9 Things Only An INTJ Will Understand
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If you’re an INTJ, you’ve most likely felt misunderstood or “different” for a good part of your life and this is mostly because there are some things that you seem to comprehend in a different way than most people.
Architects make up only 2% of the population and if you think you are an INTJ, dive deeper into your personality, learn what are the things only you can relate to and determine how you can use them to increase your soft skills and achieve personal growth. Here are 9 Things Only An INTJ Will Understand.
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0:00 Why only INTJs will understand some things?
0:43 - 1. They always look forward into the future
1:30 - 2. They have a tendency to become overstimulated
2:17 - 3. They can’t stand the idea of being inefficient
3:30 - 4. They are not so robotic as others think
4:13 - 5. They hate work on autopilot
5:08 - 6. They despise incompetency
5:57 - 7. They rest well while being alone
6:32 - 8. They always want to have a plan
7:15 - 9. They crave for being independent
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Relatable, as an INTJ the work that I hate the most is group work because people are incompetent
Good to hear!
Word.
exactly, and the worst part is we end up doing nearly all of the work and they still get the credit from the teacher
Same 😂
I can relate to that. Some of my group mates are quite incompetent, so I ended up finishing the project all by myself.
It really is a weird feeling when you have felt like no one understands you and then find out that you fit the textbook definition of this personality type. Whoever designed these groups clearly knew what they were doing.
As an INTJ, I hate it when people think I’m shy or “try to bring me out of my shell”, it’s almost as if society sees being quiet and shy as synonymous with each other which is very false. If I’m minding my business please don’t talk to me. I’ve notice that as an INTJ I attract people at times when I don’t want to, like when I’m alone on my phone at work for example. Also small talk pisses me off. I work retail and it’s trash. Not staying at that job for long because I fake laugh at a good 90% of my customers jokes and not to mention the small talk is aggravating as hell.
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YES. exactly the same with me, i understand and relate to you completely. i HATE small talk and especially in situations like that. especially when i’m minding my own business, doing something where I CLEARLY do not want to be bothered and then people gather around me like a flock and try to have a conversation and so i’m like 😄👹👺.
I think the people around me at work have just accepted that I won’t laugh at everything they say or just to “be nice”. If they speak to me, telling me something that I can tell they find humorous, I’ll give a small polite smile, then continue with my tasks.
The trick is to give answers that are as short and vague as possible. That makes people uncomfortable and then, soon enough, you’ve trained them to stay away from you… mostly.
I do not hate people, but I hate being AROUND people, and speaking to them? I do not exaggerate when I say I avoid it AT ALL COSTS. I only speak when it absolutely, 100%, cannot be avoided.
As an INTP, I always find small talk irritating as hell. Also most people due to ignorance think that being shy and hating people are synonymous with each other, whilst they couldn’t be further from the truth. For starters, there are many extroverts who are shy; and many introverts like myself whom are not shy. I also don’t hate people, only that the vast majority of them are boring.
i try to avoid conversations but sometimes people come to my desk at school and ask me why i sit at my desk for the whole recess and draw. Than i say that i enjoy it and get back to whatever i was doing. After that, they call me shy, introverted, and depressed. I ignore them, than they don’t leave me alone. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE I WOULD RATHER SPEND MY TIME DRAWING THAN TO START THE DUMBEST ARGUMENT WITH THE DUMBEST PERSON EVER
5:29 As an INTJ myself, this is very true. Just because you are older/higher in position than me, doesn't make you 'superior' automatically than I am. If you want my respect, earn it.
I've gotten into SO many arguments with teachers over the years. Last year, our team scored a first down. The band director didn't notice, and neither did the drum major. Nobody knew what to do, so I counted us off. People were a little startled, but we played fine. This new assistant band director was on a power trip, yelled, "Don't ever do that again! Only {band director} or {drum major} should count you off!" I yelled back "well MAYBE if {drum major} was doing his job, we would not have had to do that!" She responded with "well it sounded terrible!"
This is where I drew the line. I knew that there was TECHNICALLY a power difference (she's my superior), but I was pissed. It's ONE thing to insult MY playing, but it's a WHOLE different thing to insult my bandmates. They're my family. So I just yelled back, "Do you want to come up here and play? Do you think you could do better?" I don't remember much after that. It's all fuzzy. I remember her getting up into my face talking about how I have problems with authority (I don't). At one point, she said, "YOU HAVE NO RESPECT!" At this point, I was all in. My bandmates were staring at me, and I could see a couple grinning. I looked this bitch dead in the eyes and I said "respect is earned, not given. Now, please get out of my face."
