I spent my 20’s with an old white man and I paid heavily for it. Here is my message to young girls

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +411

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    • @lonitenten
      @lonitenten 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mentioned how you lived: Bird in a Golden Cage. He will have to pay for his does. Nursed his Mom.The Previous Girlfriends where clever. Caregiver to brother. He did not marry you. So you have no shares from him for the 10yrs.with him. This reminds me of Slavery.

    • @jeniffermuthoni9752
      @jeniffermuthoni9752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😊😊😊😊

    • @karehat5241
      @karehat5241 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The set is beautiful 💯. Honestly I thought u ve not come back from states😆.

    • @Becky370
      @Becky370 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Watching it later 😮😮but better late than never

    • @namzysims334
      @namzysims334 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Hi Lynn your loyal Zambian fun here😍 I really enjoyed today's episode after a long time infact I stopped watching your life changing videos/stories because sometimes Swahili is too much and no English sub titles. I loved the fact that Rose is fluent in English and spoke it 99% of the time.❤
      My take home is that there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
      Sorry for the long comment am off to give Rose a ka subscription on her channel 😊

  • @AGNES-jd6hy
    @AGNES-jd6hy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1279

    After 3 years of graduating from University ( MUK ) I still didn't have a job I went fir a conference in Nairobi, 3 white men I met there were following me up for sex but I rejected all of them. , after the conference one from America followed me and my colleagues up to Uganda with expectation of spending a night with me but I took him to a safe hotel went home and all the days he spent in my country I took him around and when he was leaving, he insulted me of how poor I was without a job but refused him and that no woman have ever rejected him.
    But I told him that when time comes for me to travel to America I will but without complaining my body and faith in Christ.
    As I make this comment now I am in America, Glory to God and forever walking with my Savior.

    • @lovelyone98
      @lovelyone98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @AGNES-jd6hy I am happy for you.

    • @donethmiller1963
      @donethmiller1963 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Stood your grounds girl.

    • @AGNES-jd6hy
      @AGNES-jd6hy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @lovelyone98 sweetheart when we honor the great way maker , we have no room for compromise.

    • @one-G-row
      @one-G-row 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Wow good you kept your values

    • @osuizugbechioma4687
      @osuizugbechioma4687 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Glorrrrrrrrrry be to God

  • @francaneizer7129
    @francaneizer7129 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +654

    I can relate...a dated a white guy. He was 29 and I was 21. I left with nothing after 6/7 years. I was lucky I really educated myself with my own money from the little I was getting from my employer.
    Now, I own my own house, car and 2 master degrees, taking care of 7 orphans by only trusting God with my life.

    • @gentrixkhatenje8907
      @gentrixkhatenje8907 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    • @TheRonoTV2024
      @TheRonoTV2024 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Because you got into a relationship with a goal of getting material benefits.
      That is where the point of departure was.

    • @shesblack8917
      @shesblack8917 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Good news is captivating 😊

    • @starj5114
      @starj5114 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@TheRonoTV2024she was 21… what were you looking for at 21?

    • @63rambler66
      @63rambler66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      When dating ends, the normal thing is to “leave with nothing.”

  • @PaulineGatonye-l5u
    @PaulineGatonye-l5u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I know Rose from childhood, it's true what she's saying. A humble and resilient girl.. He r heart is the same, jolly and humble.

  • @flaviageki5595
    @flaviageki5595 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +644

    Rose is so pretty Oh My. You cant even tell she is 45yrs old. a beauty to behold and so well spoken and well spirited.

  • @maggiem8869
    @maggiem8869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +337

    This is the best story i have heard from a lady.She is honest and wants others to learn❤She has a bright star and destiny

    • @perrycherrycreatives
      @perrycherrycreatives 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree 💯%

    • @MiriamMakina-x6v
      @MiriamMakina-x6v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true 😊😊❤she is teaching us for sure.

  • @vivienneadala1429
    @vivienneadala1429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    Thank you Lynn for not interrupting. Your interview skills are excellent!

  • @vivianhinzano2967
    @vivianhinzano2967 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +249

    She Has Healed Through Accepting Her Mistakes . A Beautiful Soul ❤

  • @shemilaalexander8765
    @shemilaalexander8765 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +296

    The wrong romantic partner can cause mental health issues

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      interesting and it affect your self esteem and mental health..

    • @Jackie-lm2sc
      @Jackie-lm2sc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Not only that it can even cause you to look old yet you are young...machoz

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Jackie-lm2sc exactly..

