I had breast cancer surgery

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  • Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/eamonandbec for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help. As it has been with my breast cancer journey thus far, my second surgery is full of ups and downs with some BIG NEWS revealed at the end!
    After my initial lumpectomy surgery, I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer back in December of 2021. Since then we have gone through a full round of IVF to preserve our fertility and 5 months of chemotherapy. In this episode we share everything from 6 weeks post chemo to making the difficult decision regarding which surgery to have (mastectomy or lumpectomy) to the recovery process and finally the pathology results of surgery.
    0:00 our cancer journey so far...
    0:55 why another surgery?
    1:24 why a bilateral mastectomy 😕
    1:51 MRI
    2:27 meeting with our surgeon
    3:44 now we weigh our options
    4:56 oncologist's perspective...
    5:49 recurrence rates for breast cancer
    6:44 my surgery decision
    7:50 here's the plan!
    8:30 hair regrowth post chemo
    9:20 hormonal therapy for 5-10 years
    10:02 MEET RAEMON!
    11:27 how therapy has helped me
    13:22 surgery day
    17:11 Eamon starts to worry
    18:53 happy birthday Bec!
    20:19 1 week post-op
    22:02 what's this lump?! 😳
    25:22 surgery results
    27:38 sharing the news with loved ones!
    To anyone out there going through something similar, we hope this video can help you feel a little less alone. We know that being able to share our journey with all of you has definitely made us feel supported, loved and less alone. So our continued love and gratitude to this community for getting us through.
    #breastcancer #breastcancerawareness

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  • @eamonandbec
    @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +1633

    still feeling 40 lbs lighter and ready to run a marathon/take a big nap!!! thank you all for being such a huge support for us throughout this time xxx

    • @Suzanne.Devine5
      @Suzanne.Devine5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending love and joy for your family 💕💕💕
      Glad to see you guys post again!

    • @jessicaball8175
      @jessicaball8175 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yahoo! Also can I say as soon as you announced your wig's name, I couldn't help but think "Everybody loves Reamon" 🤣

    • @MrThomasandersen
      @MrThomasandersen ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you so much for sharing this Bec 🙏🏻❤️ It’s a huge support for so many with cancer and also for us with other long and short term sicknesses.
      I am myself going through a long term treatment at the hospital every two weeks and it means so much to me to see that I’m far from alone ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @phoebevanderhorst7760
      @phoebevanderhorst7760 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cried through the whole video. I was thinking about how I watched you travel around the world while I had cancer and how it really helped me get through it. I wish I could give you the same, sending you love and healing vibes.

    • @ceeceemarie7256
      @ceeceemarie7256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💖💫💖

  • @amanda1838
    @amanda1838 ปีที่แล้ว +5513

    We all know bec is an amazingly strong and courageous woman. But can we acknowledge Eamon for a sec? What an amazing dude being so incredibly supportive of bec through all of this. And you can tell how much this has affected him and matured him even more. Thank you for being there for bec through all of this!! We love you both!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +975

      Eamon truly deserves all the love and attention that this community can offer!! He has been nothing short of INCREDIBLE!!!! I am the luckiest girl in the world 🥰

    • @sherreeharris419
      @sherreeharris419 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Yes Eamon is soo wonderful...tender...loving...funny. That support is priceless.

    • @shawnaimus
      @shawnaimus ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Amen

    • @sabbby100
      @sabbby100 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You are so beautiful bec .💕

    • @jennifermora6134
      @jennifermora6134 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Well said

  • @Chickenlegs41
    @Chickenlegs41 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    In 1998 while 37 weeks pregnant my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. She was induced and gave birth to our healthy daughter. She had several weeks of chemo, and then a lumpectomy with lymph nodes removed on one side. Thereafter, she had radiation for ~7 weeks. Radiation sucked. Her skin was burned, and she likely sustained lung damage!? Buy she made a full recovery, and our daughter flourished into a fine young woman. Fast forward ~23 years and some of her annual/routine tests come back abnormal. Months later, a repeat test reveals a rapidly growing tumor. My wife opts for a double mastectomy having considered that if she has only a lumpectomy, which is then diagnosed as cancer, she would have to have a second surgery. The surgery went really well. Pathology comes back in several days to reveal that the tumor was cancerous. Her decision to have the double mastectomy turns out to be a good one, given that she would have ended up having this surgery anyway. She opted for reconstructive surgery, but one expander has been given her trouble. So, she's going to have the expanders removed and maybe have reconstruction at a later date, but for now she'll be flat (a big change given that she was a 38DD at one time.) I love her to the end of the world and hate to see her go through this. But that's life. You roll with the punches, or you get knocked out. She's a fighter, but I hope this is the second and final round. Hang in there Bec and Eamon.

    • @CCmagee3
      @CCmagee3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I pray for your wife's health. Let it be as I have said.

    • @TinaSweeney-fn2du
      @TinaSweeney-fn2du 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you don't mind me asking did your wife have to takes a tablet evry day for 5 years when she first had I have it and afraid of it comeing back ,thank you ❤ and well done to her ❤

    • @dazed_and_amazed1296
      @dazed_and_amazed1296 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I thought stage 4 you are constantly on treatment to contain the Mets?

