Next time, when you feel awkward or fear rejection, remember that in the grand scheme of things, none of these interactions matter. Embrace the absurdity and let social anxiety fade away.
I thought the same thing one day and now I never feel scared of anything. People really need to realise that most things you think matter really just don't. So if you embarrass yourself what's the big deal? You're still alive and well so why care so much if you messed up once?
@DirectorDelta damn, you got a point, instead of being yourself you are forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. Basically comparing yourself to the better, more confident version of yourself that doesn’t exist
Some of the things you mention really click with the stuff I have been reading in the e-book called Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month. Honestly, I was always struggling on how to be myself and be successful with women, but after applying tips writer mentions in there, people started noticing and respecting me much more, especially women.
Im 18, as you are, and you are very mature for our age, it's really hard finding someone who speaks like you in any kind of age gap, let alone ours, Keep going mate
I'm 18 too and I feel like this guy makes his points really clear and he talks in a really easy going and calm tone and I wish we could have more people our age that are mature like him
I've never able to talk to anyone very well. Thanks for the tips, you advice is great! My most embarrassing conversation start was: "Have you seen any of the one foot crows?"
The part about talking for a conversation rather than purely for validation is so powerful. Changing your mindset and shifting your focus in what you do and why really is the key to understanding yourself and building confidence. Much love Jak and to the rest of the community ❤
Yeah it’s a game changer bro, perspective is everything. I learnt that from sport, the more nervous I was the worse I’d play. And when I shifted my perspective from having to play well to just having fun I ended up playing better, crazy
@@JakPiggott so my crush likes my best friend, I've known him for 9 years, but my crush is really sweet and I like her, also my BFF doesn't like her. So how do I put attention on myself without it making it obvious?
🚨TO ALL GUYS🚨 approach the girl you like, talk to her 9/10 if you like girl and she seems nice she will not be rude to you. Trust me gurks respect it when you come up to them to make the move, we are lften in postitons where we are forced to make the first move bc you lot are too scared. Don’nt be shy! If you like a girl and she seems like anjuce person try strike a conversation with her. Even if we don’t like you back we won’t be rude about it. But be careful because there are some mean girls but if you think you are a good person just go for it!
As a person of the woman population, it would flatter me if some guy came up to me and started talking to me. I have some guy friends but they don't talk to me much. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
One thing that i have learned when trying to approach women is that the more you do it the more uncomfortable you get overtime the fear of embarrassment goes away. You never learn if you stay in you’re comfort zone. Much love Jak love the content 👊❤️
@@emma6648a prize? Who said that. And this video is for all genders. Don't act like women don't do this either. One bad apple doesn't ruin the bunch. They didn't objectify women anywhere in their comment. It's sad that your here and commenting these bad takes on this video.
@@emma6648it’s not that there valuing you as a prize we have to practice because of our anxiety and we get nervous too. Think of it like there so special to us that we want to have the best possible conversation with them that we can.
Hi, I’m 15 and I don’t know why I’m watching your videos. I am confortable socially, I have a good self-confidence, a nice lifestyle, no addictions to corn or social media. But there is someting that makes me feel good when I watch them, I don’t know why and how, but something that I like. Anyway, thanks for what you do for all the people who need it !
I consider myself to be a great communicator, so there wasnt any need to watch this video. But your videos are like a bird singing in a storm, making the environment even more beautiful. Thank you so, so much. I always come to your channel when I'm sad, and will continue to do so!!
I talked to a girl I liked a few months ago and actually got her number, what’s crazy is the interaction was nothing like what I had imagined in my head and was a lot smoother and faster than my anxiety was telling me it would. She turned out to be lesbian but I’m still glad I took my shot :)
The fact that you get on TH-cam, spend your time editing, putting work in to it, just to help people out here that needs it without seeking reward is amazing. Thank you bro.
Hey jak I just wanted to say that your videos and they have helped me feel more comfortable in every way, I've also started my own youtube channel and I'm trying really hard to fulfill my dream of playing professional basketball in either the NBL or NBA jak your a great man the greatest self improvement youtuber I've ever watched keep it up❤
Honestly loved the video. Also a good tip that I have learned is that as a man we should have experience being a friend with a girl before we try to date her. For example I know a guy that was only a friend with one girl and he married her. But that was the worst decision of his life because he only found out after they got married that she was mean and not kind to him. So all men reading this, please try to be a friend with a female. No matter if you have a crush on her or not, just do it so that you can have the experience of a relationship with a girl. My humble advice - Nai
@@NaiFarangit depends, if you're talking about a minor then 2 years is good but if it's someone above the age of consent of your country then there's no limit
I think it really depends first on when you meet them and how old yall are at the time, and second how many years apart you are. My parents are 10 years apart, and that sounds bad but they met at 21 and 31 got married and had kids. My 7th grade teacher was 11 years apart with her husband and 2 teachers at my primary school got married even though they mightve been 12+ years.
