1. True intentions and be relaxed 2. Exude the type of feeling that is unique to you 3. Be confident 4. Be a good listner and ask QUALITY questions 5. Be yourself/ dont hide flaws, this makes you approachable
@@Lu_kas07 Pick something from their words. If they hold a passion, ask them about how good it can become. If they hold a hobby, ask them how they improved their personality because it is good. You just have to make them feel special about themselves by these questions. That is how they become quality questions.
Everyone misses the most important thing for charisma and thats being well rested. Your charisma energy drops massively when your tired and in a cba mood. You can do all the best techniques but if your abit drained you aint gunna be wanting to engage or do as strong as you could.
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
I'm not a big talker. But if I'm going to talk to someone my main intentions are to just be nice, make them smile and make their day a good one. Because when someone is sweet to me, I know I feel good all day. And knowing I've made someone else smile, it leaves me smiling. 💗
Good video I get a lot of practice talking to all sorts of people through working in customer service. My workplace really prioritizes connecting with customers on a personal level. (Well they did new ceo kind of changed things) but point is I developed the skill however I find when it comes to using that skill outside of work it’s difficult I get more awkward…again even though I have this ease of chatting about all sorts of things with all sorts of people through my job.
“Charisma is simply the energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the tone of the feeling you want and you cannot help but get that feeling. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”
My friend showed me you the other day. I was 'depressed' and anti-social. The minute I watched your video I was so much happier. So much fuller of life. Thank you, man, for helping the next generations.
its not “anti-social” its being “non-social.” Anti-social is directed derived from Anti-Social Personality Disorder, aka the personality disorder resulting in sociopathy/psychopathy
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
From someone who has dated an attractive,"charismatic" person,even such people get tired of the attention they can get from the wrong person or unwanted type of people. Thank you for highlighting what's actually important as a human being.
Thats because shes attractive, not charasmatic. Lol Girls can have charisma, but they absolutely do not need it, all they need to be inundated with male attention is to be average looking.
I can confirm that when I started not caring about what other people thought about me, I was able to speak how i felt without being scared of being laughed at. A girl this year apparently likes me and she likes being around me a lot. I would 1000% recommend just talking and expressing yourself while talking to someone.
That don't work for me. If I'm being myself, I'm either going to make them question their whole existence or wierd them out with my philosophical rants. I just offended some of my gym mates by challenging their pre-conceptions of morality and free-will. They were Christians.
@@wandereroftheabyss-o4l what is wrong with that? People who don't listen to opinions don't know what an opinion is. It makes them think they are always right, and you don't want to be friends with ignorant people. I don't.
@@JakPiggottis women adore a Hero!! Hot hot hot! Not the red pill guys!!!! You will get it all with class! I’m older and know so much about women!!! Women and men both are weak and I pray the younger generation get stronger!!!🙏🙏. More class and more strength!
What helped me learn the be a better communicator or a better charismatic person was being an observer. I started paying attention to people who were magnetic. You know those types, the ones who can walk into a room and instantly become the center of attention, but not because they're the loudest. I watched how they interacted, how they listened to others, how they used body language. I'd pick up on small things like how they made eye contact, smiled at the right moments, or even how they made others feel seen. Much love hopes this can help anyone out 👊❤️
100% bro, it's literally a cheat code being an observer instead of a player/consumer. You learn so much and don't attach yourself to the positives or negatives, you simply experience them for as they are
Bro this stuff is hitting to hard now... I've watched around probs 10-12 videos of your and just the minecraft music in the background and you be liking an older brother is just, like damn...
Your values are the foundation to a house. It doesn’t matter the conditions, if the foundation is strong nothing can tear it down. You have strong values, meaning you will go very far, stick to them and you’ll be glad you did so brother ❤
The most amazing thing happened to me a year ago. Absolutely no reason. I walked through a parking lot and the thought came to me, “What obedient loyal cars these are, their tires in a line, waiting for their owners to drive them away.” A June day, summer ahead kind of feeling. There not 20 feet from me I saw myself being filled with a silvery fluid. I was not in bed having a dream. It was me alright, and why was I not surprised? I only had one thought, “I like him, this guy, me; I like him a lot!” I never thought this about myself. This was real affection, not cerebral . I knew I would never forget this moment. I didn’t. The point of the story: charisma is not something achieved, earned, or deserved. It is a feeling about yourself so timeless, so unwavering of respect of others, so already connected to strangers, there is no fear, because nothing can be taken from you. You and this other person have always existed; there is no hurry. In Anything. Charisma is something you already have: just look at your baby pictures, ha ha. Life is so funny. True story.
I've just started learning this stuff myself. It really is about having pure intentions and not giving a crap. You said it just about perfect, Jak. Keep inspiring the young men and God bless you. 🤝👍
Appreciate you bro!! Thought I would share this message with you all. "Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was." ~ "Life moves in one direction only - and each day we are faced with an actual set of circumstances, not with what might have been, not with what we might have done, but with what is, and with where we are now- and from this point we must proceed; not from where we were, not from where we wish we were - but from where we are." ~ reminds me of Jak.
Thank you bro, I needed this so much. I did not realize how far off I have been from being authentic, I used to be a charismatic person, but recently I lost it, this vid helped me realize why and hopefully make it better.
Authenticity is the sh*t brother. At least for me haha. Never lose it, it's what makes you unique and what forms strong, meaningful connections that actually last 👊
Hey, I’ve watched a couple other of your videos and wanted to thank you for inspiring this generation, because this is the content they need to watch, not some random TikTok bullshit.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
The idea of trying to create an environment “aura” or feeling u want ppl to get when theyre around u changed my mindset completely. Stop trying to get stuff, see what you should give!
