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  • @shaundramarie575
    @shaundramarie575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4929

    They didn’t talk about how porn influences human sex trafficking.

    • @domagario6910
      @domagario6910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Shaundra Marie how does it?

    • @feelsman7837
      @feelsman7837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @Tyler Hunt
      Google the Girlsdoporn scandal for one of the most recent examples.

    • @leleohanmu8142
      @leleohanmu8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      fr porn is so terrible. It’s very addictive and makes you have a certain thought towards things, iykyk. It damages your thought process and makes your body feel like it wants more and more. most porn vids are unrealistic and give u a false sense of what is wrong and right for u. It’s overall just a horrible thing to watch.

    • @von6413
      @von6413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@leleohanmu8142 that's your fault if you take it like that wdf. Most people just see different kinds of porn and go about their day cuz "different strokes for different folks".

    • @matthewlaunchbury265
      @matthewlaunchbury265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@leleohanmu8142 Most things are addictive, Like alcohol and smoking etc

  • @paddyofurniture9523
    @paddyofurniture9523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7393

    "Why are young kids scared of sex?"
    You never walked in your parents doing it, and it shows.

    • @sunnycherub7208
      @sunnycherub7208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +487

      Patrick Sullivan That’s how my relationship with my parents shattered. I may be overreacting, but walking in on someone you trust doing something that I found negative, just shattered me. I need therapy.

    • @toyapryce429
      @toyapryce429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +388

      Sunny Cherub i’m sorry but i couldn’t help but laughing 🤣😂

    • @Infinity-xk5hm
      @Infinity-xk5hm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      @@sunnycherub7208 Sex isn't negative

    • @hihiz432
      @hihiz432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Sunny Cherub ?? Dasa joke right?

    • @basz7802
      @basz7802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Sunny Cherub lmao wtf is wrong with you

  • @slartibartfast2949
    @slartibartfast2949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1607

    Porn films can't be considered sex eduction. The Fast and Furious movies aren't driving lessons.

    • @ullintalulna7066
      @ullintalulna7066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Undervalued comment

    • @yeet8627
      @yeet8627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      true

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      as a gay guy it did educated= for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school

    • @theomega4homeschool325
      @theomega4homeschool325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @joshdavis6061
      @joshdavis6061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is an underrated comment

  • @falakgurnani
    @falakgurnani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4490

    Being anti-porn, doesnt make you an anti-SEX, its a different thing. You can protest against porn and still have sex! Learn to distinguish.

    • @absolutelychampagne
      @absolutelychampagne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      Exactly. Sex can be a beautiful thing but porn usually turns it into something violent and disgusting

    • @susannahtrentham7636
      @susannahtrentham7636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      This is so true! (Similarly) More people need to realise that pro-sex doesn’t mean pro-porn

    • @gortimergodaperson4559
      @gortimergodaperson4559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no one is saying that._.

    • @khulood.04
      @khulood.04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HONESTLY

    • @TheMadVentriloquist
      @TheMadVentriloquist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Consider the Puritans: they were anti-fornication and anti-pornography, with fornicators and adulterers and other lewd persons publicly shamed and condemned; yet their families consisted of 7-10 children, with 6 being the minimum.
      Yet if say you are anti-porn, you are called a Puritan, despite Puritanism being very pro-martial sex, and sex within marriage in general.

  • @Zoza15
    @Zoza15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35152

    Lol, porn is not education its a business, lets be honest here.

    • @mia0000hehehoho
      @mia0000hehehoho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +815

      Exactly. Imagine teaching felacio to grade schoolers.

    • @angelgaviria6697
      @angelgaviria6697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1428

      Besides, it is totally addicting, once you started watching it very often, you can't stop 🙁

    • @Zoza15
      @Zoza15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@angelgaviria6697 I know.

    • @thomasf.9717
      @thomasf.9717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @@mia0000hehehoho Education is something that grownups can get too.

    • @mia0000hehehoho
      @mia0000hehehoho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      @@thomasf.9717 Education must contribute to a common good for the society.

  • @mooniex825
    @mooniex825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7508

    "why are kids fearful of sexual interaction"... because they're kids I guess 🤔

    • @hikkicornmori359
      @hikkicornmori359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

      I’d also assume that a lot of it is due to the people the kids are around, who usually tell them that sex bad

    • @kiwikiwi2483
      @kiwikiwi2483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@hikkicornmori359 Right

    • @kiwikiwi2483
      @kiwikiwi2483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Sultan Abdulhameed II Strange... I've watched it for years and I still have yet to commit even a single crime. Must be weird huh?

    • @Lorynae
      @Lorynae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@kiwikiwi2483 Good for you i guess?? Nevertheless pornography can become an addiction, is a big factor that causes rape and is not a good thing overall. It is a business that promotes unrealistic standards, stereotypes and desires.

    • @Ez_Miro
      @Ez_Miro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cornfield like they should u do realize that there kids

  • @myleshota
    @myleshota ปีที่แล้ว +270

    I don't understand why people believe that it is okay for children to see pornography, when I was 13 I had a friend who was around 11-12 and she was addicted to pornography. Her and me watched it together and thats when she sexually assaulted me. Children shouldn't ever watch pornography!!

    • @NotToffie
      @NotToffie ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This is crazy dude so many children watch it

    • @dewolf123
      @dewolf123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​@@NotToffieYeah.....literally the problem, parents neglect children stumble on things they shouldn't. Also why letting them in technology too soon is bad

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They're going to be exposed to it sooner or later

    • @fortuneegbunike3728
      @fortuneegbunike3728 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@blacklyfe5543it starts with thirst traps on every app

    • @Very_Silly_Individual
      @Very_Silly_Individual หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@blacklyfe5543That's like saying "they're going to be assaulted sooner or later, might as well do it to them young"

  • @badumtisss4929
    @badumtisss4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    “Stepsis gets drilled from behind”
    Why aren’t they teaching this in schools, top tier education.

    • @casanova7635
      @casanova7635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      This comment is underrated

    • @notasinglesoul1179
      @notasinglesoul1179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      LAUGHED OUT LOUD BRUHHH

    • @joshdavis6061
      @joshdavis6061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is the best comment

    • @mantralibre1367
      @mantralibre1367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Badass Heisenberg level. 😂

    • @coffeemetro
      @coffeemetro ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I READ YOUR USERNAME AFTER THE COMMENT AND OMG IT LINKS SO WELL

  • @diebienemaja279
    @diebienemaja279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9891

    Like, I agree: children *should* be taught that sex is a positive thing but like... not through porn.

    • @Jaann1919
      @Jaann1919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Little Jimmy needs more Dopamine

    • @kaylapoolexo
      @kaylapoolexo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +493

      It gives people a messed up view about sex and women in general.

    • @andrielisilien
      @andrielisilien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Porn shouldn't be the introduction to sex. But what about older minors like 15, 16, 17 years? They most likely are exploring sex, sexuality, and such. Could porn be educational? Not cheap free porn that doesn't explain consent or safety very well.

    • @andrielisilien
      @andrielisilien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ladyfoxwf1075 thank you for answering my question.

    • @anotherstorm2061
      @anotherstorm2061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@andrielisilien I'm not gonna lie most 15 to 17 year olds dont find porn educational, but also the sec ed classes are usually just uncomfortable and not well done. When we finally get to do the devils tango we realise that it's completely different to what porn has taught us.

  • @Sircrocodile547
    @Sircrocodile547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3965

    Strict parents vs laid back parents would be good

    • @greetness1458
      @greetness1458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol yea

    • @manuelkiatoko
      @manuelkiatoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is it!!!!

    • @danidani9611
      @danidani9611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jasper Pearcey yesss

    • @ognjenrajic1525
      @ognjenrajic1525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yess that is nice one

    • @vaabigardi
      @vaabigardi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think that's the video where the people discussing would actually get into a fist fight 😂
      I've never seen people more angry than when they are questioned about their parenting

  • @iyahmarla6055
    @iyahmarla6055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1106

    Porn doesn’t educate. I think we can all say that it destroys our perception of the world😅

    • @Smackheem1991
      @Smackheem1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are a very smart person!

