SHOCKING! Psychologist gives watch along reaction to Tom Sandoval & Tom Schwartz on VIALL FILES
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Hey all - I am jumping into the comments to remind you to hit the "like" button. It really helps the algorithm.. and if you do it, I'll love you forever.... Maybe not as intensely as Tom, but you know - real love. Thanks, -David
I think this behavior by the Toms is so deep. I think it is possible that being messy and dysfunctional is rewarded in the reality TV cast world. Seems as though the guys on the show are stunted and are virtually the same as they have been in the 11 years on this show. The women have evolved and matured more so, but I also think they too are somewhat stunted. None are bad people, just spent their formative adult years in this odd space where cheating and any scandal is rewarded in many ways ie being casted for the next season, monetary, and praise from producers…I also feel like Tom really needs to learn to articulate and communicate better, that boy says constantly responds poorly, seemingly unaware how he sounds to others…interesting stuff here…
I hit like before it started. I wanted you to watch this interview. It drove me mad too. Im not a psychologist, but have a psych degree and worked in family violence for years, Tom has such little insight and does so much victim blaming I can only be glad Arianna is away from him.
You said you don't read the comments because of your ego.
I try not to - but sometimes I can't help it.
TOTALLY MANIPULATIVE!!!!! 🤮🤮
I think Sandoval is more upset about how the situation made him look than he is about hurting Ariana.
Oh 100%
That’s how narcissist operate. You are absolutely correct.
@@TG-fq6vy exactly 💯
and he is sooooooo butt hurt that Ariana is doing so good without him and he cannot stand it, he feels like he made her relevant and she is doing amazing without him!!!!
THIS!!!!!!!! Tom ONLY cares how the heat he is getting.
And remember … they are in their 40s.
Are they? That's embarrassing
I totally forgot that lol they are the perfect definition of man child. I can’t believe Schwartz is older than Sandoval, he acts like a little kid
Can you imagine they are in their forties and act like teenagers
California 40's is just like a Freshman in High school
When Schwartz is not with or talking about Sandoval he comes across as a completely different person. Sandoval brings him down🤪
Tom’s brain is scrambled from the combo of shrooms, booze, adderall, chain smoking, red bull and late night partying. Therapy isn’t working, he needs rehab.
Therapy only works when you're honest! With yourself and with others! He's doing Therapy because it looks good and he's got someone who has to listen to him feed his ego! He's just going lie to the therapist! He needs lots of help but first off he needs to get clean then do Therapy! Users lie! He has to stop using before he can be real with himself and with others!
You’re missing a few extra curricular additions to that list 😂
YES! he's way too old to keep it up. 🤣
He was out partying the night before, it was confirmed on Kristen's podcast.
@@livinlovelee2683
😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼yes! & he was still drunk.🤮 his attitude & speech is so contemptuous.
Sandoval is extremely vindictive. He executed revenge on Katie by having Rachel and Tom kiss, he executed revenge on James for Kristen and Ariana for embarrassing his ego by sleeping w Rachel.
Ariana said something interesting. She believes that over time Tom has changed the affair from something he DID to something that happened TO him which then allows him to easily feel like its not his fault, despite what he says...he can not help himself "but..I had low self worth, Rachel was hot, Ariana was mean blah blah blah"
Seeing this makes me wonder how Ariana dated him for 9years. Her dogs have more emotional depth than him.
Well she was nothing but a miserable bitch the entire show so...
I remember when Jax would mess up, Tom & Schwartz would be the main ones telling him he is almost 40. Now, here they are at 40/41, doing the same crap. Schwartz is a ppl pleaser to the wrong ppl.
Ariana is gonna be mad for a while, especially having to share that house w/ Tom waiting for her court date.
And now, Jax is married with child. Happily mowing the lawn!
Schwartz is such a weak person. He wants everyone to love him. Yet, he has anger just below the surface. So, he can be vicious like he was with Katie his ex-wife.
They're like the Beevis & Butthead of Reality TV.
Omg!!!!
