One of your best vids I’ve seen Andrew. Thanks for sharing this. The setting is beautiful and the insights are filled with purity, goodness, and truth. Gentle reminder that being our true, authentic selves is the path and makes the world and our place in the world better. Really beautiful message and so liberating. 🙏🏻💕☀️🌸
Clean house. Literally, socially, relationally, spiritually, physically, financially, intellectually, all of it. It's never too late for a clean slate with updated boundaries and self love.
@@angelic9630 Agree, boundaries are essential. One should never allow any person to abuse our goodness and treat us with disrespect. Narcissist is mentally under develop, can not be fixed and is a nightmare for any psychiatrist.
If they say we lie, abuse & cheat, they are the one who is lying, abusing & cheating! What a person say about others is exactly what he is! My conscience is CLEAR!
You really cannot talk to anyone about a narcissistic relationship who has never encountered a narcissist for any length of time, or ever acknowledged they were in a narcissistic relationship because they just did not get it. People like you who have recovered from this nightmare are the only people who can really help others see the light. Thank you for this contribution.
No matter how you tell someone the story. Yah, you get that person that says "sorry". We are taught to read and understand words. You have experience feeling. Until you experience a covert narcissist. Ppl will truly not understand.
Right ...ppl have no clue ..I had no clue someone could be like this so covertly...I can finally see that he wanted to " eat" my social connections and empathy...people gravitate towards me and I've become so antisocial and with social anxiety... Realized now that I was never like this, he used to shit on me right before an event or social gathering specially with close family...like right before walking in...ahole lol...now that I know he just wanted to wear my skin...fast forward getting divorce...who is the loner with mental problems and social anxiety??? And who is the upright citizen, member of the community scouts with many friends and support from family and even my family as he tried to do, then have the audacity to tell me me how many ppl got his back and how many had mine( fighting with my family and my mom at the time) as I was crying and heartbroken and mortified ...mother@## take off my skin lol you can try to wear it and disguise as me but it ain't me you demon child.
The best revenge against these soulless psychopaths to go on building the most happy, healthy and successful life you will ever live with strong boundaries.
One after the other, every single person . Like parents, siblings, cousins, relatives. Classmate snakes ( pretending to be besties , forcing themselves in my life everyday and creating drama if I resist and establish a boundary. ) and then 10 such partners. Booom. So many deaths of me.
My revenge was to give him the silent treatment for a week after his heartless discard. Then I texted him that I don’t believe in a relationship with him anymore. And shortly after that I arranged to meet up so he could get his stuff (just a bag). Now I don’t ever have to hear from him again. And that was definitely the last glimpse he got from me. Stay strong. You can do it.
Empaths FEEL DEEPER, THINK DEEPER, LOVE DEEPER, apréciate LIFE & UNDERSTAND DEEPER and I THINK its a Super POWER and Thank you ANDREW for sharing your WISDOM !!!!!
God says, Vengeance is mine, I will repay. I am moving forward with God's grace and leaving any revenge to Him. Thank you for this channel. It's helped me to know, I'm not crazy or the only one. God is helping me day by day to rebuild my life and move forward!
DEALING WITH A NARC IS LIKE LIVING IN A HOUSE OF HORRORS....NOTHING SATISFIES THEM MORE THAN SEEING US IN EMOTIONAL TURMOIL LIVING WITH A BROKEN SPIRIT....MY REVENGE WAS TO GET OUT, HEAL MY SPIRIT AND MOVE ON... I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY....
I agree... I'm out, I left the narc since 14 month ago from 12 years of abuse from a covert and high-range narc. I'm FREE and happy- living in peace and harmony at last.
The great thing about being an empath is you can sense someone's true nature almost instantly. Do not ignore this inner voice! I did, and experienced almost two year's of hell with an absolute narcissist. Stay safe and don't allow anyone to tell you empathy is 'weakness'. They are jealous of qualities they do not possess!!
When I put my feet on the floor in the morning, my first thought,” he is one mentally I’ll person.” My self respect is returning. I am deserving of my new life. Thank you for these, they do help.
@@franceshaggitt3104 I'm not so sure that it's a demon that drives them; but perhaps the devil himself. Demonology assigns specific flaws to each demon but the devil's specific flaw is vanity, much like the narcissists he inhabits. That's my theory anyway.
Beautiful ! I agree wholeheartedly! ( Nothing diffuses their so-called "power over you" better than that ! & better still , it's not at all vengeful as we are light lifting higher and so much better than that ⚡💥✨
@@debralondon2402 yes we all know that feeling ... Just keep making your own improvements in your own life and this too shall pass. Now you may just need rest as you take a slower pace & perhaps baby steps for awhile ... Still will lead you to moving mountains for yourself and new others who deserve your previous time and gifts 🙏🏼😇🌞
I know that feeling but guess what you're the one that's blessed because you're no longer what that crazy person those people have personality disorders and you cannot fix that
I realized I was an empath in addiction treatment. I was like "Is that why people just come up to me and tell me there life story?" I can't help myself but listen. That's it just listen maybe it's because that's all I ever wanted is just someone to listen and not use my feelings against me.
When I am at festivals and take xtc, people will literally start deep conversations with me about deep traumas, sometimes something they never told anyone. But somehow, they are attracted to me. Took me long time to realize why.
Yeah people seems to open up their heart and I think it’s because they feel that I’m not a gossiper, I will not judge them even if we don’t know each other they can feel safe with us. Some of them get surprised because what they have shared with me is nothing they would share with someone else. It’s almost magical and it’s an awesome feeling of real genuine connection between two souls ❤❤❤ I wished to Meet A life partner like me wanting a genuine relationship but I got myself a narcissist 🙄🙄🙄
This is 100% true. After you leave a narcissist, everything just is. There's none of that second guessing bullshit keeping you completely off balance. My work, sleep, mood, health all improved 10-fold after the horrible withdrawal effects subsided. Push through the withdrawal phase. These people are intoxicating. They are hardcore drugs as bad as heroin and ICE.
Yes these Narc are like hardcore drugs.. As a matter of fact my former Narc was an avid Ice user. He could not keep away from it...he could not function without it.
It takes a while. I'm no contact with the entire family narc network for nearly a year now and I'm starting to enjoy my own company. I'm not rushing about trying to meet new people, I'm simply enjoying being my own best friend. You'll get there Abbey
I have a dream journal. I have a hunger journal. I have a prayer/ healing journal. It all helps me,, to keep some “ order” to my now- free life. I do not CARE, that I barely scrape by. It’s all worth it to be Narc- free. But wow, they keep coming. Crawling out from out of nowhere. It’s frightening at times. I just ISOLATE. A LOT.
I was literally tortured as a child, lived in a family of 3 psychopaths and as an empath it has taken my life from me completely. Your channel and another have been bringing me out of the fog for the last couple weeks and it's amazing how suppressed and controlled I've been for 37 years. The light is turning on, and HOLY CRAP is it bright.
i can recommend a book called a new primal scream by Dr arthur janov for an unbelievable explaination of why all this happens ...i am 57 and ive just had to tell my mum an sis to leave me alone, it isnt going on like this and they dont change , they get worse every year...its so sad , i used to enjoy sitting and listening to mums stories of the good old days, ( i had to work out what subjects to stay away from to stop her getting angry) but my sis couldnt stand me getting on with mum so she told her loads of rubbish making me look criminal, so i just walked away i pretty much spent my childhood in silence trying not to anger the ogre.
Interesting title 🤔 mine would whisper into my ear while I slept. She's been caught doing the same thing to our youngest grand daughter. Through meditation it came to me that this problem is centuries old and was horribly misjudged in medieval Europe. In those times , these people were labeled as witches. The green envious witch archetype. They were said to pass their craft to their children mouth to ear. That they robbed the souls of men and devoured children . Superstitions have inhibited research.