I personally love making people happy and laugh but I always think they are laughing at my jokes but they really laugh at me... I think that i might actually should start trying standup comdedy so that people start viewing me as a comedian instead of a joker Thanks for the great Video, Jak!
I can tell this is what I’m lacking. Just years of not doing much. Not going out, not making friends. The more experiences you have the better. More interests, more hobbies, for experiences. Try everything. Go travel alone, sit at the bar, go out to eat, take up new hobbies/sports.
Man i have seen a lot of motivational videos and i can say that yours are the best, like seriusly, there are some channels that i see thousends of motivational and i dont absorve shit, some of the channels i see for literal interteinment but i swear that every single video that you make just make me think for at least the next 2-3 months.Really great job dude, keep the good work, you are saving our generation (and sorry for bad grammar i from brazil and we don't speak english here).
This is probably the only TH-camr that actually has such a excellent way of teaching things! I'm serious, It makes it really easy to grasp what he's saying and that means a lot for us people who may not be easily able to grasp things. Thank you so much, man. You've changed a lot of lives and I'm sure you'll change many more!
people judge you by what's on the outside and never on the inside. This just shows you how many people actually are willing to go through the time to have a better understanding about you. Keep up the good work Jak.
Another important thing for charisma is to get rid of trauma so your nervous system is more relaxed. I can highly recommend TRE(trauma releasing exercises)
Notes - Pure intentions--want to just make someone smile authenticity--show weaknesses--being real--gaining empathy--they don't fear about being judged---how I feel with anishka Confidence--no fear of judgement Evoking emotions-- tone of voice, also feeling that emotion, becoming someone who reflects a specific unique positive emotion Some people are constantly in a hurry and give off an anxious vibe I'm constantly in dysphoria so i look distressed and "scary". If i don't feel that way i wont seem that way. How to stop feeling that way? Im working on it. I love feeling careless, carefree, curious and like a child Make them feel comfortable Communication skills-- asking good and interesting questions, actually being interested in what someone is saying
Hey Jack I just watched ur “if ur x years old please watch this” video and I just wanna say I rlly resonate w some of the stuff you’ve said, especially the stuff about loneliness and not fitting in which. I’m 15 in year 11 of high school and I’m just tryna get my eyes on what I wanna do w the rest of my life and ur vid rlly helped man. Cheers
Stay patient brother, an interest will definitely come to you. Right now I'm doing TH-cam but I have no idea if I'll want to do this for the rest of my life, no one has it figured out, some people are just great at hiding the fact. You are probably doing a whole lot better than you think you are ❤
Thank you for always being there out for us, Jak ! You have helped many young men, boys, etc. If I’m being honest, your video is motivating, but sadly I must tell you, im a nice guy. I try to always help around in my class, but rather then receiving something from them (for example: also helping me in various situations), what I get is bullying and ruthless behavior. What’s the point then in helping someone when he doesn’t care of you…? But Jak, you are a great guy, you make my day brighter :)
dude in my vision the point is just being a nice guy and not expecting nothing for anyone, they are not obliged to give something to you and vice versa, but you still do it anyway for your spiritual peace by being a nice fella
I know it sounds really alpha male haha - but are you being to nice and have you set any boundaries? For me, I respect everyone but if someone starts disrespecting me, I don't put them on a pedestal, and if they started bullying or harassing me I would definitely do something about it, because I have set strict boundaries. Haters will hate, but if people continuously disrespect you, you need to have some respect and stand up for yourself (this does not mean violence). P.S: Help to help, don't help to receive. Help because it's morally right, if someone reacts negatively to you helping them, that's their problem, not yours ❤
Its true that good looking people have it easier. People are drawn to someone who is attractive. But when a person gets to know that person it doesnt matter what they look like.
Well done mate. Glad to hear it. I'm 37 (basically, 36 but 37 next week). Was dorky, fat with acne, shy AS HELL, and also awkward in high school. But this is the thing man. When you are sure in yourself it is magnetic. Take your greatest insecurity. Instead of feeling ashamed about it, rock it. It completely changes the dynamic of how you are perceived. People may still go "woah, this guy should be insecure because of this or that" but because you are not you become 200% more intriguing.
I’m 16 and three weeks ago I started trying this with my crush and it’s actually going amazingly! She literally hugged me a few days ago which is something no girl has ever done before (besides my Mom 😂), here’s to hoping it turns out well and even if I do get rejected at least I’ll have made a good friend 😊 Thank you, you are now in my top 5 favorite people on this platform
Good video, but there's nothing specific here. I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation; you'll be shocked by the attraction techniques it contain about manipulation.
Bro fr keep it up man this was what I wanted to hear years ago bro making people learn from your mistakes is like being a family with them ❤ Love from your new follower
I thought once that my friends were true friends. That was until I understood that they were not themselves. They found out of my flaws, and left. I'll try improving my social and communication skills. I'll be back when the comment hits 10k.
It happened for a reason, put trust in that brother, real homies will accept the flaws you have because not a single person on this earth can go without one, keep your head up brother ❤
@@JakPiggott I was too open about my sex life, me being too much of a freak, being a creep and checking girls out. I didn't know until it was too late... But here I am, learning from your channel. Thanks man, I am thankful for your support.
