My Child Drowned (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 56 | Season 2

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  • @Gabisile..
    @Gabisile.. วันที่ผ่านมา +240

    Came here from a tiktok clip l just saw 💔

  • @winnieglashious519
    @winnieglashious519 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    Here from tiktok😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

  • @GaoneKootswetse
    @GaoneKootswetse วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Came here from tiktok clip 😢

    • @TheZenMomma
      @TheZenMomma วันที่ผ่านมา

      As a young mom with a toddler I came from TikTok too, this got me so emotional 😭

  • @ThobekaNgcobo-dj4lz
    @ThobekaNgcobo-dj4lz วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    From Tik Tok😭😭😭💔

  • @nsekwakokome1631
    @nsekwakokome1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    I think this mommy needed this session.... Where she has a platform to share her story without having to explain her feelings to anyone.... Thank you sis Relebogile for letting having her

    • @stellamooibedi9027
      @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And our resident therapist Relebogile is giving her all the time, I love this for both of them.

    • @nsekwakokome1631
      @nsekwakokome1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@stellamooibedi9027 You know sometimes even going to a counselor can end up feeling like a place you have to explain and account for all your feelings but I feel this series just gave her a place to talk 😩🤧

    • @stellamooibedi9027
      @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nsekwakokome1631 I would not have said it better than this my Queen, you hit it spot on.

    • @mulaloratsiku6533
      @mulaloratsiku6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a very emotional session. Thank you so much Mommy for sharing the story. This is the beginning of your healing process. Talk more and cry more about it, it's okay Mommy.
      May God give you so much strength and peace. Please forgive granny for what happened. Only God knows what happened and why. I know it's hard but for your wellbeing please do Mommy.
      Love you so much Mommy 🤗🤗😍😍❤💜💙💚

    • @MrsMax2009
      @MrsMax2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, tks R for listening and let her be..so much pain was bottled up

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    15:00 when she started crying, my heart broke for her😭😭😭
    I don’t have kids, no spouse, never been pregnant but lord my heart broke for her😭😭

  • @ntshuxekosambo2684
    @ntshuxekosambo2684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I lost my son in 2019 . He was 17 , hit by truck while coming back from school. I know the pain. it hurts so bad 💔💔💔💔

    • @thusimphahlele5085
      @thusimphahlele5085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My most heart felt condolences to you. Hope you find peace and healing.

    • @nasiphituswa4848
      @nasiphituswa4848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Condolences to you sister, may you find peace 😔❤

    • @mantelekhitsane8935
      @mantelekhitsane8935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so sorry may God heal you 🙏💐

    • @koketsokaym234
      @koketsokaym234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yoooooo💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭

    • @bonganimashienyane2920
      @bonganimashienyane2920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I speak healing upon you

  • @semukelisomaseko8795
    @semukelisomaseko8795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I do feel your pain. I lost 2 sons same day in May 2020 ages 19 and 23 my life has changed. U have encouraged me strengthened my faith as well. Only Jehovah knows why. Prayer is the medicine of all.💔💔💔

    • @nellyburu7322
      @nellyburu7322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ngxesi sisi. I'm soo sorry❤️💐

    • @katlehomokaba1245
      @katlehomokaba1245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜sending love and comfort

    • @nkule2493
      @nkule2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💐💐💐💐💔💔💔💔

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so sorry 💔💔

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my sis, I'm so so sorry 😭🥺

  • @makubumoloi8463
    @makubumoloi8463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I dnt hv a child but I felt this... It hit very close to my heart I could never imagine what she is feeling 😭 😭

  • @tiyiselanin
    @tiyiselanin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    This is really triggering for me. No mommy should ever bury their own child. I’ve never been the same since I buried my son.
    I can literally feel your pain mommy. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. May God continue to comfort you 💔❤️❤️

    • @stellamooibedi9027
      @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sending you much Love my Queen.❤

    • @tiyiselanin
      @tiyiselanin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stellamooibedi9027 ❤️

