HOW THE PAST CONTINUES TO HAUNT THE NARCISSIST
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ธ.ค. 2024
- How the past continues to haunt the narcissist. The past catches up with the narcissist way more frequently than you would know. The narcissist goes through life, destroying people’s relationships, families, taking money, taking time, ruining vacations, etc. and to do this there is a huge price to pay, and that price will be paid by the narcissist. The narcissist will compare themselves with where they are now with where they were in the past and they will realize that their time is running out and that people are figuring out who they are. That is why the path is to go no contact and to heal.The past catches up with a narcissist way more than you’ll ever know. It is the time to focus on yourself,continue to heal and learn to control what you can control. Always live in the present moment.
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You can't do ugly things to people and then expect to live a beautiful life.
If it wasn't for you and the Community I would probably still be clueless or dead. Thanks to all.
You are amazing ❤
Only people who been through it can understand it. Just like Andrew always says " You are not alone " ❤
You never can be reminded enough you are not alone. It's just that no-one around you can actually understand you if they haven't experienced it themselves. I hate that fact of life, but there it is.
I think Andrew has actually save lives, I think he saved mine. I am looking forward to the future now, even though I'm still in the crap.
People do end up figuring them out because all the excuses add up
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Andrew: You are doing a lot of good in the world!! God bless you! My most recent narcissistic relationship blew up last December… I am doing great now! Physically healthier! I am loving my life!! I am grateful for your videos!!Thank You!
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Once you see “what” they are, you can’t unsee it. I’ve had to release a few people in my life due to understanding their toxicity & how drained I felt after conversations. They made me sick.
Good for you. I use to be that way, but now I'm stuck due to financial abilities. Once I retired, the money wasn't enough to sustain me, so I'm stuck until I can figure that one out. I'm so happy for anyone that breaks away. I worked up until I met him, after my retirement, but I have heart problems now, had four heart procedures. Feel like I' dying most of the time, can barely walk. I use to dance, hike, kayak, swim, volunteer work.
@ I’m sorry you’re in an uncomfortable place right now. No one deserves the mental & emotional abuse these people bring. Praying you’ll find a safe place to move onto. My heart goes out to you. Keep educating yourself, grow and learn how to manage their toxic behaviors. You are a beautiful bright shining light, keep shining! 🌟
I can't believe they don't get sick of themselves... past , present & future!!!
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They are sick of themselves, that's why they have to feed off of others.
They look in the mirror and see beauty, while we now see a 😬
"Swamp Thing." .
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You crack me up 👍👍👍 don't change!
It's dark, cold & dreary here....brrr.
We both know just what will fix that ☕😊
Stay fun...its a good thing 👍😉
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When my soon to be ex narc had frequent insomnia, and would complain about being unable to fall asleep, I would encourage him to do what I did when I had that problem. Just start noticing everything that I love about my bed, how comfortable it was, the fan on my face, the dog snuggling me, the smooth sheets, etc. and he would look at me with hate, and derision. Well. Now I know why. He had to live with the knowledge of what a piece of 💩 he knew he was.
Rejected a recent hoover after the narc reappeared after several years sniffing around for assets. The narc escalated using local authorities ("welfare check"). I was done then, and I'm done now. No more games.
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Way to go 👍👍👍❤
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Welfare checks are used by the narcissist to continue the abuse. I had two welfare checks in one day last December. I was thoroughly done that day.
The payback time for the pain and hurt he caused will come.
Tricks will no longer work, the charm will fade, he is boring and he will be rejected as a nasty unwelcome person without soul.
The catapulted bumerang will come back.
Hopefully no one is near him!
Thank you Andrew, beautiful place there.🌿🌵💚🌳🍃
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Hi tribe, all be well and safe.❣️
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Ditto Roslyn 👍❤
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Yup. When I woke up to what a narc was, I looked back on situations in my life. They all make sense now. Been doing that for a couple months. From childhood on.
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Shocking. At least we are aware now 💯
I am still financially reeling. Taking care of a sick relative with no support from the others.
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Try what you can,ask for guidance each day ask God for his support.
Sounds familiar. Just. T. G. U r u
I welled up with tears when you said broke the generational curse. Tears of gladness and actually proud of myself ❤❤❤❤
Doing an inventory of ALL relationships, current and past, can really help us in "seeing" and understanding. It will bring peace and help us know how to protect ourselves. Blessings! ❤
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Yes the past always catches up with them,,,my grown kids have no time for him.,now or not in the future,,Support for all Here,t.y.Andrew💜💜💎🙏
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Andrew thank you!!! You make a video every day and you are helping people around the planet.
