I have breast cancer

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  • @DylanandDeliaChatwin
    @DylanandDeliaChatwin  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2814

    We want to say thank you for all the prayers and support. We have always been blessed with so much love and positivity from all of our subscribers. We were hesitant on sharing the news and debated on how public we were going to make this. After much thought and prayer, we feel it is best to be open with this journey Delia is going through. Mainly to bring awareness to other women on the importance of getting checked and being proactive with our bodies and health. We plan to keep you guys in the loop throughout this journey. Again, thank you for the prayers and the love. We love you Delia ♥️

    • @conormurphy4089
      @conormurphy4089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I am sorry that Dylan has had cancer before. And now it is Delia... I am really sorry! I am going to pray for you!

    • @sashagalemcfarlane3320
      @sashagalemcfarlane3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Love all the way from Jamaica, I will be praying

    • @authorlydiagreen1862
      @authorlydiagreen1862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I had just asked your brother in a comment a few videos ago how you and your wife are doing. I was becoming concerned and I will be praying.

    • @amberfoster8089
      @amberfoster8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I am sending my thoughts and prayers your way. May God bless you both. This is going to help so many other women. Going to read my bible now for the first time in a while 🙏❤️

    • @marisollaguna8517
      @marisollaguna8517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Sending my prayers to you 🙏 You've got this and God has your back. Keep Jeremiah 29:11 close to your heart.

  • @giovannaortiz9611
    @giovannaortiz9611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2074

    I was diagnosed at age 25 with triple negative breast cancer stage 3. I couldn’t afford to freeze my eggs. Did chemotherapy,bilateral mastectomy &radiation.
    I am now 29 & I was able to get pregnant.I am 14 weeks its my miracle baby ❤️
    Stay positive & spiritual, pray, pray, pray. You will be fine. God bless you.

    • @esmeraldadesmesmin801
      @esmeraldadesmesmin801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Congratulations. Glory be to God. Praise God. God bless you and your new addition. I am praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery.

    • @malissaadams1997
      @malissaadams1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Wow God bless you & continue to keep you.

    • @malissaadams1997
      @malissaadams1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Congratulations on your pregnancy. 🎉🎉🤰

    • @meganmarino2012
      @meganmarino2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      God is so good!! Congrats. Wishing you health, love, and light mama

    • @aminajayy
      @aminajayy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congratulations, hope all is well!

  • @gaildubas8651
    @gaildubas8651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1228

    You are a sweet angel. My mom was stage 3 at 39, she is 84 and still cancer free. This is a cancer journey not a destination.

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Nicely stated.

    • @ytbloexoxo5174
      @ytbloexoxo5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s amazing!!!🙏🙏🙏

    • @ellengill514
      @ellengill514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well Said. It does NOT have to be a destination.

    • @dotty1220
      @dotty1220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ah Gail, that's brilliant ❤❤❤❤

    • @Peacevk
      @Peacevk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that´s great.

  • @mountainmomma9132
    @mountainmomma9132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    I was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer 12 years ago. i was given 6 months to live!!! 6 months!! God knows our end. and He can 100% heal us!!! I will absolutely be praying for you!!! I was 29.

    • @prayforpeace978
      @prayforpeace978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I was also diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 29, there was no lymph node involvement so after my full mastectomy, I had a month of radiation. I am 66 years young however now my husband was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma cancer. I will pray for Delia so she will recover from her surgery and that she responds well with her treatments. Cancer can be beaten.

    • @lynnmahan154
      @lynnmahan154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow! So happy for you. 💛🧡 blessings to you.

    • @hopenoel6421
      @hopenoel6421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God work in mysterious ways, stay blessed

    • @giovannaortiz9611
      @giovannaortiz9611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God is Amazing!! I always say science can tell you so much but the one that is in control is God ❤️ he has the last word. You are blessed!!! Happy for you & your family.

    • @mountainmomma9132
      @mountainmomma9132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@giovannaortiz9611 God is truly amazing!! I am so blessed i will be watching my daughter walk down the isle tomorrow! I praise the name of Jesus!!

  • @jeanieturner875
    @jeanieturner875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I had ductile carcinoma at the age of 32. I am 73 years old now. Praying for you. God bless.

    • @normis2234
      @normis2234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Praying for you guys.

    • @zkitty19205
      @zkitty19205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This comment give me sooo much hope for my friend who was recently diagnosed with stage 4 ductile carcinoma. It has spread to other organs but I am VERY hopeful he will beat this. He stated chemo a month ago. Please keep him in your prayers

    • @lorij6796
      @lorij6796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jeanie Turner
      Thank you for sharing that. I was recently diagnosed with the same thing. Scan after scan, MRI, CT, PET, does it ever end? I'm so happy to hear that you survived! God bless you 🙏❤

    • @Ditto....
      @Ditto.... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thankful to hear this. I had idc stage 1, grade 3.

    • @chelsia11501
      @chelsia11501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's amazing! You give me hope

  • @suewalters9822
    @suewalters9822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1132

    Dear Jesus, please wrap your arms around this couple and guide them through this journey. Amen

  • @mjduffy618
    @mjduffy618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    I have survived Spina Bifida and three different types of Cancer including DCIS. I have been Cancer free since 2012 and had a baby when I was 44. God is truly a miracle worker. I will pray for you. God bless.

    • @FanDebronco97
      @FanDebronco97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What is DCIS? I was born with spina bifida myself.

    • @hayleydryden8358
      @hayleydryden8358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FanDebronco97 its a very early form of breast cancer..

    • @hayleydryden8358
      @hayleydryden8358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Non invasive..

    • @ellengill514
      @ellengill514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you Jesus for His healing of you.

    • @vmina12
      @vmina12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After you had DCIS did cancer return in your breast? Did you do radiation after surgery?

  • @kimberlynicole1659
    @kimberlynicole1659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I was diagnosed 3 years ago at age 34. Stage II Triple Negative. I have 8 rounds of chemo, 36 rounds of radiation, a double mastectomy and reconstruction. You. Will. Beat. This.
    I also had no children previously and was told after that I wouldn’t be able to have children. God works in mysterious ways because I birthed a little boy in august 2019 ❤️ I’m praying for you both. For your strength. For your healing.