    • @mulaloratsiku6533
      @mulaloratsiku6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am so sorry about your loss. May God bless you with so much peace and acceptance knowing that she is in a better place and one day we will be reunited with our loved ones for eternity. Sending hugs of love to both of you Mommies. May the holy spirit comfort you 🙏🙏🤗🤗🥰🥰

    • @katlehomokaba1245
      @katlehomokaba1245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💜💜🌻

    • @tiyiselanin
      @tiyiselanin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katlehomokaba1245 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @victoriamokwatlo345
    @victoriamokwatlo345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I pray she heals because this is just too painful, can’t imagine the pain she carries 😔

  • @samanthadutoit1247
    @samanthadutoit1247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    This is why I left my job when I starting having kids, I don't trust anyone with my kids especially so young. I do respect working Mothers though it must be tough. May God continue to keep you.

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Accidents can happen even in our care as mothers sadly. We can only but ask God to protect our kids daily😭🥺

    • @kmtz1107
      @kmtz1107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@motheowalerato701 True, but as a mom, it is less likely to happen as no one can take care of our kids better than us. I am very paranoid about leaving my son under other’s supervision. All I can do is pray that God will keep an eye on him at all times, especially when I’m not around.

    • @nomawethundondo5401
      @nomawethundondo5401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kmtz1107 You cannot predict accidents - there are many mothers who have looked after their children and accidents happen. Only God knows

    • @tebogomokobane8094
      @tebogomokobane8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even as a mother accidents do happen no matter what
      You can't be wit ur kid 24/7. 5minutes of being apart then somethimg happen

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how do you financially support your kids since left your job?

  • @Lizsimaloi
    @Lizsimaloi วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    TikTok brought me here I lost my son 2022 and is still fresh 😢

  • @SincerelyPearlM
    @SincerelyPearlM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Hi Lebo, may i suggest that you have tissues for the guests who have emotional moments on the show. Thank you❤

  • @mafokopetrusmokwena126
    @mafokopetrusmokwena126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I just want to know what is wrong with the 5 people that disliked this episode?
    No human being should go through what she went through yoh😭😭.

    • @witneymqadi7306
      @witneymqadi7306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bruh exactly my question I'm even going through the comments to see what are they for

    • @dandiekekana7283
      @dandiekekana7283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They must be family members from the husband's side.

    • @wamemasilo7546
      @wamemasilo7546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Guys people dont use this things the same way as us.
      It coukd be that they dislike the tragedy..not that they didnt enjoy the episode.

    • @simplyandrandomlysane8208
      @simplyandrandomlysane8208 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@wamemasilo7546 Thank you. I was about to say

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The pain of losing someone your love in your absence.
    4 years ago today (16th August 2017) I lost my mom from her sleep after gasping and the delivery was through a phone while I was on my way to work. I remember asking if she was administered and my aunt said to me " Nana she was gone even before we arrived at the clinic and the nurses did not check her" I think that's why sometimes we blame families not because of hate but because we feel like they didn't do much to help when they could. May I watch too much WONDER channel where people get revived even from being under icy water for more than 20 minutes, with possibilities to being brain dead but they live on.
    I am sorry for sis's loss. Thanks Rele.

  • @LungaConstable
    @LungaConstable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I lost my son 12yrs ago, the pain is still raw some days bt ngamanye amalanga there is peace because I know his spirit lives on. Sisi unkulunkulu ukubusise futhi akusule izinyembezi, siyabonga sisLebo for such stories because we feel less alone in our pain. All is well indeed unkulunkulu abenathi

    • @mdungethulile
      @mdungethulile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Phephisa sthandwa may you be comforted in knowing that your son felt loved by you and you were the best mother he could ever asked for and he loved too.💔💔

    • @nkule2493
      @nkule2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss 💔

  • @VEE777-n7z
    @VEE777-n7z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Yoh... I can't imagine the pain of losing a child under such circumstances. Touching interview and I'm taking notes. Looking forward to part 2

  • @lebomol
    @lebomol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Well Done Relebogile!! I love how you allowed her to process her emotions before moving on with the conversation.

