⚠️❤️Children are going to disappear around the world, then His adult TRUE believers. It is JESUS coming back to pick up His people! Make Him your Saviour! Do not stay for apocalypse!❤️🥹 Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death for our sins)❤️ He is about to remove His believers from this earth sobthey won’t stay for the Judgement. He loves you like crazy! He doesn't want you to stay for that! God's Grace is about to run out.❤️🥹 What saves us is trust in what Jesus did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it, just believe and trust Him! 🙌❤️ Right before He comes to pick up His believers we will witness Russia attacking Germany. Missiles hitting USA , Fall of Freemason's Temple in Philadelphia, Alaska earthquakes back to back of magnitude 7.6 and 7.3. We will also see return of Yassir Arafat. This is all been revealed by Jesus's prophets right now.
I agree. Because every one that I’ve known, seems to have no soul. No conscience,, no empathy. Only manipulate like Satan. Like in the beginning, the snake.
After realizing what my malignant narcissist mother is.... I believed too. :( Her voice, when I told her I couldn't trust her anymore. She basically acknowledged her evil. It scared me so much I've taken to reading the Bible since September 2023. The hate..... is scary. I will never forget her voice and how it changed when she knew I knew what she was doing.
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......😈
When you know one narcessist, you know all narcessistic people. I am realey shocked there are so many of them. It is hard to discover that at my age 59 . But i can have peacefull years. My health can heal .
I saw this happen. A million $ home, marble floors, etc.. the children suffer when they implode. 5 dogs defecating on the floor & the filth piled up higher & higher. Rescue the kids and leave the narcissist to look in the mirror ALONE. Don't rescue them or try to be a hero. They're in a loop, and the sooner you get out of it, the better. They're basically having a full-on tantrum, just like a child holding their breath. They get older, but never better; manipulation has become engrained into who they are. Their conscience is seared, and they're driven by a bottomless pit of ego. Andrew, you're doing God's work- thank you
@@4hiskingdom401 nicely said. I can't type anything as the tuBe has frozen the comet section. I can only sometimes. I can't even participate in a live. Anonnnnn help plz ♥️☀️
Yes and the world is full of them, really full. lately i notice that some people literally start shaking when they see me and then they can't talk anymore. Very strange to experience.
30 years of marriage and I never once had a girls weekend away...maybe a day trip, and that was met with the silent treatment or rage fits. Yet, he could go on week long hunting trips without even discussing it with me. I always felt like I was living an internal life prison sentence.
Me too. 25 years. Devastating at first to realize that every time the NARCISSIST tortured you, they were so happy with the emotional supply. So glad I finally realized the devil 😈 I have been dealing with. I have gone no contact in the same house. I haven't spoken to him in 6 weeks. He knows what he did to me. Sam Vaknin & Andrew hav3 been a great help to me in my recovery.
@@FunBee888 I find Andrew way superior than Dr Ramani, Dr Vatkin ..he is narc himself an his accent in annoying and Dr Phil, because Andrew gives real everyday examples of the abuse, I feel like I am getting an absolution every time I watch his videos, I am 8 years old well on top of POI, but after math damage still a bit affecting me so working on that, dragged out divorce will hopefully be sorted by the end of the month, where are you on your path?
29 years here and I've seen it slip from day 1. However, I didn't know what was happening and I doubt you did either. The worst part is when we figure out that we've been used and abused by someone we thought loved us, but in fact, hated us and wanted to destroy us through cowardly ways. Yes, that's hard to wrap your mind around.
Just after our 45th anniversary I escaped. His mask slipped July 18, 2019 (my mom's funeral) and I took 2 years of 7 types of abuses thinking that he'd 'return'. 3 years of No Contact. Unfathomable.
met 2 narcissists living in Ohio. Moved to Ft Collins, Co ~met 7 in 6 mos. Scary, disabled and narc son love bombed me to move then the discard. Still figuring what to do. I can't walk, so if I could I would nave been long gone.
My ex hubby of 20 years, divorced for four. Recently passed away -became a Xanax addict and alcoholic. Lost his job because of his addictions(175k) Became homeless -went through $600,000 of savings and inheritance. Found passed away in January outside. Truly a narcissistic implosion -never could figure out what what was wrong with him until the last few years of marriage. So glad I was able to save myself, my savings, house and sanity. He tried to ruin our daughter’s credit (without her knowledge) - he did fake loans in her name for college. We found this out last year. He couldn’t believe we figured it out. She adored her dad. How sad! Unbelievable!
I'm glad you got away. So many people feel sorry for the narcissist, and the narc just drags them down with them. :( Destroying another empath in the process. Our lives are worth far more helping other innocent victims than to perpetuate the narcissist's abusive lifestyle. I'm glad you saved yourself so you were able to help your daughter!!!!!!!!!!
Oh trust me, Andrew is right on. All my wife thinks of is her friends, family, or others. Never of me and the marriage. They will disrespect you and break every vow you ever took in marriage. They simply have no respect, decency, empathy, or anything else. It's very hard to believe a person can be like that when you're not like that. They can and that's how they get it over on you. They do it and then gaslight you and you start questioning right and wrong even though you KNOW it's wrong. It's evil personified.
When I was a child i would be absolutely amazed at how different my parents voice sounded when they answered the phone. The best description is 'oily'. I would think to myself 'wow, adults can be so fake'. Then they would switch right back into grumpy, cold and mean mode when they got off the phone. Who was that person i had seen? That was the narcissist with their mask back in place. They didn't realize that children remember things. Children are sensitive and innocent but they are not dum.
Yes, I could totally tell when my mother wasn't talking to a family member on the phone. It's like she became a different person. Creepy. Especially now that I understand narcissists have constructed a "false self" and there is no real core anymore. Just the ever-changing personas they create to garner supply.
My ex narc would ruminate many days before exploding in a rage fit with all his insatisfactions. That's what you get from a covert narcissist. That's how they handle things and you don't see it coming most of the time. I don't miss those days not for a second 😅
Thats amazing, when I first met her she would be in her house with every light in the house off. She would be in the room with all the doors closed and laying in complete darkness. In retrospect that should have been a red flag but I overlooked it. Realized after 20 years of rage fits, gaslighting, lying, cheating that I was married to a whole demon, she was possessed by legions of demons
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......👺
@@Sarahkap sounds about right, each week a new tantrum and fit to keep you deregulated and so they can be the “cure.” It was super confusing to me at some point I felt paralyzed. Keep shining your bright light and never give up.
@@Sarahkap I experienced much of the same. After the initial lovebombing phases it was coldness and I never met her again. I went back several times but I had to lose myself to be in her life. It’s pathetic but I learned a lot. We slow our life down and build our self up into the third version 💫 I hope you are doing great!!
I walked away from my narcissistic sister yesterday. Our mother was buried yesterday and after i showed my sister some pictures of things I've done with my son. Then my son and i left knowing she has no place in our lives anymore as she can no longer use our mother to find a way in
After 30 years of monthly explosions, it’s nice to be on the healing journey with peacefulness and positivity. Thank you, Andrew for all you do to help get us through this.🤙🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾
New subscriber here! I've been binge watching your videos on and off all day long! I just want to say THANK YOU! I believe you're doing the LORDS work!
Andrew ! 100% SPOT ON !!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the continual Affirmation ! - The Dysfunction is so difficult to comprehend/accept - but it is Undoubtably Fact !!- i have seen many manifestations as described by you !!. Those who have not Witnessed it will not believe unfortunately !. All the Very Best to you and your work to expose these Creatures is Fantastic !.
I have 4 kids with him, I can’t ever get away from him, he makes my/my children’s lives miserable always! We are divorced but he still ruins everything all of the time
A really scary thing I'm realizing now is that I saw the real him......he was charming, then cold as ice. Demonic even. I dismissed it as him being "out of sorts." It was much more than that..
“I was so afraid of losing you until I realized you were never really mine. My heart was with you, but yours was with everything and everyone else. So instead of fearing to lose you, I stepped back and watched YOU lose me.”
