15 Signs You Have A Strong Intimidating Personality
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- If you have these signs, then you have a strong personality that others may find intimidating! Some people assume that such a label is just a polite way of saying that a person is loud and obnoxious. But there’s a big difference between these and a more general strength of character. Someone with strong personality traits radiates self confidence.
An intimidating personality is a result of being thoughtful and well-informed. Someone like this may use their instinct to guide them - at the same time, they have a very rational approach to problem solving. They are passionately determined in the way they act on their beliefs, and they aren’t afraid to be their true selves. A person who has a strong character, does not rely on other people to tell them who they are, what they are, or what they can do!
If you have a strong intimidating personality, people usually don’t understand the kind of person they are dealing with. Some may even think that you are difficult to be around! That’s because they just can’t understand how you can be so comfortable with yourself. But you only come across as intimidating because you actually challenge others to be the best version of themselves.
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You’re not intimidating, they’re intimidated.
Isn't that the same?
@@nvmffs it is, he's just trying to confuse the retards
Red Breaker lmao XD
That's exactly it. When a friend told me I was intimidating when we first met I was floored. I always see myself as a pussycat.
@@nvmffs nope. One implies you are doing something to them. There other implies that this is your own issue.
People with strong personalities gain enemies very easily beacuse of envy.
Very true.
Thats so me
It's a double edged sword. Saying that ppl are "jealous" makes you look like an ass. NOBODY wants to admit that they covet you. Maybe being in this situation just be kind?
I've noticed sometimes trying to communicate things ppl simply DONT want to hear it.
That’s good thanks for sharing that
Aha. Exactly
People with Strong personality can’t stand liars,busybody,excuses,gossiping and complainers.Yet we need to have friendship with people but sometimes it’s hard to find the right people.
You got that right!
Mannn…….
Agree well sAid
You “said” a mouthful, honey! 🙌🏽
Liars I can't stand. It is rare I call someone that though. The rest of em I just tolerate, and if it goes on to long I just leave and get on with my own life.
My core philosophy in life is “quality is better than quantity”
my core philosophy is pay the least tax possible because the govt just waste it
@@bradford_shaun_murray They should at least show you where they spent it.
Another sign of having a strong personality: people think you're arguing with them when in fact you are just telling them the truth
This happens to me often. 😣
@@lorrainemounts2416 Examples?
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nailed it!
My situation to a tee!
People who came to this page know they have a strong personality.
Yep.. lol
I was looking or confirmation :)
Really, I was really curious. And the first one just made me laugh and I was laughing all the want through.
You have a point. I want to see the extent to which I intimidate ppl
🤣🤣
It is sad that people love seeing someone with a strong personality go through bad things and they get jealous when good things happen for them.
Oh yes they do. They dream and fantasize about your downfall and are giddy when you stumble or struggle. That is a tough thing to come to terms with but true nonetheless.
Another sign of a strong personality: You don't have to prove that you're right. Just state the facts and people can get upset or angry over the difference of opinion or disagreement if they wish. If they accuse you of being mean, then they are extremely insecure and nothing more than an overgrown child trapped in an adult body.
It’s like in youre in my head man 😂
I wondered why I have so much envy from other women - they first start to envy, then being mean… all I want is good, - reasonable, beauty, fairness. Now I understand. And more - why I have only few friends, all with strong personalities themselves, not easy characters but honest. We are not pleasers.
I'd rather walk alone in the right direction, than follow the crowd heading in the wrong direction.
Beast Dawg 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Right!
The sheep go the wrong way
Beast Dawg...i really like what you said and that is nothing but the truth..well said..well said.
Beast Dawg I’d go with the crowd in the wrong direction so that I can lead them all in the right direction
A strong personality is a sign of high intelligence. It scares people when they know your not buying their b.s.
L James I think you hit the nail on the head.
If you are high performance because you dont waste time on a lot of trivialities you are liable to suffer conspiracy, a lack of cooperation, sabotage, and spotlighting of any minute failing, sort of revenge at your being good, an attempt to cut you down to size to diminish their own lack of competence. There was a song in the 80's by Adam Ant that that speaks of both feet, describes the situation well.
Agreed...
ikr? i have an aunt who is a shrewd businesswoman and really loves her money. she posed as our friend and family in helping us in acquiring a new home (since her business is buy-and-sell of real estate) because being my mom's sister, my parents trusted in her. right after my mom died and just a day that we were going to move in our new home, she stopped us and claimed it was her property. being a law student that i was, of course i didn't buy that bullshit. because she can't contend with me and my legal arguments, she succumbed to emotions and started playing victim that i was foul mouthed and rude towards an elder and spread slanderous remarks about me in my mother's side of the family.
I don't think i'm "that" intelligent as portrayed here. but one thing's sure, i know the legal arguments against this as well as certain friends involved in bad activities. i think i am intelligent to a point where she just disappears and nobody's gonna ask why anymore, since days in court gives her a fair chance and she didn't give us a fair chance of dealing with my mother's death and decided to take our property, our home, away from us by being manipulative and obviously arguing outside of the law. but meh.. maybe i'm intelligent to let it go instead to not face trouble? one thing is for sure.. she'll have her day.
