Men who were broken up with by the ex they’re going back to is also a very different situation! Many times that’s an ego thing. The ex hurt him by ending things and her wanting him back feels amazing to him because is psychological. He now feels worthy. It’s actually a psychological trick people can do to make someone obsessed. I don’t recommend it. My point is, when your ex leaves you for his ex girlfriend, there’s a huge difference between if he broke up with her and if she broke up with him. Is she broke up with him and they have a history together, that’s something very hard to compete with.
Hi Queen, you have to walk a mile in someone's shoes before making such a statement. It's not as black and white as you're making it seem :) - Coach Steven
How to get back with an ex if he went back with an ex: DON’T.. let him be happy if you truly love him, be the mature one, and move on. Take good care of yourself : )
so technically if our ex gets back together with me after going back to his ex i'm the ex he's running back to. Does it ever end or is it just a continuous love triangle.
My ex went back to his fling who left him.. I was somewhat a rebound but then he realized that he wants me. But after we broke up, he contacted his ex fling. And the fling was into him also. Im so devastated right now. Seeing the girl liking his post or tagging him. Its as if i never existed. Easy for him to move on. I just cant understand
Hi Cheska, are they in an exclusive relationship or are they just "having fun"? Be cautious of creating an unreal story in your mind that is more serious than the reality of the situation. - Coach Adrian
My ex went back to two of his exes after our breakup (less than a month.) Now he's with one of his exes that miscarried when they were together. I wasn't worried about the one ex but this ex has experienced more with him. He contacted me a week ago and asked if we can be friends. I turned it down completely! I'm so hurt.. But I'm going to keep pushing forward!
Please make rebound relationship videos. My ex left me for the "guy friend" who was the shoulder to cry on guy that she told our problems to instead of speaking with me about our own problems. I feel like he took advantage of what he knew about us to win her over when she was vulnerable and emotionally available. We were engaged and been together for 12 years and have 1 child together. Her reason for ending it was that she needed space because she wasn't happy anymore and then she jumps into the rebound. We've met up once and had sex and then met up the day after and she ruined it by bringing back old past problems and since then it's been low contact because of of our child. I do love her and would like to reconcile and have my family again. It's been almost 3 months since the break up. Thanks guys
Hey Dermicore, hope you're well. I'm really sorry to hear about your relationship woes, especially with a kid involved. If you need coaching in order to get your ex back, you know where to find us: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Just make sure you have a positive attitude whenever you interact or associate with her. - Coach Steven
Married 10yrs i asked him to leave because i failed to see positive changes! Soon as he left my house was back to an ex that was an issue in our relationship...this got me thinking if i would want to be with him for love or because of my pride!? Also already introduced her to our children as friends
Similar thing happened to me. I was engaged for 8 years and we moved out of state to get away from his ex wife (apart 17 years) and as soon as she found out we broke up she sold her condo and moved in with him. He lied to her that we were working things out and he never told me until she was on her way.
Ain't this a contradiction because you trying to give advice for ex to get there ex back but you tell the next girl that she shouldn't worry because they going back to only to the one they know??
Not a contradiction at all! The focus is not on the fact that they went back to an ex, but that you have nothing to worry about because they are only going back to what's familiar - Coach Steven
What about me? I was used by my recent ex as a rebound, after 1 month and 20 days we broke up, he said he still love his ex and that he's not yet ready for a new relationship, now he's with his ex and I was left alone hurting. 💔💔 What should I do?
Coach pls help me..my ex and i broke up for 1 month ago already.and now he added his ex. And start liking his ex photo..pls help me im so devastated right now. I blocked him so that i wont see him in fb.
We were together on and off for 11 years, both made mistakes, just slept together last weekend and now he's going back to the ex he cheated on me with.
I feel that my ex and I are twin flames but he ended our relationship to go bk to his ex fiance yet it was toxic ... We were good for the most part but she and he would let go of each other
after 2 months between us he told me he is talking again to his ex and he doesnt want anything with me anymore.. im 1 week of no contact after he deleted me on snapchat, we are still friends on fb im totally devastated as i had a crush even 2 years ago on him
My sons mother left me for her first children’s father after he cheated on her and abused her and married the girl he cheated on her with and 10 years later now that girl divorced him and now he’s lonely and wants my sons mother back and my sons mother really left me like I was a nobody sneaking around to be with him and meet up with him and not even 3 weeks she’s already allowing him to lay with her and be near my son it’s hard how do I get over this she has no sympathy or remorse for what she is doing tore up the family we created
Hey Raynaldo, I'm so sorry to hear about that. I know how painful and hard that must be. I pray for your healing moving forward and try to focus on making yourself happy again. I know it will be a painful process but you will come out of it better. - Love Advice Team
I hear people commenting they got back to their exes because of the kids, wanting the family back, bla bla bla. Face your real issue. It's not about your kids. You are in denial. Face your real issue. Kids won't fix your marriage. They don't have this power. If they did, there would be no divorces
Hi coach, I left him. ( because I had no choice) He went back to his ex .. yes it was long.. an ex of five years. But I was his crush during those four years and knew nothing about her. Now that Ive left him, he was listening to depressing songs on his Spotify but from my side it’s over as he took me for granted. I feel he went back to her to fill the gap or help with the hurt that I may have caused him because it happened as soon as I left him. Do I feel he’s going to finally marry her? No. He’s already told me he just stuck around with her for easy benefits before . All I want now is NOT to get my ex back, but just some answers which this video gave me. This video is very helpful. Thank you so much🙏
You’re welcome. I think it’s great your channel is a love advice channel and not a get my ex back channel only as not everyone wants their ex back. Sometimes we just want closure. Thanks for your help
I was dating a guy for 2 months , his ex was always call him to get back with him, buy I never said anything. He recently got back with her and ghosted me. I managed to find him on the phone and he said he was sorry and stuff. I am so sad and I miss him alot, but i am keeping away . His ex and him have known each for 8 years. He told me it was a toxic a relationship, but he is there now. What are your thoughts?
Question? If you spouse of 7 1/2 years with two children left you out of no where for his ex from 10 years ago from high school..? We all are still shocked. He is like a completely different person.
My ex went back to his exgf. And as it seems they are getting married in a month. I don't know what to do. He was talking bad about her before, didn't want to communicate with her at all. And now....what if I was the rebound? What to do then? Any advice?🙏
This happened to me and it's just painful we never argued never fought but one night she told me that she misses her ex but I shouldn't worry but that was just something I kept thinking of then she started being distant and she just came one evening and she said that we have to talk and that was it I wasn't mad at her though we still talk and sometimes we reflect on the memories we had and once she asked me what it would take for me to take her back Am just confused
He broke up with me for the second time and both times, he immediately got in contact with his ex but the first time they just talked and she got in a relationship with someone else. He went back to me for a year and two months and 2 months ago he broke up with me again and he never contacted me. He said he would never go back to her and i am so much better. But i guess actions speak louder then words. I did not make any post break up mistakes. I also don't fit the 'rebound criteria'. I feel betrayed, but I wonder if I still have a change with him...