As a woman I have to thank you immensely, you’re out here giving genuine advice for self-improvement and wellbeing for young men, not the unrealistic and misogynistic nonsense that Tate spews like Venom to vulnerable people, thank you for your kind words
I'm a 13 yrs girl , been following you since last year & that is the best thing i ever did ! You are really inspiring and the content you make as an influencer , is something i can never find in the internet. I wish everyone to be as mature as you are . Thank for being such a nice , understanding mature person , your impact is appreciated. Keep shining keep teaching ❤
Thank you jak piggott, i have finally made up my confidence to ask a girl out. Today has been the day i have felt love in many years. this all happened yesterday when i was in a cruise ship for the first time in my life, best 2 days i have ever lived since, Thank you.
I genuinely love this guy. He gives advice on how to talk properly, how to live life, etc. Share your wisdom. Don't hold back and keep making the damn vids. ❤❤
Bro I needed this, I had to ask a girl to do a job (we're both volunteers at the church and we were short one person and I couldn't do it), purely business, not interested in her at all. I had to take like 2 whole minutes by myself to prepare for ONE SIMPLE QUESTION. I'm not like that with the guys. Women are scary, I dunno how to talk to them unless I know them well
I know that my parents and teachers and adult figures in my life tell me this, but it is much nicer to hear it from you, someone who has (excuse my choice of words if they bring up trauma) been through that experience recently, or is just fresh of coming out of those times, it is much easier to listen to. Thanks bro for the support, it means a lot.
Mainly because my school says I have undiagnosed autism, or I show very prominent autistic signs, I am very socially awkward. I dislike talking to people because it makes me very nervous, so thanks again for helping my self-esteem and confidence.
You’re a great person! You weren’t only focusing on helping guys but also girls. That shows a lot of character. Thanks for the inspiration. Sadly I haven’t really liked a girl since I was a kid. Whenever I like a girl I get super competitive so I know I haven’t.
Dude.... your tip at 7:45 or so changed my mind set a lot. I'm hell bent on talking to a girl at my school, but I want to take my time, but my friends act like it's the last time I'll see her for years. I felt this way already, but hearing it come from someone I know I can trust like you definitely confirmed it. Appreciate the content bro, keep it up!
you didnt fail.... you won. you were the best in someones eyes. thats a good relationship. you may not be in a love relationship but a relationship that you can trust in with good foundations nonetheless. Happy for you brother.
just don't stop now. dont take a break from "women". go on and go for other girls. Be casual in the art of pulling girls. even if u arent, its just a way to convince urself u can actually do better. And trust me brother u really can
as soon as i realised what youre trying to say, my mind immediately clicked. this is probably the best advice ive heard from anyone, and even sounds fucking fun. ty for the idea g
Hey brother, i've wanted to tell you that a few weeks ago, i was praying to God for fuel to finally get in shape. Im 14 currently, and i recently fell in love with a girl. You'r videos also started showing up, which they never did. You inspired me to finnaly commit to the "grind" and loose my fat, and then tell her once i am fit. Keep making these relationship videos brother, you're changing me.
I was a missionary for my church for two years. We would walk up to random people and start conversations with them in any and every situation. One fun thing we would do is play the "bolder game". We had to one-up the other person in how boldly we introduced ourselves and talked with people. It was amazingly effective because it made talking with people a game, refocused your energy away from fears, made your communication clear, and softened the blow of rejection. You could look like a creep if you go 100% on this game with approaching girls, but it could be effective, especially if you are shy and struggle to talk with them.
If we were ever around lots of young people our age, we would often find the cutest girl there, walk up to the and ask, "Have you ever met my friend Elder ________?" It was then fun to watch your friend try and talk with them without blushing or stammering. Or they would pull it on you, and you had to talk with them. 😂 As missionaries, we weren't allowed to flirt, date, or have any non-professional relationship with girls, but it was mind-blowing how many were still interested in us simply because we were bold enough to approach and talk with them. This has been a word salad, but I'm reliving so many good memories writing this!
honestly Jak, Ive been watching your videos for the past few weeks and in these past few weeks youve helped me so much in life and its crazy how watching someone online talk about his past and present can change the life of someone else.In the past few days ive been talking to a girl and now im way more comfortable while talking to women because of your videos and she setup a date with me because im the most comfortable guy shes ever talked to.Thank you so much for these videos and ill keep watching these videos❤
Yo this is actually super cool, my girlfriend cheated with me and I confronted her about it and she kept beating around the bush. It really sucked and my friend got broken up with too. I’m looking for someone to fill her place. I appreciate this greatly Jak.
This is really helpful advice. I will be starting school in like 2 months and it will be a completely different school where i can meet all kinds of new people to talk to!
i think this is a really good way to start off, my problen tbh isnt about talking to a girl ive talked to plenty in the past (not as attraction just as normal convos), but my problem is the girls i usually see around me either has this genz/alpha kind of appearance, im not picky when it comes to finding attraction i just need a normal one atleast..
As a girl, I know I'm not generally your target audience for most of the videos you create. However, I find your channel/yourself to be so genuine with your honesty and ability to communicate so respectfully yet directly. Your channel is so informative. Thanks for taking the time to create the content and vibe that you do. 👏
My man really opened my eyes, even though I've been through at least 9 rejections, I never cared for it, and I took that opportunity to become a better me, Jak, you really helped me understand what I've been doing better, thanks
Thank you for this message! Believe it or not I actually tried this on a former crush, but there were other factors as well, and nothing happened. I was young, and had more to learn (I still do and always will, but that's the whole point of life). But, in my personal experience, I think you should not only become a better you, but actually embrace the time when you are alone. Romance shouldn't be the focus in life, it should be a byproduct of the life you are living, and the man you are becoming.💪
Listened to this video. And now I talk to her with ease. Thank you bro. I am so conversation awkward but now I feel so much better and found something in common with her.