    • @siianalanguages
      @siianalanguages 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow it’s so Inspiring, I am looking for a magic to become a mom after my cancer treatment is over. Your inspired me, thank you ❤️

    • @vikidonor1693
      @vikidonor1693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plz Update us about your health

  • @lildevil872
    @lildevil872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    I was diagnosed with stage 3 idc breast cancer at the age of 28 and that was almost 6 years ago. Cancer is no longer a death sentence. You're gonna beat this nasty disease and be a survivor. Don't give up

  • @sharonkeyser7265
    @sharonkeyser7265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    My sister has been cancer free for 50 years! My best friend was stage 4, 12 years ago. She is amazing and has so much more energy than I have. You got this pretty girl!

    • @jenn_81
      @jenn_81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      What a great positive comment to read!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @peacockgrandma
      @peacockgrandma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My sister is now 58 and she has had 2 bouts of BC with recovery, so stay encouraged! The success rate of treatment are great! We will keep you in our prayers as you face this journey. I am so glad that you have such a great support family in the Chatwins and in your online support friends! US! Love you guys.

    • @kaitlyngracevinod4914
      @kaitlyngracevinod4914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My name is Jyothi. I'm stage 4 breast cancer fighter. Just completed 6 chemos. Still a long way to go. I'm 40. My kids are too young. Second one is 2years old and the first one is 5years old

    • @davdav3945
      @davdav3945 ปีที่แล้ว

      Our son is 12 🙈, me freshly diagnosed with a bunch of chronic diseases in tow. Gives me hope to read that so many did it. ☮️

    • @davdav3945
      @davdav3945 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think I might have watched all your videos. Thank you for being so honest. You gave me hope in a moment when it is difficult to hope. ❤️ Warm wishes from Germany ☮️

  • @TNT_dynamight
    @TNT_dynamight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    dylan looks heartbroken and lost. I’m so sorry for you all and am praying hard

    • @judyluce3141
      @judyluce3141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, his face tells it all. So horrible.

  • @theogstasimay
    @theogstasimay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I understand your situation, been there. I was 33 and given 6 months to live. I’m now turning 56 this month! You are a warrior and you will defeat the monster, in the name of Jesus!

  • @DELLAVLOGS
    @DELLAVLOGS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2075

    Praying for you guys!

    • @caroljay593
      @caroljay593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are both in my prayers. Youare a very strong and strong lady. God will be by your side through out this journey. So will the people that love and keep you in their prayers. God Bless you Both.🙏❤🙏❤🙏

    • @sarahkidd1508
      @sarahkidd1508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Della!!!

    • @mrkhoros
      @mrkhoros 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea like praying works lol

    • @ilyssahagood8387
      @ilyssahagood8387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @ashleygibson742
      @ashleygibson742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praying for you!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @korvmalin
    @korvmalin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Dylan gets cancer, infertility and now Delia has cancer. This is so unfair, keeping you guys in my prayers.

    • @lujainaakz1630
      @lujainaakz1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dylan has cancer too!!

    • @kimberlyearly8918
      @kimberlyearly8918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lujainaakz1630 He had it in the past.

    • @sueshe5953
      @sueshe5953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'd take the cancer if I had a husband who loved me like that. Everyone has a different battle

    • @Jessicace
      @Jessicace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@sueshe5953 that's a very strange thing to say.

    • @kristinaweagant5421
      @kristinaweagant5421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@sueshe5953 Uhhhh what? That's the dumbest thing I've heard...

  • @dianecosta4071
    @dianecosta4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Delia and Dylan, I am a nurse that specializes in Oncology. Please remember that a positive attitude and love is so important. I know this is difficult but try to keep things light and try to inject humor, watch funny movies. I have noticed that humor is so important. Try to laugh. You can do this. May the warm winds of heaven blow softly upon your spirit. Praying for you both. 💕

    • @ZeroGravity60
      @ZeroGravity60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Diane. Your right. Cancer loves sugar and hates oxygen. I used prolonged bouts of sincere laughter to help treat my stage 4 colon cancer. I was given 6 to 8 months to live. It's now 28 months since diagnosis and I've passed two medical exams. Laughter [oxygen] is the great healer. Peace.

    • @dianecosta4071
      @dianecosta4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Look for me on the bottom of your feet. I can guarantee that you do not have an expiration date there. Do not let anyone tell you how long you have to live. Keep up with all your doing. Love and light.

    • @Happydaily24
      @Happydaily24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Warm winds of heaven blow softy on your spirt! That’s got to be one of the most beautiful sentences I’ve ever heard! Tears!

  • @marimarreyes285
    @marimarreyes285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Hi Delia, I’m going through the same thing. Breast cancer stage 2. 47 days after I got engaged I went to the doctors and right there and then I was diagnosed. I cried so much. I’m only 25 years old. It’s been a long journey. I went through chemotherapy, 2 surgeries, and radiation. Next month I will get a pet scan. Praying everything goes well. Praying for you, you are not alone. God is with us all the time!♥️ love you!

    • @khloediamantis5542
      @khloediamantis5542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      How are you doing? Hope the scan came back normal 💕💕

    • @sophsmithsmusic
      @sophsmithsmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sending you lots of love❤️❤️❤️

    • @helgafrankly3123
      @helgafrankly3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got rid of my ovarian cancer with the help of #drosuma herbs and supplements

    • @nataliaporsiempre7608
      @nataliaporsiempre7608 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marinar reyes ?? Breast cancer at 25 ? :( why ?

    • @helgafrankly3123
      @helgafrankly3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nataliaporsiempre7608 ??

  • @devinnwilliams715
    @devinnwilliams715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    This beautiful couple can't catch a break! First infertility and his cancer and now her cancer. I just pray kids are in their future.

  • @joannejensen4369
    @joannejensen4369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Dylan and Delia. I feel compelled to let you know. We have a very close friend that went through fertility treatments and also was diagnosed with cancer. They now have 2 beautiful children naturally and have a clear bill of health. I just needed you to know it will be all okay. Love and prayers.