    • @missmokwena
      @missmokwena 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just imagine ​@@Jackie-lm2sc

    • @G.Turaco
      @G.Turaco 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My ex partner from Spain, we had a long distance relationship, treated me so bad, and another is I developed mental health issues and an eating disorder, I'm healing but it's hard some times, cause I am alone, but I'm trying my best. And that man, never supported me. And the whole time he was travelling around and seeing other men. Now I don't trust Spanish men. He told me, he hopes I get abandoned and that my visa to EU should be refused, I'm stupid, evil, a bitch and I became those things, but I cast out his demons. And I know he still attempts to do harm, steal etc to me spiritually with his flying monkeys. But God is to good.

  • @brendangonyama
    @brendangonyama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    A beautiful young lady who had seen it all, and managed to pick herself up, I am proud of you my dear, you managed to Rise Above your Storms

  • @aggiebaibe6494
    @aggiebaibe6494 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +382

    This lady is so eloquent. God is so powerful. He changed her story.

    • @mariamsaid2014
      @mariamsaid2014 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Eloquent 😂😂😂

    • @mariamsaid2014
      @mariamsaid2014 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very eloquent I ❤️

    • @suziecutecute6274
      @suziecutecute6274 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You took this comment from my mouth 😊

    • @aggiebaibe6494
      @aggiebaibe6494 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@suziecutecute6274 💕

    • @christinegitonga5826
      @christinegitonga5826 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      very eloquent,,was waiting for her to mix languages ako sawa

  • @rahabnganga2793
    @rahabnganga2793 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +754

    I wish our girls would listen to Rose and know that a controlling man is a controlling man regardless of the color

    • @hannahGateru-t5z
      @hannahGateru-t5z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      That's so true colour doesn't matter !!

    • @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm
      @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      A controlling woman is a controlling woman, no matter the economic situation.

    • @evelynlyimo1557
      @evelynlyimo1557 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ,,watch a controlling 😅😅😅 woman in 90 days fiancé, happily ever after,,Angie and Mike, ​@@WAVELENGTH-tp1tm

    • @puritymugo8153
      @puritymugo8153 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Everyone have their own battles, you can't fight anyone battle,Rose fought hers

    • @p.be.s
      @p.be.s 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The catch word is 'regardless' of color or age.

  • @mathengenduhiu1580
    @mathengenduhiu1580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    It's Nyambura's eloquence for me. Nyambura storytelling is your gift. Listening to you tell your story in flawless English I'm tempted to think you went to top tier schools, which I doubt given your childhood challenges. Amazing.

  • @ednawanjiku9808
    @ednawanjiku9808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    This lady is extra candid, am impressed!! shez not ashamed of her past... God surely looks at the desires of our hearts,she finally got a genuine mzungu husband 🎉🎉🎉🎉it's the turn around by God for me..may God's name be glorified...

  • @carolineshivoche885
    @carolineshivoche885 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I was bound in poverty until when i turned 40 is when i saw breakthrough. Now i am climbing stairs one by one. Patient is good. Please girls trust the Lord and stop this chasing money thing. Its until God says yes. I am now enjoying life after living in slums for decates. When i visit kenya i have to go to Lynn ngugi and niongee initike kwa roho.

    • @BernetaIndeche
      @BernetaIndeche 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I need to hear more from you and I don't know why😢😢

  • @geraldineolubayo2924
    @geraldineolubayo2924 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    The new set is warm and homely

  • @lilberhane3233
    @lilberhane3233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    Im an 🇪🇷 Eritrean and i ❤ this show alot.thank you dear lynn watched your shows since tuko times ❤❤❤❤

    • @carolineg101
      @carolineg101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      First time to see someone confess being from Eritrea

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@carolineg101 what do u mean by saying dat please?

    • @naomymose1866
      @naomymose1866 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks Africa we are sisters and we learn from stories shared

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@naomymose1866 well said dear Asante sana

    • @angelineowade2650
      @angelineowade2650 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow

  • @miriamkyalikola
    @miriamkyalikola 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    That old man needs to find you and apologize to you. I hate it when foreigners mistreat Africans from their own countries. And I love that you rebuked his curses over your life, and that you spoke blessings. Words do create. I'm happy with how well your life turned out. Blessings to your kind husband.
    Lastly, I think Africa is the most beautiful place on earth. I only want to leave Uganda just to visit other countries, but I wouldn't want to settle anywhere else.

  • @shesblack8917
    @shesblack8917 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Just learnt that financial freedom is the best thing any lady can have ...Also respecting ourselves as ladies will help us do away with disrespect from others ...Captivating story ❤

  • @MaryMutegi-j2g
    @MaryMutegi-j2g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Rose has such a sweet and kind soul! Her resilience is outstanding and has such positive energy. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @blessedassurance4743
    @blessedassurance4743 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    That man can be sued nd pay for that Lady! SHE deserve afair case! Judgment should be set up for her!

