Can Sex Workers and Pastors Find Middle Ground? | Middle Ground

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  • @babuskaize
    @babuskaize 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7741

    Female pastor not laughing at any of their jokes is a MOOD

    • @kush225
      @kush225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +408

      That baby's boutta be strict😂

    • @biberflub
      @biberflub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Jhavay Yorke well depends on Daddy too :D

    • @HappySerafim
      @HappySerafim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      Oh! they were jokes?

    • @DTA707
      @DTA707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      My baby was conceived missionary in the dark...

    • @rustommirasol8921
      @rustommirasol8921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@HappySerafim Me too, I didn't noticed it at all.

  • @JabariMore
    @JabariMore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5517

    I love how even the least religious people are like “we need to protect the bald pastor at all costs!”

    • @zarifahmad795
      @zarifahmad795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      That's what happens to true people.

    • @brianmada9834
      @brianmada9834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Facts

    • @shawnlapointe8020
      @shawnlapointe8020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I loved this too.

    • @littlegreenhelmetboi4148
      @littlegreenhelmetboi4148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Jabari deRoux: More he’s just a very genuine wholesome guy he has his beliefs but that doesn’t make it ok for him to get ragged on about his lifestyle

    • @catboytartaglia
      @catboytartaglia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I'm an atheist but appreciated the bald pastor lmao

  • @kbs1212
    @kbs1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1065

    I’m the farthest thing from Christian but that bald pastor had my whole HEART. His answer about not prohibiting or disowning his child for their choices and his overall attitude had me tearing up.

    • @kbs1212
      @kbs1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @brinabrina Well then that pastor was definitely applying the teachings of Jesus in his life.

    • @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor
      @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Somewaht me to

    • @rinreborn7364
      @rinreborn7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whatssuo cheems

    • @ramy8338
      @ramy8338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kbs1212 What the fk are talking about ?! Not disowning your child should be the bare minimum as a parent , you don't get praised for that !

    • @silentghost751
      @silentghost751 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Farthest?

  • @naemibirtel5078
    @naemibirtel5078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    As an atheist porn is super damaging and the porn industry is super messed up and props to the bald pastor

    • @shalevsaada7596
      @shalevsaada7596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fax👏🏽

    • @dcmarvelcomicfans9458
      @dcmarvelcomicfans9458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a JW Christian I agree with you I read an article about the porn industry and it's sophistical data by found was just interesting from an informational point but horrifying from what I discovered

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your mileage may vary. And without a thick skin, this industry won’t be cut out for you.

    • @shalevsaada7596
      @shalevsaada7596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PAJA63 what being with a "thick" skin have to do with that i don't want to be a freaking animal. i believe you can have a partner and share all your sexuality with him but it shouldn't come to the outside

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shalevsaada7596 Thick skin is about enduring a rough workplace, where manipulations are rife, you have to guard your identity, learn to say no and be sure about you want. It can be rewarding for the right person.

  • @xzextinct_echozx3737
    @xzextinct_echozx3737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21285

    Props to the bald pastor for keeping cool after he was made fun of multiple times

    • @ashes31
      @ashes31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +788

      Why fight back? You can only give what you believe is right that comes from your heart. This should be an example of not judging leaders of a church. I think this was a good example. Good for him. God continue to bless him and of course all other who dont know God.

    • @ZTheLastViking
      @ZTheLastViking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +499

      At first they picked on him.
      But he let them know real quick that they are unloading magazines while he hit bullseye with his first shot decades ago so jokes on them

    • @anoraleteu8594
      @anoraleteu8594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@ashes31 right*

    • @jeremylaneball5890
      @jeremylaneball5890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Poor guy

    • @theod6898
      @theod6898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The Man Himself he’s only been with one person he has no idea if he has hit a bullseye or not lol

  • @MayaTadmor
    @MayaTadmor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14720

    but like the bald pastor was so respectful in how he stated his views. whenever he said something he made sure to let it be know that was his choice in his lifestyle and he’s not forcing that on anyone else

    • @anniehuang6321
      @anniehuang6321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      dumbass susie yes but sayori is the best girl

    • @swesswe
      @swesswe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Annie Huang
      JUST SAYORI JUST SAYORI

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@swesswe Which one is she?

    • @swesswe
      @swesswe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Red Skittles
      what? Sayori is a she...

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@swesswe idk which one Sayori is; I was just assuming she was bcs of the comment that mentioned her (referring to her as a girl.)

  • @whoyoucallinpinhead_216
    @whoyoucallinpinhead_216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I might be bias because I am Christian, but I believe only having sex with one person is absolutely beautiful, not something to be teased about.

    • @goldenmawar5589
      @goldenmawar5589 ปีที่แล้ว

      True.having sex with various different people can cause HIV.
      i don't know why many people proud to have sex with many different people

    • @Penelope_777
      @Penelope_777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's the only thing that makes sense to me

    • @Thegamingprofessor2024
      @Thegamingprofessor2024 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I totally agree. Having that moment with that special person is so beautiful

  • @kylelouw2743
    @kylelouw2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +461

    The pregnant lady is a vibe. She takes everything in first and actually adds intellect to the conversation.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she is my friend and she isn't pregnant...

    • @henrymonaghan6563
      @henrymonaghan6563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Random-sk6hm shes clearly pregnant

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@henrymonaghan6563 no she isn't she has a gastro condition so people sometimes think she's pregnant but she isnt

    • @therealme5042
      @therealme5042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She also didn’t laugh at the immature jokes made at the expense of the bald pastor which is really nice from her

    • @TheUsername55555100
      @TheUsername55555100 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Random-sk6hm she's resting her hands on top of her belly like a pregnant woman would

  • @AlicitySherie
    @AlicitySherie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13155

    The pastor’s passion toward his wife is goals.

    • @gabbiel7130
      @gabbiel7130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

      Welcome to the life of what true love, devotion and marriage looks like

    • @andrakarsten226
      @andrakarsten226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      That is how I hear my husband describe me, and it is truly heart warning. We will be married 10 years in a couple of months, we married really young, I was 20 and he was 23, and we still act like when we were dating. I love it. I wish everyone could be in this type of marriage, with your Best friend, never a dull moment and always love to give each other.

    • @Abraxun
      @Abraxun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Andra Karsten we were given the gift of love and sex to use it fruitfully is what I reckon with the right person, not extensively with random people

    • @andrakarsten226
      @andrakarsten226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Abraxun Agree 🌺

    • @romanfrode3318
      @romanfrode3318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Abraxun that is actually not true. It is exactly the other way round. I'll just say. Just like you did.