She was going to try to keep me from marching that night, but there was no way in hell that was going to happen. First of all, she doesn't have the power to make that decision. Second of all, when she tried to bring it up with the band director, he shut her down because I'm an asset on the field.
I don't know how I didn't get in trouble. I think it's because the band director took my side. People who are that unprofessional should not be in positions of power.
A few months later, my bandmates and I were talking about personality types, and I was reading out mine, and one of the guys was like, "That makes SO MUCH SENSE?" When I asked him why, he said,"Do you remember when?" I HAD ALREADY FORGOTTEN 😂
@@LordPepe-jh5dt You did the right thing bae! Hell yeah, Respect goes both ways. And just because you're "older" or "more superior" it doesn't mean I will let you treat me like shit and treat you good. The way you treat me sets an example on how I should treat you. Kudos for standing up for yourself!!
Love you. Never ever lose that attitude.
I have left several jobs because my boss made poor business decisions and I cannot respect a “superior” who is dumber than I am.
Exactly. @@BBMc107
The problem for me (an INTJ) is that I need to have things done this way but feel miserable when I don't, which sadly happens a lot. I would also comment on "doing things efficiently", many times I can be such a perfectionist that I begin to do unnecessary stuff to make something I care about the best way as possible which consumes a lot of time and energy thus creating tasks I am not able to fulfil.
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Oh my, that is so true. I am doing that a lot and it is very easy to reach a burnout stage with this "system".
So true, like when i need to do a project I always make it so much more complicated than my classmates, and as a result of that I make it way too hard to finish or to present my project.🥲😂
OMG!
same here,
I always want perfection, but because of stress I can't achieve a little and this makes me very frustrated.
Same here. I've gotten so caught up in perfectionism that nothing gets done. Sometimes the details of a project get dragged out wear me out. It beats doubling back and doing things twice.
I’m an INTJ, and I struggle with dealing with the incompetence of others. It gets in the way of my relationships sometimes and it’s good to try and be strict on myself, and forgiving with others, as what they do is outside of my control. I prefer to spend my time alone, expanding my knowledge, and this helps me keep improving.
You are better off assuming incompetence and corruption due to humans being human, and be pleasantly surprised when not.
What a Chad.
Keep low expectations for others and plan accordingly
I'm only upset when there's no improvements at all while I'm helping them in a concise way , encouraging and complimenting them at the time
Yes. "Lead, follow, or get out of the way"
I HATE SMALL TALK OR POINTLESS CHATTER
I have a coworker that's generally pleasant but talks too much or unnecessarily
I'm an intj University student. I stopped going to lectures because I feel like the lecturers can't teach me something that I can't learn by myself. So I really resonated with the independence part of the video. I have actually found that I get much higher grades when I teach myself. It might also be because I was taught in a homeschooling setting and thus I had to be independent and manage my time efficiently. Now I genuinely cannot stand going to lectures I find them mind numbing especially if lecture slides are provided before hand..
This was me after COVID 😭😭 I despised the fact I didn’t choose a virtual college.
INTJ Here, wow. I thought this was gonna be one of those "relatable" videos that just said some things that EVERYONE can relate to, but no. This was really accurate. Well done.
Edit: Christ almighty this blew up, glad i related to alot of you guys!
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Perhaps you'd be interested in this thing called "horoscopes". Fucking stupid.
Agreed 100%
how the fuck did this blow up
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As an INTJ I really agreed with the video and one of the things I hate is when one of my plans doesn't go as expected or my routine is interrupted, it's a feeling that leaves me in a bad mood.
As an INTJ, I see the world as it should be and when it is not, I get annoyed and irritated. I am often surprised at how few people can see what I consider self evident.
Thanks for sharing!
The ethics one is the finest detail I'd say, being an INTJ
Tho we generally hate following rules that are given to us , we have the NEED to follow our own ethics in a disciplined manner.
100% TRUE
Dealing with the autopilot feeling at work is such a challenge. Almost every job I've held has lead to this and I start to feel trapped. Doing the same thing over and over again is torchure. I start to feel like I'm not living up to my capabilities.