You should do a video on how to talk to girls you like, like in your year at school or something when you talk to everyone but are nervous when it comes to the future and what might happen, but in the end nothing bad will, so how do you get over that and speak???? That's probably the biggest question, 'why'. Btw you're quite inspirational, soo keep it up, you're making peoples days
its the summer and im just browsin, and while I'm supposed to be doing math I just watch this. I usually watch vids at 2x speed bc my attention span is trash(I try to self justify it by saying there's better things to do with my time) but this is the first vid I watched fully 1x speed bc u just got it bro. u actually know wat ur talking about, and you know how to help ppl. keep it up man!
I don't get crushes and I tend to say I am an aromantic, so I wasn't so interested in the topic of this video however, I still listen to these videos in the background. i felt suicidal just a bit ago, but i listened to two of your videos, and it felt like someone was comforting me, in a way. so thanks. you take my mind off things. :)
as someone who has autism, it was super insightful hearing these simple reminders of ways of socialization conversation, I will make sure to continue to keep learning more from you.
Words can’t explain how much I enjoy watching your videos. Every video you post I either learn something new, or it’s affirming my current beliefs, it’s really refreshing to watch you. God bless, keep up the great work brother👏👏
My friend once went up to a girl and forced a conversation, she replied twice and walked away. I really did feel bad for him, but like you said, you need human connection, not just validation
always remember that what you seek is not always what is the best for you. if he/she says no do not let that stop you because you have the power to keep moving forward and you are in control of yourself. when you find yourself and enjoy life for its qualities you will naturally attract the right person for you
Man. I love how genuine you are. Been hooked on your content since November, when I completed NNN, and actually started to turn my life around. You’ve been there with me. I love you so much for that. Thank you brother
There’s this girl at my school that I have a crush on, but I didn’t know how to talk to her. This video has helped me quite a bit. I haven’t talked to her yet but I think I might try soon.
I had a crush on a girl for like 3 years and we talked quite frequently and I really liked her. I think she liked me too but the problem was she moved away. I only see her like once a year and I try to make the conversations that I have with her last forever. Unfortunately, that’s just not possible. I could probably get away with saying I loved her. She was just an amazing person overall and just plain beautiful. Leaving on good terms is the worst thing that’s happened to me relationship wise.
I do love your speech and advice. You are such a cool and down-to-earth dude. I am proud of you and I am grateful for TH-cam recommending your channel to me weeks or months ago. Godspeed Jak Piggott.
This really give a good idea on how conversations go, how to create them, and how they form naturally. I’m an extrovert but I have a guy friend who is sort of an introvert. He can’t really start convos, but every once in a while, I talk to him and say things such as, “ask me something” or “wait, you did _(something part of that he said)_? How’d that go?” (To expand conversation) And I think he’s gaining confidence from starting more and more convos. (Not just with me, but with other people too!) Thank you so much for making these types of videos, Jak!
Well boys, after watching this video, I manage to get a date with my crush and just a few days ago, we finally got together. So trust me when I say this, you can do anything you put your mind too. Took me a while to actually tell her because of my bad social anxiety, but I pulled through. You boys got this.
watching these videos made me realize i am an extremely lucky person, i've watched so many of your videos and i could not relate to one thing in them other than the age group it was directed to, however i still feel compelled to watch them, thanks Jak for entertaining me and teaching others
Great video! I’ve been looking for a video like this just to relieve stress and point me in the right direction. Thank you Jak, God be with you brother.
As a just turned 18 year old, I really hope you never stop making content. You are a motivational and inspirational person with so many valuable lessons to give. Thank you for all you content 👌❤️
I always like the advice, be the best version of yourself. You can’t be someone you aren’t because that’s disingenuous. Be you, but just, a really good you. That just does it for me…
You deserve more fame than Tate, your're not just saying to make money and bragging about all of your girls. You are actually giving helpful advice, you deserve much more.
Wait what im hella early jak since im early i hope u see this, you genuinely dont know how much youve done for me ive been subbed to you since 100k man and your growth is crazy you deserve it all ❤❤
B' free from self-centered communication ( -me,- -I,- -my,- ...) Take interest in someone's life and let their lives inspire your own. Treat other people the same way you'd treat your love. Remain authentic and keep your own principles and goals.
"people love talking about themselves" no truer words have ever been said. I can't tell you how many people I know inside and out but who wouldn't even know my favorite color, what food I like, or even my intentions after 20 years of knowing each other, just because they've never asked.
This video speaks volumes! Was the exact same until I started pushing myself to practice small conversations with people I just so happen to be meet at the shops, waiter at resturant etc. These small conversations are kinda like training wheels since its usually has a topic already, but it helps so much. Great video Jak!