My ex went back to his exgf. And as it seems they are getting married in a month. I don't know what to do. He was talking bad about her before, didn't want to communicate with her at all. And now.... Any advice?🙏
Add me to the club. I'm not sure I am going to be able to trust anyone again. I was never given a chance, though, looking back. Not after she caught wind of our relationship, anyway. Over two years and sitting with him (scared to death that who I thought was the love of my life was going to die) in the hospital before and after open heart surgery and getting to know his kids. Dumped on Christmas Eve. "I know our (with the ex) relationship is unhealthy, but there is still something there... I'm sorry." She is so toxic I fear for his life. Used and discarded. I hope they make it work and save the everyone else in the world from their toxicity. I don't want anything to do with him again. I am just trying to understand so I can move on.
My ex said we should be friends we haven’t talked in 2 weeks he went back to his ex wife then he texted me today. “I hope you are doing well. Im sorry for coming to your house so drunk. That was disappointing and disrespectful. I have been acting like a child emotionally... i have been giving you distance because i have been scared to face you because you make me look at myself. I didnt keep my promise to always be real and honest. Ive been getting so mixed up and i have so much anger inside me. I dont know where im going with this or what i expect you to say but i needed to do something. “ any ideas ???
Hi, I was in relationship for 1year. Once of a sudden, after a little fight, my boyfriend told me it's over. I thought it was my fault. And then days after, he said that he's in love with his ex and he is getting back to her. He said that he never loved me during this 1 year and he felt only friendship for me. But I feel that it's not true cause he was really jealous, didn't let guys talking to me, he was very caring, loving and protective to me. I know he would not be the same with someone that he considers as a "friend". Now he really got back with his ex. I felt very bad. The ex girlfriend also talked to me and mentioned how much they both loved each other and that I was the problem that prevented them from being back together after they broke up 1year ago. What should I do please? I really love him and want him back so badly. But in his head, he is convinced that he loves only her. Do you think that the no contact rules will work? Or any other advice?
After 5 years, my ex girl went back to her husband. She used to tell me he cheated, hits her, hits the kids, but she would always do anything for him. They also used to have sex party's together. And I'm not sure her entire sexual history because when she told me, I was disgusted, but moved past it kind of. It's crazy after 5 years, saying she loves me, and she tells me I'm now a roommate. She has kids with the guy, so I should have seen this coming. But still, it hurts being this betrayed. Her ex even tried to break us up so many times, and she didn't think it was a big deal. I came home one day, and she told me he's offering her Florida tickets. I told her I didn't want her talking to someone who used to hit kids and her. Well, she left me soon after.
I wasted 6.5 years with this idiot. Trying to keep her away the entire time. I even told her me and him were together. She whined about how hurt she was and he lied about me. Why would she want a man who’s lying to his gf? I finally let him go. And now they’re married. Smh. Can’t stand them, but glad I’m free of his bs.
My ex already has a new boyfriend in the moment. She wanted to to meet up with me but I don’t want any drama so I refused. Recently I found out she was contacting her other ex boyfriends before me. Lol what the hell is wrong with that girl
I need some help. My ex went back to his baby mama without telling me and just found out from a pastor. He seems on another page not with me. M so frustrated
I recently broke up with him few days after his ex texted him to see him in person but he blocked her. Now she’s watching my instagram story idk if she just wants to see if I’m still with him or she wants to tell me something. But they are in the same country and I’m not. I just want to find out if he’s gonna go back to his ex or I’m just paranoid. If he does go back to her then I don’t have to waste my time. I want to find out if he’s lying or not since in the relationship he was loving caring and loyal
We was in a relationship for more than 2 years. After we broke up about a month ago i just found out that his in contact with his ex. He deleted our photos after we broke up but then that girl photos are still on his account ( i was not insecure at that time so i don't mind those photos) but now he just deleted me that quick but still kept his ex photo? It hurt to think he just me to heal and when he finally healed he comeback to her.
We were in rebound relationship for 5 months...he was in contact with his ex ...bt then he left me for his ex saying that he can't love anyone more than her ....what should I do now???I feel so down Should I apply No contact rule to get him back???? I can't find courage to do anything for myself
I am in a situation where my ex wanted me back while I was in a relationship. He did his best for my new partner to find out. I assumed my fault because I didn't do anything, I was entertaining him. They confronted each other and my new partner who left the person he was dating for me got mad. He wants to leave me and go back to his ex. I spoke to him he is now in between both of us trying to choose while he said he loves me but I hurt him, he doesn't trust me anymore. What should I do in this situation? Let him go or try to be the best partner for him? I love him and I am willing to work hard to gain is trust again
I just want to know she’s safe and happy. I’d love for her to be with me and it hurts that she’s not but I love her and I just need to know she’s ok so I can be ok.
Same situation just Thanksgiving she went back to abusive ex husband I'm broken 💔 I miss her daughter too this is so messed up... Not only that he texted me with her group chat saying they worked out their differences and then told her in the chat to block my number now. 😡 😢 💔
Problem is we are about to have a kid. I backed off to work on me has changed. I stopped focusing on her and put it on me and my soon to be son. Only contact has really been about the kid. But now she has been talking to her other ex other kids dad. So it's tough she post about him. I am confused because she reaches out to me and him. He lives in a different country so I am not worried but she really loved him I can tell. Sucks but I don't compete I work on me and haven't changed my approach just sucks.
Hello i have been with a guy for few months but we had a big argument and we split up. I left another guy before i met him but he was always contacting me and wanted to meet even i said i have another bf. After i seen my ex the one we had a massive argument and we talked i got pregnant from my previous boyfriend but he wanted to meet me before that he was seeing someone else and now he wants to be only friends with me and also his ex wife is now here with him and his child. I am upset and he doesn't even have time to meet me. He is telling me all the time we can meet when he has time i am not sure what shall i do in this scenario. He is promising to meet after i give a birth. thanks
Maybe we dont have a change were broke up 1month ago we have 6months relationship before and he come back from her ex they not married but they have 1kid its there have a change to us to come back ?🥺
My ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago. He’s back with his ex girlfriend before me. I’m devastated. He did the same thing exactly a year ago, but came back to me. What do I do?
Hey Megan Chaffinch, you need to find a way to show him that he can't do this to you any longer, that is, should he want to get back with you and give it another go - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV and what way is that? I think this time it really is over. I think he was never over her in the 2 years we were together and when he threw me out of his house literally, she was right there.
