I think it was correct BUT even confident ppl have their off-days, it's impossible to be all that all the time cuz life happens! AND cultural differences! One point ypu said "confident ppl don't ask for permission, they go after it" (something like that) Yes and No, depending on where I am. In Denmark i dont need to ask for simple thing as going to bath room or stand up while ppl are rating and say excuse me! BUT if I was in Japan it would be rude & disrespectful to not to ask or say excuse me, they see it as lack of knowledge, class and manor! So some of your point can't be aknowleged in other culture, this Is western society and again some western countries just do things differently! I agree with all what you're saying, but 1. Even confident ppl have bad days 2. Cultural differences! But it's a great list and I agree on most. But we gotta also aknowleged ppl are different and for some means pisting a selfie confident to them (maybe they weren't confident before) or it's their way to show I'm okay! My reason to do it is my past as an addict, when I don't post my selfie with my dog for a week ill receive dusin of Calls "are you okay"? And that's because I never posted Me in the past life as an addict, and I'm an artist and express myself through pics! But I know what ypu mean, but ppl who post their diner, car or vaca often shows lack of selfconfident! See what I got/went to! But Im not going to show myself cuz I don't like my appaerence! Im not sure if you get what i mean, but there are there gray areas these lists forget, and some ppl might feel bad cuz they're at the beginning of their Journey to become selfconfident / building self worth! Needed to point it out to those, as I fear some feel a set back cuz they do certain things! Overall awesome list, love your channel! Xoxo monstermom 😁✌️
Tonia Mendonca Hi Tonia. Are we as human beings in a society completely independent like islands? Isn't it about getting a clear grip about a problem and acting decisively? I believe in a SWOT analysis, strategy and action. Confidence is a by -product. It will be there as a guest because you've got the formula right.
I have never done the Facebook thing. Or any social media thing! I like my privacy & I’m not interested in other’s sharing their lifestyle on FB. I actually don’t believe most FB post that I’ve been shown, mostly it’s people showing off, I hate showy flashy people. I’ve never done a selfie as I find it’s too vain & this is just my personal opinion. I also prefer my own company, certain people just talk talk talk, I like to listen & if I want to chat know that other’s want to listen & care. And I will not do or go anywhere I don’t want to go. My true loved one’s are my life, I can be myself with them. I take myself out of situation’s where I don’t want to be, it feels good, I’m in control. I’m confident, happy with my looks, independent & content with my lot, but it’s other’s that can cause stress, so my suggestion, just a suggestion to a happy life, do what makes you happy 😊 Don’t believe these TH-camrs who only show you their materialistic lifestyle, vanity obsessive nature’s, it’s all about me videos. It can cause you to feel less confident or happy with your life. And then they get paid. Be your happy, be confident in you, feel your best & never compare! 🤗 x
@Fleur I enjoyed reading and agree with many of the points you had made. As a seeker or "real life" I sometimes explore TH-cam commentators to see if there others who might share the same "real life" assessments of "how things really are" or if they share the a "math of life" that adds up to . . . . my belief that whatever we say, do, or intend: that the person or situation we are involve with (including ourselves) walks away a better person. I consider that the greater good of all things must prevail. Be happy and confident in many ways includes the positive balance of our conduct, actions, intentions, and neighborly love. Greed, self centeredness, being condescending, combative, opinionated, and immoral are traits that don't offend work and in many cases distracts from the inner beauty of one's personal strengths and process during efforts towards success. My personal confidence has come not so much from what I have accumulated materially, what I had done compared to what someone else hasn't, or where I have been (compared to someone else). My confidence (thus sense of happiness) has come for learning to Love, being thankful, recognizing the beauty and powers of others who have done positive things to help others without fanfare or recognition, learning to forgive, and identifying with "real people" such as yourself. Just knowing that I can give myself a chance, "that chance" that others, on many occasions, either don't give, don't know how to give, or want to give. I am very particular and selective with whom I associate and interact with. on many occasions I act and travel alone and somehow come across a decent person who will celebrate "the moment." There are just many "knockers, toppers, and doubters" who can't bare to express appreciation, joy, thankfulness, or just keep things positive. I am (feel a sense of happiness) for anyone who runs into someone like yourself. (maybe even someone like myself) . . . . maybe one day we will run into each other in happenstance and enjoy a happy moment during each other's journey. Wishing every one who gets a chance to read elongated note peace, love, joy, truth, and much blessings. May your confidence in knowing who, what, why, and when you are grow with wisdom and positive ripple effects in your journey.
I am mostly inspired by this video. Willingness to see your inner world and your fault and willingness to change them will put you on the path of becoming of confidence person.
I see myself in most of these behaviors, tbh i never thought i was so confident but because of you i know i am, thank you for helpin me understand myself better 😊
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie
@@michaelsmusic3532 Age doesn't matter, it all depends on how much you love each other! Don't stress it's good! I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. We are crazy in love
@@scarasfatballs127 Thank you for the reply ! I'm wondering HOW do I tell her that I'm 24 years older ? Most people guess that I'm 10 years younger than I am, but I don't want to possibly screw up what could be a very beautiful future together. I'm brushing up on my courting skills and I want to be prepared for when the subject comes up which eventually it will. She's very sweet and quiet, shy even. I don't want to traumatize this poor innocent woman, I seriously love her and have my mind and heart set on us being together the rest of our lives. Any ideas on HOW I tell her when the subject comes up ? Thank you so much for the reply ! ~ Michael & future Mrs. Emalie
@@scarasfatballs127 Good advice, I don't really care what anyone thinks anyway. I'm just trying to put work into what is going to be a beautiful future together with the most womderful woman I've ever met in my life !
Anita Carter I agree. A confident person isn’t afraid to say ‘I’m sorry’ when they’re wrong and learn from their mistakes. They also don’t neglect working on their weaknesses, as this enables them to become the best version of themselves.
@@msprecious3498 I never said it was a strength, it is a weakness where you are unable to see your weakness. You are right, arrogant people are ignorant to see their ignorance.
@@rvind000 There's always room to improve in one field or the other. Like... do you know about finance, sports, psychology, history, religion, technology, etc. If u are confident u can accept that u don't know all about the world - u rather listen to experts/more experienced people in certain fields to learn from them. Like... I'd love to take advice from Donald Trump concerning finances and money, i'd also love to take advice from Elon Musk concerning tech, or from the Dalai Lama concerning religion, or from Mike Tyson concerning boxing. Because I know there's a ton of great people out there that know a ton more than I do in any field. One should simply be humble and listen when it's obvious he knows shit about something, never be arrogant or think u'll easily surpass people in a field or even come close to them. People with low self-esteem on the other hand cannot accept mentors, they'd rather talk shit about them, belittle them behind their back and so on
just a few days before my 89th birthday, i realize that i have learned most of these thoughts and behaviors as i have aged. when i was much younger, i had none of these qualities. my childhood did not encourage confidence, nor did a disastrous first marriage. i only began to gain confidence when i was 50. it's never, never too late.
