I watched this in tears ❤️ Tess, you are incredibly courageous. You have handled this like a champ and I’ve never been more proud. You are going to help more people than you think. It is so important to trust your gut and advocate for yourself. I love you and can’t wait to give you a big (gentle) hug ❤️❤️ Let’s all give a HUGE thank you to the doctors and nurses and people who study these things and work their butts off to help. And to Tess for being such a strong woman!
I was thinking Tess the other day when I watched your video that you cancelled your trip. That i can see you both and the families to travel together. Sending hugs 🤗 ❤️
I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer two years ago today at age 25, im 27 now and have been one year cancer free. Im here for you if you ever need to talk to someone who’s gone through treatment. Sending you so much love and healing 🤍
Make sure they scan your brain! My aunt was 3 years cancer free after her breast cancer until she started having stroke symptoms and was diagnosed with metastasized breast cancer that went to her brain! Not trying to scare you but make sure you go to your checkups and have them scan everything.
My grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was around your age. She had a double mastectomy, and here we are 40+ years later and she is as healthy as can be. You are an amazing, strong woman and mother, and all my love and healing goes to you and your family❤️
My twin sons were 3 the month I was diagnosed with triple negative multi focal grade 3 b.c. I remember feeling like a bomb had gone off. I had chemo, radio, reconstruction and it is nearly 20 years later and I am still here :) It's a difficult road, but with the help and support of family and friends and the expertise of your doctors, you will get through this. Sending you much love and best wishes from South Wales UK. xxx
What diet are you on? I am struggling not sure what to eat. I found the lump underneath my arm. Both breasts tested positive for cancer, so did a double mastectomy in 2021. Completed treatment in February this year. But struggling with diet. My cancer is HER2 Positive. Lost my big sister to breast cancer in 2017. When she found the lump the size of a pea she got scared and hid it and when she decided to do something about it it was too late. It had already spread and reached stage 4. My cancer has been staged a 3.
@@dionnepatrine584 wishing you a speedy recovery. hearing about your sister made me sad, but that happens to a lot of women, the fear of cancer is so real.
@@SNair-en6lo Thank you. The fear is real and no one wants to die or indeed suffer and die. But we can try looking at cancer as disease like diabetes, hypertension, heart disease all of which is life threatening. We just have to deal with it making lifestyle changes you know doing what we can. Worrying will not make it go away. Just have the mindset to fight it while at the same time not letting it rob you of joy.
@@dionnepatrine584hi i hope you’re doing well , for diet just check a doctor that speaks about cancer as metabolic disease , I don’t remember the name if you tape it it will come up , I think he says to avoid sugar , sort of keto diet but he’s more precise about the diet
Hi beautiful Tess 💛. I was so sad to see your video pop up and learn of your breast cancer journey. I am Bec (btw) and was diagnosed with breast cancer back in December at only 31 years old. Currently nearing the end of my chemotherapy treatments. I know you have an amazing support system but if/when you want to chat with another young survivor I am here 🌞💛✨ Your story will help so many xx
Stay positive and strong, it is the key to your recovery. Make sure to eat clean, always do breathing exercises, get some sun often (d vitamin is very important) and when you're out of the therapy, try to do regular exercises. You can do it ❤️ Much love to you from another breast cancer survivor.
I was diagnosed at 31 and that was---- 10 YEARS AGO! I had a baby two years ago and life is good. This will be the hardest year of your life but you will realize you are stronger than you ever imagined.
You gave me so much hope, too! I’m 35 and was diagnosed two months ago. I am trying to stay strong but the fear gets to me. Hearing stories like yours truly encourages me that there is hope for me! I wish you all the best and much joy!!! 😊💗🤗
Thank you for sharing this. You didn't have to, but there are probably so many people getting checked thanks to you ❤️ Sending you so much love and strength ✨
This for sure is terrifying to me and it is making me want to go and get checked- I’m only 21- the idea terrifies me greatly… in reality Tess isn’t that much older than me. 9 years isn’t that much older. I definitely need to make the appointment…
Sharing stories is so important in getting information out to all women. Mammograms are key and examinations. Blessings galore to all women dealing with this - you will be much stronger. Go for walks with nature - Believe me you will feel so good after these walks. Listen to the birds singing and observe the little creatures playing early morning. Delightful.
I gasped when I read the title, my heart absolutely dropped. I’ve been watching you since you did your boyfriend tag with Patrick, and now you’re married with a beautiful son. I’m so sorry you had to go through this, and I am glad you trusted your gut and was able to be seen quickly. You are changing the world and helping people who might go through the same thing as you. I had H. Pylori and it affected me not in the magnitude that you did, but if I could educate others, I will. You are brave and thank you for educating your women viewers and men as well. I had a patient that also had a double mastectomy in her 30s and she is 93 now! You got this Tess. Praying for you. 🤍🤍🤍
I’m usually a silent viewer but I have been watching you since you were in college- nearly 12 years. You feel like a friend I’ve grown up with which may sound strange as we don’t actually know each other. I am just so happy that you’re overall okay and that you will overcome this. Thank you for sharing something so sensitive and private. You are so strong and I’m always rooting for you- now more than ever 🧡
When I was 17 I was diagnosed with cancer and honestly, while I was at the hospital I only wanted to watch your videos. Now I’m 21 and completely healthy and I’m devastated hearing you are going through this. Keep your positivity next to your heart because you will be okay soon and you will get your life back. I’m really proud of you and I’m happy to hear that you are better now. Sending lots of love to you and your amazing family ♥️
Ok and now remembering Theos name means gift from God is truly bringing me to tears all over again. He truly is 😭 Tess! You’re such an amazing momma so full of strength and love 🤍🤍🤍
Being in medical school and going through the hardships, the loans, the anxiety, the endless hours of work and studying, we forget the impact we are going to have on the lives of so many people in the future. Thank you for sharing your story Tess, not only for bringing awareness but also for reminding me personally why I decided to go into this field.
Thank you for doing what you do and putting in the hours and trainings. I am a clinical child psychologist and somehow i felt her thanks too, even if a different field. Also cried when she said it.
To anyone reading the comments where their story sounds similar to Tess’ (found a lump, went to the doctor, they said it was a cyst by only touching it), if you didn’t get it looked at further, please I beg of you do. My OB said mine was a cyst, said no reason for me to be concerned. I took myself to an imaging center, they recommended a biopsy, and mine was a tumor. I came to learn it wasn’t cancerous but breast cancer runs in my family so I have to monitor it. To any woman whose doctors said it was a cyst and you took their word as gold, please get a second opinion. Please.
I found one 9 months post partum after weaning breasting 4 months prior. OB said it was nothing to worry about…never looked further into it. It’s been a year and I still have the lump. I’ll be calling tomorrow to get it checked again
I got diagnosed with breast cancer this year, and am grateful to now be cancer free! Your story is so relatable. Wishing you continued health and success ❤
i can't imagine what the outcome would've been if you didn't trust your gut and just chalked it up to being a cyst.. the diagnosis would've came later, probably once it'd spread. thankfully, you trusted yourself moreso than anyone. not discrediting the pros who spend YEARS studying this, but our bodies KNOW. and this is such an inspiring and empowering story to women and people everywhere to speak up, advocate for yourself, and more importantly, trust your gut! don't ever be shy to ask for more tests, more opinions, more doctors. you can never be too careful. and this is a great example of that
@@bettyjones5375 i do too. trust me. the system is very very flawed. the point of my comment is that many women would feel intimidated to question a pro and would keep quiet, even if she felt in her gut that something was wrong. and tess didn't. and that in itself is empowering.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I was diagnosed with stage 1 invasive ductal carcinoma breast cancer when I was 22 (3 years ago). Today is actually my double mastectomy anniversary and I am 3 years cancer-free and doing very well! You are not alone and I'm sending you so much love. The first year is hard, but you have more courage and strength than you probably realize. You will be okay!!! 🤍
I’m feel sad last year I notice pain on my breast. 2 doctor said they found nothing last year and ultrasound nothing. I still feel pain so I went to another doctor this month and she found lumps. The third doctor said I need a mammogram. I called the radiology receptionist said I can’t have mammogram because I am under 30 years(I’m 23), first she said I need a ultrasound, because the mammogram has a lot of radiation.