This is absolute gold. Ive always gone to music festivals with the outlook that i am going to hype people up and get them dancing. It works. Ive been approached by many people and had many comments made about the energy. Pure intentions is key.
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
Yeah bro. "Nobody's getting out of here alive" that's what I remind myself when I'm afraid of initiating the conversation with anyone. Who cares? Make them happy. Give that compliment. Say what you want to say. And you're right. You can't do that if you're have a certain level of insecurity. If you think you're ugly, work on that, physically and mentally. You don't need to be completely perfect chad, even if you are a perfect chad there'd still be people who won't like the way you look and that's okay. That's completely fine. Just keep on imporving yourself, that's the way you'll love yourself, and you can only love others if you love yourself. You are not an introvert, you're insecure.
Being friendly and having a positive outlook really goes a long way. I used to assume the worst in people back when I was more pathetic. It is more fun to assume good intentions. And even if you are wrong, then who cares, you won’t see them again. Ironically when I stopped trying to flirt, and just became friendly with people and wanting to have a good time, it made me better at flirting without me realizing it
Firsttt😊😊also i am a new sub . Thanku soo much bro . U have made me realize so much in such a short time❤❤❤ as a JUST BECAME A TEEN and a genz life seems quite hard especially with the immense competition in asian countries but i feel like i can rely on u ❤❤❤ thanku again 😊
I think jak needs to bring back the old videos just speaking sitting in the car, or surrounded with nature, etc. i think some of us would like to see that
You seem like such an authentic person, the way you talk and give advice really helps me open my mind to a lot more different perspectives. I genuinely appreciate you coming on here and spreading this, as I have been watching your videos recently. Thank you
I struggle with anxiety and you’ve changed me thanks Jack again I’ve commented a decent part of my story on your channel before but words can’t describe my thanks
Bro I just wanted to say that I absolutely love your videos. I relate so much to you and what you speak about and the ideas you bring up. I have no clue to what extent, but you have truly changed my life. In some way or another, you have changed my life. I really hope you see this just to let you know that you are doing great. You are inspiring people. You have certainly inspired me. I am 16 now and I am so glad I started watching you a year or two ago. You have been crucial in who I am becoming and who I am as a person. It might sound stupid to some people that a TH-camr has changed my life, but they aren't me. Thank you for making these videos
The best way i learned charisma is being genuinely happy with yourself no matter what position or stage in life you are, without gratitude for yourself that could lead to behavior that is desperate and self destructive
4:30 a funny example. ohio is an entire state, not just a city like dubai. dubai is also bleeding money, it produces nothing. it's basically a pyramid scheme, it's popular because it's popular. ohio on the other hand, being a state, is much more wealthy and valuable, and it is a major source of agriculture and manufacturing. with a large chunk of lake eerie shoreline and the ohio river, it's also critical for international trade. however, ohio is not cool. dubai is cool. therefore dubai wins, despite being totally useless.
The pov that I had of charisma before and after this vid has changed 180 degrees my pov of charisma was being confident and showing people that you are perfect and that you are the one that he has the aura of the world and this shit but now man I really understand that charisma is making people feel comfortable whit you and that you are relied on and being your self whit people and not caring about what they think just be your self whit being confident and giving that aura of that “hey I am here I am present” so thank you therepist
My chRismagic is hurting ppl or so i beleive about people and feeling .and just not knowing what to say and saying the randomws t shot z.i literallycorrected my principal in her face that i am not just my name but i am miss name, as a teCher. Like it came out just naturally. I had pure intention and was not gvng a fuck atvall.
I have started taking green smoothies around 3 weeks ago and switched my food to whole grain and the difference is amazing. also I was doing just that what you said sending positive energy yesterday while playing a nice game and I helped beginners didn’t get hung up on people not wanting to chat and just having a good time I’m glad we see charismatic ways of communicating the same way.
@@JakPiggott Some people called me boring and some interesting, I'm introvert and spiritual type of guy but cool too, Sorry for any grammatical mistakes, Love from India 🇮🇳
I haven't started the video yet brother but all i have to say is you're doing amazing work. I discovered your channel in the last week & im shocked & grateful to how much i relate to you & your experiences, You’re an australian youtuber & im some random Brit but it just shows how universal & normal these experiences & struggles are! You've been doing brilliant work & im so glad theres a community out here that we have to understand & help one another, I wish you the best in life brother & stay strong!
Agh so much quality thanks dude!!! I am known as the charismatic charmer socially but truly I’m an introvert. You both (your friend included) break it down very simply, I learned quite a lot still.
I've never related to this title so much. My friends think that there is something seriously wrong with me because of how easily and naturally I can talk to strangers, and those strangers automatically are comforted by me.
watched every video of you bro... slowly becoming better... in everything except lust, i cant resist lust no matter what and i end up doing it once or twice a day
I use to nail all these aspects of charisma. I felt on top of the world. Was the best feeling I've ever experienced. I use to love to learn about other people. Never cared about what people thought about my flaws. I just believed in being the best person with the best intentions I could be. I met a girl that slowly sucked it all out of me. I have become miserable and I find it impossible to be charismatic anymore. I think you also need to be happy in order to be charismatic.
You need to get small Wins in life to be charismatic mate. Dw, I'm in same state as you. We'll rise again mate! Small Wins just like completing all your daily tasks and primary one's as well. Then in your meantime focus on yourself & ultimately the charisma will start showing up
I love to smile, always been a happy person, always say thanks and you’re welcome, apologize when needed, tell ppl have a good day. But being raised in NY, you can see how many ppl were not raised with manners.