    • @mason4966
      @mason4966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Never destroyed my perception. So no we can't all say that.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      as a gay guy it did educated for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school

    • @aliciabell4116
      @aliciabell4116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@mason4966 yes it would have subconsciously stop trying to defend your addiction.. life tip: morality doesn’t equal inclination.

    • @mason4966
      @mason4966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aliciabell4116 I'm not addicted it to it. Morality is somewhat subjective.

  • @LiteworkTV
    @LiteworkTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +991

    Im going to be honest, i been watching and learning from porn since i was 10 years old. From that experience i was insecure and hated myself. It also ruined my life in many ways then one. Super low confidence, so much social anxiety and low drive. Some of my lowest points in my life was due to watching porn. I could promise you this, Once i stopped , my life has been nothing but successful. I found a beautiful GF at my job , in which i wouldve been to nervous to walk up to her and talk to her. My confidence is sky rocketed and my overall prospective of life has changed.

    • @andrewgilliam3891
      @andrewgilliam3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I am so extremely happy for you!!

    • @denisbreus7933
      @denisbreus7933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same and likewise big guy, we’re all gonna make it

    • @zidneya
      @zidneya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm going to be honest with you, I've been watching porn since 8 years old (I started with softcore oh Red Shoe Diaries, I loved that show on cinema Golden Choice). From that experience, I was happy (watching adult content when you're not supposed to, kinky). As time went by it did help my view, I realized that women weren't these delicate flowers they were human beings with libido and urges like me and it helped me relate with them on a personal level. Increase and confidence since I realize that I wasn't wrong for having sexual urges. Some of the highest points in my life were thanks to porn. Some of the best stories I've watched, and appreciate were thanks to porn great authors like Jacky St. James, Tsuyatsuya, Tamaki Nozomu, and Nicole Conn. That procreation and sexual acts are carnal acts that I could perform by anyone (the gama of male porn actors is quite wide as well once you pay attention). It helped my life in many ways. And whenever I didn't watch on a regular basis I get obsessed, always thinking about sex. I have a steady job, I have more money than my folks when they were my age, I have my place of my own and any relationship I’ve had being open about sexuality was never an issue. You were the problem pal, not porn.

    • @josecarlosxyz
      @josecarlosxyz ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i dont believe on such crap

    • @bithon5242
      @bithon5242 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s awesome dude! Fck p orn honestly

  • @eiyuu257
    @eiyuu257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16920

    “Our society needs better sex education. “ This actually made me laugh cause imo our society just needs a better education overall.

    • @serendipitized
      @serendipitized 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Tom C. TRUEEE

    • @bloodydove5718
      @bloodydove5718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      tooo accurate. Our society is definitely failing everyone with how things are right now, and have been for about 70-80 years

    • @kekegal
      @kekegal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Obviously.. but the topic was sex and porn

    • @dennisjr77
      @dennisjr77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Our education system is about creating workers! We need more entrepreneurs and “be your own boss,” type education. It’s all bureaucracy now!

    • @doctorstrangelovee
      @doctorstrangelovee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Education in general is fuckin' underbudgeted.

  • @michaelacollinsvevo
    @michaelacollinsvevo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7529

    Foster kids vs parents who gave their child up for adoption

  • @juniecw
    @juniecw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    I respect his experience, but it hurts to see a trans person call porn a "tool for education" when it's a huge reason why trans people (trans women especially) are seen as nothing but a fetish.

    • @turquoiseturquoiseturquois1174
      @turquoiseturquoiseturquois1174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wind wind eind eind wind mill mill mill eedee

    • @machtnichtsseimann
      @machtnichtsseimann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's trying to change that by giving dignity to trans persons in sex education. Slowly, but surely.

  • @Quetzal00358
    @Quetzal00358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    One of the main reasons I stopped viewing porn is because I found out how it’s linked to human sex trafficking
    My family lives in a third world country and my niece is at the prime age for people who target girls for sex trafficking. I started thinking that girls in porn could have gone through what I’m worried my niece might go through if things go badly

    • @JHNTR
      @JHNTR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i hope your niece is safe

    • @Quetzal00358
      @Quetzal00358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@JHNTR Thank you. She is doing very well and she is safe

    • @anotherhetalian8499
      @anotherhetalian8499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same here.
      I live in a third world country and there are quite many cases of rape (mainly about an underage child) here.
      Then I remember the porn from my countries in the hub. Some of it's titles are of high schoolers and some seemed very non professional. The titles of the videos also is very childish and it's like an immature boy is writing them.
      Just hope the one in the hub isn't linked to the cases.
      Also, I hope for the best for your niece and family...!

    • @daegugloss1231
      @daegugloss1231 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@anotherhetalian8499 is your country Philippine? I've watched a documentary about child sex trafficking and there were kids being sold for prostitution in the little age of 9-11 and the parents themselves knew and helping the abusers selling their kids for money it was so heartbreaking to see I hope it's not happening anymore :(

    • @VincentNoot
      @VincentNoot ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That movie with Nicholas cage, 8mm shows how obvious the connection often is.

  • @MoMo-py4mo
    @MoMo-py4mo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3063

    When the trans man said he was a trans completely caught me off guard

    • @mayakelly3457
      @mayakelly3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Not me. As a woman, I knew instantly lol

    • @AntonioRodriguez-vb5fc
      @AntonioRodriguez-vb5fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      MAYA KELLY how did you knew? Honest question. I Thought it was a man.

    • @lcjgoossens4488
      @lcjgoossens4488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      First time I had that reaction. Most of the times you can see. Or if you can't see. See it after it is known. Now it is known and I still can't see it.

    • @heroineslater
      @heroineslater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      MAYA KELLY good for you

    • @mayakelly3457
      @mayakelly3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Antonio Rodriguez It was an intuition thing and it seems to me that no matter if a woman decides to present as a man they don’t ever have the same cadence lol Biologically there are just innate ways women look when sitting walking standing etc lol

  • @JustMe-os6ts
    @JustMe-os6ts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17116

    Learning about sex from prn is like learning how to be a nurse from the GTA nurses.

    • @civilizedmonster
      @civilizedmonster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Correct. Lol

    • @sodiumso6015
      @sodiumso6015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

      I mean, if you perform cpr to a headless person, I'm pretty sure they'll live

    • @gruajamace
      @gruajamace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      LMFAOO

    • @adobe7360
      @adobe7360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@sodiumso6015 only until they require mouth to mouth

    • @lj.853
      @lj.853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That is the perfect analogy! 😂

  • @littlefishiesinthese
    @littlefishiesinthese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    To say porn is "an amazing avenue for education" is too optimistic and very naive. Sure, there is ethical porn out there, but there are also thousands of people who are victims of the industry.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      as a gay guy it did educate for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school

  • @taylorfrink1182
    @taylorfrink1182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    men who dont watch porn are hands down better lovers, to me at least

    • @xIG0RAWRx
      @xIG0RAWRx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      but where do y’all find em :(

    • @requiem.5016
      @requiem.5016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@xIG0RAWRx I'm here 😀

    • @0calicocat0
      @0calicocat0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      definitely, i wish there were more dudes who didn't watch porn

    • @requiem.5016
      @requiem.5016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@0calicocat0 it's not easy to quit you know, a study showed that the brain of a porn addict was similar to that of a heroin addict

    • @0calicocat0
      @0calicocat0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@requiem.5016 i know it isn't easy! porn has similar effects to that of hard drugs, though many guys won't even acknowledge that they have a problem or that there is something seriously messed up about the industry. Acknowledging that you have a problem is always the first step to recovery

  • @TheWintergreenMan
    @TheWintergreenMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5131

    I want to see a middle ground of people who are racist and anti-racist

    • @walrusinatie4347
      @walrusinatie4347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1000

      carlos portillo it’ll be hard for people to admit there racist

    • @shimmipenguin1764
      @shimmipenguin1764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      Maybe clan members

    • @samanthasherrard162
      @samanthasherrard162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      Nobody admits it, you don’t have to be white to be racist (and if you were saying that if it was klan members there then it would be white vs black... not all white people agree with the klan’s ideology and black people aren’t the only race)

    • @bobtony6036
      @bobtony6036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      no one is really racist anymore. despite what CNN tells you.....most people now are just xenophobic.