  • @milly_demilla1017
    @milly_demilla1017 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Very honest - owns the story to the true facts . Not playing victim at all - puts the story as it is . Thanks Rose for your time and honesty. Pure lessons learned. ❤

  • @jeanineainscough6698
    @jeanineainscough6698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    My heart goes out to Rose. No judgement. We all make mistakes. She's a smart, strong lady. ❤

  • @cristalclear2499
    @cristalclear2499 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I feel like wanting to take revenge on her behalf on that taka taka musungu, but l am being reminded that vengeance if for the Lord. Pole sister Rose.

  • @njerilinda
    @njerilinda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    This is the most honest interview av watched, the lady was just young and naive. She fell for the white guy thinking it's her key to success, just like any other young girl would do.

  • @j.omondi5826
    @j.omondi5826 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +273

    Her exit from her marriage to me is the epitome of strength and grace.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And walked away empty handed 😢

    • @ekachuks7481
      @ekachuks7481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly

    • @DenelsiaWalker
      @DenelsiaWalker 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. She is rich. She walked away with herself, her sanity, and she has creativity in her DNA. 💯
      ​@@bellaolum9768

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Epitome of racist..who light skin kids and think thy will automatically get cuscasian privilege..stick 2 u own..lol

    • @beverleyhamilton4588
      @beverleyhamilton4588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Walking away is your peace🎉

  • @hatgrabba
    @hatgrabba 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Just when I thought life was hard on me here is this queen beautiful story. May the man above continues to bless us all.

  • @rose_wangari
    @rose_wangari 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Omg, why am I crying. Acheni Mungu aitwe Mungu, what He can’t do doesn’t exist 😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    To you Jehovah be all the glory, honour and all adoration 🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️

  • @AfroKingExplorer
    @AfroKingExplorer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +325

    The obsession of Kenyan women with the white man is just mind blowing to me. I have no idea what they see in the white man!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @AfroKingExplorer
      @AfroKingExplorer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      @@Only1Othello not the whole of Africa or East Africa! Kenya is unique in this. Tanzanians and Rwandans women don’t seem to be that obsessed with white men!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@AfroKingExplorer I would agree with your statement, however see similar behaviors and actions when I’m in those countries, however on a smaller and short term scale.

    • @sheriamwangala
      @sheriamwangala 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      It’s also an obsession of white men with the black women. It’s both ways

  • @katebrown878
    @katebrown878 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    WOW! Thanks a million my sister for sharing your painful life story, it is really a powerful lesson for young African women. She who has ears let her hear the voice of Roses. God bless you all😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @Priscillangaa182
    @Priscillangaa182 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    My take home whoever signs the Cheque, keeps you in check ❤

    • @therese2148
      @therese2148 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Only if you allow it! I am with a white guy. I am fat, and when he tried talking about my body, I lectured him to size. Never mind that he pays all the bills, gives me about - 3,000 euros spouse allowance monthly. We are all different, insecurities allows bs in a relationship.

    • @merxg.creative
      @merxg.creative 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Correct 💯

    • @EliananJenny
      @EliananJenny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@therese2148You lucky

    • @James-y7i6d
      @James-y7i6d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@therese2148 the fact that you talked about it is an issue. 3k euros is not money in Europe but for sure it's a fortune when you convert to KES. Good luck 👍!

    • @LatifaSue
      @LatifaSue 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@therese2148gives 3000 euros??? J think you are lieing 😮

  • @joknyte8215
    @joknyte8215 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +542

    traveling the world I’m realizing Africa is the most beautiful and truest place in the world.

  • @godsgirlpodcast
    @godsgirlpodcast 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Rose!! You look 30!! You don't look 45yrs at all!! Girl, in as much as you have lost a lot..... you still are restored and glowing!! ♥♥

  • @eunicemoko5272
    @eunicemoko5272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +620

    You lost your 10 years, but God never left your side

    • @akotheffie8087
      @akotheffie8087 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      She looks 20 years younger though

    • @naturerazzi7shi495
      @naturerazzi7shi495 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@@akotheffie8087True. She's still very pretty for her age.

    • @clementineonami
      @clementineonami 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@naturerazzi7shi495 how old is she

    • @stefane7374
      @stefane7374 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Our Lord Jesus is every time whit us. Just call him 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Ubhntu3789
      @Ubhntu3789 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@clementineonami 45. She looks 35.

