13 Reasons Introverts Are So Attractive
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 มิ.ย. 2024
- There are reasons introverts are so attractive! That’s right! Introverted people seem to somehow just draw others toward them, without lifting a finger. Even though they prefer to spend time away from the crowds, they have a mysterious and magnetic presence that others find extremely alluring.
Introverts are honest and sincere, with an inquisitive mind and a deep respect for others.
These traits, along with the ones outlined in this list, shine through their character - which makes them truly beautiful people, inside and out.
If you’ve been wondering why you are so drawn to an introvert (or what it is that makes people drawn to you), watch this video and find out what makes introverts so attractive to others.
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We may be quiet, but we have the loudest minds.
We may seem cold, but we have the warmest hearts.
We may be alone, but we are not lonely.
Many people skate on our ice, not knowing how deep the lake is
I am Cold. My surname just happens to be Cold.
So true Tony walker at times I wish I could switch my mind off lol
Yes its true
Speak for yourself. Being lonely is a part of my life
We introvert do talk alot unless we find someone with whom we are comfortable😄
Absolutely bro.. 😅
true
@Rohan Shrestha trueee
Agreed
For me I always automatically prepare scenarios of conversation with someone and then its outcome and of the outcome isn't suitable according to me .I won't talk😅😅
Pro tip for introverts: you are most attractive when you’re not seeking attention, as soon as you try to act like an extrovert, things will turn awkward real quick.
actually a very good one
I’m an introvert and I have been trying to force myself to become more extroverted for the last 5-7 years. Ima stop doing that now. Thank you
@@iamironman3388 do whatever makes you the most comfortable
This is a good one
True that
No one has ever talked so nicely about me :')
You're right.....
@@simonefritz4687 ❤❤❤
Me either
Fr me too expect my bestie 🙂
Same
We introverts aren't rude, we're just less talkative!🙂
until we got comfortable to a person
Mark Reyes True because I’m a social introvert but am only very social when it’s a subject that I can relate to or a deep conversation and then learning from them too 😎
Yup
LOL bullshit My little brother is Extremely rude. My mother is too. Both introverts.. So after having seen over 25,000 people a day and arresting 3-5 people a day I certainly got to the point where I knew who was waiting to steal and who was thinking about it as they came in the door. non verbals were everywhere all over them.
Introverts to me are sooo bad at non-verbals and fear communication like most kids overly fear maths at school..
To me most people are very immature, the stats are that 95% of people use less than 5% of their listening skills. So I ask you to make some little logical steps and see that their are going to be people who are scared to talk and have so much fear that they just keep to themselves, they have learnt that they get drained of energy if they have people talking at them which is natural if you have bad "Active Listening skills" or non at all...
I come from an exclusive group of people who are far more effected by people and their sounds, movements, non verbals, noticeable emotional changes. Most people who have my curse are overwhelmed with depression or are autistic being unable to deal with the shear amount of information to their frontal lobe. to then 2 years later be able to remember clearly as if it is a video recording. So for me to look at a group of people who dodge society and call themselves introverts I scoff and laugh a little at their puny "im different, look at tiny shy me" type of "protest" LOL
Some of us are trying to survive out here and other are just Dumb pricks.. the rest are like cows to us who use so much of our brain its scary what we can accomplish.
@@8v71buses you just described me. Usually my topics of conversation is boring to normal people because they are deep and serious
The most attractive thing about introverts is that they don't need you, they are not needy dead-weights. They're with you because they want to, they spend time with you only because they enjoy your company.
Thus every day a introvert chooses to spend with you is a compliment.
Spoken like a true introvert
Well said, sir
I am an introvert. I am frightened of the potential of humans. Thus, I keep my distance from all. I have nobody for company. I have chosen a reclusive lifestyle to maximise the possibility of horrible social events that took place in 2000 not repeating again. I learn from my mistakes. What I have learned from one of my mistakes is that I am safer and better without humans in my life. The ancient instinct to herd will always be there. But the beauty of being a homo sapien is the ability to deny ancient instincts and not act on them. No other animal can do that.
Right about that! 👌
😂😂 so me, so true!
I feel like you are describing cats, as an introvert myself this may explain why I love cats
Them : She is quiet. She hardly talks. Is she okay?