    • @JessePinkman08
      @JessePinkman08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The truth hurts doesn't it? More like black people vs white people

  • @Sophie-gk1me
    @Sophie-gk1me 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4408

    this is what a healthy discussion looks like. take notes people.

    • @DjJooze
      @DjJooze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      sadly, most people are not this articulate and thoughtful to have discussions like this.

    • @najgorszysamotniknaswiecie
      @najgorszysamotniknaswiecie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sadly almost no porn looks healtly like woman here say

    • @Lizadegun
      @Lizadegun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sadly I don't have anything to reply with so I started my comment with sadly.

    • @BerlinWallNeverFall
      @BerlinWallNeverFall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is rare in 2019

    • @fartface6096
      @fartface6096 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      2k like

  • @Heyzavier
    @Heyzavier ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Watching this series I learned people want 0 judgement and 0 consequences for the decisions they make and that is just not how life works

    • @dante_felix
      @dante_felix ปีที่แล้ว +9

      well said. couldn't agree more

    • @fanaticentity
      @fanaticentity ปีที่แล้ว

      I judge you.

  • @HillbillyYEEHAA
    @HillbillyYEEHAA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I've had ex bfs DEMAND I do sexual acts they've seen in porn. I've even been dumped because I didn't want to.
    Porn makes men see women as objects and nothing more.
    I've got 2 cousins in porn, both are unhappy, both have been forced into things they didn't want to under the threat of not being paid. So I consider that rape via coersion. Both have had stds due to the job, both have mental health issues...
    I was told by Mel that they don't always clean the sets, the toys ect
    My other cousin went to a set where she was asked to use toys other people had used....
    If porn is so healthy, why do women have an average life span of 36 in the porn industry?

    • @Quetzal00358
      @Quetzal00358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I am very sorry to hear that. I hope they are doing ok

    • @jennifers1040
      @jennifers1040 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This porn addict I know doesn't even want vaginal sex anymore. His wife told me he ONLY wants anal. So, her pleasure clearly isn't his priority like most porn.

    • @aliciabell4116
      @aliciabell4116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true!!

  • @Pintsizeamy
    @Pintsizeamy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29478

    i think homeschooling vs public schooling would be an interesting debate.

    • @Acarruth98
      @Acarruth98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      I would love to watch this!

    • @bbyvkae
      @bbyvkae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Amy Binns yes!!!

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I was about to say private vs public, but lemon beat me to it. Good job on your reply lemon loves her friends!

    • @monkeyman868
      @monkeyman868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WANT IT NOW

    • @jacobhalenda1183
      @jacobhalenda1183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Amy Binns I’m homeschooled 🤙

  • @lanacastalacroix1565
    @lanacastalacroix1565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5983

    "Porn helps people to accept their body." when many performers have been through surgery procedures to all look the same...

    • @WomenofHighValue
      @WomenofHighValue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      Lana Lacroix this was a good one. Porn increases comparison. “I don’t look like that”. I would say more insecurities than securities. lol

    • @joosepviitkar6523
      @joosepviitkar6523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      What porn you are watching? Porn that was made in the 90s ?

    • @joyf801
      @joyf801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      I can find a lot of naked chubby bodies on the internet. The category of amateur porn is HUGE.

    • @kaylapoolexo
      @kaylapoolexo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      That’s why many women have insecurities now and why many men expect women to look like their porn stars.

    • @kaylapoolexo
      @kaylapoolexo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Joy Fitzgerald yes that may be true but the reality is, is that people prefer watching porn with smaller tummy’s and bigger ass and tits

  • @krystalwahler436
    @krystalwahler436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    On a personal note, watching porn makes me look at every single human I encounter as a sexual object. I've often wondered about the links to porn and committing heinous acts like rape, child porn, etc. I don't see people as anything but sexual objects if I've just watched porn.

    • @yvs6663
      @yvs6663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      for me its the exact opposite. mastrubation takes the sexual tension out of situations where it doesn't belong(aka interactions with people of the opposite gender who aren't sexual partners). visual material(not necessarly p*rn in my case) just makes the process more fun. also, people who repress their sexuality(and not let it went through things like porn) are more likely to engage in criminal activities related to SA. just look at priests.

    • @krystalwahler436
      @krystalwahler436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yvs6663 Interesting perspective. Yes, masturbation can make you feel relieved, but the way porn eeks its way into your life is the pandemic.
      I'm sure you can admit that watching porn (or lewd pictures in your case) allows you to view others in that lewd sexual way (even if you're not actively lusting after them, you can still envision them in situations, clothing, positions, etc because you've seen it).
      As far as priests, they only verbally repress themselves to the outside world. Many many many have been found with lewd material that they watch/read/view.

    • @chikinbukit3531
      @chikinbukit3531 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yvs6663 That’s why you don’t understand. You don’t consume it, so you don’t know how it affects the brain.

  • @tofubunny3701
    @tofubunny3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    well it's funny to be seeing this now, considering that there's an anti-pornography movement nowadays that is EXTREMELY justified. Pornography has always been seen as negative in all senses, and it's an exploitative industry: it exploits impressionable minds (since a big percentage of porn consumers are teenagers and sometimes even children), and hooks them to something fairly sinister. It's also exploitative because it further contributes to body issues and insecurities. But most importantly, the industry is a dangerous one. MindGeek and other adult video corporates have profited off of r*pe videos, child pornography, revenge porn, and sex trafficking. It is also a blatantly misogynistic industry and is very unethical toward female workers, as they are paid less and sometimes sexually exploited and assaulted while working. Frequent pornographic consumption also messes with brain receptors and the release of rewarding hormones, like dopamine and oxytocin. The porn industry knows very well it's unethical, dangerous, and exploitative, but they receive no repercussions and do nothing to solve the issues unless the New York Times decides to expose them.

    • @gergarfritz3442
      @gergarfritz3442 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hard disagree your painting a broad brush and generalizing allot.

  • @livhaugen9738
    @livhaugen9738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3140

    Watching porn affects you in ways that you would never think.

    • @frozenshadow2029
      @frozenshadow2029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      that's it

    • @liampatrick3110
      @liampatrick3110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Could you elaborate?

    • @livhaugen9738
      @livhaugen9738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +486

      Liam Patrick Well in the future, you might expect your wife to act a certain way sexually (like a way you see girls act in porn) which is extremely unrealistic. It effects relationships like with family. It’s gross but porn like incest can start to get into your head and you might start to think certain things ab siblings, uncles, etc. Porn’s also very degrading towards women and gives men unrealistic exceptions of women.

    • @___________2169
      @___________2169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@livhaugen9738 does your opinion also say the same for women? Because I've seen many cases where both genders are as bad and people in our society think it's only men unfortunately.

    • @livhaugen9738
      @livhaugen9738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ___________ I think everything that I said goes for women too. Except the one where it’s degrading towards women.

  • @teabee5168
    @teabee5168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7798

    I find it interesting how I only agreed with the anti-porn people, considering I watch porn.

    • @KING_ATLAS9
      @KING_ATLAS9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      You’re addicted?

    • @douglasmacarthur702
      @douglasmacarthur702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1168

      Realization that you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

    • @AlmightyFartlord
      @AlmightyFartlord 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      @@douglasmacarthur702 For real man, ✊

    • @user-xj4vo8ui5d
      @user-xj4vo8ui5d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +347

      Same. I’m not addicted. Like it hasn’t hindered my way of life (although I’ve been working on stopping, I go for about 2 weeks without watching now) but one day I decided that I didn’t need this anymore and I decided I was done.

