Double Mastectomy Surgery. The Hardest Part Of My Breast Cancer Treatment

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  • This was the hardest part of Delia’s breast cancer journey, a double mastectomy (bilateral mastectomy). They remove all of the tissue in both breasts during this procedure. Chemotherapy had its own challenges with hair loss and various other side effects, but there was still the knowledge that her natural hair would eventually grow back and the side effects would subside over time that brought some comfort back. With this surgery, knowing that a large part of her womanhood was going to be permanently removed was a mental hurdle Delia had to overcome in the weeks leading up to the surgery.
    Post surgery recovery was quite a bit more challenging as well. They placed drains on either side of her with tubes protruding out of the abdomen with open incisions. These along with the large incisions and metal expanders placed in her chest wall caused a lot of pain and discomfort, and eventually, an infection so bad she needed to be rushed to emergency surgery. We will document this in upcoming videos.
    Despite this ongoing trial, Delia continues to do her best, wearing that radiant smile that lights up a room.
    #breastcancerawareness
    #breastcancersurvivor

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  • @tomrunning357
    @tomrunning357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Seeing this brings tears to my eyes . My wife had this exact procedure from start to finish. I realized just how tough and beautiful women are. Be sure to support them any way we can.

  • @monicajones6827
    @monicajones6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    Okay. As a nurse, I am VERY impressed with your entire explanation of the procedures and about what you can expect post-op. I swear, doctors should take notes. You explained everything perfectly, but you did it in a way that even medically illiterate people would absolutely understand. Very cool.

    • @quynhvo8998
      @quynhvo8998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agreed. They should incorporate her video in pre-op teaching. Very sweet voice and very clear with her explanations

    • @briggettecammett6181
      @briggettecammett6181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am also a nurse and am following Delia’s courageous journey. Delia, your explanations of your procedures are very understandable for the lay person. Stay strong young lady. I pray for you every day. Dylan, you are an amazing husband to your wife’s most challenging time of her life. I do have to say that when the dog was tucked under the blanket with u Delia had me sobbing. Our pets can be such a comfort. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are helping a lot of people.

    • @virginiamoncur5421
      @virginiamoncur5421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree 👍 Monica. She is definitely a trooper.

  • @Jimsalos
    @Jimsalos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I am a 55 year old guy who doesn't cry easily, however...this video was hard to watch without tearing up. You two are an amazing couple, I am praying for you both from Winnipeg, Canada

    • @crawleyr4919
      @crawleyr4919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m only 8 min in and balling.

  • @TheHelenhunter
    @TheHelenhunter 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're lucky, you have a lot of support. I'm a single mom and went through ovarian cancer all alone, 2 major surgeries, 6 rounds chemo, surgical menopause and now double mastectomy because of brca mutation. The hardest part is going through all of this alone and the very few people who are there even abandoning you in that situation.

  • @danielebrooks6475
    @danielebrooks6475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Hey Delia, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I had my own bilateral mastectomy just over a year ago when I was 30. My diagnosis was similar to yours -- IDC, stage 3a, triple positive. My biggest advice to anyone going through this is to find a support group with other young women as soon as you can. Post-treatment is actually one of the most difficult times for a lot of women because you're finished with the "fighting" phase, and now have to face a new reality. I'm sure you've felt that way some already. YSC is a great organization for women diagnosed under the age of 40, because our experiences are quite different than older women going through this. They also have local chapters in a lot of areas. Listening to other women and getting advice and support is extremely liberating and powerful. We're now part of the worst club, with the best people. Hang in there, it definitely gets better. Sending love.

    • @makeuphappy1
      @makeuphappy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Daniele this was such a sweet message and intentional wealth of information for Delia. Bless you 🙏

  • @vloggingblonde
    @vloggingblonde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    What an angel she is!
    and to answer your question....nope, I don't know anyone that beautiful!!

  • @shellzzabat5950
    @shellzzabat5950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We went through this medical process with my mother about 7 years ago. It was difficult to see her deal with illness, our stalwarts matriarch. She also healed many in her line of work. But with the double mastectomy and reconstruction, she is able to not have to keep looking back and also was able to feel like a woman again with new boobs. She’s active and confident. She’s more spiritual. She’s also doing well. We’ve advocated for Breast Cancer Awareness and research. She still has to take medication for the rest of her life.
    I just want to express how much I admire you. When I first watched your vlog, I saw this young woman who seemed to have everything. But then I started to see your spirit, kindness and goodness. You and your husband declare your faith and testify of all your mortal experiences. And still you work and give. Blessings of healing and light to you Sister in Christ. What an awe inspiring calling to have from Heavenly Father.

