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You are actually (a lot) uglier than you think if you do this...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มิ.ย. 2024
- If you do this, you are actually a lot uglier than you think...
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Yo yo if you didn’t read the thumbnail text the title won’t make sense, make sure you read that first ahah, I’m not calling ya’ll ugly off rip 😂
yeah, nearly had a heart attack when my notification popped up 😆
u should've added it to the title becuase some mfs click on the videos from the notification thing 😭
@@shahar282 lmao
@@shahar282yeah I completely forgot about that to be honest 😂
What a shame, for the first time I thought that a "coach" would tell the truth without trying to manipulate us with his easy-living optimism.
‘You’re a lot more attractive than you think’
‘You are a lot uglier than you think’
You’re one of a kind, Jak 😎🤣
Haha nah bro read the thumbnail text of the video, it’s only if you do this 😂
@@JakPiggott yeah, I get it. Btw still haven’t watched it, but I’ll *definitely* do it later:)
@@JakPiggott broski, im not trynna be rude or anything, but theres no thumbnail text, you havent added any XD
@@seynpurrphe probably changed it
@@seynpurrp? There is a thumbnail text but the font size is zero. Goofy, you might need a new glasses
Fake friends rob your confidence in life, but true friends builds your growth better and stronger as life goes on
Bro my friends and I obliterate each others everything on a daily basis😆 But nah yeah I get ur point
Its actually the counter opposite
I've had experience with both. Had very toxic friends in HS which made me feel fat, autistic and creepy and I was. Found a uni group which made me feel handsome, charming and alluring and then I turned into that gradually.
Im in both situations at once and in none at the same time
@@stumpet8394 iron sharps iron
“Just be yourself” is so often overlooked as just a cliche but it’s genuinely such an important piece of advice
Fr
Doesn't work when your real self is not attractive to the majority of the population
I don’t understand how that will help me when being myself is what got me into the place of having no friends at all in the first place
@@bIuefox this is why it’s elaborated onto being the best version of yourself. So don’t pretend to be someone you’re not, but do look into yourself and improve yourself. Be the best you that you can be and put yourself out there and eventually you’ll find people that like you
@@bIuefoxyou will find like minded people just like you as long as you believe in yourself
Finally a title that makes more sense for everyone
You're correct
:( true
No way we got a relatable title before gta 6
Nah bro read the thumbnail text, it’s only if you do this thing mentioned in the video 😂
@@JakPiggott The title is the best thing about the video, although it is then a clickbait to say "noo bro, I only meant being ugly as a person not physically!"
As a woman I agree, my friends and I find men much more attractive when they're being themselves. All through highschool, there was this one group of boys who would always get in trouble, always vape and overall they just weren't being who they truly are. That group of boys always hated women and called them weak and pathetic. Needless to say, only one of the twelve guys ever got a girlfriend in high school. Even then, the girl that he dated was depressed and addicted, she probably just dated him because she had a deep void in her life and she probably believed the only way to fill it was to get with a guy, any guy. For the other guys, the ones who were genuine and true to themselves, they were the ones who got the girls.
Now that’s a real woman
Yeah I made the mistake with my ex girlfriend of starting to lose myself because of how attatched I grew. She pointed this out to me, and we broke up because she felt neither of us were ready for a relationship. I may have struggled to see her points then, but I sure agree with her now.
@@ethancoke238 Fr, protect this sister
Yeah to be honest the students at my school are exactly the same. The kids who were real popular at the time of this video got a lot of attention and now they barely get any. The kids who were focused and still are focused now have the most fulfilling relationships (from an outside perspective at least anyway)
yes it really just boils down to being honest for me. if they are honest with themselves and can live in it and still show growth, then i feel i can do the same around them. if someone puts up an act, its gonna start a mindgame that leads to feeling judged or malplaced. if someone is supposed to be a potential love interest, they need to be able to make you feel relaxed and grounded, not play mindgames with you. i wouldnt say its necessarily about confidence versus insecurity. im not super confident myself. if someone is insecure, it can still be attractive if they are open about it and express it. honesty is the real thing
Refusing the vape was a good decision even if they think your a wimp or something
EDIT: i think this is my first time having more than 1000 likes.. thanks guys.