  • @lukastapparello4637
    @lukastapparello4637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7602

    I'm not religious, but that bald pastor's love toward his wife is amazing

    • @frances4673
      @frances4673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      LuKk and the way he’s talks about her sounds like he always makes sure she is comfortable and doesn’t try to harm her character, he seems super sweet

    • @isaacyeon6334
      @isaacyeon6334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Studio Autio or he loves his wife, there’s a difference

    • @shwingler8871
      @shwingler8871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Studio Autio you’re a virgin lol

    • @shwingler8871
      @shwingler8871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Studio Autio a preacher gets more pussy than you

    • @vlnt6499
      @vlnt6499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Studio Autio theres is a difference between wanking off a streamer and loving a person that you actually love

  • @MariaLuiiza159
    @MariaLuiiza159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    dude how nice it is to see all comments praising the christians for ONCE 😂

    • @thecarsthatgoboom9516
      @thecarsthatgoboom9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right

    • @Kishi.A91
      @Kishi.A91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah

    • @saylorgrey1029
      @saylorgrey1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Its amazing. I thought it was going to be the other way round😅

    • @kyliank9714
      @kyliank9714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@saylorgrey1029 I was scared to read the comments at first

    • @somedudeinatunnel3102
      @somedudeinatunnel3102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep, I'm not Christian but I'm absolutely on their side in this video. Although I will say Wesley conducted himself well on the other side!

  • @keziahnicholas5837
    @keziahnicholas5837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    The disrespect they showed the pastor is so disappointing

    • @nanogamer4546
      @nanogamer4546 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What did you expect from people who are living in willful and unabashed sin?

  • @endlessaion995
    @endlessaion995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4690

    The bald pastor is just a mature man.

    • @diegopayan6731
      @diegopayan6731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How about we do not assume his sexual orientation. 2020. Just say that (he/him/his) potentially is mature. All that needs to be said.

    • @ryujin3430
      @ryujin3430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Diego Payan your tripping bluhd

    • @prk78
      @prk78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Diego Payan are you serious 😂

    • @verenant4567
      @verenant4567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@diegopayan6731 What does that mean

    • @verenant4567
      @verenant4567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Doll Steak oh ok

  • @awaisman2413
    @awaisman2413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4940

    Gotta admit, the bald pastor was spittin straight facts

  • @Faisal-tx9ii
    @Faisal-tx9ii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    I am a muslim. The pastor's thought is so similar with islam's principle, I encourage my christian and muslim brothers not to hate each other. Take love

    • @whydoyouneedmyname6007
      @whydoyouneedmyname6007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I don't believe in religion but i do believe that there is something beyond us, beyond humanity like beings of higher dimension . So what am i?

    • @Faisal-tx9ii
      @Faisal-tx9ii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@whydoyouneedmyname6007 😄....Brother you're probably L 's successor. Near is waiting to meet you❣️.
      I invite you to read Koran. Main book of religion: islam. If you find it disgusting, throw it into the wall. Allah is waiting for you💞

    • @synth-_-5093
      @synth-_-5093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@whydoyouneedmyname6007 agnostic i think... if ur asking what should u call urself

    • @whydoyouneedmyname6007
      @whydoyouneedmyname6007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@synth-_-5093 i see

    • @kipras4699
      @kipras4699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Faisal-tx9ii i would consider becoming muslim just to have 5 wives🤠

  • @adanna475
    @adanna475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    “bald guy” “black lady” “asian guy” they have names yall😭🤚🏾

  • @PlutoIsntReal_
    @PlutoIsntReal_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15253

    I'm atheist and I need to protect this bald pastor

    • @Bb-hf2lg
      @Bb-hf2lg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +728

      GiDgie Twix06 yeah same here but difference is I am a Muslim lol I am shocked to see how those sex workers behave against that poor sweet man

    • @m3mes1ck24
      @m3mes1ck24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      right with you

    • @FreedomUninterrupted
      @FreedomUninterrupted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Lol! Thank you mature funny atheist!

    • @whyguitarguy1
      @whyguitarguy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Lol

    • @videlonlyfans8495
      @videlonlyfans8495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      We all must, we live in a society

  • @jayovalkyrie6070
    @jayovalkyrie6070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3019

    I never thought in my whole life I would heard a pastor say *"she's ready to party with my body"*
    🤣🤣 I like him.

  • @melissabee5845
    @melissabee5845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    I find it really ironic how strong of a stance that the sex workers took on the topic of cheating, considering how many married/committed men or women paid them for sex.
    My long term boyfriend whom I thought was perfect was one of those people. I thought he was truly perfect for me and I never would have seen it coming. Turns out he was cheating on me with prostitutes the entire time we were together. It destroyed my self esteem, and it was two years before I even began to feel better about myself through counselling and therapy.

    • @lyzh4288
      @lyzh4288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      That is also what is wrong with pornography. Porn depicts of cheating, adultery all the time, but do people watching porn at the time ever think "that is wrong"? Porn really do messes with your thinking and beliefs on what is right and what is wrong.

    • @RichTheFlop
      @RichTheFlop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      as said, there are not so nice people in every industry. you can't generalize and say "all porn/sex workers promote cheating!" because that'd be false.

    • @_JESUS_is_GOD_
      @_JESUS_is_GOD_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never place your value on the account of someone else. You value YOU. If they don't leave. When you have that mindset you will always seeks someone to see the value in you but since you don't value yourself that will be ZERO.

    • @TheMartyandy
      @TheMartyandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Not sure how the existence of people cheating makes that ironic. People cheat even without using sex workers, that doesn't make normal relationships ironic, does it?

    • @ale.6195
      @ale.6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @ghost robles Those men that cheated with the sex workers would've cheated either way. Don't blame it on them, the male is just as responsible if not more responsible cause he's going out of his way, finding them and paying for the sex.

  • @rowmin6433
    @rowmin6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    I like how everyone agrees with the pastors.

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not me. But I respect their opinions. As did those in the talk.

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Makes me have more faith in humanity.

  • @allisworld1isme
    @allisworld1isme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9208

    It’s frustrating that the workers are almost making fun of pastors when the pastors are really trying to understand their point of view.

    • @princesse0920
      @princesse0920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      allisworld1isme exactly

    • @naunofficial7766
      @naunofficial7766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      allisworld1isme I didn’t see it that way I see that the workers are very energetic people and who are kinda just trying to enjoy that time and learn something new

    • @nutmalone5527
      @nutmalone5527 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      @@naunofficial7766 yeah trying to enjoy their time, before they get aids.

    • @ih8foids932
      @ih8foids932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Prostitutes*

    • @jasmine8909
      @jasmine8909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      justin why?. In Porn, You get tested before and after every sexual interaction.

  • @berniceuwase6700
    @berniceuwase6700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14606

    I don’t think anyone should have to be ashamed of the fact that they’ve had sex with one person. The fact that they were laughing at him for that is honestly terrible to me.

    • @samjackson6049
      @samjackson6049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +398

      Gotta understand they’re mindsets are very different from his in a bad way not saying they’re inferior to him but they don’t know what he knows but still this is Very true.

    • @billyvanderlinden7045
      @billyvanderlinden7045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +654

      @Al B 9:45 onwards, they were literally saying that his 'penis hasn't socialized' enough. They talk about accepting newer ideas but make fun of people who stick to the old ways in which they are comfortable with.

    • @klovenbree3030
      @klovenbree3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      It's so sad!!

    • @Ale-hu8yo
      @Ale-hu8yo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      what about me? the count stands at 0 rn 😂😭

    • @billyvanderlinden7045
      @billyvanderlinden7045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      @@Ale-hu8yo nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud of your virginity. Sex doesn't instantly make some better or cooler in any way.

