13 Reasons Introverts Are So Attractive

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  • There are reasons introverts are so attractive! That’s right! Introverted people seem to somehow just draw others toward them, without lifting a finger. Even though they prefer to spend time away from the crowds, they have a mysterious and magnetic presence that others find extremely alluring.
    Introverts are honest and sincere, with an inquisitive mind and a deep respect for others.
    These traits, along with the ones outlined in this list, shine through their character - which makes them truly beautiful people, inside and out.
    If you’ve been wondering why you are so drawn to an introvert (or what it is that makes people drawn to you), watch this video and find out what makes introverts so attractive to others.
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  • @tonywalker3541
    @tonywalker3541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5875

    We may be quiet, but we have the loudest minds.
    We may seem cold, but we have the warmest hearts.
    We may be alone, but we are not lonely.

    • @GamingMineCraftful
      @GamingMineCraftful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      Many people skate on our ice, not knowing how deep the lake is

    • @indridcold8433
      @indridcold8433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I am Cold. My surname just happens to be Cold.

    • @deedeeminott4774
      @deedeeminott4774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      So true Tony walker at times I wish I could switch my mind off lol

    • @trivenisapate2297
      @trivenisapate2297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes its true

    • @tainoman1998
      @tainoman1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Speak for yourself. Being lonely is a part of my life

  • @amitadhav1641
    @amitadhav1641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2575

    We introvert do talk alot unless we find someone with whom we are comfortable😄

    • @mr.7uchiha293
      @mr.7uchiha293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Absolutely bro.. 😅

    • @misslouie6742
      @misslouie6742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      true

    • @shahinasudheer8404
      @shahinasudheer8404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Rohan Shrestha trueee

    • @nithaazalea7579
      @nithaazalea7579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed

    • @shubhambera7886
      @shubhambera7886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      For me I always automatically prepare scenarios of conversation with someone and then its outcome and of the outcome isn't suitable according to me .I won't talk😅😅

  • @m3ng252
    @m3ng252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1245

    Pro tip for introverts: you are most attractive when you’re not seeking attention, as soon as you try to act like an extrovert, things will turn awkward real quick.

    • @mavemaggulle6677
      @mavemaggulle6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      actually a very good one

    • @iamironman3388
      @iamironman3388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I’m an introvert and I have been trying to force myself to become more extroverted for the last 5-7 years. Ima stop doing that now. Thank you

    • @inemustdy
      @inemustdy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@iamironman3388 do whatever makes you the most comfortable

    • @remruatkima_
      @remruatkima_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is a good one

    • @zohaibasadulla7105
      @zohaibasadulla7105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True that

  • @coldasice4371
    @coldasice4371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +733

    No one has ever talked so nicely about me :')

  • @mr.sarojthu6416
    @mr.sarojthu6416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4402

    We introverts aren't rude, we're just less talkative!🙂

    • @markreyes3864
      @markreyes3864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +325

      until we got comfortable to a person

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Mark Reyes True because I’m a social introvert but am only very social when it’s a subject that I can relate to or a deep conversation and then learning from them too 😎

    • @TheGlory16
      @TheGlory16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yup

    • @lesliegrayson1722
      @lesliegrayson1722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOL bullshit My little brother is Extremely rude. My mother is too. Both introverts.. So after having seen over 25,000 people a day and arresting 3-5 people a day I certainly got to the point where I knew who was waiting to steal and who was thinking about it as they came in the door. non verbals were everywhere all over them.
      Introverts to me are sooo bad at non-verbals and fear communication like most kids overly fear maths at school..
      To me most people are very immature, the stats are that 95% of people use less than 5% of their listening skills. So I ask you to make some little logical steps and see that their are going to be people who are scared to talk and have so much fear that they just keep to themselves, they have learnt that they get drained of energy if they have people talking at them which is natural if you have bad "Active Listening skills" or non at all...
      I come from an exclusive group of people who are far more effected by people and their sounds, movements, non verbals, noticeable emotional changes. Most people who have my curse are overwhelmed with depression or are autistic being unable to deal with the shear amount of information to their frontal lobe. to then 2 years later be able to remember clearly as if it is a video recording. So for me to look at a group of people who dodge society and call themselves introverts I scoff and laugh a little at their puny "im different, look at tiny shy me" type of "protest" LOL
      Some of us are trying to survive out here and other are just Dumb pricks.. the rest are like cows to us who use so much of our brain its scary what we can accomplish.

    • @realityhits3022
      @realityhits3022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@8v71buses you just described me. Usually my topics of conversation is boring to normal people because they are deep and serious

  • @helline9
    @helline9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2242

    The most attractive thing about introverts is that they don't need you, they are not needy dead-weights. They're with you because they want to, they spend time with you only because they enjoy your company.
    Thus every day a introvert chooses to spend with you is a compliment.

    • @GamingMineCraftful
      @GamingMineCraftful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Spoken like a true introvert
      Well said, sir

    • @indridcold8433
      @indridcold8433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I am an introvert. I am frightened of the potential of humans. Thus, I keep my distance from all. I have nobody for company. I have chosen a reclusive lifestyle to maximise the possibility of horrible social events that took place in 2000 not repeating again. I learn from my mistakes. What I have learned from one of my mistakes is that I am safer and better without humans in my life. The ancient instinct to herd will always be there. But the beauty of being a homo sapien is the ability to deny ancient instincts and not act on them. No other animal can do that.

    • @SherealynRemigio
      @SherealynRemigio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right about that! 👌

    • @elizabethtimothy4776
      @elizabethtimothy4776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂 so me, so true!

    • @michellelockett6518
      @michellelockett6518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I feel like you are describing cats, as an introvert myself this may explain why I love cats

  • @d3einc393
    @d3einc393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1815

    Them : She is quiet. She hardly talks. Is she okay?
    Me in my head : please don't come here. I am fine. I am just reserved. I don't want to be part of your not so deep discussions.
    Edit : 1.1k likes! Thank you guys so much❤

    • @maritesmalik294
      @maritesmalik294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Less friend,less trouble; less talk,less problem!!!