  • @jordanmcintyre5148
    @jordanmcintyre5148 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Damn when Bec said "What a gift it is to turn 32" it hit me in the existential feels. It seems like not a particularly special birthday until you realize every day lived is a gift.

  • @lauraroseman6143
    @lauraroseman6143 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    “I need more tissues” says every person watching this and following your journey. Bec I’m just so relieved and happy! Love you both!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +43

      awe sorry to give your kleenex box a run for it's money too!!! love and appreciate you 💜

    • @Sammy84_
      @Sammy84_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right i just cried my eyes out. So so happy for them!

    • @jenniferwaldrop6181
      @jenniferwaldrop6181 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes ma'am we definitely all need more tissue but this time with a big smile 😁 love you guys oh so much!!! Congratulations My Awesome Friends

    • @gj6700
      @gj6700 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow Bec! I've been following your journey from the beginning. Sharing such a personal experience to help others in similar situations shows remarkable strength and bravery. God Bless you for your courage. Stay well and may you have a long, happy and productive life!💕💕💕

    • @melindasnaps9816
      @melindasnaps9816 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@eamonandbec I don't think any of us want apologies, we are all crying happy tears with you! I have been watching for a several years and love following your journey! I have worried and cried and laughed right along with you. Now I am so excited to share in your relief and happiness! Sending love and light and healing! Xoxo

  • @jen_nnna3303
    @jen_nnna3303 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    “What a gift it is to turn 32” that sentence made me cry full on tears. I can’t begin to explain how proud I am of the both of you!!

    • @redlady935
      @redlady935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good reminder for any of us who moan about getting old

    • @user-mk3ze8wx2z
      @user-mk3ze8wx2z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Living with the Stigma of cancer and not beign able to have a healthy life was messing up my life really bad, until I got recommended to #DRIGHO who helped me Get cured naturaliy with his herbal medicine, I highly recommend anyone looking for a Qualified Specialist.

  • @juleh1642
    @juleh1642 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I never realized how invested I was in Becs journey until she found out she was cancer free. The relief and emotion I felt was overwhelming. I’m so happy that you’re going to be okay Bec and I can’t wait to see what you’re going to do when you’re fully recovered.

    • @ashlynn13ful
      @ashlynn13ful ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right there with you! It brought tears to my eyes

    • @kevinmansell8746
      @kevinmansell8746 ปีที่แล้ว

      unfortunately they not together i r ead this i was deeply sadden i hope it is fake reporting of it

  • @susanshaver912
    @susanshaver912 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I am so relieved and happy for you! I am a breast cancer survivor of 14 years.

    • @pamelajob2261
      @pamelajob2261 ปีที่แล้ว

      Herbal medicine is the best supplement to get rid of breast cancer ♋️ disease permanently.. I’m cure permanently from Breast Cancer ♋️ disease with herbal remedies I receive from Dr.Auchi on TH-cam channel…th-cam.com/channels/6tA16t1IlKx1bY93lc2rcg.html

    • @elizabethbeth9930
      @elizabethbeth9930 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's awesome!! Sp glad and encouraging to hear! I was just diagnosed.

    • @linnaesthetique8589
      @linnaesthetique8589 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what your ca type ? and what stage?

    • @shehnazafzal1961
      @shehnazafzal1961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had breast cancer in 2005 than God I'm alive.it was grade 2

    • @blancheappleton9766
      @blancheappleton9766 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

  • @sezzlebezzle1921
    @sezzlebezzle1921 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    When Bec corrected herself and said “I get to be on medication for 5 to 10 years” that. was. POWERFUL. Your videos just keep teaching us so much, thank you thank you thank you for sharing this journey with us.

    • @EmmaFoughtTheLion
      @EmmaFoughtTheLion ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🙌🏼 I’ve never thought of it in that way, but I will from now on - such a powerful way of taking back autonomy and focussing on the positive

    • @alicecain4851
      @alicecain4851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm worried though.
      Can she get pregnant and take that medication?
      If she needs to go off of it for the duration of the pregnancy, how dangerous is that?
      I'm concerned.

    • @irishrose7053
      @irishrose7053 ปีที่แล้ว

      My friend a month ago finished her 5 yr Tamio sp? Treatment. Hope that time flies by for you.

  • @aaronkerby7965
    @aaronkerby7965 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer 8 weeks ago, this was a week after we returned from our honeymoon. Being 27 years old she is really struggling with being a young breast cancer patient, we don't know anyone else who was diagnosed young. I told her about you and how your treatment is going and she found it very comforting. We are still wrapping our head around things but glad to see your treatment is progressing well! Lots of love to you and Eamon x

    • @ninasimone1207
      @ninasimone1207 ปีที่แล้ว

      Would Angie Jolie be considered young?

    • @darco_13
      @darco_13 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      These two are definitely a good couple to fill you with positive energy, hope and love! Good luck you and your wife!