I was told “its better for people to have low standards for you so you can break them rather for them to have higher standards so they can be let down” and i think that really applies to this video
Thanks bro! I have been wondering about why I can't be as "charismatic" as my friends because I have been trying to looked "perfect" in front of them and it was SO exhausting. I will try to be my own self from now on :D
I’ve been talking to this girl for like a month now and I like and it’s pretty obvious she likes me but idk I’m still too nervous to ask her out what do I do
If its obvious she likes you just ask her out man, you have a 100% success rate since she likes you back. Confess/ ask her out in an expected moment, she'd be very shocked and suprised and probably a bit nervous
@@Zembie1 it’s weird bc it’s just at school I don’t have her number or anything but at the same time she didn’t start talking to me until I started taking my looks a little more serious
Thank you Jack I've implemented your teachings into my own life and you have really made my day today by making me feel important and happy around others.
Hey man, I genuinely wanted to just comment on this video and thank you. You are teaching people things that really just help people in life. Keep up the good work man
People question my sanity and I'm not even charismatic
Same here
I always see these kinds of comments
Lmao love this same bro
real
Hay you know something like that happened to me once or twice or more than one or something.
1. Have good intentions. Goal is to make people smile.
2. Don’t give a shit if they judge you.
Practise smiling at strangers and doing small talks
And be authentic :)
True, can't forget about becoming somehow who reflects a specific and unique emotion though, I'd say that's one of the most important parts ❤
Small talk is purely a American thing sadly
@@georgiybelobrov7331 is it bro
then im never becoming charesmatic bc im a eastern european that hates small talks and smiles here is not common
1. True intentions and be relaxed
2. Exude the type of feeling that is unique to you
3. Be confident
4. Be a good listner and ask QUALITY questions
5. Be yourself/ dont hide flaws, this makes you approachable
Examples of quality questions?
@@Lu_kas07 Pick something from their words. If they hold a passion, ask them about how good it can become. If they hold a hobby, ask them how they improved their personality because it is good. You just have to make them feel special about themselves by these questions. That is how they become quality questions.
Thank you. This bum at a supermarket's doors gave me the same tips for the coin I tossed him
Being myself involves not listening
Everyone misses the most important thing for charisma and thats being well rested. Your charisma energy drops massively when your tired and in a cba mood. You can do all the best techniques but if your abit drained you aint gunna be wanting to engage or do as strong as you could.
That's where the morning alcohol comes in 🤪
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
True dat
My thoughts exactly. When exhausted I can't even English sometimes yet alone, rizz.
This is one of the biggest things I've learned this year. Good rest is so important.
I'm not a big talker. But if I'm going to talk to someone my main intentions are to just be nice, make them smile and make their day a good one.
Because when someone is sweet to me, I know I feel good all day. And knowing I've made someone else smile, it leaves me smiling. 💗
I would say you can't get a better mindset than this ❤
Then you’re not the only one here 😉❤
Good video I get a lot of practice talking to all sorts of people through working in customer service. My workplace really prioritizes connecting with customers on a personal level. (Well they did new ceo kind of changed things) but point is I developed the skill however I find when it comes to using that skill outside of work it’s difficult I get more awkward…again even though I have this ease of chatting about all sorts of things with all sorts of people through my job.
Reallll ❤️❤️
it's really crazy how nobody is talking about the book the cosmic wealth frequencies on borlest
“Charisma is simply the energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the tone of the feeling you want and you cannot help but get that feeling. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”
how do you just create that feeling though? you need some trigger of past occassions of that feeling?
Quoted from?
@@JimmyHandtrixxits about you feeling good about yourself and your life, when you have a positive outlook you already become charismatic
@@chrike01bob proctor I believe
My friend showed me you the other day. I was 'depressed' and anti-social. The minute I watched your video I was so much happier. So much fuller of life. Thank you, man, for helping the next generations.
Man this made my day, thank you for your words bro, I’m sure you have lots of potential, fulfil it ❤
Keep that friend bro.
its not “anti-social” its being “non-social.” Anti-social is directed derived from Anti-Social Personality Disorder, aka the personality disorder resulting in sociopathy/psychopathy
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
@@rachael5611 awh thanks! i started my journey with jesus last week!!
From someone who has dated an attractive,"charismatic" person,even such people get tired of the attention they can get from the wrong person or unwanted type of people. Thank you for highlighting what's actually important as a human being.
That's facts bro, haven't thought about this perspective for a while
Thats because shes attractive, not charasmatic. Lol Girls can have charisma, but they absolutely do not need it, all they need to be inundated with male attention is to be average looking.
I'm pretty introverted so I typically don't talk to whoever, but getting called charismatic was one of the best feelings of my adolescence.
Yeah it feels pretty good aye 😂
I have yet to be called charismatic the closest I got to it was being called "pleasant" or "charming"
@@JakPiggottI get called a weakass mentally ill person it hurts but ok 😅
@@Zachary-b7z I’ve got that I make people very comfortable which was a nice compliment
I can confirm that when I started not caring about what other people thought about me, I was able to speak how i felt without being scared of being laughed at. A girl this year apparently likes me and she likes being around me a lot. I would 1000% recommend just talking and expressing yourself while talking to someone.
dude i have the same thing, some girl likes me but she is shy around me and wants my number now
TRUTH
That don't work for me. If I'm being myself, I'm either going to make them question their whole existence or wierd them out with my philosophical rants. I just offended some of my gym mates by challenging their pre-conceptions of morality and free-will. They were Christians.