EDIT 2: guys if you get offered a vape, even if it's tempting, don't take a hit because it won't be worth the addiction (although you may not gain an addiction from just one, its just not worth it). If you ever see someone vaping, don't tell on them because if they find out it was you that told on them they won't be very happy about that. So instead, let them do it, There choice.
yea i vape thc but it takes some balls to not give into peer pressure I give him a ton of credit
@@lildoggi7649 yea
Couldn't have said it better myself
dang were up to 300 likes now
my classmate gave me a puff,ngl its refreshing but I choked on it😂
I almost see myself in the position you talked abt, in year 7 i started to notice how ppl in my friend group started acting like gangster, they were hitting vapes, hitting on girls and started not caring about school. I wanted to have friends so badly and forced myself to become like them. But instead of them liking me, they started hating me. I was pushed around, been seen differently and they were talking shit about me. So i try to find a new friend, and it was a girl, i trusted her so much and actually thought she did aswell. But she did not, she chose to go to the friend group and spread lies about me, and then no one even wanted to talk to me. For 6 months i cried myself to sleep, anxiety all the time and became insecure and silent. When the school year was finished i went to my mom, told her everything and we changed school. Ever since then ive meet great ppl i can be myself around, but ever since year 7 i couldnt stop being insecure and silent, it really impacted my life but fortunately i got a happy ending which many don’t and to this day i am grateful for that.
I’m Nigerian in a Nigerian school that does Nigerian British curriculum I’m 12 in year 9 I wrote my Cambridge exams and passed I am about to enter year 10 I have a twin sister since year 7 every one viewed me as annoying and weird I don’t know what to do and how to change my behavior I don’t know how to look attractive and my room is scattered most of the times i need help
I don't feel like remembering my school I'm over that wasted time. Now I'm focusing on career
Hi
school is a waste of time if your ugly and shy
Real
He’s 18
How are focusing on your career if your watching youtune
Jak out here saving a generation.
yeah
Nah bro this is just common sense, and I wouldn’t be here without support like this man so don’t give me to much credit haha 😂❤️
@@JakPiggott What he says is right tho!
@@JakPiggott But this generation lacks common sense. Thats why it may come as impactful to a pinch of people.
True 🔥
Coming from a girl: if she doesn't like you for your true self, she isn't worth it. Personally, my past crushes have been people who are friendly and look like they take care of themselves; meaning you don't have to be insanely good-looking for a girl to like you. So to guys trying to pull a girl, just be nice and take care of yourself.
That'll just get you friendzoned
What does taking care of yourself mean? Like basic hygiene? Showering and brushing teeth? or is it more stuff like skincare etc
@@ted9030 Basic hygiene means showering, not wearing dirty clothes, and taking care of your teeth; if you have bad skin you should take care of it, but if your skin is normal there's no need to use products, really. Healthy, clean hair in a style that suits you does wonders as well (and you don't need to buy a bunch of hair products, either).
Also, taking care of your body by eating (mostly) healthy, and taking care of yourself mentally is important because it will reflect in your confidence and social skills.
In other words, the majority of guys will be single forever.
@@victorianevergreen2936 oh well i guess i do all of that 😎 maybe except the hairstyle
As a girl I agree… another thing that I like to keep in mind is, what kind of partner do you want to spend the rest of your life with? Someone who loves you for your genuine self or someone who loves the version of you you’ve put up to hide your insecurities and true self? I believe that with time you’ll find yourself miserable in that position of not facing yourself and it will definitely deprive you from the success you could have, because you’re hiding your true self with all of the potential it had.
Neither.
@@SouperEmmKay I’m happy to hear your take on this and perspective that I might have overlooked 😇
100%. Couldn’t have said it better myself 🙏❤️
@@TxSj3-ij1ob I mean, to be honest, you are absolutely right, at least for those of us searching for a partner. It's just that I'm not looking for anyone right now, possibly and even probably ever. And, now that I think about it, what you've said does actually play into it; around most people in the world, maybe even all people in the world, I would not be able to be my true self. Sure, there are eight-billion people in the world, maybe a girl exists out there who would support my goals and my ideals but, until I meet that girl, I'm not getting involved with whole romance idea and will just accept that I will be single for the entire duration of my time on Earth.
agreed
I’m ugly and I’m proud.
“Good, say it louder.” - Patrick
Why not develop?
why should u be proud of being ugly? not saying u should be ashamed of it, but why proud?
Is that what he calls it?
@@Himmothy03 That felt great! I feel empowered. 💪
I read the title and said “same lol” 😭
same lol
Same
LMAO YEAH🥲
Nah you gotta read the thumbnail text as well brother 😂😂
@@JakPiggottits not there?