    • @leylaleyla8953
      @leylaleyla8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      All those medical chemical pills, procedures cause cancer. Traditional medicine is supposed to make evetybody sick and depopulate us. People should just stop messing with all those medical and other chemicals. Our body is organic, so we should consume only organic things, not non-organic chemicals. Only natural things can help you. Learn hollistic medicine and you'll be fine. Get better

    • @grandthanks
      @grandthanks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@leylaleyla8953 here, have a think...
      maybe question whether or not your comment adds-to or detracts-from these people’s (because they are people, just like you and me) pain.
      You can put all the natural produce you like into your body but if you’re listening to stories like this and feeling the need to drop comment turds like the above something is very, very wrong inside you.
      No one knows for certain why either of these folks got dealt the hand they did; our job as human beings isn’t to finger wag it’s to show compassion and hold space- especially when someone is sick.
      Don’t be a dick.
      Go feed your soul for a bit.
      And maybe delete what you wrote.
      At best it’s unhelpful, at worst it’s deeply harmful.
      Tbh, it’s it’s own kind of sick.
      Do better.
      Get better.
      Soon.

    • @fxjrulpzxi
      @fxjrulpzxi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grandthanks I don’t think they’re being a dick, it’s solid advice and true. I don’t have cancer but I am struggling with infertility. There’s only so much we can do.

  • @LyndyLive
    @LyndyLive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    My husband and I are both cancer survivors. One of the best pieces of advice, I was given, when my husband was diagnosed was “a diagnosis isn’t a death sentence.” And it’s not. It’s hard to understand but you have so many praying for you. I hope you feel that.

    • @jamimarie6117
      @jamimarie6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congrats!

    • @quranvibes5614
      @quranvibes5614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jamimarie6117 what

    • @joeyp7431
      @joeyp7431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mums got terminal lung cancer , she's only got a matter of months left 😪

    • @joeyp7431
      @joeyp7431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @aena sadly it is true, shes getting weaker by the day 😪thank you sweetheart im holding in there, its very difficult though ❤

    • @lifeofsam2401
      @lifeofsam2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lots of love from a fellow cancer survivor

  • @HausOfDaniels
    @HausOfDaniels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    You will be cancer free! You will conceive AND carry! You will give birth and have a healthy baby and recovery! God’s got this. You both just remain strong and a unified front through this. I love you both!

    • @tbc543
      @tbc543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      what a terrible thing to say. this could take her life, get a grip.

    • @laurasinfield2431
      @laurasinfield2431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tbc543 - I agree. I hate it when people announce that you're going to be ok, everythings going to be brilliant,,blah blah,,, it is not the right encouragement to give to people..I am a Stage 4 cancer patient and was once told by my surgeon that I was cancer free..9 months later I was having a tumour removed from my liver,,which is apparantly exactly what a cancer would do,,, positivity mixed with a splash of reality is what is needed I think,,In the meantime, I wish you well

  • @teeandkids937
    @teeandkids937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    As if you haven’t had enough hardships already :( I’m so sorry guys !

    • @Yogirliej4dee
      @Yogirliej4dee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Must of been why they didn’t post about her IVF.

    • @lorrainebarber8592
      @lorrainebarber8592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree, this poor couple have had more than their share of bad luck. And all they wanted to do was have a baby of their own. So incredibly sad for them 😢

  • @florenceglenn4627
    @florenceglenn4627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Sweetie, don’t apologize for tears. Tears are healing.

  • @VintageBarbi
    @VintageBarbi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    My niece could not get pregnant for years. They did IVF and when the babies were one years old as she had twins she found out she had breast cancer. She did her treatments and hers boys are now 16 years old and she has been cancer free for 13 years. You got this. Praying for you and your family.

  • @happynessadict
    @happynessadict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I am a Breast Cancer Survivor , I accepted my diagnosis but not my Prognosis...9 years clear this year
    my prayers are with you

  • @KrissiCreates
    @KrissiCreates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    My sister was diagnosed with the same cancer, stage as you 5 years ago. She is now 2 years Cancer Free !! Love, hugs and prayers to you both ! And yes.. life is beautiful with God in it, even through the valleys !! Psalm 91 is a huge comfort to me since My sisters diagnosis!!

  • @asiamoon77
    @asiamoon77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Prayers for sweet Delia. I’ve survived breast cancer twice now...there was less than 1% chance of it coming back after 32 radiation treatments. Be strong. I completely know what how you feel. We are stronger than we think we are. You got this! ❤️

    • @taraleonard9749
      @taraleonard9749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so strong going through cancer twice. You must be amazing person!! I'm glad you won!! They will need to hear from someone like you that has fought and kicked cancers butt!!

    • @anamariabernal1622
      @anamariabernal1622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bless you!

    • @janarau2529
      @janarau2529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @asiamoon77
      @asiamoon77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was and is not my time to go...says the big man upstairs. ☺️❤️

  • @vianney5581
    @vianney5581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I am 26 years old and was diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma (skin cancer) on Jan 8th, 2021. I was also treated at MD Anderson, they have the best team and thanks to them I am now cancer free. Wishing you a great recover and you are in great hands! God bless!

    • @lifeofsam2401
      @lifeofsam2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing news. Lots of love from a fellow cancer sister x

  • @CH-ej3yx
    @CH-ej3yx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    As a medical student I find it absolutely disturbing that this diagnosis was given over the phone as if just another biopsy, just another lab result, and not as a human life that was receiving life changing news. Praying for you both to get the best medical care and emotional support, God is good in every way praying that He continues to keep you both strong

    • @LasBuenasNuevas2020
      @LasBuenasNuevas2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I mean, it is not different if doctors of nurses show not emotion or compasion...

    • @mt3388
      @mt3388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      It could be a Covid thing. 😥

    • @leilanimason3478
      @leilanimason3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      When I was diagnosed they were very open during the initial screening, mammogram and ultrasound, that it was highly suspicious for cancer. When they called with biopsy results I was not surprised. Frankly if they had called and asked me to come in without giving me results it would have increased my anxiety. As a health care provider I know there is no easy way to give bad news.

    • @travelgirl7967
      @travelgirl7967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I got my cancer diagnosis/biopsy results by phone too. If they'd told me to come in to the office for results, it would have just stressed me out and I'd have insisted he tells me right away.