    • @d3einc393
      @d3einc393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@maritesmalik294 trueee

    • @kenzostaelens1688
      @kenzostaelens1688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ah yes only talking out of bare nessecity(i probably butchered that word)

    • @HaileyAcosta0221
      @HaileyAcosta0221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So true

    • @___MJ____
      @___MJ____ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly

  • @blendering3D
    @blendering3D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    There was this girl in class that was about to start a presentation and seemed very nervous, so I fixed my eyes on hers all the way through and she noticeable seemed more confident and comfortable when speaking out. I do that everytime someone seems anxious, they fix their eyes on mine as well and they just do a great job presenting a topic
    I believe that we can be very influential and comforting people

    • @az3253
      @az3253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      you are a good person.
      I also try to do the same thing when they give a presentation.

    • @sstephiL
      @sstephiL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Pablo, good job mate!

    • @tommytwotone81
      @tommytwotone81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's very thoughtful and extremely inspiring, selfless acts aimed towards others whom we don't or barely know could change the world if everyone did it everyday! But I also think one person doing it one time at the right time could change the world either way it's an awesome thing to do and we need more people like you and me because I do stuff like that any chance I get. And I'm glad to know there's other people willing to do things simply to help another with no gain or underlying goal.

    • @floofyt2008
      @floofyt2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a good person, thank you

    • @jacksonwaldon
      @jacksonwaldon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re going to get a gf one day doing that

  • @marynucom5300
    @marynucom5300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3656

    Extroverts in quarantine:
    Damn it's so boring here at home
    Introverts in quarantine:
    Hmm being at home is so nice

  • @bluelotusnefertoum2144
    @bluelotusnefertoum2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3495

    being a introvert is a gift and a curse

    • @aslamalikhan8322
      @aslamalikhan8322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ftyr67 teddy uh hg fi uyhyt deciding decision is your's?

    • @jamesjackson6563
      @jamesjackson6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      Yeah it's not a curse I'm in my early 20s and I have no friends I travel alone all the time it's the best

    • @bluelotusnefertoum2144
      @bluelotusnefertoum2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Ag Agios *facts*

    • @jamesjackson6563
      @jamesjackson6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Ag Agios 😁😁 well.... I'll do what I always do walk away from people who are weird and laugh with a smile 💯

    • @Sariine436
      @Sariine436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Being alone is the best but being lonely is the worse.

  • @vickidavis4125
    @vickidavis4125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As an introvert, it's really hard to find a real friend. We need him/her to be loyal, normal, and self confident, and so many people think we like them, but really we don't.

    • @seanflowers2149
      @seanflowers2149 ปีที่แล้ว

      You...have all of those problems too?

    • @fayedeutsher9387
      @fayedeutsher9387 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an introvert I have a small group of much loved friends - known each other for years been thru milestones in their lives - I cherish their love and friendship - they get me! I love and respect them for that 💕

    • @aam5585
      @aam5585 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you suppose we resolve this and maintain clarity?

    • @MentalStillness
      @MentalStillness ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love yourself and manifest true friends. You attract what you are so become confident and heal yourself not insecure and a self loather. We can be free and don't have to beat ourselves up because we don't appreciate ourselves. Been there done that.

    • @almafoscablo4805
      @almafoscablo4805 ปีที่แล้ว

      True I'm introvert too its really hard to find real friend

  • @jungkookmaknae_is_a_hyung_9843
    @jungkookmaknae_is_a_hyung_9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    As an introvert, I'm sooooooooo observant. I'll pick up the slightest things or details that most people will just overlook.
    -It's both good and bad.

    • @raimasaharoy8026
      @raimasaharoy8026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky to find an army just like me😭 💜💜💜

    • @shad0wgust586
      @shad0wgust586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same! Whenever at parties I observe things that others dont and try to hold my laughter in when I realise that someone is doing or saying something funny unintentionally

    • @dollyjoven4910
      @dollyjoven4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @dollyjoven4910
      @dollyjoven4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shad0wgust586 same-

    • @varunsingh8322
      @varunsingh8322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah like while people are talking to me I'm busy tryna understand their body language and other stuff

  • @charlytigress6944
    @charlytigress6944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1717

    Because of good listening skills, people tend to dump their emotions on you all the time but they never listen to you also

  • @samanmhmdy3539
    @samanmhmdy3539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    I constantly being asked "Why are you so quiet?"
    I'm not quiet, I just don't talk to you.

    • @Wabi258
      @Wabi258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Bro can't agree more

    • @YouDoNotKnowWhoIAm
      @YouDoNotKnowWhoIAm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      People have been asking me that too. Every time I tried to answer, hoping that they would leave me alone after that or start talking about something else, they kept adding more questions, making me more and more uncomfortable.

    • @HaileyAcosta0221
      @HaileyAcosta0221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true

    • @jn4761
      @jn4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha, same tho

    • @smiles175
      @smiles175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nobody talks to me 😔 they only talk to me when they need something

  • @shugarlipsy6826
    @shugarlipsy6826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    One thing about we introverts is that we do not talk but when we come close to this one person...... We can talk and talk and talk
    😀

  • @yashasvimadhuvarshi2855
    @yashasvimadhuvarshi2855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Being an introvert, people like me doesn't want to be in place where there are way too many people.... Best place to see is NATURE 😌...

    • @user-qv9sr6li8d
      @user-qv9sr6li8d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No .. many people if people positive ok .. but place at many negative PEOPLE problem for INTROVERTED

    • @railroadforest30
      @railroadforest30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t mind being around people i just don’t like interacting with them but I like being in the woods

    • @ay-tj7pj
      @ay-tj7pj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      & library because we're not normal

  • @youtubedislikebutton9599
    @youtubedislikebutton9599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9348

    travis scott burger

    • @whoops487
      @whoops487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Same haha

    • @addylyse9223
      @addylyse9223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Same!😂

    • @kumi2686
      @kumi2686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Yep

    • @moneyball8287
      @moneyball8287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Well thank you

    • @Neelam99
      @Neelam99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I'm an introvert... And I'm thinking the same... 😂😂😂....

  • @timefliesaway999
    @timefliesaway999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2711

    “Introverts are always seen at a party”
    Are you sure you know what being an introvert mean?