This is very inspiring, as a young woman who’s dealing with bad social anxiety, it’s been very tough for me to be myself around people, and it started even affecting my closer friendships… (which has been kinda heartbreaking for me) but I want to thank you Jak so much for reminding people the truth, you’ve already said it all so I have nothing to add! God bless you all and I hope we can all keep reminding each other theses important things! ❤
It’s crazy because I’m a guy and I also am going through that social anxiety and feel uncomfortable around people and it really does affect friendships for sure. I hope we overcome this 🙏
Jak: You are more attractive then you think
Also Jak You are actually (a lot) uglier than you think...
You gotta read the thumbnail text bro, I’m not calling anyone ugly off rip 😂
@@JakPiggott i know i was just playin great video though!
@@JakPiggottYou even changed the title lol
@@JakPiggottthere is no thumbnail text
Thank you for this video! It's exactly what I've needed!
When high school started, I started diluting my true self and I built this fake persona because of some shit that happened in middle school. I've done this for three years and no one has ever wanted to even really be close with me much less date me.
This summer, I have started to chip away, crack, and destroy this fake persona. This video helped me a lot with diagnosing this problem as I am going to be a senior in high school in 67 days and I am going to go into it as my true, authentic self. There is going to be tough decisions to make and many things I'll have to abandon, but it will all be worth it in the end.
Keep doing good work, Jak! I wish you the best!
8:34 I'm a girl I thought someone else would've said this but I completely agree with you, the most attractive thing you can do is try to be the best version of yourself, sincerity, authenticity is key.
lol whatever you say
100% 🙏
Actually the most attractive thing you can do is be hot af visually. That's just the reality of the world. Ofc being hot isn't enough for people with standards, but let's be real, standards in 2024? jk
Jak, I love how you are open to sharing stories including past negative events. It makes me feel inspired and willing to improve my life. I was bullied in school and it didn't stop me from being by true self. I lived my life doing what I love but I wasn't able to share my passion with my frends, making me feel disconnected from the rest of school after class
That's exactly why I tell them brother, they're a bit embarrassing sometimes but if they help to inspire people, who really gives a shi, much love ❤
I can unfortunately relate to this heavyy, hanging out with the wrong crowd was one of my biggest mistakes.
Thank you Jak for everything, from the videos you made i was inspired to better myself, while i might still be struggling with lust, i have been going to the gym for 2 months so far, improved my personality (according to my friends), i might not be the best version of myself yet, but you are the reason i started self improvement, if it wasnt for you i wouldnt have started going to the gym or stopped having my toxic personality, but being my true self. i dont know where id be if i hadnt gotten one of your videos in my reccomended feed.
This genuinely inspires me so much bro, but don't give me to much credit for your progress, tens of millions of people come across videos similar to mine everyday and 99.9% of them never take action. You should be giving yourself more credit for actually applying my words, and I hope you realise that ❤
The difference between just beeing yourself and being the best version of yourself is the key point you made people truly understand the saying "just be yourself". Chapeau!
You’ve been helping me lately. As a 15 year old, I’ve been struggling with self confidence and other things but you’ve been helping me work through through them. Please never stop making videos❤
As a woman, I can confirm that authenticity and confidence are very attractive. 😎
Lets gooooo
The title switch up is crazyyyyy
wdym
@@shahar282he has uploaded a video called "you are more attractive than you think are"
@@Frosty_MCare you talking about dillon latham ?
@@Hectoreshaya_No, Jak made a video about it 2 months ago
@Frosty_MC oh I remember that 😭
It's honestly so true that when you're around someone that's authentic to them self's and confident in them self's you're very relaxed and authentic yourself as well.
Its probably hard to imagine for some people but remember when you were a kid and didn't really care what other people thought and obviously this would mostly be before you started school or whatever but it's very true and I think jak did an amazing job at explaining it ❤
All of jaks videos are absolutely amazing and I know he'll not believe that Hehe its helped me alot so THANK YOU SOO MUCH .
Much love
Peace ✌
100%. Ego kinda f*cks us up haha. Nah but I'm glad you think this way because I truly believe it's an amazing mindset, much love ❤
I’m 12, and I think that I could relate to this. I was pressured into using a vape, I have never touched one since. I could relate to being called names becuase you didn’t do what they asked, putting people down, ect. I will try to be myself, and I am doing my best. Thank you for this video.
make sure to be yourself and find who are your real friends!