I am 83 now, and wisdom grows by the day. I did not have clue about how to navigate my thoughts and beliefs when I was young. If you pay attention carefully you might end up someone you really like❤️
Jane Leah Confidence comes from clarity about a situation. Clarity leads to decisive action. Decisive action with clarity leads to results. Results means a degree of success. One success makes us confident to handle another.
Confident people can pass along knowledge, as knowledge can be passed from one person to another, Regrettably, a confident person cannot pass along wisdom. If he or she does try to pass along wisdom, he or she will be deemed as crazy by the other person. Here is wisdom, where is the center of the universe? The center of the universe is anywhere you are. See, I told you, you cant pass along wisdom.
The most confident thing you can ever do is not give a damn what others think of you. When you do that, you come off as strong and this attracts others to you. Never be needy. Believe in yourself.
I care what the people I care about think. I even care about my chihuahuas feelings and what she thinks and how she feels…. I don’t Consider myself wildly insecure
@Gavigg75 not all confident people, I'm confident and I make sure listen to everyone's feelings and their conversations. so before you go saying "Confident people step on you and don't realize " . some confident people actually do CARE about people .
True confidence is quiet and humble - it's not loud, aggressive and boastful. Confident people follow their moral principles and do what they believe to be right, even though it may not make them 'popular' in the short run. Forgiveness and a willingness to try to be kind and on good terms with all people is also a sign of confidence and integrity.
I always find the biggest signs someone is insecure is when they're loud, obnoxious and full of their own self-importance. They're always bragging about their 'accomplishments' and 'talents' and things they have done in their lives but you never see any proof of it ... they're just full of 'stories'. Where as the most successful and gifted people I know are the most humble, kind and down to earth people. Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud.
Happiness comes within, NOT from relationships with other people. Very good point. It's like they say, you most Love yourself, before you can Love someone else!
Definitely, work part of a team instead of competing against another. Help people to achieve best of their abilities. Never feel threatened of some one else's achievements..
The Life Formula confident people just do their own thing and don’t worry about what others are doing. Hence, don’t go out of their way to coddle those that feel insecure.
Khan Mehamood. I agree. In order for a person to be truly confident, the person has to know who s/he is and set firm boundaries regarding what is not authentic to him/ her. Most things from other people will be inauthentic to the individual and will be dismissed by the confident person- and that will tick other people off. Hence, most people confident enough to succeed in life actually tick more people off than 'make them feel good.' Ask any actor who's won a major award how many of their friends actually congratulate them for the confidence to go and get it.
I am 77 years young and at my age of 17 I decided what a wanted to be, and was was confident that I was able to achieve my goals..yes it took hard work and education but I had dream, my dream be my vision and the vision became reality..... the result.... I always loved my work and enjoyed the challenges and resolve them..... and there were many in my profession.... yes I am a sort of retired,but love woodworking so know I build furniture and Cabinets.... no no not at a high speed but as enjoyment, doing the designs drawings (custom work), the piece I envisioned..... I am a very content and active person and enjoy my life to the fullest extend possible, expecting to reach and celebrate my 100 birthday (my Mom past way when she was 102) but 100 be fine.......and hope and plan to do many more things and plenty of nice furniture pieces, (this is my signature to be left behind), for the pieces I build are for life as I pass on to eternity......yes I just love my life and its ups and downs!!!!!!!
Fully approve always a bullshit excuse for lazy people. Then you catch them out and like come on Man don't give me that. I'm not doing all the work her I don't mind helping if your generally stuggling. But lazy people I will refuse to help. And I tell my mangers can you help so and so nope .
Thats subjective, wouldn’t apply in all cases Would you call somebody “confident” even if the thing they believe or defend it’s as cancerous as racism feminism, flat-earth and other bullshit Not at all we got other names for those people and confident ain’t one of them
I would add that confident, capable people are kind to those they interact with on a daily basis. The clerk that serves you. The neighbor that needs your help.
Emma Baddie, I’m trying to understand your grammar, I’m not being rude. Unfortunately arrogance can be confused with confidence, but they are completely different. And I agree snobbery is totally different. Arrogance & snobbery are not nice ways to have, but a confident person is someone to admire. But best of all is being nice & that’s not always easy! Take care x
True Emma Confidence is being comfortable in own skin, flaws and all(something that has been a work in progress) grew up with inferior complex and low self esteem(everyone was better that me). Yet, we are all equal in God’s eyes!
A lot of people are jealous and insecure when dealing with me. I was homeless and in a shelter and a recent widow and other women were very jealous of me, even in that situation. I don't look bad, I watch my weight and try to take care of myself properly. I don't use drugs or alcohol. I smoke cigarettes and love coffee. I guess you can say I'm not like a lot of 59 years olds out here. I did attempt to have friends, but I guess my lifestyle just didn't go along with theirs. I stay alone because I'm a leader and not a follower. My boundaries are totally intact. I don't compromise and I don't apologize for others mistakes, just mine. Thank you for the great video. God bless you always.
Hi Victoria, nice to meet u my name is AL. And I like ur comment. And I'm also a Person who wants better things out if life and I don't need a boss I need people who are in tune and striving to be something more I'm life in maybe leave a legacy, Or more for my next generation. Take care and keep up the good work. Even if it's all 4 self.
I love this comment. THIS is what I really strive for myself, being completely independent from society, giving a fuck on anyones opinion. You seem like a modern day Diogenes
confident people have overcome barriers and have grown past their wounds and are driven to better themselves and their life on a daily basis and believe in who they are.
I would also add that confident people can take advise and criticism. Extremely confident people can even learn from insults- assuming, of course, that there is a sliver of truth from which to learn somewhere in the insult. XOXO, Esabelle
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie
I am not a very confident person, this video has helped me realise that I do have some confident traits but can have so much more if I just keep learning and working on myself. Really enjoyed this video. Thank you.
Chardelle. I'm praying for you. JESUS is the only thing in this messed up world that is real. I feel for you. As I said, I'm praying for you. Why did you take my comment offensive.? No need to explain.
Confidence comes from within, everyone has different perspectives of being confident. It's very rare that you find someone fully confident in all areas of their life. It's a great achievement to build confidence in all areas of life. I'm still a work in progress 😊
As someone that considers himself a " Work in Progress " , I aspire to be better today than I was yesterday and video's such as this are an invaluable tool for change . Thank You !!!