I was dating someone and thought it was going to get serious but I always had the feeling that he was still in the ex wife We broke up he made it feel like I did something wrong when I didn’t never told me that the way he was acting the way he was was because he had gotten back together with ex-wife after being separated for four years and I’m genuinely happy but there’s so many Unleft answers And what bothers me is that he always spoke horrible about this person I really love this guy how do I move on from this
What if my ex husband went back to his ex who supposedly cheated on him and this the second time when he broke up with her because she cheated and was with the other guy but once she chatted with him and left him for another person and was with tht person for 3 year and just recently they broke up and started tlking to my husband again ? She 4 year younger then him and they dated in hs
my ex went back to his ex the same day when he broke up with me saying that i am in a new relationship now i cant come back. is it a rebound or serious?
What if he went back to someone from 7 years ago that was a 7 year together but I was 5.5 years he left her as he left her for someone else please answer thank you
My ex and I dated 18 years ago, never had sex back then. 4 years ago we found eachother online and I decided to go to England meet him. An year later I was leaving everything behind to make a living with this man. I left my dayghters with my parents for 6 months so we could have everything ready for them. They arrived at the same moment I was giving birth to our daughter which is 18 months now. October 2017 we decided to return to our country Portugal. As our problem was me not trusting him I threw him out 3 times. The 4th time it was for good as neither of us wanted to be hurt again though we loved eachother... We broke up on 9th February. Few weeks later he was with his ex from 13 years ago... Feels like he wants to live everything he has lived with me with this ex... Mine and her first name it's the same and the last just changes the last 3 letters... I mean... What should I think of this? He spent the last 3 months in mind games, saying he wouldn't ever get back to me, that he was happy but wanted to kiss me one last time, he asked to hang around, to have coffee, a splif... He said that was his way of saying that he would come back and that he didn't because I didn't had an attitude towards him... then we agree to have sex but with no expectations. I prepared the night of his life and I told him it was a way of me apologizing my share of the blame for our ending and that we could now live our lifes. He used that as an excuse for him to wear a ring now... He blamed ME!!! Has he ever loved me???
So my Ex kinda has a soft corner for his ex he likes talking to her. I get really insecure. We've been together for about 6years now but he thinks his ex is better than me. His ex however doesnt want to get back with him. But him only talking to her makes me want to throw tantrums around. Just can't deal with her talking to him ? How can I evaluate this behaviour
This is exactly my situation, he told his friend to tell me that he's back in love with his ex en the worst thing in this is they are in the same country and am in another continent for more than 1 year, I don't know if he said this to chase me a way or hurt me or it's real, Am still in no contact it's two weeks now, he unblocked me on facebook but he has not written to me yet, my heart tell me that maybe he unblocked me because he wanted to show me that he moved on, seriously am confused, though still in no contact Need some advice Thanks
My man of 5 years left me for his ex, they broke up 12 years ago... she dumped him cos he was taking illicit drugs behind her back... he still does. But fuck, from 12 years ago.. so ridiculous
Thank you I been wanting somebody to tell me about this yes my ex went back to his old ex and dating her I am hurt but not no more I move on and I making good things coming soon for me I trying now to keep my head up not to look back but see time to time he will texts me or try to come see me time to time but he with his ex so now I told him no haven't saw him and two months but anyway thank you.😃
Hey Tracy, to further elaborate on @Queen k slay's point... implement No Contact in order to entertain them. They're not confused, they are just narcissistic and want to make sure that not even their ex moves on with their lives - Coach Steven
I'm facing my ex when back to her ex. Now she is trying to cut me off. We only have 20days relationship. We used to believe we may create a future together. What can I do to win her back
Hi Sang, I would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching call so we can talk about what happened in this relationship and figure out what you have to do next to get her back. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
He is 70 I am 61. We have been together just over a year. He and his ex were in an on/off relationship for 8 years. We started dating 3 or so months after their last breakup. But she has been trying to get him back this whole time. ( maybe she used one of your methods) He has a home in Arizona where I live. And Utah where she lives. He was severely injured in March. His Daughter who is a nurse moved him in with her to get him back to health. Soon after he left AZ he called and said he wanted to break up. He changed his mind several times. Not enough room for all the drama on this page. But eventually came back to me saying that I should move in and never leave. Which I did. We do not fight. We have such fun together. He loves me. And each time wants to break up with me he cries and cries. And we always stay together. Except this time. He still almost couldn't leave me. He cried more than ever. But he is gone. I am in love with this man.
My partner moved out n went back to his ex's place to live. My partner n I are still a couple after working things out but he said he wont move back in with me. My partner said there is no sexual contact with his ex n i have to trust him. I do ! But it does my head in he lives with her n not me. She has more time with him than me. I believe my partner has bipolar n gaslighter. So does his mother as it runs in the family. He has a gental sole. We have become alot closer n enjoy each other more. Like a new romance igniting. But how do I get him to come home. My biggest concern is, he said he wont leave the ex because she is like a security blanket that he loves. I know he's not in love with her but ref loves her. HOW DO I CONVINCE HIM TO COME HOME ! His reason for not coming back is he doesnt wont to argue anymore, which has stopped, n now n we enjoy each others company more n more only just of late. WILL HE COME HOME IN THE NEAR FUTURE ?
Hey, thank you love advice so much I can hear you guys and it calms me down. Its hard having this issue in my life it's like a tug of war. I was hoping maybe there is payments available?
What if an ex added his ex from the past( first love,beautiful woman) on FB also she’s liking his FB pics..😳😭he knew I’ve been always jelaous about her..second thing is she’s in a different country..and I think she’s married deffo with 2 kids..I had to calm down cause anxiety kicked in😂😭
My boyfriend of over three years left me for the second time to go back to his alcoholic wife... they never actually got back together the first time and he came back to me... he was married to his ex for over 20 years and they have a 17-year-old son that she took away from him and moved out of state... she’s an alcoholic and her boyfriend of three years just walked out on her and the drunken text messages started rolling in that she wants my boyfriend back even leaving threatening messages but if he doesn’t leave me she will take their son and move even further away.. he doesn’t know I saw these text messages and I truly believe he left me because of the threats... he broke up with me over the phone all his stuff is still at my house I’ve been trying to use the no contact rule for over two weeks now..Please help I want my boyfriend back we were great together and he agrees but tells me he needs to go back to his ex-wife
Idk if anyone will read my comments since this video is from 3 years ago but I will just comment it here. My ex broke up with me and got a new gf very quickly but then after three months he came back to me with saying sorry about hurting me like having a new gf right after broke up he said he shouldn’t have done that but then he didnt want to get back with me he just wanted to hangout with me and do the things he used to do during our relationship so I stopped him with saying I still have feelings for him and I dont want to be friends like this so if you change ur mind let me know or whats up with ur mind and he said he will let me know if he changes his mind and thanks for being honest but then I just found out that he went back with his ex few days ago.. I just dont know what to do I know I need to move on but then its still hard for me to move on.
Me and my girlfriend had an awesome relationship but she says she still loves a narcissistic ex boyfriend from three years ago who was very selfish and narcissistic, she trying to get him back I have fought for our love what do I do ?