All of my energy was put into “helping” my narcissist to not implode. I really had to look in to my own mentality of being a people-pleaser and helper and caregiver, aka codependent, because I didn’t believe in myself. I have been working on putting my energy into me, and I know that I’ll never be used like a doormat by a bully or narc again. I love the daily message here, it’s been a daily reminder that I’m on the right path. 💧🌞🌈💙💐
Almost 30 year relationship with my STBXW, over 20 of those I gave every ounce of energy to keep her from imploding. I’ve been away for 8 months now and I’m still tired, but seems like it’s slowly getting better.
My ex-wife is beautiful. But she's a narcissist big time. She knows how to push my buttons with the attention I wanted from her, then ghost me. We got divorced 15 years ago. This is how long this has been going. She sent me a picture of her at a beach, in a bikini and even though she is still strikingly beautiful, she is aging. Her mindset is still the same. Only focused on her. I wish I wasn't still attracted to her. I didn't want the divorce, but her behavior is very toxic. Your videos really help me to realize how much I have been blessed with her absence. Thank you.
Imagine you saw a woman who was very beautiful, sexually very active, and loved you. But when you came closer you realised that she stinks, can you live with her? The same happens with such narcissists, their soul stinks... And you can't live with a sinking soul...
The narc's discard didn't go well with me and he had 2 "nervous reactions" in the ER with no real illness within 2 months of discard. Everything didn't go as planned with the new supply and the circumstances weren't as they planned. They imploded. I know what you are saying. Glad he had it somewhere else. Major internalization of things not going as planned in rapid succession.
My ex narc recently had a massive stroke. He's in a nursing home!! Also all the vultures r carrying stuff out of his apt. I'm thinking he's imploding!!!! Again, God works in mysterious ways, and karma is a bitch.....!!!
Every once in a while, he would have sobering moments for a minute where he would show some vulnerability. But, those moments were few and far between. He would look like a little broken child. I remember thinking how childlike he looked.
@@jswan312 I honestly believe that was a lot of the reason that I stayed with him for so long (32 years). It was those small glimpses that pulled at my heartstrings.
Exactly. My brother, 3 years older, gave me hell as kids and up until my early twenties. He at times would act sad and vulnerable and to gain my understanding, then bam straight back to his normal self. Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then...👺
@@kristinburton4953 Yep.... That's how their demons do it. It still blows my mind that I was married to a demon possessed creature. It's crazy how they show us in movies how they operate....
Right! Narc frustrations build like anyone, but they burn out the ones that could help defuse them. Most will get sick of it. On use of the other definition-- Marie, your comments are the Bomb! 💣👍😉☕
My Narc Ex-Wife had a breakdown in the shower one time, I went to see what in the world was going on. I litterly had to get in the shower with her with my clothes on to calm her down, OMG! It Was BAD!!! 😳 On a serious note, Narcissist are Mentally ILL! This was the one time I can remember that I felt sorry for her. * At that time I didn't know that she was a Narcissist. Now that moment explains alot...
This is an important thing for all to remember and take hold of: narcs ARE mentally ill, imbalanced This puts their target in great peril. You have to be careful how and when you remove yourself. I remember how scared I was when removing myself because I knew I’d pay dearly for it and pay I did.
Thank You! I have suffered, and still am suffering, by the hands of a narc for well over a decade. Its exhausting! By the grace of God, I have began the healing process, despite them. Its very discouraging to think you will never truly be free, thank you for your words of hope.
The day that I broke up with my ex girlfriend she imploded yelling at me asking me why I didn't walk to her car why am I not talking to her but I'm brave enough not to speak to her or acknowledge her
Congratulations camelotenglishtuition6394 on another amazing milestone narc free 🚫 Every second away from that night mare is truly something to celebrate! Enjoy your day! 🎉
Almost 3 weeks free for me, elated for us both. Sending love, light, joy & peace to all who are planning their exit, have resisted a hoover & gone no contact forever.🙌🏻💞🩵
A former long time friend hired me to work for him at a Fortune 100 company. I brought the level of the product up, gave them and their vendors things they didn’t have before to improve the product and worked on key anniversary products. My former boss friend took credit for all I had done and management wanted to know what I did on my job. I went to a different human relations person than the one that was my bosses friend and documented everything, taped conversations and got myself a new job. The former narc boss was demoted beneath what my title was when I left.
Thanks Marie! Always good to see your shining self on here. Hope you’re enjoying this summer much more than last year. ☀️😎💜 It was through the grace of God. Corporate America is truly an ugly place. Narcsville with a paycheck.
Once the ex-narc had such a violent rage fit, I thought I might need to call an ambulance. Not for me, but them. I stood there in utter amazement at what I was observing, and when it ended, I stood aghast. Nothing for me to say but “ wow, really?” It was almost a break in reality kind of fit. Unreal.
Your reply of "Wow, really?," is gold.🤨 It said plenty, i.e., "You're going to run around on the street with baby diapers??!" 🍼🚼 Added, it had a touch of Andrew's tilted head reaction.
Spot on about narcs in workplaces.. I feel I have encountered narc bosses more in areas with less jobs around .. no jobs = more opportunities to take advantage of staff members and staff turnover being more rife .. and the not sitting still.. constantly.. all I can say gracefully right now is in the words of Britney Spears “I wanna scream and shout and let it all out!”.. I’m at breaking point.. but I’ll get there sooner rather than later.. life is too short.. leave the narcs to implode with themselves.. in my opinion (I may sound harsh) they deserve it.. and the rest of us can blossom and flourish in this world instead.. thank you for this informative video 💜🪻
Heard this today, sound familiar ??? You lovingly laid your life down for a nasty person who walked all over you... then they complained 😡 YOU DIDN'T lay down flat enough!!! 😵 Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
Yesss!!!! That's what my ex-wife did after she demanded a divorce. After the divorce hearing was over, she had the nerve to ask me "why didn't I fight for our marriage". I had to remind her that she is the one who wanted her freedom. She got the divorce she asked for, but still wanted to blame me.
@ericcando2903 That's the crazy making common thread of one of their traits Eric. It hurts but you were delivered from a life of hell. Take good care 👍💥🙏❤ 🌈🎀😘
I saw the implosion happen, three times. First time in public when i told him i leave him, 2nd couple of days later totally grey and dark, it hit my core to see that, 3rd was weeks later when i wanted to greet him, he pushed me a side also in public. He pulled me down in an endless emptiness and took me 8 months to return with more strength then ever before. Only thing, he is the manipulating factor of the village and i live next to him. And he has a lot enablers. What a soap.