Me in my head : please don't come here. I am fine. I am just reserved. I don't want to be part of your not so deep discussions.
Edit : 1.1k likes! Thank you guys so much❤
Less friend,less trouble; less talk,less problem!!!
@@maritesmalik294 trueee
ah yes only talking out of bare nessecity(i probably butchered that word)
So true
Exactly
There was this girl in class that was about to start a presentation and seemed very nervous, so I fixed my eyes on hers all the way through and she noticeable seemed more confident and comfortable when speaking out. I do that everytime someone seems anxious, they fix their eyes on mine as well and they just do a great job presenting a topic
I believe that we can be very influential and comforting people
you are a good person.
I also try to do the same thing when they give a presentation.
Pablo, good job mate!
That's very thoughtful and extremely inspiring, selfless acts aimed towards others whom we don't or barely know could change the world if everyone did it everyday! But I also think one person doing it one time at the right time could change the world either way it's an awesome thing to do and we need more people like you and me because I do stuff like that any chance I get. And I'm glad to know there's other people willing to do things simply to help another with no gain or underlying goal.
You are a good person, thank you
You’re going to get a gf one day doing that
Extroverts in quarantine:
Damn it's so boring here at home
Introverts in quarantine:
Hmm being at home is so nice
So true 🤣🤣
Same feeling
Yep
That's me love being home
Yes
being a introvert is a gift and a curse
ftyr67 teddy uh hg fi uyhyt deciding decision is your's?
Yeah it's not a curse I'm in my early 20s and I have no friends I travel alone all the time it's the best
@Ag Agios *facts*
@Ag Agios 😁😁 well.... I'll do what I always do walk away from people who are weird and laugh with a smile 💯
Being alone is the best but being lonely is the worse.
As an introvert, it's really hard to find a real friend. We need him/her to be loyal, normal, and self confident, and so many people think we like them, but really we don't.
You...have all of those problems too?
As an introvert I have a small group of much loved friends - known each other for years been thru milestones in their lives - I cherish their love and friendship - they get me! I love and respect them for that 💕
How do you suppose we resolve this and maintain clarity?
Love yourself and manifest true friends. You attract what you are so become confident and heal yourself not insecure and a self loather. We can be free and don't have to beat ourselves up because we don't appreciate ourselves. Been there done that.
True I'm introvert too its really hard to find real friend
As an introvert, I'm sooooooooo observant. I'll pick up the slightest things or details that most people will just overlook.
-It's both good and bad.
Lucky to find an army just like me😭 💜💜💜
Same! Whenever at parties I observe things that others dont and try to hold my laughter in when I realise that someone is doing or saying something funny unintentionally
same
@@shad0wgust586 same-
Yeah like while people are talking to me I'm busy tryna understand their body language and other stuff
Because of good listening skills, people tend to dump their emotions on you all the time but they never listen to you also
Totally agree
The accuracy 💯💯
Exactly
You literally just explained my life
I am an introvert , agree
I constantly being asked "Why are you so quiet?"
I'm not quiet, I just don't talk to you.
Bro can't agree more
People have been asking me that too. Every time I tried to answer, hoping that they would leave me alone after that or start talking about something else, they kept adding more questions, making me more and more uncomfortable.
So true
Hahaha, same tho
Nobody talks to me 😔 they only talk to me when they need something
One thing about we introverts is that we do not talk but when we come close to this one person...... We can talk and talk and talk
😀
Yeah that's true
Very true.
Yep.
Being an introvert, people like me doesn't want to be in place where there are way too many people.... Best place to see is NATURE 😌...
No .. many people if people positive ok .. but place at many negative PEOPLE problem for INTROVERTED
I don’t mind being around people i just don’t like interacting with them but I like being in the woods
& library because we're not normal
travis scott burger
Same haha
Same!😂
Yep
Well thank you
I'm an introvert... And I'm thinking the same... 😂😂😂....
“Introverts are always seen at a party”
Are you sure you know what being an introvert mean?
Im home 90% of the time lol
Darkana Roz same, maybe even 95%
Yep, he definitely got this one wrong.
WildWing 1955 not just this one. There were more “facts” that he said, which are the opposite of being an introvert.
Introvert doesn't equal to shy, I'm ambivert tho
I think we're so attractive because us introverts don't need anyone. You never catch us really being needy. We're satisfied in our own skin. There's a lot of power in not needing validation.