@@iamthedaughteroftheking3704 please continue to advocate for yourself!! you know your body better than anyone, so if you feel like something is off, keep trying to find someone who will listen. you may need a doctor's referral to get the mammogram since you are under 40 years old. i wish you the best & truly hope it's nothing serious
@Shreya Rose Hi! I got a ultrasound and the radiologist did not find anything❤️. This is the second time I got ultrasound. I still feel pain on my breast. What could it be? I’m happy that there is nothing, but what could the pain be
I got diagnosed with stage 2 invasive ductal carcinoma at 27. The stigma that breast cancer only happens to older women does not exist to me anymore. I’m so glad you got your lump checked and you are using your platform to speak on the matter. Wishing you the best moving forward! Fight on!
You know what’s funny I got a letter in the mail to get a mammogram done. Told the doctor that was doing my Pap test. She’s like ooo no you’re too young to get this in the mail this only happens to older ladies to need mammograms. I’m 30… so I’m for sure gonna take this more seriously and schedule.
Thank you for sharing your story. The same thing happened to me but with a mole that turned out to be skin cancer . So if you feel like something is off , get it check out properly! Be your #1 advocate.
my mother is almost 60 and had breast cancer, got a mastectomy, went through chemo and radiation and now shes healthier and happier than ever! you can SO get through this!
Theo saved your life 😭💛 if you weren’t breast feeding you may have never found the lump. Omg. So thankful you found it and took action. I’m praying for a healthy future for you!! 💫✨🤞🏼
As a mammogram tech, it's always so sad when we have to tell a patient that the rad needs to speak to them in the consult room. Sending you all the love through your journey.
I was in shock when I read the title. I feel like more and more young people are getting diagnosed with cancer lately and it is not okay. I am about to get a biopsy done of a lymph node this week and this hit close to home. I am so glad you decided to share your story Tess and I hope nothing but the best for you. If anyone feels like something is off with your body please go get checked and advocate for yourself. Ask for that blood test ask for that ultrasound no one knows your body better than you.
@@leilei6576 mostly higher rates of screening. Death rates for nearly every cancer have greatly decreased. In the past, something like this would not have gotten diagnosed for quite a while, once it was too late to do anything.
28, just got diagnosed with breast cancer last week. I am so grateful for online resources and vlogs such as these. It makes me feel less alone. Prayers for you!
I was also diagnosed at the age of 28 and I am turning 37 this year wohoo.you got this. I am brca2 positive and had invasive ducal carcinoma stage 3 bc
I am a second year nursing who has been experiencing pain in my breasts for the past year, but since I'm only 20 and work with sick patients all the time, my doctor disregarded my fears as just being a hypochondriac. Hearing what you had to say is pushing me to advocate for myself, so I just booked an appointment with a different doctor next week and I am going to ask for a mammogram even if I am much younger than the recommended age. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable, terrifying experience and I wish you and your family great health.
I'm 21 and recently got a lump in my breast checked out in the hospital as well, all doctors were really reaffirming that even though it was just a clogged milk gland I made the right choice by getting it checked out and you are too! Hope everything turns out fine for you. (I got an ultrasound as my doctor said that shows the tissue of younger people's boobs better so if they suggest that don't be alarmed)
that’s a good idea, I have a friend who at age 20 found a like pre cancerous lump in her breast that had to be surgically removed....could have been bad if she did nothing about it which she almost did due to her young age, it’s better to be safe than sorry
We all suffer but us hypochondriacs I feel like we suffer the most. Everything you feel is 10x more and you think the worst. I’m currently waiting for blood test results to see if I don’t have a syndrome similar to lupus. And I’m praying the everything comes back ok. Whoever reads this, I hope you all are doing okay.
@@suussmiley yes!! I just turned 21 and found a lump in my breast around December. Got into my doctor at the end of February and then got an ultrasound mid March. I found it odd that it was an ultrasound and not a mammogram but it worked and they found it was a fibroadenoma. Not dangerous. But I get it monitored every 6 months now!
Being young and having cancer is so hard emotionally and physically. My partner had testicular cancer just over a year ago. I’m sending you all the positive vibes.
What a horrible experience, especially for a new mom😭 Sharing must be so hard but you did the right thing and I'm sure are helping so many women with your story. Sending you so much love, prayers and good vibes.
Crying at this video, just having followed you for so long. “I’m just glad it’s me because I can handle it” is just WOW. That strength can never be taken from you and it’s inspiring and truly breathe taking ♥️ All the best to you
I’m a breastfeeding mom and I’m going to get a lump checked now that hasn’t gone away in 6 weeks since I thought it was probably just a clogged milk duct. Thank you for sharing.
Tess. I literally feel like I grew up with you after watching you for 10+ years. This broke my heart but I’m so happy you’re doing better. We’re all here for you and your family.
This is exactly what youtube is useful for, giving help and advice to people who need it. Now Tess keep living your life to the fullest, be happy and blessings.
I was impelled to get a lump in my breast checked because of an influencer giving her experience. Thankfully, mine was benign, but I just wanted to say that it makes such a difference when people like you open up about this. It’s not your responsibility but I really appreciate it. 💛
Did you get it removed? I have lumps in both my breasts, they are benign (fibroadenoma). I have them since i was 18 years old and now I am 25. Multiple doctors said it's better to let them be and were against removing them but they always stay in back of my mine, the what ifs
@@Dishaizhere hey! No, I didn’t. I did make sure I asked the doctor whether there was a chance it could develop and become cancerous, and they said it wouldn’t. It’s the exact same type as yours, so I’d imagine the same would be for you, but there’s never any harm in asking your doctor even if it’s just for peace of mind! If it was ever to grow further I would absolutely get it checked again, but other than that I’m confident that it’s ok! I hope that helps! 💕
I read the title and felt like it was happening to one of my closest friend. Been here since the beginning. You’re a warrior, sending all of my support, you’ll get through this 😊
As a nurse who has watched you for years and as someone who has a grandmother who fought breast cancer this video made me cry. You are such a beautiful & strong human! How humbling it is for ME to watch you speak so positively after all that you’ve been through. People like you are the reason I push through the hardships that nursing brings. Your spirit & light are truly contagious. I’m so happy that you’re okay 🤍🤍 Theo & Patrick are so lucky to have such a warrior as a role model 💕
Tess 😭 only seconds in but I’m already in tears. I can’t even imagine how you and your family are feeling, so I’m very thankful that you’re sharing this with us. Please do not worry about over exerting yourself over content. We’ll be here to support you no matter what you share. Sending love and prayers to you always 💗
Thank you for sharing this experience and speaking about it so gracefully and honestly ❤️ We appreciate you raising awareness for Breast Cancer and helping the thousands of people watching. Sending lots of love and strength for your recovery from Australia ❤️
Hi Tess! I know it’s hard to share this kind of thing with people but I just want to thank you for sharing. I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma when I was 17 weeks pregnant and had to go through chemotherapy while pregnant and newly postpartum. I just got news that I beat my cancer. It’s scary to get such life changing news especially with a baby that depends on you. Whether you have to go through chemotherapy or not I just want you to know that you will get through it and having your baby to focus on is truly what pushed me to be positive through my diagnosis. If you ever want someone to talk to that has gone through something similar I would love to share my experience. Going through what I have has just made me so much more thankful for my baby and his health and stronger in the end. So much love and hugs to you and your family ❤️
you are SO strong, pregnancy and postpartum is hard enough. I cannot imagine how hard it was doing chemo during both. Your baby has a superhero mom and you should be SO proud of yourself!!! I cried reading your comment. I hope you live a long and healthy life
THANK YOU Tess for being so honest about what happened. As a woman and as a nurse, I am very grateful for the story you have just shared. It´s very important to know our bodies very well and get the changes we feel in our bodies checked out, because we never know. Sending you all the light and strength ❤️
Your words about Theo really touched me. How blessed you are to have brought him into the world and found this cancer later. I’ll never forget a patient I had who found her breast cancer while pregnant and passed days after bringing her baby into the world. It was like the world stopped that day. I’ve been struggling with nursing burn out recently but your story and so many others are what keep me going. It’s a privilege to take care of such strong individuals like yourself. Stay well Tess❤️
My heart dropped reading about the woman who passed after having her baby 💔 was it because you can’t treat it while being pregnant or because it was too late? I’m so concerned about all the horrible things that can happen to us and how lucky we are to be alive and healthy one more day
@@chijaruableI think I remember she was able to have some treatment while pregnant but the cancer spread to her brain and after a c section under anesthesia she never woke up.