When I asked the narc who packages were for that were hidden in his closet. This caused him to implode and rage. His response "I am out of here at the end of the month." See ya, don't let the door hit you in the ass!!!💩
This describes my ex wife PERFECTLY. they only get worse. Here's a story, me and my ex wife had a flat that she stayed in post separation. When it came time to sell, i had to retrieve some personal effects and do a bit of tidying up. ... it was like the TV program 'life of grime '. Absolutely disgusting. Rubbish everywhere, clothes, food. My daughter had to live in this filth. They are without remorse, insight, recovery or reflection. I am so glad and give thanks every day i am free and indifferent. God bless you all and thank you Andrew
That 72 hour message was a public testimony given by a narc I once knew. Almost word for word. They locked themselves up at a retreat cabin somewhere and watched their demons come out and circle the cabin. And they said they were delivered of it all. Nope 👎 Can’t make this stuff up. That’s a dark place for sure. This is some serious work going on to expose that level of darkness. God bless you. 🙏🙏💖✨
Hey Grateful! Hope you’re doing well! I attempted to comment on this video 3 times already, but my comments keep disappearing… tired of rewriting them 😔 and in too much pain at this point to keep trying. My week is going to be pretty busy… got a doctor’s appointment first thing in the morning to talk to my PCP about my worsening back pain 😛 gonna try and chime in wherever and whenever I get the chance this week. Not sure how much of a chance I’ll get, but I’ll let you know how things go! If I don’t make much sense tomorrow or for a few days, it MIGHT be the pain meds or whatever she does. 😆😛😄❤️💖💜
@@jennifernewton4637 ❤️🫂🙏hey Jennifer, just was praying for you and others here. Sorry about all the issues on YT. It does keep happening from time to time. Sorry about the pain. My prayer is full spontaneous healing ❤️🩹 for you always. I’m good. Sending love and hugs 🫂
@@gratefultobehere Thank you SO MUCH Grateful! 🙌🫂🫂🥰😁🙏🤗❤️💜💖 Side note… was just outside, heard a noise coming from above and I looked up and there was what appeared to be either a cat or a raccoon in the rain gutter! SPOILER ALERT! It was a RACCOON! It looked down at me like “What do you want? I’m busy here!” 😂 I was just PRAYING he didn’t fall out or anything! He was just sitting there… eating the “catch of the day” 🤮🤮 Thankfully I couldn’t see what that was. Ugh… I think it’s just time for bed 😛😆
Good Morning Andrew🌱🍃🌿🇫🇷🙏I do not miss her TOXIC ENERGY over the phone & her BRAGGING about all she is doing!! I am growing with GRACE,, LOVE & surrounded with people ,, Only have my best interest!! Thank you for telling THE TRUTH of the minds of Narc's😂🙏🌱🍃🌿
More rain headed your way in the Carolina’s-be safe! The few instances I’ve seen something from narc since I shut him down makes me wonder if he’s lost his grip. He demonstrates a confused mind like I haven’t really seen before. All I can say is Thank you Jesus for merciful deliverance from ALL toxic relationships!
You just keep nailing it Andrew,I can't even believe my ears this was my life.Ive seen every bit of this in my ex narc.But the mask came on quickly when he was around clerks barbers his therapist waitresses pretty women lol I was like who are you? I'm glad I found wisdom..I'm going to be just fine alone..once again Andrew you are so amazing to us that are healing .I'm so proud of you for getting this wisdom to the airways even when you were in the midst of this craziness yourself..namaste
user-yy9be9mi6n Bless you! Enjoy your new found freedom and your narc detection ability! 💜💪🚫☀️✨💖✨ So happy to hear people are escaping these monsters at the early onset. Your quest to defeat narcissism is working, Andrew! 💜💪
You are smart!!!! I’m so happy for you!!! I saw red flag after red flag and I just kept going back, now we have 4 kids, divorced for 8 years and he’s still making my life miserable constantly and will forever 🤬 I
I agree whole heartedly with your content Andrew. I witnessed implosion/injury....this would result in the silent treatment and or just walking away. The petulant child needs time out. It was his way or the high way. Anyone who believes they are not in control of their actions and behaviours really needs to educate themselves. When he was with me...he wasn't and when he wasn't with me he was grooming new supply/supplies. No contact is the only way if you're able 🤷🙏💜
Thanks Andrew for your positive energy and advice that’s absolutely right, I just gave excuses for him in my mind trying to keep peace all the time,but it won’t work and I’ll be the one that suffers more,so he’s been out the door for 2 and half months the longest time yet,and I won’t accept a hoover again😎
Gaining insight into the mental gyrations of the narcissist helps build faith in my own. Realizing how their quicksand undermined a child's budding self-confidence. Realizing where the pain came from is analgesic.
That's the great and healthy healing part of introspection and the deep dive. This channel has people who understand. Anyone who's never been through it, will automatically think: "What!? Seriously?? You're blaming your childhood and the past?" You know that and will never disclose what happened. Purging certain things by understanding is Freedom.
Thanks, Andrew. It was 100-percent as you said. At the end of the narcissist's time here on earth, I am not aware of anyone who would joyfully choose to be around him. The ones who would interact with him were store clerks, medical personnel, and such. Even his sin-buddies had better things to do and went away from him. There was one individual left standing and that individual, in the face of having been lied to, was still believing the narcissist's manipulative tall-tales.
Am so glad you continue to educate and describe the many ways they act and try to manipulate people...amazing how awful they treat others...thank you for being here with the truth...it really helps me !
Everything you've said, explained, is so accurate. Your repeating "their tiny little brain"....this is so clear after being in "no contact" and dealing with the PTSD that happens with living with the narcissist. Excellent Andrew, have a wonderful rest of your day. Thank you!!
Thanks for your advice Andrew I started journaling a month ago and it helps clarify your thoughts in the gaslighting and fog the narcissist creates. I am still progressing the exit plan to get away from my narcissistic wife, but for the first time in a month I was able to write that it was a drama free day as we spent time away from our narc. The kids and I had a lovely time and they even revealed their exit plan which was to suffer the whole narcissistic relationship till they were 18 then leave and go no contact,that would also have included me as I was stuck in the narcissist cycle being dragged down. See it's not just you suffering the narcissist affects your kids too and the more attention they can grab from you the worse it is for the kids. So get out and get the kids out and leave the narcissist to implode on their own, no contact is so obvious even kids can see it, so don't let life's complications blind you.
Wow Andrew, i witnessed many implosions from my narcissistic ex-husband and didnt even know it. It seemed to come out of nowhere without any obvious reasons or triggers. He would retreat to bed or to his mancave ALONE and be moody or complain of a headache. Also his narcissistic deterioration had significantly increased over our 2.5 years together. I'm so glad i dont have to deal with all the mind games and trying to figure him out. It was an exhausting marriage. Andrew, thank you for sharing your knowledge, encouragement and support. You are such a blessing for those of us trying to heal from narcissistic abuse.❤
Spot on Andrew. I have seen some narcissists implode and it wasn’t pretty. Thank you for your help and support. It’s so much better when you know you you are not alone. We are in this together. Having healthy and safe people in your life as your support system helps enormously. Thank God for all those kind loving souls ❤ God bless you ❤
It's so tempting to let them know what they have been burglarizing from your home and vehicle before you took precautions, especially when you notice more and more things are missing from your home. I realize this is being done to spite me due to envy, resentment, and jealousy. I'm taking your advice and keeping mum, because it would just open the door. This is a sibling whom I had no idea of was stealing some valuable, some not, items from my home while spending weeks during the summers at my home. I was actually complaining to 'her' that it must be the neighbor who has been lifting items I can no longer find.
Thank you for another week of beautiful flowers, words of wisdom and great videos. Your dedication to us is just endless. Enjoy the rest of your evening. ❤️🤗
When the narcissist pops to the shop for 3 hours, 5 minutes before it shuts and you call them out,they will implode. When they go super nova you had best not even be in the same space as them.
@@user-yy9be9mi6n everything about the narcissist is fake..their words,actions and public image. Empty shells with no life inside them. That's why they feed off other people.
My sister could not sit still or let anybody else have a peaceful moment. My mother harvested fuel out of her mental meltdown while I was worn out with all the chaos.
On the weekends he would sleep practically until noon, well after I was up, complain about not feeling well..mini implosions? He may implode tonight as there’s a great possibility of losing power with this storm..without me there to be the brunt of an explosion when he can’t watch TV. Have a great evening!
My ex covert narc would from time to time self isolate and all of his “demons” would attack him. I remember one time he told me that he was up all night thinking about everything he ever did wrong and it really seemed to haunt him. He wouldn’t tell me what he meant and acted secretive about the sins he was so haunted by. He never could sleep very well at night. I actually do feel bad for some of these people who are always running from their conscience. Seems like a very tortured existence.