    • @mariaasmrr
      @mariaasmrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      my boyfriends dad got his diagnosis via phone meeting, i think it’s a covid thing and i think he personally preferred it instead of waiting to be seen by someone and stressing out a lot

  • @amybecker9108
    @amybecker9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I'm a 15 year survivor of stage 4 ovarian cancer. Keep your head up even when you don't feel like it. I have a feeling you are a very positive spiritual person. I will continue to pray for you.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’re a warrior 🥰🙏🏽

    • @jackiesholes1835
      @jackiesholes1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I truly believe god put you together for a reason, blessing

    • @susandaly59
      @susandaly59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am a 5 year survivor of Stage 3C Ovarian Cancer. Getting a cancer diagnosis is devastating. But I can see Delia has her faith, an extremely positive attitude and is surrounded by great family and friends. That support is so important. She is at one of the best cancer hospitals in the US. Thank God for great doctors and modern medicine. I will be thinking and praying for her.

    • @leesmith9483
      @leesmith9483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow that’s amazing! That is so hopeful.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@susandaly59 you’re a warrior Susan 🥰🙏🏽

  • @JenJenBoBin
    @JenJenBoBin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    My Mom went through this exact same diagnosis same cancer, staging everything. My Mom is in her mid- 70s, my grandma also had breast cancer 3x but she lived to be nearly 96!!! Please know we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 You are such a fighter! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @abigailmintah5148
    @abigailmintah5148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    "Hold God by His Word, weeping may endure for a night but joy is gonna come in the morning" 🙏🏽😊

  • @SamanthaL
    @SamanthaL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Just wanted to pop in and say it gets better. I was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer in 2019 at age 22, and I am now in remission. I know you'll get there too! Please don't be afraid to reach out if you ever feel like you need to talk to another young breast cancer patient

    • @SamanthaL
      @SamanthaL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I relate to so much in this video especially about the fertility issue. My cancer is also estrogen positive, and I also decided to save my eggs

    • @bluesclues3820
      @bluesclues3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SamanthaL
      Does it run I'm your family? And have you ever taken birth control? Congrats on being in remission!

    • @SamanthaL
      @SamanthaL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bluesclues3820 thank you! I haven’t ever taken birth control. I had one grandmother that had it when she was much older, but it’s not a super common thing in my family

    • @rudirodriguez1397
      @rudirodriguez1397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Samantha & Gray did you have any symptoms?

    • @SamanthaL
      @SamanthaL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rudirodriguez1397 not really except for a lump in the breast. I actually have a video about how I found out on my channel if you’re interested

  • @emilyjoan2844
    @emilyjoan2844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    My God, as if the pair of you haven’t been through enough already... I will be praying for you Delia every single day. You will get through this with the grace and beauty that you do everything with. I believe in you!! 💕💕💕

    • @ellentiedt2235
      @ellentiedt2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She definitely is grace and beauty 💖

  • @jenbale
    @jenbale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Stage 3 breast cancer survivor here. My prayers are with you both. You've got this Delia. Much love from Australia.

  • @wandavalachovic1594
    @wandavalachovic1594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Delia, I am a two time breast cancer survivor. I know that giving your whole heart to God and having a positive attitude will get you through.
    I had a double mastectomy with reconstruction and ten years ago and doing great. You have my prayers.

  • @karennicholson4167
    @karennicholson4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The verse that God gave me when I was diagnosed with an aggressive form of thyroid cancer was Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your steps." I will be praying for you both on your journey.

    • @nancyball7466
      @nancyball7466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you. This verse kept popping up after my husband took his life. It helped me to see life very differently. xx

    • @karennicholson4167
      @karennicholson4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nancyball7466 I am so sorry to hear about your husband.

  • @lyndalikeslace567
    @lyndalikeslace567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    My Mum is now 20 years clear, after having breast cancer twice in her life. I hope that this can be a message of hope for you. Sending love and prayers.

  • @mrsfmk8296
    @mrsfmk8296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I am an almost 10 year Breast Cancer survivor. Was diagnosed 9/14/2011 at age 33, Stage 3c with 15 positive lymph nodes. I had a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction, chemo and radiation. God is with you! Lean on everyone! You can and will get through this! Xoxo 😘

    • @hopenoel6421
      @hopenoel6421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God is good, thank you for sharing

    • @monikaengel5515
      @monikaengel5515 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank God you healthy I'm also breast cancer survivor estrogen positive stage 3 few lympnodes positive I'm 4 years survivor still soo anxious visit my oncologist every 3 months but getting close to 5 years and continues as long I have to anastrozole, zolsfex injection to block estrogen its not fun a lot side effects from sleep issues, early menopause but I'm healthy.

  • @lisaevans7293
    @lisaevans7293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Ive been where you are and you got this girl. Ive been cancer free for 14 yrs now! And they have even better treatments now! Stay positive, laugh as often as possible it helped me so much, get angry, heck get pissed at the cancer and just fight fight fight!!! There are days you will want to give up but dont just get angry and tell your cancer off!!! Its ok to be sad just dont wallow in it. You are in my prayers

  • @rosier1135
    @rosier1135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    My sister in law got breast cancer. A year later her daughter got breast cancer toio. They're both cancer free after treatment. Breast cancer is no longer a death sentence if it's treated early. So, don't worry. You will baby your baby soon.

  • @sanchezmar92
    @sanchezmar92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Why would people dislike this video? It’s just two people being honest and trying to pour some of their struggles into the world. May God give you even more strength. 🙏

    • @tarasalamone5929
      @tarasalamone5929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I saw that too. Perhaps they are unhappy about the diagnosis.

    • @samiraaly131
      @samiraaly131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Those people are not feeling good about them selves and spread negative feelings between people they are really not normal

    • @sanchezmar92
      @sanchezmar92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tarasalamone5929 which is dumb. People need to mature and grow up.

    • @annabanabanana
      @annabanabanana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I doubt that’s the case. In a way I guess some people probably feel weird liking a video about someone being diagnosed with cancer. I am assuming it’s the diagnosis is the reason for the thumbs down.

    • @sanchezmar92
      @sanchezmar92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annabanabanana let’s hope so because if not that is kind of messed up.

  • @cynthianieves1292
    @cynthianieves1292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Im so sorry to hear that delia but you are a warrior and a brave beautiful person God bless you always .