@David Christ i really intend to tie her up to a chair and make her talk though and throw her away without her credit cards in places far away from the city. i think it's enough that i know she is evil as fuck. thanks too for the suggestion of being more educated.
I pretend to care when they have talked to me. I pretend by going "Yeah" or "Okay". While laughing at them in my head. Their bullshit is always humorous. I never talk about me to those kind of people, so I don't give them sources they thrive on. I only show them, that I don't trust them. Haha
I have a strong personality and I've been told I like to argue. It's not that I like arguing per se, but I don't avoid it either. To me it's simply a way of analyzing an issue and sussing out the facts. But some people see this as conflict rather than looking at a problem from all angles.
I have been dealing with people telling me or showing their dislike of me because I am this strong, intimidating person. I can see and sense the irritation and jealousy and after some time, it does get to you. I am currently in grief over a loss and this video is really helpful and reassuring. There is nothing wrong with me, I am just an awesome and amazing person with a solid foundation and knowledge of who I am and what I want.
People with strong personalities are often misjudged and misunderstood. They're not antisocial or standoffish, they just don't invest in drama or fake people, nor do they tolerate bull_hit!!
Yeah n all my fam blocked me. Stand as a figther nothing to lose 💪
You're exactly right.
Yes! I don't have the energy for that.
Fr
well said
Quality of friends is better than quantity of friends!
Always!
That's true :)
What about your family? Does she accept you with your strong personality? :) I'm just curious ^.^
This was one of my best lessons and changes I did for myself , it takes a lot of discipline and thought to do it . Being comfortable with yourself by yourself takes time
@@niiwei1373 ofcrs, they're my family and they know me better than anyone, they knew i also have a soft/kind side depends on the situation. Some of my relatives have strong personality too so yeah.
Yea that’s even harder to find...smdh
This is an excellent pep talk for those of us with these character traits to keep being ourselves.
I was taught before you engage in something to arm yourself with as much information as you can, continue to learn because none of us will ever know it all , do the best job you could and to leave things in better condition than when you found them and to set a good example because we never know who might be drawing inspiration from us.
It’s amazing how threatened others feel when you don’t seek approval, can make decisions on your own, when you don’t accept authority blindly, can back up your choices with facts and examples and have joy and peace in your life.
💯
I LOVE THIS.
I have all of them! One thing I'd like to outline here, people think we are harsh because we say it how it is. We are not malicious in any way probably just get frustrated others don't know what they want or try to get it. They are all talk, we are all action👍🏼
One of the biggest disadvantage to having a strong personality is that you end up being the backbone for everyone else when they face difficulties. People always expect you to have the right advice at all times.
I mos def understand you on this
well, from my experience i can relate, that you can tell them to wait until you figure out a solution. I can also relate the fact that I have a highly advandced analitical thinking. and most of the times i give them good advices. but when not sure i warn them that i can't guarantee good resaults.
Soffy true
Not if you're strong enough to have boundaries in place . There are so many pitfalls to being inately "strong". There are those who think a faux nihilism or standard narcissm passes for a strong personality . It's tricky b c those who fall into that category are usually just lashing out due to their own lack of a backbone , esp with regard to family . They need attention and compassion , if it's accepted , and hopefully someone to love and guide them through life's confusion .
There's nada inherently "strong" about not asking for help or not being able to control your strong personality depending on the situation .
Right, then we also end up with weak men. I notice all my ex's have one thing in common. They all basically grew up without their mothers for a big part of their lives. Smh
Yeah, my dad warned me, “not everyone is going to like you, and don’t worry about them.”
You have smart dad.
Well said
The people that don't like you are envious,or jealous.These are toxic people,and should be eliminated from your social sphere.
Exactly. Your dad is right.❤️
Just like my dad tried to tell me when I was a teenager, "Some people don't want to be friends". Now, I know why.
Also, having a strong personality is happy just being themselves.
I think you left out part of your sentence.
This is me EXACTLY. Every one. I love being by myself doing the things I love and I have had 1 friend for the past 13 yrs.
Same
Woow u r lucky u have a friendship of 13years 😶🔥🔥
I also have a good friend, we are friends from 2019 till now and maybe forever
'' Be careful when you follow the masses. Sometimes the M is silent". - Dr. George C. Fraser
@Mauricio Labra He was the one I heard it from.
Fresh quote
So true
Nice one!😅
Haha I like this.
Ever notice how intimidated people get and how quickly they shun you when you refuse to participate in gossip?
They get highly offended
Yes smh
Gossip is just pure empty, idle and shitty talk. Nothing more, nothing less.
Yep, so me. Gossip is stupid and shows how insecure that person is who gossips the most.
