I think if a person stay with a cheater or allow them to return you are messing up the QUALITY OF LIFE for ALL women, especially your daughters, nieces, and other females in the family. The message you send out when you stay with a CHEATER is it's no big deal....you have no problem being a FLOOR MAT. Guess what's going to happen? You already know. Women who stay with CHEATERS are very, very SELFISH females. They don't care about how they are messing it up for ALL women....When a survey was done and the question posed was "why do men cheat"...98% of the men said "BECAUSE WOMEN LET US". Come on now...how do women ever expect these dudes to change when they keep rewarding their bad behavior? Keeping him in your life is the same as REWARDING HIM. Personally me, you CHEAT on Sheila Truelove ONCE and you're DONE! The TRUST is all the way GONE and I REFUSE to live my life constantly STRESSED out. Stress cause STROKES, HEART ATTACKS and DECELERATED AGING. I'm NOT doing it. I'm not becoming some OLD woman for no Clown. Also, because I have a daughter, grand daughter and nieces, etc. I've had several women tell me how I have helped them become stronger women thanks to my Channel. Cheating will NEVER be TOLERATED......NEVER! You only get to CUT MY THROAT and STAB ME IN MY BACK ONE time.
Great content. Men do block off a certain part of their heart. When you are in tune with your partner you can feel the skepticism. Thank you for validating what i already knew to be true because it is something they will also never verbalize.
Valarie Ford If he cheats..He doesn’t have a choice..I’m Not letting him come back..I’m not dealing with no revolving door relationships. He messed up really bad now he can deal with himself...without me🌷
This happened with my ex-husband and I. We got together when we were 16. We had our first child at 18 and moved in together. We had our second child at 21, was married at 24 and had another child at 26 an by the time we were 32 we had 5 children. We were together for 22 years, married for 16 and we both cheated on each other. When he caught me that's when our marriage dissolved. This is so true. Neither one of us knew how to communicate and we argued/fought all the time. The whole blessing out of our relationship is our 2 oldest children are in college and our 3 younger one's are excelling in high school and elementary school, and now we're friends. Which was how we initially started off.
Wow! What beautiful testimony on allowing nature and self love to run its course. People do out-grow one another. The mistake is ignoring Truth. Very happy you all remained friends; for the sake of the children 's emotional well-being
@@pattypink1374 , They're not satisfied until you're Sequenced , Errored AND Deleted!!😂 That's why you should "NEVER BACKTRACK", if you want to Stay Alive!!😂
I love this!!! Every single video you make is straight on point!! I agree with every single thing you say! You are a REAL man and you and your wife are very blessed to have each other! May God bless your marriage everyday and make your love grow more and more!!
Hey Tony, I think the advice you gave her was great on being a great mother to her son although the father stepped down. I think it is very important to remind signal mothers and also anyone raising a son is to also allow him to go through emotions. Help him to learn how to express their emotions. Not to the point where he can’t control his emotions but so he would learn how to deal correctly with a woman hurting him or something being said to him that he did not like. That’s my opinion. A lot of guys are told they are soft because they shed a tear or they need to man up and get out of their feelings. Females seems to be the only ones that are allowed to have feelings in this society.
You can forgive, heal, and move on with your life in Jesus name. Forgiveness don't necessarily mean that you are supposed to let that person back in your life. Either way blessings to you and yours in Jesus name.
My boyfriend been cheating for 5 months and I just caught him it was physical , I found out about it through his phone but when I confronted him he lied about the time he was cheating I was willing to give another chance but he keeps on with lies and I dont know what to think now that I know he was doing it for a 5 months . I just pray god gives me strength to let go. Its soooo hard
Okay well if ya spouse you been with for 5 years tell you dead it ain't working right it ain't this it ain't that but at the same time yeah like you said in your other request you said that they oppose of day they want you to do what they want you to do or whatever well yes that's what he wanted or whatever but I didn't give him that opportunity or whatever like my mama always told me you cannot keep a man that man want to stay he going to stay if he ain't been something else up on today or whatever but it was like we've been together for five years we stayed together and everything but it's like he good then he bad already know the feeling every woman have an Intuition or whatever it's like he didn't want me no more or you want me but you want to go on about your business though like I say you can't have your cake in your your dinner too because at the end of the day which one are you going to pick but I feel like this cell first God and then other without cell first and God it ain't nothing you damn you suck so that's why I'm still finding myself and not in no relationship and yes he called trying to call me like you say don't answer or whatever don't answer the text or whatever and I don't I got my other phone cut off or with not so he won't even call me or what up he don't got this number so and I rub for him not to have it but at the same time I feel like he did me wrong but I'm going to see to bigger and better things and that's what God and Jesus and I appreciate your help and listen to you mr. Tony because people need to get on the site and listen to you more you be like you open up my eyes but