This is actually my first time coming across your channel. I was looking for "fashion for large chests" and somehow this came up. It's crazy that during my search I was thinking how much I hated having large breasts because I don't like the way I look in my clothes. Coming across this was incredibly humbling and turned my world view upside down. We really should be grateful for every bit of health and time we have. Everything else is so small in comparison. Thank you for sharing your story, strength, advice, and courage. I'm glad that you are feeling much better.
wow Tess I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I'm so happy you're doing well and are able to spread awareness. Sending you so much light and love your way! ✨
I was diagnosed last year while pregnant with baby girl, and every kept telling me it was probably nothing. I had this feeling that they were wrong, and I couldn’t let it go. I’m glad I listened. Thank you for sharing this because it’s so important.
The more you share the more you help. If my mom had a double mastectomy she would be alive today. She lost 3 sisters to it so I had BRCA1 and BRCA2 after 14 years of problems and had a double mastectomy, cut under my arms clear to my spine on both sides. I will be the first survivor on my mom's side.
Tess, you are so courageous but you don’t owe us ANYTHING. Do what’s best for your mental health and HEALTH. I am a cancer survivor and I can just hear the tremble in your voice; it reminds me when I was processing as I spoke. So much love and prayers for you through your journey. We are a large community as individuals that fought cancer; you are never alone. 💗
When my mom got diagnosed I think the worst thing was the nurses who told her that it didn't look like cancer to them and that it was just a cyst... it made the impact of the cancer diagnosis that much harder to comprehend. I wish doctors wouldn't down play lumps in the breast.
This had me in tears girl, I’ve watched you for years! I will say… PLEASE be safe with implants. My mom had breast cancer, a double mastectomy and implants and later down the road got breast implant illness and it really made her sick. She just got her implants out and went flat and feels so much better!!!! Not trying to scare you but I don’t want you to be sick again later down the road. I’m in nursing school too & implants are so dangerous. Praying for you ❤️
Yes, my close friend got auto immune disease caused directly by implants. Many have been recalled in the country I live due to very recent research and surgeons are not so forthcoming in using them now (research was released before but went under the radar - implants are a big business). Research and make informed decisions based on education and the latest global research rather than emotional need. (Early stage breast cancer patient).
Thank you so much for this video. I am 26 years old and was just diagnosed with breast cancer this week. It's all so overwhelming and it was so great to hear your story. Hope you are well!
I “failed” two mammograms in the fall and had to have a biopsy in December. Utterly terrifying. I was so grateful as well for the caring staff that walked me through the whole process. I def met some heroes that day. Sending you healing vibes, Tess. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
You are such an incredible person, Tess. By coming on here and talking about your story, you have sparked a chain reaction of others going to get those “oh, it’s probably nothing” things checked out. I love that you emphasized the importance of being your own advocate, it is perfectly OK to go as far as you need to feel comfortable with your health. From a healthcare worker - thank you. You have saved many other lives today! Sending you all of my love as you continue in your healing journey.
I can't even imagine how you must have felt - and as a resident doctor, I only see the other side of these stories - but I'm so inspired by your strength and resilience. Sending you a massive amount of love and good thoughts and encouragements.
I have watched you for what feels like my entire teenage and adult years. I am 23 now and watching your video was so comforting. My sister was diagnosed with cancer last year and our whole world froze too - nothing else matters except the health and safety of your loved ones. Today, I still struggle with how fast our whole lives were turned upside in one phone call too. Watching you talk about this, is so so comforting. I saw your video post and just now found the strength to watch and it completely brought me to last year all over again. Tess, you are so strong and brave for sharing and your journey reminds me so much of my sisters. My sister is almost 6 months cancer free now. Thank you for sharing, it helps everyone feel less alone.
Tess you were on my heart so much the past few weeks, when you talked about how Theo gave you strength and seeing the love you have for him just brought me to tears 🥺 you are so beautiful & strong and your heart is amazing. I love you and your little family so much, you’re on my heart and in my prayers. sending you the biggest & warmest hug, so happy to see you again too 💛
You've lived like 10 lifetimes since we've seen you last. I can't believe you're talking to us and look like this right now. I would be a disaster. I'm in awe. I think you're amazing, so strong and so courageous. Thank you for sharing. I'm so glad you listened to that gut feeling.
Dear Tess, I was diagnosed with triple positive breast cancer 2 months postpartum, in october 2021. I went through chemo, finishing next week, and then having double mastectomy. You are going to be just fine. And I will too. Because we have the best reason for living, our kids. Just believe in that with all of your heart, and God will save us for them. Sending you big hug ❤
I cant even begin to imagine how scary this must have been - we just live our lives taking so much for granted but an experience like this would have been such a wake up call. it takes so much strength to endure such a thing and i'm so so relieved for you
Omg, I’ve been watching you since you did the vampire diaries, boyfriend tag, college room tour, etc. I feel this is happening to my best friend. I hope you fight this, overcome it & never have to deal with it again in your life. Endless love tess 🤍
recently diagnosed myself with the same exact type of cancer earlier this week. keeping calm throughout it, i have my moments where i break down and cry, but i have a great support system that’s keeping me strong throughout this whole thing. grateful that you were able to get your tumor removed that you’re okay and getting better. praying the same for myself ❤️
I couldn’t watch this without crying. You’re absolutely brave and such a warrior Tess sending blessings and prayers your way to you your precious little family.
I haven’t been to women’s dr in since after I had my year old I get a lot of anxiety . After seeing this video I called right after and made an appt thank you for this video and to bring awareness . You are so strong praying for you 💕
Tess! I was wondering where you were the other day. My heart dropped reading the title. I cried with you. I couldn’t even begin to imagine what you’ve experienced throughout all of this. Your strength is so admirable and unmatched. Thank you for sharing your story. So happy to know that you are on your way to a full recovery. Sending you love, light and healing. 💖
This video, although I imagine difficult to record and post, is such a great way to bring awareness. I’m 25 years old and my grandmother has breast cancer. I recently felt a lump which was frightening and discouraged me to get it checked out. Luckily, I have a great support group and have programmed to get everything checked out. Hearing your story gives me a special kind of comfort and I congratulate you for being so courageous.
I'm so, so, so happy that you've had this diagnosed early on! My grandmother and mother had cancer too, so I've always felt like I'm doomed and it's only a matter of time at this point, but regardless of how depressing the thought is, at least I know I have to get checked every now and then and stay alert at all times. Informed - is forearmed, and therefore I also hope that other women (if possible) get checked and don't accept the uncertain results. If you feel it in your gut that something is wrong - something sure is. Better to be overly careful and paranoid, than let it grow inside you till it's too late. Love you and crying tears of joy you're over it now!
I don’t know where you are at, but if you are able to I would recommend getting tested for genetic mutations (such as BRCA 1 + 2 etc). If you do have a gene mutation that increases your chances of breast cancer there are preventative measures that can be taken!
Fast regulary (intermittent, omad, longer fasts), minimize sugar and carbs consumption since glucose feeds cancer cells, eat organic non-processed foods as much as possible, be wary of products like cosmetics as so many contain cancerous chemicals
Your story is identical to mine, my grandma and my mom both had breast cancer. My mom sadly passed away and is in heaven now ❤️ I am aware that I am a high risk and I’m not going to lie that I’m really scared of the future 😢
We never expect this type of things to happen to us, until they do, and the thing is, Cancer can happen to any of us. But thanks to you and your courage, one young women decided today to go check that weird lump or advocate for herself if she was feeling unrest after a doctors appointment. You have always been a positive light in our lives even in these circumstances, fighting your tears back to create awareness. We appreciate you so much and consider you as a friend that we grew up with and hope nothing but the best for you and your family. Much love.
Tess, I've lived in New York City now for the past 4 years because of you. You made an unknown scary place feel more familiar, and gave me the confidence to make a bold move in my life. Every morning I wake up in my home in the city and I know that your warmth, open heart, creativity, and ability to share your life online is a huge reason why. You have had a positive impact on so many people and your bravery in continuing to share your life is nothing short of inspirational. You make the world a better place and I will be thinking of you and sending you so much love!!
I’m not an empath at all and I couldn’t help but crying. Like I don’t know you and it just touched me. I think it’s because I can tell you have a gentle soul and you’re a mother of a young child and I have a best friend who is too and my heart would just shatter for her and I wouldn’t know what to say to her. God bless you and I’m happy everything went alright. I hope God heals you completely and for good. Physically and mentally and this feels like a lifetime ago for you soon.
