My Child Drowned (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 56 | Season 2

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2021
  • A guest shares how losing her child, Chumalethu changed her whole life
    Studio Guests: Monica Ndindwa
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  • @SincerelyPearlM
    @SincerelyPearlM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Hi Lebo, may i suggest that you have tissues for the guests who have emotional moments on the show. Thank you❤

  • @samanthadutoit1247
    @samanthadutoit1247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This is why I left my job when I starting having kids, I don't trust anyone with my kids especially so young. I do respect working Mothers though it must be tough. May God continue to keep you.

  • @makubumoloi8463
    @makubumoloi8463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I dnt hv a child but I felt this... It hit very close to my heart I could never imagine what she is feeling 😭 😭

  • @beverlyrabohlale3752
    @beverlyrabohlale3752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This reminds me of when I just came back from delivering my baby girl n I had complications from cza…they called ambulance for me n as I walked to my room to kiss my girl n tell her mommy will be back soon…I found my Mom on her knees praying n her words was “o senkotle ka thupa e bohale Modimo wake” (God don’t punish me so harshly)..that was mother’s love n they don’t ever wanna bury their children coz she was really scared for me😭😭😭but now she(mommy )left me this January 😭😭I miss her dearly even though I as a child m ment to bury her…she prayed for me more than she prayed for her self n that’s what I carry on from her,praying for my kids every day…I am so sorry for you sis God will grant u strength 🙏

  • @victoriamokwatlo345
    @victoriamokwatlo345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I pray she heals because this is just too painful, can’t imagine the pain she carries 😔

  • @tessmokoka6827
    @tessmokoka6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Yoh I can’t imagine the guilt the grandmother is feeling… mistakes happen

  • @tshepisomongane1892
    @tshepisomongane1892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    This is heartbreaking I'm really sorry sisi the loss of a child is never easy I'm talking from experience no mother should bury their own child and the pain never goes away,im really sorry I pray God give u strength to deal with it all 💔💔

  • @cynthiamagaga9061
    @cynthiamagaga9061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It's the fourth or fifth time I've heard Sis Monica telling her story and everytime she tells her story she weeps and it hurts because no one deserves to go through such😭💔, we cannot not bury our kids... We cannot! 😭, Sis Monica will never forget but doesn't have a choice but to accept her pain💔... The Lord shall comfort you Sis, stay strong 🙏

  • @tridabalira5992
    @tridabalira5992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Dear Jesus please heal this beautiful lady, it is too much to go through. She is in too much pain only you can close this wound. So sorry for your loss.

  • @lelokprecious3947
    @lelokprecious3947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I kept my tears in until she said "I said take these clothes off her, she's cold" My heart broke 💔💔💔

  • @ntshuxekosambo2684
    @ntshuxekosambo2684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I lost my son in 2019 . He was 17 , hit by truck while coming back from school. I know the pain. it hurts so bad 💔💔💔💔

  • @nsekwakokome1631
    @nsekwakokome1631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I think this mommy needed this session.... Where she has a platform to share her story without having to explain her feelings to anyone.... Thank you sis Relebogile for letting having her

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    15:00

  • @tiyiselanin
    @tiyiselanin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    This is really triggering for me. No mommy should ever bury their own child. I’ve never been the same since I buried my son.

  • @mafokopetrusmokwena126
    @mafokopetrusmokwena126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I just want to know what is wrong with the 5 people that disliked this episode?

  • @semukelisomaseko8795
    @semukelisomaseko8795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I do feel your pain. I lost 2 sons same day in May 2020 ages 19 and 23 my life has changed. U have encouraged me strengthened my faith as well. Only Jehovah knows why. Prayer is the medicine of all.💔💔💔

  • @moitheiphora1073
    @moitheiphora1073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I had a miscarriage though I didn't cuddle with my baby, I just know where she comes from... for me it is the same😪😪 she will heal as time goes, but it is unforgettable 💋💕💞

  • @tokozilembadamana7233
    @tokozilembadamana7233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    My big brother drowned when he was 9 (in 1998) and I was 7. My mom was never the same, to this day 💔

  • @nhlanhlandhlazi4485
    @nhlanhlandhlazi4485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    No one deserves to go through this.... I'm so sorry sis, and may Chuma's soul continue to rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The pain of losing someone your love in your absence.