    • @blessedbeyond2118
      @blessedbeyond2118 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Prayers for your wife I can't imagine

    • @RiaTee
      @RiaTee ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sending positive vibrations your way. She will be celebrating too in no time! Half of the work is through a great support system and faith and I'm sure she has both.❤

    • @LifeOfJimbo
      @LifeOfJimbo ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a girl on here called Samantha, who was diagnosed Stage 4 at 22, Today she's doing so much better and is making a great recovery
      th-cam.com/video/HADloyb4uZU/w-d-xo.html

  • @calistiae
    @calistiae 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    After a rough night of crying post lumpectomy with one margin not clear and surgery #2 scheduled in 2 days to clear it, I opened youtube and came across your video first thing. omg watching your ups and downs through this part of your journey was the most validating and therapeutic experience I’ve ever had. this was an amazing video capture of your life that will help millions of women process their feelings. just want to give you the biggest hug right now. it felt like a friend walking side by side on this journey. cheers to no cancer and a fulfilling joy-filled life to you both. lots of love to you. ❤

  • @calgaryredkat7283
    @calgaryredkat7283 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My Mum lost her battle with cancer on May 9; just 2 days shy of her 75th birthday. I'm empty without her.
    Stay strong and many blessings to you both.

    • @suebean3873
      @suebean3873 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so so sorry to hear that! What kind of cancer did she battle? All the Best to You! :(

    • @calgaryredkat7283
      @calgaryredkat7283 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suebean3873 she was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. It was already in her bones, then spread to her lungs. She caught pneumonia in January and died on May 9.
      Keep on fighting, you've got this

  • @Thusday_1
    @Thusday_1 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    I know I am not the only one who has been waiting holding their breath for this test result. Continued prayers for you as you enter the next step on this journey. You keep being you and rocking this fight!!! Thank you for inviting us to be on your journey. ❤️

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank you so much Nicole! Appreciate you so much!

    • @janneal9156
      @janneal9156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi you all you're all waiting for test results I haven't had to courage to even go to the dr yet

    • @junesorenson279
      @junesorenson279 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@janneal9156 please go, it's so important that you have any change in your breasts be checked out by your doctor. If not for you, but do it for those who love you. I care that you be checked please. I know that it is scary I've been there myself and I'm glad that did, they gave me 3 months to live with the lumps in me, YES I'm a breast cancer survivor ❣

    • @williamsmoore4072
      @williamsmoore4072 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Nicole🥰

  • @Rebellious.mermaid
    @Rebellious.mermaid ปีที่แล้ว +131

    when Bec said ..."i get to celebrate another year" my heart broke, we are so fragile, as humans. We need to throw wild birthday parties, i will from now on, thanks for sharing x

    • @georginarippingale9627
      @georginarippingale9627 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought the same. I’m not one for doing much on my birthday, But now I’ll look at it like how lucky am I to celebrate another year

  • @debramason986
    @debramason986 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I cried years of joy with you today. Your cancer journey was so much harder than mine. One surgery and I was done. You have handled so much difficulty with so much grace. Congratulations!!

  • @flashchang624
    @flashchang624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing you speedy recovery and good health Becky 🙏❣️Stay strong!

  • @kingingit
    @kingingit ปีที่แล้ว +446

    BEST. NEWS. EVER! We're so proud of you both for fighting breast cancer and showing the ups and downs along the way. This had to be the outcome - the best news for the best people. You both deserve the world - now go and get it! LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Love you both so much 💛. True friends. We are so lucky!!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Love you both so much 💛. True friends. We are so lucky!!

    • @gwendavis9655
      @gwendavis9655 ปีที่แล้ว

      This thought tears to my eyes. I agree with Kinging It said as I knew your (Bec) brother so they are so sweet, funny & talents that I was watching the show since. Anyway God always taking care of you Bec. I know Eamon always take care and support u. I wish you and your family a happy and safe. Take Care! I am soooo proud of you that you got cancer- free. A-men!!! Love you two. 🤟🏻👍🏻❤️🙏🏻

    • @bloxburgbuilder4
      @bloxburgbuilder4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eamonandbec heyyy

  • @francesparker3683
    @francesparker3683 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    When that rabbit crossed your path on your way into surgery, I smiled. Not sure if you know or not, but it is typically a sign of new beginnings and good luck. I’m so happy for you, and Eamon, that your news was so good. So much love.

    • @PachoH
      @PachoH ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I fully believe this. We went through nearly 4 years of trying to conceive, 4 failed IUIs, 2 rounds of IVF and miscarriage. During the second round of IVF and before my transfer I kept seeing rabbits everywhere. My husband kept saying it was a sign and I truely believe it was. I am currently 12w pregnant today with our miracle baby.
      When I saw the rabbit in the video yesterday I started to cry. I just knew it was a sign of hope and positivity for them.
      Thank you for acknowledging it in your comment 💜

    • @ValCline
      @ValCline ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES! I thought this too. Sooooooo sweet.

  • @ashlynn13ful
    @ashlynn13ful ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so brave!!!! I love coming along this journey with you! 💓

  • @avahargreaves6014
    @avahargreaves6014 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    CONGRATULATIONS BEC!! You were a champion through this all. And I am so glad that you’re cancer free. Well wishes from Seattle!!!