I was diagnosed at 24, and was completely shocked as well. Great job on advocating for yourself and insisting on further testing! Just know you can get through this! Thank you for using your platform to spread awareness about BC happening to younger women, we’re too often looked over! Praying for you!
My mother had breast cancer so this issue is very near to my heart. God bless you and may God give you strength, you are never given what you cannot handle!! ❤️❤️
Sending you so much love. I’m so happy you’re doing well. Thank you for sharing your story. We need voices like yours for strength and courage. Love you! 🤗😍
I have been dealing with cancer since 2017. The appointments, the scans, etc it’s literally like your second job, but it’s all so worth it!!!! I am so proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️.
as someone who recently had a poor experience with a doctor, it means so much to me that you spoke about the importance of advocating for ourselves. your story has given me the strength to advocate for myself at my next appointment and make sure my concerns are heard and addressed. you didn’t have to share this with the internet at all but i respect you so much for being vulnerable in hopes of helping others. you are so strong tess! wishing you all the very best 💛
My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with breast cancer too. It's been a though last couple of weeks with regards to the uncertainties moving forward with the operation etc. I have been watching some vlogs about it to learn more. Thank you for sharing your journey, it really helps me understand and cope with this. Greetings from the island of Aruba. Big hug.
Tess, you are such a strong and inspirational woman. I really appreciate you telling us story and being so open about your experience. Wishing you the best always!
Hi Tess, my mother got a left breast masectomy actually on the same week as you did and i am so thankful for your testimony because, somehow, since i don’t know you personally, it helped me come to terms with what happened to her and helped me understand her situation better. I wish you and your family the best.
I am here. I just got back today from getting a mammogram and a ultrasound. I have been having so much pain the past 3 weeks. Today I got back my results I have 3 masses where found and I’m getting a biopsy I am scared but at the same time I want to be inform before my appointment Aug 1. I truly appreciate taking the time to provide us with information to be aware of breast cancer.
Cancer never touched my life until last October when I lost my friend less than a year after his diagnosis. He was 38 years old. They hadn't even gone on their honeymoon before he was gone. For me and so many other young people, I feel like cancer isn't something we believe can touch us. Spreading awareness that it is real and does affect people of all ages is so important. I'm so glad that you posted this video and are brave enough to be transparent. Tess, your authenticity and compassionate personality are what made me subscribe however many years ago and have kept me here ever since. Thank you, and I wish you all the best ❤
This broke my heart. Tess I’m so proud of you and truly in awe of how bravely and gracefully you’ve navigated through this scary moment. I can’t imagine how shocking and terrifying this must have been for you and your family. Thank you for sharing. You really didn’t have to but that just again shows how strong you are. I’m sending you so much love and positive energy as you move forward with next steps in this journey! 🤍
Wow! Was not expecting this right now. Glad you’re okay and I can sympathise with how hard it must be to be faced with a scary diagnosis, especially as a new mom! Never ever take your health for granted!
it amazes me how composed and positive you remain after going through all that you have! your light is your beauty, and Theo has an amazing, strong mama to look up to! praying for you and your sweet family. all the good vibes your way! xo
So sorry to hear about this. I am glad you are doing better right now. I wish the best of luck to you, Theo & Patrick! it’s good that it was detected early and did not spread. ❤️
I noticed you had been gone, but could have never imagined this was why 😢❤️ I’ve watched you for so many years and to hear this feels like it’s happening to a friend. I wish you all the best moving forward and admire how incredibly strong you’ve been. You’re so brave and inspiring. We are all here for you and sending so much love ❤️
Tearing up through this. You are so incredibly strong and I know this will help so many women out there 🥺 sending you so much love and healing thank you for sharing this Tess 🤍
Hi tess❤️ I was diagnosed with breast cancer in February 2021. Now I‘m healthy again. Don‘t be scared of anything. Everything happens for a reason. You will be so much stronger after this journey. Sending you lots of love and hope from Germany ❤️
My mom just went through this last year, the scariest thing I have ever been through. Stay strong, Tess. I’ve been watching you for years and can’t believe this is real 🖤
Don’t beat yourself up when you’re feeling low about this. About your body changing. You make all the good points about how you’re glad it’s you and not baby, it’s curable so you may think you shouldn’t feel sad about it, but your feelings in this are valid too. ❤️if you get sad, don’t beat yourself up. Let yourself feel it for a few. Because you went through so much in such a short amount of time
I'm so so sorry you've had to go through this. I felt that fear at 17 months post partum recently; I feared the worst and sobbed at the idea of my toddler not having me in her life. I had the biopsy; it was a pea sized lump, a benign tumor due to lactational changes. I'm here to say that it terrifies me that your PCP was confident it was a cyst and told you not to worry about it. It seems common practice that a lump is to be understood as possibly being anything, and to err on the side of caution. (An ultrasound and biopsy in my case needed to be done to rule things out). I'm so glad that you advocated for yourself. Big, big hugs to you. My heart broke when I read your caption.
Kind of going through a similar thing, I felt a lump/hardened part of my breast and went to my gp with my worries. She booked me in for a mammogram but I have to wait until I get a time 😞 what really gets me is thinking that my child might grow up without a mother, without a person who loves him the most :/
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer in december. I thought the worst, we were all so scared. The operation went well, now she won't even need chemotherapy and is now ready to go back to work like nothing ever happened (except she has to take some medication). Breast cancer is more common than we think, and you can totally heal from it (even if i did not believe it when people told me that a few months ago). You'll be fine, you'll be able to stay with your son. You are very brave, thank you for sharing your story.
I watched you ever since I was younger and so much time has passed since i’ve seen you so seeing this video almost breaks a part of younger me. You are truly so strong! ❤️
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I watched this in tears ❤️ Tess, you are incredibly courageous. You have handled this like a champ and I’ve never been more proud. You are going to help more people than you think. It is so important to trust your gut and advocate for yourself. I love you and can’t wait to give you a big (gentle) hug ❤️❤️ Let’s all give a HUGE thank you to the doctors and nurses and people who study these things and work their butts off to help. And to Tess for being such a strong woman!
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You always have such beautiful words Alex. I bet you are a wonderful friend to have ❤️
HellO Alex ..prayers for Tess...love to all of you....
I was thinking Tess the other day when I watched your video that you cancelled your trip. That i can see you both and the families to travel together. Sending hugs 🤗 ❤️
Alex centomo you are amazing 💞 and I love you big fan of your videos too
I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer two years ago today at age 25, im 27 now and have been one year cancer free. Im here for you if you ever need to talk to someone who’s gone through treatment. Sending you so much love and healing 🤍
wow i am so glad you are cancer free now. I am so scared that I'll get diagnosed w breast cancer or I won't notice and it'll get worse 💔
I’m so happy for you. Many blessings to you and may you live along healthy life.
I’m happy you’re doing so well!!! If you don’t mind me asking, what were your symptoms?
Praise the Lord!!
Make sure they scan your brain! My aunt was 3 years cancer free after her breast cancer until she started having stroke symptoms and was diagnosed with metastasized breast cancer that went to her brain! Not trying to scare you but make sure you go to your checkups and have them scan everything.
My grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was around your age. She had a double mastectomy, and here we are 40+ years later and she is as healthy as can be. You are an amazing, strong woman and mother, and all my love and healing goes to you and your family❤️
i am tess's gma, please prayers and 'body check'
So happy to read this wish you and your grandma healthy always :)
@@lynnekelly7958 can you tell tess, sarah from louisiana says hi and im keeping her in my prayers and love her videos❤️
You will be alright ❤
My twin sons were 3 the month I was diagnosed with triple negative multi focal grade 3 b.c.
I remember feeling like a bomb had gone off. I had chemo, radio, reconstruction and it is nearly 20 years later and I am still here :) It's a difficult road, but with the help and support of family and friends and the expertise of your doctors, you will get through this. Sending you much love and best wishes from South Wales UK. xxx
What diet are you on? I am struggling not sure what to eat. I found the lump underneath my arm. Both breasts tested positive for cancer, so did a double mastectomy in 2021. Completed treatment in February this year. But struggling with diet. My cancer is HER2 Positive. Lost my big sister to breast cancer in 2017. When she found the lump the size of a pea she got scared and hid it and when she decided to do something about it it was too late. It had already spread and reached stage 4. My cancer has been staged a 3.