  • @ruthkim3950
    @ruthkim3950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    i love how he hypes up his wife that is the sweetest thing ever

  • @TheAnchalnigam
    @TheAnchalnigam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I so loved when they found the word "prohibit" harsh. You may not agree with someone's choice, you may feel sad. That's ok that's your opinion/belief .
    But to overpower your love or bond for that person is just walking backwards...

  • @PerpilZ
    @PerpilZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1350

    the sex workers seem like they are there to argue while the pastors are there to just have a conversation/debate

    • @NomadUrpagi
      @NomadUrpagi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey there

    • @spookzer16
      @spookzer16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Develop Robes that got really depressing really fast

    • @spookzer16
      @spookzer16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Develop Robes I mean yee

    • @thumbsdown7684
      @thumbsdown7684 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spookzer16 I she'd a tear reading this

    • @Rifat330
      @Rifat330 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Develop Robes No need to attack them like that bro

  • @SunitaSharma-hf1np
    @SunitaSharma-hf1np 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3591

    Me before watching this: I guess pastors are gonna insult sex workers.
    Me after watching this: That's wierd flex.

    • @maplebun2290
      @maplebun2290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Sunita Sharma *weird

    • @bleh8892
      @bleh8892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Oh my god I had the same reaction

    • @stuudude6023
      @stuudude6023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      moom no it’s spelt “wriedadrs”

    • @lisavandam4268
      @lisavandam4268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The vid threw a Uno reverse card

    • @paulwinegardener8407
      @paulwinegardener8407 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sunita Sharma they did. and the “sex workers” just spoke their points of view

  • @tolikinny8654
    @tolikinny8654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Proud to be a Christian ❤️ .
    My respect to Pastors 🤝

  • @antoooa8664
    @antoooa8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I just can't imagne these workers claiming they're teachers 🤣🤣

  • @caitlynford3001
    @caitlynford3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7342

    I like that the pastor compared porn to alcoholism. It’s fine for other people. But not all people. And that’s fine.

    • @MsAidaAman
      @MsAidaAman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Yeap, precisely

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      I thought he made a really good point with that.

    • @raenewnham7490
      @raenewnham7490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I mean people can be addicted to porn, so he was 100% right about it.

    • @caitlynford3001
      @caitlynford3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Rae Navin I know that’s why I said I like the analogy. People can get addicted to drinking but most don’t. Almost all adults drink alcohol at some point or another. But the vast majority aren’t addicted. Just like porn. Most people watch it. Some people get addicted. Most people don’t.

    • @Artaxian_Debacle
      @Artaxian_Debacle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Caitlyn Ford porn isn’t good period

  • @tayliahinds8177
    @tayliahinds8177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6698

    The bald pastor was talking about himself only and his views, not really pushing them on other people. Notice how he always said MY or IN MY LIFE. It was kind of annoying how the sex workers kept attacking him like bro not everyone wants to be sexually adventurous

    • @rosebud4467
      @rosebud4467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Exactly!

    • @nohelya347
      @nohelya347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      Exactly they acted like the others were attacking them for their work but they were being respectful. Unlike them who were bashing their religion like really..?🙄

    • @b1ralomvchv203
      @b1ralomvchv203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      agreed

    • @Christine-og4ni
      @Christine-og4ni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HONESTLY

    • @thetoughestcookie9312
      @thetoughestcookie9312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes this is very true, but I do want to point out that even though he said that, he also didn’t come up for the question that sex work can have positive effects. If it had been does sex work have a positive effect for YOU, than it would be a different story, idk. I think that they were very harsh Defineately, but the bald pastor could’ve been a little bit more explanatory-just saying lol.

  • @stevenfoster9402
    @stevenfoster9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I feel like the sex workers haven't thought about when they get older and their bodies aren't young and attractive anymore, will they still want to be in the industry or will they want to settle down and seek marriages and raise families.

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Probably, most of them. Think of them as professional athletes. You do sometimes exhausting things for a living. Often on camera. There’s often a huge audience. Your career doesn’t last for life.

    • @abadnpc7169
      @abadnpc7169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's the downfall of sex work nobody wants to settle with you because of you're reputation and your audience fades away because you're aging

  • @caraduggan4007
    @caraduggan4007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I was waiting for the female pastor to speak, and when she did, it was so sophisticated, and I feel that she definitely put some of the disrespectful comments in their places.

  • @ashleyguevara5276
    @ashleyguevara5276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2096

    Imagine going on TH-cam clicking on this video and realizing that your pastor is in this video

  • @lucy1130
    @lucy1130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1239

    They’re all just insulting the pastors and honestly I find it so disrespectful

    • @tigershenanigans6878
      @tigershenanigans6878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think that in any other context it would be considered disrespectfull, but in this context I find it ok, because that was topic of the conversation. Also they were very honest and I was glad they did and they were also smiling all time and hug each other at the end so I don't think pastors found themselves offended.

    • @brodypenn
      @brodypenn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Milica Mihajlovic referring to the Bible as “that oooold book” and being passive aggressive and talking back to the bald priest every time he spoke, it’d call it disrespectful.

    • @dylan2478
      @dylan2478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just the sex workers right? I found the other 2 pastors respectfull

    • @jgaming4331
      @jgaming4331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well they are demonic

    • @user-sg1lk6cb9k
      @user-sg1lk6cb9k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Name one insult they said; I don't remember them saying anything rude. I think they had a civil adult conversation.

  • @sabb0968
    @sabb0968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I'm muslim and strongly agree with the pastor in his points ...

    • @skyline2601
      @skyline2601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We muslims have a lot in common with christians when it comes to base values.

  • @shey1146
    @shey1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love the pastors for staying true to their beliefs without putting anyone down who feels otherwise. We would have way less division in the world if everyone did it this way. Respect people's choices

  • @stevenfoster9402
    @stevenfoster9402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3763

    This comment section is giving me faith in humanity again.

    • @ynmzeke9124
      @ynmzeke9124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts

    • @adelrizk7037
      @adelrizk7037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Steven Foster fr

    • @AllenQuatermain2de
      @AllenQuatermain2de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      really? its absolutely destroying mine, so much hatred and disrespect, it's insane.

    • @mossyourlocalbleachbottle2098
      @mossyourlocalbleachbottle2098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AllenQuatermain2de
      Nah that’s in the other middle ground

    • @AllenQuatermain2de
      @AllenQuatermain2de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Kevin Nguyen notice how you have one like and they have 504? Maybe you are the one who's ruining sociey

  • @mcdonalds7980
    @mcdonalds7980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10454

    Im an atheist but damn. why they gotta disrespect the pastors like that?

    • @Rcoal
      @Rcoal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      mcdonalds ikr

    • @myrez_
      @myrez_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @Develop Robes oh damn that's deep

    • @charlestai5320
      @charlestai5320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@roberts9755 How about a little less anti-semitism?

    • @derrickmeade4891
      @derrickmeade4891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@roberts9755 douche

    • @BloodwyrmWildheart
      @BloodwyrmWildheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@charlestai5320 How about a little less semitism?

  • @jacoblein6413
    @jacoblein6413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The female pastor spoke like a queen. When she spoke, it was like the entire environment changed and took a split second to mind their manners.