    • @Mikelaxo
      @Mikelaxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Both side had very shallow arguments and their thoughts weren't very clear

  • @purplecatloverrandompizza
    @purplecatloverrandompizza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    I'm against porn, I don't really care if someone watches porn but I am against the industry
    it is very exploitive and can instill unrealistic expectations whether it be for sex or beauty standards for people the industry also has a lot of child trafficking
    I've never watched porn and I have no interest in it (partially because I'm asexual so sex as a whole is just a no from me)
    I feel like if I were to watch porn I would just be uncomfortable and awkwardly sitting there avoiding looking at the screen
    although I will admit I have read smut. but that's a totally different thing

    • @jansojele289
      @jansojele289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The porn industry is exploitative
      You're asexual (and that's totally fine obviously) so you don't like porn
      But that doesn't mean porn is bad for everyone right

    • @purplecatloverrandompizza
      @purplecatloverrandompizza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jansojele289 yes

    • @mathewh3766
      @mathewh3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@purplecatloverrandompizza no its bad for everyone.

    • @clava7851
      @clava7851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m also asexual! and I’ve also read smut but I rather read a fanfic or book with a cute love story or interesting plot since smut is mostly meh to me.
      The thought of porn has always terrified me and I was never curious enough to search it up. I’m against porn considering it’s highly addictive and extremely bad for your mental health as I’ve heard it.

    • @saikatkar4452
      @saikatkar4452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are perfectly entitled to that opinion. You do not have to watch porn. Many of the things you say are actually true. That said, there are many people who enjoy making porn, watching porn and having sex on camera. It's a Job for many people. Some start out because of wrong reasons and want out, and I hope they do. But what about those that do not want out?
      Pornography is seen in bad light by almost everyone, but a Vast Majority still watch it. And enjoy it. So, what can you do? Nothing.

  • @kingston872
    @kingston872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I wouldn't say i was an addict but I think my relationship with porn was unhealthy. I felt uncomfortable watching after many years. I gave nofap a shot was on and off for a while. A 3 months here and then relapse a 1 one month there and then relapse and so on. But then I met a woman who was unlike anyone else I've ever been with I shared my struggle with her and as a romantic partner she has been supportive of my goals to quit. She has been a huge motivation in putting that life behind me. I have never felt so free as this is the longest I've gone without consuming it. I don't even get urges to look at the porn anymore. Sometimes all one needs is a supportive partner.

    • @IgoArs
      @IgoArs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's great when you have a supportive partner, but what if you don't? For me watching porn is a way to not go crazy.

    • @akshayraman6790
      @akshayraman6790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@IgoArs You think you're dependent on porn, but you aren't.

  • @joan7801
    @joan7801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23272

    why does the bearded man look exactly like what i imagine a porn producer to look like

    • @usnavyvet2002
      @usnavyvet2002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1183

      bearded dude actually has a vagina. no lie. Trans dude.

    • @averagethegardenfan
      @averagethegardenfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1769

      usnavyvet2002 He’s still a man.

    • @FitForRivalsFan
      @FitForRivalsFan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1791

      @@usnavyvet2002 why did you bring that into the convo 💀

    • @usnavyvet2002
      @usnavyvet2002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      @@FitForRivalsFan go to xvideos type in "buck" and watch for yourself. He's a dude with a vagina. Is there some rule I broke by pointing out the fact he is a dude with a vagina?

    • @FitForRivalsFan
      @FitForRivalsFan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +856

      @@usnavyvet2002 i mean its not like anyone was asking, since he said it himself in the video anyways.

  • @johannes2466
    @johannes2466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2086

    People who believe in global warming vs people who dont

    • @JudyAbbott494
      @JudyAbbott494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What?!

    • @Vamrekisses68
      @Vamrekisses68 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes!

    • @daygooo6236
      @daygooo6236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s called climate Change dumbass not global warming. Look it up

    • @reggna
      @reggna 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      we need this!!!!

    • @technogd5509
      @technogd5509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Diego Pereira global warming is an example under the entire subject that is climate change

  • @rossm2853
    @rossm2853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    even ted bundy once said in an interview "I've lived in prison a long time now. I've met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me. And without exception, every one of them was deeply involved in pornography. Without question, without exception, deeply influenced and consumed by addiction to pornography" this isn't a coincidence. porn enables men to see women less as human beings and more as sex objects.

    • @Maksie0
      @Maksie0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So we're gonna listen to Ted Bundy now?

    • @rossm2853
      @rossm2853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Maksie0 yes, on this point, it is quite telling

    • @yaaaaasfire9621
      @yaaaaasfire9621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Literally tho pretty much all these dudes were raging misoginst but instead people are like hmmm what makes their brain tick to go so far

    • @wildcat6669
      @wildcat6669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Maksie0 considering the fact that if anyone knows how to turn them I into a monster it would be him.

  • @dontchangemynamebruh
    @dontchangemynamebruh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    porn addiction is a very dangerous thing and the way it's so easy to access on the internet worries me tbh, especially for those who are younger.

    • @emilys4566
      @emilys4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      right, The 18+ warning in some sites is not enough they can lie.

    • @inihilisme1511
      @inihilisme1511 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, i fell into this at 4 yo, did nothing educational.

    • @akhiosas
      @akhiosas ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inihilisme1511 my condolences, i cant imagine viewing such filth at that age, i hope youre able to recover with that.

    • @maroonmaroonmaroon2985
      @maroonmaroonmaroon2985 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilys4566 crust night light

    • @gergarfritz3442
      @gergarfritz3442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just because you are addicted doesn’t mean I am. This is such an authoritarian way of dealing with things; whenever you have a problem with something just ban it.

  • @kmk1225
    @kmk1225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5397

    Jubilee is what Buzzfeed imagine in its wildest dreams it could be. Shout out to the jubilee crew.

    • @farahkardaly8988
      @farahkardaly8988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Konrad Malthe Klingest istg lol

    • @masario5832
      @masario5832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Facts

    • @angiel516
      @angiel516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Lol nah, Buzzfeed doesn’t want diversity of thought

    • @everythingisawesome2903
      @everythingisawesome2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Buzzfeed is too biased to have a valid opinion about anything.

    • @Excal123
      @Excal123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Except buzzfeed has like 19million subs and over 16 i repeat 15.5 billion video views... I like jubilee a lot more tho

  • @wEcUtBoTtLeS
    @wEcUtBoTtLeS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3848

    Self-Made wealth VS Generational wealth (People born into money)

    • @pablopanesso1057
      @pablopanesso1057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Chandon that’s sooo good oh my god!

    • @lotusflower6926
      @lotusflower6926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      this would be awesome!!!

    • @Desire3sss
      @Desire3sss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YESSSS PLXZ

    • @trimotionmedia5487
      @trimotionmedia5487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Dude....What is there to argue? No clue what your saying

    • @jhejames9963
      @jhejames9963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That would really be super amazing...

  • @brianzvc
    @brianzvc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Addiction is needing something you dont love

    • @qkenop6281
      @qkenop6281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that hits hard.

    • @gergarfritz3442
      @gergarfritz3442 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love to spend my free time as I see fit.

  • @kwebb121765
    @kwebb121765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how Jubilee does things, especially on Middle Ground. You guys don't take sides. You guys don't judge. There are other channels where the OP tries to encourage empathy toward people of an opposing position, but are careful to say that they're wrong or they're bad. Their empathy comes off as sympathy with its nose turned up. But you guys encourage people of different points-of-view to get right down on the ground with each other, looking each other in the eye. Bravo.

  • @carlagallegos9525
    @carlagallegos9525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4327

    Pro birth-control and anti birth-control would be amazing!

    • @johnsampson6387
      @johnsampson6387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It would be...considering the prominence of birth control's effects on modern day pair bonding. There are theories that birth control affects woman's choice of men to be more similar to her male relatives than if she is off the pill. How women prefer men with different scents while on and off the pill. Also, since her body thinks she is pregnant while on the pill, could this help explain the vicious levels of hypergamy amongst women nowadays? With the rise of birth control, we've also seen a rise in divorce rates and inceldom in males...coincidence?

    • @isabellabello
      @isabellabello 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      John Sampson I feel like you pulled that information out of your ass like what-

    • @draang409
      @draang409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They did search it

    • @someoneyoumightknow2795
      @someoneyoumightknow2795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Damn some people are against the pill

    • @strive4252
      @strive4252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This would be good, I feel like most people today don't hear the argument against birth control and contraceptives.