The best revenge: NO MORE SUPPPLY. No reply, no response, no reaction to their bids for attention or emotional energy. If assests are involved, correspond through a professional third party. If children are involved, interactions are limited to convey where and when people will show up places, and get picked up from places. When they look at you, the only thing they see is someone who is unbothered, unconcerned, and moving on to have a better life.
For survivors and thrivers after narcisstic abuse - this is so true, you become the best version of yourself, its almost like being subjected to a twisted therapy but coming out stronger, wiser and AWARE ❤️
Yes, that’s always the way it works. If you think about every trial, loss and/or setback, you’ll note how you came through it as a stronger and wiser version of yourself. That’s personal growth and this experience should yield personal growth on steroids.
100%, eating better, sleeping better, gym everyday. All because of this pretty damn amazing, and compassionate community that has had the misfortune of being with a narcissist! 9 months later, I hope you continue to move forwards! :)
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I have only just discovered you. Thank you Andrew for what you are doing. Feel your positive, powerful energy from halfway across the world. 🙏 Namaste
"For You have tried us, O God; You have refined us as silver is refined!" (Psalm 66:10) "But He knows the way that I take! When He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold" (Job 23:10). There is in this world - a furnace of afflictions for God's elect. Then in the world to come - there is another furnace of literal, physical fire that is heated for the ungodly after the judgment. "The Son of Man will send out His angels, and they will weed out of His kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. They will throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth!" (Matthew 13:41-42)
I just ended s twenty four years relationship with a female narcissist. Everything that you talk about is exactly what I experienced for all this time. I volunteered to be her punching bag. The breakup is still fresh and I'm experiencing the withdrawal. It feels as if the chains have been broken and I'm free now to transform into a brand new person without the toxicity of an unhealthy relationship.
Yes totally agree.... They are extremely toxic and energy draining... I ended my 27 years relationship this year, after putting up with his nonsense all these years.... Goshhhh.... They can really bind u with their dark spell.... Feeling alot more better now.... A peaceful life and mind is much much more better.... Stay blessed ....
I CONSIDERED REVENGE BUT DECIDED TO LET GOD HANDLE THAT NARC. I TURNED IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION TO LOVE AND RESPECT MYSELF. TO EDUCATE MYSELF ABOUT NARCS. ALSO DEVELOPED BOUNDARIES AND DEALBREAKERS. NOW I PROTECT MYSELF EVERYDAY ALL DAY WITH BOUNDARIES AND USE MY GUT TO HELP GUIDE MY DECISIONS.
So true that most people are not empaths. I do feel like I have always had a strange ability to read people just watching, observing. Yet, I did wear the rose colored glasses as well. Thank you Andrew and God bless you ❤❤❤
It is easy to find videos talking about narcissism, all the red flags, the traits; so we get educated on what narcissism is all about. But on your videos we can also find understanding and comfort to the ones who had to deal with the narcissist, you bring awareness on how we feel, what happens to our mind, our soul. Thank you for focusing on the ones who need healing.
I've met two hard core narcissists, they are unbelieveable. They can not "live and let live" whether its a friendship or a relationship. Whatever happened to "to each his own," or "I understand, i just feel differently and thats ok." Whatever happened to a good debate with a friend, but without hate and anger? They get crazy, instead.
I needed to hear THIS! More people who were targeted by NARCS need to realize they Never get better. Period. And that we as EMPATHS have a mission to share, but now with boundaries. I thank him for that. I had no firm boundaries prior.💕
I'm a Super Empath, done that sh*t with narcissists and dysfunctional individuals who drained me mentally, physically, emotionally and financially and nowadays after lessons learned the hard way I've become a Super Selective Empath instead. I'm very picky when it comes to sharing myself and my time with other people. My life quality is on top just because of me understanding how important it is to set healthy boundaries, something I didn't really understood before. They don't show up in my life anymore as boundaries is the worst a narc can face. They're gone.
Narcissists need a story to manipulate.Each victim of a narcissist has their own unique story to tell.It's like each victim and the narcissist in different dimensions
I never thought "Am I worthy" instead I thought "If he only knew how much consequences he's putting over his own head due to doing me a child of God wrong"
Absolutely right!! I would think (at the times that I knew it was evil I was dealing with) that he was skidding on icy ground treating a child of God like this!
I want them to be held responsible for the dignity of my life they robbed me of , which took my twenties and thirties away from me that I was spending that time in my life , surviving their narcissism. . .had enough of asking people to help me , I want my life back.
Andrew this is one of your best videos. You have just verbalized exactly how I have been feeling. I am going replay this video every night I go to sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💕X
"I don't eat French fries, and I don't think you should either." I'm gonna eat deep fried potatoes whenever I want! Look at me, maintaining my boundaries. 😊 Thanks so much for your videos, I'm working my way through the dumpster fire that is leaving a narcissist behind me and your videos are so full of encouragement and hope.
It's been a year... you doing good now? I love that you said "the dumpster fire that is leaving a narcissist behind" lol. I'm a few months out from doing that. Please tell me it gets easier soon lol
In a spousal relationship it’s all or nothing as far as I’m concerned. If you mistakenly supported a narcissist you cannot be ashamed for being duped. The essential move is taking that person off the pedestal and treat them as you would the guy that fixes your car or rings up your groceries. Everyone can receive your civility but very few are allowed into the inner walls. My name is Andy also and the mantra I adopted is that my former spouse “lost her Andy privileges”. It takes some time but the destination is worth it.
My deepest fear is tht i may never fully get over it,I still catch myself ruminating taking self inventory over n over,my poor heart still reaches for this person but my head knows all too well exactly what n who she is,this healing process has been difficult but I am moving forward one day at a time,.thanks Andrew thanks man
I have said, if only I can find someone who can understand what I mean to say, I feel like I have found a family on this channel. I only found out about you last night. I have watched a few videos now, and not stopping since last night. It's great to be able to hear someone who can 'relate ', I'm an african in a small southern african country called Botswana. I'm just coming out of one, the worst thing about my 9yr experience was the lack of a voice. I have found my voice again thank God, but this channel is a life-giver. Thank you!!! I am writer and in future will use what I have to absolutely help ppl like you Andrew. God bless you, Namaste.
Welcome to the community Zoe.. I appreciate your kindness and sharing this beautiful message 🇧🇼🇨🇷❤️.. I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you always 💯☀️🙌🙏
Thank you Andrew. Sometimes it feels like I’m looking in the mirror spiritually when watching your videos. You’re an invaluable asset to the collective. God bless you 🙏🏻
I am truly blessed. I am sitting on my couch, doing what I want right now, just being here, listening to you, I am free, safe, and I've just come home 💜
What is so frustrating is that the more you overlooked what they did the more they took u as just another fool but scratch a bit deeper it boils down to jealousy
THANK YOU!! Andrew! I appreciate your video tribute. Thank You, for all of your kind words, thoughtfulness, and caring statements. I am sorry that someone (a Narcissist) hurt you. God Bless- on your path to healing!
I spent more than half of my life in this marriage, 33 yrs. They completely drained and destroy you. Still after a few months going through the withdrawals from this relationship, it’s difficult to build my confidence. As an empath, we have so much to give and not realizing not everyone has this capacity. What’s important is not to change how we view the world put to have boundaries to protect us from evil people. Enjoyed this topic of a empath’s revenge. Move forward, pick up the pieces and shine. I have a lot of healing still, but finally I’m out and starting a new life for myself. Putting myself first, second and third! Thanks, Andrew.