I went through the exact same situation as a middle schooler. I absolutely envied the popular kids, wanted to be in their group so that I could feel included. I even knew the group leader from a previous school in around 1st or 2nd grade, before he was transfered to the catholic school I later also attended. I tried to fit in with them, and wanted to be like them, but I was always excluded. Not by being told no, but more or less they'd just look at me with a plain face, then simply ignore me, like I was being shunned. It was phychological tortue. I'm lucky I didn't end up with any sort of depression or mental issue by the time I graduated. What that whole experience, from the moment I stepped foot in that school to the moment I left, was that no matter how poorly you're treated by your peers in such a desparate community, you should always stand your ground and push through. School is a horrific mental battlefield of social heirarchy and soured mentalities, only defeated by those who see through nonsensical claims that "if you aren't part of a group, you're no one".
I’ll do 1 pushup for every like this comment gets
Don't embaris your self
Get on that work plus for proof record it
🤖
@@Geraint_ok I did the 17 a second ago ig I will wait a few hours and then record and upload it so check back in a day or 2
Do what you can.hopefully can complete it
I'm one of these "eshays" here there is a lil secret: even tho their talking to a lot of people it's hard to make very close relationships, not impossible but hard.
I do have very close friends but it was difficult doing that.
The advantage is that there is a friend for everything, whenever I need to just chill & laugh I have a group of boys I train with, whenever I need emotional suppot I have like 3-8 females I can talk to.
Whenever I need to gossip about boys I have a different group of females...
You get my point by now.
I'm my true authentic self before asking any questions... my moto is: if you like me as I am great & if you don't than don't talk to me.
Then you woke up
Yeah, I’ve always noticed that these people, even though they are friends, they just feel so.. disconnected. Like sure they make a lot of friends but I’ve never seen them grow a personal connection to one without being their true self, really, these “eshays” when they put up their “mask” they never develop any true or deep relationship
@@vincent.7z Agreed I made that mistake till like 4 months ago.
@@emma6648lmao
ONE COMES FO THE FATHER EXEPT THROUGH HIM, AMEN AND HALLELUJAH 🙏✝️❤️ 0:01
what father
@@cargobeepbeep411god
Amen
as a female australian i can completely understand the stuff hes talking ab growing up, ab the guys and even some girls being them eshay types and stuff. hes completely right and now that im a bit older i still dont know everything, but lemme js say the guys that are like that are super unattractive to me cus i know its all an act. as a girl i used to even try be an eshay or gangster or whatever type but it never rlly felt right and now im tryna be my best genuine self it feels so much more refreshing. it feels so good to be myself and only surruond myself with others with a similar mindset. thank you for this video and i love ur content :)
Always be your true authentic self jack..even when you hit 20mill.. always remember this
If not when
Nah I'll never change, this channel was built off of the authentic me, and subs won't effect that ❤
@@JakPiggott Respect.
@@JakPiggott❤
man that title really helps me out
yup
You gotta read the thumbnail text bro haha 😂
man i am so grateful that i watched this, im currently still in highschool and i've been having problems with anxiety and being insecure, and like what you did before, i tried to copy other people, but because of that i ended up ruining some of my relationships with my other friends slightly. I've always thought that being myself would make other people consider me "weird", but after watching this, and after talking to my friends about this, my views have changed, and i cant thank you enough for making this video, because it truly did help me a lot.
As someone who has been through very similar things like this, I'm left speechless. And the fact that you're teaching others to not make the same mistakes you have through your own experience in life is genuinely heartwarming. It is truly important, to just be yourself
"You are (a lot) more attractive than you think..."
"You are actually (a lot uglier than you think..."
What are you trying to tell me 😭
them skits haha
You gotta read the text on the thumbnail man, I’m not calling you ugly off rip 😂
Using the minecraft music to invoke emotion in us is some evil mastermind stuff
Ay dude I'm in 12th grade now, and I always hide my true self in front of my friends and try to be more like them, you know, try to fit in. But it doesn't work and they will keep ignoring me like they always have, all my life. Your life resonates with me man. I'd rather be alone than give up my comfortable personality. This video is my turning point.
Just because everyone is stupid doesn't mean you too have to be stupid.
Thanks
Jak, please read this
You are absolutely one of the best people I have seen videos of. You are the best motivational person ever. The deep trench I was falling into with the popular friend group seemed like something decent to do, but then i switched groups and realized that this mob mentality that these people were getting was going to be really bad. I still sometimes go into t he friend group, but I won’t be a full member and do anything they tell me to do for respect, I would just be an ally and a friend with the group form now on, thanks to this video. It looks like I dodged a whole bomb here. I realized that I was putting a mental mask on and hiding my true self for respect and attention. It was stupid and I’m glad I saved myself. Thank you for being my savior, along with the many subscribers you have.