  • @annadickens9245
    @annadickens9245 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I literally broke down when the doctor called with the WONDERFULLY GOOD NEWS!!! I know I'm just a stranger but I think of you all as family and I love you guys so much!! I don't have to words to adequately describe how thankful I am right now!! I just hope you all know how much you are loved, thought of, cared for, and prayed for by all of us out here!! 💕

    • @larrybrown5707
      @larrybrown5707 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don't know me but I've been following you for awhile now. I was very sad to hear that Bec had contracted cancer. I'm amazed at how strong and positive you are. I am sending you all of the positive and healthy vibes that I can generate. Love you guys❤

    • @emmaschoolderman1038
      @emmaschoolderman1038 ปีที่แล้ว

      Completely agree with everything Anna says here. So happy for you both with Bec being cancer free! Such good news

    • @emmaschoolderman1038
      @emmaschoolderman1038 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gracemorrison4359 are you trying to be funny?
      I’m English, it’s perhaps an English way of speaking, just means that I am pleased for them she is well and cancer free/I am happy to hear she is going to be alright/happy that they get to spend many more years together as they are such a good couple.
      Why do you have to criticise me? I was just expressing how happy I was for her…. Please be kind and if you can’t be kind don’t say anything!

    • @larrybrown5707
      @larrybrown5707 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gracemorrison4359 Obviously you don't possess the empathy gene in your DNA.

  • @akuzina
    @akuzina ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Damn, I started bawlin' when the doctor said "no evidence of disease there". So happy for you! Big love and hugs from a stranger across the world. ❤️

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ❤❤❤

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me too gurl, me too. my husband woke up and asked why i was crying and i couldnt even explain. all i could squeak out was Bec isnt sick anymore. he looked at me like i had 17 heads crawling out of my butt.

    • @babisjo
      @babisjo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hollyshaw-elliemae 😅😅😅 I'm so glad my husband understands. He just looks at me and asks... Vanlifers? Yup.

    • @sst6358
      @sst6358 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too 🥰

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@babisjo he knows but he doesnt understand why i watch if it makes me sad. i tried explaining it isnt about ME, this family entertained me when i was goiing through hell, and didnt even know it, and to see them struggle, hurts. so to see them getting stronger and cancer free and coming out the other side, its healing to me as well. eamon and bec managed to pull me out of some dark stuff the last couple of years without even knowing it. their positivity and love and laughter and how they make us all feel like THEIR family, kept me sane. wormed their way into my heart and i cant thank them enough or send them enough love back.

  • @HeavenlyMama1
    @HeavenlyMama1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your awesome results! I will be praying for the both of you❤️

  • @BadBoiiiJ
    @BadBoiiiJ ปีที่แล้ว

    Love that you are so strong through this journey ! Also love that we share the same birthday !!!! Happy Birthday Bec! 🎁🎉❤

  • @BrooklynAlien
    @BrooklynAlien ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "Do I take a nap, or do I try to run a marathon?" My favorite line ever. Congratulations! I'm so glad your test results came back great. You guys are doing amazing telling your story. This will help so many people!

  • @shelleyoquinn3920
    @shelleyoquinn3920 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    When your doctor said “there was no tumor”!!! I screamed & my dog Charlie comes running into the house and jumps on the sofa. I’m so happy for you guys & your family🌹💕❤️🌹💕❤️🌹

  • @ameechou6846
    @ameechou6846 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank Bec!! Just diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this week at 34 with family history. Still learning about this unknown journey ahead of me, but I'm so glad I found you. Thank you for the positivity and for giving us a light!

    • @user-fk5kx8be9z
      @user-fk5kx8be9z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How is your journey going? Any updates?

  • @forjo7307
    @forjo7307 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dear Bec, you are a role model for all women experiencing the same diagnosis. God bless you and your buddy Eamon!

  • @KristenMcGowan
    @KristenMcGowan ปีที่แล้ว +534

    Crying of happiness for you! You are so strong Bec💗 you deserve all the health and happiness to come!

  • @brookeroberts6749
    @brookeroberts6749 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I work in breast cancer research at a university and holy smokes this made me cry. Your journey has helped motivate me to keep pushing and advocating for our patients to find a cure💞

    • @shac9131
      @shac9131 ปีที่แล้ว

      Curing cancer from meds? NO.
      The cure and prevent is from dealing with emotional issues/abuse, auric healing, and raw nutrition.
      Vitamin C injection works identical to chemotherapy minus the side effects.
      If you want to be apart of the curing fields then you're working in the wrong department and only keeping people sick to the day they die and it's a quick road to death

  • @carriegallop
    @carriegallop ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You guys are amazing. 🥹💕🙏🤗✨ My 9 year old son went through Leukemia at age 3, and had 3+ years of chemo. We are all praying for you Bec! 🙏🙏

  • @jessydallaire9207
    @jessydallaire9207 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So full of emotions this vid! Thanks to you Bec, for sharing all of this. You are almost at the finish line. It has been quite a journey for you guys. So happy that you now feel lighter... Take time to enjoy life now that you feel lighter and relieved! Lot's of love from your neighbor, just across in Qc.