  • @shaysmith94ify
    @shaysmith94ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I really love that y’all shared the experience of the emotion without exploiting it, keeping it private while still be honest was so refreshing. Prayers going to you and your family, you’re so strong!

  • @buglove515
    @buglove515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Losing your breast is no different than losing an arm or leg ect... you are losing something you were born with. Allow yourself to grieve and go through the steps of loss. And your husband is absolutely right, u were beautiful post op ❤ much love and prayers for you and your family

  • @jacobblack5502
    @jacobblack5502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Omg...... I'm literally crying. Since the beginning of Delia's breast cancer journey I've been following along with you guys. My grandmother was recently diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer and has undergone 7 chemo cycles as of this month. This video in particular was the most hard for me to watch, knowing that my grandmother may very well undergo the same surgery. Delia is soo strong!!! I'm crying typing this! Wow!!!!! You guys will beat this!!!! ❤️

  • @juliabutcher6598
    @juliabutcher6598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I had a mastectomy 5 years ago! Following the expanders I did daily radiation for 6 weeks. Prayers for you, you're a warrior and an inspiration. I am grateful for the perspective I have from my cancer experience. Be kind to yourself and patient with healing! This will be a distant memory soon! I was so very blessed with a supportive husband also who told me from day 1 that my beauty was not defined by a body part. Praise God for your incredible support system!

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ‘Beauty is not defined by a body part’ Amen 🙏🏽

  • @pawlinamichellec_
    @pawlinamichellec_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Delia! Praying over you. My family and I always have you in our hearts. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was in her mid 30s. She tested positive for the braca gene which lead my sisters and I to get tested for it. My younger sister who is 22 tested positive and in March will under hospice a double mastectomy and later she will go through the hysterectomy. You have been such a light in this season of life. Thank you for being so open, you help my little sister daily. We continue to pray over you. Thank you for bringing us on this journey with you. You have no idea how helpful you have been

  • @janinealexa567
    @janinealexa567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Delia, you are such an inspiration for everyone going through this journey as well as just an inspiration for every human!! I keep you and all of our pink sisters in my prayers daily. Kick cancer’s butt and FIGHT LIKE A GIRL!! 💗💗💗

  • @EnjoyingOurJourney
    @EnjoyingOurJourney 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Prayers for y’all. You two are a shining example of true love and marriage.

  • @kathyrizzi8754
    @kathyrizzi8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Oh Dylan, she is absolutely beautiful, inside and out. My heart goes out to her, wishing her a fast recovery and the best health forever. My heart goes out to you for being there for her and the best husband she could ever ask for…you’re both beautiful and such loving and supportive couple, you guy’s got this! The bedroom is gorgeous, nice job, Dylan! PS. Your doggie is precious, so cute. 💙💖🐾🐾🐶. 👍🥰♥️🌹xoxo

  • @morganmccartney1389
    @morganmccartney1389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bawling instantly when I saw how you decorated your house. You are the definition of a supportive and loving husband, through sickness and in health. Delia, you are so strong. You’re in my thoughts you beautiful strong girl!

  • @cmpunk822
    @cmpunk822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just went through this same surgery in July for triple negative breast cancer. Loosing your breasts is a very traumatic part of treatment, it was hard for me as well. I cried all the way back to surgery, your in my prayers.

  • @janetstewart6977
    @janetstewart6977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Delia, I never thought you could get anymore beautiful than you are but you are truly an amazing human being. Will continue to send many prayers your way. And may I add…..you rock the short dark hair look. I love it. Love to you and Dylan! ❤️

  • @janeschmidt9611
    @janeschmidt9611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Delia, you meet every challenge with grace and positivity. You are truly one of the strongest people I’ve ever seen! Dylan, you’re the best partner Delia could ever hope for. The bedroom decor was so sweet! Thanks to the doctors, nurses and medical staff that are helping Delia to beat this! 🥰

  • @milasophiamelody
    @milasophiamelody 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Stay Strong Delia and Dylan...
    Sending prayers of healing... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Winter_Sky1
    @Winter_Sky1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The sweetest soul, my dear Delia, I hope you are healing well. I am in awe of your strength and acceptance of this experience in which you never asked for or expected. Dylan, it is beautiful the way you support your wife and inspiring to all of us. Sending all of the love and prayers possible, from Omaha, NE.