My dad was a grandiose narcissist, who morphed into a severely depressed covert narcissist as he aged. When he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year.... I got a phone call from him out of the blue. He was ugly crying over the phone. He was undergoing collapse. I rescued him by flying to be with him, taking care of him, cooking for him. basically being an unpaid servant. He survived from June 2 to August 13, under my care, even though everyone said that discontinuing dialysis he'd die within a week or two. My malignant narcissistic mother started triangulating my dad against me.... such that he accused me of stealing his wallet (I'm like WHY in the HELL would I steal your wallet). Turned out it was in my mom's purse. My mother started doing litiginously dangerous financial things. So I left. Without my supply (i.e. abusing me, accusing me of stealing, making me be "the unpaid helper" when I had three kids I had left with my husband two states away!!!), my father stopped eating again.... He was dead by January. He gave up on life. My mother is still narc-ing strong though. As long as they have one enabler.... they'll be okay. This time her victim is my aunt, who was abusive to my father back in the 90s. So I don't feel sorry for her. In the end, narcs end up with other narcs. :( Because they always think they can con each other.... they don't realize, when narcs play, EVERYONE LOSES. Stay away. And NEVER ACCEPT A HOOVER.
@@mvbigmagic4048 Amazing ( to the point ) conclusions. In spite of all of that toxic soup, you still managed to do the right thing in attending to your dad and leaving. Also, I've been accused ( indirectly) of stealing money from a business ( yup by a Grandiose, insecure Narc) ... it was one of the most insulting things I've experienced. You believe you carry yourself with a certain dignity and trustworthiness and here comes a toxic Narc to pull the rug. It just showed what I had suspected- He did not respect me, was jealous and a Narcissist saw an opening to devalue you with a hand grenade. Interactions in business are rife with Narcs.
Are you sure he was dealing with narcissism? That sounds like PTSD... Because I do that. There is 9 traits of NPD, you should look them up and see if he actually hits at least 5 of them... People throw narcissism around a lot it has become almost pop culture at this point, but no, it's an actual diagnosable condition. I have combat related PTSD and I don't sleep well, But I'm also not a narcissist... I asked my therapist about it after I seen my ex calling me a narcissist on her tiktok live, turns out I'm actually low on the narcissistic spectrum, and I don't have a personality disorder, my diagnosis remained the same, PTSD and ADHD. Truth is my ex definitely hits pretty much all 9 points of narcissistic personality disorder... She NEVER went to therapy when we were together because she was above it..nope just me because I was the screwed up one even though she did a lot of messed up stuff, I'm a veteran and have been in therapy since 3 years after I left the military... She never took accountability for anything, she never apologized, she has no shame in her life for anything and she lies constantly to people... I used to watch her lie through her teeth to people and just covered for her because I thought that was the right thing to do, I thought we were a team. No, I was her supply and she manipulated me for 13 years. If your ex has PTSD yes it's a bad thing, us with PTSD can be hard to deal with... But PTSD isn't npd... And if he doesn't hit those points he's not a narcissist.
@@rachelweaver7802 oh ok gotcha. I'm not knowing much about the covert type, I'll do some more research didn't even realize you said that specifically. Thanks for the response, I didn't mean any harm by it just trying to be helpful.
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. 😅 She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......👺
You are so right, 50yrs of suffering from a Narcissist/SPD mom (81yr old) who has destroyed my life after me supporting her all my life (not money) I'm on very low income which just covers rent only, when I could of had a job, future, schooling but she has turned me into her personal care person in exchange of her paying difference in rent (she had her own apt), now she went mean, turned, cut me off my rent supplement, leaving me hanging. No job experience, no school, I can't get a job at my age so now I have to go onto the streets & she doesn't care. Vancouver BC Canada 🇨🇦
I used to go for a drive for hours on weekends to get away from my NPD now ex wife… she’d do weeks long silent treatments with black eyes staring at me like she hated my existence .. she wouldn’t work though used to have a decent job .. $37,000 in debt and I paid all the bills .. I had to get away .. drove to nowhere .. she killed 2 pets, at different times. that were deeply loved .. it still hurts she did that .. I think she was jealous of the pets .. so just driving somewhere for hours isn’t just some narcissists do ., they are probably going somewhere specific .. I never did just wanted to be away from the toxicity and in nature
I'll be thinking about you brother over the next few days. I'll be thinking lots about the Carolina coasts, Georgia coastline and higher ground is gained for all who need it. 🙏 🙏 🎉🎉❤❤❤🎉
The worst part of dealing with a narc is That they will have you believe that You are the narcissist.
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Yes agreed, been there too many times in my life 😢
Spot on! They inflick their errors onto us 😠
Thank you Andrew
⚠️❤️Children are going to disappear around the world, then His adult TRUE believers. It is JESUS coming back to pick up His people! Make Him your Saviour! Do not stay for apocalypse!❤️🥹
Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death for our sins)❤️ He is about to remove His believers from this earth sobthey won’t stay for the Judgement.
He loves you like crazy! He doesn't want you to stay for that! God's Grace is about to run out.❤️🥹 What saves us is trust in what Jesus did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it, just believe and trust Him! 🙌❤️
Right before He comes to pick up His believers we will witness Russia attacking Germany. Missiles hitting USA , Fall of Freemason's Temple in Philadelphia, Alaska earthquakes back to back of magnitude 7.6 and 7.3. We will also see return of Yassir Arafat. This is all been revealed by Jesus's prophets right now.
You are not the narcissist don't let them gaslight you
I think that is a demon behind every narcisisst.
They are empty meat suits possessed by legions of demons.
I agree. Because every one that I’ve known, seems to have no soul. No conscience,, no empathy. Only manipulate like Satan. Like in the beginning, the snake.
After realizing what my malignant narcissist mother is.... I believed too. :( Her voice, when I told her I couldn't trust her anymore. She basically acknowledged her evil. It scared me so much I've taken to reading the Bible since September 2023. The hate..... is scary. I will never forget her voice and how it changed when she knew I knew what she was doing.
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......😈
They are the demons in this world
When you know a narcissist and then realize you are surrounded by many.
Ikr.. we are literally surrounded. There are a few sane people. The Lord helps us find each other ❤
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The balance seems to be out
There are more narcs and physcopaths and it's not good for humanity. Thanks Andrew 🌹
lightbulb moment, happens to everyone on the channel
When you know one narcessist, you know all narcessistic people. I am realey shocked there are so many of them. It is hard to discover that at my age 59 . But i can have peacefull years. My health can heal .
Plotting and scheming, conniving and lying; that's a huge part of their daily agenda.
I saw this happen. A million $ home, marble floors, etc.. the children suffer when they implode. 5 dogs defecating on the floor & the filth piled up higher & higher.
Rescue the kids and leave the narcissist to look in the mirror ALONE. Don't rescue them or try to be a hero. They're in a loop, and the sooner you get out of it, the better. They're basically having a full-on tantrum, just like a child holding their breath.
They get older, but never better; manipulation has become engrained into who they are. Their conscience is seared, and they're driven by a bottomless pit of ego.
Andrew, you're doing God's work- thank you
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Great post
True and Strong 💪 ☀️
Thank you
@@4hiskingdom401 nicely said. I can't type anything as the tuBe has frozen the comet section. I can only sometimes. I can't even participate in a live. Anonnnnn help plz ♥️☀️
@@FernFokes-tu6vsput in an emoji, delete it, try typing. I have the same problem ❤
Yes and the world is full of them, really full. lately i notice that some people literally start shaking when they see me and then they can't talk anymore. Very strange to experience.
@@SoulForce_ Spirits recognize opposing forces 💙
30 years of marriage and I never once had a girls weekend away...maybe a day trip, and that was met with the silent treatment or rage fits. Yet, he could go on week long hunting trips without even discussing it with me. I always felt like I was living an internal life prison sentence.
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Same thing here for 16 years..
do only guided 444 want to laugh I used to refer to my husband as the warden ( my own personal inside joke)
Referring to you @Divinely Guided444 sorry for misspelling
That’s just awful. That’s just so wrong. I
Pray you are now free dear. 😢
"The peace I feel without your presence in my life is worth being the villain in your story."