"13 reasons why introverts are so attractrive"
Me: Dont do that, dont give me hope
😂😂😂
I've heard about surveys that say, Girls are more attracted to introverts... Well I am still single.
@@outlawprinz damn metooooooooo
😂😂😂
Word
I thought I was the one introvert who don't have much friends but I found many of my type in this comment section 😎😎
Lol 💕
Same
They defined me ohh God😮
Yaa I m also introvert and I also don't have much friends😒
Better to have one solid real friend than a bunch of fake friends
The annoying thing that us introverts dont understand: Our whole point of existence is to avoid people, but somehow we're the ones that attract all the attention 😑
Exactly 😐
Well, introversion according to Jung, isn’t anti-social or an inability to socialize. This isn’t just urban myths.
Ughhhh true...
Housel Omgggg so true!!! I hate it so much 😣
i dont even know im existed to their mind
Introverts are just so underrated in our society!!!
R u sure about that
maybe not underrated, but the terms "introvert" and "extrovert" is kind of.... unknown.. not everyone knows which one they are. or rather, if i say that i want to be alone no-one understands that
proud introvert here..being alone is relaxing i enjoy it..
Introverts often end up being called anti-social. 😕 It's sad. Only chatterboxes are considered friendly.
Yeah soo true
Litteraly my family. They don't know the difference between an Anti-social and an Introvert. It's soo fucking annoying😩😡
But over a period of time your opinion and point of view will be more respected. People will realize you are more trustworthy. Basically you become everyone’s guru.
Asocial*
@@bruh......2005 I feel you
Video to introverts: You’re attractive.
Me: In class being ignored by everyone.
Are you sure?
me at work and life in general. sucks some times to be like a ghost. but gives me a lot of time to come up with great stories and thoughts about things.
you learn more about people when you are ignored than when they are arround
Being attractive doesn't have to be beautiful it's the personality and your character...
yeah I thought exactly same
Yeah.....
I'm really happy that someone calls me attractive , smart , loyal I'm so happy
An extrovert"I wish quarantine won't last "
Introvert"How I wish it would last forever"
Introverts will get it.
Proud to be an introvert.
Chan Kattie ME TOO
Me 2😄
Me too
Same🙂🙂🙂
Me too.
He's so weird he never talks.
Me: I'm sorry if I'm not interested in your boring arguments.
The talk could be weird☣️
Anthony 50 lmfao with a personality like that you’re the one whose gonna die alone
😂
@Anthony 50 Thats total nonsense, I'm an introvert and have had relationships. Introverts don't need constant validation from others.
@@shaikm5151 ikr
I'm an introvert, and this is all true. Daydreaming is brilliant. Having the ability to enter your own world, do whatever you want. Years ago back in high school, I would daydream a lot in class. I'm one of those weird people that love dreary, grey, rainy, cold and foggy days. Find it relaxing and comforting. I can think clearer during that weather. I'd love to drive on a road through a forest whilst it's foggy, rainy and cold.
I've been more interested in art and writing. Writing a few books right now. I'm currently doing a photography course at University. I also did a graphic design course last year.
During this Covid, us introverts love it that we can stay home. We don't have to go out and socialise, we don't have to deal with presenting in front of people, we can sit at home and work. Being an introvert is awesome. I'm 20 by the way.
All what you had just written was relateble for me. I am the only one in my class who likes rainy cloudy days. Finally someone who understands me ;-;
I am an ambivert so I am both intro and extroverted. But I can totally relate to everything you said. I loved quarantine as I can stay home and away from all of the noises of the outer world. However, I like going out sometimes too. Basically being an ambivert, I can go either way. I love being flexible and having the traits of intro and extroverts, but it can get tiring.
Yes I love daydreaming but still stay realistic too. However, daydreaming is a good refuge to deal with stress.
I don't want to be alone, i don't want to be socialize either
Me after reading the comments : *Yeah proud to be an introvert*
Yeah 🤗
Yeah.
Yeah😄
I’m very proud
Me too
"They are kind and generous"
Me: But people take my kindness for being "weak"
i block some ppl on social media, treat them casually but they still dont understand: you are boring me! your arguments are redundant
@Anthony 50 I am an introvert and I am a female.And believe me,we are not afraid of being alone.We actually like it.
