Okay, so I used to wonder this question. I listened to this video and finally it all clicked for me. We cannot control who approaches us. We can control rather we choose to ignore or proceed with the red flags and information we receive. The longer the red flags go ignored, the more games you attract. It's like flag football out there ladies. Start calling a flag on the play!!
He has 3 children with no car and he's trying to have sex with her 🤔 Sir focus that energy on getting your credit score up to provide some transportation for you and your 3 children.
Hahaha! This is gold, Tony! Great response to the letter. Praying for my sister because this sort of thing happens more often than it should. But I know God has someone who will be in position to pursue her the way a daughter of God deserves. Glad she didn't give in to the temptation and that she ran when she did. 👌🏾 Sometimes the counterfeit shows up before the real deal.
I never knew that at the age of 30 I would find my brother. God is Awesome! I don't feel I am a fan. I feel like a little sister. Blessed to have found your work. 😊
He is what we call " a wolf in sheep's clothing". And now she can see it was never about her, he wanted what he could get from her. And when that door was closed, he moved on to the next possible victim. If he really wanted her, "no sex before marriage" would have been a reason to stay, not leave. People should really be careful with "He's knows my heart" because He does, and He will expose it to all those they trying to trick.
I'm truly appreciated your talk, it brings me to realize i my self has settled and accepted that person and I keep misunderstanding that it is the Law of attraction that brings him to me, etc...
"even a dog wants a steak" powerful! I found your video last night and I've been binging on them since then. Tonight, I'm doing the same thing. Thank you so much!
I spent 4 months with a gentleman who had a medical condition r / t work injury which prevented him from driving due to pain medication,. He had character, morals, took excellent care of his 10 yo son as an unmarried, self- employed, disciplined African American man. We had communication, chemistry, connection, supported each other’s goals and dreams. We departed ways because he followed a Jehovah’s Witness lifestyle and I followed a non-denomination Christ-centered lifestyle. It was a most painful decision; our break up emotionally hurt both of us. Learned later that he and I both had shared our meltdowns with a mutual older male friend. Five months later, I am still progressing thru the grieving process. Did I date down? No. Valuable lessons were learned in that brief encounter.
Lawd he said homeboy could be "batting from both sides of the plate", "God knows your heart, and that's how He know you full ah crap!" LMBO!!!! Your quotes be having me in tha floor!!LOL!
First off, he quoted the scripture wrong. In 1st Peter 4:8 it says love shall cover a multitude of sins. He was trying to use God and his word to manipulate her to get some booty. Glad she didn't fall for the the Okie Doke. Why would she care if he blocked her? I thought she wanted a good man.
@ Saba Shaikh Very true, but this guy sounds like a hot mess! He is not to be trusted. He is twisting the scriptures for his own selfish desires. What's he going to church for? He hasn't learned or applied a darn thing. To make matters worse, he is trying to lead this woman into temptation. Mocking the Almighty big time! Run!
Oh my GOSH her story is sooo my story maybe minus the car issue. Normally they have a car and a decent job but don’t act like they want to invest in dating and courting me. Like they try to seek ideas that don’t involve them spending money on me when they see we aren’t progressing into the intimacy arena. It’s crazy because like she said eventually they cut you off or just keep trying you sexually without putting any work in to pursue you for a real relationship. One guy recently told me he feels sorry for me because I seem unhappy and bitter because I didn’t entertain his sexual comments and stopped calling and texting me.
At my the laundry Matt, can’t help myself from laughing at this 🤣🤣🤣. In my Tamar’s voice, he tried it.’ In my African voice, ladies we done suffer.’ Chey this guy is brave. Imagined this is the same foolery other men may have tried to convince women like myself listening to buy into. Hearing this from the outside in its like my god, however, when the same ish is being sold to you, it’s easy to become convinced what the person said makes sense. I hope we all listen, learn My goodness
*SPEAK NOT OF WHAT YOU BELIEVE, BUT KNOW THRU TANGIBLE EXPERIENCE OF FACT!!* *DO YOU KNOW PRAYING IS AN ACT OF DISBELIEF OF FAITH, OPPOSE TO ALREADY EXPRESSING GRATITUDE FOR THAT WHICH IS ALREADY HERE???*
Qi Huna I appreciate the accurate and wise words about prayer! We must pray from a completed, satisfied and thankful place! Would you share with me your top 3 books that affirm this truth?
Tony I like ur videos but few things u say I completely disagree with. It is absolutely shallow to say I won’t date a man who doesn’t have a car. Be it a second hand car or a Mercedes. It’s extremely shallow. There are a lotta people who deserve to be loved and don’t have cars. I totally disagree with your point bro.