I was mates with my ex before we got together i didn't realise it was a rebound relationship until now. She has told me she has gone back with her ex . She has blocked me on social media but i have no clue if it is him or her. Should I just move on or have i realistically got a change
helo coach alex and coach adrian ... my ex broke up with me 6 days ago... according to him he is not happy anymore and we really dont understand each other. but after 2 days i have known that he contacted with his ex gf abroad .they are talking again .and my ex even chat to me that he doesnt love me .he love his ex so much ...he deleted my fb .which he can do because its his email that been registered .and then her ex is already using his personal fb account to chat with me ... i tried to chat .but he is very pissed with me ..i am stalking before using other account but it even hurt me more ..i did not try to contact him or her ...but i am very much hurt .i cant stop thinking about him ..is there a chance that my ex will comeback to me .or what .i am very confused .... i am very hurt .we are both working abroad same country but working place is far. ...its very hard for me .... please can you help me
Hi Mikaela, thank you for sharing and we hope you are doing well. Your situation sounds very complex and I suggest you book a coaching session with one of our expert coaches to help you sort this out www.withmyexagain.com/blog/use-social-media-to-get-back-with-your-ex/ - Coach Steven
Hi, My ex broke up with me in March after a year of being together and he expressed to me it was because he needed to find himself and get himself together. At the time we were long distance, so our only form of communication was through text and video calls. We kept in touch a few days after we broke up and then we’d go a week max without talking, but the texts were initiated by me and one of our interactions led to an argument and me pleading to be friends at some point. We hadn’t spoken for a few weeks after that but 4 weeks ago I contacted him about rumors of him dating his ex again. He denied it and came off really rude so I ignored it, but then he texted me again 6 hours later accusing me of talking about him on my twitter. I responded then he didn’t respond and we haven’t spoken since. But he has made it aware on social media that he is talking to his ex again and his life is complete and he is so happy. Should I just let him go and move on?
I talk to my ex now. After nc.. He loves me and he miss me.. But now he is in toxic relationship and its hard to get out of it.. I don't know how he will manage ths drama
What if the ex is her legal husband who left them for other women before and then came back because he saw the life of the girl he dumped before is good now. They both leave their present and live together again 😢
Yes i wanna get back with my ex for good relationship again and to build again a new life with him....and yes also we both happy coz we are sharing everything we had we ate together all the time go everywhere go out with our friends..and bonding with his family
Hi So We Were Dating Five Months And She Left Me For Her Ex Boyfriend But Gave Me Silly Reasons For Leaving... They Were Just Excuses To Be Precise Lol... And I've Worked On Them At A Small Percentage Though,And She Called Me The Other Day After I Decided To Move On,To Tell Me That She Misses Me And She Wanted To Hear My Voice And Bluh.. Bluh.. So What Should I Do? I Was In No Contact And I'm Healing Fast,Thanks To You Love Advice TV.. I Kind Of Love And Hate Her But I Don't Love Her Like I Used To.. So If For Example She Approaches Me Again.. I'm Scared Of Her Leaving Me. Its Been Two Months Since We Part Ways
My ex left me for her bf and she blocked me evry where so what should i do she loves me but deu to some problm she is wid her ex bf is this possible to get her back how to unblock from her side i dint follow no contact rull when ever i msg her she block me
Heyy coach my ex went back to his ex...He is telling we are just friends n there is no future of me n my ex... He said I would cut all of the contact with her..just give me some time till then we will be friends... I m confused wht to do? Should i be his frnd or not?
I gone through same, but I think he always had relation with her, he lied me. Because he engaged her after 20 days he finish with me. He was just a garbage, not we were on same level for anything
My ex wife went back to her ex girlfriend from 8th and 9th grade we have a son to get her and was together for 8 years we split for 2 years and now she is back with her
My ex left me because of there ex when his ex wants to come back in there life after a breakup of 2.5 years.. Is that love?? is she come back bcoz she's still in luv when he is enough happy with me or she's back to check he's move on to her or not ...
Hi Coach I broke no contact at Day 25... eversinced he dumped me he has been viewing every single one of my snapchat stories... I reached out with a light hearted message,he responded immediately & after exchanging afew messages, he went silent again. I didnt chase text nor tried to chat further. It has been 24hrs & although he continue viewing my snap stories, he didnt text me... what should I do?
Hi Polar Belle, you should block him on all social media and begin to look forward. Give him an opportunity to chase you. You're making it too easy on him by allowing him to keep tabs on you through social media. He has no reason to ask you how you're doing if he can get the answer through snap stories - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV Thank U Coach Steven, when i reached out twice texting him over light hearted things his response is always fast & responsive but it fizzles out soon after. Its a reaction i never got from him before, does it show disinterest?
Me and my girl talked about me wanting to have sex with an ex. She was very thankful and told me that she wants my ex as well. So the three of us do well in and out of the bed. I've had both of them plus two of there friends. Honesty goes a long way. We let being dishonest, keep us from being real men. Men need to tell there girls how they think...game changer.
If they left for a ex let them go. You don't need that person back. They will not come back the same person. Let it go.
you're most likely dealing with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder if they continuously recycle their ex's
Men who were broken up with by the ex they’re going back to is also a very different situation! Many times that’s an ego thing. The ex hurt him by ending things and her wanting him back feels amazing to him because is psychological. He now feels worthy. It’s actually a psychological trick people can do to make someone obsessed. I don’t recommend it.
My point is, when your ex leaves you for his ex girlfriend, there’s a huge difference between if he broke up with her and if she broke up with him. Is she broke up with him and they have a history together, that’s something very hard to compete with.
But if I was the one to leave, I would never go back to an ex. An ex is an ex. It's over.
Hi Queen, you have to walk a mile in someone's shoes before making such a statement. It's not as black and white as you're making it seem :) - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV I said " if I was the one to leave" I ddnt say " everyone should"
@@queenkslay2469 same... We Dodged a bullet I think.
I don't want him back I want to give him hell everytime he talks to me. And for the rest of his life.
How to get back with an ex if he went back with an ex: DON’T.. let him be happy if you truly love him, be the mature one, and move on. Take good care of yourself : )
so technically if our ex gets back together with me after going back to his ex i'm the ex he's running back to. Does it ever end or is it just a continuous love triangle.
My ex went back to his fling who left him.. I was somewhat a rebound but then he realized that he wants me. But after we broke up, he contacted his ex fling. And the fling was into him also. Im so devastated right now. Seeing the girl liking his post or tagging him. Its as if i never existed. Easy for him to move on. I just cant understand
Hi Cheska, are they in an exclusive relationship or are they just "having fun"? Be cautious of creating an unreal story in your mind that is more serious than the reality of the situation. - Coach Adrian
Good point Coach Adrian. 😔 thank you!