Perfect timing Jak, I just met a girl and she's feeling my vibe, I speak to woman just fine but when I like someone I get nervous and don't really know what to say
You probably made her feel cornered so she gave you her number in order to get away from you without any conflict. Maybe before assuming women are “stuck up” consider if you make them uncomfortable?
@@bekabeka71I think I see why she didn't respond now. She dodged a bullet. Why don't "nice guys" understand how hypocritical they are? "A woman rejected me? Well, it's her fault for not being able to see what she's missing out on." No. That is what is called being a narcissist, and it is probably your fault if you think that they are in the wrong for not wanting to go out with you. Then, after you know that your chances with her are destroyed, you start with your backhanded comments. "Well, you weren't pretty anyways." That's like messing something up and saying you meant to do that. Just accept that she does not want to date you and that not every woman has to fall head over heels for you. If a man makes advances and when he is rejected, he throws a hissy fit, that's a major red flag.
Harsh but very true, respecting the boundaries is important. I mean if I want to go back into dating I would make sure they are comfortable to talk and let them talk. I had a friend that would when he got a potential girlfriend they would be somewhere between an 8-10 and he would immediately try to get in bed with them. When someone says they have got other women "lined up" it makes me think of him. I'd just prefer to date a personality person then a girl with Curtin like eyelasshes or something (nothing wrong with it, it's just not my cup of tea). Also there should be standards in place before you start to date, I realised that after my 4th so I stopped dating so I can figure out what I'm looking for. But yeah respect is a big thing. Just hope this guy learns that this isn't just for your benefit, when you have a partner your a team and a team works together like well oiled cogs n stuff. 🙂
Bold to assume I'm afraid of going outside and having a life, in fact quite the opposite my mom seems to be afraid of me going outside. I in fact would love to be outside and social often and it's been hard which is why i clicked this in case i got in a situation i needed this, this is motivational so i subscribed. Your voice is really calming btw.
I Am alright at talking with woman bring up funny things you’ve done, challenge them, and make a inside joke it builds so much confidence and character
Next time, when you feel awkward or fear rejection, remember that in the grand scheme of things, none of these interactions matter. Embrace the absurdity and let social anxiety fade away.
100%, should have mentioned this in the video to be honest, we’re all gonna be dead one day so who really cares 😂
I thought the same thing one day and now I never feel scared of anything. People really need to realise that most things you think matter really just don't. So if you embarrass yourself what's the big deal? You're still alive and well so why care so much if you messed up once?
Idky but this seems easier said than done (no offense) but when you try it out irl it's just that most people still hesitate.......
I actually commented NGAFAD on one of your videos before, this stands for „Nobody gives a fuck all die.” Try it, good shit.
I mean, we'll die and be in heaven together one day, so yeah, I'm gonna be a little worried, because in the grand scheme of things, God's in control
Getting used to failure and being rejected is the gateway to fearlessness and therefore winning
100% bro, it’s the same in life as well, not just with dating 👊
@@JakPiggott yeah I meant that in every aspect of life 😁
It's not that I'm afraid of rejection, it's that I dont want to want them and yet I still do 😭
@@SebbyDoesStuff same
@@JakPiggottHow can I tell her that I like her? That’s just the one part that I’m so stuck on
This dude is probably the realest person you’ll ever see online lol. Everyone is fake as hell online
@DirectorDelta damn, you got a point, instead of being yourself you are forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. Basically comparing yourself to the better, more confident version of yourself that doesn’t exist
for real. and in sucks.
because almost nobody likes their real self its kinda sad
True
So real
Thanks Jak,I was able to talk to my crush and ask her out.She said yes!
W man! Good luck with her!
W's lmao
W bruh
Yes sir, this man. This man is the chosen one.
W mans
Some of the things you mention really click with the stuff I have been reading in the e-book called Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month. Honestly, I was always struggling on how to be myself and be successful with women, but after applying tips writer mentions in there, people started noticing and respecting me much more, especially women.
Im 18, as you are, and you are very mature for our age, it's really hard finding someone who speaks like you in any kind of age gap, let alone ours,
Keep going mate
Damn I’m 19, hes more mature than me
Thank you my brother, words like this mean for to me than you think 🤞❤️
@@JakPiggott 🫶
I'm 18 too and I feel like this guy makes his points really clear and he talks in a really easy going and calm tone and I wish we could have more people our age that are mature like him
18 year old community💪🏼💪🏼
Every single time this guy uploads a new video, my heart feels so warm.
❤❤facts he is a life saver
🤝❤️
I've never able to talk to anyone very well. Thanks for the tips, you advice is great! My most embarrassing conversation start was: "Have you seen any of the one foot crows?"
Whats even a one foot crow
@@Sonicwavejumpscaresa crow with one foot
We are interested tell us about one foot crows.
Yes.
@@elizadion4410agreed
This had surprisingly interesting timing for me
So damn real
Same dude
Why?
Same
I've prayed to not be as awkward in conversations recently
The part about talking for a conversation rather than purely for validation is so powerful. Changing your mindset and shifting your focus in what you do and why really is the key to understanding yourself and building confidence.