Yup. Its crazy how some People (many) really dont have anything else to talk about. Ive always found it boring and also a little bit uncomfortable.
Hit at least 12 of the 15:)
Life is fun when you get older and wish someone had broken this down when I was a teen.
I'm 100% onboard for our youth and their struggles.
There are elders who are HERE to help/
Reach out!
Speak out to family/friends, get out in the real world, engage social services (online/in-person).
Having a strong personality is driven by honesty, being empathetic and realizing often there is a better way of doing things . The reason for the later is because one cares for people and sees less grief as the better way .
You can have a strong personality but be sure to be humble and considerate to others.
Sure!
I don't believe people with strong personality aren't humble. Arrogant people are not strong..without diving into all the psychology, i just don't believe that u can be a stubborn Arrogant man have a strong personality
Marshall J 👎
Yes. So true. My father tried to teach me that at an early age. RIP However, it didn't sink in until much later.
People with strong personalities are never seen as humble .They are humble but that humility is invisible to people around you
This video should be called “how to be an adult”
Lol I get what you mean but this video also shows how childish grown adults act 😂🤣
Exactly
How to mature.
True. Totally
yes and no. not every adult has a code that they stick by
Everything in this video is actually talking about me.
Even though I try as much as possible to be invisible and not to draw attention, I'm still surprised at the number of people who know me.
The major problem of having a strong personality is that some will feel intimidated by it and will tag you as an enemy without you knowing it.
I recognize all 15 of these personality traits in myself. I watched this video because I hear almost daily that I’m intimidating, and that’s not my agenda. The reasons on here weren’t what I was expecting to hear, but they all ring true. Respect is learned and earned and actions speak louder than words. I’m not easily fooled and I’m not going to pretend to be.
I feel you. I always get the phrase "you're quite intimidating and should work on yourself" when I get into discussions, but in reality I just got the better arguments.
Same here 😊
I'm a virgo and the description above is 100% consistent. I often had problems with men, they couldn't handle it.
how many strong people have you been around ?
Yes. Everyone gets my respect. The level of respect is determine by the person and I speak my mind. I have a saying, " If you are telling me something I can't safely repeat, then don't' I only want information that have meaning and can be shared to help another person.
Sooo basically ur intimidating when you cant be easily manipulated
right! You've said it in a nutshell! Only something that manipulators will find a problem with. As real down to earth individuals will see said sane and balanced persons behavior for what it is. It's interesting how problematic individuals stay putting spins on things that they want to go their way. They eventually reap all that they've sown tho. Whether or not you sit back and wait for it............You're better off living your life in the wholesome and adjusted way that you are, as there's nothing exciting or interesting about being front and center to watch others reap from whatever fuckery they've sown.
DachiiXO Hmmm! No.
DachiiXO yes beleive me yes. This is me and i work with the grand pumba of narcissist and she hates my guts
Jaded Cynic ha ha ha ha ha well thank you for telling me. I knew it was wrong lol 😂
True!
I don’t like small talks, in fact I hate it. I also don’t like being around people all the damn time. I am completely content being alone. I don’t follow the crowd and I am a bit weird. It’s ok to be a lone wolf. And it’s ok if some people don’t like you, they don’t even like themselves! 😂
Same thinking lol....😂
Aquarius Goals👍
I can relate to you
Qurban Ali yesss
I don't like to be around people who are stupid
In a world where you can be anything at all, be yourself!!!!!
I have been told that I am intimidating, but my close friends know that I am really easy going and would help them any way I could. I never gave much thought to the actual reasons, but this list resonates with how I generally think. Thanks for the explanation.
The most difficult aspect of being "perceived" as STRONG is that no one has the presence of mind to consider or ask........"are you alright?"
@Francis Earl: Bro, I want to thank you immensely for all of that. It's not as if, you need my approval; I value, appreciate, and agree with the majority of what you said. With the exception of: You being #Annoyed someone is #thoughtful and #considerate. That part is yo business and I will leave that entirely alone. You are who you are.
Thank u for this comment
@@socorrodetejas2709: you are surely welcome.
I salute you. thank you for that wonderful fact
@@preciousmicahp.basadre332: Wow! I am truly humbled.
People with strong personalities have few friends because they are more often misinterpreted.🙂
Exactly!
you can have a strong personality, but you must also be respectful to others. My late Gram, had a strong personality, but she did not understand the word no when it was said to her. She had no friends, she always used guilt on her family when she wanted to be with them.
Facts.
How can it not be used against them
The point is,they don’t care
I have been told I am intimidating and that I have a strong personality even though I’m quite.🥺 But this video was such a confidence boost.😩❤️
I identify with this message, strongly. yes, and strong personality does not mean loud necessarily. Also, I reckon it's the reason I have lived alone for so long.
It’s better to be intimidating than to be passive and walked all over.
I have a strong personality yet people ignore me or dont pay attention :v
Sometimes
Do You Realize that Being Around Someone That is Afraid of You is Like Walking on Eggshells And Can Get Really Awkward
Hear, hear!