I’m grateful I came upon your videos. I currently am in the ghosting phase from leaving after being verbally, physically and emotionally abused by the narcissist I encountered. One day I hope to mentally be where you and many others on your page are because I can honestly say this is the hardest rebirth process and I feel like some days I just can’t get a break from the thoughts. I definitely wish I left a lot sooner but I’m grateful the door has been closed! It does get hard to know that people literally wake up and choose to lower a person’s character, boundaries and self esteem in order to satisfy one’s own ego and insecurities. What’s the biggest challenge is getting my mind to wrap around that I was in fact being manipulated for almost 3 years and found myself comfortable with so much less than what I truly deserve. I hope one day I will be able to give back sooner than later but I am still trying to shake this feeling and wanting to know if this person can feel such grief however I will continue to grow, learn and ensure I pour back into my cup so I can continue to be the light I know I am … Thank you
I’m a empath and I know how deep I feel and my emotions are very strong but it was stolen and with your help I took it back and I’m on my way to healing. 💜
All I care about is being the best version of myself, moving forward with my life and healing journey. I used to care WAY TOO MUCH about what others thought of me and helping others, but not so much anymore. I need to focus on me and get my life back on track. Would be nice to not have to live the rest of my life questioning what others intentions are in regards to me
Thank You Andrew!💜💜💜 The Empaths that make it through, earn their wings! They took their power back as the NARC handed their power to the Empath as well... Even now, he imitates me. All the people that he interacts with are really interacting with a dumbed down version of me! LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣 Shine brightly beautiful Empaths!💜💜💜 I am really looking forward to my Thanksgiving dinner alone. Me and my cats. It will be so lovely!!!
Have also observed that odd imitation of what i do, say, write etc. Great point of view that ppl just have to handle a dumbed down version of myself 😄 In fact i think they`re a caleidoskope of stolen behaviour, but the soul is missing, so they act really dumb and foolish if one has seen behind the curtain, you cannot unsee it from now on ;)
There was a time he got mad and drove dangerously. I asked him if he's trying to kill me. Then I told him to go for it because I got nothing to lose. I have lived a great life. Go for it! Then he slow down.
Andrew, YOU are a Power Station of "Lightbulb Moments." NOT taking steps toward "Revenge" is actually "Revenge" if they see you don't become ruffled during their fearful attacks. I used my "Airline Reservationist" voice with the Narc I used to work for. THAT was actually "revenge." Victory came when he could not look at me at the retirement party. Oh, How Sweet It Is.
I wouldn't consider this revenge as much as defense against under handed tactics from a toxic person. Nice videos , I agree with most of what you're saying.
If you are reading this , God is calling to you to bring your problems and ALL that LOVE you have to him. I can say he called for me and took me out a extreme narccacistic hold. I was lost in lust, broken in my mind and spirit, confused and wondering why. Why cant she change? What am I doing wrong here? No amount of love or money I gave fixed it. IT was impossible for me to do right and the fights were on another level! After 12 years , I finally had a breakthrough. But ONLY through the strength of Jesus was I able to see things clear. I asked him and made excuses for her. I asked him to show me if he wanted me to be with her or leave. I remember her getting mad I was even praying then. She showed a real anger and a demon came out of her. Blind and pure rage and fury came out over the smallest things. It was literally a twilight zone and made no sense. He took me out of the spiral , the emotional pain, gaslighting , the manipulation and mind games and I am now a free man. Humble and flawd but free. Bless you all and remember you have a heavenly father waiting to start a relationship with you to get trough this.
My blood pressure went up after i tried to go back to church after waiting 2 months for my pastors to call me since I was a worship leader for almost 4 years in this church waited. I prayed then the Lord said call back because they were people on my Praise team that wanted me to talk to the pastor. Well, I made a meeting, and I found out that my pastor made an incident report on me didn’t call me to hear my side of the story and didn’t even tell the other pastor about making incident report. Didn’t ask the other guitarist who is also a close friend…get it a GOOD FRIEND they made sure that Anthony didn’t make a report. The pastor knew it would support me. It’s so one-sided, so I’m kind of beginning to think he may be somewhat of a narcissist cause I know the worship leader over the team definitely a covert narcissist. when I went back to the congregation, I love the congregation, one of the prayer leaders came up to me in front of the class and prayed, deceiving spirit off of me and then gave me a word saying something great is going to happen to me God gonna Knock my socks off blow my mind something wonderful im thinking to myself what what?i sat there in disbelieve 😮 i just continue to go for more prayers but i felt like im in a zoo behind bars observing me really weird i would have never thot this lady would do to me and she has no idea 🤷♀️ what happened!! So i continued to hug everybody. Love me miss me in the congregation. Acted like it didn’t bother me😅after church ended we left! Then a week later i called the pastor for another appointment but he said you just gotta let things roll off my back like a duck 🦆 and read the book called “How to stop the pain “ and then call us and tell us what Jesus told me…Guess what? I didn’t read the book 📖 and Jesus already talked to me😊He told me your were standing up for significant other that was ❤️ LOVE and they dint want to know the truth yet…im gonna have to block this covert narc on face book cause she still wants supply from my posts… i told pastor i would like to come back to praise and worship team but dont want to listen to me they discarded me-now my blood is too high …i worked extremely hard to be the best i could be and i should have never gone back to church its been extremely hard to not see my freinds at church 😢🥲😭 12:18 12:18
What Narcissists are really doing is trying to steal our SENSE OF SELF, the seat of personal power, as they have NO such sense of themselves. Yes, harness all your beautiful attributes, realise how RARE they are, and that you have been poisoned AGAINST yourself by them, so you'd never be able to benefit from your own blessings. Proof them wrong. Show them you are stronger. Light is always stronger than darkness! God bless 🤲
This is incredible. I had an awful fight with my narcissist 2 nights ago. The way it started was they laughed at me saying I wasnt an empath. This cut me to my core because I have been an empath, and an empath specifically to their issues for my whole life. That sucked. It hurt so much. And of course like narcs do, got me questioning myself. But today I scroll my TH-cam feed and this video, the title saying "the empath, yes its you". Wow. What a moment. So thank you, you make these videos for people like me, and it does make a difference.
Yes, Empaths can sense and feel things that other people can't... It really is a gift... I met and talked to Amy Allen one time, and she said I was a,"Sensitive"...
I am grateful for your kind words today. They encouraged me and validated my beliefs. I am in the most difficult position with a malignant narcissist. All has been revealed to me. I know what to do. But find it incredible difficult to find the courage needed to retreat. Thank you! Bless you✌️
I will pray for you to get the hell out. I know how horrible they are. I was married to a malignant narc and unfortunately had kids with him (that he begged for) only to leave us high and dry right after I had them for another woman. He ended up killing her with a drug overdose and months later was trying to get another girl hooked on drugs.I have to deal with him all the time and I hope to move out of state soon. Pray for me that the judge grants the move out order and I can finally be free from this nightmare! God bless you honey
This video is absolutely beautiful. I really have no words. So many times I watch these videos and I am triggered with bad memories which I actually think is a good thing for me because it brings things to the surface that I have buried for so long so I can process them, feel them and then release them. This video is different it made me appreciate how my continued desire to move forward on my healing path and not let all the years of abuse that I suffered define my future or change the endless goodness and love I have inside of me. It makes me to want to continue to become a better version of myself so that no one needs to worry about me or want to swoop in and rescue me. It reminds me I will never have to be rescued again because I threw myself the lifeline and I rescued myself. I watch this video and it gives me such hope. I have always guided my life under the core principles of life which is Faith Hope and Love even in my darkest days which is sadly why I probably had to stay so long. But fast forward to today I try not to look back as much anymore. I have such a deep appreciation for all life has to offer and I embrace the little things that surround me every day. Thank you Andrew for sharing such a beautiful healing message. Your unending dedication to this community is just remarkable you truly should be so proud of how far you have come. God bless you always and know you deserve nothing but greatness in your days ahead.