Thanks for sharing this!
ikr routines make me go crazy
I literally changed my career because of that
Because of this feeling I'm now travelling to the United States to learn a new job, I am from Brazil and this will be a challenge!
What I do is find ways to keep my mind engaged. Over the summer I had a job servicing defibrillators, and managed to hit record numbers by changing the order of the process and by using things like a second battery to allow me to do two things at once. After you reach that stage where the rules coalesce and telescope into one act - an art - look for ways to make it harder without effecting performance. In my case, I tried memorizing the defibrillator ID, and then date, and then battery date, to grow in some way (my memory in this case). Just keep pushing yourself, but try to not be too hard on yourself. Otherwise you fall into a habit of worrying about anything that MIGHT be counterproductive/ineffective.
I can relate to 95%. Have never seen such an accurate video like this one.
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living life as an INTJ in the US (can't attest to other countries) is like living life as an involuntary villain. especially if you're female and even more especially if you had a traumatic childhood. people will either love you or hate you, but more often will hate you and will go out of their way to make your life a living hell, and ultimately ruin your life directly and/or indirectly. so yeah, wonderful experience all around.
It's scary how accurate this was 👀
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Being an INTJ I’ve never seen something that I can relate to this much and in a way it’s really comforting🙂
;)
As an INTJ personality, I like to see a video about the dark side of the personality.
I had this big group of friends. I hung around with about 20 people. There was a person I really thought was a friend. I was very surprised when he betrayed me. Usually I can tell when's someone not really your friend and I usually avoid them. I did not overreact. Just move on with life. I was like screw it.
But then that person who betrayed me started attacking my other friends because they were my friends.
This crossed a line for me. Then I retelled. Not violently, I just whispered in people's ears and allowed the seed to grow. Manipulating people allowing them to believe that the idea was their own. I did not directly tell people what to do. I just simply said watch him do this. Then when he did it in front of them. Because they were paying attention to it, they came up with their own conclusion. Of course, I told them what I thought. But I let the thought grow in their own head.
No one is this person's friend in my town they hated his guts.
No one really knows what I did, nor do I ever need to take the responsibility or take credit for it. I don't need to win a popularity contest.
I know people I know what they're going to do before they know they're going to do something, and I allowed for this to work in my favor.
Has this happened to any other INTJ ???
Thanks for sharing this!
We're good at allowing enemies to get caught in their own web. That's for sure. I think it comes with intuition. We know their next move.
The old " give them all the rope to hang themselves with" trick. Yeah. It's a classic Go To tactic along with viral marketing techniques to spread an idea. Works just about every time. For more fun but subtle techniques I'd suggest y'all look up some counter intelligence techniques books. That way you can use them if the need arises and more importantly so you'll recognize when some high functioning sociopath, psychopath, or malignant narcissist is running one of those plays against you or someone you care about.
Well played. Once, I casually warned one of my enemies that I don’t tolerate bull crap from other people and that I will get physical if needed. I said this in front of my group of friends on purpose knowing that this guy would aggravate me again in front of them. (He liked to show off). He finally did and I got physical as promised. I did get in trouble with a few people except those that heard me say what I said. They defended me by saying, “Well, he did say that he retaliates and the guy should’ve taken that as a warning.” In the end, I got back at my enemy, made a statement and kept my friends.
@8-Bit Andy your P and J must be slightly dominant at least 51%
INTJ here, this video is very accurate.
One thing I really hate is when someone wants to ask me for a favor and they start beating around the bush, just get to the point
Thank you!
I totally hate people wasting my time.
Same here.
If they tell me what they need I can get it, or say no if I cant. They don't need to bullshit for an hour, and make my head hurt guessing what they want.
@@qua7771 It's usually extroverts, extroverting all over you. Why get to the point when you can tell someone a long story about yourself and waste their time?
@@darthlaurel I try to reserve time for them after things are done, but they prefer to extrovert randomly. I'm learning that they think that they are bringing us back to reality by giving us a since of community. Essentially, this is their way of avoiding independence, and leaning on each-other for everything even when it could easily be avoided. They think being dependent is helping somehow. It's bizarre.
