Yep. Soul ties. Men don't take the time to heal and move on from relationships the right way. They just jump to the next. That's why they are still somewhat attached to women from their past. Tell you they love you and don't even know the real meaning of it. Also, sometimes their ex is dumb for them and will let them get away with anything. That person is easier for them to walk all over because they don't require anything of him as a man. Only weak men like that type of woman though.
Men jump from relationship to relationship just as much as women do. This was a good example of needing to heal before you deal with someone new, especially if his previous relationship was toxic. She should be glad he's out of her life because if he came from a toxic relationship without healing first he'll do the same thing to this young lady that he did to the other he was with for 4 years. If she was the toxic one, he'll start stuff with this new young lady to get her to act like the other so he could get the response he's used to. He is young, needs to heal first and probably get some counseling. You gave great advice as always.
Age has nothing to do with it, same thing happened to me and he was 45 years old and he went back to his ex. Actually the truth came out, she was never an ex, he was living a double life with the both of us. So to say he went back, truth be told the liar never left in the first place. He is with her now, left me with a baby holding the bag.
Same thing just happened to me just a month ago being with this Guy for 3 years. He's going 60th & he gets back with his ex wife While he was still in a whole nother relationship with me I Agree age doesn't matter & makes me feel that she was still his soul tied smh smh
The person I was with lovebomb me. Then 5 months in the relationship after he said he wanted to move forward did an immediate 360. He left and said he was never coming back over the cell. I believe now all along he was probably working to make it right with his last lady.
Thank you for doing your videos! I'm using them to their fullest potential to help me reach mine! My heart & mind already knows what is right, but hearing you say it helps validate the boundaries I have set to free myself from toxic "love". 💪
Thank you Mr. Tony for this video. This was my life from 17 to 24 years old. An you are right, it's an addition, but I feel it was more so on his end. He say it's love I tell him love does not hurt you like we have hurt each other 💔! He was my first and only person I've ever been with. I still love him, and have love for him. I just can not be unhappy or keep allowing his poor behavior anymore. Disrespect, Crying, fussing, fighting, sleepless night, stressing, more than having happiness, communicating, growth, understanding, real love, and get it right. Is not worth you fearing not having peace today, walking on eggshells or thing getting really out of hand to the point one day one of you really take it farther. Finally snap and someone lose their life it's not worth it. I finally understood this when I asked him would you hurt our children or allow someone else too? His answer was are you crazy? You know I don't even put my hands on our loves and he will NOT(he popped our oldest child once and her response to her father popping her was like her heart was hurt, tears, in her eyes he just could not take that feeling of disappointment from her towards him or her being because of him. He did not want her to feel that pain nor think it's okay for her to allow someone to mistreat her.) I said very calmly and simple, "then why would you hurt, an abuse, and mistreat their mother if you love me?" He had nothing to say, I never got an answer from him. But I understood in that moment. After a few I Packed our things and two children and left. Now I'm Healing, I'm learning, I'm understanding where I went wrong and I am not accepting it anymore. I have started discovering an amazing, special love for myself, and having peace. Thank you 😊 Mr. Tony for all that you do!!! You do not understand how much you are helping and blessings others!!!!! I pray God blesses you and your family beyond measure. Be bless 🙏🏽💚💪🏽
I was dating a guy for a few weeks. We both thought we'd never meet each other. We'd talk on the phone for 3-4hours. We could look into each other eyes for 30 minutes at a time w/o saying a word. We never slept together. Right before our 2nd date, his ex called. I told him something didn't feel right. He said I reminded him of her goofy & kindness. Never heard from him again after that. He was 29.
Too bad you used this platform to address the 23 year old...I wish you could have addressed her actual question of how he love bombed her and secretly her boyfriend went back to his ex. She could not compete with his soul tie. Yes, he tried to start a rebound relationship with her, but his heart was somewhere else. You were in a collateral relationship. You have to accept that he was never yours. His immaturity could not express his torn heart. But in the end he went to where his heart led him. Know that it had nothing to do with you. And what he does after the breakup is not your business. Move on find your soul tie!