I’m writing my first book. I’m looking at creating a digital product. I have created digital assets and I’m learning new skills I want to help others by teaching and sharing my experience. I’m not there to anticipate his needs anymore and I will do what I want to do.
Thank you Andrew 😊l was married to narcissist for over 25 years. I give and give give to make him happy, 4 kids I was abused mentally, physically financially for years. I did had the courage to file for divorce and sell my house l bought and had to give him his share. I I’m living my best life now. I went on a dating app look for a good partner 😢 more narcissistic people Just don’t go on a dating app they will destroy your life. Loving myself ❤ living my best life with an amazing attitude of appreciation for the world 🌎 ❤
Bless us all broth and sister empaths there is so much help out there today for us… spirit in its Devine way and mercy renders us not alone any more and bringing the earth more into consciousness and knowledge…. Providing a path for us to grow deep roots self love and come into our own truth! It sure isn’t easy but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I have come to realize that the deeper the pain the deeper the gain…but trust me that wasn’t my idea… it is what it is!😉🕉️🕉️🕉️💜💜💜✝️✝️✝️💕💗
Everything you’ve said is true. I even thought my ex was sent by God. Now I see the devil planted him in my life to make me lose my way and get further from God by the day. Luckily God opened my eyes and led me to your channel and I’ve learned so much. I know now it’s not my fault..I know I did everything right and treated him better than anyone he’s ever known and better than he ever deserved. I just wanted him to be the person I saw when I looked at him..more for his sake than mine. He’s a mess, enjoys misery, and lives in a fantasy land where he’s just fine and everything was my fault. The only fault I hold is putting him on a pedestal that he had no desire to stand on. I’m glad it’s over. 18 minutes was too much, so 18 years was entirely a waste of my life and love and loyalty..all of which was meant for a man God is bringing to me quickly. Praise Jesus for that. And so much more.
Thank you thank you thank you! I wish my adult children believe this truth! Thank you! You make each day for me better! I’m free after 35 years of losing myself to someone who never valued me, my children, and friends! I can’t believe I woke up and am so much happier! Empathy is love towards others!
Came to me last night enough, my energy, my intelligence my health slipping down a bottomless rabbit hole. The Narc is pure evil, he was clever but I had done a lot of work previously so I recognised the signs and signals more quickly. Nobody but nobody treats me the way he was. We were on the discard stage, I quit! Thank goodness there are people like Andrew and others on TH-cam who guide and support us through.Empaths are a very special breed we have the knowledge and strength to set an unacceptable situation straight, that is our ultimate power, we are blessed 😊
One of your best vids I’ve seen Andrew. Thanks for sharing this. The setting is beautiful and the insights are filled with purity, goodness, and truth. Gentle reminder that being our true, authentic selves is the path and makes the world and our place in the world better. Really beautiful message and so liberating. 🙏🏻💕☀️🌸
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I don't want revenge at all . I just want to be free
Don't let them live rent free in your head
Me too
Same Here!
The revenge is figurative. Being our Beautiful selves releases their bond! It's the ultimate restoration project ~
So I want!!
Losing them is saving me. I can feel it. Going no contact works.
Keep this in mind.
If their absence brings you peace you did not lose them you have won yourself
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Absolutely 🎯
Amen!
Very well said ! Excellent Reframing ! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼😇💖
Excellent observation prostyle1626
Thank you for sharing that ❤️
Best revenge. Let the narcissist go. No contact. And be happy. Narcissists hate to see you happy.
Clean house. Literally, socially, relationally, spiritually, physically, financially, intellectually, all of it. It's never too late for a clean slate with updated boundaries and self love.
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We as empath are very special, caring and loving people. We don’t lie,abuse and cheat. We are real! ❤️❤️
But we Still need some tools to be assertive and set and maintain boundaries with others! Even our siblings!
@@angelic9630 Agree, boundaries are essential. One should never allow any person to abuse our goodness and treat us with disrespect. Narcissist is mentally under develop, can not be fixed and is a nightmare for any psychiatrist.
Completely correct 💯💯
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If they say we lie, abuse & cheat, they are the one who is lying, abusing & cheating! What a person say about others is exactly what he is! My conscience is CLEAR!
You really cannot talk to anyone about a narcissistic relationship who has never encountered a narcissist for any length of time, or ever acknowledged they were in a narcissistic relationship because they just did not get it. People like you who have recovered from this nightmare are the only people who can really help others see the light. Thank you for this contribution.
No matter how you tell someone the story. Yah, you get that person that says "sorry". We are taught to read and understand words.
You have experience feeling.
Until you experience a covert narcissist. Ppl will truly not understand.
Loved your comment Sheila you are so right!!!
Right ...ppl have no clue ..I had no clue someone could be like this so covertly...I can finally see that he wanted to " eat" my social connections and empathy...people gravitate towards me and I've become so antisocial and with social anxiety... Realized now that I was never like this, he used to shit on me right before an event or social gathering specially with close family...like right before walking in...ahole lol...now that I know he just wanted to wear my skin...fast forward getting divorce...who is the loner with mental problems and social anxiety??? And who is the upright citizen, member of the community scouts with many friends and support from family and even my family as he tried to do, then have the audacity to tell me me how many ppl got his back and how many had mine( fighting with my family and my mom at the time) as I was crying and heartbroken and mortified ...mother@## take off my skin lol you can try to wear it and disguise as me but it ain't me you demon child.
You are so Right ✅️.
So true.
The best revenge against these soulless psychopaths to go on building the most happy, healthy and successful life you will ever live with strong boundaries.
Cheers to that
Yes 🙌
Amen to that 🙌🏼
One after the other, every single person . Like parents, siblings, cousins, relatives. Classmate snakes ( pretending to be besties , forcing themselves in my life everyday and creating drama if I resist and establish a boundary. ) and then 10 such partners. Booom. So many deaths of me.
Okay l@ t
My revenge was to give him the silent treatment for a week after his heartless discard. Then I texted him that I don’t believe in a relationship with him anymore. And shortly after that I arranged to meet up so he could get his stuff (just a bag). Now I don’t ever have to hear from him again. And that was definitely the last glimpse he got from me. Stay strong. You can do it.
Empaths FEEL DEEPER, THINK DEEPER, LOVE DEEPER, apréciate LIFE & UNDERSTAND DEEPER and I THINK its a Super POWER and Thank you ANDREW for sharing your WISDOM !!!!!
"Silence is Golden"... And the Narcissist can't handle the fact we don't respond any longer to them!
Trying my hardest
Never going back
Thanks Lord and thank all of you
God says, Vengeance is mine, I will repay. I am moving forward with God's grace and leaving any revenge to Him. Thank you for this channel. It's helped me to know, I'm not crazy or the only one. God is helping me day by day to rebuild my life and move forward!
❤️💯TRUTH
DEALING WITH A NARC IS LIKE LIVING IN A HOUSE OF HORRORS....NOTHING SATISFIES THEM MORE THAN SEEING US IN EMOTIONAL TURMOIL LIVING WITH A BROKEN SPIRIT....MY REVENGE WAS TO GET OUT, HEAL MY SPIRIT AND MOVE ON...
I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY....
You deserve to be happy 🙌💯🙏
I agree... I'm out, I left the narc since 14 month ago from 12 years of abuse from a covert and high-range narc. I'm FREE and happy- living in peace and harmony at last.
Amen!🌹💙🙏🏼
@Patric Bernier You're welcome!...Just get the He'll Outta There!