    • @grandpawnapkins7429
      @grandpawnapkins7429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +358

      Im home 90% of the time lol

    • @timefliesaway999
      @timefliesaway999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Darkana Roz same, maybe even 95%

    • @WildWing-wl7nj
      @WildWing-wl7nj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Yep, he definitely got this one wrong.

    • @timefliesaway999
      @timefliesaway999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      WildWing 1955 not just this one. There were more “facts” that he said, which are the opposite of being an introvert.

    • @vddngddnd4306
      @vddngddnd4306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Introvert doesn't equal to shy, I'm ambivert tho

  • @msmarks1130
    @msmarks1130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I think we're so attractive because us introverts don't need anyone. You never catch us really being needy. We're satisfied in our own skin. There's a lot of power in not needing validation.

  • @generalblitzblizzard7334
    @generalblitzblizzard7334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    "13 reasons why introverts are so attractrive"
    Me: Dont do that, dont give me hope

    • @mr.dawson1988
      @mr.dawson1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @outlawprinz
      @outlawprinz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I've heard about surveys that say, Girls are more attracted to introverts... Well I am still single.

    • @onlyforstudy
      @onlyforstudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@outlawprinz damn metooooooooo

    • @ThatOneGuyOnVeniceBeach
      @ThatOneGuyOnVeniceBeach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @joeelis1078
      @joeelis1078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Word

  • @shashankjoshi6993
    @shashankjoshi6993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2200

    I thought I was the one introvert who don't have much friends but I found many of my type in this comment section 😎😎

  • @housel9352
    @housel9352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1856

    The annoying thing that us introverts dont understand: Our whole point of existence is to avoid people, but somehow we're the ones that attract all the attention 😑

    • @jinnieinabottle6045
      @jinnieinabottle6045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Exactly 😐

    • @ChicagoTurtle1
      @ChicagoTurtle1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Well, introversion according to Jung, isn’t anti-social or an inability to socialize. This isn’t just urban myths.

    • @daemilee1497
      @daemilee1497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ughhhh true...

    • @SoulPlantedDeep
      @SoulPlantedDeep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Housel Omgggg so true!!! I hate it so much 😣

    • @ahmadhakim9792
      @ahmadhakim9792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i dont even know im existed to their mind

  • @uditikrishna9649
    @uditikrishna9649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Introverts are just so underrated in our society!!!

    • @KinG-ct6tc
      @KinG-ct6tc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u sure about that

    • @MrPablukka
      @MrPablukka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      maybe not underrated, but the terms "introvert" and "extrovert" is kind of.... unknown.. not everyone knows which one they are. or rather, if i say that i want to be alone no-one understands that

  • @jhoenawook1565
    @jhoenawook1565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    proud introvert here..being alone is relaxing i enjoy it..

  • @shilpaniraj1980
    @shilpaniraj1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1297

    Introverts often end up being called anti-social. 😕 It's sad. Only chatterboxes are considered friendly.

    • @jeffreyspencer2995
      @jeffreyspencer2995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah soo true

    • @bruh......2005
      @bruh......2005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Litteraly my family. They don't know the difference between an Anti-social and an Introvert. It's soo fucking annoying😩😡

    • @lorrimiller7010
      @lorrimiller7010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      But over a period of time your opinion and point of view will be more respected. People will realize you are more trustworthy. Basically you become everyone’s guru.

    • @anthonyhutchins2300
      @anthonyhutchins2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Asocial*

    • @ScarChrome
      @ScarChrome 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bruh......2005 I feel you

  • @Aperson_888yearsago
    @Aperson_888yearsago 4 ปีที่แล้ว +934

    Video to introverts: You’re attractive.
    Me: In class being ignored by everyone.
    Are you sure?

    • @Misterkill800
      @Misterkill800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      me at work and life in general. sucks some times to be like a ghost. but gives me a lot of time to come up with great stories and thoughts about things.

    • @mavemaggulle6677
      @mavemaggulle6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      you learn more about people when you are ignored than when they are arround

    • @ricks8139
      @ricks8139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Being attractive doesn't have to be beautiful it's the personality and your character...

    • @felopatermelika2040
      @felopatermelika2040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah I thought exactly same

    • @mercadalchristelledawn3617
      @mercadalchristelledawn3617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah.....

  • @Angel-xn8qy
    @Angel-xn8qy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm really happy that someone calls me attractive , smart , loyal I'm so happy

  • @txtmcsoobinyeonjun7849
    @txtmcsoobinyeonjun7849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    An extrovert"I wish quarantine won't last "
    Introvert"How I wish it would last forever"
    Introverts will get it.

  • @hannah3555
    @hannah3555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    Proud to be an introvert.

  • @Sebastian-xp9eb
    @Sebastian-xp9eb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    He's so weird he never talks.
    Me: I'm sorry if I'm not interested in your boring arguments.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The talk could be weird☣️

    • @shaikm5151
      @shaikm5151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Anthony 50 lmfao with a personality like that you’re the one whose gonna die alone

    • @rupal2907
      @rupal2907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @drummonkeystuffuk1875
      @drummonkeystuffuk1875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Anthony 50 Thats total nonsense, I'm an introvert and have had relationships. Introverts don't need constant validation from others.

    • @HaileyAcosta0221
      @HaileyAcosta0221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shaikm5151 ikr

  • @bnsyphotography2104
    @bnsyphotography2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I'm an introvert, and this is all true. Daydreaming is brilliant. Having the ability to enter your own world, do whatever you want. Years ago back in high school, I would daydream a lot in class. I'm one of those weird people that love dreary, grey, rainy, cold and foggy days. Find it relaxing and comforting. I can think clearer during that weather. I'd love to drive on a road through a forest whilst it's foggy, rainy and cold.
    I've been more interested in art and writing. Writing a few books right now. I'm currently doing a photography course at University. I also did a graphic design course last year.
    During this Covid, us introverts love it that we can stay home. We don't have to go out and socialise, we don't have to deal with presenting in front of people, we can sit at home and work. Being an introvert is awesome. I'm 20 by the way.