Thank you. Question- I’m in a similar situation. He ghosted me, we haven’t talked since we broke up 2mo ago). Would it be okay for me to send him this Video or should I just let it go? (Both mid 30’s)
+TonyGaskins Hi, you said to tag him in this video, would it seem like I am being thirsty or desperate or giving him advice? I am going thru the same situation now with a guy.
Soul tie but don’t miss the sleep factors and job stress. The first question during a typical therapy assessment is When is the last time you have had a physical? He could have sleep apnea causing mood swings (constant shiftiness, irritability)You also mentioned drugs.. chemicals. Chemical imbalance which can sometimes be underlying cause of Dual Diagnosis( mental illness/addictions) occuring together.
My ex has been in and out of a roller coaster relationship the last 7 years. Every year, twice a year, same thing. I told him he had an addiction that it wasn't love. He's injured, down, not himself so he went back to the familiar pull and safety of the known. Something he has control over because he is always the one who decides and she always just waits. She hadnt been with anyone else since experiencing trauma 6 years ago. It's bad for both of them and her children.
Men over 35 still be full of games too
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 tell me about it.
Got one better than that, 60yr olds, still playing games too. Age doesn’t grow some people up.
Over 50 over 60
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Shidddd try over 50
Yep. Soul ties. Men don't take the time to heal and move on from relationships the right way. They just jump to the next. That's why they are still somewhat attached to women from their past. Tell you they love you and don't even know the real meaning of it. Also, sometimes their ex is dumb for them and will let them get away with anything. That person is easier for them to walk all over because they don't require anything of him as a man. Only weak men like that type of woman though.
That's amazingly accurate. And so true. Thankyou
My ex 45 and he went back to his so call ex so age ain't got nothing to do with it.
I agree!
Men jump from relationship to relationship just as much as women do. This was a good example of needing to heal before you deal with someone new, especially if his previous relationship was toxic. She should be glad he's out of her life because if he came from a toxic relationship without healing first he'll do the same thing to this young lady that he did to the other he was with for 4 years. If she was the toxic one, he'll start stuff with this new young lady to get her to act like the other so he could get the response he's used to. He is young, needs to heal first and probably get some counseling. You gave great advice as always.
Facts. Well said.
@@K1ddoh Thank you.
Age has nothing to do with it, same thing happened to me and he was 45 years old and he went back to his ex. Actually the truth came out, she was never an ex, he was living a double life with the both of us. So to say he went back, truth be told the liar never left in the first place. He is with her now, left me with a baby holding the bag.
Same thing just happened to me just a month ago being with this Guy for 3 years. He's going 60th & he gets back with his ex wife While he was still in a whole nother relationship with me I Agree age doesn't matter & makes me feel that she was still his soul tied smh smh
I agree, age has nothing to do with it. I know a man in his 50s that is still soul-tied to his ex!
The person I was with lovebomb me. Then 5 months in the relationship after he said he wanted to move forward did an immediate 360. He left and said he was never coming back over the cell. I believe now all along he was probably working to make it right with his last lady.
Same here
My ex 45 yrs old did same thing!!! Age dnt mean a thing!! GROWN BOYS AT ANY AGE!!!!HALLELUJAH!!!
Thank you for doing your videos! I'm using them to their fullest potential to help me reach mine! My heart & mind already knows what is right, but hearing you say it helps validate the boundaries I have set to free myself from toxic "love". 💪
“Soul tie” or a safety net / a lending support crutch? Is it love?