Hi cheska
My ex went back to two of his exes after our breakup (less than a month.) Now he's with one of his exes that miscarried when they were together. I wasn't worried about the one ex but this ex has experienced more with him. He contacted me a week ago and asked if we can be friends. I turned it down completely! I'm so hurt.. But I'm going to keep pushing forward!
Same condition
It's 3 years of your message. What happened in previous years I wanna know plz help me to escape
Thank you! This was spot on. Moving on and moving forward. 😎
Please make rebound relationship videos. My ex left me for the "guy friend" who was the shoulder to cry on guy that she told our problems to instead of speaking with me about our own problems. I feel like he took advantage of what he knew about us to win her over when she was vulnerable and emotionally available. We were engaged and been together for 12 years and have 1 child together. Her reason for ending it was that she needed space because she wasn't happy anymore and then she jumps into the rebound. We've met up once and had sex and then met up the day after and she ruined it by bringing back old past problems and since then it's been low contact because of of our child. I do love her and would like to reconcile and have my family again. It's been almost 3 months since the break up. Thanks guys
Hey Dermicore, hope you're well. I'm really sorry to hear about your relationship woes, especially with a kid involved. If you need coaching in order to get your ex back, you know where to find us: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Just make sure you have a positive attitude whenever you interact or associate with her. - Coach Steven
You probaby were dealing with a narcissist.
Married 10yrs i asked him to leave because i failed to see positive changes! Soon as he left my house was back to an ex that was an issue in our relationship...this got me thinking if i would want to be with him for love or because of my pride!? Also already introduced her to our children as friends
Similar thing happened to me. I was engaged for 8 years and we moved out of state to get away from his ex wife (apart 17 years) and as soon as she found out we broke up she sold her condo and moved in with him. He lied to her that we were working things out and he never told me until she was on her way.
Ain't this a contradiction because you trying to give advice for ex to get there ex back but you tell the next girl that she shouldn't worry because they going back to only to the one they know??
Not a contradiction at all! The focus is not on the fact that they went back to an ex, but that you have nothing to worry about because they are only going back to what's familiar - Coach Steven
What about me? I was used by my recent ex as a rebound, after 1 month and 20 days we broke up, he said he still love his ex and that he's not yet ready for a new relationship, now he's with his ex and I was left alone hurting. 💔💔 What should I do?
Coach pls help me..my ex and i broke up for 1 month ago already.and now he added his ex. And start liking his ex photo..pls help me im so devastated right now. I blocked him so that i wont see him in fb.
We were together on and off for 11 years, both made mistakes, just slept together last weekend and now he's going back to the ex he cheated on me with.
What if the ex the person they got back with and you are watching these videos
I feel that my ex and I are twin flames but he ended our relationship to go bk to his ex fiance yet it was toxic ... We were good for the most part but she and he would let go of each other
after 2 months between us he told me he is talking again to his ex and he doesnt want anything with me anymore.. im 1 week of no contact after he deleted me on snapchat, we are still friends on fb
im totally devastated as i had a crush even 2 years ago on him
My sons mother left me for her first children’s father after he cheated on her and abused her and married the girl he cheated on her with and 10 years later now that girl divorced him and now he’s lonely and wants my sons mother back and my sons mother really left me like I was a nobody sneaking around to be with him and meet up with him and not even 3 weeks she’s already allowing him to lay with her and be near my son it’s hard how do I get over this she has no sympathy or remorse for what she is doing tore up the family we created
Hey Raynaldo,
I'm so sorry to hear about that. I know how painful and hard that must be. I pray for your healing moving forward and try to focus on making yourself happy again. I know it will be a painful process but you will come out of it better.
- Love Advice Team
My ex went back to her husband. That was 20 years ago. And I have been alone ever since.
I hear people commenting they got back to their exes because of the kids, wanting the family back, bla bla bla. Face your real issue. It's not about your kids. You are in denial. Face your real issue. Kids won't fix your marriage. They don't have this power. If they did, there would be no divorces
Hi coach, I left him. ( because I had no choice) He went back to his ex .. yes it was long.. an ex of five years. But I was his crush during those four years and knew nothing about her. Now that Ive left him, he was listening to depressing songs on his Spotify but from my side it’s over as he took me for granted. I feel he went back to her to fill the gap or help with the hurt that I may have caused him because it happened as soon as I left him. Do I feel he’s going to finally marry her? No. He’s already told me he just stuck around with her for easy benefits before . All I want now is NOT to get my ex back, but just some answers which this video gave me. This video is very helpful. Thank you so much🙏
You're quite welcome! We're glad to have been able to help! - Coach Steven
You’re welcome. I think it’s great your channel is a love advice channel and not a get my ex back channel only as not everyone wants their ex back. Sometimes we just want closure. Thanks for your help
I was dating a guy for 2 months , his ex was always call him to get back with him, buy I never said anything. He recently got back with her and ghosted me. I managed to find him on the phone and he said he was sorry and stuff. I am so sad and I miss him alot, but i am keeping away . His ex and him have known each for 8 years. He told me it was a toxic a relationship, but he is there now. What are your thoughts?
Hey Shkulla, you did the right thing. Don't compete with another woman for a man's attention. You will just end up devaluing yourself - Coach Adrian
My current situation.. What happened, did they stay together or?
My husband of 12 years is on his 6th return to his ex. I'm done. No more taking him bk
Question? If you spouse of 7 1/2 years with two children left you out of no where for his ex from 10 years ago from high school..? We all are still shocked. He is like a completely different person.
My ex went back to his exgf. And as it seems they are getting married in a month. I don't know what to do. He was talking bad about her before, didn't want to communicate with her at all. And now....what if I was the rebound? What to do then?
Any advice?🙏
i was his rebound and he dumped me. is there a chance to get back to him?
I sure as hell wish one of these relationship experts would do a video on this topic
did he ever come back??
Did he?
Wth, same situation right now
ace salazar Why would you want him back?
This happened to me and it's just painful we never argued never fought but one night she told me that she misses her ex but I shouldn't worry but that was just something I kept thinking of then she started being distant and she just came one evening and she said that we have to talk and that was it
I wasn't mad at her though we still talk and sometimes we reflect on the memories we had and once she asked me what it would take for me to take her back
Am just confused
literally going through the same thing minus the end part it was all going well but she couldnt get her mind off him /shrug sigh
He broke up with me for the second time and both times, he immediately got in contact with his ex but the first time they just talked and she got in a relationship with someone else. He went back to me for a year and two months and 2 months ago he broke up with me again and he never contacted me. He said he would never go back to her and i am so much better. But i guess actions speak louder then words. I did not make any post break up mistakes. I also don't fit the 'rebound criteria'. I feel betrayed, but I wonder if I still have a change with him...
So your saying even tho, my ex left me to go back to there ex They will come back? Shes tried to contact me since then but I didn't answer..