@@dionnepatrine584 wishing you a speedy recovery.
hearing about your sister made me sad, but that happens to a lot of women, the fear of cancer is so real.
@@SNair-en6lo Thank you. The fear is real and no one wants to die or indeed suffer and die. But we can try looking at cancer as disease like diabetes, hypertension, heart disease all of which is life threatening. We just have to deal with it making lifestyle changes you know doing what we can. Worrying will not make it go away. Just have the mindset to fight it while at the same time not letting it rob you of joy.
Hi I also had tnbc grade 3. I made it thru
@@dionnepatrine584hi i hope you’re doing well , for diet just check a doctor that speaks about cancer as metabolic disease , I don’t remember the name if you tape it it will come up , I think he says to avoid sugar , sort of keto diet but he’s more precise about the diet
Hi beautiful Tess 💛. I was so sad to see your video pop up and learn of your breast cancer journey. I am Bec (btw) and was diagnosed with breast cancer back in December at only 31 years old. Currently nearing the end of my chemotherapy treatments. I know you have an amazing support system but if/when you want to chat with another young survivor I am here 🌞💛✨ Your story will help so many xx
Love you Bec 🖤 praying for you daily!
So good to see you here Bec!!❤️ Hope your doing good and co lovely to hear you are almost done with chemi ❤️❤️
God bless you bec. Sending you lots of love and prayers
Stay positive and strong, it is the key to your recovery. Make sure to eat clean, always do breathing exercises, get some sun often (d vitamin is very important) and when you're out of the therapy, try to do regular exercises. You can do it ❤️
Much love to you from another breast cancer survivor.
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I was diagnosed at 31 and that was---- 10 YEARS AGO! I had a baby two years ago and life is good. This will be the hardest year of your life but you will realize you are stronger than you ever imagined.
I literally cried reading your comment. So glad for your health recovers and remains cancer free for the past 10 years
You gave me hope that I can still get pregnant and have my baby after recovering from a condition at year 33
You gave me so much hope, too! I’m 35 and was diagnosed two months ago. I am trying to stay strong but the fear gets to me. Hearing stories like yours truly encourages me that there is hope for me! I wish you all the best and much joy!!! 😊💗🤗
Please did you get your eggs frozen?
I’m grateful for your storg
Thank you for sharing this. You didn't have to, but there are probably so many people getting checked thanks to you ❤️
Sending you so much love and strength ✨
This for sure is terrifying to me and it is making me want to go and get checked- I’m only 21- the idea terrifies me greatly… in reality Tess isn’t that much older than me. 9 years isn’t that much older. I definitely need to make the appointment…
@@ashtynofficial shower=BODY CHECK
Sharing stories is so important in getting information out to all women. Mammograms are key and examinations. Blessings galore to all women dealing with this - you will be much stronger. Go for walks with nature - Believe me you will feel so good after these walks. Listen to the birds singing and observe the little creatures playing early morning. Delightful.
I gasped when I read the title, my heart absolutely dropped. I’ve been watching you since you did your boyfriend tag with Patrick, and now you’re married with a beautiful son. I’m so sorry you had to go through this, and I am glad you trusted your gut and was able to be seen quickly. You are changing the world and helping people who might go through the same thing as you. I had H. Pylori and it affected me not in the magnitude that you did, but if I could educate others, I will. You are brave and thank you for educating your women viewers and men as well. I had a patient that also had a double mastectomy in her 30s and she is 93 now! You got this Tess. Praying for you. 🤍🤍🤍
I’m usually a silent viewer but I have been watching you since you were in college- nearly 12 years. You feel like a friend I’ve grown up with which may sound strange as we don’t actually know each other. I am just so happy that you’re overall okay and that you will overcome this. Thank you for sharing something so sensitive and private. You are so strong and I’m always rooting for you- now more than ever 🧡
Same from me!!!!!! Sending so much love to you, Tess!!!
When I was 17 I was diagnosed with cancer and honestly, while I was at the hospital I only wanted to watch your videos. Now I’m 21 and completely healthy and I’m devastated hearing you are going through this. Keep your positivity next to your heart because you will be okay soon and you will get your life back. I’m really proud of you and I’m happy to hear that you are better now. Sending lots of love to you and your amazing family ♥️
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Thank God for your story… I’m young and scared cos of ovary eggs for chemotherapy… did you freeze your eggs please?
You are so strong, thank you for sharing your story 💛 keeping you & your family in my prayers x
Ok and now remembering Theos name means gift from God is truly bringing me to tears all over again. He truly is 😭 Tess! You’re such an amazing momma so full of strength and love 🤍🤍🤍
Tess please read book Heal your body and soul from Luis Hay🙏💫❤️. You can do it🌞
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Being in medical school and going through the hardships, the loans, the anxiety, the endless hours of work and studying, we forget the impact we are going to have on the lives of so many people in the future. Thank you for sharing your story Tess, not only for bringing awareness but also for reminding me personally why I decided to go into this field.
College should be free for all you amazing future doctors
Same!
Yes exactly! Also in medical school and it’s such a long and grueling road but this makes me realize why I chose this field! 💛
Thank you for doing what you do and putting in the hours and trainings. I am a clinical child psychologist and somehow i felt her thanks too, even if a different field. Also cried when she said it.
To anyone reading the comments where their story sounds similar to Tess’ (found a lump, went to the doctor, they said it was a cyst by only touching it), if you didn’t get it looked at further, please I beg of you do. My OB said mine was a cyst, said no reason for me to be concerned. I took myself to an imaging center, they recommended a biopsy, and mine was a tumor. I came to learn it wasn’t cancerous but breast cancer runs in my family so I have to monitor it. To any woman whose doctors said it was a cyst and you took their word as gold, please get a second opinion. Please.
I'm going to take this as a sign and schedule an appointment right now. Thank you.
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I found one 9 months post partum after weaning breasting 4 months prior. OB said it was nothing to worry about…never looked further into it. It’s been a year and I still have the lump. I’ll be calling tomorrow to get it checked again
I got diagnosed with breast cancer this year, and am grateful to now be cancer free! Your story is so relatable. Wishing you continued health and success ❤
Amen! God is so good! Praying for continuing healing and good health.
i can't imagine what the outcome would've been if you didn't trust your gut and just chalked it up to being a cyst.. the diagnosis would've came later, probably once it'd spread. thankfully, you trusted yourself moreso than anyone. not discrediting the pros who spend YEARS studying this, but our bodies KNOW. and this is such an inspiring and empowering story to women and people everywhere to speak up, advocate for yourself, and more importantly, trust your gut! don't ever be shy to ask for more tests, more opinions, more doctors. you can never be too careful. and this is a great example of that
I hate how we have to advocate for ourselves though. We aren't trained professionals like they are. Seems like theres no care with some doctors
@@bettyjones5375 i do too. trust me. the system is very very flawed. the point of my comment is that many women would feel intimidated to question a pro and would keep quiet, even if she felt in her gut that something was wrong. and tess didn't. and that in itself is empowering.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I was diagnosed with stage 1 invasive ductal carcinoma breast cancer when I was 22 (3 years ago). Today is actually my double mastectomy anniversary and I am 3 years cancer-free and doing very well!
You are not alone and I'm sending you so much love. The first year is hard, but you have more courage and strength than you probably realize. You will be okay!!! 🤍
I’m feel sad last year I notice pain on my breast. 2 doctor said they found nothing last year and ultrasound nothing. I still feel pain so I went to another doctor this month and she found lumps. The third doctor said I need a mammogram. I called the radiology receptionist said I can’t have mammogram because I am under 30 years(I’m 23), first she said I need a ultrasound, because the mammogram has a lot of radiation.
@@iamthedaughteroftheking3704 please continue to advocate for yourself!! you know your body better than anyone, so if you feel like something is off, keep trying to find someone who will listen. you may need a doctor's referral to get the mammogram since you are under 40 years old. i wish you the best & truly hope it's nothing serious
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@Shreya Rose Hi! I got a ultrasound and the radiologist did not find anything❤️. This is the second time I got ultrasound. I still feel pain on my breast. What could it be? I’m happy that there is nothing, but what could the pain be
Do your docs know what causes this. ? This is so scary and seems to effect younger people.
I got diagnosed with stage 2 invasive ductal carcinoma at 27. The stigma that breast cancer only happens to older women does not exist to me anymore. I’m so glad you got your lump checked and you are using your platform to speak on the matter.