On the mark! 😂🤣😜
Or dumb and dumber
Tom Schwartz is NOT a nice guy, he is extremely passive-aggressive. Beneath his aw-schucks exterior there’s a lot of selfishness and anger. You hear it particularly in his interactions with Katie. He says very hurtful things to her while claiming to care about her. He always deflects when others try to tell him what they are feeling.
He was scary with Katie. He was angry and passive aggressive with her. Remember when he yelled at her at a party how he wasn't sexually attracted to her anymore, and in her confession Katie said that wasn't the first time hed said stuff like that, it was just the first time he'd said it in front of other people.
I never did understand when people went after Katie and liked Tom Schwartz. I have always loved Katie
He ALWAYS picked everyone over her! I’m not sure why they married. She was just someone for him to kick around. When she would say something back, everyone acted like she was so awful. Schwartz
is NOT the nice guy he portrays himself to be.
@@andreaarcher6046it’s why I was so happy when she called him out for his “broken dick”.
Never agreed more. He is awful!
No wonder Katie divorced Schwartz, there was three people in the relationship soaked in stupid.
Katie's the devil and she did him a favor 🙄
😂
@@LittleMissStamperwah wah!
SCHENA is the devil lmao, Katie just speaks her mind and people don’t like that lmao. She puts up boundaries and calls people out for crossing them. Go marry Tom, you think so highly of him, I’m sure YOU can fix him!!
Poor Katie, she was literally put last in their relationship. Tom cared more about strangers over Katie!
It's disgusting!
I'm so glad she dumped his ass and realized her worth!
@@daniellemcintyre5445 Poor Katie 🤣
Sandoval drives us crazy because he says “sorry, but“… He never takes responsibility. He says he did the wrong thing and then turns around and explains why whatever everyone around him did to him caused him to do that. Which negates him being wrong in the first place.
My sister does the same thing.
schwartz called it what about ism....
His famous "sorry, but" drives me crazy
Thissity this!!!!
They actually have a long compilation in one of the Vanderpump episodes a few years back where he says “I’m sorry BUT…” and it’s Schwartz who points it out and says “Tom doesn’t know how to apologize” before the editor’s compilation lol
Schwartz makes my head hurt ..so pathetic ..and Sandoval makes me sick !!
You missed the best part! Natalie tracked down an email proving that Nick had not been late to Tom’s podcast (Tom claimed that he had been 2 hours late). It was brutal and so vindicating to watch Tom be proved a liar and gaslighter to his face!
😂 Damn I missed that part too. I gotta rewatch, that's amazing!
Came to make this comment because what a great example of how even when faced with actual proof he still hold onto that lie
He lies constantly and then believes his own lies. Totally no remorse, just lies.
Notice how irate he gets when called out on things? Such a child. He even called
Natalie “Dude”…..
The amount of time a 40 year old man says “like” and calls women “dude”, 😑😑😑, makes me hostile. He was calling Ariana “dude”.
Tom is disgusting for talking abt his and rachels s3x life. I dont like rachel but it is clear that she is not stable and to describe intimate details is so gross to her and arianna
I 100% believe he's doing it intentionally to upset Arianna. He's so bitter about her. He thought he couldn't leave her because without him she'd be nothing, and it turned out she became not only her best self, but better and more popular than HIM. Her first week performing Chicago brought in the most money of any week of the show being produced ever in 27 years. That is a huge thing!
Tom is a wannabe actor, he puts on a performance. He regrets it because he got caught. he said in one confessional that he usually deletes those videos (the one he took of Rachel without her knowledge). He is blaming Arianna and keeps up a narrative of making her the bad guy. He is incapable of saying I did a bad thing full stop.
It is so exhausting listening to Sandoval. The lies and manipulation is so annoying. Thank you for watching this so I didn't have to.
I agree. Ryan Bailey did a great, hour long recap of the Tom’s VF episode and really drills into the bullshit, if you want more and don’t want to put up with the Tom’s.
Every other word is "like". 🤯
Them thinking they can teach anything worth learning is laughable. Brain cells die as you watch these people, you are the only reason I am watching this video.