  • @jackiecosta7620
    @jackiecosta7620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay Strong young Angel… you are an inspiration ! Be Patient … you will feel much better when this worry of cancer spreading is a thing of the past.
    You have youth on your side and your inner strength and faith will make you whole once again.

  • @TheMimiof7
    @TheMimiof7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for the update! Many prayers are going up for you. You will be amazed that how well you will heal from this surgery. My oldest sister had a mastectomy last April 2021, which was her second cancer diagnosis. Her cancer was caught early and she’s 73 years old and has dementia. I know several women that have walked this journey with amazing results. Be sure to eat plenty of protein. I am going to assume you also have a nutritionist as part of your team. So sorry to see at the end of the video that shows that you had to go back to surgery. Continued prayers for you and your caregivers 🙏❤️🌷

  • @resplendentbeautyfoster1374
    @resplendentbeautyfoster1374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Praying for a complete recovery. She has a good nurse Dylan!!!

  • @emdashjoey
    @emdashjoey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My heart just goes out to both of you-to Delia for being so brave in spite of all the harrowing twists and turns she has faced/faces, and to Dylan for being so brave in his own realm of fear and uncertainty while remaining supportive. I know it would be difficult to be in either of your places, but you handle this journey with such grace, hope, and love. You’re both in my thoughts and prayers, always. ♥️

  • @zhanecrudup97
    @zhanecrudup97 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m watching this at 5:30am sobbing because you inspire me so much .. I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and will be having a double mastectomy as well , thank you for this video & congratulations on being a breast cancer survivor! ❤🎉

  • @sashagirl1987
    @sashagirl1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found your channel. I was diagnosed with breast cancer on July 23, 2020 and had a double mastectomy on sept 2,2020. It’s a very hard journey. It changes you. I pray you don’t have any more complications and can heal quickly. Sending prayers your way. 🙏🏻

    • @lindaholder2225
      @lindaholder2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What was your original diagnosis?

  • @amandagarrard942
    @amandagarrard942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sending love and prayers to you both on your journey. My 29 year old son had leukemia when he was 13, it was the hardest thing we ever had to go through, watching someone you love go through such a awful time is horrendous. You are a very brave caring women who has a wonderful loving family surrounding her. 💕

  • @jessicalewis1263
    @jessicalewis1263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Delia you are so strong ,I can’t even imagine. I have a feeling you are going to rock this and you can do anything .You are one hell of a woman,will be praying for you and your family . Keep the faith god will get you thru this.

  • @rhondacook9446
    @rhondacook9446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl, wear those scars with pride! You are a warrior and those are your battle scars. My daughter and I had double mastectomies as a preventive after testing positive for the Chek 2 gene and tons of breast cancer in my family. Best decision I ever made! You go girl!

  • @robynw8223
    @robynw8223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm so sorry she is dealing with this. Ty for being so supportive Dylan and family. I hope you are feeling better Delia! Prayers 🙏🏾

  • @vickie9633
    @vickie9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good luck honey - you’ll have all of us praying for for health and full recovery! You’ve Got This Warrior!!!

  • @raw8565
    @raw8565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Delia is so loved❤️ she is so strong with everything she’s been through ugh🥺

  • @tashawells3568
    @tashawells3568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Delia, you continue to be my ABSOLUTE HERO! Your smile is everything, and your hubby is so right, there isn’t a more beautiful human than you, no makeup, just pure beauty inside and out. I wish I could say that I didn’t cry throughout this entire video but I did, however they were tears of love and hope and PRAYERS AND MORE PRAYERS! God has so many big plans for you and Dylan, and we all continue to pray for strength and healing! You are the toughest woman I have ever encountered and you continue to fight this battle with a smile, beyond inspiring. Sending you tons of love and hugs and so so so many prayers and I know that the Man upstairs will get you guys through this and come out on TOP! Nothing can stop you Delia, you are seriously a warrior and having these videos to one day show your kids makes me cry once again. Even though we have never met, I feel like I know you and I feel as though you are a best girlfriend (I promise I’m not being a weirdo), I just have so much admiration and love for you, and I’m so positive that you will come out on top and this will only be part of your story to tell. Thank you guys so much for sharing, I hope to one day meet the most brave and most beautiful human on this planet we call Earth, and that is you Delia! Heavenly Father will get you through this, I just know it and I feel it. Dylan you are such a warrior too, you have been the absolute best support system and most amazing husband to your beautiful wife, and I also send hugs and prayers to you, because I know that you are going through it with Delia, and again I just know that Heavenly Father has you both wrapped tight and this will only be a part of your story one day. Ok I’ll stop rambling, thanks so much for sharing this, I will forever and always continue to send love and prayers for you guys and I am so glad to be able to watch your journey, and I promise my tears are filled with love and hope and prayers. Can’t wait for the next update, Dylan and Delia, WE LOVE YOU!!!!