You have taught me in the 1:1 sessions that I have value. I have changed in a profound way - in a great way because of your help. Thank you 🙏
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Yes, you are right. They are extremely envious of their children. Extremely evil!😢
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A narcissist will also do all they can to suppress and destroy your self confidence. Simply surviving enables and nurtures it.
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Omg growing up my mom always told me that I would never be better than her. I just never understood why.
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Very ugly and disparaging statement. It took me a lifetime to learn some older folks never grow up and when it's your parents,
it's so hard to understand why they did the opposite of nurturing you.They are sending their children out into a tough world
and why handicap them before the send off? I stopped trying to figure it out. It wasn't too complex and you were the nearest
trash receptacle for their hang ups, insecurities, etc.
My dad told me I'd never amount to anything, now he says he's proud of me.
I take it as a grain of salt. What I've accomplished in my life has no bearing to his conditional comments. I've stopped seeking his approval long ago.
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How on earth can a mom say that? I hope for my daughters to excel 1 million times more than me..I tell my daughters no good parent wants bad for their children..and no bad parent wants good for them either
It's incredible how we almost speak the same language and I understand most everything you're talking about here
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I'm still putting out fires that the narcissist started 😮😮😮
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Record theor crazy if you still can. If you can expose them, they will back down.
Yes. And it could last a lifetime. I seen this with my own eyes decades and decades later.
Oh beautiful backdrop Andrew, thank you. ❤ have a great evening under the rain ☔️🌧☺️
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Hi Marie 🙋❤
@marieeakin8534 hello my friend ☺️ hope you are doing well and thriving 💞🫶🙏
They must put out so much effort to keep their facade going. Exhausting!!
Thank you Andrew! Blessings to you & the community!!💜
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Your right Andrew, these people are rotten to the core , unbelievable how they treat people , thank god I’m out of it .
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"They're always rewriting the past"
Great video Andrew 🙌. Thank you. Love the peaceful sound of the rain & the birds. Beautiful stone trellis & orange foliage behind you 🧡 God bless
Stay strong everyone
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My ex narcopath bestee of 35 years, did not even remember what we were discussing, for her to make the statement that she made about me, my husband asked her,meeting her in a store, if she believed what she said about me, and that he was terribly disappointed,she said she had no idea why she said it,,for me it was the last nail in the box,after years of abuse...
It was horrible Andrew a couple years ago I recall one of the narcissist saying " if not now when " weaponizing that term. I trusted that person, yes a person cuz they don't deserve to be called a human.
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I have to say you look like a retired one star brigadier general in the special ops community you have that operator vibe high energy
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The narcissist tried to destroy us but they didn’t.
Your journey to becoming a whole person will be painful but remember “ no pain - no gain “.
You will have pain in your recovery but the gain will be a brand new , free human being!!!
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Amen to that! Brilliant video! Three card Monty 😆 😆 lol --- Outstanding content as always and getting better every day! Thank you for the repetition on certain points; I mean that in the most positive way because I know especially for me it's been a lifetime of programming and truly, I desire the rest of my life to deprogram from the conditioning and eventually get to 'the pinnacle of indifference!!" That's the goal. Bravo!
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Trying to BE IN THE NOW
And “ spin” negatives to the silver lining
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They certainly plot and plan that’s for sure
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That is such a beautiful place, with the stone pillars, peaceful sound of rain, and a slight breeze. 💙🌧🌳🌬
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A person who is a "Hammer ( with lead for brains)" sees nails everywhere. A person who says: "You're dead to me," is a Narc Ghoul who sees "dead"people everywhere. What a major projection!
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Yes those that walk in the holy spirit see the walking dead. Just like the narcissist knows the people that walk with the spirit.
OMG, you must be a mind reader! So much of what you've said is spot on! You've described them perfectly. It's sad that they lead such a petty life, grifting from one person to another. What's even sadder is that they've missed out on having such beautiful, empathetic people in their lives who could have enriched their experiences. Instead, they choose to grift.
When he told me his NOW-adult children don't speak to him, I believed the reason he gave me. A few days before I walked away, I told him, "No WONDER they want nothing to do with you." It probably didn't phase him but, I said it.
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Ouch!! He definitely felt it
@@babydii3487 I hope so. I'm not a cruel person but, he definitely pushed me to that point. ☹️
They never get haunted
Thank you andrew and everyone ❤
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This video is so insightful and inspiring!
For those who have been abused, challenge yourself to overcome any difficulties. Your past does not define you - you deserve happiness and peace. Believe in yourself, you are stronger than you think! ❤
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Thanks Andrew! After the Narc encounter, Self-esteem ( or lack thereof ) needed to be rebuilt. All that toxic residue needed to be cleared out, i.e., "You were 'always' unlucky, you could have done better, I'm undeserving, etc." Your statements just affirm, we were all worthy of maximum self-respect. Old maxim: " Love thyself to be able to love others." Namaste.🙏
Absolutely! I think we're all pretty cool!