@Patric Bernier It's THERAPY time...
The great thing about being an empath is you can sense someone's true nature almost instantly. Do not ignore this inner voice! I did, and experienced almost two year's of hell with an absolute narcissist. Stay safe and don't allow anyone to tell you empathy is 'weakness'. They are jealous of qualities they do not possess!!
This!!!
When I put my feet on the floor in the morning, my first thought,” he is one mentally I’ll person.”
My self respect is returning. I am deserving of my new life. Thank you for these, they do help.
Welcome 🙏
Yes I think now how sick they are. Demonic possession
@@franceshaggitt3104 I'm not so sure that it's a demon that drives them; but perhaps the devil himself. Demonology assigns specific flaws to each demon but the devil's specific flaw is vanity, much like the narcissists he inhabits. That's my theory anyway.
beautifully said
"The best revenge is a life well lived." Moving forward and sharing loving-kindness with those who appreciate and deserve your compassion and care.
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Beautiful ! I agree wholeheartedly! ( Nothing diffuses their so-called "power over you" better than that ! & better still , it's not at all vengeful as we are light lifting higher and so much better than that ⚡💥✨
@@debralondon2402 yes we all know that feeling ... Just keep making your own improvements in your own life and this too shall pass. Now you may just need rest as you take a slower pace & perhaps baby steps for awhile ... Still will lead you to moving mountains for yourself and new others who deserve your previous time and gifts 🙏🏼😇🌞
Yes I’m working towards that but it’s not easy processing a lot of grief anger and sadness right now
I have never been lonelier in my life than when I was married to the narc. I felt empty because he used up everything I had to give
Maggie I understand completely what you mentioned..🙌💯💯
I know that feeling but guess what you're the one that's blessed because you're no longer what that crazy person those people have personality disorders and you cannot fix that
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MAGGIE I AM SO GLAD YOU ARE OUT NOW MOVING FORWARD.
Omg..... I could totally relate to it..... That's the most heart breaking and miserable moment anyone can go thru..... Goshhhh....
Empaths are the ultra violet light that exposes the narcissist counterfeit attitude!
Yes 🙌
Cool!💕 What if you're completely green? I come through green.
The best revenge is to be happy.. live your life to the fullest.. because life is so beautiful and precious... hugs and love to all
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I realized I was an empath in addiction treatment. I was like "Is that why people just come up to me and tell me there life story?" I can't help myself but listen. That's it just listen maybe it's because that's all I ever wanted is just someone to listen and not use my feelings against me.
Your last line hit me . Yes I think that is the key to r feelings.
That sounds like my life story. I wholeheartedly agree with wanting to be listened to and heard. I haven't really had that in God knows when!
When I am at festivals and take xtc, people will literally start deep conversations with me about deep traumas, sometimes something they never told anyone. But somehow, they are attracted to me. Took me long time to realize why.
EXCELLENT TRUTH. Same here
Yeah people seems to open up their heart and I think it’s because they feel that I’m not a gossiper, I will not judge them even if we don’t know each other they can feel safe with us. Some of them get surprised because what they have shared with me is nothing they would share with someone else. It’s almost magical and it’s an awesome feeling of real genuine connection between two souls ❤❤❤
I wished to Meet A life partner like me wanting a genuine relationship but I got myself a narcissist 🙄🙄🙄
This is 100% true. After you leave a narcissist, everything just is. There's none of that second guessing bullshit keeping you completely off balance. My work, sleep, mood, health all improved 10-fold after the horrible withdrawal effects subsided. Push through the withdrawal phase. These people are intoxicating. They are hardcore drugs as bad as heroin and ICE.
Beautiful reply and inspirational message thank you 🙏☀️☀️🙌
TRUTH!!!
nice explanation, i feel you 😊👍
Yes these Narc are like hardcore drugs..
As a matter of fact my former Narc was an avid Ice user. He could not keep away from it...he could not function without it.
@@dmi1725 🙂 b patient, takes a few years but u shud get there
I am suffering, but one day I will realise I was not the problem he was..
Exactly 💯
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF ABBEY.
You will Have the desire to will and you will
It takes a while. I'm no contact with the entire family narc network for nearly a year now and I'm starting to enjoy my own company. I'm not rushing about trying to meet new people, I'm simply enjoying being my own best friend. You'll get there Abbey
Don't let them live rent free in your head
Ja, best revenge is just walk away and don`t looked back.
Agree completely ☀️☀️✊
I have a dream journal.
I have a hunger journal.
I have a prayer/ healing journal. It all helps me,, to keep some “ order” to my now- free life.
I do not CARE, that I barely scrape by. It’s all worth it to be Narc- free.
But wow, they keep coming. Crawling out from out of nowhere. It’s frightening at times. I just ISOLATE. A LOT.
I was literally tortured as a child, lived in a family of 3 psychopaths and as an empath it has taken my life from me completely. Your channel and another have been bringing me out of the fog for the last couple weeks and it's amazing how suppressed and controlled I've been for 37 years. The light is turning on, and HOLY CRAP is it bright.
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57 yrs here but I am free now
i can recommend a book called a new primal scream by Dr arthur janov for an unbelievable explaination of why all this happens ...i am 57 and ive just had to tell my mum an sis to leave me alone, it isnt going on like this and they dont change , they get worse every year...its so sad , i used to enjoy sitting and listening to mums stories of the good old days, ( i had to work out what subjects to stay away from to stop her getting angry) but my sis couldnt stand me getting on with mum so she told her loads of rubbish making me look criminal, so i just walked away
i pretty much spent my childhood in silence trying not to anger the ogre.
I can relate to you 100%. I went through the same thing with malignant narc.
God bless you.
I am writing a book … “the devil is real … chills to my bones” - can’t wait till it’s all completed. 🙏❤️💯
Share it here in the community please 🙌💯
I told him one day i will
The devil is real 🎯🎯🎯
Interesting title 🤔 mine would whisper into my ear while I slept. She's been caught doing the same thing to our youngest grand daughter.
Through meditation it came to me that this problem is centuries old and was horribly misjudged in medieval Europe. In those times , these people were labeled as witches. The green envious witch archetype. They were said to pass their craft to their children mouth to ear. That they robbed the souls of men and devoured children . Superstitions have inhibited research.
Good for you the demons are learning time to get the rest of your life together...best too you ..
The best revenge: NO MORE SUPPPLY. No reply, no response, no reaction to their bids for attention or emotional energy. If assests are involved, correspond through a professional third party. If children are involved, interactions are limited to convey where and when people will show up places, and get picked up from places. When they look at you, the only thing they see is someone who is unbothered, unconcerned, and moving on to have a better life.
Beautiful insight thank you Shannon.. 💯☀️🙌
Here here!!!
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone We are not to give what is holy to the dogs.......namaste
keep it old school: Excommunication and Exile Forevermore, Away With Them! 👎
Yup. Many of them are in public places...they Will look at you as you are different to them.
For survivors and thrivers after narcisstic abuse - this is so true, you become the best version of yourself, its almost like being subjected to a twisted therapy but coming out stronger, wiser and AWARE ❤️
Thank you for sharing 🙌💯🙏☀️
Yes, so true.
Yes, that’s always the way it works. If you think about every trial, loss and/or setback, you’ll note how you came through it as a stronger and wiser version of yourself. That’s personal growth and this experience should yield personal growth on steroids.
100%, eating better, sleeping better, gym everyday. All because of this pretty damn amazing, and compassionate community that has had the misfortune of being with a narcissist! 9 months later, I hope you continue to move forwards! :)
Did you get stronger a year later
We empaths need to have as much love for ourselves as we do others.
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I'm awake, I'm aware, and you're helping! Thank you!