  • @lottis81
    @lottis81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Both of my older sisters was diagnoed this year with cancer aswell. One ovarian and the other pancreatic cancer. Prayers to everyone going through this.

    • @jayp1483
      @jayp1483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sending positive energy to your family!! ❤️

    • @lottis81
      @lottis81 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayp1483 Thank you so much

    • @christelnya5654
      @christelnya5654 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact dr Naomi, she might be able to help your sister, she helped my mom fight cancer.
      friwienaomi237@gmail.con

    • @emileeneuman1564
      @emileeneuman1564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christelnya5654 sending prayers to your family

    • @Noonecares3203
      @Noonecares3203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so sorry. Prayers for you. ❤️

  • @ShaydahandSaharavlogs
    @ShaydahandSaharavlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I hope in ten years were watching you guys with a couple of kids in amazing health.

  • @debbiemoscoso8606
    @debbiemoscoso8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Hang in there kiddo. I am a breast cancer survivor- 10 years April 7! Technology today is amazing - keep your nutrition up! Praying for you!

  • @m.v.6638
    @m.v.6638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I know how your feeling. Diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer, HER2 positive, chemo, double mastectomy, and radiation in 2019, God still has me here! Jesus is our Savior, lean on Him in every thought , decision, and action from here on out. Thank you for using your platform to spread awareness and inspire others in relying on God's grace!

    • @lorirenner2183
      @lorirenner2183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stage 2a here. Bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction and complications. I did 4 rounds of Chemo. Almost 2 years of remission. You will beat this! Sending strength and prayers!

    • @wanda4573
      @wanda4573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here, stage 2. Their was one part before my operation that wasnt nice but the actual operation was totally painless. Just remeber its fatty skin not bone your having removed. Takes a few years of sadness afterwards and then the skies open up and your feeling more healed.

    • @jamimarie6117
      @jamimarie6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen.

    • @jamimarie6117
      @jamimarie6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lorirenner2183 you are a true survivor.

    • @jamimarie6117
      @jamimarie6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wanda4573 ❤️

  • @lmt6672
    @lmt6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Aww Delia i am so sorry :(( praying for a full and speedy recovery! May God protect you

  • @Whitneypyant
    @Whitneypyant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I was diagnosed with colon cancer stage 3 in November 2020. Luckily my cancer didn’t spread anyway and that it mainly stayed in one area. My doctor was able to remove the entire cancer anyway I just finished chemo about month ago. Cancer isn’t a death sentence and you can beat it. I’m praying for you and you got this.

    • @servingtheteawithhoney3066
      @servingtheteawithhoney3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *SAME, IN 2016 AND STILL CANCER FREE* 🙏🏾♥️

    • @33donnally
      @33donnally 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t know why this touched me so much, but I am so happy you have had such amazing and inspirational results. I can’t imagine how hard the past year has been! I will be praying for you!

    • @33donnally
      @33donnally 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@servingtheteawithhoney3066 that’s amazing! I know your experience brings hope to so many going through the same fight!

    • @CindyM1027
      @CindyM1027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was diagnosed with crc stage 3 in January this year, congratulations on finishing chemo! You can absolutely beat this!

    • @lorij6796
      @lorij6796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whitney Pyant
      How fortunate you are! I'm very happy for your outcome. Stay well!

  • @debbiehoslet3435
    @debbiehoslet3435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I am a 13yr breast cancer survivor. I love your positive attitude...hold on to it and let it get you through this journey!! When you have darker days, trust in Jesus!! I will pray for you 🙏

  • @melissabarragan2408
    @melissabarragan2408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I was diagnosed with cancer on Nov 17, 2020. I understand what you’re going through. You’re in my prayers and we will overcome this🙏🏻❤️❤️

    • @myfourkids11
      @myfourkids11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your in my prayers... I was diagnosed 1/2020

    • @gossipgal1418
      @gossipgal1418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for you!

    • @hopenoel6421
      @hopenoel6421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen, stay strong, love you

    • @RealityEscapeeMeeeeeee
      @RealityEscapeeMeeeeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing well x

    • @pearlyseine8957
      @pearlyseine8957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praying for you all! You will get through this!🙏

  • @annmariemerlino3102
    @annmariemerlino3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I am a 12 year survivor. Let me know if you need to talk. It is NOT all doom and gloom and very survivable. Prayers.

    • @MegaSmile15
      @MegaSmile15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad has prostate cancer. Would appreciate some good thoughts! How did you get through it? Did you change your diet? Anything you avoided doing? Let me know. Thank you!

    • @annmariemerlino3102
      @annmariemerlino3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MegaSmile15 did you mean to ask me this or Dylan? I had breast cancer.

    • @MegaSmile15
      @MegaSmile15 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annmariemerlino3102 I meant to ask you, yes. I asked how you got through this. This means “mentally.” I am sure all cancer patients have similar thoughts despite their differing diagnosis. You don’t need to answer my questions though. I should not have asked you.

    • @annmariemerlino3102
      @annmariemerlino3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MegaSmile15 Don't be silly --- what's your email, you can ask me anything you want to!

  • @kittyseaborn2440
    @kittyseaborn2440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I remember that phone call like it was yesterday. All I could do was cry. I was 28 years old with a almost 2 year old daughter. Mine was 7 cm. On April 29, 2021 I will be 11 years breast cancer free. My baby and husband saved my life. I couldn't save the tatas, but I saved my life.
    Im so sorry this has happened to you.. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. Stay strong.

  • @christelknox1313
    @christelknox1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Twenty one years ago I had breast cancer. Went through six months of chemotherapy, surgery snd radiation. Hang in there, do what is needed. Continue to Trust God. Stay away from negative people. Take care of yourself. Always 🙏 🙏 🙏. Be Encouraged!

  • @stephaniearriaga8312
    @stephaniearriaga8312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I am 31 and recently diagnosed with CML, a form of leukemia. I am a mom of two and terrified me. It’s been 8 months and it has changed my life surprisingly for the best. Made me appreciate life and made me realize how much I matter. You are amazing! You and I will beat this so soon 💘

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You’re amazing as well! Wishing the best and praying for you 🙏🏽🥰

    • @krp6101
      @krp6101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Prayers to you love. Stay strong Mama. GOD has got you!