Wishing you the best moving forward! Fight on!
You are amazing... thank you for sharing your story.
You know what’s funny I got a letter in the mail to get a mammogram done. Told the doctor that was doing my Pap test. She’s like ooo no you’re too young to get this in the mail this only happens to older ladies to need mammograms. I’m 30… so I’m for sure gonna take this more seriously and schedule.
Grace I hope you're healing. Thank you for sharing!!!!
Thank you for sharing your story. The same thing happened to me but with a mole that turned out to be skin cancer . So if you feel like something is off , get it check out properly! Be your #1 advocate.
One of my favorite TH-camrs watching another one of my favorite TH-camrs 😍 love you Nadine big fan of your videos your amazing 💞
Absolutely! Not sure if you're in the USA, but skin cancer is the most common cancer here.
my mother is almost 60 and had breast cancer, got a mastectomy, went through chemo and radiation and now shes healthier and happier than ever! you can SO get through this!
Theo saved your life 😭💛 if you weren’t breast feeding you may have never found the lump. Omg. So thankful you found it and took action. I’m praying for a healthy future for you!! 💫✨🤞🏼
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As a mammogram tech, it's always so sad when we have to tell a patient that the rad needs to speak to them in the consult room. Sending you all the love through your journey.
you see their life change before your eyes
I was in shock when I read the title. I feel like more and more young people are getting diagnosed with cancer lately and it is not okay. I am about to get a biopsy done of a lymph node this week and this hit close to home. I am so glad you decided to share your story Tess and I hope nothing but the best for you. If anyone feels like something is off with your body please go get checked and advocate for yourself. Ask for that blood test ask for that ultrasound no one knows your body better than you.
hope everything goes well with the biopsy. sending you love.
Hope everything goes well with your biopsy too!
What’s causing all of this cancer popping up with young people?!! 🤭
@@leilei6576 genetic & lifestyle
@@leilei6576 mostly higher rates of screening. Death rates for nearly every cancer have greatly decreased. In the past, something like this would not have gotten diagnosed for quite a while, once it was too late to do anything.
28, just got diagnosed with breast cancer last week. I am so grateful for online resources and vlogs such as these. It makes me feel less alone. Prayers for you!
Prayers to you 🙏 💛
I was also diagnosed at the age of 28 and I am turning 37 this year wohoo.you got this. I am brca2 positive and had invasive ducal carcinoma stage 3 bc
I am a second year nursing who has been experiencing pain in my breasts for the past year, but since I'm only 20 and work with sick patients all the time, my doctor disregarded my fears as just being a hypochondriac. Hearing what you had to say is pushing me to advocate for myself, so I just booked an appointment with a different doctor next week and I am going to ask for a mammogram even if I am much younger than the recommended age. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable, terrifying experience and I wish you and your family great health.
I'm 21 and recently got a lump in my breast checked out in the hospital as well, all doctors were really reaffirming that even though it was just a clogged milk gland I made the right choice by getting it checked out and you are too! Hope everything turns out fine for you.
(I got an ultrasound as my doctor said that shows the tissue of younger people's boobs better so if they suggest that don't be alarmed)
that’s a good idea, I have a friend who at age 20 found a like pre cancerous lump in her breast that had to be surgically removed....could have been bad if she did nothing about it which she almost did due to her young age, it’s better to be safe than sorry
We all suffer but us hypochondriacs I feel like we suffer the most. Everything you feel is 10x more and you think the worst. I’m currently waiting for blood test results to see if I don’t have a syndrome similar to lupus. And I’m praying the everything comes back ok. Whoever reads this, I hope you all are doing okay.
Pain in the breasts totally deserves to be checked out. Any change really. Good for you for getting a second opinion!
@@suussmiley yes!! I just turned 21 and found a lump in my breast around December. Got into my doctor at the end of February and then got an ultrasound mid March. I found it odd that it was an ultrasound and not a mammogram but it worked and they found it was a fibroadenoma. Not dangerous. But I get it monitored every 6 months now!
Being young and having cancer is so hard emotionally and physically. My partner had testicular cancer just over a year ago. I’m sending you all the positive vibes.
Tess, sending you so much love. You are brave, I'm so sorry you've been going through this. Glad you are doing ok!!
What a horrible experience, especially for a new mom😭 Sharing must be so hard but you did the right thing and I'm sure are helping so many women with your story. Sending you so much love, prayers and good vibes.
Damn be gentle with words. These is sesitive topic
Crying at this video, just having followed you for so long. “I’m just glad it’s me because I can handle it” is just WOW. That strength can never be taken from you and it’s inspiring and truly breathe taking ♥️ All the best to you
I’m a breastfeeding mom and I’m going to get a lump checked now that hasn’t gone away in 6 weeks since I thought it was probably just a clogged milk duct. Thank you for sharing.
Hope everything comes back okay x
sending prayers! It’ll be okay!
Sending prayers I hope all goes well
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I hope everything is okay🤍 praying for u
Tess. I literally feel like I grew up with you after watching you for 10+ years. This broke my heart but I’m so happy you’re doing better. We’re all here for you and your family.
Oh my goodness Tess. Haven't even watched the video and I'm in tears. Stay strong ❤️
This is exactly what youtube is useful for, giving help and advice to people who need it. Now Tess keep living your life to the fullest, be happy and blessings.
I was impelled to get a lump in my breast checked because of an influencer giving her experience. Thankfully, mine was benign, but I just wanted to say that it makes such a difference when people like you open up about this. It’s not your responsibility but I really appreciate it. 💛
Did you get it removed? I have lumps in both my breasts, they are benign (fibroadenoma). I have them since i was 18 years old and now I am 25. Multiple doctors said it's better to let them be and were against removing them but they always stay in back of my mine, the what ifs
@@Dishaizhere hey! No, I didn’t. I did make sure I asked the doctor whether there was a chance it could develop and become cancerous, and they said it wouldn’t. It’s the exact same type as yours, so I’d imagine the same would be for you, but there’s never any harm in asking your doctor even if it’s just for peace of mind! If it was ever to grow further I would absolutely get it checked again, but other than that I’m confident that it’s ok! I hope that helps! 💕
you are so strong. I am so happy to hear you are on the road to recovery and doing ok. sending all the love to you and your family xx
I read the title and felt like it was happening to one of my closest friend. Been here since the beginning. You’re a warrior, sending all of my support, you’ll get through this 😊
As a nurse who has watched you for years and as someone who has a grandmother who fought breast cancer this video made me cry. You are such a beautiful & strong human! How humbling it is for ME to watch you speak so positively after all that you’ve been through. People like you are the reason I push through the hardships that nursing brings. Your spirit & light are truly contagious. I’m so happy that you’re okay 🤍🤍 Theo & Patrick are so lucky to have such a warrior as a role model 💕
Tess 😭 only seconds in but I’m already in tears. I can’t even imagine how you and your family are feeling, so I’m very thankful that you’re sharing this with us. Please do not worry about over exerting yourself over content. We’ll be here to support you no matter what you share. Sending love and prayers to you always 💗
Thank you for sharing this experience and speaking about it so gracefully and honestly ❤️ We appreciate you raising awareness for Breast Cancer and helping the thousands of people watching. Sending lots of love and strength for your recovery from Australia ❤️
Hi Tess! I know it’s hard to share this kind of thing with people but I just want to thank you for sharing. I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma when I was 17 weeks pregnant and had to go through chemotherapy while pregnant and newly postpartum. I just got news that I beat my cancer. It’s scary to get such life changing news especially with a baby that depends on you. Whether you have to go through chemotherapy or not I just want you to know that you will get through it and having your baby to focus on is truly what pushed me to be positive through my diagnosis. If you ever want someone to talk to that has gone through something similar I would love to share my experience. Going through what I have has just made me so much more thankful for my baby and his health and stronger in the end. So much love and hugs to you and your family ❤️
you are SO strong, pregnancy and postpartum is hard enough. I cannot imagine how hard it was doing chemo during both. Your baby has a superhero mom and you should be SO proud of yourself!!! I cried reading your comment. I hope you live a long and healthy life
THANK YOU Tess for being so honest about what happened. As a woman and as a nurse, I am very grateful for the story you have just shared. It´s very important to know our bodies very well and get the changes we feel in our bodies checked out, because we never know. Sending you all the light and strength ❤️
Your words about Theo really touched me. How blessed you are to have brought him into the world and found this cancer later. I’ll never forget a patient I had who found her breast cancer while pregnant and passed days after bringing her baby into the world. It was like the world stopped that day. I’ve been struggling with nursing burn out recently but your story and so many others are what keep me going. It’s a privilege to take care of such strong individuals like yourself. Stay well Tess❤️
My heart dropped reading about the woman who passed after having her baby 💔 was it because you can’t treat it while being pregnant or because it was too late?