  • @jaywilint.5408
    @jaywilint.5408 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    There is something special about this lady. Bless you

  • @m.mirimv.r6450
    @m.mirimv.r6450 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    WOW! All I can say is WOW! Loved her testimony! Thank you for sharing.

  • @beatricekinyua3952
    @beatricekinyua3952 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +592

    love how she has owned up instead of playing victim big up for educating young girl may they listen

    • @extremeinteriors
      @extremeinteriors 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She's a game changer

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's why I love about listening her story more and more because she own up to it 💯 percent.because there so many women still trapped to such relationship and marriages without courage to step out

    • @ngulubeprincess5009
      @ngulubeprincess5009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Its refreshing to lusten to simeone who owns their mistakes. Its difficult to judge a person like that!

    • @inspektasikujua
      @inspektasikujua 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly, and I think it shows that if you keep doing good and the right thing, the universe will bring you good things. And importantly to keep learning and growing so that you are ready for the blessings when they come

    • @gordonomondi7161
      @gordonomondi7161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We came into this world with nothing and shall take nothing after our death. EARTHLY LIFE AND ITS MATERIAL WEALTH IS TEMPORARY.

  • @dooshimagbahabo2533
    @dooshimagbahabo2533 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +547

    Whoever signs the cheque, keeps you in check.

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dooshimagbahabo2533 That's right 👍🏼

    • @visioncakehouse9923
      @visioncakehouse9923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      That has hit me hard😢😢

    • @catherinewanjiku4754
      @catherinewanjiku4754 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True

    • @miriamsmith1478
      @miriamsmith1478 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Only if they are the controlling type without the fear of the creator!

    • @NaomysAllinclusiveWorld
      @NaomysAllinclusiveWorld 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Correct

  • @dorahmlangeni729
    @dorahmlangeni729 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm a South African woman, listening and watching your story. Wow! What a strong woman you are. You are also a good storyteller❤. My heart goes to you, my dear

  • @euniceketer7676
    @euniceketer7676 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    Its her little cute smile for me whenever she wants to throw in a joke.
    She is so enthusiastic 🌻

    • @ah-jack5352
      @ah-jack5352 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its true :)

    • @mercylizkyalo
      @mercylizkyalo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've really laughed 😂😂

    • @refilwelephoto4154
      @refilwelephoto4154 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Literally she had me cracking up when she laughed telling her stories. I found this story on a whim and I didn’t think I’d watch the entire 2+ hours and here I am. She’s HILARIOUS

  • @EdwardW-p5i
    @EdwardW-p5i 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    This lady speaks fluently in English. Beautiful and with a good heart.

  • @katukat6328
    @katukat6328 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Her story is a six in one story. So much to learn...amazing

  • @tytyeric6651
    @tytyeric6651 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

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      @stevenaustin3853 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

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      @CHELSJAMES 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @HarrisonKelly-rs6is 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @ugochihelen6910 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @hannabas8198
      @hannabas8198 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow

  • @glowtechvisuals6176
    @glowtechvisuals6176 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I refused an old muzungu when i was 28yr, I desired a man in my age group and I thank God I made that decision. This is very helpful. Such men portray old retired life yet you are young and energetic.

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Love is what you make it. Its not the age gap but getting that man/woman who is chemically compatible to you. Young and old alike.

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@julieryatim7802 it is about age gap. Big age gaps sucks the youth out of the younger person especially as the already old gts older and older. Let's not act like it's not about age. Most of us young women want to be with and have sex with men our age or a little bit oldee

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Brandiisbeloved If it was only about sex then many young couples wouldn't get divorce or separate. Yet you find in that age gap many separate. In my 60 years of experience, I have come to the conclusion that it is not about age but about finding a soulmate.

    • @glowtechvisuals6176
      @glowtechvisuals6176 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@julieryatim7802 yes, but they leave you early and when you ae older you go for younger men

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @julieryatim7802 I can't knock you if that's what you came to the conclusion of. And I never said anything about it only being about sex but about young women usually wanting to be with men around or age or a little bit older. That's it

  • @robinahauma
    @robinahauma 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She’s such a great storyteller, thank you for sharing Rose

  • @Yimishe
    @Yimishe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    Some of these older men in big age gap relationships exert almost all the characteristics that Rose mentioned: Selfishness, weird sexual proclivities, stinginess, scarcity mindset, cheating, jealousy, ED, body shaming, dream thieving, mental and emotional abuse simply because deep down they know they don’t deserve the younger and more attractive women that they are with! I hate poverty because sometimes it leads people to these horrible situations. Poverty is of the devil and don’t nobody come here and say not all poor people resort to old mzungus to escape it. Each situation is different! Glad Rose found a good man in the end

    • @adoumpmoussah939
      @adoumpmoussah939 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Love doesnt have rule to follow.
      How many young men and women are in divorce court?