Much love Jak and to the rest of the community ❤
Yeah it’s a game changer bro, perspective is everything. I learnt that from sport, the more nervous I was the worse I’d play. And when I shifted my perspective from having to play well to just having fun I ended up playing better, crazy
@@JakPiggott That's pretty awesome, I'm so happy for you 😊
This guy really changed my life I wouldn’t be here without you I would have no girlfriend no job or more thank you I hope you have a amazing day
Don’t give me to much credit man, give yourself the most, you’re the reason you are where you are ❤️
0:15 Jak tryna date the local neighborhood cats be like:
Haha yessir you know me 👊
HOW DARE YOU DATE CATS?!?!?!?!?@@JakPiggott
Without me?😏🤙
@@BlaxkEdits damn he left both of us
huhhh??
@@JakPiggott so my crush likes my best friend, I've known him for 9 years, but my crush is really sweet and I like her, also my BFF doesn't like her. So how do I put attention on myself without it making it obvious?
🚨TO ALL GUYS🚨 approach the girl you like, talk to her 9/10 if you like girl and she seems nice she will not be rude to you. Trust me gurks respect it when you come up to them to make the move, we are lften in postitons where we are forced to make the first move bc you lot are too scared. Don’nt be shy! If you like a girl and she seems like anjuce person try strike a conversation with her. Even if we don’t like you back we won’t be rude about it. But be careful because there are some mean girls but if you think you are a good person just go for it!
had a stroke reading this
As a person of the woman population, it would flatter me if some guy came up to me and started talking to me. I have some guy friends but they don't talk to me much. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@Its_honeythedragonI am to scared to talk to the girl I like she is gorgeous
One thing that i have learned when trying to approach women is that the more you do it the more uncomfortable you get overtime the fear of embarrassment goes away. You never learn if you stay in you’re comfort zone.
Much love Jak love the content 👊❤️
I find it pretty sad that men have to practice talking to women, like we’re some prize, instead of just another human being
@@emma6648a prize? Who said that. And this video is for all genders. Don't act like women don't do this either. One bad apple doesn't ruin the bunch. They didn't objectify women anywhere in their comment. It's sad that your here and commenting these bad takes on this video.
100% brother 🙌❤️
@@emma6648it’s not that there valuing you as a prize we have to practice because of our anxiety and we get nervous too. Think of it like there so special to us that we want to have the best possible conversation with them that we can.
Hi, I’m 15 and I don’t know why I’m watching your videos. I am confortable socially, I have a good self-confidence, a nice lifestyle, no addictions to corn or social media. But there is someting that makes me feel good when I watch them, I don’t know why and how, but something that I like. Anyway, thanks for what you do for all the people who need it !
How does this guy just know each of our problems man
I consider myself to be a great communicator, so there wasnt any need to watch this video. But your videos are like a bird singing in a storm, making the environment even more beautiful. Thank you so, so much. I always come to your channel when I'm sad, and will continue to do so!!
Agreed😊
I talked to a girl I liked a few months ago and actually got her number, what’s crazy is the interaction was nothing like what I had imagined in my head and was a lot smoother and faster than my anxiety was telling me it would. She turned out to be lesbian but I’m still glad I took my shot :)
Dang, nice! Even if it didn't turn out exactly as you thought out it still gives so much confidence for you in the future
Lol have you heard of Pink Triangle by Weezer
wait how did that exact thing also happen to me
W rizz
Nice brother ❤ even though it didn’t work out you should be proud that you put yourself out there and learned something about yourself and your values
The fact that you get on TH-cam, spend your time editing, putting work in to it, just to help people out here that needs it without seeking reward is amazing. Thank you bro.
Hey jak I just wanted to say that your videos and they have helped me feel more comfortable in every way, I've also started my own youtube channel and I'm trying really hard to fulfill my dream of playing professional basketball in either the NBL or NBA jak your a great man the greatest self improvement youtuber I've ever watched keep it up❤
Honestly loved the video. Also a good tip that I have learned is that as a man we should have experience being a friend with a girl before we try to date her. For example I know a guy that was only a friend with one girl and he married her. But that was the worst decision of his life because he only found out after they got married that she was mean and not kind to him. So all men reading this, please try to be a friend with a female. No matter if you have a crush on her or not, just do it so that you can have the experience of a relationship with a girl.
My humble advice - Nai
also pretty random question for anyone here...what age gap would you say is to big to date a girl?
W advice
@@NaiFarangit depends, if you're talking about a minor then 2 years is good but if it's someone above the age of consent of your country then there's no limit
@@Idkots Okay, thanks 😁
I think it really depends first on when you meet them and how old yall are at the time, and second how many years apart you are. My parents are 10 years apart, and that sounds bad but they met at 21 and 31 got married and had kids. My 7th grade teacher was 11 years apart with her husband and 2 teachers at my primary school got married even though they mightve been 12+ years.
You're one of the most inspirational people I know. Please continue doing this.
I will brother, thank you for your support 🤞❤️
As a woman I have to thank you immensely, you’re out here giving genuine advice for self-improvement and wellbeing for young men, not the unrealistic and misogynistic nonsense that Tate spews like Venom to vulnerable people, thank you for your kind words
wtf does tate even do any more lol
suffer 🫢 @@ninjak_jeamm
I’ll do 1 chin up every like I get and I’ll record it
3 chin ups, go!