  • @RapnuzeI
    @RapnuzeI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5666

    For a guy named J.K. he’s very serious😂

  • @The12Fly
    @The12Fly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    It's strange that despite being someone that consumes porn, I have a much stronger affinity for the anti-porn side. I love that none of them even said they were "anti-porn" in their intros, but simply stated a simple statement of the profound effects that porn has had on their lives/careers/professional lives.
    I agree with Abigail, it does require some level of maturity to consume porn, and it's perfectly okay to consume the material and understand that it does not accurately represent or portray, necessarily, healthy ways to do sex. When J.K. talked about the experience of failing to find pleasure (erection or stimulation) outside porn, that really hit me because at some point, I thought I was having the same issue. Given, I have been single for about 26 years and celibate for 23 of them, I encountered a problem where it felt like I had some issues that J.K. may have talked about and that made me afraid to pursue relationships.
    Despite being a sex worker, Riley doesn't just talk about the industry from a pro-stance. She outlines nuances and issues faced by sex workers and understands the issues caused by stigma and a lack of sex education. And I love how Maria isn't necessarily on the offensive, but speaks from a place of professional/educational sense.
    That whole piece about emotional intelligence from J.K. I found really interesting. Disney to porn. Definitely is such an extreme transition for a lot of us growing up!

  • @MixiAlexis
    @MixiAlexis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m on my period and hormonal..this video made me so emotional and I loved how mature x respectful everyone was ❤️❤️

  • @anna-zc3nq
    @anna-zc3nq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33653

    not giving up until we get a middle ground of flat-earthers vs scientists.

    • @shammyshakes6478
      @shammyshakes6478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2805

      It could even just be flat-earthers vs. People with an iq of over 2

    • @TysonIsKetchy
      @TysonIsKetchy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      yes!

    • @user-mb7so2yw4o
      @user-mb7so2yw4o 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      @@shammyshakes6478 haha, better then the original comment

    • @minjaekim4669
      @minjaekim4669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Omg yes plzzzzz

    • @leesharushing5849
      @leesharushing5849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      anna yessss!

  • @lizzywhite4231
    @lizzywhite4231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2780

    private school vs public schooling would be cool

    • @godlikejr.3683
      @godlikejr.3683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you really want some extremely intellectual discussion(mainly economics based) I suggest you search Thomas Sowell and Milton Friedman debate against public school.

    • @farahkardaly8988
      @farahkardaly8988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lizzy White I really wanna see different perspectives on that matter. I respect jubilee and their crew for the hard work they have put off. It’s honestly really fascinating and eye opening. The fact that they’re all really respectful too is amazing.

    • @urgfcallsmedaddy8488
      @urgfcallsmedaddy8488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree I teach at a private school.

    • @sofie-lc2hl
      @sofie-lc2hl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Homeschooled is better everytime.

    • @calmliketheocean1712
      @calmliketheocean1712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or maybe home school vs public school

  • @jaybird089
    @jaybird089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    I’m not anti-porn. I’m anti-porn Industry

    • @diegoseba12
      @diegoseba12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is the correct stance on this subject.

    • @GreenWhaIe
      @GreenWhaIe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@diegoseba12 there's no such thing as a "correct stance" when there are multiple views

    • @user-rb5eh7yo2m
      @user-rb5eh7yo2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why? No one is forcing you to buy or watch it. Plus there is no difference. You only want amateur porn to exist for free? Sounds like you are coping, If some people wanna make money cus people buy porn then its not your problem. No one is forcing you to consume it you are just jealous they make money of it you want everyone to make porn for free LMAO.

    • @sentientskittle8807
      @sentientskittle8807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I love this comment. Stuff like written erotica and drawn art is so much more creative, almost like an artistic thing, and much better for the brain then the over-produced stuff you see everywhere

    • @user-rb5eh7yo2m
      @user-rb5eh7yo2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @AUStin Yes you are right on that

  • @jennifer7685
    @jennifer7685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, this was such a great conversation! I agree with everyone here, it’s a great group of people with all great points.

  • @kamryn8041
    @kamryn8041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3919

    Porn can really make people insecure about their bodies.

    • @culturageekyartesmarciales1169
      @culturageekyartesmarciales1169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Why?

    • @kaiden6614
      @kaiden6614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      Cultura Geek y Artes Marciales because mainstream porn showcases perfect bodies that are unrealistic expectations placed on men and woman

    • @thebignacho
      @thebignacho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      @@kaiden6614 so do movies, tv shows, and games. You have to be insecure already to have porn make you insecure.

    • @dracomalfoy1316
      @dracomalfoy1316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree

    •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kaiden6614 doesn't all form of entertainments do that

  • @_.sule_iman
    @_.sule_iman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30390

    We really need flat earthers vs round earthers.

    • @hectortorres4738
      @hectortorres4738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +543

      I think that agreement would become violent

    • @Skankhunt-xr5lb
      @Skankhunt-xr5lb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +623

      the bottom of your shoes are flat...designed for a flat earth. case closed.

    • @paxthegoat2869
      @paxthegoat2869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Skankhunt 42 wait... I’ve never thought about that.🤔

    • @KaitlinBell
      @KaitlinBell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Suleiman mohamed YESSSSSS

    • @plantsarecute
      @plantsarecute 5 ปีที่แล้ว +219

      But flat earthers always stay in the middle..if they go near the ends they might fall off

  • @LeonahMagalona
    @LeonahMagalona ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys know who to get to be guests in your videos. I don't need drama I just need genuine and respectful conversations. And I can see it in all your videos. Kudos to you guys behind Jubilee. ❤️

  • @djusticebeauty4542
    @djusticebeauty4542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have to say, am pretty impressed with how well spoken & concise everyone’s points were.

    • @justabeardedguythatisahero9848
      @justabeardedguythatisahero9848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what did the bald guy say ?? that he has a vagina please, have you read gary wilson ?? or watched some of the videos here on youtube related to the topic.

  • @emansol9588
    @emansol9588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12827

    I find it ironic how a Human Rights Activist is pro porn. The amount of sex trafficking that happens directly due to porn is enormous, and it seems he didn't even consider that.

    • @izzy350
      @izzy350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

      true it’s a contradiction

    • @jaspertong2852
      @jaspertong2852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +348

      sex trafficking has been prominent for thousands of years. how can you say that porn is the direct cause?!

    • @Sasha-gl4ip
      @Sasha-gl4ip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +476

      @@jaspertong2852 well it influences it

    • @Sasha-gl4ip
      @Sasha-gl4ip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@jaspertong2852 its just bad pplls

    • @olivieraccard3895
      @olivieraccard3895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

      He's trying to make educational porn for transgender people to feel more comfortable about their bodies. While a lot of porn is definitely not educational, I think that because of his target audience it makes sense. He probably considered the human trafficking, and he might even be fighting against that. It wasn't brought up in this video, so we can't decide wether it's ironic or not because we don't have any of the facts. They discussed in the perimeters of the statements that Jubilee gave them.

  • @asby2154
    @asby2154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3440

    This is the most civilized and understanding middle ground ever.

    • @ShatursunovaEva
      @ShatursunovaEva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Porn makes people close to each others

    • @KucheKlizma
      @KucheKlizma 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You say it as if it's a good thing they got a bunch of risk-averse invertebrates to "talk". xD

    • @ericx6969
      @ericx6969 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KucheKlizma it for educational purposes

    • @MikiArtist
      @MikiArtist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nah, I've seen other ones that have like no tension at all. I think the Christians vs. Scientists and the Natural beauty vs. Plastic surgery ones were like that, if I remember correctly.

    • @a_glacial_death_
      @a_glacial_death_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica Jackson But it also depends on how you use it. If you watch porn without your crush knowing it, then you may have a problem. And some guys are so addicted to watching pornography that they'll end up single for a long time.

  • @gorillagrippussy4530
    @gorillagrippussy4530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    j.k. has such a beautiful smile. he looks like someone i wanna be friends with.