  • @tyrudd3003
    @tyrudd3003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom just got diagnosed with breast cancer and ngl I was very scared but seeing your strength throughout the process has really helped with my nerves and my prayers are going your way🙏🏽

  • @pamfink4052
    @pamfink4052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Appendix cancer survivor myself, two surgeries, drain tubes and all so I know how that part feels. Eight hours of surgery with heated interperitoneal chemo three years ago, been cancer free ever since, and prayer is the best thing anyone could do for me at that time. Had friends praying from as far away as Brazil, SA, wonderful church family here praying, people fasting, etc.

  • @Luscious1221
    @Luscious1221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Delia - You’re so brave and I’m so proud of your positivity during this challenging time. You’ve got this! Find strength in the friends and family around you, take their love and use it to heal.

  • @marvellamitchell6743
    @marvellamitchell6743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏 it means alot to me you make me have strength . Just found out I have colon cancer which spread to both lungs and liver really they said my whole stomach is full of cancer . I start Chemotherapy Wednesday just got my port and then major surgery with a colostomy bag and you give me so much hope and strength to get through this . Thank you so much for sharing I pray for you everyday 🙏 ❤

  • @tjcampos7
    @tjcampos7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Delia is such a warrior and inspiration. Thanks for taking us along this journey. Best of wishes for a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

  • @litchi1532
    @litchi1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have no words. Delia you are so calm and so beautiful in your struggles. I pray for your healing.

  • @kirsteneve6733
    @kirsteneve6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for showing the surgery process! I am a PA in general surgery and we do these types of surgeries often. You are so strong! Sending good vibes your way ❤️

  • @Ericalc37
    @Ericalc37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Delia, you are so incredibly strong. It’s so unfair that you (or anyone) has to go through this. I’m praying for you. Wishing you the best in your recovery! ❤️

  • @nataliasamborska6101
    @nataliasamborska6101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Stay strong beautiful girly... You've got this... I'm praying for you always 🙏❤️lots of love from Poland 🇵🇱

  • @jodiecaygillgrigg4470
    @jodiecaygillgrigg4470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a strong, brave beautiful women. I remember at 14 going through brain cancer and survived. I know you got this! You are warrior and so inspirational. I wish you and the family all the best for you and recovery. ❤️❤️🥰

  • @guardiansanimalrescuestate7289
    @guardiansanimalrescuestate7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve just started chemo for stomach cancer. I have to say that she is a huge example to me. I feel so alone right now. Some of my friends r saying they can’t just watch me die. So they walked away. Thank goodness for my medical service dog, other dog, kitty and fish.
    Thank u for inspiring so many. Much love from Kentucky, Lesley and Service Dog Jake. (And of course my other pets. ) we r thinking of u all and praying for u all. U are my hero. And I hope I’ll someday find a man like this. #relationshipgoals.
    U are a true inspiration to all who r struggling with many kinds of cancer.

  • @deenalynk2534
    @deenalynk2534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m so glad to see that you are moving ahead on your healing journey. You are an inspiration to all!

  • @isabeladranka2467
    @isabeladranka2467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Delia is strong! Dylan is strong too! I have a great feeling that amazing things are to come for you both, we are always here for everything! Hope delia is already feeling better! Lots of love from Brazil! ❤️❤️🇧🇷👑

  • @susanmadsen163
    @susanmadsen163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Delia, you are a trooper!! Your faith, and your smile is what makes me want to keep fighting all of my battles. You are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 and Dylan, you are one in a million, it is wonderful to see you love and support Delia through such an emotional and painful time in her life. Thanks again, for sharing something so personal.