6:00 "I'm not gonna go deep into her"
YEA JAK POOR CHOICE OF WORDS RIGHT THERE XD
I gotta say that i love that a can relate to almost all of you’re videos. Ive been through the same thing before and the lesson i learned is don’t be someone your not, be an original.
Love the content
Much love 👊❤️
Thank you brother ❤
thank you man i needed this so much.
this week i was trying to realized why everybody started hating on me, why i cant get girls like i used to do before and why my life had changed in a bad way and i found out that the only reason was because i wasn't my self and i was tryna act cool and shi. so rn im just tryna remember my true self and im trying to act normal again❤
Jak I know you may never see this, but today I was at school with that one group of "gangster" kids in my class (Im year 8, going to secondary because I got accepted sooner) and I never noticed this one thing before this video: this whole year I was trying to be like them. All year have I spent analyzing their behavioral patterns and getting to know how they joke and etc. Today I spent my first day talking to them, they laughed at my dirty jokes, they started listening to me, I swore and much more. I let down my one real friend that I made fun of today. They laughed at my jokes about him and I felt somewhat comfort but deep down I knew something was wrong. I hope I didn't break our bond. I will try to act on your advice and be a better person through improvement. I have no idea how this video got to me (propably chinese spies) but I am truly greateful that it did. Thx
Great vid your the reason I stopped the hub, Thanks man
Means a lot to hear that bro but give yourself more credit than you give me ❤
I'll do 10 pushup for every like i get
You better commit!
🫱🏽🫲🏻
Ok
@@user-xi9tu1zl4d 430 already
You ain’t doing shit
I'm in year 7 and you really helped me be my true authentic self with your videos, thankyou Jak!
I'm 18 doing my last exams and leaving lower school forever :)
being autistic, I've always felt any interaction that I've had with others at my school has never felt right; I don't really have a real self and even others have commented that I don't really have that much of a personality. In some ways this can be seen as positive, I've never been able to fake myself to make other people like me like in this video, but I've never really felt like my true self either. To improve myself I would probably have to get over my fear of people but that is hard and it won't make me normal. I'm hoping that university goes better for me but I do not have high expectations, it's hard to stay optimistic when you have to physically write down points sometimes for it to get across to other people the way you want it to with no misunderstanding. At least I get to study something that I enjoy (forensic science) and maybe I'll learn how to interact properly around others.
all this circling back to women, fuck that, just be yourself and do your thing, stop chasing girls' attention
Welp, I guess this is just him being himself lol
very true and I learned it the hard way, since 8th grade, I tried to be "more fit in" since I was actually quite insecure, at that time I had a girl we both liked each other, since I started to "fit in" she started to notice and told me that "stop copying others, just be yourself!" , since then my relationship had went very downhill, I knew I had to be myself, and at the best level
Thank you Jak! Although you learned it the HARD way like me lol, you are willing to help others with that. Thank you!
I’m not a guy but this video was still super cool and helpful and I have gone through something similar to you and this video really helped me to know that being popular will never make me as happy as being who I am
I'm 20 now, and when I think back to my younger years, this definitely resonates with me on a deep level. I've been that fake, arrogant person. I've tried being at the center of attention, and I seemed to come alive in it.. yet it was all fake. People flocked to me, and yet I was pure controversy, you either loved me or hated me, and if you hated me, I had given you every reason to do so, and if you loved me, I had given you every reason to love me, yet for most everyone, it was fake. At heart, I wasn't who I was pretending to be, and when I realized that, it changed me... This wasn't as instant a process as I make it sound here, but overtime a new found peace and calmness came around me, because... I didn't have to try to fake who I was. It was okay to be the quiet kid, the one who didn't get all the attention. though it was hard to exit the relative popularity, I've come to a point where I don't miss it. I've found who I am, and I can bask in a confidence I never before knew because of that, because of the fact that I love myself, and I'm comfortable in my own skin, if you will. I only wish I had heard your advice before I had begun to wear that fake persona... only that I don't know that it would have done me any good, because before having experienced it, I might not have understood it as I do now. Thanks Jak, as always, a wonderful video. I absolutely love your content, I know your just a kid,as am I but you're a very wise one, beyond your years. I believe everyone has a purpose, given to them by God. At any one time, our purposes are always changing, and we may or may not know what are purpose is.. however, if anyone has ever had a purpose, I believe you've found one of yours, because this kind of content definitely helps a lot of people. Well, I know I've rambled on far too long, so please, forgive me for that... much respect, best wishes and God bless you.
are you homelander?