Nah man. Dudes who ain't got their own car by 30 is not prepared for life. That's a basic to get where you need to go and take care of business. And he got 3 kids. How he get them around? It don't make a woman shallow to expect a brother to bring to the table everything she does in some way so they can put what they got together and keep building. The woman you trying to chase got wheels and you don't. Come on dude.😂 He just a scrub trying to get benefits and come up. The same dudes who saying SHE shallow for expecting a man to have his own is the same ones who gone be driving HER whip around while she at work like they own it.🚘
Okay, so I used to wonder this question. I listened to this video and finally it all clicked for me. We cannot control who approaches us. We can control rather we choose to ignore or proceed with the red flags and information we receive. The longer the red flags go ignored, the more games you attract. It's like flag football out there ladies. Start calling a flag on the play!!
Amen 🙏🏾 the comment is rich
I concur
Well explained
Great segment...God bless you TG! 🙏✝️
You are what you settle for.
There shouldn't be any chemistry because you shouldn't be in the lab.
I like that.
Stay out of the lab.
That was a dope comment🙌
You dodged a bullet, keep it moving.
He has 3 children with no car and he's trying to have sex with her 🤔 Sir focus that energy on getting your credit score up to provide some transportation for you and your 3 children.
allure231913 FaCts!!!!!! No scrubs!!!
Right!
I needed this message like 10 years ago..
"sometimes its a lot of spirits up there.. in the music ministry"😂😂😂
🤣🤣
His rejection is God's protection...what's the issue here again? Its simple renew your mind, thank God for his protection, and keep it moving.
😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👍
If he not on your level why even entertain it know your worth and value.
Hahaha! This is gold, Tony! Great response to the letter. Praying for my sister because this sort of thing happens more often than it should. But I know God has someone who will be in position to pursue her the way a daughter of God deserves. Glad she didn't give in to the temptation and that she ran when she did. 👌🏾 Sometimes the counterfeit shows up before the real deal.
I'm staying out of the lab.
I'm keeping my legs closed.
I know who I am! PRICELESS!
“Instead of him being focused on a woman and getting in the panties, he needs to focused on his grind” 🤣🤣🤣
I never knew that at the age of 30 I would find my brother. God is Awesome! I don't feel I am a fan. I feel like a little sister. Blessed to have found your work. 😊
Shawna Monique thank you so much Sis!!
He is what we call " a wolf in sheep's clothing". And now she can see it was never about her, he wanted what he could get from her. And when that door was closed, he moved on to the next possible victim. If he really wanted her, "no sex before marriage" would have been a reason to stay, not leave. People should really be careful with "He's knows my heart" because He does, and He will expose it to all those they trying to trick.
He is mad he didn't get no cookie!!! Satan was the leader of the music ministry ..watch out for the wolves🐺🐺🐺🐺🐺
Slickster and shister😂😂😂😂😂
J. T You know !!
I'm truly appreciated your talk, it brings me to realize i my self has settled and accepted that person and I keep misunderstanding that it is the Law of attraction that brings him to me, etc...
I’m a huge fan!! ❤️You speak the truth.. you’ve taught me so much. Keep being a blessing!!
"even a dog wants a steak" powerful! I found your video last night and I've been binging on them since then. Tonight, I'm doing the same thing. Thank you so much!
You keep settling for these types of men, you learn the hard way. And you never know what if you became his 4th baby mama.
"There should be no chemistry cause you should not be in the lab"
TG that's good. Whooo
BE NOT DECIEVED GOD IS NOT MOCKED!!! WHAT YOU SOW YOU WILL REAP!!!🔥💯👊🏽
Thank you again Tony!
And twist the word to satisfy sin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ɛʋɛʀʏ ʍaռ ɨs ռօt ʍɛaռt!
Be Blessed!!!😊😊
Good topic ! Thank you
Thank you so much for this podcast. I really needed to hear this one. Your insight on life and perspective is much needed. Again thank you 💜
I spent 4 months with a gentleman who had a medical condition r / t work injury which prevented him from driving due to pain medication,. He had character, morals, took excellent care of his 10 yo son as an unmarried, self- employed, disciplined African American man. We had communication, chemistry, connection, supported each other’s goals and dreams. We departed ways because he followed a Jehovah’s Witness lifestyle and I followed a non-denomination Christ-centered lifestyle. It was a most painful decision; our break up emotionally hurt both of us. Learned later that he and I both had shared our meltdowns with a mutual older male friend. Five months later, I am still progressing thru the grieving process.
Did I date down? No. Valuable lessons were learned in that brief encounter.
Lawd he said homeboy could be "batting from both sides of the plate", "God knows your heart, and that's how He know you full ah crap!" LMBO!!!! Your quotes be having me in tha floor!!LOL!
This was a great question.