I still look at his pictures and cry maybe God is punishing me
Loving the view in the back. Good view for meditation session
Thanks junior! We're a very zen team :) - Coach Steven
My ex went back to his exgf. And as it seems they are getting married in a month. I don't know what to do. He was talking bad about her before, didn't want to communicate with her at all. And now....
Any advice?🙏
What if you didn't have any issues and we're totally blindsided by this? Going back to a toxic ex wife? Was I used for over 2 years? Unbelievable
This is happening to me right now, he after nearly 2 years can't decide if he wants me or his ex girlfriend who dumped him incidentally
Same here! Exactly.
Karma strike him!
Add me to the club. I'm not sure I am going to be able to trust anyone again. I was never given a chance, though, looking back. Not after she caught wind of our relationship, anyway. Over two years and sitting with him (scared to death that who I thought was the love of my life was going to die) in the hospital before and after open heart surgery and getting to know his kids. Dumped on Christmas Eve. "I know our (with the ex) relationship is unhealthy, but there is still something there... I'm sorry." She is so toxic I fear for his life. Used and discarded. I hope they make it work and save the everyone else in the world from their toxicity. I don't want anything to do with him again. I am just trying to understand so I can move on.
My ex said we should be friends we haven’t talked in 2 weeks he went back to his ex wife then he texted me today. “I hope you are doing well. Im sorry for coming to your house so drunk. That was disappointing and disrespectful. I have been acting like a child emotionally... i have been giving you distance because i have been scared to face you because you make me look at myself. I didnt keep my promise to always be real and honest. Ive been getting so mixed up and i have so much anger inside me. I dont know where im going with this or what i expect you to say but i needed to do something. “ any ideas ???
Hi,
I was in relationship for 1year. Once of a sudden, after a little fight, my boyfriend told me it's over. I thought it was my fault. And then days after, he said that he's in love with his ex and he is getting back to her. He said that he never loved me during this 1 year and he felt only friendship for me. But I feel that it's not true cause he was really jealous, didn't let guys talking to me, he was very caring, loving and protective to me. I know he would not be the same with someone that he considers as a "friend". Now he really got back with his ex. I felt very bad. The ex girlfriend also talked to me and mentioned how much they both loved each other and that I was the problem that prevented them from being back together after they broke up 1year ago. What should I do please? I really love him and want him back so badly. But in his head, he is convinced that he loves only her. Do you think that the no contact rules will work? Or any other advice?
After 5 years, my ex girl went back to her husband. She used to tell me he cheated, hits her, hits the kids, but she would always do anything for him. They also used to have sex party's together. And I'm not sure her entire sexual history because when she told me, I was disgusted, but moved past it kind of. It's crazy after 5 years, saying she loves me, and she tells me I'm now a roommate. She has kids with the guy, so I should have seen this coming. But still, it hurts being this betrayed. Her ex even tried to break us up so many times, and she didn't think it was a big deal. I came home one day, and she told me he's offering her Florida tickets. I told her I didn't want her talking to someone who used to hit kids and her. Well, she left me soon after.
how to get back my ex from his ex?
efleda radones right
I mean I really would like a game plan but honestly, it's way too much money I could never afford that...
I wasted 6.5 years with this idiot. Trying to keep her away the entire time. I even told her me and him were together. She whined about how hurt she was and he lied about me. Why would she want a man who’s lying to his gf? I finally let him go. And now they’re married. Smh. Can’t stand them, but glad I’m free of his bs.
My ex already has a new boyfriend in the moment. She wanted to to meet up with me but I don’t want any drama so I refused. Recently I found out she was contacting her other ex boyfriends before me. Lol what the hell is wrong with that girl
I need some help. My ex went back to his baby mama without telling me and just found out from a pastor. He seems on another page not with me. M so frustrated
I recently broke up with him few days after his ex texted him to see him in person but he blocked her. Now she’s watching my instagram story idk if she just wants to see if I’m still with him or she wants to tell me something. But they are in the same country and I’m not. I just want to find out if he’s gonna go back to his ex or I’m just paranoid. If he does go back to her then I don’t have to waste my time. I want to find out if he’s lying or not since in the relationship he was loving caring and loyal
We was in a relationship for more than 2 years. After we broke up about a month ago i just found out that his in contact with his ex. He deleted our photos after we broke up but then that girl photos are still on his account ( i was not insecure at that time so i don't mind those photos) but now he just deleted me that quick but still kept his ex photo? It hurt to think he just me to heal and when he finally healed he comeback to her.
We were in rebound relationship for 5 months...he was in contact with his ex ...bt then he left me for his ex saying that he can't love anyone more than her
....what should I do now???I feel so down
Should I apply No contact rule to get him back????
I can't find courage to do anything for myself
Did he come back?
I am in a situation where my ex wanted me back while I was in a relationship. He did his best for my new partner to find out. I assumed my fault because I didn't do anything, I was entertaining him. They confronted each other and my new partner who left the person he was dating for me got mad. He wants to leave me and go back to his ex. I spoke to him he is now in between both of us trying to choose while he said he loves me but I hurt him, he doesn't trust me anymore. What should I do in this situation? Let him go or try to be the best partner for him? I love him and I am willing to work hard to gain is trust again
I just want to know she’s safe and happy. I’d love for her to be with me and it hurts that she’s not but I love her and I just need to know she’s ok so I can be ok.
Same situation just Thanksgiving she went back to abusive ex husband I'm broken 💔 I miss her daughter too this is so messed up... Not only that he texted me with her group chat saying they worked out their differences and then told her in the chat to block my number now. 😡 😢 💔
Problem is we are about to have a kid. I backed off to work on me has changed. I stopped focusing on her and put it on me and my soon to be son. Only contact has really been about the kid. But now she has been talking to her other ex other kids dad. So it's tough she post about him. I am confused because she reaches out to me and him. He lives in a different country so I am not worried but she really loved him I can tell. Sucks but I don't compete I work on me and haven't changed my approach just sucks.
Hello i have been with a guy for few months but we had a big argument and we split up. I left another guy before i met him but he was always contacting me and wanted to meet even i said i have another bf. After i seen my ex the one we had a massive argument and we talked i got pregnant from my previous boyfriend but he wanted to meet me before that he was seeing someone else and now he wants to be only friends with me and also his ex wife is now here with him and his child. I am upset and he doesn't even have time to meet me. He is telling me all the time we can meet when he has time i am not sure what shall i do in this scenario. He is promising to meet after i give a birth. thanks
so... no hope? mi ex lef me and back with his ex wife...
Coach Adrian on point they go to that black book call ex they used talked to lol
Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
Maybe we dont have a change were broke up 1month ago we have 6months relationship before and he come back from her ex they not married but they have 1kid its there have a change to us to come back ?🥺
My ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago. He’s back with his ex girlfriend before me. I’m devastated. He did the same thing exactly a year ago, but came back to me. What do I do?