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The whole truth !! That most don’t want to hear.

    • @juliusnjure
      @juliusnjure 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@gracekimani9771 look for an old white guy

    • @cutie4766
      @cutie4766 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sadly most of our young black men are like this 🤷🏽‍♀️.

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juliusnjure l have already a few of them aging 97 l can’t be jealous to give you one 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @wanjanjubi
    @wanjanjubi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Team LNN silent followers ❤❤❤
    Hello Lynn😊❤
    Let me now listen......

  • @Joylynw
    @Joylynw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "Nyambura, why are you walking like a man?" 😂😂😂😂got me...
    Rose you are beautiful in and out... The future is bright... We are not defined by who gave birth to us and which tribe we come from because that was not our choice... May God favour and expand you

  • @marionmuturi5283
    @marionmuturi5283 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    She's such a good narrator. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to the show. So many young girls get lost along the way. I've seen it here in coast😢.

    • @lilyann4505
      @lilyann4505 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The English is 👌👌👌👌

  • @reitaEbohon
    @reitaEbohon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    The family was in on it. They just wanted a permanent free house maid.

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yep

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And care taker .. it's expensive to hire a nurse and a maid . They all running to Africa to get a poor woman to turn into their slaves . They love freee ish

    • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
      @tannygodisbeautiful9690 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT TOO..... THE MAN GOT USE OF HER BODY AND THE MOTHER GOT HER SERVICE THE KNEW .., THATS OYIBO FOR YOU TRICKSTERS

    • @evelynhephi1889
      @evelynhephi1889 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes! They planned it. That why they travelled.

    • @zakwishaable
      @zakwishaable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My thoughts as well

  • @SurprisedGorge-ym1it
    @SurprisedGorge-ym1it 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, Rose 🌹. I am a Namibian based in Germany 🇩🇪. We learn a lot.

  • @teresiamuthoni4650
    @teresiamuthoni4650 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Whoever signs the cheque keeps you in check ✔️.That hit hard Thank you for the courage of opening up and educating us as awhole.bless your heart .

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I like her voice and how she's narrating the story systematically 👏

    • @anneanne8822
      @anneanne8822 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well composed

    • @Anny4700
      @Anny4700 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She’s warm, pleasant personality and very likeable

  • @SbongilepatienceMphakathi
    @SbongilepatienceMphakathi วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lynn Ngugi am 53yrs old now not married but l dont have problem with that god will provide me with someone l have 2kids boy n the gal.

  • @dontatme42
    @dontatme42 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    She has it all. Peace, Beauty, Etiquette, and Love. Sister you have everything that God wanted you have. ❤️

  • @blessedgirl444
    @blessedgirl444 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    The set looks homely, warm & cosy

  • @anthoniaogbera6944
    @anthoniaogbera6944 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Rose is witty, intelligent eloquent and with an amiable disposition. Her candour is endearing. Hopefully she should adopt

  • @MburawaUK
    @MburawaUK 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +265

    Wazungu have become wise, the mothers are even going an extra mile looking for black women to marry their sons, but the end game is for the girl to be the caregiver of the mother and family members as time progress. Think before you entangle yourself with modern day slavery in the name of I am married to mzungu.

    • @auntiemylee3157
      @auntiemylee3157 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes nawadays the use love to manipulate

    • @henrythiongo8297
      @henrythiongo8297 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Avoidance to pay care givers...

    • @joshuaombaka3116
      @joshuaombaka3116 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@henrythiongo8297 hahahahahaaaa! It is expensive ooooh. Do you know it is African immigrants that even work in care homes.

    • @naturerazzi7shi495
      @naturerazzi7shi495 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      The mum was evil just like her son. If she was kind she would have been paying her chini ya maji . She was a user too!

    • @Ethiopia890
      @Ethiopia890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly 💯 they do !

  • @JoyceWangui
    @JoyceWangui 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Her eloquence and her delivery is absolutely incredible…… we go through life’s hardships so that we can educate others…. I am proud of the woman she is because she is using this platform to educate and create awareness….. her honesty is also what has opened other doors for her
    Child abuse should also not be overlooked as I am sure if she received love, her choices would have been different
    I will her more love and success

  • @rispertanui6024
    @rispertanui6024 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That man was a “serial killer “ the way he treated women

  • @lifeisthebestteacher
    @lifeisthebestteacher 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Great how Rose is speaking about a difficult subject with humour, looking casual and with a big smile on her face. You are indeed extraordinary. Wish you well. Cannot imagine how you do what you do Rose. Your courage is frightening. 65 vs 24. Transactional??? If these older men cannot approach young girls in their country of origin, what does that say to our young girls on the African Continent? Selling one's soul for money is the worst form of abuse. But that's just my view. People can do as they please, but consequences of making wrong decisions are eternally traumatic.