People ask why I’m mad at them for doing some things differently, when actually im annoyed that its so inefficient
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
I just did the test and I'm an INTJ, it made me understand a lot on how I function. Basic things like overanalyzing everything, being freaking stressed when I have a lot to do and no plan to achieve the work, laziness when I don't like something or when I'm not stimulated enough at school, etc. Thanks for the video
INTJ here and am I the only one that has been slowly making a mental database that in effect turns people into a group of variables. Mainly behavioral variables. I try to keep in account emotions and it has been surprisingly helpful in my social skills because I can have a bunch of pre-planned responses for each type of person.
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This makes sense, I've had a lot of people tell me I "won't make a lot of friends" or that I'm "too harsh" but honestly, I get fed up with inefficient people quickly and if someone's failure consistently costs me my success, I don't really want to be friends with them.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
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INTJ here. I could relate to every point made in this video.
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I think I got so annoyed of people thinking I’m unemotional or rude that sometimes I just put on politeness in front of others so I don’t have to deal with their comments on my outward appearance. When I get to be around someone I truly trust I don’t put on the polite act and just let myself frown and relax cause I know they know I’m not mad.
Takes too much energy.
@@anon-tk1zg sure it gives me a headache and I get exhausted, but it gets better with time. Also, dealing with conflict takes more energy.
As an Intj, I do have a good amount of empathy, or at least I try my best to do so. The problem is that not everyone nowadays does and thus go off of present-nows instead of thinking how this will effect the things around them. No one wants to listen anymore and I see that as the major downfall in everything, thus why I try to get myself in an area of respect so others are more willing to listen: people will not listen to those they seem less to them but they will to those they follow, or that is what they see it as.
As an INTJ, I was skeptical at first thinking, "well, this is gonna be one of those videos taking advantage of the Barnum effect to attract people and falsely relate to them."
How the turntables, was I wrong!
Specially with the quote, "respect must be gained."
Well done. Great video!
Thank you!
I think the same everytime before I watch psychology related videos because sometimes they're not factually correct.
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@@PsychologyRefresh I did! It was a very informative video❤️.
Especially hit with that part about enjoying quiet but natural places. I absolutely love just going on walks, I can think allI want but I also get the mental stimulation of a constantly changing background and noises so I never get bored during it
All my life I've been misunderstood and and now I finally found my people.
woah, i haven’t even finished the video yet but #2 describes me perfectly. so far i relate highly with all of them.
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This is so accurate, i am an INTJ and i completely relate to everything. Thank you for making this video, especially because it's so accurate, you've got my respect and interest.
Glad it was helpful!
As a intj female, i can relate 😌💙
No. 3 si actually what I often answer when asked what is my weakness on job interviews. Only found out I'm an INTJ recently and now that actually made sense
The incompetency part is spot on. I hate incompetent authorities, especially the ones that lie their asses off.
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According to the MTBI test from Managmentmania, I am INTJ. As a child, I always said that I did not belong on this planet. It just drew me to the stars. Nothing failed me, I had to research everything and find out how things work around me and with what purpose they were built. Even when I was about three years old, I knew about the flywheel motor for toys, even though I had never seen it or researched it, I just knew it existed and wanted to explore it. Unfortunately, don't think it's a gift. On the contrary, over time, it became a night wall..... On the other hand, I can create and test all creations (projects) in my mind at the same time and come back to them at any time and improve or complete them and then keep them for possible need. Unfortunately, everything on this planet is mentally turned towards the people of Earth, and that's why I will never release anything, except a small thing for everyone to use. Sometimes it's better not to lead and be the sheep. I am very much looking forward to death and with it the arrival of freedom and peace. One soul one universe.
I am never bored as I am curious about everything. The more I know the better my insights. I love meeting new people because I always learn something new and interesting. People are storehouses of interesting experiences.
this is one of the mostly accurate intj videos that it made me feel 'read'.. a really really rare one from many videos that tries(and fails) to explain intj..
plus the comment section is golden
Thank you so much!
I became a subscriber just today. The content you're uploading is accurate and I'm INTJ-T.
TBH, what’s so surprisingly true about this video is that I have always worked my way through things top down or what some may call introverted intuition, or root cause analysis.
This is a great trait!
Вау, очень информативно и точно! Это полностью описывает мою жизнь. Огромное спасибо за работу!
Чувствую, буд-то меня оголили и разоблачили) Но с другой стороны, я испытываю такие невероятные чувства! Я действительно впервые в жизни чувствую себя понятой, читаю комментарии и не верю, что есть такие люди как и я, я нашла их!!! Это невероятно..