I’m so concerned about all the horrible things that can happen to us and how lucky we are to be alive and healthy one more day
@@chijaruableI think I remember she was able to have some treatment while pregnant but the cancer spread to her brain and after a c section under anesthesia she never woke up.
This is actually my first time coming across your channel. I was looking for "fashion for large chests" and somehow this came up. It's crazy that during my search I was thinking how much I hated having large breasts because I don't like the way I look in my clothes. Coming across this was incredibly humbling and turned my world view upside down. We really should be grateful for every bit of health and time we have. Everything else is so small in comparison. Thank you for sharing your story, strength, advice, and courage. I'm glad that you are feeling much better.
Wow yes! I don’t have large boobs, I actually love my size but I’d be so sad to also have to get mastectomy if id have cancer
I came across this video in the same state of mind except I was incsecure about small breasts
I had thyroid cancer at 28. My whole work went dark for a while. But it’s bright again now. Hugs to you 💕
wow Tess I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I'm so happy you're doing well and are able to spread awareness. Sending you so much light and love your way! ✨
Sending so much love and light your way! God bless you and make you healthy again 🙏 🙌 💙
I was diagnosed last year while pregnant with baby girl, and every kept telling me it was probably nothing. I had this feeling that they were wrong, and I couldn’t let it go. I’m glad I listened. Thank you for sharing this because it’s so important.
The more you share the more you help. If my mom had a double mastectomy she would be alive today. She lost 3 sisters to it so I had BRCA1 and BRCA2 after 14 years of problems and had a double mastectomy, cut under my arms clear to my spine on both sides. I will be the first survivor on my mom's side.
bless you
I hope you are well. You deserve the best
I'm soo happy that you were strong and u didn't lose faith, I hop that you are feeling better, may God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope you are well and wish you all the best ♥ you deserve it!
Are things still going well? Hope all is well and sending prayers for a completely happy life🙂
Tess, you are so courageous but you don’t owe us ANYTHING. Do what’s best for your mental health and HEALTH. I am a cancer survivor and I can just hear the tremble in your voice; it reminds me when I was processing as I spoke. So much love and prayers for you through your journey. We are a large community as individuals that fought cancer; you are never alone. 💗
When my mom got diagnosed I think the worst thing was the nurses who told her that it didn't look like cancer to them and that it was just a cyst... it made the impact of the cancer diagnosis that much harder to comprehend. I wish doctors wouldn't down play lumps in the breast.
I feel like doctors play down everything involving femme people and it’s really, really infuriating.
This had me in tears girl, I’ve watched you for years! I will say… PLEASE be safe with implants. My mom had breast cancer, a double mastectomy and implants and later down the road got breast implant illness and it really made her sick. She just got her implants out and went flat and feels so much better!!!! Not trying to scare you but I don’t want you to be sick again later down the road. I’m in nursing school too & implants are so dangerous. Praying for you ❤️
yesss. Breast implant illness is soooo overlooked.
Please do research on breast implants.
Praying for you Tess ❤️
Yes, my close friend got auto immune disease caused directly by implants. Many have been recalled in the country I live due to very recent research and surgeons are not so forthcoming in using them now (research was released before but went under the radar - implants are a big business).
Research and make informed decisions based on education and the latest global research rather than emotional need.
(Early stage breast cancer patient).
Thank you so much for this video. I am 26 years old and was just diagnosed with breast cancer this week. It's all so overwhelming and it was so great to hear your story. Hope you are well!
@hallie6367 How are you doing? 🎉
I “failed” two mammograms in the fall and had to have a biopsy in December. Utterly terrifying. I was so grateful as well for the caring staff that walked me through the whole process. I def met some heroes that day. Sending you healing vibes, Tess. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
You are such an incredible person, Tess. By coming on here and talking about your story, you have sparked a chain reaction of others going to get those “oh, it’s probably nothing” things checked out. I love that you emphasized the importance of being your own advocate, it is perfectly OK to go as far as you need to feel comfortable with your health. From a healthcare worker - thank you. You have saved many other lives today! Sending you all of my love as you continue in your healing journey.
I can't even imagine how you must have felt - and as a resident doctor, I only see the other side of these stories - but I'm so inspired by your strength and resilience. Sending you a massive amount of love and good thoughts and encouragements.
I have watched you for what feels like my entire teenage and adult years. I am 23 now and watching your video was so comforting. My sister was diagnosed with cancer last year and our whole world froze too - nothing else matters except the health and safety of your loved ones. Today, I still struggle with how fast our whole lives were turned upside in one phone call too. Watching you talk about this, is so so comforting. I saw your video post and just now found the strength to watch and it completely brought me to last year all over again. Tess, you are so strong and brave for sharing and your journey reminds me so much of my sisters. My sister is almost 6 months cancer free now. Thank you for sharing, it helps everyone feel less alone.
Tess you were on my heart so much the past few weeks, when you talked about how Theo gave you strength and seeing the love you have for him just brought me to tears 🥺 you are so beautiful & strong and your heart is amazing. I love you and your little family so much, you’re on my heart and in my prayers. sending you the biggest & warmest hug, so happy to see you again too 💛
You've lived like 10 lifetimes since we've seen you last. I can't believe you're talking to us and look like this right now. I would be a disaster. I'm in awe. I think you're amazing, so strong and so courageous. Thank you for sharing. I'm so glad you listened to that gut feeling.
Dear Tess, I was diagnosed with triple positive breast cancer 2 months postpartum, in october 2021. I went through chemo, finishing next week, and then having double mastectomy. You are going to be just fine. And I will too. Because we have the best reason for living, our kids. Just believe in that with all of your heart, and God will save us for them. Sending you big hug ❤
I cant even begin to imagine how scary this must have been - we just live our lives taking so much for granted but an experience like this would have been such a wake up call. it takes so much strength to endure such a thing and i'm so so relieved for you
Omg, I’ve been watching you since you did the vampire diaries, boyfriend tag, college room tour, etc. I feel this is happening to my best friend. I hope you fight this, overcome it & never have to deal with it again in your life. Endless love tess 🤍
Crying watching this - you can tell how nervous you are and we appreciate you so much for sharing this, sending you so much love
stay strong Tess :( my mom had breast cancer too and I’m so glad you’re using your platform to spread awareness. praying for your recovery
Sending so many prayers of love, comfort, and health your way. ♥️ What a journey you have had.
Sending you all the love comfort and health. You have always been strong. Stay strong n get well soon . This too shall pass
recently diagnosed myself with the same exact type of cancer earlier this week. keeping calm throughout it, i have my moments where i break down and cry, but i have a great support system that’s keeping me strong throughout this whole thing. grateful that you were able to get your tumor removed that you’re okay and getting better. praying the same for myself ❤️
I couldn’t watch this without crying. You’re absolutely brave and such a warrior Tess sending blessings and prayers your way to you your precious little family.
I haven’t been to women’s dr in since after I had my year old I get a lot of anxiety . After seeing this video I called right after and made an appt thank you for this video and to bring awareness . You are so strong praying for you 💕
Tess! I was wondering where you were the other day. My heart dropped reading the title. I cried with you. I couldn’t even begin to imagine what you’ve experienced throughout all of this. Your strength is so admirable and unmatched. Thank you for sharing your story. So happy to know that you are on your way to a full recovery. Sending you love, light and healing. 💖
This video, although I imagine difficult to record and post, is such a great way to bring awareness. I’m 25 years old and my grandmother has breast cancer. I recently felt a lump which was frightening and discouraged me to get it checked out. Luckily, I have a great support group and have programmed to get everything checked out. Hearing your story gives me a special kind of comfort and I congratulate you for being so courageous.