True confidence is living life with integrity humility compassion and having respect and considerstion for others and themselves putting no one on a pedestool but treating all with equality equanimity and love..♥️♥️♥️
Confident people do not talk to others about their plans: such as opening up a business or adventuring into something new. They act under the radar and share success once it has been achieved.
This video covers confidence as a complete personality in all aspects. You are right,confidence building is a journey not a destination. Everyday life teaches us to be confident and learn things. It mostly comes from experience and willingness,openness to learn new things and improve. Well summarised and explained. Thank you for this.
My personal experience: aging and going through harsh things in Life made me more aware of what is really important for me and less dependent on everybody's opinion!
I agree with most! But I do not agree with “not focusing on weaknesses”. I think it’s important that confident people recognize their weaknesses and try to improve upon them when they are able to to be a better overall individual. :)
This is deff something you have to work on and build esp when you didn’t grow up learning these...! Shout out to everyone who’s on the journey of building confidence. I’m deff on it! ❤️
Apparently they are also mostly beautiful white people in their 20's. Also, a confident person knows that they don't need to possess ALL of these qualities because it's human to have insecurities and that's ok.
Michael Beasley jokes on you. I’m a while guy in his 20’s. Lol. It’s an observation and more a jab at the lack of attention to diversity in a video designed to be uplifting and relatable.
Did you watch the video? Lots of variety of gender, ethnicity etc. Age-now that's true,. However I would argue that it's young people that need these messages. People in their 50s and up are unlikely really change,
@@maryp9227 Thank you Mary. That is what I was going to say. I would like to understand this feeling better: I'm a bit sad to think that many people seem to say that they are already confident as if they were simply blessed with it and others just may never measure up.
RandomName IsBackk true that. I take back what I said because you can be competent, but if you don’t have the confidence to show your competence then you won’t succeed. I’d like to add that when you get good at something though, you will feel more confident about yourself :) Winny out... _for now_ 😉 Ps: thank you so much for your feedback
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie
@@esteemity5405 Hello, thank you for the reply but I'm confused by what you said about news ? What news ? My question that I'm trying to get some unbiased feedback with is when the subject eventually comes up HOW do I let her know that I'm 24 years older than her ? Don't want to shock the poor woman or screw up what could be an awesome future together.
My son tells me he wants to hire someone to pay me on my head daily because he's amazed at what I do every day and wants to aspire to be like his mother. I tell him I'm in you just be you and leave my legacy fingerprint.
I got ditched by a friend who was very passive aggressive about ending our friendship. I think it was because I had outlived my usefulness as she climbed up socially. She overtook me by miles! When I stated to do well she came to see me give a talk. She seen me bomb in college trying to squeak through a project in which I was required to speak in front of lots of people! When she saw me do my thing afterwards she approached me saying how well I had done but her face said something quite different. It was as if she was disappointed I was straining to do well. Or how dare I improve my life. That’s what I saw in her demeanour. I’m still not where I want to be but I’m almost there. I’m. A decade older than she is and she hasn’t no reason to be jealous so, I’m asking you to chime in with your thoughts since my conundrum toes in directly with this topic! Thank you . ..
@ Moses Emmet I believe It is about having a good foundation of intelligence. More about the dance of life and flowing like water. I believe the level your relating to is more superficial and fleeting. Chasing a quick fix. If that is all one sees, yes that is their reality.
@Moses Emmet I believe it is more about having a good foundation of intelligence . Being able to flow through life like water . I believe the level you are describing is shallow, more superficial and fleeting. a quick fix. Indeed if that is what one believes then that is their reality.
Moses Emmet You might be projecting a bit. Don't get me wrong, It's nice to see your post getting thumbs up but it's not something you chase. It's a sign of low confidence/insecurity to me because you're seeking validation from others to feel good about yourself. Just as easily as they can validate you and make you feel good, that dependency on others validation can go the other way. That means they also have the power to make you feel shitty about yourself because you need people to agree with you. I can write posts and not worry about if it's getting likes because I know not everyone will agree with you or even understand where you're coming from but what matters to me is getting that information/perspective out there for others to consider. If someone tries to tear me down for my opinion/beliefs, I don't allow it to affect me because I don't need their validation to feel good about myself; I validate myself.
Self acceptance doesnt mean not wanting to change anything. Example: i accept that im overweight. I get that thats unhealthy and increases my disease probability so i change it. I accept that i didnt do very well in my examen. I still try to change my learning behaviour to achieve the grade that i want.
Love this - so inspiring. I want to propose an additional point: confident people know how to let go, surrender and trust their innate ability, as a human being (of light) to connect with the Universe/God/Source and tap into its unlimited power. Looking forward to your next video xoxo Anouche.
Absolutely loved this video. It will help people others to not focus on what everyone else is doing wrong, but focus on themselves to make sure they're doing the right thing. Everything will fall into place if you're honest with yourself and do what you need to do to succeed.
I think confident people are also well dressed because they love themselves, take care of their health and are disciplined. That' why people like and respect them in their hearts.
Also its about turning your weaknesses into strengths which takes being aware and giving them enough focus to work on them or your new found confidence will be shattered. Long term confidence is about being aware.
I relate so much!! i'm 31 and i started to gain full confidence when i started to work out my musical work 3 years ago .. i had 3 years of guitar lessons at the age of 15 and now i turned to singing and i do my own stuff accapella with the guitar riffs playing in my head at the same time .. at first i thought it was to late .. but now i'm beeing the lead singer in 2 different bands and i'll be releasing my own songs soon on spotify youtube and maybe on the radio !! never back down guys!! ;)
I'm in conflict with #9 "Don't wait for permission." Wouldn't you agree that there are some situations require rethinking before acting? Granted it is good to act and some others require research.
These two things aren't the same. Its fake confidence, its bravado. Huge ego means selfishness which a confident person isnt! A video on it nonetheless would be great 🙂
I know this feeling sooo well, don't get blinded bro. Took me 32 years to finally realise this fully. Most people out there in the world who seem extrovert are nothing more than insecure pricks who overcompensate their miserable lifes and need attention. Unfortunately, many times they blind other people into seeming great. Easy ways to spot them: They always talk/talk about themselves, their talk seems to contradict itself from time to time, u get a feeling that they don't listen at all - rather they try to belittle u/instruct u even without asking for help, when something stressful happens they instantly snap and get aggressive because they can't handle neglection in any form, they only have shallow friendships etc Bummers on the street who can handle neglection from whole of society and still give a shit are worthy much more than such fake persons.
I see myself having a lot of these confident behaviors that keep me on my tippy toes everyday of my life and sometimes makes me put my brain 🧠 to work too much.