;)
Now I see why ENFPs and INTJs fit together that well. The INTJ works quite fine where the ENFP fails and the other way around even though they could have the same thought at the same moment. And they share some things. I'm ENFP and one of the few things that would enrage me are inefficiency and incompetence. I may have more patience when people are in a position in which I don't expect them to know of the things in front of them, but if they are in a position in which they should know what to do and I'm facing plain incompetence and inefficieny, my blood starts boiling quite fast while being overly sarcastic and direct. I even understand the "hate to work on autopilot". I need challenges, I love knowledge. Independency is also a big thing for me, but I want to achieve it with someone together, since I absolutely love to see others succeed, too.
I love lone strolls through woods and fields, too, even though I enjoy having people around me most times.
Great comment!
No wonder me an INTJ who gets attracted to every enfp's I meet and get along so well with them. ENFPs are the only people who understand my INTJs thoughts and behaviour!
This is pretty spot on, very much appreciated!
Thank you so much!
As an INTJ I can't believe how accurate this is
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Это точно!:)
This is interesting. I started reading a couple of years about the INTJ type and it just made perfect sense to me - it was an epiphany to me to understand more about how I operate. I then did a few tests and I came out as INTJ which didn't surprise me as I had already felt an affinity with the type. It helps me to understand how I think and how to operate and the strengths and weaknesses I have and how I have always felt different from most other people (although not as different as an INTJ female who is even more rare!)
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Man, this is so relatable. I left 2 jobs literally because the manager and the colleagues were absolutely incompetent. Not even because they were stupid, but they just refused to put in the effort. Or when management is one decision away from setting up a structured work environment with everyone knowing their roles, but instead they just talk about how it should be done, but don’t do it, as if waiting for some magic to happen or for someone else to create the thing they want. It’s extremely frustrating. I can’t even say that I know everything, but everyone’s just so unserious and careless.
When I took the test ,i actually knew Nothing about my personality and when i dug in i found how much it represented me!
I honestly don’t relate as much to the feeling misunderstood part that much because I have an INTJ father as well and we have an identical sense of humor and think similarly. I’m lucky, there are a few things though, like our inner world is different, we have different ways of accomplishing a problem, but they are always the most efficient ways we can think of. I just finished it, the autopilot description was astoundingly accurate.
Interesting approach!
I have a twin with the same personality type too!
True. Everytime I start working my goal is how to learn and do the work in half of its required time.
Spot on! Every point is valid.
I was just nodding my head throughout the video 🙌
Great then!
I'm so focused on my goals, it feels like I'm not living the present. I'm living for the future, for when my goals will be achieved and I could just enjoy life
I can certainly agree with all of these, and very proud of it too
I'm INTJ. I don't really like to go through the topics like "INTJ are like this or that,..." because I kinda get the feeling that I am disrupted by their definitions and thoughts about INTJ. Coz there can also be the things that I'm actually not. So those kind of videos with the topics I mentioned before make me think of me as another person and doubtful about me being myself. But curiosity~~~
But I do can relate the things in this video really well. I really like it. ^^
INTJ here. I can become overstimulated and it can cause anxiety but somethings that I love to do are listen to LOUD ASS MUSIC. it brings me out of my head and I can focus on what I'm doing rather than being stuck in my head.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Very relatable and logical it sums my life up pretty well I hate incompetence and ineffiecncy and especially laziness but in my life I am unstructured and quite lazy I hate laziness but I end up being a bit lazy its hard to explain I do things lazy and then end up efficient it's weird but it works I think the word I'm looking for is methodical
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Same. Sometimes my brain is so overheated, it makes me anything BUT efficient.
@@heibai1173 yea and sometimes I experience brain fog and progressive over load it's an issue I think I might have a mental illness or brain damage and I have high levels of stress even tho I'm extermly confident that's also weird
@@Jack_howard_mayer I alphabetize things, draw, or organize my hard drives to calm down. Except, then when I go to sleep, I dream about all of my folders and I am forced to sort things in my dreams! Alas, not even in sleep does my mind find repose.
