John Gray | Beyond Mars and Venus
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 พ.ย. 2020
- Elle Russ chats with John Gray Ph.D. - the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. In hardcover, it was the #1 bestselling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray’s books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.
Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.
John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance.
His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance and better sleep.
He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.
John Gray lives in Northern California, where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren.
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Wow! This is liquid gold for men and women to understand themselves and each other. This conversation make sense. Thank you so much.
Dr. John Gray, besides the LORD Jesus, you are the best gift to humanity.
I love dr.John Gray! Fascinating conversation! He truly understands men & women.
Thank you for this incredible interview. I am 60 y.o. now and learning valuable tools now so my relationships can be more valuable and pleasurable. 💕
Great conversation, so very needed! Men are valuable and we should be treated as such! We also should do a better job of taking care of our women!! We all have to do better!!
Agreed Brian
I had a brilliant Dad and I think you guys need a lot more appreciation!! It's just communication
Well said Sir
John Gray, I offer you my deep gratitude for your knowledge and generosity.
To paraphrase Art By Hazel' words 'this is truly liquid diamond! Thanks a million Elle for bringing this to us. I am always so grateful to John for his generosity with his time and knowledge. Listening to John fills me with so much hope that a great romantic relationship is possible and equips be to be ready to live it out.
Oh my ! everyone should listen to this. I’m widowed now and became widowed at a young age but enjoyed 15 years of a wonderful marriage. By listening to this certain points that were made took me back to my marriage. I think every couple should sit down and watch this ….probably more than once. The hormones and all of the chemicals in our bodies play such a huge role that millions of people are not aware of.
This is amazing…I just love listening to Dr Gray…thank you so much! 💕
Just simply amazing.
Wish I had discovered his seminars much earlier.
This conversation is so so important, thank you!
I appreciate how easily he talks about sexual things that are important to know
i know and with a straight face but i’m over here giggling like a child haha
Brilliant info from John Gray as usual. Primal Polarities-yes absolutely. Great interviewer, relatable, entertaining. Thanks!
Ohhh my gosh what a meaning ful information that we need to learn from and teach future generations too.
John is so brilliant.
...WOW!!! THIS IS BRILLIANT!!!! ["SHARED"]!!!
I have learned so much from John! I have used some of these terms and almost immediately I received a positive response from my guy. Who would have thought?
I agree also, that sex is paramount in a relationship. ❤🙏❤
🎉🎉🎉GREAT INFORMATION DR. GRAY...THANK YOU! 🎉🎉🎉
A great conversation! Thank you.
Awesome Information!!!!
Thank You , Mr. John Gray
I have been mesmerized by the information You are sharing with us.
The Best information I have ever heard. I am starting a new relationship with this incredible man, after many years of being alone . It like, Learning things, I never knew.
Thank You , for sharing this Wealth of information.
I am like a sponge, receiving it all in...... 😃😊
Blessings ❤
In my twenties I was told that men could get very painful cramps called "blue balls" if they were sexually aroused through kissing for a long period of time without being allowed to ejaculate. Thus putting pressure on young women to go further sexually with that person than they wanted to in those moments in time. I had found that confusing and bewildering.
Right, you felt obligated. Nowadays women are so much more empowered
Absolutely Brilliant !!!, wonderful truth…. You hit home !!!…. The knowledge is well received❤️🔥… Thank you for Blessing all of us, so Grateful…
This is an excellent interview for anyone; and especially an Alpha female 😉
John and Elle - this was amazing, thank you so much!
This is one of my favorite and one of the most insightful videos on these topics. Thank you so much!
There were two triggering statements that used to come from my late husband. John talks about women using the phrase ‘we need to talk.’ Well when my husband used to say to me ‘Don’t get excited’ or ‘Relax’ that used to trigger me a bit. He passed away nine years ago so of course when I look back at these moments I can laugh now but at the time for me as a woman those were two very triggering statements or phrases.
You are an amazing therapist!