Thank you. Many people told me im not confident. So all along i believed them even if i knew i almost perfect this list. The only thing that makes me not confident is believing they were right.
Thanks for watching!
Can you think of any other things that confident people don't do?
I think it was correct BUT even confident ppl have their off-days, it's impossible to be all that all the time cuz life happens! AND cultural differences! One point ypu said "confident ppl don't ask for permission, they go after it" (something like that) Yes and No, depending on where I am. In Denmark i dont need to ask for simple thing as going to bath room or stand up while ppl are rating and say excuse me! BUT if I was in Japan it would be rude & disrespectful to not to ask or say excuse me, they see it as lack of knowledge, class and manor! So some of your point can't be aknowleged in other culture, this Is western society and again some western countries just do things differently! I agree with all what you're saying, but 1. Even confident ppl have bad days 2. Cultural differences!
But it's a great list and I agree on most. But we gotta also aknowleged ppl are different and for some means pisting a selfie confident to them (maybe they weren't confident before) or it's their way to show I'm okay! My reason to do it is my past as an addict, when I don't post my selfie with my dog for a week ill receive dusin of Calls "are you okay"? And that's because I never posted Me in the past life as an addict, and I'm an artist and express myself through pics! But I know what ypu mean, but ppl who post their diner, car or vaca often shows lack of selfconfident! See what I got/went to! But Im not going to show myself cuz I don't like my appaerence! Im not sure if you get what i mean, but there are there gray areas these lists forget, and some ppl might feel bad cuz they're at the beginning of their Journey to become selfconfident / building self worth! Needed to point it out to those, as I fear some feel a set back cuz they do certain things! Overall awesome list, love your channel! Xoxo monstermom 😁✌️
BRAINY DOSE
My grandpa. would always say that when you take up something then do it with Full confidence. Otherwise don't touch it.
Tonia Mendonca
Hi Tonia. Are we as human beings in a society completely independent like islands? Isn't it about getting a clear grip about a problem and acting decisively? I believe in a SWOT analysis, strategy and action. Confidence is a by -product. It will be there as a guest because you've got the formula right.
Confident people don't watch videos titled '20 things confident don't do'!
BRAINY DOSE fart
Confident people don't chase after people who reject them.
Dim Bulb that’s a big one
Well said!!!!
Very great insight Dim Bulb...you seem pretty bright to me!
Steve Urkel wasnt confident then
Yup!!
I have never done the Facebook thing. Or any social media thing! I like my privacy & I’m not interested in other’s sharing their lifestyle on FB. I actually don’t believe most FB post that I’ve been shown, mostly it’s people showing off, I hate showy flashy people. I’ve never done a selfie as I find it’s too vain & this is just my personal opinion. I also prefer my own company, certain people just talk talk talk, I like to listen & if I want to chat know that other’s want to listen & care. And I will not do or go anywhere I don’t want to go. My true loved one’s are my life, I can be myself with them. I take myself out of situation’s where I don’t want to be, it feels good, I’m in control. I’m confident, happy with my looks, independent & content with my lot, but it’s other’s that can cause stress, so my suggestion, just a suggestion to a happy life, do what makes you happy 😊 Don’t believe these TH-camrs who only show you their materialistic lifestyle, vanity obsessive nature’s, it’s all about me videos. It can cause you to feel less confident or happy with your life. And then they get paid. Be your happy, be confident in you, feel your best & never compare! 🤗 x
Ditto all that. 👍
Very well said! 🙂
Thank you so much 🙏
Yes. Although TH-cam IS "social media" if you are replying :) Even if you have no content.
@Fleur I enjoyed reading and agree with many of the points you had made. As a seeker or "real life" I sometimes explore TH-cam commentators to see if there others who might share the same "real life" assessments of "how things really are" or if they share the a "math of life" that adds up to . . . . my belief that whatever we say, do, or intend: that the person or situation we are involve with (including ourselves) walks away a better person. I consider that the greater good of all things must prevail. Be happy and confident in many ways includes the positive balance of our conduct, actions, intentions, and neighborly love. Greed, self centeredness, being condescending, combative, opinionated, and immoral are traits that don't offend work and in many cases distracts from the inner beauty of one's personal strengths and process during efforts towards success. My personal confidence has come not so much from what I have accumulated materially, what I had done compared to what someone else hasn't, or where I have been (compared to someone else). My confidence (thus sense of happiness) has come for learning to Love, being thankful, recognizing the beauty and powers of others who have done positive things to help others without fanfare or recognition, learning to forgive, and identifying with "real people" such as yourself. Just knowing that I can give myself a chance, "that chance" that others, on many occasions, either don't give, don't know how to give, or want to give. I am very particular and selective with whom I associate and interact with. on many occasions I act and travel alone and somehow come across a decent person who will celebrate "the moment." There are just many "knockers, toppers, and doubters" who can't bare to express appreciation, joy, thankfulness, or just keep things positive. I am (feel a sense of happiness) for anyone who runs into someone like yourself. (maybe even someone like myself) . . . . maybe one day we will run into each other in happenstance and enjoy a happy moment during each other's journey. Wishing every one who gets a chance to read elongated note peace, love, joy, truth, and much blessings. May your confidence in knowing who, what, why, and when you are grow with wisdom and positive ripple effects in your journey.
Confident people are always willing to put family first , because of core values
That were in stalled by a good mentor.
And good parents.
I am mostly inspired by this video. Willingness to see your inner world and your fault and willingness to change them will put you on the path of becoming of confidence person.
I see myself in most of these behaviors, tbh i never thought i was so confident but because of you i know i am, thank you for helpin me understand myself better 😊
Confident people are always judged by the people around them but when you get to know them your perspective on a confident person changes
#2 “they don’t try to change their personality” *stops watching and cries*
You don't miss anything you completed it all,and I Like it.
Great video! Thanks so much for this amazing content
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Confidence is key, confidence is hapiness
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!!
I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :)
Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ?
HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ???
Thank you for any opinions !
~ Michael & Emalie
@@michaelsmusic3532 Age doesn't matter, it all depends on how much you love each other! Don't stress it's good! I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. We are crazy in love
@@michaelsmusic3532 Also, don't pay any attention to anyone who will judge you
@@scarasfatballs127 Thank you for the reply !
I'm wondering HOW do I tell her that I'm 24 years older ? Most people guess that I'm 10 years younger than I am, but I don't want to possibly screw up what could be a very beautiful future together. I'm brushing up on my courting skills and I want to be prepared for when the subject comes up which eventually it will. She's very sweet and quiet, shy even. I don't want to traumatize this poor innocent woman, I seriously love her and have my mind and heart set on us being together the rest of our lives. Any ideas on HOW I tell her when the subject comes up ? Thank you so much for the reply !