    • @danilvanlaethem9463
      @danilvanlaethem9463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      All what you had just written was relateble for me. I am the only one in my class who likes rainy cloudy days. Finally someone who understands me ;-;

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj ปีที่แล้ว

      I am an ambivert so I am both intro and extroverted. But I can totally relate to everything you said. I loved quarantine as I can stay home and away from all of the noises of the outer world. However, I like going out sometimes too. Basically being an ambivert, I can go either way. I love being flexible and having the traits of intro and extroverts, but it can get tiring.
      Yes I love daydreaming but still stay realistic too. However, daydreaming is a good refuge to deal with stress.

  • @afsl808
    @afsl808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I don't want to be alone, i don't want to be socialize either

  • @jassiprasad9377
    @jassiprasad9377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Me after reading the comments : *Yeah proud to be an introvert*

  • @momoolaadeniran5493
    @momoolaadeniran5493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1031

    "They are kind and generous"
    Me: But people take my kindness for being "weak"

    • @thereseclarke318
      @thereseclarke318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i block some ppl on social media, treat them casually but they still dont understand: you are boring me! your arguments are redundant

    • @anunknowncat4832
      @anunknowncat4832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @Anthony 50 I am an introvert and I am a female.And believe me,we are not afraid of being alone.We actually like it.

    • @mizsx9944
      @mizsx9944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True

    • @momoolaadeniran5493
      @momoolaadeniran5493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Anthony 50 I don't mean to sound unbearably optimistic, but there are women who ACTUALLY like introverts and would date one....

    • @samipbaral5584
      @samipbaral5584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Anthony 50 ok boomer

  • @aks6154
    @aks6154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Introverts evoke a lot of envy in others as to how they can be so content with themselves and can go through challenges and hardship so gracefully without complaining. I am surrounded by quite a toxic people who long to see me break down and they hate that despite all the troubles they create for me I continue to smile and rarely show a sign of distress. It greatly pisses them off.

    • @basdenhartogh1954
      @basdenhartogh1954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds pretty horrible being near people as toxic as that hope your holding up Alright

  • @Nicole-gw4dk
    @Nicole-gw4dk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    "I can't hear you"
    "scream it"
    "Why is she/he doing nothing?"
    "Come sit at the front"
    "You're so innocent"
    "You need to talk more"
    "What's your idea?"
    "I think I'm talking too much, I'll let you lead the conversation"
    "Speak your mind"
    "I didn't notice you!"
    "You came in the room like a ninja!"
    Story of our lives

    • @Samurai-sv2wz
      @Samurai-sv2wz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nicole van duinen sounds familiar.

    • @bananajulia8388
      @bananajulia8388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      "It's the 1st time you spoke!"
      "I thought you're mute"
      "Why are you just nodding? Speak!"
      "Speak louder! I can't hear you."

    • @stellabrandt1249
      @stellabrandt1249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh god i relate so much and i get out and in of class as if i was invisible🤣
      And nobody notice😉
      Lol sorry😆

    • @crystalcave727
      @crystalcave727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg omg omg i can relatee!

    • @m.c.martin
      @m.c.martin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      “Why are you so quiet?”

  • @darkbrothr3717
    @darkbrothr3717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    What makes an introvert attractive
    Me: Don’t do that, don’t give me hope

    • @lovenlaughswishersweet9486
      @lovenlaughswishersweet9486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your personality? Cuz your comment 😂

    • @oreo5597
      @oreo5597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see your a man of culture as well. Great meme

    • @sarahg8611
      @sarahg8611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      XD same tho...

  • @princemcgregor4959
    @princemcgregor4959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    We introverts are love to take "ME TIME" than having fun with others but being alone doesnt mean we are lonely.

    • @janelc1843
      @janelc1843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yah my family just don't understand the fact that I need time in my day to be alone, with myself, no one around... quarentine was a nightmare for that

    • @trinitycarlton355
      @trinitycarlton355 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true yesss!!

  • @waedjradi
    @waedjradi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    They have some of the biggest hearts.

  • @evangeline9096
    @evangeline9096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    As an introvert, I clicked on this because my immediate reaction was "wait is that an actual thing?" lol

  • @arminphulkar2442
    @arminphulkar2442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1004

    I can't believe this, it kind of list all the things I thought people will never get, being an introvert is like. We often get blamed for being mysterious and weird, but they don't understand that there are reasons for it.

    • @thenightbringer9770
      @thenightbringer9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Armin Phulkar I like mysterious things and peoples and adventures ( I’m an intro)

    • @alfordromney2672
      @alfordromney2672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      u damn Right! 🤸🤸🤸

    • @BeulahKuku
      @BeulahKuku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sigh.

    • @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129
      @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Armin Phulkar--Your right.

    • @moneyball8287
      @moneyball8287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@qtmspctonydlonewolf9129 *you're

  • @blessedchrists3995
    @blessedchrists3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    As an introvert, I can tell, when someone is faking friendships, I can tell when someone doesn't like me. Is moody and the only way out, is put a fence and deny or LIMIT your access to me. 🤣🤣

    • @iamironman3388
      @iamironman3388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m an introvert and someone pretended to be my friend for 2 years before he moved schools. I didn’t realize he was faking for another 3 years after that. I haven’t seen him since and I don’t really care. Lol

    • @fairyfddus7860
      @fairyfddus7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The things you two said I can relate to 100%, except when it came down to my "friend" I was the one who moved schools (homescool). And I am extremely happy my parents took me out of public school!

    • @larrypr3cious776
      @larrypr3cious776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are like me, I know all that and read minds sometimes

    • @aasclub6599
      @aasclub6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100%so me alllllll the way

    • @Barni2212
      @Barni2212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep, can relate to the previous comments. I had a friend. He was my best friend (or i thought) We were together through primary school and high-school. But after that he went to University. In university he changed drastically. I wasn't important anymore for him. I was thrown away like garbage.

  • @elliottthompson2745
    @elliottthompson2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Introvert at home: *gaining energy*
    Extrovert out with friends: *gaining energy*
    Ambiverts: *ULTIMATE POWER*

    • @triton6696
      @triton6696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That made me laugh, thank you :)

    • @elliottthompson2745
      @elliottthompson2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Rasmus Vester haha no problem, glad I could help brighten your day :)

    • @davidlagunas2709
      @davidlagunas2709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, this comment is everything.