  • @khazimlamankayi
    @khazimlamankayi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel like search engines like Google play a huge role in this. Pornography shouldn't be the first thing to show up when someone searches sex, it should be educational videos and articles about sex. And pornography should not show up until someone searches for those porn sites

  • @morganralston9799
    @morganralston9799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13542

    Teachers vs students!!!! It would be extremely interesting to hear questions about stress, homework, mental health, standardized tests, etc.

  • @jayw6034
    @jayw6034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6590

    This really should have gone on longer. These people actually seemed like they were really listening to each other.

    • @izayahemerald2070
      @izayahemerald2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Agreed

    • @jeremysmith9694
      @jeremysmith9694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      They scratched the surface. It easily could and should have been an hour. Productive conversation.

    • @foreskinmcfat-nutsjr
      @foreskinmcfat-nutsjr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right? We barley get that I liked them

    • @rockmyworldmusic
      @rockmyworldmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Who knew that one of the most polite and engaging conversations between opposing viewpoints would be around porn!?! Lolololol

    • @etherwxlf
      @etherwxlf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No they didn't. Buck specifically failed to listen to the story of a kid who thought his father was abusing his mother.

  • @Eris_Norregard
    @Eris_Norregard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I liked every single person in this video, I'm honestly kind of shocked. Their opinions were often clashing with each other and yet they all remained completely calm and respectful. Very mature and well spoken. Also, I'm used to always picking a side when I watch these videos but this time I feel like every single person in the room brought in some valid arguments. I wouldn't mind if the episode was much longer.

  • @MM-fy8yx
    @MM-fy8yx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this episode, so many points of views and experiences

  • @savanha8217
    @savanha8217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2738

    Parents who support LGBT vs parents who don’t support LGBT

    • @ashleyz232
      @ashleyz232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Savanha Marie YESSSS!!!!

    • @ashleyz232
      @ashleyz232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This!
      M

    • @PenguinZpoison
      @PenguinZpoison 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Naw ,parents who don't support will get bashed so hard and be seen as homophobes no matter what they say

    • @alexcarey8005
      @alexcarey8005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PenguinZpoison yes

    • @kvs7983
      @kvs7983 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Religion

  • @warrenthrasher1436
    @warrenthrasher1436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3501

    Porn changes your mind on a chemical level. It changes men's viewpoint towards women. Its playing with fire...

    • @spidaxtreme
      @spidaxtreme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Hey man not all of us are like sleeper agents waiting to go berserk.

    • @gamecoolguy619
      @gamecoolguy619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      There are different type of porn and different categories (which does not always have male female or one dominating the other...) and it only reflects what society or communities shows/wants therefore the problem is society viewpoint on sex not porn...

    • @lexie02jones25
      @lexie02jones25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yess

    • @capribuch8198
      @capribuch8198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@gamecoolguy619 the problem with that statement is that you are separating society from porn. members of society come together to create porn, whether professionally or homemade. Even if we were to view porn as an isolated product outside of society it perks the mind and enables dangerous consumption. It is indisputable that there are are less demeaning videos out there, but its the lure of the most popular ones that draws the attention of human minds, both from the fact its a popular video and because the "lure" is comparable to a drug hit- having multiple women, taboo subjects like step siblings, etc. that is hard to not be curious or interested and really distorts views of women (and men!). As a woman I have experienced this way too many times. Bc my natural body is "desirable" i am not even known by my achievements but as the "big boob girl" by both men and women; my classmate said to me "have fun being a sex toy," being chased to my car by a guy saying he'd impregnate me, ive had people say they had sex with me and when i asked people why they believed it they said, literally, because of my body shape. Mind you, im a person who is choosing to wait; there is literally 0 warrant for anything i previously mentioned except how women are portrayed in media and porn. Warren is right when he says porn is playing with fire to peoples minds, and its not just chemically for the men attracted to women. Im not even completely dead-set against porn- i'd say im 90% against it- bc non-degrading videos of men and women do exist, people need to blow off steam every now and then, can be watched to reinvigorate a couples sex life, etc. But MOST consumed videos are the degrading ones, and the actors, directors, script writers, etc. are not separate from society; they are a part of it.

    • @haythamkenway8675
      @haythamkenway8675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gamecoolguy619 the problem is society viewpoint on life not murder...

  • @marktheprussian
    @marktheprussian ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Even though i am still addicted, i am against it. It sounds super hypocritical but thats why it is an addiction. It takes an incredible amount of determination and willpower to get clean of it and yet it is super easy to relapse. I think we would be better off without it, that said i believe sex education should, like the people in the video said, not only be about biology but also educate on an emotional level.

    • @gergarfritz3442
      @gergarfritz3442 ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds like a you problem why are you restricting my first amendment rights because you have no self control.

    • @maroonmaroonmaroon2985
      @maroonmaroonmaroon2985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gergarfritz3442 by your logic, I guess public ndty and public sx are first amendment rights too.

    • @Very_Silly_Individual
      @Very_Silly_Individual หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not hypocritical at all. It shows you are at least aware you have a problem.

  • @travisxpickle
    @travisxpickle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the openness, civility, and even warmth of this conversation.

  • @victoriahilary4942
    @victoriahilary4942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5837

    Someone : i am a pro
    Erin : that's not vegan

    • @nicoppedal6574
      @nicoppedal6574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      LMFAOOOOOO IM DYINGG😂😂 you win the comment section award periodt

    • @victoriahilary4942
      @victoriahilary4942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nicoppedal6574 lol

    • @exosvocals2526
      @exosvocals2526 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭

    • @mynameisjeff683
      @mynameisjeff683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      what is this? i see this kind of comment everywhere on jubilee videos

    • @victoriahilary4942
      @victoriahilary4942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@mynameisjeff683 you should see it. Cause erin was being salty af

  • @PizzaFvngs
    @PizzaFvngs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4779

    Nobody, and I mean NOBODY watches porn to be “educated” in the terms which Buck person is perpetuating.

    • @jessicagomez3131
      @jessicagomez3131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Keith Kilian the only education a “porn” could be is if they show young girls how to use a tampon lol

    • @TheTeremaster
      @TheTeremaster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Especially when anyone who acts in the porn industry would specifically tell you never to look towards porn for education, it's insane

    • @MA-rw3ec
      @MA-rw3ec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I think he’s specifically talking about as a trans man not seeing that anatomy, or understanding of how that works when you’re taught sex is between male and female. I don’t think he means let all the kids watch porn. But also I remember before I had sex for the first time I watched so much porn because I wanted to know what to do 😂 although porn shouldn’t be used as an education tool, there should just be better sex ed that not only focuses on the biological and anatomical functions, but that sex should be enjoyable, consensual, that you don’t need pornstar looking genitals, etc. If sex wasn’t stigmatized and the whole idea of virginity and purity wasn’t pushed, then kids wouldn’t need to watch porn to understand what sex looks like, then have misconstrued ideas of sex.

    • @Nicknamefivenumbers
      @Nicknamefivenumbers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Buck is trans and shows trans guys different ways to do things

    • @TheKaineHill
      @TheKaineHill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I did, so you’re wrong to say “nobody”.

  • @pizzaropizzaro3859
    @pizzaropizzaro3859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    From personal experience, I have had three people confess they were having ED and my advice was to stop watching porn and it worked. Porn desensitize men specifically from real sex.

    • @greengreengreen5132
      @greengreengreen5132 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need floaters it on the border of restaurant

    • @gergarfritz3442
      @gergarfritz3442 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do you with your limited sample size generalize that to all people.

  • @ubo5880
    @ubo5880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i havent watcht P for 2 days im never turning back

    • @vinijrera_
      @vinijrera_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Keep up bro I'm trying too

  • @rainbow3304
    @rainbow3304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4645

    Porn raises wrong images about how sex should be or ...look like

    • @poejavelski148
      @poejavelski148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      I think there are pros and cons. Porn gave me some ideas that I utilized in real life that my gf loved that I may not have known to do naturally. On the other hand, it brainwash people into thinking all women have D cups and all men have 9 inch dicks among other things.