Hey Megan Chaffinch, you need to find a way to show him that he can't do this to you any longer, that is, should he want to get back with you and give it another go - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV and what way is that? I think this time it really is over. I think he was never over her in the 2 years we were together and when he threw me out of his house literally, she was right there.
did he try coming back?
I was dating someone and thought it was going to get serious but I always had the feeling that he was still in the ex wife We broke up he made it feel like I did something wrong when I didn’t never told me that the way he was acting the way he was was because he had gotten back together with ex-wife after being separated for four years and I’m genuinely happy but there’s so many Unleft answers And what bothers me is that he always spoke horrible about this person I really love this guy how do I move on from this
Update
What if my ex husband went back to his ex who supposedly cheated on him and this the second time when he broke up with her because she cheated and was with the other guy but once she chatted with him and left him for another person and was with tht person for 3 year and just recently they broke up and started tlking to my husband again ? She 4 year younger then him and they dated in hs
my ex went back to his ex the same day when he broke up with me saying that i am in a new relationship now i cant come back. is it a rebound or serious?
What if he went back to someone from 7 years ago that was a 7 year together but I was 5.5 years he left her as he left her for someone else please answer thank you
I need my ex back... Please help
My ex and I dated 18 years ago, never had sex back then. 4 years ago we found eachother online and I decided to go to England meet him. An year later I was leaving everything behind to make a living with this man. I left my dayghters with my parents for 6 months so we could have everything ready for them. They arrived at the same moment I was giving birth to our daughter which is 18 months now. October 2017 we decided to return to our country Portugal. As our problem was me not trusting him I threw him out 3 times. The 4th time it was for good as neither of us wanted to be hurt again though we loved eachother... We broke up on 9th February. Few weeks later he was with his ex from 13 years ago... Feels like he wants to live everything he has lived with me with this ex... Mine and her first name it's the same and the last just changes the last 3 letters... I mean... What should I think of this? He spent the last 3 months in mind games, saying he wouldn't ever get back to me, that he was happy but wanted to kiss me one last time, he asked to hang around, to have coffee, a splif... He said that was his way of saying that he would come back and that he didn't because I didn't had an attitude towards him... then we agree to have sex but with no expectations. I prepared the night of his life and I told him it was a way of me apologizing my share of the blame for our ending and that we could now live our lifes. He used that as an excuse for him to wear a ring now... He blamed ME!!! Has he ever loved me???
So my Ex kinda has a soft corner for his ex he likes talking to her. I get really insecure. We've been together for about 6years now but he thinks his ex is better than me. His ex however doesnt want to get back with him. But him only talking to her makes me want to throw tantrums around. Just can't deal with her talking to him ? How can I evaluate this behaviour
Thank you Coach Alex my Ex is back
Happy to hear that, Alon!
Coach Adrian
This is exactly my situation, he told his friend to tell me that he's back in love with his ex en the worst thing in this is they are in the same country and am in another continent for more than 1 year, I don't know if he said this to chase me a way or hurt me or it's real,
Am still in no contact it's two weeks now, he unblocked me on facebook but he has not written to me yet, my heart tell me that maybe he unblocked me because he wanted to show me that he moved on, seriously am confused, though still in no contact
Need some advice
Thanks
Hi Alex and Adrian! Would you please make a video on "What can one do when their ex is seeing someone new and that too after a long time separation?"
If they go bk to their ex its likely an abusive trauma bond and they will keep going bk
My man of 5 years left me for his ex, they broke up 12 years ago... she dumped him cos he was taking illicit drugs behind her back... he still does. But fuck, from 12 years ago.. so ridiculous
Thank you I been wanting somebody to tell me about this yes my ex went back to his old ex and dating her I am hurt but not no more I move on and I making good things coming soon for me I trying now to keep my head up not to look back but see time to time he will texts me or try to come see me time to time but he with his ex so now I told him no haven't saw him and two months but anyway thank you.😃
Tracy Morris these men are the type of confused men don't entertain them
Hey Tracy, to further elaborate on @Queen k slay's point... implement No Contact in order to entertain them. They're not confused, they are just narcissistic and want to make sure that not even their ex moves on with their lives - Coach Steven
Thanks Queen k I love the support thanks 😊
I'm facing my ex when back to her ex. Now she is trying to cut me off. We only have 20days relationship. We used to believe we may create a future together. What can I do to win her back
Hi Sang,
I would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching call so we can talk about what happened in this relationship and figure out what you have to do next to get her back.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
He is 70 I am 61. We have been together just over a year. He and his ex were in an on/off relationship for 8 years. We started dating 3 or so months after their last breakup. But she has been trying to get him back this whole time. ( maybe she used one of your methods) He has a home in Arizona where I live. And Utah where she lives. He was severely injured in March. His Daughter who is a nurse moved him in with her to get him back to health. Soon after he left AZ he called and said he wanted to break up. He changed his mind several times. Not enough room for all the drama on this page. But eventually came back to me saying that I should move in and never leave. Which I did. We do not fight. We have such fun together. He loves me. And each time wants to break up with me he cries and cries. And we always stay together. Except this time. He still almost couldn't leave me. He cried more than ever. But he is gone. I am in love with this man.
My partner moved out n went back to his ex's place to live. My partner n I are still a couple after working things out but he said he wont move back in with me. My partner said there is no sexual contact with his ex n i have to trust him. I do ! But it does my head in he lives with her n not me. She has more time with him than me. I believe my partner has bipolar n gaslighter. So does his mother as it runs in the family. He has a gental sole. We have become alot closer n enjoy each other more. Like a new romance igniting. But how do I get him to come home. My biggest concern is, he said he wont leave the ex because she is like a security blanket that he loves. I know he's not in love with her but ref loves her. HOW DO I CONVINCE HIM TO COME HOME ! His reason for not coming back is he doesnt wont to argue anymore, which has stopped, n now n we enjoy each others company more n more only just of late. WILL HE COME HOME IN THE NEAR FUTURE ?
Hey, thank you love advice so much I can hear you guys and it calms me down. Its hard having this issue in my life it's like a tug of war. I was hoping maybe there is payments available?
My ex of 14mths(i'm his longest relationship) went back to his 2nd ex who CHEATED on him after 2+/3months after we broke up..