@@Resiksim of course my dude! I’m hoping to get some more first thou
I'm a 13 yrs girl , been following you since last year & that is the best thing i ever did ! You are really inspiring and the content you make as an influencer , is something i can never find in the internet. I wish everyone to be as mature as you are . Thank for being such a nice , understanding mature person , your impact is appreciated. Keep shining keep teaching ❤
Thank you jak piggott, i have finally made up my confidence to ask a girl out. Today has been the day i have felt love in many years. this all happened yesterday when i was in a cruise ship for the first time in my life, best 2 days i have ever lived since, Thank you.
I genuinely love this guy. He gives advice on how to talk properly, how to live life, etc. Share your wisdom. Don't hold back and keep making the damn vids. ❤❤
Bro I needed this, I had to ask a girl to do a job (we're both volunteers at the church and we were short one person and I couldn't do it), purely business, not interested in her at all. I had to take like 2 whole minutes by myself to prepare for ONE SIMPLE QUESTION. I'm not like that with the guys. Women are scary, I dunno how to talk to them unless I know them well
I honestly wait for this guy to post .
Its one of the highlights of my week or whenever you post
I’m trying to ask out someone right now, so this works for confidence boost! Thank you!! 🙏
I know that my parents and teachers and adult figures in my life tell me this, but it is much nicer to hear it from you, someone who has (excuse my choice of words if they bring up trauma) been through that experience recently, or is just fresh of coming out of those times, it is much easier to listen to. Thanks bro for the support, it means a lot.
Mainly because my school says I have undiagnosed autism, or I show very prominent autistic signs, I am very socially awkward. I dislike talking to people because it makes me very nervous, so thanks again for helping my self-esteem and confidence.
Love you Jak
Same goes brother 🤞❤️
@@JakPiggott Thanks brother
You’re a great person! You weren’t only focusing on helping guys but also girls. That shows a lot of character. Thanks for the inspiration. Sadly I haven’t really liked a girl since I was a kid. Whenever I like a girl I get super competitive so I know I haven’t.
Dude.... your tip at 7:45 or so changed my mind set a lot. I'm hell bent on talking to a girl at my school, but I want to take my time, but my friends act like it's the last time I'll see her for years. I felt this way already, but hearing it come from someone I know I can trust like you definitely confirmed it. Appreciate the content bro, keep it up!
She said no and always thought of me as a best friend
@@itspegasus8785 I took no offense but how is it funny?
you didnt fail.... you won.
you were the best in someones eyes. thats a good relationship.
you may not be in a love relationship but a relationship that you can trust in with good foundations nonetheless.
Happy for you brother.
@@GalArcT1c thanks
Bro you did it and will only get stronger 💪🏻
just don't stop now. dont take a break from "women". go on and go for other girls. Be casual in the art of pulling girls. even if u arent, its just a way to convince urself u can actually do better. And trust me brother u really can
as soon as i realised what youre trying to say, my mind immediately clicked. this is probably the best advice ive heard from anyone, and even sounds fucking fun. ty for the idea g
Hey brother, i've wanted to tell you that a few weeks ago, i was praying to God for fuel to finally get in shape. Im 14 currently, and i recently fell in love with a girl. You'r videos also started showing up, which they never did. You inspired me to finnaly commit to the "grind" and loose my fat, and then tell her once i am fit. Keep making these relationship videos brother, you're changing me.
Good Luck :)
I was a missionary for my church for two years. We would walk up to random people and start conversations with them in any and every situation. One fun thing we would do is play the "bolder game". We had to one-up the other person in how boldly we introduced ourselves and talked with people. It was amazingly effective because it made talking with people a game, refocused your energy away from fears, made your communication clear, and softened the blow of rejection. You could look like a creep if you go 100% on this game with approaching girls, but it could be effective, especially if you are shy and struggle to talk with them.
If we were ever around lots of young people our age, we would often find the cutest girl there, walk up to the and ask, "Have you ever met my friend Elder ________?" It was then fun to watch your friend try and talk with them without blushing or stammering. Or they would pull it on you, and you had to talk with them. 😂 As missionaries, we weren't allowed to flirt, date, or have any non-professional relationship with girls, but it was mind-blowing how many were still interested in us simply because we were bold enough to approach and talk with them.
This has been a word salad, but I'm reliving so many good memories writing this!
dawg your snaps are so crisp at 5:01
honestly Jak, Ive been watching your videos for the past few weeks and in these past few weeks youve helped me so much in life and its crazy how watching someone online talk about his past and present can change the life of someone else.In the past few days ive been talking to a girl and now im way more comfortable while talking to women because of your videos and she setup a date with me because im the most comfortable guy shes ever talked to.Thank you so much for these videos and ill keep watching these videos❤
I'm glad that girl likes you the way you are, you are that one standing out in a good way, good luck bro :)
Yo this is actually super cool, my girlfriend cheated with me and I confronted her about it and she kept beating around the bush. It really sucked and my friend got broken up with too. I’m looking for someone to fill her place. I appreciate this greatly Jak.
This is really helpful advice. I will be starting school in like 2 months and it will be a completely different school where i can meet all kinds of new people to talk to!
Hey Jak, I wanted to say thanks for all your content has done for me. I wish I could give you a hug out of pure love and respect for it.
i love this guy so much bro hes actually so real.