True
@Anthony 50 I don't mean to sound unbearably optimistic, but there are women who ACTUALLY like introverts and would date one....
@Anthony 50 ok boomer
Introverts evoke a lot of envy in others as to how they can be so content with themselves and can go through challenges and hardship so gracefully without complaining. I am surrounded by quite a toxic people who long to see me break down and they hate that despite all the troubles they create for me I continue to smile and rarely show a sign of distress. It greatly pisses them off.
Sounds pretty horrible being near people as toxic as that hope your holding up Alright
"I can't hear you"
"scream it"
"Why is she/he doing nothing?"
"Come sit at the front"
"You're so innocent"
"You need to talk more"
"What's your idea?"
"I think I'm talking too much, I'll let you lead the conversation"
"Speak your mind"
"I didn't notice you!"
"You came in the room like a ninja!"
Story of our lives
Nicole van duinen sounds familiar.
"It's the 1st time you spoke!"
"I thought you're mute"
"Why are you just nodding? Speak!"
"Speak louder! I can't hear you."
Oh god i relate so much and i get out and in of class as if i was invisible🤣
And nobody notice😉
Lol sorry😆
Omg omg omg i can relatee!
“Why are you so quiet?”
What makes an introvert attractive
Me: Don’t do that, don’t give me hope
Your personality? Cuz your comment 😂
I see your a man of culture as well. Great meme
XD same tho...
We introverts are love to take "ME TIME" than having fun with others but being alone doesnt mean we are lonely.
yah my family just don't understand the fact that I need time in my day to be alone, with myself, no one around... quarentine was a nightmare for that
So true yesss!!
They have some of the biggest hearts.
As an introvert, I clicked on this because my immediate reaction was "wait is that an actual thing?" lol
I can't believe this, it kind of list all the things I thought people will never get, being an introvert is like. We often get blamed for being mysterious and weird, but they don't understand that there are reasons for it.
Armin Phulkar I like mysterious things and peoples and adventures ( I’m an intro)
u damn Right! 🤸🤸🤸
Sigh.
Armin Phulkar--Your right.
@@qtmspctonydlonewolf9129 *you're
As an introvert, I can tell, when someone is faking friendships, I can tell when someone doesn't like me. Is moody and the only way out, is put a fence and deny or LIMIT your access to me. 🤣🤣
I’m an introvert and someone pretended to be my friend for 2 years before he moved schools. I didn’t realize he was faking for another 3 years after that. I haven’t seen him since and I don’t really care. Lol
The things you two said I can relate to 100%, except when it came down to my "friend" I was the one who moved schools (homescool). And I am extremely happy my parents took me out of public school!
You are like me, I know all that and read minds sometimes
100%so me alllllll the way
Yep, can relate to the previous comments. I had a friend. He was my best friend (or i thought) We were together through primary school and high-school. But after that he went to University. In university he changed drastically. I wasn't important anymore for him. I was thrown away like garbage.
Introvert at home: *gaining energy*
Extrovert out with friends: *gaining energy*
Ambiverts: *ULTIMATE POWER*
That made me laugh, thank you :)
Rasmus Vester haha no problem, glad I could help brighten your day :)
Yes, this comment is everything.
Iam ambivert
I am an introvert 😊
I'm happy to see that being an introvert is a good thing .... thanks
I’m not shy I just like being alone
For me I may be a little shy I guess but mostly because I dont like wasting my time on bs or wasting my breathe which I've done most my life
Well I am terribly shy. Seems like being an introvert and also a shy is the deadliest combo ever
@@zeuop2972 Same. I kinda feel like the 'internet me' is the real me lmao
Same dude💞....
There's no need to be shy...just ignore who hate or like you..for me that's the best way..
Same and I like chilling with other introverts
I'm an introvert,I'd like to thank the person who put this out.
I feel very appreciated.
Thanks again.
He did an awesome job.
Yeah he did...but how about bad looking...just like me🥺how can be attractive 🥺... it's better to love myself alone...
Yes he sure did I thank him a lot people need to know we r the shit 1000% with no doubt we r winners
I'm an introvert person, I want to thank you for all the good things you've shared about us introverts. Absolutely true.👍👍
But introverts have good heart ,,they never cheat in love
Me🙋
Me🙋♀️
Sorry but in love in my younger years i was a real a**hole
wouldn't say never but maybe less likely. Don't be naive
True.