  • @cherylkavanagh3387
    @cherylkavanagh3387 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Seeing that bunny in the road made me feel spiritual so I looked it up: "Many cultures see rabbits as incredibly lucky animals. Because of this, seeing a bunny in the wild, or having one cross your path, is accepted as a good luck omen. In particular, seeing a rabbit can be symbolic of good luck in romance, family life, and your finances. Rabbits are also spiritually powerful." The force is with you guys! Thank you for sharing this journey.

  • @patdilla2169
    @patdilla2169 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    As a 30 year breast cancer survivor I cried through this whole video my sweet friend. I admire you so much for your strength and courage and you have the most amazing partner! I was 31 when I was diagnosed so I hope that some encouragement for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I love all of your adventures!

  • @kassierodriguez
    @kassierodriguez ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am literally crying my eyes out! So happy for you Bec ❤️❤️

  • @hersmiless
    @hersmiless ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been saving up on your videos so I could just binge. I still cry every time you talk about what's going on and Eamon's sweet reactions and concern. I love you guys so much!

  • @clairepenny2890
    @clairepenny2890 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I’m a nurse on a day surgery unit in the Uk. We also look after ladies having breast surgery due to cancer. I want to thank you for sharing your journey with us, it’s the parts we don’t get to see or hear about. Love and strength for the rest of your treatment plan xx

    • @stacydavis1682
      @stacydavis1682 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @claire penny Thank you for being a caring nurse. I had a mastectomy 21 years ago at 31 years old. Hugs from Pennsylvania.

  • @jordanbdailey
    @jordanbdailey ปีที่แล้ว +89

    When Bec asked “how are you supposed to know?” I felt that so strongly. This journey is so completely chaotic and I’m thankful that you’ve allowed us to see every part of it. You’re a badass and you’ve got some awesomely supportive family and friends. ❤️

  • @sue-annehickey5100
    @sue-annehickey5100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations Bec, sending you so much love and healing energy!

  • @Itsyourmom1990
    @Itsyourmom1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im in tears, sending you so much love and light ❤

  • @reneearsenault8083
    @reneearsenault8083 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I haven’t escaped a single one of these videos without bawling my eyes out every time. I’ve been watching you for as long as I can remember, and your strength and resilience through everything you’ve been through is something to be so proud of. Congrats Bec! Here’s to the next milestone of getting through radiation!

  • @jessicaball8175
    @jessicaball8175 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Bec, thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and scary part of your life with us. From showing the emotional rollercoaster, to then calling chemo "liquid subshine". Your positive attitude, realness, and overall determination to fight cancer head on is amazing. I hope you are healing well from surgery. Continue being the ray of sunshine that you are 💛 (and also, know that it's okay to have many rainy days sprinkled in there, too).

    • @debbyetheridge6368
      @debbyetheridge6368 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

    • @jessicaball8175
      @jessicaball8175 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg and just here at the end of the video bawling along with you guys. CANCER FREE!! So, so so so incredibly happy for you. So amazing!!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thank you so much Jessica! Being able to share this with everyone has honestly been a big part of finding purpose and healing throughout my journey. I am just so grateful this community continues to support us 🤗

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae ปีที่แล้ว +4

      without the rain, the flowers cant grow right?

  • @jackiewalker7331
    @jackiewalker7331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Literally at my desk crying … I’m sooo happy for you Bec and Eamon ❣️❣️❣️

  • @jbhindabo
    @jbhindabo ปีที่แล้ว

    Been watching for 4 years and this video is the most relatable and connecting I have seen. I really appreciate the vulnerability and openness modeled here. And the beauty of your relationship through it all.

  • @Emma-fz9el
    @Emma-fz9el ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Bec really is a ray of sunshine, even when she feels her lowest. Its beyond inspiring to see how strong she is

  • @lenaborgards2008
    @lenaborgards2008 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    It's still so unreal for me how you can care so much about someone you've never met. But towards the end of this video I was sobbing so heavily and just so amazed by how strong you are and how much you can inspire a whole community. Here's to free parking spots when going in for radiation and to many more years of inspiring videos! Love from Cologne, Germany

  • @ariseas
    @ariseas ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Incredibly proud of you two. So inspiring to watch, feel and connect with. I love you. Sending strength and hugs your way 💛

  • @motionworkskv
    @motionworkskv ปีที่แล้ว

    I 100% have felt everything you felt. You validated ever single pain and thought and experience I had. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @HC-PEGASUS
    @HC-PEGASUS ปีที่แล้ว +160

    As a husband to the most beautiful woman in my life who too has endured the agony of breast cancer and undergone a mastectomy, I can feel your joy at hearing the all clear news as if it were us all over again. It genuinely brought a lump to my throat hearing your reaction to the news. I can only add this, you’ve both been an inspiration to anyone that knows you or follows you. I truly hope that you can move on with life as normally as is possible. Congratulations to you both on what has been an incredible journey and one that I think has made you both stronger than ever. Best wishes and much love from Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 Uk ❤️

    • @stacydavis1682
      @stacydavis1682 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @PEGASUS ONE I really loved your reply. I too had a mastectomy, I was 31. Your comment about your wife, made me cry as my husband at the time was a complete jerk. On the 2nd day after my surgery, he told me to get up and pack our 1-year-old's lunch for day care. You sir, are a real man.

    • @chrisbergeron88
      @chrisbergeron88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@stacydavis1682 Your husband didn’t deserve you. I wish you happiness and great health!