    • @crystalanderson7522
      @crystalanderson7522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong Stephanie. I will be praying for you and your family 🌹

    • @angelahartman3272
      @angelahartman3272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am praying for you too!

    • @syliviamayanja1770
      @syliviamayanja1770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

  • @teresagoins6820
    @teresagoins6820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    As a breast cancer survivor my thoughts and prayers are with you! You’ve got this! Kick cancer to the curb! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @teigs8098
    @teigs8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My heart goes out to you both. 💗 a friend of mine was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive breast cancer at 29. Same treatment plan as you have. She is now almost 5 years on and has a beautiful baby girl - conceived naturally in the end! The universe has big plans for you ✨💗

  • @justiceliberty1121
    @justiceliberty1121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My sister was recently diagnosed with STAGE 2 Breast Cancer. She's graduating as an RN in May. She lives out in Utah. She studies whilst doing her Chemo Treatment. She's my MENTOR you guys are SUPERHEROES 🌟👑🕊🙏🏾. GOD has ALREADY HEALED YOU❤💯

  • @dilinifernando.
    @dilinifernando. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I couldn't believe what I'm hearing and seeing. By the grace of God u are not only gonna be cancer free but also gonna be a mom at the end of this trial. 🙏🙏

    • @lauraarchuleta8600
      @lauraarchuleta8600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When two or more agree it is done! I agree with you!!

    • @lightningstar6668
      @lightningstar6668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG I'm so sorry yr having to go through this. You are both amazing people n I'm sure u will come out of this stronger than ever. Sending u all my love n prayers 😙

  • @huskymom5799
    @huskymom5799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You two are so special. God knew what he was doing when you guys met. Keep the faith. I had cervical cancer 3x and I'm a proud mommy of a baby boy. I did it alone. His dad passed when he was 6mos. I'm praying for you and with God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE

    • @naturesfinest8205
      @naturesfinest8205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WoW! You’re truly amazing! Love to you and your beautiful son.

  • @bonniehawkins2253
    @bonniehawkins2253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I was diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer almost five years ago. You got this Delia! 🥰 My family and I are big fans of you guys. In our prayers xx

    • @monikaengel5515
      @monikaengel5515 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too stage 3 al.ost 4 years cancer free🙏

  • @sandyschoonover9051
    @sandyschoonover9051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My Aunt had Stage 4 Breast Cancer 15 years ago. She is alive and well and is now 93 years old!

  • @thisfoolserrand
    @thisfoolserrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I've just gone through a year and a half of treatments with my mother. She was stage 4. Shes now cancer free. You can get through this. There will be tough times but it's all worth it. If you ever need to talk I'm here to answer any questions you have. Or just a pep talk. ❤

    • @ms.debbiedebb4555
      @ms.debbiedebb4555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God is good 🙏

    • @Melissa-ece
      @Melissa-ece 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey, what was her symptoms that she hard. Currently having a breast cancer scare and I feel sick even thinking about it.

    • @thisfoolserrand
      @thisfoolserrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Melissa-ece being scared is ok. But also dont give up hope and a positive attitude.

  • @carmencanning3566
    @carmencanning3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Delia I’m so sorry 😞 God will put his hands around you , I’m a cancer survivor for over 23 years , and I had a mastectomy done I was 28 at the time now,I have two daughters ages 22 and 17 🙏🏻❤️ hang in there , eat right and put yourself into God hands 🙏🏻❤️you have a wonderful family 🙏🏻I will pray for you guys daily 😍🙏🏻I wish I can share my whole story to you 😇God Bless you ,

    • @denisehoffmann1871
      @denisehoffmann1871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Carmen this is what Delia and Dylan needs to hear all the possibility of having children after this nasty cancer and chemo.
      You are blessed after your journey Carmen god gave you your children after a experience we shouldn't have to go through and Delia and Dylan god will give this journey to you both too. All the positive vibes coming to you sweet Delia and stay strong and you will get th through this rough time. We love you 💗💗💗💗💗

    • @odetterivera9076
      @odetterivera9076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s awesome

  • @robertbarner7626
    @robertbarner7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i'm a survivor or bladder cancer 10 years now. Praying for you. :)

  • @skotek602
    @skotek602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    That was so beautiful. He loves that woman so much. My heart is so heavy. You got this Delia! You have a huge tribe pulling for you! 💗

  • @GD-lg8lz
    @GD-lg8lz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Praying God Heals You!! My neighbor just overcame breast cancer...she got diagnosed December 2019 with stage 3. You are young and strong! I know you will overcome this with Gods help🙏

  • @jennifermoore6262
    @jennifermoore6262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Delia you have no idea how many lives you are saving by sharing your story 💕

  • @isabellamasdon7655
    @isabellamasdon7655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My grandmother just got to ring the bell from breast cancer. I know it's hard, but you got this. God will be with you always. He says, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." I will definitely be praying for you.

  • @thecosmicmother
    @thecosmicmother 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Let’s come together as a community and pray for Delia 💜 Delia, you are so strong and such an inspiration. May God give you the strength to overcome this diagnosis, the support to hold your hand through the tough days, and the love to fill your heart with joy. We love you so much! You’ve got this 💜💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @garrilynhoward5183
    @garrilynhoward5183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My little sister was your age when she was diagnosed as well. She is 10 yrs cancer free. You got this girl!!

  • @elaynekuenstler9860
    @elaynekuenstler9860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Oh sweetie, I’m so very sorry. You are definitely in our prayers. We have an amazing God!

  • @Sarah-tm4nn
    @Sarah-tm4nn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    God bless you guys. I've been cancer-free for 1 year. You've got this.

  • @kayleebosques1002
    @kayleebosques1002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 years ago and she is currently on remission. Praying for you guys and for a safe recovery 💗

  • @Fiveft3wthdmplz
    @Fiveft3wthdmplz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    We serve a faithful God! There isn't anything he can't get us through. Praying for your journey. He uses our stories for his glory. Yours is about to speak volumes. 🙏

  • @jarenblack2372
    @jarenblack2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "When all I see is the battle, You see my victory
    When all I see is the mountain, You see a mountain moved
    And as I walk through the shadow, Your love surrounds me
    There's nothing to fear now for I am safe with You
    So when I fight, I'll fight on my knees
    With my hands lifted high
    Oh God, the battle belongs to You
    And every fear I lay at Your feet
    I'll sing through the night
    Oh God, the battle belongs to You"
    I don't know why but God immediately put this song on my heart when I saw title of this post. Praying God pours his healing, peace and comfort over you. Love y'all 💕

  • @emmalandry5383
    @emmalandry5383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer for the second time a month ago! it’s so hard but i promise you’ll get through it! keeping you you in my thoughts and prayers🥺💗

    • @drcknight24plays
      @drcknight24plays 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keeping your mother in my prayers... God bless.