  • @haleyboswell4990
    @haleyboswell4990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    As a sex worker, I’m embarrassed of how they responded to the prompts. Yet that is how many in the industry act sadly.

    • @saylorgrey1029
      @saylorgrey1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are you a sex worker?

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd like to become one, but the industry is so toxic. Consumers and providers both alike. Almost all sex workers I've encountered have been like these ones, and it's sad.

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@saylorgrey1029 Most become sex workers either to enjoy providing for people or to just earn some cash. But there are many reasons why someone could become one.

  • @ryanp9190
    @ryanp9190 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4213

    Porn isn't realistic. If ur looking to porn for sexual education etc. then ur looking in the wrong place.

    • @what-qo4yl
      @what-qo4yl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Wolfy 2001 exactly what i was thinking. both sides were reaching hard to make themselves look better

    • @blappappa3836
      @blappappa3836 6 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Wolfy 2001 That was a point the Sex workers were trying to make. There's no good alternative to porn because sex education doesn't dive deep enough. People want to learn more but can't unless they do it themselves or go to porn.

    • @ffff832
      @ffff832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @ryanp9190
      @ryanp9190 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sksjdj sndh yes exactly

    • @funybug
      @funybug 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Well she did say that sometimes people just wanna talk about their sex life. Maybe they've got a problem (sex related), and honestly, who would be better to go to than one of them? I mean, they have plenty of experience, and they are still people, so they still have feelings (hopefully)

  • @savannahlake9369
    @savannahlake9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3004

    i am a sex worker, and this is the first time i’ve watched a middle ground that i didn’t agree with the people i identify with.

    • @hugoquinonez2975
      @hugoquinonez2975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I assume you mean you that you did not agree with the sex workers, correct? If so, what were the main points you disagreed with?

    • @savannahlake9369
      @savannahlake9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +311

      Hugo Quinonez mostly their awful attitude. it’s been a month since i’ve watched the video, i don’t remember all of the content in the video.

    • @biancaxsmith
      @biancaxsmith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Savannah Lake thank god, I was hoping that sex workers weren’t all so rude and thoughtless over other people’s choices to live. Bravo and cheers!

    • @AntiGenZandY
      @AntiGenZandY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      How does it feel being a complete loser? I just wanted to know

    • @jacrispy3275
      @jacrispy3275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      @@AntiGenZandY - how's it feel to be a an instigative prick, "Humpflung"?

  • @ohyeamoe8430
    @ohyeamoe8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’m not really into religion, but if there was anyone I’d sit down with to pluck their brain it would definitely be the bald pastor. His passion for his faith and family is really next level. He’s definitely “God body” very down to earth guy.

  • @avinabachatterjee
    @avinabachatterjee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The pastor is amazing... His wife is really lucky

  • @evacarnes1749
    @evacarnes1749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5978

    why is that girl belittling everything the priest said?? it's okay to not want to have sex with more than one person LMAO i guess she doesn't know how to respect people and their beliefs

    • @denise3233
      @denise3233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Pastor*

    • @Bigwaffel98
      @Bigwaffel98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +299

      she belongs to the streets

    • @jennifer3744
      @jennifer3744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@Bigwaffel98 literally 😂

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      she was not belittling him she was having fun and the priest was to he wasn't afended in anyway the world would be so much better if they act like him and her i gues you cant respect people

    • @VivekMishra-rr7yn
      @VivekMishra-rr7yn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      There would've been a time people would say its okay to have sex with multiple people and now we say its okay to have sex with one person.... Look how the times have changed haha

  • @SiniSimon
    @SiniSimon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2024

    I don't think justifications for porn as a "sex education" tool is a good idea.

    • @chocomilkshake9750
      @chocomilkshake9750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@europeansocialdemocrat you high brother?

    • @justcallmelucky
      @justcallmelucky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@europeansocialdemocrat ...

    • @andrew_li
      @andrew_li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@chocomilkshake9750 the name says it all tbh

    • @AVGyerra22
      @AVGyerra22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@chocomilkshake9750 Idk but whatever he's on I want it.

    • @kiki8792
      @kiki8792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@andrew_li you don't believe in BLM?

  • @breannemurrell3026
    @breannemurrell3026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I wish they would have talked about soul ties more. Especially for the pastor that had had previous partners.

  • @mollybrown8361
    @mollybrown8361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    the lady pastor seems so genuinely lovely

  • @itsnotthatdeepluv
    @itsnotthatdeepluv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3526

    note how the bald pastor said “i feel like...” or “i think...” & was automatically met with something to tear down his religion.

    • @k.a.3614
      @k.a.3614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Just because you say “I feel like“ or “I think“ doesn't make it automatically more respektful. There is a difference between saying “it's not something for me“ and “(I think) it is bad“. With the second one you are judging wether or not you include something like “I think“.
      And when you are judging people doing stuff in mutual consent that for me is intolerance.
      I didn't see how they went after his religion.

    • @tok33n14
      @tok33n14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      K. A. It’s not about being respectful. He said “i think” as to reference that it is his own personal opinion and not the teachings of his religion. There was no reason for them to go after his religion. And oh boy did they go after his religion.

    • @alyssarosexoxo5496
      @alyssarosexoxo5496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@rewangoda2900 saying things like "I feel like" or "i think" is actually proper, respectful communication, without pointing fingers. Hes saying that that those are HIS beliefs, hes not saying that they NEED to believe in the same thing.

    • @joanna2057
      @joanna2057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      K. A. He was not automatically judging someone by stating his beliefs, he was just putting his input.

    • @aisha5156
      @aisha5156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alyssa Rosexoxo
      Well I guess, but what about saying “I think you should go die?”...🤷🏾‍♀️Idk who would say, but hey. You never know at this point.

  • @belif2000
    @belif2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2200

    I think the problem here is that pastors don't underestimate or talk down to sex workers (which they shouldn't) but the sex workers seem to look down on pastors. They tend to see their religious values and choices as not important. A person can believe whatever they want, and you may not be agree with them but you have to respect.

    • @janellerazo8235
      @janellerazo8235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Elif Özdöner yes beautifully put.

    • @kerenchoi6967
      @kerenchoi6967 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      completely agree, i said this in a comment earlier but it just has to do with the type of people that tend to go into these fields. the sex workers are bold, wild (not in a bad way), yolo people. And that's super fun. But that mindset blows up opinions a lot while the pastors are very conservative, modest people. They are taught to respect in that way more than the others have because they feel they have been more oppressed

    • @tvbnine793
      @tvbnine793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      exactly. Nobody should ever look down on anyone for anything that they've done, as a Christian I've been taught that only God can do that. Jesus spent most of his time with the 'unsavory' characters, like prostitutes, thieves, alcoholics, murderers, etc. We're all human, nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes, pastors and priests included.
      "Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." John 8

    • @jacqueline7530
      @jacqueline7530 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes I agree with you that's a good point.