    • @shahaban8585
      @shahaban8585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iam ambivert

    • @abantikapaul9978
      @abantikapaul9978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am an introvert 😊

  • @tiasthetic
    @tiasthetic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm happy to see that being an introvert is a good thing .... thanks

  • @NOCONTENT660
    @NOCONTENT660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    I’m not shy I just like being alone

    • @lovenlaughswishersweet9486
      @lovenlaughswishersweet9486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      For me I may be a little shy I guess but mostly because I dont like wasting my time on bs or wasting my breathe which I've done most my life

    • @zeuop2972
      @zeuop2972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well I am terribly shy. Seems like being an introvert and also a shy is the deadliest combo ever

    • @NeonJJ_195
      @NeonJJ_195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zeuop2972 Same. I kinda feel like the 'internet me' is the real me lmao

    • @rowarjhonandrade2800
      @rowarjhonandrade2800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same dude💞....
      There's no need to be shy...just ignore who hate or like you..for me that's the best way..

    • @neminex915
      @neminex915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same and I like chilling with other introverts

  • @fredericoiglesias-adorno5700
    @fredericoiglesias-adorno5700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    I'm an introvert,I'd like to thank the person who put this out.
    I feel very appreciated.
    Thanks again.

    • @chinneynz7861
      @chinneynz7861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He did an awesome job.

    • @rowarjhonandrade2800
      @rowarjhonandrade2800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah he did...but how about bad looking...just like me🥺how can be attractive 🥺... it's better to love myself alone...

    • @aasclub6599
      @aasclub6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he sure did I thank him a lot people need to know we r the shit 1000% with no doubt we r winners

  • @rhodoramaravilla
    @rhodoramaravilla ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm an introvert person, I want to thank you for all the good things you've shared about us introverts. Absolutely true.👍👍

  • @srilatha5053
    @srilatha5053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    But introverts have good heart ,,they never cheat in love
    Me🙋

  • @muffychao2373
    @muffychao2373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    With all the CHAOS going around (Coronavirus Madness) I've never been more happy to be an introvert!
    I definitely won't have a problem with social distancing LMAO!!😎

  • @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq
    @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love spending time with nature.

  • @Jmitez
    @Jmitez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m an introvert... I get exhausted being in groups of people for long periods of time and I can agree with most of what was said in the video! I always wondered why people would be so keen on talking to me/being my friend when I just always mind my own business. I never went out of my way to make friends, they’ve always just came to me, it’s weird, just realized this after watching this!!!!

  • @paigemills67
    @paigemills67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm an Introvert, but people often think I'm a snob, which is totally opposite of who I really am.

    • @rachelmendoza2973
      @rachelmendoza2973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm an introvert,and me too they think I'm a snob.. it's just bcoz I don't want to communicate to other people that much..and I am more comfortable to talk to strangers in a short period of time bcoz it's a less act of judgement from them

    • @elizabethtimothy4776
      @elizabethtimothy4776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's is so true, been called a snob since I could talk, only for some that stumbled on me having a great relationship with someone they know and the surprise is always amusing to me, some of them will ask how my friend got to be with me, lol.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'd rather be a snob than dead☣️

    • @runner6tin662
      @runner6tin662 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anthony 50 lol you really be doing that as a 52 year old, their are plenty of married introverts out their, quit spreading that hate, all it will do is hurt people

    • @Bad_At_Parties
      @Bad_At_Parties 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly, it seems like if you aren't willing to join in the "group" discussion (trivial or overly personal talk that can get obnoxious) you can be viewed as above everyone else and get an elitist vibe. *eyeroll*

  • @jerryryan36
    @jerryryan36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I'm an introvert but truthfully I have trouble with my words and getting my thoughts out correctly when I speak :(

    • @TheRexnak
      @TheRexnak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I hear ya, as i have the same problem, and sometimes when i think of the sentence while saying it, i tend to forget the last word and people usually say the last word before i can remember it again :/

    • @thebookworm235
      @thebookworm235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too..

    • @asanweera5648
      @asanweera5648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @asanweera5648
      @asanweera5648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's because we talk rearly, I guess. When the time I did public speaking frequently, I didn't have that problem, but after sometime, I had the same issue.

    • @tapiwakay
      @tapiwakay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Write

  • @syzygy3239
    @syzygy3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I rarely interact with new people anymore. I've been married for 26 years and my beautiful wife is nearly my complete opposite. She brings a whole different set of colors to life. She helps me stay honest within my head. I also have 3 daughters. The unconditional love I have for them make me feel vulnerable but I wouldn't change it for anything. Make sure that when you find someone that you share everything upfront. Its what has kept us together. Enjoy life. Dream big. And do the things that make you happy.

  • @younissumaling8744
    @younissumaling8744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    as an introvert myself
    this made my night
    thank you very much!

  • @gor7444
    @gor7444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I’m an introvert myself and really attracted to introverts too

    • @lovenlaughswishersweet9486
      @lovenlaughswishersweet9486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ha me too. This guy at work I find myself attracted to him. Chill laid back dont talk much to anyone

    • @tessyodita2344
      @tessyodita2344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am a scopio and an introvert

    • @sunshinebronze5815
      @sunshinebronze5815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I prefer introverts, over extroverts.

    • @neminex915
      @neminex915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tessyodita2344 same most scorpio are

    • @NiME_000
      @NiME_000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @jayecandiceramintas2623
    @jayecandiceramintas2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    We introverts are scary when angry!

    • @lovenlaughswishersweet9486
      @lovenlaughswishersweet9486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm introvert and also have rbf on top of that lol

    • @cesiajades
      @cesiajades 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ah...the beloved glare we can give off😎😂

    • @spookygamingskeleton3797
      @spookygamingskeleton3797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      people just run away or avoid me when im angry

    • @_Bloom_307
      @_Bloom_307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ah yes

    • @cesiajades
      @cesiajades 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@_Bloom_307 are u an intovert ur self, good sir?
      (I realize how stupid of a question that is :p)

  • @Monet.cherie
    @Monet.cherie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love living as a introvert✨

  • @metalzonemt-2
    @metalzonemt-2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    "Rather than trying to crack the funniest joke..."
    I don't need to try, I'm funnier than most people I've ever met.