    • @monikam9069
      @monikam9069 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Several million of Black women in United States , they also lust White males. but not old ones

  • @mrembo777
    @mrembo777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    She speaks so eloquently! For once I watched the show in 1 sitting. You are a Mother to many Rose 🥰❤❤❤

  • @mutuwairene6897
    @mutuwairene6897 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Such a strong inspiring Lady. Well done Rose

  • @minajose6602
    @minajose6602 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Rose is ageing like fine wine ❤❤❤

    • @bosslady9167
      @bosslady9167 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old is she?

    • @joyngai7802
      @joyngai7802 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@bosslady9167to my calculations she's 45 yrs

    • @purpleeyessmith4151
      @purpleeyessmith4151 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bosslady9167 45

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bosslady916745!!

  • @catherineusiri744
    @catherineusiri744 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Am a Zimbabwean abroad and your story has opened my eyes as a single woman. Hugs Rose.

  • @ifeyinwank6570
    @ifeyinwank6570 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Rose for sharing your story. I hope it helps younger women who are on the same path

  • @sarahn4468
    @sarahn4468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    At 45 Rose, people maybe able to get a child with God’s Grace. Don’t completely give up because you are not yet 50 years of age. Be blessed Rose and Thank you Lynn for this purposeful talk.

    • @isabellopes890
      @isabellopes890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Amen

    • @joannemuturi_purposecultivator
      @joannemuturi_purposecultivator 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Best comment ever!!

    • @JesusChristSaves4ever
      @JesusChristSaves4ever 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Even with 60, they still have children. My neighbor born her girl at the age of 60... she was so excited, and as a German woman, they believed and told by gynaecologist that 45yrs is limited time.
      And they forgot that God is the father of all creation.

    • @yvonneodul8291
      @yvonneodul8291 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People now even get babies at 60 years

    • @ruthn9381
      @ruthn9381 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Even in the 50s she still has a chance.

  • @jemimahgeoff8892
    @jemimahgeoff8892 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    She is a good story teller 😅😅❤❤ smart gal.. thanks Lynn for bringing her here..

  • @kingdomelegance4884
    @kingdomelegance4884 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Enjoyed the program God bless you , I shall definitely buy the book and read it ❤

  • @ngatiasusan6954
    @ngatiasusan6954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    Aki umaskini ni mbaya😢 the kind of entanglement we get ourselves in due to financial favours , God have mercy...mwanamke kuwa na pesa zake na kazi yake ni muhimu sana. No one will take advantage of you..lakini the way Rose is putting her story inabidi msee acheke..a good story teller

    • @Amira1977-y
      @Amira1977-y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      POVERTY MATTERS!!!!! AND WE AFRICANS, WE THINK ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE GOOD AND RICH!!!

    • @tinachris88
      @tinachris88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I agree, ladies we need to be financial independent.

    • @Amira1977-y
      @Amira1977-y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tinachris88EXACTLY!!!!

    • @lydianyagucha3527
      @lydianyagucha3527 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      6😢​@@tinachris88

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Amira1977-yTruee

  • @JudyWanjiruMburu-kf3pc
    @JudyWanjiruMburu-kf3pc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    Lynn....you really need to invite Benjamin Zulu to discuss the issue of Narcissistic relationships. These people are do dangerous and are from the pit of hell! I was married to one for 27 years and i cannot say this enough. I bless the Lord for another lease of life. I am now rebuilding my life in the UK and this is not what i envisioned for my life in my 50s. I pray women will open their inner eyes when making important life decisions coz red flags are always there from start but we choose to ignore them

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢

    • @wacukaruth5885
      @wacukaruth5885 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Wah God is great. This narcissist should be kept lead of. I had one for 8yrs now am free from that hell.