  • @terrismith4383
    @terrismith4383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm crying and praying like crazy! I hope they got the infection under control. You guys are so loved and cherished by so many. You are a true blessing and inspiration. We love you BOTH. Delia you are a true warrior

  • @catmahoney8347
    @catmahoney8347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I just sat here thinking what a strong woman you are dalian...I prayed and cried. Keep your chin up hugs from catharine in Canada

  • @Angelahhh
    @Angelahhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Always in my thoughts! Praying for your recovery, peace and strength! You’re so strong and patient handling all of this with such grace and faith and that makes you even more beautiful!

  • @rosellawerbicki
    @rosellawerbicki ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful love story that will go on and on no matter what! What the husband did made me cry. She is so loved.

  • @khaylablommer3653
    @khaylablommer3653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The title alone made cry. 😩 I love you Delia and Dylan.

  • @MommaYeager1221
    @MommaYeager1221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sending healing prayers to you. I can’t imagine the fear, pain, anxiety, etc. going through something like this and still be smiling. You are truly wonder Wonder Woman!!

  • @blucky1250
    @blucky1250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had a complete left sided mastectomy with tram flap reconstruction at 25. I’m now 51. You are in my heart and prayers beautiful.

  • @sandradelrio122
    @sandradelrio122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Womanhood is her strong will to survive! Loving her natural hair, too!

  • @bettynesbitt4503
    @bettynesbitt4503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Havent heard from you two since your surgery. Certainly hope you are recovering and saying prayers for your future, your love story is inspiring. Big hugs from Canada.

  • @susanpunako8590
    @susanpunako8590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Delia you are an amazing woman. Even though it is a very difficult time for you, you continue to embrace your journey with much positivity and continue to shine and smile 😊. I’m so happy you were able to have your skin and nipples saved that’s great. Sorry to hear that you had a terrible infection and had to go through another surgery. You are stronger than any person I’ve known. I can’t wait to see the next chapter of your healing and progress. As always I cried tears of joy for you as you move forward with one more step in your recovery . My thoughts and prayers are for you and with you. You have such a beautiful soul. Dylan is a wonderful husband and has been your best support from day one. With much admiration and love for you thanks for sharing this sensitive information with your fans and followers. Until next video much love.

  • @kimlewis9542
    @kimlewis9542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sure hope you’re both doing well. Haven’t seen anything since Delia went back in for emergency surgery. From one survivor to another, I pray that she’s okay. 🙏

  • @hollyfisher8811
    @hollyfisher8811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    PRAYer Does Work~Everytime🙏🌠!!
    We Will All Be Continuing To Lift-UP
    This Lovely Couple For HIS Hope, HEALing, Strength & Wisdom💖...

  • @christinat4689
    @christinat4689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to give her a huge hug . What a beautiful soul she is

  • @marcym2259
    @marcym2259 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lord please completely heal this beautiful angel. Bless you both Delia and Dylan.

  • @estebee9640
    @estebee9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We’ve been praying for you both this whole time. Be strong. Sending lots of love!!

  • @Reyaa03
    @Reyaa03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m almost turning 35. And went through everything you did in August of 2020. Everyone was always saying how positive I was and still am and always had a smile on my face. The double mastectomy changed my life. And I still have my highs and lows. But we’ll get through this. You’re so beautiful Delia. I wish you a fast and speedy recovery. You got this! 💕

    • @guardiansanimalrescuestate7289
      @guardiansanimalrescuestate7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Much love and prayers from Kentucky, Lesley and Service Dog Jake.
      We r go grateful to see the smiles on your faces.

  • @cjmac2766
    @cjmac2766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you both on this journey. Delia, you are so strong and such an inspiration to those battling this disease! And Dylan, the love you show for your beautiful wife through this is amazing! Sending you both prayers of healing, and comfort, and hope! 🙏💙🙏

  • @poemsheal
    @poemsheal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Delia, I just finished watching your journey up to this surgery and I just have to say that you have such a bright spirit about you. Your smile is absolutely beautiful. Dylan, thank you for being by her side. You are both amazing. Praying for a healing and healthy recovery.

  • @yuccavalleynan2074
    @yuccavalleynan2074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh Delia and Dylan… thank you for sharing so openly with us. Praying more and more for your healing, your strength and your journey. Looking forward to each vlog as you get farther along this challege. You are a beautiful warrior, Delia! God bless you❣️

  • @SimoneAlana
    @SimoneAlana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Delia you are such an inspiration and so brave. Your smile is everything. Dylan, you are right, she looked so beautiful and amazing after surgery. Much love to you both xxx

  • @silverlining9120
    @silverlining9120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My heart breaks for her.I've lost my fiancée and some of my family to cancer.It's the hardest thing watching someone you love go through this.Delia is beautiful inside and out.She is a very strong and positive woman.Sharing this journey publicly was such a brave thing to do,and I'm sure you've touched a lot of people.Sending love and prayers.💖💙💜🙏

  • @Sabrina07197
    @Sabrina07197 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life is so unfair. You are so graceful. I pray this will be soon over for you. No one deserves that.