~ Michael & future Mrs. Emalie
@@scarasfatballs127 Good advice, I don't really care what anyone thinks anyway. I'm just trying to put work into what is going to be a beautiful future together with the most womderful woman I've ever met in my life !
Confident people don't put others down to feel good…🤷🏻♀️🙌🏻💫✨⚡️
Anita Carter 200 perfect
Oh, people have put me so down to feel good themselves so may times... Idk what to do with these «friends» anymore...
@@TwinklingMysticShot they're trash and your not, end of story.😐lol
Anita Carter I agree.
A confident person isn’t afraid to say ‘I’m sorry’ when they’re wrong and learn from their mistakes.
They also don’t neglect working on their weaknesses, as this enables them to become the best version of themselves.
That's a big one
Confident people are not afraid to compliment and encourage others
aaliyah butler ..more bullshit
aaliyah butler
Perfect
aaliyah butler very true...
Exactly
Well said love!! It's a beautiful thing to see the light that is other people!! We're supposed to lift up others
Confident: being able to see your weakness and strength
Arrogant: Only sees strength
Insecure: Only sees Weakness
So true
A great author/ philanthropist wrote," you are what you think all day."
@@kellyroberts7268 true
@@msprecious3498 I never said it was a strength, it is a weakness where you are unable to see your weakness. You are right, arrogant people are ignorant to see their ignorance.
Thank you for this. It really brings a lot of clarity to my mind.
Confident people believe in self improvement.
Exactly. That acceptance thing in the video seems like bullshit. You can accept and want to change a thing.
If they're already confident, how'll they improve further.
@@rvind000 because they know they can and should.
Fact I like that.
@@rvind000 There's always room to improve in one field or the other. Like... do you know about finance, sports, psychology, history, religion, technology, etc. If u are confident u can accept that u don't know all about the world - u rather listen to experts/more experienced people in certain fields to learn from them. Like... I'd love to take advice from Donald Trump concerning finances and money, i'd also love to take advice from Elon Musk concerning tech, or from the Dalai Lama concerning religion, or from Mike Tyson concerning boxing. Because I know there's a ton of great people out there that know a ton more than I do in any field. One should simply be humble and listen when it's obvious he knows shit about something, never be arrogant or think u'll easily surpass people in a field or even come close to them.
People with low self-esteem on the other hand cannot accept mentors, they'd rather talk shit about them, belittle them behind their back and so on
just a few days before my 89th birthday, i realize that i have learned most of these thoughts and behaviors as i have aged. when i was much younger, i had none of these qualities. my childhood did not encourage confidence, nor did a disastrous first marriage. i only began to gain confidence when i was 50. it's never, never too late.
*It's not too late, it's never too late* ! Wish I too had an adorable grandma like you ! Lots of love.
Rosie stewart - so happy to find someone else who finds wisdom with age!
Happy Birthday, Rosie.
I am 83 now, and wisdom grows by the day. I did not have clue about how to navigate my thoughts and beliefs when I was young. If you pay attention carefully you might end up someone you really like❤️
Happy birthday rosie!
Confident people don't look for approval by others
Confident ppl dgaf
I wish I had that😔 but you no I can work on that.........ir try to..ill get it.........evenually!!☺
@@leahjohnson2923 haha don't give up! Take it slow and you'll get there step by step :)
Thx.....will do🙂
Jane Leah
Confidence comes from clarity about a situation. Clarity leads to decisive action. Decisive action with clarity leads to results. Results means a degree of success. One success makes us confident to handle another.
Confident people share knowledge with others. They help others grow, as they themselves grow.
Only IF Those People We are Sharing with are *Worth Our Time. I can agree with this in that stand point.
That would be tolerant, kind or intelligent people, not confident.
its true(there are too many fake people in this world)
Confident people can pass along knowledge, as knowledge can be passed from one person to another, Regrettably, a confident person cannot pass along wisdom. If he or she does try to pass along wisdom, he or she will be deemed as crazy by the other person. Here is wisdom, where is the center of the universe? The center of the universe is anywhere you are. See, I told you, you cant pass along wisdom.
That's what I am thanks 😌😊😅
The most confident thing you can ever do is not give a damn what others think of you.
When you do that, you come off as strong and this attracts others to you.
Never be needy.
Believe in yourself.
I care what the people I care about think. I even care about my chihuahuas feelings and what she thinks and how she feels…. I don’t Consider myself wildly insecure
Confident people learn from their mistakes AND DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST
Still living there!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Confident people don’t put down others to make themselves feel better.
So there is other reasons?
I sometimes insult people to be funny
@@gocoyle5560 yea just
so on the workfloor you see a few not confident
If they do that is because they aren't confident
... confident people show kindness
✌🏻✌🏻👍🤗🌈🙌
😊smile it makes people wonder or pisses them off.. 😁😃😆☺️
@Gavigg75 llppp
@Gavigg75 not all confident people, I'm confident and I make sure listen to everyone's feelings and their conversations. so before you go saying "Confident people step on you and don't realize " . some confident people actually do CARE about people .
Why the rainbow
Confident people don't have to be kind to everyone just because they fear confrontation 😉✌️✌️
Yes!
#1 confident people don't overfocus on appearance.
(Video shows stock images of perfect-looking young models. LOL)
Ok...
Those are the only available pictures on the internet
jeff7775 I totally was thinking the same thing.
Good point.
You do realize that a person simply being good looking does not automatically mean that they are " overfocused" on appearance right?
@Pq M
Thanks, minimum words maximum clarity.
Confident people don’t think they’re better than everyone else😉😉
Ehh I think they sometimes do...
Thats intelligent people not confident.
100% true
@Way to Mars Haha You don't know anything about how confident I am...
@@majimagoro8233 Lol that sounds arrogant not confident because confident people don't talk like this.
I'm confident enough to admit that I need a lot more confidence😭😁💪🙈
I clicked on your channel your playlist says a lot about you 😂
My play list?
I believe I will give you some of mine confidence
How lovely thank you.
@@shelanel5348 Stay safe ok 😁😁😁
Confident people do not care what others think and do not look to others for validation.
Linda Turner I don’t care about what people think or other validation it just I’m so quiet and shy😔😔
Word!
Confident people makes other confident to
The first is only true in the negative sense. Confident people are not afraid to examine their own behavior and don't take every criticism personally.