Except if you're having a BDSM session with a veteran Dominatrix.
Oh fuck... I forgot my safeword again.
I feel weird when surrounded by fake people
METTI1986LA same....it’s just exhausting!!
Same. I hate it
I am in awe of fake people! I simply can't believe no one has told them how fake they are. I guess it's up to me to do so!
Fake people make me wonder about the sentence.
Same
I have Every single trait. I'm just not for everybody, and I'm ok with that.
This is my new mantra ❤
I've been told many times that I can be intimidating when it comes to my personality. It's been said to me that I'm definitely "in charge of my own thoughts! " However, people don't necessarily like being intimidated, or rather "challenged," as you so aptly put it in this video. I believe life is a learning curve that should move along a gradient that's upward & forward in it's movement. Your content is absolutely brilliant! I'm getting so much valuable Intel from it, as well! Thanks for that!
I'm more than happy to be alone than to be in a large group and feel that I don't belong.
@KA NE Me too!
I resonate with your statement
Meee but I have to get alone with them sometimes
I seconded
Me too
I’ve never tried to intimidate people, but I intimidate everyone. Every boss I’ve ever had was intimidated by me, when all I wanted was to do a good job and help others.
Same. I take that as a sign that it may be time for me to be the boss.
Because they are narcissistic. I worked for a company for 10 years where my boss was constantly threatened. Put more work on me to get me to submit. He would say, " If you make me look good, I'll make you look good If you don't make me look good, I will guarantee that you won't look good. " Typical of a boss that is intimidated by your attributes.
My boss literally envies me. He even hates the fact that I can throw a ball of Paper into the 🗑 from across the room. I have a bad habit of doing it all the time 🙃 And I’ve caught him looking to see if I will score .... I hardly ever miss. He always has a disappointed and slightly annoyed look on his face when it actually goes in and smiles on the rare occasion that I miss. He lies to me constantly about simple things (eg. if he forgets or is wrong about something ) as though I can fire him. WTF?
All my bosses saw me like that in a way :/
@@neeksweeks 😂😂
Although strong personalities don’t live for validation, it is really nice to get. THANK YOU 🙏🏻 😉
I like your name lol
Great video! On point with one addition: emotion is key to excellent decision making. Emotional awareness, empathy, and emotional intelligence are just as important-and perhaps even more important-than logic and mental reasoning.
Narcissist hate these type of personalities, because they wish they could be them. You are definitely discarded by a Narcissist or they will try to devalue you, if you fit this personality.
That has happened to me. I figured out she is a narcissist, though.
Narc population is increasing exponentially these days..
@@dhrubajyoti14 yes indeed
I was married to one and didn’t know because of his subtle manipulation and constant need for attention. Yep, we’re divorced!
Only a narcissist would call themselves "a strong, intimidating personality".
People with strong personalities have more peace and are content with themselves and their lives. 🙋
...Completely untrue.
Yep 💯
It’s how others react to this
Even when it gets hard bih that’s the best part of it. I feel blessed to truly keep my head in the game while feeling impending doom 😂😂
That’s me
True I am at peace but I'm never content with myself not because of others validation but for my own self goals for myself for instance me working out even tho I'm already built and pretty fit I'm still not satisfied and want to be better that applies to everything else in my life as well.
I have all 15 signs of a strong intimidating personality. I started my job in a bottom position at a company. I got job promotions 3 times/3 years because of my speed of working fast as 3 people combined. It took 1/4 time to train me compare to the time to train other employees. I am still growing within the company where I am working for. I never stop.
Sounds like me, we work ourselves into a situation where we are nearly indispensable.
People literally fumble their words just by being in my presence. It’s mind boggling.
You're pretty with an infectious smile so that makes sense. You must also be above 6 ft with a very athletic build. That is a lethal combination that intimidates most people. Just be patient with them 😌.
A person with a strong personality has many Haters.. Hard fact of life 😏
Indeed😇🙏
Only if you a lot of "friends".
Yeap! live that every day
or maybe they are nice and make funny jokes that other people don't like
Amen lol 🤣
It's sad that in today's society characteristics that show leadership and confidence is now thought of as intimidating. More people need these traits.
Peter von Feldt I am truly blessed that i am used to those people who know how to run well with leadership.
Not everyone is SUPPOSED to be a leader. Everyone holds a role
This is the snowflake generation. What do you expect? Money for nothing and your checks for free??? Why not? We deserve it, no? Just be incredibly entitled and agree/brunch with the boss.
Actually traits and behaviors really aren't needs. When someone stands in a light (as in really is a certain way vs they're just ***behaving and pretending to come across in a certain light) these aren't traits that they picked up from where ever. More than likely this is who they are (whether or not they're in a position or you're experiencing whatever part of their character.
