Masculine & Feminine Energy Secrets (Dr. John Gray)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2021
- Dr. John Gray, author of Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus shares how attraction between a man and a woman can be dependent upon masculine and feminine energy if you want to keep the chemistry hot. If you want to have a loving, committed, passionate partnership or marriage then understanding what brings a man and woman together, increases attraction and creates passion is essential.
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As a single mom of two adolescents I am so in masculine energy most of the time(solving problems,fixing things,providing everything for them,making things done)….I almost forgot how nice is to be a woman in all her feminine energy…and almost 11 years passed by me without considering this…WOW what a clarification I got from this video
I love what he says.. few changes like enjoying life more to attract a good man and do less!
That's right! thanks so much for watching and for your kind words too!
I love Michelle and Johns Talks! Ladies tip… Don’t become a guys therapist when dating! Can we just say how beautiful and feminine Michelle’s voice is!
John Gray has helped me connect. I am learning so much about testosterone and how I can handle the pull away when we've been close. He always comes back.
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you found it helpful!
Sucks. I have to work on my people pleaser….it’s like I’m stuck in the same cycles over again with friends and all the romantic relationships. What John said is true because I’ve experienced it so many times through my autopilot uncontrollably behaviors.Ive never felt like people really put a lot of efforts into me. It’s just hard to stop over-giving….
I’ve just discovered ~ sometimes what we think is masculine energy is actually frustrated feminine energy… so instead of it being wood (masculine energy)… we were stuck stagnant in water (feminine energy)… because the wood elements of us (desires) for ourselves have been shamed out of us… so the focus is totally on others emotions… giving up way too much of ourselves. So it’s like a misplaced mother/motherbear energy (water energy) … not giving from the overflow but depleting ourselves… so essentially drowning in water without wood to direct it… even if we are mainly water energy, it becomes sick without wood energy … a ship to ride atop it or a bridge or channels to make water create energy/electricity… allowing water to move for ourselves through our wood energy… I just realize what I though had been some “wood” energy I needed to make smaller…it was actually water energy because it was all my wood qualities that had been shamed out of me… So amazing how John said wood energy is desire while water energy knows about needs and that water energy will be frustrated without enough ability to fulfill one’s needs with wood energy! So when men feel wood energy, they want to fulfill desires for themselves… those can include other people-and helping to fulfill their needs! So the difference between mother bear energy and wood energy protection for example is--is it for others or ourselves? That’s how I now know my overgiving was coming from the destruction of my own wood--the kind of giving that allows and fulfills my own desires versus the mothering overgiving that is to the point of having no needs for ourselves - to the point of depletion 😂🤣any of this make sense? lol I’m still feeling/thinking through it
I usually bypass any video longer than 20 min, but this video was soooo worth my time!
I'm so glad to hear you felt that way Smartana! Thanks for watching!
Somehow, I like complimenting men. They love it!
#Johngray in France previous generations of women always said:'the more you do for a man, the less he does' but I needed the explanation of that'....
Got it from you, finally! Thank you
I love these talks with you and Dr Gray. Michelle you’re such a great interviewer, keep this up and I look forward to many more!
Thank you so much Rosa! I appreciate you watching!
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yes, thank you!
Michelle you have such a loving voice thanks so much.
Wow, thank you Frances! That is very kind of you. Thanks for watching my channel too!
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I probably listened to this video 5 times, but every time I focus on different sentences... I never realized desire was masculin...
♥️so Grateful to hear this and Its a wonderful Channel!🙏 Thank You!
Dr of the ying yang revolution
That's right! Thanks for watching!
Thanks for answering my question Michelle 😍!
Thanks for watching my channel Erin! Take care!
This is so helpful. Thank you. 💓
Wow!!! I was surprised when he said on average women take about 9 years to bond again deeply with a man... Well it's been 7 years, did a lot of work on myself to trust men again... though I still find it very hard to trust again and just fall again for men, especially in these ages of online dating where we are seen as a commodity.
I agree.
This was amazing! Very eye opening 🙏
Thank you so much for watching and for your kind comment too Milena!
Thank you Michelle for sharing this amazing interview. I love watching your channel
You are so welcome! Thanks so much for watching Vanessa!
I really appreciate you and Dr. gray for all this knowledge and I am applying it. These are things I never knew between men and women. I see some of the mistakes I've made in my past and now I feel more empowered to truly be my best self.
Thanks for having John ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much for watching too!
Thank you for this video, I've learned a lot😇
You're so welcome! Jeanne thank you for watching!
Such great content! you are an amazing interviewer and Dr Gray is amazing especially in today’s narrative of gender and feelings
thank you so much.
According to this, women have to be taught to stay in their heads (strategize) and to ignore the natural impulses and feelings of our heart. To turn off our eyes although we are visual creatures. Who knew.
So helpful thank you .
Thanks so much for watching Michelle! Much appreciated. I'm glad you found it helpful.
Wonderful!!!!!!!
Thank you JOHN & MICHELLE ! (to clarify)
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment too Francesca!
John u got it so so.right, keep up the good work I understand this video,
Glad to hear it! Thanks for watching Mary!
nowadays guys who consider themselves successful usually wants to have a partner of equal success... In another video he talks about guys way is to have more money, house, car material stuff for them to feel successful, whereas women doesn't need to have that level of success to score a guy... Coz John said.. Guys need to feel successful when his around the lady.. So the lady has to build up the feeling for the guy... Whereas for lady she is looking to connect, if her emotional and financial needs are meet, then she might consider him as a provider and someone to connect to by talking n sharing... nowadays guys are wanting the girls to be successful to even consider her if the guy was successful too.. Of course not all but majority, so is it because a strong lady doesn't need guy as much so he can breath better and are guys now more stingy cox if lady has her own money then he doesn't need to spend his own on her?