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Real talk.
shocking to be living with someone for 25 years only to see what they really are when the mask slips 😢
Me too. 25 years. Devastating at first to realize that every time the NARCISSIST tortured you, they were so happy with the emotional supply. So glad I finally realized the devil 😈 I have been dealing with. I have gone no contact in the same house. I haven't spoken to him in 6 weeks. He knows what he did to me. Sam Vaknin & Andrew hav3 been a great help to me in my recovery.
@@FunBee888 I find Andrew way superior than Dr Ramani, Dr Vatkin ..he is narc himself an his accent in annoying and Dr Phil, because Andrew gives real everyday examples of the abuse, I feel like I am getting an absolution every time I watch his videos, I am 8 years old well on top of POI, but after math damage still a bit affecting me so working on that, dragged out divorce will hopefully be sorted by the end of the month, where are you on your path?
29 years here and I've seen it slip from day 1. However, I didn't know what was happening and I doubt you did either. The worst part is when we figure out that we've been used and abused by someone we thought loved us, but in fact, hated us and wanted to destroy us through cowardly ways. Yes, that's hard to wrap your mind around.
Just after our 45th anniversary I escaped. His mask slipped July 18, 2019 (my mom's funeral) and I took 2 years of 7 types of abuses thinking that he'd 'return'. 3 years of No Contact. Unfathomable.
So many narcissists (in the world !) that to meet normal persons become difficult
100% truth
Social Media and the Internet are rampantly breeding that mindset like crazy
When it comes to men, I get so surprised to talk to a genuine, wholesome man.
@@basicinfo2022same
met 2 narcissists living in Ohio. Moved to Ft Collins, Co ~met 7 in 6 mos. Scary, disabled and narc son love bombed me to move then the discard. Still figuring what to do. I can't walk, so if I could I would nave been long gone.
I won’t be there for his implosion and I pray that everyone who’s been abused by these Demons won’t be either. 💗😇
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... and they all implode differently. Some of them absolutely lose it!
Usually happens on a really hot Summer day. 🙁
Thank you for not having us to go through this , alone. 🙏
Welcome..🙏💯💯😌
My ex hubby of 20 years, divorced for four. Recently passed away -became a Xanax addict and alcoholic. Lost his job because of his addictions(175k) Became homeless -went through $600,000 of savings and inheritance. Found passed away in January outside. Truly a narcissistic implosion -never could figure out what what was wrong with him until the last few years of marriage. So glad I was able to save myself, my savings, house and sanity. He tried to ruin our daughter’s credit (without her knowledge) - he did fake loans in her name for college. We found this out last year. He couldn’t believe we figured it out. She adored her dad. How sad! Unbelievable!
It is sad, Blessings 👍🙏❤
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I'm sorry he put you through all that & I'm sorry he did that to your daughters credit may the Lord bring you both healing & a life a peace
Sad, but bottom line- You saved yourself, who could then save your daughter. He even had her conned.
I'm glad you got away. So many people feel sorry for the narcissist, and the narc just drags them down with them. :( Destroying another empath in the process. Our lives are worth far more helping other innocent victims than to perpetuate the narcissist's abusive lifestyle. I'm glad you saved yourself so you were able to help your daughter!!!!!!!!!!
Unbelievable is their asset. They do odd and unexpected things and when we find out? Our head tilts sideways and people don't believe it.
The longer I've been free of my ex and the more the effects of the abuse and gaslighting subside, the more I remember about her behavior.
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same dude
Yep, the fog lifts...
Finding clarity
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Keep moving forward
Oh trust me, Andrew is right on. All my wife thinks of is her friends, family, or others. Never of me and the marriage. They will disrespect you and break every vow you ever took in marriage. They simply have no respect, decency, empathy, or anything else. It's very hard to believe a person can be like that when you're not like that. They can and that's how they get it over on you. They do it and then gaslight you and you start questioning right and wrong even though you KNOW it's wrong. It's evil personified.
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When I was a child i would be absolutely amazed at how different my parents voice sounded when they answered the phone. The best description is 'oily'. I would think to myself 'wow, adults can be so fake'. Then they would switch right back into grumpy, cold and mean mode when they got off the phone. Who was that person i had seen? That was the narcissist with their mask back in place. They didn't realize that children remember things. Children are sensitive and innocent but they are not dum.
Yes, I could totally tell when my mother wasn't talking to a family member on the phone. It's like she became a different person. Creepy. Especially now that I understand narcissists have constructed a "false self" and there is no real core anymore. Just the ever-changing personas they create to garner supply.
When I look at the old family photos, I'm always giving a sideways glance. Hmmm.
My ex narc would ruminate many days before exploding in a rage fit with all his insatisfactions. That's what you get from a covert narcissist. That's how they handle things and you don't see it coming most of the time. I don't miss those days not for a second 😅
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Same for me.
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Thats amazing, when I first met her she would be in her house with every light in the house off. She would be in the room with all the doors closed and laying in complete darkness. In retrospect that should have been a red flag but I overlooked it. Realized after 20 years of rage fits, gaslighting, lying, cheating that I was married to a whole demon, she was possessed by legions of demons
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......👺
The explosions were very scary and nobody can stop it. Following the explosions were the implosions!
There was nothing more terrifying than to see a rage fit and wonder how it would end. I’m glad you are getting the wisdom!!
@@JUMPforyourLIFE yes exactly!! My life was instilled with fear. Those rage fits happened weekly.
@@Sarahkap sounds about right, each week a new tantrum and fit to keep you deregulated and so they can be the “cure.” It was super confusing to me at some point I felt paralyzed. Keep shining your bright light and never give up.
@@JUMPforyourLIFE the sad part he never even tried to be the cure. Absolutely no empathy whatsoever. Just cold malice. Thank you very much ☺️
@@Sarahkap I experienced much of the same. After the initial lovebombing phases it was coldness and I never met her again. I went back several times but I had to lose myself to be in her life. It’s pathetic but I learned a lot. We slow our life down and build our self up into the third version 💫 I hope you are doing great!!
I walked away from my narcissistic sister yesterday. Our mother was buried yesterday and after i showed my sister some pictures of things I've done with my son. Then my son and i left knowing she has no place in our lives anymore as she can no longer use our mother to find a way in
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After 30 years of monthly explosions, it’s nice to be on the healing journey with peacefulness and positivity. Thank you, Andrew for all you do to help get us through this.🤙🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾
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Grateful you are on the healing path! Keep going!!
Seems quiet after there are no fires being lighted and you put one out and three more are alight. I’m glad you are out of the cycle 🔄 🛑💫
New subscriber here! I've been binge watching your videos on and off all day long! I just want to say THANK YOU! I believe you're doing the LORDS work!
Welcome to the community..🙏💜😌😊☀️
Andrew !
100% SPOT ON !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for the continual Affirmation ! - The Dysfunction is so difficult to comprehend/accept - but it is Undoubtably Fact !!- i have seen many manifestations as described by you !!.
Those who have not Witnessed it will not believe unfortunately !.
All the Very Best to you and your work to expose these Creatures is Fantastic !.
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Just don’t speak with them, ignore them and then laugh! Works the best for me!
Yes however that's only funny if there's nothing they can do to sabotage you. Some will come at you by turning up the heat on you.
I have 4 kids with him, I can’t ever get away from him, he makes my/my children’s lives miserable always! We are divorced but he still ruins everything all of the time
It was when I realized that my happiness wasn't derived by anyone else but me that I learned to fly like free bird that can't be changed. 🎉❤
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Beautiful! 💜
A really scary thing I'm realizing now is that I saw the real him......he was charming, then cold as ice. Demonic even. I dismissed it as him being "out of sorts." It was much more than that..
“I was so afraid of losing you until I realized you were never really mine.
My heart was with you, but yours was with everything and everyone else.
So instead of fearing to lose you, I stepped
back and watched
YOU lose me.”
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All of my energy was put into “helping” my narcissist to not implode. I really had to look in to my own mentality of being a people-pleaser and helper and caregiver, aka codependent, because I didn’t believe in myself.
I have been working on putting my energy into me, and I know that I’ll never be used like a doormat by a bully or narc again.