Im still a kid by now, and i have a lot of friends that vape... Ir makes me sad, but i feel good cuz i dont do that type of things...
I can relate to this pretty deeply, i've had identity issues for as long as i can remember. I didn't hold any of the "friendships" i had from school, can't really call them friendships looking back to it. But it has been bothering me, that if i even put in enough effort to be considered as a friend, and now that i'm in my 20's i don't really know how to socialize anymore. And to add on top of that, i've gotten really paranoid about other peoples intentions and constantly think that are they just using me for something they want. Now i'm just trying to achieve my own goals i guess, it is lonely and all, but at least i have a chance of being truly okay with myself. I don't want to depend on outside validation anymore.
i was like that too, and it got me depressed because i didnt know who i truly was after a while. After i got out of that, i became someone who has 0 f*cks to give, because i finally found myself and i wasnt letting other people change me anymore. Being yourself is important, but for a lot of young kids its hard. There's a lot of influences at that age
Jak a few weeks ago
"You are (a lot) more attractive than you think"
Jak now
"You are (a lot) uglier than you think
Jokes aside, good video as always, keep it up!
Haha nah you needed to look at the thumbnail text but I changed it now anyway 😂
I'm 13. I really, 100% needed this. Thank you, Jak.
Keep being true to yourself man and who you are, you're young, you have a lot to learn and to experience but always just hang around the right crowd and do the things you love in life.
same here
I had a very similar story to yours Jak.
My mid years of elementary school (K-5) I made friends with a group I wanted to be a lot like, i never had a lot of friends growing up so I changed my entire identity and started seeking for attention to hopefully attract some girls and potentially make some friends for once in my life. I did this from 3rd grade up until the beginning of 7th grade where they dumped me completely on the first day of school. Since it was lunch time, they found a group of friends over the summer and I stopped hanging out with those kids, I tried to make friends with the kids but I just got bullied by them. I genuinely had 0 friends.
I decided to try and fit in with the popular kids over the course of the year but that never really worked out since the popular kids in my school was a big group of kid and they were all super close, I felt completely left out. I forgot to mention that i was a big kid in 7th grade (5’7, 180 pounds) so I was picked on a lot and I disapeared over the summer. I tried it again next year by joining football just to get harassed by the other kids into suicidal thoughts. I was extremely weak and didn’t know how to handle social pressure.
Thankfully, I got talked out of suicide and started to make a change for the better. I started working out, changing my personality, and genuinely being myself. By my 9th grade year, I walked in with no friends and came out with a huge group of friends from the popular group all because of a simple change in my mindset.
This channel is so relatable, it’s a lifesaver which came at the best moment, thankyou Jak, God Bless 🙏🏻
I have a question... Who's me? Who am i? What if i have made a mask from various people's personality and now I don't know what's behind this mask stuck to my face? At this point, I've just accepted that i am but an amalgamation of better people before me, that makes me unique, sure, but that doesn't make me, "me"
i feel the same. i feel fake
Hey lads, just to help you cut some slack, the "Who am I" question is the one question millions of Buddhist and Hindu monks (and a lot of other religious and spiritual traditions) tried to answer by dedicating their whole life to it, meditating on it 24/7 in the mountains for their whole life.
So it's okay if you don't know who you are, but still peacefully try to be more authentic and discover your true self
Sounds like that is you
Same here
this got reccomended to me when it was 40 seconds old
hey man, I've been struggling a lot with my personality, I was told that I didn't have one. I'd always just talk like my friends copy them be like them because I thought they were cool. Not because they bullied me into it or anything I just thought that's how I would interact with them. It got to a point where I couldn't be myself even if I tried and it got anyone to them so they cut me off. I stopped talking to them for 6 months and found another friend to start talking to, eventually I got caught back in the loop of just accidentally acting like them and not trying to say what I wanna say and instead just started agreeing with him on everything. I tried to stop but at that point I don't know that I could find where or who I was, I was so disassociated with my self that the only thing I knew how to do was copy what they did. Fast forward to now and not much has changed, The old group of friends came back to talk because at that point I hadn't seen them in a year and a half. They apologized for blocking me and whatever but that's not the point. My question to you is, how do I break this cycle? How do I become someone that is a someone? How do I stop and think about what I've done and turn that into how I talk how I walk and how I think?
this touched me. It resonates with my life experience, i want that change so bad, i want to better myself, but i'm afraid that by doing so, i'll lose my relationship and my friends. It's sad to be alone, it's sadder to lose someone that cared about you. i still don't know what to do
Finding true satisfaction isn’t through doing things on this earth, it’s through Jesus Christ.