They remind me of old cheech and chong tapes. Both on drugs and trying to have a conversation, and neither of them are centered in reality.😅
Agreed but I like Cheech and Chong wayyy more and Tom and Tom are not even close to being as iconic.
@@sarahray3573 your rt! I shouldn't compare cheech and chong to trash. Lol.
But Cheech & Chong were FUNNY!
@mollyhill7156 yes hilarious but if you remember. The druggy knocking on the door and the guy inside kept saying, "Who is it? " and Dave said, "It's me, Dave. I got the stuff, open up!"And the guy inside kept saying, " Dave who?" The Tom's are just like that, especially Schwartz. He's a real dodo bird. Cute but dumb as a box of rocks. They could be like Abbott and Costello, 'Whose on base?' Too. 😆 lol
Tom did the special forces show with nick Viall, that’s how theybecame friends. It’s ironic because the special forces guys told To. to stop with the pity party and Nick is saying the same thing. No one is buying it.
I think Nick is a great interviewer! Schwsrtz is definitely a people pleaser 😂
Schwartz is Scumdaval's whipped dog. Pathetically weak person.
I now totally get why Katie called Schwartz a serial killers wet dream.
Narcissism 101. How dare we get upset that he was late. But if Nick was late… oh boy .
@PopPsych please please please look into how Tom Schwartz for the longest time managed to gaslight and manipulate the audience into thinking he was the good guy and Katie was the bad person in the relationship.
Only recently people finally realised that Schwartz is to Vanderpump Rule what Jenny is to Forrest Gump (the covert villain!) - that would be such an amazing video and, I bet you, it’ll get a lot of view
absolutely!!!!!!
Idk how anyone couldve watched it and thought she was too blame. I think people didnt like her so they made her out to be wrong about everything. I never had any feelings about her either way. I neither hated her nor really liked her. She was just there. I didnt see anything she did that would cause him to be the injured party. She was raising a child their entire relationship. Of course she wasnt happy go lucky all the time.
@@SuzyCamp-px4ibI've seen a few comments about it, clearly they've never experienced/witnessed narc abuse before. Katie was reactive because she had to be. My ex husband is a covert narc, I was always the villain to everyone on his side. He put me through hell
Sandoval was able to hide his “true” self for the longest time because on VPR he was surrounded by a cast of flawed people and he appeared to actually have more common sense and morals and ethics than the rest of them. I’m uncertain if we can blame the fame for making him who we now see he truly is.
No. He was always a douche. He loved to pretend to have the moral high ground, but he has been doing what he criticized about others for the entire time.
He used Jax as a shield for years.
@@anthonypecorara4346 yep. Ragged him constantly.
@@evelynbare1975 You are so right! I never thought he was a good guy, he had a bratty whiny voice. He is not a good guy and has never been.
If you watch from beginning of VPR until present you can see neither have them have changed and it’s quite sad that they can’t grow.
Wearing sunglasses during an interview is considered rude.
That is exactly what I was going to say. Trying way too hard to seem cool and above everything. Sandoval is a fool, I hv second hand embarrassment.
A lot of people feel like he showed up to the interview wrecked from the night/morning before... His track pants were dirty. He threw on whatever he had around him and got in the car, late to the recording.
Meh people wear sunglasses all the time on TH-cam i
Katie could have helped with their bar- but Sandoval was so against her -she was banned. She grew up in her mom’s restaurant. The Schwartz and Sandy’s management live her ideas.
he is sorry that he was caught
Nah, he is angry he got caught. He’s sorry people don’t love him anymore.
Sociopaths are everywhere,being a narcissist is part of the profile! He’ll reoffend be assured……
This
I think the reason Tom wanted to wait until the confessionals were over was to get on the record as much as possible what a terrible girlfriend Ariana is/was. When they eventually broke up Tom could point to all the interviews he gave about his grievances with Ariana. Interestingly though he never had this list of complaints about his relationship until after he was sleeping with Rachel. Meanwhile there’s Ariana saying she hopes she can spend more one on one time with Tom now the bar is open because he’s never home!
right! he was totally trying to lay the groundwork near the end of the season when he had that totally staged convo with Schwartz with the "how are you Ariana doing". like he didn't already know.