  • @nhlanhlandhlazi4485
    @nhlanhlandhlazi4485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    No one deserves to go through this.... I'm so sorry sis, and may Chuma's soul continue to rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @tridabalira5992
    @tridabalira5992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Dear Jesus please heal this beautiful lady, it is too much to go through. She is in too much pain only you can close this wound. So sorry for your loss.

  • @cynthiamagaga9061
    @cynthiamagaga9061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It's the fourth or fifth time I've heard Sis Monica telling her story and everytime she tells her story she weeps and it hurts because no one deserves to go through such😭💔, we cannot not bury our kids... We cannot! 😭, Sis Monica will never forget but doesn't have a choice but to accept her pain💔... The Lord shall comfort you Sis, stay strong 🙏

  • @beverlyrabohlale3752
    @beverlyrabohlale3752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This reminds me of when I just came back from delivering my baby girl n I had complications from cza…they called ambulance for me n as I walked to my room to kiss my girl n tell her mommy will be back soon…I found my Mom on her knees praying n her words was “o senkotle ka thupa e bohale Modimo wake” (God don’t punish me so harshly)..that was mother’s love n they don’t ever wanna bury their children coz she was really scared for me😭😭😭but now she(mommy )left me this January 😭😭I miss her dearly even though I as a child m ment to bury her…she prayed for me more than she prayed for her self n that’s what I carry on from her,praying for my kids every day…I am so sorry for you sis God will grant u strength 🙏

    • @tnohanyaza
      @tnohanyaza 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @leratomolele
    @leratomolele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    as a new mom this cant have been an easy interview for Relebogile.😢

  • @tokozilembadamana7233
    @tokozilembadamana7233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    My big brother drowned when he was 9 (in 1998) and I was 7. My mom was never the same, to this day 💔

    • @lebogangkekana191
      @lebogangkekana191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly what happened to mine, my brother drowned cos I threw a doll in the pool, and my brother went for it. The nanny was inside the house answering the phone. When she came back his lifeless body was floating on top of the pool. And I was only 3 I couldn’t do anything nor say anything. I remember that day like it was yesterday.

    • @tokozilembadamana7233
      @tokozilembadamana7233 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lebogangkekana191 I'm truly sorry you had to witness that.

    • @debbi189
      @debbi189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😥😥😥it's hard to watch

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents put your child in swimming classes if they can’t swim!

  • @lelokprecious3947
    @lelokprecious3947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I kept my tears in until she said "I said take these clothes off her, she's cold" My heart broke 💔💔💔

    • @DelightSibanda
      @DelightSibanda วันที่ผ่านมา

      😢😢i felt like she thought she's still alive

  • @theplug8263
    @theplug8263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I saw this interview somewhere some years ago and our sister is still crying the same in this interview, indeed you never forget loosing your child, sending love and light to this woman♥️

  • @nomathamsanqamatai7549
    @nomathamsanqamatai7549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ooh! Lord😢😢. This made me cry so much,my son is turning two years next week as I'm watching this I just hugged him and I told him I love him😪😢😇

  • @moitheiphora1073
    @moitheiphora1073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I had a miscarriage though I didn't cuddle with my baby, I just know where she comes from... for me it is the same😪😪 she will heal as time goes, but it is unforgettable 💋💕💞

    • @cc35506
      @cc35506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a stillbirth about 2 weeks ago. It really hurts. I understand.

    • @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
      @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cc35506 sorry Chipo

    • @kellyalexander7347
      @kellyalexander7347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She will never heal , losing a child you never heal from that I know alot of people who have lost their children and they never have healed to this day

    • @minenhlemaphanga9548
      @minenhlemaphanga9548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cc35506 oh jeso, I'm so sorry my love 😞.