You're right...
With all the CHAOS going around (Coronavirus Madness) I've never been more happy to be an introvert!
I definitely won't have a problem with social distancing LMAO!!😎
Agreed 😂😂
Exactly manhh
So relatable 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Lol...!!! Me too
Yh, me either
Agee..
I love spending time with nature.
I’m an introvert... I get exhausted being in groups of people for long periods of time and I can agree with most of what was said in the video! I always wondered why people would be so keen on talking to me/being my friend when I just always mind my own business. I never went out of my way to make friends, they’ve always just came to me, it’s weird, just realized this after watching this!!!!
I'm an Introvert, but people often think I'm a snob, which is totally opposite of who I really am.
I'm an introvert,and me too they think I'm a snob.. it's just bcoz I don't want to communicate to other people that much..and I am more comfortable to talk to strangers in a short period of time bcoz it's a less act of judgement from them
That's is so true, been called a snob since I could talk, only for some that stumbled on me having a great relationship with someone they know and the surprise is always amusing to me, some of them will ask how my friend got to be with me, lol.
You'd rather be a snob than dead☣️
Anthony 50 lol you really be doing that as a 52 year old, their are plenty of married introverts out their, quit spreading that hate, all it will do is hurt people
Sadly, it seems like if you aren't willing to join in the "group" discussion (trivial or overly personal talk that can get obnoxious) you can be viewed as above everyone else and get an elitist vibe. *eyeroll*
I'm an introvert but truthfully I have trouble with my words and getting my thoughts out correctly when I speak :(
I hear ya, as i have the same problem, and sometimes when i think of the sentence while saying it, i tend to forget the last word and people usually say the last word before i can remember it again :/
Me too..
Me too
It's because we talk rearly, I guess. When the time I did public speaking frequently, I didn't have that problem, but after sometime, I had the same issue.
Write
I rarely interact with new people anymore. I've been married for 26 years and my beautiful wife is nearly my complete opposite. She brings a whole different set of colors to life. She helps me stay honest within my head. I also have 3 daughters. The unconditional love I have for them make me feel vulnerable but I wouldn't change it for anything. Make sure that when you find someone that you share everything upfront. Its what has kept us together. Enjoy life. Dream big. And do the things that make you happy.
as an introvert myself
this made my night
thank you very much!
Nice twist man.
I’m an introvert myself and really attracted to introverts too
Ha me too. This guy at work I find myself attracted to him. Chill laid back dont talk much to anyone
Am a scopio and an introvert
I prefer introverts, over extroverts.
@@tessyodita2344 same most scorpio are
Same
We introverts are scary when angry!
I'm introvert and also have rbf on top of that lol
Ah...the beloved glare we can give off😎😂
people just run away or avoid me when im angry
ah yes
@@_Bloom_307 are u an intovert ur self, good sir?
(I realize how stupid of a question that is :p)
I love living as a introvert✨
"Rather than trying to crack the funniest joke..."
I don't need to try, I'm funnier than most people I've ever met.
Hahaha, right, same tho
Amen, Period
thats what Ive been told by my true friends. 8-13-21
what attracted me to my introvert friend was she was very good at sketching and i always wanted to be atleast decent at drawing so i befriended her to get some pointers.. she talked less but when we converse it never felt like an idle chatter..its very calming when we find a good scenery to sketch, find a good spot and just sketch untill the sun set..its so chill whenever im around her..
I'm that type of introvert.
That’s so cute
I'm an Introvert and to be honest I can't draw in my life I just can't do it, I can barely draw a stick man! But I do know a lot of people who are exactly like that lets just say there are a lot of Introverts in my group! 🤣😂
I'm an introvert, afraid of attention , my officemates think I'm weird and snob because I don't talk too much. They don't know that I can be talkative too if I'm with my friends because I'm comfortable with them.
I have the same problem. I don't get the snob art, I' just not interested in what you have to say.
we're often the most talkative among people we're comfortable with and with fellow introverts lol.
Philip Wong this is sooo right
Can we be friends
Philip Wong yes
Every time I listen to these videos, I learned more about myself. It seems that they know me better than I could ever imagine.