People like this ARE dangerous coz how far they can take it and the power they think they have
Anybody who thinks Tom Tom is capable to teach anybody anything worth salt is a sad thought.
He’s a 42 year old whom can’t not configure a complete sentence…like, like…he speaks like a 12 year old girl
Why are you dissing girls? Are you not female?
17:32 Ok when men in relationships say “she spoke down to me like I was a kid”, my question is: have you been behaving like a man-child?
As a partner, are you acting as a full equal? Or are you one of those “weaponised incompetence, don’t pull their weight around the house, don’t pick up after themselves, can’t keep appointments without reminders, let your partner run around after you like your mummy” kind of guys?
(Looking at you, Schwartz. In your new apartment that was all boxes months after you moved in)
If you don’t want to be spoken to like a child, make sure you’re not acting like one.
Note: Obviously this isn’t the case in every relationship, and obviously neither action is a healthy dynamic. But I bet you can all think of at least one in your life. We’ve seen enough of Tom’s life to make an informed opinion.
You were spot on with your analysis of Sandoval! I'm not a doctor so I can say it... HE IS A NARCISSIST!
Note to Kody Brown, ‘don’t text your ex happy birthday .” Nick Viall
Sandoval wished Rachel happy birthday on Instagram then she blocked him
THANK YOU!!!! Fellow psychologist here .... and I just wanted to say THANK YOU for agreeing with me that he clearly shows signs and patterns and meets the criteria for (in the DSM V) NPD. A few months ago Dr. Drew was on Sandoval's podcast (I guess b/c he was on season 1 of Secret Forces and Sandoval was on season 2 so they have this in common) and he claimed that he used some questionaire to determine whether Sandoval had NPD and discovered that he didn't and I thought "I love you Dr. Drew but maybe stick to Substance Abuse?"
Maybe not even that. Drew may be beloved by people, but I don't think he's good at his job.
And weight loss 😉
@@MrsOdie2 I think Dr Drew is completely worthless at about the same level as Dr. Oz.
21:14 you had me dying! If only Sandoval knew that the reason everyone cares so much is because it's insane for us the audience to see someone this off on like... everything.
I was raised in a dysfunctional household where as a child I was put in the position to de-escalate situations. I understand swartz and feel bad for the guy. Anyways, swartz needs to go to therapy... like I did. It would help him.
I completely identify… middle child/parental mediator = adult therapy required. Still working on the latter tho 😫
I've watched VPR since the beginning and Scandoval made me realize that between Kristen and Jax being scene stealers and my love for Ariana, Sandoval flew right under radar. it wasn't until Stassi had her book signing at TomTom that I finally started getting it. I don't know if that's because he's super manipulative or he's just not that interesting, but I never really paid attention to him.
Don’t Schwartz splain, does he know Robin
Lol
Last couple minutes of the interview was just a continuation of immaturity on Tom Sando’s part. He makes a sexual reference that is at first ignored by Schwartz so he repeats it again.
They literally asked the worst thing to say...and he understood the assignment hahah
LOL the reason for his bloodshot eyes is all the pasta he does. Btw pasta = Coke™️
its not about the pasta!
@@tinakilloran hahaha you and I both know it is definitely about the pasta!! 😂😂😂
Pata does NOT mean coke. Lala and James cleared that up
Schwartz literally said that same thing about his time on winter hourse. He just regurgitates the same bs over and over again to flatter and apease the people around him.
Just a few clips of Sandoval singing in his band - tells you all you need to know! It’s hard to believe he’s actually serious- there are no words to describe the cringe. Especially the one where he’s singing in an Irish accent - I’ve never laughed so hard 😂
I'm gonna be that guy, it's Scottish. The Proclaimers are Scottish and Tom singing their song with their accent is one of the most cringe things I've ever accidentally heard. Like, I wanted to fold in on myself with the secondhand embarrassment.
