though I've never been in a romantic relationship😂 . I'm 17 in 2 weeks but I'm already thinking of my future .These couples here are what I want to look like with my future husband. So sweet❤
Take your time, no rush.
Exactly im in my first year of college going thru my first ever crush watching this😭
Aw 🤗
My advice is: don't worry about boys until you are 25. Take care of your health and enjoy working and cartoons and going in parks and having the most out of life. Never dress to impress or provoke, you are perfect. Be kind and find a good love by accident at least when 25. Every empty love story takes a toll on our soul.
My 40 year old co-worker told me, " My parents had been together for almost 45 years not because they love each other but because it's convenient to stay than to divorce." I was speechless.
🥰🥰🥰
Could be they mistaken the love for convenience.
Or she truly doesnt know everything about her parents relationship or feelings
@@erzcav4793☺️ its still a choice no matter what it is they both decided to stay together so deep inside theres still some connection that we cant deny
¡Precisely … I heard a woman say
it’s cheaper to keep them
(than divorce them)
I just about fell out of my chair in disbelief … now that’s skewed!
Love the part by the uncle...
"maybe you're right"
YAS! such wisdom!!
"Maybe" thats a smart move coz u are not saying she is right or you are wrong. You just left it to the imaginantikn
Ima use it if Im in a relationship one day
RIGHT I SHALL APPLY IT
Thought the "can you say that all over again in a very loving voice?" phrase was a good way to calm my boyfriend down when we have an argument, until I imagine the conversation going like:
Him: can you be quiet?
Me: can you say that all over again in a very loving voice?
Him: can you be quiet if it is not too much trouble?
I wonder if that would work the other way around for the guy 😂
Sounds like an abusive relationship. Pls call 999 to do a background check arrest his entire family
@@Chu_Strums People have arguments in relationships all the time. That doesn't qualify for 999 to be called. Only if someone puts their hands on their spouse or genuinely feels threatened, should they call the police. Calling the police for petty arguments is extremely childish and stupid.
🤣🤣
He sounds sarcastic lol
I believe love is not just a feeling but a choice honestly. It's a choice to love them everyday and each day even more.
Its all about routine and habit with them as if truly they are a part of you..
May we all have our happy endings or journey, especially, these couples!
100% my friend
I'm so happy you wrote this, thank you
as they say, love is a verb! it's not a feeling, it's something you do
This gave me an insight. My mother, who’s a converted muslim would always tell me to test, to let a man wait for years for me then to give him my “yes.” In today’s generation, love works differently. I have always opposed to my Mother’s words. Reasoning and telling her how different and better love has become compared to before and to traditional beliefs. After watching this, I realized her point of view is just the same as these people in the video. I realized how amazing and caring her advices were. I realized, I shouldn’t oppose to an idea without seeing or considering its point of view. She only wants security for me. A secured and happy marriage and I am thankful to have seen this video.
Saying yes to a marriage needs time and thoughts. You cannot just blindly say yes
For me to know someone true personality is to live with them. Once you live with them. You get to know their real personality and it is a make it or break it in the relationship
Wtf whY AM I CRYING NOT LIKE I MARRIED LOL MY LOVER HAS BEEN NON EXISTENT FOR 22 YEARS
Literally, same 😅
so relatable.. :'(
No worries,,, who knows,,, he/ she might still be in the womb or in the daycare lol
Can’t relate. Only Korean dramas can make me cry so far
You only haven't meet them yet ☺️☺️
I am married and the old Chinese couple is simply #goals. I learnt A LOT from them. I cried when Jean started crying. THIS MAN IS SUCH A KEEPER!!
The husband from the elder marriage is such a character, I would love to hang out with him 🤣
“When I am called home , call me home first because I can’t live without you.” Actual tears man 😭🥺
the malay couple vow is actually like a prayer where she ends it by if god willing , amen. that is actually very sweet.
As a newly-wed person, this is so true. Marriage is not all about romance, it's about commitment & communication. Thank you for this video ♥️🙏🏽😭
Agree, thou you still have to keep the romance alive :)
True
"You can win the argument but you lose the good relationship with one another" is the best best thing I have heard in a while.
All the couple's stories are so inspiring but I really love the old Chinese couple. I know the guy really loves his wife so much. The wife is a calm person while the husband has a good sense of humor. It's a good balance and has a harmonious relationship. You can see how he adores her very much. The older Malay couple is nice too. I can see her sacrifice but he never gave up on his husband.😍
I'm on the verge of divorce with my wife..... We have been married just over a year and we have a son. I hope I can reflect on these questions and maybe get close to what these guys have
Please don't. Try communicating with each other openly.
Please dont give up 🙏
get marriage counseling and talk things through
please please dont give up!! like they mentioned above, try watching the video together! try to speak about what made you guys fall in love in the first place...we're rooting for you!!
Don't divorce, get marriage consultation and pray and don't give up!
"you can win the argument bit you will lose the good relationship with one another"
👏
My mom & dad met each other in HS.