  • @nonhlanhlambhele466
    @nonhlanhlambhele466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Oh nkosi yami 😭😭😭😭😭 my heart is shattered in million pieces

  • @nozizanelesithongam5521
    @nozizanelesithongam5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    U mama ka Chuma broke me into pieces betunana💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔

    • @ntsoakisebetoane2109
      @ntsoakisebetoane2109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kubuhlungu sisi

    • @nozizanelesithongam5521
      @nozizanelesithongam5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ntsoakisebetoane2109 a lot sisi yooo 💔

    • @ntsoakisebetoane2109
      @ntsoakisebetoane2109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cried... I am a mother to a 1 year old son...I wouldn't want that to happen to anyone's child even Chuma did not deserve that, she had so much more to live for. It really hurts

    • @lelokprecious3947
      @lelokprecious3947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yoh Sisi💔💔💔

  • @nthubexnthubex8634
    @nthubexnthubex8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I watched this woman's story on Cent Twins channel here on youtube my heart broke for her. I am even scared to watch again. May the good Lord comfort you 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @tshepisomongane1892
    @tshepisomongane1892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    This is heartbreaking I'm really sorry sisi the loss of a child is never easy I'm talking from experience no mother should bury their own child and the pain never goes away,im really sorry I pray God give u strength to deal with it all 💔💔

    • @thandindlovu9088
      @thandindlovu9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't even wish for my enemy to go through such pain even now am still grieving for my late daughter at the age of 22 after graduating and started to work who passed away in 2017/11 but it seems like yesterday but all is well, they say everything happens for a reason but sometimes we eager to know that reason 💔💔

  • @asiveangel4940
    @asiveangel4940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You ladies are so beautiful man. Lebo, thank you for always delivering😭❤ we really appreciate you, mama.

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Mommy Monica -the light of Chuma is in you. I'm gonna keep on praying for you. Hope you can use therapy and also your prayers to keep you sane daily. A kind suggestion would be to find a cause to celebrate Chuma's life either on her birth date or the day she fell asleep in Jesus. You describe her so well, we (the audience listening) got to know Chuma through your eyes. Such an angel. God comfort and hug you just the way Chuma did. Love you sis Monica from sis Marci.

  • @zinhlemasilela1545
    @zinhlemasilela1545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I can't comprehend the pain she went through and still going through 😭😭😭oh my goodness 💔

  • @Manda_Ncube
    @Manda_Ncube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The minute she starts crying 😭 I also do the same this is so said 😭😭

  • @noluvuyomakhoba2901
    @noluvuyomakhoba2901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Relebogile you're very strong, I wasn't going to be able to sit through this interview 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Oh man Uxolo Sisi❤sending love, comfort and light your way.

  • @thandonm
    @thandonm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    We lost our son in a home accident, the minutes leading to the accident he hugged me the same way, I literally had to pull him off coz i was rushing. It seems they always it's the last day. Hard as it was, perhaps my case is better that we the parents were involved because it would be difficult to forgive the person. She seems very angry at the grandmother

  • @ingelosikazi
    @ingelosikazi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This interview broke my heart. Strength to you Aussie. May God heal your heart, I'm so so so sorry for your loss 💔

  • @saloshniejagathesan1577
    @saloshniejagathesan1577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    So important to have swimming pools covered by protective nets if there are children in the family. Also, we should get children to take swimming lessons from infant stage. As non Whites, we need to overcome this fear of learning to swim.

    • @minenhlemaphanga9548
      @minenhlemaphanga9548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know a lady who lost her 4 year old daughter by drowning even though the child had swimming lessons. Children are only good swimmers when supervised.

  • @tshegofatsomosito8245
    @tshegofatsomosito8245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This thing called life is so fragile. Losing your child must be the most painful ever in the world. How do you even begin to move on after such. Sending warm love to the mother, may God cover her with warmth, strength and healing.

  • @florencempitse7714
    @florencempitse7714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I cried watching this 💔 No parents should burry their child

  • @sunrise7640
    @sunrise7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    With all that pain, I wouldn't be alive today. I wouldn't even be this beautiful. This woman is so strong. I'd be in a mental asyllum or dead and I'm not being extra....and that grandmother!!!!!!

