Understanding An INTJ Can Be VERY Difficult - Here's Why
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ก.ค. 2024
- One of the the most misunderstood personalities is an INTJ. The truth is, understanding an INTJ can be very difficult - here's why. These reasons an INTJ is so misunderstood or not obvious and probably something you have never even considered.
Misunderstanding is a universal experience, touching people of all backgrounds. However, INTJs may have particular difficulty communicating their thoughts and motivations to others. Why? Since INTJs value analysis, practicality, and autonomy in themselves, these three traits can combine to produce an energy that befuddles those around them. Let's explore the many reasons INTJs could feel this way. Today I am talking about 7 reasons why it is hard to understand an INTJ.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:47 INTJ Reservations
1:47 INTJ Reason
3:23 INTJ Clarity
4:18 INTJ Processes
5:21 INTJ Expectations
6:14 INTJ Certainty
7:21 INTJ Sensitivity
8:32 INTJ Challenge
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It's interesting since the main two divisions of the INTJ in terms of Enneagram are typically 1s and 5s. Personally, I get along better with the 1s, as they are less focused on always having to be right and more focused on morals.
I think it's similar to trying to explain color to someone who only sees black, gray and white. No frame of reference. I've tried. Even if they get so they identify the what, they don't understand the why. Based on some of the 'knowledgeable' descriptions I've read, even 'experts' don't interpret correctly.
I think INTJ knows that people misunderstood them all the time as their mindset is different compared to majority. What they make sure is to have a very good support system which is their family (they figure out the strength of each member and utilize it to coordinate the things they want to do). With this strategy basically INTJ can just be an architect/visionary/mastermind of any situation without dealing with anyone so they don't care so much about being misunderstood with people which is not a part of their support system.
But making family as the support system,, also makes intj being the weakest person if their family don't give any support, lied or doing unfairness thing to us,
As an intj,, we believe that family is the last shield for us,, family supposed not to doubt us, not misunderstand us, because they've known us from the very beginning in our life,,
No matter what people think or say about us,, it's ok if our family still with us,, but if that wrong perspective comes from our family,, it's trully hurt..
@@za_rin9002 well,firstly you should proved to your family how awesome and amazing you are so they will be loyal and trust you 100%,secondly you must have their respect and lastly you have tounderstand them all the time and guide them whenever they need anything.It must be a give and take relationship with a lot of adjustment as everybody evolve in positive and negative way.If you are a matured INTJ ,you know exactly how to maneuver all of this.
Accurate. N ofc the mistype take ur words to literally
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INTJs are probably the family scape goat. Our families don’t get us either. Truth tellers in sick narc families are targeted.
As a mature INTJ I have spent all my life learning psychology and human behaviour to know how people's minds work. Psychologists always say I should be a psychologist but I love being an entrepreneur and building businesses. How it works for me. I can know someone more than they know themselves and yes when they talk they get the INTJ death stare as I take in every detail about them including body language, verbal but not just verbal the underlying make up and core of where verbal is coming from and mechanical structure of them composing sentences. I can then feedback to people about what they are saying and why and make suggestions. This is not good with feeling people. I really am unable to talk about 'me' that much because I have dug deep into my mind and I can talk for millions of words to explain things people can only listen for 0.00000000000000% of that and get lost. However I find I can talk to INFJ's.
In my younger years I felt like an outcast and was quiet because no one understood me and me them. It was just banter banter..blah blah whilst I was doing all sorts of degrees, education, reading 7 books at the same time, doing course about human development any information I could suck in I did..and still do. But the only people I could talk in my late teens and early 20s were retired people who have lived long enough to be able to have an amount of knowledge that I can talk too.
In my mid of my life I am just like right. I really am completely along way from the average human in my understanding of this world both inner and outer. I need to stop trying to interact with anyone and just look for INFJs, INTJs, INTPs and to an extent ENTJs coz these are the people I can really open up with.
Yes those four and maybe add ISTJ to the list.
I want to be friend with you.
I am an INTJ, could you please tell me Which book is great for self improvement?
I am trying to learn English language.
@@zarahesari5599 As INTJ we have a desire to learn from all categories as in order to understand how the thing in front of you works you must draw upon all information and link the patterns.
Whilst INTPs may absorb everything we tend to just look for what is relevant and deep dive into that. So find a category you are weak at and go full ball into it.
For example if you have never done any work on masculine and feminine then you are limiting your life. Read something like Men are from Mars Women are from Venus and all of Alison Armstrong's books. Also for men or even women The way of the superior man, king magician warrior lover. All these books will expand your skill set with this area of life.
Because we are systems based thinkers; you should know who runs and owns the world because it influences everything you know and plan to do as they are many steps ahead of all of us in this game called life. Do not use Google or Wikipedia as search or information tools as they part of the information control mechanisms for society (see google project jigsaw as an example) instead use bitchute and rumble for videos as they do not censor. As far as search engines go they are all compromised Brave is the best of the bad bunch as far as freedom of information in their results although they do fall back on google alot as their budget is low. This is good start I added some words in between in brackets because of censor bots just remove them to build the title Monopoly (spacer text) - who owns the world and Fall (more spacer text) of the (and more spacers) Ca (wow still spacering) bal. You can put your head in the sand and ignore it whilst you get played or you can learn what game pull up a chair and sit at the table and be an educated player.
It's difficult to have friends and talk to others in this world as we tend to polarise our learning and find it difficult to have group conversations. One lesson I learnt later was seek out INTJs, INTPs, ENTJs, ISTJs and ESFPs these types you can talk too and will enjoy each other they all suffer in their own ways of being disconnected and isolated maybe not so much the ENTJs and ESFPs but the other will adore you talking to them and the fact you can actually dive deep into conversation with them unlike anyone else they know. Get onto messaging app with this people, like signal, whatsapp and you will message each other more times per day than they is stars in the galaxy.