@@heibai1173 my mind is too rapid and fast so I get insomnia but i can still function I go bed like 4:00 its hard for me cause I'm always constantly in stress and trauma
usaf told me i'm an intj around 20 as part of my security clearance, and told me it's very rare. i've been told that twice since by counselors. i agree with everything you said. we're a tough lot.
I find out today that I'm supposed a INTJ and a lot of sh*it in my life start make sense to me.
I've been struggling negatively with myself because I thought I was so weird. That's why I failed so many times and thought I was a failure.
I like to create plans and turn them into methods for myself, but I found this strange. I could study things, turn them into methods, and sell. Looks good, right?
I always had problems with my parents and I understood why. They are the "it will work, just believe me, just starts, God decides" type.
I hate being around people like that.
How do you fuc* know it works if you don't even has a base where you can think correctly??? Don't make sense. I thought those people was full crazy and life a big injustice. Why did I fail when those people achieved success?
Looks like, I need to adapt to myself now.
I'm not a failure!
* And stop with this "it will works" without a good base.
Thanks for sharing!
A someone who is an INTJ-T all of this is very true to me and probably others with the same personality type as me.
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I thought that i am the weird one. My husband always told me so. Sometimes i show no emotion. I hate when my someone blabbering on trivial matter or emotional one. Just look at the logical and reasonable method men! And i dont give respect to people based on their seniority or superiority. But now I realize INTJ is my personality. Yes, the rare INTJ women. Thank you for your video. Done subscribed.
The difficult part is hard to socialize
I do a lot of good stuff and often appreciated in my job. But the problem is i feel no one with me and i am alone in the journey
This whole video is the first actually relateable intj video i've seen
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Well there are also many negative traits that i have become aware of .Those negative behaviors have become a sort of a pattern which keeps repeating itself in different periods and situations. Personally it always feels the right thing to do where others think I’m taking extreme measures to solve a common situation. Though I don’t regret any of my life decisions but i do understand why it’s an issue with people as they tend to put so much emotional values into their decisions.
We As INTJ are Architecht to build a better future by leaving any inefficiencies behind. We move like time, always future
Thank you for this insight!
I didn't believe before in this personality types but when it showed itself how useful it is I tried to take a test. I am INTJ so I thought what is so special that I am rare. And when I saw this video it's all coming together from these facts to my experience. About predicting future is surely true for me. I am a guy who doesn't like that much teamwork and likes to ask myself questions and being alone to refresh my mind. Others thought being alone is bad for me but I see it like peacful time with myself.
Thanks for sharing!
I’m an INJT to, and honestly, i despise it when ppl say I’m shy bcz i don’t talk that much. My own parents want me to become more open and extrovert and smile more. Some of the things I never do. I wanna be just like I am. I can be cruel sometimes, but that doesn’t matter. A lot of ppl call me emo bcz of my personality, and it’s hella annoying
Wow I can relate to the whole points. Now I kind of feel like I've become a typical intj 🤣
Okay!
I´m an INTJ, and I felt related to all of them
Very relatable. For once something was relatable. Good video it was nice.
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Last one is bang on 👍
Now everything else regarding INTJ’s are spot on
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as a double introverted intj, its hard to show empathy or any sense of care for other people thoughts or feelings, i simplify disaprove what they say with facts and logic and becasue their feelings are incorrect to the reality they get mad at me for not accepting those false feelings, i simpily run on reality, not what you "feel"
I didn't know what my personality type was until recently when a loved one set me down and played a career card game with me. Using those results, she had me take a personality test and everything finally clicked. Why I felt alone and so different from my previous co workers, why I couldn't embrace some if my past bosses'way of thinking. My co-workers just thought I was being difficult or arrogant and it sucked being so alienated.
I bounce back and forth between introverted and extroverted. But definitely an intuitive, thinker, judger. Biggest advice I can give is to not take life so seriously.
I almost never ask for help. Not in the office, not with friends, not with family. I have to deal with my shit on my own. I also don’t wanna bother ppl with my problems.
Does anyone else when they have too much task just to think of all the step they have to do make them stop ?
As an intj this video was way too relatable, i used to wonder why i'm so "different,, and why i crave for alone time, i realised i can't really provoke (idk how they say this in english) but if i necessarily have to then i get so stressed because i don't have a plan for the current situation and anything can go wrong. Also i hate getting help, i was independend since a young age, and by someone wants to help me perhaps they can't keep up with my rythm or don't do something properly like i imagined i get outstandigly mad couse i'm highly a maximalist.