open up my eyes to like realize knowing what you been preached and gifted with I'm also gifted with the same thing but is another way around it or whatever and like you said I had his contacts on instead of my own contacts on or whatever I was seeing what I wanted to see but I want to see how long it was going to take him to keep on f****** up doing what he doing I know when I got a call or whatever from I ain't racist from a white chick or whatever that's when I know something was up or whatever that's when I ain't have no more trust nobody leave their him I just felt like I was down like I was in a relationship for 5 years I would not indulge is like what the f*** I was saying I don't even know what the f*** I got myself into or how I got myself into it but it is a God it is and it is a Jesus and them two men he'll help me and receive me looking at the picture also meaning you know how when a person want to see something when they said they like is not real well that's how I was I kept saying it with a real butt when I kept seeing it just shocked me in my my heart was just going down to my stomach like butterflies or something like that so that's when I really like just got over it I said f*** it I'm too beautiful I'm too strong for this I'm too I'm 100% black but I'm a queen that King and that King is a plant's now because he's not no King you ain't even a prince you are either that's what you are and other things mr. Tony is doing fine now thank you I appreciate it but all you talk on social media and TH-cam Some people ain't listening some people don't want to listen they think it's a joke but at the same time they know their feelings hurt but they don't know if they lead it person who else going to treat them like that person did or who going to be with that person on that side order of a person don't want to leave another person because they think they scared because that other person ain't going to be like that other person which that is great the I think because the other person did you find the meet at new or whatever may bring you happy dreams you might be fun with that person you might be jolly happy and so much relief that you could jump to the sky something or whatever so that's why I'm saying one love
The real question is: Why do you keep taking him back? A person will go as far as you allow him/her to go. Please know your worth.
Ten years with a man and still no ring? It doesn't take 10 years to know that she's the one. She should go on with her life.
I think if a person stay with a cheater or allow them to return you are messing up the QUALITY OF LIFE for ALL women, especially your daughters, nieces, and other females in the family. The message you send out when you stay with a CHEATER is it's no big deal....you have no problem being a FLOOR MAT. Guess what's going to happen? You already know. Women who stay with CHEATERS are very, very SELFISH females. They don't care about how they are messing it up for ALL women....When a survey was done and the question posed was "why do men cheat"...98% of the men said "BECAUSE WOMEN LET US". Come on now...how do women ever expect these dudes to change when they keep rewarding their bad behavior? Keeping him in your life is the same as REWARDING HIM. Personally me, you CHEAT on Sheila Truelove ONCE and you're DONE! The TRUST is all the way GONE and I REFUSE to live my life constantly STRESSED out. Stress cause STROKES, HEART ATTACKS and DECELERATED AGING. I'm NOT doing it. I'm not becoming some OLD woman for no Clown. Also, because I have a daughter, grand daughter and nieces, etc. I've had several women tell me how I have helped them become stronger women thanks to my Channel. Cheating will NEVER be TOLERATED......NEVER! You only get to CUT MY THROAT and STAB ME IN MY BACK ONE time.
This video is Men 101 ladies! Hes answering EVERY ? We have EVER asked and he is HONEST! Recognize when u r his "rest haven" when hes n between women
Great content. Men do block off a certain part of their heart. When you are in tune with your partner you can feel the skepticism. Thank you for validating what i already knew to be true because it is something they will also never verbalize.
If you cheat don't comeback life is to short
Valarie Ford If he cheats..He doesn’t have a choice..I’m Not letting him come back..I’m not dealing with no revolving door relationships.
He messed up really bad now he can deal with himself...without me🌷
Wow. Great word. Gotta break the pattern and leave. Not easy if you’ve allowed it so long but worth it
This happened with my ex-husband and I. We got together when we were 16. We had our first child at 18 and moved in together. We had our second child at 21, was married at 24 and had another child at 26 an by the time we were 32 we had 5 children. We were together for 22 years, married for 16 and we both cheated on each other. When he caught me that's when our marriage dissolved. This is so true. Neither one of us knew how to communicate and we argued/fought all the time. The whole blessing out of our relationship is our 2 oldest children are in college and our 3 younger one's are excelling in high school and elementary school, and now we're friends. Which was how we initially started off.
Wow! What beautiful testimony on allowing nature and self love to run its course. People do out-grow one another. The mistake is ignoring Truth. Very happy you all remained friends; for the sake of the children 's emotional well-being
@@Freeme2bme Thank you ❤.
Why does he cheat and come back? Simple.you allow it.
True
Exactly so
😳WHY DO THEY COME BACK?.....TO FINISH YOU OFF!!😜
Marva Newborn right!
@@pattypink1374 , They're not satisfied until you're Sequenced , Errored AND Deleted!!😂 That's why you should "NEVER BACKTRACK", if you want to Stay Alive!!😂
😂😂
Marva Newborn why?
This definitely deserves more likes and recognition!
That was great information and heart felt
Great information, Tony! Thank you so much for explaining so honestly and in so much detail!