    • @jn4761
      @jn4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hahaha, right, same tho

    • @aasclub6599
      @aasclub6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen, Period

    • @anndavis2920
      @anndavis2920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats what Ive been told by my true friends. 8-13-21

  • @redreaper7417
    @redreaper7417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    what attracted me to my introvert friend was she was very good at sketching and i always wanted to be atleast decent at drawing so i befriended her to get some pointers.. she talked less but when we converse it never felt like an idle chatter..its very calming when we find a good scenery to sketch, find a good spot and just sketch untill the sun set..its so chill whenever im around her..

    • @chaseparson9120
      @chaseparson9120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm that type of introvert.

    • @timelapse4088
      @timelapse4088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s so cute

    • @YoshiPotter88
      @YoshiPotter88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm an Introvert and to be honest I can't draw in my life I just can't do it, I can barely draw a stick man! But I do know a lot of people who are exactly like that lets just say there are a lot of Introverts in my group! 🤣😂

  • @jessygutierrez3204
    @jessygutierrez3204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    I'm an introvert, afraid of attention , my officemates think I'm weird and snob because I don't talk too much. They don't know that I can be talkative too if I'm with my friends because I'm comfortable with them.

    • @redditsource1972
      @redditsource1972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have the same problem. I don't get the snob art, I' just not interested in what you have to say.

    • @philipwong5066
      @philipwong5066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      we're often the most talkative among people we're comfortable with and with fellow introverts lol.

    • @arireactsssz5662
      @arireactsssz5662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Philip Wong this is sooo right

    • @portiafosuaa3695
      @portiafosuaa3695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can we be friends

    • @arireactsssz5662
      @arireactsssz5662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Philip Wong yes

  • @johnniedean2967
    @johnniedean2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every time I listen to these videos, I learned more about myself. It seems that they know me better than I could ever imagine.

  • @goldenglider1703
    @goldenglider1703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I like how this dude always makes us sound awesome, but back in the day we were the ones bullied and mocked for being quit, thinkers and reserved. Being different has never been so cool as it is now, or is it just me who feels that way?

  • @jansqu
    @jansqu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    It is so wonderful to finally accept myself. My whole life I have thought that there is something wrong with me. Now I know, i am an introvert and PROUD of it❤️

    • @aasclub6599
      @aasclub6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes Janette me too I’m very proud of being myself

    • @fubarmodelyard1392
      @fubarmodelyard1392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There's nothing wrong with us. It's just the way we are

  • @user-bl3xf8ez6w
    @user-bl3xf8ez6w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Brainy dose: 13 reason why introverts are attractive
    Introverts: are you sure about that?
    After watching the video
    Introverts: nevermind it's accurate

  • @greenmachine8709
    @greenmachine8709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's both a gift and a curse, I have a pretty good idea when people are being honest, and when they're not. I almost feel like I'm psychic sometimes

    • @Empress_jawhara
      @Empress_jawhara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I feel I can read people, I could see through them

  • @gregoryk6279
    @gregoryk6279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Me :seating alone in a restaurant eating
    Ppl :do u mind us seatin at your table ?
    Me :sure np!
    Inter me :noooooo why didn't u just go somewhere else😂

    • @sunshinebronze5815
      @sunshinebronze5815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly. Now its Time to go!

    • @ikmal63h17
      @ikmal63h17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happen to me at school couple years ago when my friend absent and I was at library sitting alone but there is group of girls came and asked if they can sit with me and I don't know what wrong with my mind I just instantly said yes. I'm so nervous because I'm not really good at talking with girls and most of time in school I was only with my friends so this is bad situation for me. Luckily,they actually nice and they want to know more about me like what I like and etcetera.After that yeah they always come hang out with me more and my friends curious af how girls be friends with me.

    • @awesome_by_default
      @awesome_by_default 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ikmal63h17 Your friend: "I leave you alone one time and you somehow start talking to all these girls? You hiding something from me or what?" XD

  • @TruthNJustice33
    @TruthNJustice33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    We are so attractive because we are so attached and attracted to our own selves. We don't have room for the none sense talks, toxic talks, or others people drama
    Our time is too precious, and we love our own company.
    This video describes exactly how I am, and who I am.
    Thank you Brainy Dose. You rock.👍👍👍🙂😃

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great comment!! @ Ray Of Light Rayo de Luz

    • @georgeturner301
      @georgeturner301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nicely put! Too me a long time to get comfortable in my own skin!! once that happened; I became more comfortable outside myself, and with others.

    • @dashiajames1882
      @dashiajames1882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ray of Light: Love what you wrote...!! Couldn't have said it better.

    • @dashiajames1882
      @dashiajames1882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This literally described me to a T...!!

    • @elizasmith5201
      @elizasmith5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

  • @nbs07
    @nbs07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    We don’t judge anyone and receive everyone the way they are. We dont like someone sharing too much personal information and we don’t mind to stop them if it’s too much unnecessary. We be quite and listen to a friend when needed and don’t rush to give advise just coz they are sharing their feelings with us we give suggestions only when we feel they are asking for it and help in all conditions. We like texting over talking with others and love to talk/meet instead of texting with loved ones

    • @skcrd6816
      @skcrd6816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      totally true except the text thing it's too specific to be taken as "introvert behavior".

    • @obianujuchris579
      @obianujuchris579 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gosh!!! So true, especially the last sentence!

  • @VegasLoungeAct
    @VegasLoungeAct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I had a very basic understanding of introvert & extrovert, but just started diving into it. Glad to get some answers about my personality (introvert) in-depth and know I'm not just strange because I prefer alone time and loathe small talk.

  • @floofyt2008
    @floofyt2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am both an extrovert and an introvert I am about 12 percent extroverted and 88 percent introverted. Thank you for making this, it made my day.