    • @stacydavis1682
      @stacydavis1682 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrisbergeron88 Awe thank you, Chris!

  • @AshleeAdventure
    @AshleeAdventure ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I started crying at the end when you started making phone calls and promptly got tackled with kisses from my Lettie-girl who just wanted mom to not cry lol. Dogs are precious companions. I am so happy for you Bec and so happy that you have had Eamon and Oso there with you.

  • @ginay4878
    @ginay4878 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so happy for you both. Bec, the pureness of your emotions brought me to tears. You are truly blessed.

  • @lindsayodell6448
    @lindsayodell6448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Legitimately crying with happiness for you. Thank you for sharing. Here’s to the next chapter! Cheers 🥂

  • @reginajaquysh7360
    @reginajaquysh7360 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Finished the vid and now crying happy tears for a couple of humans I’ve never met.
    Happy happy joy joy to you both!

  • @aminor22688
    @aminor22688 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Let’s all appreciate how strong Bec is for documenting and sharing her journey through cancer. While I haven’t experienced this for myself, when she said she was appreciative for modern medicine, I can 100% relate to that. My 9month old is alive after being born with a heart condition because of modern medicine. 10 years ago, we wouldn’t have had her in our life.
    Bless you Bec. I am sending you all of the positive energy in the world 🥰

  • @AngelicaHuston
    @AngelicaHuston ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing news!!!! So happy for you both xxxx

  • @penelopebisaro171
    @penelopebisaro171 ปีที่แล้ว

    All the love for your courage, and this amazing news 🙏

  • @TheMduzenski
    @TheMduzenski ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I kept crying happy tears and I thought “oh I hope Kara and Nate get the good news!” It felt like one big happy family when I saw them and your loved ones get to share all the joy! I know this has been a tough mountain to climb and I hope the feeling of being on top stays with you! Thank you for sharing with us and I hope you BOTH feel all the love we are sending back to you! ♥️♥️

  • @jaidaannviluan9664
    @jaidaannviluan9664 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    As a nurse, I’ve seen all sorts of struggles my patient go through whenever they got cancer diagnosis and nothing beats the happiness I felt whenever we are clearing them from cancer after series of treatment. Happy for you Bec 🥰

    • @CorrineSunQueen
      @CorrineSunQueen ปีที่แล้ว

      Booooo hoooo hooo. Booo hooo.
      Girls, if you ever get breast cancer, swallow hard and remember that your reaction and behavior will influence others, so try hard nit to be a weenie. Not one ounce of ny femininity was lost when they took my stage 3 breasts.
      And what doctor in their right mind would tell a patient there was no cancer BEFORE the pathology report came back? If your doctor tells you that,, you have my permission to slap them. If they say something *really* stupid like predicting that the cancer won't come back, then go ahead and sock them in the eye. I was sickened by his words as a breast cancer survivor. I really like bec and hope that she does well, but these cancer segments have been hard to watch, especially with all of the erroneous information being broadcast.
      SMH.

  • @jenniferborovicka8828
    @jenniferborovicka8828 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so happy for you and Eamon! I admire your resilience, transparency and strength. You both are so amazing !

  • @fotomann40
    @fotomann40 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot tell you how much I'm balling my eyes out with you! I don't even know you two but just found your channel tonight and I'm hooked! Your husband is one of the most awesome guys I've ever seen and I'm jealous! I've gone through several cancer scares alone. Those weeks waiting for the pathology to come back is horrendous! I'm a huge advocate of therapy and have had a therapist several times in my life, and it surely does help get me through the stuff. I can't tell you how many times I've had something happen, and the, do I go in to the ER or is this just anxiety, what the hell do I do, kicks in. Now, with covid, my Dr's all tell me to avoid the ER at all costs.Thank you, thank you, thank you, for showing your raw emotions going through all this! It's going to help people feel like they aren't alone and it's OK to feel the feelings in the moment! My sincere prayers are with you for a speedy recovery and, please give your husband a huge hug for me!

  • @karaduncan8962
    @karaduncan8962 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    THIS IS THE GREATEST UPDATE EVER!!! Congrats Bec! You are such a warrior!! Great job, Eamon for supporting and loving her through this journey!

  • @john2000l
    @john2000l ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As many others have said, I have been waiting and praying that you would get the answer you received. I am a 70-year-old male, and I even cried with tears of joy when you got the pathologist results. You both are working so well together to get your health back and to be able to get back on your own life track. Keep the faith, keep the heart shining, and know that there are a lot of folks out here who want the very best for you Bec, and that we will continue to pray that everything else continues to go well.