I love the daily message here, it’s been a daily reminder that I’m on the right path. 💧🌞🌈💙💐
Way to go for the work & brave transparency. 👍💥🙏❤
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Almost 30 year relationship with my STBXW, over 20 of those I gave every ounce of energy to keep her from imploding.
I’ve been away for 8 months now and I’m still tired, but seems like it’s slowly getting better.
My ex-wife is beautiful. But she's a narcissist big time. She knows how to push my buttons with the attention I wanted from her, then ghost me. We got divorced 15 years ago. This is how long this has been going. She sent me a picture of her at a beach, in a bikini and even though she is still strikingly beautiful, she is aging. Her mindset is still the same. Only focused on her. I wish I wasn't still attracted to her. I didn't want the divorce, but her behavior is very toxic. Your videos really help me to realize how much I have been blessed with her absence. Thank you.
Imagine you saw a woman who was very beautiful, sexually very active, and loved you. But when you came closer you realised that she stinks, can you live with her?
The same happens with such narcissists, their soul stinks... And you can't live with a sinking soul...
@@kumarayush4967 Great words! I completely agree! Cannot live with that. Thank you!
The narc's discard didn't go well with me and he had 2 "nervous reactions" in the ER with no real illness within 2 months of discard. Everything didn't go as planned with the new supply and the circumstances weren't as they planned. They imploded. I know what you are saying. Glad he had it somewhere else. Major internalization of things not going as planned in rapid succession.
Thank God you didn’t have to take him home from the Hospital bc it would’ve been Hell for you
The truth is so ugly about these children of darkness 😈 thank you for keeping us informed Have a goodnight 🙏 Lord Bless You
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My ex narc recently had a massive stroke. He's in a nursing home!! Also all the vultures r carrying stuff out of his apt. I'm thinking he's imploding!!!! Again, God works in mysterious ways, and karma is a bitch.....!!!
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Every once in a while, he would have sobering moments for a minute where he would show some vulnerability. But, those moments were few and far between. He would look like a little broken child. I remember thinking how childlike he looked.
I had the same experience. It’s so emotionally and spiritually draining, and heartbreaking.
@@jswan312 I honestly believe that was a lot of the reason that I stayed with him for so long (32 years). It was those small glimpses that pulled at my heartstrings.
Exactly. My brother, 3 years older, gave me hell as kids and up until my early twenties. He at times would act sad and vulnerable and to gain my understanding, then bam straight back to his normal self.
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then...👺
@@kristinburton4953 Yep.... That's how their demons do it. It still blows my mind that I was married to a demon possessed creature.
It's crazy how they show us in movies how they operate....
Let's face it, NO TELLING......they're time bombs gone wild!!! 😱⚡
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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Right! Narc frustrations build like anyone, but they burn out the ones that could help defuse them. Most will get sick of it.
On use of the other definition-- Marie, your comments are the Bomb! 💣👍😉☕
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Thank you Joe! 👍☕
I don't want any KABOOMING
happening anywhere near me.
NO THANKS, been there done that,
NEXT!!!
narcs are toxic vortexes with legs 🌪️
@@marieeakin8534 When you know who they are-- Narcs are the Wile E. Coyotes of the World.
My Narc Ex-Wife had a breakdown in the shower one time, I went to see what in the world was going on. I litterly had to get in the shower with her with my clothes on to calm her down, OMG!
It Was BAD!!! 😳
On a serious note, Narcissist are Mentally ILL! This was the one time I can remember that I felt sorry for her.
* At that time I didn't know that she was a Narcissist.
Now that moment explains alot...
Hi again Cowboy, you sound stronger. I remember when you first landed here.
Continued blessings along the healing path 👍 💥🙏❤
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This is an important thing for all to remember and take hold of:
narcs ARE mentally ill, imbalanced
This puts their target in great peril. You have to be careful how and when you remove yourself. I remember how scared I was when removing myself because I knew I’d pay dearly for it and pay I did.
@BeTheLight624 exactly, move in silence
Thank You! I have suffered, and still am suffering, by the hands of a narc for well over a decade. Its exhausting! By the grace of God, I have began the healing process, despite them. Its very discouraging to think you will never truly be free, thank you for your words of hope.
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The day that I broke up with my ex girlfriend she imploded yelling at me asking me why I didn't walk to her car why am I not talking to her but I'm brave enough not to speak to her or acknowledge her
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7 weeks free tomorrow. For anyone on the path -keep going! It's hard but you are worth it!
Congratulations camelotenglishtuition6394 on another amazing milestone narc free 🚫
Every second away from that night mare is truly something to celebrate! Enjoy your day! 🎉
Almost 3 weeks free for me, elated for us both. Sending love, light, joy & peace to all who are planning their exit, have resisted a hoover & gone no contact forever.🙌🏻💞🩵
@@gwynteddy congratulations to you! Keep fighting the good fight
Day 2 and already the clouds are parting and I can’t actually think. I realize how ridiculous they are.
Thank you for the continuing education. Takes a long time. He knew what he was doing. I couldn't believe any one could be so evil.
A former long time friend hired me to work for him at a Fortune 100 company. I brought the level of the product up, gave them and their vendors things they didn’t have before to improve the product and worked on key anniversary products. My former boss friend took credit for all I had done and management wanted to know what I did on my job. I went to a different human relations person than the one that was my bosses friend and documented everything, taped conversations and got myself a new job. The former narc boss was demoted beneath what my title was when I left.
Way to go!!! 👍💥🙏❤
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Thanks Marie! Always good to see your shining self on here. Hope you’re enjoying this summer much more than last year. ☀️😎💜
It was through the grace of God.
Corporate America is truly an ugly place. Narcsville with a paycheck.
Always a pleasure & a good feeling to see you. Your beauty is always felt. May someone who is worthy stand by your side.
Much love! 💥🙏❤
Thank you for your good wishes and kind words Marie. Welcomed and much needed now. May the Lord continue to richly bless you.
Thank you. 💜🙏🏻🕊️✨☀️✨
Good for you!!
Once the ex-narc had such a violent rage fit, I thought I might need to call an ambulance. Not for me, but them. I stood there in utter amazement at what I was observing, and when it ended, I stood aghast. Nothing for me to say but “ wow, really?” It was almost a break in reality kind of fit. Unreal.
Freakin freaky! 😳👍👍👍
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It’s like watching a volcano getting ready to blow
You just need to be careful for you
Your reply of "Wow, really?," is gold.🤨 It said plenty, i.e., "You're going to run around on the street with baby diapers??!" 🍼🚼 Added, it had a touch of
Andrew's tilted head reaction.
Spot on about narcs in workplaces.. I feel I have encountered narc bosses more in areas with less jobs around .. no jobs = more opportunities to take advantage of staff members and staff turnover being more rife .. and the not sitting still.. constantly.. all I can say gracefully right now is in the words of Britney Spears “I wanna scream and shout and let it all out!”.. I’m at breaking point.. but I’ll get there sooner rather than later.. life is too short.. leave the narcs to implode with themselves.. in my opinion (I may sound harsh) they deserve it.. and the rest of us can blossom and flourish in this world instead.. thank you for this informative video 💜🪻
The worst part of narcissism is watching them undermine their own credibility and god-given potential.
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Heard this today, sound familiar ???
You lovingly laid your life down for a nasty person who walked all over you...
then they complained 😡 YOU DIDN'T lay down flat enough!!! 😵
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Yesss!!!! That's what my ex-wife did after she demanded a divorce. After the divorce hearing was over, she had the nerve to ask me "why didn't I fight for our marriage". I had to remind her that she is the one who wanted her freedom. She got the divorce she asked for, but still wanted to blame me.
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That's the crazy making common thread of one of their traits Eric.
It hurts but you were delivered from a life of hell.
Take good care 👍💥🙏❤
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Exactly ❤
lived it…never again….