Love ur videos, its great
Thank you so much 😀 Mary! Thanks for watching!
thank you
Brilliant
please do a skincare routine, you have beautiful glowing skin i want to know your secrets 😍❤️
every time i hear or see masculine & feminine i remember school and french lessons . anyway my and my husband's energy comes from natural aphrodisiacs which are for both genders . you should also consider
i agree it's very educative and others should watch it (maybe this whole channel). actually my partner was using it everyday this product you're writing about and i couldn't be happier in bed. he was really awesome
beautiful interview. as always, learned some things that are going to help me improve. thank you ☺️
Thank you for watching and for your kind comments too!
So far, all the guys (50+ age group) I’ve gone out with are too much on their feminine side! They ask me what I’m wearing, they let me know what they’re eating, etc. How am I supposed to be feminine when the guy is more feminine than me?
try going out with someone younger like in there 40s
ahhh.....the I mystery of metrosexuality.
My guy and I are both in our 40s (not married). When we aren't together, we will send each other pictures of what we are eating; especially if it is a new dish for me and something I like that he has cooked before, and he will ask me what I am wearing but it is more in a sexual tone to open a conversation. He is all testosterone, and he likes my femininity.
Loved this
Thanks for watching!
Yw watched it twice great gems thanks for sharing! 🙏🏾❤️
Wonderful and extremely helpful information! Thank you Michelle and John!
I guess this is one of the best advice 👍 I have had, I guess I don't understand men, now I know I don't.
I hope ill change myself so I can be a good person for My Love too 👍🥰🤗
Happened to me...best man and relationship I have been in.
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
John so right I say that to my man what a good ideal, or I never thought of that, or I appreciate that.
I started saying this too. You're so right! That makes sense. Now I say hey not a big deal. Can you? And I find he is doing more for me and I ask for more and do less
Yes, this is great advice from John. Try it Frances and let us know how it works for you!
This was a good podcast. I didn't agree with everything like the claim that our spirit form is supposed to be androgynous as he didn't clarify how he came to that conclusion and offered no evidence what-so-ever for it (therefore I concluded for myself that this was a mere figment of his imagination that he just inserted in order to make his point appear more valid...even though it was completely unnecessairy) but for the most part, it was very easy to listen to and helped to put things into a better perspective.
Thanks for watching and for sharing your opinion too!
Unfortunately at this age, men who are single are single for good reason. It's like thrift store shopping, it looks good at first and then when you look closer it's ripped or dirty. There are tons of good men out there, they are all married or taken and their women are not letting go.
Can I do all, add dim, cruciferous, and sea kelp? Is too much bad?
"The good idea" part does it work on female's testosterone as well?
I get confused when he talks about cycle. How about when we don't have cycle anymore? Cheers
He does mention that in his books and in other interviews but I don't remember the details. It has to do with the moon cycle.
What about if the foundation wasn't done right.... Like too much too fast.. Crash and burn.. .is there still a comeback... Coz if it seems like its burn, then how do you initiate the interest back up....if the girl initiate the conversation after the guy silent for sometime then would that considered as "going after him" and reduce the guy interest even more?
What about if at beginning the lady been giving more and later when she stop giving the guy... The guy sometimes still demand that she gives again.. But because she decided that he is not a good time investment hence stop giving and the guy doesn't really goes after her after her absence... So how would u handle it?
Do women make oxytocin in menopause? What if they are taking hormone replacement?
I find it hard not to give and having to get so I guess I should be a lesbian 😂
Single mommas have to wear the problem solving hat all the time. 100%
That's true! Thanks for watching!
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So the brain part of feeling lost emotion and pain is bigger in women, what's the benefit of having this part bigger than guys... Whereas the guy brain part "solving and interaction" is bigger than lady is useful for survival.. So what the benefit of the bigger emotional susceptible part of the lady brain?
Also can lady have the same size of the guy brain part "solving issue"? Can these parts be developed thru practice? And can the lady brain part be minimised... Since not much use of it?
I don't think the 9 year statistic applies to women under 25.
So the part "doing less and being yourself more and enjoying life more" only applies to ladies rit, the guys have to chase after the ladies, so they cant do less rit?
Yes
@@khrisi9410 what if the girl wants the guy but the guy doesn't want to commit... Does this warrant the girl to chase the guy?
@@osirusj275 no, chasing a man doesn't build up his attraction for a woman. Chasing a man and being attracted to him doesn't increase his level of attraction for her nor does chasing increase his testosterone levels thus in the end he's not inspired to be present and available.
@@khrisi9410 so what's the solution for ladies who wants a guy who's not committed, since the ladies should not chase
@@osirusj275 if he gives to her, ie invest his thoughts, time, money, energy the chances he will commit will increase. A woman has to RELAX her expectations. If the goal is solely getting a commitment then she'll most likely never get it because her being in that energy will put pressure on a man and he'll stall or ghost.
I am an introvert and often struggle with knowing what to talk about. Add to that I am a stay at home mom so much that I even would talk about is my kids, but that’s not good all the time either. My husband is an extrovert who loves to talk and usually has a million stories to tell from his past when I don’t even remember much of mine because of years of abuse that I went through. We’ve been married 2 years, and I feel like we have both bonded well, so is this an absolute? Should I be concerned since we aren’t doing it the way Dr. Gray is saying to?
Don’t fix what ain’t broken if you are happy in the way it is :)