The word needs more Alfa males " & empathy "
This makes sense as to why I don't have friends, maybe 3 or 4 at most. 🤔😄 No matter, I am way more content with having a tiny circle of friends. 🤗
I've literally been told I'm intimidating and now I know why. This makes sense
*"You simply can't stand people who are ignorant in a world so full of information."*
In a world of information for the asking, ignorance is a choice.
So got damn accurate
There is much misinformation pretending to be information as real information in the world
Information also creates confusion. Not everyone has high literacy
That’s me 100%!! That’s part of the reason why I’m a teacher
This are just signs of maturity. Those who are immature are the ones who will be insecure and intimidated
This is how we're supposed to live
This has got to be the best comment I've seen in ages😂😂😂😭😭😭 I love you sir
Immaturity doesnt discriminate w/ age
Sadly, I’ve met a ton of old people who lack critical thinking skills and several of these signs are really just critical thinking, having the ability to withhold judgement while you adequately evaluate facts... or properly recognizing the difference between one’s mind’s hypotheses and patches of conflicting evidence (cos lets face it, there’s often big gaps in what we can know for fact)
Exactly. This video should be titled "How to become matured". I have 11 of 15 of these signs and I can see my insecurities slowly go away.
A few months ago i would have had 0 of these signs.
@@Sigma3095 Amen to that, I used to have less signs because of my damaged childhood, but I had such a strong willpower, and never had the actual desire to truly fit in if that would mean compromising who I was.. But being like that, it being my true nature; resulted in, the rebel I was, going against the mainstream, looking for my identity, growth and healing being my goal and now there are only details, but mainly each point applies to me.. Mostly completely, sometimes like I mentioned there are the details.. I just came across this video today, and may I say I didn't realize to the full extend why I was so intimidating to the wrong people.. They literally envied me or/and wanted me out of their way.. They tried and sometimes succeeded in bringing me down, never fully understood why. My favorite is expression was; what is it?! Are they jealous about MY LIFE?! Really?! Few years ago I understood they were jealous of how I dealt with my life or how I had traits they desired.. I had intuition there must be something going on.. And being so considerate of others, I never truly understood why I was intimidating.. Until one day I understood it was probably because I had some things or traits they desired, like; not caring what others think, or because I loved being alone, to fill up my energy battery.. Because I had strong intuition or was able to solve problems or was creative at solutions to ease life or simply enjoy life, my positivity or intelligence, or even my energy.. I did challenge them to do better, and I sensed a wide range of respons to that.. In different people, often even in the same person.. But now thanks to this video I understand it even better, this was the missing link to boost my confidence.. I am proud to be the lone wolf who is a critical thinker, who, now even stronger, doesn't care what others think, unless they think I did something hurtful to them, that I want to solve and heal them and work on myself to avoid it in the future, that's still the exeption.. But other than that hooray to the ones who want to become better, not better than someone else, but better than they were yesterday.. To the right people we will be an inspiration to develop/grow (like they used to be for me when growing up, I loved them, never envied them), or more so, awaken these traits as well, to the wrong people we will always be a curse in their eyes.. Makes it easier to spot where we belong and what/who to avoid.. Goals are looking even more within reach now, then they ever did before..
I never realized I was intimidating ... I got the 15 signs, all of them !!! I think it happens once you know yourself. Thanks for that realization !
A very timely video for me to see today! I have often be called intimidating. However, as I see it, you can't intimidate people; they are intimidated by you. I demonstrate all of these qualities although I could work on letting go of the past more, because sometimes I am frustrated by being judged and abused by people in the past. A great quote I once read really helped: "To overcome others requires force; to overcome yourself, requires strength". And this strength of character is threatening to others. It is hard to be authentic and live up to high standards and do your best. A lot of people either can't be bothered, are lazy or don't know how. I don't believe that it's about being the better than others, but about being the best you can be. People are threatened by those who are balanced, centred and at peace with themselves because it sets off their own inner struggles. But if we all just work on these inner struggles we can all become the best version of ourselves.
It's very important to remember if you are a strong minded, "intimidating" person there will be many MANY people who will try to bring you down. They will try to make you feel like you are wrong for not being the weak minded cookie-cutter photocopy they are when in reality they are boiling with envy. DO NOT FALL FOR IT.
HandOverTheJewGoldKyle indeed
I’ve had quite a few people myself try and bring me down. Or telling me to not go all out and stay in a lower level. It’s a shitty feeling.
@@forrestkimball6477 People often hate what they can't be. You may also notice they try to say you have it easy or are spoiled if you are in a good spot in life. They don't realize you are there because you have worked hard and avoided problems that they were too short sighted to think about.
Envy is an emotion of the selfish and stupid.
I know this for sure. Ever since I became very physically attractive I see people look at me like they either jealous or they want to get to know me.
As long as you have integrity you should not be bothered by others
“BETTER TO STAY “ALONE...AND “TRUE THAN SURROUNDED BY FAKE 🙄PEOPLE....THAT HITS HOME 💯FOR ME👏🏼✨✨
pink diamondz ditto
Same
Introverts can relate 💗
I know.