Amen, Brother. That is the right state of mind. That is THE Truth.😀
Truth
I needed this video man. It's my final year of being on my childhood swim team and last year I was one of the fastest, so I let the attention get to my head. I'm going to do my best to be myself this year and encourage the new swimmers, but also have fun with my friends while being myself.
You’re my inspiration, I feel like I relate to you a lot sometimes and knowing that you made it makes me really encouraged to know that I can too
lol this title confuses me
You needed to look at the thumbnail text to understand but I changed it now so don’t stress 😂
@@JakPiggottyeah what did it say before?
Ill do 2 pushups for every like this comment gets
Shit
Thanks bro, this was the motivation that i needed in my life, and this made my day😁!(and trust me, im being my true self saying this)
One of my favourite quotes from my favourite teacher: „The lion doesn't care about the sheeps' opinion” 💪👊❤️
every like i get, i will do 1 push up
holy yap
love the minecraft music😭
seriously though great message. don’t try to be somebody you’re not, but rather work on improving your true self.
If you say "true authentic self" one more time i may simply gouge my eyeballs out and pour tar in my ears. Other than that, great video! Cute message.
I'll also do 1 pushup for every like this comment gets
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ILL KISS 2 MEN EVERY LIKE THIS DOESNT GET
I can relate so much to your situation, i just cant do what i like because i get judged and im already tired of going from group to group, i wanna find someone that helps me and supports me, not fakes.
Ty jak for this video, I am a gay guy in high-school and when I wear clothing that makes me seem to be gay, the guys in my school make fun of me, legit if I just wore the plainest pink shirt on the planet they would alr think I am gay, but honestly it never really stopped me from wearing more pink clothes to school, and I just kept being myself and even if I never end up getting a boy-friend in high-school or just in life, I can at least say I am showing my true self and I am never going to start changing myself for others to just not bully me anymore. And what you said about girls is very true, a lot of my friends who are females have the twinkle in their eye when they are talking to me(and by that I mean they are not talking to me because I am their friend, but because they are attracted to me even though I know that sounds arrogant in a way lol), so to all the boys and girls even that are watching this video...just know to never change who you really are just to get some fame that is only going to last you for 4 years of high-school(if you go to high-school and live in America that is). I want to improve my body image because it would really help me feel more confident even when wearing "gay" clothing. Please share more videos like this jak
I promise to do one pushup and one situp every like this comment gets.
Did you do it?
lets make this guy buff
He aint doing it lmao
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I did it. 34 is not that much.
1 like = 1 push-up. Just hit the button
I used to change myself every day, trying to figure out how to get people to like me just so that i could have friends, after many years of doing this i felt like i was so busy trying to be who i wasn't that i forgot who i actually was. Thats when i gave up completely, i thought friendship and let alone relationships weren't meant for me. So i was mindblown, and still am of the people i met after, i had given completely up but then i went to a new school where almost everyone had the same intrests as me and for the first time they wanted to be friends with me. We became friends and 4 years later at the end of our school we still are. Some of my friends have struggled with stuff like this aswell and i remember saying to one of them, don't ever change who you are just try to find the people with the same intrests as you and who care about you for who you are, if you feel the need to change who you are for them then i hate to break it to you but they are not your real friends, don't waste your energy on them, don't make the mistake i made. I sometimes still have that tendency to impress or 'be part of it' and i am trying to teach myself to stop doing that but it's not easy and sometimes i feel like i still messed up but that's part of learning to be myself again. Please don't be someone you're not, learning and developing is great but don't forget to love yourself in the process.
I was bullied badly in my school(even got beaten up so many times for defending myself)..but things became better for me after that lockdown period(2020-2021)..when I gained some confidence by the means of self introspection.
What kind of morons need to bully another kid? What are they missing that they indulge in that behaviour? Introspection and knowing myself on a deeper level helped me feel more confident. Glad you found something similar!
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whenever I have asked them ,why did they do these kinds of behaviour..their only answer is "bro , it was just a joke,, we were having fun and blah blah blah"..ig the reality is they love to target inconfident weak individuals for fun..but what they don't really understand is..that individual might get the trauma for his lifetime.
I'll do one like every pushup this comment gets
pushed up 12 times to this. you know what to do
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Did you read the comment
yes this is a new npc ahh trend
@@headsethero7640 he switched the words “like” and “pushup.” He was making fun of people who comment that kind of stuff.