    • @romyvdd2570
      @romyvdd2570 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Elif Özdöner Thanks you

  • @rosemwewa3059
    @rosemwewa3059 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This went so better than I expected I love the respect and openness from the pastors 🤝🖤

  • @alicegiletta6922
    @alicegiletta6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really loved this one, everyone was respectful, they were cheering them up, it was wonderful

  • @MrsAmbMcC
    @MrsAmbMcC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1710

    I am an atheist.
    I’ve never thought I’d agree with pastors 😂😂
    But these sex workers were making it so hard to listen to their side.
    They were disrespectful and unwilling to listen... it was hard to watch and to understand them

    • @pipsdontlie3031
      @pipsdontlie3031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Man I’m a Christian and I felt myself agreeing with the pornstars a lot more.

    • @tino1tony228
      @tino1tony228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I feel like the darker woman was being disrespectful to the pastors and didnt allow them acknowledgement of their point of view.

    • @mynamesoriginal
      @mynamesoriginal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@tino1tony228 why didn't you just say black woman 😂😂

    • @flavorlens
      @flavorlens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha, same lol

    • @tino1tony228
      @tino1tony228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mynamesoriginal idk i just felt like saying it that way 🤷

  • @brandidupree3932
    @brandidupree3932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2843

    The pastor that is pregnant was so elegant, and well spoken. She was not for the jokes.

    • @brandidupree3932
      @brandidupree3932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Pseudo- nymph no

    • @twilit
      @twilit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Likening people having sex to wood glued together,... pseudo eloquent

    • @jeremiahtassinari1743
      @jeremiahtassinari1743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16
      Only Jesus Christ is the way to Heaven and be saved from hell.
      "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
      Romans 5:8
      "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6
      Have you confessed Jesus as your LORD and Savior? You must confess Him as your LORD and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead to be saved from eternal damnation in hell and be able to go to Heaven
      "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." Romans 10:9
      "For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one." 1 John 5:7

    • @joannereder4772
      @joannereder4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah but that just means shes not open minded to a lot of things so shes not elegant for being quiet for most of the video. they all came in and signed up to have more open views and talk about theirs.

    • @xMissEerie
      @xMissEerie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@joannereder4772 No. She's quiet becos she is LISTENING and DIGESTING what others are saying. She don't ask the sex workers questions probably becos she accepted or understood what they were saying. If someone were close minded, he/she would try to continuously challenge the points made by others.

  • @noxne1891
    @noxne1891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The pastor’s wisdom was clear, lust takes control of the mind, I remember when I was addicted I used to have to literally, close my eyes and think about anything else in order to get rid of that lust. I didn’t want it, those are demons operating within you trying to have you leave God’s will, and lust is a high ranking spirit, dont let it control your mind.

  • @opprrer3328
    @opprrer3328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Prn isn’t education, it’s entertainment.

    • @lyzh4288
      @lyzh4288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah...meth is also entertainment...but should you do it? No.

    • @opprrer3328
      @opprrer3328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lyzh4288 exactly, prn shouldn’t be a thing either

    • @ChuChu-rq3ht
      @ChuChu-rq3ht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opprrer3328 but then a lot of people would be jobless, porn should still be a thing since it supplies jobs and entertainment

    • @opprrer3328
      @opprrer3328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChuChu-rq3ht I still think it shouldn’t be a thing. Porn brings no help to society at all. The only ppl it «helps» are the horny ppl at home, with an addiction to it.
      Yeah the workers earn money, but it’s not good money. Other than the people getting paid for it - there’s only bad sides to porn, and it’s unnecessary.

    • @ChuChu-rq3ht
      @ChuChu-rq3ht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opprrer3328 i completely understand the bad effects of porn, but if you have an addiction to porn your to blame. i respect your point though

  • @lolllalow4342
    @lolllalow4342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9442

    honestly, porn is not a form of education.

    • @akashicshaka
      @akashicshaka 6 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      EXACTLY

    • @bcsscooter
      @bcsscooter 6 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      If it teaches you ways to have sex and how to use your body to give your partner pleasure, why not?

    • @princesslulu5795
      @princesslulu5795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +953

      It’s not realistic of most sexual encounters & is often very exploitative. Most women don’t want to be with guy after guy on camera and be physically injured. It can send the wrong message to impressionable youth who are inexperienced. If this is their main sexual exposure it might send the message that this is normal and they should accept it even if they don’t want to. There are even “rape fantasy”, incestuous (where the “performers” act as though they’re related), and some where while it’s not pedophilic it’s made to look like at least some of the performers are too young (usually by choosing actors with a younger/less mature physique and having them dress young). I’m not necessarily saying ban porn or anything but admitting that the industry can be exploitative and damaging. Another concern is that since it’s highly unregulated there’s no way for the viewer to know if anyone in the video is being forced to do it, especially “amateur” videos and ones from countries with little to no government oversight. Most major US companies have at least some oversight to protect the workers but this might not be the case in say Mexico which has a lot of government corruption

    • @Alex-qs9jf
      @Alex-qs9jf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Brady Casper because that's not education? It's nothing anyone needs to learn?

    • @umberdandelion
      @umberdandelion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +371

      Brady Casper Most mainstream porn shows guys forcing their huge dicks and going in and out and the woman having huge orgasms in 5 minutes. That's definitely not how it works, and some guys even belive it and are surprised when their gf doesn't orgasm from penetration. Only about 20% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. And that's just an example.

  • @glacio95
    @glacio95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3790

    I just wanna sit with this bald dude and talk about life

    • @glacio95
      @glacio95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Cog Gear that's not the only reason at all. Both the church and a considerable number of priests have done some bad, bad things over the years. Some not too long long ago.
      Besides that, people outgrew religion because we have a much broader and scientific understanding of the world. There's no reason to believe in a God if not for therapeutic reasons. That's why I appreciate things like Buddhism a lot, it's more of a spiritual way of life than something based on blind faith.

    • @glacio95
      @glacio95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Cog Gear Well, everything you say can, is or either will be explained by science -except the existance of spirit and sould, which is debatle for its very nature.
      I'm not saying there's no God, I'm just saying I don't believe in one. I'd rather trust someone who's giving us answers and making things work (like the very internet we are using to have this conversation) than some old book that tells us things are the way they are just because it works like that. I simply don't know if there's a God, but looking at this world it sure doesn't feel like it. There's too much bad, and not just amongst people.

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@glacio95 Hi, you are raising valid points, especially with regard to "all the bad happening in this world". You might wanna check Frank Turek and Ravi Zaccharias on YT. Both give an excellent explanation on why there is evil in this world and that it does not conflict with the existence of God, but rather confirms it. Basically what they say is that our ability to love and do good cannot exist without the possibility to chose to do evil. Love is all about free will. Have a nice day :)

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joe McIlroy Yeah it's on my list ! I've always wondered whether it was worth it. Your feedback confirms it is. Thanks a lot !

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joe McIlroy also, go check cold case christianity on YT if you don't know it yet !

  • @violetbilodeau9179
    @violetbilodeau9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think that these videos are great at reminding us that we are all human period. So easy to judge and hate when we look at beliefs and sides of a debate but let's love no matter what.

  • @asymmetriq
    @asymmetriq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love these ones where everyone is actually laughing and being real humans with each other rather than arguing the entire time

  • @teohyongxuan299
    @teohyongxuan299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    I really hated the fact that they invited sex workers that has 0 manners and professionalism when they are supposed to be discussing, not belittling others.

    • @anmol3457
      @anmol3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly.