@@wandereroftheabyss-o4l what is wrong with that? People who don't listen to opinions don't know what an opinion is. It makes them think they are always right, and you don't want to be friends with ignorant people. I don't.
@@JakPiggott OMG, Thank you so much for all the advice you give me and this community. You are a great man!!
Being charismatic: Having an intention to make people smile and made them enjoy listening
It is the foundation and most important for sure 👊
Moral of this video : Be 100% of yourself around peoples.
I agree, but I do have to remember to behave like an ordinary human being too
@@xassassin609 this is the hardest part. Cuz my sense of humor is too retarded lol
@@xassassin609 haha yeah can't forget 😂
True, it's really all you need, as long as you continue to build on your authentic self and make it even better 👊
@@xassassin609 it's just being optimistic about your surroundings, that's it
John boy : you either die a hero or long live enough to see yourself becoming a villian❤
is that ed edd and eddy
John boy is definitely a hero
@@JakPiggottis women adore a Hero!! Hot hot hot! Not the red pill guys!!!! You will get it all with class! I’m older and know so much about women!!!
Women and men both are weak and I pray the younger generation get stronger!!!🙏🙏. More class and more strength!
Literally was thinking about Batman and see this comment 😂
@@JakPiggott Can you share the john's youtube channel
What helped me learn the be a better communicator or a better charismatic person was being an observer. I started paying attention to people who were magnetic. You know those types, the ones who can walk into a room and instantly become the center of attention, but not because they're the loudest. I watched how they interacted, how they listened to others, how they used body language. I'd pick up on small things like how they made eye contact, smiled at the right moments, or even how they made others feel seen.
Much love hopes this can help anyone out 👊❤️
100% bro, it's literally a cheat code being an observer instead of a player/consumer. You learn so much and don't attach yourself to the positives or negatives, you simply experience them for as they are
Bro this stuff is hitting to hard now... I've watched around probs 10-12 videos of your and just the minecraft music in the background and you be liking an older brother is just, like damn...
Man, thanks brother, this means more than you think and I hope you realise that ❤
The music always hits different
Hey I'm from Malaysia,20 years old and I can say that not only American that ur helping but also all over the world...much love Jak❤
Makes me happy to hear this man, much love ❤
I've been absolutely bulldozed by life and my humble input is : stay true to WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES SRE and WHAT YOUR DREAMS ARE.
Your values are the foundation to a house. It doesn’t matter the conditions, if the foundation is strong nothing can tear it down. You have strong values, meaning you will go very far, stick to them and you’ll be glad you did so brother ❤
@@JakPiggott kind words from you! I'm not a brother but I'll welcome the sentiment!
The most amazing thing happened to me a year ago. Absolutely no reason. I walked through a parking lot and the thought came to me, “What obedient loyal cars these are, their tires in a line, waiting for their owners to drive them away.” A June day, summer ahead kind of feeling. There not 20 feet from me I saw myself being filled with a silvery fluid. I was not in bed having a dream. It was me alright, and why was I not surprised? I only had one thought, “I like him, this guy, me; I like him a lot!” I never thought this about myself. This was real affection, not cerebral . I knew I would never forget this moment. I didn’t.
The point of the story: charisma is not something achieved, earned, or deserved. It is a feeling about yourself so timeless, so unwavering of respect of others, so already connected to strangers, there is no fear, because nothing can be taken from you. You and this other person have always existed; there is no hurry. In Anything. Charisma is something you already have: just look at your baby pictures, ha ha. Life is so funny. True story.
I've just started learning this stuff myself. It really is about having pure intentions and not giving a crap. You said it just about perfect, Jak. Keep inspiring the young men and God bless you. 🤝👍
It's the foundation brother, without it requires extreme levels of manipulation, which I do not have and don't want to have 😂
You are such a genuine, bright person that it radiates through the screen, love your videos keep it up!
Thank you, just being me ❤
Appreciate you bro!! Thought I would share this message with you all. "Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was." ~
"Life moves in one direction only - and each day we are faced with an actual set of circumstances, not with what might have been, not with what we might have done, but with what is, and with where we are now- and from this point we must proceed; not from where we were, not from where we wish we were - but from where we are." ~ reminds me of Jak.
Haha I love that bro, had to read it twice to really conceptualise it, just like the flow of a river ❤
Absolutely! Love you man.
This approach to charisma is refreshing; it’s all about confidence and not taking yourself too seriously
Thank you bro, I needed this so much. I did not realize how far off I have been from being authentic, I used to be a charismatic person, but recently I lost it, this vid helped me realize why and hopefully make it better.
Authenticity is the sh*t brother. At least for me haha. Never lose it, it's what makes you unique and what forms strong, meaningful connections that actually last 👊
Hey, I’ve watched a couple other of your videos and wanted to thank you for inspiring this generation, because this is the content they need to watch, not some random TikTok bullshit.
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The idea of trying to create an environment “aura” or feeling u want ppl to get when theyre around u changed my mindset completely. Stop trying to get stuff, see what you should give!
Hey man, i really appreciate you, you've helped me with many things whether emotionally or physically, i love what you do
This man is probably my favorite self growth channel I have watched.
Thank you man, but I’m nothing special
Thanks for all your videos man, they have really helped me in the past few months.