You do more for humanity than anyone on Earth. Thank you.
i think this is a really good way to start off, my problen tbh isnt about talking to a girl ive talked to plenty in the past (not as attraction just as normal convos), but my problem is the girls i usually see around me either has this genz/alpha kind of appearance, im not picky when it comes to finding attraction i just need a normal one atleast..
Lezzzz go jak I’ve been needing this I am preparing to talk to my crush when I see her in like a week or 2 at camp wish me luck
Good luck
Godspeed bro
good luck bro!
Good luck
Same bro but not at camp at school for me
As a girl, I know I'm not generally your target audience for most of the videos you create.
However, I find your channel/yourself to be so genuine with your honesty and ability to communicate so respectfully yet directly.
Your channel is so informative. Thanks for taking the time to create the content and vibe that you do. 👏
My man really opened my eyes, even though I've been through at least 9 rejections, I never cared for it, and I took that opportunity to become a better me, Jak, you really helped me understand what I've been doing better, thanks
Thank you for this message! Believe it or not I actually tried this on a former crush, but there were other factors as well, and nothing happened. I was young, and had more to learn (I still do and always will, but that's the whole point of life). But, in my personal experience, I think you should not only become a better you, but actually embrace the time when you are alone. Romance shouldn't be the focus in life, it should be a byproduct of the life you are living, and the man you are becoming.💪
Listened to this video. And now I talk to her with ease. Thank you bro. I am so conversation awkward but now I feel so much better and found something in common with her.
You should do a video on how to talk to girls you like, like in your year at school or something when you talk to everyone but are nervous when it comes to the future and what might happen, but in the end nothing bad will, so how do you get over that and speak???? That's probably the biggest question, 'why'.
Btw you're quite inspirational, soo keep it up, you're making peoples days
its the summer and im just browsin, and while I'm supposed to be doing math I just watch this.
I usually watch vids at 2x speed bc my attention span is trash(I try to self justify it by saying there's better things to do with my time) but this is the first vid I watched fully 1x speed bc u just got it bro. u actually know wat ur talking about, and you know how to help ppl. keep it up man!
you are the most British person and best person on earth
I don't get crushes and I tend to say I am an aromantic, so I wasn't so interested in the topic of this video
however, I still listen to these videos in the background. i felt suicidal just a bit ago, but i listened to two of your videos, and it felt like someone was comforting me, in a way. so thanks. you take my mind off things. :)
Bro I swear this man be coming in clutch every single time. Thanks for taking your time for us man. Thanks for all the help fam
Thank you for inspiring me to start building a better me.
This channel is just too good. I literally bought all the books he said that was good
as someone who has autism, it was super insightful hearing these simple reminders of ways of socialization conversation, I will make sure to continue to keep learning more from you.
Words can’t explain how much I enjoy watching your videos. Every video you post I either learn something new, or it’s affirming my current beliefs, it’s really refreshing to watch you. God bless, keep up the great work brother👏👏
My friend once went up to a girl and forced a conversation, she replied twice and walked away. I really did feel bad for him, but like you said, you need human connection, not just validation
Not even joking, this guy has helped me through everything and is one of the best TH-camrs. Props to you man ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Great video brother. I love the quality of your videos and the background music makes it so cinimatic 🔥👊
Thank you Curtis, means more than you think bro ❤️
always remember that what you seek is not always what is the best for you. if he/she says no do not let that stop you because you have the power to keep moving forward and you are in control of yourself. when you find yourself and enjoy life for its qualities you will naturally attract the right person for you
Man. I love how genuine you are. Been hooked on your content since November, when I completed NNN, and actually started to turn my life around. You’ve been there with me. I love you so much for that. Thank you brother
There’s this girl at my school that I have a crush on, but I didn’t know how to talk to her. This video has helped me quite a bit. I haven’t talked to her yet but I think I might try soon.
I had a crush on a girl for like 3 years and we talked quite frequently and I really liked her. I think she liked me too but the problem was she moved away. I only see her like once a year and I try to make the conversations that I have with her last forever. Unfortunately, that’s just not possible. I could probably get away with saying I loved her. She was just an amazing person overall and just plain beautiful. Leaving on good terms is the worst thing that’s happened to me relationship wise.
I do love your speech and advice. You are such a cool and down-to-earth dude. I am proud of you and I am grateful for TH-cam recommending your channel to me weeks or months ago. Godspeed Jak Piggott.
This really give a good idea on how conversations go, how to create them, and how they form naturally. I’m an extrovert but I have a guy friend who is sort of an introvert. He can’t really start convos, but every once in a while, I talk to him and say things such as, “ask me something” or “wait, you did _(something part of that he said)_? How’d that go?” (To expand conversation) And I think he’s gaining confidence from starting more and more convos. (Not just with me, but with other people too!) Thank you so much for making these types of videos, Jak!
Well boys, after watching this video, I manage to get a date with my crush and just a few days ago, we finally got together. So trust me when I say this, you can do anything you put your mind too. Took me a while to actually tell her because of my bad social anxiety, but I pulled through. You boys got this.