    • @generic1588
      @generic1588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SydeKick that’s rich

    • @chaboi7
      @chaboi7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What Did you expect anything else from a sex worker? Respect? Morality?

    • @edanpinhasi256
      @edanpinhasi256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SydeKick tbh tho, I’m not even trying to sound like a terrible person, but they are basically human sex toys. They get paid to have sex with some random person they never met. It’s disgusting and I find it vile that some people are so desperate they need to pay someone to have sex with them.

    • @JDUBB2399
      @JDUBB2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SydeKick I said this word for word lmfaooooo

  • @Yonagunidc
    @Yonagunidc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7901

    I was expecting the sex workers to be open minded and the pastors to be close minded... I grew up Christian and I absolutely respect both sides but the pastors were way more respectful and well spoken.

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I also assumed that

    • @noellepeterson4588
      @noellepeterson4588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Beca Coelho I totally agree

    • @fay5361
      @fay5361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      True

    • @sg1145
      @sg1145 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      É verdade, mas os trabalhadores do sexo tem razão acho eu..

    • @sg1145
      @sg1145 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Os trabalhadores do sexo são mal-educados mais ils são importante.

  • @mrbunnylovespancake1
    @mrbunnylovespancake1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pastors-1 sex workers-0

  • @soleirra9642
    @soleirra9642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these videos, they are really eye opening and educational

  • @phakeout4035
    @phakeout4035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1825

    The pastors were kinda being attacked. This was less of a trying to find a middle ground and more of a here’s why I’m right, and I’m going to convince you that I’m right...

    • @charmainephasoana6850
      @charmainephasoana6850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Facts!!! I was really mad

    • @lolmahea
      @lolmahea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I totally agree !!

    • @ashes31
      @ashes31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly.. you would think it be the other way around based on people's assumptions.. nope the pastors were there listening calmly and answering in a proper manner. The women pastor and the bald pastor definitely were on my top list. Beautiful answers in my opinion.

    • @xg3990
      @xg3990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, they were being attacked but they were being attacked from a place of ignorance. The only respectful sex worker was the guy. And the only true pastor was the bald guy. Hes a man that kept saying again, you can disagree with me and my standard, but this is the standard I've chosen to live by. Referring to the bible. Meaning, it's not about opinions, it's not about what feels good, it's not about being right or nice in societies eyes, it's that he has simply chosen to live his life according to the bible. And the bible is pretty clear in this specific subject. They all looked so happy to be there, honestly. And I LOVED that the lady pastor said when she was giving her opinion about the soul ties that it was just her opinion based on humanity and nothing to do with the bible. They were honestly pretty great pastors. Pastors that say it's not about what you think, but ground your faith in the bible so you dont have to question. All without sounding condescending(which I hope I'm not but probably am)

    • @SpektrikMusic
      @SpektrikMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't see this as them being attacked. I thought both sides brought up points and I'm sure so much were left out it needs to be longer. I felt like by the end they all kinda understood not everything is for everyone and it's ok to believe in something you don't.

  • @cutiefun7838
    @cutiefun7838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +845

    99% of the comments - "the bald pastor"

    • @hoobliconhazuki919
      @hoobliconhazuki919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He do be talkin straight facts tho

    • @raketti7631
      @raketti7631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this too

    • @kaylee2515
      @kaylee2515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Other 1%: "that black girl"

    • @roy9776
      @roy9776 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He deserves the 99% tho lol

  • @EstebanGunn
    @EstebanGunn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I came here open minded and indifferent and left not liking the sex workers.

  • @sabinakines
    @sabinakines 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love that this was civil, sometimes I have trouble watching the videos when things get out of hand. I could also resonate with both sides as a Christian and as someone who isn't against sex work. :)

  • @hannahmontana9159
    @hannahmontana9159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3568

    I was addicted to porn at such a young age and it is NOT positive. It warped me and caused mental issues. And they’re not talking about that. They dont want to be judged. That’s ok. But porn and lust is a problem that should be talked about

    • @kingofpositivevibing7475
      @kingofpositivevibing7475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      how did u stop the addiction?

    • @catie7466
      @catie7466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      im sorry you went through that. i hated how she said "kids and adults" need porn for education like no not kids?? it's genuinely traumatic for a kid to get into porn and can cause mental issues. i wish they talked about that more. i also wish they talked about sex trafficking and child trafficking and how sites like pornhub profit off of that.

    • @froggy3268
      @froggy3268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hannah Cochran how young?

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it's not a problem but I agree it needs to be talked about but porn is like a drink its only bad if you let it because it fixed my marriage

    • @silverfullbuster9177
      @silverfullbuster9177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@lesnarahamilton5674 how in the hell did porn fix your marriage?

  • @mrsg9268
    @mrsg9268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4916

    My father was a porn addict. And I'll tell you right now.. the damage it did to my parent's marriage was insane.

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      😭

    • @voldibayizitunda2178
      @voldibayizitunda2178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Wow I'm so sorry 😔😢😔
      I hope God gives you the strength to make it🙏

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@daboydudus3912 his name is lucid ?

    • @daboydudus3912
      @daboydudus3912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@magicslave3066 his youtube name is lucid or i am lucid

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@daboydudus3912 where is he

  • @hyrunnisa997
    @hyrunnisa997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Porn is not sex education. Lotus was so unbelievably rude and disrespectful and I think the pastor should have called her out for it. Just because they disagree doesn't give her the right to be condescending and nasty and make cruel jokes. The conversation should be respectful.
    I feel like she is acting that way because she fundamentally doesn't agree with her lifestyle or she has a lot of shame and is over compensating.

  • @aw3299
    @aw3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could have kept watching this for 16 hours, they had such fun group chemistry

  • @youreinvalid8493
    @youreinvalid8493 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5442

    Two of the workers just made fun of the bald pastor (who's actually an amazing guy that more pastors should try to be). So rude.

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I know, right.

    • @thebestame3582
      @thebestame3582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      He was saying crazy stuff to be fair. I don't think they were being rude and they were just joking about it but like come on. Mr. "I Watch Porn And Think Women Should Be Taking Off Their Clothes Everywhere" had some iffy things to say.

    • @jhoanathompson313
      @jhoanathompson313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

    • @user-gr5op5xm6j
      @user-gr5op5xm6j 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂they did

    • @swagorous6749
      @swagorous6749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It was all fun and games. Obviously the pastor didn’t take it to heart.

  • @AriannaElizabeth
    @AriannaElizabeth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    As soon as the guy said “ my hope is that one day we stop putting Christian values over human values” all I can think is THAT IS SUCH A WORLDY STATEMENT 😩🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

    • @IHaveACameraToo
      @IHaveACameraToo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arianna Elizabeth honestly

    • @s.on.y
      @s.on.y 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Forreal

    • @joshywashy3453
      @joshywashy3453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Arianna Elizabeth I don’t think these people really understand how much those 2 values overlap each other. It’s just that the Bible is seen as a huge burden of rules that don’t allow for any true freedom.

    • @jennyoyster5054
      @jennyoyster5054 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arianna Elizabeth Exactly....