I feel like I'm better off alone I hate fake people
@@paige172 hahaha
I've been told that for years and now that I'm older and wiser, I'm even stronger!❤
All my life wondered why some have found me intimidating. Fortunately three of my daughters in law are intelligent, confident women who don't have a problem, the fourth finds me unacceptable which is a great pity. I have enjoyed my life and my beloved children and am grateful to have reached the age of 90 - always knew that 9 is my lucky number!
My mum has a strong personality and is intimidating and I know she has enemies bc of this. But I'm just proud of her. She went against all odds and criticisms from her surroundings for a better life and is a wonderful woman.😆😁😊
Edit: wow~ I never thought my comment would get so much likes and comments. Thank you😁😁😊
You're lucky!!
Must be a wonder woman 🙂
Awww so was my Mom. RIP She was a Pisces too. She could really read people well. 💓🙏🏽
Cassandra Thao the president ( Donald Trump) has strong personality too
oh this's so cute..
I ran houses for the elderly. A nurse who came to the house said I was intimidating because I ran a tight ship and did everything right. I tried to. That was my goal. I was raised on "do it right or don't do it at all".
Trying to show off!!! You Gloat! You failed!You lose ! No Strong Personality for you!!!
I was raised the same way and raising my kids the same as well! People misinterpret high standards, which should be the only standard, not doing things half-a$$.
You have it GIRL JAN WILLIAM INGROFF JAN YOU HAVE IT BE THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO BE. GOOD LUCK. B.I. VALLEJO CALIF.
@@supportiranianfreedom4982 you're rude. They were just sharing their experience
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Kudos to you
This is me indeed. I rather acknowledge the truth regardless if you like it or not. You have to address the issue as the issue arises.
Glad I came across this video. This is so me, and I've had to also learn to relate with people who feel insecure and envious of my personality.
And yes, it is always almost a lonely road because you tend to have a very small circle of friends, which I love.
I agree... the story of my life! I'm used to it and love my (quiet) me time!
14/15
I don't learn from just my mistakes. I learn from everyone's mistakes.
I learn infinitely more from correct applications - from victories; and everyone should learn in that manner. Mistakes only tell you what not to do - not necessarily what to do.
@@yankee2666 Both perspectives have their merits, indeed. Learning from mistakes is just to narrow the choices.
This is the secret shortcut to a better life!
...and from fables too😉😇👍
I don't think I'm particularly intimidating, but I know people are at times hesitant to approach me because I am actually quite introverted and like to enjoy my space. Great video as always
We are thesame. You have said it all.
Atleast we make a team😀😀😀
Same here and i like it that way.
Happy Facts,....yah, same here...
"Happy Facts Lifestyle.👍🏿😗🙂😎👍🏿."
Years ago, family members asked me to join Facebook. I explained that time is vital and I do not care to share that time which can be put to better use.
They were perplexed and gave up asking. My time belongs to me and not to the world. Life is too short...
Well, it's a first. I didn't think of myself as having a strong personality or project myself as intimidating. I identify myself with all the descriptions, thanks to this channel I'm learning a lot about myself and why I feel so different from the rest of the people.
A Strong Personality In my case is one who is independent in thought, finds solutions to problems, not afraid to leave their comfort zone, and strategically decisive. All this and still having a humble heart.
Very good description of myself ☝️ agree😊😊
well i don't know about humble... just kidding
@@racheltii5365 lol I'm having a blast in these comments sections😂
@@arisa373 frrr
Sounds like me
You'll know they're insecure when they get intimidated
ki ki Arrogance intimidates, good character doesn’t.
Prisoner FN-24601 Personally I wouldn’t go as far as to say a good character is threatening or intimidating more perhaps provoke, irritate even confuse those with less virtuous characteristics. I still believe a strong intimidating personality without good character borders on arrogance, lack of self awareness, some get off on it as some of the remarks indicate.
This is so me, that it's scary. I'm also an INFJ. I wonder who else is an INFJ who also has these personality traits.
Absolutely true! Thank you! I prefer being alone rather than with people that seem to have fun...groupgatherings that look fun on the outside by afar...but when coming closer the truth is the fun is just an ilusion.. I prefer inviting people I feel stimulated with by doing things that are healthy fun where I am present and consciously aware..I let go of people that do not treat me fare. I love discussions but never impose my views. I do not like gossiping about myself nor others. I upplift without any intent to make friends. I am friendly with all but to hecome my friends must be earned by authenticity. I do not promise anything to anyone ever..
"I'm oftentimes alone because I'm not toxic"
I agree everyone gossips and I don't want any part of that
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yeah
Makusuweru San same here , often im n my own because I’m not toxic or a needy follower lol
@@LizADiaz-bs2vn I've always said, "Where there's a group, one person is thinking too much and everyone else is not thinking enough"
I am a strong person and have most of these traits. People are not intimidated by me because I am a warm and kind person. I don't think of myself as better than anyone. However, I have seen people become jealous of me because of my positive self esteem and several have tried to break me. They become frustrated when their attempts fail. I personally don't understand why people want to tear others down to feel better. I believe in investing in oneself to become the best person you can be and find joy in helping others to do the same. God bless! ❤️
Well said .