  • @thokomtswene6128
    @thokomtswene6128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm watching this for the second time already no parent should go through this, Rest in peace baby girl 😭😭

  • @thonkhaPatricia
    @thonkhaPatricia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I wish sisi Monica all the perfect healing available.

  • @katlegomalatji1231
    @katlegomalatji1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Currently on maternity leave. The thought of leaving my princess in the care of other people keeps me awake at night 😭.
    My she find healing. 💔.

  • @JessicaEyman
    @JessicaEyman 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This triggered the loss of my loved ones that I never got to morn…. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through . ❤❤

  • @NtsikiHarmse
    @NtsikiHarmse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yoooh my whole mood just became sad, I can’t imagine what the guest is going through. I pray she gets more strength and hopefully some sort of closure/ understanding.

  • @magrethafrikaner3814
    @magrethafrikaner3814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a mommy to a little girl,i cried watching this....Oh God this is incredibly sad...God give this mommy peace and a reminder that we will be one day reunited....❤

  • @zodwamahlangu6426
    @zodwamahlangu6426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    No mother should ever bury their child... 💔may her gentle soul rest in peace🕊🕊🕊 God this is heart breaking, may the Lord give you comfort mommy❤

  • @PortiaNdlovu-j8b
    @PortiaNdlovu-j8b 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Im here from tick tock....and i wanted to listen to the story in full coz i was crying with her....its a painful story and i runout of words to console her coz i cant imagine her pain😢😢😢

  • @lebogangdlaminilebogangdla1691
    @lebogangdlaminilebogangdla1691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This must have been the difficult interview for you kelebogile.
    Its painful to burry your child . sorry sisters hope you heal

  • @Tebo5583
    @Tebo5583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    😭Phephi sis Monica, phephi ausi. I'm so sorry. May God continue to give you strength

  • @JudithGaweses
    @JudithGaweses หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Relo, pls do a follow up on this story pls pls, no mother should ever go through this, and i want to knw how Monica is doing today pls pls

  • @seyyidhaniffer6884
    @seyyidhaniffer6884 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The God comfort her hold her always ..just imagining this pain my legs are shaking ..hugs and prayers

  • @mphokokoma5693
    @mphokokoma5693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is sad...be comforted mommy. The Lord will strengthen you. Please forgive granny it was an accident

    • @thabomolautsi
      @thabomolautsi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mpho o bolela taba e kholo. A se ka boomo bana a banne Stelle. May God give her grace of forgiveness.

    • @matekedigojane6405
      @matekedigojane6405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tshwarela mme eo wa batho hlé. Ke phoso...accidents do happen ngwaneso ❤💕💕

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is heartbreaking, I could have never finished this interview. I was difficult to finish watching it how much more to the host.😭😭😭

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't finish it yesterday, only watching it now again😭😭😭😭

  • @OrapelengTawana
    @OrapelengTawana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Eish fola mama God give you strength.
    It was an accident 🥺😭 Yes granny should have kept an eye on the child but what happened was an accident

  • @veronlizmemhmd8673
    @veronlizmemhmd8673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    After watching this I do not have strength to open my books. Sending love and healing to you mommy. Let the Angel rest she sees you everyday and she is smiling down on you. Thank you Lebo

  • @nozizanelesithongam5521
    @nozizanelesithongam5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Uphi uChuma 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @mathibafrancina2447
    @mathibafrancina2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am so worried about 9 people who disliked this video💔🥺

    • @abigailkruger1974
      @abigailkruger1974 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Probably the ex's family lol

    • @danisilemashaba9609
      @danisilemashaba9609 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Mybe they did not like what happened to her

  • @hafsatbunu8067
    @hafsatbunu8067 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Came here to watch this from a TikTok clip. I'm so sorry you experienced this. Very devastating.