Jack every time i watch one of your videos they inspire me to be a better person, thanks bro
This man is saving this generation 🎉🎉🎉
i love your content, never lose faith in yourself brother
watching these videos made me realize i am an extremely lucky person, i've watched so many of your videos and i could not relate to one thing in them other than the age group it was directed to, however i still feel compelled to watch them, thanks Jak for entertaining me and teaching others
These videos showed up at the perfect time. All of the things ive learned are really helpful. Nobody else can give this good of information.
this guy needs more subs and he is a real one thanks for the advice!
I'm amazed with this raw info I've only been hearing garbage from content creators.Thank You Jak for being REAL 😁
Thank you jak, I having a hard time to talk to people and I will get nervous 😔
Hope this helps then, don’t overthink it, you got this 👊❤️
"the deeper you go, the better" -Jack Piggot, 2024
Bruh
It makes sense i guess
Thank you so much Jak! Favorite youtuber
Thank you my man ❤️❤️
"see what motivates people into taking actions, its when they see someone succeed in doing rather than just talking about it" - the wise sheep
Great video! I’ve been looking for a video like this just to relieve stress and point me in the right direction. Thank you Jak, God be with you brother.
Yes subwoofer lullaby intro 😩😩
Ive watched a few of your videos and these have helped me become an actually decent communicator. Thanks you legend.
As a just turned 18 year old, I really hope you never stop making content. You are a motivational and inspirational person with so many valuable lessons to give. Thank you for all you content 👌❤️
I always like the advice, be the best version of yourself. You can’t be someone you aren’t because that’s disingenuous.
Be you, but just, a really good you. That just does it for me…
Thank you for being so awesome and, I've been watching your videos for a few weeks now I think and you've really turned my life around. Thank you😊
You deserve more fame than Tate, your're not just saying to make money and bragging about all of your girls. You are actually giving helpful advice, you deserve much more.
Wait what im hella early jak since im early i hope u see this, you genuinely dont know how much youve done for me ive been subbed to you since 100k man and your growth is crazy you deserve it all ❤❤
This video gives me the courage to talk to my crush, we shall see where it leads me to in a few month
nice vid jak, almost at a million subs?! thats crazyy
B' free from self-centered communication ( -me,- -I,- -my,- ...)
Take interest in someone's life and let their lives inspire your own.
Treat other people the same way you'd treat your love.
Remain authentic and keep your own principles and goals.
I agree with everything you say. I just cant be a better me. Its too late. I give up on myself. But i hope everyone has a great day/night
"people love talking about themselves" no truer words have ever been said. I can't tell you how many people I know inside and out but who wouldn't even know my favorite color, what food I like, or even my intentions after 20 years of knowing each other, just because they've never asked.
This man gave me the motivation to run a 5k to improve and impress myself, i ran a 28 minute 5k without stopping
This video speaks volumes! Was the exact same until I started pushing myself to practice small conversations with people I just so happen to be meet at the shops, waiter at resturant etc. These small conversations are kinda like training wheels since its usually has a topic already, but it helps so much. Great video Jak!
Perfect timing Jak, I just met a girl and she's feeling my vibe, I speak to woman just fine but when I like someone I get nervous and don't really know what to say
I talked to my crush, got her number, asked her out but she didn’t reply, so I ended the conversation, women have so much opinion about themselves
You probably made her feel cornered so she gave you her number in order to get away from you without any conflict. Maybe before assuming women are “stuck up” consider if you make them uncomfortable?
@@garbagesoup3099 it’s her loss, have better looking girls lined up ☺️💪🏼
@@bekabeka71I think I see why she didn't respond now. She dodged a bullet. Why don't "nice guys" understand how hypocritical they are? "A woman rejected me? Well, it's her fault for not being able to see what she's missing out on." No. That is what is called being a narcissist, and it is probably your fault if you think that they are in the wrong for not wanting to go out with you. Then, after you know that your chances with her are destroyed, you start with your backhanded comments. "Well, you weren't pretty anyways." That's like messing something up and saying you meant to do that. Just accept that she does not want to date you and that not every woman has to fall head over heels for you. If a man makes advances and when he is rejected, he throws a hissy fit, that's a major red flag.
@@galacgacwatson3102 okay i take your criticism as an advice
Harsh but very true, respecting the boundaries is important. I mean if I want to go back into dating I would make sure they are comfortable to talk and let them talk. I had a friend that would when he got a potential girlfriend they would be somewhere between an 8-10 and he would immediately try to get in bed with them. When someone says they have got other women "lined up" it makes me think of him. I'd just prefer to date a personality person then a girl with Curtin like eyelasshes or something (nothing wrong with it, it's just not my cup of tea). Also there should be standards in place before you start to date, I realised that after my 4th so I stopped dating so I can figure out what I'm looking for. But yeah respect is a big thing. Just hope this guy learns that this isn't just for your benefit, when you have a partner your a team and a team works together like well oiled cogs n stuff. 🙂
Bold to assume I'm afraid of going outside and having a life, in fact quite the opposite my mom seems to be afraid of me going outside.
I in fact would love to be outside and social often and it's been hard which is why i clicked this in case i got in a situation i needed this, this is motivational so i subscribed.
Your voice is really calming btw.
I Am alright at talking with woman bring up funny things you’ve done, challenge them, and make a inside joke it builds so much confidence and character