First off, he quoted the scripture wrong. In 1st Peter 4:8 it says love shall cover a multitude of sins. He was trying to use God and his word to manipulate her to get some booty. Glad she didn't fall for the the Okie Doke. Why would she care if he blocked her? I thought she wanted a good man.
Man, love Tony!!! He the GOAT out here in these lifestyle/relationship coaching streets!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾✨
I’m late to this post but I was just thinking about this the other day. TG you always come through! Blessings
Thank you so much for this podcast! I was really starting to question myself on the person I am.
😂 Man look! Tell the truth Tony! Help them Tony! I wouldn't entertain a man with 3 kids and no car. I can't. My time is very important.
People can be very stable in life but don’t own a car
@ Saba Shaikh
Very true, but this guy sounds like a hot mess! He is not to be trusted. He is twisting the scriptures for his own selfish desires. What's he going to church for? He hasn't learned or applied a darn thing. To make matters worse, he is trying to lead this woman into temptation. Mocking the Almighty big time!
Run!
I think you should do a video on first date questions ..so people can look at the Intel to decide if they want to proceed. Great video!
Girl keep living rite he ain't doing shit rite. What growned man doesn't have a car but has 3 kids. Girl run don't look back!!!
At the lab! Lol Yessssssssss Tony
There should be no chemistry because you shouldn't be in the lab!! HAHA that's a good one! He is absolutely correct.
Oh my GOSH her story is sooo my story maybe minus the car issue. Normally they have a car and a decent job but don’t act like they want to invest in dating and courting me. Like they try to seek ideas that don’t involve them spending money on me when they see we aren’t progressing into the intimacy arena. It’s crazy because like she said eventually they cut you off or just keep trying you sexually without putting any work in to pursue you for a real relationship. One guy recently told me he feels sorry for me because I seem unhappy and bitter because I didn’t entertain his sexual comments and stopped calling and texting me.
Wow 3 kids . And loose jeez man !
No that man is not for ya! You can do better !
Tiny you are the best coach ever🤙❤️🇨🇦
That was a good question! It’s a common dilemma amount my friends! Smh thanks for this video!
The theatre has reclining seats tho 😂
Preach Tony..🙌🏾🙌🏾 All Truth!! Amen 🙏🏾
❤❤❤THANK YOU for this video!
Batting from both sides of the plate 😂😂
Amen Amen Amen 🙏🏾
What types of spirits be in the choir? 😂
Be thanking God baby girl for removing this guy from your life...been there done that...#RealChik247
The fact that he would quote those scriptures out of all of the ones he could quote that goes against fornication was quite convenient
Love me some Tony Gaskins. He tell it I.S. Is!!!!❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 You are truly a GOD sent. Bless you🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
At my the laundry Matt, can’t help myself from laughing at this 🤣🤣🤣. In my Tamar’s voice, he tried it.’ In my African voice, ladies we done suffer.’ Chey this guy is brave. Imagined this is the same foolery other men may have tried to convince women like myself listening to buy into. Hearing this from the outside in its like my god, however, when the same ish is being sold to you, it’s easy to become convinced what the person said makes sense. I hope we all listen, learn
My goodness
Love it
I don't drive 😔
Amnv bless you is true amnv🌹🔝🌎
You are so funny!!😂😂
#YesLordAmen!
Common since😇👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
why ask why for something that's not for you and what you don't want .. I don't get it
Lololol❤️❤️❤️
He's shameless
*SPEAK NOT OF WHAT YOU BELIEVE, BUT KNOW THRU TANGIBLE EXPERIENCE OF FACT!!*
*DO YOU KNOW PRAYING IS AN ACT OF DISBELIEF OF FAITH, OPPOSE TO ALREADY EXPRESSING GRATITUDE FOR THAT WHICH IS ALREADY HERE???*
Qi Huna I appreciate the accurate and wise words about prayer! We must pray from a completed, satisfied and thankful place! Would you share with me your top 3 books that affirm this truth?
Tony I like ur videos but few things u say I completely disagree with. It is absolutely shallow to say I won’t date a man who doesn’t have a car. Be it a second hand car or a Mercedes. It’s extremely shallow. There are a lotta people who deserve to be loved and don’t have cars. I totally disagree with your point bro.
Nah man. Dudes who ain't got their own car by 30 is not prepared for life. That's a basic to get where you need to go and take care of business. And he got 3 kids. How he get them around? It don't make a woman shallow to expect a brother to bring to the table everything she does in some way so they can put what they got together and keep building. The woman you trying to chase got wheels and you don't. Come on dude.😂 He just a scrub trying to get benefits and come up. The same dudes who saying SHE shallow for expecting a man to have his own is the same ones who gone be driving HER whip around while she at work like they own it.🚘
Are they delayed? Like special needs ?
You attract who you are.
What is the difference between standards and preferences? Asking for myself.