I like how this dude always makes us sound awesome, but back in the day we were the ones bullied and mocked for being quit, thinkers and reserved. Being different has never been so cool as it is now, or is it just me who feels that way?
I feel that way too
We are all introvert these day we have smartphones to thank for that
👍
It is so wonderful to finally accept myself. My whole life I have thought that there is something wrong with me. Now I know, i am an introvert and PROUD of it❤️
Yes Janette me too I’m very proud of being myself
There's nothing wrong with us. It's just the way we are
Brainy dose: 13 reason why introverts are attractive
Introverts: are you sure about that?
After watching the video
Introverts: nevermind it's accurate
That's exactly what i thought
I am an introbert
Introvert
@@forgespolyglothouse3555 Me too.
Hahaha so true!
It's both a gift and a curse, I have a pretty good idea when people are being honest, and when they're not. I almost feel like I'm psychic sometimes
Yes, I feel I can read people, I could see through them
Me :seating alone in a restaurant eating
Ppl :do u mind us seatin at your table ?
Me :sure np!
Inter me :noooooo why didn't u just go somewhere else😂
Exactly. Now its Time to go!
Happen to me at school couple years ago when my friend absent and I was at library sitting alone but there is group of girls came and asked if they can sit with me and I don't know what wrong with my mind I just instantly said yes. I'm so nervous because I'm not really good at talking with girls and most of time in school I was only with my friends so this is bad situation for me. Luckily,they actually nice and they want to know more about me like what I like and etcetera.After that yeah they always come hang out with me more and my friends curious af how girls be friends with me.
@@ikmal63h17 Your friend: "I leave you alone one time and you somehow start talking to all these girls? You hiding something from me or what?" XD
We are so attractive because we are so attached and attracted to our own selves. We don't have room for the none sense talks, toxic talks, or others people drama
Our time is too precious, and we love our own company.
This video describes exactly how I am, and who I am.
Thank you Brainy Dose. You rock.👍👍👍🙂😃
Great comment!! @ Ray Of Light Rayo de Luz
Nicely put! Too me a long time to get comfortable in my own skin!! once that happened; I became more comfortable outside myself, and with others.
@Ray of Light: Love what you wrote...!! Couldn't have said it better.
This literally described me to a T...!!
I agree
We don’t judge anyone and receive everyone the way they are. We dont like someone sharing too much personal information and we don’t mind to stop them if it’s too much unnecessary. We be quite and listen to a friend when needed and don’t rush to give advise just coz they are sharing their feelings with us we give suggestions only when we feel they are asking for it and help in all conditions. We like texting over talking with others and love to talk/meet instead of texting with loved ones
totally true except the text thing it's too specific to be taken as "introvert behavior".
Gosh!!! So true, especially the last sentence!
I had a very basic understanding of introvert & extrovert, but just started diving into it. Glad to get some answers about my personality (introvert) in-depth and know I'm not just strange because I prefer alone time and loathe small talk.
I am both an extrovert and an introvert I am about 12 percent extroverted and 88 percent introverted. Thank you for making this, it made my day.
During lockdownn ?
Social distancing :- ohhhh not a big deal (introverts )😂😂
Introvert: first time? 🤣
In my school..
Teachers says: You all need to social distancing. I know. . . I know. . . it's hard-
Me: *No it's not hard. I'm expert in it since there's no covid.*
Yeah...
Fact.
ya so true not a big deal, that's what i do daily ,
I'm not sure about attractive, but I'm definitely an Introvert. It was hard to admit it, but when I embrace it my life has changed and now I'm proud of who I am.
Yup that definitely helps. Especially if you find out and embrace it while you're are younger
Thank you for this, as an introvert I feel misunderstood. It's great to hear something positive.
When I was younger I never felt comfortable being around large gatherings and would often take off on my own. Now I know why. Embracing my idiosyncrasies and proud to be an introvert.😁
You can't find introvert in the crowd.were in the corner observing everyone the way they talked.the way they smile.how they react on things.we notice the smallest things and reaction
I just love Observing People, it gives me Inspirations for Writing my Own Webnovels...
Yes true but it gets anxiety if u deeply focused on details
Being an introvert during the current Covid 19 lockdowns. I got this covered.
@Randall... Ha ha ha ha ha.....you are a legend.. LMAO.