  • @vishakhatanwar6212
    @vishakhatanwar6212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    During lockdownn ?
    Social distancing :- ohhhh not a big deal (introverts )😂😂

    • @markazain8996
      @markazain8996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Introvert: first time? 🤣

    • @apurplegoldenfaith7
      @apurplegoldenfaith7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In my school..
      Teachers says: You all need to social distancing. I know. . . I know. . . it's hard-
      Me: *No it's not hard. I'm expert in it since there's no covid.*

    • @poketunes2512
      @poketunes2512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah...

    • @sunshinebronze5815
      @sunshinebronze5815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fact.

    • @sateeshkumar5466
      @sateeshkumar5466 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ya so true not a big deal, that's what i do daily ,

  • @ImagineYouAre
    @ImagineYouAre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I'm not sure about attractive, but I'm definitely an Introvert. It was hard to admit it, but when I embrace it my life has changed and now I'm proud of who I am.

    • @brettelway6576
      @brettelway6576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup that definitely helps. Especially if you find out and embrace it while you're are younger

  • @katherinechant7606
    @katherinechant7606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for this, as an introvert I feel misunderstood. It's great to hear something positive.

  • @tessiecampion6895
    @tessiecampion6895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I was younger I never felt comfortable being around large gatherings and would often take off on my own. Now I know why. Embracing my idiosyncrasies and proud to be an introvert.😁

  • @personaladventures5841
    @personaladventures5841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You can't find introvert in the crowd.were in the corner observing everyone the way they talked.the way they smile.how they react on things.we notice the smallest things and reaction

    • @annekirstenfuentes9459
      @annekirstenfuentes9459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just love Observing People, it gives me Inspirations for Writing my Own Webnovels...

    • @abdoabdelazez8960
      @abdoabdelazez8960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes true but it gets anxiety if u deeply focused on details

  • @jfsebastian7811
    @jfsebastian7811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Being an introvert during the current Covid 19 lockdowns. I got this covered.

    • @chinneynz7861
      @chinneynz7861 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Randall... Ha ha ha ha ha.....you are a legend.. LMAO.

  • @mohdatif5037
    @mohdatif5037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Others:Introverts are antisocial
    Me:We are not antisocial we enjoy very much socialising with the right people at the right moments for the right amount of time👍
    OMG 😱 I haven't got that much likes in my life ever thank you so much for liking my comment 🥺

  • @alicehong7809
    @alicehong7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been introverted my whole life but never knew myself. I am still learning about myself.
    Also, I didn’t think before I spoke. Again, still learning.
    I am an impulsive introvert.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    When you spend a lot of time on your own, you'll more likely learn about yourself to a larger extend, compared to others.

  • @martinvargas4778
    @martinvargas4778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Every single thing he said is literally me

  • @mzhighlyuntouchable7779
    @mzhighlyuntouchable7779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE BEING AN INTROVERT ❤️ ONE OF MY BEST TRAITS💯 PERIOD‼️💯

  • @lorooko449
    @lorooko449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “They’re great listeners”
    Me: mentally drained, desperately looking for a way to escape the conversation and left wordless by how long they can keep talking without even noticing how apathetic and careless I couldn’t be more

  • @mameyoni625
    @mameyoni625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Being an introvert is a gift 🕳

    • @thenightbringer9770
      @thenightbringer9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wolfgem Playz 101 me too 😊

    • @thenightbringer9770
      @thenightbringer9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wolfgem Playz 101 yep 👍 😝

    • @jamesjackson6563
      @jamesjackson6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it's definitely a gift

    • @apoostain49
      @apoostain49 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Being an introvert is a double edge sword. Maybe even more so for the attractive ones. I’m attractive and when women see me they often drop jaws, turn necks, hell even stare at me when I walk away. I’m so shy, It’s mythical to approach a girl. With one irrational reason after another, I can’t seem bring myself together to do it. I freeze up, and they freeze up. It seems it is just as hard for women to approach me. Nothing ever happens. I don’t want to be single. I feel like me changing Is inevitable for me to get what I want. Some women do speak to me first and when that happens, it’s usually so subtle that I wouldn’t know how to keep it going. My responses tend to be short and to the point. -.- It gives them nothing to go off of. My charisma is stupendously stupid to strangers, that’s probably my biggest limiting belief and I don’t know how to change that with out experience. I feel like rejection, humility and disappointment is ahead of me. It’s probably why I’m not a go getter yet. It’s the irrational fear that holds me back. I have to believe that all of these things will be a Healthy experience. My anxiety freezes me up or makes me stutter, that alone is extremely discouraging. Being an introvert is a gift? I get that I have a lot of these qualities. I have a friend that Iv known since I was three years old. I do take care of my friends like family. They are the family we choose. I know I’m good guy. It’s just hard to feel gifted when our problems are so stupid and simple, for an extrovert.

    • @AshrafAli-qn3gb
      @AshrafAli-qn3gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm ambivert

  • @HM-kf2od
    @HM-kf2od 4 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    I’m definitely an introvert
    I always have been since I was a baby
    However when I’m really comfortable I can be loud around them and crazy
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    -
    Wow thank you for the likes! (^з^)-☆

  • @lancelord6704
    @lancelord6704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was down after someone talked about me being an introvert behind my back this video gave me enough courage to look down on them :)

  • @scrubfive9239
    @scrubfive9239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Introverts be like: this is true. I do have deep conversations with my anime bodypillow and I do display a sense of confidence to my 4 cats.

  • @failurez4387
    @failurez4387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1073

    we are reserved and don't need useless low iq drama so we stay single rather than having someome who's just interested in playing games and can't have deep conversations

    • @raoul861
      @raoul861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's so true... am Introvert at heart

    • @failurez4387
      @failurez4387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      happened to me a lot man..feels like we don't belong from this world so we stay alone due to high standards and have difficulty understanding people which only causes more anxiety and fear of wasting time

    • @BeulahKuku
      @BeulahKuku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Please, kmt.
      As if its only "extroverts" that start drama. You entitled, higher than thou introverts on the internet are absolutely infuriating!
      Can't you just recognise the good things about your personality without dragging extroverts down?
      It is so stupid, these complexes applied to race, gender, age, social class is what causes these stupid issues in society which ppl like you perpetuate.😒

    • @alfordromney2672
      @alfordromney2672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thats me . you fuckin right🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸

    • @BeulahKuku
      @BeulahKuku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am sitting here, as an extovert and I have all these "so called" introverted traits. I believe that the only difference between introverts and extroverts is mode of expression NOT mode of thought, goals, ect that is deluded to think imo. Non of us are special. Ffs.
      This whole topic really vexes me as you can tell because these ideas are destructive and not constructive

  • @kaitoachumi9677
    @kaitoachumi9677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Being an introverts is a blessing and am lucky to be one of it ...