It was like swimming through jello trying to get through the muck of it all!
The issues were theirs & now we stand stronger knowing who we are. 👍💥❤☕
@@marieeakin8534 What an image ( swimming through jello)! But, Yup. I left the jello pool feeling all sticky
and swatting flies. This education was like taking a cleansing, hot shower. 🚿😉🙌
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Yeah......Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Andrew ❤
Each day is a step forward but loneliness is my biggest fear... that 'He' will eventually try and work his way back into my life again.
I AM stronger , but he lives nearby which makes it difficult to not be vigilant when I'm out and about . I have no intention to 'try again' ...been there done that too many times. They DO NOT CHANGE!!
Hopefully I'll continue on my healing path as I feel much better than being in a toxic relationship with him.❤
I'm sitting here on the side of the road introspecting and reflecting on some heavy duty energy in projections and blame shifting among other experiences and here comes this video You are spot on without even having viewed it right now the topic was spot on so glad to still have this community and your wisdom 💜🙏💜
The parasite narc just used you as an emotional tiolet because they are to weak to look at themselves.
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love the background and loved today’s video 😘😃
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Thank you for this particular video! It really helped.
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I appreciate all of the knowledge you share.
Unfortunately, I have yet to see anything come back to those who have harmed me. Maybe I am the narcissist. Everything seems to be going wrong for me. I truly have very little hope left for a decent life.
I hope and pray that others watching this channel heal, find peace, and have a wonderful life.
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For several years, I have followed your content. Thank You. I really do appreciate you.
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Thank you for your encouragement! It’s been a very long road but I am healing and have had tremendous healing and it’s wonderful! ☀️🙌❤️💃🏻
That’s probably why my ex smokes so much weed to escape from reality
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The aging Narcissist is scraping the bottom of the pond for supply...lol 😊
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Truly awesome, you are gifted! 🙏💯
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Today is a sad day. Knowing what runs their vessel. And Knowing they are always grooming. All I can do is pray that the two I love will come out of it with the grace of God.
Literally lived this. Well spoken.
❤ I had the same incident with a narcissist . I left the narcissist. If there is ever talk again , someone reliable must be present.📝
Where I lived with my ex the local people & the neighbours after 2 years could not stand her & she had to move. The mask was falling off & she was blowing up all over the place. Funny most of them liked me in the end & probably felt sorry for me while I was trying to keep the children safe & structured.
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Keeping all the lies straight has got to be challenging. At some point one of those lies has the very strong tendency to catch up with them. This is usually when they try to cross another narc or a psychopath. And then .. it’s off to a new place and a new life .. hoping against hope this time the past doesn’t catch up with them .. 🤔
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I’ve had my narcissistic ex wife go through the “I messed up stage twice it’s nice and this helps so much with the healing process love these videos 👍👍
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You make me wanna visit the Carolinas bad. I went once and that was to see my brother graduate from fort Jackson boot camp.
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I'm stuck in my own mind !!!
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The rumination stage is part of the healing. Keep listening daily. It will get better. We have to decide to never let them win.
Thanks again, Andrew, for opening up your treasure chest and sharing these gems with us. I live alone in Southeastern Michigan and it has turned quite cold the last few days. It's funny there have been three "Lilith's" randomly knocking on my door. Yours and similar podcasts have saved me infinite frustration, heartache, and loss even when they managed to squeak in knowing what to look for makes the visits short. Annoying but short.
Peace and order is priceless thanks again!
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Really well done, sir.
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Always on point. Am so glad I was dispatched early o'clock.. I was able to move on quickly.
Hi Andrew,..Thank You Again for Another Great Video,..You Have Helped Me More then You'll Probably Ever Know!! God Bless You Good Sir! 👊😎🙏 M.F.S.P. 🖤
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Thanks so much, Andrew. 🧡
Yes! We are three…Steps…Ahead! 😂
Three smartphones lol
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Thank you, Andrew, Lovely, natural location, as usual. Take care.
🙏, Hello there Andrew 🙂, Thank you Andrew 🙏🤠
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Omg Andrew walk around looking for Narcs I’m screaming. If only we knew b4 but now we are woke 💪🏻
They blame you and isolate you from everyone and the evidence that you're the problem is your reaction to their abuse. And God separates you to heal. And healing does help reduce the triggers. Thank you Andrew
Thank you, Andrew. Hope and love to all here! 🌼😊
You said I let you down, you know it's not like that. You just want to be on the side that's winning.