    • @markleland6337
      @markleland6337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes

    • @jamesbernales0168
      @jamesbernales0168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@poejavelski148 well said brotha

    • @NYC1E1
      @NYC1E1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Like what? In my experience women like everything I’ve seen in porn. Well except for the donkey fiasco…

    • @judewaide8328
      @judewaide8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Problem with the industry rather than porn in general. Nothing wrong with things like amateur vids

  • @naomikazadi9036
    @naomikazadi9036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2896

    Discussion between light skin black women and dark skin black women about colorism in society and the entertainment industry

    • @aquar36ia
      @aquar36ia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      I like that idea but I wouldn’t want it in a video like this were they’re stated as “vs” or against each other

    • @solenep.8825
      @solenep.8825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      oh. my. God. We need this

    • @memebrazy2295
      @memebrazy2295 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yasssss

    • @ShelbieMua
      @ShelbieMua 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Let's put "and" instead of "vs"

    • @nicenights6121
      @nicenights6121 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      definitely.

  • @KakashiH318
    @KakashiH318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The girl in the red is so sweet and innocent. She is a keeper.

    • @pinkinkling1905
      @pinkinkling1905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We must protecc

    • @madelinegarcia2736
      @madelinegarcia2736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@pinkinkling1905 she's a grown adult stop treating her like a child or something

    • @korteygus3947
      @korteygus3947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@madelinegarcia2736 i feel like you just said this to start drama 😭 either that or you took it too seriously idek

    • @madelinegarcia2736
      @madelinegarcia2736 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@korteygus3947 LMAO I JUST WANTED TO KNOW 😭😭😭

    • @Bonniebelle_00__
      @Bonniebelle_00__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually I found her to be quite narrow to her approach if things

  • @DanielaRodriguez-wj5qf
    @DanielaRodriguez-wj5qf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good! This channel is a gift!!

  • @angeliquereg
    @angeliquereg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3023

    this is probably the chillest middle ground episode yet

    • @inksashawn
      @inksashawn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Like it

    • @candaceanderson6251
      @candaceanderson6251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Go to pornstars vs pastors.

    • @ZicoTops
      @ZicoTops 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Scientists and Religious Leaders is imo the best one

    • @dereklouther9372
      @dereklouther9372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've seen chiller like weed vs non weed smok3rs

    • @christellazihalirwa1536
      @christellazihalirwa1536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christians VS LGBT was great

  • @saltedsammie
    @saltedsammie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2677

    The eight year old kid was fearful because he is just that.... AN EIGHT YEAR OLD

    • @MrSlowPaper
      @MrSlowPaper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      CRAZY WHAT THIS BUCK THING SAYS

    • @sowhat...
      @sowhat... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw the kid might then think that's what the mom does to the dad not the other way around😂

    • @sowhat...
      @sowhat... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So y'all are saying it's not because there's sth wrong with porn? 8 year olds are not scared of every single thing. If he was scared of porn it's because something's wrong with the porn not just cuz he's 8

    • @sowhat...
      @sowhat... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw they handle it differently for a reason. Because they're more sensitive as opposed to bring desensitized like most adults kinda like a hitman is used to murder like no big deal. It's not because he's mature it's because he's in too deep to see the truth but the innocent kid can see more clearly. I don't understand your last statement at all. Of course they handle it differently. That's literally what I said. But why bad differently and not good differently like candy or running or whatever? Maybe there's sth inherently wrong with it?

    • @sowhat...
      @sowhat... 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw what a virile name Buck is tough. I can't compete I guess I'm just a man.

  • @kayla-marieortizlafrazia4210
    @kayla-marieortizlafrazia4210 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How truly sad this person is to think that he was worse for not having pornography as a child.

  • @jerryhart5520
    @jerryhart5520 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How did they not even adress the STD'S that float around in the industry

  • @angela.escobar
    @angela.escobar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1375

    Spectrum: do all vegans think the same?

    • @Robert-wv4jt
      @Robert-wv4jt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Angela Brown I would love this, I’m personally vegan and there are a lot of nut jobs out there, and I would love people to see we’re not all crazy. Haha

    • @angela.escobar
      @angela.escobar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Robert I am vegan too! That’s exactly why I suggested this video.

    • @katelinishere1484
      @katelinishere1484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Robert-wv4jt yes! Most vegans dont going around hating everyone like idiots believe they do. They are just like u and me but dont support the torture of animals!

    • @angeliparraguirre7329
      @angeliparraguirre7329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe if Emily from Bite Sized Vegan gets to be in it once she resurrects her channel

    • @dedice_
      @dedice_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As a vegan I would love this too! There are so many crazies out there giving us all a bad name (especially on TH-cam) 😬

  • @jordanchillout7989
    @jordanchillout7989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4223

    We can all agree that porn hasn’t done anything good and influences sex trafficking and rape

    • @versedxxx8805
      @versedxxx8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Factually wrong countries were porn are illegal have serious problems like sex trafficking and child sex trafficking Thailand and China have these problems

    • @Be_Gee
      @Be_Gee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@tiktokslavversion8022 illegal =\= unable.
      I can call someone, and get some drugs, doesn't mean they're legal.
      He was talking about legality, not ability.

    • @tiktokslavversion8022
      @tiktokslavversion8022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Be_Gee illegal he said. And i didn't say unable. I meant the same thing, that it doesn't do anything to stop you from watching. That illegal is very light rule.

    • @Be_Gee
      @Be_Gee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tiktokslavversion8022 What I'm saying is, he said porn is illegal there, you said yea but you can still see it...So? It's still illegal is my point. Your point doesn't refute his.

    • @tiktokslavversion8022
      @tiktokslavversion8022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Be_Gee it does becouse that illegal is nothing. People can still fully accsess porn sights with vpn. If the whole world would agree to start making porn sights only accsesable with registering with email, maybe we wouldn't have so many kids watching it. Thats a hugeeee differents. There are couple billion kids on this planet.

  • @liamvoegt857
    @liamvoegt857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a really brilliant channel. The genius of it. Props to whoever came up with it.

  • @gabriellarossi5925
    @gabriellarossi5925 ปีที่แล้ว

    This one was really, really great. Everybody respected each other and there was a lot of effort to understand each other's points of view. ❤

  • @youreroad1165
    @youreroad1165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5487

    Teachers vs students!!!! It would be extremely interesting to hear questions about stress, homework,mental health, standardized tests, etc.
    CREDITS TO: Morgan Milani
    It just really needs to happen

    • @amandahux3562
      @amandahux3562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Mysterious_ K or possibly teachers vs school boards

    • @Niark3500
      @Niark3500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Great idea but most of the time the teachers don’t have a choice, the system is the problem.

    • @eaqx
      @eaqx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      If they do this they need kids with common sense not kids who play fortnite all day and watch memes lol

    • @wasteofayute4448
      @wasteofayute4448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      such a good idea!!

    • @anonymous_yo_mama6728
      @anonymous_yo_mama6728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fr

  • @Awperan
    @Awperan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This debate was great
    Thanks

  • @EMuro-wu7uy
    @EMuro-wu7uy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was terrific, how I feel about sex not everyone has the same feelings. It's important to be respectful to each other.

  • @angela.escobar
    @angela.escobar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2359

    Can trainers from seaworld/zoo workers and animal activists find middle ground?

    • @h.haydon8044
      @h.haydon8044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great idea!!!

    • @crescentmoon4434
      @crescentmoon4434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Angela Brown how about animal hunters vs animal activists?

    • @lemonaidenagain2697
      @lemonaidenagain2697 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSSSS!!!!!

    • @taniaa_lasagna
      @taniaa_lasagna 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! You might have done something

    • @rissroo4325
      @rissroo4325 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This !!!!!!! I started listening to Keeper Chat and I’ve learned so much about the invaluable job that zoos do to help conservation efforts.

  • @lavacakez5912
    @lavacakez5912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4850

    This is one of the most intelligent conversations on Middle Ground, in my opinion. Both sides had valid points, no one was too entitled, and most importantly, THERE WAS NO FIGHTING. Just a debate. I like it.