Welcome 😌🙏💯
It's great to be able to enjoy your own company. I'm discovering that again
Beautiful to hear this 🙏🙌☀️
😁 The ultimate revenge. I am better than I was before I met him! Happier, healthier and shining more brightly 🏵️🌻🌹
I appreciate your kindness and sharing this beautiful message 💯☀️🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I have only just discovered you. Thank you Andrew for what you are doing. Feel your positive, powerful energy from halfway across the world. 🙏 Namaste
Well done for loving you
While the narcs continue to go downhill Michelle! Have a happy life in peace!
"For You have tried us, O God; You have refined us as silver is refined!" (Psalm 66:10)
"But He knows the way that I take! When He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold" (Job 23:10). There is in this world - a furnace of afflictions for God's elect. Then in the world to come - there is another furnace of literal, physical fire that is heated for the ungodly after the judgment. "The Son of Man will send out His angels, and they will weed out of His kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. They will throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth!" (Matthew 13:41-42)
I just ended s twenty four years relationship with a female narcissist. Everything that you talk about is exactly what I experienced for all this time. I volunteered to be her punching bag. The breakup is still fresh and I'm experiencing the withdrawal. It feels as if the chains have been broken and I'm free now to transform into a brand new person without the toxicity of an unhealthy relationship.
I understand this.. now is the time to educate yourself.. understand.. and grow.. my hope is you are healing and improving 🙌☀️🙏
Good for you
Yes totally agree.... They are extremely toxic and energy draining... I ended my 27 years relationship this year, after putting up with his nonsense all these years.... Goshhhh.... They can really bind u with their dark spell.... Feeling alot more better now.... A peaceful life and mind is much much more better....
Stay blessed ....
You are not alone Jorge, right there with you. I understand it now. It’s over, and We got this 🙌.
You'll get to a better place. I'm nearly a year out of it and I'm starting to feel good
Thanks Jesus for polishing and buffering me
I know what you are talking about...the more time one spends away from the narc, the more you find who you were❤
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I CONSIDERED REVENGE BUT DECIDED TO LET GOD HANDLE THAT NARC. I TURNED IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION TO LOVE AND RESPECT MYSELF. TO EDUCATE MYSELF ABOUT NARCS. ALSO DEVELOPED BOUNDARIES AND DEALBREAKERS. NOW I PROTECT MYSELF EVERYDAY ALL DAY WITH BOUNDARIES AND USE MY GUT TO HELP GUIDE MY DECISIONS.
Discernment .... is a 👍 golden gift 🎁 to have. Above anything one could get through a college degree.
i took my power back and stopped trying to justify myself
Beautiful Meg 💪✊☀️💯🙌
The old acronym for dealing with toxic people is JADE (never Justify, Argue, Defend, or Explain)
I decided this today. I'm going to love myself more than anyone has ever loved me. I'm on the biggest self love journey ❤️ thanks 👌 for your messages
Welcome 🙏
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So true that most people are not empaths. I do feel like I have always had a strange ability to read people just watching, observing. Yet, I did wear the rose colored glasses as well. Thank you Andrew and God bless you ❤❤❤
You are kind, beautiful, caring, generous, wonderful, precious, loving, smart, STRONG, BRAVE, unique and cherished.
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The revenge of the empath is to move forward. So true. Thanks for these videos Andrew!
Welcome Izzy always ☀️🙌🙏
It is easy to find videos talking about narcissism, all the red flags, the traits; so we get educated on what narcissism is all about. But on your videos we can also find understanding and comfort to the ones who had to deal with the narcissist, you bring awareness on how we feel, what happens to our mind, our soul. Thank you for focusing on the ones who need healing.
Thank you for sharing this insight Francisca 💯🙌.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 🙌☀️
i agree.. healing !!!
Yes this is why I come back everyday. Give me hope
Agree whole heartedly!!!
I've met two hard core narcissists, they are unbelieveable. They can not "live and let live" whether its a friendship or a relationship. Whatever happened to "to each his own," or "I understand, i just feel differently and thats ok." Whatever happened to a good debate with a friend, but without hate and anger? They get crazy, instead.
good god, yes
They get crazy & make crazy for SUPPLY.
YESSSSS... we have our own path to walk/live; we don't need to walk in their path/road ...its too much ROAD RAGE!😮
Ty Andrew...great video!❤❤❤
Welcome 😌🙏❤️
I needed to hear THIS! More people who were targeted by NARCS need to realize they Never get better. Period. And that we as EMPATHS have a mission to share, but now with boundaries. I thank him for that. I had no firm boundaries prior.💕
I had boundaries when he came back for last chance ..... He walked allover them and git angry after day five. I ended him again for gd
I'm a Super Empath, done that sh*t with narcissists and dysfunctional individuals who drained me mentally, physically, emotionally and financially and nowadays after lessons learned the hard way I've become a Super Selective Empath instead. I'm very picky when it comes to sharing myself and my time with other people. My life quality is on top just because of me understanding how important it is to set healthy boundaries, something I didn't really understood before. They don't show up in my life anymore as boundaries is the worst a narc can face. They're gone.
Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏☀️💯
Narcissists need a story to manipulate.Each victim of a narcissist has their own unique story to tell.It's like each victim and the narcissist in different dimensions
Yes thank you for sharing this insight 💯🙏🙌
I never thought "Am I worthy" instead I thought "If he only knew how much consequences he's putting over his own head due to doing me a child of God wrong"
Wow.. that’s insightful 💯💯🙏.. thank you 🙏
I think the same way geez
Yes! God says" justice is mine, I will repay."
WOW what an excellent mind set & to have the knowledge deep within.
Absolutely right!! I would think (at the times that I knew it was evil I was dealing with) that he was skidding on icy ground treating a child of God like this!
I want them to be held responsible for the dignity of my life they robbed me of , which took my twenties and thirties away from me that I was spending that time in my life , surviving their narcissism. . .had enough of asking people to help me , I want my life back.
Being free is priceless
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Andrew this is one of your best videos. You have just verbalized exactly how I have been feeling. I am going replay this video every night I go to sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💕X
Welcome Kate ☀️🙌.. I am grateful to be able to help ..☀️💯🌙
Kate Collins,You got a lovely smile 😊
So true Andrew thank you
Yes. Shared on social media platforms. excellent consciousness talk.😍
“Lost myself” …. Yep. That will never happen again.
Yes 🙌
Me too, happy journey ✅
"I don't eat French fries, and I don't think you should either."
I'm gonna eat deep fried potatoes whenever I want! Look at me, maintaining my boundaries. 😊 Thanks so much for your videos, I'm working my way through the dumpster fire that is leaving a narcissist behind me and your videos are so full of encouragement and hope.
Welcome always 🙏💯🙌☀️😊
It's been a year... you doing good now? I love that you said "the dumpster fire that is leaving a narcissist behind" lol. I'm a few months out from doing that. Please tell me it gets easier soon lol
In a spousal relationship it’s all or nothing as far as I’m concerned. If you mistakenly supported a narcissist you cannot be ashamed for being duped. The essential move is taking that person off the pedestal and treat them as you would the guy that fixes your car or rings up your groceries. Everyone can receive your civility but very few are allowed into the inner walls. My name is Andy also and the mantra I adopted is that my former spouse “lost her Andy privileges”. It takes some time but the destination is worth it.