I listen to a lot of John Gray this one was by far one of my favorites. There was some new concepts here I never heard of before. Thank you John and Elle 💗
Me too!!!
I agree with his definition of Superman-that would be amazing!
I can’t wait to implement what he said in this video
Thank you so much for such an awesome video.
I loved it!
Thanks a ton for the video
Beyond wonderful interview and knowledge from this professional !!! Good questions :-)
Pure GOLD
Amen sister!
thanks
thanks alot
This was good!!
Very interesting 🤨 to learn 🙏☘️🇮🇪☘️☘️
Exelente info thank you👍👍😊🎉
Very interesting.
So so interesting!! Can i sent this too the man i am dating ? Think this is interesting for all people in the world right now
He’s being so specific 😅
Interesting
Yep! Did that AT work!! What the heck?? Where's my support now?! LOL sheesh. LOL
👍
John
42:00
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus and our ruling class is from the Orion Empire.
WOW she was a house on fire 28:18
You live in Mill Valley??? I love hiking mount Tamalpais!! And muir Woods !!! Wow!! Mill Valley is one of my favorite places !!
How can I help?
Women can always take adrenal support supplement. They work very well
What would you suggest??.. not familiar w/these..
So what happens when the man wants to be both the masculine and feminine 🤷🏻♀️
🎉🎉🎉VAVAVAME🎉🎉🎉
😮😢 wow 26 December 2022
No complain to a man, don't ask questions just say things like interesting.
Thank You very much to sharing us these useful videos! I am very greatful! But there is something: you say men won't leave whom have great sex with. Well my ex boyfriend told me always i was the best and cause i knew him well also saw on him that its true.. but we argued a lot cause live with my not easy parents.. and with time he was very very rude with me in more ways, so we broke up cause i had enough, and HE doesn't want to be together again. He wanted be just sexfriends cause then he didn't feel pressure to accomplishment to make a good relaitonship or be enough good to me (he felt before me from everywhere that they thinks he is not good enough, and i couldn't heal him). But for a while he doesn't want from me anything anymore and dating else. He always said great sex is not enough.
in sex HE's focused in pleasing you and he gets pleasure from pleasing you
if you were the one pleasing him you were in your masculine (performing/doing) and he was in his feminine (receiving)...huge NONO as it's a reverse polarity that doesn't last.
Do NOT become his "friend" he'll use you for sex and never truly commit to you, cut him off and do better with the next guy.
I disagree at the alpha , beta part. Everyone is different and their way to approach other ppl are just due to their personalities and how they were raised as a child, the alpha and beta term come from wolf pack and it's flawed anyway I don't get why humans still used that term
I agree.
biology would be my guess.
5:03 "Coercive Control" or psychological abuse. Questions like these are how individuals abuse another person by knowing these details by asking questions or by giving support and then removing it. Causes an individual stress. Been taking that knowledge and using against that person. By taking on strategies such as gaslighting bread crumbing slot machining and so many more... In the scientific community they call these "cognitive distortions"
Course of control was illegalized in England and 2015 then on to Ireland and Scotland. I wish it was illegal here in the United States.
What's even worse is when a parent uses course of control against their children from +1mo in to adulthood). Then those children grow up to be adult-children. Who are susceptible to cruise control techniques by others; such as: bosses and other authoritarian figures. Thus causing in those individuals who are being abused to become anxious, depressed and because of these two behaviors eventually lacking sleep leading to suicide.
I hope this information helps :-)
My ex was the king of new positions.. Well actually he expected me to change positions so maybe I was the queen
What if the man suddenly goes silent after two dates , one week contact, every day ( 📞 phone call every day ) yesterday suddenly not until now ( 20 hours silence now ) i do nothing, try to lean back …
How did it go?
@@kowsarragee7357 he stays silent ( came back one day ) disappeared again
First i tried pulling 🙈
Now i will date another man
Yes,You should definitely move on sis! Hope everything works out for you!🙏🏾
Did you have sex too soon?
do not chase him, move on and live your life
Doesn't foreplay build testosterone in a man and estrogen for the women?