I hope you give yourself as much credit as you give me ❤
@@JakPiggott yeah I need to work on that
you got this. no matter at what point you are in life
Everyone is on their own timeline 🤞
I personally love making people happy and laugh but I always think they are laughing at my jokes but they really laugh at me... I think that i might actually should start trying standup comdedy so that people start viewing me as a comedian instead of a joker
Thanks for the great Video, Jak!
You are the definition of a person who turns a "negative" into a positive. This inspires me
Bro is reaoly a great dude, he tries to give people advice, and he has wisdom to share with all of us. A moment of silence for this guy.
Haha thank you man, I'm nothing special though ❤
I can tell this is what I’m lacking. Just years of not doing much. Not going out, not making friends. The more experiences you have the better. More interests, more hobbies, for experiences. Try everything. Go travel alone, sit at the bar, go out to eat, take up new hobbies/sports.
Man i have seen a lot of motivational videos and i can say that yours are the best, like seriusly, there are some channels that i see thousends of motivational and i dont absorve shit, some of the channels i see for literal interteinment but i swear that every single video that you make just make me think for at least the next 2-3 months.Really great job dude, keep the good work, you are saving our generation (and sorry for bad grammar i from brazil and we don't speak english here).
This is probably the only TH-camr that actually has such a excellent way of teaching things! I'm serious, It makes it really easy to grasp what he's saying and that means a lot for us people who may not be easily able to grasp things.
Thank you so much, man. You've changed a lot of lives and I'm sure you'll change many more!
people judge you by what's on the outside and never on the inside. This just shows you how many people actually are willing to go through the time to have a better understanding about you. Keep up the good work Jak.
Another important thing for charisma is to get rid of trauma so your nervous system is more relaxed. I can highly recommend TRE(trauma releasing exercises)
Notes -
Pure intentions--want to just make someone smile
authenticity--show weaknesses--being real--gaining empathy--they don't fear about being judged---how I feel with anishka
Confidence--no fear of judgement
Evoking emotions-- tone of voice, also feeling that emotion, becoming someone who reflects a specific unique positive emotion
Some people are constantly in a hurry and give off an anxious vibe
I'm constantly in dysphoria so i look distressed and "scary". If i don't feel that way i wont seem that way. How to stop feeling that way? Im working on it.
I love feeling careless, carefree, curious and like a child
Make them feel comfortable
Communication skills-- asking good and interesting questions, actually being interested in what someone is saying
Appreciate Your Work Brotha🗿☄️
Thank yay my brother ❤
Hey Jack I just watched ur “if ur x years old please watch this” video and I just wanna say I rlly resonate w some of the stuff you’ve said, especially the stuff about loneliness and not fitting in which. I’m 15 in year 11 of high school and I’m just tryna get my eyes on what I wanna do w the rest of my life and ur vid rlly helped man. Cheers
Stay patient brother, an interest will definitely come to you. Right now I'm doing TH-cam but I have no idea if I'll want to do this for the rest of my life, no one has it figured out, some people are just great at hiding the fact. You are probably doing a whole lot better than you think you are ❤
Thank you for always being there out for us, Jak ! You have helped many young men, boys, etc. If I’m being honest, your video is motivating, but sadly I must tell you, im a nice guy. I try to always help around in my class, but rather then receiving something from them (for example: also helping me in various situations), what I get is bullying and ruthless behavior. What’s the point then in helping someone when he doesn’t care of you…? But Jak, you are a great guy, you make my day brighter :)
dude in my vision the point is just being a nice guy and not expecting nothing for anyone, they are not obliged to give something to you and vice versa, but you still do it anyway for your spiritual peace by being a nice fella
I know it sounds really alpha male haha - but are you being to nice and have you set any boundaries? For me, I respect everyone but if someone starts disrespecting me, I don't put them on a pedestal, and if they started bullying or harassing me I would definitely do something about it, because I have set strict boundaries. Haters will hate, but if people continuously disrespect you, you need to have some respect and stand up for yourself (this does not mean violence).
P.S: Help to help, don't help to receive. Help because it's morally right, if someone reacts negatively to you helping them, that's their problem, not yours ❤
Thank you! You are better than these other TH-camrs. You put actual thought and emotion in your videos and you’re not just trying to farm views.
Its true that good looking people have it easier. People are drawn to someone who is attractive. But when a person gets to know that person it doesnt matter what they look like.
0:35 for the past 2-3 months ive been the most charismatic person at my school by far. i went from introverted autist to everybody know me! CHILL!
Well done mate. Glad to hear it. I'm 37 (basically, 36 but 37 next week). Was dorky, fat with acne, shy AS HELL, and also awkward in high school. But this is the thing man. When you are sure in yourself it is magnetic. Take your greatest insecurity. Instead of feeling ashamed about it, rock it. It completely changes the dynamic of how you are perceived. People may still go "woah, this guy should be insecure because of this or that" but because you are not you become 200% more intriguing.
And what did you gain by “everyone knowing you”. What did they bring of value to your life?
What did he get? Lots. Fearlessness for one . To live without shyness fear of ridicule. These are great things.
Thanks Jan. I honestly find myself distorting my intentions over the long run. I need to remember to be authentic and keep my intentions pure.
I’m 16 and three weeks ago I started trying this with my crush and it’s actually going amazingly! She literally hugged me a few days ago which is something no girl has ever done before (besides my Mom 😂), here’s to hoping it turns out well and even if I do get rejected at least I’ll have made a good friend 😊
Thank you, you are now in my top 5 favorite people on this platform
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There is no book with that name.
Write the correct name and name the author please
@@dinoriley2 one who talks, talks about why no one is talking 😂
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I agree, be confident with intentions, the intentions that you reflect on others is very observable and contagious.