Well said
I love this! 😀
My deepest fear is tht i may never fully get over it,I still catch myself ruminating taking self inventory over n over,my poor heart still reaches for this person but my head knows all too well exactly what n who she is,this healing process has been difficult but I am moving forward one day at a time,.thanks Andrew thanks man
I have said, if only I can find someone who can understand what I mean to say, I feel like I have found a family on this channel. I only found out about you last night. I have watched a few videos now, and not stopping since last night. It's great to be able to hear someone who can 'relate ', I'm an african in a small southern african country called Botswana. I'm just coming out of one, the worst thing about my 9yr experience was the lack of a voice. I have found my voice again thank God, but this channel is a life-giver. Thank you!!! I am writer and in future will use what I have to absolutely help ppl like you Andrew. God bless you, Namaste.
Welcome to the community Zoe.. I appreciate your kindness and sharing this beautiful message 🇧🇼🇨🇷❤️.. I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you always 💯☀️🙌🙏
This is true. The one sided relationship I have to go through. 23 years of this being married to a narcissist is a whole shit struggle. Thank you
Welcome 🙏 Jenqueenly 🙌☀️
The true empath is discerning and capable of it
Deception, lies, empty inside, and I am learning everyday how to grow and move on.
I agree...revenge just keeps you digging the hole deeper. As someone once said...LIVING WELL is the BEST REVENGE!
There is a God🙏 !!! I can’t wait til I feel like this again.
You are working on yourself.. I know you are.. day by day moving forward.. ☀️🙌🙏
Thank you Andrew. Sometimes it feels like I’m looking in the mirror spiritually when watching your videos. You’re an invaluable asset to the collective. God bless you 🙏🏻
Welcome 🙏
I am truly blessed. I am sitting on my couch, doing what I want right now, just being here, listening to you, I am free, safe, and I've just come home 💜
Beautiful message 💯😊🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏🏻💜☯
What is so frustrating is that the more you overlooked what they did the more they took u as just another fool but scratch a bit deeper it boils down to jealousy
THANK YOU!! Andrew! I appreciate your video tribute. Thank You, for all of your kind words, thoughtfulness, and caring statements. I am sorry that someone (a Narcissist) hurt you. God Bless- on your path to healing!
Welcome 😌🙌❤️
I spent more than half of my life in this marriage, 33 yrs. They completely drained and destroy you. Still after a few months going through the withdrawals from this relationship, it’s difficult to build my confidence.
As an empath, we have so much to give and not realizing not everyone has this capacity. What’s important is not to change how we view the world put to have boundaries to protect us from evil people.
Enjoyed this topic of a empath’s revenge. Move forward, pick up the pieces and shine. I have a lot of healing still, but finally I’m out and starting a new life for myself. Putting myself first, second and third! Thanks, Andrew.
Welcome d Mora..🙌💯🙏
Yes,. It feels good to put yourself first and not feel as if you are being selfish to take time out for yourself.
Breaking vulnerable habits are hard but I’m trying! Thank you for reminding me of the beautiful path I have created for myself!
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I’m grateful I came upon your videos. I currently am in the ghosting phase from leaving after being verbally, physically and emotionally abused by the narcissist I encountered. One day I hope to mentally be where you and many others on your page are because I can honestly say this is the hardest rebirth process and I feel like some days I just can’t get a break from the thoughts. I definitely wish I left a lot sooner but I’m grateful the door has been closed! It does get hard to know that people literally wake up and choose to lower a person’s character, boundaries and self esteem in order to satisfy one’s own ego and insecurities. What’s the biggest challenge is getting my mind to wrap around that I was in fact being manipulated for almost 3 years and found myself comfortable with so much less than what I truly deserve. I hope one day I will be able to give back sooner than later but I am still trying to shake this feeling and wanting to know if this person can feel such grief however I will continue to grow, learn and ensure I pour back into my cup so I can continue to be the light I know I am … Thank you
I’m a empath and I know how deep I feel and my emotions are very strong but it was stolen and with your help I took it back and I’m on my way to healing. 💜
All I care about is being the best version of myself, moving forward with my life and healing journey. I used to care WAY TOO MUCH about what others thought of me and helping others, but not so much anymore. I need to focus on me and get my life back on track.
Would be nice to not have to live the rest of my life questioning what others intentions are in regards to me
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Andrew, you are an exquisite, profound and beautiful soul 🌟✨🌟
Thank you 🙏
I so agree
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement Andrew!!
Welcome Linda..☀️🙌
Thank You Andrew!💜💜💜
The Empaths that make it through, earn their wings! They took their power back as the NARC handed their power to the Empath as well...
Even now, he imitates me. All the people that he interacts with are really interacting with a dumbed down version of me! LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shine brightly beautiful Empaths!💜💜💜
I am really looking forward to my Thanksgiving dinner alone. Me and my cats. It will be so lovely!!!
I appreciate your kindness and honesty .. thank you 🙏
SO NICE TO ENJOY FREEDOM AND PEACE. AND THE BEST COMPANY IS WITH YOURSELF.
Have also observed that odd imitation of what i do, say, write etc. Great point of view that ppl just have to handle a dumbed down version of myself 😄 In fact i think they`re a caleidoskope of stolen behaviour, but the soul is missing, so they act really dumb and foolish if one has seen behind the curtain, you cannot unsee it from now on ;)
There was a time he got mad and drove dangerously. I asked him if he's trying to kill me. Then I told him to go for it because I got nothing to lose. I have lived a great life. Go for it! Then he slow down.
You are definitely a blessing in my life. Thank you❤
Welcome..💯😌🙏
Andrew, YOU are a Power Station of "Lightbulb Moments." NOT taking steps toward "Revenge" is actually "Revenge" if they see you don't become ruffled during their fearful attacks. I used my "Airline Reservationist" voice with the Narc I used to work for. THAT was actually "revenge." Victory came when he could not look at me at the retirement party. Oh, How Sweet It Is.
Thank you for sharing this empowering message.. I appreciate your kindness and support George.. 💯☀️🙌
I wouldn't consider this revenge as much as defense against under handed tactics from a toxic person. Nice videos , I agree with most of what you're saying.
Thank you for sharing your insight 🙌💯☀️🙏
These tears streaming down my face, watching this video and really feeling it, are actually part of the healing process!
POW! I’m going to rewatch now
You are doing this.. embrace your emotions.. 🙏🙌☀️💯
I CAN JUST IMAGINE YOUR TEARS. PLEASE BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF.
If you are reading this , God is calling to you to bring your problems and ALL that LOVE you have to him. I can say he called for me and took me out a extreme narccacistic hold. I was lost in lust, broken in my mind and spirit, confused and wondering why. Why cant she change? What am I doing wrong here? No amount of love or money I gave fixed it. IT was impossible for me to do right and the fights were on another level! After 12 years , I finally had a breakthrough. But ONLY through the strength of Jesus was I able to see things clear. I asked him and made excuses for her. I asked him to show me if he wanted me to be with her or leave. I remember her getting mad I was even praying then. She showed a real anger and a demon came out of her. Blind and pure rage and fury came out over the smallest things. It was literally a twilight zone and made no sense. He took me out of the spiral , the emotional pain, gaslighting , the manipulation and mind games and I am now a free man. Humble and flawd but free. Bless you all and remember you have a heavenly father waiting to start a relationship with you to get trough this.