My mom was and still is really beautiful. She was raised in a village and since she looked mixed, a lot of guys chased after her. According to my grandparents, they’d get a lot of phone calls to the house asking about her & my grandpa would have to grab a stick and if any guy came over to the house, he’d chase them away and yell at them.
A lot of guys would also try to ask her out at school, but she still rejected them all.
My dad was the class president and also my mom’s classmate. They eventually became friends for years and after graduating, they started dating. Eventually, my dad went to the UK for a year to complete his bachelor’s. Then when he came back he went to work in SG. I really thought that they would break up, but nah, she still stuck around and waited for him, even when he was working for a while in SG and couldn’t contact her all the time because back then, they didn’t have a lot of money so they got by with what they could.
Fast forward, they’ve been married for 25 years and my dad, let me tell you.
My dad still treats my mom everyday like she’s his only queen. As for my mom, she still looks at him like he’s the only handsome guy. Like they’ll even hug in public sometimes, or I see my dad putting his arms around my mom’s waist, trying to make her smile and laugh.
My siblings and I are currently in the UK for our studies and every week, we’ll get videos of the two of them doing everything together, from cooking to going out for a walk, even sending a video message. The love is so evident in their eyes that I used to be jealous of their love. But now, I’m really grateful because a lot of my friends’s parents are divorced and they tell me it’s shit. That just made me realized how lucky I am to have parents who still love each other every single day no matter the fights, the hard times & even when my siblings and I fight.
definitely a lot of gems that you can pick up from their answers..
I'm crying like a baby. The vows did it for me, the older couples are goals!!! I know there are a lot of divorces and unhappy marriages, but mine is going to be one in a million, my marriage is going to be blessed and filled with lots of sunshine even in the storm. This video is so amazing
what i am gathering is that Singapore is a multidiverse Nation, different religions, different people, BUT SO MUCH HARMONY AND RESPECT WITHIN COMMUNITIES. AMAZING, REALLY IF ALL EARTH WAS LIKE SINGAPORE IT WOULD BE GOOD
Where are you from? 🙃
@@SSBMA1994 the guessing you are Singaporean?
@@malinasworld yes I am, hbu? 😄
Well said. This is what I experienced also being in Singapore for a short time. The world needs to know how Singapore has integrated diverse communities.
All emotions in one video : laughing, and tears, most importantly couple lessons.
I LOVE the older gentleman with the green floral shirt, he is just so lovely and everytime he would talk I would find myself smiling. He seems like such a kind soul. I also liked the younger mixed race couple a lot.
omg when he apologized for not being able to provide luxurious things🙋🏾♀️dem allergies hit me
That was when the tears came for me!
Damn pollens flying around
Damnn same goes to me..
Who cut the onions? Held man tears abit when he said that
7:25 "everyday we can do our anniversary" what a legend
Not to exaggerate but I was watching this late at night on my bed, and had to walk up my shelf to get a towel to wipe away all those tears rolling down. This was too beautiful
Love between one man and one woman is so amazing, especially in a marriage that is divine. True love mirrors God's love for us, can be seen, experienced and reflected in a marriage. This episode makes me realize a lot of things, to communicate, to forgive, to affirm, to hold, to support, to be there and to be a listening ear. Hope to see more of such series in time to come..
the same love can be between two men or two women, especially because there tend to be no forced gender roles ☺️
Love is love
Aww the Muslim couple too🥺🥺 the fact that he gives his all just to make his wife and kids happy is everything. May allah bless him❤️
"you can win the arguments but you will lose the good relationship with one another."
3 years on this video still creates meaning because companionship and love is timeless. we need more videos like this! =)
"I don't believe in anniversaries. The day I met her is the best day ever."
Period!
Props for choosing a variety of non-typical couples!! There's probably an advice or two in this video that's applicable to everyone :)
7:56 "And to tell our children that marriage is good" that hit me. Heavens! this video is awesome, thanks to all of you
suddenly tears up on the vowing parts.
seeing this make me want to believe that happy marriage is real..
thank you
My parents just celebrated their 24th wedding anniversary and my father is in the last stage of cancer and will leave us by the end of this year, so they won't get a 25th silver wedding anniversary next year, he is already paralyzed and lost his speech two years back due to a stroke and my parents love each other a lot. Growing up in a typical South Asian household my father and mother both were very active in both house and work-related matters, I always saw them working together in the kitchen, cleaning the house and going to work and taking care of us. They provided us with a very good lifestyle and always tried their best to form a healthy relationship with us even as teenagers. I do believe the best thing parents can do for their kids is to love each other because we grow up seeing that and enjoying it. Thanks, mama and Papa
Life has its own way of taking things from you, we went through hell growing up but our love kept us strong, now that we have financial stability, my father’s love will be missing by the end of the year.
“She plays a very important role in my heart” moved me to tears in a way that’s hard to describe. Thank you for sharing that 💗
This young couple has the wisdom of many older couples!
Ahhhh this really warms my heart. Especially the two older couples.
The diversity is this video give me life 😍
Love to see what a real marriage is, even though I'm single 🤣
“marriage is good, look at mon and dad” 🥺❤️
Met my wife 2 years ago during my final year poly, when I was attached out to overseas internship in HK. 4 months into the dating and we got married.