Bro fr
keep it up man this was what I wanted to hear years ago bro making people learn from your mistakes is like being a family with them ❤
Love from your new follower
I thought once that my friends were true friends. That was until I understood that they were not themselves. They found out of my flaws, and left. I'll try improving my social and communication skills. I'll be back when the comment hits 10k.
It happened for a reason, put trust in that brother, real homies will accept the flaws you have because not a single person on this earth can go without one, keep your head up brother ❤
@@JakPiggott I was too open about my sex life, me being too much of a freak, being a creep and checking girls out. I didn't know until it was too late... But here I am, learning from your channel. Thanks man, I am thankful for your support.
What the fuck are you talking about
This is absolute gold. Ive always gone to music festivals with the outlook that i am going to hype people up and get them dancing. It works. Ive been approached by many people and had many comments made about the energy. Pure intentions is key.
God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes! :)
Yeah bro. "Nobody's getting out of here alive" that's what I remind myself when I'm afraid of initiating the conversation with anyone. Who cares? Make them happy. Give that compliment. Say what you want to say.
And you're right. You can't do that if you're have a certain level of insecurity. If you think you're ugly, work on that, physically and mentally. You don't need to be completely perfect chad, even if you are a perfect chad there'd still be people who won't like the way you look and that's okay. That's completely fine. Just keep on imporving yourself, that's the way you'll love yourself, and you can only love others if you love yourself. You are not an introvert, you're insecure.
Being friendly and having a positive outlook really goes a long way. I used to assume the worst in people back when I was more pathetic. It is more fun to assume good intentions. And even if you are wrong, then who cares, you won’t see them again. Ironically when I stopped trying to flirt, and just became friendly with people and wanting to have a good time, it made me better at flirting without me realizing it
Im watching this video not because Im not charismatic but because I want to learn how to consistently be charismatic
I love your energy, never stop posting
Firsttt😊😊also i am a new sub . Thanku soo much bro . U have made me realize so much in such a short time❤❤❤ as a JUST BECAME A TEEN and a genz life seems quite hard especially with the immense competition in asian countries but i feel like i can rely on u ❤❤❤ thanku again 😊
I've always loved authenticity in others but never knew how to show it in myself; wanting to be independent and perfect. THIS HELPS A LOT THANK YOU
I think jak needs to bring back the old videos just speaking sitting in the car, or surrounded with nature, etc. i think some of us would like to see that
I definitely will bro, just experimenting with some whiteboard vids atm, a video next week will be a deep talk in the car 👊
You seem like such an authentic person, the way you talk and give advice really helps me open my mind to a lot more different perspectives. I genuinely appreciate you coming on here and spreading this, as I have been watching your videos recently. Thank you
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5' fat Mexican fence hopper: "lemme steal that"
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@@Carlos-jq7wg 5' fence hopping Pablo: "lemme steal that"
I struggle with anxiety and you’ve changed me thanks Jack again I’ve commented a decent part of my story on your channel before but words can’t describe my thanks
Your voice is so calming also
I started trying to implement this more into my day to day, and because of it I’m currently talking to the girl of my dreams.
Sweet
I'm loving the whiteboard chats🔥🔥
Bro I just wanted to say that I absolutely love your videos. I relate so much to you and what you speak about and the ideas you bring up. I have no clue to what extent, but you have truly changed my life. In some way or another, you have changed my life. I really hope you see this just to let you know that you are doing great. You are inspiring people. You have certainly inspired me. I am 16 now and I am so glad I started watching you a year or two ago. You have been crucial in who I am becoming and who I am as a person. It might sound stupid to some people that a TH-camr has changed my life, but they aren't me. Thank you for making these videos
Jak, the other day i watched some if your videos, and turns out now im dating someone! I appreciate you so much
Big W, that’s what we love hearing ❤️❤️
The best way i learned charisma is being genuinely happy with yourself no matter what position or stage in life you are, without gratitude for yourself that could lead to behavior that is desperate and self destructive
4:30 a funny example. ohio is an entire state, not just a city like dubai. dubai is also bleeding money, it produces nothing. it's basically a pyramid scheme, it's popular because it's popular. ohio on the other hand, being a state, is much more wealthy and valuable, and it is a major source of agriculture and manufacturing. with a large chunk of lake eerie shoreline and the ohio river, it's also critical for international trade. however, ohio is not cool. dubai is cool. therefore dubai wins, despite being totally useless.
Shut up
Peacocks and lilies, as they say
You're being completely authentic which is what makes you charismatic
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The pov that I had of charisma before and after this vid has changed 180 degrees my pov of charisma was being confident and showing people that you are perfect and that you are the one that he has the aura of the world and this shit but now man I really understand that charisma is making people feel comfortable whit you and that you are relied on and being your self whit people and not caring about what they think just be your self whit being confident and giving that aura of that “hey I am here I am present” so thank you therepist
Your the hero man that your generation needs ❤❤
You're*
@@Phamtheman69that was so incredibly unnecessary
Nah bro I'm just a regular guy, but thank you ❤
@@JakPiggott no man your more than a regular guy there’s people like me who look up to you now keep up the good work jak
My chRismagic is hurting ppl or so i beleive about people and feeling .and just not knowing what to say and saying the randomws t shot z.i literallycorrected my principal in her face that i am not just my name but i am miss name, as a teCher. Like it came out just naturally. I had pure intention and was not gvng a fuck atvall.