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your story from when your were in year 7 was almost parrelell with who i was trying to be, im now trying to find my authentic self currently
Going into my senior years of HighSchool (11-12), this helps a lot. Rlly nervous for next year but to be hearing this from someone who definitely knows a lot is comforting, especially a fellow Aussie (I assume by the accent sorry if I’m wrong mate 😭)
Anyways have a good rest of your week man, and everyone else reading this!
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Under 5 mins gang
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Stop like begging
@@Geraint_ I’m not silly 😛
@@Samuchronicles12 read my comment
@@Geraint_ I did 🤓
@@Samuchronicles12 did I say your silly
putting up a mask to fit in with a group that doesn't actually respect you is something i resonate with a lot. when i was in high school, the pandemic was still prevalent and i had distanced myself from most people because of it and other reasons too. long story short, by grade 11 i wanted to change and i started trying to go out and make connections with people. there was a cool kid clique that i really wanted to be a part of because i thought of it as a way to prove that i had improved my social life (also my crush was in it). i soon changed my attitude, language, and even music tastes to try and fit in with them. after over half a year's efforts, i was in the group but only as a side character. no one really ever wanted to talk to me one-and-one and whenever i tried to talk to people they would either ignore me or try and wrap up the conversation quickly. only after being fed up with it and taking off my mask did i find a true friend group that cared about me. and the funny thing is they were in contact with me all along but i ended up sidelining them in favour of people who didnt give a shit about me...
Jak, as someone struggling in 8th grade, more students need to see your videos. Your videos have helped me become a better person and to not try to fit in with what is popular when it is bad. Keep up the good work and thanks for guiding me through this tough time. ❤
I’ll do 1 pushup today each like I get on this comment.
I feel like i’m being my true self and I’m confident in it. And I honestly would say that i look pretty good. But I don’t think that any girl is that attracted to me, do I just need to wait? And btw, I can’t tell how many times you have saved my day from just being a lay-in-bed-all-day-and-scroll-on-tiktok-day Jak. You give me motivation like crazy for actually doing something with my life and every time I get stuck scrolling, your videos, no matter the purpose, always makes me do what I’m supposed to do. Love ya, peace
Gold medal for the message. Diamond medal for the gorgeous slowed craftmine music in the background ;w;
I am happy that I wasn't at that stage of my High School years where I was very desperate to become friends with the popular kids in our batch because I couldn't see myself as a kid who can handle and manage 10-20 people as friends, I couldn't see myself being left out from a conversation that we just had about something else because 5 other people suddenly are talking at once at each other about their girlfriends...
I also couldn't handle how I used to act to the cool kids when I was in my first 2 years of High School. I was a pretty sensitive kid who couldn't handle jokes made about me let alone someone verbally bully me and I think that it wasn't because of any prior insecurities that I had but because it was the biggest negative trait of who I really am which is being generally over-sensitive in multiple aspects as a person.
I do believe that becoming your true self is pretty nice but when it comes to the stuff that could majorly affect you as a person in a negative way... I believe that there should be a way to not remove but limit that natural trait. I then incorporated that throughout the last 2 years of high school and I was definitely having better conversations with other people in my school.
Feel free to suggest what I could have probably done differently in the replies :)
he unlocked Mahito's Self-Embodiment of Perfection, gg
DUDE I spent almost all of 6th grade putting an arrogant personality, but in the final two weeks I realized that was horrible. This video only encourages me more not to follow that path, well done.
MAN I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS THEY'RE LIKE A VALUABLE MOVIE I SWEAR!!
Rejecting vape was really very smart, like distancing yourself from that group. I wish I had done it too. A hit of vape, 2, 5, 10, eventually becomes constant a few days a week, then it becomes every day, then it becomes cigarettes and if with bad company even drugs... It's really easy to lose sight of this type of addictions, you don't even realize it. Great video man and great decisions I respect you
I went through pretty much the same thing, but a bit more extreme in terms of where I ended up. I found myself in that area where my old friends lost respect for me (rightfully so) or so it seemed because of the people I'd hangout with and how I'd act around them and of course the "bad influence" group I hung out with I was longer cool with because it was more than I bargained for. I didn't really know who I really was anymore and lost my sense of what my own interests and goals were. I fell out of pretty much every friend group I was a part of because none of them really got along with one another. I tried to be the person to bring everyone together and get along with everyone, but I learned that some people just can't get along. I'm still kind of stuck in the "idk what to do now" phase, but at least I'm not doing shit I don't want to do I guess?
I think a lot of people can relate including myself. This is really nice to hear.