    • @cynthiag5110
      @cynthiag5110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mathew James that's not true at all, the bible isn't in any way a burde,

  • @clairetyler94
    @clairetyler94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m agnostic but I agreed with the pastors.

  • @michp571
    @michp571 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nobody is entitled to sex (or seeing sex for that matter) and the more this idea is perpetuated, the less self control people will have, and will assume entitlement to other peoples bodies.

  • @mariam9967
    @mariam9967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2581

    Ironic how the people who complain the most about being judged are the most judgemental lol

    • @daisyhuangvuelvas6089
      @daisyhuangvuelvas6089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr

    • @Michael5iLVEr
      @Michael5iLVEr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Sometimes, the best defence is attack.

    • @SUPABOOOMB
      @SUPABOOOMB 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      They're being defensive in advance because sex workers are judged, demonized, even assaulted everyday

    • @matthewkweon1919
      @matthewkweon1919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Michael5iLVEr sometimes. But 90% of the time it isn't. Does that mean Attacking violence with violence is the best defense? No! You want to show the other side and really open the eyes of new and young generations who will lead in the future.

    • @noname-dw9te
      @noname-dw9te 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SUPABOOOMB same things happen to Christians all the time...sadly

  • @wereallpinkinside8452
    @wereallpinkinside8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2781

    when reading the title, i honestly thought i would be in the sex workers’ side, but damn they’re not good at listening at all. they just think they’re right

    • @kellenpies160
      @kellenpies160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      we’re-all-pink -inside why tf would u be in their side

    • @wereallpinkinside8452
      @wereallpinkinside8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Kellen Pies wow i’d happily have an adult conversation about it but your attitude makes me not wanna bother, so i hope life just teaches you in time x

    • @kami2848
      @kami2848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Right and they sound so ignorant and obnoxious it grinds my gears. They sound so uneducated except that blonde who is chill

    • @edanpinhasi256
      @edanpinhasi256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Putting religion aside, I seriously want you to explain to me why you be on their side. I love having these type of conversations so please respijd

    • @edanpinhasi256
      @edanpinhasi256 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *respond

  • @nikkinyokabi6111
    @nikkinyokabi6111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Makes me proud to be Christian💗..... The black girl needs to chill though

  • @snowytulips
    @snowytulips 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel like the sex workers were pushing their ideas and attacking them a lot. They were also criticizing the pastors considerate words. If he wants to censor some things then that’s his choice. They’re really repetitive. Like when they said before about sex being the reason marriages fail that’s not always a problem some people don’t need sex to have a happy marriage. Just because your life revolves around one thing doesn’t mean everyone has to. :\

  • @jailensimon1123
    @jailensimon1123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    Can we all agree the pastors were all so nice and respectful, and seemed to want to learn more

  • @Within_your_means
    @Within_your_means 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1854

    The bald pastor needs to start his own youtube channel. Felt like he really has a beautiful connection with God and the Bible. Such a wonderful human being.

    • @abelo1676
      @abelo1676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He needs to be more private about his personal sex life. It's not for public consumption. Talk to your pastor about it or your spouse. Sad to see him drop to the level of these degenerates and bring shame to his wife.

    • @asaphnazare7640
      @asaphnazare7640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@abelo1676 Dude, did he say something especific? Nothing at all, You know every couple is healthy to have a sexual life.

    • @xg3990
      @xg3990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@abelo1676 shame on you to speak for his wife. He was great. He HAD to have had a conversation about it with his wife AND prayed about it. Calling them degenerates just because they're sex workers...honestly...this pastor was truly an inspiration so I'll just say we should all try to be like him and NOT JUDGE and instead try to teach via the way we live our own lives as an example and show love! He lives his life according to the bible and jesus ate with the thieves and prostitutes and beggers. So go spread some love, not HATE!

    • @user-zu5sp7wx2g
      @user-zu5sp7wx2g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@abelo1676 You're the crazy kind of religious I was expecting in the video. Instead it was the most likable person on the planet who miraculously found a way to trigger you..

    • @mariodemelo9551
      @mariodemelo9551 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh 🙈

  • @AliisaTaipalefr
    @AliisaTaipalefr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate this bald guy for being so cool - even when laughed at & ridiculed at - and try and explain calmly his views.
    Also, he seems genuine, warm, loving towards his wife & overall nice person.
    Also I think sex work is work & have nothing against that. I just like this dude & he is respectful towards others. That should be the main thing anyway, we all can not see the world in a same light but what we can do is to be respectful & warm to others - ofc there are situations & opinions that are so wrong (the ones that hurt other people/oneself) that something must be done about it, but I mean generally.

  • @paulajj3856
    @paulajj3856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the were all so cool, but especially pastor Eddie i thought was great cause he seemed to be very open with with the ones who seek his advice, and im all about being open and honest :)

  • @abrar9130
    @abrar9130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1654

    You can see which side is unhappiest and in denial by how aggressively they expressed their opinions. The discontentment is so clearly deep-rooted, it’s actually sad to watch.

    • @Maria-cc8rj
      @Maria-cc8rj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Cog Gear the wording. Bro a true goat

    • @crypkid2276
      @crypkid2276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Ever think that people are sick of being treated badly by self-righteous hypocrates (not talking about the people in this video, they were lovely), so they develop a gut-reaction of standing their ground and defending who they are and what they do with more passion than someone that has never been subjugated for their sex life, job and views beyond being called a "prude"? This whole debate was going pretty well, actually. The comparison between the two groups is in presentation and the way they express their feelings on the matter can differenciete because of their experiences. A sex worker will be more outspoken and have a more powerful presence than a spiritual person that is usually more mick and short-spoken on topics like this.

    • @crypkid2276
      @crypkid2276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Cog Gear I'm wasn't referring to you when writing that response. You seem to be a very respectful and nice person that wouldn't think more highly of themselves for being more spiritual or conservative.

    • @KindaCaitlyn
      @KindaCaitlyn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your passive aggressive comment isn’t doing your point any good hunty.

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      living happily is living sad???

  • @ameliareid2357
    @ameliareid2357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7958

    I felt that some of the sex workers were being a bit degrading towards the pastors. Like talking to them like they’re lesser than them. That just seems wrong to me.

    • @thebestame3582
      @thebestame3582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      How were they talking to them like they were lesser?
      It seemed like a debate of ideas to me.

    • @ameliareid2357
      @ameliareid2357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +459

      To me, saying that someone’s penis doesn’t know how to act is degrading. You’ll notice that the girl in the colorful pants talk down to the pastor in the blue shirt a lot. 92 other people agree with me but your opinion may be different. Yes, I did just bring in the amount of likes I have so come at me.

    • @ellietomczynski4880
      @ellietomczynski4880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Amelia Reid Its doesn’t matter how many people agree or disagree, your opinion and The Best AME’s opinion are both valid.

    • @ellietomczynski4880
      @ellietomczynski4880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Amelia Reid I think your being a bit patronising yourself, actually

    • @ameliareid2357
      @ameliareid2357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Ellie Tomczynski it was a joke but ok also, it’s you’re

  • @eclipsxicsclips9741
    @eclipsxicsclips9741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:00 “she says in a society where we’re not talking about sex” that’s literally a huge thing society is being taught on right now. Where she been living.