Also INTJ needs to dive deep into themselves which means physical health, mental health.. Joe Dispenza is great on epigenetics, Bruce Liption.
The practical mind of the INTJ is always able to spot the cracks or breakages in the system. So many audio books are on youtube for free. Amazon gives you are free credit which equals audio book when you first sign up for a trail. They only look at the email address as the unique identifier when you sign up to to give you a credit and if you cancel your account within 30 days there is no charge. So if you wanted too you can setup as many accounts as you have email addresses.
Another area that is important to learn is money. Money is energy, it moves things. Learning how to not be emotionally controlled by money. This starts with budgeting and setting up the most awesome budgeting system and bank accounts known to man so that everything is compartmentalised and automated my system is so complex and works so well but I can't explain it to anyone coz they just look at me with the same weird and confused face I get my entire life.. the wow that seems like too hard work and I really don't understand what the hell that is. Books Barefoot Investor (really basic type structing of bank accounts but get you started), Richest Man in Babylon
I am going to stop now as I can go on forever. But if anything I have given yourself and others some direction to start go poking around.
I know a few of my weaknesses. These books are about marriage, I have no time for that now maybe later, I need to improve my language very fast then go to university. Or maybe these books can improve my language?!.
Who runs the world? I Know myself, but if I explain you won't believe, I am not paranoid. . I agree Wikipedia and google is not a good choice for research, I have no idea about bitchute. Wow, I understand about google. I don't know much about these types, every time I do the test for myself it came, Intjs, Entj, Infj, Istj, but most of the time Intj. But I saw the signs in myself, my brother always telling me that you speak with people like you wanna kill them with your eyes, be kind and learn how to be social. Now I am trying to be kind and smile in my facial expression not scare people. I am not the type to message nonsense with friends, everyone hates me everywhere but when I I start to be nicer its changed I can't explain all of them in here. I have 1 friend and we talk about important thinks not daily nonsense. What do you think about culture? Is it a limit?
I’m to the point in my life that I don’t care if people understand me or not. It’s not my problem and a complete waste of time.
Exactly!
Thank you!
Their strength is their numbers. Be more strategic: with no allies any foe can isolate and destroy you.
Same
fact is that most INTJs dont even know they are INTJs but most people die never meeting an INTJ in their whole lives.
I find that in the INTJ groups, there seems to be a ton of non INTJs here trying to look at us. They respond all feely and you are like "Are you lost?"
Wow. I feel bad for thoes people we are awesome.
From my experience, even as an INTP, INTJs are very straightforward and that throws me off sometimes. Great video-production value is 10000000%
While initially I was reticent and aloof because I was thinking things over, I am now so because I have been misunderstood and/or my input has been ignored so many times. I simply find life easier if I just keep my mouth shut entirely.
As an intj I love change and challenges. I'm very flexible in what I will do and a hard worker, until I'm asked to do something against the rules. Of course, then everyone says I'm being stubborn, lazy, and giving attitude. 🙄 This video is hitting right on.
Or a perfectionist. I get that one from my boss😅.
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Intj prefer results first and then make it a repeatable process. Not the other way around.
Video going well but I have a to disagree that an INTJ is process orientated. They're results and goals orientated. they are indeed methodical, but it's not about the process itself.
Of course you can be both, but the end goal is always more important.
Video movies much too fast to absorb to be able to if you can't get what you're trying to get it's not helpful slow down these things up a little bit longer thank you very much
@@judyford8047 I doubt that's even English.
Yes. That's spot on. This clip is a bit off for me.
I found out I am an INTJ-A a few years ago. Makes a lot of sense.
Thank you! My sister(she an ESFP) understands that I am not as sensitive or emotional becouse it is who I am and she will sometimes joke about it. One of the jokes she likes to say is how I might not be all that good of a mom, I don't blam her for saying this becouse I hate kids and am not good with them but I also know that i can be if need even more so if they are mine. I plan to adopt or have a surrogate becouse the idea of bitch isn't nurture for me at all(I am aroace). I plan on being a good mother and making sure my kids know they are loved.
While I'm unsure of INTJ's favouring process and procedures, their vision, independence, certainty and high expectations ring true.
What was with the clip from Venom?
Hard to hear
Intjs are extremely sensitive about themselves. They are not sensitive towards others
Too much parasite sounds
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@Abdellah Bouzrour Thank you so much! 🙌
intjs are social vegan, they dont like meet....but prefer chess!😁
So after the MBTI test and all is revealed, what else can INTJ's do? Read philosophy and psychology? What else should I be learning and doing?
INTJs are good at Mathematics too. Mathematics and Philosophy go together too.
@@etiennedevignolles7538 I second that and im currently pursuing a career in Mathemagics
Be persistent and diligent. Don’t jump from one thing to another. That’s for work and career. Your personal development will take care of itself.
From a quite old intj…
Your voice over for this video seems a bit having a cold or sore throat.
Overall this doesn't feel right.
Mindfulness is feminized language. I reject words that get parroted by the masses. Mindfulness, simply, right?, actually, honestly are all examples. I could go on but I have limited time.
It is not feminized anything. It is a word or term borrowed from zen buddism. It simply means a state of being self-aware as opposed to having kneejerk type reactions. It is difficult to explain but has some merit as a concept. I agree with you regarding misused words. Calling it feminized is weird.
Bruh venom is the perfect intj😂 hit the nail