  • @jennifercload9390
    @jennifercload9390 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how Oso just looks at Eamon when asked if he wants to go out and as soon as Bec calls him he jumps rights up. Shows who his Hooman is🥰

  • @nellielee2915
    @nellielee2915 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praying for your total healing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maddyonroblox2327
    @maddyonroblox2327 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I've never cried so many happy tears for someone I have never met. This is the best news and I'm so happy for you, Eamon and all your family and friends. Lee is up there jumping for joy for you! Sending you both love and light. 🥲

    • @dawnnj3235
      @dawnnj3235 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right i needed this..life can be so bad hearing this today was nice

    • @rebeccawilliams2410
      @rebeccawilliams2410 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, just been in tears

    • @ezelizabeth289
      @ezelizabeth289 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in tears!!! soooo happy for you both! The best news ever!!! 🤍🤍🤍

    • @zoraidavelez5397
      @zoraidavelez5397 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hippy for Becky.God bless You

  • @astridmiller8349
    @astridmiller8349 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    How wild is it that we all care and have so much love for someone we've never met. Sending you massive love Bec! 💗

  • @rachaelmichael3845
    @rachaelmichael3845 ปีที่แล้ว

    💛 you all got this!!! 32 and smiling! Congrats on the good news. 💞

  • @denisekitson9390
    @denisekitson9390 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been through your journey I was diagnosed in 2008 and I’m still here I am so glad that you have come through it keep thinking positive and I send Gods blessings to you both xx

  • @annakalmykova3001
    @annakalmykova3001 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I’ve never cried so much at any TH-cam videos ever, but you guys I’ve been following for so long and all the past videos about your cancer journey I’ve just been straight up sobbing. You guys are so strong and navigating this journey so gracefully I am ever amazed. Sending all the love and support! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @garrygmanbonney7978
      @garrygmanbonney7978 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh man, i agree with you on this. I'm a typical macho male and i have blubbed away, for the first time since my kids were born. Geez, pass the tissues.

    • @e.willcox5429
      @e.willcox5429 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok needing to invest in kleenex shares over here . So happy for you guys. Nothing but love❤❤

    • @laurieryan-mcdonald3222
      @laurieryan-mcdonald3222 ปีที่แล้ว

      With you on the tears! So happy for this amazing couple!!

    • @karenprovost2035
      @karenprovost2035 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

  • @herether3verywhere
    @herether3verywhere ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Aw Bec I cried seeing your "all clear" diagnosis - I've been keeping up with you and Eamon for years and this is such a hard period of both of your lives. Your strength and positivity is so inspiring - it makes my heart burst that after everything you've been through the weight has finally lifted. Sending so much love and joy to you both - and Oso is the cutest!

  • @francescawebster4404
    @francescawebster4404 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I must have missed your recent videos about your diagnosis. Sending positive thoughts 💜

  • @rosannajackson156
    @rosannajackson156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am overwhelmed with gratitude to hear this news! Congratulations to you both in this trying journey.

  • @ladiandmargaret
    @ladiandmargaret ปีที่แล้ว +62

    bawling my eyes out & completely over the moon for you! CONGRATS BEC! I've been waiting for this incredible news eagerly each week, perpetually crossing my fingers & toes that your fight has a visible finish line. Call every single contact in your phone and keep living that victorious moment!!!!.... YOU'RE SUPERWOMAN!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @shoni5182
    @shoni5182 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Can’t explain how happy I am for you, Becs - I cried with happiness as I would for my own family or friend. Lots of love to you & Eamon. You both are beautiful souls and deserve the world and all the health and happiness 💕

  • @joyadams507
    @joyadams507 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how much Emon loves you!! So supportive!!

  • @pennyblea8133
    @pennyblea8133 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm praying for your complete healing Bec, God bless you and Eamon

  • @louisvarga7282
    @louisvarga7282 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Eamon & Bec, I'm a 60 year old man from just outside of Montreal (Laval), Quebec. I am extremely proud of you two. You are both amazing ambassadors for Canada, showing the world the best of our people. I have had Heart Failure since I was 49, and have had an ICD (Implantable Cardioverter Defibrillator)/Pacemker for the last 6 years. I'm so exited for the good news you received. I wish you nothing but health, hapiness, love and success, in a long future. Always remember (you 2 are proof of this) the deep words of Canadian band Trooper......"We're here for a good time, not a long time". Live each moment like it could be you last. We are all on borrowed time. Some of us sit and wait for the end......and others live like you two. With a passion and zest for life that shines for everyone to see and enjoy. Keep smiling. You are appreciated.

  • @mommyfindingfit
    @mommyfindingfit ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Bec, my heart is so overjoyed! I can't even tell you. My mom is an over 20 year breast cancer survivor. She's now in her 80's and never had any reoccurrence. I'm so happy for you guys, and so proud of you and Eamon. Eamon, you are such an amazing, loving, caring guy. The way you've been there for Bec is such a blessing! Love y'all!

  • @mahletyilma6330
    @mahletyilma6330 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the love you have for each other ❤ am so glad you pulled through. Watching all your videos because my friend just got diagnosed and I will be with her through this process.

  • @viccimauldin9786
    @viccimauldin9786 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATULATIONS GUYS!! Such a great outcome!! Rest and take your time.

  • @mlk5454
    @mlk5454 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    No rhyme or reason to life's paths. This all started with a van build. Through it all you've remained true to yourself. Warm thoughts for you both and the gentle strong people who walk this earth of ours.