    • @kodyleonard1646
      @kodyleonard1646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Wait, but addiction can be a medical condition

    • @chillaxer8273
      @chillaxer8273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      There was no debate only opionions. A debate would challenge the consistency within the opinion.

    • @Madmagic
      @Madmagic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I mean porn is just awful

    • @nuulventhansandrian7099
      @nuulventhansandrian7099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe its because the guy wasn't sexually involved in the relationship caude she didn't want to give up anything. A man has to bust a nut

    • @michaelli3997
      @michaelli3997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is interesting how a topic that's relatively more depressed by the society produces more thought out opinions

  • @Officialgaby180
    @Officialgaby180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Recently suscribed! Love the channel! This was a very respectful forum.

    • @tanatswamugabe8793
      @tanatswamugabe8793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome l love it too l recently joined

    • @AY-qy4jn
      @AY-qy4jn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tanatswamugabe8793 what was the point of this comment lol

  • @igbana
    @igbana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the best

  • @paolahernandez6733
    @paolahernandez6733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2925

    Do a people with 9 to 5 jobs, versus self-employed people.

  • @shubhramishra2747
    @shubhramishra2747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4323

    I would love to see LOVE MARRAIGE VS ARRANGED MARRAIGE!!

    • @EricaHofer
      @EricaHofer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      oooohhhh yes!

    • @EricaFioriGentry
      @EricaFioriGentry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES!

    • @mimisglamland1299
      @mimisglamland1299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes yes yes omg yes

    • @TinyMK1
      @TinyMK1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      SAME! LOL, arranged marriages oddly enough always seem to last. In India I think 85% of couples in arranged marriages stay together. Feel free to correct me on that stat if you have correct info from somewhere valid. Can't remember where I last read it, but it was somewhere in the past couple months.

    • @kirtipalve1772
      @kirtipalve1772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@TinyMK1 That is true. But then again, it's mostly because most women in India are financially dependent on their husbands. Also, divorce is still a taboo in India.

  • @danielboyd6927
    @danielboyd6927 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great debate. Well spoken and respectful

  • @activate-motivation
    @activate-motivation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the beered guy, he is very strong on his belief, great job dude, people have a strong hate towsrd any sexual activity, evry industry does

  • @leiladiab1059
    @leiladiab1059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1147

    The girl with the jean jacket is so open minded

    • @gabrielagreskova3862
      @gabrielagreskova3862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Leila Diab thats what I was thinking. She was just trying to understand the situation of others and listen to them with open mind, not like that she has her ONE TRUE opinion and everybody else is totally wrong.

    • @xboxfullauto1000
      @xboxfullauto1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leila Diab yeah man if someones "open minded" thats like, such a turn on for me!

    • @tyan_ldn
      @tyan_ldn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@xboxfullauto1000 just y bro

    • @ninarudd8412
      @ninarudd8412 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      totally agree

    • @alinak9643
      @alinak9643 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her points were also very valid

  • @tempura_samurai
    @tempura_samurai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1774

    Porn is not an education. I think watching porn and encouraging people to watch them is one of the farest things from the education.

    • @harrydebenham8533
      @harrydebenham8533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Search up tutorials on how to do certain things, cause those videos defiantly help out a lot of people

    • @trollconfiavel
      @trollconfiavel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@harrydebenham8533 hard to find 😓

    • @augustedupin8016
      @augustedupin8016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Porn is great education. I learned a thousand things about the sex act which really helped my performance. You know, my mother did not show me the way to penetrate her, maybe yours did, so you dont need porn...

    • @tempura_samurai
      @tempura_samurai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@augustedupin8016 Thank you for sharing your experience of being taught how to have sex by watching porn. Because I'm Japanese, I don't know how watching is considered in your country but in my country, I also learn something concerning sex by watching porn. But once I had sex with my girlfriend I realized there are too many differences between real sex and porn. I think that's because products introduced by porn usually contain much exaggeration.

    • @augustedupin8016
      @augustedupin8016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tempura_samurai Well, exaggeration depends on the type of porn. If you watch brazzers or faketaxi type of porn, yes it is not how it goes down in the real world. For reality you have to choose amateur porn prefferably husband&wife kind of stuff where you can really see that those people care for each other. That kind of porn is beautiful. Which also gives you great ideas how to behave in the bedroom with your own gf/wife.

  • @thomasrogers3008
    @thomasrogers3008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant episode

  • @marseille1196
    @marseille1196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Trying to defend pornography is just a mental cope for ones own addiction. It’s pathetic, and ignoring and denying the negative neurological effects is actually extremely harmful.

  • @thegingerehle8768
    @thegingerehle8768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4478

    The gentleman who is anti-porn is so well-spoken. He clearly struggled and is open about how it affected him. The fact that the first thing is brought up is how he regrets is treated women in his past. Shows a lot about his character and I hope he continues to help others.

    • @DLoad21
      @DLoad21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      he has a youtube channel - PornReboot :)

    • @lawlivelaugh
      @lawlivelaugh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He probably still watches

    • @appleorange754
      @appleorange754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      that guy blame all his problems on porn, but he is the real problem. most people who watch porn dont act like him. addition to porn doesnt make porn bad. when people are addicted to eating, i dont think people would think eating is bad and blame it on eating. his logic is dead.

    • @ravjayakodi2746
      @ravjayakodi2746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@appleorange754 just say your addicted and go

    • @aleynademirkilic9038
      @aleynademirkilic9038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wouldn’t really call him a gentleman after how he treated women 😬

  • @goatsnightmare7076
    @goatsnightmare7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3429

    The comments restored humanity in me when i realized most of them are anti-porn.

    • @Maksie0
      @Maksie0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Why?

    • @Toinkity
      @Toinkity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      Same, I thought the comments would just bash the anti-porn here cuz most people watch it, really great and refreshing to see tbh.

    • @Toinkity
      @Toinkity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Onlyfans isn't even meant to be that sort of porn thing that it is now and it's less harmful than the Porn industry because it doesn't have any sex trafficking going on plus the only harmful thing that onlyfans does is the ones who show their nudes, their reputation and career could be ruined because of it and it's not a reliable way to make money your entire life, and people who actually pay for nudes are a small minority (I think) idk why anyone with common sense would pay actual money to see lewd things when they can just search it anywhere for free, petty af.

    • @hans8025
      @hans8025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Yh exactly so happy people are realizing that porn is toxic.

    • @jonjonboi3701
      @jonjonboi3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That is not good for humanity to be anti-porn. Consuming porn in moderation is a better way

  • @akosiregorr
    @akosiregorr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apparently this is the best so far that I’ve watched

  • @zachaldridge1304
    @zachaldridge1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we need a pro, anti, and on the fence/undecided. There are so many good points in the middle ground that neither side will make because they lean so heavily to one side

  • @acornsoundsquirrel
    @acornsoundsquirrel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2443

    The porn performer specifically was so wonderfully empathetic. She was such a helpful person in this video because she NEVER got defensive. I loved this conversation because it was so respectful and inconclusive because so many issues do NOT have a single answer... Thank you for this!!

    • @haydnsayshi
      @haydnsayshi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I especially love how both sides fought for their side and got their point across but also were willing to listen to the other side

    • @skylarsa
      @skylarsa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I would of loved to just listen to her full opinion on each question

    • @tekojr4726
      @tekojr4726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's very intelligent from Her part to be empathetic, its Her business and she IS giving a good image

    • @twistednemo
      @twistednemo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes! She certainly seemed empathetic and brought a strongly pronounced human element to the position of an adult performer. I especially loved her statement on how sex education should not be limited to just the biological function. The additional aspects she stated are quite valid and necessary.
      And, of course, everyone had some very valid arguments so it was quite interesting to find myself not siding with any single group in this discussion. This might just be the best Middle Ground episode, in my view, for this reason.

    • @veronica-bx6kx
      @veronica-bx6kx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      THE TWO BLONDE LADIES WERE SUCH RESPECTFUL LITTLE ANGELS