The best is when Nick says the scariest part is that Sandoval believes his own lies.
Sandoval's mask slipped.
I think that’s the real him, a narcissist.
I never saw anything but a narcissist. Everything he did was to feed his ego.
Sandoval is sorry, he believes he won’t do it again, he regrets his behavior because he got caught and it ruined his reputation. He used to be Mr Popularity, spending money, being the funny guy. Everyone wanted to hang with him. And now he’s lost it all. He’s a sniveling sad sack cry baby of negativity. He feels sorry for himself because no one else does.
Nick is a great interviewer and has great advice for his callers.
I appreciate he has the balls to ask tough questions, and not let guests pussyfoot around answering.
I found him to be too aggressive and it very uncomfy to watch I couldn't finish it.
@@laurapotpie I agree, it got aggressive and uncomfortable at times.
However, after almost a year of Tom deflecting, and slithering out of answering tough questions, I was pleased to see someone not let him off the hook.
Tom instigated the aggression, and Nick met him where he was at. Aggression is another one of Tom’s tactics to get people to back off with their questions, and I appreciate that Nick wouldn’t be intimidated.
I bet Nick went back and watched a lot of Tom’s interviews to study his tactics. The more Nick questioned him, the more petty, angry and defensive Tom got, and it showed us that Tom hasn’t changed one iota since Ariana found that video on his phone.
Nick was able to show us exactly who Tom is: aggressive, un-aware, inarticulate, entitled, selfish, and completely incapable of taking accountability for anything.
As Katie and Ariana said in the after show “Tom still thinks this is all happening to him. He can’t accept that he did all this to himself”.
You are so right about Sandoval. He is unable to be interested in ANYONE besides himself! He is not going to be able to see it thru any lens that makes him look bad or the villain.
I really enjoy your opinions & insight into the Vanderpump & Sister wives groups. Thanks for suffering for this great video ! 😄
Haha, now you know why we can’t stand either one of them!
They are just full of one liners. They just spit out things they have heard.
Schwartz is dependent on Sandoval - that’s is why he doubled down and translates the apologies… he has to to save his show spot and likely more… restaurants etc… he’s tied to him and if sandy fails, Schwartz goes down too - weak man, very sad - he needs therapy to help him- it’s like Stockholm syndrome
I agree with you about the dependency - but I don’t think it’s Stockholm syndrome. Tom Schwartz isn’t a victim - he is just very aware he got on the show thanks to Sandoval and Jax, way more than if he was just Katie’s bf.
Also he is just as a cheater and a gaslighter as Sandoval.
For years he has spun the narrative that Katie was the horrible and crazy one while he was cheating on her left right and center, not being there for her as a partner etc
@@Elleffetotally. Schwartz is a horrible, deeply angry man, masquerading as a bumbling, affable boy.
Next to Jax and Sandoval, Schwartz looks like the good guy. He only got drilled on his marriage failing because Sandoval was late - perfect example
He does that bc he owns a business with him & its his best friend. He isn't dependent on him for anything lol like what would that consist of? What does Tom Sandavol provide for him aside from a big-ass headache at this point?
@@hardkorr9503 we mean emotionally. Schwartz is a codependent person. He has no ability to regulate his own emotions , he needs others to do it for him.
It’s why he stuck with Katie when he didn’t want to be with her. Now that Katie left him (given that Sandoval played a not insignificant role in their marriage problems and subsequent divorce), Sandoval is now his main unhealthy, codependent dynamic.
It works both ways. Schwartz gets his emotional support from Sandoval, and Sandoval gets his narcissistic supply from Schwartz.
I should have counted how many times you said they drive you crazy. 😂 They drive everyone crazy.
I’m glad you thought Nick did a good job! I’ve watched him a bit and I think he’s pretty good at analyzing relationships with no professional degree in that. And since he’s a Bachelor alum, he tends to ‘get’ reality TV as well. He did a great job with these two crazies :)
Schwartz is the biggest door mat, my dog has more self respect than!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
He wanted to wait until filming and interviews were over so he could control the narrative. Not because he was doing her a favor. He was already setting it up throughout the season by planting little seeds about her behind her back.