This is the worlds biggest lie “I don’t care what other people think about me”
True confidence is quiet and humble - it's not loud, aggressive and boastful. Confident people follow their moral principles and do what they believe to be right, even though it may not make them 'popular' in the short run. Forgiveness and a willingness to try to be kind and on good terms with all people is also a sign of confidence and integrity.
Yess!
Then i guess i'm naturally confident.
Not true
Yes, can relate!
Very true
Confident people work on themselves - inner work, overcoming any fears or insecurities. They take accountability for mistakes and learn from them too.
I always find the biggest signs someone is insecure is when they're loud, obnoxious and full of their own self-importance. They're always bragging about their 'accomplishments' and 'talents' and things they have done in their lives but you never see any proof of it ... they're just full of 'stories'. Where as the most successful and gifted people I know are the most humble, kind and down to earth people. Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud.
This!!!!
Happiness comes within, NOT from relationships with other people. Very good point. It's like they say, you most Love yourself, before you can Love someone else!
Confident people don't compete. They create a winning scenario in their head, then they proceed and graciously conquer, emphasis on graciously.
Very true!
They help others become better
so right !
💙
Definitely, work part of a team instead of competing against another. Help people to achieve best of their abilities. Never feel threatened of some one else's achievements..
Confident people make others feel good
Confident people make others feel good but not against their stand/position
The Life Formula, I was thinking the same thing, but the video said something similar. Just wanted to let you know I was with ya
The Life Formula confident people just do their own thing and don’t worry about what others are doing.
Hence, don’t go out of their way to coddle those that feel insecure.
The Life Formula yeah
Khan Mehamood. I agree. In order for a person to be truly confident, the person has to know who s/he is and set firm boundaries regarding what is not authentic to him/ her. Most things from other people will be inauthentic to the individual and will be dismissed by the confident person- and that will tick other people off. Hence, most people confident enough to succeed in life actually tick more people off than 'make them feel good.' Ask any actor who's won a major award how many of their friends actually congratulate them for the confidence to go and get it.
Confident people dont try to control others.
Curtistine Miller yes they are not control freak
@@xin2yu976 Thanks....
@@karol1 Why are you picking my comment to say I'm talking to you?.It is a comment .my opinion only Don't take it personal.My My.....
@@karol1 Oh Ha,Ha, Bless you...
@@curtistinemiller1560 lol
Confident people definitely aren't jealous.
I am 77 years young and at my age of 17 I decided what a wanted to be, and was was confident that I was able to achieve my goals..yes it took hard work and education but I had dream, my dream be my vision and the vision became reality..... the result.... I always loved my work and enjoyed the challenges and resolve them..... and there were many in my profession.... yes I am a sort of retired,but love woodworking so know I build furniture and Cabinets.... no no not at a high speed but as enjoyment, doing the designs drawings (custom work), the piece I envisioned..... I am a very content and active person and enjoy my life to the fullest extend possible, expecting to reach and celebrate my 100 birthday (my Mom past way when she was 102) but 100 be fine.......and hope and plan to do many more things and plenty of nice furniture pieces, (this is my signature to be left behind), for the pieces I build are for life as I pass on to eternity......yes I just love my life and its ups and downs!!!!!!!
I am inspired by your thinking. Keep your vision alive it will keep you inspire.
Inspiring--please write more somewhere. Older people have so many layers and so much wisdom.
Please tell us more 😊 Im sure you have a ton of stories!
Simply awesome! Wishing you even more of joy, happiness, and abundance in your life!
You should film yourself making your cabinets so we may see your legacy in all of its glory, sir?
A confident person doesn't need to watch this in order to be confident
And a confident person shouldn't change personality:
Ha true! I’m a work in progress!
Its nice to get a little self validation to confirm your on the right path
Cordial Awuku I wasnt paying attention
Sometimes a person needs a bit of guidance on the road to confidence.
21. Don't put up with fools or their bad behaviour.
Soooo true !
Amen 😊
Fully approve always a bullshit excuse for lazy people. Then you catch them out and like come on Man don't give me that. I'm not doing all the work her I don't mind helping if your generally stuggling. But lazy people I will refuse to help. And I tell my mangers can you help so and so nope .
Truly confident people seek to understand motive behind bad behavior rather than labeling anyone a " fool" for occasionally bad behavior.
Thanks Gandalf 🧙♂️ 🪄🦄
confident people don't need to show off. They are real
Number 7 really struck a chord, it's totally true, confidence means standing up for what you believe, even if others disagree!
Yes
Thats subjective, wouldn’t apply in all cases
Would you call somebody “confident” even if the thing they believe or defend it’s as cancerous as racism feminism, flat-earth and other bullshit
Not at all we got other names for those people and confident ain’t one of them
Very true! I see myself here.. 😉
@@19ars92 it's still being confident. What are you on about?
@@martyvenkman860
not quite, its called being delusional
They also stay calm even during stressful situations. This really doesn't apply to me personally, but I admire those who can.
We can all do better!!
They don't put others down to feel good.
Confident people think practically, they accept their failures too..and they don't feel upset about it
Nice video! In addition,
👉Confident people are not envious of others.
👉Confident people don't look down on others.
already have, if you watch carefully
Lovely
I would add that confident, capable people are kind to those they interact with on a daily basis.
The clerk that serves you.
The neighbor that needs your help.
What do you mean?
Rooster1508 .... AGREE!! 🙌🏻😉
This is true, everyone matters, the cook, the janitor. We are kind to everyone
1 thing I learnt from being a CEO - please & thank you costs nothing to say & mean a lot to those under your management.
Confident people don’t scroll through the comments trying to find the list of the 20 things so they can skip seeing the video.
ouch!
Lol😂😂
😊 That's what I was doing. lol 👋
Tfw youre busted af 😂👌
🤣🤣🤣
A confident person and someone who is snobbish and arrogant is not the same thing.Learn.
Emma Baddie, I’m trying to understand your grammar, I’m not being rude. Unfortunately arrogance can be confused with confidence, but they are completely different. And I agree snobbery is totally different. Arrogance & snobbery are not nice ways to have, but a confident person is someone to admire. But best of all is being nice & that’s not always easy! Take care x
L o l
True Emma Confidence is being comfortable in own skin, flaws and all(something that has been a work in progress) grew up with inferior complex and low self esteem(everyone was better that me). Yet, we are all equal in God’s eyes!
Yes, have always admired natural confident individuals not the arrogant individuals!
Why do people ignore you once they have money? That's not confidence.. Its arrogance ...rude.