I saw the implosion happen, three times. First time in public when i told him i leave him, 2nd couple of days later totally grey and dark, it hit my core to see that, 3rd was weeks later when i wanted to greet him, he pushed me a side also in public. He pulled me down in an endless emptiness and took me 8 months to return with more strength then ever before. Only thing, he is the manipulating factor of the village and i live next to him. And he has a lot enablers. What a soap.
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Oh goodness
When I asked the narc who packages were for that were hidden in his closet. This caused him to implode and rage. His response "I am out of here at the end of the month." See ya, don't let the door hit you in the ass!!!💩
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High five 👍👍👍👍👍
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This describes my ex wife PERFECTLY. they only get worse.
Here's a story, me and my ex wife had a flat that she stayed in post separation. When it came time to sell, i had to retrieve some personal effects and do a bit of tidying up.
... it was like the TV program 'life of grime '.
Absolutely disgusting. Rubbish everywhere, clothes, food.
My daughter had to live in this filth.
They are without remorse, insight, recovery or reflection.
I am so glad and give thanks every day i am free and indifferent.
God bless you all and thank you Andrew
That 72 hour message was a public testimony given by a narc I once knew. Almost word for word. They locked themselves up at a retreat cabin somewhere and watched their demons come out and circle the cabin. And they said they were delivered of it all. Nope 👎 Can’t make this stuff up. That’s a dark place for sure.
This is some serious work going on to expose that level of darkness. God bless you.
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Hey Grateful! Hope you’re doing well! I attempted to comment on this video 3 times already, but my comments keep disappearing… tired of rewriting them 😔 and in too much pain at this point to keep trying. My week is going to be pretty busy… got a doctor’s appointment first thing in the morning to talk to my PCP about my worsening back pain 😛 gonna try and chime in wherever and whenever I get the chance this week. Not sure how much of a chance I’ll get, but I’ll let you know how things go! If I don’t make much sense tomorrow or for a few days, it MIGHT be the pain meds or whatever she does. 😆😛😄❤️💖💜
@@jennifernewton4637 ❤️🫂🙏hey Jennifer, just was praying for you and others here. Sorry about all the issues on YT. It does keep happening from time to time. Sorry about the pain. My prayer is full spontaneous healing ❤️🩹 for you always. I’m good. Sending love and hugs 🫂
@@marieeakin8534 💖💞🌸🙏 Marie 🫂
@@gratefultobehere Thank you SO MUCH Grateful! 🙌🫂🫂🥰😁🙏🤗❤️💜💖 Side note… was just outside, heard a noise coming from above and I looked up and there was what appeared to be either a cat or a raccoon in the rain gutter! SPOILER ALERT! It was a RACCOON! It looked down at me like “What do you want? I’m busy here!” 😂 I was just PRAYING he didn’t fall out or anything! He was just sitting there… eating the “catch of the day” 🤮🤮 Thankfully I couldn’t see what that was. Ugh… I think it’s just time for bed 😛😆
Glad you speak from a man's perspective
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Good Morning Andrew🌱🍃🌿🇫🇷🙏I do not miss her TOXIC ENERGY over the phone & her BRAGGING about all she is doing!! I am growing with GRACE,, LOVE & surrounded with people ,, Only have my best interest!! Thank you for telling THE TRUTH of the minds of Narc's😂🙏🌱🍃🌿
More rain headed your way in the Carolina’s-be safe!
The few instances I’ve seen something from narc since I shut him down makes me wonder if he’s lost his grip. He demonstrates a confused mind like I haven’t really seen before.
All I can say is Thank you Jesus for merciful deliverance from ALL toxic relationships!
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You just keep nailing it Andrew,I can't even believe my ears this was my life.Ive seen every bit of this in my ex narc.But the mask came on quickly when he was around clerks barbers his therapist waitresses pretty women lol I was like who are you? I'm glad I found wisdom..I'm going to be just fine alone..once again Andrew you are so amazing to us that are healing .I'm so proud of you for getting this wisdom to the airways even when you were in the midst of this craziness yourself..namaste
30 days free today! I escaped very early on. No fog so I saw red flags and ran😂
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So happy to hear people are escaping these monsters at the early onset.
Your quest to defeat narcissism is working, Andrew! 💜💪
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You are smart!!!! I’m so happy for you!!! I saw red flag after red flag and I just kept going back, now we have 4 kids, divorced for 8 years and he’s still making my life miserable constantly and will forever 🤬 I
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I agree whole heartedly with your content Andrew. I witnessed implosion/injury....this would result in the silent treatment and or just walking away. The petulant child needs time out. It was his way or the high way. Anyone who believes they are not in control of their actions and behaviours really needs to educate themselves. When he was with me...he wasn't and when he wasn't with me he was grooming new supply/supplies. No contact is the only way if you're able 🤷🙏💜
Thanks Andrew for your positive energy and advice that’s absolutely right, I just gave excuses for him in my mind trying to keep peace all the time,but it won’t work and I’ll be the one that suffers more,so he’s been out the door for 2 and half months the longest time yet,and I won’t accept a hoover again😎
My nex imploded every time you had any semblance of conversation with him. He was a rageaholic.
Gaining insight into the mental gyrations of the narcissist helps build faith in my own. Realizing how their quicksand undermined a child's budding self-confidence. Realizing where the pain came from is analgesic.
That's the great and healthy healing part of introspection and the deep dive. This channel has people who understand. Anyone who's never been through it, will automatically think: "What!? Seriously?? You're blaming your childhood and the past?" You know that and will never disclose what
happened. Purging certain things by understanding is Freedom.
Thanks, Andrew. It was 100-percent as you said. At the end of the narcissist's time here on earth, I am not aware of anyone who would joyfully choose to be around him. The ones who would interact with him were store clerks, medical personnel, and such. Even his sin-buddies had better things to do and went away from him. There was one individual left standing and that individual, in the face of having been lied to, was still believing the narcissist's manipulative tall-tales.
They are not able to be friends to open up to you.
Yes and yes!
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It's a great awakening being able to identify and overcome a narc, to anyone suffering believe - you are strong and you can do it!
Am so glad you continue to educate and describe the many ways they act and try to manipulate people...amazing how awful they treat others...thank you for being here with the truth...it really helps me !
Everything you've said, explained, is so accurate. Your repeating "their tiny little brain"....this is so clear after being in "no contact" and dealing with the PTSD that happens with living with the narcissist. Excellent Andrew, have a wonderful rest of your day. Thank you!!
Thanks for your advice Andrew I started journaling a month ago and it helps clarify your thoughts in the gaslighting and fog the narcissist creates. I am still progressing the exit plan to get away from my narcissistic wife, but for the first time in a month I was able to write that it was a drama free day as we spent time away from our narc. The kids and I had a lovely time and they even revealed their exit plan which was to suffer the whole narcissistic relationship till they were 18 then leave and go no contact,that would also have included me as I was stuck in the narcissist cycle being dragged down. See it's not just you suffering the narcissist affects your kids too and the more attention they can grab from you the worse it is for the kids. So get out and get the kids out and leave the narcissist to implode on their own, no contact is so obvious even kids can see it, so don't let life's complications blind you.
They never slow down when getting older aged 78 and even worse ,i will have to get the police in ,
I hope it happens the way you said it would Andrew. I'm just sorry I won't have a front-row seat with popcorn!
You are too funny! Saw your post yesterday & you crack me up! 👍
Have a good one!
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Wow Andrew, i witnessed many implosions from my narcissistic ex-husband and didnt even know it. It seemed to come out of nowhere without any obvious reasons or triggers. He would retreat to bed or to his mancave ALONE and be moody or complain of a headache.
Also his narcissistic deterioration had significantly increased over our 2.5 years together.
I'm so glad i dont have to deal with all the mind games and trying to figure him out. It was an exhausting marriage.
Andrew, thank you for sharing your knowledge, encouragement and support. You are such a blessing for those of us trying to heal from narcissistic abuse.❤
This vid of Andrew is Comprehensive on Narcs. Guys you Gota watch it Many times and Comprehend it. !!