I love this!!! Every single video you make is straight on point!! I agree with every single thing you say! You are a REAL man and you and your wife are very blessed to have each other! May God bless your marriage everyday and make your love grow more and more!!
Much needed and appreciated. 🙏 TY, Mr. Gaskins.
Thanks so much Tony...love it...God bless you
Great show!! ❤❤❤
Hey Tony, I think the advice you gave her was great on being a great mother to her son although the father stepped down.
I think it is very important to remind signal mothers and also anyone raising a son is to also allow him to go through emotions. Help him to learn how to express their emotions. Not to the point where he can’t control his emotions but so he would learn how to deal correctly with a woman hurting him or something being said to him that he did not like.
That’s my opinion. A lot of guys are told they are soft because they shed a tear or they need to man up and get out of their feelings.
Females seems to be the only ones that are allowed to have feelings in this society.
Preach TG preach!!!!!!!!!!!
I can’t survive this pattern and I am not happy and he is being to be forgiven but my fear now is Greater than my trust
Pray to the lord and ask God to give you strength and guide you in the right direction and he will just trust him God is our strength
You can forgive, heal, and move on with your life in Jesus name. Forgiveness don't necessarily mean that you are supposed to let that person back in your life. Either way blessings to you and yours in Jesus name.
Because you allowed yourself to be a door mat. He knows you will take it back
Great show. Thanks for the info
Love your channel... thank you Tony
Thank you! Great video
So how can we know the difference between someone coming back over ego and love?
Love doesn't cause harm to the person you give it to... it is always EGO.
According to the audio if the man loves you, he won’t do it again, in this case cheat. If the cycle continues the man is not 100% in, thus ego.
You right about that facts
Thank you!
My boyfriend been cheating for 5 months and I just caught him it was physical , I found out about it through his phone but when I confronted him he lied about the time he was cheating
I was willing to give another chance but he keeps on with lies and I dont know what to think now that I know he was doing it for a 5 months . I just pray god gives me strength to let go. Its soooo hard
The last half was on fire; every word was inspired by God.
People treat you the Way you allowed them. What if he gave gave you a STD will you take him back
Speaking facts
So sad
Okay well if ya spouse you been with for 5 years tell you dead it ain't working right it ain't this it ain't that but at the same time yeah like you said in your other request you said that they oppose of day they want you to do what they want you to do or whatever well yes that's what he wanted or whatever but I didn't give him that opportunity or whatever like my mama always told me you cannot keep a man that man want to stay he going to stay if he ain't been something else up on today or whatever but it was like we've been together for five years we stayed together and everything but it's like he good then he bad already know the feeling every woman have an Intuition or whatever it's like he didn't want me no more or you want me but you want to go on about your business though like I say you can't have your cake in your your dinner too because at the end of the day which one are you going to pick but I feel like this cell first God and then other without cell first and God it ain't nothing you damn you suck so that's why I'm still finding myself and not in no relationship and yes he called trying to call me like you say don't answer or whatever don't answer the text or whatever and I don't I got my other phone cut off or with not so he won't even call me or what up he don't got this number so and I rub for him not to have it but at the same time I feel like he did me wrong but I'm going to see to bigger and better things and that's what God and Jesus and I appreciate your help and listen to you mr. Tony because people need to get on the site and listen to you more you be like you open up my eyes but open up my eyes to like realize knowing what you been preached and gifted with I'm also gifted with the same thing but is another way around it or whatever and like you said I had his contacts on instead of my own contacts on or whatever I was seeing what I wanted to see but I want to see how long it was going to take him to keep on f****** up doing what he doing I know when I got a call or whatever from I ain't racist from a white chick or whatever that's when I know something was up or whatever that's when I ain't have no more trust nobody leave their him I just felt like I was down like I was in a relationship for 5 years I would not indulge is like what the f*** I was saying I don't even know what the f*** I got myself into or how I got myself into it but it is a God it is and it is a Jesus and them two men he'll help me and receive me looking at the picture also meaning you know how when a person want to see something when they said they like is not real well that's how I was I kept saying it with a real butt when I kept seeing it just shocked me in my my heart was just going down to my stomach like butterflies or something like that so that's when I really like just got over it I said f*** it I'm too beautiful I'm too strong for this I'm too I'm 100% black but I'm a queen that King and that King is a plant's now because he's not no King you ain't even a prince you are either that's what you are and other things mr. Tony is doing fine now thank you I appreciate it but all you talk on social media and TH-cam Some people ain't listening some people don't want to listen they think it's a joke but at the same time they know their feelings hurt but they don't know if they lead it person who else going to treat them like that person did or who going to be with that person on that side order of a person don't want to leave another person because they think they scared because that other person ain't going to be like that other person which that is great the I think because the other person did you find the meet at new or whatever may bring you happy dreams you might be fun with that person you might be jolly happy and so much relief that you could jump to the sky something or whatever so that's why I'm saying one love
RITE??? How many times. ?
Should I date a guy who revenges you for every act ?
Hell no
abuser