  • @joshuaserudu9062
    @joshuaserudu9062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was too emotional to unpack, there is lot of transfer of emotions, I really felt this interview 💔

  • @sihledlamini-makhubu4791
    @sihledlamini-makhubu4791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God Jesus Christ that is so painful... Really no mother has to go through such pain... God be with you sisi... I can't imagine the pain she is going through even today...

  • @africaunite2957
    @africaunite2957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Sending love to you mama and your family I pray that god will heal you and comfort you everyday of your life

  • @AXvisual-71
    @AXvisual-71 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yooo i can not even begin to imagine the pain, while watching i found myself calling my 7 years ild daughters just to caddle her becaue i cannot imagine how my life would be without her

  • @tessmokoka6827
    @tessmokoka6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Yoh I can’t imagine the guilt the grandmother is feeling… mistakes happen

    • @tanyasnyman-stanford8012
      @tanyasnyman-stanford8012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Mistakes do happen

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents need to put their child in swimming classes if they’re gonna be near bodies of water.

    • @lungzish
      @lungzish วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@quelquun2018 people with swimming pools should always have them covered unless they're being used. It's careless to not have the pool covered

    • @doinglifewithlanga
      @doinglifewithlanga วันที่ผ่านมา

      You know what🥺argh man

    • @DelightSibanda
      @DelightSibanda วันที่ผ่านมา

      As for me i think death has no one to blame if something was meant to happen it will happen even if the child was with thr mom it would have happened as well ....she should makr peace with gogo

  • @princeshongwe4938
    @princeshongwe4938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I Just remember myself driving 1 hour a distance that i normally drive for 2& half... four months ago when I was called while at work an they told me that my 3 years old beautiful angel was knocked by the vehicle an the driver left her under the car just like that an she died after somuch pains, with broken bones, head open etc...till today I'm still angry Im asking myself what kind of human being who can leave a child to die an not help her...be strong sisi you're not the only one..trust in God

    • @nkule2493
      @nkule2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry bhuti 💔😭😭😭

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so sorry to hear this. Wishing you strength and peace ❤️💐

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my brother, I'm so so sorry💔🥺😭

    • @princeshongwe4938
      @princeshongwe4938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As my cter said.."It is well",,,thank you 🙏

    • @emisto9sakina398
      @emisto9sakina398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry for what happened to your child may GOD MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU AND YOUR Family. U reminded of my son accident that happened 7 years ago he also got hit by the bus lucky he survived but the driver ran away MAY her/his soul rest in peace.

  • @yolandamusasira7764
    @yolandamusasira7764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    this was painful 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @stellamooibedi9027
      @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yhuu!Too much my anxiety sky rocketed after watching this episode

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My heart is sore for the lady...

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This has to be the hardest to speak about 😭😭

  • @victoriamokoatle8241
    @victoriamokoatle8241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No mother should ever go through this may God locate our sister's pain and may she find healing cant help it but cry with you

  • @jessicaasante4535
    @jessicaasante4535 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No mother should burry their child 🥺❤️❤️ Sending this mama hugs and love 🤍

  • @neriayose1126
    @neriayose1126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just want to give you a warm hug Monica I am so sorry for your loss🤗

  • @lesegorammego6666
    @lesegorammego6666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yhoooo God this is so painful. May God grant her the strength to continue. 😭😭😭😭😭. I am a mother myself I can't begin how she feels. It's like a horrible dream that one will wake you up from.

  • @mongezimahlangu4544
    @mongezimahlangu4544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I pray for healing and may she forgive the Granny...I have a child and as human beings we tend to relax caus we don't expect the worst...May Granny forgive herself also❣❣

  • @tiyiselanin
    @tiyiselanin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sending you so much love mommy ❤️❤️❤️. May you please continue healing.

  • @nonhlanhlamoyo8136
    @nonhlanhlamoyo8136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oooh nkos yami, pray cc, am feeling your pain, am sorry dear😭😭😭, Lebo you are a strong woman, may you be lifted high by God 🙏

  • @0766125189
    @0766125189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so heartbreaking. No parent should go through that. Strength to you sister

  • @nkule2493
    @nkule2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is the most difficult and painful episode I've watched on this channel as a result when the notification came through yesterday I dismissed it😭💔💔. As a mom, I cannot fathom the pain she went through.