Thanks Andrew. !
Spot on Andrew. I have seen some narcissists implode and it wasn’t pretty. Thank you for your help and support. It’s so much better when you know you you are not alone. We are in this together. Having healthy and safe people in your life as your support system helps enormously. Thank God for all those kind loving souls ❤ God bless you ❤
my narc had to drink to be still then became an a-holic
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I think most drug abusers or addicts are highly narcissistic because it's very low vibrational and that's where evil is.
There's a lot you will never know about what they do. It's between them and the wind.
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It's so tempting to let them know what they have been burglarizing from your home and vehicle before you took precautions, especially when you notice more and more things are missing from your home. I realize this is being done to spite me due to envy, resentment, and jealousy. I'm taking your advice and keeping mum, because it would just open the door.
This is a sibling whom I had no idea of was stealing some valuable, some not, items from my home while spending weeks during the summers at my home. I was actually complaining to 'her' that it must be the neighbor who has been lifting items I can no longer find.
Thank you for another week of beautiful flowers, words of wisdom and great videos. Your dedication to us is just endless. Enjoy the rest of your evening. ❤️🤗
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So many truths you're saying.
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I think Andrew has a new camera! You look great Andrew in High Definition - thank you for the message today. May God bless you!
Great advice, great channel, big fan! I'll pass it on😊
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Your Definately right about this,,keep no contact cause they seek retribution,stay safe,👍🤗💖🙏🙏🙏
When the narcissist pops to the shop for 3 hours, 5 minutes before it shuts and you call them out,they will implode. When they go super nova you had best not even be in the same space as them.
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Such LIARS!
@@user-yy9be9mi6n everything about the narcissist is fake..their words,actions and public image. Empty shells with no life inside them. That's why they feed off other people.
My sister could not sit still or let anybody else have a peaceful moment. My mother harvested fuel out of her mental meltdown while I was worn out with all the chaos.
You help me everyday. Your knowledge, head turn and adorable spirit!!😊
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On the weekends he would sleep practically until noon, well after I was up, complain about not feeling well..mini implosions? He may implode tonight as there’s a great possibility of losing power with this storm..without me there to be the brunt of an explosion when he can’t watch TV. Have a great evening!
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Thank you for your wisdom, especially today 🙏
Wow this is mind blowing listening to this is some of the reactions I seen from him in the relationship.
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Thank you for these helpful videos.
Thank you, Andrew. You saved my life again today 🙏
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My ex covert narc would from time to time self isolate and all of his “demons” would attack him. I remember one time he told me that he was up all night thinking about everything he ever did wrong and it really seemed to haunt him. He wouldn’t tell me what he meant and acted secretive about the sins he was so haunted by. He never could sleep very well at night. I actually do feel bad for some of these people who are always running from their conscience. Seems like a very tortured existence.
My dad was a grandiose narcissist, who morphed into a severely depressed covert narcissist as he aged. When he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year.... I got a phone call from him out of the blue. He was ugly crying over the phone. He was undergoing collapse. I rescued him by flying to be with him, taking care of him, cooking for him. basically being an unpaid servant. He survived from June 2 to August 13, under my care, even though everyone said that discontinuing dialysis he'd die within a week or two. My malignant narcissistic mother started triangulating my dad against me.... such that he accused me of stealing his wallet (I'm like WHY in the HELL would I steal your wallet). Turned out it was in my mom's purse. My mother started doing litiginously dangerous financial things. So I left. Without my supply (i.e. abusing me, accusing me of stealing, making me be "the unpaid helper" when I had three kids I had left with my husband two states away!!!), my father stopped eating again.... He was dead by January. He gave up on life. My mother is still narc-ing strong though. As long as they have one enabler.... they'll be okay. This time her victim is my aunt, who was abusive to my father back in the 90s. So I don't feel sorry for her. In the end, narcs end up with other narcs. :( Because they always think they can con each other.... they don't realize, when narcs play, EVERYONE LOSES. Stay away. And NEVER ACCEPT A HOOVER.
@@mvbigmagic4048 Amazing ( to the point ) conclusions. In spite of all of that toxic soup, you still managed to do the right thing in attending to
your dad and leaving. Also, I've been accused ( indirectly) of stealing money from a business ( yup by a Grandiose, insecure Narc) ... it was one
of the most insulting things I've experienced. You believe you carry yourself with a certain dignity and trustworthiness and here comes a toxic
Narc to pull the rug. It just showed what I had suspected- He did not respect me, was jealous and a Narcissist saw an opening to devalue you with a hand grenade. Interactions in business are rife with Narcs.
Are you sure he was dealing with narcissism? That sounds like PTSD... Because I do that. There is 9 traits of NPD, you should look them up and see if he actually hits at least 5 of them... People throw narcissism around a lot it has become almost pop culture at this point, but no, it's an actual diagnosable condition. I have combat related PTSD and I don't sleep well, But I'm also not a narcissist... I asked my therapist about it after I seen my ex calling me a narcissist on her tiktok live, turns out I'm actually low on the narcissistic spectrum, and I don't have a personality disorder, my diagnosis remained the same, PTSD and ADHD. Truth is my ex definitely hits pretty much all 9 points of narcissistic personality disorder... She NEVER went to therapy when we were together because she was above it..nope just me because I was the screwed up one even though she did a lot of messed up stuff, I'm a veteran and have been in therapy since 3 years after I left the military... She never took accountability for anything, she never apologized, she has no shame in her life for anything and she lies constantly to people... I used to watch her lie through her teeth to people and just covered for her because I thought that was the right thing to do, I thought we were a team. No, I was her supply and she manipulated me for 13 years. If your ex has PTSD yes it's a bad thing, us with PTSD can be hard to deal with... But PTSD isn't npd... And if he doesn't hit those points he's not a narcissist.
@@Siegefya my ex husband has ptsd and it’s very different from what this man has. This man is a covert narcissist through and through.
@@rachelweaver7802 oh ok gotcha. I'm not knowing much about the covert type, I'll do some more research didn't even realize you said that specifically. Thanks for the response, I didn't mean any harm by it just trying to be helpful.
Narcs are like the possessed female in the movie Evil Dead. 😅 She gives them hell, then the inner demon tricks the victims into thinking she's playing nice, then......👺
You are so right, 50yrs of suffering from a Narcissist/SPD mom (81yr old) who has destroyed my life after me supporting her all my life (not money) I'm on very low income which just covers rent only, when I could of had a job, future, schooling but she has turned me into her personal care person in exchange of her paying difference in rent (she had her own apt), now she went mean, turned, cut me off my rent supplement, leaving me hanging.
No job experience, no school, I can't get a job at my age so now I have to go onto the streets & she doesn't care.
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I hope you’re safe from the hurricane Andrew 🙏
So true but when it involves suicidal threats & he is my kids father.... Sooo messed up & complicated since 2002.
Thank you Andrew. You have shown me I was not to blame for attracting narcissists because I am an empath
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Thank you so much Andrew, your content is so helpful 🙌
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Thank you, Andrew. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing
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I used to go for a drive for hours on weekends to get away from my NPD now ex wife… she’d do weeks long silent treatments with black eyes staring at me like she hated my existence .. she wouldn’t work though used to have a decent job .. $37,000 in debt and I paid all the bills .. I had to get away .. drove to nowhere .. she killed 2 pets, at different times. that were deeply loved .. it still hurts she did that .. I think she was jealous of the pets .. so just driving somewhere for hours isn’t just some narcissists do ., they are probably going somewhere specific .. I never did just wanted to be away from the toxicity and in nature
Great video, one of your best. Thank you
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I'll be thinking about you brother over the next few days. I'll be thinking lots about the Carolina coasts, Georgia coastline and higher ground is gained for all who need it. 🙏 🙏 🎉🎉❤❤❤🎉
Love you Andrew! ❤
Great video!
Happy Monday.
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