    • @farheenkn9239
      @farheenkn9239 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey is ur mom ok?

  • @beckydabrowski4742
    @beckydabrowski4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I am so sorry Delia 😢 After 1.5 years of 4 mammograms and 4 ultrasounds my last ones showed that the spot they were watching had grown. I go in on Monday for my biopsy! It’s scary but we got this girl! If you are reading this please say a prayer for me and Delia 🙏🏻🤗😘

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Prayers for you, you’ll get through this 🙏🏽🥰

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Prayers 🙏🏻 May God bless you and bring you comfort. 💕🌻

    • @Olive-ec4ki
      @Olive-ec4ki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praying💓

    • @beckydabrowski4742
      @beckydabrowski4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@simple_naildesigns Thank you so much!

    • @beckydabrowski4742
      @beckydabrowski4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Olive-ec4ki Thank you, I really appreciate you!

  • @sheilablackwell6785
    @sheilablackwell6785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I am a 6 year survivor of triple negative breast cancer. I too had no symptoms and had 6 months of chemo, surgery snd radiation! As a fellow sister in this fight, I am here for you. An questions you have I will be glad to help in anyway I can. Know you are in my prayers. Remember... one day at a time! Much love💗💕💞

    • @jasenkabiscan6749
      @jasenkabiscan6749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am from Europe,from little country Croatia and i am with you and i pray for you.Delia,you are brave young and beautiful women and you have big suport of Dylan and family and i know that it will be ok.My english is not very good -i and my family is with you!!!

  • @carolehankinson4969
    @carolehankinson4969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I'm so so sorry, I'm sobbing and I haven't any word's. I went through cervical cancer when I was 49yrs old, but to hear you are going through this at your age has broken my heart. You're the kindest, loveliest people and I'm just so upset for you both. You're in my prayer's. I cant see the screen as I'm crying for you. So just know you're in my prayer's and I'm thinking of you everyday, and I mean that.. 🇬🇧❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️

    • @andreawood991
      @andreawood991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so happy to hear u survived Ur cervical cancer carole as my friend lost her battle 😔 enjoy Ur life for everyone who didn't make it 💞💞

  • @brandynicole02
    @brandynicole02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My mom has been no evidence of disease from triple negative breast cancer for one year! She was stage three also. You got this!

  • @RS-pm6gh
    @RS-pm6gh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I know you will get through this. I know people with stage 3 breast cancer who have beaten it and are still living the healthiest life. You will be fine. You are so courageous! This is a test and you will come out stronger!!

  • @lenat946
    @lenat946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I was diagnosed with breast cancer in October of 2019, I had a double mastectomy and reconstruction on November 13, 2019 and though the journey was hard I've been cancer free since. I still have maintenance things I have to do, but u can overcome this. U r a warrior, u r strong, and you will overcome this. ❤🙏

  • @TheWholeFiasco
    @TheWholeFiasco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Delia- 10 years ago, I was diagnosed with the exact diagnosis that you were.

  • @milliefellowes3816
    @milliefellowes3816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My Mum had breast cancer 4 years ago and was nearly at the stage of going into other parts of her body but with the right treatment now she is completely fine, better than ever!!🥰 Never give up hope!!😊😊

  • @donnarice8606
    @donnarice8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Sweet Delia, as a 18 year breast cancer survivor, I tell you there is NOTHING too big for our God!
    "Strength and honor are her clothing; and she laughs without fear of the future." I'm praying for both you and Dylan. ❤🙏
    Proverbs 31 ❤

  • @ellengill514
    @ellengill514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i am a Breast Cancer Survivor for 13 years. God is Able. I am praying for you for His healing. Mine was from taking Fertility drugs.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re amazing 🙏🏽

    • @Crown149
      @Crown149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your cancer came from fertility drugs?
      Praise the Lord for your healing🙏🏽

    • @ellengill514
      @ellengill514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Crown149 Thank you. Yes, the determined that it was the fertility drugs. I had ductal carcinoma in Situ, cancer in the milk ducts, which is calcifications in the duct. That was May 1, 2008. I am praying so hard for Delia. She is so Sweet. And for Dylan as well..

  • @EnCasaConPatty
    @EnCasaConPatty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Sending lots of love and prayers. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @beakay8511
    @beakay8511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wish you all the best. As a mum whose son was diagnosed with brain cancer when he was 17 years old in 2018 (he is currently in remission), I understand the shock, for a time it didnt feel real, I kept waking thinking it was a bad dream. Treatment can be difficult but i always felt that it was also part of the healing process for my son. Enduring this journey can be lonely for the both of you, because I don't think people truly understand unless they experince it first hand. I'm glad you find support in your faith. Reach out to cancer services and professional support - this experience can induce grief and loss due to such a major life change and interruption. I send my compassion and heart felt understanding to you both, much care from a mum who understands the journey you are both on x

  • @Sternblume2
    @Sternblume2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    My grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 70. She is now 85 years old and healthy as can be. You are young, Delia. You got this! Keeping you in my prayers 🙏

    • @karenfalk345
      @karenfalk345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending prayers keep fighting !

    • @elanamccullum1677
      @elanamccullum1677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did she have treatments?

    • @Sternblume2
      @Sternblume2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elanamccullum1677 She had chemotherapy for sure. But I actually don't remember anything else. I was a kid.

  • @jenniferwarner4136
    @jenniferwarner4136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My aunt had invasive ductal carcinoma at 34 in both breasts and died from emphysema at age 76. You will fight and win. Praying for you guys ❤

  • @nataliefrobertson
    @nataliefrobertson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Stage 3b Colon Cancer survivor here (4 years ago). Delia, I’m so sorry you’re facing this now. I will pray for your strength and for the love of family and friends to surround you and support you during your treatment and surgery. I’m adding you to my prayer list.