  • @yashsingh1992
    @yashsingh1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As an introvert, I don't know if these are attractive qualities, but they are true qualities. Those who surround me don't value these qualities in me until they lose me.

  • @GreenOx-yo6nk
    @GreenOx-yo6nk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Her: He's wierd lol
    Me: No I just prefer to keep to myself while your busy pretending you like everyone in your friend group, I'd much rather keep to myself and be lost in my thoughts than have to interact with fake sugarcoating people like you who think they're great.

  • @bulls205
    @bulls205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    "Introverts are great listeners"
    Me, an introvert with ADHD: "Oh look a dog".

  • @geraldsummers8965
    @geraldsummers8965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Introverts do think outside the box.!!! They are very open minded and they like the learning concept of new things rather than having a closed mind.!!! Not having a open mind you don't allow yourself of learning new ideas.!!!

  • @micahsmith1738
    @micahsmith1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can’t tell if I’m an introvert or not I would much rather be by myself than with others but I also love talking to my few school friends

    • @gregsiegel7072
      @gregsiegel7072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are an introvert like me. I also love talking to my friends, but pick and choose them. I don't talk very much to others unless I think I may want to be friends with them.

  • @cherishedmomentsphotography
    @cherishedmomentsphotography 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As an Introvert, I agree with everything that was said on this video. "Let’s clear one thing up: Introverts do not hate small talk because we dislike people. We hate small talk because we hate the barrier it creates between people."

  • @hajimeyoo5810
    @hajimeyoo5810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Well, I said "I am an introvert" to my friends so they can understand if I don't want to go out too much, and they said "don't branded yourself, u just need to do it ". And I was like, ok but not everyone is the same :/
    Not everyone enjoy going out, hanging out, or just doing small talks
    Not everyone enjoy outdoor activities
    Not everyone can be talkative
    Please just understand that everybodey is different than u :)
    Hv a good day everyone!!

    • @aayushmaraut7695
      @aayushmaraut7695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, you are absolutely correct. We just need to be ourself and not fake, right?

    • @hajimeyoo5810
      @hajimeyoo5810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aayushmaraut7695 absolutely!!

    • @teenshii
      @teenshii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everytime I tried to be an extrovert, I'll be exhausted after 2 hours.
      We are born in a world created for extroverts.
      But let's just be ourselves. :D

    • @Bad_At_Parties
      @Bad_At_Parties 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your friends should be more understanding of your personality and respect your boundaries. Because them asking you to suck it up and go out with them in situations that don't make you comfortable and deplete your energy would be like you forcing them to stay inside all the time and never go out, which saps their energy too.

    • @hajimeyoo5810
      @hajimeyoo5810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Bad_At_Parties unfortunately I still haven't found any friend who understand or want to understand at least. They just simply brush me off when I said I need some time alone and that I'm exhausted, they said it like : if u don't want to go out with me then just say it, don't make reasons. So yeah, it's hard being an introvert sometimes.
      For those who are introvert like me tho, who will have a headache if u go out to a crowded place for too long, or when u feel so alone in the middle of the crowd *ending up breaking down when u reached your comfort space, and have this fear of people, just be your self. Don't be a fake version of yourself just to please others. Because there are someone out there who will accept u as u are. Even if that took a long time, some maybe lucky and already find it, or not so lucky like me.
      Because, like me, I was labelling myself as worthless just because I can't be like everyone else and got into depression but in the end I realize that we don't need someone who don't care. Let it go. Just love your un perfect self, and be that someone who always support your own self, u need it and u deserve it.

  • @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129
    @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Brainy Dose you're definitely badass! You told it like it is. All 13 qualities are me. It just breaks my heart that I struggle with finding someone to accept me that wants to be with me. Friendships are hard to make because most people are fake and I see it.
    Thanks again Brainy Dose! Tony D

    • @spiritualsoul2711
      @spiritualsoul2711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love seeing people like me. Hopefully we can find each other and connect....one day...

    • @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129
      @qtmspctonydlonewolf9129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spiritualsoul2711 Same here. Making a great connection with someone. That's something we want but only a few look for. You're right...One day

    • @forgespolyglothouse3555
      @forgespolyglothouse3555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am an introvert and same here but when i make relationship with someone it's serious, but if the person choses not to talk i won't push it and just forget about it) I hope we introverts can meet each other someday and make a great relationship) hold on there fellow introverts we are gonna go Through everything

    • @asianbabelifestyleph474
      @asianbabelifestyleph474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Were almost the same..i prefer to be alone 😊.amd they wanted to be frnds with me..they ask me to hang out..but its a no for me to hang out those people i dont want to be part of my life.....

    • @asanweera5648
      @asanweera5648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's great, if we could be friends

  • @Vagren
    @Vagren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's why I like eating in restaurants alone (when it was still permissible), because I love observing people. And I love the stark contrast between me and others and how I find that people nowadays don't enjoy their own company as much.

  • @jolly7728
    @jolly7728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The best information I've ever heard on introversion and everything you pointed out is true! I wonder what kind of partner they'd be interested in, though. And they need to be careful not to get exploited by narcissists!

  • @thetruthhurt9120
    @thetruthhurt9120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Being an introvert plus a Scorpio is of lethal combination!!!

    • @coldjalapeno8242
      @coldjalapeno8242 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeessss

    • @sorcha2892
      @sorcha2892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have an introverted friend who is a Scorpio plz explain what u mean!

    • @manellemaiouf7389
      @manellemaiouf7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uhhm imma taurus

    • @clonecommanderrex8542
      @clonecommanderrex8542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @YoshiPotter88
      @YoshiPotter88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I actually have a friend who is an Introvert as well and she is a Scorpio! But what do you mean by Lethal Combination?