    • @princesspink85
      @princesspink85 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Never look back. God will make up for that time spent ...You will realise, those yrs were never lost. Instead, realise, God has given you freedom🙏

    • @jacqueMush
      @jacqueMush 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is well with you Rose,thank you for enlighten8ng our young girls.Wanjiru,siuniconnect na mimi nicome kuhustle huko haki,am a widow struggling with life hapa Kenya,almost your agemate dear.i

    • @Bella_unscripted
      @Bella_unscripted 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's really terrible just came out of a relationship with one,I thank God everyday that I'm even alive

  • @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797
    @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Its not only with wazungus... even our own men don't us to own anything.... talking ,out of my own experience.......😢😢😢😢

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I was ready to cry with a stranger today but I have laughed a lot..Rose is funny and well outspoken
    I am happy to have listened to her story and I have learned a lot of lessons...Thanks Lynn for today's episode

    • @dinnerideas1626
      @dinnerideas1626 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is😂😂😂😂 kwanza that part for ‘bibi ya mzungu with only 200 bob’ 😂😂😂

  • @Rhenadhis
    @Rhenadhis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I watched her story in 3 parts on her channel and i loved how she takes accountability but cried with her over the pain of her loss and just how poverty can set people up for a bad hand in life.
    Lynn i absolutely love your new set, the colours and interior styling pieces are GORGEOUS. I feel like an area of improvement could be the choice of seats for your set, maybe think about one seaters in whatever form (armchairs or sofas) and the placement of those one seaters that both you and the guests can sit on and relax posibly facing each other as you conversate, you normally don't look relaxed when you sit up straight without being able to have back support; it feels like the conversation needs to happen in a hurry so that you all leave

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you she doesn't look relaxed also not leaning properly on the seat

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What's her channel name?

    • @neomoloi1637
      @neomoloi1637 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is her channel name?

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@neomoloi1637 Rosy Blogs

    • @Rhenadhis
      @Rhenadhis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@neomoloi1637 Rose Blogger

  • @evelynaziebu8573
    @evelynaziebu8573 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Try the IVF again, this time it will work. Hope is not lost. God is with you.

    • @sudanesgal
      @sudanesgal 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She got her womb removed

  • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
    @user-wr9fn4ny4i 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Girl, iam kenyan man living in usa, what you have said towards the end of this show is totally true. Let those who have ears hear.

  • @jcmoryeige1919
    @jcmoryeige1919 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The honest and humbleness has really lifted you life Rose.Thanks for sharing your life journey transactions very inspiring 🙏

  • @sylviatiyoy9891
    @sylviatiyoy9891 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Rose thank you for being so real. My the good lord restore all you have lost in ways He Himself know.

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Rose, you are beautiful. Well done for educating girls and young women. Do not beat yourself about the mistakes of the past, because we all have done things that we wish we did differently. May God make you fruitful in all you do in life 🙏🏾.

  • @mariont2961
    @mariont2961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +461

    Truth be told, so many old Muzungus come to Africa to get young girls because they want to get caretakers because they don't want to be put in the Nursing old homes back home. And they know that in Africa, families stay and care for their old people at home, and they also know that so many girls see white men as a ticket to a great life abroad. So they spoil them with gifts and fancy life here which is small money compared to the abroad life. Listening to Rose's story, that man wanted a permanent free housemaid and caretaker for his brother and his elderly parents, and Rose being a naive teenager, became an easy victim. I watched her story on her youtube channel, and I really felt so sad for her. We love you Rose❤. Keep up the good work Lynn

    • @Faith-august..
      @Faith-august.. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Thats true… that man wanted a caretaker to aid his elder parents and brother for free and rose being ayoung gal she was easily manpulated…

    • @julianjagi6317
      @julianjagi6317 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      1

    • @ab5905
      @ab5905 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Correct

    • @marieheiss6560
      @marieheiss6560 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's it, that's the way it moves with these old muzungus also age from mid 50's.... some of them do travell to afrika for young ladies so that they have someone to nurse them for free at home when at retire approaching old age, at nursing homes it's damn expensive many can't afford.True, many of them are not after true love but after someone to be there for them when are old age, ladies out there chungeni! All that glitters it's not gold!😜, many of these wazungus travell to several poor countries for young ladies, countries like, South Amerika, Thailand, Dominika Republik, Afrika, the ladies are more easy goers once approached by the muzungus!!😝😜

    • @joyk3070
      @joyk3070 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      You said the truth. I feel sorry for those young girls in diani walking so proudly with old men. Here in Europe I have never seen a young girl with old mzungu. I guess the mzungu's are dumped once they land here😅

  • @dooshimagbahabo2533
    @dooshimagbahabo2533 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Rose, you are so real, honest and plain. Your laughter is infectious despite all. God bless you

  • @aggieakia3577
    @aggieakia3577 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Linn, lots of love from Uganda Kampala. Thanks for the good work you are doing .