  • @freemanwest
    @freemanwest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm so positive about you I'm sure you will beat this. I'm a 22 year old thyroid cancer survivor myself and there's no other way but to beat the cancer. You'll be in my prayers.

  • @lifewithcancer916
    @lifewithcancer916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I felt this to the my core. I was young being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. The way I found out and with my husband away was so similar to your story and it was so hard. I also just fell to the ground and lost it. I will never forget that moment and how I felt. I also had no symptoms of my cancer and they said I probably had it 3-5 years for how far spread it was. I was such a health freak, ate very healthy, worked out minimum 5 days a week. Cancer does not discriminate. Everyone was so shock to hear I had cancer. I went thru a long 10mos of chemo and went into remission, unfortunately I relapsed less than a year later. Went through another 10mos of chemo again and this time the tumors were growing even while on chemo so the only thing to save my life was a bone marrow transplant, this was very hard. Basically they kill your entire immune system. You can’t even make your own blood to stay alive. It took me a year just to get my strength back. Then 2 years later I got bad news again that the cancer was back and I had to have a 2nd transplant in order to stay a live. Having a second transplant is so so hard when your body has already had years of chemo and already has gone through one transplant. Most people can’t do it. The 2nd time around we couldn’t find a donor match. Took over a year to finally find a match so I was on chemo the whole time waiting to try and slow the growth as much as possible. I went thru my 2nd transplant and had many many complications. I had acute and chronic graft vs host disease. This is where your body rejects your donor so your body starts attacking its self. Everything was being attacked. Esophagus, teeth(they all fell out), eyes, colon, stomach, skin (blisters over most of my body) I then came down with scleroderma and my whole body turned as hard as stone and I couldn’t move anything but my head. I laid stiff as a board in a hospital bed for 4years. I lost all my muscle and my body deteriorated to nothing. I looked like a skeleton just with skin. I never though I would get out of that hospital bed. I was so close to going on hospice. But something just kept me going and not give up. I’m obviously still alive to be sharing my story and I’m still fighting in my journey. It’s been16years. My body did loosen a little where I can now walk a little with a walker. I still have hardness and joints contracted but the fact I can get out of bed is everything. The doctors call me a miracle. I’m now dealing with cervical cancer:( Because I take so many immune suppressants so my body doesn’t attack it’s self from the graft vs host disease it suppresses my immune system so I don’t have it protecting me from other cancers now. My whole of sharing is to let you know the body is incredible. You can conquer this. You just have to be mentally positive. You remind me of myself when I was first diagnosed. You said all the right things in your video and you sound strong and that’s what it take. I’m sure your getting so many people telling you their journeys. We just want to fill you with positivity that your going to beat this and god chose you because he knew you could handle it and you would be the one to help others. That’s what I absolutely believe. I’ve been through so much. It would be pages and pages if I listed all the hospital stays, all the infections, all the complications, all the other side effect and problems chemo caused, ie kidney stones, pancreatitis and more. I could go on and on but the point is my body is so amazing that it went through all that and Im still here to talk about it and help others. Your life will be forever changed. Yes of coarse there are many things that make me sad (like not being able to go take a walk on the beach) but there are also things that changed in my life that show me god had a purpose. Stay strong my love. You are definitely in my prayers. I know you don’t know me and it seems weird to talk to a stranger but if you ever do need to talk or just ask a question I’m always here. Much love to you both from the bottom of my heart❤️

    • @breephoenix111
      @breephoenix111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Praying from Australia for you that good things will happen. Sending love and prayers your way 💛🧡💚❤💜💙🙏

    • @ilyssahagood8387
      @ilyssahagood8387 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, I'm glad you made it 🥰❤

    • @DanasDiary.
      @DanasDiary. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay strong ❤️ it’s incredible how positive you are, even after going through all of this. You are an inspiration!

    • @Philippineshomeandgarden
      @Philippineshomeandgarden 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stray strong and God Bless ! 💕

  • @annettejones1514
    @annettejones1514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's outrageous that you can't have one support person. I am so sorry. You have the kindest, sweetest spirit. You make me want to do better and I am 61. You are an incredible example for all women.

  • @yvonnetaylor2038
    @yvonnetaylor2038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am a BC survivor/thriver. I was dx'd at 37 and had 2 very young children. I took gained great strength from God and my faith. I am now 62 and was able to see my baby have her 1st baby 2 weeks ago. God is real, present and with you. You will look at life very differently and treasure each and every moment. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH, YOU WILL WITH THE GRACE OF GOD GET THROUGH THIS. You are a testament to your faith.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re amazing 🥰🙏🏽

    • @yvonnetaylor2038
      @yvonnetaylor2038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@simple_naildesigns God is amazing but thank you. I feel so blessed.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yvonnetaylor2038 He truly is 🥰

  • @shanias.3915
    @shanias.3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is the most beautiful bride. I'm crying .....
    Please be there for her through sickness & in health. God bless. She is so sweet & strong 🥺💕🦸🏼‍♀️

  • @michelleleonard1174
    @michelleleonard1174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I’m so sorry to hear this, my mother was diagnosed with the same cancer borderline stage 4. You will be in my prayers! If I can do anything or help in anyway please reach out!

  • @alys4570
    @alys4570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My husband was recently diagnosed with cancer. We are devastated. I’m so sorry you both are going through this. I’ll be praying for you guys through your journey also. No one wants this journey 😞

    • @0wenewards97
      @0wenewards97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U. Realy. Care. For. Others. And. Ur. Husband.. Has. Cancer.. I'm. Hoping. The. Best. For. U. Ur. Husband. Family. And. Frends. I. Will. Never. No. U. But. U. Don't. Need. To. No.. To. Show. U. Care. God.. Bless.

  • @maryf3219
    @maryf3219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This brings back so many memories for me. When I found out I had breast cancer, my sisters came to me and we cried together, like you and your mother did. You stay strong, sweet girl. Avoid anything negative. Laugh as much as you can. Pray as much as you can. We're praying with you.

    • @samanthalarsen27
      @samanthalarsen27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keeping the both of you in my prayers.

  • @aboundinggrace7029
    @aboundinggrace7029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" John 3:16