Yes!
The Toms are the worst and they always have been. They do have “Peter Pan Syndrome” but refuse to acknowledge it. They don’t own who they are which I find infuriating. Sandoval has zero remorse for anything. If you go back to Season 1 of VPR and watch all of the seasons, which will be torture at this point, you’ll see that both Toms repeat their destructive patterns every season. They haven’t matured or changed in 10 seasons IMO.
Did they talk about his time on Special Forces? He said he needed to be punished for what he did. He had to leave, and Nick actually completed the training!
Special forces saw through Sandy...the called him out but no coverage of this but I saw it. 😮
Never heard a more clear description of Schwartz. Hit the nail on the head. I now understand him so much more.
Schwartz needs to dump Sandoval.
The fact that he hasn't tells me Schwartz probably doesn't deserve the grace most people give him. He knew about Raquel from day one and he let them use his apartment as a place to have sex. He covered for him, enabled him, and ran interference for him. Schwartz is NOT a good guy.
Don’t forget they own a business together
I listen to a ton of podcasts and watch a lot of TH-cam videos. And I have to say you and Allison are one of my very favorite videos to watch. I recently watched your shrink wrapped videos, so great! I’m glad I found you guys! So much fun! Thank you both for your hard work!
I know in literally every video of yours that I watch I always comment that I can't help but scream "right!!" the entire video at almost everything you say 😂😂😂😂 you're so good at what you do you're amazing at your job
Tom is drunk or high.
Two things can be true at once. He's drunk and high.
I thought Sandoval was gonna be different and was looking forward to the new season, until…. You hear him talk and he’s just such a tool 😂 every word out of his mouth is obnoxious
I know nothing about these people but I’m still entertained 😂
Ypu are SPOT on!! I listened to this Podcast yesterday and was floored at they both behaved. I noticed that Schwartz always cuts in to aid Sandoval when he was asked the tough questions. It was hard for me to listen as well. They both need to grow up.
Enjoyed your “snarky” analysis, David. I, too, am a first time watcher of Vanderpump; I needed something to replace Sister Wives. Looking forward to your next recap of VR.
I love Nick’s interview style. He seems to give a lot of room for emotionally intelligent conversations but also doesn’t redirect someone who just can’t get it together.
There’s guys like this around all the time and get away with it - his biggest mistake is being in tv. Everyone can see and feel who he is abs the works held him accountable and there’s nowhere to hide.
The only thing we can learn from these people is as soon as you see traits like this RUN
The truth is, he was probably late because he was trying on 52 outfits and combing his hair😂
Rewatch the interview. His track pants are dirty around both knees. More likely that he threw on whatever he had around him, still feeling the effects of the night/morning before...
@@joehynes2964 I disagree
I thought Nick was great with his directness. And Sandoval still knows it's Ariana's fault for being so mean to him that he had to have an affair to cheat on her ❤ Dude, It was like an amazing like interview dude like trying to like get dude like to look at like behaviors dude that like a dude needs to like be accountable for like dude. Like. Dude. 🎉❤
Plus, like everyone knows dude that like all sins are forgiven by 10 months. All. Dude.
Sandoval equally messed with both Rachel's and Ariana's hearts with his selfishness and only really putting himself first. Dude.
Erin here. Now, dude, that comment is like, really good. I mean it dude. 😂
Okay but literally eveything else - is forgiven on that show - there has been way worse stuff - I still don't get why this situation was made as big as it was...dude lol.
@@laurapotpie It's not so much to never forgive, but maybe on Ariana"s timeline rather than Sandoval's? 😍👍😍
So spot on!! They drive me crazy to watch, but I can't look away. Sandoval has been a narcissist from season 1. Never at fault.. always "look at me"
This was awesome! Hope you help us breakdown more VPR. :)
I am here for the snarky comments.