@@seeleygirl6178 Thank you! ❤️ 🤗 🙏🏻
Because some knows you're very capable, they are worried they might miss out opportunities. That's those people's inner issues though. Sadly, not everyone has a well rounded cognitive development.
So well said, relate to why do other's, tear people down, the idea of just being happy for other's is a foreign concept, you want to be the best you.
Perfectly said, and God bless you! 🙏❤️
A lot of people seem quiet and/or not to like me initially. With time, they come around and all is good. Very strange and I’ve learned to deal with it. At the end of the day I’m the nicest person.
No self-pity, achieve a goal and choosing friends. Being confident. This is me.
I need to stop listening to these videos because I’m beginning to think I’m awesome!!!!!
And you are awesome!
Srecko Bogavac 😂😂😂😂👍
I'm not dead 😂😂😂😂👍
SuperDeut4 😂😂😂
You are awesome.
The fun part is that the person with a strong personality don't care about looking so stong in the eyes of other people
That's me
Yes! It just comes naturally like breathing.
So true, i relate to this
When you piss everyone off because you do what you say and you say what you do. Love it!
Yes I see myself as a strong personality..I intimidate people even if I don't intent to do so..One thing you missed to mention is that we are more often MISUNDERSTOOD by most of the people around us..
Yes 💯
Loyalty, respect, honesty and have strong morals. Have only a few in your circle and happy that way. No nonsense, hate small talk, love life and what it has to offer. Know what you want and are not afraid to say it. Could care less what anyone feels or says about you. You never feel sorry for yourself. Fearless, strong, lovable animal! I love us!!!!
Although I like being alone.. I do like having people who love me around .
Right, it just seems so many ppl lack self esteem & are very intimidated or insecure & then they start projecting negative energy all day everyday 😩
Love it!
I like having someone who loves me. Anyway I lived by myself for a long time so I learned how to be alone.
Yup
It's a matter of quality vs quantity. I'd much rather prefer to have a few good people than a dozen bad ones
I’ve always been told I was intimidating at work, school, even at home. I never knew why or how to tone it down. I decided not to change myself for the insecurity of others. If you’re like this don’t apologize for it. We make great leaders.
Nicolette Smith, So, you’re a fox and you went to school, 🤔. You old sly fox you.
Mfs say I’m aggressive at work and I literally could be asking how they day was😭😪
I can't say always, but is has been said,, lol. But the rest totally.
This is the reason I came here. Now I am okay with what I am.
I can never change who I am cause my power won't let me and we draw like minded individuals to us. Iron Sharpens Iron
Great information here!, I am learning the 'fine line' between having a righteous strong personality versus being a confident inner knowing, and caring. No explaining, drama, rescue others, nor attention seeking...just having a strong sense of self and moral compass to follow right from wrong. It's call being a grown up and taking responsibilities for all that comes in or stay out of my life.
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This is deffinitely the affirmation that I need to grow stronger. Thank you.
same, good luck
I actually feel sorry for those who thrive off the attention of others. Must be dizzying.
lolololololololololololololololololololololololololol..........as they constantly have to beg and wine for it. Reminds of all the groupies in high school that wanted to be down and would do and say the most in order to be seen and heard. eh
Those are called, Extroverts. They are blood sucking leeches.
@@Tinyfurball hmmwell i prefer talking to ppl but maybe i look rude idk 😆 or maybe my face see s like i am just done with fake ppl BS
And painful!
@@therewasoldcringe idk i just dont care about the extroverts and only care about myself and my small group of people i can trust except if i see someone nice.Doesnt have to be the same as me, extroverts can be human and have a kind soul, they aint always leeches but im definitely cautious around them.
This is why my best friend is
" ME "
Sane here
Yes☑️☑️
Thanks
Facts 👏🏾👌🏾😅
Your best friend is Jesus Christ remember that my friend!
I am truly blessed by this video and could identify with most of the traits. It's like I am looking at myself in the mirror while watching and listening. Thank you so much.
I fit the majority of the traits. I'm 68 and looking back these traits have become more and more ingrained over time. Without these traits I would never risen to the level of success I had achieved in my field. I've never been more certain about who I am and what I stand for and I'm very grateful for it.
Because of my confidence and decisiveness, many people feel they can say hurtful things to me and don't consider that I'm also sensitive and empathetic.
magenta44 Exactly. Have you ever experienced those times when "the rules only apply to them" but not you? For example, you are labeled a very opinionated person with low tolerance for rudeness yet you're frown upon (within certain circles) but if they do the same thing they're excused as having the right of being free to express themselves and learn from their mistakes? (Yet, you're expected to know better and be better?) They can disrespect you but if you feel hurt you're just being too sensitive? And if you say half the things they said you are the one who crossed the line? I've been told that it's not what I say, it's how I say it. (I'm well spoken and educated; wanted to be a writer. I say what I mean and mean what I say) But, I've been told I sound to proper, and that I shouldn't show how much I can do because it seems intimidating even if I do smile?