Others:Introverts are antisocial
Me:We are not antisocial we enjoy very much socialising with the right people at the right moments for the right amount of time👍
OMG 😱 I haven't got that much likes in my life ever thank you so much for liking my comment 🥺
Yup
Yep
Fax
Yes
Ff sahil this is very true
I have been introverted my whole life but never knew myself. I am still learning about myself.
Also, I didn’t think before I spoke. Again, still learning.
I am an impulsive introvert.
When you spend a lot of time on your own, you'll more likely learn about yourself to a larger extend, compared to others.
Agreed
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Umm why are you everywhere?
@@sanpablo4668 You should join me
true indeed 😌
Every single thing he said is literally me
I LOVE BEING AN INTROVERT ❤️ ONE OF MY BEST TRAITS💯 PERIOD‼️💯
“They’re great listeners”
Me: mentally drained, desperately looking for a way to escape the conversation and left wordless by how long they can keep talking without even noticing how apathetic and careless I couldn’t be more
no shit lol
😂😂😂
Being an introvert is a gift 🕳
Wolfgem Playz 101 me too 😊
Wolfgem Playz 101 yep 👍 😝
Yes it's definitely a gift
Being an introvert is a double edge sword. Maybe even more so for the attractive ones. I’m attractive and when women see me they often drop jaws, turn necks, hell even stare at me when I walk away. I’m so shy, It’s mythical to approach a girl. With one irrational reason after another, I can’t seem bring myself together to do it. I freeze up, and they freeze up. It seems it is just as hard for women to approach me. Nothing ever happens. I don’t want to be single. I feel like me changing Is inevitable for me to get what I want. Some women do speak to me first and when that happens, it’s usually so subtle that I wouldn’t know how to keep it going. My responses tend to be short and to the point. -.- It gives them nothing to go off of. My charisma is stupendously stupid to strangers, that’s probably my biggest limiting belief and I don’t know how to change that with out experience. I feel like rejection, humility and disappointment is ahead of me. It’s probably why I’m not a go getter yet. It’s the irrational fear that holds me back. I have to believe that all of these things will be a Healthy experience. My anxiety freezes me up or makes me stutter, that alone is extremely discouraging. Being an introvert is a gift? I get that I have a lot of these qualities. I have a friend that Iv known since I was three years old. I do take care of my friends like family. They are the family we choose. I know I’m good guy. It’s just hard to feel gifted when our problems are so stupid and simple, for an extrovert.
I'm ambivert
I’m definitely an introvert
I always have been since I was a baby
However when I’m really comfortable I can be loud around them and crazy
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Wow thank you for the likes! (^з^)-☆
same
Exactly😌😌
@@delirium5381 we are on the same boat mate😏😏
Omg me! ☺️
Yes, same here. Most people don't deserve us.
I was down after someone talked about me being an introvert behind my back this video gave me enough courage to look down on them :)
Introverts be like: this is true. I do have deep conversations with my anime bodypillow and I do display a sense of confidence to my 4 cats.
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we are reserved and don't need useless low iq drama so we stay single rather than having someome who's just interested in playing games and can't have deep conversations
That's so true... am Introvert at heart
happened to me a lot man..feels like we don't belong from this world so we stay alone due to high standards and have difficulty understanding people which only causes more anxiety and fear of wasting time
Please, kmt.
As if its only "extroverts" that start drama. You entitled, higher than thou introverts on the internet are absolutely infuriating!
Can't you just recognise the good things about your personality without dragging extroverts down?
It is so stupid, these complexes applied to race, gender, age, social class is what causes these stupid issues in society which ppl like you perpetuate.😒
thats me . you fuckin right🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸
I am sitting here, as an extovert and I have all these "so called" introverted traits. I believe that the only difference between introverts and extroverts is mode of expression NOT mode of thought, goals, ect that is deluded to think imo. Non of us are special. Ffs.
This whole topic really vexes me as you can tell because these ideas are destructive and not constructive
Being an introverts is a blessing and am lucky to be one of it ...
Me too! I feel unique lol I don't want to be like everyone else
Me too ❤️❤️
As an introvert, I don't know if these are attractive qualities, but they are true qualities. Those who surround me don't value these qualities in me until they lose me.