Thanks for sharing!
I have allergies as an INTJ towards;
1. Idiots
2. Incompetents
3. Liars/bullshitters
All of the above will result in ‘inefficiency’ in my mind, that will hinder my goals towards world domination. 😂
That basically sums all INTJs, I think.
As an INTJ who grew up home schooled in a family of 8...
I do, in fact, absolutely, NOT need a plan. We would literally make things up as we go and that was that. Because I was home schooled if we wanted/needed to go somewhere we left "as soon as we were ready" at any time of the day. Day trips and mini-vacations were like that too. Dad comes home from work and decides "time for a bike ride" or we finish our homework in the morning and mom decides "Oh? well...who wants to go to the park!".
Do I like having a plan? Yes. Do I hate it when the plan is derailed? Also yes. But I do not need a plan, I am a very go-with-the-flow INTJ *so long as a plan has not already been established.*
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
As an INTJ i can relate very much.
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It's great you presented not only positives but also negatives of being INTJ. Good video.
Also - it would be interesting to see team made fully of INTJs work on some difficult problem together. Would they enhance each other's effectivness thanks to their similar analytical approach or would the cooperation of several introverted and strict people have problem with creating proper "team jell" (without some extroverted mediator)?
Great suggestion!
I think the solution would never get done because everyone will check after everyone just to be sure everything is done right.
If they are a group of INTJs who trust each other and are friends then it is probably one of the most efficient and creative and intelligent groups of people you will come across. If not, then it falls apart extremely quickly.
I think, as long as jealousy doesn't creep in, or the stakes very high (million-dollar prize, say), it wd be marvelous to watch such a project unfold.
Trick is: to get / find a good number of the 2% INTJs together with the subject knowledge, who aren't currently (secretly) world dominating! 🤔😂
I think it would work just fine, with a good chance of providing superior results.... PROVIDED the group as a whole assigned one member to the leadership role, with it being understood by all that this person has the function of moving the geoup forward.
as a intj i can say this video is highly accurate
i definitely hate running on autopilot
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This describes me perfectly.
I hear that “smile more” from my dad every day. Such a frustrating thing
As an INTJ woman… I feel even more misunderstood 🥲….
Why?
It's mean you are not an INTJ sister.
My ex-step mom thought I had a type of autism that makes it difficult for me to feel and display emotions or feel empathy for others. But I’m just a INTJ lol.
perfect mirroring.
mbti 유행하면서 오히려 편해짐...intj 특징에 공감받으면서 이제껏 내가 문제인가 하고 고민했던 게 해결됐고, intj는 이렇다고 한번에 보여주면 시간절약 오해소지감소 등 효율적임. 참고로 내가 intj라는 거 너무좋음❤
I no longer expect high from people. I've been disappointed by a lot.
Alright!
I am an intj girl. That's right., I just am different and I think I am different too. And also I am always in my head. Like thinking about something that I don't like..
Thanks for sharing!
I’ve been critisizing myself so much for being such a weird person. I never realize those “weird thoughts” are actually parts of an INTJ’s traits... OMGG
The interesting thing about be intolerant and over sensitive to loud noises is much more of my problem for me being the INTP than with my INTJ partner. I find that really loud and sudden noise really bother me and even sometimes hurt me, whilst with my INTJ hubby is very tolerant them. I even really do not like eating in food court, because I know I cannot relax with all the crowd and noises I’d a shopping mall while I’m eating. I’m also the one that often asks my hubby to lower his TV.
Thanks for sharing!
2:56 thats so true whenever i do group work for anything i already know what i want to get done any most of the time other people are just saying: what are we even doing
I had all this, plus I was an ugly duckling in my teens. Tall, odd and I was dyslexic and didn’t know it. I was a mid to late 70s skateboarder. I became a swan, on the outside, in my 20s and people would say I was stuck up, but I just didn’t know how to small talk.
With some variance, and some oddities. This accurately describes me.
I can relate to a lot of this. cool video.
Glad to hear it!
To work well with incompetence is considered being a good team player but so hard to do as an INTJ
I’m an INTJ but as a strong intuitive I do end up “going with the flow” at times when I logically decide to follow my intuition.
As an intj women I definitely agree 👍🏻
I'd often burst out on inefficiencies and would rather not work than do something like it😅