  • @SalaMule85
    @SalaMule85 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This story just goes to say we always need to pray for direction. Let God guide our paths and let him lead us to where our destinies will find fulfilment. Rose said if she could turn back time…she wouldn’t even have gone to that house to work….
    May God lead us all to where we are destined to be. It’s not about relocating,it’s about being in the place you are called to be.
    I have been blessed by God to travel the world and I know how important it is being in a place where you are called to be.
    God bless you lynn

  • @mercymaina8031
    @mercymaina8031 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    She's such a good story teller. Also very educative.

  • @julietkhamasi535
    @julietkhamasi535 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Rose is a jewel
    She’s truly beautiful both inside out
    She’s been extremely truthful and encouraging

  • @geoffreymukwaya6892
    @geoffreymukwaya6892 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What a wonderful story told by a honest, insightful, generous, intelligent, funny and eloquent lady.

  • @MissOgake
    @MissOgake 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    She is so beautiful,kind of reminds me of Eunice Njeri.
    Amidst all the turmoils, huyu ako na nyota ya majuu buana😂😂😂😂😂.
    I am glad she met a man of her dreams

  • @studymasterguide
    @studymasterguide 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Very true, the best dentists and doctors are actually found in Kenya, period. Speaking from experience

  • @NakittoViola
    @NakittoViola 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow,Lynn this reminds of a family here in Uganda the lady got married toablack American who doesn't even allow the lady's mom to visit even if she does and just gets out and came back the man would tell the guard to ask who she was.Lynn these things really happen ,much love from 🇺🇬 Lynn nakupenda sana

  • @ST_Sandz
    @ST_Sandz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    Off topic...I love listening to Kenyans and Ugandans speak. The accent is beautiful ❤❤❤ Love it. 🇿🇦

    • @joankidon4626
      @joankidon4626 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😊😊

    • @MendyNaboy
      @MendyNaboy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sisonke

    • @namatovubrenda3261
      @namatovubrenda3261 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really 😊nice

    • @Rhenadhis
      @Rhenadhis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      And i'm a Kenyan who really loves hearing South Africans speak

    • @Deby95
      @Deby95 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      We are Africans ,we love each other❤😊

  • @mystiks1168
    @mystiks1168 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I enjoyed her a lot. She's soooo real, eloquent, detailed, intelligent & fuuny. Her story shows that God shows up for his children

  • @ChildofLightOfficial
    @ChildofLightOfficial 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing testimony. So true.. literally selling your soul to the devil which is a transactional contract, you gain the world but lose your soul. This is how the enemy works. It’s all deception you think you have everything when you have nothing. Master of deception and deceit. Put God first

  • @pri_254
    @pri_254 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Young ladies between 20 - 30, this is the time for you to prioritise the love of your life who is YOU. There are few things as freeing as having enough money to be self sufficient. Get an education , if you can't afford an education, learn a skill like doing nails, sewing, etc. And most important have faith in yourself and whatever God you believe in.

  • @kainikakidz63
    @kainikakidz63 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The mentality that mzungu will clear your problem. With a father or not it is good to affirm the kids and instill life principles from a young age.

  • @adrinenjenga9748
    @adrinenjenga9748 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am so happy despite losses God vindicated her!! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ Enjoy your best life Rose.

  • @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz
    @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The best interview I have watched from lnn. The lady is accountable for her mistake and very educative. I resonate with her as I am in my twenties and at that point where I feel that I messed up in between my high school and college years out of ignorance and it is affecting me right now. I agree with her on the twenties years are the most important on shaping ones life

    • @LwmsMo
      @LwmsMo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Messed up, too, but we must move forward.

  • @paulinemadiro
    @paulinemadiro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    She's an excellent orator,speaks good ,very funny and honest we all learn the hard way

    • @liliannakhumicha7952
      @liliannakhumicha7952 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so educational... thank you for speaking the truth which most people are not open to share. Be blessed Rose...you are such a lovely nice person.

  • @mercymusya8701
    @mercymusya8701 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Roses story just reminded me of some moments have passed through and still pushing hard to overcome... thanks Lynn for such lessons

    • @Iburayi
      @Iburayi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here 🙂🙂

  • @ojuoluwanwoo
    @ojuoluwanwoo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Rose please adopt a baby and he or she is yours forever. May you find unending peace

    • @okotray4577
      @okotray4577 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Adopting a baby is very expensive and requires the permission of the husband as well.

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you listen to he whole story? She said,,"Adoption is a calling" which means it's not not everyone who can adopt not due to financial status but are you going to love and treat the kid like your own even behind closed doors?

  • @floraselez
    @floraselez 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Wow ,Rose the blogger finally listening to your story once again, Thanks LYNN

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      " Rose the blogger"😂😂😂 I love it🙏🏽🙏🏽