    • @garnetbarkley7482
      @garnetbarkley7482 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @franjones2882
      @franjones2882 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh so happy to hear ur results. I'm a Breast Cancer survivor of 27 yrs. I did not have to have a mastectomy,, they just wanted to do a lumpectomy. I chose a total mastectomy a 9 lympnodes removed. Everything was clean and clear margins. I also chose chemo. My children were very young and I wanted to be around for them. Took tamoxifen and Femara cancer drugs back to back, not together, no side effects except hot flashes. I'm so extremely happy for your good news and happy spirit. That helps immensely. GOD BLESS YOU and your WONDERFUL husband with his support and positivity. Can't wait for the next chapter in your life.💗💗

  • @karenustach5655
    @karenustach5655 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was fine through the whole video, until Bec woke up on her birthday and said how grateful she was for another year. 32 year olds should not have to fear leaving this earth that early. You are so brave and positive. Sending love from New Mexico

  • @tedmorgan7002
    @tedmorgan7002 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAY!!!!! Very happy to share this with you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Kayla11320
    @Kayla11320 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has brought me to so many tears. You are both so strong and the way that you continuously maintain a positive outlook and recenter your mind back to positivity is so inspiring. I’m so happy for you guys 🥹🥹🥹

  • @katiezondlo2235
    @katiezondlo2235 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I know I'm not the only one, but I'm crying happy tears for you, Bec! Continuing to send strength to you and Eamon, as well as lift you both up with love and light!

  • @crystalwriter
    @crystalwriter ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What a gift you two have given all of us, particularly anyone who must deal with Cancer. I really heard that "I'm so grateful have another year of life." Wishing you so much health and joy in your future.

  • @anapajarito20
    @anapajarito20 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said, what a gift to turn thirty two. Loads of love, you’ve got this. So proud and you are such an inspiration.

  • @marietgonzalez5622
    @marietgonzalez5622 ปีที่แล้ว

    I finally plucked up the courage to watch this, which is ridiculous when I see how courageous you both have been throughout this journey. I’m so glad to hear the good news. I wish you both love and light.❤️💕💖

  • @ilc0172
    @ilc0172 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm so happy for you guys! Go Bec! We just got news back from the oncologist that my mom won't need any radiation or treatment after her bilateral mastectomy. We are all so relieved and happy. She still has her surgery for the reconstruction coming up, but the relief that your family and friends feel are we felt when we got the news too. A toast to you and my mom for being warriors! ❤

  • @ynnel55
    @ynnel55 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Congratulations Bec and what a great partner you have. His support was epic, so happy for both of you.

  • @christyburroughs4325
    @christyburroughs4325 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried so hard for you Bec! Excited for your new journey of a healthy life!

  • @filo1864
    @filo1864 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your journey !! So happy for you xx

  • @aliciah8497
    @aliciah8497 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I didn't know that it was possible to feel this happy for strangers. This is the first video of you I was watching. You both have such vibrating souls. And I couldn't help but cry happy tears with you. Also I feel very much inspired to put work into my own strong mindset again. Thank you!❤

    • @ValCline
      @ValCline ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @lindaescobedo7442
      @lindaescobedo7442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg same here. Just genuine joy. Tears and chills.

  • @sueoldbirdstone9024
    @sueoldbirdstone9024 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    At 26 minutes in when I heard "there was no tumour" I started crying with you, Bec, and now I cant seem to stop! I'm so very very pleased for you and Eamon and your parents and sister and Oso and all of the million subscribers who love you!
    Is is odd that I feel proud of you both? You've carried yourselves with such grace and love and positivity and care toward each other. It's been a hard joy to watch.
    Let's hope that this last lap of treatment goes smoothly and quickly, and that your lightness continues for years and years and years!

  • @donnawebb6181
    @donnawebb6181 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations, Eamon & Bec! I feel like you both have been on a year-long rollercoaster ride. I have cried HAPPY TEARS throughout this video. You have had a huge cheerleading team and prayer group and I am sure it will continue. I thank God, for guiding your doctors, nurses, family, and friends for all each one has done for you, and stayed by your side. The two of you are an amazing couple and I love you both so much.

  • @bethfyfe6615
    @bethfyfe6615 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you Bec ❤️❤️❤️ and to Eamon and all your family who must be just as relieved and thrilled with the news!! Revel in it 🎉 ❤️ xxx

  • @hkostek11
    @hkostek11 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I simply adore your medical care team, the way they spoke to both of you is absolutely amazing. As a soon-to-be PA-C, I hope I can speak to my patients in such a gentle, compassionate and humorous way. Bec and Eamon, y'all are just bosses! xoxoxo

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I cannot speak highly enough about my entire team of doctors, nurses and everyone else at the hospitals... honestly world class bunch of humans!

    • @philippawood5047
      @philippawood5047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best of luck on your way to becoming a PA-C!! Sounds like your patients will be in good hands. :)

  • @MerynMTG
    @MerynMTG ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have a newfound respect for cancer survivors. That's one heck of a journey. Very proud of you for beating it. Congratulations Bec.

  • @BracamontesFamily
    @BracamontesFamily 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so strong!! Thanks for sharing your journey ❤

  • @jamieku513
    @jamieku513 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I cried with Bec every step of the way watching her cancer videos. Thank you for sharing. I know these videos give comfort to women all over the world. You handled this like a champ Bec!! Blessings to you and your amazing Eamon :)