Yet, Why can't people show grace and empathy instead of demanding it? I find it interesting when Self-Acceptance is such a huge thing now but tolerance and mutual respect tends to be bargained away. It's sad really.
They use mean words to feel better about themselves. You don't need to eat that all up.
Uh, I think those that say hurtful things (without having a valid reason to do so) really are just saying things with the intent to hurt you. I mean the reality of experiencing these types really is obvious. As they're either consciously keeping the company of those that want to and will continue to continuously hurt them or they're broken and do not know how to exist without hurting others that are not like them or have not allowed what they have allowed to happen to them.
magenta44 Thx for the teaching .
@@beachblues2155 They sound like jealous people trying to dim your shine. Pay them no heed - they're toxic.
My motto: Its only a mistake if you did not learn anything.
My mind is like how big of a mistake can it be if no one from the future is coming back to stop you...
Ima use this 🖒
"Not learning from your mistakes, is the mistake"
NPC Blacksmith yes
Life lessons
It's needless to write any other comments here; most of the remarks & notes below are illustrating the main concept of this video. Thank you, BRAINY DOSE. Well done!
I don't know if this would be considered another trait or not ; but I feel that an individual that understands that we're all humans is part of this list. I mean a lot people say it but do they truly understand it. I guess what I'm truly trying to say is : a strong personality believes in keeping us together as whole , rather than to see us divided.
Of course i get u. If i understand u, the ability to put your self in one's shoes.
No lie. It is lonely. But I've learned to enjoy it.
I've learned to become my very own best friend.
amen
Now it's not a a choice for me but a way of life....smh
When you start loving yourself more, people will start wanting you more
@@noaccount7595 lol what is this? this is just....weird
I have 13/15 of the traits you mentioned. Which is why I find myself standing alone more often than usual and that's fine with me. I'd rather be alone than be around bunches of fakes and phonies who mean me no good.
Jasmin Marie I love your kind !! Wish we can be friends ;)
Amen to that. I would not live in Holywood for all the tea in China mate. Thats why I like country Australia, because folk there are rea. What you see is what you get, and if you dont like it... Piss off they say hahahha.
@@strikemaster1 I stand with you, I'm a proud lone wolf, the only thing that I seek in life is success, not boyfriends and all that jazz.
@@TheWarHorse100 If you do indeed stick to that very wise motto... you will have the success you seek. Whatever success you have though.... always include your Creator God in that success, or else you can loose it as quickly as you gained it. Peace.
Jasmin Marie true as a. Warrior fights for what they stand for
Both of my Parents had a strong personality and they passed it on to me. I 've been told I have a magnetic aura, I can walk into a empty store and in no time people are all around me. That is my gift. I enjoyed your video.
*"You know that the odds are just odds, and they can NEVER become bigger than you, and "you are READY TO MARCH IN and face WHATEVER is TRYING TO HOLD YOU BACK!!"*
Being Genuine and treating others kind are traits that stand out and that will never go out of style.......Never.
I was never told I have a strong personality , I was always led to believe the opposite by others opinions and circumstances I encountered. But listening to this video made me realize I do. Because everything said I identified it in the way I do things.
@@trecehannah8955 You could still have a strong personality.You know.
I believe I do
@@trecehannah8955 HEY. . BE BLESSEED
true!
Moral integrity intimidates dishonourable people. This trait gives me so much inner peace, so I appreciate my high ethical standards. Whether someone does or doesn't appreciate this - reveals a lot about that person. Perfect barometer!
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Wow. So well said 😍
Fiona Wellington, truth.
I believe that if one lacks moral integrity then they also lack the ability to be compassionate, considerate & selfless. My elderly mother fell victim to a morally foul individual who took everything that my mother worked her entire life for. EVERYTHING! The last thing that's this foul person took from my mother, which was the only thing that Ma had left, was her life😥I think that this foul person truly believes that quantity gets you everything. Re.,respect, admiration, social status, etc.....It's too bad that she 'just doesn't get it'. Quantity IS NOT quality! Moral integrity is a MUST HAVE & it looks so well on people! Those who have absolutely no conception of this quality are the ones that hurt children, abuse the elderly, have relations outside of a commitment & on & on & on.....I wish that I could change these type of peoples but I can't. I can't have my Ma back either😳
I totally agree 😊
I was told this today and was totally confused. This made me feel way better. Thanks.
This is so on point! I always wondered what is was about me that people were either drawn to or intimidated by or were jealous or envious of me. I learned allot about myself from this video i really did!
You too!! Same here its a good thing it just means we can't be touched because we are the truly gifted special kind of people.