  • @classique4654
    @classique4654 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know how I missed this video but like I said you are a very strong person. I have been following your journey and you are amazing. Prayers for you and your husband.

  • @demymel603
    @demymel603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Praying for you my girl!! You got this!! Sending all my love!! Can't imagine how hard this journey is!!! Jesus will save you!!!

  • @EdwinaCL
    @EdwinaCL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Praying for you, Delia, for our recovery and the whole process. Praying for you too, Dylan, as it isn't easy being a husband, witnessing your love one going through this and yet you continue to be such wonderful support and staying strong. God bless you both and I hope to hear good news and may the process and this journey still help you both know that you are loved. ❤❤‍🩹❤

  • @laceysammy
    @laceysammy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both me and my sister went through breast cancer and it’s wasn’t hereditary. They called it spontaneous even though we both had the same type of cancer, HER 2 positive. My sister has been cancer free for 11 yrs and it’s been 4 yrs for me ( 6 rounds of chemo, 32 radiation, monthly herceptin for a yr, lumpectomy that ended up producing fluid and took 1 yr to remove from the last day from radiation, cardiomyopathy & sepsis). It’s not an easy road but overall, you will be able endure it. The hardest part of my journey was the moment of getting the diagnosis. All of the treatments that lies before you will be tough and exhausting but you can overcome it. You have an amazing husband that is supportive to go through your journey and I pray and wish you all the best.

  • @thor573
    @thor573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so hard to watch for me. I had stage 3 TNBC. Bilateral mastectomy in May 2020. 16 chemo and 16 rads. The day after my mastectomy I was rushed back into surgery because I was bleeding out. This was due to complications of my daily medication. I am on Coumadin. A blood thinner. Anyway. I was diagnosed 4/8/2020. I had such a great support system. I'm very thankful for all of the help and kindness. I'm grateful to God that I am alive. My tumor was in 2 pieces which was about 7 cm(i think?) It was the size of a lemon. I also had cancer in 6 lymph nodes and they removed 18. I had a horrible time with the drains. One even fell out a month later. Anyway, I forced myself to watch this. It is still traumatic for me. All that I went through. All the emotions. All the little setbacks. But, I'm alive and I'm happy. I did not choose reconstruction. I chose to just have both removed and to just go flat. I am happy with my choice and happy everyday that I get to live. God Bless you and I'll be watching ❤

  • @melissadenney2576
    @melissadenney2576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Delia I'm in awh of your strength more and more with each video🙏🏼 thank you for doing this💗💗 you're Ann amazing person and you're gonna be an even better momma soon!

  • @roxannar3820
    @roxannar3820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Delia, you're the best, from afar we are all seeing the warrior you are and how strong you are. Keep it up lady, this is just a bump in the road to more of your greatness. 💕

  • @websurfin9575
    @websurfin9575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You WILL come through this & live to see your great...... great.... grandchildren! Also, what's possible with reconstruction now-days is nothing short of phenomenal! Your husband, family & most of all God will get you through with total success! Then.... after that, your children will be born & you will start your immediately family. My sister-in-law (years ago) had a double mastectomy in her late 20's with reconstruction & she is doing 100% fine! Their 2 sons are in their teens now & she's looking forward to one day being a grandmother! You WILL make it! God bless!!

  • @monicajones6827
    @monicajones6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re very strong and very poised throughout it all which I’m sure isn’t easy. And I think it’s really nice that you’re comfortable documenting and sharing this ordeal on TH-cam because inevitably it will help other women going through the same or similar journeys. I hope you’re doing well, both mentally and physically.

    • @monicajones6827
      @monicajones6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Side note: I do hope that if and when you feel like having a breakdown or a tantrum that you allow yourself to do that. Sometimes we all just need to have our moments. I think it’s quite healthy to just let your emotions out and be unapologetic about it every once in a while.

  • @srsapb1
    @srsapb1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The love these two share is beyond amazing and their love will carry them through the healing process. God bless you both...