This coming August is going to be our 2 year marriage anniversary.
People would think we married so fast because its a "shotgun" marriage, but we actually have no kids yet, I just graduated last year and enlisted last year and currently still serving NS.
People will ask why marry so young, if it isnt a shotgun or I must be rich or she must be rich, and I would just tell people the reason is Love.
Me and my wife has an age gap of 5 years, different nationality, and despite all the differences, we are still together after 2 years.
Do we fight? Yes , but at the end of the day, I would rather lose the fight, than losing her.
And no I don't agree couples fight to understand each other better ideology, I personally think fighting create more problems. Instead of fighting, learn to communicate well, make sacrifices.
Remember, love is unconditional , don't let society judge when or who you should fall in love with or eventually end up marrying.
Let the reason be love. True love, from within the heart. Unconditional Love.
Especially in Singapore, don't assume you have to BTO, have degree and other "qualifications" or "rights" to get married. Heck, you don't even need to host a grand wedding. In the end, it's you and your spouse.
Thank you for this video, it really voiced out what unconditional love truly is.
Woww!! Thank you for sharing! "Let the reason be love." Indeed 👍
Hey! Thank you for this comment. :)
Im cying here huwaaaa
Thanks for sharing. I want to share it with my son so I can have chance to be grandma earlier lol.
I guess your wedding must be very simple cause you not even start work yet!!
What's a BTO?
The malay uncle's vows were so honest and sincere ❤
As a married person, I can definitely say the older couple has a LOT of wisdom. Also, all of these are a really good representation of marriage. "Marriage is about being so tired and trying again anyway."
As someone who kept failing to find someone who loves me for who I am, this is such a wholesome video. I wish i can find someone like their spouse. it's really hard to find, so if you already found one don't take it for granted.
“nobody ask this kind of qn before” 😢 rly appreciate what u guys r doing OGS!! 🙌🏼
Love the two elder couples. They definitely know their love languages very well.
"I've not said you may kiss the bride" 🤣🤣🤣
The oldest 💕
The wisest💕
All of them have so much respect for each other 💕💕💕
@15:59 when he said "do not listen to others" its veryyy good advice. I guess marriage is about losing 99% of time and when you win that 1% of time, you'll start fighting harder then the next time you lose 96% of the time.
Hate being single. This was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen and I pray I find someone who love me like that 😍
hey, singleness is good too. enjoy it right now.
Be the person that the person you seek is seeking
Love yourself first and live your happiest life. Fill yourself with so much love that when the time is right, you will be ready to share this love with your special one:)
p6h14 what if you already love yourself and still can’t find someone? That sucks :(
@@Honeymagmangospoofdon't lose hope! From my experience if someone really wants to find someone to share their life with, they will find it! But the intension must be that to find a partner and not to find a perfect love because it doesn't exist. It's always work and you need to decide all the time that you want to work on the relationship, not to expect Hollywood version of love.
If you profoundly want that, it will come! Best luck to you.
PS i can also recommend the channel "the school of life" it is absolutely amazing
7:06 Damn, this guy really figure it out when most others don't
omg how i love that soldier man 😂😂😂 he's so funny and his wife is sooo fierce 😂😂 and they're so lovely 🤗
The oldest couple is just everything and more. They are an inspiration to younger couples❤️❤️❤️
I'm 21 y.o, I'm single, I watched this in the middle of lunch break during my work time, and I cried :(
after watching this I pray to God to have a good and understanding partner, and to let me be the answered prayer to someone.
11:13 say sorry. you can win the argument but you will lose the good relationship with one another. nailed it!
The oldest couple is so cute! God bless all of them. Great video!
I want a separate session where only the old man is allowed to speak.
Sehrish me too, I love the old couple they really love each other in every way deeper than the rest
I kept skipping until I saw him and when he finished talking, I'd skip again until he came again lmao
Me too...
I feel they have so much more to say.
Yes pls !!!
this hits hard more than those tear-jerking movie/ series/ drama. i cried so much knowing how it can be this beautiful marriage is... im not experiencing marriage yet but... i adore all of these couples so much:(( hope for a great and happy life forward💛
I would totally listen to a podcast with Jeff and Alice 😂 they balance each other so well and were very wise and connected
Appreciate the diversity!!! Interesting sharing from each couple :)
Probably one of my favourite videos on TH-cam. Each couple shared such relevant and universally important advice!
Love that Alice and Jeffrey are so aware of the impact their love can and will have on their children and that Jeffrey is so reflective on his habits and is so open to listening and changing the things that were bothering Alice. Many people would have just been defensive and dismissive to that.
Also really loved Camille and Mahendran. It's so true that people pay so much attention to external opinions and often lose sight of their own. It's so inspiring to see that the love they have for each other helped them overcome that.
They all really make you realise that love in its purest form, when its not driven by egotistic tendencies, is so powerful and allows us to be the best versions of ourselves.
They need to all film a Q&A video!
"my wife and kids have a group chat ... without my name"🤣😂🤣😂