This is a very reassuring message, thank you. I have yet to venture out into my 'social' circle, which is surprisingly quiet for this time of year, and from what I've learned about the abusive narcissist, who spends alot time with people that they supposedly are friends with nowadays, it must mean that the smear campaign is well underway.
My inner strength is returning, and the fact that someone may have told a bunch of lies about me, is of no concern. And if my 'social' circle choose to believe these tales, it let's me know they really are, so I gain from this too. Marvelous.
Sorry for rambling!!
Nice one Andrew, love to all, keep it strong. XXX
Thanks Andrew!! Love you so much ❤
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Every video is my pray too! Love it to listen too. Since 3 years I do this and this saved my life! Big thanks to you Andrew and you all! ❤
EXACTLY ! Andrew..
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Thank ypu Andrew! Needed this!❤❤❤
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Andrew,, the sound of the rain,, is very lovly to wake up to💯🇫🇷🌲🙏✨️✨️My Narc/sister has MANY ghosts in her head& in real life,, she has STORAGE lockers filled with stuff!! Maybe some of my childhood things,, because I can not find them😂She is almost 78 Yrs old this month! I GUESS she will celebrate with her STUFF!! I am so grateful,,, my Life stands with TRUTH ,, LOVE & LIGHT ✨️✨️💯🌲🌳
Mimic and steel where they're not entitled to and mimic because you can't just have something a little more than them and maybe we have a light that exposes them too much and they just can't duplicate it It's been so awful
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They will siphon all and everything ......
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Your video background is really beautiful Andrew. It has green, orange and yellow leaves. And the rain is soothing!
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It doesn’t matter. What you do, how much you try, how far you travel with this thing; after 15 years, I can say without a shadow of a doubt A that nothing is enough for these creatures. I have no more to give. Happier in the last 3 months narc free thank goodness.
Don’t keep giving them the same ol’ chances.
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2 1/2 years post-discard and in the past few months, I’ve had three women whom I had been suspicious of admit affairs with him. The truth will come out.
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So gorgeous there! 😍❤️🥰 Pristine & the rain has such a cheerful rhythm to it! And you, are as dashing & gorgeous as always!😍❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 Thank you for sharing your expertise, insight & wisdom with us, it is literally life-saving! 💋💋💋🤍🤍🤍🤟🏻🤟🏻🤟🏻🌴🌴🌴©️
Love your content. Love your sideways glance in the beginning of every video. Always makes me smile. :)
Thanks Andrew for your information and good Day 🙂👍
Facts!!
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When I was told I was worthless to him after giving him everything I knew I had to leave I lost 17 years of my life, I was a fool to keep thinking it would get better.
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I had to open a new YT account today. I lost my old cell phone.
Narcdaily -you are not alone is the first channel I follow 😊❤
Sorry, I think, from experience, the Narcissist NEVER looks back, they are always on to the next victim.
It’s when they are alone is the problem. I love being on my own they can’t stand it.
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They will try an hoover you, 9 times out of ten they will
@@Gazzavelli-on-Narcissism Na I went on contact & just deleted & blocked hoovers.
Thanks I love your videos so informative and validating I wish I would have Found you sooner. Better late than never.
Namaste and thank you 🙏🏻
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They Are always on the run and on the go! My narc loved to brag about all her travels until I realized she couldn't stand just being home! Odd behavior she called wanderlust.. yeah, lust alright! Total player that just wanted to keep me on the hoover supply hook. No thanks.
My narcissistic ex-husband doesn't seem to be bothered at all!! He's financially very well off and doesn't seem to have suffered any consequences from his behavior. He admitted he was an atheist after we married, and that hasn't changed, so good luck to him in the afterlife!
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thanks! 🙏
I also believe from what I have observed that they are not bothered by the fact that they hurt, damage, and destroy people's lives.
Time , give him time, it will get him !
@@nvbccjarbohumyou arent wrong but as OP says, theres no escaping our Creators judgement. If you focus on how evil is so pervasive in the world, itll consume you so keep your standards as the universe delivera justice eventually. Be strong and build youreself up. 😊
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I have a little dog. He’s on his own visiting friendly neighbors. I’m at ease because I know he knows the limits. He’s about 10 years old now. Soon he ‘ll be running back to come and tell me all about his adventures, and sleep on the old blue plaid on my lap.
He’s back on my lap
Thank you for last message. They are not thinking about you. But they are comparing you as your new source. Still trying to heal from wicked narc sibling. This sucks. Hopefully between you and, my therapist, I can never think about her again. This sucks.
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Fake accounts there's so many things that you are saying right now that are resonating with what is trailing behind me as I'm trying to leave this stuff behind absolutely you're hitting on so many points today
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