A lot of people are jealous and insecure when dealing with me. I was homeless and in a shelter and a recent widow and other women were very jealous of me, even in that situation. I don't look bad, I watch my weight and try to take care of myself properly. I don't use drugs or alcohol. I smoke cigarettes and love coffee. I guess you can say I'm not like a lot of 59 years olds out here. I did attempt to have friends, but I guess my lifestyle just didn't go along with theirs. I stay alone because I'm a leader and not a follower. My boundaries are totally intact. I don't compromise and I don't apologize for others mistakes, just mine. Thank you for the great video. God bless you always.
Hi Victoria, nice to meet u my name is AL.
And I like ur comment. And I'm also a
Person who wants better things out if life and I don't need a boss I need people who are in tune and striving to be something more I'm life in maybe leave a legacy,
Or more for my next generation.
Take care and keep up the good work. Even if it's all 4 self.
Thank you Al. I appreciate your comment. God bless you always.
I love this comment. THIS is what I really strive for myself, being completely independent from society, giving a fuck on anyones opinion. You seem like a modern day Diogenes
confident people have overcome barriers and have grown past their wounds and are driven to better themselves and their life on a daily basis and believe in who they are.
Confident people prefer self-respect over self-esteem. Respect must always be earned.
Yes
Confident people have both self-respect and self-esteem.
I would also add that confident people can take advise and criticism. Extremely confident people can even learn from insults- assuming, of course, that there is a sliver of truth from which to learn somewhere in the insult.
XOXO, Esabelle
Yes, you should change it especially you're starting your new channel and you don't get second chance for the first impression !
Okay, thanks for the tip!
@@Esabelle
Like your new thumb nail pic
@@vumeopower88 Why, thank you!
Confident people do what's right and loving. :)
Amen! 🙏👍💛
Simple thing: confident people keep themselves open for learning everytime, anytime from anyone, no matter if that anyone is his competition or enemy.
Confident people are not afraid to praise, encourage and love. Confident people are able to see greatness on others. We are happy people.
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!!
I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :)
Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ?
HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ???
Thank you for any opinions !
~ Michael & Emalie
This sounds just like ME 😁 shout out to all the confident people
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Most of the time I'm pretty much confident and I have insecurities that Brings my mood down every so often.
Confident people duck the spotlight whenever they can. :P
Yayyy
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Confident people don’t wait for permission to act,yes!!!
Hey!
Confident people aren't going out of their way to ruin other people's day.
I am not a very confident person, this video has helped me realise that I do have some confident traits but can have so much more if I just keep learning and working on myself. Really enjoyed this video. Thank you.
“they eat healthy foods”
as i’m eating a bag of skittles😂
What’s important is that you’re eating it with confidence
Taimi Amunkete 👍
Correct. I love myself and need no ones approval. Except the approval of my Lord JESUS. Amen
Good sheila
Don’t force your beliefs on others
@@beeweisberger7957 by that comment you are exactly the opposite of everything this video is advocating for...stay blessed!
@Chardelle Here we go.....
Chardelle. I'm praying for you. JESUS is the only thing in this messed up world that is real. I feel for you. As I said, I'm praying for you. Why did you take my comment offensive.? No need to explain.
Confidence comes from within, everyone has different perspectives of being confident. It's very rare that you find someone fully confident in all areas of their life. It's a great achievement to build confidence in all areas of life. I'm still a work in progress 😊
As someone that considers himself a " Work in Progress " , I aspire to be better today than I was yesterday and video's such as this are an invaluable tool for change . Thank You !!!
Confident people are independent and have bigger goals in life in order to pursue their dreams...in order to achieve success ..🤓😎
🧠👑🦁✝️:
💯💯💯point on point 💯💯💯
Confidence is not "they will
like me." Confidence "I'll be fine
If They don't."
This comment section is amazing 🥰👍🏼✨
True confidence is living life with integrity humility compassion and having respect and considerstion for others and themselves
putting no one on a pedestool but treating all with equality equanimity
and love..♥️♥️♥️
Confident people do not talk to others about their plans: such as opening up a business or adventuring into something new. They act under the radar and share success once it has been achieved.
Absolutely! Learned this one the hard way.
Facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This video covers confidence as a complete personality in all aspects. You are right,confidence building is a journey not a destination. Everyday life teaches us to be confident and learn things. It mostly comes from experience and willingness,openness to learn new things and improve. Well summarised and explained. Thank you for this.
My personal experience: aging and going through harsh things in Life made me more aware of what is really important for me and less dependent on everybody's opinion!
Definitely
I agree with most! But I do not agree with “not focusing on weaknesses”. I think it’s important that confident people recognize their weaknesses and try to improve upon them when they are able to to be a better overall individual. :)
This is deff something you have to work on and build esp when you didn’t grow up learning these...! Shout out to everyone who’s on the journey of building confidence. I’m deff on it! ❤️
Apparently they are also mostly beautiful white people in their 20's. Also, a confident person knows that they don't need to possess ALL of these qualities because it's human to have insecurities and that's ok.
Hahaha.. So obvious now that you put it into words .
Michael Beasley jokes on you. I’m a while guy in his 20’s. Lol.
It’s an observation and more a jab at the lack of attention to diversity in a video designed to be uplifting and relatable.
Did you watch the video? Lots of variety of gender, ethnicity etc. Age-now that's true,. However I would argue that it's young people that need these messages. People in their 50s and up are unlikely really change,
Yep, absolutely no one individual human is perfect!
Gamer Airtias......and I see more of whites than other nationalities standing on the side of the streets begging for money, too. Much confident!
Confident people dont go "me me me!" While watching such videos😉🤣
Not carrying what others say is the easiest way to be 100% confident
I laugh at peer pressure. I am a leader not follower.
I meant I do not follow. Not a sheep.
Me too,but I'm a loaner
@@dustinpomeroy8817 me also but they try to lol
Peer pressure isnt necessarily bad. It could be for a good reason
*tips fedora
I see myself as lacking in confidence but after watching this, I am actually more confident than I think.
Everyday is another step forward.
*all of these things are great tips, but in order to be confident you need to be competent*
Anyway, great traits of confident people.
Thank you!
Denial is a friend of mine
I feel so blessed I have confidence but this video continue to help us along the way
Confident people are willing to learn, grow and improve. That way, we become competent and that breeds confidence. ☺️
@@maryp9227 Thank you Mary. That is what I was going to say.
I would like to understand this feeling better:
I'm a bit sad to think that many people seem to say that they are already confident as if they were simply blessed with it and others just may never measure up.
RandomName IsBackk true that. I take back what I said because you can be competent, but if you don’t have the confidence to show your competence then you won’t succeed. I’d like to add that when you get good at something though, you will feel more confident about yourself :)
Winny out... _for now_ 😉
Ps: thank you so much for your feedback
Hey, I loved that you added that you don't have to be an extrovert to be confident. Nice.
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!!
I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :)
Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ?
HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ???