I'm so, so, so happy that you've had this diagnosed early on! My grandmother and mother had cancer too, so I've always felt like I'm doomed and it's only a matter of time at this point, but regardless of how depressing the thought is, at least I know I have to get checked every now and then and stay alert at all times. Informed - is forearmed, and therefore I also hope that other women (if possible) get checked and don't accept the uncertain results. If you feel it in your gut that something is wrong - something sure is. Better to be overly careful and paranoid, than let it grow inside you till it's too late. Love you and crying tears of joy you're over it now!
I don’t know where you are at, but if you are able to I would recommend getting tested for genetic mutations (such as BRCA 1 + 2 etc). If you do have a gene mutation that increases your chances of breast cancer there are preventative measures that can be taken!
Fast regulary (intermittent, omad, longer fasts), minimize sugar and carbs consumption since glucose feeds cancer cells, eat organic non-processed foods as much as possible, be wary of products like cosmetics as so many contain cancerous chemicals
Your story is identical to mine, my grandma and my mom both had breast cancer. My mom sadly passed away and is in heaven now ❤️ I am aware that I am a high risk and I’m not going to lie that I’m really scared of the future 😢
We never expect this type of things to happen to us, until they do, and the thing is, Cancer can happen to any of us. But thanks to you and your courage, one young women decided today to go check that weird lump or advocate for herself if she was feeling unrest after a doctors appointment.
You have always been a positive light in our lives even in these circumstances, fighting your tears back to create awareness. We appreciate you so much and consider you as a friend that we grew up with and hope nothing but the best for you and your family.
Much love.
What a wonderful message. ❤️
Tess…I am so sorry you’re going through this. All of my love and kind thoughts to you and your family.
Tess,
I've lived in New York City now for the past 4 years because of you. You made an unknown scary place feel more familiar, and gave me the confidence to make a bold move in my life. Every morning I wake up in my home in the city and I know that your warmth, open heart, creativity, and ability to share your life online is a huge reason why. You have had a positive impact on so many people and your bravery in continuing to share your life is nothing short of inspirational. You make the world a better place and I will be thinking of you and sending you so much love!!
I’m not an empath at all and I couldn’t help but crying. Like I don’t know you and it just touched me. I think it’s because I can tell you have a gentle soul and you’re a mother of a young child and I have a best friend who is too and my heart would just shatter for her and I wouldn’t know what to say to her. God bless you and I’m happy everything went alright. I hope God heals you completely and for good. Physically and mentally and this feels like a lifetime ago for you soon.
I was diagnosed at 24, and was completely shocked as well. Great job on advocating for yourself and insisting on further testing! Just know you can get through this! Thank you for using your platform to spread awareness about BC happening to younger women, we’re too often looked over! Praying for you!
My mother had breast cancer so this issue is very near to my heart. God bless you and may God give you strength, you are never given what you cannot handle!! ❤️❤️
Sending you so much love. I’m so happy you’re doing well. Thank you for sharing your story. We need voices like yours for strength and courage. Love you! 🤗😍
I have been dealing with cancer since 2017. The appointments, the scans, etc it’s literally like your second job, but it’s all so worth it!!!! I am so proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️.
You're so strong! Thank you for sharing and spreading awareness, you'll get through this!! Lots of love to you and your family 💕
as someone who recently had a poor experience with a doctor, it means so much to me that you spoke about the importance of advocating for ourselves. your story has given me the strength to advocate for myself at my next appointment and make sure my concerns are heard and addressed. you didn’t have to share this with the internet at all but i respect you so much for being vulnerable in hopes of helping others. you are so strong tess!
wishing you all the very best 💛
My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with breast cancer too. It's been a though last couple of weeks with regards to the uncertainties moving forward with the operation etc. I have been watching some vlogs about it to learn more. Thank you for sharing your journey, it really helps me understand and cope with this. Greetings from the island of Aruba. Big hug.
Tess, you are such a strong and inspirational woman. I really appreciate you telling us story and being so open about your experience. Wishing you the best always!
Hi Tess, my mother got a left breast masectomy actually on the same week as you did and i am so thankful for your testimony because, somehow, since i don’t know you personally, it helped me come to terms with what happened to her and helped me understand her situation better. I wish you and your family the best.
Love you Tess! You got this! As an Oncology MA, from the bottom of my heart you are a warrior. 💗💪🏼
I am here. I just got back today from getting a mammogram and a ultrasound. I have been having so much pain the past 3 weeks. Today I got back my results I have 3 masses where found and I’m getting a biopsy I am scared but at the same time I want to be inform before my appointment Aug 1. I truly appreciate taking the time to provide us with information to be aware of breast cancer.
Cancer never touched my life until last October when I lost my friend less than a year after his diagnosis. He was 38 years old. They hadn't even gone on their honeymoon before he was gone. For me and so many other young people, I feel like cancer isn't something we believe can touch us. Spreading awareness that it is real and does affect people of all ages is so important. I'm so glad that you posted this video and are brave enough to be transparent. Tess, your authenticity and compassionate personality are what made me subscribe however many years ago and have kept me here ever since. Thank you, and I wish you all the best ❤
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This broke my heart. Tess I’m so proud of you and truly in awe of how bravely and gracefully you’ve navigated through this scary moment. I can’t imagine how shocking and terrifying this must have been for you and your family. Thank you for sharing. You really didn’t have to but that just again shows how strong you are. I’m sending you so much love and positive energy as you move forward with next steps in this journey! 🤍
Wow! Was not expecting this right now. Glad you’re okay and I can sympathise with how hard it must be to be faced with a scary diagnosis, especially as a new mom!
Never ever take your health for granted!
My takeaway: Trust your gut. You know your body better than anyone. Get the second opinion.
Thank you for sharing your story
it amazes me how composed and positive you remain after going through all that you have! your light is your beauty, and Theo has an amazing, strong mama to look up to! praying for you and your sweet family. all the good vibes your way! xo
So sorry to hear about this. I am glad you are doing better right now. I wish the best of luck to you, Theo & Patrick! it’s good that it was detected early and did not spread. ❤️
I noticed you had been gone, but could have never imagined this was why 😢❤️ I’ve watched you for so many years and to hear this feels like it’s happening to a friend. I wish you all the best moving forward and admire how incredibly strong you’ve been. You’re so brave and inspiring. We are all here for you and sending so much love ❤️
Tearing up through this. You are so incredibly strong and I know this will help so many women out there 🥺 sending you so much love and healing thank you for sharing this Tess 🤍
Hi tess❤️ I was diagnosed with breast cancer in February 2021. Now I‘m healthy again. Don‘t be scared of anything. Everything happens for a reason. You will be so much stronger after this journey. Sending you lots of love and hope from Germany ❤️
My mom just went through this last year, the scariest thing I have ever been through. Stay strong, Tess. I’ve been watching you for years and can’t believe this is real 🖤
Don’t beat yourself up when you’re feeling low about this. About your body changing. You make all the good points about how you’re glad it’s you and not baby, it’s curable so you may think you shouldn’t feel sad about it, but your feelings in this are valid too. ❤️if you get sad, don’t beat yourself up. Let yourself feel it for a few. Because you went through so much in such a short amount of time
I'm so so sorry you've had to go through this. I felt that fear at 17 months post partum recently; I feared the worst and sobbed at the idea of my toddler not having me in her life. I had the biopsy; it was a pea sized lump, a benign tumor due to lactational changes. I'm here to say that it terrifies me that your PCP was confident it was a cyst and told you not to worry about it. It seems common practice that a lump is to be understood as possibly being anything, and to err on the side of caution. (An ultrasound and biopsy in my case needed to be done to rule things out). I'm so glad that you advocated for yourself. Big, big hugs to you. My heart broke when I read your caption.
Kind of going through a similar thing, I felt a lump/hardened part of my breast and went to my gp with my worries. She booked me in for a mammogram but I have to wait until I get a time 😞 what really gets me is thinking that my child might grow up without a mother, without a person who loves him the most :/
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer in december. I thought the worst, we were all so scared. The operation went well, now she won't even need chemotherapy and is now ready to go back to work like nothing ever happened (except she has to take some medication). Breast cancer is more common than we think, and you can totally heal from it (even if i did not believe it when people told me that a few months ago). You'll be fine, you'll be able to stay with your son. You are very brave, thank you for sharing your story.
There needs to be so much more awareness on young people with breast cancer. Thank you for your bravery Tess ♥️ sending you all the love
So so proud of you for sharing this! You r got this 💗
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I watched you ever since I was younger and so much time has passed since i’ve seen you so seeing this video almost breaks a part of younger me. You are truly so strong! ❤️