This has got to be the best channel I have ever stumbled across, thank you Jak
If you really want to gain confidence, really care about people but also dont give af about the haters
This is really all you need, at least from my experience
Thanks brudda. U really open up new perspectives of viewing situations and help in solving them.
I hope I get the love of my life
You will brother, become someone that is attractive (physically, mentally and spiritually) to the love of your life 👊
@JakPiggott I am working on them brother 💪
I have started taking green smoothies around 3 weeks ago and switched my food to whole grain and the difference is amazing. also I was doing just that what you said sending positive energy yesterday while playing a nice game and I helped beginners didn’t get hung up on people not wanting to chat and just having a good time I’m glad we see charismatic ways of communicating the same way.
People always seem interested in me until i started talking 😂
Is that actually a fact or it is just your interpretation? Has anyone ever called you boring?
@@JakPiggott Some people called me boring and some interesting, I'm introvert and spiritual type of guy but cool too, Sorry for any grammatical mistakes, Love from India 🇮🇳
@@theresponsibleuser90Maybe you should seek out a more devoted spiritual community?
I haven't started the video yet brother but all i have to say is you're doing amazing work. I discovered your channel in the last week & im shocked & grateful to how much i relate to you & your experiences, You’re an australian youtuber & im some random Brit but it just shows how universal & normal these experiences & struggles are! You've been doing brilliant work & im so glad theres a community out here that we have to understand & help one another, I wish you the best in life brother & stay strong!
Thanks, I’m only thirteen but when I’m old and have kids imma make them watch your videos
Agh so much quality thanks dude!!! I am known as the charismatic charmer socially but truly I’m an introvert. You both (your friend included) break it down very simply, I learned quite a lot still.
3:35 I’m just picturing jak going to Ohio with 1.22M teenagers
Man honestly your so real and it actually is just so good in a world of people who have ill intentions, keep up the videos man ❤
Thank you brother, couldn't spread the message without support like this ❤
@@JakPiggott no worries man, your videos are inspiring and they really do help. And i love the content on this channel❤❤
@@JakPiggott and thank you for these messages your pushing out to our generation, people like you are really needed for our generation
I'm asking her out in a week. Wish me luck bro 💪
Wish you luck budy
It's a win win either way bro 👊
In a week🤔?are u also on a school holiday like me
How’d it go. What did she say? ^^
@@mergerogue4291 She said yes and seemed really excited about it. Literally a best case sceneraio response.
I've never related to this title so much. My friends think that there is something seriously wrong with me because of how easily and naturally I can talk to strangers, and those strangers automatically are comforted by me.
watched every video of you bro... slowly becoming better... in everything except lust, i cant resist lust no matter what and i end up doing it once or twice a day
yo ive been watching u since the last few months. im so happy to see that ur your youtube game is growing. much love to you my man
I use to nail all these aspects of charisma. I felt on top of the world. Was the best feeling I've ever experienced. I use to love to learn about other people. Never cared about what people thought about my flaws. I just believed in being the best person with the best intentions I could be. I met a girl that slowly sucked it all out of me. I have become miserable and I find it impossible to be charismatic anymore. I think you also need to be happy in order to be charismatic.
You need to get small Wins in life to be charismatic mate. Dw, I'm in same state as you. We'll rise again mate!
Small Wins just like completing all your daily tasks and primary one's as well.
Then in your meantime focus on yourself & ultimately the charisma will start showing up
I love to smile, always been a happy person, always say thanks and you’re welcome, apologize when needed, tell ppl have a good day. But being raised in NY, you can see how many ppl were not raised with manners.
Just did my workout thank for appreciate ❤❤
I was told “its better for people to have low standards for you so you can break them rather for them to have higher standards so they can be let down” and i think that really applies to this video
Day 2 of asking: Are you a Christian? And if so, please tell us more about it.
You talk so well! The points are clear and the way you deliever is stunning!!!
I live 10 minutes away from Ohio, and I try my hardest to not go there 🤣🤣
P. S.: Ohio is a state, not a city 💀💀
Shi yeah I forgot about that, Cleveland is the city 😂
Thanks bro! I have been wondering about why I can't be as "charismatic" as my friends because I have been trying to looked "perfect" in front of them and it was SO exhausting. I will try to be my own self from now on :D
This is so true. Apart from attracting other people, it makes me feel better.
I’ve been talking to this girl for like a month now and I like and it’s pretty obvious she likes me but idk I’m still too nervous to ask her out what do I do
If its obvious she likes you just ask her out man, you have a 100% success rate since she likes you back. Confess/ ask her out in an expected moment, she'd be very shocked and suprised and probably a bit nervous
if it really is obvious then ask her out, worst she can say is yes
I’ll try on Monday
Bro if your talking to a girl, she probably likes you. Why else would she be talking to you instead of another girl?
@@Zembie1 it’s weird bc it’s just at school I don’t have her number or anything but at the same time she didn’t start talking to me until I started taking my looks a little more serious
Thank you Jack I've implemented your teachings into my own life and you have really made my day today by making me feel important and happy around others.
My charisma mostly consists of dark jokes and random bs 💀
dark jokes are like food, not everybody gets it - Stalin
Dark jokes are also like women, not everyone understands them.
Personally don’t find the appeal of “dark jokes” and depends on how far you take it
@@runin12I do agree with you on that one
"dark jokes" goofy ahh
Hey man, I genuinely wanted to just comment on this video and thank you. You are teaching people things that really just help people in life. Keep up the good work man