  • @anareilley7727
    @anareilley7727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your husband is a diamond. Hang on to him. I wished I had someone like that to go through this with me. God bless both of you

  • @ashap0705
    @ashap0705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A true warrior women. I live in Utah and I hope 1 day I get to meet you and tell you how inspirational you truly are. Delia you are so amazing and thank you for being brave enough to share your story even though it’s so personal and such a hard thing to go through. I hope you have a quick recover from surgery keep being a warrior Princess ✌🏼💜

  • @manospappa1164
    @manospappa1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish with all my heart that all the difficulties pass and that the rest of your life is blessed and full of joy ... I send you a lot of love and positive energy from Greece

  • @debglab8791
    @debglab8791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are so lucky to have the love of each other that you do. Delia is one strong woman and hubby is giving the best support anyone could ever ask for.

  • @adelerowe8900
    @adelerowe8900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sending ❤. Stay strong both of you x

  • @swipeswifejess3234
    @swipeswifejess3234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud of you. I had a phyllodes tumor at 16 years old. Was the first in the family to have breast cancer. Sending love. You're never alone.

  • @loletafiler3924
    @loletafiler3924 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a beautiful couple. My grandmother had cancer at 78 she to went thru double mastectomy.it broke my heart to see the pain she was in. That was 30 years ago and the medical technology they have today is much further advanced. So happy to see your positivity and to see u have a smile on your face even in such painful trying times. I wish u all the best in your recovery and hope your pain lessens daily. You are an inspiration girl… you are so positive and you can feel the love and light you to bring to your videos and your lives.The love u have for one another is so heartwarming. And to see someone love another with every breath is an amazing thing.I’ve been married 33 years now and we’ve been thru hell and back and lost everything because of the pandemic. If I didn’t have him I would be lost. So it’s nice to see u two portray such a beautiful life. Love every moment. Because of pandemic so many have lost it all. We have no home now lost our cars etc but we have each other and love is all that matters in the end. Thank u for sharing this journey so openly… and good luck on a speedy recovery.

  • @missapril9077
    @missapril9077 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry. This makes me cry and hurt for you all. I pray and hope her beautiful smile will soon be healed 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

  • @reginabyrd8903
    @reginabyrd8903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Delia you are handling this with grace. Dylan that's so sweet and the look on Delia's face is priceless. I teared up seeing the room .

  • @kathleentayl
    @kathleentayl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No words…… honoring your strength and the love of your husband

  • @abe7608
    @abe7608 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adding my prayers to the thousands. You are an incredible, beautiful and strong person. Bless you🙏.

  • @maryrosecaprara4145
    @maryrosecaprara4145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    your journey has me in tears often not from sorrow but from astonishment, respect, and gratitude for the LOVE between you both. God bless you. My finance and I are marrying this year and your journey reminds me of what a faithful marriage is - loving in sickness, health, good times and bad.

  • @cherisem2563
    @cherisem2563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so grateful that I ran across your site! I just finished chemo last week. I am soooooo terrified about going through the surgery. Thank you so much for sharing your journey!

  • @margestibel9576
    @margestibel9576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please let us know how Delia is doing after her second admission please. Concerned in Michigan 💖💕

  • @sallymarkay3210
    @sallymarkay3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Delia you are the most soft spoken warrior I have ever seen. Thoughts and prayers with you wishing and praying for a very fast recovery from. this infection. You'll get there girl, and so many will be sharing your journey.

  • @breed9259
    @breed9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an angel warrior! You are smart, strong, beautiful and brave! Thank you for your honesty and faith. Sending love and prayers.

  • @consuelacovington8169
    @consuelacovington8169 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dylan you're right....."pure beauty ". You both are remarkable, strong and amazing.

  • @pamfink4052
    @pamfink4052 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad you have your own "private nurse" aka fur baby; they are the best nurse ever! My Jack Russell stuck to me like Velcro the first week I was home

  • @KrisofTina
    @KrisofTina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry you had to go through something so awful. I have a deep emotional connection to my breasts and I think it would be hell for me to go through something like that. I wish all women in the world a lot of strength to get through something like this. Above all, a lot of strength, the new body feeling or unfortunately no longer a feeling to accept and deal with it emotionally positively. All the best for the future, health for body and also mentally.

  • @816Lynnie
    @816Lynnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All the very best for a speedy recovery. Had my Double Mastectomy on January 11 and healing slowly.
    You are so beautiful and strong...hugs from South Africa xo