What if an ex added his ex from the past( first love,beautiful woman) on FB also she’s liking his FB pics..😳😭he knew I’ve been always jelaous about her..second thing is she’s in a different country..and I think she’s married deffo with 2 kids..I had to calm down cause anxiety kicked in😂😭
My boyfriend of over three years left me for the second time to go back to his alcoholic wife... they never actually got back together the first time and he came back to me... he was married to his ex for over 20 years and they have a 17-year-old son that she took away from him and moved out of state... she’s an alcoholic and her boyfriend of three years just walked out on her and the drunken text messages started rolling in that she wants my boyfriend back even leaving threatening messages but if he doesn’t leave me she will take their son and move even further away.. he doesn’t know I saw these text messages and I truly believe he left me because of the threats... he broke up with me over the phone all his stuff is still at my house I’ve been trying to use the no contact rule for over two weeks now..Please help I want my boyfriend back we were great together and he agrees but tells me he needs to go back to his ex-wife
Idk if anyone will read my comments since this video is from 3 years ago but I will just comment it here. My ex broke up with me and got a new gf very quickly but then after three months he came back to me with saying sorry about hurting me like having a new gf right after broke up he said he shouldn’t have done that but then he didnt want to get back with me he just wanted to hangout with me and do the things he used to do during our relationship so I stopped him with saying I still have feelings for him and I dont want to be friends like this so if you change ur mind let me know or whats up with ur mind and he said he will let me know if he changes his mind and thanks for being honest but then I just found out that he went back with his ex few days ago.. I just dont know what to do I know I need to move on but then its still hard for me to move on.
Move on
Me and my girlfriend had an awesome relationship but she says she still loves a narcissistic ex boyfriend from three years ago who was very selfish and narcissistic, she trying to get him back I have fought for our love what do I do ?
I was mates with my ex before we got together i didn't realise it was a rebound relationship until now. She has told me she has gone back with her ex . She has blocked me on social media but i have no clue if it is him or her. Should I just move on or have i realistically got a change
helo coach alex and coach adrian ... my ex broke up with me 6 days ago... according to him he is not happy anymore and we really dont understand each other. but after 2 days
i have known that he contacted with his ex gf abroad .they are talking again .and my ex even chat to me that he doesnt love me .he love his ex so much ...he deleted my fb .which he can do because its his email that been registered .and then her ex is already using his personal fb account to chat with me ... i tried to chat .but he is very pissed with me ..i am stalking before using other account but it even hurt me more ..i did not try to contact him or her
...but i am very much hurt .i cant stop thinking about him ..is there a chance that my ex will comeback to me .or what .i am very confused .... i am very hurt .we are both working abroad same country but working place is far. ...its very hard for me .... please can you help me
Hi Mikaela, thank you for sharing and we hope you are doing well. Your situation sounds very complex and I suggest you book a coaching session with one of our expert coaches to help you sort this out www.withmyexagain.com/blog/use-social-media-to-get-back-with-your-ex/ - Coach Steven
Hi,
My ex broke up with me in March after a year of being together and he expressed to me it was because he needed to find himself and get himself together. At the time we were long distance, so our only form of communication was through text and video calls. We kept in touch a few days after we broke up and then we’d go a week max without talking, but the texts were initiated by me and one of our interactions led to an argument and me pleading to be friends at some point. We hadn’t spoken for a few weeks after that but 4 weeks ago I contacted him about rumors of him dating his ex again. He denied it and came off really rude so I ignored it, but then he texted me again 6 hours later accusing me of talking about him on my twitter. I responded then he didn’t respond and we haven’t spoken since. But he has made it aware on social media that he is talking to his ex again and his life is complete and he is so happy. Should I just let him go and move on?
I talk to my ex now. After nc.. He loves me and he miss me.. But now he is in toxic relationship and its hard to get out of it.. I don't know how he will manage ths drama
What if the ex is her legal husband who left them for other women before and then came back because he saw the life of the girl he dumped before is good now. They both leave their present and live together again 😢
Yes i wanna get back with my ex for good relationship again and to build again a new life with him....and yes also we both happy coz we are sharing everything we had we ate together all the time go everywhere go out with our friends..and bonding with his family
Did he hurt you?
I want to know what if anything ex posts a photo of his ex on his.what can one do
What if its been 6 months already and I never heard from him?
Hi So We Were Dating Five Months And She Left Me For Her Ex Boyfriend But Gave Me Silly Reasons For Leaving... They Were Just Excuses To Be Precise Lol... And I've Worked On Them At A Small Percentage Though,And She Called Me The Other Day After I Decided To Move On,To Tell Me That She Misses Me And She Wanted To Hear My Voice And Bluh.. Bluh.. So What Should I Do? I Was In No Contact And I'm Healing Fast,Thanks To You Love Advice TV.. I Kind Of Love And Hate Her But I Don't Love Her Like I Used To.. So If For Example She Approaches Me Again.. I'm Scared Of Her Leaving Me. Its Been Two Months Since We Part Ways
Do you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons?
My ex left me for her bf and she blocked me evry where so what should i do she loves me but deu to some problm she is wid her ex bf is this possible to get her back how to unblock from her side i dint follow no contact rull when ever i msg her she block me
Heyy coach my ex went back to his ex...He is telling we are just friends n there is no future of me n my ex...
He said I would cut all of the contact with her..just give me some time till then we will be friends...
I m confused wht to do?
Should i be his frnd or not?
Go no contact and heal. They want to use you to get over you and for emotional support while they pour all their energy into their new relationship.
Hi Alex and Adrian😊
Why is my ex liking his old ex's Instagram posts and not mine?
I gone through same, but I think he always had relation with her, he lied me. Because he engaged her after 20 days he finish with me. He was just a garbage, not we were on same level for anything
My ex wife went back to her ex girlfriend from 8th and 9th grade we have a son to get her and was together for 8 years we split for 2 years and now she is back with her
My husband wants his ex girfriend back we have been together for 15 yrs married for 3 yrs.
Wtf!!! And now???
My ex left me because of there ex when his ex wants to come back in there life after a breakup of 2.5 years.. Is that love?? is she come back bcoz she's still in luv when he is enough happy with me or she's back to check he's move on to her or not ...
what if he starts to compare u w ur ex bcoz u got all the wrong doings and he startedbto appreciate his ex...do i still have the chance?
U guys r awhsame💕💕 thank you
If anyone from Leicester, UK, also experiences this, reply...
my ex has asked for clean break for a week. HOw do I approach him after the week has ended, he has gone back to hix ex
Hi Coach I broke no contact at Day 25... eversinced he dumped me he has been viewing every single one of my snapchat stories... I reached out with a light hearted message,he responded immediately & after exchanging afew messages, he went silent again.
I didnt chase text nor tried to chat further.
It has been 24hrs & although he continue viewing my snap stories, he didnt text me... what should I do?
Hi Polar Belle, you should block him on all social media and begin to look forward. Give him an opportunity to chase you. You're making it too easy on him by allowing him to keep tabs on you through social media. He has no reason to ask you how you're doing if he can get the answer through snap stories - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV Thank U Coach Steven, when i reached out twice texting him over light hearted things his response is always fast & responsive but it fizzles out soon after. Its a reaction i never got from him before, does it show disinterest?
@@PolarBear-mj9wt did you get him back?
Me and my girl talked about me wanting to have sex with an ex. She was very thankful and told me that she wants my ex as well. So the three of us do well in and out of the bed. I've had both of them plus two of there friends. Honesty goes a long way. We let being dishonest, keep us from being real men. Men need to tell there girls how they think...game changer.