  • @eristonmansambu8225
    @eristonmansambu8225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They didn't agree on everything but the mutual respect and the willing to listen to each other always blows my mind. I really love these conversations.

  • @polyxenib8562
    @polyxenib8562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8986

    Why they be acting like sex is everything in life? It's not.

    • @ezekielmarlowe8044
      @ezekielmarlowe8044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      For real😂

    • @stephenlaw8451
      @stephenlaw8451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +344

      I guess it is because its their career. And I guess the sex workers proud enough to come onto this discussion/video are going to be the ones most invested into this lifestyle.
      Not trying to choose sides, but yeah I would think these particular sex workers would hold views that sex are a lot more impacting in their lives

    • @polyxenib8562
      @polyxenib8562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      @@stephenlaw8451 Sure, it's what they do in their everyday life's and impacts them a lot. But they talk about it and give the impression that sex is everything in this world. Like to be happy etc. Kinda disappointed cuz I know it's not something not needed. Its needed sure. But it's not everything. There's so much to do and see. It's like they have a point of a view and that's it. They dont change or accept anything else.

    • @stephenlaw8451
      @stephenlaw8451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@polyxenib8562 totally agree. I'm sure for the sex workers, their fulfillment stems largely from their career and how they are able to help their clients. However, this shouldn't excuse them for not trying to understand how another person's faith and lifestyle may grant this other person fulfillment. To say the least, I was also disappointed by the sex workers during this discussion.

    • @polyxenib8562
      @polyxenib8562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@stephenlaw8451 So true. You said everything I wanted to say and in better English! Yo thanks for this, yeah a career a person follows has a huge impact on their life. We can see this thorough the video. For both sides.

  • @albertorivas529
    @albertorivas529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3488

    "By that ooooooooold book"
    Show some respect men. The pastor is really trying not to judge you and is responding sincerely and all you do is disrespect a religion... shame

    • @jenn2426
      @jenn2426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      periodt.

    • @erenjeager5290
      @erenjeager5290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      alberto rivas- I agree with the pastors on this one

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Yeah they starting to get under my nerves. They talk like middle school children, just so reckless and disruptive. At their age, its not cute.

    • @davidtolbert8446
      @davidtolbert8446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SSBMA1994 ok boomer

    • @algis24
      @algis24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      but is an old book writed for an old civilization...

  • @manbeefcake
    @manbeefcake 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That high-fived situation was amazing. I laughed for a full minute.

  • @catherineparr714
    @catherineparr714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the opening part snatched my french hood.

  • @girlwithapearlearring4522
    @girlwithapearlearring4522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5412

    I’m not even Christian but the pastors were amazing.. real role models.

    • @girlwithapearlearring4522
      @girlwithapearlearring4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@t0xtricity2 oh, my mistake 😅 thank you for correcting me! ♥️

    • @t0xtricity2
      @t0xtricity2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@girlwithapearlearring4522 You're welcome

    • @coiners9426
      @coiners9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @zosangpuiiralte3226
      @zosangpuiiralte3226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️

    • @reshmathomas4197
      @reshmathomas4197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Love hearing that the Christians are not being hated on tbh loll

  • @kel638
    @kel638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3872

    I'm dead at everyone calling him "Bald Pastor." The wise pastor has a name.😅

    • @OmarThePuppy
      @OmarThePuppy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Kinda like how people were saying “black girl” or “asian guy” ??? They have names too.

    • @ESCL2004
      @ESCL2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@OmarThePuppy probably easier to call them what they look like lmao

    • @danmancosa6634
      @danmancosa6634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg hahahahaha

    • @KevinShinwoo
      @KevinShinwoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I don't remember a single one of their names. I can only remember:
      Black chick
      White sex worker girl
      Male sex worker
      Female pastor
      Bald pastor
      Asian guy

    • @jesusislord3050
      @jesusislord3050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Buzzy is a pretty bad name tbh

  • @norasharp8821
    @norasharp8821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seriously this was good! But this blonde lady that's pregnant is 🔥🔥🔥 she's very intelligent and knowledgeable. You can tell she study very well. Wish they showed more, I wanna pick her brain. This interaction was great!

  • @GAB8407
    @GAB8407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Props to them all. This was AWESOME!!!

  • @toxichazmat5785
    @toxichazmat5785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2963

    Honestly I cringed really hard when the sex workers essentially made fun of the bald guy for only having sex with one person... in today's world it's surprising enough that he's even comfortable admitting that but of course they weren't content (with themselves?) until they mocked him for it.

    • @laura___elise116
      @laura___elise116 6 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      Yeah at that part I was thinking like, why couldn't they just accept what he said, he was always listening to them.

    • @syntheticprincess7381
      @syntheticprincess7381 6 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      i didnt really take it as them mocking him i moreso took it as them being surprised because suddenly his viewpoint made so much more sense to them.

    • @toxichazmat5785
      @toxichazmat5785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      That's possible but the tone of their voices didn't really make it seem like that.

    • @d3vilish_angelx
      @d3vilish_angelx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I think they laughed because they were surprised.
      Laughing is not always bad. I think they laughed also because they couldn't imagine doing it themselves.
      Fyi they said they admired him and stuff like that

    • @aldenheterodyne2833
      @aldenheterodyne2833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      So I think to them, it's like meeting someone who's never traveled. Traveling is fun, and great, and you get a lot of good experiences, but not everyone wants to travel, and they're fine with the life that they have in that one town. I think that it's totally fair to poke fun a little bit for someone not wanting to travel and have these different experiences. I'm guessing that these folks would personally feel imprisoned if they were told that they would never be allowed to travel and see the world, and experience all of the interesting things that come from that.
      Its understandable that they're ribbing him a little for not having experienced hardly anything since they veiw it as beautiful and eye opening.
      I say this as someone who has never had a romantic/sexual relationship: I think that everyone should have the freedom to have as many sexual encounters as they consent to. I totally would want to have sexual encounters, but I haven't had an opportunity yet. Folks who choose to only have one partner is fair game for good-natured ribbing, folks who choose to have many partners can also have a good-natured ribbing. (So long as you aren't trying to shame them)

  • @Jared-ll3tt
    @Jared-ll3tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4531

    I think we should redo this, but with more mature sex workers because this group clearly can't handle someone with different views.

    • @vincentpaino534
      @vincentpaino534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      You are very correct sir

    • @tyvanhoose6691
      @tyvanhoose6691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @Anti-Vax Mom better to be abandoned by a parent then be stuck with an anticaxer mom who's letting me die of tetenus.

    • @juanpablorobayo9891
      @juanpablorobayo9891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      @Anti-Vax Mom The male sex worker literally talks about conversations with his parents. You're wrong right out the gate (and I say that as a Christian).
      You. Are. Not. Helping. The. Things. You. Think. You. Support.

    • @iistyleszii
      @iistyleszii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Zero too defenseive

    • @lononjdl
      @lononjdl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Juan Pablo Robayo And how does that mean they’re not toxic or abusive?

  • @robmccannan9294
    @robmccannan9294 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the black girl was so embarrassing to watch omg... set us back 500 years

  • @JonathanParsons.
    @JonathanParsons. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    7:00- Christian values= Human values!