Thank you Mr. Tony for this video. This was my life from 17 to 24 years old. An you are right, it's an addition, but I feel it was more so on his end. He say it's love I tell him love does not hurt you like we have hurt each other 💔! He was my first and only person I've ever been with. I still love him, and have love for him. I just can not be unhappy or keep allowing his poor behavior anymore. Disrespect, Crying, fussing, fighting, sleepless night, stressing, more than having happiness, communicating, growth, understanding, real love, and get it right. Is not worth you fearing not having peace today, walking on eggshells or thing getting really out of hand to the point one day one of you really take it farther. Finally snap and someone lose their life it's not worth it. I finally understood this when I asked him would you hurt our children or allow someone else too? His answer was are you crazy? You know I don't even put my hands on our loves and he will NOT(he popped our oldest child once and her response to her father popping her was like her heart was hurt, tears, in her eyes he just could not take that feeling of disappointment from her towards him or her being because of him. He did not want her to feel that pain nor think it's okay for her to allow someone to mistreat her.) I said very calmly and simple, "then why would you hurt, an abuse, and mistreat their mother if you love me?" He had nothing to say, I never got an answer from him. But I understood in that moment. After a few I Packed our things and two children and left. Now I'm Healing, I'm learning, I'm understanding where I went wrong and I am not accepting it anymore. I have started discovering an amazing, special love for myself, and having peace. Thank you 😊 Mr. Tony for all that you do!!! You do not understand how much you are helping and blessings others!!!!! I pray God blesses you and your family beyond measure. Be bless 🙏🏽💚💪🏽
I was dating a guy for a few weeks. We both thought we'd never meet each other. We'd talk on the phone for 3-4hours. We could look into each other eyes for 30 minutes at a time w/o saying a word. We never slept together. Right before our 2nd date, his ex called. I told him something didn't feel right. He said I reminded him of her goofy & kindness. Never heard from him again after that. He was 29.
Did he ever come back around?
Too bad you used this platform to address the 23 year old...I wish you could have addressed her actual question of how he love bombed her and secretly her boyfriend went back to his ex. She could not compete with his soul tie. Yes, he tried to start a rebound relationship with her, but his heart was somewhere else. You were in a collateral relationship. You have to accept that he was never yours. His immaturity could not express his torn heart. But in the end he went to where his heart led him. Know that it had nothing to do with you. And what he does after the breakup is not your business. Move on find your soul tie!
Will him and his new gf work tho?:( it hurts that he went back to her means everything we had was meaningless
@Clara D No it wont. But that doesn’t mean he will come back to you either. Nothing lasts forever!
Thankyou tony! Great video
This one is sooooo relatable. I feel seen!
Be Blessed 😊
Be blessed Tony
Be blessed bro 😊thank you
Thank you.
Question- I’m in a similar situation. He ghosted me, we haven’t talked since we broke up 2mo ago). Would it be okay for me to send him this Video or should I just let it go? (Both mid 30’s)
Lol definitely DO NOT send him this video. Don't ever talk to him again.
Don’t play yourself
Let it go.
Why would you send him this video?
Thank you tony 🙏
Very deep! Wow
+TonyGaskins Hi, you said to tag him in this video, would it seem like I am being thirsty or desperate or giving him advice? I am going thru the same situation now with a guy.
I need advice
You said, “ugly” 😆 don’t say that Big Bro.
I met a man i am 44 he is 60 and same story soul tie he went go back to his ex on and off
Soul tie he has is so strong
Married 8 years. He went back to his ex. Dudes are just weird. We old af too.
Be blessed
How do you text him?
Soul tie but don’t miss the sleep factors and job stress. The first question during a typical therapy assessment is When is the last time you have had a physical? He could have sleep apnea causing mood swings (constant shiftiness, irritability)You also mentioned drugs.. chemicals. Chemical imbalance which can sometimes be underlying cause of Dual Diagnosis( mental illness/addictions) occuring together.
My ex has been in and out of a roller coaster relationship the last 7 years. Every year, twice a year, same thing. I told him he had an addiction that it wasn't love. He's injured, down, not himself so he went back to the familiar pull and safety of the known. Something he has control over because he is always the one who decides and she always just waits. She hadnt been with anyone else since experiencing trauma 6 years ago. It's bad for both of them and her children.
You said it soo perfectly
She was wondering why he kept coming back to me
Are you proud?
I hate this happened.
Very Deep!
I told her