Her: He's wierd lol
Me: No I just prefer to keep to myself while your busy pretending you like everyone in your friend group, I'd much rather keep to myself and be lost in my thoughts than have to interact with fake sugarcoating people like you who think they're great.
Me too....
Period
Amen 1000%
Facts bro
Yes
"Introverts are great listeners"
Me, an introvert with ADHD: "Oh look a dog".
Lol
I usually just stare at the wall and get lost in thoughts
Lol I’m in the same boat
Yes.
@Iam The trick is to just nod occasionally and act acknowledgingly. 😂
Introverts do think outside the box.!!! They are very open minded and they like the learning concept of new things rather than having a closed mind.!!! Not having a open mind you don't allow yourself of learning new ideas.!!!
I can’t tell if I’m an introvert or not I would much rather be by myself than with others but I also love talking to my few school friends
You are an introvert like me. I also love talking to my friends, but pick and choose them. I don't talk very much to others unless I think I may want to be friends with them.
As an Introvert, I agree with everything that was said on this video. "Let’s clear one thing up: Introverts do not hate small talk because we dislike people. We hate small talk because we hate the barrier it creates between people."
Well, I said "I am an introvert" to my friends so they can understand if I don't want to go out too much, and they said "don't branded yourself, u just need to do it ". And I was like, ok but not everyone is the same :/
Not everyone enjoy going out, hanging out, or just doing small talks
Not everyone enjoy outdoor activities
Not everyone can be talkative
Please just understand that everybodey is different than u :)
Hv a good day everyone!!
Yes, you are absolutely correct. We just need to be ourself and not fake, right?
@@aayushmaraut7695 absolutely!!
Everytime I tried to be an extrovert, I'll be exhausted after 2 hours.
We are born in a world created for extroverts.
But let's just be ourselves. :D
Your friends should be more understanding of your personality and respect your boundaries. Because them asking you to suck it up and go out with them in situations that don't make you comfortable and deplete your energy would be like you forcing them to stay inside all the time and never go out, which saps their energy too.
@@Bad_At_Parties unfortunately I still haven't found any friend who understand or want to understand at least. They just simply brush me off when I said I need some time alone and that I'm exhausted, they said it like : if u don't want to go out with me then just say it, don't make reasons. So yeah, it's hard being an introvert sometimes.
For those who are introvert like me tho, who will have a headache if u go out to a crowded place for too long, or when u feel so alone in the middle of the crowd *ending up breaking down when u reached your comfort space, and have this fear of people, just be your self. Don't be a fake version of yourself just to please others. Because there are someone out there who will accept u as u are. Even if that took a long time, some maybe lucky and already find it, or not so lucky like me.
Because, like me, I was labelling myself as worthless just because I can't be like everyone else and got into depression but in the end I realize that we don't need someone who don't care. Let it go. Just love your un perfect self, and be that someone who always support your own self, u need it and u deserve it.
Brainy Dose you're definitely badass! You told it like it is. All 13 qualities are me. It just breaks my heart that I struggle with finding someone to accept me that wants to be with me. Friendships are hard to make because most people are fake and I see it.
Thanks again Brainy Dose! Tony D
I love seeing people like me. Hopefully we can find each other and connect....one day...
@@spiritualsoul2711 Same here. Making a great connection with someone. That's something we want but only a few look for. You're right...One day
I am an introvert and same here but when i make relationship with someone it's serious, but if the person choses not to talk i won't push it and just forget about it) I hope we introverts can meet each other someday and make a great relationship) hold on there fellow introverts we are gonna go Through everything
Were almost the same..i prefer to be alone 😊.amd they wanted to be frnds with me..they ask me to hang out..but its a no for me to hang out those people i dont want to be part of my life.....
It's great, if we could be friends
That's why I like eating in restaurants alone (when it was still permissible), because I love observing people. And I love the stark contrast between me and others and how I find that people nowadays don't enjoy their own company as much.
The best information I've ever heard on introversion and everything you pointed out is true! I wonder what kind of partner they'd be interested in, though. And they need to be careful not to get exploited by narcissists!
Being an introvert plus a Scorpio is of lethal combination!!!
Yeessss
I have an introverted friend who is a Scorpio plz explain what u mean!
Uhhm imma taurus
Same here
I actually have a friend who is an Introvert as well and she is a Scorpio! But what do you mean by Lethal Combination?