Whats an alpha female??
Please tell me how to nurture a man's testosterone?
the other video has it. lolol basically keep it simple, tell them they are right etc
Where can we find the Japanese Study on ejaculation/testosterone?
Did you ever find it? I’m curious and would like to read it too.
It all seems sooo much hard work to have to think and play games. Not in to that. I am single and purchased own home and work and pay bills and sort own problems and garden and dig and fight my own battles yet I am feminine. I do not want to be a mother to a man😢
Isn’t a man supposed to put a woman in the mood for sex? I feel like he should by doing things and touching in the right way.
Her voice! 😐
Men do think about sleeping with other women. Regardless of how good the sex is. That’s nonsense
A lot of women do as well.
It's not how good the sex is. It's the hormones released when a man is with a woman he loves. Prolactin is the monogamous hormone for men.
You missed the part about a deep love relationship, that is the key.
My 2nd ex husband and I hook up and still have sex after being divorced 13 years. Its great. I feel safe with him and he knows what I like. Win win!! Lol
You guys have kids together? Have to co-parent?
@@Will.B121 no we don't have kids together
Thank you for the informative pod cast as i have learned a lot in the past few days from you. I am old age 75 never learned anything about sex when i was young. I was a virgin all my life until one day i got raped very badly & had to go into hospital with a nervos break down. All this trama turned me against all men from that day. But a handsome kind good man has asked me to marry him and i said yes. So wish me good luck forward with no problems. I am nervos a little lot scared but will try to learn more and relax & use what i have learned from your pod cast. But I am having thoughts of backing out and not getting married but just to be this mans friend only because i am not able to give any man the 100% of good sex that a man needs on a weekly basis; and our marrage would only end in a divorce i am certain because of my past trama abuse. But i do wish other people who want a sexual relationship good luck & happiness.
great, you're making sure to stay unavailable for a new boyfriend/husband, well done, you'll be single forever while serving your ex in silver platter and for free your sexual, mental and emotional energy, enjoy being single and alone.
This guy is the perfect example of what is wrong with this world
That's hilarious about clitoral stimulation, because the clitoris is basically the same tissue developed differently, as the penis. So, don't focus your attention on the penis. That's just ridiculous.
Ugh. Same crap different conversation.
By and large, accurate overview of how men and women communicate. But the danger in these sweeping generalisations is trying to make people fit when they don't. Songwriters like Tom Petty e.g. with a rich emotional intereiror sp life -- he was one of life's great transcendors sp and feel lucky to be able to listen to his music when times are tough, which they are right now but all things must pass TX George Harrison. You bought into the American myth and it is a myth. I don't like what is happening in the US I live in Canada my mother was a holocaust survivor her father not so lucky so I don't trust governments but FDR's new deal policy based on John Maynard Keynes economic model of not too many rich people and certainly not too many poor contrasted with Milton Friedman's Chicago School of Economics is Capatalism run amok -- I think relationships in general reflect that. I don't give a fuck about people's hormones but thanks for that insight. Plus you are probably uncomfortable with same sex couples who also have to navigate their deep feelings. Woke culture is idiotic but you like Jordan Peterson come across to me as smug with not enough fellow feeling for people different from yourselves.
Boy it’s tough to listen to him for advice after his marriage broke up… Sounded like a pretty messy marriage leading up to it up to the divorce
Brett, his wife died from cancer in 2018. His divorce was in the 80s before he ever even wrote his books.
Pastor John Gray, a totally different person had his marriage recently fall apart after his wife cheated. Perhaps you're thinking of that situation?
@@breeaddison5167 OH Bree, glad you spelled it out like that. Thanks.
You would do yourself a favor getting educated on his life . His wife passed of cancer and his divorce is WHY he’s knows this information. He LEARNED from it.
You really need to listen before Speak.
That was his first marriage when he was young and dumb, he then later married his soul mate and was married for 30 plus years until she passed away 2 years ago.
@@breeaddison5167 This also is not correct, get it right also.
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