Thank you for any opinions !
~ Michael & Emalie
@@michaelsmusic3532 Great question. What do you think she'd say in response to the news?
@@esteemity5405 Hello, thank you for the reply but I'm confused by what you said about news ? What news ? My question that I'm trying to get some unbiased feedback with is when the subject eventually comes up HOW do I let her know that I'm 24 years older than her ?
Don't want to shock the poor woman or screw up what could be an awesome future together.
I see i have become a lot more confident during the past 2 years but still there's a lot to improve. I'm enjoying the process
Though I think I am very confident, I was curious to watch this video and scroll through comments to become more confident. Thank you everybody 🙏🍭🍖
My son tells me he wants to hire someone to pay me on my head daily because he's amazed at what I do every day and wants to aspire to be like his mother. I tell him I'm in you just be you and leave my legacy fingerprint.
I got ditched by a friend who was very passive aggressive about ending our friendship. I think it was because I had outlived my usefulness as she climbed up socially. She overtook me by miles! When I stated to do well she came to see me give a talk. She seen me bomb in college trying to squeak through a project in which I was required to speak in front of lots of people! When she saw me do my thing afterwards she approached me saying how well I had done but her face said something quite different. It was as if she was disappointed I was straining to do well. Or how dare I improve my life. That’s what I saw in her demeanour. I’m still not where I want to be but I’m almost there. I’m. A decade older than she is and she hasn’t no reason to be jealous so, I’m asking you to chime in with your thoughts since my conundrum toes in directly with this topic! Thank you . ..
I’ve known too many chicks like that.
Going by your description she enjoys being top dog. She may now see you as competition as if your success somehow diminishes her.
Confident people are not always the loudest- A lion doesn't need to roar to make his presence known.
Who isn’t chasing likes and follows for that daily dose of dopamine??! I think that’s more an addiction than a sign of low confidence.
I don't.
@ Moses Emmet I believe It is about having a good foundation of intelligence.
More about the dance of life and flowing like water.
I believe the level your relating to is more superficial and fleeting. Chasing a quick fix. If that is all one sees, yes that is their reality.
@Moses Emmet I believe it is more about having a good foundation of intelligence . Being able to flow through life like water .
I believe the level you are describing is shallow, more superficial and fleeting.
a quick fix. Indeed if that is what one believes then that is their reality.
I don’t.
Moses Emmet You might be projecting a bit. Don't get me wrong, It's nice to see your post getting thumbs up but it's not something you chase. It's a sign of low confidence/insecurity to me because you're seeking validation from others to feel good about yourself. Just as easily as they can validate you and make you feel good, that dependency on others validation can go the other way. That means they also have the power to make you feel shitty about yourself because you need people to agree with you. I can write posts and not worry about if it's getting likes because I know not everyone will agree with you or even understand where you're coming from but what matters to me is getting that information/perspective out there for others to consider. If someone tries to tear me down for my opinion/beliefs, I don't allow it to affect me because I don't need their validation to feel good about myself; I validate myself.
Self acceptance doesnt mean not wanting to change anything. Example: i accept that im overweight. I get that thats unhealthy and increases my disease probability so i change it. I accept that i didnt do very well in my examen. I still try to change my learning behaviour to achieve the grade that i want.
Love this - so inspiring. I want to propose an additional point: confident people know how to let go, surrender and trust their innate ability, as a human being (of light) to connect with the Universe/God/Source and tap into its unlimited power. Looking forward to your next video xoxo Anouche.
You lost me to procrastination 😂
I am working to improve it though. 😌
Confident people do not need social media for attention for validation
Confident people know who they are and don't care if people lower their self-esteem by criticizing them in front of others.
Clarifying is always good, helps us understand our selves
But a bit hard.🤗
"Vulnerability is the cornerstone of confidence." - Oprah. Just saying. :D
Absolutely loved this video. It will help people others to not focus on what everyone else is doing wrong, but focus on themselves to make sure they're doing the right thing. Everything will fall into place if you're honest with yourself and do what you need to do to succeed.
I think confident people are also well dressed because they love themselves, take care of their health and are disciplined. That' why people like and respect them in their hearts.
Also its about turning your weaknesses into strengths which takes being aware and giving them enough focus to work on them or your new found confidence will be shattered. Long term confidence is about being aware.
I relate so much!! i'm 31 and i started to gain full confidence when i started to work out my musical work 3 years ago .. i had 3 years of guitar lessons at the age of 15 and now i turned to singing and i do my own stuff accapella with the guitar riffs playing in my head at the same time .. at first i thought it was to late .. but now i'm beeing the lead singer in 2 different bands and i'll be releasing my own songs soon on spotify youtube and maybe on the radio !! never back down guys!! ;)
I'm in conflict with #9 "Don't wait for permission." Wouldn't you agree that there are some situations require rethinking before acting? Granted it is good to act and some others require research.
Please make a video: how to deal with people who are not confident but have huge ego. Thanks a lot!
Echo ,narcissist or Npd
Narcissist are the worst
Still waiting for that video...
Covert Narcissist
These two things aren't the same. Its fake confidence, its bravado. Huge ego means selfishness which a confident person isnt!
A video on it nonetheless would be great 🙂
Confident people don’t watch this video..
AriesMale88 so your not one lol
Confident people watch whatever they want.
Haha You're stupidity amazes me
That's not confidence but overconfidence
And yet here we are
I’ve always thought I lack self confidence because I am shy and introverted by nature. Turns out I am more confident than I give myself credit for!
I know this feeling sooo well, don't get blinded bro. Took me 32 years to finally realise this fully. Most people out there in the world who seem extrovert are nothing more than insecure pricks who overcompensate their miserable lifes and need attention. Unfortunately, many times they blind other people into seeming great. Easy ways to spot them: They always talk/talk about themselves, their talk seems to contradict itself from time to time, u get a feeling that they don't listen at all - rather they try to belittle u/instruct u even without asking for help, when something stressful happens they instantly snap and get aggressive because they can't handle neglection in any form, they only have shallow friendships etc
Bummers on the street who can handle neglection from whole of society and still give a shit are worthy much more than such fake persons.
This is a list of how people should act not necessarily how they do act. So it's more like fantasy.
Nope many ppl are this way, believe me. Problem is, society labels them as "geeks, nerds & introverts"
don’t over focus on appearance? but they are aware eating and living healthily is important? hmm 🤔
I see myself having a lot of these confident behaviors that keep me on my tippy toes everyday of my life and sometimes makes me put my brain 🧠 to work too much.
Thank you. Many people told me im not confident. So all along i believed them even if i knew i almost perfect this list. The only thing that makes me not confident is believing they were right.