  • @LoveyMtshali
    @LoveyMtshali ปีที่แล้ว

    The worst pain ever.had a near drowning at our home pool with my near 2yr old grandchild.i thank God I listened to a voice that said I shouldn't go to work n also drive back to cancel the ap I had.arriving home I found her floating in the pool after asking several time about her whereabouts.i did resuscitation myself before driving to hospital. Tx God she survived nd she's 100% restored.i pray for ur healing dear.its a journey I'll never forget since it happened last year in Aug.Great strength to u nd ur family

    • @LoveyMtshali
      @LoveyMtshali ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks to Linksfield clinic staff nd paramedic nd garden city clinic medical team

    • @LoveyMtshali
      @LoveyMtshali ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel ur pain.may God give u the inner most peace.i still cry to date thinking of this.

  • @feliciamolepo6727
    @feliciamolepo6727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tjoooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭she's taking me back to when i found out my brother was no more this is the hardest thing ever💔💔💔
    May God be her strength and eternal peace ❤️❤️

  • @sibongilemakubu9187
    @sibongilemakubu9187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was extremely painful to watch 💔 I pray she heals.

  • @boikhutsoonline3834
    @boikhutsoonline3834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was hard to watch as it literally hits home. I know exactly how she feels. It's hard, it's a nightmare..... We move but it ain't easy. God be with us. Burying a child literally kills u😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @asiveangel4940
    @asiveangel4940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Oh, this is touching😔😔

    • @tyrone3858
      @tyrone3858 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heartbreaking really 💔

  • @beemapo
    @beemapo 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Came here from tiktok clip and l wanted to hear the full story.

  • @reflioekheswa6314
    @reflioekheswa6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am so sorry may God continue to strengthen you

  • @sunrise7640
    @sunrise7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The 9 people that have already disliked this video should come here and explain to us what is so bad about this video!!!

  • @gugukhumalo9313
    @gugukhumalo9313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Askies mama Chuma, may God hold you together ❤️ May God and her spirit continue to be your strength.

  • @sharonshiba6548
    @sharonshiba6548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No mother deserves this 😭 I pray for strength and healing to you Mama 🙏🏾
    Where was the father of the child 💔 yangu mama yedwa 😞

  • @Emmalovesdogsandcats
    @Emmalovesdogsandcats ปีที่แล้ว

    She narratea the story so well. Her beautiful daughter is smilling in heaven. Does anyone know what name and surname this lady uses on Facebook. I cannot wait for her book. This woman's sorrow just touched me so much

  • @juliandube6808
    @juliandube6808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reading this as a mom who lost her daughter also in drowning I cant even know what to say honestly

  • @nonkululekothabethe1739
    @nonkululekothabethe1739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can relate to that feeling why I was picked up from work when my daughter passed away 😥I dont know what's going but u feel something in you dying 💔

  • @mantwamadiba4715
    @mantwamadiba4715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh Monica, I’m so sorry. This is too much. May Jehovah continue to comfort you. No parent should go through this. 🫂🫂🫂💔💔💔

  • @Miranda-hf5hu
    @Miranda-hf5hu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so painful man💔I'm literally crying...

  • @ngwanabadimo9793
    @ngwanabadimo9793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still think about this episode. I remember I couldn't stop crying.😭😭💔 It still makes me sad. Well narrated. Love and light mommy ❤❤❤

  • @phyllismagunde5844
    @phyllismagunde5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very important lesson for all of us. The swimming pool must always be protected, walled and gated under lock and key or completely covered ALL the time.

  • @_RuuM
    @_RuuM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So heartbreaking 💔💔 I pray Sis’Monica finds healing 🥺💔♥️

    • @mantwamadiba4715
      @mantwamadiba4715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How does she even begin to heal but that’s all we can pray for. Shame man 🫂🫂🫂💔💔💔💔