This pos does not need any more advocates or apologists.
I’m also surprised and a little disappointed that you were able to break this all down to just a half an hour.
That’s impressive!🙌🏼
I’m almost positive that there exceptions for being Snarky.
Yes yes there is it’s SNARK WEEK! Free pass 😂😊
Loved your take. Not trained in psychology but couldn’t have agreed more, for what it’s worth. First time one of your videos came up on my feed; so glad it did. Consider yourself “liked”, and me subscribed. Looking forward to more in the future. 👍🏼👍🏼
I agree with everything you said. I can’t stand him at all!
I like watching Nick's podcast because he gets straight to the point that he doesn't beat around the bush and doesn't pander to his guests. He asked Well thought out direct questions and didn't buy into the narcissistic gas lighting. The Howie Mandel podcast was completely driven by Tom and his victim Narrative, and there's nothing that a narcissist hates more than someone calling them out on their behavior. I think schwartz would benefit from distancing himself from tom sandoval , but he's already proven that he's so in the pocket that he never will. I also love that this podcast came out right before the episode premiered because it was a little bit of a teaser like if you really thought he was gonna change or learn anything you'd be wrong. I haven't watched the first episode yet. But from the trailer, it definitely seemed like they were trying to give him a redemption. Arc edit, and i'm totally not here for that. At this point, I would have sat through Rachel on the show. Because at least it seems like she's done some level of introspection, even if she's also just parroting a bunch of therapy buzzwords and not taking accountability. I don't think either of them are really capable of taking accountability because they continueto blame ariana, production , fans, etc. When he says he would never be in this scenario again. I truly believe he thinks he will be slick next time and not get caught or just not be in a committed relationship to the extent that he was in. So that way , he can just whistle out of it and say, "Well , we were never really together."
I have been waiting for this! Nailed it!
Schwartz cringes every time Sandoval speaks 😂
He did it because he could. Period. Hes a juvenile.
Immediate sub! Just watched this TS2 train wreck yesterday and was vexed myself, so to find your channel randomly this morning is such a gift to my psych senses 🧠
They are so very shallow
Thank you for doing this! I heard so much about this interview that I was considering watching it, but I'd rather watch you react. lol
Thank you for covering this interview
Agreed I can see it from a mile away now that I’ve studied it my parents and my husband had it now I can’t stop seeing it
They are both the worst and always have been.
So glad you decided to get more involved. As well, did this show.
Great Video! Thank you ❤
Some are thinking that he’s leaning into the bad boy character. I don’t think so.
I love this!!! Keep these coming. 😅 these guys are seriously living in an alternative reality of their own.
spot on.... when VPR first started years ago he was actually nice.... the "fame" caused the narcissism I guess .... but yeah, now he is unbearable
I don't know if that's true. I've watched since the beginning... Arianna was actually his most healthy looking relationship. I've never been a huge fan of his.
Great video! More like this.
I just love how real you are! I haven’t even started the video yet I’m just on the disclaimer, and that alone already makes me excited to watch. there is nothing more commendable than a genuine and sincere a psychologist not trying to be perfect to front for others as if they had it all figured out because you are owning your humanness instead of trying to keep up appearances. Thank you for that! Always a fun watch 👏🏼😸
you are right on the money!!! i think Tom needs you as his counselor, because obviously his other therapist hasn't helped
I know you probably don’t have the time for this, but I love your responses (and the snark!) and would LOVE if your videos would be way longer! I would listen to your review of the whole 2.5 hours of this interview; and I hope you do a much longer review of season 11 vpr!!
She was actively involved when she did the exact same thing when she and Tom got together, she literally was Rachel before -
That is literally not true. Kristen even says it’s not true.
@@mymia731Kristen says it's not true NOW to try to be relevant
You got it spot on. These 2 make me insane. I have met Schwartz and he is charming and super nice. He will only change until he breaks this cycle with Sandoval.
I’m not a doctor. I didn’t even go to college haha but I feel pretty confident in diagnosing him as an actual narcissist
God bless you for this