Thank you for sharing this message 🙏🙌💯
My blood pressure went up after i tried to go back to church after waiting 2 months for my pastors to call me since I was a worship leader for almost 4 years in this church waited. I prayed then the Lord said call back because they were people on my Praise team that wanted me to talk to the pastor. Well, I made a meeting, and I found out that my pastor made an incident report on me didn’t call me to hear my side of the story and didn’t even tell the other pastor about making incident report. Didn’t ask the other guitarist who is also a close friend…get it a GOOD FRIEND they made sure that Anthony didn’t make a report. The pastor knew it would support me. It’s so one-sided, so I’m kind of beginning to think he may be somewhat of a narcissist cause I know the worship leader over the team definitely a covert narcissist. when I went back to the congregation, I love the congregation, one of the prayer leaders came up to me in front of the class and prayed, deceiving spirit off of me and then gave me a word saying something great is going to happen to me God gonna Knock my socks off blow my mind something wonderful im thinking to myself what what?i sat there in disbelieve 😮 i just continue to go for more prayers but i felt like im in a zoo behind bars observing me really weird i would have never thot this lady would do to me and she has no idea 🤷♀️ what happened!! So i continued to hug everybody. Love me miss me in the congregation. Acted like it didn’t bother me😅after church ended we left! Then a week later i called the pastor for another appointment but he said you just gotta let things roll off my back like a duck 🦆 and read the book called “How to stop the pain “ and then call us and tell us what Jesus told me…Guess what? I didn’t read the book 📖 and Jesus already talked to me😊He told me your were standing up for significant other that was ❤️ LOVE and they dint want to know the truth yet…im gonna have to block this covert narc on face book cause she still wants supply from my posts… i told pastor i would like to come back to praise and worship team but dont want to listen to me they discarded me-now my blood is too high …i worked extremely hard to be the best i could be and i should have never gone back to church its been extremely hard to not see my freinds at church 😢🥲😭 12:18 12:18
What Narcissists are really doing is trying to steal our SENSE OF SELF, the seat of personal power, as they have NO such sense of themselves. Yes, harness all your beautiful attributes, realise how RARE they are, and that you have been poisoned AGAINST yourself by them, so you'd never be able to benefit from your own blessings. Proof them wrong. Show them you are stronger. Light is always stronger than darkness! God bless 🤲
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It lasted exactly two years and I left him on my doctors orders . And moved far away because I didn’t want to see him anymore.
Once you remove the toxic relationship your energy returns..
i just want a real emotional bond
This is incredible. I had an awful fight with my narcissist 2 nights ago. The way it started was they laughed at me saying I wasnt an empath. This cut me to my core because I have been an empath, and an empath specifically to their issues for my whole life. That sucked. It hurt so much. And of course like narcs do, got me questioning myself. But today I scroll my TH-cam feed and this video, the title saying "the empath, yes its you". Wow. What a moment. So thank you, you make these videos for people like me, and it does make a difference.
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We empaths are only 3% of the planet. God Bless and Thank You! Atma Namaste
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Yes, Empaths can sense and feel things that other people can't... It really is a gift... I met and talked to Amy Allen one time, and she said I was a,"Sensitive"...
I am grateful for your kind words today. They encouraged me and validated my beliefs. I am in the most difficult position with a malignant narcissist. All has been revealed to me. I know what to do. But find it incredible difficult to find the courage needed to retreat. Thank you! Bless you✌️
Welcome 🙏 always 🙌
You can do it.
Why retreat they'll show you the door once you know. You don't or maybe shouldn't call them out either unless you just want to yell out Devils
I will pray for you to get the hell out. I know how horrible they are. I was married to a malignant narc and unfortunately had kids with him (that he begged for) only to leave us high and dry right after I had them for another woman. He ended up killing her with a drug overdose and months later was trying to get another girl hooked on drugs.I have to deal with him all the time and I hope to move out of state soon. Pray for me that the judge grants the move out order and I can finally be free from this nightmare! God bless you honey
This video is absolutely beautiful. I really have no words. So many times I watch these videos and I am triggered with bad memories which I actually think is a good thing for me because it brings things to the surface that I have buried for so long so I can process them, feel them and then release them. This video is different it made me appreciate how my continued desire to move forward on my healing path and not let all the years of abuse that I suffered define my future or change the endless goodness and love I have inside of me. It makes me to want to continue to become a better version of myself so that no one needs to worry about me or want to swoop in and rescue me. It reminds me I will never have to be rescued again because I threw myself the lifeline and I rescued myself. I watch this video and it gives me such hope. I have always guided my life under the core principles of life which is Faith Hope and Love even in my darkest days which is sadly why I probably had to stay so long. But fast forward to today I try not to look back as much anymore. I have such a deep appreciation for all life has to offer and I embrace the little things that surround me every day. Thank you Andrew for sharing such a beautiful healing message. Your unending dedication to this community is just remarkable you truly should be so proud of how far you have come. God bless you always and know you deserve nothing but greatness in your days ahead.
I appreciate your kindness and sharing thank you Christine.. I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you always 💯🙌☀️🙌
This was a beautiful comment. I feel the same way as you!!
I’m writing my first book. I’m looking at creating a digital product. I have created digital assets and I’m learning new skills I want to help others by teaching and sharing my experience. I’m not there to anticipate his needs anymore and I will do what I want to do.
Beautiful progress and inspirational ☀️🙌🙏💯
Thank you Andrew 😊l was married to narcissist for over 25 years. I give and give give to make him happy, 4 kids
I was abused mentally, physically financially for years.
I did had the courage to file for divorce and sell my house l bought and had to give him his share. I
I’m living my best life now. I went on a dating app look for a good partner 😢 more narcissistic people
Just don’t go on a dating app they will destroy your life.
Loving myself ❤ living my best life with an amazing attitude of appreciation for the world 🌎 ❤
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That's right let's live our lives!❤👊🙌⭐🙏
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Let's do it.
The best revenge is to be happy one day at a time. Be authentic and love myself.
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Thank you I needed to hear this and what a perfect timing God bless you always 💙❤🙏
Welcome Natalie 🙌💯
I haven't ate French fries in years.
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I'm free. My new word for 2024 is persevere.
Great teaching video ❤❤❤
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Bless us all broth and sister empaths there is so much help out there today for us… spirit in its Devine way and mercy renders us not alone any more and bringing the earth more into consciousness and knowledge…. Providing a path for us to grow deep roots self love and come into our own truth! It sure isn’t easy but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I have come to realize that the deeper the pain the deeper the gain…but trust me that wasn’t my idea… it is what it is!😉🕉️🕉️🕉️💜💜💜✝️✝️✝️💕💗
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Thank you for your informative and positive videos. They are helping me tremendously. And I am sure many others as well.
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So glad I found your channel, thanks so much! 💖
Welcome Native Grammy.. thank you for sharing this 🙌☀️💯
Everything you’ve said is true. I even thought my ex was sent by God. Now I see the devil planted him in my life to make me lose my way and get further from God by the day. Luckily God opened my eyes and led me to your channel and I’ve learned so much. I know now it’s not my fault..I know I did everything right and treated him better than anyone he’s ever known and better than he ever deserved. I just wanted him to be the person I saw when I looked at him..more for his sake than mine. He’s a mess, enjoys misery, and lives in a fantasy land where he’s just fine and everything was my fault. The only fault I hold is putting him on a pedestal that he had no desire to stand on. I’m glad it’s over. 18 minutes was too much, so 18 years was entirely a waste of my life and love and loyalty..all of which was meant for a man God is bringing to me quickly. Praise Jesus for that. And so much more.
I get it. I was with ex two years and satan used him .
Thank you thank you thank you! I wish my adult children believe this truth! Thank you! You make each day for me better! I’m free after 35 years of losing myself to someone who never valued me, my children, and friends! I can’t believe I woke up and am so much happier! Empathy is love towards others!
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Came to me last night enough, my energy, my intelligence my health slipping down a bottomless rabbit hole.
The Narc is pure evil, he was clever but I had done a lot of work previously so I recognised the signs and signals more quickly.
Nobody but nobody treats me the way he was. We were on the discard stage, I quit!
Thank goodness there are people like Andrew and others on TH-cam who guide and support us through.Empaths are a very special breed we have the knowledge and strength to set an unacceptable situation straight, that is our ultimate power, we are blessed 😊
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